1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: Turn it Up Live put in the Winterress Studios in 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:09,479 Speaker 1: America's Greatest city, Chicago, one three five, Kiss at M 3 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: and I heart radio station. It's the French Show. Good 4 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 1: Morning Everybody. Tuesday, June eighth, at seven h seven, The 5 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 1: French Show is on. Hello Christie, good morning, Hello Calin Yo, 6 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 1: Hello Polena, Fred. How was it? How was the party 7 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: over the weekend? Was a good party? Hey? It was 8 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 1: such a good party. Like, I parted. I partied my 9 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: ass off before. Yeah, it looks it's weird. Yeah, it 10 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: was weird because I want again. Went through my tax 11 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 1: sister to make sure I didn't miss anything. Oh, I 12 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:43,239 Speaker 1: went through my DMS. I thought maybe hovey DM did 13 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 1: me on Instagram. You guys follow each other and Yo, no, 14 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: that's probably why he didn't. You guys, it's all good. No, 15 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 1: I don't follow him on Instagram. I'm just a member 16 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 1: of the fan club. So I thought that maybe I 17 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: would have been included that way. But no, Sorry about 18 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: Rufi Rufy's here. I know you know you you ran 19 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 1: into the same issue. Yeah, you know. I saw some 20 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: Instagram stories on Friday. I was like, oh cool, Pauline, 21 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 1: I had a surprise party and then you know, and 22 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: then the pictures came up on Sunday and then you 23 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: see people you know in them, like uh like Marta, yeah, 24 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: Martha was there. Oh good Brown and Kaylin were there, 25 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, this is pretty. We don't 26 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 1: want to go through this story again. You know what happened. 27 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: What happened was I don't even know it happen. You guys, 28 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 1: better not miss anything of hers moving forward whatever. Messenger like, 29 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 1: I don't know why we didn't get it. Whoa, whoa, No, no, no, 30 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: it doesn't work like that. It said that we shouldn't 31 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: we weren't invited. What you shouldn't miss anything moving? But 32 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: now you always get the invite, so you better go. Well, 33 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: I don't think that makes me public. You're getting all sweating. 34 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: You don't think that's how this works when you're uninvited. 35 00:01:56,040 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think you're oublicated. I invited, that 36 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: didn't happen. I think I think now you're not obligated 37 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 1: to go to anything because you don't get invited to 38 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: certain stuff. No, you at least that's my ludge. When 39 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 1: I make my list, you'll be invited, and that's going 40 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 1: to be so much fun. Well, I've got bad news, 41 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: bad news, whatever day that is. I am actually going 42 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: with Jeff Bezos. I'm going, well, yes, I'm going with 43 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 1: Jeff Bezos into space. I gotta wonder how this works 44 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: if you're Jeff Bezos, Like, I've made all this money, 45 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: you know, I couldn't possibly spend it all. So I'm 46 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:33,639 Speaker 1: going to launch myself into space. I mean, I think 47 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 1: it's cool, but yeah, it's true. Um the multi billionaire 48 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 1: is going to space. On Instagram, he wrote, ever since 49 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:42,239 Speaker 1: I was five years old, I've dreamed of traveling to space. 50 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: On July twentieth, I'll take that journey with my brother, 51 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 1: the greatest adventure with my best friend. His brother Mark 52 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:51,639 Speaker 1: will join Blue Origins first man space flight on its 53 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 1: new Shepherd rocket, along with at least one other passenger 54 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:57,799 Speaker 1: in a seat that's being auctioned off to the highest bidder. 55 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: Bidding for that seat has nearly reached three million as 56 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:03,079 Speaker 1: of last night. Who The live auction for the seat 57 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 1: will be held until June twelfth. How crazy would it 58 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: be if his ex wife bought that seat? He's like, 59 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:20,239 Speaker 1: we going to space for you. His ex wife is 60 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:23,080 Speaker 1: gonna sit on the ground and she's gonna collect all 61 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 1: the dough in case something happens. She's hanging back. She's like, 62 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: you know, if anything happens, I'll take the rest of 63 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 1: your money. That's wild. I mean, I guess you tell 64 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 1: us that breathday gift from Fred. Yeah, there's still time 65 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 1: to buy more. So yeah, I think so I gotta 66 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 1: look this up. I want to say, I heard last night. 67 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: You're in space for like a few minutes, and there's 68 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: some weightlessness involved, but you're not going up. It's like 69 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: this space station. You're not like going to the International 70 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: Space Station, and like you're leaving the atmosphere and you 71 00:03:55,200 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: know you'll you'll see space, right, they're right, Well technically yeah, 72 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: like how they filmed those movies where they just like 73 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: you know, like they filmed the movie, like how they're floating. 74 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: That's not space. That's just you reach that point in 75 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 1: the air and you're just floating. I think movies, the 76 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 1: weightless stuff you see is not necessarily weightlessness because you're 77 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: in space. They go and they like pull the gs 78 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 1: and rights or you know whatever. I should know more 79 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 1: technically what this is. But yeah, I mean they like 80 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 1: the push the airplane straight down and then you float. 81 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: That's what happens. You can do that. Yes, did they 82 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 1: do it on The Bachelor one time? Maybe that's why 83 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: I've seen it. I don't know. Vanessa and Nick and 84 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: she threw up on him and yeah, then they made 85 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:50,039 Speaker 1: out directly after. I remember that, ye, Nick Vile? Oh god, God, 86 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: remember that. That's right? Yeah, and they did it. And 87 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: they're the love experts, right. There should be a lesson there. 88 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,040 Speaker 1: That's you don't take a you know, a woman or 89 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 1: a man on a date where they might wind up 90 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:07,840 Speaker 1: puking in activity where you don't wind up puking if 91 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 1: you want to make out afterwards. Well, that would be 92 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 1: good advice. But he's a love expert, so he only 93 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: gets bad as well. Yeah, he obviously he's doing something right, 94 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: way more right than I am, because he's considered the 95 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: love expert and I'm not. M I took a girl 96 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 1: on a Palatin bus trip one time. She threw up 97 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 1: in the car on the way to the airplane, and 98 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: I thought, boy, this isn't this isn't gonna go well, 99 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: And it didn't. She threw up the entire time. I 100 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 1: felt really bad, But you know, probably don't go out 101 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: drinking the night before you're gonna fly at a small 102 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: airplane slash have really serious motion sickness issues, and volunteer 103 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,840 Speaker 1: to go on a little airplane. You know, wouldn't that 104 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: make sense to most people? Well? Yeah, but that makes 105 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:50,479 Speaker 1: too much sense. You know, sometimes you got to risk it. 106 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 1: I've been out with you drinking and then the next 107 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 1: day you went on flying with Fred Kaylin. Oh, did 108 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: I have Jason's bata? Yeah? I mean, I don't know. 109 00:05:57,720 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: I don't get too queasy, do I? Fred? I think 110 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: I'm I mean, you only threw up a couple of 111 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: times on me. Yeah, but I was. I was wearing 112 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:09,039 Speaker 1: that hazmat suit the whole time, so it was fine, 113 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 1: you know, wrap myself up. I wrapped myself up to 114 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:21,359 Speaker 1: go flying with Kaylin. I could be taking and maybe 115 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: that's why I said stay or go. We'll do it 116 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: next in three minutes. The Entertainment Report Show vis Shelley 117 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 1: is here. Good Morning Tuesday on The Fred Show one 118 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 1: three five are on a POV seven sixteen on The 119 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: Fred Show one on three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number 120 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 1: one hit music station. Stay or good Angelina is here. 121 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 1: Good morning, Angelina. Welcome to the show. How are your name? 122 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: I'm good, how are you? Very well? Thank you for 123 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 1: reaching out to us. I believe this was a d 124 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: M fred Shore Radio on Instagram, but you can also 125 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: hit us up there or at Fredshire Radio dot com 126 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:58,280 Speaker 1: for stay or go. So tell us what's going on. 127 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:02,479 Speaker 1: I have your email here. This is a guy named Quincy. 128 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 1: You've been on a few days with this guy and 129 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: what's this scenario? What's going on? The issue with him 130 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 1: is that I really like him, and we got to 131 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: the time where we had a discussion and he mentioned 132 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: to me that he's absolutely never interested in getting married 133 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 1: and that his mind is stuck and it's not going 134 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 1: to be changed, and I just don't know hot feel 135 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 1: about that. Okay, all right, So you guys go out 136 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: a few times and the topic of marriage comes up, 137 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: as it does, especially depending on well, I guess it 138 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: could no matter what age, but I feel like maybe 139 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: late twenties, early thirties. It's like a kind of a 140 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 1: more pressing topic because people start thinking about having kids 141 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: and families and all this stuff. But you guys go 142 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 1: out a few times and this guy's like, like like, I'm 143 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 1: never gonna get married, and you want to be married, 144 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 1: and I assume, right, yes, I do. I can't imagine 145 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 1: my life without getting married. I've always pictured myself married, 146 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 1: and so I've just caught me off guard. So did 147 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 1: you say, um, okay, so it's just never gonna happen, 148 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: Like what if you met the right person? I mean, 149 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: did you set up any kind of scenario, because, for example, 150 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: I'm somebody who I guess I wouldn't tell someone on 151 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: a date that I absolutely wouldn't get married. But I 152 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: have said many times publicly and on dates. I suppose 153 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 1: that I I'm looking for a very very very special connection, 154 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: and everybody says that, but I guess what I mean 155 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: is for me, I'm looking for you really to feel 156 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 1: a certain kind of way in order to get married, 157 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:37,960 Speaker 1: and I don't. At this point, I think that that's 158 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 1: a very easy target to reach. I have said that, 159 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 1: but I'm not saying that I won't do it. I mean, 160 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 1: did you sort of ask, well, what's the deal with that? Like, 161 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 1: give me some give me some more? I did? I did. 162 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: He said that he's not ever in just rate and 163 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: then I mentioned he caught me off guard, and he 164 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 1: said that he's happy to discuss like the reason why did. 165 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 1: I ask him why, and he said that he's happy 166 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 1: to have that conversation, but at the enemy fault is 167 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:04,200 Speaker 1: that he's not changing his mind and that's something that 168 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 1: he doesn't see in his future. So then, uh, well, okay, 169 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:12,839 Speaker 1: you don't change a man. That's the rule. When you 170 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 1: start danging someone, you believe everything that guy is saying. 171 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 1: You can never change a man. My mom always tells 172 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:21,559 Speaker 1: me that is your mom still married? Yeah, she's ten, ten, 173 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:24,319 Speaker 1: fifteen years now, something like that. Stepdab so. Yeah, pretty 174 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:26,319 Speaker 1: good marriage, but she learned she had a lot of 175 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 1: bad relationships. Once a man says I don't want a 176 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 1: relationship or I'm not looking for something they're not looking 177 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 1: for that, you're not going to be the one to 178 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:35,839 Speaker 1: change them. I think that's probably a good strategy, Christy, 179 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 1: not to try and change people. But I also wonder 180 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 1: if you like this guy and he likes you, I mean, 181 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 1: it's really early. Who's to say that you guys wouldn't 182 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 1: come to some kind of compromise if if it's meant 183 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: to be, you know, who's to say that he's not 184 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 1: with you down the road and you know, really feels 185 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 1: a certain kind of way about you, and then decides, well, 186 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: I don't want to lose her, so I'm you know, 187 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: I'm willing to broaden my horizons on my view point here. 188 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:03,959 Speaker 1: Again it's a risk, but you know, I guess the 189 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:06,679 Speaker 1: question here, and it's the reason you're calling, is do 190 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: you do you drop with somebody you know you like 191 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 1: this guy, you're into it three or four dates? Do 192 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 1: you drop somebody right now because they're saying I'll never 193 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: get married? Or do you see where it goes? And 194 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:23,719 Speaker 1: you know, who knows? Maybe maybe your mere feelings will 195 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:25,439 Speaker 1: change on this, you know what I mean? If if 196 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: this is someone you feel really strongly about and the 197 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:31,439 Speaker 1: relationship is really healthy and and you're happy, then maybe 198 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 1: you'll realize that you don't need it as much as 199 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 1: you thought you did. Though, you know what I mean, 200 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 1: I'm throwing this out. There's a hypothetical. But but Paulina, 201 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 1: he's saying right now, I will not I do not 202 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 1: want to get married. So she has two choices, right 203 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 1: She could either say, well, maybe I'm maybe maybe this 204 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 1: is my guy and I'm open to not being married, 205 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:53,319 Speaker 1: or he's not my guy. I'm listening to what he's 206 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 1: saying right now, and I'm done with him. So I'm 207 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 1: not saying she has to she has to do anything, 208 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 1: but if she chooses to pursue, then she should, you know, 209 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 1: to Christie's point, she should probably listen to what he's saying, 210 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 1: which is and expect that they'll never get married. I 211 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 1: hate putting a time frame on things, but I feel 212 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 1: like in this situation, you kind of have to because 213 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:15,439 Speaker 1: I don't want to see her go five, ten, fifteen years. 214 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 1: There's no ring and she really wants that, you know 215 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:19,120 Speaker 1: what I mean. And then this time this is going 216 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 1: by and we're still in the same position. When a 217 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 1: man tells you who he is, believe him. So exactly 218 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 1: what Christie said, he as he can still change his mind. 219 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 1: There's still room for that. But why is it your 220 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: responsibility or your job to change a man's mind. Like, 221 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 1: if he wants to marry you, like you know, he 222 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: can tell you right now. I'm not really maybe into 223 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:36,839 Speaker 1: that right now at this moment, but if he's open 224 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 1: to it, that's a great sign. If he's not, I 225 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:41,679 Speaker 1: would take that at face value, and I think that's 226 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 1: great advice. I also, but what I hear you saying, Pauline, 227 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 1: is I don't think the onus isn't on her to 228 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 1: change his mind. The onus is on her to listen 229 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: to him. He's telling her. He's saying, I don't want 230 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 1: to be married. So I don't know, I hear, I 231 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 1: don't know. I feel like like the your perspective is 232 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 1: coming from the standpoint that he's somehow doing something wrong. 233 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 1: I think he's doing everything right for him. You know, 234 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:08,079 Speaker 1: he's telling her I'm not gonna do it. It's not 235 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:09,839 Speaker 1: like maybe I'll do it some day. You should prove 236 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:11,680 Speaker 1: it to me. He's saying, I'm not gonna do it. 237 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 1: Don't expect me to propose to you ever. So I 238 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 1: don't think she has to prove anything. I just I 239 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 1: just think she has to decide um. Is this somebody 240 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 1: that I can be with? Is this something I really 241 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:23,600 Speaker 1: feel a certain kind of way about it. I've never 242 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:25,559 Speaker 1: felt this way before, and I want to see where 243 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 1: it goes and where life can take us. Or do 244 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 1: you say right now after four dates, I'm dropping this 245 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 1: completely because you say right now that you'll never get 246 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 1: married eight five one h three five. I would love 247 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 1: to know. Uh, you know a lot of good advice. 248 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:43,559 Speaker 1: I agree, you got to listen to what people are 249 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 1: saying at the same time. I mean, do you believe 250 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 1: there's do you believe Angelina that there's there's no chance 251 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 1: to compromise here? I don't see it. I don't see 252 00:12:57,640 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 1: because I just I picture of waiting, my family being there. 253 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:03,959 Speaker 1: I picture me walking down the aisle, my dad walking 254 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:08,199 Speaker 1: to down aisle, and it sounds like he doesn't want 255 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 1: to commitment. Also, there's a part of me that that's 256 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:12,840 Speaker 1: just that's his way of saying it. I don't want 257 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:16,199 Speaker 1: to be fully committed, so I do picture my life 258 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 1: with somebody who wants to be fully committed to me. 259 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 1: So I don't know. I'm torn. I think there's there 260 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 1: are more questions to be answered here. I think I 261 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 1: think it would be interesting to hear the why you know, 262 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 1: why are you so um hell bents on never being married? 263 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 1: And does that mean that you can't be with one person? 264 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:36,960 Speaker 1: Does that mean that we can't be in monogus monogamous relationship? 265 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 1: Does that mean kids will never you know? I guess 266 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:40,320 Speaker 1: these are all things I would love to know the 267 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 1: why about um because it's so early on, and who knows, 268 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 1: Maybe he's selling, Maybe maybe he does what I do, 269 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 1: which is on dates, he tells you all the reasons 270 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 1: why it won't work out. It's terrible thing. Well, I 271 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 1: do this, I do this on dates. No, I tell 272 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: people about all my weaknesses because I feel like then 273 00:13:57,800 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: you can't come back and say, well, you know you 274 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: screwed me or you lied to me. No, no, no, no, 275 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 1: I'm furious. I think you probably do. But I will. 276 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 1: I will sell you on my negatives because I really 277 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:10,680 Speaker 1: don't want to hurt people's feelings and I really don't 278 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 1: want to disappoint them. So I'll tell them all these 279 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:15,840 Speaker 1: things that could happen that aren't good from the very beginning. 280 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:17,760 Speaker 1: And then that way not to say that I didn't 281 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 1: hurt people or whatever. But then at least you can't say, well, 282 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 1: you deceived me. So maybe this guy is selling you 283 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 1: on the idea that it will never happen. But maybe 284 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 1: it's not that it will never happen. Maybe he just 285 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 1: needs some real convincing. But if you really like him, 286 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 1: it's worth a conversation. Excuse me, I'm getting chilled up 287 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 1: into a Hallmark it's a Hallmark movie. I'm I'm seeing 288 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:41,520 Speaker 1: in your future a wedding. I think you can convince him. 289 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 1: You can sway him. But I think I'll be officiating 290 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 1: your wedding soon and then it will be on the 291 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 1: Hallmark channel. Stop. No, don't laugh. Don't listen to Fred. 292 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: What a guy says he means. Okay, just take it 293 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 1: at face value. You're right, this matter completely incapable of 294 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 1: changing their mind. Ever, it's totally impossible. I mean you should. 295 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 1: You should feel this out. If you really like him 296 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 1: enough to call a radio show and ask questions, then 297 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 1: then don't you think it's worth hearing the why it is? 298 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 1: I guess so. I guess so hearing more details as 299 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 1: to why. Oh no, okay, let him let me sit 300 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 1: my coffee here. I'm gonna sit my duncan. I'm gonna 301 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:20,760 Speaker 1: take some phone calls. Angelina. Look, I feel for you, 302 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 1: because you know again, it's three or four days. Part 303 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 1: of me wonders if the fact that he's told you 304 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 1: this doesn't make you want it more, you know, like 305 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 1: I guess, it's so early. It's hard to say whether 306 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 1: you really feel differently about him, or whether you're really 307 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 1: just caught off by the fact that he's telling you 308 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 1: right now what he will not do for you or 309 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 1: anybody for that matter, I don't know. Let's you know, 310 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 1: people have to say though, have your radio one and 311 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 1: thanks for calling, Thanks for Sharon, have a good day, 312 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 1: all right, thank you? Um is it Adrielle? Good morning? Yeah? Hey, 313 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: what do you think? Just to recap here, this woman's 314 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 1: talking about a guy she's been on three or four 315 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 1: days with who says from the very beginning, he will 316 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 1: not be getting married to anyone. He's not getting married never, 317 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 1: and will not change his mind. She doesn't know why 318 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 1: she hasn't heard any of that. Well, he said, he 319 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 1: is willing to talk about it. So do you think 320 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 1: she goes now or do you think she or you know, 321 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 1: waits it out a little bit? Well, I mean that's 322 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 1: that's actually a funny situation because I was that guy 323 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 1: that said I'm never gonna get married. You know, I 324 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 1: was married before, and I made sure that every person 325 00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 1: that I came to kind and say, I was like, look, 326 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 1: I don't want marriage. I don't want that commitment anymore. 327 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 1: It's just not for me. Didn't work out for me. 328 00:16:35,120 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 1: And you know, the person that I'm with, nown you know, 329 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 1: she's phenomenal. You know, I ended up changing my mind 330 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 1: because you know, she was just great and with time 331 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 1: that all changes. So I mean, Christy, like you have 332 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 1: your opinions man that people don't change, but hey, it's 333 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 1: it's possible. Man. You just have to meet the right person. 334 00:16:57,520 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 1: It's not that people don't change. I just don't think 335 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 1: women should expect for them to be able to change 336 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 1: a man because it just doesn't happen most of the time. 337 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 1: You're the exception to the rule the most the big men. 338 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 1: You can't change a man. A man is who he 339 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:11,120 Speaker 1: is when you start dating him, if you get married. 340 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 1: It's not going to fiction making this. Why are we 341 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:16,399 Speaker 1: making this female thing? I mean, I don't Yeah, I 342 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: don't think it's the big bad villain man. I think 343 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 1: it's the same could be said for women. I think 344 00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 1: if a woman tells me that she's very much, you know, 345 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 1: convicted about a certain opinion, whatever it is. I don't 346 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:29,000 Speaker 1: think anybody should expect to change anybody else, but to 347 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 1: say that you should run from anybody who tells you 348 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 1: they're not going to do exactly what you want. After 349 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:37,879 Speaker 1: three dates, I don't know. I feel like you might 350 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:40,760 Speaker 1: be leaving something on the table. Potentially. My friend dated 351 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 1: a guy away. There's always there's always a potential for 352 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 1: someone to change. And like I said, it's not that 353 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:49,359 Speaker 1: you're changing. You're going to change a man, You're gonna 354 00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 1: change a woman. Their perspective is their perspective until they 355 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 1: meet that one person that they can actually be like, oh, man, like, 356 00:17:56,680 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: could this possibly be something more? Could it? Could this 357 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 1: person to be that person that I want to spend 358 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 1: the rest of my life with. Thank you, Adria, thanks 359 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 1: so much for calling. And you were about to say, Christy, 360 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:09,920 Speaker 1: ten years, ten years and three days are pretty different, 361 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: I know, but I'm saying, you know, to be any 362 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: of the relationship, same thing. She thought, Oh, he doesn't 363 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 1: want kids, that's fine, he might change his mind later on. 364 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 1: He doesn't change his mind, and now they are breaking 365 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:20,640 Speaker 1: up because he doesn't want kids and she does. I'm 366 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 1: just saying, don't put in a long term commitment if 367 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:25,639 Speaker 1: they don't see it. Well, ten years might be a 368 00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:28,040 Speaker 1: while to wait for someone to change their mind, but 369 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 1: you know, you get four days. I don't know. Um, 370 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 1: Thank you, man, have a great dake. Kimmy, good morning, 371 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 1: Welcome to the show, Kimmy, how are you. I'm good? 372 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:39,879 Speaker 1: How are you? Kimmy? Welcome? What do you think, stare Go, 373 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 1: I said, go, I did the whole dating game. I'm 374 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:51,080 Speaker 1: actually engaged now and things, and every guy that I 375 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 1: dated up to that I made exceptions And you know, 376 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 1: but this is something fundamental. Do you want kids? Do 377 00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 1: you want to get married? Those are huge things, you know, 378 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:01,399 Speaker 1: how you know? And if you do want kids, how 379 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 1: you want to raise your kids. Yes, it's early to 380 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:07,119 Speaker 1: make those decisions. But as we get older and you know, 381 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:11,639 Speaker 1: the dating pool changes, you don't want to be making exceptions. 382 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:14,480 Speaker 1: And I'm so glad I didn't, you know, settle for 383 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 1: something with subpar because now I have the perfect man 384 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 1: who has all the same values and wants the same 385 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 1: things I do. Yes, I think you wait it out 386 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 1: and find the right thing good for you. I can 387 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:26,879 Speaker 1: tell you this much. Kimmy is a guy who doesn't 388 00:19:27,080 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 1: know that he wants to be married. I'm certainly not 389 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:33,160 Speaker 1: going to have a different opinion after three days. Well, 390 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:35,119 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know if you want to get married. 391 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:37,639 Speaker 1: This guy is saying he doesn't at all. It's very 392 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 1: it's very different. You're open to the idea. He sounds 393 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:43,400 Speaker 1: like he wasn't open to it. But I don't even know. Yeah, 394 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:46,880 Speaker 1: he said that he like the fact that he said 395 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:49,679 Speaker 1: we can talk about the reason, but I'm not going 396 00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:51,960 Speaker 1: to change my mind at the end. Help me. He's 397 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 1: really set that that is not what he wants, and 398 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 1: there's people out there that that isn't what they want. 399 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 1: It's a lot of money, it's a lot of commitment, 400 00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 1: it's very dangerous, and with a fifty percent divorce rate, 401 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:05,239 Speaker 1: it's a safe risk. So I understand when people say 402 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:07,159 Speaker 1: they don't want it, but when you really do want it, 403 00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 1: do you want to waste your time with someone who 404 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:12,800 Speaker 1: is not going to live up to your expectations. Well, Kimmy, 405 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. I invested in a lifetime 406 00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:17,959 Speaker 1: membership to Hinge, the dating website, and I'm still awaiting 407 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 1: my approval on Riyah, and so I can't get married 408 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 1: because I'm invested. Okay, At any point, Riya can call 409 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 1: and say that I'm on the celebrity dating website and 410 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:28,399 Speaker 1: if I am, well, then what a waste, what a 411 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:32,880 Speaker 1: waste that marriage would be? You know what I mean? Exactly? Yes, 412 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 1: thank you, Kimmy. I appreciate you have a great deal. Okay, 413 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 1: you too, Sarah. Welcome to the French show How are you, Sarah? Yes, 414 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 1: what's up? What's up? What's up? Sarah? You think? Okay? So, 415 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:50,040 Speaker 1: as I was telling you earlier, I think the same 416 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 1: man for almost ten years who told me, his mom 417 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:57,639 Speaker 1: told me and his family told me. He seems Jeremy. 418 00:20:57,680 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 1: I love him with all of my heart. Jeremy will 419 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:03,720 Speaker 1: never get married. We will never get down. And I've 420 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:05,960 Speaker 1: done one ny and proposed to you. We have been 421 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,040 Speaker 1: he gethered almost ten years, currently have a five year 422 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 1: old together. We are not married because of tax reasons, 423 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:15,320 Speaker 1: but we have been engaged for two years almost three. 424 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: We lived together. We're actually moving again together into a house. 425 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 1: We discuss I do think financial still, we're basically married 426 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 1: without paperwork. Okay, And so he did he in some ways, 427 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:31,240 Speaker 1: he's done things that everybody told you you wouldn't do, 428 00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 1: including him. Oh yeah, like everybody was Mike will never 429 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 1: get He literally told me I'll never get married and 430 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,920 Speaker 1: I'll never get you gaged. And we're engaged and my 431 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 1: ring and I won't even lie, and people say, oh 432 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:45,400 Speaker 1: my god, this thing is huge. I don't know. Yes, 433 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:48,159 Speaker 1: what do you want to get married for tax reasons? 434 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 1: Is that a dumb question? I'm confused, Okay, so we 435 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,880 Speaker 1: have a I'm not sure. I know you guys are Illinois. 436 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:57,639 Speaker 1: I'm not sure if if you have kids, not married. 437 00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 1: If you have kids, you get an extra four grade 438 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 1: every year. Oh wow, you're not getting married. Oh I'm 439 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 1: about to pop out a kid. But what about to 440 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:11,879 Speaker 1: get divorced? I don't know. But you got to move 441 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:19,600 Speaker 1: to Indiana. I'll take Asia. Just kidding, we love you, 442 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 1: you're saying financially, then, Sarah, it doesn't make sense right now, 443 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: but you but there's a ring, and you're living together. 444 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 1: You're sort of doing everything. It's just you know, but nonetheless, 445 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 1: these were all things that he was never gonna do. 446 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 1: He was never gonna do them, and now he's doing 447 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:41,520 Speaker 1: them because you were the person for him. So, Sarah, 448 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:45,480 Speaker 1: you have a great day. You also, I'm glad you 449 00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:49,720 Speaker 1: called Jeremy. I know she does. And I think Jeremy 450 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 1: loves her because she got that ring. So people said 451 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:57,400 Speaker 1: it was big, right she does that, and she stuck 452 00:22:57,440 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 1: around for that long after they all told her. Yeah, Kim, welcome, 453 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 1: How are you Hi? Good? How are you Kim? Thanks 454 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 1: for calling, just to recap if you're just tuning in 455 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: on stae Go this woman, Angelina is going out with 456 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:15,479 Speaker 1: a guy three or four times total and she likes him, 457 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 1: but he's saying off the top, I will never get married, 458 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 1: and she wonders if that's something that she should continue 459 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 1: to pursue and communicate with him, or if the fact 460 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 1: that he's saying out to three days it will never 461 00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 1: happen and she wants to be married, then she should 462 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:35,680 Speaker 1: just cut it now and move on. What do you think? Yeah, yeah, 463 00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 1: I think I think she should stay. Um. I had 464 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 1: a similar situation my now fiance and I UM, he 465 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:44,639 Speaker 1: had said the same thing, he was never going to 466 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:47,560 Speaker 1: get married this and that he had a quick wedding before. 467 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:49,960 Speaker 1: It was the whole thing. But for me, I knew 468 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,160 Speaker 1: by the way. We actually moved in together right after 469 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 1: a month together. Now here we are, yeah, four years 470 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 1: later and you know, engaged so well. So people people 471 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 1: can change their minds if they meet the right person, 472 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 1: or they can work through their issues or whatever it is. 473 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:05,240 Speaker 1: That's the other thing. We don't even know what the 474 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,159 Speaker 1: issue is. We don't know if it's because he was 475 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:10,879 Speaker 1: hurt by an ex wife or because we have no 476 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 1: idea why it is that he claims he won't ever 477 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:16,399 Speaker 1: get married again. If Angelina wants to be married and 478 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 1: have kids and this dude's saying I want to be 479 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: polyamorous and I want to have fifteen girlfriends and you 480 00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:24,879 Speaker 1: know whatever, Well, no it's not going to work. But 481 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:26,959 Speaker 1: if it's no, I was really hurt by my actually 482 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:28,879 Speaker 1: cheated on me and we were engaged in this whole thing, 483 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: well maybe you can work through that. But then if 484 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:34,400 Speaker 1: you have that information, you decide just to say after 485 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 1: three days, I'm out without any information, I don't know, 486 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,680 Speaker 1: especially if you really like someone, it's hard to do 487 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:41,639 Speaker 1: that these days. Thank you, Kim, have a good day. 488 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 1: Thank you. If you're on these dating apps and you 489 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,200 Speaker 1: really feel a certain kind of way about somebody, I 490 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 1: think you owe it to yourself to investigate a little 491 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 1: bit before you move. Cynthia, let's jump down here because 492 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:56,440 Speaker 1: she says walk away, which is a great Kelly Clarkson song. Cynthia, 493 00:24:56,560 --> 00:25:00,880 Speaker 1: good morning, good morning, Hey welcome. What do you think? 494 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 1: You know what? I think that she should just be 495 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:07,200 Speaker 1: upfront with him and tell him, you know, just how 496 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,720 Speaker 1: he was able to tell her up front. You know, 497 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 1: I'm not willing to get married just that her, you know, 498 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 1: she needs to tell her her expectations, like, well, I 499 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,639 Speaker 1: am willing to get married, you know later on in 500 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,159 Speaker 1: the future. I do see myself married because you know, I, 501 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:24,160 Speaker 1: for whatever reason, I just I want to have kids. 502 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:28,360 Speaker 1: My biological time is ticking, and you know, let him decide. 503 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:31,159 Speaker 1: And if he's seen right now that he's not willing 504 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,640 Speaker 1: to get married, if she wants to say, she can. 505 00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:35,719 Speaker 1: But I just don't think she should take him serious. 506 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 1: I think she should start dating other people because at 507 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 1: the end of the day, her biological spot is ticking. 508 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,480 Speaker 1: If she wants to have a commitment with the plan 509 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 1: and then continue to have a family and so on 510 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 1: and so forth. Yeah, I think that's good advice. In fairness, no, 511 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,680 Speaker 1: don't wait ten years. But in fairness, you know, maybe 512 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 1: I've said it like ten times, Maybe hear the story, 513 00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 1: maybe figure it out. Maybe who knows. She may go 514 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 1: out one more day with the guy that guy choose 515 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 1: with his mouth open and they're done anyway. So whatever. Yeah, yeah, 516 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:12,360 Speaker 1: thank you so much. Have a good day, Cynthia. Okay, Rufio, 517 00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 1: you haven't chimed in on this, Just go ahead. I'll 518 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 1: give you the final say sound advice sto Rufio, he's 519 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 1: the final. You better side with me. Um, we've heard, 520 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,159 Speaker 1: we've heard your perspective. We know what you think about it, 521 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 1: we know what I think about it. What do you think? 522 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:29,199 Speaker 1: I mean? I think it's too early to say. I mean, 523 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:30,920 Speaker 1: he could he could say yeah, he doesn't want to 524 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,359 Speaker 1: get married. But people do change their minds, and we 525 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 1: don't know the reasoning of why he's saying. And now 526 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 1: be it could because his parents are divorced, or he 527 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 1: just doesn't believe in that because it didn't work out 528 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 1: for someone in his family. But I think it's I 529 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:45,560 Speaker 1: think it's still too early. I think she's to stay 530 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,160 Speaker 1: and and I'm like, not stay for like ten years. 531 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 1: I wouldn't stay for ten years and be like we're 532 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 1: gonna get her in some day. I agree. I agree 533 00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 1: with that. Stay for one more date, one one more date, 534 00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:06,200 Speaker 1: someplace fancy, Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay. 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Elly 562 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 1: Kemper adjusted those photos of her in a pageant run 563 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,600 Speaker 1: by an organization rooted in racism. The pictures from nineteen 564 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,880 Speaker 1: ninety nine. It show her being crowned as the new 565 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:55,600 Speaker 1: Queen of Love and Beauty at the Veiled Profit Ball 566 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 1: in Saint Louis, the actress who's known for the Office Unbreakable, 567 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,760 Speaker 1: Kimi Schmidt and Bridesmaids. If you didn't know, she said, 568 00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:05,680 Speaker 1: the century old organization that hosted the Debutante Ball had 569 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 1: an unquestionably racist, sexist and Elita's past. I was not 570 00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:12,920 Speaker 1: aware of this history at the time, but ignorance is 571 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,480 Speaker 1: no excuse. I was old enough to have educated myself 572 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 1: before getting involved. I unequivocally deplored announced and reject white supremacy, 573 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:24,000 Speaker 1: right supremacy I can talk to. At the same time, 574 00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,480 Speaker 1: I acknowledge that because of my race and my privilege, 575 00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 1: I am the beneficiary of a system that has dispensed 576 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:34,680 Speaker 1: unequal justice and unequal rewards. The pageant was established in 577 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,880 Speaker 1: the late eighteen hundreds by a former Confederate officer in 578 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,800 Speaker 1: Saint Louis, which is where she's from. She was nineteen 579 00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 1: at the time and a freshman at Princeton. Jason Sadaiki 580 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,080 Speaker 1: is man. He's still struggling to wrap his head around 581 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:50,239 Speaker 1: Olivia Wilde's romance with Harry Styles. I feel bad for him. 582 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:52,960 Speaker 1: I'm hearing he's upset, a little angry about the whole thing. 583 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 1: Was Even worse is that he and Harry are both 584 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:58,320 Speaker 1: in the UK right now. Jason is filming ted Lasso 585 00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:00,840 Speaker 1: and Harry is filming his new movie My Policeman. Have 586 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,640 Speaker 1: you seen Tech class over? You just wanna Emmy for that? 587 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:05,600 Speaker 1: I know, I'm saying it's so good ating awards. I 588 00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 1: don't know what he's mad about. Yeah, well, I mean, 589 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:11,240 Speaker 1: you can be heartbroken and I guess like your career 590 00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 1: is still doing well. It's not like Donald mcdumpson not 591 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 1: doing anything. Do you want your X to get with 592 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 1: someone who's super hot or someone who's ugly but would 593 00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 1: make you feel better? No one, I mean I never 594 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:25,080 Speaker 1: love again, right, Yeah, you could be like my mom 595 00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 1: and say that you know that my dad's not allowed 596 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 1: to do anything except for moren Yeah, I feel that 597 00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:35,120 Speaker 1: once she passes. Yeah, yeah, I don't know. We've talked 598 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 1: about this before. I feel like I feel like hotter hurts. 599 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,200 Speaker 1: If your X winds up with someone hotter, it would 600 00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:48,280 Speaker 1: hurt more. But also it's like, oh okay, and then 601 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 1: I'm at that level, right, I'm at that level. If 602 00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 1: they wind up with some schlub, then you're like, is 603 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,080 Speaker 1: that what I look like? Is that? What she thinks 604 00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 1: to me? Is that but tried, you'd always be the 605 00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 1: hotter X. So po it I side. I agree with 606 00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:02,960 Speaker 1: you on that one. I kind of want to be 607 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,040 Speaker 1: the hot ex. Yeah. Same. I don't want you to 608 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,960 Speaker 1: have a hotter X. Yeah, I want you to minden. 609 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:10,800 Speaker 1: Oh no, it's I was just gonna say, I want 610 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 1: you to date no one. But if you must, they 611 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 1: must be uglier than I. You know. Oh, we know. 612 00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 1: Love dies after Kalin. It's over. It's just finished. Once 613 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:21,800 Speaker 1: she extinguished the love. Once you put the love out 614 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,480 Speaker 1: for another human being, it's like you are cast away. Now. 615 00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:27,600 Speaker 1: You will never find a love like this again. Gosh, 616 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,960 Speaker 1: I'm so glad you're finally getting it and understanding me. 617 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,600 Speaker 1: Thank you, for that. Um. It makes it easy for 618 00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,760 Speaker 1: Olivia though, because both of her ex and her new 619 00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,960 Speaker 1: man their play. So she's in town going back and 620 00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:42,000 Speaker 1: forth with her kids. So I guess that's if they 621 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 1: had like a you're engagement made a long engagement too, right, Yeah, 622 00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,760 Speaker 1: maybe she's told him she'd never get married. Right here, 623 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:53,160 Speaker 1: you believe a man, you should have believed her. But 624 00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,600 Speaker 1: she's hot. I would never be over her either, So 625 00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,520 Speaker 1: a couple of that is doing well. Shaleene Woodley. Uh. 626 00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:02,200 Speaker 1: She says Aaron Rodgers jumped head first with her into 627 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:05,680 Speaker 1: their relationship. They immediately moved in together when they started 628 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:08,640 Speaker 1: dating during the pandemic, which she says taught them to 629 00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 1: love each other very quickly. I don't know if us 630 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 1: what it teaches you and helped them to quote get 631 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,080 Speaker 1: some sticky bits out of the way early. I don't 632 00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,120 Speaker 1: even know what that means. But she said, I have 633 00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:21,440 Speaker 1: the perspective that I would have met Aaron in any context, 634 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:24,520 Speaker 1: any space, in any time, And she says they're meant 635 00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,240 Speaker 1: to be together. Imagine feeling that way about Aaron Rodgers. 636 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 1: That would be they're a weird couple. She swims in 637 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:32,360 Speaker 1: the deep end, and I don't even know what's going 638 00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 1: on in his don't think it's much. I don't know. 639 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 1: He's smart, like he's kind of pony talent. He's playing 640 00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 1: the guitar and singing Taylor Swift songs now or something like. 641 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,520 Speaker 1: It's a whole difference. I don't know what was he saying. 642 00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 1: What were they doing in Hawaii? I don't know, like 643 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:48,040 Speaker 1: some kind of carry okay or something. Probably if it's Jaleen, 644 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:50,920 Speaker 1: I don't know, they were probably and everybody else. Yeah, 645 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:52,920 Speaker 1: he's got a whole different side to him. Man, I 646 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:56,080 Speaker 1: don't know. I just anybody but the Packers come come, Yeah, 647 00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 1: that guy plays for the Bears and I'm cheering him on. 648 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:04,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, say leave, yeah, yay ponytail. Yeah. I 649 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:06,600 Speaker 1: don't know. But she announced that they were engaged back 650 00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 1: in February, so we will see. I'm more to check 651 00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:12,720 Speaker 1: it online today. This was wild. So imagine Corney Cox 652 00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 1: on the piano, Elton John singing ed sheer in there too, um, 653 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,960 Speaker 1: and they were playing a song for Lisa Kudro. It 654 00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:24,240 Speaker 1: was it was bizarre. Um. Also, kid Rock, he's proved 655 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,640 Speaker 1: that he's kid rock again. And that's on Fredho Radio 656 00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:29,760 Speaker 1: Dot com ye, thank you, killa kay. Two minutes away 657 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:32,120 Speaker 1: from the show bit Shelley Showdown, good news stories coming 658 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,040 Speaker 1: up as well, and waiting by the phone. One h 659 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:39,160 Speaker 1: three five, Good morning seven eight one h three five 660 00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:42,240 Speaker 1: Kiss FM, Chicago's number one in music stage of Fresh Show. 661 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:46,000 Speaker 1: Good morning, glad you're here a Mira, Good morning yo, 662 00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:56,640 Speaker 1: Good morning yo. Mira's got Lollapaloosa tickets? Yeah, yeah, well 663 00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 1: you wont you got the four day passes and you 664 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:03,120 Speaker 1: might be pooping in the golden throne at La Llapalooza. 665 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:04,320 Speaker 1: I actually, I hope you don't have to poop at 666 00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 1: La Llapalooza. That would be really awkward. But um, you 667 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,360 Speaker 1: could get these VIP tickets to use the really fancy 668 00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:11,719 Speaker 1: bathrooms and the golf carts and the drinks and the 669 00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:13,880 Speaker 1: food and all of that. So you signed up for 670 00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:15,800 Speaker 1: that as well, and I hope you win, and I 671 00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 1: hope you have a great day. Oh my gosh, thank 672 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:20,359 Speaker 1: you guys so much. I love you guys so much. 673 00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:22,600 Speaker 1: Thank you, We love you too. Have a good one, 674 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,440 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Hold on one second, all right, all right, 675 00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:30,520 Speaker 1: sound good. It's the Fred Show on one. Do you 676 00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,360 Speaker 1: have one? It takes the Battle Showbis Shelley in the 677 00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:45,600 Speaker 1: Showbiz Showdown. Show Pace Shelley. Just in from the sales department. 678 00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:53,239 Speaker 1: We have a new sponsor for the Showdown A RP. Yes, accurate. 679 00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 1: I'm you know, I can't even can't even be mad 680 00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 1: about it. I don't know the closer I'm getting a 681 00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:01,399 Speaker 1: married life, I fact, the older I'm getting. I told 682 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:04,279 Speaker 1: you I love really I love holding laundry. I mean 683 00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:06,840 Speaker 1: I go to bed at nine o'clock every night. I 684 00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:09,640 Speaker 1: don't know I do too. I would gladly. I would 685 00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:12,480 Speaker 1: welcome this partnership if AARP wants to reach out to me. 686 00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 1: I mean I'm not quite an age, I'm telling you, yeah, 687 00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:18,640 Speaker 1: I mean it's that's the kind of life I lead, 688 00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,279 Speaker 1: you know, dinner at about five thirty, Yeah, in bed 689 00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:26,239 Speaker 1: by nine. I'm with for them right there? Who early Mitchell? Yes, 690 00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:30,440 Speaker 1: I am telling you you don't go to bed early too? 691 00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:32,839 Speaker 1: We do it? Does show I eat dinner at ten 692 00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 1: o'clock at night? Ten thirty? Yeah, at twelve thirty. Wow, animals, 693 00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:39,560 Speaker 1: Oh my, I don't. We don't do any the most 694 00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:42,480 Speaker 1: for his wife to get home, and then they got 695 00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:44,799 Speaker 1: to put Ashland to bed and watch the bet around 696 00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 1: eight thirty nine o'clock. My wife gets home like eight 697 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,719 Speaker 1: o'clock and then yeah, we don't we don't start our 698 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,080 Speaker 1: dinner till like nine thirty ten o'clock. I'm telling you 699 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,160 Speaker 1: right now, most people who go on dates with me, 700 00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:56,960 Speaker 1: I truly believe that they scheduled two dates for the 701 00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:59,560 Speaker 1: night because my dates starts at five o'clock. Like they 702 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:01,080 Speaker 1: have to lead, they have to take a vacation down 703 00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:05,200 Speaker 1: work early. Yeah. Yeah, when you guys used to date, Yeah, 704 00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 1: five pm dates all the time. You know, the restaurant 705 00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:16,759 Speaker 1: be like, oh early they're Shelly, Yeah, exactly, tea happy hour. Yeah, 706 00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:19,840 Speaker 1: Shelly and I, Shelly and I used to you we 707 00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:22,200 Speaker 1: did actually used to go have you know, dinner sometimes 708 00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,040 Speaker 1: it was about five o'clock, and it was always in 709 00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:25,759 Speaker 1: some place where you had to eat like hay and 710 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:32,839 Speaker 1: wheat grass and you know, non whatever sort of healthy food. 711 00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:34,960 Speaker 1: She made me go to these healthy food restaurants all 712 00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:38,840 Speaker 1: the time. I saw we ever did. Okay, true, No, 713 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:41,160 Speaker 1: that is not true. It is fire. First of all 714 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 1: of all, I will have a good burger, I'll have 715 00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:48,080 Speaker 1: a steak, I'll do whatever. I'm very open. Well, never 716 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:52,840 Speaker 1: that with you. We went to Sweet Green and we 717 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,480 Speaker 1: ate like kale or something. I don't know what we 718 00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:57,840 Speaker 1: Maybe you were maybe it was just me. Maybe you 719 00:36:57,880 --> 00:36:59,600 Speaker 1: were trying to send me some kinds of message, which 720 00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:03,960 Speaker 1: is probably without a bad idea. Yeah, you're you're damn right. 721 00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 1: I can squeeze dot com. Squeeze dot com anyway. Um, 722 00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,879 Speaker 1: we're Sally. Sally's here from Brookfield. Good morning, Sally. Hey, 723 00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 1: how are you cart? Tell us about you? Hi? I 724 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:21,000 Speaker 1: am from Brookfield and I work in a classroom or 725 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:28,240 Speaker 1: special needs kids. I might Yeah, good for you. Oh wow, 726 00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:31,439 Speaker 1: five kids at home and you're working with special needs 727 00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:35,640 Speaker 1: kids every day. You are a pretty amazing person, I think. Yeah, 728 00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 1: I don't. Don't think the show that he's going to 729 00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,040 Speaker 1: go easy on you. We've had many amazing people on 730 00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,360 Speaker 1: this show and she dies them. So it's fine. It 731 00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:48,760 Speaker 1: doesn't know what. No, no, no, no. We're just playing 732 00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:50,480 Speaker 1: a little game with friends here. It's all good. So 733 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:52,919 Speaker 1: it's five questions. One hundred and three dollars and fifty 734 00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 1: cents is the prize. Four fifty three and thirty one 735 00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:58,319 Speaker 1: is their overall record four game win streak. Let's play 736 00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:02,120 Speaker 1: the game, all right, Good Luck's all right, yeah, good 737 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 1: luck Sally Shelley, with all the respect, if you would 738 00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:10,400 Speaker 1: get out to the sound boothpoof, she goes and here 739 00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 1: within okay, here we go. Question number one for you. 740 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:18,480 Speaker 1: Chrissy Tiguan continues to suffer ramifications over various tweets and 741 00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:22,080 Speaker 1: messages from twenty eleven. Who were the messages sent to? 742 00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:27,719 Speaker 1: Oh god? Three? Two? I've done this, I know, but 743 00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:31,359 Speaker 1: I don't know her name. Child. That's okay, that's all right. 744 00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 1: Four questions left, respectable score ahead, It's all good. Drake 745 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:41,080 Speaker 1: Bell was arrested for attempted endangerment of a child. Drake 746 00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:47,560 Speaker 1: got his start on this Nickelodeon show The Graphieu. Mariah Carey. 747 00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:51,000 Speaker 1: That's our era, girl, That's that's our era. Mariah Carey 748 00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:54,400 Speaker 1: has reportedly left rock Nation. Who founded rock Nation in 749 00:38:54,480 --> 00:39:01,880 Speaker 1: two thousand and eight. It's a boy, you know, three on, 750 00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:10,680 Speaker 1: It's over? Okay, all right? This lad and now oh no, no, no, 751 00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,319 Speaker 1: no no, don't say that. That's the fame famous last words. Um. 752 00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:17,240 Speaker 1: This late comedian and fashion police host has a birthday today. 753 00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:26,840 Speaker 1: You know this has a famous daughter. Streams and body 754 00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:33,240 Speaker 1: of water that flows, streams and by all right, finally 755 00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:36,600 Speaker 1: a rookie card to this Tampa Bay Buccaneers quarterback set 756 00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:40,880 Speaker 1: a record after selling for over three million dollars at auction. 757 00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:47,200 Speaker 1: You know this the goat, the goat to football. Good 758 00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:53,120 Speaker 1: looking guy quarterbacks. Just say your name, one, say name, 759 00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,040 Speaker 1: say a name. You know it. He's a white man. 760 00:39:55,239 --> 00:40:00,320 Speaker 1: I think it rhymes with Tom Brady. Yeah, yeah, she 761 00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:06,960 Speaker 1: said it. Just say to ask a job. Wow, I 762 00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:09,839 Speaker 1: just I know it rhymes with Tom Brady. And she goes, 763 00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:14,360 Speaker 1: I know it. Yeah, I'm giving her number five. She 764 00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:23,279 Speaker 1: gets number five. She's got a warm Let's bring Shelley back. 765 00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:27,239 Speaker 1: Here we go. She had one, she got a one. No, 766 00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,040 Speaker 1: she kind of got a zero, but we're giving her one. Yeah, 767 00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:36,040 Speaker 1: it's fine, okay, yeah, um, here we go, Shelley. Question 768 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:39,440 Speaker 1: number one. Chrissy Teguin continues to suffer ramifications over various 769 00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:41,920 Speaker 1: tweets and messages from twenty eleven. Who were the messages 770 00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:50,520 Speaker 1: sent to? Drake Bell was arrested for attempted endangerment of 771 00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:54,359 Speaker 1: a child. Drake got his start on this Nickelodeon show. 772 00:40:56,320 --> 00:41:01,359 Speaker 1: I just remember three Drake and Josh yes it yeah. 773 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:06,200 Speaker 1: She was thinking of Drake, like yeah, yeah, Aubrey. Yeah, 774 00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:11,399 Speaker 1: Mariah Kerry has reportedly left rock Nation, who founded rock 775 00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 1: Nation in two thousand and eight. Jeez, your boy. This 776 00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:19,480 Speaker 1: late comedian, a fashion police host has a birthday today, 777 00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:25,200 Speaker 1: John Rivers and a rookie card of this Tampa Bay 778 00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:28,839 Speaker 1: Buccaneers quarterback set a record after selling for over three 779 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:38,719 Speaker 1: million dollars at auction. Tom Brady, that's it, that's a five, right, Yeah, 780 00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,480 Speaker 1: you got him? All right? Yeah, all right, absolutely, I'm 781 00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:43,040 Speaker 1: sorry you're going to have to say him. My name 782 00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:46,200 Speaker 1: is Sally. I got showed up on the showdown. My 783 00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,440 Speaker 1: name is Sally. I got showed up on the Showdown, 784 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:56,839 Speaker 1: and I cannot hang with now. Wow, that was nice. 785 00:41:57,160 --> 00:42:00,759 Speaker 1: Nice job. You redeemed yourself with that. Good job. Okay, thanks, 786 00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,520 Speaker 1: all right, Sally. Sally is doing much more important things 787 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:08,320 Speaker 1: with her time. It's true. I appreciate you, Sally, Sally, 788 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,759 Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Hold on one second, okay, all right, 789 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:15,480 Speaker 1: thanks all right, Um, Shelley, your show back to the 790 00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:18,239 Speaker 1: normal time ten to noon on one or three point 791 00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:27,239 Speaker 1: five FM. Foe Dad, what's coming Up's right? Um? So 792 00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:31,239 Speaker 1: a cruise is setting sale next year. That is in 793 00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:33,640 Speaker 1: the theme of a TV show. I don't know how 794 00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:35,320 Speaker 1: we feel about this. And also I feel like I 795 00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:37,080 Speaker 1: have to mention again. I have more of these tickets 796 00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:40,840 Speaker 1: for um this gymnastics event coming later this year with 797 00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:45,000 Speaker 1: Simone Biles, because she's doing so amazing at the Nastics Championship. 798 00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:48,120 Speaker 1: She is so dope, so dope, oh gay, so good, 799 00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:51,040 Speaker 1: so good. So you can see her in person. Tickets 800 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:55,040 Speaker 1: shell Shelley ten, ten to noon, just two hours. How'd 801 00:42:55,040 --> 00:43:01,560 Speaker 1: you get away with that? That's why? Yeah? Can I 802 00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:06,560 Speaker 1: change my name to show this friend and you know, 803 00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:09,200 Speaker 1: the only work in a couple hours a day. Yeah, 804 00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:17,600 Speaker 1: I'm very tired, Like I'm very tired. Yeah, crow shoes, Yeah, true, 805 00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:25,160 Speaker 1: I have to go to Yeah, only one step away 806 00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:27,359 Speaker 1: from velle crow shoes with the van every day. It's 807 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:29,960 Speaker 1: about the same thing, all right, have a great day, Shelley, 808 00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:34,080 Speaker 1: Thank you, Bye, we'll come back. We'll do good news 809 00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:39,239 Speaker 1: stories and Waiting by the Phone. Turn live from the 810 00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:47,640 Speaker 1: Winds Studios in America's Greatest city, Chicago and Heart radio station. 811 00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:53,360 Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show, Good Morning, every One Friend shows 812 00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:55,799 Speaker 1: on eight oh six. Waiting by the Phone, and we'll 813 00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:57,400 Speaker 1: get to that in just a second. The entertainer up 814 00:43:57,440 --> 00:43:59,719 Speaker 1: fort with Kalin, after that one's in there, I have 815 00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,239 Speaker 1: very exciting news for you if you are a fan 816 00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:04,320 Speaker 1: of the show Friends, and I will tell you what 817 00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:07,160 Speaker 1: it is which you are. So this is very exciting myself. 818 00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:11,520 Speaker 1: I'm talking to yes, well sometimes it feels like we're 819 00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:13,560 Speaker 1: only talking to ourselves, which is fine. I love that 820 00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:16,920 Speaker 1: for us. Trending stories, bullet points and starts you Tuesday 821 00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:20,479 Speaker 1: blogs coming up this hours as well. The French show 822 00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:27,759 Speaker 1: is on. It feels good a right when I say 823 00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:34,000 Speaker 1: and you say goals in University of Chicago, Ingles Memorial, 824 00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:36,920 Speaker 1: good news, happy stories every day, Kalen, what you got so? 825 00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:40,240 Speaker 1: Christian Leiden has been dreaming of creating his own engagement 826 00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:42,840 Speaker 1: ring for his bride to be since he was in 827 00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:46,000 Speaker 1: eighth grade, and thanks to a recent lucky find, he's 828 00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:48,920 Speaker 1: finally got all the pieces he needs to do so. Christian, 829 00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:51,560 Speaker 1: who's twenty six, found a two point two Carrott yellow 830 00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:55,880 Speaker 1: diamond at Crater of Diamond State Park in Arkansas, bringing 831 00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:59,360 Speaker 1: to a close a year's long search for raw materials 832 00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:01,840 Speaker 1: to create the perfect ring. I saw it shining as 833 00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:04,120 Speaker 1: soon as I turned the screen over and immediately knew 834 00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:06,080 Speaker 1: it was a diamond. He said, I was shaking so bad, 835 00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:07,759 Speaker 1: I asked my buddy to grab it out of the 836 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:10,799 Speaker 1: gravel for me. Christian, who lives in Washington, has spent 837 00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:13,920 Speaker 1: the last five years painting for gold and in that 838 00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:16,120 Speaker 1: time found enough to make the band of the ring. 839 00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:18,720 Speaker 1: With that park covered, he set his sights on finding 840 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:20,960 Speaker 1: the perfect way to top it all off, which led 841 00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,719 Speaker 1: him and a friend to take a trip to a 842 00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:27,600 Speaker 1: mining excursion earlier this month, armed with equipment that they 843 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:31,520 Speaker 1: built themselves. Jesus, these two are overachievers. Um. The a 844 00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:34,480 Speaker 1: pair were on their third day hunting at Crater of 845 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:37,399 Speaker 1: Diamonds and were about an hour into the search when 846 00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:40,160 Speaker 1: he made his lucky find. Like most diamonds from the park, 847 00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:43,520 Speaker 1: it contains a few inclusions, making it one of a kind. 848 00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:47,160 Speaker 1: So yeah, he found everything he needs for the ring. 849 00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:53,080 Speaker 1: The story doesn't mention if he is. I hope there's 850 00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:55,000 Speaker 1: a lucky lady. But that's really cool. I mean that 851 00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:58,359 Speaker 1: took like six years for him to find everything. Very 852 00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:01,000 Speaker 1: frugal of him, right, I can only imagine the wedding 853 00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:09,399 Speaker 1: of like he's building the chapel, the centerpieces that they're 854 00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:16,960 Speaker 1: hunting and foraging for the food, The flowers themselves, I 855 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,920 Speaker 1: mean finding a yellow diamond. Damn. Yeah. So high school 856 00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,360 Speaker 1: graduations are one of the most important rites of passage 857 00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:25,239 Speaker 1: of a teenager's life. We all know that. I think 858 00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:27,480 Speaker 1: we all graduated from high school at least um four 859 00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:30,440 Speaker 1: years of hard word friendships and dreams for the future 860 00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:33,880 Speaker 1: all culminate in a shining moment that will be remembered 861 00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:36,200 Speaker 1: long after the caps and gowns a collecting dust. So 862 00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:41,120 Speaker 1: um to various Peters was pretty upset when on May nineteenth, 863 00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:43,320 Speaker 1: he headed into the ceremony to receive his diploma. He 864 00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:46,680 Speaker 1: was stopped at the door by the fashion police because 865 00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:50,800 Speaker 1: his black topped, white souled sneakers were not outrageous, but 866 00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:53,800 Speaker 1: they were actually not within the school's dress code, and 867 00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:58,759 Speaker 1: he was denied entry to his own high school graduation. 868 00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:00,600 Speaker 1: So it looked as though he wasn't going to be 869 00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:03,480 Speaker 1: able to walk across the stage until somebody stepped in 870 00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:07,760 Speaker 1: and it was one of the teachers at the high school. 871 00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:09,840 Speaker 1: John Butler was his name. He was on hand for 872 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,640 Speaker 1: the graduation. Actually, I guess he wasn't a staff member 873 00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:14,160 Speaker 1: at the school. He was a teacher, but he was 874 00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:16,800 Speaker 1: there as a parent and once he learned about the predicament. 875 00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,440 Speaker 1: He accompanied the young man that he'd come to know 876 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:24,560 Speaker 1: UM and gave him his shoes off of his feet 877 00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,520 Speaker 1: so that he could put them on meet the dress 878 00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:30,960 Speaker 1: code requirements and then walk across the stage. It was 879 00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:33,800 Speaker 1: a no brainer. This was the most important moment in 880 00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:36,120 Speaker 1: his life up to that point, and I wasn't going 881 00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:40,160 Speaker 1: to let him miss it for anything. So very cool 882 00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,040 Speaker 1: for that guy to recognize that and do that. Let's 883 00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,759 Speaker 1: come back, We'll do Waiting by the Phone. Why no 884 00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:47,400 Speaker 1: second day for this couple. It's ubout to do Alapa 885 00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:49,759 Speaker 1: in three minutes on the Fred Show one h three five. 886 00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:57,480 Speaker 1: Why were you left waiting by the Phone? Hy Krista, Welcome, 887 00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:02,120 Speaker 1: Welcome to Waiting by the Phone. Let's talk about this 888 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,920 Speaker 1: guy that you met, Lee UM. Tell us how you 889 00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:08,359 Speaker 1: met and then kind of describe any days that you've 890 00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:11,320 Speaker 1: been on and then Phillis and on where things are now. Well, 891 00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:15,400 Speaker 1: So I actually met Lee M through Facebook. We had 892 00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:18,880 Speaker 1: a bunch of mutual friends. M and I thought it 893 00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:22,520 Speaker 1: was cute and we just kind of started chatting online 894 00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:26,520 Speaker 1: UM and then we take to their numbers and we 895 00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:30,040 Speaker 1: started to test and you know, a lot of that 896 00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:34,960 Speaker 1: just like chatting and texting UM for a while until 897 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,560 Speaker 1: we decided to actually made up and get drinks UM. 898 00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:40,440 Speaker 1: And I was just really excited that all kind of 899 00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:43,200 Speaker 1: seemed to be working out. UM. And we had an 900 00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:47,000 Speaker 1: amazing time on the day when we went to get drinks, 901 00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:50,000 Speaker 1: and then he never called me after he went completely silent. 902 00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,239 Speaker 1: I've heard a thousand theories on how they come up 903 00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,400 Speaker 1: with that people you might know thing. Usually for me, 904 00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:57,360 Speaker 1: it's people I once hooked up with that tends to 905 00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:00,840 Speaker 1: be that's what it should be called. And sometimes I 906 00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:03,759 Speaker 1: spare just to see what what I may have forgotten about. 907 00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:07,279 Speaker 1: But um, I people say has something to do with 908 00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:11,719 Speaker 1: the common numbers in your phone or common friends. I've 909 00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:13,560 Speaker 1: heard a lot of different things. But nonetheless, you found 910 00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:15,560 Speaker 1: this guy and you were excited to meet him, and 911 00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:17,839 Speaker 1: you had the great banter on on Facebook and then 912 00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:21,080 Speaker 1: you met and but now he's ghosting and that's frustrating 913 00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:24,040 Speaker 1: and you want to know what's up right, Yeah, okay, 914 00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:26,879 Speaker 1: well yeah, yeah, Well let's see if we can figure 915 00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:29,080 Speaker 1: it out for you. Sometimes you didn't do anything. Sometimes 916 00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:34,040 Speaker 1: you did something really uh insane and you just failed 917 00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:36,120 Speaker 1: to mention. But we'll find out in just a second, 918 00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:38,200 Speaker 1: can you hang on while we play a song You're 919 00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:40,600 Speaker 1: gonna hear what happens next. In Part two of waiting 920 00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:43,280 Speaker 1: by the phone after post Malone back in two minutes 921 00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:46,600 Speaker 1: on the Fred Show one out three five FoST malone 922 00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:49,640 Speaker 1: saw one out three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one 923 00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:53,520 Speaker 1: hit music station. It's the Fred Show. Christa. Yeah, all right, 924 00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:56,279 Speaker 1: let's call Lee. You guys, you connected on Facebook. You 925 00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:59,480 Speaker 1: didn't know each other, but you had common friends. You 926 00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:01,960 Speaker 1: message on there for a while, and then you go 927 00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:03,719 Speaker 1: on a date and you thought the date was great, 928 00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:05,960 Speaker 1: except now this dude is ghosting you and you want 929 00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:08,480 Speaker 1: us to try and help you find out why. Right, 930 00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:19,239 Speaker 1: all right, let's do it. Good luck? Thank you? Hello? Hi? 931 00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:23,480 Speaker 1: Is this Lee Yeah a league, Good morning Fred from 932 00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:25,279 Speaker 1: the Fred's Show The Whole Cruise Here one h three 933 00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:27,360 Speaker 1: five Kiss FM in Chicago. I have to tell you 934 00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:29,640 Speaker 1: that we are on the radio right now and I 935 00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:31,719 Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the calls, and okay 936 00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:35,680 Speaker 1: if we talk for a couple of minutes, sure, thank 937 00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:37,279 Speaker 1: you very much. I know it's a little bit weird, 938 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:40,239 Speaker 1: but um, we're calling on behalf of a woman named 939 00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:42,080 Speaker 1: Krista who reached out to us, said that you guys 940 00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:49,680 Speaker 1: connected on Facebook. Do you recall Krista and maybe a date? Yeah, 941 00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:52,279 Speaker 1: I love I love the uncomfortable last because that means 942 00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:56,120 Speaker 1: a good story is a ruett. Yeah, So what happened 943 00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:58,560 Speaker 1: with this woman? Because she actually describes to us a 944 00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:02,160 Speaker 1: really successful day, thought it went well. Um, really liked 945 00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,440 Speaker 1: you and expected to hear from you again, wanted to 946 00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:06,640 Speaker 1: see you again, and she says that you're ghosting. So 947 00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:11,399 Speaker 1: what's your side of the story. Huh? Well, uh, first 948 00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:13,920 Speaker 1: of all, thank you so much for the call. Um. Uh, 949 00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:18,360 Speaker 1: but you know, yeah, I mean so I Christ and 950 00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:21,879 Speaker 1: I didn't meet over Facebook. Um, very very great girl, 951 00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:26,839 Speaker 1: great smile, um, you know, really engaging. However, I gotta say, 952 00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:29,680 Speaker 1: you know, during our date, um, she kept trying to 953 00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:36,600 Speaker 1: sell me essential oil, and I just, you know, I 954 00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:38,680 Speaker 1: just would mention that, like, you know, I had an 955 00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:41,080 Speaker 1: analogy or a headache, and then she would just all 956 00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:43,399 Speaker 1: of a sudden start bringing up why had this one, 957 00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:45,560 Speaker 1: and and hey you should get this one, and you 958 00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:48,600 Speaker 1: know it's I mean, obviously she could clearly sell them 959 00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:51,960 Speaker 1: and it is maybe in one of those like pyramids, 960 00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:55,200 Speaker 1: and it was just like lyned on the inside with 961 00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:59,680 Speaker 1: various concoctions. Right, Okay, so the whole day you're saying 962 00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:01,960 Speaker 1: because of some kind of sales pitch, like everything you 963 00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:05,600 Speaker 1: brought up had a she had some sort of essential 964 00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:08,560 Speaker 1: oil solution for your problem and to the point where 965 00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:10,440 Speaker 1: she was asking you to buy it. Yeah. I mean 966 00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:13,719 Speaker 1: even if I like, there's something, she'd be like, oh, oh, well, 967 00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:16,920 Speaker 1: you know, try this one it's lemon, or try this 968 00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:19,600 Speaker 1: one it's lavender. I'm like what I mean, I'm just 969 00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:22,279 Speaker 1: trying to get to know you. I've known people like this. Um, 970 00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:25,160 Speaker 1: I forgot to mention that Christas here, I'm sorry, Christa. Uh, 971 00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:28,080 Speaker 1: what's the deal with the sales pitch? I mean, are 972 00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:30,040 Speaker 1: you going out with these guys to sell them oil? 973 00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:32,839 Speaker 1: Or are you say in her bag? Are you yeah? 974 00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:35,640 Speaker 1: Are you securing the bag? Or are you fumbling the bag? 975 00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:38,920 Speaker 1: It sounds like maybe a fumble. Well, no, this is 976 00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:42,200 Speaker 1: my job, like I have a I haven't my own 977 00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:46,680 Speaker 1: side hustle business where I sell essential oils. So like, 978 00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:48,680 Speaker 1: I mean, do you ever go on a date and 979 00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:51,239 Speaker 1: not talk about your job? Like it just it comes 980 00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:55,160 Speaker 1: up naturally in conversation. I'm really passionate about you know, 981 00:52:55,880 --> 00:53:00,080 Speaker 1: fealing through oils and natural remedies and you know, but 982 00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:01,759 Speaker 1: it sounds like it was all you talked about. Like 983 00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:03,799 Speaker 1: if I if every day I go on the whole time, 984 00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:06,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, did you listen to the radio? What about 985 00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:07,759 Speaker 1: the radio? What about the radio? What about I have 986 00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:10,479 Speaker 1: a radio show? About the radio? Do you have a radio? 987 00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:12,120 Speaker 1: Oh you don't have a radios? Fun you got the phone. 988 00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:13,800 Speaker 1: I have a radio, and you got that. Anyway, you 989 00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:16,520 Speaker 1: listen whatever. I mean, people would be like, dude, are 990 00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:19,200 Speaker 1: you you know what is this about? I don't think 991 00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:21,920 Speaker 1: I was that bad. I think he's exaggerating. I mean, 992 00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:24,360 Speaker 1: it's just something I'm passionate about. I mean, if you 993 00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,759 Speaker 1: guys wanted to try some of what I'm selling, I 994 00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:31,759 Speaker 1: couldn't you mention you you can't be your own boss. Yeah, 995 00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:35,040 Speaker 1: so you're about to sell me on some essentially. I mean, look, 996 00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:37,920 Speaker 1: it's your job, and I appreciate someone who's passionate about 997 00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:41,080 Speaker 1: um his or her job, But I mean I don't 998 00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:43,160 Speaker 1: care what you do. I feel like if you're on 999 00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:45,000 Speaker 1: a day with someone and that's all they talk about, 1000 00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:47,680 Speaker 1: especially if it involves me having to like spend money 1001 00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:51,080 Speaker 1: on you know, some side hustle. I mean I would wonder, 1002 00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:53,400 Speaker 1: then are you interested in me romantically? Or am I 1003 00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:58,960 Speaker 1: a customer? Rights? How I felt, of course you're not 1004 00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:02,040 Speaker 1: just a customer, Like I want someone who's going to 1005 00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:07,640 Speaker 1: support my business and what I'm doing. I don't have 1006 00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:11,879 Speaker 1: to get a subscription to oil dot com or yeah, 1007 00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:18,399 Speaker 1: the website oil oiled up dot com. Don't go there, don't. 1008 00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:21,600 Speaker 1: I don't know where that is. Don't go there. Okay, 1009 00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:24,800 Speaker 1: so you felt you felt like upon in this you know, 1010 00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:27,960 Speaker 1: sales game, and and you didn't like it. Lee, What 1011 00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:30,160 Speaker 1: if you misunderstood I mean, would you give her another chance? 1012 00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:32,600 Speaker 1: Maybe if you guys go out again, then you realize 1013 00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:34,680 Speaker 1: that she was just she was just telling you about 1014 00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:36,320 Speaker 1: what she did, and she it won't be like this 1015 00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:39,640 Speaker 1: every time. Well look, I mean, you know, you guys 1016 00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:41,279 Speaker 1: bring up a lot of good points. I mean, it 1017 00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:44,400 Speaker 1: was just it was just uncomfortable, kind of off of 1018 00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:47,520 Speaker 1: a whim thing, and it was very forceful. And I mean, 1019 00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:50,120 Speaker 1: you know, to me, a date is where you're the 1020 00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:53,920 Speaker 1: most vulnerable because you're you're opening yourself up and you're 1021 00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:57,160 Speaker 1: trying to get to know people. And you know, I mean, 1022 00:54:57,239 --> 00:55:00,239 Speaker 1: I wasn't I wasn't telling her about my insurance. I'm 1023 00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:02,600 Speaker 1: trying to sell her insurance the whole time I was 1024 00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:05,680 Speaker 1: talking to her about who I was, so you know, yeah, 1025 00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:07,120 Speaker 1: I mean it was just it was just kind of 1026 00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:09,960 Speaker 1: very okay of putting. And I understand that she has 1027 00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:13,000 Speaker 1: a huttel, but I would you know, encourage her to 1028 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:16,800 Speaker 1: you know, not mention that, uh, the next time we 1029 00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:19,839 Speaker 1: go out. You know, you stunded really anxious. You could 1030 00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:26,680 Speaker 1: probably use some lavender. I don't disagree. Maybe a nice diffuser. 1031 00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:30,239 Speaker 1: Do you sell it? Never mind? Um? I do. I'm sure. 1032 00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:33,000 Speaker 1: I'm sure you do like that stuff. Yeah, don't get 1033 00:55:33,040 --> 00:55:35,239 Speaker 1: her story. I'm surprised, Chris, that's going to be in 1034 00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:43,160 Speaker 1: your darky love. You want to be your own boss? Yeah, Cadillac. 1035 00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:48,280 Speaker 1: Everything I've said smells like I don't know what it smells. 1036 00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:53,920 Speaker 1: It smells like lemon grass. You got anything for the 1037 00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:56,719 Speaker 1: hell you guys have an amazing day. Good luck to you. 1038 00:55:56,760 --> 00:55:58,400 Speaker 1: I'm sorry it's not going to work out, Krista, but 1039 00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:00,480 Speaker 1: you know, maybe something to think about. Movie it forward? 1040 00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:03,880 Speaker 1: All right, I'll find someone who wants to support my huscle. 1041 00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:09,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, real interesting YouTube want to date them Caitlin 1042 00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:11,680 Speaker 1: has the Entertainment Report up next. Trending stories pulled the 1043 00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:13,960 Speaker 1: points to start you Tuesday on the Way as well 1044 00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:16,560 Speaker 1: on the French show Good Morning, Glad You're here. It's 1045 00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:22,480 Speaker 1: one h three five Ariata Kiss. The latest entertainment news 1046 00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:25,640 Speaker 1: is on the Fred Show. Jennifer Lopez signed a multi 1047 00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:29,400 Speaker 1: year deal first Our First Look deal with Netflix. Excuse me. 1048 00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:31,880 Speaker 1: Under the deal, Jlo will produce a slate of film 1049 00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:36,480 Speaker 1: and TV content bull scripted and unscripted that showcase diverse 1050 00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:40,160 Speaker 1: female actors, writers, and filmmakers. She's actually gonna start in 1051 00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:42,760 Speaker 1: two of the movies called The Mother and The Cipher, 1052 00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:46,680 Speaker 1: which have been previously announced by Netflix. Damn, Jalo's rich. 1053 00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:51,600 Speaker 1: She has just another what's just now coming to that conclusion? Well, 1054 00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:54,160 Speaker 1: it's just like she's already so rich and then now 1055 00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:56,920 Speaker 1: she just signed a multi year deal with Netflix for 1056 00:56:57,000 --> 00:57:00,120 Speaker 1: all these shows, Like just I don't even know how 1057 00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:03,839 Speaker 1: rich that is. Got it, man, it's rich rich, it's 1058 00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:06,680 Speaker 1: big rich. She's big rich. Got she got the bag secured. 1059 00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:12,040 Speaker 1: Oh damn, this is secured. Um So, Paulina, what are 1060 00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:14,040 Speaker 1: you doing next year? Because I have plans for us 1061 00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:18,160 Speaker 1: okay show having a lot of parties, a lot of 1062 00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:20,240 Speaker 1: surprise parties for myself. Well, somewhere else that we can 1063 00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:23,040 Speaker 1: go that we will not invite anyone else. It's going 1064 00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:27,120 Speaker 1: to be a Friend's themed cruise. You're good next year 1065 00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:32,320 Speaker 1: you were invited. Definitely busy. I'm definitely busy for that taste. 1066 00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:34,440 Speaker 1: You can't pick and choose what you want to be 1067 00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:37,000 Speaker 1: invited to anyways. The cruise will take place from May 1068 00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:40,520 Speaker 1: fifteenth to the twenty first next year on the ship's 1069 00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:43,800 Speaker 1: celebrity Equinox. We're gonna leave from Florida and then we're 1070 00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:46,880 Speaker 1: gonna stop and que Us Grand cam In and Cosmo Mexico. 1071 00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:50,280 Speaker 1: Lots that sound for you. Any friends characters or cast 1072 00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:52,400 Speaker 1: member is going to be on this cruise, maybe five 1073 00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:55,800 Speaker 1: hundred of us we'll be there at this getaway. Oh 1074 00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:58,280 Speaker 1: my god. It's going to be complete with a themed 1075 00:57:58,520 --> 00:58:02,160 Speaker 1: costume contest, a game, and more fun activities. And are 1076 00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:05,120 Speaker 1: you there, Klin, I know, I think Hanji Win, I 1077 00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:07,640 Speaker 1: can't remember. The Friends trivia was, Yeah, we went to 1078 00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:12,800 Speaker 1: Oh you guys had seld Seinfeldt Trivia and that that was. 1079 00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:16,280 Speaker 1: It's hard because you think, like you think you know 1080 00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:18,240 Speaker 1: a lot about something until you go to one of 1081 00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:21,000 Speaker 1: those cruises, and if they had trivia, you would realize. 1082 00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:23,560 Speaker 1: Like when I went to Crime Con and people I 1083 00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:26,120 Speaker 1: thought I was like the biggest date line NBC fan. 1084 00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:28,080 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no no. People can tell you 1085 00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:31,840 Speaker 1: the episode number and what they yeah, oh oh that 1086 00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:35,560 Speaker 1: one that was Murder on a Misty River, episode number 1087 00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:40,680 Speaker 1: four thirteen, And that's that's what I'm Well, I can 1088 00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:42,800 Speaker 1: my own during the I've done the trivia. I can 1089 00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:45,000 Speaker 1: hold my own. I'm like a weird like I always 1090 00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:47,240 Speaker 1: have it on. I know, weird stuff like colors of 1091 00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:50,880 Speaker 1: shirts and episode numbers, like I think I could do it. Well. 1092 00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:54,080 Speaker 1: Was their apartment number? What was They changed it halfway 1093 00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:57,480 Speaker 1: through the season? Yeah, they did? What was it? It was? 1094 00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:02,840 Speaker 1: What was right? They change it? No, they change it. 1095 00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:05,120 Speaker 1: It was a big thing four eight or something. They 1096 00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:08,600 Speaker 1: also removed the pole. There was a poll that party saw. 1097 00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:10,840 Speaker 1: I'm just telling you that if you think you know 1098 00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:13,600 Speaker 1: a lot about something, there's some freakazoid out there that 1099 00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:17,480 Speaker 1: was way more than you. Yeah. That's always it's weird. 1100 00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:20,560 Speaker 1: It's like, how how do you know that? But anyway, 1101 00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:24,880 Speaker 1: no time but to watch all the time, I don't 1102 00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:27,880 Speaker 1: know all the time. If you use that knowledge to 1103 00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:30,080 Speaker 1: for something for good, Like if you were able to 1104 00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:32,360 Speaker 1: store all that information in your mind for curing cancer, 1105 00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:34,280 Speaker 1: maybe we'd have a cure for cancer. And instead you 1106 00:59:34,320 --> 00:59:38,959 Speaker 1: can tell me everything. Every single producer credit on every 1107 00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:42,440 Speaker 1: episode of Dayline. I'm like, good, Lord, David Kane, Marta Kaufman, 1108 00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:45,560 Speaker 1: I got you. Let's do the train. Okay, well you 1109 00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:48,400 Speaker 1: can do it so anyway. So the I Love the 1110 00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:51,960 Speaker 1: Nineties Tour is returning this summer with Headline or Vanilla Ice. Okay, 1111 00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:55,120 Speaker 1: all right. There will also be a revolving lineup including 1112 00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:59,040 Speaker 1: Rob Base, yet In Play, Naughty by Nature, Coolio, Young 1113 00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:03,600 Speaker 1: mc all for one, C and C Music Factory featuring Freedom, Williams, 1114 01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:07,000 Speaker 1: Tone Look Sir, Mix a Lot, and Tag Team. What yeah, 1115 01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:12,080 Speaker 1: my son? Sure? These are all the music videos you 1116 01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:15,680 Speaker 1: watch every day? Vanilla Ice, tag Team. Oh, I'm taking 1117 01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:17,560 Speaker 1: Ashe to this store right now. No, they're not going 1118 01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:19,880 Speaker 1: to be on this is this is a concert I 1119 01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:22,480 Speaker 1: Love the Nineties. Oh, I'm like, I'm going on the 1120 01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:26,640 Speaker 1: French That would be wild. No, this is just a 1121 01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:29,160 Speaker 1: concert you can go. It's gonna kick off on August 1122 01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:32,640 Speaker 1: twelfth in Indiana and run through seven cities. More dates 1123 01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:35,640 Speaker 1: will be announced soon and tickets we can buy on Friday, 1124 01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:38,520 Speaker 1: so if you want to go, we can go more 1125 01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:41,280 Speaker 1: to check out online today Scott Dissick, did you see 1126 01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:47,560 Speaker 1: the photo girlfriend? Well, Lisarna's daughter. Damn, I feel weird. 1127 01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:49,800 Speaker 1: I mean talking about a nineteen year old like that, 1128 01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:52,880 Speaker 1: but she looks good. It's still feels really weird that 1129 01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:57,040 Speaker 1: they're dating. Also, m Rada is feature facing backlash over 1130 01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:59,280 Speaker 1: the way she's holding her baby. If you want to 1131 01:00:59,280 --> 01:01:01,920 Speaker 1: see that sound Radio dot Com. Um, we'll get to 1132 01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:04,720 Speaker 1: trending stories and just a second blogs coming up as well. 1133 01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:08,480 Speaker 1: Pride in the Park tickets got those two. Um, but 1134 01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:11,520 Speaker 1: this is from last week and we didn't get to it. 1135 01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:14,520 Speaker 1: But Paulina's birthday was last week and I think you 1136 01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:20,160 Speaker 1: shared she had a party that shouldn't Yeah, she had 1137 01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:22,280 Speaker 1: this this party and then you know it had a 1138 01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:27,280 Speaker 1: lot of people, their family and been close friend three 1139 01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:29,440 Speaker 1: quarters of the show. But anyway, UM, that's not what 1140 01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:32,280 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. You were given a very generous gift 1141 01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:36,120 Speaker 1: by jab your boyfriend. Um, it was a handbag, right, Yes, 1142 01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:40,160 Speaker 1: it was a very beautiful handbag. I mean this handbag 1143 01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:43,920 Speaker 1: probably costs like three of my paychecks. Well, what should 1144 01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:46,400 Speaker 1: I call it? It was a person person. I don't know. 1145 01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:48,320 Speaker 1: I just haven't heard the word handbag in a while. 1146 01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:52,160 Speaker 1: Do you say blouse and slacks? I think wherever she 1147 01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:54,440 Speaker 1: wherever he bought that, they call it a hand they 1148 01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:58,360 Speaker 1: call it a handbag. Fancy. Well I'm not either, but 1149 01:01:58,840 --> 01:02:01,760 Speaker 1: um anyway, So he gives you a very expensive gift, 1150 01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:05,880 Speaker 1: and and so I asked you if you feel any 1151 01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:10,520 Speaker 1: pressure now wet for his birthday. Isn't his birthday coming 1152 01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:14,200 Speaker 1: up to It's July thirtieth year, Okay, do you feel 1153 01:02:14,280 --> 01:02:18,520 Speaker 1: the pressure to buy him a gift of similar or 1154 01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:22,120 Speaker 1: equal value? I do, and not because of what he 1155 01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:24,200 Speaker 1: did for me, because I like doing nice things for him. 1156 01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:25,840 Speaker 1: I mean, he did so much for me this whole 1157 01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:27,880 Speaker 1: weekend and my birthday even took me out of the 1158 01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:30,600 Speaker 1: signature room. So he really went above and beyond for 1159 01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:32,800 Speaker 1: my birthday. And then this gift, I mean, it was 1160 01:02:32,840 --> 01:02:34,760 Speaker 1: a hefty price tag. I don't know even know how 1161 01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:36,479 Speaker 1: much it was, but I know it's not a cheap person, 1162 01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:38,000 Speaker 1: you know, something that I would have maybe got on 1163 01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:40,720 Speaker 1: our like ten year anniversary or something like that. And 1164 01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:42,960 Speaker 1: I was just shocked to even see this, and he 1165 01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:45,680 Speaker 1: knew I wanted it, which I thought was so sweet. 1166 01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:47,400 Speaker 1: But now I feel like, well, I want to get 1167 01:02:47,440 --> 01:02:49,480 Speaker 1: you something you like, and yes, okay, my boyfriend is 1168 01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:52,720 Speaker 1: boogie and I'm not. So it's a very awkward dynamic 1169 01:02:52,840 --> 01:02:54,920 Speaker 1: that we have going on because I love the Dollar 1170 01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:57,600 Speaker 1: Store and he loves I don't know, the Apple Store. 1171 01:02:57,640 --> 01:02:59,600 Speaker 1: It's very different, you know what I mean. So I 1172 01:02:59,640 --> 01:03:01,400 Speaker 1: don't like I feel like I want to make him 1173 01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:04,400 Speaker 1: happy too, so I want to get him something nice. Um. 1174 01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:06,360 Speaker 1: I do feel a little pressure, I'll say that. And 1175 01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:08,760 Speaker 1: he didn't apply this pressure on me. I just want 1176 01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:10,240 Speaker 1: to do it because I love him, and I also 1177 01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:12,440 Speaker 1: want to like shower him with gifts too, you know. 1178 01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:14,880 Speaker 1: But then you guys were saying that it doesn't have 1179 01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:17,120 Speaker 1: to even be like that, y'all, you know, and that's true. 1180 01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:19,080 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think it does. But I'm curious 1181 01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:22,919 Speaker 1: five nine, one, one three five for those in relationships 1182 01:03:23,120 --> 01:03:27,120 Speaker 1: when you get a really expensive gift from your significant other, 1183 01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:30,160 Speaker 1: is there any part of you there has to in 1184 01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:32,680 Speaker 1: the back of your mind that goes, I can't. I 1185 01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:37,800 Speaker 1: can't just give you like a sucked, you know, for 1186 01:03:37,920 --> 01:03:40,240 Speaker 1: your birthday? Or whatever. I can't, like, I gotta come 1187 01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:42,960 Speaker 1: up with something, you know, even even if it's not 1188 01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:45,120 Speaker 1: the way that it's supposed to be, Because yeah, when 1189 01:03:45,160 --> 01:03:48,040 Speaker 1: it comes to gifts giving, it shouldn't necessarily have to 1190 01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:50,080 Speaker 1: be equal all the time. But you know, if you 1191 01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:53,920 Speaker 1: get a really expensive bag for your birthday and then 1192 01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:57,600 Speaker 1: you go get him something far less expensive or far 1193 01:03:57,720 --> 01:04:00,480 Speaker 1: less in value, is do you think you think in 1194 01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:02,720 Speaker 1: the back of like in the back of your mind 1195 01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:05,080 Speaker 1: when you buy an expensive gift for somebody that you love, 1196 01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:08,120 Speaker 1: are you kind of hoping like, yeah, maybe I'll maybe 1197 01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:10,080 Speaker 1: it'll come back to me, you know, like maybe I'm 1198 01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:12,720 Speaker 1: studding the gift giving bar, you know what I mean, 1199 01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:14,880 Speaker 1: Like I'm sting high. Yeah, I get what you're saying. 1200 01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:16,960 Speaker 1: I don't think he thinks that way. But also it's 1201 01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:19,800 Speaker 1: his thirtieth, which I think is a pretty big birthday. 1202 01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:22,640 Speaker 1: It is, Yeah, so I definitely wanted it that first 1203 01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:25,120 Speaker 1: birthday together where we're a couple. I think together of 1204 01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:27,240 Speaker 1: time plays into it as well that you've been dating 1205 01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:29,640 Speaker 1: so and I also don't think it has to be equal. 1206 01:04:29,920 --> 01:04:32,480 Speaker 1: What I can tell you right now, that's not how 1207 01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:34,959 Speaker 1: my wife thinks that all I think the guy should 1208 01:04:35,000 --> 01:04:38,800 Speaker 1: always buy the gifts. I bought my wife a Louis 1209 01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:43,240 Speaker 1: Vatan okay, bag whatever. I just told you not to 1210 01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:46,000 Speaker 1: say this. Oh she already knows. We've already had this discussion. 1211 01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:48,880 Speaker 1: Well I understand, but I would hear I've bought her. 1212 01:04:49,080 --> 01:04:52,880 Speaker 1: She's actually got two Louis eggs. Okay, interesting as she 1213 01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:55,680 Speaker 1: deserves she pops out your right. One was a push president. 1214 01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:57,840 Speaker 1: The other one was a a she just deals with you, 1215 01:04:57,960 --> 01:05:01,720 Speaker 1: doesn't use either bag b I got a T shirt 1216 01:05:01,760 --> 01:05:07,240 Speaker 1: for my birthday. Oh my goodness. And what the funny 1217 01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:09,480 Speaker 1: thing is is that she complains then I got too 1218 01:05:09,520 --> 01:05:11,280 Speaker 1: many shirts and she gives me a T shirt for 1219 01:05:11,360 --> 01:05:15,439 Speaker 1: my birthday. Oh boy, did you special? No, I don't 1220 01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:17,800 Speaker 1: expect it. Like our our our pace skills are a 1221 01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:20,560 Speaker 1: lot different, like whatever. Like I pay a lot of 1222 01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:22,280 Speaker 1: the bills. I make more money than she does, but 1223 01:05:22,600 --> 01:05:25,680 Speaker 1: I don't expect it. But it's she does a lot 1224 01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:29,720 Speaker 1: more work than you do. Right, she takes no one. 1225 01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:32,439 Speaker 1: No one's talking about deserve here. It's just a matter 1226 01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:36,040 Speaker 1: of it's a matter of like if if you receive 1227 01:05:36,240 --> 01:05:38,320 Speaker 1: the gift. Correct in the back of your mind, are 1228 01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:41,040 Speaker 1: you thinking I better do something commensurate or if you 1229 01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:43,920 Speaker 1: give the gift, are you thinking I really hope I 1230 01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:47,840 Speaker 1: get something commensurate. Uh, Chrissy is here, Hi Chrissy, good morning. 1231 01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:54,560 Speaker 1: Twin name that's that's Chrissy and you're Christie. So twin 1232 01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:59,280 Speaker 1: destroy this relationship we have? So, Chrissy, what's to do? 1233 01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:01,840 Speaker 1: You're in the same as Paulina. You you received an 1234 01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:04,480 Speaker 1: expensive gift and now you're debating whether you have to 1235 01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:08,640 Speaker 1: give one. Our boyfriends are exactly the same. Like, he's 1236 01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:16,040 Speaker 1: got the chains and he's got what's his name? Hold on, 1237 01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:20,480 Speaker 1: is he a firefighter? Did he give did he give 1238 01:06:20,480 --> 01:06:23,760 Speaker 1: you an expensive bag for your birthday? You know he 1239 01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:29,120 Speaker 1: got me a seven hundred dollar Cups tickets? Oh your boyfriend, Paulina? 1240 01:06:29,200 --> 01:06:31,440 Speaker 1: How you put that out? There's just two chains. That's 1241 01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:32,960 Speaker 1: definitely not my boyfriend because I wouldn't go to a 1242 01:06:33,000 --> 01:06:35,919 Speaker 1: Cubs game. Yeah, he's taking his girlfriend that one Cubs game. 1243 01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:41,439 Speaker 1: The side piece, UF, the side piece, Paulina. He better 1244 01:06:41,440 --> 01:06:44,880 Speaker 1: start hearing for the Cubs anyway. Okay, all right, guys, So, um, 1245 01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:47,640 Speaker 1: what are you gonna do? You got expensive Cubs tickets? 1246 01:06:47,720 --> 01:06:49,640 Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? All the way to even 1247 01:06:49,720 --> 01:06:54,920 Speaker 1: this out the bedroom is if Lil Wayne has a 1248 01:06:55,040 --> 01:06:59,480 Speaker 1: concert in October, that's the only way, Like, what was 1249 01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:02,280 Speaker 1: he gonna do? Well? No, then you buy because he's 1250 01:07:02,680 --> 01:07:06,920 Speaker 1: a little Wayne fan. Yeah, okay, you don't. You don't 1251 01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:10,040 Speaker 1: necessarily so you do feel the pressure then too, give 1252 01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:14,600 Speaker 1: her something equal. See it's tricky, all right, Thank you, Chrissy, 1253 01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:17,640 Speaker 1: have a good day. Thank you, glad you called. Hey, Bree, 1254 01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:22,640 Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning him. So Paulina got a really 1255 01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:25,240 Speaker 1: bougie gift for her birthday, and so what we're all 1256 01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:29,240 Speaker 1: asking ourselves is, uh, does she have to buy hommy 1257 01:07:29,360 --> 01:07:32,840 Speaker 1: a really bougie gift for his birthday, which is about 1258 01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:36,840 Speaker 1: three weeks away? I think when it comes to because 1259 01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:38,920 Speaker 1: she said that it would take three of her paychecks. 1260 01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:43,840 Speaker 1: When when I was in a relationship my boyfriend at 1261 01:07:43,880 --> 01:07:46,120 Speaker 1: the time, it gotten me a handbag and it was 1262 01:07:46,280 --> 01:07:49,480 Speaker 1: way more than I could afford. But I did something 1263 01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:52,080 Speaker 1: of equal value when it came to thought, Like, I 1264 01:07:52,160 --> 01:07:55,360 Speaker 1: knew he loved watches, and I knew he loves shoes, 1265 01:07:55,560 --> 01:07:59,000 Speaker 1: so I got a personalized watchbox made, and then I 1266 01:07:59,080 --> 01:08:01,000 Speaker 1: got him some good thing. Doesn't you know what they 1267 01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:04,680 Speaker 1: think about it afterwards? They're not technically thinking about price, right, 1268 01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:06,920 Speaker 1: they're thinking about how you make them feel. So I 1269 01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:09,919 Speaker 1: don't think I like it. I like him. That's good, 1270 01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:14,840 Speaker 1: Thank you, Bree, have a good day. No, I like it. 1271 01:08:14,960 --> 01:08:18,760 Speaker 1: That's good. I mean, but it makes sure you're thoughtful though. 1272 01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:21,599 Speaker 1: I mean, don't you know you can't skimp on this pola. 1273 01:08:21,720 --> 01:08:23,160 Speaker 1: You can't write it the day off. You know what 1274 01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:25,240 Speaker 1: I'm saying. You got it? I mean we need advanced notice, 1275 01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:27,720 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Yeah. Historically I'm known for 1276 01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:30,679 Speaker 1: giving I call them great gifts, like give parts in cash. 1277 01:08:30,800 --> 01:08:32,800 Speaker 1: But people know what you call them. I do. They're 1278 01:08:32,800 --> 01:08:35,000 Speaker 1: amazing gifts. But I think I've been made fun of 1279 01:08:35,080 --> 01:08:36,599 Speaker 1: for that because it's not a lot of thought put 1280 01:08:36,680 --> 01:08:38,880 Speaker 1: into it. It's not really thoughtful. You can't do that. 1281 01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:41,000 Speaker 1: And it's his thirty, Yeah, just thirt getting candles and 1282 01:08:41,080 --> 01:08:44,240 Speaker 1: liquor because that's your favorite. I know. Yeah, he doesn't 1283 01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:46,960 Speaker 1: want to give liquor anymore. If you give this man 1284 01:08:47,080 --> 01:08:52,120 Speaker 1: Jack Daniels's, it's a seven eight juice Clintons from Squeeze. Yeah, 1285 01:08:53,040 --> 01:09:01,000 Speaker 1: now wait a minute. The benefits eliminating bloats and I 1286 01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:11,400 Speaker 1: mean more energy for that shade slapping the French show 1287 01:09:11,439 --> 01:09:14,160 Speaker 1: one or three five Kiss FM, Chicago number one hit 1288 01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:19,880 Speaker 1: music station. That's just handing from Kaitlin's phone. Rufio's wife 1289 01:09:20,040 --> 01:09:23,920 Speaker 1: just has sent a text and it says, um, she 1290 01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:26,479 Speaker 1: just wanted to know if he was trying to die. 1291 01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:29,040 Speaker 1: And my advice to him was just maybe, you know, 1292 01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:31,439 Speaker 1: let her cool off, don't go home today, maybe find 1293 01:09:31,479 --> 01:09:35,320 Speaker 1: somewhere else to stay. Would say, you can come to 1294 01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:38,680 Speaker 1: my house, not my boyfriend's parents, but my house. You 1295 01:09:38,800 --> 01:09:40,640 Speaker 1: need to go down a CVS. You need to get 1296 01:09:40,680 --> 01:09:43,320 Speaker 1: some lysul clean off the black couch in the in 1297 01:09:43,400 --> 01:09:45,240 Speaker 1: the break room, and I think that's what you'll be 1298 01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:47,960 Speaker 1: living for a while. I'd rather just sleep in my car. 1299 01:09:48,800 --> 01:09:51,960 Speaker 1: I think you should. Other people have used that as 1300 01:09:51,960 --> 01:09:55,559 Speaker 1: their apartment. Why can't you the exact reason why will 1301 01:09:55,640 --> 01:10:03,200 Speaker 1: not put on that couch? Sney you intro job. Let 1302 01:10:03,280 --> 01:10:09,679 Speaker 1: me see vaccines, Jeff Bezo's Apple, Floyd Mayweather controversy, Lebron James, 1303 01:10:09,760 --> 01:10:13,280 Speaker 1: everybody hates him. I'll tell you why. It's something called prophy, 1304 01:10:14,720 --> 01:10:16,280 Speaker 1: which is I don't know about this, but it's a 1305 01:10:16,360 --> 01:10:18,160 Speaker 1: TikTok trend. I'll tell you about that in What's Trending 1306 01:10:18,160 --> 01:10:22,600 Speaker 1: in blogs show. It's the Threat Show on one three fives. 1307 01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:31,960 Speaker 1: This is what's trending. Nothing is trending. Scared, I guess 1308 01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:36,479 Speaker 1: to talk. Hi, there are no trends at the table again? 1309 01:10:36,800 --> 01:10:39,400 Speaker 1: Stop hiding? Am I am? I into the table? Hello? 1310 01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:43,400 Speaker 1: Can you hear me now? Yeah? Turn the mic on 1311 01:10:44,360 --> 01:10:47,880 Speaker 1: so now it works? Yeah, you're good. Well thanks Rufi. 1312 01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:49,880 Speaker 1: What did Rufio decided he didn't want me to talk 1313 01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:52,000 Speaker 1: or something? Is because I you know, he got jealous. 1314 01:10:52,200 --> 01:10:55,120 Speaker 1: I pushed the wrong button. Sorry, my bad. I see 1315 01:10:55,400 --> 01:10:57,680 Speaker 1: because I Rufio pushed the button sometimes. And now I'm 1316 01:10:57,720 --> 01:10:59,600 Speaker 1: starting to figure out, you know, he's trying to bury me, 1317 01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:02,240 Speaker 1: trying to bury my career single handedly. Like when your 1318 01:11:02,320 --> 01:11:03,640 Speaker 1: kid wants to drive and you put them on your 1319 01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:05,680 Speaker 1: lap and you just let them do it. That's what's 1320 01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:08,040 Speaker 1: happening with Rufie and Fred. He just puts Ruffie on 1321 01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:11,960 Speaker 1: his lap and let's impress the button sun times. Rufie's 1322 01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:16,760 Speaker 1: push a lot of Today on my lap. But I 1323 01:11:16,840 --> 01:11:18,719 Speaker 1: don't I don't think that's something we should talk about 1324 01:11:18,720 --> 01:11:20,760 Speaker 1: on the radio. All right, get out from under the table. 1325 01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:26,320 Speaker 1: What's trend name? I'm glad. I'm glad you thought that 1326 01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:31,960 Speaker 1: was funny. Christy. Um, yeah, so it's very funny. She's 1327 01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:34,759 Speaker 1: so funny. It's fine. Oh I thought she was lasting 1328 01:11:34,800 --> 01:11:39,479 Speaker 1: at herself. So the majority of Americans who are not 1329 01:11:39,680 --> 01:11:42,800 Speaker 1: planning on getting vaccinated against the coronavirus are unlikely to 1330 01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:45,160 Speaker 1: change their minds. Researchers found the twenty four percent of 1331 01:11:45,160 --> 01:11:47,880 Speaker 1: adults in the US don't plan on getting vaccinated, and 1332 01:11:48,040 --> 01:11:51,560 Speaker 1: of those people, seventy eight percent say they're unlikely to 1333 01:11:51,720 --> 01:11:54,400 Speaker 1: change their mind. They're not gonna do it. They don't 1334 01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:56,320 Speaker 1: think they need it. So I'm sure we all know 1335 01:11:56,400 --> 01:11:59,200 Speaker 1: one of those people who believes that it's some sort 1336 01:11:59,240 --> 01:12:03,000 Speaker 1: of a conspiracy or that it's microchipping or whatever, but 1337 01:12:03,120 --> 01:12:07,360 Speaker 1: yet they still carry a phone in their pockets which 1338 01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:09,600 Speaker 1: could be tracking their every movement if they felt like it, 1339 01:12:10,000 --> 01:12:11,960 Speaker 1: or if it felt like it um or actually it 1340 01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:14,240 Speaker 1: is anyway without you even knowing it and listening to you. 1341 01:12:14,320 --> 01:12:16,000 Speaker 1: By the way, your phone is listening to you because 1342 01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:18,240 Speaker 1: all you have to do is say out loud that 1343 01:12:18,280 --> 01:12:20,439 Speaker 1: you want something, and then you'll get ads for like 1344 01:12:20,520 --> 01:12:23,200 Speaker 1: the next six years on your phone for that thing 1345 01:12:23,280 --> 01:12:25,639 Speaker 1: that you said you wanted that you never even googled, 1346 01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:32,040 Speaker 1: you know, it's been ring engagement, ring, engagement, ring. You're welcome, ladies. Yeah, yeah, 1347 01:12:32,080 --> 01:12:33,360 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think he'll be getting one of 1348 01:12:33,400 --> 01:12:44,600 Speaker 1: those BMW BMW private jet island in the boat, A 1349 01:12:44,960 --> 01:12:48,880 Speaker 1: man with a boat. Um. Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos is 1350 01:12:48,880 --> 01:12:51,360 Speaker 1: heading to space. On Instagram, he wrote, ever since I 1351 01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:53,519 Speaker 1: was five years old, I've dreamed of traveling to space. 1352 01:12:53,600 --> 01:12:55,479 Speaker 1: On July twentieth, I'm going to take the journey with 1353 01:12:55,600 --> 01:12:59,519 Speaker 1: my brother, the greatest adventure with my best friend. UM. 1354 01:12:59,720 --> 01:13:02,719 Speaker 1: He will be on Blue Origins first man's space flight 1355 01:13:03,280 --> 01:13:05,920 Speaker 1: on the new Shepherd Rocket, along with at least one 1356 01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:08,160 Speaker 1: other passenger in a seat that's being auctioned off to 1357 01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:10,560 Speaker 1: the highest bidder. As of last night, that seat was 1358 01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:14,400 Speaker 1: going for three million dollars. So one of the way 1359 01:13:14,439 --> 01:13:16,360 Speaker 1: I think you think he used. The richest man on 1360 01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:19,040 Speaker 1: Earth is going to space. Why, because that's that's the 1361 01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:22,880 Speaker 1: rich person accessory is a spaceship, Now a yacht? No 1362 01:13:23,439 --> 01:13:26,840 Speaker 1: private jet? No, you gotta have a spaceship if you're 1363 01:13:26,880 --> 01:13:30,040 Speaker 1: super rich. That's what you need. Apple's wallet app will 1364 01:13:30,080 --> 01:13:32,920 Speaker 1: soon allow users to store their driver's license. The ID 1365 01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:36,000 Speaker 1: will be encrypted and stored in the same secure element 1366 01:13:36,080 --> 01:13:40,240 Speaker 1: as users credit cards, transit passes, and airline boarding passes. 1367 01:13:40,320 --> 01:13:43,120 Speaker 1: As part of a pending partnership with the TSA, users 1368 01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:47,280 Speaker 1: will be able to use their iPhones as identification at 1369 01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:51,240 Speaker 1: identification at some airport security checkpoints, so you won't have 1370 01:13:51,280 --> 01:13:53,960 Speaker 1: to pull it out, you'll just use that same phone 1371 01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:58,439 Speaker 1: that's tracking you to scanning with TSA. Many are saying 1372 01:13:58,520 --> 01:14:01,519 Speaker 1: that the Floyd Mayweather and Logan Paul fight was fixed 1373 01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:05,639 Speaker 1: after videos shows Mayweather holding up Paul. The video shows 1374 01:14:05,720 --> 01:14:09,280 Speaker 1: Paul lunging at Mayweather and missing, and the boxing champ 1375 01:14:09,479 --> 01:14:12,200 Speaker 1: countered with a swift punch to the side of the 1376 01:14:12,240 --> 01:14:16,360 Speaker 1: YouTube star's head. After they hit connected, Paul appeared to 1377 01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:18,960 Speaker 1: go limp. Instead of letting him fall, Mayweather appeared to 1378 01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:21,800 Speaker 1: hold him up off the floor, preventing a knockdown or 1379 01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:25,680 Speaker 1: a knock out. Why Well, because Mayweather was paid not 1380 01:14:26,439 --> 01:14:31,559 Speaker 1: to knockout Paul, part of the speculation, and he bet 1381 01:14:31,680 --> 01:14:34,519 Speaker 1: on himself to be like, there's not gonna be in 1382 01:14:34,520 --> 01:14:37,040 Speaker 1: any knockout. There's not gonna be knockdowns. This thing's gonna 1383 01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:39,000 Speaker 1: go to distance. So he bet on himself for that 1384 01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:42,479 Speaker 1: fight to go the whole distance. And so yeah, there's 1385 01:14:42,479 --> 01:14:45,519 Speaker 1: a lot. I mean, I felt every one of those 1386 01:14:45,560 --> 01:14:49,080 Speaker 1: fights from the Paul Brothers has been staged or fixed 1387 01:14:49,080 --> 01:14:51,240 Speaker 1: in some way just to build a hide, because they're 1388 01:14:51,280 --> 01:14:53,400 Speaker 1: getting the guys that they're fighting are getting paid a 1389 01:14:53,439 --> 01:14:57,040 Speaker 1: lot of money, and you know, the whoever the Paul 1390 01:14:57,080 --> 01:14:59,000 Speaker 1: Brothers are backing them are the ones paying it. So 1391 01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:02,120 Speaker 1: you know, I feel like they're the ones like, hey, 1392 01:15:02,640 --> 01:15:04,960 Speaker 1: you fight me, You're gonna lose, but you're gonna get paid, 1393 01:15:05,040 --> 01:15:08,040 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And obviously Floyd's not gonna lose. 1394 01:15:08,280 --> 01:15:12,799 Speaker 1: He's not gonna take an l No. I've been rewatching 1395 01:15:12,880 --> 01:15:15,560 Speaker 1: billions that show on Showtime, and I was trying to 1396 01:15:15,560 --> 01:15:18,479 Speaker 1: figure out why Sunday night the app kept crashing, and 1397 01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:20,280 Speaker 1: it was because everyone was on there trying to watch 1398 01:15:20,360 --> 01:15:21,960 Speaker 1: this fight, and I guess a bunch of people were 1399 01:15:21,960 --> 01:15:24,120 Speaker 1: not able to see it. And so there's a class 1400 01:15:24,160 --> 01:15:27,040 Speaker 1: action lawsuit being filed as well for all the people 1401 01:15:27,040 --> 01:15:30,519 Speaker 1: who weren't able to watch this stupid fight. So that's gonna, 1402 01:15:30,640 --> 01:15:32,840 Speaker 1: you know, clog up the legal system. So there's that. 1403 01:15:33,640 --> 01:15:36,120 Speaker 1: Los Angeles Lakers star Lebron James is the most hated 1404 01:15:36,160 --> 01:15:39,639 Speaker 1: player in the NBA, according to Twitter Sports Insider looked 1405 01:15:39,640 --> 01:15:42,439 Speaker 1: at Twitter data over the past month, seventy thousand tweets, 1406 01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:47,080 Speaker 1: hashtags direct keyword phrases about disliking NBA players in each state. 1407 01:15:47,439 --> 01:15:50,639 Speaker 1: Lebron was the most hated player in twenty four states, 1408 01:15:50,680 --> 01:15:53,760 Speaker 1: followed by Brooklyn Nets guard Kyrie Irving, who was the 1409 01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:57,400 Speaker 1: most hated player in eighteen states. James Hardney Kevin Durant 1410 01:15:57,479 --> 01:16:03,360 Speaker 1: tied for third with three states each the most hated players. 1411 01:16:03,400 --> 01:16:07,040 Speaker 1: And did you see that? Tom? I didn't verify that 1412 01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:09,920 Speaker 1: this was a real quote, but apparently Jordan commented on 1413 01:16:10,760 --> 01:16:12,000 Speaker 1: I want to look this up and see if it 1414 01:16:12,040 --> 01:16:14,920 Speaker 1: was a real quote. Supposedly, Michael Jordan commented on Lebron 1415 01:16:15,080 --> 01:16:17,920 Speaker 1: James losing to the Suns in Round one by thirty 1416 01:16:18,000 --> 01:16:20,800 Speaker 1: points um as something to the effect of the real 1417 01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:23,600 Speaker 1: goat never would have had that or something like that. 1418 01:16:24,720 --> 01:16:30,960 Speaker 1: Lebron alone, he is a little baby. You're right, he's 1419 01:16:31,000 --> 01:16:34,200 Speaker 1: a little baby. Boy. He is a baby. I'm trying 1420 01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:36,240 Speaker 1: to see if that's a real quote. But it was 1421 01:16:36,439 --> 01:16:39,640 Speaker 1: meaned the other day, so I wasn't sure if it 1422 01:16:39,800 --> 01:16:41,680 Speaker 1: was if it was real or somebody made it up. 1423 01:16:41,720 --> 01:16:43,760 Speaker 1: But supposedly he made some comment about how that never 1424 01:16:43,800 --> 01:16:49,639 Speaker 1: would have happened to him, so and wow, yeah, um, 1425 01:16:50,040 --> 01:16:53,439 Speaker 1: let's see your pro a profee. It's being called is 1426 01:16:53,439 --> 01:16:56,320 Speaker 1: the latest TikTok trend, but health experts say it does 1427 01:16:56,400 --> 01:16:59,320 Speaker 1: more harm than good. Prophy is protein mixed with coffee, 1428 01:16:59,760 --> 01:17:03,240 Speaker 1: so muses on TikTok have posted videos of their own methods. 1429 01:17:03,320 --> 01:17:06,519 Speaker 1: Recipes include getting a Starbucks espresso in a large cup 1430 01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:09,320 Speaker 1: of ice and then pouring in a flavored protein shake. 1431 01:17:09,400 --> 01:17:13,160 Speaker 1: I've been just tout benefits as weight loss. They call 1432 01:17:13,240 --> 01:17:17,160 Speaker 1: it healthy, but doctors say the consuming excess amount of 1433 01:17:17,200 --> 01:17:21,200 Speaker 1: caffeine can lead to heart arrhythmia, elevated blood pressure, and 1434 01:17:21,479 --> 01:17:25,120 Speaker 1: increase your risk of dehydration. Choosing a low fat snack 1435 01:17:25,200 --> 01:17:28,559 Speaker 1: with fiber and protein is a healthier option than adding 1436 01:17:28,640 --> 01:17:31,120 Speaker 1: a scoop of protein to coffee. Remember a while back 1437 01:17:31,160 --> 01:17:34,840 Speaker 1: that bulletproof coffee with butter in it? It was to 1438 01:17:34,920 --> 01:17:37,600 Speaker 1: put butter in unsalted butter in your coffee instead of 1439 01:17:38,160 --> 01:17:43,560 Speaker 1: cream or any other and A woman who may have 1440 01:17:43,760 --> 01:17:47,080 Speaker 1: been consuming profe is a Nevada bodybuilder. She crussed a 1441 01:17:47,160 --> 01:17:49,720 Speaker 1: world record when she used her thighs to smash three 1442 01:17:49,760 --> 01:17:53,160 Speaker 1: watermelons in under eight seconds. Her name is Courtney Olsen, 1443 01:17:53,240 --> 01:17:58,759 Speaker 1: she's the owner of Girl grr r L Clothing athletic wearline, 1444 01:17:59,120 --> 01:18:02,000 Speaker 1: decided to take on the watermelon smashing record to celebrate 1445 01:18:02,040 --> 01:18:04,280 Speaker 1: the opening of the brand's news store in Las Vegas. 1446 01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:07,720 Speaker 1: The first thing that I can think of, and I'm 1447 01:18:07,760 --> 01:18:10,599 Speaker 1: gonna try and say this eloquently, if she can crush 1448 01:18:10,640 --> 01:18:13,400 Speaker 1: a watermelon with her thighs, then you wouldn't want to 1449 01:18:13,439 --> 01:18:19,559 Speaker 1: get her too excited about anything involving your head, because 1450 01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:25,360 Speaker 1: then you know what I'm saying. You know, we'll explain. Yeah, 1451 01:18:25,760 --> 01:18:28,360 Speaker 1: please allow, okay, so kayle, When a man loves a woman, 1452 01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:32,920 Speaker 1: Um sunny National best Friends day to day and uh, 1453 01:18:33,560 --> 01:18:36,640 Speaker 1: shout out to me, so so yeah, shout out to 1454 01:18:37,360 --> 01:18:42,280 Speaker 1: to that lady who can crush your hood with her thighs. 1455 01:18:42,560 --> 01:18:46,880 Speaker 1: Show Turn it up Live from the Windress Studios in 1456 01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:55,160 Speaker 1: America's Greatest city, Chicago and Heart radio stations. It's The 1457 01:18:55,360 --> 01:18:58,840 Speaker 1: French Show, Good Morning Everybody, Tuesday, June eighth, It's nine seventh, 1458 01:18:58,840 --> 01:19:01,320 Speaker 1: The French Show. He's on blogs and just the Seconds 1459 01:19:01,600 --> 01:19:04,200 Speaker 1: the Entertainment Report After that with Klin What's in there? 1460 01:19:04,840 --> 01:19:07,880 Speaker 1: Ellie Kemper finally spoke out about that pageant. She was 1461 01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:09,760 Speaker 1: in back in the nineties. I'll tell you what she 1462 01:19:09,840 --> 01:19:13,160 Speaker 1: had to say. Also in about fifteen minutes and Tickets 1463 01:19:13,200 --> 01:19:16,160 Speaker 1: to Pride in the Park twenty twenty one with Paulina's 1464 01:19:16,160 --> 01:19:19,759 Speaker 1: favorite Chaka Kans Yes Do, which is awesome and a Griffin. 1465 01:19:20,160 --> 01:19:22,679 Speaker 1: You could buy your tickets Pride in the Park Chicago 1466 01:19:22,800 --> 01:19:27,200 Speaker 1: dot com thanks to Special Events Management. Yeah, they talk 1467 01:19:27,320 --> 01:19:30,120 Speaker 1: better than they tie. These are the radio blogs on 1468 01:19:30,280 --> 01:19:33,840 Speaker 1: The Friend Show, right audio journals like we're writing in 1469 01:19:33,880 --> 01:19:38,320 Speaker 1: our diaries. Christie's doing one today. Go okay, dear blog, 1470 01:19:38,920 --> 01:19:41,639 Speaker 1: I did write that time. Wow, look at that finally 1471 01:19:41,720 --> 01:19:47,080 Speaker 1: doing it the right way. Six months, seven months, dear blog. 1472 01:19:47,400 --> 01:19:50,320 Speaker 1: So it's been rough post breakup. I don't know what 1473 01:19:50,439 --> 01:19:52,040 Speaker 1: I want in a guy anymore. So I'm kind of 1474 01:19:52,120 --> 01:19:55,400 Speaker 1: like looking around. I'm keeping my options open, being very 1475 01:19:55,439 --> 01:19:58,120 Speaker 1: open to every type of guy. I was on TikTok 1476 01:19:58,200 --> 01:20:00,240 Speaker 1: the other day and I saw this really hot guy 1477 01:20:00,280 --> 01:20:03,080 Speaker 1: and I was like, maybe I should damn him on Instagram. 1478 01:20:03,120 --> 01:20:05,600 Speaker 1: So I went to his Instagram and now we're talking, like, 1479 01:20:05,680 --> 01:20:08,400 Speaker 1: he gave me his number, we're texting, and I was 1480 01:20:08,840 --> 01:20:10,400 Speaker 1: yesterday I was like, maybe I should ask how old 1481 01:20:10,400 --> 01:20:12,680 Speaker 1: this guy is because I have no idea. He is 1482 01:20:12,800 --> 01:20:15,000 Speaker 1: younger than me. Okay, how old are you used for 1483 01:20:15,080 --> 01:20:19,400 Speaker 1: the listeners? Twenty eight? Okay, twenty five okay, but I'm 1484 01:20:19,439 --> 01:20:21,439 Speaker 1: gonna be turning twenty nine in August, so it'll be 1485 01:20:21,520 --> 01:20:25,120 Speaker 1: like four years, which is yeah, I think that's too young, right? 1486 01:20:25,680 --> 01:20:28,240 Speaker 1: Should I stop talking to it because he's too young? 1487 01:20:29,240 --> 01:20:31,560 Speaker 1: Because the twenty five year old guy, he's about the 1488 01:20:31,640 --> 01:20:36,599 Speaker 1: maturity level of a gnat year old talking about Christy here, 1489 01:20:36,640 --> 01:20:43,679 Speaker 1: whose maturity level is good point pretty low down there too. Okay, well, 1490 01:20:43,880 --> 01:20:46,200 Speaker 1: Rufio said it, so never mind. You're right. It's about 1491 01:20:46,200 --> 01:20:49,800 Speaker 1: to say no, no, this is a match made in heaven. 1492 01:20:49,840 --> 01:20:51,360 Speaker 1: You guy should write about it at the same place. 1493 01:20:51,439 --> 01:20:54,880 Speaker 1: So he's twenty five and he's like on TikTok, which 1494 01:20:54,960 --> 01:20:57,519 Speaker 1: I'm not good at tick like this. I don't know 1495 01:20:57,960 --> 01:21:00,040 Speaker 1: he does he want you to dance with him, but 1496 01:21:00,120 --> 01:21:04,720 Speaker 1: I hope not. He doesn't dance on TikTok to edit. Yeah, 1497 01:21:04,920 --> 01:21:07,360 Speaker 1: you guys could make dance videos. What kind of time 1498 01:21:07,439 --> 01:21:09,760 Speaker 1: videos you make? It's different, Like a man could date 1499 01:21:09,800 --> 01:21:12,720 Speaker 1: a younger girl and it's totally fine. But the stereotypes 1500 01:21:12,760 --> 01:21:16,360 Speaker 1: just kind of flip around inside me. It's about a stereotype. 1501 01:21:16,479 --> 01:21:18,720 Speaker 1: This is about a maturity level. This is about the 1502 01:21:18,760 --> 01:21:22,439 Speaker 1: fact that women are I think everybody would agree more 1503 01:21:22,840 --> 01:21:26,840 Speaker 1: mature typically that are men. I think it's probably a 1504 01:21:27,280 --> 01:21:29,439 Speaker 1: thirty year old no, But you were talking about some 1505 01:21:29,560 --> 01:21:33,920 Speaker 1: kind of stereotype I'm talking about. It's simply a matter 1506 01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:36,400 Speaker 1: of fact. It's it's that I don't think that men 1507 01:21:36,520 --> 01:21:39,120 Speaker 1: mature is so much more slowly. And I think that 1508 01:21:39,320 --> 01:21:41,560 Speaker 1: at about thirty five, I should be dating maybe a 1509 01:21:42,040 --> 01:21:44,280 Speaker 1: twenty eight year old female because we're probably at the 1510 01:21:44,360 --> 01:21:46,120 Speaker 1: same place at that point. I don't think it has 1511 01:21:46,160 --> 01:21:48,720 Speaker 1: anything to do with the judgment or the viewpoint. If 1512 01:21:48,760 --> 01:21:50,800 Speaker 1: you want to just bang it out, I think it's fine. 1513 01:21:51,000 --> 01:21:53,519 Speaker 1: I think if you're looking for a relationship, I think 1514 01:21:53,640 --> 01:21:57,080 Speaker 1: chances of that working out probably aren't great with someone younger, um, 1515 01:21:57,439 --> 01:22:00,080 Speaker 1: just as another woman. But you know, I have a 1516 01:22:00,120 --> 01:22:01,840 Speaker 1: little fun, that's okay. I think I might cut this 1517 01:22:01,920 --> 01:22:04,120 Speaker 1: off because I don't need to sleep with anyone right now. 1518 01:22:04,520 --> 01:22:07,639 Speaker 1: So I don't really know what I want. But he's 1519 01:22:07,680 --> 01:22:10,280 Speaker 1: twenty five and I'm not, and I don't know. I like, 1520 01:22:10,360 --> 01:22:12,160 Speaker 1: I've never dated a younger guy. I've never went for 1521 01:22:12,240 --> 01:22:15,040 Speaker 1: a younger guy. Yeah, This just accidentally happened because I 1522 01:22:15,120 --> 01:22:16,840 Speaker 1: saw my TikTok, so I had no idea. How old. 1523 01:22:16,840 --> 01:22:18,479 Speaker 1: You never know what happened, you know what I'm saying? 1524 01:22:18,479 --> 01:22:20,880 Speaker 1: He never dated a younger guy. Gave it a try, 1525 01:22:21,320 --> 01:22:25,559 Speaker 1: give it a ride, Let's see where it goes. I beg, pimp, 1526 01:22:26,920 --> 01:22:32,000 Speaker 1: Are you gonna even like cash back this man? That's 1527 01:22:32,040 --> 01:22:35,040 Speaker 1: actually if that's an option for Rufio. He is so 1528 01:22:35,160 --> 01:22:39,120 Speaker 1: great a bad hustle. Yeah, well, I don't know. I 1529 01:22:39,479 --> 01:22:42,840 Speaker 1: think you're gonna find it you don't have. I could 1530 01:22:42,880 --> 01:22:45,720 Speaker 1: be wrong, but I think you're gonna find that. Typically, 1531 01:22:46,160 --> 01:22:48,760 Speaker 1: a twenty nine thirty year old female is not going 1532 01:22:48,840 --> 01:22:52,960 Speaker 1: to necessarily a jibe with a twenty five year old 1533 01:22:53,040 --> 01:22:57,519 Speaker 1: male just because of perspective. And I don't know, maturity levels, 1534 01:22:57,600 --> 01:22:59,880 Speaker 1: an ambition, you know, sort of, And I don't mean 1535 01:23:00,080 --> 01:23:03,240 Speaker 1: professional ambitions. I mean most twenty five year old men 1536 01:23:03,280 --> 01:23:06,720 Speaker 1: are who are single are probably enjoying and basking and 1537 01:23:06,840 --> 01:23:10,439 Speaker 1: being twenty five and single. And I would say, per tapita, 1538 01:23:10,640 --> 01:23:13,759 Speaker 1: this is not a rule, but I would say twenty 1539 01:23:13,800 --> 01:23:16,800 Speaker 1: nine thirty year old single women are typically looking for 1540 01:23:16,920 --> 01:23:21,160 Speaker 1: something a little more stable. Not all, but most. Yeah, 1541 01:23:21,200 --> 01:23:23,400 Speaker 1: I mean my life is pretty stable and I'm pretty 1542 01:23:23,439 --> 01:23:27,080 Speaker 1: secure in it, but me as a person is pretty unstable. 1543 01:23:27,200 --> 01:23:29,360 Speaker 1: So maybe I could drive at the twenty five years. 1544 01:23:29,360 --> 01:23:33,000 Speaker 1: How many TikTok followers as you have a lot, go 1545 01:23:33,160 --> 01:23:36,680 Speaker 1: for it, can see a radio TikTok or please tell 1546 01:23:36,720 --> 01:23:43,240 Speaker 1: me he's not it's not the guy that it's no school. No, 1547 01:23:43,400 --> 01:23:45,679 Speaker 1: he's in med school. You could be the girl that's 1548 01:23:46,000 --> 01:23:48,960 Speaker 1: taking videos of him eating food and dinner. You could 1549 01:23:49,000 --> 01:23:53,280 Speaker 1: be that girl. Yeah, what a life. Three dinners and 1550 01:23:53,479 --> 01:24:00,320 Speaker 1: you get to record your boyfriend. There you go another 1551 01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:03,920 Speaker 1: in med school. That's another thing I don't. Yeah, that 1552 01:24:04,000 --> 01:24:06,719 Speaker 1: guy's not trying today. Serious, that's a long that's a long, 1553 01:24:07,640 --> 01:24:16,320 Speaker 1: long haul, long con. But no, just stay in it 1554 01:24:16,400 --> 01:24:17,960 Speaker 1: because it'll pay off in the end. He's in med 1555 01:24:18,040 --> 01:24:20,679 Speaker 1: school and he might be influencer. You might be honest 1556 01:24:20,760 --> 01:24:23,560 Speaker 1: something because he's an influencer. Influencer doctor. I feel like 1557 01:24:23,640 --> 01:24:27,320 Speaker 1: we haven't helped her one bit. I'm so confused. I said, hey, 1558 01:24:27,600 --> 01:24:29,360 Speaker 1: I said, don't do it. But I also have no 1559 01:24:29,560 --> 01:24:32,800 Speaker 1: idea what you're looking for. I truly like, like day 1560 01:24:32,840 --> 01:24:34,920 Speaker 1: in and day out, Christie, I have no idea what 1561 01:24:35,040 --> 01:24:36,920 Speaker 1: it is you're after. Sometimes I think you want another 1562 01:24:36,960 --> 01:24:39,400 Speaker 1: boyfriend or something stable, and then sometimes I think you 1563 01:24:39,479 --> 01:24:41,760 Speaker 1: just want to have a good time. But what I 1564 01:24:41,880 --> 01:24:43,920 Speaker 1: do think is that you have the propensity to be 1565 01:24:44,000 --> 01:24:46,840 Speaker 1: disappointed by these people, and so then I start to think, well, 1566 01:24:46,880 --> 01:24:50,080 Speaker 1: maybe you should be chasing after people who um are 1567 01:24:50,120 --> 01:24:51,960 Speaker 1: gonna be a little bit more consistent, such that you 1568 01:24:52,040 --> 01:24:54,439 Speaker 1: have more control, um, so that you don't get your 1569 01:24:54,479 --> 01:24:56,479 Speaker 1: feelings hurt. You know. That's like the big brother in me. 1570 01:24:56,760 --> 01:24:58,680 Speaker 1: On the flip side, if I thought you were just 1571 01:24:58,760 --> 01:25:00,800 Speaker 1: out here trying to, you know, get an wherever you could, that, 1572 01:25:00,880 --> 01:25:03,400 Speaker 1: I say, more the merrier. Maybe I don't really I 1573 01:25:03,439 --> 01:25:05,439 Speaker 1: don't really know. I got out of a relationship two 1574 01:25:05,479 --> 01:25:07,240 Speaker 1: months ago with a guy that I thought was my 1575 01:25:07,360 --> 01:25:09,519 Speaker 1: forever guy, so I don't know what I want anymore. 1576 01:25:09,800 --> 01:25:12,880 Speaker 1: And that confuses me too, because you even told us 1577 01:25:12,880 --> 01:25:15,400 Speaker 1: when you were dating him that you didn't particularly find 1578 01:25:15,439 --> 01:25:17,000 Speaker 1: all that much in common with him, and now you're 1579 01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:19,200 Speaker 1: talking about him being the forever guy, So I'm confused 1580 01:25:19,200 --> 01:25:21,000 Speaker 1: about what he even was. Did you guys say I 1581 01:25:21,040 --> 01:25:23,240 Speaker 1: love you? Yeah? You did? Okay, so you loved him 1582 01:25:23,320 --> 01:25:26,840 Speaker 1: yeah more than once? Well yeah, many many times? Oh? Really? 1583 01:25:26,960 --> 01:25:30,519 Speaker 1: Oh you I like to downplay my relationships because I 1584 01:25:30,560 --> 01:25:32,320 Speaker 1: don't want to get my hair take like three years 1585 01:25:32,360 --> 01:25:36,360 Speaker 1: to say I love you when I get disappointed. I've 1586 01:25:36,439 --> 01:25:39,920 Speaker 1: misfired on the I love yous a lot, a lot, well, 1587 01:25:39,960 --> 01:25:43,400 Speaker 1: not a lot. I've only said it to two people. 1588 01:25:44,479 --> 01:25:47,840 Speaker 1: I've only said it. I've only said it to two people, like, yeah, 1589 01:25:50,120 --> 01:25:51,880 Speaker 1: I know who the first one was. I don't know 1590 01:25:52,000 --> 01:25:55,080 Speaker 1: the second one. Wow, well in order, I don't know 1591 01:25:55,240 --> 01:25:57,280 Speaker 1: you know who the first one was. Well, I didn't 1592 01:25:57,360 --> 01:25:59,840 Speaker 1: know her, but I you have told me about her. 1593 01:26:00,479 --> 01:26:02,599 Speaker 1: It was your longest relationship, right, like a six month 1594 01:26:02,720 --> 01:26:06,280 Speaker 1: or well six oh? I guess did I say it 1595 01:26:06,560 --> 01:26:10,680 Speaker 1: to her? Um? Six months is your longest relationship? Right? Yeah? 1596 01:26:13,640 --> 01:26:18,840 Speaker 1: Advice advice? What do you mean? He gives good advice? 1597 01:26:18,960 --> 01:26:21,560 Speaker 1: He just you know, I give amazing advice. I just 1598 01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:24,760 Speaker 1: don't follow my own advice. I give incredible I have 1599 01:26:24,920 --> 01:26:27,800 Speaker 1: the best perspective on other people's situations. I just it 1600 01:26:27,880 --> 01:26:31,600 Speaker 1: doesn't apply to me. I'm serious, I to I'm a 1601 01:26:31,720 --> 01:26:34,200 Speaker 1: voice of reason, as it pertains to everybody but me. No, 1602 01:26:34,360 --> 01:26:38,760 Speaker 1: I said he to. Um, I'm trying to remember, well, 1603 01:26:38,920 --> 01:26:47,040 Speaker 1: I think I said it to when you first had sex. No, 1604 01:26:47,680 --> 01:26:54,800 Speaker 1: I didn't say to her, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Do 1605 01:26:54,840 --> 01:26:58,960 Speaker 1: you know why you should have apologized. I should have 1606 01:26:59,040 --> 01:27:06,720 Speaker 1: apologized to the first because I put it. I did. 1607 01:27:06,760 --> 01:27:09,600 Speaker 1: It's a true story. It's a true story. It's a 1608 01:27:09,640 --> 01:27:12,040 Speaker 1: true story. The very first time, I was older, by 1609 01:27:12,080 --> 01:27:14,200 Speaker 1: the way, I was twenty years old, my first time, 1610 01:27:14,320 --> 01:27:17,360 Speaker 1: and I was the first time I went and went, 1611 01:27:17,400 --> 01:27:18,880 Speaker 1: and when it win and went, I was so nervous 1612 01:27:18,880 --> 01:27:21,280 Speaker 1: putting it down. Yeah, that was a long time. This 1613 01:27:21,439 --> 01:27:26,280 Speaker 1: is why we need to stop faking it. I hey, 1614 01:27:26,840 --> 01:27:29,240 Speaker 1: I said that I should apologize because it went a 1615 01:27:29,400 --> 01:27:31,000 Speaker 1: very long time, and I'm not sure that that's what 1616 01:27:31,120 --> 01:27:33,519 Speaker 1: that person wanted. The second time, on the other hand, 1617 01:27:33,680 --> 01:27:35,479 Speaker 1: was different. But the first time I was so nervous 1618 01:27:35,520 --> 01:27:38,599 Speaker 1: that I just win and win and win. Um. Anyway, 1619 01:27:39,200 --> 01:27:40,760 Speaker 1: I think I've only said I love you twice, and 1620 01:27:40,880 --> 01:27:42,720 Speaker 1: the second the most recent time I said it in 1621 01:27:42,800 --> 01:27:45,000 Speaker 1: the moment at the time, I really believed. I I 1622 01:27:45,160 --> 01:27:48,040 Speaker 1: really believe. Was it one of your recent two h huh? 1623 01:27:48,760 --> 01:27:53,600 Speaker 1: First or second? The second? Was it? Was it in 1624 01:27:54,120 --> 01:27:58,200 Speaker 1: ken Kun, Mexico? Okay, you're trying to get your booty 1625 01:27:58,240 --> 01:28:01,840 Speaker 1: beat today. Yeah, First, your your wife is firing you 1626 01:28:01,960 --> 01:28:07,840 Speaker 1: and then your host is firing. You got nothing left, 1627 01:28:08,720 --> 01:28:12,559 Speaker 1: nothing left today, Rufio streets. You're gonna have to sell 1628 01:28:12,600 --> 01:28:17,479 Speaker 1: those Luviton bags. May some bills. You in trouble today,