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Speaker 1: The Nicky Glaser Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Nick Glaser, Here's Nikki.

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Speaker 3: Hello here, I am welcome to the podcast. It's NICKI Glazer.

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Speaker 3: I am the host of the Nicky Glazer Podcast.

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Speaker 2: I'm here.

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Speaker 3: I'm in Los Angeles, California. If you listened to the

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Speaker 3: show yesterday, this podcast is being recorded the same day,

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Speaker 3: two episodes in one same day, many hours in between.

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Speaker 2: Brian's here, Noah's here. What's up, guys?

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Speaker 1: What did you do with your hours?

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Speaker 2: Jesus Christ, what did you guys do with your hours?

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Speaker 3: I mean it's we I guess we did the first

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Speaker 3: one at eleven am and now it's five thirty, so

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Speaker 3: a lot's happened. I am transitioning, No I.

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Speaker 2: Could be at this point.

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Speaker 3: I drove to Los Angeles from Temeculah, one of the.

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Speaker 1: Best drives in America.

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Speaker 3: It was pretty sweet. I was in the back of

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Speaker 3: an escalade. I mean, it's nice, like the casino hooked

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Speaker 3: it up, provided a free transport.

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Speaker 2: Pachanga.

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Speaker 3: Really, I just kept saying pachanga after punchlines last night,

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Speaker 3: kind of like a Bazinga type thing.

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Speaker 2: That was fun.

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Speaker 3: And then I did a zoom call because this game,

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Speaker 3: this game show that I can't reveal why I'm excited

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Speaker 3: about it. I uh, I did a zoom call about

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Speaker 3: how to play the game, and we talked about that

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Speaker 3: and got you know, learned the rules. And then this

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Speaker 3: is how TV works if you don't know, because I

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Speaker 3: would not have known. Like you, you get asked to

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Speaker 3: do a show like forty eight hours before it happens

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Speaker 3: because someone more famous dropped out, and then you instantly,

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Speaker 3: like Zipper, you change everything in your schedule to accommodate it,

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Speaker 3: because you being on TV is very important, so everything changes.

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Speaker 3: And luckily you're at a point in your life where

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Speaker 3: you have like a team of people who will cooperate

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Speaker 3: with you and like schedule it for you to shout

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Speaker 3: out to my assistant, shout out to both of you

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Speaker 3: who were able to change the podcast time to accommodate

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Speaker 3: these just.

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Speaker 1: I've been waiting for my shout out and I really

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Speaker 1: appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Brian Franjie in the house shout out. Thank

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Speaker 3: you for guys being so flexible. Yeah, for the pliability

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Speaker 3: right yeah, and uh yeah, so yes, and then you

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Speaker 3: you you go like, Okay, what am I gonna wear?

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Speaker 3: And then you have to call stylists, and then you

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Speaker 3: have to figure out who the hair and makeup people

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Speaker 3: are going to be. And then and you don't even

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Speaker 3: think about, like I do I even know how to

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Speaker 3: play this game. And then eventually you get on a

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Speaker 3: creative call, and then they tell you all about the

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Speaker 3: show and they say how it's going to work, and

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Speaker 3: they say they're so excited.

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Speaker 2: To have you, and and they probably mean it.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes I think these people actually did their really sweet

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Speaker 3: I've worked on a lot of game shows, so there's

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Speaker 3: a lot of overlaps. So I've worked with a lot

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Speaker 3: of these people, and they're so nice and it sounds

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Speaker 3: like it's going to be fun. And then and then

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Speaker 3: I checked into I'm staying in LA for like a

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Speaker 3: month or more right now, So I checked into my

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Speaker 3: like temporary apartment hotel situation.

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Speaker 1: It's a hotel or an airbnb, it's a hotel.

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Speaker 2: It's like a extended residency.

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Speaker 3: So for like dads who have just freshly been kicked

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Speaker 3: their wives and explain like, she means nothing to me,

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Speaker 3: it was a mistake. Yeah, it's nice, it's a nice place.

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Speaker 3: It's a little bit it's it's not a hotel where

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Speaker 3: like there are people at the front desk, but it's

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Speaker 3: not like hotel.

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Speaker 2: Vibes of like we're so happy you're here.

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Speaker 3: It's like more like you just you are here, you know,

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Speaker 3: nice amenities. Though it'll be good, but then I instill.

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Speaker 3: I dropped my bags, and then I had to run

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Speaker 3: to that charity show and.

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Speaker 2: I was running late.

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Speaker 3: Don't you hate when you're running late to something and

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Speaker 3: you're like telling the person like I'm almost there, I'm

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Speaker 2: And I wasn't even running late. My set was at

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Speaker 3: I was gonna be walking in three thirty four, and

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Speaker 3: don't need like to meditate in a room or something

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Speaker 3: get there. I'm like, oh, I'm ready, and they're like, oh,

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Speaker 3: there's two people still in front of you, and they're

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Speaker 3: both doing twenty minutes. I'm like, oh, so I'm forty

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Speaker 3: to be early or anything because I don't like stillness.

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't like hanging around backstage at the

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Speaker 1: This was the matinee performance, Yeah, this was the three

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Speaker 1: Was it outdoors?

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Speaker 2: No, it was at the Bourbon Room.

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Speaker 1: Oh, the Bourbon Room. Yes, have you been there? I've

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Speaker 1: been there? Was who are the other true comics?

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Speaker 2: Who are the other two comics?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Damn?

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Speaker 3: I didn't know actually the ones in front of me?

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Speaker 3: But Tiffany Hattish was backstage. So I got to hang

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Speaker 3: out with Tiffany for a little bit and we I'm

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Speaker 1: I saw Tiffany Hattish at a restaurant once. Really, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Eda just closed down now, which is surprising because it

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Speaker 2: And you saw her there. I saw her the Eric

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Speaker 2: Andre story you had, I saw her, But I just saw.

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Speaker 1: Her at a table eating dinner with somebody, and I said,

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Speaker 3: She's all over the place. She's so famous, She's in everything.

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Speaker 1: She's even in my restaurant.

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Speaker 3: She was she was talking about her duy she got

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Speaker 3: November because she said she's sober now, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, and you kind.

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Speaker 3: Of it's weird when you like are kind of friendly

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Speaker 3: don't know, but you also don't want.

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Speaker 2: To bring it up.

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Speaker 3: But like, I did know that she got a DUI

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Speaker 2: To get a DUI. And I and it's happened to

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Speaker 3: I guess it's so like not while driving, she was parked, Oh.

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Speaker 1: You could get a DUI for parking and falling asleep. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: if the cars like a responsible to do.

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Speaker 2: That's what I said.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like you were responsible. And she's like not

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Speaker 3: if they want to make money. And then she's and

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Speaker 3: if she's she was like, I didn't realize how famous

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Speaker 2: It was EveryWare, it was everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Well, people want her to take her down.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because she's been she's been around too long and

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Speaker 3: she's too and sheet controversy.

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Speaker 1: So people are like clamoring to find more reasons to

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Speaker 3: She's whenever I see her, she's just seems to be

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Speaker 3: But she's just like they just their skin texture is

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Speaker 2: You know, you just like want to look at it.

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Speaker 3: They're like radiant. I was very aware that I might

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Speaker 3: have had bad breath. When you think you have bad breath, like,

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Speaker 1: Why don't you address it? Why don't you take a mint?

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Speaker 4: I didn't you know, no.

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Speaker 2: One had one and I didn't have one with me.

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Speaker 1: Otherwise I'm always handed you not because I think you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I love I love, I love a mint or recal,

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Speaker 3: I'll always take a cough up, but I didn't have anything,

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Speaker 3: I just like aimed it down. But she very well

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Speaker 3: could be like Nikki Glazer has stinky breath, and that

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Speaker 3: would be like what she knows about me, because I

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Speaker 3: and even if I do, Like when you're around someone

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Speaker 3: rest of your life, Like that's what.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, there's no going back.

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Speaker 3: Because they had it for once in public at three

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Speaker 2: There's no excuse.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's got a great name. You know how when

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Speaker 1: time because of her name. Yeah, it sounds like a

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Speaker 2: Hadish. It's like Radish, it just sounds. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I like the word Garnish. That's like a cool like

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Speaker 3: any kind of ish. It's like blackish.

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Speaker 1: Whitish. I remember this girl who did those shows.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeahsh that's totally it. Yeah she's I don't

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Speaker 3: I think you wear sweatpants a lot that creator.

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Speaker 2: Anyway.

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Speaker 1: You know how when you go to the bathroom and

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Speaker 1: then you wash your hands and then you have to

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Speaker 1: shake someone's hand and you go, oh, my hands are wet.

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Speaker 1: I didn't pee on them. Yeah, that's like what you

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Speaker 1: That's like with the should you do the breath thing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I have, yes, I mean, and then if it doesn't,

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Speaker 3: it's really awkward, like because I was I think I

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Speaker 3: told this on the podcast, but I was going to

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Speaker 3: my stylist one time for a fitting and I didn't

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Speaker 3: Like it just had been like a it was probably

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Speaker 3: like I've been having weird periods lately, not that you asked, Brian,

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Speaker 3: but like my periods will like seem to stop like.

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Speaker 2: They used to be there. They were always like three

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Speaker 3: My periods have been like my whole life, I've always

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Speaker 4: Sure to be barging in like Cramer, just like my

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Speaker 1: Of condition that film. I watched it on a plane,

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Speaker 1: Also, it says something about you, doesn't it That you're

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Speaker 3: You want you think about that sometimes where I'm like,

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Speaker 3: because I want to talk about That's one thing I

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Speaker 3: but it's so specific the things that I like that

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Speaker 1: Probably also Paul Giamatti.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't be surprised, but I just think I would

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Speaker 3: want to see what kind of thing we went through

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Speaker 1: Or like running adults and who knows.

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Speaker 2: Who really knows.

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Speaker 3: But I am getting into French porn because it makes

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Speaker 2: French.

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Speaker 3: Yes, French, because a French gang bang. They literally say

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Speaker 3: ooh la la.

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Speaker 2: I'm not even joking.

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Speaker 3: You watch a French porn and you will hear oh

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Speaker 3: come I'm not joking.

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Speaker 2: They say voila.

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Speaker 3: It's so and they're like, like they do, and it's there,

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Speaker 3: it's literal, it's it's legit French porn, but they they do.

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Speaker 2: They're like wearing striped shirts, smoking cigarettes.

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Speaker 4: Every stereotype is eating croissants, yeah, doing things with baguettes. No,

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Speaker 4: it's they really do say voi la and French porn.

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Speaker 1: That's hilarious. Is that so funny because we don't say

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Speaker 3: Just means lots of things. It just means it's like

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Speaker 1: We don't why I say anything? I think saying anything

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's weird to say nothing though you

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Speaker 1: I think anything you can't say anything. It's just even

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Speaker 4: I came, I saw, I conquered Voi la, Like, just

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Speaker 3: It really does happen in French porn. So I've been

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Speaker 2: It's like art, Yeah, but it's not it's porn. It's

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Speaker 3: I think porn might be really bad for the world,

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Speaker 3: Like really bad. I'm starting to think that why.

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Speaker 1: With the value is the human existence or I just

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I was being a little bit I

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Speaker 3: guess facetious when I said I think it's really bad,

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Speaker 4: Old, Yeah, that's what I think about. Like I just

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Speaker 1: And why do porn at all? I mean, if you.

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Speaker 1: If the goal is to make money, then just starting OnlyFans.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to fuck anybody, and you'll make ten

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, only fans.

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Speaker 3: I saw a really important reddit that I actually wanted

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Speaker 3: I'm just ready to start an only fans I'm struggling

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Speaker 2: Okay, you will one hundred percent.

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Speaker 3: They will find they will uh what's it called when

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Speaker 3: it Yeah, okay, why they'll do that?

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Speaker 4: Deep fake?

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Speaker 3: No, they'll no, they'll just take they'll just I forget

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Speaker 3: you know, like personalized videos and stuff. Those guys will

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Speaker 3: to make so I can make extra money, those guys

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Speaker 1: Actually I can't bring myself to make my Apple videos

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Speaker 3: Those take that's almost like porn. That's a lot of enthusiasm.

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Speaker 3: Wha nah, Yeah, that takes a lot out of you.

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Speaker 3: You're doing a lot of research, but it's just it's

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Speaker 3: I don't think only fans is what and the market's oversaturated,

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Speaker 3: I could get into that. I think girls, just don't

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Speaker 3: if you want to start an only fans or just

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Speaker 3: do it. And if you don't care, then fucking just

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Speaker 3: do it. I don't care either. More power to you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna do a break and we'll come back

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Speaker 2: and do more show. All right, we're back. What did

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Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, maybe this is too personal, but

443
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Speaker 1: if there is any best of these who have only fans,

444
00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:32,000
Speaker 1: I want to know what their experience is. Are they

445
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Speaker 1: making money?

446
00:18:32,840 --> 00:18:33,000
Speaker 4: Well?

447
00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:35,479
Speaker 1: Are making are getting people paying bills?

448
00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:37,960
Speaker 4: I feel like OnlyFans is trying to trend away from

449
00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:41,200
Speaker 4: like the pornography stuff. Because there's this jiu jitsu gal

450
00:18:41,320 --> 00:18:45,000
Speaker 4: who's on there. Her name is Fiona Davis and she's

451
00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:47,159
Speaker 4: and she like does jiu jitsu.

452
00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:50,400
Speaker 1: Videos, Yeah, doing comedy. They did the roast of Bert Kreischer,

453
00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:53,120
Speaker 1: Trevor Cummings.

454
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and yeah they do like they do stand up

455
00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:56,960
Speaker 3: shows and stuff.

456
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Speaker 1: Those people are that's not a successful venture. Only fans

457
00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:03,879
Speaker 1: is real money is coming from porn. Yeah, and it

458
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Speaker 1: always will well maybe not. I guess if they maybe

459
00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:11,520
Speaker 1: they'll create the next Blacklist or something and neverone will

460
00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:14,080
Speaker 1: start watching only Fans as a network.

461
00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:16,240
Speaker 2: Oh Blacklist the show?

462
00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:16,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

463
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Speaker 2: What is that show?

464
00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:23,040
Speaker 1: Just some random show I plucked at an Okay, what's

465
00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:26,520
Speaker 1: that show with Kevin Spacey on Netflix? Had Cards? Yes,

466
00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:28,439
Speaker 1: I can't remember. I've been trying to remember that.

467
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Speaker 3: I never watched that, And as soon as I was

468
00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:34,040
Speaker 3: going to, he was like, you know, canceled to whatever.

469
00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:35,439
Speaker 3: And then I was like, I guess I don't need

470
00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:38,760
Speaker 3: to do this anymore. There's so many shows that you

471
00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:41,000
Speaker 3: just go, I should watch that. Sopranos is the one

472
00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:42,040
Speaker 3: that I really should watch.

473
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Speaker 1: Oh, but that's a lot of commitment. That's like nine

474
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Speaker 1: seasons or something.

475
00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:47,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like I'll have to do it with

476
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Speaker 3: someone who wants to rewatch it someday or something. I

477
00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:51,920
Speaker 3: don't think that's what I'm going to take on my own.

478
00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:53,760
Speaker 3: And I will want to know when people are about

479
00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:55,280
Speaker 3: to be off because I don't really like.

480
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Speaker 2: You don't want to shop like, I don't want shock violence.

481
00:19:57,600 --> 00:19:59,560
Speaker 1: There's a character in Soprano's name Pussy.

482
00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:01,159
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, big pussy.

483
00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:01,960
Speaker 1: Right. Yeah.

484
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Speaker 2: Did you watch The Branos? Noah, you look like you did. No,

485
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Speaker 2: I did not, you did not.

486
00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:07,760
Speaker 4: I watched The Wire taking.

487
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Speaker 2: Hmmm, did you watch The Wire? Yes?

488
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Speaker 3: I love The Wire you loved it, and I watched

489
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Speaker 3: And I've never heard that listed among the best shows

490
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Speaker 3: of all time.

491
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Speaker 2: But was it really good?

492
00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:22,760
Speaker 4: Yes? It was the same creator as The Wire.

493
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Speaker 2: Oh, okay, m yeah.

494
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Speaker 1: No. One else I really love from around that era

495
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,000
Speaker 1: was Battlestar Galactica.

496
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Speaker 2: Oh, that's the one that everyone says is amazing.

497
00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:35,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's it's It has its ups and downs,

498
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Speaker 1: but for definitely, the first several seasons were The first

499
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Speaker 1: three seasons of Battlestar Galactica are on par with the

500
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Speaker 1: first three seasons a Game of Thrones.

501
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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, God, the pressure to keep that up and

502
00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,240
Speaker 3: then the fans get so disappointed in you.

503
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Speaker 1: The ending of Game of Thrones was so bad. Battlestar

504
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Speaker 1: Galactics ending was not bad. It was a little underwhelming,

505
00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:57,960
Speaker 1: but it was better than Game of Thrones if you

506
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Speaker 1: want to com there's no series that's more complete in

507
00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:04,160
Speaker 1: my mind, from start to finish than Breaking Bad. They

508
00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:07,040
Speaker 1: had a plan, they executed the plan, they finished the

509
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:08,639
Speaker 1: character arc, and it was over.

510
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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I might see that too, but again, there's

511
00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:13,800
Speaker 3: too much violence in that one, I think.

512
00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 1: But it's funny. It's fun, they're having a good time.

513
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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I know. That's one I got to watch

514
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 3: with someone too. Okay, that's the one I really can

515
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,440
Speaker 3: And then better call Saul, like, can I watch Sall

516
00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:25,880
Speaker 3: without watching Breaking Bad?

517
00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:27,360
Speaker 1: You can, but you shouldn't.

518
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Speaker 4: You'll you'll appreciate the characters more if you do watch

519
00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:33,440
Speaker 4: Breaking Bad, but you'll appreciate them anyway.

520
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Speaker 3: So well, my life has in it right now because

521
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Speaker 3: I didn't spend those, however, many forty hours thirty sixty

522
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:45,280
Speaker 3: eight eight hours watching that series that everyone else did. Like,

523
00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:48,240
Speaker 3: what did I do with that time? You can probably

524
00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:50,040
Speaker 3: to wet Ass Pussy or something like that.

525
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 1: Probably were crushing your head because you had a migraine headache.

526
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Speaker 2: Oh that was going on at that time in my life.

527
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Speaker 3: Don't get the IUD. Girls, I was getting migraine headaches

528
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Speaker 3: from it.

529
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Speaker 1: And that's from the IUD.

530
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Speaker 3: Because I don't listen to my body. I had no

531
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:03,920
Speaker 3: idea those were connected that. They started like the day

532
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 3: after I got the IU day I got it taken out.

533
00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 2: They never came back and I never connected the two.

534
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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Yeah, they were horrible, Like two years

535
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 3: I think, wuck and I don't even know I got

536
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Speaker 3: the IUD out. I just eventually was like, I don't

537
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Speaker 3: think I need this. And boy, getting getting it put

538
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,280
Speaker 3: in and taken out two most painful moments of my

539
00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 3: life and then all the migraines in between also the

540
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Speaker 3: most all all of that was the most pain I've

541
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Speaker 3: ever felt in my human existence, all connected to the IUD.

542
00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:37,239
Speaker 3: And for what a like abortion would not have been

543
00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,080
Speaker 3: as painful as all that. It really wouldn't have, but

544
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Speaker 3: I'm not being funny. It just wouldn't have been. I

545
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:43,040
Speaker 3: would have rather gotten pregnant and got an abortion. I

546
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:44,639
Speaker 3: know it wouldn't have been easy, and it's maybe not

547
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:46,920
Speaker 3: right if you're a Christian or whatever, but that would

548
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:48,560
Speaker 3: not have been as painful as all the shit that

549
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,119
Speaker 3: I went through with that IUD. Those migraines that I like,

550
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:55,199
Speaker 3: man just crying, like I understand why they're called like

551
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,160
Speaker 3: suicide headaches, you like, I If.

552
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Speaker 2: This kept going on, there's there's.

553
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:05,720
Speaker 4: A controversy right now actually about birth control and how

554
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 4: like a lot of hormone doctors and women are speaking

555
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 4: out against it, but then you hear the opposing side,

556
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:15,680
Speaker 4: which is mainly like from the pharmaceutical back doctors who

557
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,679
Speaker 4: are like, no, this is wrong. So there's like a

558
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 4: huge fight going on right now on that.

559
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Speaker 3: I do like the idea of women having the ability

560
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 3: to not to have kids and still get commed in,

561
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 3: you know, because guys always convince you to fuck without

562
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,679
Speaker 3: a condom, and I know that women should be more

563
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Speaker 3: responsible and tell them to wear condoms. But we aren't

564
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Speaker 3: that strong because society hasn't been that way.

565
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Speaker 4: When we're as someone who has been commed in and

566
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Speaker 4: wanting to get pregnant and not gotten pregnant, I learned

567
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:48,480
Speaker 4: that it's much harder than we've been feared. That my

568
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 4: mom scared me into and my doctor has scared me into.

569
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:53,959
Speaker 4: So I think it's like just being able to follow

570
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 4: our hormonal pattern if we were taught that better, oh.

571
00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, into our bodies. None of us know when we're

572
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 3: about to get our periods. It means it's an old joke,

573
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 3: but like we all are like hysterically crying about you know,

574
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,919
Speaker 3: dropping our cell phone or something innocuous, and we wonder

575
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 3: why it's happening, and then we start bleeding. We go, oh,

576
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 3: I'm on my period, Like you never connected because I'm

577
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:19,479
Speaker 3: we're so disconnected from that because we're in denial of it.

578
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 3: We as soon as we get it, we have to

579
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 3: be like secretive about getting tampons and do you have one?

580
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 3: In palming it to each other like we're dealing drugs,

581
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,120
Speaker 3: like it's everything about It's so shameful.

582
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 2: I don't care at all.

583
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,879
Speaker 3: I love buying tampons now and saying no bag for

584
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 3: it and walking out of the store like holding tampons.

585
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 3: I think I've talked about this before, but at an

586
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,320
Speaker 3: airport one time, I bought tampons and I was holding

587
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 3: it like with my phone and filming people as I'm

588
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:46,640
Speaker 3: I'm holding it out like with my phone and filming.

589
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:48,879
Speaker 3: It's in front of my phone camera, so you just

590
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 3: see the c's part. People are so awkward that you're

591
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,879
Speaker 3: getting this thing. I love it, like, oh, I'm sorry,

592
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 3: my body's an inconvenience.

593
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:59,439
Speaker 2: It makes you feel weird, like I didn't ask for this.

594
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:01,199
Speaker 2: I don't want to do this. I don't want to

595
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 2: have to wear this shit.

596
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 1: That's the same way I feel when the Colts lose.

597
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 1: I go, why am I punching this wall? I don't understand?

598
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 1: And then I go, oh, yeah, Colts lose.

599
00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 3: They would have taught you that as a young boy,

600
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 3: that the Colts are gonna lose.

601
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, once every twenty days, that'll be a good season.

602
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 3: But yeah, that's okay, that's interesting. Yeah, birth control.

603
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 2: I haven't.

604
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 3: And when you find out, birth control like changes the

605
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,560
Speaker 3: way the things you're attracted to and changes your moods

606
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 3: and changes. Like there are girls that are on birth

607
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,439
Speaker 3: control and they fall in love with the guy and

608
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 3: then they go off it and they are like literally

609
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 3: disgusted by his smell, Like they want to vomit even

610
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 3: thinking about the guy that they are living they just

611
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 3: moved in with, and they can't.

612
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,120
Speaker 2: They don't know what's wrong with them. They're not attracted

613
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 2: to them anymore.

614
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 3: Not only they're not attracted, they're disgusted by them because

615
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,239
Speaker 3: their body chemistry was just different when they were on

616
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:55,439
Speaker 3: birth control, and birth control makes you have the chemicals

617
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:58,159
Speaker 3: of a woman who's pregnant. How are you supposed to

618
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 3: attract the right person that's supposed to get you pregnant eventually,

619
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 3: if you are constantly putting out vibes that you are pregnant,

620
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 3: like I don't, it can't be good.

621
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Speaker 1: Do you know George Saunders, the short story writer. Yeah,

622
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 1: so he wrote a book called December eleventh or something

623
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:17,160
Speaker 1: like that. I forgot what it was called. But there's

624
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 1: a short story in it where it's a science fiction

625
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 1: futuristic short story where people are put into these pods

626
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 1: for experimentation and they're injected with this this synthetic chemical

627
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,400
Speaker 1: that makes them fall in love with the person next

628
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 1: to them, and they experience true love and the most

629
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:38,640
Speaker 1: fervent sexual desire and passion, and.

630
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:43,120
Speaker 3: The lovers and liars coming around z W. Yeah, okay,

631
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:44,360
Speaker 3: but because.

632
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: You know, love is, whether we like to admit it

633
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 1: or not, it is a chemical reaction in our brains.

634
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 1: And you know what causes that chemical reaction is just

635
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:54,400
Speaker 1: as important as the chemical reaction itself, so therefore it's

636
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: real or not whatever. But in this world, they've invented

637
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 1: a chemical like just like taking an antidepressant or an injection,

638
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 1: where it makes you feel those chemicals are the most

639
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 1: intense love you've ever felt you feel in your brain

640
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 1: you really do believe you're in love with this person,

641
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 1: and it lasts for like six hours and you're cuddling

642
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: and it's just like you're in the arms of a

643
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: long lost lover, and then slowly the pill wears off

644
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,119
Speaker 1: and then you're like, I'm repulsed by this person. And

645
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: that has always stuck with me. I read that short

646
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 1: story like fifteen years ago and.

647
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:27,880
Speaker 2: I still think about it or like exdus.

648
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was just Yaeger. They just did three

649
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: yeager bombs. I love you.

650
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 3: I mean that feeling who hasn't gotten who who has

651
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 3: had alcohol problems, not woken up next to something.

652
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 2: That they're like yuck, yeah, you know. But you that

653
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:47,119
Speaker 2: sticked stuck with you for some other reason.

654
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,639
Speaker 1: I think because it was just a novel interesting idea

655
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 1: to me, that like, you could take a pill and

656
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 1: fall in love with somebody because of just the chemicals

657
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 1: in your brain.

658
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,359
Speaker 3: It's just gonna make those fire off, which, yeah, that

659
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:01,119
Speaker 3: is interesting. What is interesting to me is that someone

660
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 3: can be the love of your life and you have

661
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 3: a whole ceremony where you cry about how much you

662
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 3: love each other and you really think you're gonna be

663
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 3: together forever, and then three years later you can have

664
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 3: a bitter divorce where you literally are considering hiring someone

665
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,399
Speaker 3: to murder them. That is interesting to me, that flip.

666
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:17,880
Speaker 3: And I know love and hate are the same thing,

667
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 3: but I just can't when people get divorced. I'm just like,

668
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 3: you dumb fuck, Like what made you think you were

669
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 3: gonna not? You're not dumb, but like I want to

670
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 3: just go back to your wedding and go like, ahh

671
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 3: you idiot? What made you think that? How could it be?

672
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 2: How could you do such a one eighty? That's how

673
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 2: wrong you were.

674
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 3: You now hate that person and wish they literally died,

675
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 3: Like some people's divorces, they wish the person were dead.

676
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 3: How do you love someone so much and then also

677
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 3: want them to die.

678
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 1: I just don't betrayed you and they cheated on you, and.

679
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 3: Well then you never loved you and you were a

680
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 3: fool to think they did and you got you get bamboozled,

681
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 3: and you I feel sorry for you that you got

682
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 3: tricked by a narcissis. And I know it could happen

683
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 3: to me, but it's just got to be really, I think.

684
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 4: It's not even narcissism. I think it's just people don't

685
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 4: know how to fix relationships, and they're like, oh, okay,

686
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 4: well we're having these issues, but if we get married,

687
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 4: things will get better. If we go into this financial

688
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 4: commitment of a house, things will get better. If we

689
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 4: have a kid, things will get better. And then things

690
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 4: don't get better, and they're like divorce.

691
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 1: You ever heard that Louis c. K joke where he's

692
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: like when I when I got married, I was upset

693
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 1: because I was like, man, I could have left, and

694
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 1: I didn't leave. Now I'm stuck. And then I have

695
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 1: kids now and I was like, ah, I could have left.

696
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, you keep feeling like you're stuck forever. You

697
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 3: can always get out of it, but not the kid thing.

698
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 3: You can never get out of the kid thing. That's

699
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 3: the one thing.

700
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: Kids know, well, you still could get but then you're

701
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 1: just such a piece of shit parade.

702
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 3: No, yeah, you'll be running your children shame the rest

703
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 3: of your life. Yeah, of killing your kids or whatever

704
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 3: you did to get rid of them. But oh, you

705
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 3: guys aren't thinking that. You're just thinking of leaving your kids. Okay,

706
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 3: I just just think of something else. But no, I

707
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 3: I just it's just embarrassing to me. I guess when

708
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 3: you think you love someone so much, like even when

709
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 3: I am like really like like a guy, and then

710
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 3: he ends up being a dick and I've kind of

711
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 3: like told my friends that I like him. I'm embarrassed

712
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 3: by even expressing that about someone that was so lame,

713
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 3: let alone having everyone fly out and pay like eight

714
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 3: hundred dollars for a fucking hotel room so they can

715
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 3: witness you saying all this shit. And then two years

716
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 3: later you're like suing them and you wish they never existed.

717
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 2: It's just that's crazy to me. Yeah, it's a lot,

718
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 2: but it is a lot, and it's.

719
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 1: Well, marriage is used to be not about love. No,

720
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 1: the invention of marriage, it was it was all about

721
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 1: power and alliances and your station and making sure your

722
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 1: daughter and you know it.

723
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 3: It is still about that though, Like it's still about

724
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 3: like I own this person, Like why do we put rings,

725
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 3: Like why does a woman have to wear a ring

726
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 3: being like, don't talk to her, she's mine. But men

727
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 3: can just like not have a ring until it's you know,

728
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 3: until it's official. But being engaged, you're like you still

729
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 3: you're off the market. Engagement men need to know, Like

730
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 3: why do we need to let everyone know to stay

731
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 3: away from us?

732
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 2: Like why do you.

733
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,479
Speaker 1: Own to be fair? People aren't coming after men as

734
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 1: much as they are coming on to women.

735
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 2: That's a good point.

736
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 1: Like a man doesn't have an engagement ring, he's probably

737
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 1: maybe he'll get hit on, like one other time. But

738
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 1: if a woman, it's like anytime you go out, there's

739
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 1: a chance you're gonna get hit on.

740
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess that's it. That's a good point. I

741
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 2: guess that's true.

742
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 3: But I just still think it's about owning someone, sure

743
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 3: of course, all but being able to be like it's mine,

744
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 3: don't you don't get to use it. It's like you're

745
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 3: a little kid in a sandbox and you won't lend

746
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 3: someone your should like it's you me, and it's like, no,

747
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 3: it's not. This person is eventually going to and you're

748
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 3: gonna have no say over them at all. And that's

749
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,239
Speaker 3: just interesting to me that someone can be like, have

750
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 3: to deal with someone so much and then they can just.

751
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 2: Be free again.

752
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 4: God.

753
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 3: Divorce people are so fascinating to me because it's so

754
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 3: hard to do. Because I think most people, I think

755
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 3: the divorce rate is would be higher if it was

756
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 3: easier to leave someone.

757
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 2: That's just my thoughts.

758
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 3: I think most I think I think the divorce rate

759
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 3: would be like seventy percent, what is it fifty? I

760
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 3: think it would be somewhere around seventy. Okay, it would

761
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 3: be somewhere around eighty. Then I think if people, especially

762
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 3: for people in their twenties, you know me, I don't

763
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 3: respect you if you get married in your twenties. I

764
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 3: think you're you don't know what you're doing, and it's

765
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 3: you're going to live too long and you're eventually going

766
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 3: to be very different than this person and want to

767
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 3: get out.

768
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 2: I mean, think about your friends.

769
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 3: Like think if you had to have your friends that

770
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 3: you had in your when you're twenty two the rest

771
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 3: of your life, or your job that you had when

772
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:49,480
Speaker 3: you were twenty two. No one in twenty two should

773
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 3: be able to choose things for the rest of their life.

774
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 1: Well, think about when you're sure.

775
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 2: Laugh if they do.

776
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 1: When you're seventeen or sixteen, and then you're signing on

777
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 1: for a two hundred and fifty thousand dollars loan to

778
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 1: go to college and then you have to choose your major.

779
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 1: It's insane.

780
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 3: Yeah that one doesn't. Yeah that I don't think about

781
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 3: that one as much as the marriage thing.

782
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 1: But I have friends from high school. I'm happy that

783
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 1: they're still my friends.

784
00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 2: You know I do too. I definitely friendship.

785
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 1: Was a little baby when I knew him. I knewhim,

786
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: I was a little baby. I held him in my arms.

787
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 3: Well, you guys just got lucky, and you probably are

788
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 3: friends based on the fact that you have so much

789
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 3: sunk in cost into it, and that if you maybe

790
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 3: met this person today, you might not be friends with

791
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 3: them as much. A lot of people are just friends

792
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 3: because it's like we've been friends for so long. We

793
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 3: all know that girl who's like you go to her

794
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 3: wedding and you're one of her best friends currently, and

795
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 3: then she has a best friend from when she was

796
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 3: a baby, and it's like she looks different than every like,

797
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 3: she's just a different kind of girl that like is

798
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 3: a little bit needier and weirder and not really fitting

799
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 3: in with everyone else.

800
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 2: But she's the baby friend.

801
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 3: So that girl thinks she has seniority because she's noticed

802
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 3: that she was a baby. But it's like, bitch, this girl,

803
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 3: my friend wouldn't be friends with you The only reason

804
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 3: she's friends to you is because our parents made your

805
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 3: parents made you guys hang out together. Yeah, don't act

806
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 3: like you're better friends with my friend even though she

807
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 3: had to make you the maid of honor, because you

808
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 3: are crazy and you'll make a big deal of it

809
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 3: if you're not. And she knows I'm more understanding, and

810
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:11,840
Speaker 3: that I really know I'm her best friend, and she

811
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 3: knows I don't want the responsibility. But you have really

812
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 3: nothing else going on in your life than claiming to

813
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 3: be this girl's best friend because you met when you

814
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 3: were babies, when you had no choice in it.

815
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 2: Does anyone relate to that person?

816
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 1: Well, I'm just very lucky because my high school friends,

817
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 1: my friends from growing cool, they're cool and we just

818
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 1: we just all like the same things. We like doing

819
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 1: the same things. We like gambling, we like watching sports,

820
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 1: we like playing board games. Like we like all the

821
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 1: same stuff. And it's probably because we developed our personalities

822
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:42,280
Speaker 1: together growing up over those years. Yeah, and we were cool.

823
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:44,320
Speaker 1: We were not cool, That's.

824
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 3: The key, right, don't forget. Yes, you were not cool.

825
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 3: So we just developed our friend group and did any

826
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 3: of them get cool? Did you ever have a friend

827
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,719
Speaker 3: that like got cool and ditched you guys.

828
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 1: Because I'm cool and ditched us. No, and ditched us.

829
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,759
Speaker 1: We had we had a friend who was was a

830
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 1: did a good athlete. He was on the swim team

831
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 1: and lacrosse team. He's pretty ripped, but he's just he was.

832
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 1: He was just an angry dude. So we never really

833
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 1: transcended to coolness, and no nobody became cool at all.

834
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 2: What happened? Did you ever?

835
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 1: Have? We all got older, sorry, we all got older,

836
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:23,319
Speaker 1: and then we were seniors. People started to realize that

837
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 1: being cool wasn't what it was all about, and that

838
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 1: my friends.

839
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 3: Seniors in high school, you figured out that being cool

840
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:29,959
Speaker 3: is and what it's about.

841
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 1: Well, the school figured it out, and they were like,

842
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 1: you know what, these guys are actually fun and there

843
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter if they're not cool, they're fine.

844
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 3: Your group of friends became cool because everyone realized that

845
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:42,320
Speaker 3: being cool is just being.

846
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 1: Fun, right, not cool, cool, but like popular in a sense.

847
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 2: Okay, that's cool.

848
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 3: That you guys all got it together senior year and

849
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:51,320
Speaker 3: like realized that together.

850
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, or or so you are telling us.

851
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 1: And now all the cool kids, all the really truly

852
00:35:56,760 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 1: cool kids, the football players and stuff. They're all fucking losers.

853
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 1: They're all fucking losers. All my friends are doctors and

854
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 1: lawyers and police officer and and all the coolest guys

855
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:13,839
Speaker 1: are like like work like I work at the bar

856
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 1: in town. You know, it's like.

857
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 3: It's sad, but they're still friends with there. They're probably

858
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:22,839
Speaker 3: like still hanging out with high school kids and they're

859
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 3: like or they're probably well, I guess they're too old

860
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 3: for that now, but I feel like they they just

861
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 3: stay in high school forever and they kind of always are.

862
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:32,799
Speaker 1: Yeah.

863
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm trying to say.

864
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 4: My high school didn't have sports, so it's just funny

865
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:39,960
Speaker 4: to hear what you thought was cool for me. I

866
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 4: thought you were cool when you start having sex. And

867
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 4: that's how we lost all the time, me and my

868
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:46,840
Speaker 4: best friend the third friend.

869
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 3: Wait, that's how Wait your school didn't have sports?

870
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 2: Posted to go do uh?

871
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 4: Edward Armorrow High School, it was like an arts rocket,

872
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:57,879
Speaker 4: like art high school.

873
00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:58,800
Speaker 1: Is our private school?

874
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:00,720
Speaker 4: No, it was that private. It was public.

875
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 3: But did you go to an art school, Like, did

876
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 3: you choose it or was that just the one that

877
00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:05,720
Speaker 3: you decided?

878
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 4: I was so and forward and they had like a

879
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 4: TV production class, and I knew I wanted to work

880
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 4: in that.

881
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:11,840
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I would have loved to go to

882
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:13,839
Speaker 2: a school without sports. Are you kidding me?

883
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 4: This is like the majors and stuff.

884
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:17,879
Speaker 2: You didn't have to go to gym, Like you didn't

885
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 2: have pe.

886
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 4: We had pe like it was a part of the schedule.

887
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 4: But you know, I just took yoga and we got

888
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 4: to sleep yoga.

889
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 1: A nonsports school must be hilarious.

890
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, we didn't have officials sports team awesome, So it

891
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 4: cool meant whoever was having sex? Yeah, so you know

892
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 4: how you you asked me if we lost a friend

893
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 4: to coolness. It was always like when the third girl

894
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 4: ended up having a boyfriend, then they had sex, and

895
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:45,840
Speaker 4: then she was like she out cooled us.

896
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:47,359
Speaker 2: What's the third girl mean?

897
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 4: Cause I had like one very close friend growing up,

898
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 4: like up to the end of high school, so she

899
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 4: was my best friend.

900
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 3: And then you would have a rotating third girl that

901
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 3: would always come in of her and.

902
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:03,360
Speaker 4: Leave having had sex.

903
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 3: I say slut jokingly because we thought anyone that did

904
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,760
Speaker 3: anything with boys, we just that they were a slut

905
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 3: in that.

906
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:11,880
Speaker 1: She was smirched, defiled.

907
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 3: Yeah she had Yeah, that was what I lost my

908
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:19,239
Speaker 3: friends too as well is sex and boys. And yeah,

909
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:22,839
Speaker 3: it was just like four or five years behind that,

910
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,359
Speaker 3: Like I would have thrived go, I would have been

911
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 3: like boy crazy. I was maybe boy crazy in my

912
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:30,479
Speaker 3: thirties is when I became like a kind of boy

913
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 3: crazy in a high school type way. But in high school,

914
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 3: boys coming along was just like, get the fuck out

915
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:38,879
Speaker 3: of here, man, Like you're making all my friends act

916
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 3: like assholes. Yeah, and their voices get all weird and

917
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:45,839
Speaker 3: they get stupider, and they get like gigly, and they

918
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 3: all act like they're high when they're around boys, and

919
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 3: they just act dumb and we can't be gross and

920
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,360
Speaker 3: they're just distracted and they won't go down on me anymore.

921
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 2: And so.

922
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:01,320
Speaker 3: I really just felt like guys were I liked boys,

923
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 3: and I liked being around them because I liked their

924
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 3: sense of humor, and I liked if I had crushes,

925
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:10,840
Speaker 3: but I was not, like I just didn't. It just

926
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 3: ruined my girlfriendships. Men ruined everything. It was so good

927
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 3: until we started caring about what boys thought about us,

928
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 3: and then it's been all down till from there.

929
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 1: Sort of like what Penn fifteen is about.

930
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, it really is like one of them maturing before

931
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 3: the other one and the other one feeling really left behind.

932
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:28,920
Speaker 3: I think that's a very normal experience.

933
00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 2: But now.

934
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:35,760
Speaker 3: But now, yeah, I mean it's now all your friends.

935
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:38,240
Speaker 3: Now all my friends are married and have kids or

936
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 3: are having kids. So it's all coming to fruition, the

937
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 3: thing that the quest they started pursuing in high school

938
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 3: is coming to a close, and they have reached everest.

939
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 3: They have reached I've had three friends get married in

940
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 3: the past year. Yes, that is a good name. That

941
00:39:56,440 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 3: would be a great name. So they've summitted, and they're

942
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 3: on the way back down and some of them I

943
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 3: die along way. No, they're all they all summoned, and

944
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 3: I am at the bottom. I'm at the base camp,

945
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 3: hanging out eating chili in the cabin, waiting for them

946
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 3: to come back down and hang out with me.

947
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:19,760
Speaker 2: But the yeah, but the yeah.

948
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 3: You start out in high school liking boys and then

949
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 3: dating boys, and then it's all climbed to like someday

950
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 3: one will choose me to own me.

951
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 2: And then you have a then you and then you

952
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 2: have kids, and then you have kids and then you.

953
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,359
Speaker 3: Raise those kids and all the effort goes into them

954
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 3: and then they abandon you because they need their own

955
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:39,919
Speaker 3: lives and they start resenting you, and like, no matter

956
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:41,839
Speaker 3: how good of a parent you are, eventually your kids

957
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,480
Speaker 3: will reach a level where they want literally nothing to

958
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 3: do with you.

959
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:46,399
Speaker 2: And that has got to be the.

960
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:49,759
Speaker 3: One of the most heartbreaking moments of anyone's life is

961
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 3: having a fifteen year old daughter who hates the fucking

962
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 3: side of you and you have just just ten years

963
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 3: ago you were everything to her and now she literally

964
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 3: hates you and tells you that that's gonna be hard.

965
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:04,920
Speaker 3: And then they leave, and then you've gotten Then hopefully

966
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:06,880
Speaker 3: you have some hobbies that you can put yourself back into.

967
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 3: But I know a lot of people get lost in

968
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:11,960
Speaker 3: the kid thing and then their kids go off and

969
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:13,759
Speaker 3: they don't know what to do anymore. And that's usually

970
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 3: when they divorce because they are for the first time

971
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 3: see their husband for the first time and go, what

972
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 3: the fuck is this guy? Like they've been distracted chasing

973
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 3: kids around?

974
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then they get.

975
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,560
Speaker 3: Divorced or the husband, you know, start seeing someone and

976
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 3: they just pretend to ignore it and get.

977
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 1: Into this guard seeing or somebody you're too busy, yeah exactly,

978
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:31,120
Speaker 1: Or you just didn't care, You're like, good, I don't

979
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: want to fuck them anyway you do it, yeah, and

980
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 1: then and.

981
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 3: Then you can't like like, that's why a lot of

982
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 3: Hollywood couples, I think divorce is because the woman knows

983
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 3: her husband's cheating on her, and it's like a tacit

984
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:43,920
Speaker 3: agreement of like, don't ask, don't tell. But then he

985
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 3: gets sloppy, and then she has to make like a

986
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 3: whole presentation of it for everyone and be like, we're divorcing.

987
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 3: I feel betrayed even though she knew.

988
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 4: You know.

989
00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 3: I think that happens a lot more than you think.

990
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 3: But then then that's when the grandmothers start begging for

991
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:02,879
Speaker 3: grandkids because they want want to do it again. That's

992
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 3: what they want. They want it so bad, and doing

993
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 3: it as a grandparent is easier because you just come in.

994
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 1: It's ever on, Yeah, little kid date.

995
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I think that's the cycle life.

996
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 3: I really don't want to know what I'm gonna do though,

997
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:19,839
Speaker 3: when you know, when I when my parents die, or

998
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 3: like you know, my niece and nephew don't care like

999
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:24,959
Speaker 3: I have certain things in my life where I'm like, okay,

1000
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 3: I feel important and loved unconditionally I get why people

1001
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 3: get married. I get white people have kids. You need

1002
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 3: to feel like you matter, like more than just your career,

1003
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:40,359
Speaker 3: more than just for me, like fans or something, you know,

1004
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 3: like what my only fans. You need to feel like

1005
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 3: you need to feel some other like that you're loved

1006
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 3: in a deep way that it's like unconditional, like not

1007
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:53,319
Speaker 3: based on stuff. And so that's my parents, and that's

1008
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 3: my niece and nephew, but they're eventually my niece nephew

1009
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 3: unt can give a shit about me, and my parents.

1010
00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 2: Will be dead.

1011
00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 3: And that's where I'll worry about myself. But I'm I'm

1012
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 3: I'm preparing for that. That's where you get a husband.

1013
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 1: Husband and friends. You shared a video one time on

1014
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 1: Instagram of the of an interview with this childless woman

1015
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 1: rights activist interview or something like that, and I want

1016
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 1: and then there's a whole podcast. I forgot what it's called,

1017
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:21,600
Speaker 1: but it's about there's two women who are child free

1018
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:23,920
Speaker 1: and they interview other women who are child free. And

1019
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:25,799
Speaker 1: you shared this clip of this woman and she said,

1020
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:26,319
Speaker 1: and I listened to the.

1021
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 2: End, urreat forgot what did she say?

1022
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: Well, she said that you know she's in her eighties now,

1023
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 1: she's seen a lot of people come and go. And

1024
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 1: one of the major concerns that people have when they

1025
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: decide not to have children is when I'm on my deathbed,

1026
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 1: when I'm too sick and frail to take care of myself,

1027
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 1: Who's going to take care of me if I don't

1028
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 1: have children. Who's gonna come visit me? If I don't

1029
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:49,360
Speaker 1: have children? And she says she's seen dozens, dozens of

1030
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 1: people on their deathbed, and you know who doesn't come

1031
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 1: visit them? They're kids. You know who does. You know

1032
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 1: who's checking up on them. You know who's asking the

1033
00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 1: doctors questions. You know who's bringing them flowers and bringing

1034
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: them lunch. They're friends. You need to have friends, have

1035
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:05,840
Speaker 1: friends of all ages, and they will take care of

1036
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,439
Speaker 1: you way more than your kids might.

1037
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:11,360
Speaker 2: Okay, I gotta make some young friends.

1038
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:15,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, sometimes you just feel older friends or older friends,

1039
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:16,840
Speaker 3: but they got to pay it forward.

1040
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to be proactive.

1041
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 3: That's the thing is like, I don't think I want

1042
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 3: to take care of some old person right now, but.

1043
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 1: You're not taking care of them. You're just part of

1044
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 1: a team of friends who's like, let me go check

1045
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 1: in on them check in on.

1046
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:37,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, bring some soup, right, some callous I would you know,

1047
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 3: carve some calluses off an old woman's foot, Sign me

1048
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 3: up for that. Sure, go rub some bunions or do that. Okay, yeah,

1049
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:46,920
Speaker 3: that's good. You just got to keep friends. But then

1050
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 3: your friends have kids and then they don't have time.

1051
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 1: But by when you're old, when you're old enough, then

1052
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:54,800
Speaker 1: they don't that they're not taking care of their kids anymore. Okay,

1053
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 1: when you're when you're at that age where you need

1054
00:44:56,960 --> 00:45:00,120
Speaker 1: to be taken care of, having a robust friends group

1055
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:04,880
Speaker 1: is really if you don't have kids, is the most important.

1056
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:08,239
Speaker 2: Thing, okay, or if you do have kids, some.

1057
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 4: Of the most need Yeah, you need friends too. We

1058
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:14,319
Speaker 4: have friends here like all like three different generations. I

1059
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 4: have friends who are younger. I have friends who are

1060
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:20,880
Speaker 4: like twenty years older than me, and the older friends

1061
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 4: everyone's like, if you ever need a babysitter, if you

1062
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 4: ever want to drop your kid off somewhere, they're offering us.

1063
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 3: So it's only sweet friends in a place that you

1064
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 3: just moved to not that long ago.

1065
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:32,720
Speaker 2: It's really impressive.

1066
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 4: Noah, I feel so lucky.

1067
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 3: Yeah you you are. Okay, we're gonna take a break.

1068
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go get some young friends and we'll be

1069
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 3: back after this.

1070
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 2: All right, we're back. What did you guys do with

1071
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 2: your day today?

1072
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:49,920
Speaker 1: In between or we have friends? One of my friends

1073
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 1: just happened to be in the neighborhood and he stopped

1074
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 1: by and we watched the end of the women's Final

1075
00:45:57,120 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 1: four Cane Yukon versus Iowa and no schooler alert. But

1076
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:07,719
Speaker 1: Caitlyn Clark lost. I heard, very unfortunate for her, but

1077
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:09,919
Speaker 1: you know, Yukon was a good team, and.

1078
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 2: Is she a senior?

1079
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 1: Wait? Was Yukon? No? I'm sorry, not no, wasn't Kon?

1080
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:17,839
Speaker 1: South Carolina? Sorry, that's right. South Carolina defeated and it's

1081
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 1: pretty cool. They went thirty eight no, which is pretty cool.

1082
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 1: But I feel bad for Caitlyn Clark, who's now lost

1083
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 1: twice in the national championship. Devastat.

1084
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 3: She's gonna go onto great things, She's but she.

1085
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 1: She can go on to great things. It's almost like anything.

1086
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, I might be speaking out of turn,

1087
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:35,320
Speaker 1: but it sort of feels like the entire world's gaze

1088
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 1: was upon Caitlyn Clark in this tournament, and it feels

1089
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:41,920
Speaker 1: like anything she might accomplish in the WNBA will not

1090
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 1: be as visible as what she was doing during the

1091
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 1: Final four during March Madness.

1092
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 2: She's a senior. Is this over for this?

1093
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 1: Is it? It's over for her?

1094
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:49,839
Speaker 2: She will never have an.

1095
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,319
Speaker 3: Opportunity she do a fifty year senior kind of thing.

1096
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:53,239
Speaker 3: Do some people do that?

1097
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 1: I don't think she's eligible. She's going into the draft

1098
00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 1: and she's gonna be on the Indiana fever.

1099
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 2: And oh that's exciting for you.

1100
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 1: I don't care about Indiana basketball. I actually that's the

1101
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 1: one Indiana thing I don't.

1102
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 3: Well, people be excited to watch her play. That's what

1103
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:10,919
Speaker 3: you're saying that you don't think it will matter. Why

1104
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:12,840
Speaker 3: is it so exciting now at the college level, and

1105
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 3: it won't be exciting to watch her play.

1106
00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:16,840
Speaker 1: There's just something about I mean, do you hear anybody

1107
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:18,840
Speaker 1: talking about the w NBA playoffs?

1108
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 3: No, but maybe I wouldn't hear anyone talk about the girls' NC.

1109
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:25,520
Speaker 1: Double A until now, well, just the last few years,

1110
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:29,319
Speaker 1: the Women's NC Double A has been filled with these

1111
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 1: characters and stars, and it's been very competitive with rivalries

1112
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 1: and one of the greatest, probably three of the greatest,

1113
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,839
Speaker 1: Uh you know, players to play in one of maybe

1114
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 1: all time, and so it's just been super exciting. And

1115
00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 1: the w NBA has better players than the players in

1116
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 1: the currently in March madness, but no one seems to

1117
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 1: care about what's going on in WNBA at all. Can

1118
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:58,439
Speaker 1: you even name like five teams in the w NBA?

1119
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:01,879
Speaker 3: Probably not, no, And I'm not It's like the same

1120
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 3: with the Kevin Hart movie thing.

1121
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 2: I'm not ashamed.

1122
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:06,360
Speaker 3: It's not what I shouldn't have to know that I

1123
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 3: don't care about basketball, you know, But yes, I can

1124
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 3: name male basketball teams.

1125
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,439
Speaker 1: I think how many do you think you can name?

1126
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 3: Probably five easily, Miami Heat, Pacers, Pistons, yeah, wow, Bulls, yeah, jazz.

1127
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: Yeah. You could also just randomly selected words.

1128
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:36,720
Speaker 3: You could just name animals.

1129
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1130
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 3: But it's like the Bill Burd joke where he's like, well,

1131
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 3: women are so mad that you're women. Women's sports don't

1132
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,400
Speaker 3: get attention. Why aren't you watching this ship?

1133
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:46,760
Speaker 2: Was that his point?

1134
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,280
Speaker 3: It was like, no one, you're not watching it either, bitches,

1135
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:52,239
Speaker 3: which I loved. It was like, yeah, we're not. We

1136
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,399
Speaker 3: can't get mad that like no one watches women. It's

1137
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:55,719
Speaker 3: like we don't do it either.

1138
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 1: Although there's a girl in high school who is going

1139
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 1: viral right now because she is dunking and she's like

1140
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:06,839
Speaker 1: with ease. She's dunking and she's not even that tall.

1141
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,200
Speaker 1: She just has ups, So that's pretty exciting.

1142
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:11,080
Speaker 2: I mean, just like a good vertical or whatever.

1143
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 1: Up. She got a good vertical. She can jump really

1144
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:14,839
Speaker 1: high and dunk the ball, which is something you don't

1145
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 1: see very often in women's basketball. And it just feels like,

1146
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 1: as with all sports, men's and women's, does the athletes

1147
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:27,360
Speaker 1: progress and somehow over time they just become more athletic

1148
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: than they were the generation before.

1149
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 3: It's like in comedy too, like people just become so

1150
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 3: much funnier than fifty years or thirty years ago, twenty

1151
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:39,280
Speaker 3: years ago. Like it's just it's just we just evolved,

1152
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 3: and we're evolving quickly.

1153
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 1: Before I believe that people were like thought Tim Allen

1154
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 1: was funny. The bar was so low Tim Allen, WHOA,

1155
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:55,400
Speaker 1: that's hilarious that noise.

1156
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 2: Hunt and women.

1157
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:57,439
Speaker 3: I mean, I do think he had comedic talent for sure,

1158
00:49:57,520 --> 00:49:59,279
Speaker 3: like there was something to be had back then, but

1159
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:00,920
Speaker 3: it was so so much lower.

1160
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:07,800
Speaker 1: Yeahs a cabin in. Actually, I'll save this for Diamond

1161
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 1: Players Club. Remind me to talk shit about Tim Allen.

1162
00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like you've a bone to pick.

1163
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:14,959
Speaker 1: I've got a bone to pick with this guy.

1164
00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 3: There is an example recently of someone talking out about

1165
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 3: someone and saying that they were not pleasant to work with,

1166
00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:24,839
Speaker 3: and then I go, No, that that's you. That's I've

1167
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 3: been harboring. You're I've been You're the name I know,

1168
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 3: You're the top of my list if I ever talk

1169
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:32,439
Speaker 3: about why does this person work, even though I've heard

1170
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 3: documentation that they're not fun to work with?

1171
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:38,000
Speaker 2: How are you calling someone out? But then you realize

1172
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 2: that those who teach? Is that the thing?

1173
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:45,319
Speaker 3: Like, No, that's the that's like those who those who

1174
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:45,880
Speaker 3: can't teach.

1175
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:49,839
Speaker 2: No, you you hate that which you are.

1176
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 3: Like the other day, Anya like hated this guy's shape

1177
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:54,440
Speaker 3: of his.

1178
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:55,919
Speaker 2: Head and she was like, I just hate the way

1179
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:58,319
Speaker 2: his head is shaped. She was really bad about his head.

1180
00:50:58,320 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 4: I was like, what's going on?

1181
00:50:59,080 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 3: She was like, And then I realized it's because that's

1182
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:02,880
Speaker 3: the way my head is shaped.

1183
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 2: And I hated it.

1184
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, so I think that it's yeah,

1185
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 3: and I've probably been unpleasant to people, and I'm I'm

1186
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 3: a big call out person of like that person sucks

1187
00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 3: to work with. And I'm sure that there are people

1188
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 3: that have encountered me at times where I just wasn't

1189
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 3: aware that I was being a dick and it seemed

1190
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:25,359
Speaker 3: like the worst behavior so hard. Yeah, that story could

1191
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 3: come out. They even though those are my girls and

1192
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,680
Speaker 3: I love them, they could say, like one time Nikki

1193
00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 3: was like, sorry, my pussy stinks and like pulled up

1194
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:34,399
Speaker 3: her pants and was like, honestly, it was a little

1195
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 3: aggressive and she didn't really seem that sorry. Like they

1196
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 3: could just check my tone or whatever. And the stories

1197
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 3: I've heard about the people I know that are unpleasant

1198
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 3: could just be hearsay and it could just be one

1199
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:46,600
Speaker 3: person experience, except that I've heard it from multiple people

1200
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:47,319
Speaker 3: in different shows.

1201
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 2: So who's to say. Who's to say?

1202
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:55,479
Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm gonna be pleasant on set this week,

1203
00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:57,000
Speaker 3: That's all I know. I'm gonna have a good time.

1204
00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:59,359
Speaker 3: I'm gonna appreciate even though it's a serious week.

1205
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 1: So when will you get to say?

1206
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:06,319
Speaker 3: I think when it becomes announced like what it is,

1207
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 3: and once they can't take the money, once the checks

1208
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:11,080
Speaker 3: have been cashed and they can't take it away from me.

1209
00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 1: And when's your special?

1210
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:14,359
Speaker 2: I can't say, Ah.

1211
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 1: What the fuck? Really, dude?

1212
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:18,320
Speaker 3: Still, but you did you did you see the trailer

1213
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:19,399
Speaker 3: for it? You saw the trailer, right?

1214
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:20,840
Speaker 1: I saw the trailer, Okay.

1215
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 3: I so I didn't want to watch the trailer because

1216
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:25,319
Speaker 3: I don't like watching myself. And I'm just like, so

1217
00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 3: tired of seeing that special, even though it's awesome and

1218
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 3: I've heard good reports from everyone that watches it, and

1219
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:32,520
Speaker 3: I also was proud of it at a couple of points,

1220
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:33,920
Speaker 3: even though it was very hard for me. Even if

1221
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:35,400
Speaker 3: it was perfect, I would still hate it. That's the

1222
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 3: way I view myself. I get this trailer and I'm like,

1223
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:39,759
Speaker 3: I don't have to watch it because I heard Brian

1224
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:41,840
Speaker 3: loves it. I heard Chris loves it. I heard everyone

1225
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:44,560
Speaker 3: like everyone HBO loves it. Let's just run it, you know.

1226
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:45,880
Speaker 3: And I was like, I don't even need to watch it,

1227
00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 3: and then Chris was like, maybe just watch it. I

1228
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 3: am so glad I fucking did good because there is

1229
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 3: a vagina joke within seconds of it starting, and I'm like,

1230
00:52:56,920 --> 00:53:00,920
Speaker 3: if you we can't do this, we can't. People already

1231
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 3: hate female comics talking about their vagina. You cannot in

1232
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 3: the trailer, Like, I can't even like this is going

1233
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 3: to be seen more than My Special one hundred percent

1234
00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:12,920
Speaker 3: more like at least one hundred percent more this trailer.

1235
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:16,839
Speaker 3: And what this will come with that HBO you know

1236
00:53:16,920 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 3: or Max does not have is comments my trailer. Anytime

1237
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 3: that anyone watches it, they will be able to see comments.

1238
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 3: If there is a vagina joke front center, which I

1239
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 3: do talk about my vagina in the special fuck you uh,

1240
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:32,320
Speaker 3: but if dumb people are not gonna watch My Special

1241
00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:34,520
Speaker 3: right right, Like, but dumb people are gonna watch the trailer,

1242
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:35,880
Speaker 3: and what will they say, Oh, this is all the

1243
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 3: women talk about, can't they talk about anything else? Like

1244
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:40,319
Speaker 3: it would be the worst comment section you've ever seen,

1245
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 3: And then people that actually like me would slowly start

1246
00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:46,719
Speaker 3: to feel that way about me, even though these idiots

1247
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 3: are the ones that are like setting the tone. Because

1248
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:52,320
Speaker 3: so when I saw the vagina joke, I just screamed

1249
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 3: and I was like, no, like, it's that's the worst thing.

1250
00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:59,080
Speaker 3: And they were well intentioned to doing it because they're

1251
00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:00,840
Speaker 3: proud of me, and the joke is hilarious and it

1252
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 3: would be great in the trailer. I wish I could

1253
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:04,920
Speaker 3: put it in, but people are too ignorant, people are

1254
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:08,680
Speaker 3: too myopic when they think about women doing stand up,

1255
00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 3: and they already hate us and they don't want us

1256
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:12,560
Speaker 3: to have a microphone, so they have to like make

1257
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 3: what we do. They have to belittle it and say that,

1258
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 3: you know, we're one note. So I just can't have that.

1259
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, really good point. I did not think that

1260
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 1: at all. I uh, and I should have No, it's okay. No,

1261
00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 1: I had a note I think was addressed.

1262
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:30,359
Speaker 2: No, I thought you're I think your note was good.

1263
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:31,439
Speaker 2: I think your note was good.

1264
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 3: There was a there were a lot of notes I

1265
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:35,359
Speaker 3: had for it, but it's it was good.

1266
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:36,280
Speaker 2: It was a good trailer.

1267
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 3: If the person that's making it is listening, I wanted

1268
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 3: you to know, like you did a really good job.

1269
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 3: It's just I have to pay attention to these extra

1270
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 3: things in considering what people are going to make fun of,

1271
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 3: because the trailer is literally more important than the special.

1272
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 2: I hate to say it.

1273
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:51,840
Speaker 3: Like the poster is sometimes more important than special, Like

1274
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:55,239
Speaker 3: if you work in ad sales or like key art

1275
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:57,239
Speaker 3: for these things, like you are doing the lord's work

1276
00:54:57,239 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 3: because the special is so important, so much effort went

1277
00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:00,120
Speaker 3: into it.

1278
00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:02,560
Speaker 2: But more people are going to see the fucking poster. Yeah,

1279
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 2: and that is not the way it used to be.

1280
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:06,319
Speaker 1: That's how it was for the Netflix show I was

1281
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:09,920
Speaker 1: on or I ran, and the trailer was almost like

1282
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:12,720
Speaker 1: better than the show. Honestly, it was an excellent trailer.

1283
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 1: Netflix doesn't trailer could be so good. Yeah, a lot

1284
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 1: of movies their trailers are better than the movie.

1285
00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, the you know.

1286
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:24,720
Speaker 3: I've said it before, but one of my favorite movie

1287
00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 3: is the Social Network trailer.

1288
00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:29,280
Speaker 2: It's the best short film I've ever seen in my life.

1289
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so good. I watch it a lot. I

1290
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:35,480
Speaker 3: love good trailers. I would take any recommendations from busties.

1291
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:37,080
Speaker 3: By the way, shout out to besties who gave me

1292
00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 3: nineteen seventy five songs to get into great. So many

1293
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:44,960
Speaker 3: wrote to me, somebody else is amazing. There was another

1294
00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:49,000
Speaker 3: what did I add? Somebody else was a recommendation that

1295
00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 3: a lot gave to me that were like, this is

1296
00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:55,240
Speaker 3: just a classic, you gotta do it. And then right, yeah,

1297
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:59,320
Speaker 3: two time, two time, two time, two time, two time,

1298
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 3: and then another song that no one recommended but I

1299
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:04,680
Speaker 3: just got into. And so nineteen seventy five fans, I

1300
00:56:04,680 --> 00:56:06,359
Speaker 3: want to know if you would recommend the song because

1301
00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:06,680
Speaker 3: it's one.

1302
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 2: Of my favorites. Chocolate is really good, So thank you

1303
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:11,200
Speaker 2: for those recks.

1304
00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:13,400
Speaker 3: I really do appreciate when besties like follow up with

1305
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:15,520
Speaker 3: stuff that I ask for specifically. So we do want

1306
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:18,360
Speaker 3: to hear if you have an OnlyFans experience.

1307
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:20,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I really want to know if you're making money

1308
00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 1: or if it is like what you say and it's like, oh,

1309
00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:26,520
Speaker 1: it's actually kind of sad you're not making money anymore.

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Speaker 1: It's not like it used to be. You just kind

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Speaker 1: of put yourself out there and you don't get any

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Speaker 1: feedback and it sucks. Yeah, I because that's the saddest.

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Speaker 3: Thing of all OnlyFans is only positive feedback where there's

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Speaker 3: not like a lot of like people making fun of you,

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Speaker 3: like I think, like.

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Speaker 1: Because you have to know what the negative feedback is.

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Speaker 1: Not getting any feedback is you post a picture and

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Speaker 1: it gets no likes or no comments or no tips,

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00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:51,120
Speaker 1: and you're just like, what am I doing this for?

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Speaker 1: That's the sad thing. Oh God, it's like you do

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Speaker 1: the thing that you think is like automatic payday. I'm

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Speaker 1: putting myself out there, I'm taking the risk. I'm going

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Speaker 1: down the quote unquote shameful route and then to not

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Speaker 1: get the payoff man.

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Speaker 3: I sent it uh a nude the other night to

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Speaker 3: my man, and right before I went on stage, I

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Speaker 3: was just like alone in my green room, and you know,

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Speaker 3: I'm gussied up as much as I'll ever guss up,

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Speaker 3: and I just usually just like take a tit out

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Speaker 3: and take a picture.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: It's like it's always funny to just have a full,

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Speaker 3: put together look, but then you just pull your shirt

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Speaker 3: down enough that you're like, oh, it just slipped out.

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Speaker 2: Like it's I think that's always kind of a sexy,

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Speaker 2: fun look.

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Speaker 3: It's funny too, so you like have that going for

1338
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 3: you if it ever leaks. It's like if your tit

1339
00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 3: starts leaking on camera. So, uh, I sent it and

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Speaker 3: then I went on stage and I come off stage.

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Speaker 3: Nothing back. But it's like prime time too, like right,

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Speaker 3: it's like eight o'clock. So I'm like, what the fuck?

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Speaker 2: You know, and then I go, I'll go do the

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Speaker 2: meet and greet. There'll be something. When I get back.

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Speaker 3: Nothing again, and so I'm just like what the f.

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Speaker 3: And then I'm starting to worry because I didn't send

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Speaker 3: this on the like secret messaging app that we have

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Speaker 3: that like erases everything and is very encrypted or whatever

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Speaker 3: or not. I don't know which one it is, but

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Speaker 3: it's the safe one. I just send it on regular text.

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, did this come up on like did

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Speaker 3: he have it on air like air drop or like

1353
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Speaker 3: apple play or whatever, Like I don't Apple TV? Like

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Speaker 3: what is he like dealing with the fallout from that picture.

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Speaker 1: Popping up while he was showing his parents pictures from Spain?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so, but that isn't the case, he wrote back.

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Speaker 3: He just I think fell asleep or something. But that

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Speaker 3: that moment, that three hours of being like, first of all,

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Speaker 3: is this not impressive?

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Speaker 2: Did there's no way?

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Speaker 3: You just looked at this and we're like, you know,

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Speaker 3: like you gotta write something, But it is.

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Speaker 2: I talked about it before.

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Speaker 3: It is very strange when you send off like a

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Speaker 3: slutty picture and then the person you're sending it to

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Speaker 3: is like not horny at all, like he might have

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Speaker 3: just like not been in the mood for it. And

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Speaker 3: it's just like sending your friend who's nauseous in our

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Speaker 3: first trimester of like a picture of a plate of

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Speaker 3: spaghetti and meatballs and they're just like looh, you know,

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Speaker 3: so it could have been that, but what I.

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Speaker 1: Call my picks.

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Speaker 2: Sauce it all right, Well that's our show.

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Speaker 3: Thank you guys so much for listening to these two

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Speaker 3: double episodes that happened in one day. I hope you

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Speaker 3: enjoyed them. We are going to be back next week.

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Speaker 3: Don't you worry about it.

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Speaker 2: I'm in LA.

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Speaker 3: Come see me this weekend in New Orleans. I'm in

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Speaker 3: Minneapolis on Friday night, New Orleans on Saturday night, and

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Speaker 3: then Houston on Sunday night.

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Speaker 2: So much fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, keep sending your recommendations, keep deming us, telling us

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Speaker 3: things that we should talk about or that you like,

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Speaker 3: and we love.

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Speaker 2: You and see you next week. And don't be kidd

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Speaker 2: hi e