1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: All right, lady and gentlemen, it's that time for the 2 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter with my good friend Shirley Strawberry. Thank you, Junior. 3 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: I appreciate it. We are good friends. Subject he could 4 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: have her if he wanted to. Dear Stephen, Shirley, I 5 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 1: have a friend that can be self centered and a 6 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 1: bit loose when it comes to men. We have been 7 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: friends for thirteen years, but I've never had an issue 8 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 1: with her until recently. She likes to flirt with other 9 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: women's men and boast that she can take any man 10 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: from his woman. I just never thought it would happen 11 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 1: to me. I started seeing a new guy and he 12 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: invited me to a house party, so I invited my 13 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: friend to meet us there. My friend met my new 14 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 1: guy and we all had a good time. My friend 15 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:50,599 Speaker 1: worked the room and got several of the guy's attention. 16 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:53,519 Speaker 1: She even danced with my guy for a hot minute, 17 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 1: and he said that she was really cool. After the party, 18 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: we went to an after hour spot to eat. We 19 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: were all tipsy, so we took an uber. My guy 20 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: sat up front and I sat in the back with 21 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: my friend. On the way there, my friend was on 22 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: her phone the entire time, and I saw her locking 23 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 1: in someone's number, but I didn't pay that much attention 24 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 1: to it when we got to dinner. We got to 25 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 1: the diner, they sat side by side in the booth, 26 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: and I sat across from them because he said he 27 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:27,839 Speaker 1: wanted to look at me while we ate. My friend 28 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 1: started getting flirty with my guy, and she rubbed his 29 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: head and touched his thigh. I knew it was time 30 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: to take her drunk behind home before I caused a scene. 31 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 1: We dropped her off at home first. When she got 32 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: out of the uber, she told my guy that she 33 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: would be in touch. I was shocked that they exchanged numbers. 34 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: I was furious with him, but I didn't say a word. 35 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:52,559 Speaker 1: I just gave him a really crazy look. He said 36 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: it's totally innocent, because he could have had her right 37 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: then and there if he wanted her. Now, I'm confused 38 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: about who to be mad at. I haven't talked to 39 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: my friends since that night, and I told my guy 40 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 1: that I don't trust him. What should I do about this? 41 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: Who was wrong? Well, unlike your guy says, this is 42 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: not totally innocent. They exchanged numbers right under your nose. 43 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: Your girl broke the code and you know which code 44 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. I'm talking about the girlfriend code. Here 45 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: she was flirting with your man, talking with him on 46 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:28,519 Speaker 1: the phone, rubbing his head, touching his thighs, sitting side 47 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 1: by side with him and this guy. I'm not even 48 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: gonna call him your guy or your man right now, 49 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 1: because I don't believe your man would be acting like this. 50 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: I just don't exchanging numbers so sneakily in front of 51 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:43,079 Speaker 1: your face, and then for him to say he could 52 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: have had her right then and there. I just think 53 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 1: it sends the wrong message to you as his girl, 54 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 1: you know. I mean, what do they think they were doing? 55 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 1: And why? What was necessary? I mean, you know what 56 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: kind of person your girlfriend is, but you didn't aspect 57 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: your guy to be so invested in this. Uh, they're 58 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 1: both wrong. You're not wrong. The only thing you were 59 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: wrong about was not saying anything to him, not checking 60 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 1: both of them when um, when she said I'll be 61 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: in touch all right? This is crazy. I mean, you know, 62 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: people don't even try to hide cheating anymore. I guess 63 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: they just do it in front of people, and I 64 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 1: guess that's okay when they do it in front of 65 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: each other. I don't know. Uh, this is crazy to me. 66 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: And uh, your girl, I don't care how drunk she was, 67 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: was out of order. And your guy too or this 68 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 1: guy all right, Sister Odell is in for Steve Harvey today. 69 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: Take it away, Sister Odell music. I love it well, 70 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: you know it's amazing. First of all, thank y'all for 71 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 1: letting me do the strike you I've never done one, 72 00:03:49,280 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 1: and eat im. He would go welcome though you having 73 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 1: me in the old segment. I've always liked it. I've 74 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 1: been waiting for years to get invited, So let me 75 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: try to do it the right way for you. You know, 76 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: she got a friend that's self send it and a 77 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: little loose and then when it comes to men, that 78 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 1: means she's a flousi, a fluzi you know modern day 79 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: that's black, you know hoi and so you know they've 80 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 1: been friends. Watch out call it. This is all. This 81 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 1: is Christian radio. Hold. It's the same thing you do 82 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 1: when it weeds coming up in your garden and you 83 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:36,600 Speaker 1: gotta go out there and get a hole and you 84 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 1: gotta hold a role that's called Yeah, that's all that is. 85 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: She just garden too, and that's all in anyway, I 86 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 1: ain't never had no issue with her, you know, because 87 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 1: you know God loves everyone, even the loose. You know, 88 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 1: she liked to flirt when other women's man's you know, 89 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 1: and she run them out, and she can take any 90 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: man from from his woman. You know, I ain't thought 91 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 1: nothing of it because you know she know I killed 92 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: to a manx husband. Waits, did you want to announce 93 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:09,919 Speaker 1: that on the radio in front of millions? Well it 94 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 1: was over thirty five years ago, when you know I 95 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 1: was cold. I don't think murder has a statute of limitations. 96 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 1: So sister, well, you know they didn't know. They don't 97 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 1: know which husbands I'm talking about. They never show up. 98 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:26,479 Speaker 1: You know, they didn't look that hard back in the day. 99 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 1: You know this black men missing just whatever. Okay, back 100 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 1: to the k. Yeah, we're doing the letter college Jeff. 101 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,160 Speaker 1: Let me work, sweetie. You might get a lot of 102 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 1: emails and tweets and things about me doing this letter. 103 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: Did probably need Steve need to learn something that wasn't me, sister, 104 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 1: an I was. I know, Sweete. It was probably figured 105 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: we'll stopped Dann come back and I'll tell you more 106 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 1: about howing God getting weeds out you out your roles 107 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:04,280 Speaker 1: are coming. We'll have heard two subject. He could have 108 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:07,159 Speaker 1: had her if he wanted to thank you. I like 109 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 1: that white man, y'all high? Oh dave yes, that has 110 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:18,039 Speaker 1: anyone told him that he is white? No man, because 111 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: I've seen him up saying it sold a dressed Jeff 112 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: like a soul man. And I said, we'll go ahead 113 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 1: on now, David, he's a player. Anyway. This woman got 114 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 1: this friend does loose you know flues the type. Yeah, 115 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 1: they've been friends for a long time and she always bragging. 116 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 1: You know, she can take a man from any woman. 117 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:42,039 Speaker 1: And you know she ain't think none of it, you know, 118 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: specially you know she figured she wasn't talking to you. 119 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 1: And then you started a woman in a live star 120 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 1: seeing the new mine. And they got invited to a 121 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 1: house party. This is a pole ladder right here. No 122 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: one does house party. It's obviously a poet. Who does 123 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 1: that anymore? Nobody throw the rent part. I ain't been 124 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:07,040 Speaker 1: to a rent party since sixty nine. So they had 125 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 1: a house party and I invited him a friend to 126 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 1: meet him down there, you know, the the flusing and 127 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 1: my friend met my new guy. You know, they was 128 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: having a good time and you know, she was walking 129 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 1: around hole and like she always do work in the room, 130 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 1: you know, and she got all the man's attention, you know, 131 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: because she dressed nasty, you know, had all cleavage out 132 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: and everything. Had on a little red Harley dress, you know, harlless, 133 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 1: little ring and red lipstick, red finger nails, health of 134 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: high shoes with the red bottoms. But they ain't real 135 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: red bottoms. I bought that. She does her red bottoms 136 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: with a can of cry lion paint. Don't money, Yeah, 137 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 1: she don't had the money for Chrissy Lupis. She don't 138 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 1: have the money for Chrissy Lupis. So she spray paints 139 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: the bottom of trisy. Ye have it all over your rug, 140 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 1: in your house and every thing. It's just rightful. And 141 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 1: so anyway, uh, after the party, we went to an 142 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: after hour spot to eat sea once again this in 143 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 1: the hood, ain't know what it is. An after hour 144 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 1: spot to eat dinnis then this is not an after 145 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: hour spotted leaving an hour hard but now that ever 146 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 1: Bayless house eating fried chicken and everything. And so they 147 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 1: went and they was all tempted, so they took there's 148 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 1: some mot held mess right here. People has calls my 149 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 1: guy sit in the front. I sit in the back. 150 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: And on the way that my friend was on the 151 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 1: phone and I saw locking in somebody number. I ain't 152 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 1: paying no attention. You know. They go to the diner 153 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: and they said side by side in the booth, I said, 154 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 1: across from because he's his lying a city. He wanted 155 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 1: to look in your eyes right well, he can't look 156 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: in your eyes sitting next to you. All, y'all gotta 157 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 1: do it. Turn your head. There's a bunch of mess. 158 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: Now now you look over that and this this hooker 159 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 1: is rubbing it back of his head and touching his thigh. 160 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 1: You know what's down there in the that, don't you. 161 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:08,959 Speaker 1: It ain't the other thigh. I tell you that right now. 162 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 1: Yet you got it on the thirt and only other 163 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 1: thing down It ain't the other thigh. I tell you that, 164 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 1: we got it. So she was running his head, that 165 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: the one on top of his head, and it was 166 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 1: touching his thigh. But that wasn't all down there. That's 167 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 1: like that time when I blood my fourth husband or humming. 168 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 1: I used to rub his thigh. Lord him listen, yeah, 169 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 1: you throw him in the summer. I was rubbing this 170 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 1: that one time in the down and he turned the 171 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 1: whole table over, So we got it. I knew it 172 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 1: was trying to take her drunk behind home before I 173 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 1: snapped the taste out of mouth. So we they dropped 174 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 1: her off out of the house, and when she got 175 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 1: out of the uber, she told my guy told yo, 176 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 1: got it. She'll be in touch half for how Yeah, 177 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 1: but they had been there in exchange normals. I gave 178 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 1: him the crazy looking everything, and you know, said he 179 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 1: said it was innocent, you know, and they are both 180 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 1: of them, was looking kind of crazy, and NO'M said 181 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 1: it's innocent. Then he told me he could have had 182 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: her right then and there if he wanted hull whoa, 183 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 1: he told you what, Yeah, that's that's something right there. 184 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 1: He could have had her right then and there he 185 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 1: wanted to Like I told you, at the top of 186 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: the ladder she was holding who couldn't have had her? 187 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:40,440 Speaker 1: Anybody in the room could have had him. Been talking 188 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:42,839 Speaker 1: about could have had her right then. I told my gown, 189 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: trust him. Yeah, he talked about he looking crazy, he 190 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: could have had her. Yeah. Well, I tell you what, 191 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 1: you ain't gonna be the first one have him. You 192 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: probably gonna be the forty six one. You be one 193 00:10:55,400 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 1: of the presidents. Cut on Luber, kick our ass for 194 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:06,959 Speaker 1: your car, Loupe, really sister down she touching man Tha. 195 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 1: She went down there looking for the other thought kick 196 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 1: our ass. Yeah, cut all his times calling you win 197 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:19,439 Speaker 1: me on this Cardam spit then time before we gotta 198 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:22,079 Speaker 1: go go down split all the time and push some 199 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:26,440 Speaker 1: sugar in his tight. Thank you for filling in. We 200 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:29,720 Speaker 1: appreciate it, We really do. You can post your comments 201 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 1: on Today's struggling next time and start driving for Ober. 202 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:34,959 Speaker 1: And next time they call uber you drive over that 203 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: pig of ass. I'm running right over. Post yours your 204 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:44,720 Speaker 1: comments at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and 205 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: check thank you for having me by advice. Check out 206 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 1: the Stubberry Letter podcast on demand. You're listening to Steve 207 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:54,320 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.