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Speaker 2: Japanese it means tiny penis really, but I prefer the Italian.

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Speaker 1: Well, in Italian it means cheers.

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Speaker 1: What's your connection to Italian culture? Where you know that?

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Speaker 2: I love the way it sounds. Okay, chin chin chin chin,

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Speaker 1: Mark Reva, how do you how do you pronounce your

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Speaker 2: Again? You did it? You've knocked it out in the park.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was telling you beforehand. I like was on

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Speaker 2: It's pretty much everybody fucks it up. But it's Robbie

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Speaker 2: you killed it? Is that French? Yeah? That's very French?

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Speaker 2: Okay French? Do you go to Dual Citizen? Really? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Do you go to France?

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Speaker 2: Off? Yeah? I do? Now I go, you know, when

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Speaker 2: I had a pen palace all over there.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, how often could do you write to your

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Speaker 1: Now, when you now, I assume your pen pal you

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Speaker 1: just text him? Now? Yeah, but when you text him,

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Speaker 2: I write? I write a letter and then I take

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Speaker 2: Not at all. I should probably just text the man,

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Speaker 2: you know, Mark, what you been thinking about lately? Oh

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Speaker 2: Jesus lyle Man, I gotta tell you, dude, please, I

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Speaker 1: I didn't know if you were doing a bit just now.

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Speaker 2: I was opinionating decisive. No, I'm trying.

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Speaker 1: But there's a did you feel like a very small

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Speaker 1: Everybody give us just a moment on Reddit. That's you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do it. I'm very excited. I'm very excited

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Speaker 2: talked to some lovely callers. Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Sarah from New York, twenty two years old. How

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Speaker 5: I'm good. I just got some back from class.

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Speaker 5: It was long, but I'm glad it's over. We had

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Speaker 2: Anything interesting going on in that lecture.

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Speaker 5: It was a lecture about structures and this guy named

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Speaker 5: Felix Candela, who was a very famous Spanish designer who

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Speaker 2: Did you find that interesting?

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Speaker 5: I did? I really did good. It had a lot

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Speaker 1: Well, Sarah, it says here speaking of class, that you

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So she's the professor that I'm doing this other

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Speaker 5: and telling us about things that they were said, you know,

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Speaker 2: Like is is I guess my question was go ahead, please,

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Speaker 5: My question would be in a professional relationship between a

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Speaker 2: Like can I ask you, is is she an influential

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Speaker 5: I would say. So, it's a small profession in the

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Speaker 1: What what is what is the wildest thing that this

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Speaker 2: I'm dying to know.

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Speaker 5: So I think she was a refugee from war in

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Speaker 1: That's a lot different from like thought I thought I

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Speaker 2: I don't know the story about being a refugee hole

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Speaker 5: No, it's like an insane like variety of things that

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Speaker 1: Uh, okay, have you told her that you don't feel

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Speaker 5: No, I'm just afraid to. I guess what do.

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Speaker 5: I mean, you know how students kind of like joke

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Speaker 1: So do you feel like you're having more of a

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Speaker 5: Can you repeat that?

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like you're having more of a problem

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Speaker 2: It seems like it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe maybe, maybe I think so.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. That's a tough predicament. You know, I

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Speaker 2: Like that, that's that's an issue, and you could not

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Speaker 2: Like maybe she doesn't even know that what she's saying

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Speaker 1: Of the fact that she's making people uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: Right, I mean, maybe she just needs to be educated school.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess I do just have to kind of

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Speaker 2: I think that's the way to go. It's like, you

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Speaker 2: make a big fuss about it, but maybe personally to her,

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Speaker 2: you never know. She might be I mean, she might

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Speaker 2: be grateful. She might be like, man, I didn't know

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Speaker 1: She might not even realize.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's my thoughts.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Sarah, I mean, what do you think you'll do

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Speaker 5: Well, I'll see her on Thursday, and I think, oh god,

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Speaker 1: Maybe she needs approaching the situation with some genuine kindness.

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Speaker 2: I like this, I like one hundred. I think that's

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Speaker 2: It's someone leveling with someone else. Student teacher, employee. But whatever,

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Speaker 2: you're just saying, Hey, this is a little weird for

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Speaker 2: she needs to know, Sarah.

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Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to say to me,

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Speaker 1: Mark or the people of the computer before we go?

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Speaker 5: Not really. Thank you guys so much, and I hope

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Speaker 5: you have a wonderful night.

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Speaker 2: Thank you very much for calling Sarah. Thanks Sarah, good night,

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Speaker 2: night night. Don't you dare let the bed bugs bite?

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Speaker 1: Okay, see, maybe this is just me, but if and

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Speaker 1: to each their own.

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Speaker 2: Everyone has their own level of comfortable with other stuff.

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Speaker 1: But like I and maybe this is just my nature

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Oh I thought you were gonna say about

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, I don't. I don't think I have

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Speaker 2: Well fuck them, really fuck them, don't let them bite

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Speaker 2: pretty much. But when people open up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I feel I don't know, I'm

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Speaker 2: I agree, I feel like an obligation to really listen

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Speaker 1: Like that, right right, or you feel like you have

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Speaker 1: I'm just like I would be like sitting there, like,

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Speaker 2: For student self respect. Yeah, not something I know anything about.

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Speaker 2: Were you what was your God? I dropped out. I

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Speaker 2: went to college for acting for a year and I

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Speaker 2: dropped out. Okay, that was it. How was the year?

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Speaker 1: Did you learn anything that you currently use in your

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Speaker 2: Well? Uh, you know, no, no, but I did. I

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Speaker 2: a big takeaway. That's helpful. Are you in any debt? No,

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Speaker 2: I paid it all off. Well, my parents paid off

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Speaker 2: And I should reimburse my mom for that, now, you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean. Wouldn't that be nice? A nice

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Speaker 1: It's nice to think about things, are you Are you

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Speaker 2: I certainly could.

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Speaker 1: I like thinking about like nice things that.

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Speaker 2: The yeah do, but never never did because because the.

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Speaker 1: Good feeling, because you know how like you do something

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Speaker 2: You know. I should Uh, yeah, I should really donate

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Speaker 2: to unis stuff. Yeah, that'd be nice. Anyway, I need whiskey.

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Speaker 1: No, let's see what's going on in the queue here.

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Speaker 2: Bethany from Ohio. Bethany from Ohio. Yeah, what's up? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hill to hear Bethany from Ohio.

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Speaker 2: I've never been able to hear you better, Bethany. It's true.

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Speaker 1: Being connected together on the phone has increased our ability

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Speaker 2: I feel like this is more of a human interaction

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Speaker 1: Bethany, Uh, Bethany, Can I read here? What it says

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Speaker 5: Sure?

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Speaker 1: Says here that you've been doing tarot readings as a

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Speaker 1: to support both of you. Guys, but you want your

443
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Speaker 1: own independence. Is accurate?

444
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:08,120
Speaker 6: Be me and my boyfriend about another like nine years

445
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:13,199
Speaker 6: and we have a child together. I've been interested in

446
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:17,160
Speaker 6: tara for five years and I want to because I'm

447
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:17,679
Speaker 6: my friends.

448
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:21,720
Speaker 4: I really think I'm good at it, and I.

449
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:24,800
Speaker 7: Really thoroughly enjoying it. It's like a lot.

450
00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 4: So it's something I really want to do. And my

451
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:30,120
Speaker 4: boyfriend's just really against it.

452
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 8: He just doesn't like taro.

453
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:35,639
Speaker 7: He thinks that kind of stuff is silly.

454
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:38,159
Speaker 2: What doesn't he like about it? Has he expressed to

455
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:39,080
Speaker 2: you what he doesn't like?

456
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 4: Oh, he just doesn't believe in it.

457
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 1: I guess.

458
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 2: You know. Here's my thing, and I get it. Here's

459
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:54,400
Speaker 2: here's the thing.

460
00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:56,439
Speaker 1: Is like, Look, it's one thing if your boyfriend doesn't

461
00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 1: believe in it, But it's another thing if he because,

462
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 1: like whatever, he can't force himself to believe in anything.

463
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 1: But it's another thing if he's consistently going out of

464
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,199
Speaker 1: his way to be a dick about it.

465
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you don't have to believe in it,

466
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 2: but he could still support yours what you believing in it.

467
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 8: Yeah, and not that I think.

468
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:22,399
Speaker 4: So it's like basically, do I make myself happy or

469
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 4: do I make my boyfriend happy.

470
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 8: And leave any other nine minutes?

471
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:31,120
Speaker 2: Like I said, is is that where it's at right now?

472
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 2: Or I mean, are you between those two choices? Do

473
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 2: you feel like it's it's teeter tottering like that?

474
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 4: Well, well, I'm gonna stay at home mom with our

475
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 4: daughter with now, and I'm just very aware of how

476
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,919
Speaker 4: the prossed I can get. And I feel like I

477
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:53,159
Speaker 4: need some sort of career or I need something to

478
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 4: make me feel happy outside of being a mom. And

479
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 4: so I feel I need something. And this is something

480
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 4: I really love, you know, and I wanted to give

481
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 4: it to like sewing and clothes making.

482
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:10,679
Speaker 7: But that's really hard with Tapper.

483
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:14,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, like learning that stuff and doing that Taro.

484
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,239
Speaker 4: I already know it, Like I can do that with

485
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:21,639
Speaker 4: her around like it's something that's like really easy to do,

486
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 4: and that's something I love.

487
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 2: I think not only do you need something like that,

488
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 2: you deserve something like that. Everyone should have something in

489
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 2: their life, you know, outside of whatever their familial responsibilities

490
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:41,120
Speaker 2: or their home life that brings them joy, brings them pleasure.

491
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 2: If Tarot is that for you, you should absolutely pursue it,

492
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 2: regardless of what this joker thinks about it. Excuse my language,

493
00:25:56,040 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 2: but you know, come on, is he well? Can I

494
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 2: ask Bethany real quick? Can I ask? Can I ask

495
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 2: my friend behind?

496
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:10,639
Speaker 1: Is that Bethany? When when your boyfriend is when you

497
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 1: say he's not supportive of you, what kind of like

498
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 1: language is he using?

499
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 2: Is he is he like telling you to stop?

500
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 1: Is he like saying, hey, cut that shit out because

501
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 1: you got to take care of our kid? Like how

502
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: is he approaching? Because, like I said, it's one thing

503
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 1: if he doesn't believe in it, like you know whatever,

504
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 1: But it's a totally other thing if he's like trying

505
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 1: to get you to stop or or or control what

506
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 1: you're doing.

507
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 7: Right, like like he doesn't want me, Like so I'm

508
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:40,640
Speaker 7: going to make.

509
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:45,200
Speaker 4: Money from this and you can make like thirty dollars

510
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 4: for fifteen minutes or fifty for thirty minutes, Like you

511
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 4: can really set the price at whatever you want. I'm

512
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:52,880
Speaker 4: not trying to like, he says, it's like ripping people off.

513
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:55,640
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm the type of person that if you

514
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,439
Speaker 4: like call me with Tara reading like, I'm not going

515
00:26:58,520 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 4: to try to put you off. I'm going to try

516
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 4: to hell be like similar to what you do. But

517
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 4: like with Taro, and it's like he just I'm sorry,

518
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 4: I'm getting lost in my.

519
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 9: Words on harvest.

520
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay.

521
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 1: I just feel like he doesn't.

522
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 4: I feel like he's like doesn't want me to talk

523
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 4: about it around him. He doesn't want me to do

524
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 4: it around him. Like, if I do it, he tells

525
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:26,120
Speaker 4: me that, like that's not important to be doing that.

526
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 2: Man, that's some shitty belittling energy right there. That's some

527
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 2: I don't like that. I just don't like that. I

528
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:40,360
Speaker 2: don't like that, dude. It's something, it doesn't matter what

529
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 2: it is. It could be Taro, it could be astrophysics.

530
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:47,200
Speaker 2: It's making you happy and it's something you want to pursue.

531
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 4: And he's I know it doesn't seem real.

532
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter, but that's not even. The point is

533
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 2: that if he loves you and he cares about your

534
00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 2: happiness and this is one of the things that brings

535
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 2: you that happiness, he should be supportive of that. He

536
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,360
Speaker 2: shouldn't be belittling it or telling you that it's stupid.

537
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:10,439
Speaker 2: That's just really not a nice thing to do to someone.

538
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 1: See, if you really love someone, you will just really,

539
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:17,159
Speaker 1: like I feel, you can just feel really deeply in

540
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 1: your heart that their hobby is stupid, but then never

541
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: but never let it leave the heart.

542
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 2: It's it just is a it's like a kindness thing, dude,

543
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:30,679
Speaker 2: and it's like a love thing. Like he I just

544
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:35,919
Speaker 2: feel like it's you should not feel small for doing

545
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 2: something that brings you joy. You should feel good about that.

546
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 2: And the fact that he doesn't, that he's like actively

547
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 2: working against that is just kind of sucks. And I'm

548
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 2: sorry that you're that you're dealing with that. That's that's

549
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 2: a poopy thing, you know what I mean. We don't

550
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 2: want a poopy thing here. I don't know, I don't know,

551
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 2: I don't have an answer.

552
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just you know, relationship stuff is always hard

553
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 1: because I'm never gonna tell anybody, Uh, you know what

554
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 1: to do with the big decisions. But I I think

555
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 1: Mark and I both agree this is not cool behavior.

556
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 2: It's definitely not you know.

557
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 1: I mean, you should be empowered to do whatever the

558
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 1: fuck it is that you want to do and not

559
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 1: be following the whim of you know this guy.

560
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. I I just you know, it's it's

561
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 2: a tough thing to reconcile. It's like, you know, I

562
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 2: don't know, I don't know, I I don't really I

563
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 2: hesitate to give you any sort of thoughts beyond that,

564
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 2: because then it feels like I'm trying to give you

565
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 2: like advice, which I'm not qualified to give. I feel

566
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 2: like it's just I just want you to know that

567
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 2: I don't like the way that that makes me feel,

568
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 2: and I'm sure you don't like the way that it

569
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 2: makes you feel either.

570
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: How do you What do you think about everything that

571
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: that we've been saying, Bethany, I.

572
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 4: Just like, really like what to do from here? Like

573
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna I don't want to break up with him,

574
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 4: like that's not I.

575
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 7: Just want to be able to be happy.

576
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 1: Have you I'll say this much.

577
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 2: Have you told.

578
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 1: Him directly how it makes you feel when he talks

579
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 1: to you like this.

580
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, like he It's just it's like basically so

581
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 4: like he knows.

582
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 10: So it's basically like.

583
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 4: I could go ahead and do what I need to

584
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 4: do and like do what I want to do, but

585
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 4: like it's going to be understood that I'm not going

586
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 4: to get support from him and he's going to be

587
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 4: upset about it.

588
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 2: Okay, so he's like, yeah, go ahead, stupid ship.

589
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 7: Like I can do it, but he's going to be

590
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 7: an asshole like any time to bring it up, Like

591
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 7: like if I'm like, hey, have you watched the beat

592
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 7: like for a second so I can like do this,

593
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,160
Speaker 7: He's not probably going to be supportive of it. So

594
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 7: it's like it's recently just like picking myself a man.

595
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I mean I I would be like, yo,

596
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 2: this is this is serious, even though you think it's

597
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 2: a joke or stupid. The way you know, I like Taro.

598
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 2: I like doing it. It makes me feel good, and

599
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 2: I really need you to like not treat it as

600
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 2: though it's stupid just for me, you know, because yeah

601
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 2: he should. You got you really got to tell him.

602
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 2: If he's not willing to do that, then I think

603
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 2: that speaks to something pretty fundamental that might need some

604
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 2: some work. You know, I don't know, but but should

605
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 2: meet you there.

606
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:53,000
Speaker 1: He should be you know, Bethany, Like you know, I

607
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 1: I hope, I hope by the end of the day

608
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 1: you do whatever is best for your own personal likewise

609
00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 1: personal happiness and like like we said, all right, we're

610
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 1: not gonna tell you what to do, but I just hope.

611
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 1: I I just hope you think really hard about what

612
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 1: will make you happy and really consider all your different options.

613
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 1: You deserve it, and I just you deserve it, and

614
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 1: I hope you pick the right one.

615
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 8: Definitely.

616
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 4: And I really really appreciate your time and your niceness

617
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 4: and honesty.

618
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 1: Thank you, of course, Bethany. You have a good rest

619
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 1: of the night.

620
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 2: Have a lovely night, Bethany.

621
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 1: Bye bye.

622
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 2: Oh my god, fuck god, damn we are.

623
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 1: It's really hard. It's super hard because.

624
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:46,120
Speaker 2: Like I love this listen, I'm at home right, good good,

625
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 2: it's dude ship Like that is so hard because obviously

626
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 2: everybody listening and everybody in the chat wants to tell

627
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 2: this person fucking break up with your boyfriend.

628
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 1: And I want to I want to tell fucking breakup

629
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 1: with it. But it's like, but I but deep in

630
00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 1: my heart, I'm like, I'm like echo guy.

631
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 2: And then I've known this person for ten minutes and

632
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 2: they tell me what it is is. You know. It's

633
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 2: so much more subtle than that. It's like, it's not

634
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 2: the like as a comment, you could be like, fuck

635
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 2: that dude, get the fuck out right. But then it's like,

636
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:13,960
Speaker 2: but I can't just beg and fuck that dude.

637
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 1: Get make a major I can't just be like, make

638
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: a major life decision, all right, I gotta keep going

639
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 1: with my street.

640
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 2: It's so much more subtle. This is life we're talking about.

641
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 2: She lives with this dude. She probably loves him very much.

642
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 2: They have a whole thing together. They've had a whole

643
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 2: thing that for years. Probably.

644
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 1: I feel so bad for her, And I feel bad

645
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 1: for anybody who's like, and do we get we get

646
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 1: calls like this all the time. Like I see people

647
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 1: just in real life, like this other time, who like

648
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 1: they're in some kind of relationship that's like defining them.

649
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and.

650
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 1: It's it's so painful to see.

651
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 2: That is tough, man. It's tough because you know, and

652
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 2: that's why it's another reason why I hesitated to give,

653
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 2: to give like concrete advice to hers, because I have

654
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:05,280
Speaker 2: not been in a serious relationship and almost ten years now.

655
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 2: Yeah really yeah, yoh hey, by the way, chim Chin

656
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:19,360
Speaker 2: forgot about that to that my dud life is easier

657
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 2: this way. I'll tell you guys that right now. But

658
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 2: at the same time, a relationship can bring you an

659
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 2: enormous amount of support and joy and comfort and and

660
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 2: and love, stuff that obviously everyone needs and wants, you know.

661
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 2: And so I would never judge someone for being in

662
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 2: a relationship, even if it's even if it's one that

663
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 2: is going through something, you know, if they're going through

664
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:49,320
Speaker 2: something difficult. I just maybe this is a rough patch,

665
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 2: maybe it can be worked out, Maybe there's a way

666
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 2: to work through it. That's why you always try that

667
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,359
Speaker 2: before just saying fuck this piece of shit. That's why.

668
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 1: That's why we were trying to be like, Okay, have

669
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: you like expressed to him all your feelings? And then

670
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 1: she said yes, I did, and I didn't like that

671
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 1: I did, And he was like, She's like, she didn't

672
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 1: just say yeah.

673
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:14,560
Speaker 2: She was like oh yeah, She's like, oh yeah, I.

674
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 1: Feel I feel bad for I really hope, I wish

675
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 1: I could like send her some sort of energy blast

676
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 1: of whatever awareness or confidence to make the the right decision.

677
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 2: It sounds like if the dude isn't going to give

678
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:37,359
Speaker 2: her that, it's such a simple thing to be like, yeah, man,

679
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:41,319
Speaker 2: do your thing, love, I love you for that. What

680
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 2: do you think? Real quick?

681
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 1: I think this is the thing I think about a

682
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 1: lot on this stream, like.

683
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:48,920
Speaker 2: What do you should? I try to be like pretty neutron.

684
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 1: I think sometimes I do, like tell people to do unconsciously,

685
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 1: and I forget about it. Lately, I've been having it

686
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:55,279
Speaker 1: more in my head, like don't tell people what to do,

687
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:56,360
Speaker 1: just talk through it, huh.

688
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:58,720
Speaker 2: But sometimes I'm like, should I tell people what shouldn't?

689
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 2: Should we have? Did we have some sort of duty

690
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:02,360
Speaker 2: to be? Like break up with your boyfriend?

691
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,319
Speaker 1: But then I also weigh that against the whole thing

692
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 1: like that we were just talking about it, Like right,

693
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 1: she's living with this fucking it's so much easier said

694
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: than done. We're doing a little I mean twitch stream thing.

695
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna drop a fucking life decision on her.

696
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:16,879
Speaker 2: Out right, well, I I mean, I don't know, man,

697
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 2: It's it's possible that both are true. That like it

698
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 2: depends on the severity of the thing. You know, it

699
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:25,359
Speaker 2: sounds like this is not like well, I mean, it's

700
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 2: certainly a kind of abuse. It's a kind of abuse.

701
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 2: It's a kind of like psychological abuse of like what

702
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 2: you're doing is small and stupid and I don't respect it.

703
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 2: And if you need time away to do that thing,

704
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:40,799
Speaker 2: I'm gonna make a stink about it, and I'm gonna

705
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 2: make you feel small. And that's shitty, that's shitty behavior.

706
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 2: It's my instinct is to say, get rid of that

707
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 2: piece of shit. But at the same time.

708
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:55,279
Speaker 1: We don't. We don't have all the context context.

709
00:36:56,560 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 2: I don't know both are true. Maybe we're right.

710
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 1: Hey, there's a guy here who drinks milk too much.

711
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe, maybe maybe we'll just do that one. Well, yeah,

712
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 2: let's get milk guy, milk man. Hello, Riley.

713
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, how are you, Riley? I'm good, Riley. It says

714
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:22,920
Speaker 1: here that you're twenty one years old and that you

715
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:28,720
Speaker 1: consume a lot of milk, like five cartons of milk

716
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: for lunch AM and PM. How first of all, how

717
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 1: big are these cartons?

718
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,319
Speaker 11: I mean, it's just like the carton of milk that

719
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 11: you would get like in high school, but like I'm

720
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 11: in college now and there's like a buffet and like

721
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 11: I put that shit in my pocket and walk away

722
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:46,799
Speaker 11: with it.

723
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 2: Are these Is it like a pint you're talking about? No,

724
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 2: you're talking about the little like the box cartons that

725
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 2: like they look like an old school carton of milk,

726
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 2: but they're like small sort of cubes. Is that what

727
00:37:58,920 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 2: you're talking about?

728
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 9: Right right, right right.

729
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 2: And so okay, and so tell us your diet. Tell

730
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 2: us throughout any given day, like today, what was your

731
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 2: milk diet?

732
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 11: I mean like well, like today was like I didn't

733
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,880
Speaker 11: have schools, Like I like splurged a little bit and

734
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:20,920
Speaker 11: got like a quart of chocolate milk on top of

735
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 11: like the normal amount of milk that I drink.

736
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 2: It was more than more than usual when you're not

737
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 2: in school.

738
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 1: So just the how much of the milk is chocolate?

739
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 1: That's what I was kind of because because I didn't,

740
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: I didn't. I feel like the type of milk is

741
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 1: a factor here.

742
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 11: Right, well, like chocolate milk, like usually it's just like

743
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 11: two percent milk, but like on on, like I don't know.

744
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:48,000
Speaker 11: Sometimes when I'm just like feeling the mood, I like

745
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:52,439
Speaker 11: splurge and get some chocolate milk. So like today, it's

746
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,319
Speaker 11: not very often. It's like probably like once the week,

747
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 11: prick chocolate.

748
00:38:57,880 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 2: Dude feels pretty often.

749
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 1: What's what's your what's your thing on strawberry milk? Oh?

750
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:08,479
Speaker 2: Nah nah, man, you can't catch fu fuck strawberry milk.

751
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 4: Yeah.

752
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:12,359
Speaker 1: I don't funk with strawberry milk at all. I don't

753
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:13,759
Speaker 1: know who's out there drinking.

754
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:16,760
Speaker 2: It dirty garbage as far as.

755
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 1: All right, so tell us all right, So so let's

756
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,239
Speaker 1: see Mark asked you what your diet was like, and

757
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 1: were you asking him his milk diet or just his

758
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 1: overall like what's because I'm also a little bit curious what's.

759
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 2: Going on around the milk. Yeah, that's true. And and

760
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 2: and also do you consider it to be like has

761
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 2: it caused any sort of physical issues? Yeah? So you

762
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 2: know that's a lot of milk to be putting in

763
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,879
Speaker 2: a one body, right.

764
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 11: Well, Like I usually like plan out with specifically the cartons,

765
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 11: Like it's like a buffet that I go to and

766
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 11: on campus, and like I get food and then I

767
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 11: drink three cartons of milk with that, and then when

768
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 11: I go back for dessert, I grab two other cartons

769
00:39:57,840 --> 00:39:59,400
Speaker 11: of milk and drink it with the dessert.

770
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 2: What does it do to you? What's the feeling?

771
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 5: Oh?

772
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,840
Speaker 11: Man, I mean it's not good. Like when I was

773
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 11: like in like kindergartener first grade, I was told I

774
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 11: was lactose sensitive, and like, if I were to continue,

775
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:18,719
Speaker 11: like I'll be lactose intolerant, and like I shiit a lot,

776
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:22,960
Speaker 11: so like I'm worried I might actually be lactose intolerant.

777
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 1: So like I don't know, Jesus, have you been to

778
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,480
Speaker 1: a doctor about this?

779
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 10: Uh?

780
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, in the yeah, and see what.

781
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:40,239
Speaker 11: It's from there, But like it's so good.

782
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 2: Okay, but so okay, explain to us the talk us

783
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:50,880
Speaker 2: through the it's so good thing, you know what I mean?

784
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 2: What to talk us through the sweet process of ingesting

785
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 2: milk for you? Tell us about that?

786
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 11: Well, I like my friends made me because like I

787
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,400
Speaker 11: have like milk theory. I have a theory that men

788
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 11: enjoy milk more than women because like I like my

789
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 11: my female friends like get mad at me when I

790
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 11: drink milk for like anything.

791
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 2: Mm hmm, suckling from mother's teeth. Perhaps that could be right.

792
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 11: Right, Like I don't I don't want to dip into

793
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 11: like Freud, but like he may have been onto something.

794
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:31,400
Speaker 1: You know, Riley, what is your relationship like with your mother? Oh?

795
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 2: Great, it's good, it's healthy. You love each other.

796
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 1: Did you did you breastfeed a lot as a child.

797
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,399
Speaker 11: I've been told I was breastfed, but I don't.

798
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:46,840
Speaker 5: I don't know.

799
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 11: I don't think I was obviously consuming the amounts that

800
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 11: I am today.

801
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 2: Can I just say you didn't answer the question about

802
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 2: medical issues as a result of the milk? Have you

803
00:41:56,360 --> 00:42:00,080
Speaker 2: has anything happened? I mean, do you is it? What?

804
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 2: What is there any cause for concern here? Is it

805
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,480
Speaker 2: just a personal concern that you're drinking too much milk?

806
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,200
Speaker 11: I think it's like both. I think like people like

807
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 11: my friends think it's like a moral concern physically, like

808
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 11: I just get like really bad cramps and like have

809
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 11: to go to the bathroom a lot.

810
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: Oh did you say moral concern the cow thing? Right?

811
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 3: Uh?

812
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:31,400
Speaker 1: I was gonna ask what's the moral or what's the

813
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 1: moral concern? Like like it's bad for the for the animals,

814
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 1: That's what I would guess.

815
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:39,319
Speaker 11: Well, like I don't, I don't know that they're like

816
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:43,279
Speaker 11: just like really concerned about like like I'm interested in,

817
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:45,280
Speaker 11: like I kind of want to drink like exotic milks.

818
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:47,280
Speaker 11: Like I went on a on a on a ramp

819
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 11: one night about like the benefits of drinking water buffalo milk.

820
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you want you want to give us the

821
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 1: the the thesis of the ramps, give us the skinny

822
00:42:58,160 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 1: on that.

823
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 11: I mean, Like, so I looked into it and like,

824
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:06,239
Speaker 11: water buffalo buff water buffalo milk is like the best

825
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 11: milk that you can drink like nutrition wise.

826
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:14,360
Speaker 1: Ah, this is about to turn into the Joe Rogan experience.

827
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:15,319
Speaker 2: Have you sampled it?

828
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 11: No? I looked into it in like the nearest place

829
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 11: that you can get water buffalo milk in the United States,

830
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 11: it's Pennsylvania.

831
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 2: Wow.

832
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 11: Now what is it about two day shipping?

833
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 1: What is it about water buffalo milk that is so

834
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 1: nutritious from what you've from what you've researched.

835
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:41,400
Speaker 11: I don't really remember like the details.

836
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:41,719
Speaker 1: I know.

837
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 11: I think it's like a little thinner than like normal milk,

838
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:46,720
Speaker 11: So I mean it goes down a little easier.

839
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:49,720
Speaker 2: Hmm.

840
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 1: Okay, So water buffalo milk, And what are there any

841
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:57,760
Speaker 1: other types of exotic milks that you are passionate about

842
00:43:58,200 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 1: that we should know about rest.

843
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 2: Uh.

844
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 11: You know, I've heard uh, goat milk is the closest

845
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 11: to breast milk, And I really don't want to try that.

846
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 2: You don't you you don't like the thought of trying

847
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 2: human breast milk. Nah. Okay, So it's not about that.

848
00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:23,319
Speaker 2: It's not like a fetish thing. It's just a now okay.

849
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 2: But here's where I'm a little bit confused. Is that

850
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 2: you say that it makes you feel it makes your

851
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 2: stomach feel weird, and it makes you shit a lot.

852
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 2: So then where is the pleasure part of this? Or

853
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:37,359
Speaker 2: is it a masochistic exercise? Is it a self harm thing?

854
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Where where's the pleasure in

855
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:40,840
Speaker 2: it for you? That's a good question.

856
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 11: I don't know. It's just like I don't I don't

857
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 11: drink like pop or like coffee or anything like that.

858
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 11: I strictly drink like water and milk, And like, if

859
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 11: I'm not feeling water, then I just go to milk.

860
00:44:55,560 --> 00:45:00,839
Speaker 11: So maybe it's just like my drink palate isn't really like, uh,

861
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 11: I don't. I don't have like a huge drink palate,

862
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 11: And maybe that's it. But like, I don't know, It's

863
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 11: like some day that just feels really good to wash

864
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 11: down some food with two percent milk.

865
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 1: But I mean this, we both we all know this

866
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:17,319
Speaker 1: is not a sustainable practice. Eventually your body is going

867
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:18,360
Speaker 1: to react.

868
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 2: Violently, if not already doing so.

869
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: Do you have any plans to do wean off of milk,

870
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 1: because you're you're only heading towards greater hell.

871
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:37,399
Speaker 11: Uh, you know, I was hoping maybe like maybe getting water,

872
00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 11: buffalo milk. I'll drink it and I don't like it,

873
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 11: and maybe that'll make me like be like, oh I

874
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:43,280
Speaker 11: don't want milk.

875
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:45,760
Speaker 1: No, you just have to feed your curiosity.

876
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 2: That's what it is, right, Yeah, you know, I'm just

877
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:58,560
Speaker 2: it's I don't I'm trusting what a pleasure part is.

878
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 2: It's not obviously there's pleasure in washing down. So I

879
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 2: love washing down a nice cookie, a fine chocolate cookie

880
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 2: with a little bit of two percent milk. I agree,

881
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,239
Speaker 2: there's nothing wrong with that, with that at all, But

882
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 2: all day, you know, it just feels like a bizarre

883
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:20,239
Speaker 2: It's not just an alternative to water. I think for you,

884
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 2: it's it feels like it's it's more of an obsession.

885
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:28,839
Speaker 2: It's a little bit more of sort of a comfort yeah,

886
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:30,880
Speaker 2: I don't know, but it sounds like you're totally fine

887
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 2: with it and that it's not presenting any serious medical problems.

888
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 2: So I don't really know if asking you to stop

889
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:38,840
Speaker 2: is I don't think it really matters.

890
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 1: You know, it sounds like it sounds to me like

891
00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:45,680
Speaker 1: you're gonna push it until until you can't anymore. Riley.

892
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:48,799
Speaker 9: I think.

893
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 11: I think that's what a lot of my friends think.

894
00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 11: My friend actually wanted me to call in about this situation,

895
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 11: hoping that maybe a get go on the computer would

896
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 11: get through to me. But like, after talking to you, like,

897
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 11: I don't know, I don't know.

898
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 2: Oh, that's interesting. Stop drinking the fucking milk.

899
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: I second that if that's your your friends sound like

900
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,399
Speaker 1: they were about to host some sort of intervention for you.

901
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:22,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, hey, Riley, damn Riley, you there listening? Yeah, stop

902
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:28,719
Speaker 2: drinking so much goddamn milk. Okay, cut it out. It's bizarre.

903
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 2: It's a bizarre habit. I think you can drink a

904
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:33,239
Speaker 2: healthy amount, but it sounds like it's a little out

905
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 2: of control and you should maybe try and replace some

906
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 2: of the milk. I don't know, water, you know, goji berry,

907
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:45,919
Speaker 2: I don't know. Whatever why I would. I I would

908
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 2: be more concerned.

909
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 1: I'm more concerned about the milk than if he was, like,

910
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 1: I'm drinking like two cans of Coca.

911
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:50,919
Speaker 2: Day or something.

912
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's even though the coke's probably worse. I

913
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,320
Speaker 1: feel like the mill crew the milk.

914
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 2: Is is is. It's just bizarre.

915
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:02,760
Speaker 1: But listen, Riley, thank you very much for calling and sharing.

916
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:04,799
Speaker 1: We wish you the best of luck in all your

917
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 1: future endeavors. Is there anything else that you want to

918
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 1: say to two geckos or to the rest of the

919
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 1: computer before we go?

920
00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 11: Uh yeah, thank you for the intervention. I'm just gonna

921
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 11: let my friends know online. I will try to be

922
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:24,960
Speaker 11: better about my milk consumption.

923
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 1: Hey, we're rooting for you.

924
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:28,799
Speaker 2: That's the spirit you got this, my man. Take care.

925
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 1: See if you're calling in about a toxic relationship. No

926
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:40,839
Speaker 1: direct advice, but milk, milk, milk. We will tell you.

927
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:41,239
Speaker 1: What's what?

928
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 2: Oh, we're coming. We're coming for you. You know what.

929
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 1: That conversation brought up something that I never thought about

930
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 1: before in my life.

931
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:49,440
Speaker 2: Can you buy human breast milk?

932
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:50,640
Speaker 4: Oh?

933
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, they're well, actually, you know, I don't know

934
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:56,959
Speaker 2: if it was a like an art project or something.

935
00:48:57,000 --> 00:49:03,440
Speaker 2: But there was this site where you could buy like aristocratic,

936
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 2: like white women's breast milk. Really yeah, and and it

937
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 2: was like a fetish thing. But I don't know if

938
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 2: it exists anymore, and maybe some people in the chat

939
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 2: know what I'm talking about, but it was, Yeah, it

940
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 2: was like it was just a bizarre and I think

941
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:23,399
Speaker 2: it is a thing. It is a thing.

942
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:25,319
Speaker 1: It has to because there's no way they could make

943
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 1: that illegal. Because if you're, you know, an adult woman

944
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 1: and you make the conscious decision to sell your breast.

945
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 2: Milk, right be allowed to.

946
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,080
Speaker 1: And then if you're an adult, if you're a person

947
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:35,879
Speaker 1: you want to buy breast mokey, you.

948
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 2: Should be allowed to. Is it weird? It is? Has it?

949
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 1: There has to have been at least one person, one

950
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:49,359
Speaker 1: startup somewhere that tried to get a brand, like a

951
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:50,959
Speaker 1: legitimate brand.

952
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:54,920
Speaker 2: Going what I'm talking about, to go into grocery stores.

953
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: Oh god, happened at some point, whole foods.

954
00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 2: It's about a as whole as it gets a whole

955
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:05,760
Speaker 2: two percent. It's not two percent, it's one hundred percent

956
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 2: mother's milk. Yeah, that's right.

957
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:10,960
Speaker 1: Someone said Mark I had a flamingo themed birthday party

958
00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 1: in your honor?

959
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:13,799
Speaker 2: Is there a do you have a Flamingo thing? I have?

960
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 2: I made up a flamingo song at at one of

961
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:19,360
Speaker 2: my drive in shows during the pandemic in twenty twenty,

962
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:22,800
Speaker 2: and uh it it it made the rounds, I guess,

963
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 2: and yeah, flamingo. It was just about a flamingo that

964
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 2: like kills people and eats your your children and your

965
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:34,040
Speaker 2: grandmother's eats your grandmother's pussy. You did you did? You

966
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:35,359
Speaker 2: did the drive in shows? Yeah?

967
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, I heard of the drive with comedy. I heard

968
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 1: that the drive in shows they honk to laugh, Yes,

969
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 1: now what do they do with music?

970
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 2: We were the first ones on the road to do

971
00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 2: that and then we got it well, I mean it

972
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:48,839
Speaker 2: wasn't my idea, it was my agent's idea, but they

973
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:52,359
Speaker 2: but yeah, they put me out on the road and

974
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 2: it was like we did honking and we did you know,

975
00:50:57,400 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 2: windshield wipers and shit and and yeah, basically just people

976
00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 2: just pulled up to a parking lot and I was

977
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:05,400
Speaker 2: in the back with like a green screen and cameras

978
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 2: and then they projected the show onto the drive in

979
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:11,600
Speaker 2: theater screen and uh it was fun, I mean it

980
00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:13,719
Speaker 2: was it was fun. It was a weird run of

981
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:17,319
Speaker 2: shows kind of cool to people, like participating in this

982
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 2: weird part of history in that way. Yeah, dude, I

983
00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 2: mean it was Yeah, it was fun. People were I mean,

984
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 2: there hadn't been shows in months at that point, and

985
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 2: it was a nice way to connect with people in

986
00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 2: real life without like, you know, jeopardizing health too much.

987
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 1: Well, it's a good thing that the pandemic is completely over.

988
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 2: It's gone. It's done. I don't even know what that

989
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:40,760
Speaker 2: word means.

990
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 1: And us that's it.

991
00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 2: It's been everyone and we have the world is one

992
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 2: hundred percent back to normal. We did it. We won.

993
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 2: We did it. Everybody. It's over.

994
00:51:52,160 --> 00:51:54,840
Speaker 1: See what's going on in the queue here doesn't exist.

995
00:51:57,080 --> 00:52:00,240
Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, it's I keep my sanity by thinking

996
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:05,399
Speaker 2: that because it's it's exhausting. It's just exhausting. We got

997
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 2: anyone interesting.

998
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:08,759
Speaker 1: On the line, Yeah, tell me that. I'm looking around here.

999
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 2: Let's see. Mm hmmm, Oh, just got a date with

1000
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 2: a girl hasn't dated since middle school. Talked to Jay Jay. Hi.

1001
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 1: Jay knew that we were gonna pick on him before

1002
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:28,759
Speaker 1: he even what's up j doing?

1003
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 9: Man?

1004
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:35,799
Speaker 2: Hey man, Jay, just coming right on with it with

1005
00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 2: the intro coming right.

1006
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:40,120
Speaker 1: In, JJ, what's what's what's crack of lacking with you?

1007
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 3: I mean sorry? It was a bit of delight and

1008
00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 3: chilling watching the stream. I really thought that Riley guy

1009
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 3: was my own friend because he's obsessed with smoke.

1010
00:52:59,160 --> 00:52:59,359
Speaker 2: Jay.

1011
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:02,239
Speaker 1: It says he you're twenty one years old, you just

1012
00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:03,880
Speaker 1: got a date with a girl, and you haven't been

1013
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 1: on a date since middle school, and you want to

1014
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 1: get some general date ideas. Is that when when you

1015
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:17,240
Speaker 1: say date ideas, are you are you asking us about

1016
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:21,080
Speaker 1: like date etiquette or like actual like ideas of things

1017
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 1: to do on a date.

1018
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:27,439
Speaker 3: I guess a little bit of both, Like I kind

1019
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:30,840
Speaker 3: of have an idea both her and I we go

1020
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 3: to our local arts school, so I was thinking, like, oh,

1021
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 3: we could go to a gallery. She can't eat pork,

1022
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:43,120
Speaker 3: so I'm looking at restaurants that could accommodate for diet.

1023
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 2: Are you are you excited? Jay? Are you nervous? Are

1024
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:50,400
Speaker 2: you excited? Tell us? How you tell us how you're feeling.

1025
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 2: Hold on a second, tell us about what's in your stomach?

1026
00:53:54,440 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 2: Are you excited? What's my Yeah? How are you feeling

1027
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:03,880
Speaker 2: about it? You get nervous.

1028
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:11,879
Speaker 3: I'm really excited. Ah, Like I haven't. I haven't dated

1029
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 3: since middle school, as you guys can tell. And I've

1030
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:18,000
Speaker 3: been a very nervous person. I had a few bad

1031
00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:20,279
Speaker 3: like friendships, so it's made me very kind of like

1032
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 3: it is, I love like kind of opening myself.

1033
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 11: Up to people.

1034
00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 3: But like she's been super nice. She's kind of just

1035
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,640
Speaker 3: let me go off the walls talk about stuff I like.

1036
00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 3: And I really like her.

1037
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:41,080
Speaker 1: So I want I want to ask you, Uh, Jay,

1038
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:47,319
Speaker 1: is there a reason in particular why you feel like

1039
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 1: you haven't been on a date since since middle school?

1040
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 1: Have you not been out there searching? Have you been

1041
00:54:54,680 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 1: focusing on other things? Has it just not lined up

1042
00:54:57,520 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 1: for you?

1043
00:54:57,840 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 4: Like?

1044
00:54:57,960 --> 00:54:58,360
Speaker 2: What?

1045
00:54:58,360 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 1: What could you peg that too?

1046
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:04,799
Speaker 3: It's a little it's kind of like I've been both

1047
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:09,799
Speaker 3: very closed off and like I'm trans. So in the

1048
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 3: school I went to, it was very much so like

1049
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:18,200
Speaker 3: small queer community there. It was kind of awkward. I

1050
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:20,359
Speaker 3: just didn't really like not a lot of people seem

1051
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 3: to have showed interest in me. I didn't really show

1052
00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:25,799
Speaker 3: any interest in anyone there. I just kind of like

1053
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:27,920
Speaker 3: kept my head down and just wanted to focus on

1054
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:28,520
Speaker 3: school work.

1055
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 2: Really and yeah, man, it sounds like she digs you,

1056
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:38,640
Speaker 2: and it sounds like you got this shit in the bag.

1057
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:43,839
Speaker 2: It sounds like like I it's I love hearing you

1058
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:47,040
Speaker 2: talk about how you're feeling about the date because it's

1059
00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:51,080
Speaker 2: really sweet and genuine and I just know it's going

1060
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:53,080
Speaker 2: to be a great date. It doesn't matter what you

1061
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:55,839
Speaker 2: guys do, Honestly, you do whatever the fuck you want.

1062
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:58,600
Speaker 2: Go to a gallery, go to a little cafe. Don't

1063
00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:01,360
Speaker 2: overthink it, you know what I mean. It's you're gonna

1064
00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:04,680
Speaker 2: You're just it sounds that you already have a little connection,

1065
00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 2: So just go to any place where that's allowed to flourish,

1066
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 2: where you can talk to each other. Yeah, and uh,

1067
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 2: and you're just gonna have the time of your goddamn life.

1068
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 2: Just don't go to a movie. Yeah, oh no, definitely

1069
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:24,320
Speaker 2: don't do that. That's it's an attempting thing to do because

1070
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 2: you don't actually have to like interact with each other.

1071
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:29,880
Speaker 2: But don't do that. Do something where you have to

1072
00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:31,440
Speaker 2: interact with each other and look at each other in

1073
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:34,160
Speaker 2: the eyes, because that's some special shit.

1074
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 3: Ye.

1075
00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 2: And I'm just very excited for you. You're gonna be're

1076
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:39,759
Speaker 2: about to have a great day.

1077
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:42,040
Speaker 1: It sounds like yeah, because you know, you asked us

1078
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:45,200
Speaker 1: if we had date ideas, but then hot off the bat,

1079
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 1: you came. You came to us with the currently existing

1080
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 1: good date idea.

1081
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 2: Excellent, great idea. And I don't know if you were calling.

1082
00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:56,480
Speaker 1: Us for uh uh what's the word, uh, confirmation encouragement,

1083
00:56:56,640 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 1: encouragement on your currently existing plans. But but you you

1084
00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:05,840
Speaker 1: have our you have our validation, you have our validation

1085
00:57:05,960 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 1: on your currently resisting plans. If that's what you were

1086
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 1: what you were searching for.

1087
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 2: I agree.

1088
00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:12,439
Speaker 1: It sounds like the chemistry is there and as Mark said, uh,

1089
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 1: just finding a place for it to get a flourish Yeah, yeah.

1090
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:19,720
Speaker 3: Like I guess I really just wanted to know, like

1091
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:23,680
Speaker 3: I haven't tried or dated in a very long time,

1092
00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 3: Like I was worried, like oh am, I being a

1093
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 3: bit too like jumping in head first or something.

1094
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:37,000
Speaker 2: Jump get your fuck on, jump on in there and

1095
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:38,280
Speaker 2: get it done here.

1096
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 1: Here's another thing with the overthinking thing is like where

1097
00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 1: you where You're like, oh am I being too much?

1098
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 4: This?

1099
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:46,320
Speaker 2: Am I being too much? That even if.

1100
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:51,640
Speaker 1: You are whatever you are, whatever you are being, that

1101
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 1: is you and it is not up to other people.

1102
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 1: I mean, look, some people are not going to fuck

1103
00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 1: with you. Some people are not gonna fuck with your style.

1104
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 1: Some people are. Some people may think you are too much,

1105
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 1: some people may think you are too little. But it

1106
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 1: doesn't matter because you're not trying to mold your thing

1107
00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:08,440
Speaker 1: to be their thing. You're trying to see if this

1108
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 1: person jibes with your things. You don't even overthink about it,

1109
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:13,520
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.

1110
00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:17,760
Speaker 2: It's a great point. Be yourself, be nervous, be excited.

1111
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 2: They are too, and you just had to know that

1112
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:23,680
Speaker 2: you're you're You're both nervous and excited, and that's what

1113
00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 2: makes a fun day. You know, before we go, where'd

1114
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 2: you meet this person?

1115
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 1: Jay?

1116
00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:31,800
Speaker 3: Where did we meet?

1117
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1118
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 1: Liked you had you find out about.

1119
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:42,760
Speaker 3: If we actually share like a close friend with each other, which,

1120
00:58:43,400 --> 00:58:45,320
Speaker 3: like I feel like if we didn't even meet on

1121
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 3: tender we could have could have probably met at like

1122
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 3: one of our friends, like he does see indie movie

1123
00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:54,160
Speaker 3: showing things that we probably would.

1124
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 9: Have met there.

1125
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 1: Hey, that's date number two right in the bag. The

1126
00:58:57,840 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 1: let's go to our mutual friends indie movie night. Love

1127
00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 1: it man, you got a cool life. I like, I like,

1128
00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 1: I like what's going on with you?

1129
00:59:03,200 --> 00:59:03,400
Speaker 2: Jay?

1130
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:09,040
Speaker 1: I wish I could be you for like just one day.

1131
00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:09,800
Speaker 2: Oh oh.

1132
00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 11: H.

1133
00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:13,560
Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to say to the

1134
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 1: people of the computer or to Uh, to two Geckos,

1135
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 1: to to Mark, to Lyle, to my father, or to

1136
00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:24,160
Speaker 1: Mark's father, or to any any any any anyone or anything.

1137
00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 3: I just want to say, thank you so much, guys

1138
00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:32,600
Speaker 3: for talking to me and like letting me know that

1139
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:37,320
Speaker 3: go for it. Uh to Gek's father, you raised the

1140
00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:37,960
Speaker 3: great echo.

1141
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:39,200
Speaker 1: That's very sweet.

1142
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 2: Thank you, Jay.

1143
00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:41,840
Speaker 1: You have a good rest of the night.

1144
00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:48,520
Speaker 2: You two guys, night night. Don't let the bed bugs.

1145
00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 2: But okay, so I can help it. When when's that?

1146
00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 1: When's last time you went on a date?

1147
00:59:54,120 --> 01:00:00,040
Speaker 2: Oh? God, to two days ago? It was great, it

1148
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:03,560
Speaker 2: was great, it was a blast. I enjoy dates. I

1149
01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 2: go on quite that I feel I feel confident to

1150
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:11,400
Speaker 2: talk about. I love dates. I love getting to know

1151
01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 2: new people, finding out about them and their quirks and

1152
01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:23,000
Speaker 2: their little subtleties and fun shit and you know, just

1153
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:24,800
Speaker 2: fun you get to you sort of get to find

1154
01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:29,280
Speaker 2: out just who a new person is and if it works,

1155
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 2: it works. If a doesn't, A doesn't, it's no no harm.

1156
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:35,040
Speaker 2: Enough out either way. But yeah, I had a really

1157
01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:37,440
Speaker 2: good date a couple of days ago. So we've established

1158
01:00:37,440 --> 01:00:40,360
Speaker 2: we're both been perpetually single people. That's right.

1159
01:00:40,440 --> 01:00:42,960
Speaker 1: What And we can get as much into this or

1160
01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:44,440
Speaker 1: out of this as you as you want to get

1161
01:00:44,480 --> 01:00:45,280
Speaker 1: into my thing too?

1162
01:00:45,720 --> 01:00:45,840
Speaker 11: What?

1163
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:47,640
Speaker 2: Why? Why do you think that is?

1164
01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:49,920
Speaker 1: Because you say you like going on dates, but but

1165
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:51,160
Speaker 1: you've been single for ten years.

1166
01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do think about that, and you know, it's

1167
01:00:54,840 --> 01:00:57,720
Speaker 2: an interesting I think it's an interesting thing to think

1168
01:00:57,760 --> 01:01:03,200
Speaker 2: about because we have this. I would say it's a

1169
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 2: traditional societal idea that perhaps has gone more and more

1170
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:11,840
Speaker 2: out of style, maybe as the years have gone on,

1171
01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 2: very recently, that you know, everyone needs to find their

1172
01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:21,760
Speaker 2: one person and they need to be so spectacular that

1173
01:01:21,800 --> 01:01:25,160
Speaker 2: it stops everything else and you are with that person

1174
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:27,920
Speaker 2: for the rest of your days. And there is a

1175
01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:32,000
Speaker 2: very romantic notion around that, you know. I think it's

1176
01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:35,120
Speaker 2: I would like to find someone. I think eventually. I

1177
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:40,240
Speaker 2: don't even know if that's my sort of childhood romanticism talking,

1178
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 2: but I think I would like to find someone permanently eventually.

1179
01:01:45,920 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't even know if that's true, though I

1180
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:54,160
Speaker 2: will say this, I find great joy fulfillment and satisfaction

1181
01:01:54,400 --> 01:02:04,320
Speaker 2: in getting to know different women with wonderful lives, varied

1182
01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:16,120
Speaker 2: experiences and takes and histories and and qualities, and I

1183
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 2: I know them for a little bit and sometimes I

1184
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 2: stay in touch with them and sometimes but I don't

1185
01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:25,160
Speaker 2: know if I don't know if I'm really looking if

1186
01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:29,240
Speaker 2: I really feel like I want anything beyond those sorts

1187
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:33,880
Speaker 2: of burst relationships. They're like very quick relationships that are

1188
01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:35,600
Speaker 2: and I enjoy that.

1189
01:02:36,080 --> 01:02:39,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, I feel like we had a similar thing. Really, Yeah,

1190
01:02:39,600 --> 01:02:42,280
Speaker 1: I identify with a lot of what you're saying right now.

1191
01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:44,520
Speaker 2: Interesting what is you tell me about your tim? I mean,

1192
01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:46,200
Speaker 2: very similar to what kind of what you're saying.

1193
01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:49,240
Speaker 1: But I always feel like I'm weird because like because

1194
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 1: because as you're taying, there's a societal thing of like

1195
01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:54,040
Speaker 1: you know, you're supposed to be with this, but like

1196
01:02:54,080 --> 01:02:56,160
Speaker 1: you're supposed to find one person and be with them.

1197
01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:58,800
Speaker 1: But I just all I hear like horror stories like

1198
01:02:59,000 --> 01:03:01,040
Speaker 1: like uh was the name of the girl that we

1199
01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:04,560
Speaker 1: were talking about, Bethany, Like I hear stuff like that,

1200
01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:07,240
Speaker 1: and I'm like, fuck, I don't want to be like, like,

1201
01:03:08,360 --> 01:03:08,760
Speaker 1: what's the.

1202
01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:10,880
Speaker 2: Thing where like you think someone is great.

1203
01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 1: You enjoy their company, Yeah, you're you're attracted to them

1204
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:17,800
Speaker 1: like things are, but you you just like want to

1205
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:19,400
Speaker 1: live your own life and you want to respect them

1206
01:03:19,440 --> 01:03:21,280
Speaker 1: and their ability to live their own life as well.

1207
01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:23,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I like, what's what's what is that?

1208
01:03:23,280 --> 01:03:24,800
Speaker 2: There's got to be a word. There's probably a word

1209
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 2: in German for the Germans have a word for everything,

1210
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 2: probably a word for it. But yeah, that would be great.

1211
01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:31,920
Speaker 2: I mean, I would love to eventually end on some

1212
01:03:32,080 --> 01:03:33,760
Speaker 2: sort of thing like that, where I have someone who

1213
01:03:34,320 --> 01:03:36,640
Speaker 2: I consider a best friend, you know, one of my

1214
01:03:36,720 --> 01:03:40,160
Speaker 2: best friends, but the sex is also great and we

1215
01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 2: love each other, you know, it's like sort of a

1216
01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:46,200
Speaker 2: I would love to find something like that. I haven't

1217
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:49,439
Speaker 2: really found anything permanently like that, and it doesn't hurt

1218
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:51,880
Speaker 2: me that I haven't either though. That's the thing. It's

1219
01:03:51,960 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 2: not like I don't feel like something's missing, but I

1220
01:03:56,600 --> 01:04:00,320
Speaker 2: I'm open to that happening in the future. But I

1221
01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:04,280
Speaker 2: don't feel like I'm on this quest to find that.

1222
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 2: What I've found is that some of the women who

1223
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:10,720
Speaker 2: have been with who are also of the same mind

1224
01:04:10,800 --> 01:04:14,920
Speaker 2: as me, who enjoy sort of being with people in bursts.

1225
01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:19,480
Speaker 2: That's just sort of is right. That's the key.

1226
01:04:19,520 --> 01:04:22,080
Speaker 1: You got to find somebody who thinks about these things,

1227
01:04:22,360 --> 01:04:24,000
Speaker 1: say the similar way that you think about these things.

1228
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:26,520
Speaker 2: So those people exist, they do exist. And also I

1229
01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:30,480
Speaker 2: will say that it's not everybody, Like there are people

1230
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 2: who I have heard because you know, their expectations were

1231
01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:40,280
Speaker 2: different than my expectations, and I've had to lay that

1232
01:04:40,400 --> 01:04:42,200
Speaker 2: out on the table. We've had to lay that out

1233
01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:45,640
Speaker 2: on the table. And I hope that I've left those

1234
01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:50,480
Speaker 2: situations amicably by being honest and communicative. But it's not

1235
01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 2: for everybody. It's not for everybody. And I understand that

1236
01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 2: you know.

1237
01:04:55,200 --> 01:04:57,520
Speaker 1: So, and you know you imationed about being on this quest,

1238
01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:02,040
Speaker 1: and like do we get calls about this all the time,

1239
01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 1: Like anyone who's like on a who like is on

1240
01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:07,439
Speaker 1: a quest or like I'm looking for another person.

1241
01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:11,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, like, it's it's this.

1242
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:12,840
Speaker 1: I mean, this is why I tell every single caller

1243
01:05:12,920 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 1: who's like, you know, hey, I can't find a girlfriend

1244
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 1: or boyfriend or whatever, it's like, well, then just you know,

1245
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:20,480
Speaker 1: focus on your own thing and then people will come.

1246
01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 1: But like when you chase finding the other half, like

1247
01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:24,959
Speaker 1: that's when your ship just gets fucked.

1248
01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:29,600
Speaker 2: Person yo, one of my one of my very best friends.

1249
01:05:30,440 --> 01:05:32,960
Speaker 2: I won't say her name out of just privacy, but

1250
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:39,600
Speaker 2: she was dating a dude who maybe wasn't the best

1251
01:05:40,600 --> 01:05:45,680
Speaker 2: suited to her, but he gave her love and time

1252
01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:49,160
Speaker 2: and respect and that was great. But she was on

1253
01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:52,280
Speaker 2: this really transformative sort of journey of her own where

1254
01:05:52,320 --> 01:05:56,640
Speaker 2: she was really learning a lot about herself still is therapy,

1255
01:05:56,760 --> 01:06:02,960
Speaker 2: doing beautiful, like really like huge things for herself, figuring

1256
01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:05,320
Speaker 2: herself out. Had a lot of trauma in her past,

1257
01:06:05,800 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 2: dealing with it, working through it, becoming a better person

1258
01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:12,320
Speaker 2: for it. And this dude was not necessarily on that

1259
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 2: journey with her, and so at the end of the day,

1260
01:06:16,160 --> 01:06:18,440
Speaker 2: you know, it didn't work out because they ended up

1261
01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:22,400
Speaker 2: in different places. She was, you know, she had grown,

1262
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:28,200
Speaker 2: he maybe had not so much, yea. And so it's

1263
01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 2: just sort of this thing of like, yeah, I like

1264
01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:33,000
Speaker 2: to find people who are in a who are in

1265
01:06:33,080 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 2: a similar place that I am at that time. I

1266
01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:39,840
Speaker 2: like connecting with them. And then if we go our

1267
01:06:39,880 --> 01:06:42,640
Speaker 2: separate ways, great, I wish you the best. I love you,

1268
01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:46,480
Speaker 2: enjoy yourself, enjoy your life. If we stay in touch, great,

1269
01:06:46,560 --> 01:06:48,400
Speaker 2: I'd love to see you in the future. But it's

1270
01:06:49,280 --> 01:06:50,160
Speaker 2: I'm very loose with.

1271
01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:50,520
Speaker 3: It and.

1272
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:55,760
Speaker 2: Appreciating the moment. Yeah, moments all we got. I'm a

1273
01:06:55,880 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 2: loose little slut of a boy. The moments all we got.

1274
01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:02,600
Speaker 1: Things ever, guaranteed tomorrow doesn't exist.

1275
01:07:02,920 --> 01:07:05,320
Speaker 2: Live it up, baby, enjoy yourself. Do things that make

1276
01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:08,160
Speaker 2: you happy. How are you feeling, Mark, I'm feeling when

1277
01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:10,680
Speaker 2: when the jazz is on, I feel like I'm playing

1278
01:07:10,760 --> 01:07:13,440
Speaker 2: the Sims again. You know what I mean? Yeah, I

1279
01:07:13,520 --> 01:07:16,080
Speaker 2: think I'm just putting a little house together in two

1280
01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:22,240
Speaker 2: thousand and two. A here, I really have to pee?

1281
01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:25,960
Speaker 2: Oh you you go p here right now? Really? Yeah? Yeah?

1282
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:26,880
Speaker 1: I take peeper experience.

1283
01:07:27,040 --> 01:07:29,680
Speaker 2: You do you let me do that. You go up here,

1284
01:07:29,840 --> 01:07:31,720
Speaker 2: you go pee in them when you get back. Okay,

1285
01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:33,960
Speaker 2: that sounds good. All right, ready break, I'll see you

1286
01:07:33,960 --> 01:07:35,400
Speaker 2: guys soon. I'm gonna go pee. I'm gonna have a

1287
01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:40,320
Speaker 2: nice peepee. Needs to take a peepee? Oh leka, drain

1288
01:07:40,440 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 2: the lizard. As they say, I want to stretch. I'm

1289
01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:55,640
Speaker 2: gonna stretch real quick. Hey.

1290
01:07:55,720 --> 01:08:00,720
Speaker 1: Shout out to freaking Mark Mark Mark Mark uh Mark

1291
01:08:01,000 --> 01:08:05,320
Speaker 1: Mark R. For coming on the stream.

1292
01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:05,760
Speaker 2: Dude.

1293
01:08:06,720 --> 01:08:12,160
Speaker 1: He's been great. Love having him in here. I always

1294
01:08:12,200 --> 01:08:13,880
Speaker 1: love doing the guest shows man. There was a lot

1295
01:08:13,920 --> 01:08:18,599
Speaker 1: of fucking fun. What's his name? I think it's Mark

1296
01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:27,840
Speaker 1: Ratituy Mark Uh, Mark mcribb, Mark Uh.

1297
01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:29,880
Speaker 2: What's the state? Is there any?

1298
01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:33,120
Speaker 1: Are there any states that start with the letter R?

1299
01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:38,040
Speaker 1: Rhode Island. That's the only one, right. I can't think

1300
01:08:38,080 --> 01:08:39,960
Speaker 1: of another one that was a good call, Leo. I

1301
01:08:39,960 --> 01:08:42,719
Speaker 1: couldn't think of one that would have been here forever

1302
01:08:44,200 --> 01:08:56,559
Speaker 1: rexus RAR Kansas, Alabama, Ruth Routh, Dakota. That's how Scooby

1303
01:08:56,600 --> 01:09:02,200
Speaker 1: Doo says, South Dakota. Oh, this is this is, this

1304
01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 1: is I got I gotta know what's going on here?

1305
01:09:05,560 --> 01:09:09,759
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my god.

1306
01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:20,120
Speaker 1: Uh Helsey Kelsey, Hello Kelsey from Pennsylvania, twenty three years old.

1307
01:09:21,600 --> 01:09:22,120
Speaker 2: What's going on?

1308
01:09:24,640 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 10: How are you?

1309
01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:29,639
Speaker 2: Mark? How are you? Yeah? I'm doing very well. I'm

1310
01:09:29,680 --> 01:09:32,680
Speaker 2: having a nice little evening. I'm enjoying myself. How are

1311
01:09:32,680 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 2: you well.

1312
01:09:33,520 --> 01:09:36,080
Speaker 1: I'm having a nice little evening and enjoying myself too. Yeah,

1313
01:09:36,360 --> 01:09:40,400
Speaker 1: I'm uh you know, I'm I'm having a fun time.

1314
01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:42,800
Speaker 2: It's fun. It's good to be alive for me. A

1315
01:09:42,840 --> 01:09:44,400
Speaker 2: little bit of that, oh please, of course hit me

1316
01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:45,880
Speaker 2: with a little bit of that, right, yes, yes, yes,

1317
01:09:46,160 --> 01:09:50,320
Speaker 2: quick quick, yeah, that's it. Yeah, anymore over you know, well,

1318
01:09:50,360 --> 01:09:53,040
Speaker 2: maybe just a taste, maybe a taste. That's perfect, that's it,

1319
01:09:53,200 --> 01:09:59,680
Speaker 2: beautiful chin chinchim my friend, Kelsey, are you still there?

1320
01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:00,479
Speaker 10: Hello?

1321
01:10:01,120 --> 01:10:03,040
Speaker 2: Kelsey? It says here.

1322
01:10:04,640 --> 01:10:09,000
Speaker 1: That you twenty three from Pennsylvanuary went over. That part

1323
01:10:09,400 --> 01:10:13,639
Speaker 1: says that your boy It says that your boyfriend left

1324
01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:19,560
Speaker 1: you for your grandpa, and that your boyfriend's twenty. It

1325
01:10:19,600 --> 01:10:22,200
Speaker 1: says your boyfriend's twenty five and your grandpa's seventy two.

1326
01:10:24,640 --> 01:10:27,960
Speaker 2: Yep, Kelsey, please God tell us the story.

1327
01:10:30,560 --> 01:10:33,559
Speaker 10: So my boyfriend was cheating on me for a while

1328
01:10:33,680 --> 01:10:37,360
Speaker 10: and wasn't home. Come to find out he was seeing

1329
01:10:37,439 --> 01:10:38,200
Speaker 10: my grandfather.

1330
01:10:38,680 --> 01:10:40,479
Speaker 2: Get the fuck out of here.

1331
01:10:42,520 --> 01:10:44,720
Speaker 10: And I think that's how I got chlamydia.

1332
01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:49,120
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you got chlamydia from your own grandfather,

1333
01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:51,719
Speaker 1: I guess.

1334
01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:52,840
Speaker 2: So get.

1335
01:10:54,280 --> 01:10:54,320
Speaker 11: What?

1336
01:10:57,000 --> 01:11:03,920
Speaker 2: Okay? Wait? Tell us how they give us the story

1337
01:11:04,000 --> 01:11:07,800
Speaker 2: of the meeting of the grandfather And did you sense

1338
01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:09,280
Speaker 2: any weird chemistry there?

1339
01:11:09,479 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 1: Tell us get please, there's so many details.

1340
01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:13,360
Speaker 2: That we are missing.

1341
01:11:13,520 --> 01:11:14,599
Speaker 6: How I found out.

1342
01:11:16,360 --> 01:11:20,280
Speaker 10: Was I got quamdia and I'm not cheating on my boyfriend.

1343
01:11:21,400 --> 01:11:24,760
Speaker 10: So I did some big deeping and he was been

1344
01:11:24,840 --> 01:11:27,960
Speaker 10: texting this person and seeing him, which was my grandfather.

1345
01:11:30,360 --> 01:11:31,559
Speaker 2: Wait, you saw texts?

1346
01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:34,840
Speaker 10: I did?

1347
01:11:35,520 --> 01:11:36,800
Speaker 2: What did they say?

1348
01:11:40,640 --> 01:11:44,320
Speaker 10: And well one it was saved under his grandfather's name,

1349
01:11:44,400 --> 01:11:45,479
Speaker 10: so I thought nothing of it.

1350
01:11:45,960 --> 01:11:51,320
Speaker 1: Oh he saved the texts under his grandfather's name.

1351
01:11:51,439 --> 01:11:56,040
Speaker 2: Also, I would have thought something, Grandpa, Jimmy, oh my?

1352
01:11:56,360 --> 01:11:57,920
Speaker 2: Can you tell us what the text said?

1353
01:12:01,360 --> 01:12:04,280
Speaker 10: While it was about the nights they were having sleeping

1354
01:12:04,400 --> 01:12:08,719
Speaker 10: over having work late when it wasn't.

1355
01:12:08,600 --> 01:12:11,439
Speaker 9: Actually worse you know, Oh my god?

1356
01:12:11,680 --> 01:12:13,960
Speaker 10: And that Chelsea has lamydia?

1357
01:12:15,760 --> 01:12:20,080
Speaker 1: Cal Say, Kelsey, tell us, have you spoken to your

1358
01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:21,040
Speaker 1: grandfather about this?

1359
01:12:23,640 --> 01:12:25,959
Speaker 10: No, it's a whole family affair, honestly.

1360
01:12:26,640 --> 01:12:28,280
Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait, so where is it at? What's the

1361
01:12:28,360 --> 01:12:29,120
Speaker 2: current status?

1362
01:12:31,920 --> 01:12:33,160
Speaker 8: I think they're still together.

1363
01:12:33,600 --> 01:12:37,760
Speaker 10: It happened like two months ago. What they're living it

1364
01:12:37,880 --> 01:12:38,439
Speaker 10: up over there?

1365
01:12:39,080 --> 01:12:39,120
Speaker 1: What?

1366
01:12:39,760 --> 01:12:39,800
Speaker 11: So?

1367
01:12:40,520 --> 01:12:42,800
Speaker 2: Are you not connected to the situation at all?

1368
01:12:42,920 --> 01:12:43,080
Speaker 3: Do you?

1369
01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:47,320
Speaker 2: Yeah? What's your grandfather's family?

1370
01:12:48,560 --> 01:12:51,200
Speaker 10: First, they asked me if I wanted a relationship with them?

1371
01:12:52,120 --> 01:12:55,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god, way, what do you mean a relationship

1372
01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:55,479
Speaker 1: with them?

1373
01:12:58,080 --> 01:12:58,879
Speaker 10: Like a thropple?

1374
01:12:59,600 --> 01:13:00,840
Speaker 2: Are you hold on?

1375
01:13:02,560 --> 01:13:06,160
Speaker 1: Cal calseiy Kelsey please? And I will, I swear to

1376
01:13:06,240 --> 01:13:09,880
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be mad at you. I promise you

1377
01:13:10,240 --> 01:13:12,640
Speaker 1: that I will not be mad at you. Okay, do

1378
01:13:12,640 --> 01:13:14,600
Speaker 1: you understand me? I promise you I will not be

1379
01:13:14,680 --> 01:13:15,000
Speaker 1: mad at you.

1380
01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:16,720
Speaker 2: Are you?

1381
01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:18,439
Speaker 1: Are you fucking with us right now?

1382
01:13:21,520 --> 01:13:21,560
Speaker 5: No?

1383
01:13:21,760 --> 01:13:23,559
Speaker 10: I swear to God I would not mix that up.

1384
01:13:23,600 --> 01:13:24,639
Speaker 10: I'm single right now.

1385
01:13:26,000 --> 01:13:29,559
Speaker 2: Dude. Okay, hold on a second. Okay, So, so your

1386
01:13:29,600 --> 01:13:36,439
Speaker 2: boyfriend started fucking started sucking your grandfather is now with him?

1387
01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:44,639
Speaker 2: And how did that situation get resolved? Like, or rather

1388
01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:51,120
Speaker 2: not resolved but confronted in any way, like, explain to

1389
01:13:51,240 --> 01:13:52,960
Speaker 2: us that the sequence of events there.

1390
01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:56,960
Speaker 10: I confronted my boyfriend at the time, and he denied

1391
01:13:57,000 --> 01:13:59,599
Speaker 10: it and was trying to say they were doing other

1392
01:13:59,720 --> 01:14:04,800
Speaker 10: things that trying to surprise me what we're saying him.

1393
01:14:04,880 --> 01:14:10,639
Speaker 10: But then I got chamydia, dude, I that Wow.

1394
01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:15,960
Speaker 1: What was your relationship like with your grandfather before this happened?

1395
01:14:16,840 --> 01:14:17,479
Speaker 2: Very good question.

1396
01:14:17,880 --> 01:14:21,360
Speaker 10: We were pretty close, I mean close enough for my

1397
01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:23,240
Speaker 10: boyfriend to get to know him. I guess.

1398
01:14:23,520 --> 01:14:32,840
Speaker 2: Oh no, my you're playing chess yea oh god, dude, Okay,

1399
01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:33,960
Speaker 2: story to tell now?

1400
01:14:34,080 --> 01:14:35,080
Speaker 1: You know what?

1401
01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:37,439
Speaker 2: I want to just say? I I know I'm reacting

1402
01:14:37,520 --> 01:14:42,960
Speaker 2: with a like incredible shock. I apologize It's just it's

1403
01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:49,679
Speaker 2: such an intensely unusual thing, right, No, apology is definitely

1404
01:14:52,160 --> 01:14:53,960
Speaker 2: your grandma. Are they married?

1405
01:14:56,360 --> 01:14:59,080
Speaker 10: They they are. I mean they're not actually together now,

1406
01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:01,160
Speaker 10: but they were married for I think.

1407
01:15:01,080 --> 01:15:01,880
Speaker 11: Twenty two years.

1408
01:15:02,680 --> 01:15:10,519
Speaker 2: Are they not together because of this? What the fuck? Dude?

1409
01:15:12,400 --> 01:15:16,479
Speaker 2: This is in insane, insane sequence of events.

1410
01:15:17,080 --> 01:15:17,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1411
01:15:17,320 --> 01:15:19,800
Speaker 10: I never found out if she got media or not.

1412
01:15:20,360 --> 01:15:23,800
Speaker 2: I'm sure she did. I'm sure she did get it.

1413
01:15:24,080 --> 01:15:24,519
Speaker 1: Probably.

1414
01:15:25,760 --> 01:15:29,080
Speaker 2: Okay, wait, now hold on. We have to be sensitive

1415
01:15:29,120 --> 01:15:33,360
Speaker 2: here though, too, because, as I mean, this is something

1416
01:15:33,400 --> 01:15:37,679
Speaker 2: out of like an absurdist comedy, but this is also

1417
01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:44,519
Speaker 2: your life. I imagine this was like, oh it is okay,

1418
01:15:44,640 --> 01:15:46,639
Speaker 2: have you gotten as like you've gotten past the pain

1419
01:15:46,840 --> 01:15:48,240
Speaker 2: part or the trauma.

1420
01:15:48,320 --> 01:15:50,880
Speaker 10: But because this is like a it can only be

1421
01:15:51,120 --> 01:15:54,639
Speaker 10: so painful, you know, when someone's when your boyfriend's gay,

1422
01:15:54,720 --> 01:15:55,960
Speaker 10: you just have to move forward.

1423
01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:02,519
Speaker 2: This is about more than your boyfriend being getting way

1424
01:16:02,680 --> 01:16:08,920
Speaker 2: more than that, way more than that. Yeah, that's sort

1425
01:16:08,960 --> 01:16:10,479
Speaker 2: of an afterthought at this point.

1426
01:16:11,920 --> 01:16:14,240
Speaker 1: I would put that lower in the priority list of

1427
01:16:14,360 --> 01:16:17,600
Speaker 1: things to be thinking about in this situation. Kelsey so

1428
01:16:18,760 --> 01:16:22,679
Speaker 1: so so, Kelsey's so all right, tell me about your

1429
01:16:22,920 --> 01:16:25,880
Speaker 1: tell me about the reactions of other people in your family,

1430
01:16:26,040 --> 01:16:28,560
Speaker 1: your mom, I don't know if you have any siblings

1431
01:16:28,960 --> 01:16:30,200
Speaker 1: or you know, what what what?

1432
01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:32,000
Speaker 2: What is? What is the talk of the town and

1433
01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:33,080
Speaker 2: the other members of the family.

1434
01:16:35,560 --> 01:16:38,040
Speaker 10: Well, my mom said she wasn't surprised.

1435
01:16:40,680 --> 01:16:44,240
Speaker 2: Apparently he did. He's done things like this in the past.

1436
01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:45,160
Speaker 10: I wanted to.

1437
01:16:46,640 --> 01:16:49,240
Speaker 1: Well, so your mom said that she wasn't surprised because

1438
01:16:49,280 --> 01:16:54,800
Speaker 1: he's done things like this in the past, apparently, Like like, what,

1439
01:16:54,960 --> 01:16:56,360
Speaker 1: do you have any examples of anything?

1440
01:16:58,160 --> 01:16:59,519
Speaker 10: I have no clue.

1441
01:17:00,240 --> 01:17:04,879
Speaker 2: Oh okay, so wait, So it sounds like once this happened,

1442
01:17:05,760 --> 01:17:10,680
Speaker 2: you became somewhat disconnected in a in a sense, was

1443
01:17:10,720 --> 01:17:13,400
Speaker 2: that you're doing your choice? Tell us about where they

1444
01:17:13,600 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 2: because you it sounds like you're like, I have nothing

1445
01:17:16,520 --> 01:17:18,640
Speaker 2: to do with this anymore, Like you you know what

1446
01:17:18,720 --> 01:17:28,640
Speaker 2: I mean? Yeah, yeah, I have no earthly idea. I

1447
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:33,800
Speaker 2: have no earthly idea. I mean, what's get It's just

1448
01:17:34,160 --> 01:17:36,600
Speaker 2: such an insane situation.

1449
01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:39,080
Speaker 1: Tell us about your grandma. Are you close with her?

1450
01:17:39,320 --> 01:17:39,920
Speaker 11: Have you have you?

1451
01:17:40,000 --> 01:17:41,000
Speaker 2: Have you been checking in on.

1452
01:17:41,080 --> 01:17:41,479
Speaker 1: Her at all?

1453
01:17:42,240 --> 01:17:44,880
Speaker 10: A little bit. She's just done with the whole family,

1454
01:17:45,000 --> 01:17:47,080
Speaker 10: you know, she's living on her own, living her life.

1455
01:17:47,240 --> 01:17:53,920
Speaker 2: He's like, I'm over this bullshit, this ship. What a

1456
01:17:54,120 --> 01:17:57,400
Speaker 2: champ man, what a fucking chip By the way, you too,

1457
01:17:57,880 --> 01:18:03,040
Speaker 2: what a fucking champ and your grandma too for putting up.

1458
01:18:03,280 --> 01:18:06,160
Speaker 2: And then also, I I do have to say on

1459
01:18:06,280 --> 01:18:08,360
Speaker 2: the other side of this, we have to be empathetic

1460
01:18:08,400 --> 01:18:13,080
Speaker 2: to all sides. Love clearly was found there in this

1461
01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:15,120
Speaker 2: very bizarre yeah.

1462
01:18:16,520 --> 01:18:18,720
Speaker 1: Way, I was wondering if I should bring that up.

1463
01:18:18,760 --> 01:18:21,439
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm almost am I weirdly happy for

1464
01:18:21,640 --> 01:18:23,639
Speaker 1: the boyfriends? I mean, I know we cheated. I guess

1465
01:18:23,680 --> 01:18:26,280
Speaker 1: that's bad, but am I weirdly happy that he found

1466
01:18:26,800 --> 01:18:28,519
Speaker 1: he found out who he was?

1467
01:18:29,040 --> 01:18:31,000
Speaker 2: Happy is the wrong? Happy is not the wrong, But

1468
01:18:31,120 --> 01:18:33,400
Speaker 2: I mean, well, well, look the situation okay, and.

1469
01:18:33,479 --> 01:18:36,840
Speaker 1: This guy sound crazy, Yeah, the situation kind of worked

1470
01:18:36,840 --> 01:18:39,400
Speaker 1: out for everybody because look.

1471
01:18:39,720 --> 01:18:41,160
Speaker 2: Well because look, you know, you don't want to be

1472
01:18:41,320 --> 01:18:42,640
Speaker 2: with it, well, because you don't want to.

1473
01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:46,880
Speaker 1: Be with somebody who ultimately is you know, hiding something

1474
01:18:46,880 --> 01:18:48,320
Speaker 1: about themselves that would make it.

1475
01:18:49,840 --> 01:18:52,439
Speaker 2: Yes, exactly, Yeah, you don't want to be with someone

1476
01:18:52,479 --> 01:18:54,040
Speaker 2: who's fucking your grandfather.

1477
01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:57,760
Speaker 1: To be with someone who's fucking your grandfather, and your

1478
01:18:58,160 --> 01:18:59,919
Speaker 1: boyfriend wants to be with your grandfather.

1479
01:19:00,160 --> 01:19:03,439
Speaker 2: So maybe everyone's kind of maybe this was good? Was

1480
01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:04,719
Speaker 2: this good? Am I crazy?

1481
01:19:05,240 --> 01:19:08,240
Speaker 10: I mean, maybe it's a good story.

1482
01:19:08,800 --> 01:19:11,320
Speaker 2: It's a great story, questionably a good story. Should it

1483
01:19:11,400 --> 01:19:14,600
Speaker 2: maybe have never? Like, would it have been better for

1484
01:19:14,720 --> 01:19:17,480
Speaker 2: everyone if it had never happened at all? Your boyfriend

1485
01:19:17,680 --> 01:19:22,840
Speaker 2: and your grandfather? And likely it's likely probably better if

1486
01:19:22,920 --> 01:19:27,120
Speaker 2: it had never happened at all. But I have to say,

1487
01:19:28,320 --> 01:19:32,720
Speaker 2: you are awesome for taking you clearly have you you

1488
01:19:32,840 --> 01:19:36,720
Speaker 2: have a healthy relationship with what has happened. You're you're

1489
01:19:37,160 --> 01:19:40,240
Speaker 2: looking at it with go ahead.

1490
01:19:41,439 --> 01:19:43,280
Speaker 10: Besides the commydia, you know what I mean?

1491
01:19:43,920 --> 01:19:45,680
Speaker 2: You take those pills. You get that pill on.

1492
01:19:50,160 --> 01:19:52,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, we're working on it.

1493
01:19:52,479 --> 01:19:56,720
Speaker 2: Take the pills to go to your fucking PCP. We

1494
01:19:56,800 --> 01:20:00,400
Speaker 2: were talking about lemittee on the streamline Lyles had yeah,

1495
01:20:00,520 --> 01:20:03,400
Speaker 2: and we when we're cure it's a curable illness. Just

1496
01:20:03,479 --> 01:20:06,080
Speaker 2: take a pill twice. Take the pill.

1497
01:20:06,920 --> 01:20:08,719
Speaker 10: Probably this story.

1498
01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:12,360
Speaker 2: Huh, you gotta go get that pill. It's very easy.

1499
01:20:12,479 --> 01:20:15,519
Speaker 2: It's a it's like a regiment. It's a little antibiotic regiment.

1500
01:20:15,640 --> 01:20:17,479
Speaker 7: Go do it before.

1501
01:20:17,760 --> 01:20:24,439
Speaker 2: Yes, I don't know why the h you answered that

1502
01:20:24,560 --> 01:20:29,280
Speaker 2: with maybe certainly have and you just take some pills

1503
01:20:29,439 --> 01:20:30,240
Speaker 2: and then you're good.

1504
01:20:30,680 --> 01:20:36,120
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm just reading the comments.

1505
01:20:36,160 --> 01:20:38,080
Speaker 10: I'm sorry, people are saying some good things.

1506
01:20:38,520 --> 01:20:39,840
Speaker 1: Tell me what the people are. So what of the

1507
01:20:39,880 --> 01:20:41,360
Speaker 1: people saying are they? Are they comforting you?

1508
01:20:41,520 --> 01:20:43,160
Speaker 2: Or normalize chlamydia?

1509
01:20:43,640 --> 01:20:47,400
Speaker 10: Normalize Grandpa Steel one of the mom's boyfriends too.

1510
01:20:48,439 --> 01:20:55,040
Speaker 2: Now, huh, just remember because the mom was saying, like,

1511
01:20:55,240 --> 01:20:56,240
Speaker 2: he does this type of thing.

1512
01:20:56,880 --> 01:20:59,880
Speaker 1: I feel like maybe when your mom was like whatever

1513
01:21:00,400 --> 01:21:04,000
Speaker 1: fucking like in college or something like that, maybe the

1514
01:21:04,080 --> 01:21:07,920
Speaker 1: same thing happened to her where like her boyfriend was

1515
01:21:07,920 --> 01:21:08,760
Speaker 1: stolen by her dad.

1516
01:21:08,880 --> 01:21:10,960
Speaker 2: Maybe he has a history of doing this kind of stuff.

1517
01:21:12,600 --> 01:21:13,320
Speaker 2: What's up with.

1518
01:21:15,720 --> 01:21:16,400
Speaker 5: Her boyfriend?

1519
01:21:16,439 --> 01:21:17,960
Speaker 10: Would become a step grandpa?

1520
01:21:18,640 --> 01:21:22,200
Speaker 2: If Grandpa could call him, this would be the most

1521
01:21:22,320 --> 01:21:28,000
Speaker 2: incredible sequence of events. Is it any way to.

1522
01:21:28,000 --> 01:21:30,719
Speaker 10: Make that happen to boyfriend? Grandmam?

1523
01:21:31,160 --> 01:21:33,960
Speaker 2: Do you do you have his? Wait? Actually, can I

1524
01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:34,720
Speaker 2: ask you? Can I ask you?

1525
01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:38,400
Speaker 1: Do you have your grandmother's phone number? Would you be

1526
01:21:38,479 --> 01:21:39,640
Speaker 1: willing to dial her in.

1527
01:21:41,360 --> 01:21:41,479
Speaker 3: Now?

1528
01:21:41,560 --> 01:21:41,760
Speaker 8: Though?

1529
01:21:42,080 --> 01:21:46,040
Speaker 2: Oh shit, that's right, she's on grandma time.

1530
01:21:47,040 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 10: Someone said, if you can't keep it in the pants,

1531
01:21:49,479 --> 01:21:50,400
Speaker 10: keep it in the family.

1532
01:21:52,520 --> 01:21:54,080
Speaker 1: By the way, can you figure this out real quick?

1533
01:21:54,160 --> 01:21:56,800
Speaker 1: If your boyfriend and your grand and your grandfather did

1534
01:21:56,960 --> 01:22:00,680
Speaker 1: get married. What what would the would you call? What

1535
01:22:00,680 --> 01:22:05,400
Speaker 1: would your boyfriend's title be? Step grand your father? Oh,

1536
01:22:05,680 --> 01:22:08,040
Speaker 1: my step grandfather.

1537
01:22:08,160 --> 01:22:10,439
Speaker 2: This is this is my step granddad.

1538
01:22:12,000 --> 01:22:12,719
Speaker 1: And my axe.

1539
01:22:13,200 --> 01:22:21,080
Speaker 2: Jesus, what mental just jungle jim to be climbing through here?

1540
01:22:22,320 --> 01:22:25,200
Speaker 2: I don't know, I mean, I can't imagine how honestly

1541
01:22:25,320 --> 01:22:28,000
Speaker 2: I'm I have I just have to say, because I

1542
01:22:28,120 --> 01:22:30,759
Speaker 2: know it must have fucked you up, and I'm sorry

1543
01:22:30,840 --> 01:22:34,240
Speaker 2: for that. That's that that must have been a real

1544
01:22:35,400 --> 01:22:45,160
Speaker 2: fucker to hear or to see, right, Oh, Kelsey, Kelsey's

1545
01:22:45,720 --> 01:22:47,519
Speaker 2: what would happen? Left?

1546
01:22:48,439 --> 01:22:50,360
Speaker 1: Let's bring it back, guy, this was an accident.

1547
01:22:51,400 --> 01:22:56,760
Speaker 2: I just I'm just I can't imagine what a what

1548
01:22:56,920 --> 01:22:58,720
Speaker 2: a fucker of a thing that must have been to

1549
01:22:58,880 --> 01:23:04,719
Speaker 2: see like your your boyfriend's text messages with your grand fund.

1550
01:23:04,840 --> 01:23:07,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, Kelsey, Kelsey dropped out of an accident.

1551
01:23:07,640 --> 01:23:11,080
Speaker 2: But maybe she got a cover blown or something.

1552
01:23:11,360 --> 01:23:14,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, that is a total that is a total

1553
01:23:14,120 --> 01:23:18,600
Speaker 1: fucker Uh, very crazy stuff. Kelsey did it seem like

1554
01:23:18,680 --> 01:23:21,360
Speaker 1: she was no, you've you've you've been very sensitive to

1555
01:23:21,439 --> 01:23:23,639
Speaker 1: this issue. I feel like it's it's true. Kelsey did't

1556
01:23:23,640 --> 01:23:26,559
Speaker 1: seem like she was handling it very well, super well.

1557
01:23:26,680 --> 01:23:28,280
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, here's here's the problem.

1558
01:23:28,360 --> 01:23:30,000
Speaker 2: She had like a good attitude of I don't know if.

1559
01:23:29,920 --> 01:23:31,080
Speaker 1: It's I don't know if it's a problem, but here's

1560
01:23:31,080 --> 01:23:36,559
Speaker 1: the thing. Whatever it is, it's undeniably a pretty crazy,

1561
01:23:36,760 --> 01:23:38,240
Speaker 1: medically pretty funny.

1562
01:23:38,240 --> 01:23:39,120
Speaker 2: It's so funny.

1563
01:23:39,280 --> 01:23:42,720
Speaker 1: It's an undeniably funny start under it's a comedic. And

1564
01:23:42,960 --> 01:23:47,600
Speaker 1: I appreciate so heavily that Casey is aware of that,

1565
01:23:47,680 --> 01:23:51,479
Speaker 1: one hundred percent agreed it's undeniable. Is the only way

1566
01:23:51,479 --> 01:23:52,200
Speaker 1: it cannot be denied.

1567
01:23:52,240 --> 01:23:52,960
Speaker 2: She's a fucking champ.

1568
01:23:53,040 --> 01:23:53,720
Speaker 1: She's a fucking champ.

1569
01:23:53,880 --> 01:23:56,160
Speaker 2: A champ just like dealing with it in a way

1570
01:23:56,280 --> 01:23:59,519
Speaker 2: that is healthy and good. You know she knows or

1571
01:23:59,600 --> 01:24:03,519
Speaker 2: she should. No Kelsey, if you're listening, it's not about you, obviously,

1572
01:24:04,120 --> 01:24:06,160
Speaker 2: has nothing to do with you. It has to do

1573
01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:12,000
Speaker 2: with some strange, perhaps beautiful love between two men of

1574
01:24:12,080 --> 01:24:16,160
Speaker 2: differing ages, And who am I to judge that? Really?

1575
01:24:16,400 --> 01:24:18,120
Speaker 1: You know what I was thinking about is because I

1576
01:24:18,479 --> 01:24:19,960
Speaker 1: brought up real quick. I was like, this is a

1577
01:24:20,000 --> 01:24:22,680
Speaker 1: good thing for everyone, Like if I'm let's say I'm

1578
01:24:22,680 --> 01:24:27,679
Speaker 1: the boyfriend and I'm gay and I'm not telling okay,

1579
01:24:27,800 --> 01:24:30,280
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of, like what's the ethical way

1580
01:24:30,560 --> 01:24:32,559
Speaker 1: to like, because you feel what.

1581
01:24:32,560 --> 01:24:34,320
Speaker 2: You feel, and there's nothing wrong with you know, feeling

1582
01:24:34,320 --> 01:24:34,720
Speaker 2: how you feel.

1583
01:24:34,800 --> 01:24:37,840
Speaker 1: Like, what the what's the ethical way to be like, Hey,

1584
01:24:38,200 --> 01:24:40,960
Speaker 1: I'm going to break up with you, yeah, to date

1585
01:24:41,320 --> 01:24:43,040
Speaker 1: your grand because cheating is different from.

1586
01:24:42,960 --> 01:24:44,040
Speaker 2: Being like I'm going to leave you.

1587
01:24:44,600 --> 01:24:46,120
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know if there's an ethical way to

1588
01:24:46,200 --> 01:24:47,360
Speaker 1: do that, if that even exists.

1589
01:24:47,439 --> 01:24:49,840
Speaker 2: I feel like there's no like good way to go

1590
01:24:49,920 --> 01:24:50,200
Speaker 2: about it.

1591
01:24:50,320 --> 01:24:53,760
Speaker 1: What's the proper communication involved?

1592
01:24:54,520 --> 01:24:56,920
Speaker 2: Just that if you're the boys had to be a

1593
01:24:57,040 --> 01:24:59,840
Speaker 2: cheating situation, like, there's no way that could have happened

1594
01:25:00,120 --> 01:25:03,479
Speaker 2: in like a formal way. Hey, Kelsey, you know listen,

1595
01:25:03,840 --> 01:25:06,280
Speaker 2: so we had a great run. He's hot, it's hot

1596
01:25:06,320 --> 01:25:08,760
Speaker 2: as fun. What do you think if I, uh, there's

1597
01:25:08,880 --> 01:25:11,519
Speaker 2: no good healthy way to get you just have to

1598
01:25:11,680 --> 01:25:16,640
Speaker 2: like do it and then deal with the repercussions, you know,

1599
01:25:17,080 --> 01:25:17,639
Speaker 2: you get.

1600
01:25:19,080 --> 01:25:19,920
Speaker 1: You can't just like.

1601
01:25:22,560 --> 01:25:24,720
Speaker 2: Take those dentures out and get give me that, give

1602
01:25:24,760 --> 01:25:26,360
Speaker 2: me those gummies. You can't.

1603
01:25:27,360 --> 01:25:30,560
Speaker 1: That's probably a unique sexual experience that I'm sure I

1604
01:25:30,640 --> 01:25:32,719
Speaker 1: had if I had to like get in his mind

1605
01:25:32,760 --> 01:25:36,240
Speaker 1: and be like, why would I, you know, be into

1606
01:25:36,560 --> 01:25:39,800
Speaker 1: you know, my girlfriend's grandfather.

1607
01:25:40,080 --> 01:25:40,200
Speaker 11: Right.

1608
01:25:40,400 --> 01:25:43,080
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe it's the gums thing. It's a gums thing,

1609
01:25:43,280 --> 01:25:46,720
Speaker 2: or it's a it's maybe a geriatric thing, or it's

1610
01:25:46,760 --> 01:25:49,000
Speaker 2: a family thing. Maybe it's a family fetish where it's

1611
01:25:49,080 --> 01:25:53,680
Speaker 2: like he's fucking people, you know, it's like or it's

1612
01:25:53,880 --> 01:25:57,400
Speaker 2: just family yeah maybe, or or it could be just

1613
01:25:57,479 --> 01:25:59,760
Speaker 2: like a sexual discovery thing. He might be having a

1614
01:25:59,800 --> 01:26:00,559
Speaker 2: real revelation.

1615
01:26:01,280 --> 01:26:04,640
Speaker 1: Hey, this is a good What What does geriatric mean?

1616
01:26:05,439 --> 01:26:08,280
Speaker 2: It means elderly. It means like a scet old.

1617
01:26:08,560 --> 01:26:12,000
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I know I couldn't even like vaguely describe

1618
01:26:12,000 --> 01:26:13,640
Speaker 1: what it meant before you told me just now, but

1619
01:26:13,640 --> 01:26:14,200
Speaker 1: I've used it.

1620
01:26:14,240 --> 01:26:17,920
Speaker 2: A medical way of saying old, uh, geriatrics. It's like

1621
01:26:19,520 --> 01:26:23,960
Speaker 2: having to do with elderly medicine and elderly people. Well,

1622
01:26:24,000 --> 01:26:26,960
Speaker 2: I wish Casey the best of luck and whatever comes next.

1623
01:26:27,160 --> 01:26:27,560
Speaker 2: I don't know what.

1624
01:26:27,640 --> 01:26:29,160
Speaker 1: I don't know what your dating life is supposed to

1625
01:26:29,160 --> 01:26:30,280
Speaker 1: look like after this case.

1626
01:26:30,400 --> 01:26:34,840
Speaker 2: I think I know exactly what's coming next, and well

1627
01:26:34,880 --> 01:26:37,040
Speaker 2: for your boyfriend at least, and I wish him the

1628
01:26:37,280 --> 01:26:41,439
Speaker 2: very best with your grandfather at the very least.

1629
01:26:41,560 --> 01:26:45,000
Speaker 1: The bar for whoever she dates nice is extremely low.

1630
01:26:45,600 --> 01:26:49,000
Speaker 2: That's what you know? What we should wish Kelsey the best? Yes,

1631
01:26:49,080 --> 01:26:50,679
Speaker 2: of course is that what you said? Kelsey?

1632
01:26:50,720 --> 01:26:54,320
Speaker 1: Kelsey's the girlfriend, Yes, who her the best? I wish

1633
01:26:54,360 --> 01:26:55,080
Speaker 1: her the best as well.

1634
01:26:55,360 --> 01:26:58,200
Speaker 2: Clearly her boyfriend is doing just fine with members of

1635
01:26:58,320 --> 01:27:03,599
Speaker 2: her family, so we wish, of course whatever. But Kelsey,

1636
01:27:04,760 --> 01:27:08,920
Speaker 2: Kelsey is a hero. Kelsey, God damn man, Nothing count nothing.

1637
01:27:08,760 --> 01:27:10,160
Speaker 1: Can hurt her now she is.

1638
01:27:10,360 --> 01:27:14,639
Speaker 2: She's been through the ringer. Dude, what like, top tier

1639
01:27:14,760 --> 01:27:19,799
Speaker 2: human being? Top tier human being. We wish you lovely

1640
01:27:20,000 --> 01:27:22,919
Speaker 2: sex with people who are not interested in your extended

1641
01:27:23,000 --> 01:27:27,640
Speaker 2: family and and and a and a good life thereforward,

1642
01:27:28,880 --> 01:27:32,479
Speaker 2: Let's see what else is going on. There's a lot

1643
01:27:32,520 --> 01:27:36,000
Speaker 2: of interesting stuff going on here. Kind of this one's

1644
01:27:36,080 --> 01:27:38,400
Speaker 2: kind of interesting. That's the one that I had my

1645
01:27:38,479 --> 01:27:40,000
Speaker 2: eye on. Yeah, you want to do this one?

1646
01:27:40,200 --> 01:27:40,400
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1647
01:27:40,760 --> 01:27:44,920
Speaker 1: Stuck to Maddie from Minnesota, Minnesoeta.

1648
01:27:46,960 --> 01:27:50,960
Speaker 9: Maddie, Oh my god, am I on?

1649
01:27:51,360 --> 01:27:52,120
Speaker 2: Oh You're so on.

1650
01:27:53,320 --> 01:27:55,920
Speaker 1: You are more on than anyone has ever but you

1651
01:27:56,000 --> 01:27:59,680
Speaker 1: are at your You're on, You're on right now, right now.

1652
01:28:01,280 --> 01:28:02,080
Speaker 2: How's it going, Maddie?

1653
01:28:02,800 --> 01:28:04,200
Speaker 8: Well, Hi, how are you guys?

1654
01:28:06,720 --> 01:28:12,760
Speaker 1: We're two geckos never better. See the best part of

1655
01:28:12,800 --> 01:28:14,639
Speaker 1: the show is when you just forget the yere cam.

1656
01:28:14,800 --> 01:28:16,840
Speaker 8: I live on a really busy street, so if there's

1657
01:28:16,920 --> 01:28:19,240
Speaker 8: like a loud truck or motorcycle that goes bay, I

1658
01:28:19,320 --> 01:28:20,719
Speaker 8: just want to apologize to everyone.

1659
01:28:21,560 --> 01:28:24,439
Speaker 1: Maddie, you have nothing to apologize for. Uh. It says

1660
01:28:24,479 --> 01:28:27,640
Speaker 1: you're twenty one from Minnesota. It also says here that

1661
01:28:27,760 --> 01:28:32,879
Speaker 1: you've been feeling like your friends pity invite you to events,

1662
01:28:33,960 --> 01:28:36,439
Speaker 1: and that you feel as though you're a side character

1663
01:28:36,640 --> 01:28:37,639
Speaker 1: in everyone's lives.

1664
01:28:37,720 --> 01:28:39,360
Speaker 2: That's what it says here. Do you want to tell

1665
01:28:39,400 --> 01:28:40,000
Speaker 2: us more about that?

1666
01:28:43,080 --> 01:28:49,360
Speaker 8: Yeah, So, for the past like year or so, I

1667
01:28:49,479 --> 01:28:54,719
Speaker 8: guess like nobody, like I don't know, people stopped inviting

1668
01:28:54,800 --> 01:28:58,719
Speaker 8: me to stuff. So for like probably like six months,

1669
01:28:58,920 --> 01:29:01,599
Speaker 8: I didn't like going anywhere except for work in my house.

1670
01:29:02,600 --> 01:29:07,120
Speaker 8: And then I moved to a new city and I

1671
01:29:07,320 --> 01:29:09,640
Speaker 8: go to school here and I got a job, and

1672
01:29:10,560 --> 01:29:13,160
Speaker 8: people at my job I ask them questions about themselves,

1673
01:29:13,280 --> 01:29:15,479
Speaker 8: and then that's like the end of the conversation. They

1674
01:29:15,520 --> 01:29:18,320
Speaker 8: don't want to talk to me about like what's going

1675
01:29:18,360 --> 01:29:22,000
Speaker 8: on in my life, and like my roommates will go

1676
01:29:22,200 --> 01:29:24,280
Speaker 8: off and hang out without me all the time and

1677
01:29:24,400 --> 01:29:28,080
Speaker 8: don't invite me, And I feel like I just kind

1678
01:29:28,080 --> 01:29:33,439
Speaker 8: of exist to say semi funny things to people and

1679
01:29:34,080 --> 01:29:35,280
Speaker 8: then like that's it.

1680
01:29:37,160 --> 01:29:42,760
Speaker 5: M Do you feel I don't know if any of

1681
01:29:42,840 --> 01:29:43,439
Speaker 5: that made sense.

1682
01:29:43,680 --> 01:29:44,800
Speaker 2: Yeah it does, it does.

1683
01:29:45,400 --> 01:29:45,640
Speaker 3: Do you.

1684
01:29:47,640 --> 01:29:50,519
Speaker 2: Feel like what kind of you say When you talk

1685
01:29:50,600 --> 01:29:56,639
Speaker 2: to your coworkers, they're talking mostly about themselves. They don't

1686
01:29:56,680 --> 01:29:59,080
Speaker 2: ask you much about yourself. Is that what you said?

1687
01:30:01,680 --> 01:30:01,920
Speaker 11: Yeah?

1688
01:30:02,640 --> 01:30:05,320
Speaker 8: And like they'll talk about like going to parties and stuff,

1689
01:30:05,439 --> 01:30:09,360
Speaker 8: and like if I'm present, they'll be like, oh, you can,

1690
01:30:09,479 --> 01:30:11,360
Speaker 8: like come as you want to, and then I'll go

1691
01:30:11,880 --> 01:30:14,320
Speaker 8: and nobody talks to me the whole time.

1692
01:30:20,600 --> 01:30:25,560
Speaker 1: I have a few thoughts about this, Maddie. Okay, so

1693
01:30:25,640 --> 01:30:29,400
Speaker 1: aside from like your your like friendships and your sort

1694
01:30:29,439 --> 01:30:30,880
Speaker 1: of personal life, what.

1695
01:30:32,360 --> 01:30:33,240
Speaker 3: Do you.

1696
01:30:34,880 --> 01:30:37,679
Speaker 1: Like and what do you do with your time?

1697
01:30:42,080 --> 01:30:44,760
Speaker 8: I guess a lot of the time, I just kind

1698
01:30:44,800 --> 01:30:50,679
Speaker 8: of hang out at my house. I watch YouTube a lot,

1699
01:30:52,720 --> 01:30:54,640
Speaker 8: I like playing video games, and I mean I'll have

1700
01:30:54,720 --> 01:30:59,679
Speaker 8: a boyfriend, but like none of his friends like lives.

1701
01:31:00,080 --> 01:31:00,639
Speaker 2: You're off.

1702
01:31:01,960 --> 01:31:06,439
Speaker 8: And like every time he's come to visit me here

1703
01:31:06,600 --> 01:31:10,800
Speaker 8: since we're a long distance right now, nobody like I'll

1704
01:31:10,840 --> 01:31:13,040
Speaker 8: be like, hey, let's let's go up to dinner with

1705
01:31:13,200 --> 01:31:15,120
Speaker 8: some of like these people that I know, and then

1706
01:31:15,160 --> 01:31:17,760
Speaker 8: that people just like cancel on us last minute, or

1707
01:31:18,840 --> 01:31:22,760
Speaker 8: they just are like, oh, we're doing something else, so

1708
01:31:22,960 --> 01:31:24,320
Speaker 8: I don't I don't know what I'm doing.

1709
01:31:24,880 --> 01:31:26,840
Speaker 2: So you just you feel like you're getting the short

1710
01:31:26,960 --> 01:31:30,400
Speaker 2: end of the social stick, shall we say?

1711
01:31:32,120 --> 01:31:32,320
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1712
01:31:36,680 --> 01:31:37,880
Speaker 2: What can can I ask?

1713
01:31:38,120 --> 01:31:38,160
Speaker 3: Like?

1714
01:31:38,720 --> 01:31:42,519
Speaker 1: What would your ideal situation be?

1715
01:31:42,800 --> 01:31:44,400
Speaker 2: Are are you hoping to have like.

1716
01:31:46,000 --> 01:31:49,000
Speaker 1: One or two like really close friends you hopen to

1717
01:31:49,040 --> 01:31:51,400
Speaker 1: have like be in a whole group, Like what how

1718
01:31:51,400 --> 01:31:55,960
Speaker 1: would you sort of describe your ideal uh communal situation?

1719
01:31:56,600 --> 01:31:57,120
Speaker 2: Good question?

1720
01:32:00,320 --> 01:32:02,599
Speaker 8: Well, I mean in high school, I had this big

1721
01:32:02,680 --> 01:32:07,200
Speaker 8: group of friends and we would literally like hang out

1722
01:32:07,240 --> 01:32:09,880
Speaker 8: all day at school and then after school we all

1723
01:32:09,960 --> 01:32:11,960
Speaker 8: go to someone's house and just hang out till like

1724
01:32:12,080 --> 01:32:14,840
Speaker 8: ten o'clock at night, and then winch and repeat the

1725
01:32:14,960 --> 01:32:17,120
Speaker 8: next day. I guess I just missed that.

1726
01:32:20,520 --> 01:32:23,680
Speaker 1: So the reason I was talking about like what your

1727
01:32:23,720 --> 01:32:27,200
Speaker 1: interests are outside of just your personal life is because I.

1728
01:32:27,240 --> 01:32:29,040
Speaker 2: Feel like one of the great.

1729
01:32:30,840 --> 01:32:34,920
Speaker 1: Missions in life is to take the big, bright universe

1730
01:32:35,520 --> 01:32:39,160
Speaker 1: and carve your tiny little piece of it somehow, so

1731
01:32:40,360 --> 01:32:42,120
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're in college.

1732
01:32:42,200 --> 01:32:42,920
Speaker 2: Are you in college?

1733
01:32:45,600 --> 01:32:49,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, perfect if I were you, And this is

1734
01:32:49,720 --> 01:32:52,040
Speaker 1: this is I was a bit of a loner my

1735
01:32:52,120 --> 01:32:55,519
Speaker 1: freshman year of college, and this is how I sort

1736
01:32:55,560 --> 01:32:57,760
Speaker 1: of started to build a lot of people around me

1737
01:32:57,840 --> 01:33:03,120
Speaker 1: and have friends and stuff. Is very I'm gonna give

1738
01:33:03,120 --> 01:33:06,439
Speaker 1: you some very practical shit here. You gotta start a club,

1739
01:33:07,280 --> 01:33:12,680
Speaker 1: not join. Start a club in relation to your interests.

1740
01:33:12,760 --> 01:33:13,439
Speaker 2: Whatever that is.

1741
01:33:13,760 --> 01:33:16,040
Speaker 1: And anything you think is not an interest you can

1742
01:33:16,080 --> 01:33:18,760
Speaker 1: start a club around. You actually can, whether it's a

1743
01:33:19,280 --> 01:33:21,280
Speaker 1: video I know you said you'd like to play video games,

1744
01:33:22,320 --> 01:33:25,640
Speaker 1: anything else you could possibly think of to start a

1745
01:33:25,760 --> 01:33:30,200
Speaker 1: club and then advertise for the club on like whatever.

1746
01:33:31,200 --> 01:33:33,280
Speaker 1: Let's say you go to the University of Minnesota. You

1747
01:33:33,360 --> 01:33:36,000
Speaker 1: go to the fucking University of Minnesota Class of twenty

1748
01:33:36,080 --> 01:33:40,400
Speaker 1: twenty facebook page. Type in, Hey, everybody, We're gonna be

1749
01:33:40,439 --> 01:33:43,439
Speaker 1: at the room two nine. I'm bringing my Nintendo Switch.

1750
01:33:43,520 --> 01:33:46,479
Speaker 1: Everyone come hang, you know, and I guarantee there's other

1751
01:33:46,520 --> 01:33:49,280
Speaker 1: people on the University of Minnesota Facebook page who are

1752
01:33:49,520 --> 01:33:50,200
Speaker 1: just feel in the.

1753
01:33:50,200 --> 01:33:50,840
Speaker 2: Same way as you.

1754
01:33:51,479 --> 01:33:52,400
Speaker 1: They'll come show up.

1755
01:33:54,120 --> 01:33:54,560
Speaker 4: I like that.

1756
01:33:55,240 --> 01:33:59,000
Speaker 2: So that's sort of the way that I always.

1757
01:33:59,000 --> 01:34:01,719
Speaker 1: Think about these kinds of things, especially when you're in college,

1758
01:34:02,280 --> 01:34:06,280
Speaker 1: because that's a good uh uh avenue. And and that's

1759
01:34:06,320 --> 01:34:09,000
Speaker 1: that's my like practical advice for you, because that's something

1760
01:34:09,040 --> 01:34:12,439
Speaker 1: you can really like go and and and do and

1761
01:34:12,520 --> 01:34:13,680
Speaker 1: put yourself out there like that.

1762
01:34:13,800 --> 01:34:14,479
Speaker 2: Does that make sense?

1763
01:34:17,040 --> 01:34:17,240
Speaker 10: Yeah?

1764
01:34:17,479 --> 01:34:18,680
Speaker 5: And I think I do.

1765
01:34:19,000 --> 01:34:21,800
Speaker 8: I try to put myself out there. And like my

1766
01:34:21,920 --> 01:34:24,840
Speaker 8: freshman year of college, I was in a single dorm

1767
01:34:24,960 --> 01:34:27,840
Speaker 8: room and I would go, I went up to all

1768
01:34:27,960 --> 01:34:31,160
Speaker 8: the other people on my floor and introduced myself, and

1769
01:34:31,520 --> 01:34:34,360
Speaker 8: like none of them did anything to do with me,

1770
01:34:35,439 --> 01:34:37,680
Speaker 8: because a lot of them knew each other already. So

1771
01:34:38,800 --> 01:34:41,040
Speaker 8: I think that might also be part of my problem

1772
01:34:41,240 --> 01:34:43,439
Speaker 8: is that, like I think people think I want to

1773
01:34:43,520 --> 01:34:47,000
Speaker 8: insert myself into their already established groups.

1774
01:34:47,960 --> 01:34:49,280
Speaker 1: So they don't want to like, well, this is why,

1775
01:34:49,400 --> 01:34:50,680
Speaker 1: this is why I'm telling you to start This is

1776
01:34:50,680 --> 01:34:52,280
Speaker 1: why I'm telling you to start a club because you

1777
01:34:52,400 --> 01:34:55,120
Speaker 1: don't you you you don't want to insert yourself into

1778
01:34:55,160 --> 01:34:56,519
Speaker 1: a group. You want to four you want to be

1779
01:34:56,600 --> 01:34:58,800
Speaker 1: the genesis of a new group.

1780
01:34:58,960 --> 01:35:01,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, totally, what do you think, Mark? No, I like that.

1781
01:35:01,880 --> 01:35:04,040
Speaker 2: I mean, I think that's a good advice. I I

1782
01:35:04,080 --> 01:35:07,839
Speaker 2: I also had a little bit of trouble in college

1783
01:35:07,960 --> 01:35:10,640
Speaker 2: because I all of my friends from high school had

1784
01:35:10,800 --> 01:35:14,360
Speaker 2: left and so but you know, I was in like

1785
01:35:14,920 --> 01:35:18,519
Speaker 2: acting and so that sort of group was already sort

1786
01:35:18,520 --> 01:35:21,360
Speaker 2: of there to welcome me, right, it was a little

1787
01:35:21,400 --> 01:35:27,160
Speaker 2: bit easier in that regard. But I think, uh, do

1788
01:35:27,240 --> 01:35:30,840
Speaker 2: you what about your boyfriend? Is he is he open

1789
01:35:31,000 --> 01:35:36,160
Speaker 2: to this like sort of friendship excursion or how does

1790
01:35:36,240 --> 01:35:40,560
Speaker 2: he feel about you know, social gatherings and parties and

1791
01:35:40,600 --> 01:35:42,840
Speaker 2: stuff like that. Does he want that like you want that?

1792
01:35:43,120 --> 01:35:45,240
Speaker 2: Or how is you know? How what what are his

1793
01:35:45,320 --> 01:35:45,920
Speaker 2: feelings on that?

1794
01:35:48,520 --> 01:35:51,560
Speaker 8: I think he feels like pretty much the same as me,

1795
01:35:51,760 --> 01:35:55,280
Speaker 8: Like we've had conversations about before, and like it comes

1796
01:35:55,360 --> 01:35:57,720
Speaker 8: up a lot. How like you guys are saying, we

1797
01:35:57,840 --> 01:35:59,960
Speaker 8: think we get like the short end of the stay

1798
01:36:00,240 --> 01:36:03,960
Speaker 8: and like everything, like all of his friends moved to

1799
01:36:04,080 --> 01:36:09,680
Speaker 8: different states, Like I'm three hours away at college. You know,

1800
01:36:09,880 --> 01:36:12,439
Speaker 8: he has a dead end job he doesn't want to

1801
01:36:12,479 --> 01:36:15,800
Speaker 8: be at. And when he's he's doing because he's a

1802
01:36:15,840 --> 01:36:20,880
Speaker 8: student pilot, so he can only fly when the weather

1803
01:36:21,120 --> 01:36:24,439
Speaker 8: is like good and has been really bad for the

1804
01:36:24,520 --> 01:36:28,719
Speaker 8: past like four months. So he's like in the same

1805
01:36:29,080 --> 01:36:32,280
Speaker 8: boat as me. We just keep like feeling like we're

1806
01:36:32,320 --> 01:36:36,200
Speaker 8: not like getting what I feel like we deserve. I

1807
01:36:36,240 --> 01:36:38,360
Speaker 8: don't know if that's like entitled or arrogant for me

1808
01:36:38,479 --> 01:36:41,639
Speaker 8: to say, but I feel like we deserve some people

1809
01:36:41,680 --> 01:36:42,960
Speaker 8: that actually care about us.

1810
01:36:44,479 --> 01:36:47,519
Speaker 2: One hundred. Everyone does. Everyone deserves to be cared about

1811
01:36:47,600 --> 01:36:50,880
Speaker 2: and have people around them that love them and support them.

1812
01:36:51,040 --> 01:36:53,720
Speaker 2: I don't think that's it's not too much to ask

1813
01:36:53,880 --> 01:36:56,320
Speaker 2: or entitled at all. I think it's just a matter

1814
01:36:56,400 --> 01:36:59,799
Speaker 2: of it seems that you have not run into those people,

1815
01:37:02,240 --> 01:37:06,320
Speaker 2: because if you had, you know what I mean, they

1816
01:37:06,360 --> 01:37:08,960
Speaker 2: would be more that they would be happy to include you,

1817
01:37:09,760 --> 01:37:12,920
Speaker 2: I mean the the And so I think Lyle's advice

1818
01:37:13,120 --> 01:37:17,600
Speaker 2: is actually really good here and that you may have

1819
01:37:17,720 --> 01:37:21,439
Speaker 2: to just take it upon yourself to find an opening,

1820
01:37:22,000 --> 01:37:25,160
Speaker 2: you know, like you you make the thing and then

1821
01:37:25,640 --> 01:37:28,680
Speaker 2: and then find people that fall in there. Those are

1822
01:37:28,720 --> 01:37:30,560
Speaker 2: probably people that you'll you'll get along with.

1823
01:37:31,400 --> 01:37:33,360
Speaker 1: See, I'm always I'm always thinking about like a you know,

1824
01:37:33,439 --> 01:37:34,360
Speaker 1: what what can I control?

1825
01:37:34,400 --> 01:37:35,240
Speaker 2: What can I control?

1826
01:37:35,400 --> 01:37:38,880
Speaker 1: And like, relationship shit is so hard because it's like

1827
01:37:38,960 --> 01:37:41,920
Speaker 1: that it's all fifty to fifty, whether with relationship, friendship, whatever,

1828
01:37:41,920 --> 01:37:44,320
Speaker 1: it is all fifty to fifty. So it's fifty percent right.

1829
01:37:44,400 --> 01:37:48,040
Speaker 1: You cannot control, true, but you can control the amount

1830
01:37:48,160 --> 01:37:52,000
Speaker 1: of effort you put into putting yourself out there and

1831
01:37:52,600 --> 01:37:55,320
Speaker 1: attempting to put yourself in as many situations as possible

1832
01:37:55,720 --> 01:37:58,439
Speaker 1: in which other people are gravitating towards you. And that's

1833
01:37:58,439 --> 01:38:01,479
Speaker 1: why I like this whole start of clubs thing, because

1834
01:38:01,560 --> 01:38:03,360
Speaker 1: not only can you put yourself in a position where

1835
01:38:03,360 --> 01:38:06,439
Speaker 1: people are gravitating towards you, but also you can put

1836
01:38:06,520 --> 01:38:08,880
Speaker 1: yourself in a position where people who are interested in

1837
01:38:09,000 --> 01:38:12,639
Speaker 1: the same things as you are gravitating towards you, give

1838
01:38:12,720 --> 01:38:16,360
Speaker 1: it a higher percentage of it being the right people.

1839
01:38:16,400 --> 01:38:19,080
Speaker 1: I mean, what do you before we go, Maddie, what

1840
01:38:19,120 --> 01:38:20,240
Speaker 1: do you think of that idea?

1841
01:38:23,160 --> 01:38:25,880
Speaker 8: I think it'd be a really good idea, Like I

1842
01:38:26,560 --> 01:38:29,879
Speaker 8: don't I don't know if I'm confident enough in myself

1843
01:38:29,960 --> 01:38:31,439
Speaker 8: that I could actually like do it.

1844
01:38:31,880 --> 01:38:35,240
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, we are scared.

1845
01:38:35,960 --> 01:38:39,240
Speaker 1: It's a little bit scary, but you gotta get over that, Maddie.

1846
01:38:39,240 --> 01:38:41,160
Speaker 1: I wish, I wish I could send some sort of

1847
01:38:41,320 --> 01:38:45,240
Speaker 1: ray beam of confidence to you to get you there,

1848
01:38:45,360 --> 01:38:46,920
Speaker 1: But I tell you got to get there, Maddie. I'm

1849
01:38:46,920 --> 01:38:48,760
Speaker 1: telling you, I just want you to be able to

1850
01:38:48,960 --> 01:38:51,280
Speaker 1: feel empowered to take control of the situation.

1851
01:38:54,720 --> 01:38:58,720
Speaker 8: Just than put myself out there.

1852
01:38:58,920 --> 01:39:01,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, give it a shot, because it's really, at the

1853
01:39:01,200 --> 01:39:05,840
Speaker 2: end of the day, it's all just people, and we

1854
01:39:06,160 --> 01:39:10,040
Speaker 2: tend to overthink that we we we're all just stupid

1855
01:39:10,240 --> 01:39:15,120
Speaker 2: people and and and also we all really are sort

1856
01:39:15,160 --> 01:39:20,360
Speaker 2: of insecure at the core, and we really want a connection, love,

1857
01:39:20,520 --> 01:39:24,519
Speaker 2: support and validation. So you even the most confident people

1858
01:39:24,600 --> 01:39:26,640
Speaker 2: you know are the people that even ignore you or

1859
01:39:26,880 --> 01:39:29,320
Speaker 2: or like sort of passively invite you to their parties.

1860
01:39:30,000 --> 01:39:33,599
Speaker 2: They're insecure, They're looking for connection, they're looking for something

1861
01:39:33,680 --> 01:39:38,000
Speaker 2: to hang on to. So creating a group not a

1862
01:39:38,040 --> 01:39:42,360
Speaker 2: big leap, something you can absolutely do. Don't think too

1863
01:39:42,439 --> 01:39:44,920
Speaker 2: hard about it. I would say, just do it and

1864
01:39:45,240 --> 01:39:48,920
Speaker 2: uh and and you'll probably find that some magical ship

1865
01:39:48,960 --> 01:39:50,400
Speaker 2: will happen as a result.

1866
01:39:51,000 --> 01:39:52,600
Speaker 1: Mattie, is there anything else you want to say to

1867
01:39:53,000 --> 01:39:54,560
Speaker 1: me or market the computer before we go?

1868
01:39:58,360 --> 01:40:01,040
Speaker 8: Thank you guys for all this ad life. I definitely

1869
01:40:01,160 --> 01:40:03,679
Speaker 8: feel like more empowered by the end of the chat.

1870
01:40:03,720 --> 01:40:05,400
Speaker 8: Has been really nice to add up reading in a

1871
01:40:05,479 --> 01:40:05,880
Speaker 8: little bit.

1872
01:40:09,320 --> 01:40:13,040
Speaker 2: Have a good night, Maddie. Thank you, Maddie, thanks you too.

1873
01:40:14,680 --> 01:40:17,560
Speaker 2: Don't let the bed bugs bite. Have you have you

1874
01:40:17,640 --> 01:40:19,639
Speaker 2: had bed bugs bite you before? I feel like that's

1875
01:40:19,680 --> 01:40:22,759
Speaker 2: never happened, just like I just think it's a hilarious

1876
01:40:22,800 --> 01:40:26,559
Speaker 2: turn of phrase. Not oh yeah, they're real. In New York,

1877
01:40:26,600 --> 01:40:29,640
Speaker 2: it's a problem a lot of people who you know,

1878
01:40:29,720 --> 01:40:34,880
Speaker 2: there's there's a big habit of collecting, you know, if

1879
01:40:34,920 --> 01:40:37,080
Speaker 2: you need furniture, there's a lot of furniture on the street.

1880
01:40:37,520 --> 01:40:40,639
Speaker 2: But they will take edge and take bed But it's

1881
01:40:40,840 --> 01:40:44,040
Speaker 2: very real, and it'll it'll infect the whole building, will

1882
01:40:44,120 --> 01:40:46,320
Speaker 2: infest the whole building, I should say. But I've never

1883
01:40:46,400 --> 01:40:49,720
Speaker 2: had them, very lucky to never have had them. But

1884
01:40:50,120 --> 01:40:51,280
Speaker 2: you don't want to let them bite.

1885
01:40:51,400 --> 01:40:53,479
Speaker 1: I feel like you're almost you're like you're kind of

1886
01:40:53,520 --> 01:40:55,479
Speaker 1: like putting I don't know if you believe in this ship.

1887
01:40:55,920 --> 01:40:57,200
Speaker 1: I don't know if I believe in the ship. Like

1888
01:40:57,280 --> 01:41:00,280
Speaker 1: the vibes you're putting it out into the universe, putting. Yeah,

1889
01:41:00,280 --> 01:41:03,679
Speaker 1: every time after comments, you're like putting out the vibes

1890
01:41:03,680 --> 01:41:07,400
Speaker 1: of bed bugs coming to you. Or maybe you're like

1891
01:41:07,520 --> 01:41:11,439
Speaker 1: don't let maybe you're you can take them too. I

1892
01:41:11,520 --> 01:41:13,439
Speaker 1: think you're gonna take them to the way. I mean,

1893
01:41:13,439 --> 01:41:16,040
Speaker 1: they're they're fucking bugs. Yeah, you're a giant.

1894
01:41:16,800 --> 01:41:17,200
Speaker 2: I say it.

1895
01:41:17,320 --> 01:41:20,720
Speaker 1: Let the bed bugs bite, let the bikes come to

1896
01:41:20,880 --> 01:41:27,960
Speaker 1: me an immunity, you know. With Maddie's thing, it's uh, dude,

1897
01:41:28,000 --> 01:41:28,240
Speaker 1: it's a.

1898
01:41:28,360 --> 01:41:28,600
Speaker 2: It's a.

1899
01:41:29,640 --> 01:41:32,479
Speaker 1: That's a hard one because, like I, I approach everything

1900
01:41:32,560 --> 01:41:35,000
Speaker 1: from like a I had a hard time responding.

1901
01:41:35,200 --> 01:41:36,439
Speaker 2: I didn't really know what to say.

1902
01:41:36,600 --> 01:41:38,799
Speaker 1: I approach a lot of things from like a weird

1903
01:41:39,160 --> 01:41:43,200
Speaker 1: entrepreneurial thing where I'm like, fuck this, I'm taking control

1904
01:41:43,320 --> 01:41:44,120
Speaker 1: of this situation.

1905
01:41:44,680 --> 01:41:47,680
Speaker 2: I'm starting the club. That's what I And I know

1906
01:41:47,760 --> 01:41:48,440
Speaker 2: that Maddie.

1907
01:41:48,200 --> 01:41:50,960
Speaker 1: Seems like she might have issues doing that, but yeah,

1908
01:41:51,040 --> 01:41:52,600
Speaker 1: fuck I wish she didn't know, wish she would go

1909
01:41:52,720 --> 01:41:53,760
Speaker 1: on to the fucking cause.

1910
01:41:53,760 --> 01:41:54,920
Speaker 2: It's so if you.

1911
01:41:55,000 --> 01:41:57,280
Speaker 1: Really like take control of the situation, you can be

1912
01:41:57,439 --> 01:41:59,639
Speaker 1: you can meet people anywhere, you can go to fucking

1913
01:41:59,640 --> 01:42:01,920
Speaker 1: the middle of Taiwan, and you can make a whole

1914
01:42:01,920 --> 01:42:02,400
Speaker 1: bunch of friends.

1915
01:42:02,600 --> 01:42:04,679
Speaker 2: You really know how to take control of the situation.

1916
01:42:04,800 --> 01:42:08,439
Speaker 2: It's true, and that's something that I think probably, Yeah,

1917
01:42:08,520 --> 01:42:10,479
Speaker 2: you and Mattie are probably quite different in that way.

1918
01:42:10,479 --> 01:42:15,840
Speaker 2: It sounds like she doesn't have that thing in her

1919
01:42:15,960 --> 01:42:21,200
Speaker 2: that is like I'll just do you know, Yeah, how

1920
01:42:21,240 --> 01:42:23,680
Speaker 2: do we get that to her? I know, I thought, well,

1921
01:42:23,720 --> 01:42:26,080
Speaker 2: hopefully she felt it. Hopefully she felt it. I think

1922
01:42:26,120 --> 01:42:28,439
Speaker 2: it's a good instinct. I think if she did that,

1923
01:42:29,200 --> 01:42:34,120
Speaker 2: probably good things would happen in terms of friendships. But

1924
01:42:35,160 --> 01:42:38,240
Speaker 2: I felt so unqualified to answer because I have always

1925
01:42:38,280 --> 01:42:44,360
Speaker 2: been so lucky in like having friends around me, you know, friends, Yeah,

1926
01:42:44,479 --> 01:42:47,639
Speaker 2: I mean not a lot, but I have the ones

1927
01:42:47,680 --> 01:42:51,400
Speaker 2: that I do have are like real tight, real close.

1928
01:42:51,439 --> 01:42:54,080
Speaker 2: I've been there for a long time, okay, and I've

1929
01:42:54,160 --> 01:42:56,720
Speaker 2: never had trouble having those people in my life. So

1930
01:42:57,160 --> 01:43:00,439
Speaker 2: I just didn't feel qualified to like tell her how

1931
01:43:00,479 --> 01:43:02,439
Speaker 2: to do that. I don't know, I don't know. I've

1932
01:43:02,479 --> 01:43:03,400
Speaker 2: never been in that situation.

1933
01:43:03,439 --> 01:43:06,160
Speaker 1: It's hard to build friends from like just fucking scratch.

1934
01:43:06,280 --> 01:43:09,800
Speaker 2: That's I imagine. It is very sat I had one

1935
01:43:09,960 --> 01:43:12,760
Speaker 2: time like that when I lived in Paris back in

1936
01:43:12,840 --> 01:43:17,519
Speaker 2: the day. I moved over there and was waiting tables,

1937
01:43:18,240 --> 01:43:24,120
Speaker 2: and I was very depressed because I had like a

1938
01:43:24,400 --> 01:43:27,799
Speaker 2: couple friends. But I found it super difficult to crack

1939
01:43:28,000 --> 01:43:34,040
Speaker 2: that barrier and like, yeah, bring people into my life

1940
01:43:34,080 --> 01:43:38,560
Speaker 2: who meant a lot to me. And I didn't realize

1941
01:43:38,680 --> 01:43:42,200
Speaker 2: until I was in that situation how hollow that makes

1942
01:43:42,240 --> 01:43:47,400
Speaker 2: you feel. So I left, moved to New York, and

1943
01:43:47,439 --> 01:43:50,160
Speaker 2: I had a much easier time. But like, yes, it's

1944
01:43:50,280 --> 01:43:52,040
Speaker 2: not a luxury for a lot of people, you know,

1945
01:43:52,120 --> 01:43:54,200
Speaker 2: they just have to fucking deal with it. And I

1946
01:43:54,320 --> 01:43:56,960
Speaker 2: really don't know what the solution is. I think you you,

1947
01:43:57,439 --> 01:44:00,160
Speaker 2: what you suggested is a good one. You just have to, uh,

1948
01:44:01,160 --> 01:44:04,840
Speaker 2: like you said, you have to push past the nervousness,

1949
01:44:04,960 --> 01:44:09,439
Speaker 2: the insecurity and just give it a shot. Hope it works.

1950
01:44:09,560 --> 01:44:09,720
Speaker 3: You know.

1951
01:44:09,800 --> 01:44:11,759
Speaker 2: Else it's hard. Is like as you become an adult,

1952
01:44:11,880 --> 01:44:12,320
Speaker 2: it's like the.

1953
01:44:14,840 --> 01:44:19,080
Speaker 1: The like making time for your friends because I feel

1954
01:44:19,080 --> 01:44:21,519
Speaker 1: like because because when you're in high school, it's like

1955
01:44:21,960 --> 01:44:23,840
Speaker 1: you all see each other every day at the stupid

1956
01:44:23,880 --> 01:44:26,400
Speaker 1: bus stop and classrooms and whatever it is. But as

1957
01:44:26,400 --> 01:44:28,840
Speaker 1: you're an adult and you're just like, you know, you

1958
01:44:29,000 --> 01:44:31,160
Speaker 1: have to actually go out of your way to text,

1959
01:44:31,240 --> 01:44:33,360
Speaker 1: especially if like you're friends with people who are like

1960
01:44:33,520 --> 01:44:35,439
Speaker 1: in different groups, Like you don't like all of your

1961
01:44:35,479 --> 01:44:38,160
Speaker 1: friends aren't in the same group, right and just be like, Okay,

1962
01:44:38,280 --> 01:44:39,960
Speaker 1: everybody meet at this place. It's like you have to

1963
01:44:40,000 --> 01:44:43,360
Speaker 1: make time for this person more difficult and there's only

1964
01:44:43,439 --> 01:44:45,960
Speaker 1: seven days and a week times so much more n.

1965
01:44:46,320 --> 01:44:48,599
Speaker 2: More difficult when we think of it is. Yeah, even

1966
01:44:48,800 --> 01:44:51,800
Speaker 2: today now with friends who I have, who are established,

1967
01:44:51,840 --> 01:44:54,160
Speaker 2: who I love deeply, it's very difficult to find time

1968
01:44:54,200 --> 01:44:58,760
Speaker 2: for them. It's so difficult. Uh, it's I don't like that.

1969
01:44:59,200 --> 01:45:03,320
Speaker 2: I want more time for my relationships and my friends.

1970
01:45:03,439 --> 01:45:04,400
Speaker 2: I want more of that.

1971
01:45:06,680 --> 01:45:07,920
Speaker 1: We only have seven days a week.

1972
01:45:08,080 --> 01:45:11,400
Speaker 2: Gotta make that time though, that's super important. Do you

1973
01:45:11,560 --> 01:45:11,960
Speaker 2: do you waste?

1974
01:45:11,960 --> 01:45:12,920
Speaker 1: Do you waste a lot of time?

1975
01:45:13,560 --> 01:45:16,080
Speaker 2: Tons? Tons of time? Yes?

1976
01:45:17,200 --> 01:45:18,320
Speaker 1: What do you do when you're wasting time?

1977
01:45:18,560 --> 01:45:21,439
Speaker 2: I ride my electric Well it's not wasted time, but really,

1978
01:45:21,880 --> 01:45:25,560
Speaker 2: you ride your electric bike, my electric unicycle? Not a

1979
01:45:25,720 --> 01:45:28,880
Speaker 2: waste of time at all. I sit there high and

1980
01:45:29,439 --> 01:45:31,200
Speaker 2: play the piano. It's not a waste of time. No,

1981
01:45:31,360 --> 01:45:33,960
Speaker 2: I don't I love that you have an elect I

1982
01:45:34,160 --> 01:45:37,040
Speaker 2: completely glossed over this. You have an electric unicycle? I do?

1983
01:45:37,160 --> 01:45:39,880
Speaker 2: I have an electric The hell is an electric uni? Dude?

1984
01:45:39,880 --> 01:45:43,639
Speaker 2: It's the best thing. It's it's you know, the one wheels. Yeah, yeah,

1985
01:45:43,800 --> 01:45:46,360
Speaker 2: so it's that, But you're.

1986
01:45:46,640 --> 01:45:48,679
Speaker 1: It's the exactly what you're talking about.

1987
01:45:49,640 --> 01:45:52,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're going straight, that's not there.

1988
01:45:52,880 --> 01:45:54,240
Speaker 1: Fun yourself up on that thing?

1989
01:45:54,320 --> 01:45:54,519
Speaker 4: You ever?

1990
01:45:54,680 --> 01:45:57,000
Speaker 2: I have I have fucked myself up pretty bad on it,

1991
01:45:57,640 --> 01:46:01,679
Speaker 2: but I'm a lot more careful now. And dude, honestly,

1992
01:46:02,439 --> 01:46:04,920
Speaker 2: there's no better way to get around New York City.

1993
01:46:05,040 --> 01:46:08,200
Speaker 2: I've shipped them here to LA and ridden them around

1994
01:46:08,240 --> 01:46:10,880
Speaker 2: because I just love it so much. You can ride

1995
01:46:10,920 --> 01:46:13,479
Speaker 2: with car traffic, you get you can bring it into

1996
01:46:13,479 --> 01:46:15,600
Speaker 2: a restaurant, no one cares. It's the size of like

1997
01:46:15,640 --> 01:46:20,000
Speaker 2: a briefcase. They go forty miles an hour. It's it's

1998
01:46:20,080 --> 01:46:23,360
Speaker 2: the best. I only learn it if you want to

1999
01:46:23,840 --> 01:46:25,960
Speaker 2: learn it, and if you're okay with possibly being hurt

2000
01:46:26,560 --> 01:46:29,959
Speaker 2: a few times. But if you're okay with that learning process,

2001
01:46:30,640 --> 01:46:34,400
Speaker 2: it really is like to me, it's the future, But

2002
01:46:34,479 --> 01:46:36,240
Speaker 2: I don't think it'll ever be beyond a niche thing

2003
01:46:36,240 --> 01:46:37,080
Speaker 2: because it's hard to learn.

2004
01:46:37,360 --> 01:46:39,679
Speaker 1: Well, you know, you know the concept of minimalism. Yeah,

2005
01:46:39,800 --> 01:46:42,320
Speaker 1: I feel like the unicycle. That's the minimalism. That's the

2006
01:46:42,360 --> 01:46:44,600
Speaker 1: minimalists form of transportation.

2007
01:46:45,280 --> 01:46:50,240
Speaker 2: I only need one wheel. That's a single wheel, will do,

2008
01:46:50,640 --> 01:46:55,000
Speaker 2: single wheel, will do, single wheel is my way. Yeah,

2009
01:46:55,479 --> 01:46:59,320
Speaker 2: the car, four wheels, What does society come to a

2010
01:46:59,360 --> 01:47:03,479
Speaker 2: wheel that stuff? These quad wheeled assholes.

2011
01:47:03,000 --> 01:47:05,480
Speaker 1: All these wheels are capitalistic.

2012
01:47:05,600 --> 01:47:09,960
Speaker 2: Society is I'm a Uni wheel man, always have been,

2013
01:47:10,120 --> 01:47:10,880
Speaker 2: always will be.

2014
01:47:11,520 --> 01:47:14,640
Speaker 1: How are you feeling staminal wise? And it's kind of

2015
01:47:14,680 --> 01:47:16,519
Speaker 1: being a while. I don't want to, you know, I'm

2016
01:47:16,560 --> 01:47:20,240
Speaker 1: down to keep taking calls for as long as you're downing,

2017
01:47:20,280 --> 01:47:21,599
Speaker 1: and I don't want to keep you know, I don't

2018
01:47:21,640 --> 01:47:23,559
Speaker 1: know what your energy levels are.

2019
01:47:23,560 --> 01:47:26,559
Speaker 2: Like I'm chilling. I'm starting to get a little tired,

2020
01:47:26,600 --> 01:47:29,200
Speaker 2: but I could definitely take one or two more, Take

2021
01:47:29,200 --> 01:47:29,880
Speaker 2: a couple more.

2022
01:47:29,840 --> 01:47:30,360
Speaker 1: Take aple more.

2023
01:47:30,520 --> 01:47:30,680
Speaker 4: Do it.

2024
01:47:30,760 --> 01:47:31,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds good.

2025
01:47:31,600 --> 01:47:33,040
Speaker 1: See what's going on on the computer.

2026
01:47:33,240 --> 01:47:36,040
Speaker 2: There's a couple that I saw. It's been a big

2027
01:47:36,120 --> 01:47:38,240
Speaker 2: day for me, but I'm really enjoying this. It's nice

2028
01:47:38,320 --> 01:47:40,040
Speaker 2: to uh, nice to talk to people.

2029
01:47:40,439 --> 01:47:43,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, it's uh once again, thank you for coming

2030
01:47:43,360 --> 01:47:45,680
Speaker 1: on the show man. It's it's fun to do this

2031
01:47:45,800 --> 01:47:46,479
Speaker 1: with another person.

2032
01:47:46,760 --> 01:47:47,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2033
01:47:47,240 --> 01:47:50,080
Speaker 1: Good, Because I'm always in my own head about shit,

2034
01:47:50,120 --> 01:47:51,280
Speaker 1: it's not to have another perspective.

2035
01:47:51,479 --> 01:47:53,560
Speaker 2: Oh hell yeah, I mean I agree. It's nice to

2036
01:47:53,600 --> 01:47:57,000
Speaker 2: bounce off each other and think about things for people

2037
01:47:57,080 --> 01:48:01,120
Speaker 2: and with people. It's just nice. It's humanity. It's like,

2038
01:48:01,439 --> 01:48:04,920
Speaker 2: I feel like when we're doing this, we have it's

2039
01:48:05,000 --> 01:48:08,439
Speaker 2: like the same dynamic as meeting someone at a bar

2040
01:48:09,040 --> 01:48:12,040
Speaker 2: and having like a serious conversation about something it is,

2041
01:48:12,080 --> 01:48:14,160
Speaker 2: you know, or not so serious conversation. But either way,

2042
01:48:14,320 --> 01:48:18,320
Speaker 2: like having like a concentrated conversation about any old thing.

2043
01:48:18,680 --> 01:48:19,200
Speaker 2: I enjoy it.

2044
01:48:19,600 --> 01:48:22,559
Speaker 1: Mark, Do you feel like there's a and we can

2045
01:48:22,640 --> 01:48:24,000
Speaker 1: think about it for a second. You feel like there

2046
01:48:24,080 --> 01:48:27,200
Speaker 1: is any sort of underlying theme that's been prevalent in

2047
01:48:28,400 --> 01:48:31,280
Speaker 1: the majority of the calls tonight.

2048
01:48:31,920 --> 01:48:35,120
Speaker 2: You know, I think what it is, at least in

2049
01:48:35,240 --> 01:48:42,040
Speaker 2: the less well, yeah, generally, it's this feeling of unsure

2050
01:48:42,080 --> 01:48:45,960
Speaker 2: about what other people will think. Sure, yeah, the friendship,

2051
01:48:46,240 --> 01:48:53,160
Speaker 2: the relationship, the it's trepidation. It's like anxiety over and

2052
01:48:53,240 --> 01:48:55,320
Speaker 2: I think it's a problem that a lot of people have.

2053
01:48:55,479 --> 01:48:58,680
Speaker 2: Now is probably why such a large sample sizes. Is

2054
01:48:58,800 --> 01:49:01,680
Speaker 2: that sort of thing is like I just don't know

2055
01:49:02,479 --> 01:49:07,160
Speaker 2: what other people will think about this. Yeah, that sucks

2056
01:49:07,360 --> 01:49:12,320
Speaker 2: because like that's robbing. It's it's like almost like a

2057
01:49:14,080 --> 01:49:19,800
Speaker 2: confidence thief. It's like you it I I always hope

2058
01:49:19,840 --> 01:49:24,960
Speaker 2: that people feel good about enough about themselves too, you know,

2059
01:49:25,360 --> 01:49:27,519
Speaker 2: bring that sort of stuff to the table. You should

2060
01:49:27,560 --> 01:49:33,040
Speaker 2: feel good enough about yourself and if you don't, that sucks.

2061
01:49:33,640 --> 01:49:36,759
Speaker 2: You should feel better about yourself. You know you should

2062
01:49:37,520 --> 01:49:42,320
Speaker 2: because you there's nothing wrong with you. You know it's

2063
01:49:42,439 --> 01:49:45,760
Speaker 2: it's it's all about how you perceive yourself. There's nothing

2064
01:49:45,800 --> 01:49:47,200
Speaker 2: inherently wrong with you.

2065
01:49:47,560 --> 01:49:49,800
Speaker 1: I heard this quote someone and said this. You belong

2066
01:49:49,920 --> 01:49:53,160
Speaker 1: in every room, and you belong in every You belong

2067
01:49:53,200 --> 01:49:55,280
Speaker 1: in every room. There ain't no room out there you

2068
01:49:55,320 --> 01:49:55,920
Speaker 1: don't belong in.

2069
01:49:56,080 --> 01:49:57,280
Speaker 2: I love that. I like that.

2070
01:49:57,479 --> 01:49:59,679
Speaker 1: I remember, that's not mine. I heard that from from someone,

2071
01:49:59,800 --> 01:50:01,439
Speaker 1: but so true, so true.

2072
01:50:01,800 --> 01:50:03,960
Speaker 2: If there's anything anything that I could relate to it

2073
01:50:04,040 --> 01:50:06,120
Speaker 2: with in my in my current life, it would be

2074
01:50:06,520 --> 01:50:10,800
Speaker 2: like the imposter syndrome that I had and still have,

2075
01:50:11,120 --> 01:50:15,479
Speaker 2: of course for such a long time, of like, I

2076
01:50:15,600 --> 01:50:20,960
Speaker 2: don't belong in this job. I what I make is bullshit.

2077
01:50:21,560 --> 01:50:24,080
Speaker 2: What the people I look up to make is great.

2078
01:50:24,640 --> 01:50:27,360
Speaker 2: I don't know why they're entertaining me or talking to me.

2079
01:50:27,800 --> 01:50:31,080
Speaker 2: I feel like I need to prove something here. None

2080
01:50:31,160 --> 01:50:34,600
Speaker 2: of that is true. It's a fabrication. They like you

2081
01:50:34,840 --> 01:50:39,640
Speaker 2: because they like you. There's no catch. You know you

2082
01:50:40,000 --> 01:50:44,800
Speaker 2: are worth it. You are worth it, and and and

2083
01:50:45,040 --> 01:50:48,800
Speaker 2: and anyone out there that pays you a bit of

2084
01:50:48,960 --> 01:50:54,000
Speaker 2: mind thinks you're worth it too. And you just got

2085
01:50:54,120 --> 01:50:57,360
Speaker 2: to know that you know you you You gotta walk

2086
01:50:57,479 --> 01:51:04,320
Speaker 2: the earth knowing that that you are valuable. I can't

2087
01:51:04,360 --> 01:51:07,320
Speaker 2: impress that enough. It's so important, dude, because so many

2088
01:51:07,360 --> 01:51:10,160
Speaker 2: people feel like they're not and you are.

2089
01:51:10,840 --> 01:51:14,360
Speaker 1: You are, man, It's, uh, this is weird. Maybe this

2090
01:51:14,520 --> 01:51:16,639
Speaker 1: is uh, you know, we're both talking about being single

2091
01:51:16,680 --> 01:51:17,000
Speaker 1: for a while.

2092
01:51:17,040 --> 01:51:17,360
Speaker 2: It's like.

2093
01:51:19,280 --> 01:51:22,280
Speaker 1: Relationships, whether they're romantic or but just with friends or

2094
01:51:22,280 --> 01:51:25,120
Speaker 1: with family, whatever it is. It's like in your head,

2095
01:51:25,200 --> 01:51:27,880
Speaker 1: you're all like, there's just so many people are just

2096
01:51:27,960 --> 01:51:30,320
Speaker 1: like fucking weird and they have other weird stuff, and

2097
01:51:30,400 --> 01:51:32,360
Speaker 1: it's like it's enough to like figure out your own

2098
01:51:32,439 --> 01:51:34,640
Speaker 1: weird stuff. And then you bring another person in and

2099
01:51:34,760 --> 01:51:37,760
Speaker 1: you have to they're weird stuff in relationship with you're

2100
01:51:37,880 --> 01:51:39,720
Speaker 1: weird stuff. And you bring a third person, you bring

2101
01:51:39,800 --> 01:51:42,599
Speaker 1: your grandpa in, Yeah, and you have to figure out

2102
01:51:42,600 --> 01:51:43,439
Speaker 1: his weird stuff.

2103
01:51:44,720 --> 01:51:48,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's always tough, knows what that's like? You you

2104
01:51:48,880 --> 01:51:52,040
Speaker 2: you wanted? How are you feeling about? Let's find one

2105
01:51:52,760 --> 01:51:56,719
Speaker 2: final call. Let's take a finale, bring us in. Sounds great.

2106
01:51:58,640 --> 01:52:00,400
Speaker 1: Before we do that, let's let's check a with the chat.

2107
01:52:00,400 --> 01:52:02,360
Speaker 1: When we're talking. Oh yeah, last last time with the

2108
01:52:02,439 --> 01:52:05,280
Speaker 1: chat March makes me want to move to New York?

2109
01:52:05,320 --> 01:52:06,880
Speaker 1: Are you saying that you can stalk him?

2110
01:52:09,280 --> 01:52:11,120
Speaker 2: First of all, you should move to New York. You,

2111
01:52:11,320 --> 01:52:12,240
Speaker 2: you definitely should.

2112
01:52:12,439 --> 01:52:14,799
Speaker 1: We we were talking about this a little bit beforehand.

2113
01:52:14,920 --> 01:52:17,040
Speaker 1: I really want to move to New York at some point.

2114
01:52:17,200 --> 01:52:19,479
Speaker 2: It's the best place. I really want to move there.

2115
01:52:19,520 --> 01:52:21,080
Speaker 2: But all the we were also talking about this all

2116
01:52:21,120 --> 01:52:28,840
Speaker 2: the like, all the the the industry yep, yeah, the industry. Yeah,

2117
01:52:28,880 --> 01:52:30,160
Speaker 2: the whole industry is here.

2118
01:52:30,560 --> 01:52:32,160
Speaker 1: Is in Los Angeles.

2119
01:52:32,280 --> 01:52:34,760
Speaker 2: The entire entertainment industry is here for the most part.

2120
01:52:34,800 --> 01:52:37,040
Speaker 2: I mean there's some in New York, but it's you know,

2121
01:52:37,280 --> 01:52:41,760
Speaker 2: ninety nine percent of the entertainment industry is here. And

2122
01:52:42,280 --> 01:52:46,599
Speaker 2: it's a bummer because not because La sucks. I love La.

2123
01:52:46,720 --> 01:52:49,240
Speaker 2: We were talking about this too. I really have learned

2124
01:52:49,320 --> 01:52:54,240
Speaker 2: to love La. It's a great city. But if we're

2125
01:52:54,280 --> 01:52:59,599
Speaker 2: talking objectively about cities, yeah, New York is better. It's

2126
01:52:59,600 --> 01:53:01,680
Speaker 2: a better city. Every time I get in my car.

2127
01:53:02,560 --> 01:53:04,120
Speaker 1: Every time I get in my car, I'm like, I'm

2128
01:53:04,160 --> 01:53:08,000
Speaker 1: either gonna die or I'm gonna kill somebody. That happens

2129
01:53:08,040 --> 01:53:10,000
Speaker 1: every time I get in my car. Yeah, I have

2130
01:53:10,160 --> 01:53:12,360
Speaker 1: that thought every time I get in my car.

2131
01:53:12,439 --> 01:53:14,240
Speaker 2: I'm like, now, wouldn't it be great if you could

2132
01:53:14,240 --> 01:53:19,040
Speaker 2: have that thought at another person's face. That's what it is.

2133
01:53:19,600 --> 01:53:22,240
Speaker 2: You can just you get it out and then it's done.

2134
01:53:22,360 --> 01:53:24,479
Speaker 2: We all love each other, we're all on the same level.

2135
01:53:24,560 --> 01:53:27,679
Speaker 2: We're on the street. Get the fuck out of the way,

2136
01:53:28,360 --> 01:53:31,519
Speaker 2: thank you very much. And and and everything is within

2137
01:53:31,720 --> 01:53:34,560
Speaker 2: five minutes of you. You don't you walk outside. The

2138
01:53:34,640 --> 01:53:37,760
Speaker 2: whole world is right there. It's just a better design city,

2139
01:53:37,800 --> 01:53:38,559
Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying.

2140
01:53:38,840 --> 01:53:42,160
Speaker 1: And another thing is with the cars. You can't get

2141
01:53:42,280 --> 01:53:44,680
Speaker 1: drunk and drive a car. No, you shouldn't get high

2142
01:53:44,680 --> 01:53:47,040
Speaker 1: and drive a car. But on the subway, I mean,

2143
01:53:47,080 --> 01:53:49,639
Speaker 1: you can do PCP and ride the subway and you're fine.

2144
01:53:49,400 --> 01:53:52,479
Speaker 2: One hundred percent. Yep, you sure can. You could. You

2145
01:53:52,560 --> 01:53:54,479
Speaker 2: could do some PCP on the subway. You could do

2146
01:53:54,560 --> 01:53:56,840
Speaker 2: what Yeah whatever, that's salt. It's still bad.

2147
01:53:56,880 --> 01:53:58,800
Speaker 1: I feel like bath salts are like they're very like

2148
01:53:58,920 --> 01:53:59,599
Speaker 1: twenty twelve.

2149
01:54:00,080 --> 01:54:01,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like there. I haven't heard anything about

2150
01:54:02,000 --> 01:54:05,240
Speaker 2: of fashion. They're falling out of fashion, but I'm sure

2151
01:54:05,280 --> 01:54:08,400
Speaker 2: there's some some some people still doing them. We had

2152
01:54:08,400 --> 01:54:10,840
Speaker 2: a big old shooting on the subway this morning and

2153
01:54:10,880 --> 01:54:13,280
Speaker 2: oh yeah, I heard about that. Yeah man, not good.

2154
01:54:13,560 --> 01:54:18,200
Speaker 2: Not good. Also Gilbert Godfried, legendary New Yorker dead. Oh

2155
01:54:18,240 --> 01:54:21,559
Speaker 2: he was a guy. Yeah man, rest in peace, Rest

2156
01:54:21,600 --> 01:54:24,400
Speaker 2: in peace. Man. He dot it when he was sixty seven,

2157
01:54:24,680 --> 01:54:27,479
Speaker 2: too young. Life is really not that long. It's really

2158
01:54:27,560 --> 01:54:30,040
Speaker 2: not really not that long. That's why you have got

2159
01:54:30,160 --> 01:54:33,560
Speaker 2: to tell people that you love them. See if they

2160
01:54:33,680 --> 01:54:36,800
Speaker 2: love you back, just say it. It's too short.

2161
01:54:37,400 --> 01:54:39,360
Speaker 1: It's also too short not to try some PCP if

2162
01:54:39,480 --> 01:54:41,880
Speaker 1: you have the opportunity, if you feel like it, if

2163
01:54:41,960 --> 01:54:48,360
Speaker 1: it's in your bingo card, hit that shit. Someone said,

2164
01:54:48,360 --> 01:54:50,640
Speaker 1: my hobby's being a broke New Yorker. We're we're doing

2165
01:54:50,720 --> 01:54:52,160
Speaker 1: mushrooms and going to Times Square.

2166
01:54:52,480 --> 01:54:55,840
Speaker 2: That sounds sick. Yeah, that'd be fun. I don't know

2167
01:54:55,840 --> 01:54:59,760
Speaker 2: if I would probably choose time screw would be fun.

2168
01:55:00,040 --> 01:55:03,680
Speaker 2: Shrimps it would be, it would be. It's fun. Okay,

2169
01:55:03,960 --> 01:55:07,120
Speaker 2: it's fun. I haven't done them in some time, except

2170
01:55:07,200 --> 01:55:09,040
Speaker 2: for like a little bit, like a little micro dose.

2171
01:55:09,080 --> 01:55:10,960
Speaker 2: You know, people have given me a little micro dose.

2172
01:55:11,000 --> 01:55:13,000
Speaker 2: People are talking. I hear a lot of people talking

2173
01:55:13,040 --> 01:55:15,600
Speaker 2: about the micro dose. It's fine, it's sort of more.

2174
01:55:15,640 --> 01:55:19,000
Speaker 2: I would just rather get high honestly. But you do

2175
01:55:19,120 --> 01:55:21,400
Speaker 2: a lot of shrims. It's fun, it's a good time,

2176
01:55:21,480 --> 01:55:23,480
Speaker 2: but you got to be prepared for like like eight

2177
01:55:23,600 --> 01:55:27,440
Speaker 2: hours of that. It's like a it's a whole thing,

2178
01:55:27,520 --> 01:55:30,760
Speaker 2: it's a whole day. Okay. I would go to Times

2179
01:55:30,760 --> 01:55:33,240
Speaker 2: Square on shrimps. It'd be fun for a second, as

2180
01:55:33,280 --> 01:55:35,240
Speaker 2: long as I could get out out.

2181
01:55:35,280 --> 01:55:37,920
Speaker 1: I gotta, I gotta try that. I've never should I've

2182
01:55:37,920 --> 01:55:39,040
Speaker 1: never done. I've never done it before.

2183
01:55:39,240 --> 01:55:42,600
Speaker 2: Have you done like Mollie or acid? I've done ecstasy?

2184
01:55:43,000 --> 01:55:44,960
Speaker 1: Oh okay, but never.

2185
01:55:47,000 --> 01:55:49,680
Speaker 2: Would you? Would you? Have you done? Necessary? Yeah? Are they?

2186
01:55:49,960 --> 01:55:51,560
Speaker 1: Are they in any way, shape or form similarly?

2187
01:55:53,360 --> 01:55:59,600
Speaker 2: I mean not really No, No, they're different feelings. Mollie

2188
01:55:59,680 --> 01:56:02,600
Speaker 2: is what I would suggest, the same is Molly and

2189
01:56:03,280 --> 01:56:06,920
Speaker 2: extra different, right, yeah, Ecstasy is usually Molly cut with

2190
01:56:07,240 --> 01:56:10,240
Speaker 2: an upper. It's like, well, MDMA is an upper, but

2191
01:56:10,520 --> 01:56:13,280
Speaker 2: it's cut with another upper. It's like ecstasy would be

2192
01:56:13,360 --> 01:56:16,320
Speaker 2: like Molly and coke, or like Molly and speed or something.

2193
01:56:16,440 --> 01:56:18,360
Speaker 1: All I remember from x what I remember for xCD

2194
01:56:18,520 --> 01:56:22,640
Speaker 1: is that I remember trying to make myself sad just

2195
01:56:22,720 --> 01:56:24,400
Speaker 1: to like see if I could and I couldn't do it?

2196
01:56:24,560 --> 01:56:27,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, something happens in your brain where you literally

2197
01:56:27,520 --> 01:56:28,440
Speaker 1: can't be said.

2198
01:56:28,280 --> 01:56:30,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you had some good ship. That's that's that's what

2199
01:56:30,480 --> 01:56:33,320
Speaker 2: it is. And Molly is like that, but even more

2200
01:56:33,440 --> 01:56:36,000
Speaker 2: it's like the pure version of that. I guess you

2201
01:56:36,120 --> 01:56:40,000
Speaker 2: may have just had Molly. Honestly, it's it's like four hours.

2202
01:56:40,120 --> 01:56:42,480
Speaker 2: It's less than shrooms an acid. It's a it's a

2203
01:56:42,560 --> 01:56:47,360
Speaker 2: shorter trip three or four hours, and it's just a

2204
01:56:47,880 --> 01:56:54,960
Speaker 2: surge of right, Oh man, that's really good. Yeah, that's

2205
01:56:55,080 --> 01:56:55,720
Speaker 2: really nice.

2206
01:56:55,720 --> 01:56:57,280
Speaker 1: It's a good impression of somebody on mom.

2207
01:56:58,120 --> 01:57:02,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've done it a few times. I can recall it,

2208
01:57:02,440 --> 01:57:07,960
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. It's just like this. Even

2209
01:57:08,000 --> 01:57:11,200
Speaker 2: the sound of you going is really nice. It's like

2210
01:57:11,240 --> 01:57:15,200
Speaker 2: the vibration on the palette. Every little thing feels good.

2211
01:57:15,600 --> 01:57:17,560
Speaker 1: When you look out into the crowd and you're doing

2212
01:57:17,600 --> 01:57:21,360
Speaker 1: your show. What percentage of people do you think are

2213
01:57:21,440 --> 01:57:21,880
Speaker 1: on drugs?

2214
01:57:21,920 --> 01:57:23,960
Speaker 2: Oh? You know, I was just about to say, it's

2215
01:57:24,080 --> 01:57:28,520
Speaker 2: actually not dissimilar to that feeling looking at if I'm

2216
01:57:28,600 --> 01:57:32,920
Speaker 2: having a good show, the audience is good, it's very

2217
01:57:33,040 --> 01:57:33,680
Speaker 2: similar to that.

2218
01:57:34,040 --> 01:57:37,040
Speaker 1: Do you think do you think a strong a portion

2219
01:57:37,160 --> 01:57:39,720
Speaker 1: of the people in your audience are on drugs?

2220
01:57:40,280 --> 01:57:44,200
Speaker 2: I would assume a good percentage. I don't know if

2221
01:57:44,200 --> 01:57:47,560
Speaker 2: it's a majority. I would say probably a majority or

2222
01:57:47,640 --> 01:57:52,400
Speaker 2: like drunk okay, but I would say I would wager

2223
01:57:52,720 --> 01:57:57,040
Speaker 2: wager twenty to twenty five percent at least as a

2224
01:57:57,120 --> 01:58:01,120
Speaker 2: health I would wager that it's health fucked up on something.

2225
01:58:01,720 --> 01:58:04,520
Speaker 1: I kind of I just like secretly like hope that

2226
01:58:05,160 --> 01:58:07,920
Speaker 1: people who are seeing me are like, oh, Garren sucking

2227
01:58:08,160 --> 01:58:10,320
Speaker 1: you kind of hope that because you're like, okay, that

2228
01:58:10,560 --> 01:58:11,920
Speaker 1: my bar is a little bit lower here.

2229
01:58:12,680 --> 01:58:15,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's these people will be easier to entertain. Right,

2230
01:58:16,080 --> 01:58:19,880
Speaker 2: That's true. It's true, And I guarantee you. I would

2231
01:58:19,920 --> 01:58:22,200
Speaker 2: say this gotta be at least thirty to forty percent

2232
01:58:22,240 --> 01:58:23,880
Speaker 2: of people that are watching this that are for me.

2233
01:58:24,080 --> 01:58:27,400
Speaker 2: Oh about for a live thing? Oh on this right now?

2234
01:58:27,600 --> 01:58:30,800
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we can do a poll even Who's who's

2235
01:58:30,880 --> 01:58:35,440
Speaker 2: fucked up in some way? Who someone just took Joe? Oh,

2236
01:58:35,520 --> 01:58:38,520
Speaker 2: someone took a three hundred milligram edible before my DC show.

2237
01:58:38,600 --> 01:58:40,920
Speaker 2: See there you go. That's a good that's a good

2238
01:58:40,960 --> 01:58:44,080
Speaker 2: audience member. Who's fucked up? Anyone fucked up in any way?

2239
01:58:44,600 --> 01:58:46,839
Speaker 2: High truck, I'm high yep.

2240
01:58:46,760 --> 01:58:50,080
Speaker 1: Stone drug con says they're fucked up on com.

2241
01:58:52,400 --> 01:58:54,200
Speaker 2: Someone's fucked up on Come right now.

2242
01:58:54,360 --> 01:58:57,800
Speaker 1: Sun said, I just took a bong rip high to

2243
01:58:57,840 --> 01:58:58,400
Speaker 1: take another dab.

2244
01:58:58,440 --> 01:59:00,640
Speaker 2: I haven't done a dab in a while. Missed though too.

2245
01:59:00,680 --> 01:59:05,120
Speaker 2: It's been a hot second. Uh yeah, yeah, pretty much

2246
01:59:05,200 --> 01:59:06,240
Speaker 2: everyone in the chat is.

2247
01:59:07,360 --> 01:59:11,640
Speaker 1: Ecstasy at your show and shedding. New guy Ivy Profien.

2248
01:59:11,720 --> 01:59:13,080
Speaker 1: That doesn't sound safe at all.

2249
01:59:13,360 --> 01:59:15,040
Speaker 2: Guys, don't rail ibuprofen.

2250
01:59:15,040 --> 01:59:16,800
Speaker 1: It's not a good listen at the end of the

2251
01:59:16,920 --> 01:59:22,360
Speaker 1: day with therapy. Gecko says, don't do drugs. Let's do it.

2252
01:59:22,440 --> 01:59:25,040
Speaker 2: Let's bring it on home. Let's bring it on home, Mark,

2253
01:59:25,120 --> 01:59:27,720
Speaker 2: let's bring around what's going on. We're gonna take one

2254
01:59:27,800 --> 01:59:29,040
Speaker 2: last call for the people here.

2255
01:59:30,360 --> 01:59:32,120
Speaker 1: You know what we could honestly, you know we could do.

2256
01:59:34,280 --> 01:59:35,920
Speaker 1: These are all calls that have been screened. We could

2257
01:59:35,960 --> 01:59:36,360
Speaker 1: just take it.

2258
01:59:36,440 --> 01:59:38,840
Speaker 2: Sometimes we take just take one that has been screened.

2259
01:59:38,920 --> 01:59:42,840
Speaker 2: Love to take a random call that sounds great. Let's

2260
01:59:42,880 --> 01:59:53,640
Speaker 2: take something in the queue. Hello, Hello, Hi, ho's going

2261
01:59:54,200 --> 01:59:55,160
Speaker 2: It's going good? How are you.

2262
01:59:57,600 --> 01:59:57,840
Speaker 5: Dude?

2263
01:59:57,920 --> 01:59:59,520
Speaker 9: I'm doing wonderful? How are you?

2264
01:59:59,640 --> 02:00:01,560
Speaker 1: Man? I like this guy, and this was a good decision.

2265
02:00:01,680 --> 02:00:03,600
Speaker 2: That's a good ad. I like it. I like it.

2266
02:00:05,040 --> 02:00:10,240
Speaker 2: Tell us about that day. How's your day been? Uh, dude, my.

2267
02:00:10,360 --> 02:00:11,960
Speaker 9: Day's been actually great.

2268
02:00:12,080 --> 02:00:12,160
Speaker 4: Bro.

2269
02:00:12,520 --> 02:00:14,720
Speaker 9: Wait hold on, am I actually on with the GK

2270
02:00:14,800 --> 02:00:15,080
Speaker 9: right now?

2271
02:00:15,520 --> 02:00:23,400
Speaker 2: You are on with two geks, two double prizes for

2272
02:00:23,520 --> 02:00:25,960
Speaker 2: this man, Double GEK, baby d v d A. You

2273
02:00:26,080 --> 02:00:26,560
Speaker 2: know how it is?

2274
02:00:26,680 --> 02:00:27,640
Speaker 1: What's your name, homie?

2275
02:00:29,960 --> 02:00:31,520
Speaker 9: My name is Kyle Goodness.

2276
02:00:31,640 --> 02:00:34,800
Speaker 1: Man. We got a first ana last name. We're double

2277
02:00:34,840 --> 02:00:35,760
Speaker 1: prizes for both of us.

2278
02:00:35,960 --> 02:00:38,000
Speaker 2: Did you did you say Kyle Goodness?

2279
02:00:40,680 --> 02:00:40,880
Speaker 11: Good?

2280
02:00:41,320 --> 02:00:43,400
Speaker 9: Okay? Yeah, so good rich like the.

2281
02:00:45,920 --> 02:00:46,360
Speaker 2: Goodness.

2282
02:00:46,880 --> 02:00:47,640
Speaker 9: I'm not wealthy.

2283
02:00:48,240 --> 02:00:50,960
Speaker 1: That would be a sick last Goodness gracious? How do

2284
02:00:51,000 --> 02:00:54,520
Speaker 1: you do Kyle Goodness? That's the name of a superhero

2285
02:00:54,640 --> 02:00:55,600
Speaker 1: that does good deeds.

2286
02:00:55,800 --> 02:00:57,440
Speaker 2: You mind if we call you Kyle Goodness?

2287
02:00:57,520 --> 02:00:59,800
Speaker 1: Kyle just living in the fantasy that that's your name.

2288
02:01:00,080 --> 02:01:02,400
Speaker 9: I'd like you to call me whatever you want?

2289
02:01:02,440 --> 02:01:02,600
Speaker 3: Man.

2290
02:01:02,840 --> 02:01:06,320
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, Well listen, Dan, what's going on with you?

2291
02:01:10,000 --> 02:01:10,760
Speaker 3: With me? You know?

2292
02:01:11,040 --> 02:01:14,160
Speaker 9: Life's that are going great. I've been I've been putting

2293
02:01:14,160 --> 02:01:15,400
Speaker 9: in extra effort at work.

2294
02:01:15,480 --> 02:01:21,640
Speaker 2: I got a promotion, you know, wow, congratulations? Is it

2295
02:01:21,720 --> 02:01:24,520
Speaker 2: a big promotion? Is it a promotion that comes with perks,

2296
02:01:24,720 --> 02:01:27,320
Speaker 2: benefits and and the like?

2297
02:01:30,440 --> 02:01:30,560
Speaker 11: Uh.

2298
02:01:30,800 --> 02:01:33,040
Speaker 9: Well, I mean it doesn't really come with that many

2299
02:01:33,160 --> 02:01:35,520
Speaker 9: perks or benefits, but it's a promotion that gets me

2300
02:01:35,680 --> 02:01:36,760
Speaker 9: closer to my goal.

2301
02:01:37,040 --> 02:01:40,280
Speaker 1: So yeah, and what and what are your goals Kyle?

2302
02:01:43,000 --> 02:01:43,120
Speaker 11: Uh?

2303
02:01:43,400 --> 02:01:46,520
Speaker 9: Well, obviously to to make more money in the long run,

2304
02:01:46,880 --> 02:01:50,120
Speaker 9: but uh you know, to be able to have more

2305
02:01:50,200 --> 02:01:52,720
Speaker 9: time at home and spend with my friends and family

2306
02:01:52,840 --> 02:01:56,160
Speaker 9: and help everybody else around me if they need it.

2307
02:01:58,320 --> 02:02:00,880
Speaker 2: Good attitude on the sky, the attitude. I love it.

2308
02:02:01,960 --> 02:02:04,200
Speaker 2: What are your thoughts on life? My friend? Tell us

2309
02:02:04,240 --> 02:02:07,920
Speaker 2: about your your general life philosophy. How do you go

2310
02:02:08,040 --> 02:02:08,840
Speaker 2: about your life?

2311
02:02:12,200 --> 02:02:14,800
Speaker 9: How do I go about my life? Oh that's that's

2312
02:02:14,840 --> 02:02:20,160
Speaker 9: a heavy hitter. That's a real heavy hitter. Well, I

2313
02:02:20,400 --> 02:02:24,560
Speaker 9: wake up, I procrastinate most things, and then I go

2314
02:02:24,720 --> 02:02:26,760
Speaker 9: to work and I try to do the best that

2315
02:02:26,880 --> 02:02:30,560
Speaker 9: I can without ripping someone's face off. And then I

2316
02:02:30,640 --> 02:02:33,760
Speaker 9: come back home, take a shower, drink you know a

2317
02:02:33,840 --> 02:02:36,240
Speaker 9: white car or too, and fucking go to bed. Man.

2318
02:02:37,120 --> 02:02:38,240
Speaker 1: God, I love this guy.

2319
02:02:38,640 --> 02:02:43,680
Speaker 2: I love it. Simple, effective, well meaning you're not you're

2320
02:02:43,720 --> 02:02:45,840
Speaker 2: not harming anybody, You're just doing good.

2321
02:02:46,080 --> 02:02:50,200
Speaker 1: This is how all advice calling shows should go. Is

2322
02:02:50,280 --> 02:02:52,720
Speaker 1: it to just be people who are very happy with

2323
02:02:52,880 --> 02:02:55,400
Speaker 1: absolutely no problems calling in.

2324
02:02:56,120 --> 02:03:00,480
Speaker 2: Yeah every time, Hey man, everything's good, pretty good here.

2325
02:03:03,000 --> 02:03:05,840
Speaker 1: It's just a person after person calling in to tell

2326
02:03:05,880 --> 02:03:09,800
Speaker 1: us about how great everything's going. Not a single problem

2327
02:03:10,720 --> 02:03:12,960
Speaker 1: to be found. I mean, you know, Ky, don't want

2328
02:03:12,960 --> 02:03:14,800
Speaker 1: to put that on you, Kyle. I mean, is is

2329
02:03:15,320 --> 02:03:16,960
Speaker 1: is anything at all going wrong?

2330
02:03:19,640 --> 02:03:22,280
Speaker 9: I mean, yeah, of course there's stuff that's going wrong,

2331
02:03:22,480 --> 02:03:25,400
Speaker 9: you know, but if you've just focused on the stuff

2332
02:03:25,440 --> 02:03:27,600
Speaker 9: that's going wrong, like you're not, you're just gonna dwell

2333
02:03:27,680 --> 02:03:29,120
Speaker 9: on that, and you're not going to get anywhere, right,

2334
02:03:31,480 --> 02:03:33,480
Speaker 9: keep to yourself and keep going, you.

2335
02:03:33,520 --> 02:03:37,160
Speaker 1: Know, right, because there's always however, it doesn't matter how

2336
02:03:37,480 --> 02:03:41,600
Speaker 1: whatever rich and whatever great your life is, if you're

2337
02:03:41,640 --> 02:03:43,360
Speaker 1: looking for something wrong, you'll find it.

2338
02:03:43,520 --> 02:03:48,000
Speaker 2: There will always be bullshit in your life. What's your

2339
02:03:48,040 --> 02:03:49,520
Speaker 2: relationship like with your father, Kyle?

2340
02:03:52,600 --> 02:03:55,320
Speaker 9: My father? Yeah, So my father wasn't really around much

2341
02:03:55,360 --> 02:03:59,000
Speaker 9: of my childhood. Kind of a crazy story there, you know.

2342
02:03:59,080 --> 02:04:01,040
Speaker 9: He used to write me letters, but then my mom

2343
02:04:01,080 --> 02:04:03,280
Speaker 9: would always hide them and so I didn't get to

2344
02:04:03,280 --> 02:04:05,280
Speaker 9: see them until I turned to eighteen. And then when

2345
02:04:05,280 --> 02:04:08,400
Speaker 9: I was eighteen, he accused me of sleeping with his wife,

2346
02:04:08,440 --> 02:04:10,400
Speaker 9: but I had never met and I had to tell

2347
02:04:10,520 --> 02:04:13,200
Speaker 9: whoa no, you know, and then I turned into like

2348
02:04:13,280 --> 02:04:14,240
Speaker 9: this whole crazy thing.

2349
02:04:14,720 --> 02:04:18,120
Speaker 2: It's actually wild, man, I asked the right question. You

2350
02:04:18,240 --> 02:04:22,680
Speaker 2: really did? Do you get so I'm assuming you don't talk,

2351
02:04:23,000 --> 02:04:24,720
Speaker 2: you don't keep up with him anymore?

2352
02:04:27,440 --> 02:04:28,000
Speaker 10: No, I do.

2353
02:04:28,360 --> 02:04:32,000
Speaker 9: I do, because like once I had turned past, you know,

2354
02:04:32,280 --> 02:04:35,720
Speaker 9: like I got the full story. But yeah, when it happened,

2355
02:04:35,760 --> 02:04:38,280
Speaker 9: originally I was like, bro, I don't know what's happening

2356
02:04:38,440 --> 02:04:38,800
Speaker 9: right now.

2357
02:04:39,280 --> 02:04:44,280
Speaker 1: Wow, So he was writing you letters that you never saw.

2358
02:04:46,920 --> 02:04:49,040
Speaker 9: Yeah, he would write me letters, and he would write

2359
02:04:49,080 --> 02:04:52,480
Speaker 9: my mom letters, and then my mom would just hold

2360
02:04:52,560 --> 02:04:54,880
Speaker 9: the letters and I never got to see him until

2361
02:04:54,880 --> 02:04:57,600
Speaker 9: I was older, like seventeen eighteen years old.

2362
02:04:57,840 --> 02:05:01,240
Speaker 2: Oh my god? What was What was the contents of

2363
02:05:01,320 --> 02:05:01,920
Speaker 2: these letters?

2364
02:05:04,560 --> 02:05:07,040
Speaker 9: The letters were mostly just about like how much he

2365
02:05:07,160 --> 02:05:08,960
Speaker 9: missed my mom and wish that he would have done

2366
02:05:09,000 --> 02:05:12,400
Speaker 9: things differently, and then on like the side note would

2367
02:05:12,440 --> 02:05:14,440
Speaker 9: be about how much he wished he could be were

2368
02:05:14,440 --> 02:05:17,920
Speaker 9: a part of my life. Yeah, I mean that's pretty

2369
02:05:18,000 --> 02:05:18,200
Speaker 9: much it.

2370
02:05:18,640 --> 02:05:22,000
Speaker 2: Oh man, that's heavy. Man. How did that make you

2371
02:05:22,080 --> 02:05:25,200
Speaker 2: feel when you saw those letters after all that time?

2372
02:05:27,800 --> 02:05:28,040
Speaker 10: Dude?

2373
02:05:28,080 --> 02:05:30,320
Speaker 9: I cried. I cried a lot. I cried a lot.

2374
02:05:30,440 --> 02:05:35,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I'm glad you've reconnected with him in some way,

2375
02:05:35,320 --> 02:05:37,800
Speaker 2: even though that I mean, it sounds like the reconnection

2376
02:05:38,000 --> 02:05:41,320
Speaker 2: part at first was a little rocky with the accusing

2377
02:05:41,400 --> 02:05:43,600
Speaker 2: you of having slept with his wife and shit, that's

2378
02:05:43,680 --> 02:05:45,040
Speaker 2: gonna yes, I said a lot.

2379
02:05:45,320 --> 02:05:47,520
Speaker 1: So he wrote you these heartfelt letters about how he

2380
02:05:47,560 --> 02:05:49,600
Speaker 1: misses you and he misses your mom, and then after

2381
02:05:49,720 --> 02:05:52,080
Speaker 1: the fact, started accusing you of sleeping with his wife.

2382
02:05:54,840 --> 02:05:59,440
Speaker 9: Yes, so something's going on there, all right, you okay, Now,

2383
02:05:59,520 --> 02:06:01,640
Speaker 9: I'm trying to be really positive, but you guys are

2384
02:06:01,680 --> 02:06:03,800
Speaker 9: striking like all of the right notes.

2385
02:06:04,200 --> 02:06:06,000
Speaker 2: So I don't know how deep you really want me

2386
02:06:06,120 --> 02:06:08,960
Speaker 2: to go into the deep end, my friend?

2387
02:06:11,960 --> 02:06:14,320
Speaker 9: Okay, okay, I'll go into the deep end.

2388
02:06:14,400 --> 02:06:14,720
Speaker 4: All right?

2389
02:06:14,760 --> 02:06:15,280
Speaker 1: Are you ready?

2390
02:06:15,440 --> 02:06:17,000
Speaker 2: Are you ready as deep as you want to go,

2391
02:06:17,160 --> 02:06:20,520
Speaker 2: my friend, I've got my snorkel. You can't you know what,

2392
02:06:20,600 --> 02:06:24,640
Speaker 2: You can't really go that deep with us? Yeah?

2393
02:06:25,120 --> 02:06:28,960
Speaker 9: I was, no, no, get ready. I was in middle school.

2394
02:06:29,200 --> 02:06:32,480
Speaker 9: This is Salem, Oregon. My mom was a drug lord.

2395
02:06:33,360 --> 02:06:36,120
Speaker 9: We got notified three days ahead of him that we

2396
02:06:36,240 --> 02:06:39,600
Speaker 9: were gonna get raided, so my mom cleaned house and

2397
02:06:39,800 --> 02:06:43,200
Speaker 9: got busted. I'd go to school the next day to

2398
02:06:43,360 --> 02:06:45,520
Speaker 9: find my dad sitting in a room with a bunch

2399
02:06:45,560 --> 02:06:48,680
Speaker 9: of cups at my school that he was nowhere near.

2400
02:06:50,080 --> 02:06:52,600
Speaker 9: Only to find out that I was no longer going

2401
02:06:52,680 --> 02:06:54,840
Speaker 9: to be living with my mom, no longer going to

2402
02:06:55,000 --> 02:06:57,280
Speaker 9: this school, and I was going to be living with

2403
02:06:57,400 --> 02:07:00,280
Speaker 9: my dad now that I hadn't seen in years, years,

2404
02:07:01,120 --> 02:07:06,840
Speaker 9: and his girlfriend. And that's how the whole thing came

2405
02:07:07,000 --> 02:07:10,520
Speaker 9: up with like once I turned eighteen years old. He

2406
02:07:11,200 --> 02:07:13,800
Speaker 9: didn't I don't want to say accused, maybe that was

2407
02:07:13,880 --> 02:07:17,880
Speaker 9: the wrong word, but he asked me if I slept

2408
02:07:17,960 --> 02:07:22,000
Speaker 9: with his wife because he wanted to prosecute her with like,

2409
02:07:22,880 --> 02:07:26,560
Speaker 9: you know, sleeping with a minor, and she's no, man,

2410
02:07:26,880 --> 02:07:30,440
Speaker 9: I don't that ever happened. So that caught me way

2411
02:07:30,520 --> 02:07:34,480
Speaker 9: off guard. It was just a wild show.

2412
02:07:35,320 --> 02:07:35,960
Speaker 2: My god.

2413
02:07:36,400 --> 02:07:39,240
Speaker 1: It's kind of crazy how close we came to having

2414
02:07:39,320 --> 02:07:40,840
Speaker 1: this call without you telling us.

2415
02:07:40,720 --> 02:07:43,600
Speaker 2: All that, Yeah, just being like all right, God, well

2416
02:07:44,000 --> 02:07:46,320
Speaker 2: life is good and life is fun. Thank you.

2417
02:07:46,600 --> 02:07:50,839
Speaker 1: We were very close to having just a extremely surface

2418
02:07:51,000 --> 02:07:54,160
Speaker 1: level picture, yeah, of who you are and what has

2419
02:07:54,200 --> 02:07:55,480
Speaker 1: happened to you in your life?

2420
02:07:56,040 --> 02:08:03,240
Speaker 2: Mom, a drug lord dead coming in Yeah, after having God, damn,

2421
02:08:03,760 --> 02:08:04,480
Speaker 2: so I mean, this.

2422
02:08:04,880 --> 02:08:08,640
Speaker 9: Is a crazy not a story that most people know

2423
02:08:09,000 --> 02:08:09,360
Speaker 9: at all.

2424
02:08:09,880 --> 02:08:14,080
Speaker 1: Really, you don't tell people everything you know, you don't

2425
02:08:14,120 --> 02:08:15,920
Speaker 1: you not a lot of people in your personal life

2426
02:08:16,000 --> 02:08:16,560
Speaker 1: know this aboute.

2427
02:08:21,440 --> 02:08:26,360
Speaker 9: My ex wife, uh, and maybe two or three other people.

2428
02:08:27,320 --> 02:08:32,120
Speaker 2: Would you say that this experience or this series of

2429
02:08:32,200 --> 02:08:43,160
Speaker 2: experiences has shaped your positivity your positive outlook on life. Yes,

2430
02:08:43,880 --> 02:08:46,640
Speaker 2: I think it has or has it made it more

2431
02:08:46,720 --> 02:08:48,320
Speaker 2: difficult easy to stay positive?

2432
02:08:48,520 --> 02:08:50,440
Speaker 9: I'm not I'm not trying to like put on a

2433
02:08:50,560 --> 02:08:54,120
Speaker 9: show or anything. But again, like I said earlier, you

2434
02:08:54,240 --> 02:08:58,400
Speaker 9: can always find negative things to complain about. And really,

2435
02:08:58,520 --> 02:09:02,200
Speaker 9: you if you can try to be positive, you're going

2436
02:09:02,280 --> 02:09:05,960
Speaker 9: to see more positive things around you rather than like

2437
02:09:06,080 --> 02:09:08,240
Speaker 9: when you're in that negative headspace, all you're going to

2438
02:09:08,320 --> 02:09:09,840
Speaker 9: see is that negative things around you.

2439
02:09:11,960 --> 02:09:16,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it's true, man, It's true. I've always said

2440
02:09:16,000 --> 02:09:18,040
Speaker 2: that or thought it at least is that.

2441
02:09:18,160 --> 02:09:18,480
Speaker 10: It's like.

2442
02:09:20,160 --> 02:09:26,840
Speaker 2: It it's an effort, like it is work to find joy.

2443
02:09:27,120 --> 02:09:30,280
Speaker 2: For sure, it's work. But you really do have to

2444
02:09:30,400 --> 02:09:33,240
Speaker 2: do it if you want to have you know, I mean,

2445
02:09:33,240 --> 02:09:35,320
Speaker 2: if you want to go through this life with anything

2446
02:09:35,480 --> 02:09:39,280
Speaker 2: but you know, weird ass misery, you really have to

2447
02:09:39,480 --> 02:09:43,360
Speaker 2: work towards the positive. It's it's it's a job, it's

2448
02:09:43,400 --> 02:09:43,680
Speaker 2: a job.

2449
02:09:43,880 --> 02:09:46,840
Speaker 1: Weird ass misery sounds like exact, It sounds like a

2450
02:09:46,880 --> 02:09:47,480
Speaker 1: feeling that a.

2451
02:09:47,520 --> 02:09:52,320
Speaker 2: Lot of people are still try. It's that gray, that

2452
02:09:52,520 --> 02:09:55,920
Speaker 2: unknown sadness that is just there.

2453
02:09:56,440 --> 02:09:59,440
Speaker 1: That's if you that's what melancholy, if you have to

2454
02:09:59,480 --> 02:10:03,480
Speaker 1: define the word weird ass misery.

2455
02:10:03,320 --> 02:10:08,360
Speaker 2: Weird ass misery. So, Kyle, do you do you still talk?

2456
02:10:08,840 --> 02:10:09,520
Speaker 9: It's crazy.

2457
02:10:09,840 --> 02:10:12,320
Speaker 1: I feel like I forgive you if you said this already.

2458
02:10:12,520 --> 02:10:14,560
Speaker 1: We've sort of gone already on a lot of different

2459
02:10:14,720 --> 02:10:16,280
Speaker 1: roots here. But you still talk to your mom and

2460
02:10:16,280 --> 02:10:16,640
Speaker 1: your dad?

2461
02:10:19,520 --> 02:10:19,640
Speaker 10: Uh?

2462
02:10:19,840 --> 02:10:22,120
Speaker 9: Yeah, I do still talk to my mom obviously. I

2463
02:10:22,200 --> 02:10:25,000
Speaker 9: mean I lived with my mom for ninety nine percent

2464
02:10:25,200 --> 02:10:27,520
Speaker 9: of my experience kind of growing up as a kid.

2465
02:10:28,680 --> 02:10:31,240
Speaker 9: My dad kind of came in later half in life.

2466
02:10:31,480 --> 02:10:34,120
Speaker 9: And then once I got to sit alone in a

2467
02:10:34,280 --> 02:10:37,120
Speaker 9: room and think about, like what really happened in life,

2468
02:10:37,440 --> 02:10:41,960
Speaker 9: I realized that my mom kind of brainwashed me to

2469
02:10:42,080 --> 02:10:44,240
Speaker 9: view my dad as a negative way. But I've never

2470
02:10:44,280 --> 02:10:47,960
Speaker 9: really got to view my dad in my own way.

2471
02:10:48,280 --> 02:10:51,680
Speaker 9: And so once I really sat aside, especially as I

2472
02:10:51,760 --> 02:10:55,680
Speaker 9: grew older, I started to realize, like, nah, he was

2473
02:10:55,800 --> 02:10:58,720
Speaker 9: just doing his own thing. Things happened in life and

2474
02:10:59,040 --> 02:11:02,840
Speaker 9: he chose a different path that wasn't with my mom.

2475
02:11:03,000 --> 02:11:06,560
Speaker 9: And that's okay, even though it heard it's okay.

2476
02:11:08,080 --> 02:11:09,320
Speaker 2: That's a very wise thing.

2477
02:11:09,800 --> 02:11:12,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, when you're young, I mean you're especially if you're

2478
02:11:12,400 --> 02:11:15,080
Speaker 1: young and your parents like going through a thing, your

2479
02:11:15,160 --> 02:11:17,560
Speaker 1: mom or your dad, your your your mom is gonna

2480
02:11:17,600 --> 02:11:22,320
Speaker 1: have a pretty uh big influence over how you view

2481
02:11:22,360 --> 02:11:24,280
Speaker 1: your dad because she's telling you a bunch of shit

2482
02:11:24,360 --> 02:11:27,080
Speaker 1: about how you should be feeling about your dad. And

2483
02:11:27,200 --> 02:11:30,440
Speaker 1: you're young and you're impressionable of course your mom, and

2484
02:11:30,520 --> 02:11:32,440
Speaker 1: of course you're gonna believe whatever she says. And then

2485
02:11:32,800 --> 02:11:35,880
Speaker 1: I can kind of see the feeling of like getting

2486
02:11:35,880 --> 02:11:37,920
Speaker 1: a little bit older and going, oh shit, I actually

2487
02:11:38,560 --> 02:11:41,400
Speaker 1: now that I'm a little bit more of an adult,

2488
02:11:41,480 --> 02:11:44,480
Speaker 1: I can go and sort of gather this information independently.

2489
02:11:45,080 --> 02:11:49,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, for my opinion, independently, totally. Yeah, that's It's like

2490
02:11:49,680 --> 02:11:52,160
Speaker 2: I hear this from people for sure all the time.

2491
02:11:52,400 --> 02:11:55,440
Speaker 2: It's like as you grow older, you realize you just

2492
02:11:55,520 --> 02:11:58,960
Speaker 2: come to the realization that your parents, just like you,

2493
02:11:59,720 --> 02:12:04,720
Speaker 2: are flawed, broken people. Oh yeah, like that's just it.

2494
02:12:05,600 --> 02:12:08,960
Speaker 2: We all are. We are all flawed, broken people. But

2495
02:12:09,080 --> 02:12:12,240
Speaker 2: we have this thing where as children, we expect parents

2496
02:12:12,320 --> 02:12:17,600
Speaker 2: to be this beacon of maturity and wisdom, and you know,

2497
02:12:17,720 --> 02:12:20,800
Speaker 2: and it's just not the case. We're all large children

2498
02:12:21,440 --> 02:12:24,160
Speaker 2: and and we have to love each other despite that

2499
02:12:24,440 --> 02:12:29,880
Speaker 2: and because of it. I don't know, some bullshit like that.

2500
02:12:30,080 --> 02:12:34,240
Speaker 9: It's easier said than done. But if we can try, then.

2501
02:12:34,440 --> 02:12:35,280
Speaker 8: That's what matters.

2502
02:12:37,280 --> 02:12:38,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got a good head on your shoulders.

2503
02:12:38,840 --> 02:12:42,240
Speaker 1: Cal Yeah, Kyle, you really, Uh, this has really been

2504
02:12:42,280 --> 02:12:44,680
Speaker 1: a great one to top it off with. Sure has

2505
02:12:45,080 --> 02:12:47,800
Speaker 1: I feel like, wait, like there was like layers and layers.

2506
02:12:48,120 --> 02:12:48,960
Speaker 1: There's a lot of layers.

2507
02:12:49,080 --> 02:12:52,000
Speaker 2: It's true. It sort of encompasses all of the things

2508
02:12:52,160 --> 02:12:54,040
Speaker 2: we've been talking. Yeah, it really does. It really does,

2509
02:12:54,200 --> 02:12:59,040
Speaker 2: you know. Yeah, things to come to terms with, you know,

2510
02:12:59,280 --> 02:13:04,120
Speaker 2: broken sort of family lives that then are healed in

2511
02:13:04,400 --> 02:13:10,320
Speaker 2: their brokenness. Understanding that humans are humans, taking action, finding

2512
02:13:10,400 --> 02:13:12,760
Speaker 2: things out for yourself, all of that shit. Yep, you've

2513
02:13:12,800 --> 02:13:15,800
Speaker 2: done all of that. Kyle. You're good, dude, You're good, dude.

2514
02:13:15,880 --> 02:13:17,560
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I'm so happy that you've been able to

2515
02:13:17,600 --> 02:13:18,160
Speaker 2: find peace.

2516
02:13:18,360 --> 02:13:18,600
Speaker 4: Kyle.

2517
02:13:18,680 --> 02:13:19,760
Speaker 9: I appreciate you guys.

2518
02:13:20,280 --> 02:13:22,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, I'm inspired by the peace you've been able

2519
02:13:22,800 --> 02:13:24,840
Speaker 1: to find. I hope that the other kind for any

2520
02:13:24,880 --> 02:13:26,680
Speaker 1: other call or any of the of the people who've

2521
02:13:26,720 --> 02:13:29,880
Speaker 1: called in who are like dealing with some shit where

2522
02:13:29,880 --> 02:13:31,560
Speaker 1: maybe we didn't even have an answer for them or

2523
02:13:31,560 --> 02:13:33,480
Speaker 1: anything like. I guess, I guess we can look at

2524
02:13:33,520 --> 02:13:37,320
Speaker 1: Kyle as like, look, whatever fucking crazy thing has happened

2525
02:13:37,320 --> 02:13:39,640
Speaker 1: to you, there's peace.

2526
02:13:39,520 --> 02:13:42,920
Speaker 2: To be found. Find a smile in there somewhere. Find

2527
02:13:42,960 --> 02:13:43,960
Speaker 2: a little smile in there.

2528
02:13:44,200 --> 02:13:45,480
Speaker 1: Kyle, is there anything you want to say to the

2529
02:13:45,520 --> 02:13:47,320
Speaker 1: people of the computer, to me, or to Mark, or

2530
02:13:47,400 --> 02:13:49,440
Speaker 1: to the or to God before we go?

2531
02:13:50,680 --> 02:13:51,280
Speaker 2: He's listening.

2532
02:13:52,240 --> 02:13:54,120
Speaker 9: I just want to say thanks, guys. I just want

2533
02:13:54,160 --> 02:13:57,000
Speaker 9: to say thanks for taking my call and listening to

2534
02:13:57,240 --> 02:14:02,360
Speaker 9: my brief but very surface level abbreviation of my story

2535
02:14:02,480 --> 02:14:06,200
Speaker 9: that's called life. We all have a life that's just

2536
02:14:06,280 --> 02:14:09,360
Speaker 9: as vivid as my own. So I know I'm not

2537
02:14:09,480 --> 02:14:12,440
Speaker 9: alone and neither you carry on, guys, you can make it.

2538
02:14:14,400 --> 02:14:15,840
Speaker 2: Couldn't have possibly said it better.

2539
02:14:16,080 --> 02:14:19,400
Speaker 1: Kyle Goodness, You're a hero. Take care man.

2540
02:14:20,760 --> 02:14:25,200
Speaker 2: Thank you, Kyle Goodness, Everybody give it give it up.

2541
02:14:26,920 --> 02:14:27,040
Speaker 3: Man.

2542
02:14:27,120 --> 02:14:28,040
Speaker 2: What a great.

2543
02:14:29,320 --> 02:14:33,320
Speaker 1: And it started off innocuous, yeah, and then we dug

2544
02:14:33,360 --> 02:14:34,080
Speaker 1: a little bit deep.

2545
02:14:34,600 --> 02:14:36,560
Speaker 2: That's how it is with everybody, though, isn't it. It's

2546
02:14:36,640 --> 02:14:38,440
Speaker 2: like you're like, hey, how are you? Man, I'm great,

2547
02:14:38,440 --> 02:14:41,120
Speaker 2: I'm good. And then but everyone has that. Yeah.

2548
02:14:41,200 --> 02:14:42,960
Speaker 1: I think about that all the time when I'm like

2549
02:14:43,080 --> 02:14:45,680
Speaker 1: looking at someone, I'm like, what is what is your

2550
02:14:46,080 --> 02:14:46,720
Speaker 1: what is your ship?

2551
02:14:47,160 --> 02:14:49,680
Speaker 2: Everyone has it? Everyone's got it, everyone's got it.

2552
02:14:49,800 --> 02:14:52,800
Speaker 1: But sometimes like I don't know, Like I like, I'll like,

2553
02:14:52,880 --> 02:14:55,000
Speaker 1: I'm like ordering ice cream from the ice cream guy,

2554
02:14:55,040 --> 02:14:55,360
Speaker 1: and I'm like.

2555
02:14:55,480 --> 02:14:56,080
Speaker 10: What is this?

2556
02:14:56,760 --> 02:14:57,920
Speaker 2: Tell me more about it?

2557
02:14:58,080 --> 02:15:02,480
Speaker 1: Maybe that's like part of what strong this is? Your

2558
02:15:02,560 --> 02:15:04,320
Speaker 1: car is to figure that out from me?

2559
02:15:04,480 --> 02:15:06,800
Speaker 2: Man, I think think about all the time. That's you.

2560
02:15:07,120 --> 02:15:10,160
Speaker 2: There's a word for this. I think, what's the word.

2561
02:15:10,200 --> 02:15:12,879
Speaker 2: There's a word. It's have you ever seen this? Empathy?

2562
02:15:12,960 --> 02:15:13,840
Speaker 2: I believe is the word?

2563
02:15:14,320 --> 02:15:19,200
Speaker 1: Okay, I know there's this word where it's like the

2564
02:15:19,360 --> 02:15:21,440
Speaker 1: realization that every single person is living.

2565
02:15:22,720 --> 02:15:25,480
Speaker 2: Is that the word? Sounder right? It's like the it's yeah,

2566
02:15:25,520 --> 02:15:30,000
Speaker 2: it's like the realization that of everything, of the inherent

2567
02:15:30,160 --> 02:15:33,840
Speaker 2: beauty and complexity of life and everything. Yeah, sonder. Yeah,

2568
02:15:34,400 --> 02:15:37,280
Speaker 2: that was a very reddit thing, very reddit word. I

2569
02:15:37,400 --> 02:15:39,240
Speaker 2: feel like there's a subreddit for it, even.

2570
02:15:39,280 --> 02:15:40,120
Speaker 1: Our slash sonder.

2571
02:15:40,240 --> 02:15:42,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so you. Okay, So when you were

2572
02:15:42,600 --> 02:15:45,200
Speaker 2: going like, uh, popping off on Reddit and ship, what

2573
02:15:45,360 --> 02:15:47,680
Speaker 2: was what was the sub that showed you the most

2574
02:15:47,720 --> 02:15:51,120
Speaker 2: love videos? Slash videos? Yeah, they would always post me

2575
02:15:51,240 --> 02:15:53,680
Speaker 2: in and uh. I think a lot of people got

2576
02:15:53,760 --> 02:15:55,960
Speaker 2: sick of it though too. They were like, who's what

2577
02:15:56,320 --> 02:15:58,840
Speaker 2: Shill is posting this guy again? But it was just

2578
02:15:59,000 --> 02:16:01,840
Speaker 2: random people that were posting me show me a little

2579
02:16:01,880 --> 02:16:04,960
Speaker 2: bit of love. And I appreciate all of you did

2580
02:16:05,040 --> 02:16:08,320
Speaker 2: that it. Now I'm sitting here with therapy, get go

2581
02:16:08,480 --> 02:16:12,400
Speaker 2: and tour in the world, and life is good, and

2582
02:16:12,600 --> 02:16:15,160
Speaker 2: I think the Internet. I have the Internet to thank

2583
02:16:15,280 --> 02:16:18,200
Speaker 2: pretty much exclusively for that. That's true.

2584
02:16:18,480 --> 02:16:22,280
Speaker 1: Is there anything that you wanna either plug or say

2585
02:16:22,680 --> 02:16:25,280
Speaker 1: or to the people of the universe before we get

2586
02:16:25,320 --> 02:16:25,640
Speaker 1: out of here.

2587
02:16:25,800 --> 02:16:27,360
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know if I really want to plug.

2588
02:16:27,440 --> 02:16:29,600
Speaker 2: I already plugged some shit and I don't really like

2589
02:16:29,720 --> 02:16:34,000
Speaker 2: advertising stuff. So you can plug, thoughts, you can plug.

2590
02:16:36,560 --> 02:16:38,280
Speaker 2: I don't know if I could say really any better

2591
02:16:38,360 --> 02:16:41,320
Speaker 2: than Kyle Goodness said it. And and it's really just

2592
02:16:42,920 --> 02:16:50,080
Speaker 2: you must, above all try and find love and joy

2593
02:16:50,640 --> 02:16:53,480
Speaker 2: in your life, and and and and try and do that.

2594
02:16:53,800 --> 02:16:57,560
Speaker 2: By giving it to the people around you, giving it

2595
02:16:57,640 --> 02:17:02,600
Speaker 2: to yourself, and and and and try and do you

2596
02:17:02,720 --> 02:17:08,440
Speaker 2: know that's the exercise. It's not money or success, it's

2597
02:17:08,800 --> 02:17:15,400
Speaker 2: finding little pieces of joy. That is the thing. We

2598
02:17:15,560 --> 02:17:20,600
Speaker 2: will all die very soon, so just get that good

2599
02:17:21,680 --> 02:17:25,640
Speaker 2: stuff inside of this part of your body and then

2600
02:17:25,760 --> 02:17:28,640
Speaker 2: we're then you'll die, and you'll have more of that

2601
02:17:29,160 --> 02:17:33,480
Speaker 2: than the tragic ship and that it's the balance that's

2602
02:17:33,920 --> 02:17:37,680
Speaker 2: more towards that than the other stuff that's gonna make you.

2603
02:17:38,120 --> 02:17:41,080
Speaker 2: There's a very long winded way of just try and

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02:17:41,160 --> 02:17:42,119
Speaker 2: find happy moments.

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02:17:44,040 --> 02:17:45,879
Speaker 1: It's a very relevant thing what you're talking about, because

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02:17:45,920 --> 02:17:48,840
Speaker 1: we're always always trying to find happiness, and it's.

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02:17:48,720 --> 02:17:49,280
Speaker 2: A hard thing.

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02:17:49,360 --> 02:17:52,039
Speaker 1: Tomorrow or we're trying to find it yesterday, we're trying

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02:17:52,080 --> 02:17:53,320
Speaker 1: to find it once well we.

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02:17:53,400 --> 02:17:57,120
Speaker 2: Regret that we didn't want or maybe we should find her?

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02:17:57,440 --> 02:17:59,600
Speaker 2: How do I find it over there? Why didn't I

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02:17:59,640 --> 02:18:02,520
Speaker 2: find it back there? None of that bullshit matters. The

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02:18:03,240 --> 02:18:08,520
Speaker 2: future literally doesn't exist. It really hasn't it already happened.

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02:18:09,080 --> 02:18:12,480
Speaker 2: The only thing that actually exists is you and I

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02:18:13,160 --> 02:18:16,520
Speaker 2: sitting here right now and all of you right there

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02:18:17,120 --> 02:18:20,760
Speaker 2: watching this happen. So take a big, deep breath and

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02:18:20,959 --> 02:18:23,880
Speaker 2: find a little bit of joy just right now. Just

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02:18:23,959 --> 02:18:39,200
Speaker 2: a nice just a that's nice. It's nice. Mark revier Le,

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Speaker 2: what a goddamn pleasure, What a goddamn pleasure it has. Indeed,

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Speaker 2: thanks for coming, man, thanks for having me. Goes on

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02:18:48,879 --> 02:18:53,080
Speaker 2: the line, taking your phone calls every night. Goes to

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02:18:53,360 --> 02:18:56,840
Speaker 2: his eye. Who's teaching you Cloud in the life. He's

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Speaker 2: not read an expert.