WEBVTT - Barbara Corcoran

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to another episode of Big Money Energy, where

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<v Speaker 1>we talk to super successful and self made people to

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<v Speaker 1>find out exactly how they did it, how they went

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<v Speaker 1>from nothing to something. I'm Ryan sit Heerhant and today

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<v Speaker 1>I'm joined by one of the stars of a d C. S.

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<v Speaker 1>Shark t, a best selling author and extremely successful businesswoman,

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara Corkran. We discuss how growing up in a family

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<v Speaker 1>but ten kids teaches you how to survive in a

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<v Speaker 1>competitive business like real estate, why New York real estate

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<v Speaker 1>will stay strong even in a down economy, and the

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<v Speaker 1>golden ticket to building a successful company. Let's get into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to another episode. Nice to be here. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much for coming in. You were, um, the first

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<v Speaker 1>Corkoran quote unquote agent. Well, also the first Corkoran to

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<v Speaker 1>come into our new office here. I have a thousand

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<v Speaker 1>questions I want to ask you, and most of the

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<v Speaker 1>people who work with me, especially a lot of the

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<v Speaker 1>women who work with me, when they found out that

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<v Speaker 1>you were coming in here on my phone. I've turned

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<v Speaker 1>it off now so there's no issues. I could ask

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<v Speaker 1>you questions for ten hours because they have so many.

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<v Speaker 1>One of our agents, actually Rachel and San Francisco nearly

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<v Speaker 1>jumped on a plane just so she could be here

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<v Speaker 1>to meet you. I think you spoke at Barklay's a

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<v Speaker 1>while ago when she was working on the trading floor there,

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<v Speaker 1>and you changed her life. And I hear that from

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people, which is really really incredible. So

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<v Speaker 1>good on you for doing that. Before I get into

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of the real estate questions that I have

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<v Speaker 1>UM and obviously shark tank questions and and everything that

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<v Speaker 1>I think goes through my mind about you, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to go back for a second because I have three

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<v Speaker 1>sisters and two brothers. UM. I was born in Houston, Texas,

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<v Speaker 1>grew up there, bounced around Long Island outside Boston Way

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<v Speaker 1>before I ever came to New York, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>basically the middle child at older city blings UM. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I had my little baby brother, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>had that kind of like I guess middle child syndrome,

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<v Speaker 1>even though I didn't think I did when I was

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<v Speaker 1>growing up. But you're one of ten curious what's a

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<v Speaker 1>middle child syndrome. Middle child syndrome is like, is the

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<v Speaker 1>kid in the middle who doesn't get all the attention

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<v Speaker 1>because they were the first born and they're not treated

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<v Speaker 1>like a baby because they're the last born. They're the

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<v Speaker 1>one in the middle who like, okay did you eat,

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<v Speaker 1>you ate? Okay, great, you're gonna live. Or you went

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<v Speaker 1>to school, okay, great, you're gonna live. And so you

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<v Speaker 1>have to figure out things on your own. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>real I read about it once, I would think it

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<v Speaker 1>would be the best position. I was a middle child.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew it. See, I knew it. You get to

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<v Speaker 1>be yourself, no expectations on the top or the bottom.

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<v Speaker 1>It's terrific. Spot, dude, where you pushed a lot as

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<v Speaker 1>the middle child, or their heavy expectations on you. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember any of that from your brothers and sisters?

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<v Speaker 1>Not at all. The way I saw it, I had

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<v Speaker 1>an older sister on one side of me who protected

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<v Speaker 1>me off from the top, and I had a younger

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<v Speaker 1>brother on the other side of me, and he protected

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<v Speaker 1>me from anything that was going to come from the bottom.

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<v Speaker 1>I would never switch my my seat. But what's great

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<v Speaker 1>about growing up with ten kids, which is an advantage

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<v Speaker 1>to every child, I think, is you only have two

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<v Speaker 1>parents to go around. You have ten kids who want attention,

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<v Speaker 1>so you learn how to compete. Yes, and if I

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<v Speaker 1>were to say one thing that prepared me for the

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<v Speaker 1>real estate career that I enjoyed it was the ability

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<v Speaker 1>to compete, and I learned it at home. And how

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<v Speaker 1>did I compete. I became the most creative child, so

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<v Speaker 1>I could put on every game on the streets that

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<v Speaker 1>happen in our neighborhood, and I was in charge. I

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<v Speaker 1>could open up rock stores and sell rocks. I could

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<v Speaker 1>put on Broadway shows in the basement on rainy day.

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<v Speaker 1>I could get my parents attention, and that was a

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<v Speaker 1>huge advantage going into this crazy, wacky competitive business that

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<v Speaker 1>we're both in. Don't you think that's a big part

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<v Speaker 1>of being the middle child, because you're not guaranteed attention.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's a big deal. And for us in

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<v Speaker 1>the real estate business, in the sales business, and the

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<v Speaker 1>television business, all day long, I'm trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>how to get more attention from our clients. Are developers,

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<v Speaker 1>are agents. The people were pitching, And as you say

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<v Speaker 1>that about putting on shows and figuring out things to do,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm reminded of all the times I got my little

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<v Speaker 1>brother to do things with me, to perform in front

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<v Speaker 1>of my parents, like magic shows, you know, we'd make

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<v Speaker 1>little movies, and my little brother I had forced him

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<v Speaker 1>to do it so that there always could be attention

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<v Speaker 1>because I didn't. I didn't have the throwing arm. My

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<v Speaker 1>older brother had the throwing arm. He was the quarterback.

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<v Speaker 1>My little brother had the throwing arm, he was the pitcher.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I was just in the middle left. And

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<v Speaker 1>you're nicer than I because you shared the limelight with

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<v Speaker 1>your brother at least. I was never that way. If

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<v Speaker 1>any of my sibling student anything for me, like my

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<v Speaker 1>sister marriaging made my bed every day. My students did

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<v Speaker 1>my dish night. I never shared the credit. He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what do I do to get them to do the

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<v Speaker 1>dishes for me? How my dish night? And all you

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<v Speaker 1>had to do is compliment them when they were doing

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<v Speaker 1>the dishes the night before. How do you do those

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<v Speaker 1>dishes so well? So you were nicer sibling than I.

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<v Speaker 1>You shared the credit, not for me. I was at

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<v Speaker 1>to get the attention. Yeah, that's short and simple. So

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<v Speaker 1>that competitive nature you you think you graduate college and

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<v Speaker 1>you get into real estate. But one question I have

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't know what the answer is, That's why

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<v Speaker 1>I'm asking it is a lot of us I think

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<v Speaker 1>who got into the real estate business. It wasn't our

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<v Speaker 1>first choice. It was kind of okay, I could try this,

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<v Speaker 1>let's see what happens, or do something else. Where would

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<v Speaker 1>you be today had you not said, okay, I'll get

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<v Speaker 1>into real estate. Who knows, Maybe I'd be a waitress

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<v Speaker 1>still at before league dinner where I really Is that

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<v Speaker 1>a real answer? Nobody? You never know. But I imagine

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<v Speaker 1>I would own a chain of dinners today because I

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<v Speaker 1>always thought I was smarter than my boss, that I

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<v Speaker 1>could run the dinner a little bit better if only

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<v Speaker 1>given the chance. But where would I be? I think

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<v Speaker 1>I would have been in some kind of a career,

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<v Speaker 1>making publicity and using my mouth to make a living,

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<v Speaker 1>and probably advertising, public relations, maybe even politics, anything that

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<v Speaker 1>I could swede people with my ability to sell, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know as well as I do. If you can

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<v Speaker 1>sell well, can pretty much enter any field and do well,

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<v Speaker 1>because there's always a need for salesman in every spot.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when I say salesman, it sounds like it's

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<v Speaker 1>not so important, but it's essential to every business. You

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<v Speaker 1>can't sell a product of service, you don't have a business.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think I would have just been leading something

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<v Speaker 1>using my mouth to lead. And you've always been a

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<v Speaker 1>good talker. I was a good talker outside of school,

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<v Speaker 1>but in school I didn't say a word because I

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<v Speaker 1>never had the answer. So it depended on the forum.

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<v Speaker 1>But in my twenty two jobs I had before a

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<v Speaker 1>star real estate, my gift in each of those jobs

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<v Speaker 1>was I could talk. I could talk, yeah for sure. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And why did you stick it out? I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't imagine your position in the nineteen seventies getting into

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<v Speaker 1>the real estate business, which I was not around. Then

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<v Speaker 1>you missed a great time. How did you muscle through that?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I think people listening to this now they think

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<v Speaker 1>things are tough now, but they don't know what it

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<v Speaker 1>was like for you building your career and your entire business.

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<v Speaker 1>What got you out of bed every day when you

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<v Speaker 1>had a bad day or you lost agents, lost deals.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I ever had the thought for a

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<v Speaker 1>moment that I might fail. And the reason for it

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<v Speaker 1>was I was so busy building that I had no

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<v Speaker 1>time to give anything any thought. And much like a

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<v Speaker 1>teenager that gets in trouble if the hands aren't busy,

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<v Speaker 1>my mind was so occupied with building that business every

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<v Speaker 1>day that I never had the thought that it could fail.

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<v Speaker 1>There was one juncture where I actually, I guess I'd

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<v Speaker 1>have to admit that I warmed up to the thought

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<v Speaker 1>of going out of business. And I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>year it was, but nothing was going on. Two thirds

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<v Speaker 1>of the competitors in New York City were down. I

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<v Speaker 1>had no cash, I had no receivables, I had whining salespeople,

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<v Speaker 1>and I actually thought of actually announcing the business was closing.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried everything, but funny enough about adversity right popped

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<v Speaker 1>into my head the one day, one price sale, and

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<v Speaker 1>I made a million dollars one week later in two hours,

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<v Speaker 1>selling eighty eight unwanted apartments at the same price to

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<v Speaker 1>a line of people that didn't know they wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>buy until they were going fast and boom. I opened

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<v Speaker 1>another office that same week, as my competitors continue to

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<v Speaker 1>go out of business. That was probably the only eleventh

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<v Speaker 1>hour do rest I had, but thank god I did,

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<v Speaker 1>because you never know what you're made of until the

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<v Speaker 1>chips are against the wall. That's where you find your

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<v Speaker 1>greatest courage, or you find your greatest graciousness to admit

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<v Speaker 1>defeat one or the other. But you only have a

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<v Speaker 1>black or a white way to go, And unfortunately, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought of a creative idea, as I always thought somehow

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<v Speaker 1>to save the day, so to speak. I created a

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<v Speaker 1>market that everybody said was not there. And I must

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, I was half surprised by myself. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it could work. It can't work, but let's get a shot,

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<v Speaker 1>throw it against the wall and see what happens. But

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<v Speaker 1>that morning, when I went around to a makeshift temporary

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<v Speaker 1>office on eighty three Street and First Avenue and saw

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<v Speaker 1>two hundred some odd people eating in line for apartments

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<v Speaker 1>that nobody wanted the day before, my holy ship look

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<v Speaker 1>at this, and uh, of course I was smart enough

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<v Speaker 1>to have pre signed contracts and giants stacks that people

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<v Speaker 1>walked in and say they're going fast. Nobody asked who

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<v Speaker 1>signed those contracts? Are the real contracts? But there's something

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<v Speaker 1>very alluring in the real sales concept in markets and

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<v Speaker 1>markets that everybody wants what everybody wants, and nobody wants

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<v Speaker 1>what nobody wants. So we took the nobody's and made

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<v Speaker 1>them somebody, and everybody wanted them that morning. How did

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<v Speaker 1>you convince the developer to do that sale? And to

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<v Speaker 1>do that at those price points. I mean, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>but all the developers I have now right where post COVID,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot going on. There's and there's a mass

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<v Speaker 1>oversupply of new condo inventory. You could see a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of it from our window here in Tribeca. There's stalled

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<v Speaker 1>projects left and rights, and I wish I could go

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<v Speaker 1>to all of them and say, hey, here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna lower all prices to a million bucks a unit,

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<v Speaker 1>down from whatever their schedule A prices are, and let's

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<v Speaker 1>get it going. But they would have lender push back.

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<v Speaker 1>It would say it would be tough. How did you

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<v Speaker 1>do that? I'll tell you it's defeating you on it.

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<v Speaker 1>If I might say, is your own limitation of things,

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<v Speaker 1>it can't be done. There is a way. There's always

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<v Speaker 1>a way. Um. What you have to appreciate more than

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<v Speaker 1>anything in a terrible market is everyone's needy. And so

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<v Speaker 1>the same guys that wouldn't be opened something a year

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<v Speaker 1>before when things are rosy totally open. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>had those units owned by Equitable Insurance, very powerful company

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<v Speaker 1>in town at that point, financing the job along with

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<v Speaker 1>Bernie Mendick, who was the biggest developer that day. But

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<v Speaker 1>they had nothing to lose by trying something. They had

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<v Speaker 1>nothing in hand, and Bank him nothing in hand, and

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<v Speaker 1>Developer and nothing in hand. And so it was like, hey, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not lowering the prices. We're evening out the prices,

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<v Speaker 1>because it doesn't make sense that people could grabble one

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<v Speaker 1>bit and two bed in my studio at the same price,

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<v Speaker 1>and once the two bedrooms one bedrooms go, believe it

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<v Speaker 1>or not, if there's not enough to go around people

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<v Speaker 1>who want the studios. And that's exactly what happened. There

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<v Speaker 1>were level prices and you had to wait in line,

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<v Speaker 1>and there wasn't enough to go around, and so they

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<v Speaker 1>took a shot at it because what did they have

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<v Speaker 1>to lose. All I asked them to do was to

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<v Speaker 1>give me two years free maintenance because I needed a

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<v Speaker 1>sales incentive. And why did they give me two years

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<v Speaker 1>free maintenance Because they weren't going to sell those soccers

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<v Speaker 1>for two years anyway, and they knew it, And so

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<v Speaker 1>what was I really asking for. I was just taking

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<v Speaker 1>the cards and reshuffling the deck. And they gave me

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<v Speaker 1>a shot, and it worked, and it worked and they

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<v Speaker 1>got out of trouble. I made a million, little boy

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<v Speaker 1>a million. I made my million dollars plus and I

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<v Speaker 1>was able to stay in business. Thank god. You've got

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<v Speaker 1>to revisit your story here if you don't mind my saying.

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<v Speaker 1>You could addit this out as you want, but you've

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<v Speaker 1>got to read story. You had said on this one.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, look at everywhere I look, there's a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a problem you And I think if you were

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<v Speaker 1>to ask the brokerage community in New York City now,

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<v Speaker 1>they probably know us mostly for our out of the

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<v Speaker 1>box ideas and creative thinking. We were doing auctions in

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<v Speaker 1>the city by lowering prices to below cost numbers to

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<v Speaker 1>freeze out the marketplace so that Street Easy would be

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<v Speaker 1>completely useless, so that buyers wouldn't pay attention to other inventory.

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<v Speaker 1>They would just say, Okay, well, now I got to

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<v Speaker 1>see what's going to happen to sixty eight seven Street,

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<v Speaker 1>because somehow that just went from twelve to six. Something's

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<v Speaker 1>going on, let's see. We would then drive traffic that

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<v Speaker 1>way and put the price up, and then inventory to

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<v Speaker 1>started changing, and then it didn't seem as exciting anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>so we change it up over and over and over.

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<v Speaker 1>When did you open your second office because everyone's got

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<v Speaker 1>there first. But when did you open your second The

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<v Speaker 1>second office is the hardest office. I think I had

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<v Speaker 1>fourteen offices when I sold. The second office is the

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<v Speaker 1>hardest office. It was on the west side of one

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<v Speaker 1>block from Z Bars, and it was the hardest office

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<v Speaker 1>because I couldn't cut myself in half. I didn't realize

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<v Speaker 1>until my second office that I was a power in

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<v Speaker 1>the shop. I was a mother, I gave the love

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<v Speaker 1>of I drove the people, and I couldn't jump back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth between East Side and West Side. But it

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<v Speaker 1>was also my opportunity to learn the greatest lesson in

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<v Speaker 1>my life. That is, I didn't have to multiply myself.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to find someone with talent, and I hired

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara brian Uh sweetheart of a woman. On first glance,

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't think she was a powerhouse. She didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>my style, but she knew how to love people the

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<v Speaker 1>way I knew how to love, and she nurtured those

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<v Speaker 1>salespeople to become a force on the West Side within

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<v Speaker 1>two years Latin and after that, I had the golden

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<v Speaker 1>ticket to building a giant company. Find the talent and

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<v Speaker 1>then build an office around them. I never opened offices

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<v Speaker 1>and looked for talent. I'd stumble into anybody in any

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<v Speaker 1>walk of life and think, you know what, they would

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<v Speaker 1>be a great mom, It's the key to a successful

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<v Speaker 1>brokerage office, and they would be great at judging people.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I'd open an office around that talent. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's how I got in many marketplaces, simply because I

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<v Speaker 1>found the talent first and build the walls around them.

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<v Speaker 1>How many agents did you have at that time when

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<v Speaker 1>I opened that second office, Probably I don't really recall,

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<v Speaker 1>probably thirty thirty five maybe, And the goal was just

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<v Speaker 1>to physically be on the other side of town, because

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<v Speaker 1>you needed to have that convenient office location. Not really.

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<v Speaker 1>There was a common belief at that time which had

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<v Speaker 1>been true, but I could see it was no longer

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<v Speaker 1>true that people wanted east side, wanted east side and

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<v Speaker 1>people one west side. We have territories in town of

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<v Speaker 1>brokerage firms did one territory versus another, But I could

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<v Speaker 1>see those markets blending, and I wanted agents that knew

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<v Speaker 1>both markets and new one did, and so we crossed

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<v Speaker 1>fertilized across the park basically, and we were able to

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<v Speaker 1>take clients from the east to the west and show

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<v Speaker 1>the more stuff. And even if they thought they didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want Central Park West, when they came in for Park Avenue,

0:14:49.640 --> 0:14:51.800
<v Speaker 1>we seld them Central Park West because they'd get a

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<v Speaker 1>park few that they didn't get on Park. And so

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<v Speaker 1>we built bilingual I should lingual whatever that where it

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<v Speaker 1>is agents who could talk both languages for And then

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<v Speaker 1>we did the same thing down the village. People said

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<v Speaker 1>the village Martin was not a purchasing market. I saw

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<v Speaker 1>very differently. It was delicious down the village, and so

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<v Speaker 1>ho then Brooklyn early. I mean, it's just that people

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<v Speaker 1>the customer change and the brokerage firms were the last

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<v Speaker 1>ones to change their interpretation. And so we got ahead

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<v Speaker 1>of the other firms because we listened to the customer

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<v Speaker 1>and watch what their new habits were. And they were

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<v Speaker 1>shopping everywhere. Not immediately, but little by little they started

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<v Speaker 1>shopping everywhere. Today, you take the east side, west side, downtown,

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<v Speaker 1>uptown Brooklyn. You've got to be versed in everything, as

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<v Speaker 1>you well noticed, you so successfully do it. But in

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<v Speaker 1>those days, no one believed that would happen. Since preposterous,

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<v Speaker 1>but no one believed that would happen. It sounds so

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<v Speaker 1>crazy now thinking about how you even sold real estate,

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<v Speaker 1>then how would you generate leads? How would your business

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<v Speaker 1>generate leads? At the time, was it mostly referral personal

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<v Speaker 1>networking or people coming into the storefronts and going to

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<v Speaker 1>the file cabinet. Well, initially we had no storefront and

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<v Speaker 1>we were in whatever scrappy as we could possibly afford.

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<v Speaker 1>We generated leads through advertising for them, and I had

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<v Speaker 1>a simple ad. It sounds ridiculous because the New York

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<v Speaker 1>Times Classified was the only billboard in town. There was

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<v Speaker 1>no streets, no internet, nothing, and so the message was

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to New York. And we trained people on that

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<v Speaker 1>initial call how to be friendly. No one expected that

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<v Speaker 1>from the city. We had friendly agents. And then the

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<v Speaker 1>minute I could afford a corporate campaign, I relabeled my

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<v Speaker 1>brokers the Power Brokers, but we took full page as

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<v Speaker 1>out with them standing with their kids, the dogs, looking

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<v Speaker 1>just like the people you'd like to hang out with. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>in Middle America more than New York City tough guy,

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<v Speaker 1>and people broke into the image and they thought it

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<v Speaker 1>would be nice to work with and they were right.

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<v Speaker 1>We were great to work and we had nice people

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<v Speaker 1>and they weren't eating alive, which is what people thought

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<v Speaker 1>was going to happen when they worked as an agent.

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<v Speaker 1>So we encountered intuitive to what people expected, and my

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<v Speaker 1>agents were groomed to be those people that we put

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<v Speaker 1>out there, which initially was kind of bullshit, eventually became true,

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<v Speaker 1>right like ever reason does. It was the scariest part

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<v Speaker 1>about owning your own business because something I'm thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>when you said you didn't have time to fail reminds

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<v Speaker 1>me of obviously that book in the Financial Crisis and

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<v Speaker 1>Too Big to Fail. But I like that, and we

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<v Speaker 1>I think we operate in the same way. It's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>on the fifteen minute mark all day long, just go, go, go,

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<v Speaker 1>go go. The faster you go, the more you do that.

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<v Speaker 1>We just don't have time to fail. It's going to

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<v Speaker 1>work out, and our backs are up against walls, and

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<v Speaker 1>we figure out what those walls are every day. But

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<v Speaker 1>was it that day that you thought the business might

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<v Speaker 1>go under and you created that market or was there

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<v Speaker 1>there ever a general fear that the real estate market

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<v Speaker 1>might completely change and people not want to come to

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<v Speaker 1>New York And I'm thinking about that obviously in a

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<v Speaker 1>post COVID world. Now well, banish that thead because it's

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<v Speaker 1>just never gonna happen that people want to come to

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<v Speaker 1>New York. Of course, um, I know because I've lived

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<v Speaker 1>through probably four dramatic cycles in the years I was

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<v Speaker 1>building my firm. Uh And I can tell you that

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<v Speaker 1>everybody in the end comes to New York. It's one

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<v Speaker 1>of those towns because it's built on change. You think

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<v Speaker 1>about the essence of the heart of New York City

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<v Speaker 1>has change, that's the heart, and so you have to

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<v Speaker 1>expect change. So I watched many groups of people leaving

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<v Speaker 1>New York. Corporate America left New York. We've never had

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<v Speaker 1>corporations in New York ever. Again, everybody bought you into it. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Union Carbide went out, a few of the banks went out,

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<v Speaker 1>and two years later they're back in h The Japanese

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<v Speaker 1>are fueling on market, the highest prices in condo history. Left,

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<v Speaker 1>The Chinese came home, scooped it all up. Okay, then

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<v Speaker 1>they left, The Germans came in, and then the yuppies

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<v Speaker 1>came in, and then though whatever, you know, if there's

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<v Speaker 1>one thing you have to believe about New York, it's

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<v Speaker 1>always here. The heartbeat of the city has changed without it,

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<v Speaker 1>it wouldn't survive. It needs that flushing and flushing out

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. And your markets fly up and down

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<v Speaker 1>as a real stage and with it. But I saw

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<v Speaker 1>that as an opportunity to make money because if nobody

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<v Speaker 1>is changing, there's no deals. If it's a buyer's market,

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<v Speaker 1>seller's mark up and down, there's always deals. There's always

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<v Speaker 1>ability to make you six percent, which I know is

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<v Speaker 1>diminished a bit today, but there's always an ability to

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<v Speaker 1>make money. If you have changed, that's what you need

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<v Speaker 1>a broker, no changing or new brokers. How did you

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<v Speaker 1>leave your firm through those those recessions though you just

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<v Speaker 1>said you went through four big market changes. As somebody

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<v Speaker 1>who's leading a whole group with multiple offices and multiple

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<v Speaker 1>other moms and people that are calling you every day.

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<v Speaker 1>I know in the last time that we spoke, you

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned a good part of your day was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>nurturing your superstars. How did you keep the business excited?

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<v Speaker 1>How did you keep people motivated when everyone was talking

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<v Speaker 1>about how negative things are in the New York Times

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<v Speaker 1>every day is saying how bad things are. I stay

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<v Speaker 1>close to people to listen hard as to what they

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<v Speaker 1>were most frightened about, and then I addressed those fears

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<v Speaker 1>smacked between the eyes on regular sales meetings, no matter

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<v Speaker 1>what was going on, I brought my people together and

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<v Speaker 1>I told them the way I saw the future or

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<v Speaker 1>short term future, what the greatest fears were, and I

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<v Speaker 1>gave them my best advice to get over it. And

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<v Speaker 1>I spoke from my heart because I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>fool anyone or cheer lead anyone. I love this family.

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<v Speaker 1>These were my kids. I found them, I groomed them,

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<v Speaker 1>I supported them, and out of sheer love, I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>mislead them. And so they believed me. And that's cold inspiration,

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<v Speaker 1>but not because it's trumped up, but because it was heartfelt.

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<v Speaker 1>And so when nine eleven happened and the world thought

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<v Speaker 1>that the city was going to be over brokerage wise,

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<v Speaker 1>nobody was buying a thing, and most of downtown moved out.

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<v Speaker 1>We couldn't get into show apartments. I collicked everybody together

0:20:56.400 --> 0:21:02.399
<v Speaker 1>three days later at the Pierre Hotel and people were crying. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>People were so upset, and I told them they're about

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<v Speaker 1>to witness the biggest market they had ever seen, which

0:21:08.040 --> 0:21:12.080
<v Speaker 1>sound bizarre, but I believed it. I said everyone around

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<v Speaker 1>the world sees New York City and it's bravery and

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<v Speaker 1>its pain on their TV set every single night, and

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<v Speaker 1>everybody around the world's gonna fall in love with New York.

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<v Speaker 1>And so the deals you don't have now are going

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<v Speaker 1>to come back by storm in six months and you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have an entire international community wants the slice of

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<v Speaker 1>New York. And that's exactly what happened. And then we

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<v Speaker 1>all held hands in some godless America today at that moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I know it sounds hokey, it wasn't a show.

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<v Speaker 1>It was intended for that moment to make people feel

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<v Speaker 1>we were together. And people went out and believed they

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<v Speaker 1>were going to make a killing, and they did. Within

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<v Speaker 1>nine months after nine eleven, our sales I think increased

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<v Speaker 1>roughly over where they were before nine eleven because the

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<v Speaker 1>world came back by storm, and so to the city.

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<v Speaker 1>I think people are always smarter than you think they are,

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<v Speaker 1>but particularly with your family, you cannot lie or mislead.

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<v Speaker 1>You just have to really think what you really believe

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<v Speaker 1>and share it. And I was apt to protect my people.

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<v Speaker 1>They were they were everything to me. They were my family.

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<v Speaker 1>They had to be uh not missed with so speaking

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Yeah, the work life balance question comes up

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. And how did you run a massive

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<v Speaker 1>business that everyone knew all around the world and still

0:22:33.240 --> 0:22:36.080
<v Speaker 1>raise a baby at night and the weekends? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how did you? How did you do that? How do

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<v Speaker 1>you make that mental decision of where to put your time? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, I don't think this ever, even without

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<v Speaker 1>a baby. This, every anything is managing your time like

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<v Speaker 1>that balance You just such a chop yourself. So many

0:22:50.440 --> 0:22:52.000
<v Speaker 1>hours to this is so many hours for that. I

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<v Speaker 1>had a practical approach when Tommy was born. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>at work at seven thirty every day, which I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>wait to get to her. I'm surprised I didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>in before the doorman downstairs really on his shift. But

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<v Speaker 1>I started going to work at night thirty was I

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<v Speaker 1>was nursing Tommy and uh and I also wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with him for a while. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>was leaving the office at three o'clock to get the

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<v Speaker 1>larger end of an evening with my child. And so

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<v Speaker 1>how did I do it? I chopped my day, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a shorter work day. Now could I have built

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<v Speaker 1>the Corcoran Group as quickly as I did in those

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<v Speaker 1>years if I had had a baby, absolutely not, because

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<v Speaker 1>something else happens when you have children. You get sibling

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<v Speaker 1>rivalry that plays out in your heart, and that's a threat.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's the thing, I should be at home,

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<v Speaker 1>I should be at work. I should be at home,

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<v Speaker 1>I should be at work, and that can be exhausting.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I realized that sibling rival read played out

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<v Speaker 1>in my heart to my top ages who wanted me

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<v Speaker 1>now wanted something, and I wanted to be there on

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<v Speaker 1>and my kid who was crying. Uh. I even built

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<v Speaker 1>a huge office with a playpen with a nursery. I

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<v Speaker 1>got into all. I painted that as Sarian calm officers,

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<v Speaker 1>but I brought Tommy in one day. I realized you

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<v Speaker 1>can't be in both places. So I chopped up my

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<v Speaker 1>day as our manage that until I sold a business.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, I want to fast forward a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>in the time that we have left. Um. Uh, you sold,

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<v Speaker 1>and that was your idea immediately to enjoy the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of your life, all those crazy hours the agents. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>if if I were to sell a company for sixty

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<v Speaker 1>six million dollars today, I don't know. Maybe I go

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<v Speaker 1>to Greece My wife is from Greece, and she's always

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to have at one point go to Greece, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I feel like it would be hard for me,

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<v Speaker 1>for our marriage, for me to on that day if

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<v Speaker 1>I sold a company for a hundred million dollars to

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<v Speaker 1>tell my wife. Yeah, but but I gotta still do stop.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she might kill me. Well, I'll tell you

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<v Speaker 1>something else. It wouldn't work, as you will know, you

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<v Speaker 1>got to crease for a week or two. Big deal, Fine,

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<v Speaker 1>she'll be happy. What was your question? The question was

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<v Speaker 1>you sold the company? The world changed, obviously, but then

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<v Speaker 1>you kept at it. You kept working, right, You've you've

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<v Speaker 1>got onto Shark Tank. Years later, you're investing in all

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<v Speaker 1>these companies. When is enough enough for you? Or is

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<v Speaker 1>it not? Ask anybody on any street corner whether it

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<v Speaker 1>is such a thing as having too much fun? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and also no, I wanted more fun in life, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the lucky one that could constantly have fun. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't go into any work that I don't enjoy a

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<v Speaker 1>hundred and I don't dedicate myself to anything. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to do a hundred and fifty percent job at

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<v Speaker 1>And the reason for that is because I like to succeed.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's maybe a shade of insecurity, but I enjoy success,

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<v Speaker 1>and more importantly, I can't wait to get to what

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<v Speaker 1>other people would call work. I can't wait to see

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<v Speaker 1>what the day brings. And I'm too curious see what's

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<v Speaker 1>around the corner. Imagine life without corners. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't imagine. Yeah. So I don't even know if

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<v Speaker 1>I answered your question, but you have? You did? You did?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you love so much about being on Shark Tank?

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<v Speaker 1>And you're what, eleven years into it later? I can

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<v Speaker 1>take or leave it to some degree. What I love

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<v Speaker 1>about Shark Tank is the opportunity to meet the entrepreneurs

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<v Speaker 1>I meet on that show and to actually become part

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<v Speaker 1>of their life and help them build a business and

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<v Speaker 1>help them become who they're dreaming about being. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very capable of making those dreams come true. I

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<v Speaker 1>always feel like I'm on that show playing very good.

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<v Speaker 1>Another thing, You're going to be rich, bing, You're going

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<v Speaker 1>to be rich, And it's not just about rich, it's

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<v Speaker 1>about success. And the more injured the entrepreneur is, the

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<v Speaker 1>more insecure they are, the more apt I am to

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<v Speaker 1>fall in love because they have something to prove. And

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<v Speaker 1>I wrapped myself around those people like I wrapped my

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<v Speaker 1>neophytes at the corporate group and they became superstars. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just doing the same thing. I found another family, which

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<v Speaker 1>is good because I like a family. What's next, Boil

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, we're going to have a TV series on

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<v Speaker 1>my life. I'm pretty excited about how these these series

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<v Speaker 1>goes on enough seasons so that I die before it ends,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't even get to see the ending. Okay.

0:27:12.160 --> 0:27:15.760
<v Speaker 1>And that's a reality show docuseries series. Yeah, well it's

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<v Speaker 1>called what's the halfway between comedy and drama? Traumay, traumay, traumay.

0:27:21.320 --> 0:27:23.440
<v Speaker 1>I can't get that word, that kind of thing. Yeah, okay.

0:27:23.960 --> 0:27:27.280
<v Speaker 1>And of course I'm in love with my podcast. Business

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<v Speaker 1>unusual because it's another forum where I meet people who

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<v Speaker 1>dial into the eight barber number, which is constant, tell

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<v Speaker 1>me their business issues, where they're struggling, where they're stuck,

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<v Speaker 1>and I get to use the gift that I've realized

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<v Speaker 1>after all these years of business, I have best more

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<v Speaker 1>than my mouth. I give great advice. I know how

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<v Speaker 1>to get people from a to be and get them

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<v Speaker 1>on stuck and so I get to again have another

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<v Speaker 1>phenomenal form where I help people and boy, oh boy,

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<v Speaker 1>is it fun. And so my podcast is my sweet

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<v Speaker 1>spot right now. Business Not to be busy, No, not

0:28:07.880 --> 0:28:12.160
<v Speaker 1>because you are busy. I'm not so busy. Well, I'm

0:28:12.160 --> 0:28:15.399
<v Speaker 1>pretty busy. Well I could be busy here, like if

0:28:15.440 --> 0:28:17.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't sleep, but sure I'm eating sleep at night. Yeah,

0:28:17.760 --> 0:28:20.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty busy, I guess. But that that is that

0:28:21.280 --> 0:28:24.040
<v Speaker 1>taps into my great gift of being able to pinpoint

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<v Speaker 1>people's personality. What would apply to the individual? My last

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<v Speaker 1>question for you, because I know we want to wrap up,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would I would not be happy with myself

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<v Speaker 1>if I didn't ask this. You're starting a real estate

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<v Speaker 1>business in New York City now by yourself, the weight

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<v Speaker 1>on the world on your shoulders. What's the best advice

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<v Speaker 1>you give? One piece of advice you're talking about like

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<v Speaker 1>your circumstances with your so many agents to take it

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<v Speaker 1>from here there? Yeah, you know we we we're building

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<v Speaker 1>again from the ground up in a very very different

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<v Speaker 1>world than even when I started in the business in

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand eight. You know, my legion when I got

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<v Speaker 1>into it was men crashed and post ads on Craigslist

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<v Speaker 1>meet renters, hopefully you can turn them into buyers. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was Craigslist all day long. That was our thing.

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<v Speaker 1>There was no money for for ads, at least not

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<v Speaker 1>for me. And now we're starting a brand new real

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<v Speaker 1>estate company. We do a lot of other things. But

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<v Speaker 1>on the brokerage side, what would your what would your

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<v Speaker 1>advice be? Well for your specific circumstance, I would say

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<v Speaker 1>the very important street you must cross right now is

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<v Speaker 1>away from the dependence on you for sales. You're not

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<v Speaker 1>going to be able to build an empire unless you

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<v Speaker 1>walk to the other side of the street and learn

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<v Speaker 1>to sell through other people. It was hard for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I was a powerhouse salesman when my business was young,

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<v Speaker 1>when we had fourteen agents, only fourteen, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>producing eight percent of the company income. I was a

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<v Speaker 1>good salesman. I left it meet a faith and I

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<v Speaker 1>decided I was not going to sell. You can't do both,

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<v Speaker 1>and I started hiring people to self of me. And

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<v Speaker 1>without that decision, I could have never built a powerhouse.

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<v Speaker 1>Never your gift is marketing, your good looks and your

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<v Speaker 1>gift of gap. What you also have, which I think

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<v Speaker 1>is your greatest gift, is you know how to motivate. Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>and unless you make the time to work through other

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<v Speaker 1>people and do nothing but motivate the crap at them,

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<v Speaker 1>you won't be able to build what you envision for yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's a big call. How do you move out

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<v Speaker 1>of something you do so well that generates money. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you one thing. The minute I did, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>else made up for it because they have faith in

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<v Speaker 1>them and they did it. They came through from me.

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<v Speaker 1>Leap of faith. It's more than leap of faith. It's

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<v Speaker 1>breast set of balls. Got it. Leap of faith with

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<v Speaker 1>a brass set of balls jump across the street. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much, Barbara, thanks for coming on the pleasure.

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<v Speaker 1>Really nice signing with you. I'm sure you'll be successful.

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<v Speaker 1>You already on. If you're to take action today. Based

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<v Speaker 1>on Barbara Corkrand's entire blueprint for how she got to

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<v Speaker 1>where she is, go to Big Money Energy dot com

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<v Speaker 1>slash podcast to download an action plan that I put

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<v Speaker 1>together for you, as well as the show notes. That's

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