1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief love officer, 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. All right, ready, Steve Colo, here we go. Yes, 3 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: all right, mo, and Queen says, I'm single and dating 4 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 1: different women, and they all know that I'm not trying 5 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: to be in a relationship right now. They get false 6 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: hope after we have sex because they say I'm passionate 7 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 1: during love making. Is my great sex misleading all of 8 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 1: these women, all of mine. 9 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:33,840 Speaker 2: I'm not going to answer that question right and don't 10 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:34,639 Speaker 2: call here with that. 11 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: No Mo, right, make a rhyme again, Steve, Go ahead, mo. 12 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 3: Mo, don't call hire No Mo, I like it saying 13 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 3: that your love making it's better than so so because 14 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 3: all these women who. 15 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 2: Claim to no, no, we don't know this to be true. 16 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:05,680 Speaker 3: For show show, Yes, you better rhyme up again? Call 17 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 3: in here talking about his mind, man boy, next question 18 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:12,680 Speaker 3: with those that ain't. 19 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 2: Your problem and there's a reason why you still single. 20 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:16,839 Speaker 2: Let's go on, all right. 21 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 1: Moving on to Shy in Meridian, Shi says, my husband 22 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: has started sexting me while I'm at work. We both 23 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 1: used to do it before we got married years ago. 24 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: I don't want to see his old body and I'm 25 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:35,479 Speaker 1: not sending him pictures of my saggy parts. Why has 26 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:37,559 Speaker 1: he started taking pictures of himself again? 27 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 2: Oh? 28 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 3: His sexting is yeah, because he thinks. You know, what 29 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 3: I found is as we age, we don't really admit 30 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 3: to the change. You know, there's a lot of people 31 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 3: who won't add admit to the change. They looking in 32 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 3: the mirror and they're seeing what they used to see, 33 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 3: even though it has changed. 34 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 1: You know. 35 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:13,639 Speaker 2: I'll give you an example. Okay, I went to high school. 36 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 3: With this girl who was attractive. I saw her maybe 37 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 3: twenty five years later. She had the exact same hairstyle 38 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 3: and don't knowbody wear hairstyles from nineteen seventy four, nobody, 39 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 3: but but she had gotten so many compliments on the 40 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:34,959 Speaker 3: way she looked in nineteen seventy four, and she carried 41 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 3: it on into nineteen ninety four, ninety six. 42 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 2: I'm like that, okay. 43 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 3: So what she had happened to her was she was 44 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 3: looking in the mirror, seeing what she's always seen, not 45 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 3: realizing that the world had moved on and you had changed. Yeah, 46 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 3: and pulling your hair back like that ain't really good 47 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 3: for you, no, mo, Okay. So that's what didn't happened, 48 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 3: big boy seeing himself the way he used to. And 49 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 3: he thinks you but you know the truth, y'all old, 50 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:13,119 Speaker 3: it is moved in different parts, so you don't don't send. 51 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:16,079 Speaker 1: Yours Backdake keep saying some other way. 52 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 4: Unk you think he might think he a runway model. 53 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 4: You think he might think that, You know what, Tom, 54 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:29,679 Speaker 4: I didn't think of that. That's what happens, though, you know, 55 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 4: we don't all of a sudden, All right. 56 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 2: Next question. 57 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 1: All right, we're moving on. Steve uh Jimrion in Charlotte writes, 58 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 1: my dad got lightheaded at the gym, and I went 59 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:50,839 Speaker 1: to drive him home. I forgot I had to pick 60 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: up my husband from work. I told my husband that 61 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: there is never a time that I wouldn't be there 62 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: for my dad. How could my husband really be mad 63 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: at me? Wow? 64 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 3: Because your husband is self centered? M hmm, that's all 65 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 3: self centered, a little bit selfish. If you go to 66 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 3: the gym pick up your father because he lightheaded, now 67 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 3: he mad because you didn't get him. Wow. 68 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, I'm gonna tell you right now. 69 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 3: If I had parents, nothing they could ask me for, 70 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 3: I wouldn't respond to and and and and My partner 71 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 3: would have to understand that. Now, I've never was a 72 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 3: mama's boy. That was too big of an age difference 73 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 3: for us to be mama's boys and for me to 74 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 3: be a mama's boy in my family. But you know, 75 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 3: especially in an emergency. I mean, come on now, it 76 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 3: ain't like your daddy said, hey, come take me to target. 77 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 3: Well let's not use target as. 78 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 2: An Yeah, we don't go there right now, come and 79 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 2: take me the bass pro shop before you pick up Harold. 80 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 2: Now and then you go do that. Now, something wrong? 81 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 2: But he was lightheaded at the gym. You did the 82 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:05,600 Speaker 2: right thing. 83 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 3: Well, how he got mad is because it's about him. 84 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 3: So yeah, just explain it to him why you did it. 85 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 3: And if he don't see it, then you see it. 86 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:20,840 Speaker 1: Oh okay, all right, that message is clear, all right? 87 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 1: Last last one, last one Colo. This is from Carmel 88 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 1: in Philly. Carmel Rights. I got upset that my husband 89 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 1: put a treadmill in our dining room, so I unplugged 90 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: it and pushed it into the corner, into a corner. 91 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 1: He's very upset because it lost all of the data 92 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:42,479 Speaker 1: about his weight loss. To me, is not that serious. 93 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 2: Why is he. 94 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:48,479 Speaker 1: Acting like this? Is so major wow in the dining 95 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:49,159 Speaker 1: room though. 96 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 2: You shouldn't unplugged it. 97 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 3: Well, but yeah, but how long had it been there 98 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 3: for him to have acquiet data? And then you just 99 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 3: got to see what you're probably not telling us in 100 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 3: this letter as you got mad at him and then 101 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 3: decided to push it, because that treadmill had to been 102 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 3: there for a minute for him to get all the data. 103 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:12,679 Speaker 4: The data. 104 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, is he losing though, and is she mad 105 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:17,720 Speaker 1: about that too? 106 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 2: Yeah? 107 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, he'dne lost it. He was keeping track of it. 108 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 3: He was dedicated. That's why he put it in that 109 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:27,159 Speaker 3: dining room. See, big people have to do stuff. Yeah, 110 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 3: put your treadmill next to where he got created the 111 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 3: problem that was in the dining room room. So now 112 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 3: he get them there to figure Hey, man, instead of 113 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:39,720 Speaker 3: me sitting here, he now look at this treadmill and 114 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:40,280 Speaker 3: do my thing. 115 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 2: He was looking for that for motivation. But for you 116 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 2: to take it and push it in the corner, it's 117 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:46,719 Speaker 2: still in the dining room. 118 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 1: Well, maybe she finds him a million times to move 119 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: it over and he didn't. 120 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, she did it herself. 121 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 4: She unplugged it and moved it. 122 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 2: That's what she did. 123 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 3: Uh, Because that could be potentially there, but I think 124 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 3: she would have put that in the letter. I think 125 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 3: she got mad and went over there and unplugged it 126 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 3: and moved it in the corner. 127 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 2: Now he can't believe that all his data is gone. 128 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, because men would lose weight faster than women. 129 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 2: They do over here, just losing weight. I'm sitting up 130 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 2: here eating a while I'm eating. You walking going in 131 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 2: the corner with all this food. 132 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show