WEBVTT - Cari Champion is Doing What She Wants

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<v Speaker 1>Hey pailm Hello Sunshine.

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<v Speaker 2>Today on the bright Side, journalist and sportscaster Carrie Champion

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<v Speaker 2>is here to talk about making it to the very

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<v Speaker 2>top of her profession and then why she decided to

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<v Speaker 2>step away once she got there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Thursday, May sixteenth. I'm Danielle Robe.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm Simone Boyce and this is the right side

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<v Speaker 3>from Hello Sunshine. Wooh, Danielle, I'm not gonna lie. I

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<v Speaker 3>came in hot this morning. I don't feel like I

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<v Speaker 3>can talk about anything else until we address this unhinged

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<v Speaker 3>speech that Kansas City chiefs kicker Harrison Bucker gave over

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<v Speaker 3>the weekend at a graduation ceremony. You know which one

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<v Speaker 3>I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm read in the cheeks. I'm so embarrassed for him.

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<v Speaker 3>This was a mess. So, if by some miracle of God,

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<v Speaker 3>you've been spared by this speech in your algorithm, we

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<v Speaker 3>are unfortunately going to drop this bomb on you right now.

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<v Speaker 3>So he gave this commencement speech at Benedictine College on Saturday,

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<v Speaker 3>which is a Catholic school. That's important to note, I think,

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<v Speaker 3>and there was a bunch of stuff that he railed

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<v Speaker 3>against things that he is displeased with in society. But

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<v Speaker 3>the one thing that is getting the most attention are

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<v Speaker 3>his remarks about women, about ambitious women. He says that

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<v Speaker 3>women are happiest as wives and mothers as opposed to

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<v Speaker 3>working professionals. I think, Danielle, we should probably read parts

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<v Speaker 3>of it so that people know exactly what we're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>You go for it. You read it, simone.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a big one. He's addressing the class of

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<v Speaker 3>twenty twenty four, right, and he says, I think it

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<v Speaker 3>is you, the women who have had the most diabolical

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<v Speaker 3>lies told you. Some of you may go on to

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<v Speaker 3>lead successful careers in the world, but I would venture

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<v Speaker 3>to guess that the majority of you are most excited

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<v Speaker 3>about your marriage and the children you will bring into

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<v Speaker 3>this world. He says that his wife would say that

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<v Speaker 3>her life truly started when she began living her vocation

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<v Speaker 3>as a wife and mother. Can you imagine Danielle being

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<v Speaker 3>one of those female students in the crowd and thinking, Wow,

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<v Speaker 3>I just blew one hundred thousand dollars on my college

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<v Speaker 3>education for nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, to top it all off, he got emotional giving

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<v Speaker 2>the speech, and I just think men are too emotional

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<v Speaker 2>to give commencement speeches. Honestly, Simone, his mother is a

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<v Speaker 2>renowned physicist, which is the craziest part of all of this.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm dying to know what she thinks of his speech.

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<v Speaker 2>It just is so bizarre. I actually kind of giggled

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<v Speaker 2>because I was like, Oh, this is an snl skit,

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<v Speaker 2>this is a joke. He's a paid actor. I can't

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<v Speaker 2>believe that this is real. The year is twenty twenty four,

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<v Speaker 2>my guy.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, to me, the most telling element of all

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<v Speaker 3>this is not even the misogyny, Danielle, it's the fear.

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<v Speaker 1>Ooh, what do you mean.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a sad, scared widow man. He is very

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<v Speaker 3>afraid of how powerful women are becoming. Like we are

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<v Speaker 3>becoming very powerful. Okay, we are taking our supplements, we're investing,

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<v Speaker 3>we're healing, we're self regulating. We're touching grass out here,

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<v Speaker 3>and we.

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<v Speaker 1>Are touching she grass all the time. Especially on the bright.

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<v Speaker 3>Side, he sees this. He sees that women are stimulating

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<v Speaker 3>the economy like it's a hot girl hobby. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>we saw that last year with Barbie and Taylor Swift

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<v Speaker 3>concerts and Beyonce concerts. What like it's hard, Like it's

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<v Speaker 3>hard for us. You can tell that he is just

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<v Speaker 3>intimidated by the shifting balance of power in this world.

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<v Speaker 3>That's all.

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<v Speaker 1>This is all I can say, is amen.

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<v Speaker 2>Speaking of hot girl hobbies, Simone, we have a new

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<v Speaker 2>cover girl in town. Gail King is on the cover

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<v Speaker 2>of Sports Illustrated and it's their famous swimsuit issue. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm only going to say her age because I think

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<v Speaker 2>it matters. She is sixty nine years old, she's an

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<v Speaker 2>award winning journalist, and she is on the cover of

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<v Speaker 2>Sports Illustrated. What do you think about that.

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<v Speaker 3>I love this. I think this is so major. I

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<v Speaker 3>think this is so huge just for women overall, because

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<v Speaker 3>here is Gail King, one of the best journalists that

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<v Speaker 3>we have right now now, one of the smartest women

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<v Speaker 3>in our society. She's brilliant, and she's also sexy, and

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<v Speaker 3>she's in a bathing suit and she's embracing her beauty.

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<v Speaker 3>And that is exactly the kind of nuance that I

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<v Speaker 3>think that is so important for everyone to see that

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<v Speaker 3>women can be multi dimensional. We don't have to just

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<v Speaker 3>be one thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's super powerful and I loved seeing her

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<v Speaker 2>CBS Morning anchors celebrate her tony.

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<v Speaker 1>And Nate were like woohooing in the most respectful way.

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<v Speaker 2>It was really fun to see them celebrate the moment

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<v Speaker 2>along with everybody else.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is definitely a new dawn for news anchors

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<v Speaker 3>and perception of news anchors, because even just a few

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<v Speaker 3>years ago, I don't think that this would be as

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<v Speaker 3>celebrated as it is. So I actually really applaud her

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<v Speaker 3>for taking the first step here because hopefully this will

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<v Speaker 3>just brought in our view of who journalists are, and

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<v Speaker 3>what journalists are capable of, and what a journalist looks like.

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<v Speaker 3>I sent this to you over Instagram. What did you

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<v Speaker 3>think when you saw it?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here for it.

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<v Speaker 2>I mentioned her age earlier purposely because I think in

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<v Speaker 2>our culture we desexualize women after they're no longer able

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<v Speaker 2>to be fertile, and we particularly desexualize mothers in our culture.

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<v Speaker 2>Gail is over forty five, she's a mother, she's, like

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<v Speaker 2>you said, a journalist, and I just I think this

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<v Speaker 2>speaks to the idea that beauty is not about what

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<v Speaker 2>you look like, it's about who you become. And Gail

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<v Speaker 2>has become such a powerhouse and she's bridging every single gap.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, when did we become this society that says, if

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<v Speaker 3>you are a journalist and you show up to work

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<v Speaker 3>wearing a suit interviewing dignitaries and politicians, that you can't

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<v Speaker 3>also enjoy yourself in a bathing suit on a beat.

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<v Speaker 3>A bathing suit is a functional piece of clothing, so

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<v Speaker 3>you can swim in the warm gulf of Mexico. Let's

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<v Speaker 3>be able to hold two truths at once. People.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just going to keep saying amen to you today.

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<v Speaker 2>In other exciting news, Legally Blonde is coming to a

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<v Speaker 2>screen near you.

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<v Speaker 1>What like it's hard, guys? A Legally Blonde prequel is

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<v Speaker 1>coming our way next year.

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<v Speaker 2>Courtesy of our boss, Reese Witherspoon. Courtesy of Hello Sunshine

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<v Speaker 2>and Amazon Prime. Simon, You're not the only one screaming.

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<v Speaker 2>Screams could be heard around the internet round the world.

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<v Speaker 2>People have been dying for more Elwoods. And this time

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to get Ellwoods in high school, long before

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<v Speaker 2>she went to Harvard. We're gonna find out how she

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<v Speaker 2>became everybody's favorite Gemini vegetarian.

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<v Speaker 3>I cannot wait to see high school el Woods. I

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<v Speaker 3>want to see did she go through any growing pains?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>What was that coming? Of age time for her, Like

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<v Speaker 3>you know, this movie Legally Blonde has always been a

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<v Speaker 3>cultural touchstone for me. I remember watching it with girlfriends

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<v Speaker 3>growing up and being so entertained but also impacted by

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<v Speaker 3>the depth of it too, and the ambition and determination

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<v Speaker 3>of this woman. But what's been really cool to see

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<v Speaker 3>Danielle is however lasting the impact of this film is,

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<v Speaker 3>it comes up all the time whenever we interview women

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<v Speaker 3>on this show.

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<v Speaker 2>I also think this speaks to exactly what we were talking

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<v Speaker 2>about a few minutes ago, which is Elle Woods was

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<v Speaker 2>multi dimensional. There's this perseverance in her character that always,

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<v Speaker 2>for like lack of a better word, just inspired me.

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<v Speaker 1>You watch that movie and you leave.

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<v Speaker 2>The theater, or you leave the airplane, or you leave

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<v Speaker 2>your bedroom wherever you're watching it, being like I can

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<v Speaker 2>do anything. I'm just excited for a new generation of

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<v Speaker 2>girls to get to feel that.

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<v Speaker 3>I also loved seeing Reese really late into the excitement

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<v Speaker 3>around this. She posted this really cute video where she

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<v Speaker 3>was dressing up in pink and putting up on the

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<v Speaker 3>pink heels, and then she walked out on stage to

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<v Speaker 3>give a presentation and she did the bend in the

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<v Speaker 3>snap and I appreciate a creator who understands how beloved

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<v Speaker 3>their work is, and I just love that she's leaning

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<v Speaker 3>into the excitement and enthusiasm around this project too. Do

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<v Speaker 3>we think Jennifer Coolidge is going to make a cameo?

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<v Speaker 3>She has to, She must, she must. And if you

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<v Speaker 3>are counting down the days to the release of this

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<v Speaker 3>TV series like us, we know that it's coming out

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<v Speaker 3>in twenty twenty five. We're not sure exactly when, but

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<v Speaker 3>we'll keep you posted.

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<v Speaker 2>After the break, journalist in sportscaster Carrie Champion is telling

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<v Speaker 2>us about her decades long career covering sports and why

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<v Speaker 2>she chose to leave at the top of her game.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to the bright Side Today, we're joined by

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<v Speaker 2>journalist and sportscaster Carrie Champion. Carrie has spent decades covering

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<v Speaker 2>the top stories in the sports world for Vice, ESPN,

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<v Speaker 2>and now Amazon. Her show, The Carrie Champion Show, is

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<v Speaker 2>a must watch for its unfiltered and straightforward look at

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<v Speaker 2>sports and the role that they play in our daily lives.

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<v Speaker 2>It features interviews with current and former athletes, celebrities, writers,

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<v Speaker 2>and analysts.

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<v Speaker 3>Carrie also hosts a podcast, Naked with Carrie Champion. Which

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<v Speaker 3>is all about getting guests to lift the veil and

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<v Speaker 3>get vulnerable about their lives and careers. Carrie, welcome to

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<v Speaker 3>the show.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys are so bright and happy and cheery, and

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, I have to wear pink. That's what

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<v Speaker 4>made me think. I was like, yes, I wore bright colors.

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<v Speaker 4>You didn't say, but.

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<v Speaker 3>You've seen our logo clearly, y, Yes, it's right bank.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, Carrie, the producers are making me tell you

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<v Speaker 3>a very embarrassing story. Okay, I tried to get out

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<v Speaker 3>of this. Here we go. So the truth is, I've

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<v Speaker 3>been following your career for a very long time, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>all the way back to the Tennis channel days. And

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<v Speaker 3>when I first moved to Los Angeles, I worked at

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<v Speaker 3>a management and casting company editing reels, and your reels

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<v Speaker 3>was one of the reels that came across my desk.

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<v Speaker 3>So I literally have been following you from the very

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<v Speaker 3>early days. And so just watching your career, watching you

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<v Speaker 3>go on to ESPN, get your own shows. I've been

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<v Speaker 3>cheering you on from afar.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so wonderful. Don't make me cry. This is the

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<v Speaker 4>bright side.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm curious, like, what were those early days like,

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<v Speaker 3>because you've been at this for.

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<v Speaker 4>A minute, and I have, and let me tell you,

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<v Speaker 4>it feels like I'm still at it. It really does sometimes.

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<v Speaker 4>First of all, thank you, that was very kind. And

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<v Speaker 4>every time I hear a story like that, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>hear them often, but when I do hear them, I

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<v Speaker 4>always think that I'm still on the right path and

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<v Speaker 4>doing what I was supposed to be doing. But the

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<v Speaker 4>early days were hard for me, I must be honest,

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<v Speaker 4>but I didn't know they were hard because I just

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to do it. I was like a one man

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<v Speaker 4>ban I graduated from UCLA. I drove my niece on

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<v Speaker 4>Ultima to West Virginia for my very first job. That

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<v Speaker 4>was just so hungry, and I remember thinking, I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>to be Oprah. I'm gonna be Katie Couric. I wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to do that in such a real way, and I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't know why I wanted to do it, but it

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<v Speaker 4>felt as if it was my calling. I mean, since

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<v Speaker 4>I was seven years old, I was like, this is

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<v Speaker 4>what I'm gonna do. I saw Oprah on TV. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to do that. I don't know how, but

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to do that. And so the days were hard,

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<v Speaker 4>like a one man ban, editing, shooting, writing, doing all

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<v Speaker 4>of the things and being okay with it. So the

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<v Speaker 4>early days are, to your question, a lot of jumping around.

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<v Speaker 4>I went from West Virginia to Florida to not having

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<v Speaker 4>a job, moving back to LA working part time at

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<v Speaker 4>this Orange County place, working at E Entertainment as a producer,

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<v Speaker 4>having a minute to feel like I was going to

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<v Speaker 4>be a producer because I was like, I can't. No

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<v Speaker 4>one's hired me to be in front of the camera,

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<v Speaker 4>so I'm going to produce. Then I worked as an

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<v Speaker 4>assignment editor, and all of that, I realized helped create

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<v Speaker 4>who I am today. I was able to identify what

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<v Speaker 4>a story looks like, I can produce a story, and

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<v Speaker 4>so all of it worked really well for me, even

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<v Speaker 4>when I went to Atlanta, because I moved to Atlanta,

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<v Speaker 4>which is considered a top ten market, but it was

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<v Speaker 4>still local news. And I remember, you know, my photographer

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<v Speaker 4>couldn't get a shot because he had to finish editing,

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<v Speaker 4>and I took the camera out and I got the shot.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, didn't you worry about it? I got it,

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<v Speaker 4>you know. So the early days for me were just

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<v Speaker 4>forming a foundation that I didn't know would be the

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<v Speaker 4>foundation that I have today.

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<v Speaker 2>You mentioned a few of those people that you looked at, Oprah,

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<v Speaker 2>Diane Sawyer, Katie Kurk.

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<v Speaker 4>Those are my ogs, like, those are the those are

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<v Speaker 4>the legends, the legends like, And people will say things

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<v Speaker 4>to me about that, and I'm like, hold on, hold on,

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't interview leaders of state and stare them down

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<v Speaker 4>and say how dear you? Like That's what Diane Sawyer did,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's what Barbara Walks did. And they were unafraid

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<v Speaker 4>and unapologetic, and they didn't. It was before TikTok and

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<v Speaker 4>social media. They were doing it to make sure they

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<v Speaker 4>told the story.

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<v Speaker 2>When I look at your Instagram, so much of it

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<v Speaker 2>is about opening a door behind you when a door

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<v Speaker 2>has been opened for you. That seems to be such

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<v Speaker 2>a common theme. Yeah, did you have people that did

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<v Speaker 2>that for you or you wanting to change that narrative?

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 4>When I arrived at ESPN, probably my second year, I

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<v Speaker 4>was inundated with emails and I was like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 4>should start helping others because I don't remember. There was

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<v Speaker 4>one lady local news here and she still works here

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<v Speaker 4>in local news. Pat Harvey. She works on the local

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<v Speaker 4>CITs station, and my mom walked up to her one

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<v Speaker 4>day when we were at church and said, my daughter

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<v Speaker 4>wants to do what you want to do. Can she

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<v Speaker 4>talk to you? And I'm like, mom, Mom, I begins

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<v Speaker 4>to stop. I'm embarrassed, and pat was like sure, and

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<v Speaker 4>she let me come and hang out in the studios

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<v Speaker 4>in Hollywood, and she gave me like a couple of

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<v Speaker 4>hours and she just said, I wish you luck. And

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<v Speaker 4>I remember thinking that was such an incredible couple of

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<v Speaker 4>hours of my life. It just reminded me this is

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<v Speaker 4>what I wanted to do, even though I hadn't had

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<v Speaker 4>a job, but I thought, wouldn't it be cool if

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<v Speaker 4>people had access to everyone? Now, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 4>And so that's probably why I'm I feel very obligated,

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<v Speaker 4>and also I feel like it's a responsibility, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>to give back. That's arguably one of the most rewarding

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<v Speaker 4>things of what we get to do.

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<v Speaker 2>I find that the words that I'm giving other people

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<v Speaker 2>I most need to hear myself.

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<v Speaker 4>Correct, I'm talking to myself as I talked to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah correct, Yeah, so interesting. And we were talking Simone

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<v Speaker 4>about her moving to New York. I'm like, move, move,

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<v Speaker 4>do it now, do it? I support it.

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<v Speaker 3>If you haven't lived in New York yet, Danielle, I

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<v Speaker 3>think it's like a necessary rite of passage, Like you

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<v Speaker 3>got to do.

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<v Speaker 2>It, well, Carrie, just moved. Because here's what I was

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<v Speaker 2>interested in. You said to me you had an eat

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<v Speaker 2>prey love moment.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, I think people look at you, Carrie Champion, and

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<v Speaker 2>they're like, she really did it. So to hear that

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<v Speaker 2>you had sort of like a crisis moment was so

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<v Speaker 2>interesting to me.

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<v Speaker 3>What were you feeling?

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<v Speaker 4>I think everyone does. I think how we present what

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<v Speaker 4>people what they see of us, and who we are

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<v Speaker 4>separate from what people see of us. Yeah, I have

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<v Speaker 4>always and I don't know where this comes from. I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, I have to travel in the direction of

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<v Speaker 4>what I fear most. And I feared moving to New

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<v Speaker 4>York and adjusting to a whole bunch of new people

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<v Speaker 4>and hanging out with folks and working at CNN, and

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<v Speaker 4>it's politics isn't necessarily my thing. I've been in sports.

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<v Speaker 4>How do I make the intersection happen between the two.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm panicking and I'm like, okay, head first, just do it.

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<v Speaker 4>Stop thinking about it and just do it now. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know if that always works. I wouldn't tell everybody

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<v Speaker 4>to do what I did, but you do. I did

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<v Speaker 4>it because I wanted to, and I have no regrets

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<v Speaker 4>because I would have always thought, well, why didn't I

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<v Speaker 4>live in New York? And to Smolle's point, everyone, it's

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<v Speaker 4>a rite of past. Everyone must live in New York,

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<v Speaker 4>whoever's listening. If you are single or whatever your situation is,

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<v Speaker 4>you have to move to New York at least four

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<v Speaker 4>six months just to try it, you know, just to

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<v Speaker 4>try it because the city gives you an energy that

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<v Speaker 4>you can never get from anywhere.

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<v Speaker 3>The Graduate School of Humanity, it is the Graduate School

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<v Speaker 3>of Humanity, and it forces you to understand.

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<v Speaker 4>Like that when they say if you can make it anywhere,

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<v Speaker 4>you can make if you make it in your it's true.

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<v Speaker 4>Like once you can get on the subway and yell

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<v Speaker 4>at everyone, you're all set.

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<v Speaker 3>Carrie, you talked about making it, and I have this

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<v Speaker 3>theory that making it doesn't actually exist. Right, what do

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<v Speaker 3>you think about my theory? Is that real?

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely? It's accurate. This world as we know it is

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<v Speaker 4>ever evolving and changing quickly. Laws, the way that we

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<v Speaker 4>move and manifest and so I'll just use me an example.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to have this show and I want to

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<v Speaker 4>be able to tell these stories. Then you get there

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<v Speaker 4>and you're so caught up in doing the gig you

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<v Speaker 4>don't even know that you've made it. And I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like making it always just redefines itself because you work

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<v Speaker 4>so hard to present an image. I think it's actually

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<v Speaker 4>now with social media, you think everyone is doing everything

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<v Speaker 4>amazing that you want to do, and then you meet

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<v Speaker 4>them and you're like, Okay, no, we're all just figuring

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<v Speaker 4>it out. We're all just grinding it out, and it's

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<v Speaker 4>never making it. It's just it's accomplishing goals. So for

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<v Speaker 4>me now, one of my big goals would be I

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<v Speaker 4>want to be able to tell really authentic stories that

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<v Speaker 4>meet the intersection of sports and culture and activism in music.

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<v Speaker 4>But I also feel very responsible of the words that

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<v Speaker 4>I choose, the people that I interview, the things that

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<v Speaker 4>I say, and that's a whole other level of responsibility,

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<v Speaker 4>and the making it starts to subside. That doesn't become

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<v Speaker 4>the goal anymore. The goal is am I really being

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<v Speaker 4>responsible with what I have been given?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, okay, I want to drill into that because you

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<v Speaker 2>worked your way up at ESPN, you were there for

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<v Speaker 2>eight years and you decided to leave. I'm sort of

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<v Speaker 2>fascinated by the idea that you left this job that

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<v Speaker 2>you had always dreamed of. You talked about all those

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<v Speaker 2>moments where you were one man banding.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, and you're like, I made it.

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<v Speaker 2>But was it that it didn't feel the way you

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<v Speaker 2>thought it would, or.

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<v Speaker 4>What was really really hard? It was really really hard

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<v Speaker 4>and really really rewarding. I was a rookie when I

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<v Speaker 4>first came in, so I'm working with Skip Bayless and

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<v Speaker 4>Stephen A. Smith. You have to be made of something

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<v Speaker 4>really special to sit between those two, especially on a

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<v Speaker 4>show called First Take, which was very still very popular,

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<v Speaker 4>still is just as popular. But it was such a

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<v Speaker 4>man's world and it was I described it this way

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<v Speaker 4>I wrote about it. Have you ever sit in the

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<v Speaker 4>middle seat on maybe a cross country flight from LA

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<v Speaker 4>to New York. You can't really lean too far to

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<v Speaker 4>your left or too far to your right because you're

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<v Speaker 4>going to be in someone's space. So you're just trying

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<v Speaker 4>to stay like this the whole time I described my

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<v Speaker 4>experience on that show, I couldn't get too comfortable on

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<v Speaker 4>my left or to my right, just because of the

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<v Speaker 4>dynamics of the show. And I remember thinking, God, this

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<v Speaker 4>is the hardest thing I've ever done. And there were times,

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<v Speaker 4>you know Danielle's interview, one of my one of my

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<v Speaker 4>closest friends in Jamel Hill, there were times where I

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<v Speaker 4>would college amount. I'm like, today's last day. I'm quitting.

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<v Speaker 4>She's like, what are you talking about today? I'm quitting.

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<v Speaker 4>You said I was there for eight years. I tried

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<v Speaker 4>to quit a year in and she talked one there. Yeah, Oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I got six months in and she talked me on

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<v Speaker 4>the line. She was like you. I was like, I

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<v Speaker 4>can't do this because there was such an incredible amount

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<v Speaker 4>of pressure on the one in the middle seat. I

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<v Speaker 4>was supposed to quote unquote contain these two who can't

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<v Speaker 4>be contained. I wasn't that familiar with sports. They didn't

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<v Speaker 4>want me there. I came from the Tennis channel. They

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<v Speaker 4>didn't know my work. I wasn't an established sports journalist

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<v Speaker 4>in their opinion. And by there, I mean the people

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<v Speaker 4>who watched the show, the people within the building, and

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<v Speaker 4>so they made it they made it hard. But you

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<v Speaker 4>do that, you do that to Riki. So it's called

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<v Speaker 4>Ricky hazing, and I don't complain too much because it

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<v Speaker 4>taught me so much. It was one of the best

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<v Speaker 4>lessons of my life. I remember when I was Atlanta

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<v Speaker 4>and I got quote unquote fired for cursing on air

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<v Speaker 4>and I was doing a commercial break. It wasn't really cursing,

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<v Speaker 4>but it was like, I said, mother sucker. And back

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<v Speaker 4>then I was like, you can't say mother sucker. And

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, oh my god. Everyone says that it's a

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<v Speaker 4>cultural thing too. I was like, no, that's badass that

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<v Speaker 4>you said that. Yeah, mother sucker. Well, by the way,

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<v Speaker 4>that's my personality. And you ladies can relate to this.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure your personality and sometimes perhaps your confidence can

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<v Speaker 4>make people uncomfortable because it's a natural thing. It's just natural.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not trying to be anyone else but myself. And

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<v Speaker 4>so while I was uncomfortable, I still believed. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>I belong. I don't know about you, guys, scooed over here.

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<v Speaker 3>I come, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>And so it was hard, and it was always hard,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm okay with that. I like hard. I like it.

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<v Speaker 4>I like to work for things.

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<v Speaker 3>And one of the hardest parts, I think is you

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<v Speaker 3>also have people who work at that establishment telling you

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<v Speaker 3>to be authentic, and you're like, I'm trying, I'm showing

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<v Speaker 3>up as my full self, but yet there's this suffocation

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<v Speaker 3>of that self that happens that's really hard to record.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if you guys feel like you bring

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<v Speaker 4>your full selves, but it's hard to bring your full

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<v Speaker 4>self to work.

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<v Speaker 3>I had a kind of similar experience where I felt

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<v Speaker 3>like I was catfished by my dream job. Oh, like like,

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<v Speaker 3>this is going to be perfect, this is gonna be

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<v Speaker 3>everything that I wanted to be, and then slowly over

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<v Speaker 3>time you realize, wait, the dream has shifted. Now the

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<v Speaker 3>dream is different. So what did that experience at ESPN

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<v Speaker 3>reveal to you about your ever evolving dreams?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I wanted to get back to news. It

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<v Speaker 4>was twenty twenty, like so much was happening. The world

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<v Speaker 4>just shut down, and I didn't know that was going

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<v Speaker 4>to happen. But I just felt like I had to

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<v Speaker 4>get back to what brought me into this business, and

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<v Speaker 4>that was telling stories of people who I was very

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<v Speaker 4>interested in or I wanted to help. I remember being

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<v Speaker 4>and this is a story about why I wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>be a journalist, not only just because I saw Oprah,

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<v Speaker 4>but I was seven years old and I lived in

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<v Speaker 4>a neighborhood in West LA not far from here, and

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<v Speaker 4>we a bunch of kids in the neighborhood started cleaning

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<v Speaker 4>up the neighborhood with like brooms from our houses because

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<v Speaker 4>the neighborhood wasn't that great, and so we would just

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<v Speaker 4>take some brooms from our houses and clean up the streets.

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<v Speaker 4>And a local news reporter came and she covered the

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<v Speaker 4>story and it was what they call a kicker, and

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<v Speaker 4>we were all just standing there excited, and we're like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>with our brooms, right and whatever things we're doing, we're

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<v Speaker 4>clean up our neighborhood. And I remember listening to the

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<v Speaker 4>story and I thought, wow, she sure did mischaracterize what

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<v Speaker 4>we were doing. As I go, some kids who are

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<v Speaker 4>down on their luck and heart, you know, dah da

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<v Speaker 4>da da, and they're trying to build up their neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm like, well, that's not really what we were

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<v Speaker 4>trying to do. And so it was told from her

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<v Speaker 4>lens and I was like, Okay, this is it. It's

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<v Speaker 4>a brown woman. I need to get out here and

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<v Speaker 4>tell the stories. I need to represent us. I need

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<v Speaker 4>to speak for those who can't speak for themselves. My

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<v Speaker 4>dream job is to tell stories that are representative of

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<v Speaker 4>my culture of the world that we live in, because

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<v Speaker 4>that is how we're going to learn to coexist.

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<v Speaker 1>Who'd you call for when you quit? Who is your call?

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<v Speaker 4>That's a good one. I talked about it a lot

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<v Speaker 4>with a lot of my friends. But at the time,

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<v Speaker 4>do you guys know Bosima Saint John? I know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>So at the time I said, Bosama, I want you

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<v Speaker 4>to help me write a resignation letter. She's like what.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, I'm gonna leave. She was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't like what they're paying you. You're grossly underpage.

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<v Speaker 4>You're worth so much more. It's time for us to leave. Huh.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was just like, no, that's not even the reason.

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<v Speaker 4>I just want to leave because I'm not. She's like,

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<v Speaker 4>you're not. They don't you know. She just let me

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<v Speaker 4>know where I was and who I was and what

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<v Speaker 4>she saw for me, and she was like, it may

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<v Speaker 4>not be easy, it may not be like the biggest platform,

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<v Speaker 4>but you have a vision and you should go and

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<v Speaker 4>you should try to figure that out and don't let

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<v Speaker 4>the world's timeline. Define your timeline. So if it takes

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<v Speaker 4>five years or ten years for you to do whatever

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<v Speaker 4>that next big thing is, that's your dream job, let

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<v Speaker 4>it take five or ten years. You let the world

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<v Speaker 4>figure out what time it is. You don't have to

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<v Speaker 4>figure it out, you know. And agents were like trying

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<v Speaker 4>to talk me out of it, and I'm like, it'll

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<v Speaker 4>be okay, it'll be fine, trust me. And it's been fine. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>it's not the same platform right where you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>you can see me Monday through Friday. Here, the work

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<v Speaker 4>has been more valuable, lucrative, and I've been able to

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<v Speaker 4>do the things that I wanted to do. I couldn't

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<v Speaker 4>just up and move to New.

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<v Speaker 3>York mm hmmm. Or you have ownership now, which is invaluable.

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<v Speaker 4>And people don't understand that. Once and you pick and

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<v Speaker 4>choose a project you like and love and the things

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<v Speaker 4>that you want to do. And I think every person

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<v Speaker 4>who's done that, and you know who, I think about

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<v Speaker 4>a lot. I think of Aaron Andrews because when she left,

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<v Speaker 4>people were like, why are you leaving? And I remember

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<v Speaker 4>when she left, it was such a brew ha ha.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was really proud of her. I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>good for you. You go where you want it. It's

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<v Speaker 4>like a relationship. Who's staying in a relationship where they're

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<v Speaker 4>not wanted. She's my fellow gator. We both are.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh huh go gata.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I think about it on the Voice. Do you

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<v Speaker 2>ever watch that show?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I do.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You know how people pick who they're like they grew

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<v Speaker 2>up watching, but they actually should be picking the person

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<v Speaker 2>that wants them the most.

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<v Speaker 4>That's it. I think it's sort of a visual every

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<v Speaker 4>because life people will not appreciate you. My mother always

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<v Speaker 4>used to say, I don't know if I taught you

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<v Speaker 4>how to be humble. I definitely taught you you can,

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<v Speaker 4>you deserve and you should go out and get what

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<v Speaker 4>you want. But I haven't taught you humility. And I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, life teaches us that you don't need.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's so good that your mom didn't teach

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<v Speaker 3>you humility because I feel like the generations that came

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<v Speaker 3>before me, the ancestors that I am, I'm standing on

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<v Speaker 3>their shoulders now, it was all humility. It was like

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<v Speaker 3>too much humility, So that that's healing generational trauma right there?

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<v Speaker 4>Correct? And I told her, I said, you did a

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<v Speaker 4>great job because you taught me to pull up a

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<v Speaker 4>chair and sit and say and speak. And while that

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<v Speaker 4>makes people uncomfortable, life will humble you. You don't need

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<v Speaker 4>someone to teach you humility. You will ultimately life will.

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<v Speaker 4>You will live life. Things will happen, you will go

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<v Speaker 4>out into the world. And you're like, oh, that humbled me,

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<v Speaker 4>So that's my whole point. I'm like, no, no, no worry,

0:26:02.440 --> 0:26:04.720
<v Speaker 4>life will do that. What you taught me was to

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<v Speaker 4>get back up and keep trying to believe in myself,

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<v Speaker 4>to pick and choose, to find good people to surround

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<v Speaker 4>myself with who believe in themselves. All the things that

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<v Speaker 4>we deserve, All the things that you have now you deserve.

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<v Speaker 4>You deserve.

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<v Speaker 3>Not Carrie coming on the bright side, gassing us up.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, you need it, you deserve.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna take a quick break, but we'll be right

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<v Speaker 2>back with Carrie Champion. And we're back with Carrie Champion. Carrie,

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<v Speaker 2>you've been covering women's sports for a long time, so

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<v Speaker 2>we have to talk about women's basketball this year. And

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<v Speaker 2>Caitlyn Clark, how did it feel to see these amazing

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<v Speaker 2>women finally get.

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<v Speaker 4>Some shine college basketball? Loved it? I remember the day

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<v Speaker 4>that LSU won last year, won the championship, and I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know if you know the story, Angel Reese was

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<v Speaker 4>like taunting Caitlin but with the ring right, doing what

0:27:00.040 --> 0:27:01.960
<v Speaker 4>Kaitlyn normally does, but she was doing it back to her.

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<v Speaker 4>And there were all these people who just started watching

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<v Speaker 4>sports and they were weighing in and they were saying

0:27:06.520 --> 0:27:10.159
<v Speaker 4>these awful things about Angel Rees and Cna Goes. Can

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<v Speaker 4>you come on to talk about it? And then I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, oh, we've made it. Normally they bury sports

0:27:15.320 --> 0:27:17.280
<v Speaker 4>at the very end, and this is their lead story.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, Oh, this is exciting. So I was

0:27:19.000 --> 0:27:22.240
<v Speaker 4>excited about it. I know people, Kaylen Clark to me

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<v Speaker 4>is the Tiger Woods of her sport, meaning Tiger Woods.

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<v Speaker 4>When he started to play, really changed the purse and

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<v Speaker 4>how much money his colleagues would make because he was

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<v Speaker 4>so incredible and people wanted to watch him. They were

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<v Speaker 4>adding tours because of him and adding tournaments because of him,

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<v Speaker 4>and everyone started to benefit, and people say what they want.

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<v Speaker 4>She brought attention to a league that has needed attention

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<v Speaker 4>and should be respected, you know what I mean. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>happy that she's here because she's opening the door and

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<v Speaker 4>it's not unsimilar to Magic Johnson and Larry Bird, you

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<v Speaker 4>know those two. Their battle this last two years is

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<v Speaker 4>not unsimilar to the NBA and when the NBA needed help.

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<v Speaker 4>And so this is a beautiful time because the business

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<v Speaker 4>of women's sports is skyrocketing and there is so much

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<v Speaker 4>money to be made. And not only is there so

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<v Speaker 4>much money to be made, there are so many stories

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<v Speaker 4>to be told, and there are so many talented women

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<v Speaker 4>out there that have yet to be discovered. And so

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<v Speaker 4>I'm excited about this process. It's really going to change

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<v Speaker 4>in real time. Everything is happening in real time.

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<v Speaker 2>We're living through it, which is really cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Who are you watching in the WNBA right now? I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>who's your team? What players are you excited about?

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<v Speaker 4>My team was the Sparks. I will say that I'm

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<v Speaker 4>the bias journalist that lives in La, so everything all LA.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm really interested, if I'm being honest with you,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm really interested in the teams with the storylines and

0:28:47.800 --> 0:28:50.080
<v Speaker 4>the characters right now, which is the Las Vegas Aces

0:28:50.280 --> 0:28:53.400
<v Speaker 4>and obviously the Indiana favor. Las Vegas Aces have won

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<v Speaker 4>back to back. They have this phenomenal player named Asia

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<v Speaker 4>Wilson and Kelsey Plum and all these other great players.

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<v Speaker 4>And then Indiana Fever have Caitlyn Clark and Eliah Boston

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<v Speaker 4>and those two players are who's up next? You know

0:29:06.520 --> 0:29:09.160
<v Speaker 4>what I mean? They are up next, and Caitlyn say

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<v Speaker 4>what you want? This woman is Steph Curry of the WNBA.

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<v Speaker 4>I hate to do the male comparison, but her her

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<v Speaker 4>shooting is out of this world. Watching how fast she is,

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<v Speaker 4>how quick she can go, how she can stop on

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<v Speaker 4>the dime. Now, she's not the best that's ever done it,

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<v Speaker 4>but anybody who has the ability to shoot that way,

0:29:29.800 --> 0:29:32.480
<v Speaker 4>there's something special about that. And you just don't see.

0:29:32.520 --> 0:29:34.400
<v Speaker 4>I remember when Steph Curry hit the league and everyone's like,

0:29:34.440 --> 0:29:36.760
<v Speaker 4>where is this? Hey's Steph had been in the league.

0:29:36.840 --> 0:29:38.480
<v Speaker 4>He just he had been in the league.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, wasn't shooting threes like that?

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<v Speaker 4>Correct? And so now it made you think, and they

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<v Speaker 4>were the conversation, who's the goat? Is it Steph or

0:29:45.440 --> 0:29:48.360
<v Speaker 4>is it is it Lebron? Like That's what we're witnessing

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<v Speaker 4>right now, and it's exciting, folks. So we got to

0:29:50.400 --> 0:29:51.600
<v Speaker 4>get in, We got to tap in.

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<v Speaker 3>You've interviewed thousands of athletes over the course of your career.

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<v Speaker 3>I gotta know, who are the biggest characters that you've

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<v Speaker 3>spoken to and was there anyone who surprised you?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, these are all these are funny. I have

0:30:05.280 --> 0:30:09.800
<v Speaker 4>so many interesting stories about these gents and ladies for

0:30:09.880 --> 0:30:12.520
<v Speaker 4>the memoir. For the memoir, I'll change their names not

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<v Speaker 4>so much. No, Kobe Bryant was my favorite interview. He

0:30:17.920 --> 0:30:20.680
<v Speaker 4>rests in peace. And when I went to CLA, he

0:30:20.720 --> 0:30:24.560
<v Speaker 4>would come to UCLA and train at Polly Pavilion, and

0:30:24.880 --> 0:30:27.880
<v Speaker 4>a lot of people did. Shaquille Magic Johnson would come.

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<v Speaker 4>It was really a bird's eye view into some of

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<v Speaker 4>these athletes. But I was a diehard Kobe fan because

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a diehard Laker fan because my grandmother taught me

0:30:36.200 --> 0:30:38.720
<v Speaker 4>basketball and so that's why. So it's like either it's

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<v Speaker 4>a rite a passage in our family. You like the Lakers,

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<v Speaker 4>or you move out. When I finally got to meet Kobe,

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<v Speaker 4>he was very, very professional, and if Kobe didn't like

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<v Speaker 4>something you said about him on air, he would find

0:30:51.080 --> 0:30:53.120
<v Speaker 4>a way to share it with you. And when I

0:30:53.160 --> 0:30:54.840
<v Speaker 4>met him and I did the interview, he had just

0:30:54.920 --> 0:30:57.360
<v Speaker 4>retired and he would always say to his wife. This

0:30:57.400 --> 0:30:59.480
<v Speaker 4>is the thing about these athletes. You think they don't

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<v Speaker 4>know who you are when you're covering them, they're very

0:31:01.280 --> 0:31:03.360
<v Speaker 4>well aware of you are. And I remember him introducing

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<v Speaker 4>me to Vanessa and he was like, Vanessa, I want

0:31:05.360 --> 0:31:07.040
<v Speaker 4>you to meet Carrie. She's a big like her fan.

0:31:07.080 --> 0:31:09.680
<v Speaker 4>She always says nice things about me. I was like, God,

0:31:09.760 --> 0:31:13.080
<v Speaker 4>started laughing because it was like, well, I'm objective. He's like, Okay,

0:31:13.160 --> 0:31:15.040
<v Speaker 4>that's fine. It's sure you are.

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<v Speaker 3>But he was one of the good Yeah, yeah, yeah.

0:31:16.920 --> 0:31:20.080
<v Speaker 4>But he was one of my favorites because of his mentality.

0:31:20.120 --> 0:31:22.920
<v Speaker 4>And I know there's controversy with everyone, but how he

0:31:22.960 --> 0:31:25.920
<v Speaker 4>carried himself, how he was about his business, how he

0:31:25.920 --> 0:31:29.240
<v Speaker 4>didn't care about being popular or famous, or wearing the

0:31:29.320 --> 0:31:32.040
<v Speaker 4>latest suits or rapping the latest songs or being the

0:31:32.200 --> 0:31:34.320
<v Speaker 4>hot guy or whatever. It was just not his thing.

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<v Speaker 4>And a part of me understood the loner mentality. When

0:31:38.120 --> 0:31:41.360
<v Speaker 4>he passed away, it was beautiful to hear how everyone

0:31:41.440 --> 0:31:44.000
<v Speaker 4>said he would call them and mentor them and say

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<v Speaker 4>wonderful things and give advice.

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<v Speaker 2>I really look at you that way. Oh, I think

0:31:49.640 --> 0:31:52.040
<v Speaker 2>you give back so much. Right after this, you're going

0:31:52.080 --> 0:31:56.440
<v Speaker 2>to UCLA to talk when you told me that. I

0:31:56.520 --> 0:32:00.400
<v Speaker 2>kept thinking, I wonder what you would tell that girl

0:32:00.400 --> 0:32:02.240
<v Speaker 2>that was at UCLA all those years ago.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh what would I tell? Like? Well, first of all,

0:32:05.840 --> 0:32:08.719
<v Speaker 4>I would say, get to class on time, never on

0:32:08.760 --> 0:32:11.960
<v Speaker 4>time in to class. I get emotional about this because

0:32:13.520 --> 0:32:16.760
<v Speaker 4>so many times I could see it, but I couldn't

0:32:16.800 --> 0:32:19.040
<v Speaker 4>see the path. I didn't know how to get there.

0:32:19.520 --> 0:32:21.360
<v Speaker 4>God bless her my mom and my father. You know,

0:32:21.440 --> 0:32:24.880
<v Speaker 4>high school diplomas. They didn't go to college. And if

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<v Speaker 4>I was to tell myself anything, I would say, remember,

0:32:29.280 --> 0:32:31.840
<v Speaker 4>just to put your head down, leave your blinders on,

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<v Speaker 4>and do the work.

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<v Speaker 3>And there's no way to prepare that little girl for

0:32:37.280 --> 0:32:42.240
<v Speaker 3>all of the bias that women in this business run into, right,

0:32:42.320 --> 0:32:44.600
<v Speaker 3>and I know that you've run up against some of that.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean vocal criticism about your qualifications or like do

0:32:49.160 --> 0:32:52.040
<v Speaker 3>you even deserve to be here covering sports? Or even

0:32:52.080 --> 0:32:55.920
<v Speaker 3>your looks? How did you push through that at each

0:32:55.960 --> 0:32:56.959
<v Speaker 3>stage of your career.

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<v Speaker 4>I will say this, growing up, I'd never had people

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<v Speaker 4>oh you're so pretty. It would always be you're so smart,

0:33:05.160 --> 0:33:09.840
<v Speaker 4>and I'm like, yeah smart, that was my affirmation and

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<v Speaker 4>or quick so the the I didn't care about the

0:33:14.160 --> 0:33:16.840
<v Speaker 4>comments about what I look like. That didn't bother me.

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<v Speaker 4>That was their own deal. Being qualified, being prepared, knowing

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<v Speaker 4>the sport in this particular case, knowing the story, saying

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<v Speaker 4>the names correctly. All of that feeds into your credibility,

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<v Speaker 4>and to me, that was the only thing that mattered.

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<v Speaker 4>I remember interviewing Floyd Mayweather and miss speaking about something

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<v Speaker 4>or didn't I didn't have a fact right, and I

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<v Speaker 4>just I wouldn't. I mean, for a year, I would

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<v Speaker 4>not forgive myself.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh gosh, I'm the same way. I pick up oarurt

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<v Speaker 3>every little thing, and then I go back and watch

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<v Speaker 3>the tape. Yeah, and it was never as big a

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<v Speaker 3>deal as never make it out to be.

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<v Speaker 4>Never never, and we're giving it so much power and

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<v Speaker 4>no one even remembers at all but you. And I

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<v Speaker 4>think one of my producers gave me the best advice.

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<v Speaker 4>He was like, never get too high and never get

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<v Speaker 4>too low. He was like, when they say they love

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<v Speaker 4>you that they really don't, and when they say they

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<v Speaker 4>hate you, they really don't. You're not either or like.

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<v Speaker 4>He was like, don't get too high, don't get too low.

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<v Speaker 4>Stay in the middle. It's impossible, but stay in the middle.

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<v Speaker 4>But every now and again, you know, you could have

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<v Speaker 4>seven thousand great comments in one comment. You're like this bastard. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't say it right. It was nineteen nineteen, not

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<v Speaker 4>nineteen twenty, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what's interesting. As you were saying how did

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<v Speaker 2>I get through it? What I felt in my body

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<v Speaker 2>was that you haven't that it chips away at your soul.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, when people are mean at you, mean to you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>And it's not that you get over it. You're just like,

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<v Speaker 4>it's a part of the business. So it's like it's

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<v Speaker 4>like this, you guys, you walk in a room and

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<v Speaker 4>you're and you are working, or say, if you have

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<v Speaker 4>a for I'll give an example. Every time I go

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<v Speaker 4>into a new environment, I have to pull out my

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<v Speaker 4>resume again. And that's the part that's frustrating. It's not

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<v Speaker 4>so much that it chips away at my soul. It's

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<v Speaker 4>just exhausting to continue to pull out my resume. So

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<v Speaker 4>if I'm working at CNN now and I am sitting

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<v Speaker 4>next to whomever who's been there for thirty years, and

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<v Speaker 4>they're looking at me like, you know, you have to

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<v Speaker 4>start all over again, no matter how long you've been

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<v Speaker 4>doing it, and our and for women, our our margin

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<v Speaker 4>of era is less. Like men make mistakes all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>I used to sit next to you. You'd say names

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<v Speaker 4>wrong every day. Let me say a name wrong. It's

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<v Speaker 4>the end of the world, you know. But the reality

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<v Speaker 4>is that our room to make mistakes is like, it's

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<v Speaker 4>so slim. It's so slim, and so we're held to

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<v Speaker 4>a different standard and so it's exhausting.

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<v Speaker 3>That code switch is so real.

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<v Speaker 4>That girl, it's like, you're like, okay. I hope that

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<v Speaker 4>it changes eventually. I would love to get on here

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<v Speaker 4>and tell you guys that here's the bright side of it.

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<v Speaker 4>The bright side for me, if we were talking about

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<v Speaker 4>the the right side for me is that I have

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<v Speaker 4>learned to respond better and that it doesn't sit in

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<v Speaker 4>my spirit and and I don't take it personal.

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<v Speaker 2>I also heard that you like affirmations.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I love affirmations.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you give us some words today?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>You know. I think you ladies seem to be pretty centered.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know where you are in your lives, are

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<v Speaker 4>professionally or personally, but I think the one affirmation I

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<v Speaker 4>said this earlier, I want you all to really embrace

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<v Speaker 4>that you you deserve the pay, You deserve to be

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<v Speaker 4>comfortable with compliments. You deserve to be sitting at the table,

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<v Speaker 4>owning the table. And I tell my friends that all

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<v Speaker 4>the time, you deserve a good man, You deserve a

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<v Speaker 4>good partner. You do because you work hard. You wouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>be in this position. You wouldn't show up every day,

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<v Speaker 4>you wouldn't try to do the thing. So you deserve

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<v Speaker 4>as one of my favorite affirmations. And then also one

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<v Speaker 4>of the affirmations that I have on my refrigerator right now,

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<v Speaker 4>I got out of this relationship and I really love

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<v Speaker 4>this guy, like I thought that we were going to

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<v Speaker 4>get married, and I've spen the rest of our lives

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<v Speaker 4>together and he was so wonderful in so many ways,

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<v Speaker 4>but he didn't like himself and I and when you

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<v Speaker 4>don't like yourself, it's hard for you to really be

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<v Speaker 4>happy and like other people. So in my inner circle,

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<v Speaker 4>one of the affirmations that I say, I only surround

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<v Speaker 4>myself with people who like and or love themselves because

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<v Speaker 4>that way they can be that way with you. And then,

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<v Speaker 4>last but not least, be okay with change, Like I

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<v Speaker 4>change all the time. I'm not just one thing, and

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<v Speaker 4>so I like to change, you know, move to New

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<v Speaker 4>York as a change.

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<v Speaker 3>You're giving me the I Carrie, I have one final

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<v Speaker 3>question for you. You mentioned that you love change. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm the same way. What era are you in right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, such a good question, Simon. The era of my

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<v Speaker 4>life professionally and personally is only doing what I want

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<v Speaker 4>to do. And what I mean by that is now

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<v Speaker 4>I'm looking at it like I'm making decisions for the

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<v Speaker 4>rest of my life. I'm not gonna waste my time

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<v Speaker 4>doing this anymore. I think for so long I spent

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<v Speaker 4>time trying to please others or be what I'm supposed

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<v Speaker 4>to be for others, or what people think I am,

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<v Speaker 4>and not wanting people to see any of my skeletons

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<v Speaker 4>if you will. But I'm like, oh no, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm fine, I'm great. I deserve I am who I am.

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<v Speaker 4>If you get it, grit, get on board. If you

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<v Speaker 4>don't get it, that's fine too. There's a freedom that

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<v Speaker 4>comes with I will be okay, I got this, And

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<v Speaker 4>there's a freedom that comes with that, a real, true freedom.

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<v Speaker 4>And so I'm aspiring to the freedom of just being

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<v Speaker 4>my full self. But right now I'm doing what I want,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm not necessarily my full self always, but I

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<v Speaker 4>am doing what I want.

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<v Speaker 1>You're in your I deserve era, you deserve.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you deserve it all. Carrie.

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<v Speaker 4>Just good luck and you deserve.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so sweet.

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<v Speaker 3>You're welcome, Carrie to you. Mpia is a broadcast journalist,

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<v Speaker 3>host and storyteller. Listen to our podcast Naked with Carrie

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<v Speaker 3>Champion wherever you get your podcasts. That's it for today's show. Tomorrow,

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<v Speaker 3>we have multi hyphen it Jamila Jamil here. She's going

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<v Speaker 3>to tell us all about her activism, what it looks

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<v Speaker 3>like to be a feminist in progress, and her passion

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<v Speaker 3>for speaking up against injustice.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen and follow the bright Side on the iHeartRadio app,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm Simone Voice. You can find me at simone Voice

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<v Speaker 3>on Instagram and TikTok.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm Danielle Robe on Instagram and TikTok.

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<v Speaker 1>That's ro Ba.

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<v Speaker 3>Y see you tomorrow, folks,