WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Foodie Call 0:00:00.960 --> 0:00:02.120 Second date up date. 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:06.640 If you think about it, dating these days is a 0:00:06.680 --> 0:00:10.760 lot like the game Uno. You put one down, you 0:00:10.920 --> 0:00:15.920 draw two more skip, reverse to someone from your past, 0:00:16.200 --> 0:00:19.080 draw another four, skip again. 0:00:19.320 --> 0:00:20.440 Give me a wild card. 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:23.400 All you want to do is narrow it down to one, 0:00:23.840 --> 0:00:27.000 but it never ends. You just can't get out what 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:32.879 happens if you hit a yeah in a way, everybody loses. 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:35.920 But one of our listeners says she feels like she 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:37.800 may have met her UNO. 0:00:38.280 --> 0:00:39.640 Oh that's cute. 0:00:39.680 --> 0:00:44.159 Spanish for the one Alexis. 0:00:44.320 --> 0:00:47.600 But there was a wild card that was dealt to 0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:50.000 her early on in their meetup. So let's talk to 0:00:50.040 --> 0:00:52.880 her and find out about it. Carolyn, Welcome to the show. 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:54.760 Hey, thanks for having me. 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:57.800 Oh my gosh, I'm so excited to hear about UNO. 0:00:58.320 --> 0:01:00.960 Well, you said there is a wild card delta. What 0:01:01.160 --> 0:01:02.040 did you mean by that? 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:08.199 Well, I feel bad because I completely went off yelling 0:01:08.240 --> 0:01:10.560 at the sky within like the first ten minutes. 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:14.440 You were yelling at your date. What the heck? 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:17.480 Yeah, But there's like a reason, and I mean, but 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:19.560 I feel bad about it and I shouldn't have popped 0:01:19.600 --> 0:01:20.160 off like that. 0:01:20.319 --> 0:01:23.000 Oh my god, I cannot wait to hear this whole story. 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:23.880 Yeah, what happened? 0:01:24.560 --> 0:01:27.600 Okay, Well, we went to this restaurant and I put 0:01:27.640 --> 0:01:29.279 in an order with like the waiter. 0:01:29.560 --> 0:01:31.759 Okay, wa wait, hold on, did you already meet him there? 0:01:32.040 --> 0:01:32.720 What's his name? 0:01:33.200 --> 0:01:36.000 His name is Jeremy okay, okay, and we had like 0:01:36.000 --> 0:01:39.040 a couple of conversations, you know, like text and whatever, 0:01:39.120 --> 0:01:41.080 but this is our first time meeting face to face. 0:01:41.200 --> 0:01:43.720 Okay. So you're at the table or you're at a 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:44.919 walk up counter or something. 0:01:45.720 --> 0:01:48.600 We're at the table. We had just sat down and 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:51.960 the server comes over, you know, pretty quickly and asked 0:01:52.000 --> 0:01:54.960 for our order. And I kind of looked at the 0:01:55.000 --> 0:01:57.280 menu before we went, and I knew what I wanted. 0:02:00.200 --> 0:02:01.760 Is that is so Jose's move. 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:04.080 So I put in my order and like we didn't 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:06.040 talk about it or anything. I just like gave the 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:09.840 waiter my order and then he steps in. He goes, actually, no, 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:11.120 we're not going to do that. 0:02:11.400 --> 0:02:15.480 Whoa wait, wait wait, Jeremy, your date stepped in and 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:19.040 was like, actually, no, don't order that exactly. 0:02:19.280 --> 0:02:21.040 Wait was he talking to you or is he talking 0:02:21.080 --> 0:02:23.160 to the waiter, because it's even more condescending if he 0:02:23.240 --> 0:02:25.840 was just talking for you to the waiter. 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:28.760 No, yes, he was talking to the waiter. That's why 0:02:28.760 --> 0:02:30.000 I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa whoa. 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:33.280 So sounds like he had a game plan of he 0:02:33.360 --> 0:02:35.120 was going to impress you with his menu and you 0:02:35.240 --> 0:02:36.320 kind of went willy nilly on. 0:02:36.480 --> 0:02:38.800 I would be upset too, Yeah, the boy, you should 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:40.400 have done to go, oh, if you really want this. 0:02:40.400 --> 0:02:41.120 Let me just job. 0:02:41.120 --> 0:02:44.240 How do you know why did he do that? Well? 0:02:44.639 --> 0:02:46.240 I kind of went off with him and I was like, well, 0:02:46.440 --> 0:02:48.760 why are you controlling what I'm ordering? Like I look 0:02:48.800 --> 0:02:50.640 at the menu, I really want this, like this is 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:53.919 what I want. And then he just said, like I've 0:02:53.919 --> 0:02:55.960 been here before, and like you don't want to get that. 0:02:56.080 --> 0:02:58.000 It's not very good and I'm trying to save you 0:02:58.040 --> 0:03:00.160 from it, and like I swear, like there's other our 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:00.880 things on the menu. 0:03:01.080 --> 0:03:04.639 Oh my god, and the waiters just standing there awkwardly. 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:05.480 It's a tough start. 0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:09.600 Yeah, Like it was so embarrassing because like I had 0:03:09.600 --> 0:03:11.600 never been to this restaurant, Like I didn't know that 0:03:11.720 --> 0:03:13.239 wasn't like their star dish. 0:03:13.400 --> 0:03:17.200 You know, how did he react to you yelling at him? 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:20.680 Was he apologetic or was he like should be? 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:25.640 That's where I like kind of feel bad because he 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:27.320 was like super nice about it. 0:03:27.400 --> 0:03:29.720 We got back to the date. 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:31.800 And like it went really great from there, but like 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:32.799 I don't know, it was. 0:03:33.080 --> 0:03:35.120 Really did you end up getting that dish? Or did 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:36.800 you get a different one like he said to do? 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:40.440 I actually ended up getting a different dish. 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:41.080 Okay. 0:03:41.280 --> 0:03:43.840 Well it does bring up a good question though, because 0:03:43.840 --> 0:03:45.800 I know how Jose feels about this. But I do 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:48.360 want to ask the ladies, is it ever okay for 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:50.839 a guy to order for you or cancel your order 0:03:50.880 --> 0:03:54.000 without talking to your first talking. 0:03:53.760 --> 0:03:56.120 No, she had every right to yell. I mean, how 0:03:56.160 --> 0:03:58.160 would you feel if it was to you? Like, it's 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:01.280 the same thing, Like it's like any body canceling your order, 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:02.880 Like it doesn't matter male or woman. 0:04:03.040 --> 0:04:05.000 Well, the last time I went off on my mom 0:04:05.240 --> 0:04:07.720 when we were at Red Robin, it just it kind 0:04:07.720 --> 0:04:10.360 of created a scene when she put in my cheeseburger. 0:04:10.760 --> 0:04:12.560 I don't want the California Bird again. 0:04:12.680 --> 0:04:16.160 I love I want the Whiskey River Barbecue. You know 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:17.560 that you love that. 0:04:17.760 --> 0:04:19.520 I mean, why do they sell anything else? That is 0:04:19.600 --> 0:04:20.160 very by far? 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:25.920 But yeah, it's different dynamic between that and a first date, 0:04:26.080 --> 0:04:28.920 Like that's your first interaction in the first ten minutes. 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:32.520 I also and I'm fully admitting to you guys, like 0:04:32.800 --> 0:04:37.840 I popped off, like I looking back, Like my tone 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:40.880 was like a one hundred yeah, but you. 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:43.200 Said that he was apologetic. You know it sounds like 0:04:43.360 --> 0:04:45.159 it didn't you know, you had the rest of the 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:47.599 date to recover. Did you yell again? 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:50.960 Ever? No, No, it went great, and like we even 0:04:50.960 --> 0:04:53.800 talked about like seeing each other again and like how 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:57.560 much fun we were having. Why I'm like, WHOA, I 0:04:57.560 --> 0:04:59.320 don't know, is this why he's like not calling me 0:04:59.400 --> 0:05:00.839 back because I went too hard? 0:05:01.080 --> 0:05:02.839 Well, I don't blame you, and I don't think he 0:05:02.880 --> 0:05:04.800 would either. I Mean, the thing is is that if 0:05:04.800 --> 0:05:07.760 you guys had just had like thirty seconds to discuss 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:11.160 the menu together beforehand, all of it would have been avoided. 0:05:11.279 --> 0:05:13.520 And during that conboy, if a guy's ever going to 0:05:13.560 --> 0:05:14.719 pull the chivalry move, it's hard. 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:16.599 You have to be open and say, hey, would you 0:05:16.680 --> 0:05:17.960 like to order? Would you like me to give you 0:05:18.000 --> 0:05:18.520 a suggestion? 0:05:18.640 --> 0:05:19.119 Is it okay? 0:05:19.160 --> 0:05:20.839 Like you have to say you don't just do it? 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:23.880 And plus the waiter was right there too. Yeah, it's 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:25.880 witnessing all of it. It's just like a bad. 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:27.920 Segn you that looked bad. He looked bad too. 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:31.760 I have to say like it was my initial reaction 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:35.520 because I've been in prior horrible controlling relationship. 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:38.320 Look at you with that baggage. Don't we all got it? 0:05:38.480 --> 0:05:42.839 You're short tempered, right, But the good news is they 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:45.440 did plan. At least they said they were going to 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:47.800 meet up and go on another day. It's weird that 0:05:47.839 --> 0:05:49.600 he hasn't followed through on that though. 0:05:49.800 --> 0:05:52.560 You haven't left him any voicemails where you're yelling at him, 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:54.920 or all. 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:57.040 Caps text messages possibly. 0:05:58.200 --> 0:05:58.599 Anything. 0:05:58.680 --> 0:06:00.520 No I promise It was like none O. 0:06:00.640 --> 0:06:03.960 Yeah, well, then let's come back call Jeremy for you 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:06.679 and figure out what's going on and why he hasn't 0:06:06.720 --> 0:06:09.400 followed through on his promises. Maybe we'll be the ones 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:11.120 to yell at him when we come back for your 0:06:11.120 --> 0:06:11.680 second date. 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:14.880 Update right after second date update. 0:06:16.640 --> 0:06:19.440 Normally, when we hear about a woman screaming at a 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:22.880 man five minutes into their date, it's usually Brooke telling 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:25.080 us how her weekend went with her husband. 0:06:26.960 --> 0:06:29.120 See the issue, What do you mean you're tired and 0:06:29.200 --> 0:06:30.280 your back hurts? 0:06:31.640 --> 0:06:36.200 Honestly, come on, but this one happened on a first 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:40.000 date with our listener Carolyn, because the waiter was at 0:06:40.000 --> 0:06:43.240 the table when Carolyn put in her order for a dish, 0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:46.640 and the guy immediately stepped in and said, actually, no, 0:06:46.920 --> 0:06:48.159 she's not gonna have that. 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:52.839 Dude, God, that just rubs me the wrong way. 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:54.840 Even me who loves to be chivalry. You don't do 0:06:54.880 --> 0:06:55.120 it like. 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:55.760 Yeah. 0:06:55.760 --> 0:07:00.279 So Carolyn had a combination bad day going plus gut 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:03.160 reaction to him saying that, and just went. 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:03.680 Off on him. 0:07:03.839 --> 0:07:06.120 The thing is, there was a good reason for it, 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:09.479 because he had actually tried that dish before when he 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:12.320 visited the restaurant and knew it was not good, so 0:07:12.400 --> 0:07:15.080 he was attempting to step in and save her from 0:07:15.080 --> 0:07:16.840 eating something she probably didn't want to. 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:19.280 I mean, I want to hear the waiter's point of 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:23.680 view from this story, because that was the thing. The 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:26.000 waiter was standing right there. I mean, honestly, it was 0:07:26.080 --> 0:07:27.680 bad reaction from both parties. 0:07:28.280 --> 0:07:30.480 But the good news is they did get past it 0:07:30.640 --> 0:07:32.960 and ended up having a pretty good time together, even 0:07:33.040 --> 0:07:36.680 planned out their next meetup at a different restaurant. 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:39.600 And she said he was apologetic and actually nice about it. Yeah. 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:42.400 The weird part, though, is that Jeremy's now being snaky 0:07:42.400 --> 0:07:45.720 snake and not coming through on his promise of another date. 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:47.720 Yeah, I'm ball, Jeremy. 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:49.400 I mean, do you think you're going to go off 0:07:49.440 --> 0:07:50.840 on him when we get him on the phone if 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:52.280 he says something not nice? 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:54.200 Yeah, if you don't feel like doing it, Brooke will 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:57.360 yell at him for you. She's really good at it off. 0:07:57.440 --> 0:07:58.800 So yeah, you can handle it. 0:08:00.320 --> 0:08:00.480 Both. 0:08:00.520 --> 0:08:01.120 You girls can go on. 0:08:01.160 --> 0:08:04.000 He's going to be crying. But if he doesn't answer correctly. 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:06.480 Every guy likes a tag team, just not that type. 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:07.680 So I don't know. 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:10.600 You never tried it, Jeff, all. 0:08:10.560 --> 0:08:12.400 Right, maybe I'll try it after week off so you 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:14.400 always say no. Yeah, I don't know how I feel. 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:16.400 I just want to call Jeremy see what he has 0:08:16.520 --> 0:08:25.640 to say. Hopefully he picks up, but here we go. Hello, 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:27.840 Hey is this Jeremy? 0:08:28.480 --> 0:08:29.040 Yeah? Who's this? 0:08:29.440 --> 0:08:32.320 What's up? Jeremy? My name is Jeff. Who's talking to me? 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:36.640 Okay, excuse me as funny? Ask what's up? Like you 0:08:36.640 --> 0:08:37.840 were trying to be cool right there? 0:08:38.240 --> 0:08:39.120 So I was cool? 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:41.520 So what's going on? 0:08:41.640 --> 0:08:42.160 Yeah? 0:08:42.200 --> 0:08:44.360 Well we almost made it twenty seconds into a phone 0:08:44.400 --> 0:08:46.320 conversation without someone berating me. 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:49.080 But it's fine. 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:52.080 Jeremy, you're on the radio right now with a show 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:53.560 called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:54.280 This is the show. 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:57.559 Hey, Jeremy, Oh hello. 0:08:59.600 --> 0:09:02.800 We are doing a segment called a second Date Update, 0:09:03.160 --> 0:09:05.400 and I'm not sure if you know what that is, 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:08.480 but we're attempting to help out one of our listeners 0:09:08.760 --> 0:09:10.400 get a hold of you after you went out on 0:09:10.440 --> 0:09:11.040 a date with. 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:12.280 Her for real. 0:09:12.880 --> 0:09:15.320 Yeah, it's a girl named Carolyn. 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:25.240 Oh my god, why. 0:09:25.040 --> 0:09:27.400 Did you react that way? I thought you guys ended 0:09:27.400 --> 0:09:29.360 the day by saying you wanted to see her again. 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:33.080 Yeah, and yeah, that is just what you say, you know, 0:09:33.120 --> 0:09:35.400 when you're on a first date that isn't going well. 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:38.200 We heard a lot, Jeremy. 0:09:38.280 --> 0:09:41.080 We do a lot of these calls where people ghost 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:44.400 after a first date. That's pretty normal, but usually it 0:09:44.400 --> 0:09:47.800 doesn't happen after you make specific plans with that person 0:09:48.160 --> 0:09:50.600 and pick out a restaurant. And that's why it's so 0:09:50.720 --> 0:09:53.840 interesting to us, Like, why you're not following through with 0:09:53.920 --> 0:09:54.520 that promise? 0:09:55.280 --> 0:09:57.840 Gotcha to be honest, in my mind, I was never 0:09:58.200 --> 0:10:00.840 ever going to fall through with the second. 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:03.960 What wait, wait, when did you decide that? When did 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:06.079 you decide there was never going to be a second date. 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:08.720 Within like the first four or five minutes of the 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:09.280 first day. 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:12.120 Okay, And she told us about some of the things 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:14.560 that happened, and that there was a big argument early 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:16.440 on after she put in an order. 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:17.920 Is that what you're talking about? 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:19.160 Yeah, that's exactly. 0:10:20.120 --> 0:10:22.560 But you know, you messed up a little bit. We 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:23.079 talked about it. 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:26.040 Well, is it just are you turned off that she 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:29.439 exploded and yelled at you because there was an argument, 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:31.760 because to us it sounded more like it was a 0:10:31.800 --> 0:10:33.719 misunderstanding between the two. 0:10:33.920 --> 0:10:37.320 No, no, no, no, no, no, there's no misunderstanding. So she tried 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:41.320 to order six hundred dollars worth of caviare. 0:10:41.040 --> 0:10:43.360 Wait what what did you say? 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:43.880 What? 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:46.880 Yep? You heard me? Yeap. She tried to order the 0:10:46.960 --> 0:10:49.640 most expensive She flipped the man into the most expensive 0:10:49.679 --> 0:10:52.400 section and then ordered the most expensive thing. 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:55.280 Wait, hold on, was it one of those restaurants where 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:57.160 they don't list the price? You know what I mean? 0:10:57.679 --> 0:10:58.760 Maybe she didn't. 0:10:58.520 --> 0:11:01.640 Know she knew what she was doing. 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:07.120 Okay, you know what, Well, hold on, if you were 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:09.600 already turned off in the first five minutes, why did 0:11:09.640 --> 0:11:11.440 you say that you wanted to go out with her 0:11:11.480 --> 0:11:12.640 again and plan a whole date. 0:11:13.160 --> 0:11:15.679 Because when if somebody orders six hundred dollars worth of 0:11:15.760 --> 0:11:17.719 caviar and within five minutes of a first date, I 0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:19.120 don't know they're going to have They're going to react 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:22.240 to any situation in life. So I'm just like, oh, hey. 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:24.840 Hey, you're trying to just I mean, to come to 0:11:24.880 --> 0:11:27.680 her defense. Listen, like she ordered it, you said, no, 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:30.520 she got upset because she thought you were controlling her, 0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:33.040 not because I mean, she didn't mention the price at 0:11:33.080 --> 0:11:36.560 all to us. Oh he's like a rich It sounded 0:11:36.600 --> 0:11:39.200 like she actually felt bad and she didn't end up 0:11:39.280 --> 0:11:39.680 ordering it. 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:41.959 Yeah. When I when I jumped in and told her 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:43.600 that we can go to another restaurant and get even 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:47.360 better caviare that's the only time that she you know, 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:49.880 then she started apologizing. 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:52.840 Oh oh oh she got those caviar dreams. 0:11:53.040 --> 0:11:55.160 Yeah, and before that she was just calling me cheap. 0:11:55.400 --> 0:11:56.960 And then if I can't afford to go out with 0:11:56.960 --> 0:11:59.240 a woman, she just paid for it by herself. I mean, 0:11:59.320 --> 0:11:59.959 just really knacked. 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:03.560 I mean, I don't know if she could afford that, 0:12:03.600 --> 0:12:04.679 she could be your sugar moment. 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:08.120 There's no way she would afford that. She was just 0:12:08.120 --> 0:12:09.680 saying that to make me feel bad. 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:13.800 Well hold on, Well, we don't know if she could 0:12:13.840 --> 0:12:17.439 afford it or not unless we actually ask her. 0:12:18.080 --> 0:12:20.280 I don't know, Jeremy. I have to tell you. 0:12:20.360 --> 0:12:22.920 Carolyn is on the other line right now, listening to 0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:23.679 this conversation. 0:12:23.800 --> 0:12:27.960 Oh way, Caro, are you there? 0:12:28.840 --> 0:12:29.880 Oh yeah, I'm here. 0:12:30.559 --> 0:12:32.560 What the hell, Carolyn? You didn't tell us you were 0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:34.719 trying to order six hundred dollars in caviart. 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:38.840 Oh my god, please, that is cheap, Like, come on. 0:12:40.160 --> 0:12:40.520 Cheap. 0:12:40.880 --> 0:12:42.480 No one should order that ever. 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:45.440 Yeah, I mean I have gone on plenty of dates 0:12:45.440 --> 0:12:48.880 where that is protocol, Like that is nothing for them. 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:51.040 I mean you must be going on like sheeap dates 0:12:51.080 --> 0:12:54.840 with cheap people, and I mean hot, log's okay, Like 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:55.800 that's not how I am. 0:12:56.080 --> 0:12:57.480 You got it right on the nose with. 0:12:59.320 --> 0:13:02.680 I'd argue it wasn't Carolyn. 0:13:02.920 --> 0:13:06.640 Clearly there was things that were not yeahs. 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:08.400 Between and that was not about control at all. That 0:13:08.480 --> 0:13:09.840 was about his bank account. 0:13:10.440 --> 0:13:13.040 I mean I thought we had like a great conversation afterwards, 0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:15.000 and like, at no point did you say anything to 0:13:15.040 --> 0:13:17.800 me about money or like it was too extensive, like 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:19.280 that was never brought up. 0:13:19.720 --> 0:13:22.199 Yeah to me. First date I'm not cheap. It's a 0:13:22.360 --> 0:13:24.079 first date. We're trying to get to know each other, 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:26.760 and you're basically putting down a six hundred dollars retainer 0:13:27.160 --> 0:13:29.880 for your first date. You know, but it's it's ridiculous, 0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:32.440 like an invoice. You didn't even ask me if I 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:35.040 even like caviar. You just went ahead and ordered it, 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:35.960 and you, like what. 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:38.160 I think that's just how it is, Like I didn't 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:40.000 know I needed to ask the mission. Okay, do you 0:13:40.040 --> 0:13:41.960 want the hot dog? I mean who else met? 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:44.679 Yeah, it's a little bit different. 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:46.080 I mean, were you going to eat the whole thing 0:13:46.120 --> 0:13:47.360 at Caviar by yourself? 0:13:48.040 --> 0:13:50.400 No, of course not. It was like, you know, serving 0:13:50.440 --> 0:13:53.559 per two. So I mean that's perfect, that's like romantic. 0:13:53.800 --> 0:13:55.520 It is cute because they give you the brand and 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:58.680 like the I think it's interesting that you're not seeing 0:13:58.720 --> 0:13:59.600 his side of this. 0:14:00.280 --> 0:14:02.160 Not at all, like I. 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:06.400 Carolyn, Are you more upset about the money thing or 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:09.840 are you more upset about him making up a story 0:14:09.960 --> 0:14:12.280 about another date and not following through on that. 0:14:12.400 --> 0:14:14.760 I mean both, Let's be honest. Like, I mean, you 0:14:14.920 --> 0:14:18.000 lied about everything, Like I thought we had this great conversation. 0:14:18.080 --> 0:14:19.720 You said you wanted to go on a second date. Like, 0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:22.480 where is all that information? You're not really that like, 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:23.680 so is that not a thing? 0:14:24.400 --> 0:14:27.120 No, I've had more engaging conversations with my house plans. 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:34.000 Oh, one of your house plans, then I'm sure a 0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:37.600 snake plan is perfect for you. 0:14:38.320 --> 0:14:41.360 She got maybe I will. 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:43.240 I will. Wow. 0:14:43.360 --> 0:14:46.680 What I'm hearing here is a lot of passion, and 0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:50.160 passion is the foundation of a strong relationship, right, Brooke. 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:52.200 I hear a lot of house plans dying. 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:55.440 Jess, Well, let's maybe we can help pour a little 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:57.560 fertilizer on it and bring it back to life, because 0:14:57.600 --> 0:14:59.600 we would love to offer to send you to on 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:01.480 another their date on us. 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:04.760 Don't say that, would She orders six hundred dollars caviar. 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:11.440 It's on Brook, twelve hundred dollars worth of caviar for everybody. 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:13.240 If you too, will see each other again. 0:15:13.920 --> 0:15:17.160 I would rather go on the date myself than with her. 0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:20.600 Oh, that's not really the burn that you think. It is. 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:23.480 Me too, which is just what you do. 0:15:23.600 --> 0:15:26.440 Yeah, she's just out here trying to get free expensive meals. 0:15:26.480 --> 0:15:27.120 I would doubt. 0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:30.920 Oh, so she's a foodie. Call I like a call 0:15:31.000 --> 0:15:31.280 for her. 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:34.520 She's a car nor. 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:36.360 Carolyn, that's not the one. Being a foody call isn't 0:15:36.360 --> 0:15:37.040 the worst thing to be. 0:15:37.200 --> 0:15:40.040 I mean whatever, he's lame. I don't even care anymore. 0:15:40.280 --> 0:15:43.160 Okay, allay, Well, I'm sure that she'll be able to 0:15:43.200 --> 0:15:45.720 find a guy that can actually afford your dates. 0:15:46.200 --> 0:15:51.240 It probably just lives in like Dubai or thirty Falcons. 0:15:51.280 --> 0:15:52.880 My guess is he sixty five years old? 0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:55.960 Yeah, but let us know if you find him. Okay, Carolyn, 0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:57.200 because we want to meet that dude. 0:15:57.800 --> 0:16:00.080 You got it. 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:02.440 It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, Brooking Jeffrey in 0:16:02.480 --> 0:16:02.920 the morning. 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:05.680 There comes a time in every man's life when he 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:08.960 has to decide do I want to pay my rent 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:11.440 or blow all that money on a six hundred dollars 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:13.200 caviar dish to impress my date? 0:16:13.360 --> 0:16:16.320 And apparently, according to her, there's only one right answer. 0:16:16.440 --> 0:16:17.000 That's right. 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:17.360 Yeah. 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:20.440 In a shocking move, though, Jeremy chose to keep a 0:16:20.520 --> 0:16:23.720 roof over his head like a total cheap Oh yeah, 0:16:23.960 --> 0:16:27.960 so it didn't work out between the two. I do 0:16:28.000 --> 0:16:29.880 feel like, though, if you are on a date and 0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:32.960 you're ordering a shared appetizer and the dish costs more 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:36.520 than one hundred bucks, maybe discuss it before you put 0:16:36.600 --> 0:16:37.080 in the order. 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:39.600 I can't even believe that he took her to a 0:16:39.800 --> 0:16:41.800 I don't even know if I've been to a restaurant 0:16:41.800 --> 0:16:44.960 with this, I mean, maybe six hundred dollars caviar, and 0:16:44.960 --> 0:16:48.200 that she was still complaining, like guaranteed her plate, like 0:16:48.240 --> 0:16:53.920 her dinner already costs so much money settled. But of 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:55.440 course with the crab on top. 0:16:57.600 --> 0:16:59.240 Jose, you and I should go to a nice seafood 0:16:59.240 --> 0:17:00.000 restaurant after you. 0:17:01.000 --> 0:17:05.440 I yeah, and we gotta get you know, jeff is 0:17:05.480 --> 0:17:08.600 in pay get some good sturgeon. 0:17:08.280 --> 0:17:09.560 Caviar, though it's pretty cheap. 0:17:09.680 --> 0:17:10.080 I'm in. 0:17:11.680 --> 0:17:15.119 Sorry, girls, you're not invited, but if you if you 0:17:15.160 --> 0:17:17.560