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Speaker 1: The countdown is on for the Georgia Senate runoff dates.

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Speaker 1: Request your absentee ballot now right now. December seventh is

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Speaker 1: So Georgia, we gotta go. We gotta finish our job.

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Speaker 1: We gotta vote for Reverend Rafael Warnock and John Asaf. Okay, please,

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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. If you need advice

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Speaker 1: on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit

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Speaker 1: your letter you're a Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot

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Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

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Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now. Buggle up

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Speaker 1: It is a Strawberry Letter. Subject. I need it so

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Speaker 1: bad I'll wear a mask. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a

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Speaker 1: fifty eight year old widow and I've been dating my

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Speaker 1: Truth is, I haven't married him because I still get

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Speaker 1: my deceased husband's pension and he is okay with that.

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Speaker 1: Before COVID nineteen, we were inseparable. We don't live together,

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Speaker 1: but he was with me day and night. We had

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Speaker 1: the most spectacular sex, and he said I was the

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Speaker 1: He's very uptight about COVID nineteen. He's careful to keep

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Speaker 1: on him throughout the day. When he comes by my house,

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Speaker 1: it's always during the day and he leaves before it

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Speaker 1: so he has to get home before he gets on him.

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Speaker 1: I've asked him to spend the night many times and

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Speaker 1: that means we only had sex four times since March.

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Speaker 1: I still dress sexy for him and keep myself out

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Speaker 1: up even though he's gained a few pounds. He has

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Speaker 1: just couldn't take it anymore and I begged him for sex.

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Speaker 1: I told him I'd wear my masks the whole time,

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Speaker 1: so he said, okay. We had sex, but it was

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Speaker 1: he usually does. Does this sound normal to you? Or

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Speaker 1: is he using the COVID nineteen excuse to distance himself

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Speaker 1: Is he using the COVID nineteen excuse to distance himself

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Speaker 1: I think it's over between you guys. I really do.

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Speaker 1: And pardon me if I hurt your feelings. I don't

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Speaker 1: I mean, he's clearly lost interest in you and this relationship.

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Speaker 1: something isn't right. Things have definitely changed. Is he so

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Speaker 1: just think it's over. Think about moving on, Steve. Oh,

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Speaker 1: because you gave him the best old pleasure he ever had?

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Speaker 1: Here are you fifty eight? The line of practice at

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Speaker 1: You know why, because I've been playing thirty some years.

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Speaker 1: were inseparable. We don't live together. Keyword now, listen to me.

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Speaker 1: We were inseparable, we don't live together. I got news

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Speaker 1: fifty eight, you got a lot of practice Wow. Hell,

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Speaker 1: Like I said, I'm good at Dominos because I've been

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Speaker 1: Whoa being Wes? Whoa baird here? Come? Yeah? Anyway, was

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Speaker 1: he back at work. Some things have changed, Shirley Neildon,

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Speaker 1: Some things have changed system. I've asked him to spend

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Speaker 1: you gotta pick a choo. You can't do everybody. That

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Speaker 1: was a time when you could do everybody. Everybody. Anybody

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Speaker 1: days is over. You gotta pick a choo. Kill We

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Speaker 1: had sex with you almost cried. He didn't kiss me.

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Speaker 1: You got mask on. He didn't kiss me. You got

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Speaker 1: Listen to me. It's hard to talk in that mask.

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Speaker 1: That zoom, sweet nothings is hot ass remarks in that mask.

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Speaker 1: Whispering sweet nothings in a mask, It's not whispering sweet nothing,

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Speaker 1: it's breathing hot ass. State. Does this sound normal to you? Yelp?

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Speaker 1: It ain't cause the COVID gonna get on him. It's

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Speaker 1: You're gonna go over his house due you ain't mentioned that,

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Speaker 1: you ain't loud. Oh you don't know where he lives?

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Speaker 1: on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM, on Instagram

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Speaker 1: forty six minutes after the hour, Cheryl Underwood. Right after this,

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