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Speaker 1: Second date Update? This must be the year for dating.
Speaker 1: It seems like every single email that we get in
Speaker 1: for a second date update this past year has said
Speaker 1: this is the best date I've ever been on my
Speaker 1: entire life. So everybody's apparently having the best dates of
Speaker 1: their entire life this year. Why are we getting so
Speaker 1: many emails for second date updates? Stand? I don't know.
Speaker 1: But Cassie, who's on the phone right now for a
Speaker 1: second day update, said that she had the best date
Speaker 1: of her entire life. I used to say bold statement,
Speaker 1: but I don't know that it is anymore. Maybe the
Speaker 1: bar is just low enough. Finally, yep, So Cassie, why
Speaker 1: don't you tell us about your best date of your
Speaker 1: entire life? Hello? All right, how are you doing? You
Speaker 1: sound like you're still smiling, Cassie, So that's good. Yeah
Speaker 1: I am, and I'm trying to still You're obviously not
Speaker 1: getting to call back, but that's cool. Yeah, kind of sucks,
Speaker 1: but um, you know, hopefully you guys can help me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll see, we do help a lot of people. No,
Speaker 1: we don't, not really, we'll try. So tell us a
Speaker 1: little bit about the dude you want to call today.
Speaker 1: Who'd you go on a date with? His name is Levi,
Speaker 1: And we did go on a lovely dinner date. Oh,
Speaker 1: the best day ever. It really was, you know, until
Speaker 1: he just stopped contacting me. Yeah, and that usually makes
Speaker 1: it a lot worse, all right, Cassie, Like I said,
Speaker 1: everybody seems to be saying they've had the best date
Speaker 1: of their entire life. Why was it so special? We
Speaker 1: went to a really nice restaurant. Okay, I heard that before.
Speaker 1: Don't be bared of their story. Listen to her. Most guys,
Speaker 1: I hear. Most guys say they don't want to invest
Speaker 1: too much in a first date. Though it is a
Speaker 1: nice thing when it's a nice restaurant that isn't cheap.
Speaker 1: Good point, it was really nice. You know. The dishes
Speaker 1: were like at least thirty forty bucks per person, and
Speaker 1: he did everything. But you know, like a traditional mom
Speaker 1: would tell you to look for a guy, like pulling
Speaker 1: out the chair for you, opening the door for you.
Speaker 1: He even like was so weird. He even like stood
Speaker 1: up when I came back from the bathroom, and I've
Speaker 1: never experienced that before. I was like, wait, what's going on?
Speaker 1: Are we leaving? That's really funny. For I am a gentleman.
Speaker 1: I stand when a woman in the room. I'm waiting
Speaker 1: for you to be seated, and then I will take
Speaker 1: my seat as well. Oh my god, coving. I didn't
Speaker 1: say that because I was like, oh wait, no, he's
Speaker 1: doing that old school chivalrous thing. I was like, wow,
Speaker 1: this is really interesting. So he was. I mean, he
Speaker 1: was really polite. Was what it sounds like, which is
Speaker 1: lovely and sad that that is what makes it the
Speaker 1: best date ever? Or was there something else? Now there's more.
Speaker 1: It's like, it's what's so weird about it? So he
Speaker 1: wasn't only polite. He was engaging and interesting and he
Speaker 1: had a sense of humor. He asked me questions about myself.
Speaker 1: He didn't just go on and on about himself. It
Speaker 1: was like, really like he had my interest. Yeah, it
Speaker 1: sounds refreshing and lovely. Sounds like you went out with
Speaker 1: a night of the round table who has learned to
Speaker 1: travel to the future. No, yeah, maybe that's why he's
Speaker 1: not calling you back. He had to go back fight
Speaker 1: some dinosaurs. Really, whatever they were fighting, it sounds like
Speaker 1: a true gentleman, Cassie. Anyway, the dinner date was awesome.
Speaker 1: You know, everything ended well, I mean, you know, big Bill,
Speaker 1: I'm sure because we ordered everything and then we were
Speaker 1: walking out and he was like, I really don't want
Speaker 1: to stay to end you and I said, actually no,
Speaker 1: I'm having a really good time. Oh that's such a
Speaker 1: nice moment. But I thought he was like. I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: is this the point where he's going to ask me
Speaker 1: to go back to his place? And then that's gonna
Speaker 1: like just be you know, everything downhill from there, and
Speaker 1: I was like waiting for it. But he said, well,
Speaker 1: let's just get in my car and we'll go find
Speaker 1: something fun to do. And we ended up at a mall.
Speaker 1: What yeah, I thought you said something fun to do.
Speaker 1: Why were you at a mall? Well, it just kind
Speaker 1: of ended up in our conversation. We were just yapping
Speaker 1: about something and I was like, oh, you know what,
Speaker 1: that actually is not a bad idea. There's something I
Speaker 1: wouldn't mind you know, stopping at Sephora pick up a
Speaker 1: couple things that I know I need Okay, Cassie, now
Speaker 1: we're running errands on our date. Okay, I don't know. Well,
Speaker 1: it was an excuse to keep the day going, you know.
Speaker 1: He suggested mall and I was like, sure, why not.
Speaker 1: And so that you guys went and picked up some
Speaker 1: dry cleaning. I'm gonna lose it, but yeah, so we
Speaker 1: win them all. I stopped at Sephora. He actually goes
Speaker 1: with me, which was weird. Usually like a guy would
Speaker 1: just be like, i'll be out here, so I'm going
Speaker 1: get my stuff, and he just like butts in in
Speaker 1: front of me and puts his credit card down and
Speaker 1: buys it for me. Nice whoa, yeah, fifty dollars you
Speaker 1: know of like cream and foundation stuff. I'm like, wait,
Speaker 1: what why are you doing this? And he's just like, oh,
Speaker 1: I just want to see smile. You're like, okay, sir,
Speaker 1: come with me to the next store. Then I was bigger.
Speaker 1: It does sound like the best day of your entire life.
Speaker 1: I wish somebody would take me out and just buy
Speaker 1: me things. Yeah. Actually it did continue. I went into
Speaker 1: another store and I was like, surely he's not going
Speaker 1: to keep doing this. I just saw something in the
Speaker 1: window I was like, oh, that looks cool. What do
Speaker 1: you know he buys that for me too. And I
Speaker 1: kept trying to say stop, you don't have to do this,
Speaker 1: this is like you know, and he's like, no, no, please,
Speaker 1: please let me. I enjoy giving and you know, I'm
Speaker 1: enjoying my time with you. Wow. Okay, so other than
Speaker 1: credit card debt, how did the date end? Very nice?
Speaker 1: He just took me back to my house and dropped
Speaker 1: me off and it definitely ended with a nice kiss. Oh.
Speaker 1: And that's when I told him, you know, I was like,
Speaker 1: this is probably the best date I've ever been on.
Speaker 1: And you know, I was like, thank you very much,
Speaker 1: and he said, don't say that yet because we have
Speaker 1: another date coming up very soon together. Oh cute way
Speaker 1: to take control, sir. Obviously he was lying though, because
Speaker 1: you haven't gone out again. How long ago was it
Speaker 1: that he said that? That was like a couple of
Speaker 1: weeks ago, And yeah, I was the last time we
Speaker 1: spoke about it. I mean, he hasn't you know, we
Speaker 1: haven't spoken on the phone. We've just kind of texted
Speaker 1: a little bit, but not made any concrete plans, so
Speaker 1: he hasn't really followed up with what he said, yeah,
Speaker 1: a few weeks. I would not consider very soon. No. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And it's frustrating because we've kind of talked about the dates,
Speaker 1: but nothing's really happening, and I do want to see
Speaker 1: him again. Okay, well we'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: and then call him and get your second date update.
Speaker 1: All right, thank you? Okay, hang on looking jubile in
Speaker 1: the morning. Second updates if you're just joining us for
Speaker 1: today's second date update. Cassie is on the phone and
Speaker 1: she said she had the best date of her entire
Speaker 1: life with the dude named Levi. They went out for
Speaker 1: a very nice dinner and then at the end of dinner,
Speaker 1: Levi looked her and he said, congratulations, Cassie, you just
Speaker 1: won a luxurious shopping spree. You'll be whisked away to
Speaker 1: the local mall. We'll head on over to Sephora and
Speaker 1: buy you a bunch of perfume and other facial crap,
Speaker 1: and then you get a pair of new shoes. Cassie,
Speaker 1: this is what life is like when you're dating Levi.
Speaker 1: Is that kind of how it went, Cassie? Pretty much? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess I was pretty much it except for non
Speaker 1: game show like no music, announcer. That's too bad. It
Speaker 1: couldn't have been the best day of your entire left
Speaker 1: because every really good date involves a game show announcer.
Speaker 1: Cassie went to the mall with this dude after they
Speaker 1: had dinner, and he bought her a bunch of stuff
Speaker 1: and then they had a kiss. He said he had
Speaker 1: another huge surprise planned for their second date. But now
Speaker 1: the conversation has fizzled out. And what are you feeling
Speaker 1: with him right now? Are you still liking him a lot?
Speaker 1: You too frustrated? I still like him slightly frustrated, but
Speaker 1: I also in thinking there could be another girl involved,
Speaker 1: So I just want to get an answer. Oh, like,
Speaker 1: he hasn't had time because he's dating other women, possibly
Speaker 1: where he has a girlfriend, and he knows if he
Speaker 1: is seeing somebody else, he's spending a lot of cash
Speaker 1: if that's the way he dates. Yeah, all right, Cassie,
Speaker 1: here we go. I'm in a Dallas on him right now? Okay, Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: can I speak to LEVI? Oh? Yeah, this is him? Hey,
Speaker 1: what's up? Man? How are you? This is jew Bil
Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. From what Brooke
Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. Uh oh, okay,
Speaker 1: have you listened to the show before? I have not? Okay, Hey, cool, thanks,
Speaker 1: don't blame you, LEVI not. I don't even want to
Speaker 1: listen when I'm here, you know. No, No, I'm personal.
Speaker 1: I'm just not a big radio guy. Yeah, but for me,
Speaker 1: it's personal though. Anyway, let's not talk about that. I
Speaker 1: want to talk to you because we got an email
Speaker 1: from one of our listeners about you. You got an
Speaker 1: email about me? Yeah, it's from a girl named Cassie.
Speaker 1: Cassie emailed you about me. Yeah, she did. We do
Speaker 1: a segment on our show called the Second Date Update.
Speaker 1: So Cassie says that you had a wonderful date together,
Speaker 1: but you've kind of been blowing her off recently and
Speaker 1: she feels like you don't want to go out again. Wait. Wait,
Speaker 1: I just want to clarify other people have done this, right,
Speaker 1: I'm not the first guy that you've been contacted about.
Speaker 1: Does that make you feel better about the situation if
Speaker 1: other people have done it before you? Well, I just
Speaker 1: want to make sure that, like, I'm not the first, No,
Speaker 1: but you're the best. Leave You're not the first. We
Speaker 1: do a lot of these Okay, Um, First of all,
Speaker 1: I just want to say that my date with Cassie
Speaker 1: was like the best date I've ever been on, and
Speaker 1: I had a great time, and I really, really really
Speaker 1: want to go out with her again. I'm just not ready.
Speaker 1: You're not Why aren't you ready? Well, to be completely honest,
Speaker 1: I'm kind of broke. That first date kind of tapped
Speaker 1: me out, and I'm trying to save up enough money
Speaker 1: to take her on a second date. O. Man, why
Speaker 1: are you paid for all this expensive stuff if you
Speaker 1: don't have the funds to do that, like buy or
Speaker 1: the makeup and the shoes. She told you about all
Speaker 1: that stuff. Huh yeah, yeah, we talked to her about
Speaker 1: your date. She said, you, guys went to a really
Speaker 1: nice dinner and then afterwards you took her to the
Speaker 1: mall and you were like, throw it in the bag. Girl. Look,
Speaker 1: it's not really a big deal. Guys. I got a
Speaker 1: second Um, I gotta I'm I'm driving for Uber now,
Speaker 1: and so between that and my real job, I really
Speaker 1: think that, you know, it's gonna be easy to take
Speaker 1: her on dates like that. I just wasn't planning ahead
Speaker 1: because I didn't know I was going to meet her.
Speaker 1: You know, you took a second job in order to
Speaker 1: take Cassie out again. Yeah, oh man, that is so
Speaker 1: sweet and so wrong all at the same time. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: it's not right. I mean, look, let's be honest, what's
Speaker 1: money for if not to like, spend it on people
Speaker 1: you liked? Sounds like money for you should be to
Speaker 1: save it. But you realize when you go out on
Speaker 1: a date, you don't have to break the bank. Right, Well,
Speaker 1: you don't know Cassie, but she's definitely worth breaking the bank.
Speaker 1: I mean, i'd even rob a bank, not a big
Speaker 1: banking but a medium size bank. If you don't have
Speaker 1: the bank, don't spend it. No, no, I get that.
Speaker 1: It's just I think today nowadays, it's just a nice
Speaker 1: concept to be able to take somebody out. And if
Speaker 1: I'm the one asking them out, I want to be
Speaker 1: the one who can, like, you know, make it a date. Okay,
Speaker 1: I agree with you there, I do. I think that
Speaker 1: if you're the one that's asking, then you should be
Speaker 1: the one that treats. But she likes you for a
Speaker 1: lot of reasons, and there's a lot of other less
Speaker 1: expensive date options and taking them to the mall like
Speaker 1: you could go. I don't know to coffee man. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. In the dating climate nowadays,
Speaker 1: I think too many guys are content just being you know, typical.
Speaker 1: And I wanted to wow her and I still want
Speaker 1: to wow her on our next date. That's the point.
Speaker 1: And this promotion that Uber's offering right now. If I
Speaker 1: give one hundred and fifty rides in a three week period,
Speaker 1: I get a bonus five hundred dollars. So I was
Speaker 1: out there last night until four in the morning, giving
Speaker 1: rides to a lot of drunk people, and it was
Speaker 1: totally worth it. I think that is so kind. But
Speaker 1: you're missing the point. That's not how you wow a woman.
Speaker 1: It's not with money. You wowed Cassie because you listened
Speaker 1: to her, that you engaged her, you pulled the chair
Speaker 1: out for her, you made her feel respected and important. Well,
Speaker 1: regardless guys of like what we agree or disagree on,
Speaker 1: can you do me a favor and just let Cassie
Speaker 1: know that I am totally on board for another date
Speaker 1: and if she can just wait a few more days,
Speaker 1: I'm going to give her the best next date ever.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, well, I'll let her know, but you kind
Speaker 1: of already did because she's actually on the other line
Speaker 1: listening and wants to talk to you. What do you mean.
Speaker 1: I mean, we have multiple phone lines and she's been
Speaker 1: on one of them listening to your talk. Oh hello,
Speaker 1: Oh look, and there she is. Modern technology. Isn't it awesome? Hi?
Speaker 1: I LEVI have you been listening along? Yes, I listened
Speaker 1: to everything. There was no time where you stepped away
Speaker 1: from the phone. No, I heard it all and it's okay.
Speaker 1: I am. I'm really glad to you know, just like
Speaker 1: hear something, because you know, I was really starting to
Speaker 1: wonder and just think that, um, okay, maybe there was
Speaker 1: another girl. Let No, sorry I did something. No, no
Speaker 1: other girls. You are the only girl I want to
Speaker 1: hang out with. I just really wanted to show you
Speaker 1: a great date. And I get that. I think that
Speaker 1: that's amazing. I really really like after hearing your story now,
Speaker 1: like I'm so amazed that you would go to that extent,
Speaker 1: but you really, like, you know, you don't have to
Speaker 1: go that that crazy. I mean, especially we're just getting
Speaker 1: to know each other, like, you know, we should focus
Speaker 1: on getting to know each other, not just about the money.
Speaker 1: I mean, you're really awesome. I want to spend time
Speaker 1: with you. Well, let's say on our next date, I
Speaker 1: got you two pairs of shoes instead of one. I
Speaker 1: mean you're not going to turn that down, right? Okay,
Speaker 1: that is not necessary? You know I eventually I'm going
Speaker 1: to run out of places to put things if you
Speaker 1: keep it up like that. Well, we could get slippers.
Speaker 1: They they're more space efficient yet where you could take
Speaker 1: a third job and build your new closet. Believe, it's
Speaker 1: almost like insulting to her. She she's more than just
Speaker 1: wanting shoes, man, she wants you. She wants your personality.
Speaker 1: She wants how you make her feel. Not only do
Speaker 1: I want to listen to Cassie and hear and respond
Speaker 1: with her, but I also want to be able to, like,
Speaker 1: you know, buyer things because that's the total package and
Speaker 1: that's what that's what women dig, and that's awesome. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm excited about it. I can't wait to me to
Speaker 1: do like that. You're enough, That's what I'm saying. You're enough.
Speaker 1: You don't need the other stuff. You are the total
Speaker 1: package without the shoes. Yes, exactly, you don't. I mean
Speaker 1: it's gonna be detriment, Like if we were in a
Speaker 1: relationship and you were just busy working all the time
Speaker 1: to make the money and then just give me gifts.
Speaker 1: If I don't have a connection with you because you're gone,
Speaker 1: then that's not the total package. That's like a lopsided package.
Speaker 1: All right. When we were at the door after we kissed,
Speaker 1: you told me that that was the best date you'd
Speaker 1: ever been on. Right, Yes, and that was because I
Speaker 1: got you this stuff at Sephora and I got you
Speaker 1: the shoes you are. No, it's not because of that.
Speaker 1: That was just like an extra, like icing on the cake.
Speaker 1: Totally unexpected. But I was already interested in you from
Speaker 1: our conversation at dinner and how polite you are. I mean,
Speaker 1: if you were rude and awful and then you said
Speaker 1: you want to hit me shopping, it would have been weird.
Speaker 1: I probably would have said, no, I'm good. I don't
Speaker 1: want to pen any more time with you. So it
Speaker 1: wasn't the money, Okay, I hear you. It wasn't the money.
Speaker 1: But just so you know, I've been saving up a
Speaker 1: lot for our next day, driving until four in the morning,
Speaker 1: carting around drunk people, just trying to make some cash
Speaker 1: so he can take you out again. Cassie, totally not necessary.
Speaker 1: Have about we just go to dinner somewhere that's inexpensive,
Speaker 1: and we just take a walk somewhere where there's no
Speaker 1: money involved, no shopping, like something simple on a beach
Speaker 1: or whatever. Oh I could rin a pair of sale
Speaker 1: and we could fly around on that. No, don't spend
Speaker 1: any money. I mean literally, the only red flag with
Speaker 1: you right now at this point is your money management skills,
Speaker 1: Like you need to stop. Man. How about this? Would
Speaker 1: you go out on a second date with Cassie. We
Speaker 1: will pay for it, and you're you can't spend any
Speaker 1: money on it? Though, I gotta respectfully decline, guys, because
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pay for it and you guys can't pay
Speaker 1: for anything. This is my date. Oh my gosh. Just
Speaker 1: the principle of the matter. You're arguing whether or not
Speaker 1: we pay for your date that you can't afford. I'm
Speaker 1: going to be paying for stuff, and that's how it is. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's fine, you can pay for stuff, but let's not
Speaker 1: like be spending the whole time paying for stuff. Like,
Speaker 1: just pay for a dinner and then a little dessert
Speaker 1: and then that's fine. That's it. No shopping, how about that?
Speaker 1: That's probably a good idea, because I should be driving
Speaker 1: over by ten thirty. That's when you get the biggest bonus. Okay, cool,
Speaker 1: so we're gonna agreement. Then you guys are going to
Speaker 1: go out one more time. Yes, Cassie, I'm really excited
Speaker 1: for an estate. I don't want to give away too much,
Speaker 1: but it does involve a limousine and endangered animals. Oh
Speaker 1: my god. Wow. Yeah, I don't care what I want
Speaker 1: to go on this day. It sounds interesting and the
Speaker 1: morning