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Speaker 1: Second date Update? This must be the year for dating.

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Speaker 1: It seems like every single email that we get in

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Speaker 1: for a second date update this past year has said

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Speaker 1: this is the best date I've ever been on my

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Speaker 1: entire life. So everybody's apparently having the best dates of

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Speaker 1: their entire life this year. Why are we getting so

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Speaker 1: many emails for second date updates? Stand? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: But Cassie, who's on the phone right now for a

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Speaker 1: second day update, said that she had the best date

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Speaker 1: of her entire life. I used to say bold statement,

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Speaker 1: but I don't know that it is anymore. Maybe the

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Speaker 1: bar is just low enough. Finally, yep, So Cassie, why

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Speaker 1: don't you tell us about your best date of your

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Speaker 1: entire life? Hello? All right, how are you doing? You

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Speaker 1: sound like you're still smiling, Cassie, So that's good. Yeah

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Speaker 1: I am, and I'm trying to still You're obviously not

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Speaker 1: getting to call back, but that's cool. Yeah, kind of sucks,

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Speaker 1: but um, you know, hopefully you guys can help me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we'll see, we do help a lot of people. No,

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Speaker 1: we don't, not really, we'll try. So tell us a

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Speaker 1: little bit about the dude you want to call today.

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Speaker 1: Who'd you go on a date with? His name is Levi,

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Speaker 1: And we did go on a lovely dinner date. Oh,

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Speaker 1: the best day ever. It really was, you know, until

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Speaker 1: he just stopped contacting me. Yeah, and that usually makes

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Speaker 1: it a lot worse, all right, Cassie, Like I said,

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Speaker 1: everybody seems to be saying they've had the best date

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Speaker 1: of their entire life. Why was it so special? We

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Speaker 1: went to a really nice restaurant. Okay, I heard that before.

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Speaker 1: Don't be bared of their story. Listen to her. Most guys,

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Speaker 1: I hear. Most guys say they don't want to invest

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Speaker 1: nice thing when it's a nice restaurant that isn't cheap.

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Speaker 1: Good point, it was really nice. You know. The dishes

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Speaker 1: he did everything. But you know, like a traditional mom

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Speaker 1: He even like was so weird. He even like stood

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Speaker 1: never experienced that before. I was like, wait, what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Are we leaving? That's really funny. For I am a gentleman.

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Speaker 1: I stand when a woman in the room. I'm waiting

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Speaker 1: my seat as well. Oh my god, coving. I didn't

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Speaker 1: doing that old school chivalrous thing. I was like, wow,

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Speaker 1: this is really interesting. So he was. I mean, he

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Speaker 1: best date ever? Or was there something else? Now there's more.

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Speaker 1: It's like, it's what's so weird about it? So he

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Speaker 1: wasn't only polite. He was engaging and interesting and he

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Speaker 1: He didn't just go on and on about himself. It

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Speaker 1: sounds refreshing and lovely. Sounds like you went out with

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Speaker 1: travel to the future. No, yeah, maybe that's why he's

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Speaker 1: some dinosaurs. Really, whatever they were fighting, it sounds like

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Speaker 1: a true gentleman, Cassie. Anyway, the dinner date was awesome.

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Speaker 1: that actually is not a bad idea. There's something I

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Speaker 1: credit card debt, how did the date end? Very nice?

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Speaker 1: He just took me back to my house and dropped

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Speaker 1: And that's when I told him, you know, I was like,

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Speaker 1: And it's frustrating because we've kind of talked about the dates,

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you? Okay, hang on looking jubile in

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Speaker 1: the morning. Second updates if you're just joining us for

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Speaker 1: today's second date update. Cassie is on the phone and

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Speaker 1: she said she had the best date of her entire

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Speaker 1: life with the dude named Levi. They went out for

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Speaker 1: a very nice dinner and then at the end of dinner,

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Speaker 1: Levi looked her and he said, congratulations, Cassie, you just

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Speaker 1: this is what life is like when you're dating Levi.

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Speaker 1: Is that kind of how it went, Cassie? Pretty much? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess I was pretty much it except for non

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Speaker 1: because every really good date involves a game show announcer.

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Speaker 1: another huge surprise planned for their second date. But now

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Speaker 1: the conversation has fizzled out. And what are you feeling

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Speaker 1: You too frustrated? I still like him slightly frustrated, but

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Speaker 1: if that's the way he dates. Yeah, all right, Cassie,

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Speaker 1: here we go. I'm in a Dallas on him right now? Okay, Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: can I speak to LEVI? Oh? Yeah, this is him? Hey,

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Speaker 1: what's up? Man? How are you? This is jew Bil

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Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. From what Brooke

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Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. Uh oh, okay,

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Speaker 1: it's personal though. Anyway, let's not talk about that. I

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Speaker 1: email about me? Yeah, it's from a girl named Cassie.

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Speaker 1: Cassie emailed you about me. Yeah, she did. We do

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Speaker 1: a segment on our show called the Second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: So Cassie says that you had a wonderful date together,

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Speaker 1: I just want to clarify other people have done this, right,

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Speaker 1: I'm not the first guy that you've been contacted about.

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Speaker 1: other people have done it before you? Well, I just

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Speaker 1: want to make sure that, like, I'm not the first, No,

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Speaker 1: but you're the best. Leave You're not the first. We

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Speaker 1: do a lot of these Okay, Um, First of all,

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Speaker 1: I had a great time, and I really, really really

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Speaker 1: want to go out with her again. I'm just not ready.

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Speaker 1: You're not Why aren't you ready? Well, to be completely honest,

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of broke. That first date kind of tapped

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Speaker 1: to take her on a second date. O. Man, why

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Speaker 1: It's just I think today nowadays, it's just a nice

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Speaker 1: And this promotion that Uber's offering right now. If I

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Speaker 1: It's not with money. You wowed Cassie because you listened

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Speaker 1: I mean, we have multiple phone lines and she's been

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're really awesome. I want to spend time

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Speaker 1: that is not necessary? You know I eventually I'm going

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Speaker 1: do like that. You're enough, That's what I'm saying. You're enough.

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Speaker 1: That was just like an extra, like icing on the cake.

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Speaker 1: our conversation at dinner and how polite you are. I mean,

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Speaker 1: so he can take you out again. Cassie, totally not necessary.

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Speaker 1: Have about we just go to dinner somewhere that's inexpensive,

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Speaker 1: Like you need to stop. Man. How about this? Would

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