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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: joining us. We're so excited to be back. How are

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Speaker 1: you doing today, Susan, I'm doing alsome.

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Speaker 2: I think it's really hot here and I know Kathy

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Speaker 2: is here in my home and it is the best

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Speaker 2: day ever. There's no humidity, and this girl's cold cold.

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Speaker 1: It's seventy five degrees here. I came from. I came

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Speaker 2: We have some great questions today that we can't wait

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Speaker 1: Sus here ninety, come on, how are you doing? And see?

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for being here.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: I'm happy to be here.

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Speaker 1: So let's catch up, babe.

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Speaker 2: What's going on besides you being at my home? Well?

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Speaker 4: I just got to Susan's last night. It's a quick

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Speaker 4: two and a half hour drive. It's beautiful here, but

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Speaker 4: as Kathy said, she's freezing. I was a little cold,

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Speaker 4: so I put on my jacket.

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Speaker 1: But Ian and Susan is sweating. But that's just a detail.

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Speaker 4: I hope they're going to find out more about me

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Speaker 4: this weekend, and so I'm sure you'll all be hearing

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Speaker 4: about that next week when you do another podcast. Because

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Speaker 4: they everything's nothing's off limits.

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Speaker 2: Let me ask you something as we review Jones, gentleman,

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Speaker 2: was there anybody that stuck.

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Speaker 3: Out to you?

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Speaker 4: Well? Several?

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Speaker 3: Oh, well, here we go.

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Speaker 4: Several and do you want to know the names?

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Speaker 1: Sure? Wait, here's the problem. Wait, here's the problem for

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Speaker 1: all three of us. Okay, we don't know if if

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Speaker 1: Joan chose anyone, we don't know, if she's with someone,

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Speaker 1: we don't know. We just know she can only choose one.

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Speaker 1: What if we all picked the one that she chose,

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Speaker 1: we're screwed. We pursued, We'll have to go with number two.

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Speaker 4: Then sorry, yes, you know what.

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Speaker 2: I'm the first guy that's stuck out in your head

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Speaker 2: like boom as soon as I asked the question.

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Speaker 3: Jonathan Okay, okay, he's a.

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Speaker 4: Little younger than me. He's from IOI wow, Jonathan, Greg

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Speaker 4: I think from Longboat Key and Jordan, those were the

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Speaker 4: three who stuck out. But honestly, I do think until

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Speaker 4: you meet someone you don't really know, and we all

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Speaker 4: know we've met people and dated people, do mean to

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Speaker 4: hold those thank you that you know, maybe they aren't

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Speaker 4: exactly what you thought you were looking for, and then

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Speaker 4: you meet them and you're like, oh my gosh, and

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Speaker 4: then all of a sudden, of course they become more

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Speaker 4: handsome and more or less.

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Speaker 1: You've got or less.

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Speaker 4: But you've got to wait and meet people.

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Speaker 2: All right, Nancy, we want you to join us. Okay,

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Speaker 2: we're going to get your opinion. We have questions coming

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Speaker 2: in that we're all going to answer and to the

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Speaker 2: best of whatever you feel. The way they ask that question,

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Speaker 2: what comes to mind is what you're going to share?

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Speaker 4: Okay, cool, sounds good?

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Speaker 1: Okay. Ready. Money is a hot topic when it comes

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Speaker 1: to relationships. Financial problems contribute to twenty to forty percent

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Speaker 1: of all divorces. So when do you think it's the

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Speaker 1: right time to talk about money, debt, spending, habits, savings,

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Speaker 1: et cetera in a new relationship? Is this a first

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Speaker 1: date topic? Three dates in, a year in and how

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Speaker 4: I would say, three dates in and how do you

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Speaker 4: have to bring it up, and you have to sort

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Speaker 4: of plant a seed. I don't think you have the

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Speaker 2: I feel like I want to make sure that I'm

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but conversation, here's the difference. At our age, we

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Speaker 1: combine do we even combine? That's really where I'm after.

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Speaker 1: Do you combine resources?

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Speaker 2: Are half of them signed prenups. I mean, what's yours

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Speaker 3: What his should be yours too?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, would you sign a prenup? Absolutely? Absolutely? Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I don't think there's anything I would sign on.

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Speaker 2: You know, there was a time when I was much

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Speaker 2: But now I totally get it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but don't you think Yeah, don't you think though

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Speaker 1: it's it's totally But would I bring it up. Absolutely?

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Speaker 2: So the question we want to know is it the

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not three dates and probably not a year.

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Speaker 4: I said three because what if what if somebody says, well,

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Speaker 1: Really like, what if there's a red flag dropped?

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Speaker 4: Good to know? Three date? True?

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Speaker 2: So third date we might not even kiss yet.

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Speaker 1: I mean a year in talk about money, Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: In like she said, like I said, you have to

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm looking for. Here's my sex, I

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Speaker 1: mean what, it's always on her mind, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking. What I'm the way you find out about finances.

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Speaker 1: You don't even have to bring that up. If the

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Speaker 1: You probably are going to have serious financial problem or.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, Or the bill comes and he sits there and

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Speaker 4: he doesn't offer to pay, another red flag.

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Speaker 2: Wait, I got to I got a winner.

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Speaker 1: I was on the date. Wait, and it was a

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Speaker 1: happy hour date? You chad?

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Speaker 2: Last one? He had a second and I went to

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Speaker 2: order a second. He goes, no, no, no, happy hours over.

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Speaker 2: I thought, yeah, you're over too, Okay, no no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I got it. I'll buy my own da Did you

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Speaker 1: hear Nancy? How sad? Is that really?

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Speaker 2: Very?

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing. If a guy says to me on

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Speaker 1: a first date, a second date, or a third date,

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Speaker 1: it's happy hours, so why don't we split an appetizer?

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Speaker 1: I'm going to say, you know what, I have a

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Speaker 1: bus to catch and it's leaving in five minutes, so

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Speaker 1: I'm out of here. And now with that being said,

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Speaker 1: let's get on weed some great So, Nancy, the way

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Speaker 1: we do this you were done with, we are done,

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Speaker 1: and we're done with guys. We're done with guys who

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Speaker 1: don't want to who don't want to pay. There you go. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So we do some fan questions and we're going to

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Speaker 1: read them and we're going to ask all this, discuss,

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Speaker 1: sit and give our advice. Are you in you ready? Nancy?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: This one's from Casey, thirty two years old from Los Angeles. Hi,

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Speaker 2: Kathy and Susan. I'm struggling a bit right now and

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Speaker 2: thought I turned to my internet moms for advice. Oh okay,

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Speaker 2: we're internet moms.

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Speaker 1: We love you, Casey.

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Speaker 2: All of my friends are in serious relationships and are

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Speaker 2: moving on to new chapters of life. I've never had

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Speaker 2: happened for me yet. I am trying not to lose hope,

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Speaker 2: but it gets harder every day to watch everyone else

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Speaker 2: my friends really want to go out with me anymore

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Speaker 2: because they are all wifed up, which makes it harder

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Speaker 1: This experience is making me.

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Speaker 2: Look back at my life choices, thinking about where I

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Speaker 2: to lose hope that I'll have my life partner family someday.

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Speaker 2: Love you both so much, Thank you for all the

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Speaker 4: She's only thirty two. I know, I'm sure she would

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Speaker 1: She probably will.

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Speaker 4: Be more ready when she does meet the right person.

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Speaker 1: I think Casey might be a guy, be alright, he

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Speaker 1: because he's saying his friends are all wifed up.

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Speaker 2: Well, that could be, but you know what.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like.

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Speaker 4: I feel like thirty two isn't so old to not

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Speaker 1: I don't know, you know why we can say that

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Speaker 1: wifed up, casey, I hear you. It's got to be

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Speaker 1: really tough. And my advice to you would be, shake

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Speaker 1: you've been getting. So, you know, try something new. Try

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Speaker 1: a new activity that's a group activity, you know, pick

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Speaker 1: up a sport. I mean we always say the same thing,

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Speaker 1: but like pickleball is a big thing. Go take a

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Speaker 1: course a lesson in pickleball, right, Do something new or challenge.

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Speaker 4: The sorry golf meetups have you heard about those where

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Speaker 4: people play golf? You know, you don't have to be

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Speaker 2: I think from our generation, thirty two was old not

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Speaker 2: A lot of your friends are saying or wifed up,

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Speaker 2: or they're married, or they're in a relationship. So change

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Speaker 4: People, people through people.

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Speaker 1: And I will say, people writing a lot, don't they, Susan,

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Speaker 2: It's as if we've known each other for fifty exactly.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is great. All right, Go ahead, Susan.

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Speaker 1: What was your first impression of me?

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Speaker 1: Oh? What do you say, Nancy?

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Speaker 4: What was your first impression of No, it's of Susan,

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Speaker 1: It's my question. Oh, it's world return around.

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Speaker 2: It's not moral.

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Speaker 4: I knew I liked you from the minute I saw you.

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Speaker 1: You know why?

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Speaker 4: You were approachable? You were approachable and you had a

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Speaker 4: I know. No, I'm serious. You're approachable like not everybody was,

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Speaker 1: I would intimidate. I'm like, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: I already know we've like bonded immediately. I literally there

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, now I'm gonna ask one because it's

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Speaker 3: What do you think something you love about?

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Speaker 4: I love that I know I could count on Kathy

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Speaker 3: And what about it?

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Speaker 1: I thought this was about you. It's about her. I know.

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Speaker 1: You see what goes on here, it's we all got

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Speaker 4: What does Nancy want is something?

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Speaker 1: Anyway? No, but this is so fun in our video. Seriously,

442
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Speaker 1: people right in to both of us, not just to me.

443
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Speaker 1: Why don't you let Nancy speak? Let her talk? I try,

444
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 1: I can't keep up, so then I'm quiet. I'm just like, okay,

445
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Speaker 1: keep talking.

446
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Speaker 2: Nance you're just telling people that she's not quiet, trusting.

447
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 1: Me all the time.

448
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Speaker 4: So I did I answer the question?

449
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Speaker 1: No, I didn't, And I love you. I love that

450
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Speaker 1: you said that you could count on me for anything.

451
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Speaker 4: But if you were sick, if you had a problem.

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Speaker 4: Kathy's so smart also, and I know that if when

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Speaker 4: I was buying my daughter a car, I'm like, Kathy,

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Speaker 4: should I finance which? And she taught me all this

455
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 4: stuff anyway, She you can count on her, and I

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Speaker 4: believe you are one of the most loyal people I've

457
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Speaker 4: ever met. Now I'm going to talk, but we do

458
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Speaker 4: need to work on talking over each other.

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Speaker 1: That's all of us.

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Speaker 2: You asking me the question, why not?

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Speaker 1: You're scared? She scared? This? All right? No, I want

462
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Speaker 1: to know what you love about our friendship?

463
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Speaker 5: Love us, I really do. We are a threesome.

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Speaker 2: We're dynamic. We love each other. No matter what faults

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Speaker 2: we have, we can get upset from each other.

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Speaker 1: They have no faults.

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Speaker 2: The point is this, even if we said something hurtful,

468
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Speaker 2: we forgive one another. We didn't mean to be hurtful.

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Speaker 2: That's a true friendship and what we could work on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, zip it. Don't over talk or try to control this.

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Speaker 1: This interview is over. Yeah, moving right along.

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Speaker 2: All right, I have a fun one you guys both

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Speaker 2: answer What is your favorite memory of us so far?

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Speaker 2: Go ahead?

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Speaker 1: What comes first?

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Speaker 2: The most favorite thing that we've done, you and me

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Speaker 2: or all of us.

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Speaker 1: Or all of us? I'm asking that. Well, for you

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Speaker 1: and me, the most favorite thing you and I have

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Speaker 1: done was a podcast. Well, of course the podcast, but

481
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Speaker 1: walking the Red carpet that was un believed well that

482
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Speaker 1: was just and wait the other thing. The other one

483
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Speaker 1: is us doing Gary and Triesa's writing, you officiating it,

484
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Speaker 1: and me am seeing it with Charity and Jesse Palmers

485
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Speaker 1: life change.

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Speaker 2: But what if I ask you a favorite memory of

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Speaker 2: the three of us, like, where would it have been?

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Speaker 1: In the bed room at the mansion?

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Speaker 4: I was going to say the same thing. We were.

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Speaker 4: There were seven of us to start, and then we

491
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Speaker 4: had four of us left. We all lined our twin

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Speaker 4: beds together and it was like summer camp. It's true,

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Speaker 4: and we laughed for three weeks.

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Speaker 3: Don't you think that's where we found it?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely doubt my favorite memory, even though I'm asking the question,

496
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Speaker 2: is the laughter like a two pack?

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Speaker 4: People, You know, when you laughed.

498
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Speaker 2: So hard you think you're getting the two pack in your.

499
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Speaker 1: Belly, when we know you laughed so hard you pee.

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Speaker 2: Saint Martin not anymore. I had to pix when we

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Speaker 2: were in Saint Martin's. Do you remember how we were

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Speaker 2: driving and the rainstorm and mission flight like they're the

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Speaker 2: moments that I'll never forget.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. All for those of you who didn't hear, we

505
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Speaker 1: discussed at one point Susan's driving, I'm in the front seat,

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Speaker 1: passenger seat, the shotgun and Nancy's in the back. What

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Speaker 1: were you saying to us? Nancy? You idiots? What are

508
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 1: we doing? Were you idiots? Where where are we? It

509
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Speaker 1: was do right. It was when we were lost, and

510
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Speaker 1: you know what, what did we do?

511
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Speaker 4: Signs?

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Speaker 1: Well we did, Susan. I just all we were doing

513
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Speaker 1: was laughing.

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Speaker 2: We were were canceling flights, hurricanes were coming.

515
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Speaker 1: I'm like, this is serious, and they're just cracking it up.

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Speaker 1: You can't make it home, Nancy. This is called this

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Speaker 1: is called life. Enter.

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Speaker 2: Another funny one was I went a little shopping in

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Speaker 2: these two when we went on the the Dutch side

520
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Speaker 2: of Saint Martin, and these two found a jewelry store

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Speaker 2: which our friendship bracelets came from. But wait, by the

522
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Speaker 2: time I found them, they had a lot of Champygo.

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Speaker 1: That was another good movie, drink and buy.

524
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 5: Got to the store and they're like, here's your You

525
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Speaker 5: got a friendship brace that's only close to one thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: Season we got diamonds, and of course we all got

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Speaker 1: them and we all have them.

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Speaker 4: And of course we're friends now with the owner of

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Speaker 4: the jewelry store. Who wants us to come back this year.

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Speaker 1: Well, we are, we are going back.

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Speaker 2: We booked our trip and we're getting another bracelet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't wait. All right, Kathy, you got my mortgo?

533
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Speaker 1: Where am I? Let's say? Okay, I've got another fun one.

534
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 1: What are it's all about? Me? Girls? Though I didn't

535
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Speaker 1: write them, I'm just reading them. What are the top

536
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: three things you like about me? And don't worry, I'll

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Speaker 1: answer for you too. What are the top three things

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Speaker 1: you like about me? Nancy? About you?

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00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 2: It's just it's just you, I know, No Aunt Nancy,

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Speaker 2: Nancy Anty, Nancy Me?

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Speaker 3: What are the top three things about her?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I know?

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Speaker 1: Like about Okay, that was a waste of five minutes.

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00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 1: Let the girl talk.

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Speaker 4: I like Kathy well, like I said, her loyalty, her humor,

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Speaker 4: and her intelligence.

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Speaker 1: Oh Nancy, Okay, you know what I love about you.

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00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 1: I love that you wear your faith on your sleeve,

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00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,479
Speaker 1: on your heart, and you are not embarrassed for anyone

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00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 1: to know your faith in God and Jesus. And I

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00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 1: love that. I love your hair. I love that you

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00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 1: when we've been at your house, you make us feel

554
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: so warm. You're just a good friend. You'll always listen you.

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00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 1: Nancy is probably one of the best listeners in all

556
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 1: seriousness that I've ever met. What about you was that nice?

557
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: You should have seen the looks she just gave me.

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Speaker 2: That's your question.

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00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 1: What are the most three things that you love about me?

560
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: That you make me laugh? That you're a true friend.

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00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 2: And your eyes, Oh my eyes, thank you, thank you?

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Speaker 1: Okay. I love your energy, Susan. You have incredible positive energy.

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00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 1: You also go out of your way. I mean, guys,

564
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Speaker 1: you cannot believe what just this weekend is a perfect example.

565
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 1: Like if you come to my house, I'm going to

566
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Speaker 1: show where the toaster is, and like hope that you

567
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Speaker 1: go out to Starbucks and get your own coffee. Susan

568
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 1: has all kinds of food. It's it's nuts. She is

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Speaker 1: a host of you like me being Yeah, I like

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Speaker 1: you being Italian. And I also like that you are

571
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: a take charge person. If something needs to get done,

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00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:56,719
Speaker 1: you know how to do it, and you take care

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Speaker 1: of me.

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00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 4: Every It's like she's behind you picking up your cup.

575
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: And I do better today. I was trying not to

576
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Speaker 1: do it before you were finished. Was focused.

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Speaker 4: So I'm still sitting at the table because I sat

578
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Speaker 4: down late to no I was late, and so I

579
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:19,239
Speaker 4: sat down. They were all had started. That's another thing

580
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Speaker 4: we can talk about later. But you never start to

581
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Speaker 4: eating before. Not everybody sits at the table.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, it was, I know, a.

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Speaker 1: Podcast to do, I know, and you didn't say grace either.

584
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Speaker 4: I sat late, and so I'm still eating.

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Speaker 1: Well everybody knew that.

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Speaker 4: But all of a sudden, half the half the food's

587
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Speaker 4: gone off the table, and I'm like, I'm eating my babel.

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Speaker 1: Nancy's sitting crab, Susan's at the kitchen sick, scrubbing, getting ready,

589
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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm almost done. Nancy sitting in the

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Speaker 1: corner going guys, I'm still eating, and sports me. Don't

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Speaker 1: mind me. I'm still eating, Okay, because take some more

592
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: before I take it away. Okay. So I just wanted

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Speaker 1: to wait say one thing in all honesty and our friendship,

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Speaker 1: and I hope everyone hears us and knows that the

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Speaker 1: friendships that we made on the Golden Bachelor are lifelong friendships.

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Speaker 1: We love each other, we take care of each other,

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00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 1: and this is not a put on. So be grateful

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Speaker 1: for your friends and take care of your friendships, because.

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Speaker 3: And I just wish every pretty out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Take care. You just never

601
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Speaker 1: know how you're gonna make great friends. And here we are.

602
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Speaker 3: And all you want out there that are interested in

603
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Speaker 3: calling your datment. Did you see the nice things they

604
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 3: said about me? I'm just saying. Think we're all the

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Speaker 3: dolls you get.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have big eyes, I have evertiser and we're

607
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 1: not splitting drinks right. All right? We should do this.

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00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 3: Again, definitely every few months. We should do this. Are

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Speaker 3: you angry? I would love it. I love it that well.

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Speaker 6: I guess that for this step, I went playing World

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Speaker 6: Compass though next one, ladies and gentlemen, when Nansen wants

612
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Speaker 6: to play that game, I'll step back and have a

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Speaker 6: nice thing.

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Speaker 1: She'll be in a happy hour having an appetizer. All right, listen,

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00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 1: thank you all so much for joining us, and please

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Speaker 1: be sure to follow Bachelor Happy Hour. We have new

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00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 1: episodes coming out every week. You know that by now.

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Speaker 1: And if I have to tell you again to follow,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what. I'm going to tear my.

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Speaker 3: Hair out, I'm telling you, And please submit your questions

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Speaker 3: to us.

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Speaker 1: You know what to do?

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Speaker 3: What a bachelornation dot com slash Golden Our or in

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Speaker 3: as up one social at Bachelor.

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Speaker 1: We want to thank you Nancy for joining us today.

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Speaker 1: We've had a great time having you, so we'll do

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00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: it again soon. Okay, we love you. Listen to Bachelor

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Speaker 1: Happy Hours Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio app or wherever

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Speaker 1: you listen to podcasts. Have a great week. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: yahm