1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: you need advice and relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HAARBFM dot com 4 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,119 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 6 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:22,920 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 9 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 2: We got it. 10 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 3: Point you hear it is Strawberry. 11 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: Let up, Thank you, nephew. Subject. When I look, I 12 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 1: find dear Stephen Shirley. I've been divorced for five years 13 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:36,519 Speaker 1: and I'm starting to date again. I've been eager to 14 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 1: find a new guy for years, but as luck would 15 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: have it, I've been picking men that are just like 16 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 1: my cheating ex husband. The last guy I met seemed 17 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:47,879 Speaker 1: like he was going to be a good prospect. But 18 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 1: we've only been together for four months and he's already 19 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 1: shown me that one woman isn't enough for him. He 20 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: started out sending me flowers and taking me on nice dates. 21 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 1: We had sex after our fourth date, and he got 22 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 1: up and went home right after we were intimate. He 23 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: said that he really needed to use his own restroom 24 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 1: at his own home. That almost caused an argument as 25 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: he left my house in the middle of the night. 26 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:14,040 Speaker 1: He used that same excuse whenever he was supposed to 27 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: spend the night at my house. We'd always eat dinner 28 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:19,039 Speaker 1: at my house or go out to eat and have 29 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 1: sex later on. Right after sex, he was out the 30 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: door and headed home to use a bathroom and take 31 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 1: a shower on Friday night. When he did that, I 32 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 1: decided to ride by his house after he had been 33 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 1: home a while. He was there sitting on his front 34 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:37,479 Speaker 1: steps with a woman. I slowed up and blew the horn. 35 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 1: He jumped up and came over to my car, asking 36 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 1: why I was at his house unannounced. I told him 37 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: I was suspicious that he was dating other people. He 38 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: told me that we aren't exclusive and I'm too messy 39 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: to ever be his girl. He said he wasn't cheating 40 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: because I was never his girl. I'm grateful that I 41 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: got in my car and rode by his house. When 42 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: I look, I find is it best to look and 43 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 1: be aware or act like you don't know what a 44 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: man is up to? Why is it a lose lose 45 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: situation for women trying to date. Wow, I guess because 46 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 1: dating has changed so much over the years, just like 47 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 1: everything else in the world. I mean, there's no courting 48 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 1: or like getting to know you period anymore. People nowadays 49 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:26,399 Speaker 1: get love bombed in the first couple of weeks, where 50 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:29,799 Speaker 1: the men whine and dine you, they call you every day, 51 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: they spend quality time with you. 52 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 4: The sin you. 53 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 3: Flowers like this guy did all of that. 54 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 1: Then after that two week time frame, after you've slept 55 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: with him or whatever, it's a short time time frame, 56 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: two weeks or whatever. 57 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 3: It's usually just over the. 58 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 1: Phone call stop, the attenantive tentive ness stops and he 59 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: starts ghosting you or whatever. I get that you've been 60 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: divorced for five years and you want to be in 61 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: a relationship. You said you were eager to be in 62 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 1: a relationship, but you still have to take your time 63 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 1: to see if these guys are even worth it. What 64 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 1: you don't want is to come off as desperate. I mean, 65 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: men can smell that kind of stuff a mile away 66 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: and they go in for the kill. I say, you're 67 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,399 Speaker 1: not ready to date. You got to find out who 68 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 1: you are, get your confidence up. I think you need 69 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: to decide what you want what kind of man you want, 70 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: Then you know you won't keep ending up in these 71 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: same type situations with these men. 72 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 3: Work on your confidence, work on self love. 73 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 5: Steve Well said Shirley, I agree with what you're saying. 74 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 5: Here's the part for me with women, Thank you. You 75 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 5: get with these men that you really don't know. You 76 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 5: get with these men that you have no clarification of 77 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 5: what you have with this man. You get with these 78 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 5: men and you assume, and when you meet a man, 79 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 5: you forget that. When you meet this man, what do 80 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 5: you think he's been doing up intil the day y'all met? 81 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 2: What's your thought? 82 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 5: Stop meeting men thinking they free and clear. Ain't nobody 83 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 5: free and clear. Everybody you meet in this world is 84 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 5: connected to somebody somewhere some way. There are no free 85 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 5: and clear people who you've been divorced five years. You 86 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:17,479 Speaker 5: meet a man, what you thought he was doing when 87 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 5: you met him sitting at the house. Everybody you meet 88 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 5: comes with a past. Your job is to uncover as 89 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 5: much of the past as you can to determine if 90 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 5: you can fit into a future with them. That is 91 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 5: the real deal. It ain't no lose lose for a 92 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 5: woman out here, Dayton. Stop jumping to conclusions. Stop Alte. 93 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:48,839 Speaker 5: I wrote a book in two thousand and nine. I'm 94 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 5: thinking about writing another book because dating has changed. I'm 95 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 5: thinking about really really pulling the covers back on this 96 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 5: one too. But I wrote a long time ago a 97 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 5: ninety day rule that applies, but y'all don't because y'all 98 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 5: Instagram now and everything is instant. 99 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 2: So here we go. 100 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 5: You've been met, divorced five years, and starting to date again. 101 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 5: Sureley said it best. I've been eager to find a 102 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 5: new guy for years, but as luck would have it, 103 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:21,479 Speaker 5: I keep picking men that are just like my cheating 104 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 5: next husband. Really, well, let's find out about this guy. 105 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 5: Last guy met seemed like he was gonna be a 106 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 5: good prospect. But we've only been together four months and 107 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 5: he's already showed me that one woman ain't enough for him. Okay, 108 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 5: he started out sending me flowers and taking me on 109 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 5: nice dates. We had sex after our fourth date. Okay, 110 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 5: when was the fourth date? How much time do was it? 111 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 5: Two weeks? Was it ten days? Was it a month? 112 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:57,279 Speaker 5: And why, ladies, do you not understand when you first 113 00:05:57,320 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 5: meet a man that you are meeting his representative you're 114 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:04,479 Speaker 5: not meeting who he really is when you first meet him. 115 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:11,480 Speaker 5: You're meeting his representative. Then after a while, you get 116 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:13,280 Speaker 5: to know who he is. We had sex after our 117 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:16,280 Speaker 5: fourth date. He got up and went home. Right after 118 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 5: we were intimate. He said he really needed to use 119 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 5: his own restroom at his own house. Now that right there, 120 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 5: I can understand. I respect that, and that right there, 121 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 5: you didn't give him enough credit for that. It's some 122 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 5: people that have got to get up and go to 123 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 5: the bathroom. 124 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 3: Hang up, and that when we come back, hang. 125 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 2: Up, got to get out this house. 126 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 3: You can't know this of Steve's response. 127 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: At twenty three minutes after the hour, Today's Strawberry Letters 128 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: subject is. 129 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 3: When I look, I find. 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But it don't cause y'all done got 150 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 5: around that. Y'all done let me and talk you into 151 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 5: a y'all Instagram people, So y'all don't do that no more. 152 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 5: Stop assuming of men, Stop dating men you don't know 153 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 5: what you're and stop expecting them to treat you the 154 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 5: way you treat them. Stop and when you meet a man, 155 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 5: first thing you must know is he comes. 156 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 2: With a past and a history. 157 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 5: Secondly, know this nobody you meet is unconnected. Everybody is 158 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 5: connected to somebody. Ain't nowhere in the world. You done 159 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 5: met this man, found him to be attractive, and you 160 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 5: the only one. Stop thinking you've met a man that 161 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 5: ain't got nobody? 162 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 2: Why would he do that? What man? 163 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 5: You know that can have sex, can perform sexually, and 164 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:46,079 Speaker 5: is not. 165 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 2: Where he stayed, what country he live in? 166 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 5: All right, So you done met this guy and you 167 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 5: mad because he just like your ex cheating husband. So 168 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:59,959 Speaker 5: you met this guy after the fourth date y'all had. 169 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 5: I don't know how long that was, but obviously you 170 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 5: didn't know him well enough, and after four months he 171 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 5: didn't show you. The one woman ain't enough for him. 172 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 5: He started out sending you flowers, going on nice dates. 173 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 5: That's because you were meeting his representative. I tried to 174 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 5: explain that to you. We had sex after that fourth date. 175 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 5: He got up went home right after we were intimate. 176 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 5: He said he really needed to use his own restroom 177 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:27,559 Speaker 5: at his own home. Come on, now, you gotta get 178 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 5: his man credit for this right here, I've been. 179 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 2: There, you must. 180 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:34,080 Speaker 5: I'm telling you one of the worst nights of my 181 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 5: life when I dated this creole girl and my stomach 182 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 5: was tore up from eating creole food with him, and 183 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 5: I knew to go home and her parents weren't home, 184 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 5: and she said. 185 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 2: Come on in. I should have took my home, but 186 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 2: I went up in her house. 187 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 5: And what I go up in that folk called my 188 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 5: stomach was cutting and it went on up in there, 189 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 5: and I used a bathroom at her mama's house. 190 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 2: We never dated again after that. 191 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 5: When a man tells you that he got to go 192 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 5: home to his own bad bathroom, respect that, because if 193 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 5: you make him go to the bathroom in there, something 194 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:13,719 Speaker 5: finn to go home when he shut that door, that 195 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 5: he not gonna be able to open that door for 196 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 5: awhile I'm just telling you anyway, that almost caused an argument. 197 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 5: As he left my house in the middle of the night. 198 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:26,199 Speaker 5: He used the same excuse. Whenever we were supposed to 199 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 5: spend the night in my house, we'd always eat. 200 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 2: Dinner at my house and go out to eat and 201 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:32,679 Speaker 2: have sex later on. 202 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:36,559 Speaker 5: Right after sex, he was out the door, headed home 203 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:38,680 Speaker 5: to use the bathroom and. 204 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:41,199 Speaker 2: Take a shower or go. 205 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 5: I still ain't mad at that, because until you are 206 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 5: in that room, after he come out that bathroom, you 207 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 5: really don't know why he got to get home. So 208 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 5: I ain't mad at this. Right here on Friday night, 209 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 5: when he did that, I decided to ride by his 210 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 5: house after he had been home for a while. He 211 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:03,560 Speaker 5: was there sitting on the front steps with a woman. 212 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 5: I slowed up and blew the horn. He ran out 213 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,720 Speaker 5: there and asked you why he. 214 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:10,239 Speaker 2: Was at his house unannouncement. 215 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 5: I told him I was suspicious that he was dating 216 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 5: other people. He told me we ain't exclusive, and I'm 217 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 5: too messy to ever be his girl. How did you 218 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:27,439 Speaker 5: think y'all was exclusive because you met a man and 219 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 5: had sex with him. What made you think y'all was exclusive? 220 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:36,959 Speaker 5: Did you ask were you exclusive? Or did you assume? 221 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 5: Did he ever tell you y'all were exclusive? 222 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 2: Well? 223 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 5: Now he ever sitting on the steps with the girl. 224 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 5: He said he wasn't cheating because I was never his girl. Wow, 225 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 5: But because you slept with him, you thought you was 226 00:11:57,280 --> 00:12:03,680 Speaker 5: his girl. No, you was another person he was having 227 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 5: sex with. That's who you were. That's not his fault. 228 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 5: That's you not getting clarity on what you have with 229 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 5: a man. Stop thinking because you done gave him some 230 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 5: sex that he is going to give you exclusivity. That 231 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 5: is not how it works. I am telling you that 232 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 5: right now. That's just not how it works. And you 233 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:40,559 Speaker 5: got to stop expecting that. And it's sad. It's so sad. Now, 234 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:45,559 Speaker 5: let me tell you something. You know why they sitting 235 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 5: outside on them steps because he didn't went in there 236 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 5: and used the bathroom, and they still can't go in 237 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 5: that house. 238 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:56,680 Speaker 2: That's why they was got on them steps. 239 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:59,959 Speaker 5: I'll tell you that right now, sitting out on them steps, 240 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 5: cause I'm. 241 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 2: Telling you ain't Kate. 242 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 5: Nobody he'd have went home and used the bathroom. 243 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 2: Now that woman that came by, they outside on. 244 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 5: The steps because they cannot go in that house. 245 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 2: Because he'd have been in there using the bathroom. So 246 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 2: I rest my case. 247 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:20,680 Speaker 5: What I think he's still strong with that bathroom line. 248 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:30,079 Speaker 5: But that is the reason they sitting on them steps. 249 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 5: Can't nobody go in that house. 250 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 1: On today's Strawberry Letter on the Instagram at faith. 251 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 2: Thank you Lord, Thank you Lord, Thank you Lord. 252 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 3: And check us out on the Strawberry Letter podcast. 253 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 5: He got a bathroom problem. That's probably why he ain't 254 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 5: got no girl. 255 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 1: You right now Sports Talk right after this, you're listening 256 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.