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Speaker 2: There is no advice, just run like, that's my advice.

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Speaker 2: I'm your sister, She's blood.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely.

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Speaker 2: Calm Down with Aaron and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: As my mom would always say, nothing goes right when

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Speaker 2: everyone into our pregame.

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Speaker 1: Paula's praises are unbelievable.

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Speaker 2: When you wonder where I get my stuff from, Gane.

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Speaker 2: The fact that these and I mean I've known you

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Speaker 2: for a million years, these phrases just come out every

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Speaker 1: What a gal they're porereth over? Is that what they're saying?

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Speaker 2: What do you?

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Speaker 1: What's our top friend runneth over?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, as our friend Derek Jeter would say, what's in that.

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Speaker 2: Not what I wanted to be with the coffee from

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Speaker 2: this morning, it's about to be banquet.

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Speaker 1: Here's hold on.

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Speaker 2: Welcome everybody to the Calm Down Podcast, pregame, now, pregame,

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Speaker 2: pre game, pregame, post NFL season. I don't know, I mean,

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Speaker 2: it kind of gets exciting because there's not like football

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Speaker 2: centric questions. So this first one is a doozy off

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Speaker 2: the rails. Why don't you go for it.

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Speaker 2: Strangely enough, I have sort of a story for this. Okay, Anonymous,

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Speaker 2: My boyfriend cheated on me with my sister. They are

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Speaker 2: now together. Advice the f That is the show The

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Speaker 2: Christmas Family Stone with Sarah Jessica Parker. But wait a minute,

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Speaker 2: don't say you you said on the last time. An

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Speaker 2: anonymous question was about this, like, oh, would you ever

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Speaker 2: and Chris Hemsworth. Well, they're worth the rail. But this

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Speaker 2: is not okay, absolutely not. I will not say how

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Speaker 2: you break up with your sister immediately?

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Speaker 1: This is bad.

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Speaker 2: What are you going to do where sister and your

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Speaker 2: what is she talking about? What is advice? There is

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Speaker 2: no advice. Just run like, that's my advice from your sister.

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Speaker 2: She's blood, absolutely, she's not that close to you. Then

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Speaker 2: if she's willing to date your boyfriend, that's Can you

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Speaker 2: imagine Kendra or my sister like dating my ex. Although

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Speaker 2: I would literally try to get on like Heraldo Jerry

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Speaker 2: doctor Phil. I don't know, how's that working out for you?

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Speaker 2: Well again, Paula Andrews in mind one of our favorite

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Speaker 1: Great? You know a doctor Phil Lyne. That's one it.

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Speaker 2: Was like think when like somebody would say crazy thing

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Speaker 1: He'd be like, how's that working out for you?

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Speaker 2: Roight? I that's incredible. I love that you know a

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Speaker 2: just break up with your sister or tell your sister

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Speaker 2: to your parents, Well your parents tell about what's going.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait for that holiday. Keep us post it again.

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Speaker 2: We've said this before, Anonymous. We need more information and

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Speaker 2: know how Easter goes in your house. M h, Aaron,

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Speaker 2: Worst gift from a significant other? How about no gift?

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Speaker 2: But yeah, the story here. Aaron can get into it

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Speaker 2: then Royalty. That's incredible. I've never heard you tell that story. Wow,

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Speaker 1: He's like, what's up, just checking in? Everything going, and

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Speaker 2: all right, last, but not least anonymous, how to tell

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Speaker 2: You can't stay at my house. It's too crazy here.

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Speaker 2: I got a leak, I got a kid, I got

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Speaker 2: here for those that can't stay at Aaron's house, you

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Speaker 2: I uh, let's take this to the Big Show, to

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Speaker 1: Let's take this to the streets. I'm writing the show

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Speaker 1: because I yeah, I got a lot of thoughts on this.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh. In fact, you and.

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Speaker 2: I had a conversation about this over frozen Bargs opening up.

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 2: For those of you interested in the follow ups, join

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Speaker 2: us on the Big Show and Kylie Kelsey please and

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Speaker 2: think we want you.

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Speaker 1: We would love to have you on the Calm Down podcast.

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Speaker 2: All right, love you girl, Bye bye. Calm Down with

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