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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with I R Radio. Who man, it feels good to

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Speaker 1: be back. Whoo who are we back? Oh yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: got a week off. We had a week off. We

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Speaker 1: talked to Mike. During this week off. We had the

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Speaker 1: I Heart Music Festival, which Ashley, let's rate it. I'd

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Speaker 1: say a plus this year eight plus or A plus

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Speaker 1: A plus, A plus, absolutely another great year. Jessica was there,

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Speaker 1: Jared was there with you, great group of people, a

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Speaker 1: lot more chill than years past anymore. I think we're

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Speaker 1: just getting old. I mean I like it. I love

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Speaker 1: not going out, and as I get older, I find

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Speaker 1: myself more and more intimidated and shy in groups of

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Speaker 1: more than five. It's really bad. Like Jared and I

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Speaker 1: are both becoming like super introverted. I think it has

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Speaker 1: do with just being married, because if we're not like

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Speaker 1: at dinner with a small group of friends, we kind

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Speaker 1: of like shell up a bit. And you are the

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Speaker 1: complete opposite. You are like Mr extrovert. You thrive and

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Speaker 1: energize yourself off of people. You know, I'm like a

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Speaker 1: very strong introvert now you think you recharge in private, oh,

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Speaker 1: ash like you Yeah, Like we don't. We always see

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Speaker 1: each other at events and we always see each other

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Speaker 1: like a podcast. One of the most interesting things I

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Speaker 1: think that people don't know is I am a huge introvert.

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Speaker 1: That is something I actually didn't know about you, because

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Speaker 1: you do really seem to be so full of energy

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Speaker 1: in big groups and in front of audiences. But it's

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Speaker 1: exhausting for me, Like you did not know that you

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Speaker 1: hide it well, yeah, and I mean maybe it'll help

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Speaker 1: me make a little more sense. Like if you ever

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Speaker 1: little tired, or like not as sociable, it's probably because

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Speaker 1: it's coming off of like a big event like where

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Speaker 1: I've been around a lot of people. It's why I've

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Speaker 1: only done like three meet and greets my bachelor time

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Speaker 1: is because not because they're they're terrible, they're not the best,

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Speaker 1: I'm no longer myself. Yeah. I get that, I totally,

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Speaker 1: I totally get it. It's tough, I mean so yeah.

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Speaker 1: But Heartfest was great this year and we had a

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Speaker 1: really good team there. Um, we did a great couple

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Speaker 1: of great podcasts. My favorite we've ever done the one

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Speaker 1: with Mike Johnson's up right now. It's uh, the almost

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Speaker 1: famous in depth podcasts. As you will know as listeners,

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Speaker 1: we do a podcast uh probably i'd say four times

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Speaker 1: a year with a bachelor Bachelor contestant that has a

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Speaker 1: story that we really want to just tell in in length,

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Speaker 1: and Mike definitely had that. I thought it was one

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Speaker 1: of the most humbling and interesting conversations we've had since

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Speaker 1: we started this thing. Yeah, those are the kind of

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Speaker 1: conversations that I think fulfill us most as hosts. And

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Speaker 1: I actually just ask producer Amy upstairs if we could

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Speaker 1: sprinkle in a good amount of those throughout this offseason him,

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Speaker 1: because I think that they are the most captivating to

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Speaker 1: should we just take us I mean I think we

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Speaker 1: should take a poll the audience. Great about it, listeners?

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Speaker 1: If you like the in depth episodes or if you

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Speaker 1: dislike them, no harm, no foul, please uh tweet us

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Speaker 1: at hashtag almost in his podcast or email us at

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Speaker 1: been in Ashley I are I heeart media dot com.

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Speaker 1: Well it's not been an Ashley. I it's been in, Ashley,

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Speaker 1: been in actually at iHeart media dot com and make

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Speaker 1: sure that you tell us which couples are, which contestants

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Speaker 1: you want to hear from in the in depth form

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Speaker 1: the most. Oh good, Yeah, help us out a little bit.

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Speaker 1: That's nice, ash good job, Um, Ashley. We've gotten off

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Speaker 1: of I Heart Fest. We're now in the off season.

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Speaker 1: This off season is going to be action packed, full

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Speaker 1: of great people, and I'm thinking we're starting the off

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Speaker 1: season with some of the two biggest names in Bachelor

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Speaker 1: and Bachelor at History. Caitlin Bristow and Jason Tartik are

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Speaker 1: gonna be in studio today talking about their newest project. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited about that. We will also have their friend,

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Speaker 1: musician Britt Kiesel in the studio as well. Why don't

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Speaker 1: we talk about these Bachelor hot topics before they arrive?

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Speaker 1: I would love to. And following that, actually, just before

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Speaker 1: Batchel Nation are making you go? Wow? Okay? Well, Tyler

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Speaker 1: reporting that Tyler and Gigi the Fling maybe officially over,

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Speaker 1: magazine is reporting and he is dating Christina. I wonder

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Speaker 1: You know, he's not the Bachelor, but he's in a

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Speaker 1: now that he may no longer be with Gigi because

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Speaker 1: questions I don't know if they ever be answered. We

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Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation look out for who Tyler Cameron is dating.

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Speaker 1: Now it's big news no matter who he is dating,

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Speaker 1: doesn't seem like a lot of Bachelor Well. There are

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Speaker 1: some mean comments under the post, being like no, wtf, no,

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Speaker 1: makes sense that people would start dating, Ashley. Speaking of dating,

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Speaker 1: Nick Bile and Rachel Bilson have been rumored to be together.

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Speaker 1: It has not yet been denied by Rachel or Nick.

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Speaker 1: They have both been in interviews and asked about it.

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Speaker 1: Nick definitely flirted in a way, like you know, we've

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Speaker 1: and good for them for pursuing something they both want. Hey, Ashley,

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Speaker 1: now let's get into outside the couples. Hannah be is

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Speaker 1: is this an assumption that's fair? I think it's totally fair.

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Speaker 1: paradise isn't always for everyone. It's been really refreshing, Ashley.

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Speaker 1: I think we're in this new wave of Bachelor Nation

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Speaker 1: guys and being in the Caribbean. And the best part

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00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:10,560
Speaker 1: wasn't what we filmed on you know, on the camera,

428
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 1: but I believe it was all the behind the scenes

429
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 1: kind of bs that we got up to that was

430
00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 1: a pile of funds. So we're playing cards on the

431
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:20,959
Speaker 1: final night at this little bar at the place, and

432
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: I loved everything about it, and so we're playing cards.

433
00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 1: The best he's looking he's looking out another another special guest.

434
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 1: He's looking out the window. He's looking at other dogs

435
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:33,200
Speaker 1: that he probably doesn't like. It's like, I can take you,

436
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 1: I can take you. So we were playing cards, and

437
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 1: I mean, this rom's got more Instagram followers and pretty

438
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:45,119
Speaker 1: much most of my friend base. But Caitlin never follows

439
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 1: the rule. She's at seventeen and she's hitting no, no, no, no,

440
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,679
Speaker 1: I'm I'm the dealer, and I'm at a five showing

441
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 1: so you know, book says I've got probably fifteen, you're

442
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,880
Speaker 1: at seventeen. Just let me lose whatever. And she hits

443
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,639
Speaker 1: again and gets a four twenty one. Why did you

444
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,360
Speaker 1: do that? Yet? She's winning, she's winning, she's winning, she's

445
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 1: winning same things. She's got like a ten and an eight.

446
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,479
Speaker 1: But I'm showing an ace. Okay, well you stayed eighteen.

447
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 1: You just stayed eighteen. Cut your losses. I've got an ace.

448
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 1: I asked for insurance just to be a cordial guy,

449
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 1: but it never happened. So you think I've got blackjack,

450
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 1: and she hits and gets a three one? Why do

451
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 1: you hit on an eighteen? And she did it, and

452
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 1: she took a hundred dollars out of my pocket and

453
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:25,640
Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it. And you took a hundred bucks

454
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,920
Speaker 1: from me. She's a savage though, Like We'll start off

455
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: bet in a buck, two bucks, three bucks, and then

456
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, Caitlin, double down, double down, double down.

457
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 1: So here we are still betting a buck or to

458
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:37,440
Speaker 1: Caitlin's like hundred bucks, let's go get I just trust

459
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 1: my intuition, so I mean, Caitlin, this brings up the

460
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 1: very first question for you. I want to hear from

461
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:47,120
Speaker 1: you and Jason. Kaitlin. You don't follow the rules. That's

462
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 1: not like a surprise, and it seems to always work

463
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:53,359
Speaker 1: out for you. How I feel like I feel like

464
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: I'm a risk taker, and I mean I have things

465
00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,240
Speaker 1: have not worked out for me. But when you take

466
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 1: risks more things work out for you. Because unless people

467
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 1: are doing it, it's it's it's math, is it science,

468
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 1: It's yeah, it's I feel like I just take chances

469
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 1: and I don't look back, and I feel like that

470
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 1: works out for people more often than you would think.

471
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 1: A chance that you guys took. It was going from

472
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 1: friends two lovers to um. You recommend people being friends

473
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: before they jump into a relationship if you have the opportunity. Yes,

474
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 1: I do recommend that. Yeah. I mean, so I didn't

475
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 1: like you and I hit it off from the get go,

476
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 1: but she put me in the friend zone for a while,

477
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,479
Speaker 1: so I had to break out of that. So but

478
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:46,919
Speaker 1: I think at the end of the day, like we

479
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 1: were just with a couple that had been married for

480
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,920
Speaker 1: nine years. We said, what's the secret? In his responses

481
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,439
Speaker 1: like we go through hell, we go through good times,

482
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 1: great times, but at the end of the day, we're

483
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 1: just best friends. So I think, like, if that's your foundation,

484
00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 1: I mean, you'll make it through anything. But well, Cecilia,

485
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: I've been married eight years. Um. I asked her to

486
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:10,439
Speaker 1: marry me when I was nineteen years old. So but

487
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:12,959
Speaker 1: the same thing with with friends, I think the biggest

488
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 1: thing is that in general, I would say, it's really

489
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 1: great that we built a friendship because we were just

490
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,679
Speaker 1: friends and I don't even know when we started dating.

491
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 1: We crossed over from friends to really great friends, to

492
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,680
Speaker 1: friends with benefits to dating to engage. We're just friends

493
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,880
Speaker 1: friends friends friends friends, and friends engaged. So that's kind

494
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 1: of that. Yeah, we only dated for like three and

495
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,359
Speaker 1: a half months, maybe not even. And so the biggest

496
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 1: thing is you can't take society's opinion into this thing

497
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: and be like, oh, we only dated for three months,

498
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,399
Speaker 1: Like how can you really be engaged if you knew

499
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 1: everything about it? Because you've got that great foundation of

500
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 1: a friendship, then that's amazing. But at the same time,

501
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: anybody listening right now and maybe is thinking, no, I

502
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 1: can just go straight into relationship. But I'm listening, and

503
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 1: everybody's telling us that we need a friendship first. I

504
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 1: think it's important to say no, you do what's best

505
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:06,880
Speaker 1: for the two of you in every crossroads that you meet,

506
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: and that's where it brings in. You just kind of

507
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:11,479
Speaker 1: just bet, you know, marching to the beat of your

508
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,120
Speaker 1: own drum. You know, that's the same thing with us.

509
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 1: We just did our own thing, and oh my god,

510
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 1: did we ever get flak? And did I ever get flak?

511
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 1: Asking Cecilia to marry me at nineteen years old? I

512
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 1: would say nine five And that's a huge percentage of

513
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 1: people said, you are making a mistake. This is both

514
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 1: what you're doing is wrong, don't do it, and I'm

515
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:41,359
Speaker 1: so glad I did. You guys have the sweetest kids.

516
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with them. I thank you for saying that,

517
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:49,679
Speaker 1: but I do agree with kids they are. Do you

518
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 1: think there's anything to it? I want to hear from

519
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 1: all of you here. We can obviously learn from you, Brett,

520
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 1: but there's something to having a friend as a partner.

521
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of you guys talk. I feel like I'm

522
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 1: easier on my friends than I am in my romantic relationships.

523
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: So like my friends can cause havoc, make a scene,

524
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 1: get angry at me, etcetera. And we're gonna work through

525
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 1: it pretty quickly, like we're either going to talk about

526
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 1: it right away or we're gonna have a beer and

527
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:19,680
Speaker 1: figure it out. With in romantic relationships up until really

528
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:23,120
Speaker 1: just is when when they would hurt me, or maybe

529
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 1: would have an argument, or maybe we just disagreed. I

530
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:27,719
Speaker 1: felt like I was harder on that person, and there

531
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:28,920
Speaker 1: was all of a sudden in the back of my mind,

532
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:31,880
Speaker 1: Oh maybe this isn't right. But if you have the friendship, Bill,

533
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:34,439
Speaker 1: I'm wondering if there's something to be said about the

534
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 1: fact that you're just gonna be easier on that person

535
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 1: and you're gonna learn to like them as a friend,

536
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: and then you know, you get the benefits of loving

537
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 1: them as well. That's a really interesting point. That is

538
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 1: a great point. Wait wait, wait, I mean good for

539
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,440
Speaker 1: you to be reflective in that way and kind of see,

540
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 1: you know, maybe what you've done done well and maybe

541
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 1: what you haven't done well moving forward and take that

542
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 1: to your relationship. I don't know who wants to start

543
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,479
Speaker 1: on this thing, but I think that's a great question.

544
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 1: Well I do too. But it's interesting because I feel

545
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 1: like I am just so hard on all the closest people.

546
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 1: I like it He's trying to talk, makes it very

547
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: authentic and raw. Like it's like to me, I'm Jason

548
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 1: will agree with me on this. Is that I I'm

549
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 1: just saying, I'm so good with my friends, I'm so understanding.

550
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 1: I'll get through anything. I'll like v level headed about it.

551
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 1: But with relationships, and we did start off as friends,

552
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 1: I'm so hard on him, and I'm hard on my sister,

553
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 1: and I'm hard on my mom. I'm not hard of

554
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 1: my dad because he's a freaking angel. But like I'm

555
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 1: just like I feel like I'm I'm actually so hard

556
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: on people that I'm the closest with, like family more

557
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 1: than anything. And so I don't know, I don't know.

558
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 1: That's a great theory that you have, but I don't

559
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 1: know if that works for me. I think, I don't know,

560
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 1: this is kind of a little bit off, But I

561
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 1: feel like I'm most honest, even if it can be

562
00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 1: sort of hurt critical. Yeah. Yeah, I'm just being like

563
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 1: super honest because like if that bugs me, I'm just

564
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 1: gonna tell you. But Jared actually prefer me not tell

565
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 1: them sometimes. Yeah, do you want to know everything that

566
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,040
Speaker 1: bugs you? So I think not everything right, because I

567
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 1: think you gotta like you gotta, I gotta pick and

568
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 1: choose you, Like I've learned that relationship, you have to

569
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 1: pick and cheer your battles because if you bicker about everything,

570
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: it's going to be a nightmare. That being said, in

571
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 1: my opinion, like open communication is so key, but you

572
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 1: have to like set a standard what I say to

573
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 1: myself all the time. Am I saying this for ego?

574
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: Or am I saying this for an actual like value

575
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 1: add to our relationship? How many times do you do

576
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: something for ego, and you say a condescending and negatively

577
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 1: because you're trying to be stern and and make your point.

578
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 1: And what I'm like really working on is like when

579
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: I have an argument, it's that we can walk out

580
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 1: of that argument better than when we went in. And

581
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 1: let me tell you that is that's why not always

582
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 1: been like I've done the exact opposite, but it ends

583
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 1: up getting you nowhere. Like when you're stubborn, brash and

584
00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 1: you're doing things strictly for ego, the result of it

585
00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 1: is almost as I I think that every relationship is different,

586
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 1: and honestly, the man you maybe start to compare certain

587
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 1: things is the minute that you lose and that relationship

588
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 1: because every human being is different. But with that being said,

589
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:23,959
Speaker 1: starting with a friendship and having an amazing friendship as

590
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 1: a foundation is a very very important thing because at

591
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: the end of the day, I mean, once you cross

592
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 1: over to what would be friends with benefits, and when

593
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 1: you're young and you're you're in love and you're very

594
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 1: very passionate about each other and sex plays a big

595
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 1: part of that, and you're you're you're doing it because

596
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 1: it's fun and it's amazing, and you're doing it for kids,

597
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 1: and then as you get older and maybe that part,

598
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 1: you know, leaves. Do you have a friendship? And I

599
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 1: think to myself that although I would love to get

600
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 1: down with Cecilia every day of my life until the

601
00:31:54,920 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 1: day that I die, literally, I understand that may be

602
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 1: as I get older. It's a friendship. It's traveling, it's dinners,

603
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 1: it's having things in common. That's going to be very,

604
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,719
Speaker 1: very important. And what I've had to learn based on

605
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 1: what Jason was saying is the honesty component. Based on

606
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 1: what you brought up, Ashley, that is such an interesting

607
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 1: thing that Cecilia is extremely honest. She is brutally honest,

608
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 1: but she says that from the get go. Yeah. Yeah,

609
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 1: So if you look at game theory like what is

610
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 1: so if you're going to overcommunicate, the other theory is

611
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,479
Speaker 1: you under communicate. So in my opinion, if those are

612
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 1: your two options, definitely overcome. Undercommunicating creates like all different

613
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: barriers and issues. So you you tell them how it is. Girl.

614
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 1: You guys just got moved in Toget that it's been

615
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 1: three months since early Yeah, how has that experience been?

616
00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 1: It's hard. It's hard. I mean, well, actually for Jared,

617
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: and I wasn't hard And I don't really know why,

618
00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 1: but I feel he was like kind of here in

619
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: l A for some time. He was here for like

620
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 1: nine months before we moved in, and you guys like Jason,

621
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 1: you moved from Washington stay into a whole other place.

622
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 1: So how was that mix it? To me? It was

623
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 1: it was there's issue, not issues, but there was like

624
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 1: things to get through, but they weren't anything that I

625
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: was concerned about. Like he's cleaner than I am, which

626
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 1: is amazing, but it was I'm so set on how

627
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 1: I mean, I've lived there for three years and from

628
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: the get go I was I decorated the place. I

629
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 1: was like very specific on what I wanted and how

630
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: I wanted it, and it was just like a passion

631
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 1: project of me to to make this house my home.

632
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 1: And so it's very much my style. It's definitely not

633
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 1: Jason style. Were going through the same thing and I

634
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:55,680
Speaker 1: but but I was like, I found it a little

635
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 1: bit challenging when he came in because one, he's so

636
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 1: respectful and like so great about it that that helped,

637
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: but too I was like, no, you can't move that.

638
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 1: That's where I have thinks you can't. Like the nightstand

639
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 1: on his side, I had like crystals and like all

640
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:14,399
Speaker 1: these a girly stuff set up in this little pink

641
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 1: thing that said goals on it. And he was like

642
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 1: nerpe and he put everything in the door, and I'm

643
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 1: like no, no, no, no no no. But this, I

644
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 1: think this is like a huge thing. That's a generalization,

645
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: but in general, I think people are getting married later

646
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 1: and as a result of that, I think that's usually

647
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 1: career driven, right, so people are very like independent that

648
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 1: if male, female, whatever you are, everyone is so focused

649
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 1: on pursuing their career and everyone's just kicking ass. Right.

650
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: Then you you have your own place, You create your

651
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: own clas because of that, and you make it your

652
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 1: own and exactly it's so personal to you personal, and

653
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,360
Speaker 1: I think we all figure out that you're so independent,

654
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,880
Speaker 1: and then you've got to bring the powers together. And

655
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:53,879
Speaker 1: Ben and Jess are probably gonna go through that soon,

656
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 1: and you and Jared went through that, and you learn

657
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 1: so much about each other because we were so independent,

658
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:01,360
Speaker 1: so careered of it, and now you're under one house.

659
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: So if I had to when someone asked me that question,

660
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:06,759
Speaker 1: I think the first month it was tough I think

661
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 1: it was really tough because you're trying to align your

662
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 1: idiosyncrasies in a world that's not very conventional, and also

663
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 1: a work schedule that's not like an eight to five.

664
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 1: So the first month was really tough, but I think

665
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:22,919
Speaker 1: we learned a lot about each other. And nowroom so

666
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 1: exactly my sister and so Jaryd moved into my sister

667
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 1: in my place, and we wanted to make it like

668
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: very Kardashian glam and then he moves in two months

669
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 1: after it's decorated, and he didn't make it a big deal.

670
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 1: But then once she moved out and we got married,

671
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 1: it was like, Okay, we're gonna make this place our

672
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,600
Speaker 1: home now. So we changed the color scheme. We like

673
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 1: added some nave, dark navy blues and like anything that

674
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 1: would kind of compliment was already there. And then like

675
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 1: getting new, like big things like the couch and now

676
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 1: it's way more manly and comfy. And then we turned

677
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 1: her bedroom into what he likes to call an office,

678
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 1: but I like to call his man cave. But still,

679
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 1: even though it was predominantly his room, because I have

680
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: a glam room, um, I still wanted to have my

681
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:14,800
Speaker 1: own touches on it. It was like, no, this pattern

682
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 1: goes with this and this color goes with that. You

683
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,480
Speaker 1: can't put that together. And he's a little annoyed that

684
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 1: I still had input on his room. And then like

685
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 1: because his room is technically if you just gonna call

686
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:30,320
Speaker 1: it our office, then a couple super Man action figures

687
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:38,240
Speaker 1: in a Yo Yo is not Superman and um Patriots,

688
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 1: So that's what I don't mind. Like we did it

689
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 1: really cool. We made like a gallery wall with the

690
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 1: Superman and like my Giants poster with his Patriots poster.

691
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 1: It was really cool. But then there's just like little

692
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 1: things that like if I'm not around, he'll like add

693
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 1: in while I'm at work and then I'll come back.

694
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 1: I was like, why the did he put yo yo there?

695
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: Keep putting yo on the splay was like his grandfather,

696
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:07,320
Speaker 1: my aunt got it for him from last Easter, but

697
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: like I was like, no, you put that in our

698
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:13,800
Speaker 1: game cabinet? Did the auntie like put like a cents

699
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,920
Speaker 1: in the mall and spin and get a yo yo

700
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 1: and like I'm gonna give give us to him, Like

701
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 1: yo yo is that we used to using like the

702
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 1: late nineties, and you do the doggy walk thing. Yeah,

703
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't know that is, but it's the

704
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:30,759
Speaker 1: only thing we bicker about is trying to make like

705
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:33,799
Speaker 1: what was my place now our place. Wait. I think

706
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 1: the common theme though, so like if I like at Bretton,

707
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,840
Speaker 1: Cecy and you and Jared and Jess and Ben and

708
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 1: Caitlin and I is we have these like little bickering battles,

709
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: but at the end of the day, it's like from

710
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: what I've seen, all of us are like teammates, Like

711
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 1: Jared is always have your back. You always have Jared's back.

712
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:50,800
Speaker 1: You support each other, you pump each other up. You

713
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:52,760
Speaker 1: and Cec here the same way. So you guys interact

714
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 1: and you're helping with the kids and it's just a

715
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,359
Speaker 1: two way street. And just Ben, I saw your thing

716
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 1: yesterday with Jess, Like, Jess, You're gonna be embarrassed by this,

717
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:01,279
Speaker 1: but I'm so proud of like what you're achieving with

718
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: it gets sweat Nashville. So I think like that is

719
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: the common team, Like we battle and we bark and

720
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: we go at it. But like I consider the friendship

721
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 1: is also like a like your teammate, like we're on

722
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,399
Speaker 1: like we do things. Uh kind of together as one. Yeah.

723
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 1: And it's also like when you have those little bigger things,

724
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 1: they're always over something super dumb, and you can you

725
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 1: can both acknowledge that it's really silly, and then you

726
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: always know that the the argument is going to resolve

727
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,919
Speaker 1: itself in like fifteen minutes if even can I ask

728
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 1: a quick question because we have this, so I would say,

729
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:35,399
Speaker 1: maybe I'm speaking for us, but for me, if we're

730
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 1: going to fight, there's the reason to fight is like

731
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 1: I want to get something out of it, and like,

732
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,320
Speaker 1: like let's talk about it and let's not repeat it.

733
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 1: Do you and your relationships? Do you guys have someone

734
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 1: that like someone brings the heat and the anger and

735
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 1: then someone usually brings the like the rationale or does

736
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 1: that role switch. It's me, I'm I'm so, I'm so

737
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 1: bad about it, and it's it's very much an ego thing.

738
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,760
Speaker 1: It's like I'm gonna fight about something based on principle

739
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 1: and I just do not accept did and it's just

740
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 1: the way that it is. But it's an ego thing

741
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 1: whereas I will I won't see maybe the point or

742
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 1: what have you. And that is something I have to

743
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,879
Speaker 1: work on big time. And then it gets into another

744
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 1: thing about Okay, wow, as I raise what was this is?

745
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 1: You know why am I thinking this way? Why do

746
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:18,360
Speaker 1: I have this strong stance on opinion X y Z

747
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: you know what like it? That gets to be pretty

748
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 1: bad and has gotten in the way of our relationship

749
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 1: from excelling. And to be honest, maybe if I wasn't

750
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:31,240
Speaker 1: such a dumb ass in the early days of our relationship,

751
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 1: and I'd like to say, Okay, well, yeah we were

752
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 1: young and blah blah blah, but you know what, an

753
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:37,800
Speaker 1: idiot still an idiot. And if I wasn't such a dumbass,

754
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:40,279
Speaker 1: how much further ahead could we have been? And that's

755
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 1: the biggest thing, is to not let the ego get

756
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 1: in the way of exactly what you're saying. I'm gonna

757
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 1: fight about this based on I want this result and

758
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 1: this really means a lot to me. And then if

759
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:54,319
Speaker 1: the partner says, well, I don't care, well, then you're

760
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 1: actually saying I don't care what means a lot to you?

761
00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:58,800
Speaker 1: About what? And then if they say, okay, if it

762
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 1: means a lot to you, we need to discuss it,

763
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 1: We need to see and we need to find compromise,

764
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:06,839
Speaker 1: and compromises in fifty fifty and it shouldn't be compromises off,

765
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 1: Like I actually just want you to support me on

766
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:12,800
Speaker 1: this thing and I'll take it the other ninety or

767
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 1: everything you're doing, in my opinion is wrong and I

768
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 1: need you to just come on this thing. I don't know,

769
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 1: but you discussed that case by case. See, I don't

770
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 1: get it. Like when you say I don't care, I

771
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 1: don't care, that's always the most annoying because if you're

772
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 1: saying I don't care with any sort of attitude, it

773
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 1: means you totally care. We really need to continue talking

774
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:34,719
Speaker 1: about it, yes, yes, And I'm I'm kind of bad

775
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 1: at that where I find myself saying I don't care,

776
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 1: I'm done talking about it, and he's like, no, no,

777
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,360
Speaker 1: let's get to the root of the issue and what

778
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 1: can we do too? And I'm like, I don't care totally,

779
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 1: and I'm like you and it sounds like Dr Phil

780
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 1: in between us right here is just so good about it.

781
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 1: It's like your your maturity, How old are you again?

782
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 1: He's so that's crazy. It's like I get annoyed him

783
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:12,759
Speaker 1: for because I'm like and then I'm like I'm that, No, Ben,

784
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:16,719
Speaker 1: what are you guys moving in. You know what the

785
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: most frustrating thing about relationships is when you really start

786
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: to like the person and you really start to get

787
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:23,799
Speaker 1: to know the person, then all these things that you're

788
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 1: talking about you can't hide anymore. So, like I'm listening

789
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 1: to you, I'm like I been at the beginning. You

790
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:31,440
Speaker 1: could be passive, aggressive Caitlin and Jason feel bad and

791
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 1: be like, I don't get it why she upset bread.

792
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 1: I'm sure with your wife as your nineteen and you

793
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 1: know you're messing up all the time. It just kind

794
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 1: of feels like you're learning as you go, but as

795
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: you get to know the person, and then all of

796
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 1: a sudden, you start to see through all the mixed

797
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 1: languages and the attitudes and the comments, and then you're like,

798
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:50,880
Speaker 1: screw this, Like I can't be I can't manipulate, I

799
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:53,279
Speaker 1: can't be smart than this person, I can't think this

800
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 1: person feel bad they get me and I hate it. Yeah,

801
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 1: all right. It's tough to be vulnerable sometimes, and even

802
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 1: for dudes. And I know that that's changing is twenty

803
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:06,800
Speaker 1: nineteen and everything like that, and emotions and stuff like

804
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,400
Speaker 1: that are coming into play, but it's tough honestly as

805
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 1: a man sometimes to be so vulnerable and to really

806
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 1: talk about your feelings because we have a lot more

807
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 1: layers than we let on. You know, we're often girls

808
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 1: are are and can be an open book, and I

809
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 1: thinks can be a little bit more closed in that regard.

810
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 1: But if there's any advice I would give to anybody

811
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:28,360
Speaker 1: in a budding relationship or just married or married for

812
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 1: ten years because we can always talk about those things,

813
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:35,240
Speaker 1: is to say, be okay to be vulnerable, because sometimes

814
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: it is if you do that and you get hurt,

815
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 1: you still learn a lesson from it. So don't waste

816
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:43,359
Speaker 1: a good crisis in that regard. Very good advice, powerful stuff. Well,

817
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 1: I want to spend a moment here. I want to

818
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,279
Speaker 1: say one break and I want to spend a moment

819
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,280
Speaker 1: talking to Brett about why you're actually in studio today. Alright,

820
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:01,760
Speaker 1: we got Caitlin Jim Brett in studio. We're talking about

821
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 1: Brett's newest single, Drink about Me. He chose right, Drink

822
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:11,879
Speaker 1: about Me. Yeah, we got drunk a lot. Don't worry

823
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:15,759
Speaker 1: about it. We are all going on there. Hey, uh, Brett,

824
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 1: let's start with this just to clear anything up for

825
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 1: the audience. Why did you choose Caitlin and Jason to

826
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 1: be in this video? Uh? You know what quick story is. Cecilia,

827
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:28,880
Speaker 1: she had a wonderful idea. She said, you need to

828
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 1: cast a real couple, and you need to cast Caitlin

829
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 1: and Jason. Simple as that is it? Because Caitlin it

830
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 1: loves drinking. Right now. I'm not saying no, no, no no.

831
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 1: I it was very very simple the song and the

832
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 1: content had I think it's such a great message, and

833
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 1: it is. It's it's a memory song disguised as a

834
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 1: drinking song. And I think for me, I wanted to

835
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:03,239
Speaker 1: make her and for Cecilia obviously it's her idea was

836
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 1: to say, we need somebody who's got great memories and

837
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 1: a very solid relationship, and a relationship that she and

838
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 1: I really respect and and adore. So I thought that

839
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 1: the two of you guys, it was based on that

840
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:22,320
Speaker 1: first and foremost. And then there comes the angle of Okay,

841
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 1: now I don't want to get all um, how do

842
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:29,920
Speaker 1: how do I say it? It's not conceded, isn't the word? Um? Shallow?

843
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 1: Shallow is the word. But this is a very attractive couple, right, Okay?

844
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:38,400
Speaker 1: So if you're If you're a single girl and you

845
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:42,920
Speaker 1: want to see and you want to see somebody with

846
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 1: the shirt off off, watch Jason Tardigan the video and

847
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:48,880
Speaker 1: the guy, the guy's beauty and if you want to see, uh,

848
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 1: well and an absolute rocket. You look at you, look

849
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:54,280
Speaker 1: at Caitlin. I'm sorry, I'm gonna put my hand on you, Jason,

850
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:56,880
Speaker 1: but let's just call a spade a spade, Spain sparrow,

851
00:44:56,960 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 1: great plug, um, but you have a very active couple.

852
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 1: And then we I wanted it to be in the Caribbean,

853
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 1: so this just all made sense been and actually to

854
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 1: have these guys be a part of it, and they

855
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 1: really brought this song to life and visually, I think

856
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:13,120
Speaker 1: it's a stunning video with a stunning couple with a

857
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 1: great message, and I'm really proud of them. Yeah, just

858
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 1: get a little background out there for Brett. Brett. Uh,

859
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,800
Speaker 1: You're awarded the coveted Juno Award, which is equivalent to

860
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,360
Speaker 1: the American Grammy Award that we all know for Country

861
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 1: Music Album of the Year, for your album We Were

862
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 1: that song. So this is the second Juno when for

863
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 1: you but You're blown up and and and this this song,

864
00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 1: this single that you're coming out with with Jason and

865
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 1: Calin is just a part of this wave of success

866
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 1: that you've you've been having. Well, I appreciate you saying that.

867
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 1: I think that it's, uh, it's a really really good

868
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:49,839
Speaker 1: time for all of us right now. And I think

869
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:52,799
Speaker 1: for country music as over the last four or five years,

870
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:54,839
Speaker 1: it has really come to the forefront of so many

871
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:57,840
Speaker 1: people's minds. You look at everything that's happened on Bachelor

872
00:45:58,000 --> 00:45:59,800
Speaker 1: Nation and stuff like that, with all of the country

873
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 1: artists that have performed on the show. Everybody around the

874
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 1: world is loving country music and it's no longer just

875
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:08,800
Speaker 1: your mom and dad or your grandparents music. It is

876
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 1: an incredible genre telling real stories of real people. And

877
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 1: I think that we have an opportunity and for me

878
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: as as a Canadian now living in Nashville, I'm really

879
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 1: proud that I now have an opportunity, I think, to

880
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: stand toe to toe with a lot of my heroes

881
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:25,360
Speaker 1: and a lot of my peers in the business with

882
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:28,800
Speaker 1: a great song, a killer video, and a great message.

883
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 1: So I'm really excited for this season and honestly this

884
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 1: headspace that I'm in to not really take no for

885
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 1: an answer and to just go and and uh and

886
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 1: and kick some masks in uh in the way that

887
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 1: I know how the way I hope to Caitlin and Jason,

888
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: this is the first time you were on camera to

889
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 1: like not an iPhone camera where you're like romantic together.

890
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: It was kind of like a date from TV that

891
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:54,919
Speaker 1: you never had. Was that weird or cool? It? Really?

892
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: I actually never thought about it like that, which is

893
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:59,320
Speaker 1: very interesting because that's You're so right. It was like

894
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:02,640
Speaker 1: our own little date making a music video, being on

895
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 1: like camera together. I loved when we got there real quickly. Um.

896
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 1: So Brett came prepared with because again behind the scenes

897
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:13,360
Speaker 1: was the best party to silver tray, champagne, to to

898
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:17,320
Speaker 1: champagne glasses, rose pedals in a card, you know the

899
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:19,839
Speaker 1: cards on the show. And he's like, well, w did

900
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 1: it say? It was like it was like a production

901
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 1: to the Fantasy Suite we've never had, dared, Jason and Caitlin,

902
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:29,240
Speaker 1: Welcome to the Bahamas. Um, should you choose to forego

903
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 1: your individual individual rooms and stay as a couple in

904
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:35,320
Speaker 1: the Fantasy Suite, you may do that. So I I

905
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:38,200
Speaker 1: got that photo and I thought it was a great

906
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,480
Speaker 1: way to kind of break the ice uh for us

907
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,240
Speaker 1: and everything. I don't know what went down in that fantasy.

908
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 1: So there were no cameras there that didn't make the

909
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 1: music video, but I hope it was awesome. But the

910
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 1: big difference was that, like, so, you know, when you're

911
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:52,239
Speaker 1: on the show, you go on a date and you

912
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 1: kiss or whatever, and there's cameras around, but the biggest

913
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 1: difference is here, this is fully produced. So Caitlin and

914
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:00,080
Speaker 1: I are sitting there bigger and about god knows what

915
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 1: in productions, like here we go, start making out, let's

916
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:08,800
Speaker 1: do this, And I was so mad at I can't remember.

917
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:11,759
Speaker 1: It was something dumb where we were just arguing about

918
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 1: nothing and I like look and I was like I

919
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:19,319
Speaker 1: cannot stand you right now. And then the director was like, Blake,

920
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 1: because all right, make out and I was like but

921
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 1: then I got over in thirty seconds and I was like, wait,

922
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:29,360
Speaker 1: that was really gone. Well. I posted on my Instagram

923
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 1: and makeout kind of the beginning of a makeout session

924
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:36,839
Speaker 1: with you guys today. And the funniest thing is as

925
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 1: you guys are making out, the first time their lips touch,

926
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 1: Blake oard director says, oh yeah, that's great. Yeah, just

927
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:45,399
Speaker 1: like that, Okay, and go and he's coaching them. It's

928
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: like no, no, no, no, no, let let them be

929
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:51,600
Speaker 1: in the moment, like just enjoy this. He's so literally like,

930
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 1: oh yeah, really good, really good. K a little bit longer. Yeah,

931
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:57,319
Speaker 1: that's great. And we got Khalid. I remember that song,

932
00:48:57,440 --> 00:49:00,439
Speaker 1: Can't We just talk? Can't We did that? We played

933
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 1: that like thirty times to get everybody in the mood

934
00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 1: and everything again just funny stories. It was behind the scenes.

935
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:08,440
Speaker 1: Should be a music video in itself because we had

936
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 1: so much fun. Drink about me gets me in the mood.

937
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:15,439
Speaker 1: So I I mean, I just play that making music

938
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 1: right there. I don't care what anybody says. Hey, before

939
00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:23,440
Speaker 1: we say goodbye to Caitlin, Jason, and Brett, first off

940
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 1: things from the studio. We have a couple of rapid

941
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:28,680
Speaker 1: fire questions for Caitlin and Jason. Ashley is always an

942
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:35,279
Speaker 1: expert at rapid fire. It's what she loves. Yeah, let's

943
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 1: play Ashley take it away. Speaking of Raman, who disciplines

944
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:45,359
Speaker 1: Raman more? Oh, that's a good question. I think I do. Yeah,

945
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 1: I don't believe in disciplining. I couldn't. I can't do

946
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:52,440
Speaker 1: it either. In setting them up for success, and showing

947
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:55,240
Speaker 1: them what you want instead of they don't understand anger,

948
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,360
Speaker 1: like they're like and then they think you're like barking

949
00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 1: back and they think they're playing with you, and like

950
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:02,880
Speaker 1: it's it's this whole thing. I don't believe in reprimanding

951
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 1: a dog. I kind of don't either. It's really hard, Jared.

952
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:07,440
Speaker 1: It's like, how else is she supposed to learn if

953
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:08,960
Speaker 1: I don't look at her in the eyes and yo,

954
00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:11,279
Speaker 1: it's not yelling. It's like more of like that deep

955
00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:13,640
Speaker 1: man voice, and they can only do it. She doesn't

956
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 1: listen to me, And I'm like, it's like every couple

957
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 1: she get a dog before they have kids though, learning

958
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:25,759
Speaker 1: style and working through some of those things. So I

959
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:29,319
Speaker 1: think it's great, Okay, this isn't we're supposed to rapid fire. Well,

960
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 1: it's fine. I like to discuss Jason, what was the

961
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 1: last event thing that you went to for her that

962
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 1: you didn't want to go to? Well, good question, can

963
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:44,239
Speaker 1: be business? Yeah, we were just in Vegas and it

964
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 1: was great. She had two podcast two shows. One with

965
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 1: was with Lauren's Ema at Life This Beautiful killed it.

966
00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:52,279
Speaker 1: But then she went on stage with Nicky Glazier and

967
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:56,360
Speaker 1: Nicky glazier, hilarious comedian that makes Caitlin look like a

968
00:50:56,480 --> 00:51:01,319
Speaker 1: church girl. I mean she gets in to it, and um,

969
00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:05,240
Speaker 1: that was one event that I think my pears were pierced.

970
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 1: And many of the times, I don't even think I

971
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:10,200
Speaker 1: can put that podcast out because I was like, you

972
00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 1: know what, like I respect inappropriate humor, but I don't

973
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:15,400
Speaker 1: think I can even put that out because of some

974
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 1: of the things. I'll definitely I have this story I

975
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:23,479
Speaker 1: have to share. Sorry, I actually gotta interrupt this because

976
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:26,239
Speaker 1: this is one of my favorite Jason stories. Is we

977
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,880
Speaker 1: were at this event. I'm not gonna say what, so

978
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:30,839
Speaker 1: point to. We're at this event and some people went

979
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:33,200
Speaker 1: out on stage and they said some things that were

980
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:36,520
Speaker 1: just like far off, like super crude, and Jason and

981
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:37,879
Speaker 1: I were out there as well, and we get back

982
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: to the dressing room and Jason's like, dude, can you

983
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,359
Speaker 1: believe that? I was like, man, I feel awkward. He's

984
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 1: like I just He's like, I could never go out

985
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:47,000
Speaker 1: in front of people and say that kind of stuff.

986
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 1: I was like, I couldn't either, And then it hit me.

987
00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 1: I was like, you're in love with Kitlin. It's literally

988
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 1: my jaw hits the floor at least once a day,

989
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:00,759
Speaker 1: and we're total opposites, but it works. I say thanks

990
00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 1: to him, like we'll be podcasting and I'll say something

991
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,279
Speaker 1: so inappropriate but like just so casually drop it that

992
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 1: he like. It takes a second. He goes, you can't

993
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:17,759
Speaker 1: say that, and I'm like, yes, I can. I do

994
00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 1: like rapid fire, where it's not exactly rapid, it's more

995
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:23,239
Speaker 1: like random questions. And I'm looking at my list right

996
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:26,320
Speaker 1: now and I'm like, all these need explanations. How do

997
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:29,480
Speaker 1: you deal with hotels these days? Because the bathroom, like

998
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:33,759
Speaker 1: the toilets, is oftentimes just in the bedroom. So we

999
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 1: have no problem that we're discussed. We talked about that,

1000
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 1: don't We're like, if you can't fart in front of

1001
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:41,799
Speaker 1: your significant other or let one go, then we think

1002
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:44,319
Speaker 1: there's deeper issues there that you were not letting one

1003
00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 1: go last night. You were letting it all out. It's

1004
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:53,879
Speaker 1: not a bat of chen. What I say I woke

1005
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 1: up this morning was like you have seen me? No,

1006
00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:02,880
Speaker 1: it's so we're open about it. I think I remember

1007
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 1: I was talking about that when you were here for

1008
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:07,040
Speaker 1: the in depth episode, which is about six months ago.

1009
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:09,560
Speaker 1: If even and you're like, I don't know if I'm

1010
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:13,160
Speaker 1: there yet, but you've gotten there. There, We're far past there.

1011
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:16,440
Speaker 1: That's when things are great, though, because then what you

1012
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 1: could be actually physically comfortable with the first time they

1013
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 1: have a weird thing. My mom is never farting from

1014
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:32,319
Speaker 1: my dad, never my my grandmother, because we talked about

1015
00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:34,160
Speaker 1: this all the especially a lot of my family are,

1016
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 1: you know, can be a little bit off the wall,

1017
00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:39,839
Speaker 1: and she says I would never like she just oh,

1018
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:42,400
Speaker 1: my gosh, shoulders go up. Never. We don't do that.

1019
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:50,759
Speaker 1: Like literally, my mom farts in front of Jason. My

1020
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 1: mom when she was like seventeen, she went away on

1021
00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:59,400
Speaker 1: a group ski trip and they shared a bathroom. I

1022
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:02,000
Speaker 1: don't know was one week long. She didn't poop for

1023
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:04,719
Speaker 1: an entire week a joke, because that's how private she

1024
00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:07,839
Speaker 1: is about her business. She must have gotten so sad.

1025
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:10,920
Speaker 1: I know she. I can't imagine how she felt. I

1026
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:12,440
Speaker 1: don't know how she didn't poop in the middle of

1027
00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 1: her sleep, to be honest, and her body was like,

1028
00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 1: we're going to involuntarily do that. She did it on

1029
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:19,320
Speaker 1: the hill, guaranteed. She went into the bush on the

1030
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 1: ski hill and be like, oh, I took the wrong run.

1031
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:24,840
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I just I was supposed to follow everybody.

1032
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:26,320
Speaker 1: Now she did. She did it in the bush. I

1033
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 1: had previous relationships like that where I wasn't open. I

1034
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:30,719
Speaker 1: would go to like the gym. I'd go to the

1035
00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:33,239
Speaker 1: lobby bathroom, like, oh, I gotta take a phone call

1036
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 1: and go down to the lobby. I think my mom

1037
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 1: still must do that when my dad and her sharing

1038
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 1: a hotel room, like, I think she probably waits until

1039
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 1: he goes somewhere. That's so crazy. Um, you guys, what

1040
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 1: is one thing, Jason, that you still want to get

1041
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:50,680
Speaker 1: rid of that was part of Caitlin's place before it

1042
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:57,799
Speaker 1: was yours only one? So Caitlin has this cactus that's

1043
00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 1: in her kitchen and it's turn it off like too straight,

1044
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:06,480
Speaker 1: very correct. Now it's it's turned, it's spiraled. It looks

1045
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:10,759
Speaker 1: what does it look like? A limp piece? And the

1046
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:12,839
Speaker 1: thing's gotta go. That's and it's and by the way,

1047
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:15,480
Speaker 1: it's cemented on the floor with it looks like um

1048
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 1: looks okay, yeah, So I'll show you before and after

1049
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 1: that's gotta go. I thought you were going to say,

1050
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 1: my um my, um hay. Alex is Alexa Alexa, my

1051
00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:32,879
Speaker 1: Alexa with pictures of Tucker's still on it, keep thinking

1052
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 1: it's wrong, and when I look at it and I'm like,

1053
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:41,439
Speaker 1: I should probably take that. How much don't have any

1054
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 1: more time? This isn't a rapid fire question, but just

1055
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:48,400
Speaker 1: one that I'm obliged to ask. How does it feel

1056
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 1: that Hannah is on Dancing with the Stars and you

1057
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Speaker 1: still haven't gotten your chance? Um? I'm really happy about it.

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Speaker 1: One because the whole reason I spoke out about my

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Speaker 1: frustration with not getting on was so that future bachelorettes

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Speaker 1: possibly have a chance. So I do, I mean a

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Speaker 1: small part yet things where I'm like, she's living my dream.

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Speaker 1: But I'm also like that is the reason I spoke

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Speaker 1: out about being frustrated, so that I could somehow have

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Speaker 1: a voice for future bachetes to possibly get the chance

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Speaker 1: to go on the show. So awesome. I'm very happy

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Speaker 1: for her. What do you think if if she was

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Speaker 1: still with Jed, you think she would be able to

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Speaker 1: get that gig? No, So this is kind of like

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Speaker 1: a they threw her a bone. Same thing with Melissa Ryecroft,

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Speaker 1: you know, like Jason breaks up with her on National

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Speaker 1: you can have Dancing with the stars. It was we

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Speaker 1: talked to Joe. We had dinner with Joe and Kendall

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Speaker 1: top of the show. Okay, so Kendall is so secure,

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Speaker 1: but even Kendall said, you know, they want you to

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Speaker 1: it's interesting to see different perspectives um. But like like

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Speaker 1: But I've never thought about that. Yeah, we're talking about

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Speaker 1: before the show. Well, once again, Caitlin Bristow walks so

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Speaker 1: yet to be invited to. Not happy about it, but

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Speaker 1: just like I always have. Also, Caitlyn and Jason are

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Speaker 1: Now you go out and download it. It's worth it.

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Speaker 1: It's a hit. It's such a good song. And thank

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Speaker 1: you for saying all that, Ben, I appreciate that. And oh,

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Speaker 1: by the way, yes you haven't invited. We wanted to

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Speaker 1: well I had a blast, Thank you very much. Can't

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Speaker 1: and doing. This week, I'm upset about one thing, and

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Speaker 1: And here's what I'm learning as we go. Everybody in studio,

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Speaker 1: Whitney frands Way, Welcome to the Almost Same podcast? Is

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Speaker 1: your first time here? Oh my goodness, welcome? Thank you.

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Speaker 1: So you were dating Connor for a split second on

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Speaker 1: I'm calling it out. Um, Whitney, you guys ended up

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Speaker 1: and you guys kind of hit it off and you

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Speaker 1: began dating. How were you ever exclusive? Yeah? Um? Actually

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Speaker 1: after we left, when we left Paradise, after we left

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Speaker 1: And as we continue to explore that as we left Paradise,

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Speaker 1: And we had kind of communicated about that the whole relationship,

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Speaker 1: factors have a play on that. UM. And So about

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Speaker 1: two weeks ago, Yeah, now we broke up. Is it

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Speaker 1: is it one of those I mean, it looked like

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Speaker 1: it was cordial, and it looks like it looked like

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Speaker 1: it was. It was good. Do you've looked back on

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Speaker 1: our listeners, does it feel like a real relationship looking

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Speaker 1: back on it now? Yeah? I mean definitely, I felt

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Speaker 1: time to explore that further. Um. And just because it

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Speaker 1: It was kind of a mutual decision and yeah, it

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Speaker 1: was real. Do you wish that you would have ever? Like,

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Speaker 1: do you wish you would have been in paradise? After

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Speaker 1: watching it back the whole time? Like, was there anybody

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Speaker 1: else there that like stuck out to you? Or do

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Speaker 1: you feel like you went with the person that you

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Speaker 1: best were suited for? No. I think Connor was the

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Speaker 1: because you had a boyfriend, and then you had such

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01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:11,440
Speaker 1: a late entrance and Bachelor in Paradise this time around,

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01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 1: you think that because you have been talked about so

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01:07:14,800 --> 01:07:16,840
Speaker 1: much in this b I P season, that you maybe

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01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:21,480
Speaker 1: be open to going again next year. Um, I'm definitely

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01:07:21,640 --> 01:07:23,720
Speaker 1: open to it. I hope it doesn't come to that.

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Speaker 1: I kind of hope I find somebody before next year. Um,

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01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:29,360
Speaker 1: but I don't know as of now if I see

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01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:32,520
Speaker 1: myself doing it again. But never say never got you.

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01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:35,040
Speaker 1: I think whenne One of the things that have really

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01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:37,800
Speaker 1: stood out to me was the response of viewers for

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01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:41,400
Speaker 1: you on Paradise. I mean, you're a beautiful person inside. Now.

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01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:43,400
Speaker 1: I got to meet you walking to the airport. You

1277
01:07:43,440 --> 01:07:45,960
Speaker 1: didn't tell me that you're into somebody specific when we're

1278
01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:48,120
Speaker 1: in the airport. I don't think I asked you. Um,

1279
01:07:49,040 --> 01:07:51,360
Speaker 1: but you have captivated audience, but you've kind of taken

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01:07:51,400 --> 01:07:54,720
Speaker 1: a low profile. UM, but you've continued to kind of

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01:07:54,800 --> 01:07:58,000
Speaker 1: connect and build a career outside of the franchise, which

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01:07:58,080 --> 01:08:00,360
Speaker 1: is always respectable. Can you tell all there and a

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01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 1: little bit about what you're up to today? Yeah, UM,

1284
01:08:04,240 --> 01:08:06,800
Speaker 1: I do the social media thing like a lot of people.

1285
01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:09,040
Speaker 1: I think Bachelor definitely opened the doors for me in

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01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 1: that sense. UM. I focus on beauty, fitness, lifestyle, wellness. UM.

1287
01:08:15,320 --> 01:08:19,880
Speaker 1: And now that I'm back after summer and tons of travel, UM,

1288
01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:22,120
Speaker 1: I'm ready to just kind of get my feet back

1289
01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:26,200
Speaker 1: on the ground with UM focusing on that and UM,

1290
01:08:26,400 --> 01:08:28,800
Speaker 1: I'm working on something exciting hopefully that's going to come

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01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:30,560
Speaker 1: out in the next year in the wellness world, So

1292
01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:34,280
Speaker 1: stay tuned to that. UM. But yeah, that's all I

1293
01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:37,080
Speaker 1: really have going on right now. What are some glam

1294
01:08:37,920 --> 01:08:41,680
Speaker 1: lifestyle fitness products that you would suggest that people have

1295
01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:46,080
Speaker 1: to check out? UM, Oh my gosh, there's so many.

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01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:48,000
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm always You're probably in the same boat.

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01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:51,400
Speaker 1: You're probably always trying new beauty always products and well,

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01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:55,320
Speaker 1: I actually, um, the most recent uh thing that I

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01:08:55,439 --> 01:08:58,240
Speaker 1: just did is I work with T three micro hair

1300
01:08:58,360 --> 01:09:01,080
Speaker 1: tools and I've been having a lot of fun exploring,

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01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:03,439
Speaker 1: um how to use their tools, how to do my

1302
01:09:03,520 --> 01:09:06,880
Speaker 1: hair different and I think that's probably the best hair

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01:09:07,000 --> 01:09:10,120
Speaker 1: tool that I have found out there. UM. So I'm

1304
01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 1: genuinely excited to be a partner with them. So if

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01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:16,920
Speaker 1: you haven't tried their stuff, you definitely should. Okay, yeah,

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01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:20,960
Speaker 1: I mean, Whitney, Here's the thing is Nation, you come

1307
01:09:21,000 --> 01:09:22,519
Speaker 1: off of the show and you do do the social

1308
01:09:22,560 --> 01:09:24,920
Speaker 1: media thing, you do the travel thing, and there's always

1309
01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:27,920
Speaker 1: like a passion behind it, and so what is it

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01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:29,720
Speaker 1: about all of this stuff that you're doing right now

1311
01:09:29,800 --> 01:09:33,200
Speaker 1: that really fires you up? Yeah? Um. I think a

1312
01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:35,760
Speaker 1: lot of people in social media can sometimes struggle with

1313
01:09:35,800 --> 01:09:38,519
Speaker 1: purpose because they get a little bit lost in um,

1314
01:09:38,600 --> 01:09:42,120
Speaker 1: the surface level of that. UM. But I think for me,

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01:09:42,360 --> 01:09:44,200
Speaker 1: what makes me so excited to get up and do

1316
01:09:44,320 --> 01:09:46,280
Speaker 1: this every day and be fortunate enough to do this

1317
01:09:46,560 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 1: is that I have a platform that I can reach

1318
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:51,000
Speaker 1: so many people and make a difference in their lives.

1319
01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:53,560
Speaker 1: So I really try to be a positive influence with

1320
01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:57,960
Speaker 1: natural beauty and healthy lifestyle and um just positive body

1321
01:09:58,040 --> 01:10:02,479
Speaker 1: image and um surrounding herself with a good community. And

1322
01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:04,920
Speaker 1: I think hopefully that I can be a good example

1323
01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:07,680
Speaker 1: for people if they're struggling with any of that that

1324
01:10:07,880 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 1: I'm here to kind of give them tools in tips

1325
01:10:10,439 --> 01:10:14,639
Speaker 1: and tricks. Whitney, I'm going to play a Bachelor rapid

1326
01:10:14,720 --> 01:10:18,760
Speaker 1: fire with you. When did you start watching a Bachelor? Um?

1327
01:10:19,400 --> 01:10:23,960
Speaker 1: Probably I don't know, a few years before mine. So

1328
01:10:24,080 --> 01:10:29,240
Speaker 1: who was your favorite Bachelor to watch? Be careful with you. Honestly,

1329
01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:31,400
Speaker 1: probably been season I feel like that's when I actually

1330
01:10:31,439 --> 01:10:33,960
Speaker 1: started watching seasons. Fully, I think I kind of just

1331
01:10:34,040 --> 01:10:36,600
Speaker 1: watched like episodes here and there before. Um, but I

1332
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:39,439
Speaker 1: had friend a friend, Jojo at the time that did

1333
01:10:39,520 --> 01:10:44,280
Speaker 1: been seasons. You knew Jojo? Yeah? Yeah, So her ex

1334
01:10:44,439 --> 01:10:48,160
Speaker 1: Chad in my ex lived together in Dallas, and uh,

1335
01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:50,120
Speaker 1: I went there to live there for a month, and

1336
01:10:50,160 --> 01:10:51,880
Speaker 1: that's when she was dating Chad, and so I got

1337
01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:55,000
Speaker 1: to know her really well, crazy, super crazy, small world

1338
01:10:55,160 --> 01:10:59,479
Speaker 1: not bad Chad. Just to clarify, well, no, this is

1339
01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:02,040
Speaker 1: the Chad that showed up with the flowers during my season.

1340
01:11:02,160 --> 01:11:05,840
Speaker 1: Never got he was probably fine. I didn't know that though.

1341
01:11:06,320 --> 01:11:07,479
Speaker 1: She had one of the reasons why you went on

1342
01:11:07,560 --> 01:11:11,040
Speaker 1: the show. Yeah, her, And then actually I watched one

1343
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:14,040
Speaker 1: Pablo season two. Um, I had another friend that just

1344
01:11:14,360 --> 01:11:18,200
Speaker 1: gives him my season. Now. I watched your season two,

1345
01:11:18,320 --> 01:11:20,400
Speaker 1: but again, like I didn't watch the season fully I

1346
01:11:20,439 --> 01:11:24,040
Speaker 1: think until Jojo was on Ben season Ben season. Um,

1347
01:11:24,240 --> 01:11:26,600
Speaker 1: but yeah, Jojo definitely had an influence. I kind of

1348
01:11:26,680 --> 01:11:28,840
Speaker 1: just talked to her about experience and wanted to see

1349
01:11:28,920 --> 01:11:32,320
Speaker 1: if that was something that she enjoyed and something that

1350
01:11:32,320 --> 01:11:34,080
Speaker 1: I should be open to. So she kind of helped

1351
01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:36,960
Speaker 1: push me in the direction of doing the show. Cool.

1352
01:11:37,160 --> 01:11:39,559
Speaker 1: Speaking of my season, I should started out there. Um.

1353
01:11:39,760 --> 01:11:42,400
Speaker 1: I saw her souls this weekend and he seems to

1354
01:11:42,439 --> 01:11:47,760
Speaker 1: be doing well. Just where do you see him at? Um? Well,

1355
01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:51,960
Speaker 1: he he was staying at an Airbnb in West Hollywood

1356
01:11:52,040 --> 01:11:54,479
Speaker 1: and he was hanging out with Wells and Nick. Jared

1357
01:11:54,520 --> 01:11:57,080
Speaker 1: and I were at a charity event and Nick was like,

1358
01:11:57,640 --> 01:11:59,439
Speaker 1: it was Nick's birthday and he was like, do you

1359
01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:00,840
Speaker 1: want to go up or to therapy and be and

1360
01:12:00,920 --> 01:12:03,760
Speaker 1: hang out for a couple grab a beer and we did.

1361
01:12:03,840 --> 01:12:07,280
Speaker 1: It was nice. That's awesome, good, you know what, we

1362
01:12:07,680 --> 01:12:11,040
Speaker 1: were wishing Chris the best and just everybody in that situation. Um,

1363
01:12:12,080 --> 01:12:14,200
Speaker 1: you know, we're just thinking about him. It's it's never easy,

1364
01:12:14,320 --> 01:12:17,960
Speaker 1: but hey, it's good that you saw Chris Um, then okay,

1365
01:12:18,040 --> 01:12:20,000
Speaker 1: let's go. Let's continue this rapid fire for a second.

1366
01:12:20,240 --> 01:12:23,000
Speaker 1: Who was your favorite bachelorette to watch? But I feel

1367
01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:27,960
Speaker 1: like you're biased here obviously Rachel okay, because she's my beastie.

1368
01:12:28,160 --> 01:12:31,120
Speaker 1: But did you on her wedding? Yeah? Tell us about

1369
01:12:31,160 --> 01:12:34,720
Speaker 1: their wedding. Their wedding was so fun, Like, Rachel was

1370
01:12:35,000 --> 01:12:36,960
Speaker 1: the one when we were traveling on my season that

1371
01:12:37,520 --> 01:12:40,479
Speaker 1: we always room together, so our friendship grew through that.

1372
01:12:40,640 --> 01:12:42,800
Speaker 1: To then see her like she had never seen the

1373
01:12:42,840 --> 01:12:45,200
Speaker 1: show before she went on, and then to see her

1374
01:12:45,320 --> 01:12:48,040
Speaker 1: be able to be the Bachelorette and hear about that experience.

1375
01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:51,040
Speaker 1: I can remember so vividly to this day, the phone

1376
01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:53,120
Speaker 1: call she gave me when she was done filming and

1377
01:12:53,200 --> 01:12:55,680
Speaker 1: she told me she was engaged, and Um, I think

1378
01:12:55,800 --> 01:12:57,599
Speaker 1: just to be there through their whole relationship and then

1379
01:12:57,600 --> 01:12:59,639
Speaker 1: actually be there at their wedding was such a cool

1380
01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:02,040
Speaker 1: EXPI arians and I was just so thrilled for both

1381
01:13:02,080 --> 01:13:03,600
Speaker 1: of them. I'm so happy for her. Is there a

1382
01:13:03,680 --> 01:13:06,120
Speaker 1: little tidbit that we haven't seen on social media yet

1383
01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:09,320
Speaker 1: that you can let us in on um from the wedding? Yeah,

1384
01:13:10,200 --> 01:13:12,000
Speaker 1: m I feel like a lot of it was out there.

1385
01:13:12,040 --> 01:13:14,680
Speaker 1: I think it was pretty laid back to be honest. Um,

1386
01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:18,760
Speaker 1: but obviously there was some other Bachelor people there like Christina,

1387
01:13:19,439 --> 01:13:24,920
Speaker 1: Astrid and Kevin. Um who else was there? Um? Yeah,

1388
01:13:24,960 --> 01:13:27,280
Speaker 1: a few other people that was fun to see because

1389
01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:30,720
Speaker 1: was there. Eric Bigger was there? Yeah. Um. So just

1390
01:13:30,800 --> 01:13:32,960
Speaker 1: fun to kind of get that crew back together too,

1391
01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:34,720
Speaker 1: because I don't get to see them that much, And

1392
01:13:34,840 --> 01:13:37,519
Speaker 1: obviously Astrid and Kevin and Raven and at Her are

1393
01:13:37,600 --> 01:13:39,720
Speaker 1: engaged too, So just kind of like fun to see

1394
01:13:39,720 --> 01:13:44,040
Speaker 1: all of them. Awesome, Whitney, We've heard you can confirm

1395
01:13:44,120 --> 01:13:47,720
Speaker 1: deny or not comment that Tyler and Christina maybe hanging out.

1396
01:13:47,840 --> 01:13:51,240
Speaker 1: Can you confirm deny or not comment. I'm not sure

1397
01:13:51,240 --> 01:13:54,400
Speaker 1: if I should comment on that. At least she's smiling, giggling.

1398
01:13:55,320 --> 01:14:00,320
Speaker 1: It's a nice giggle. That's all we need from you actually. Okay,

1399
01:14:00,720 --> 01:14:05,680
Speaker 1: My last question for you is if you were on

1400
01:14:06,479 --> 01:14:12,360
Speaker 1: seasons four and five of Bachelor in Paradise, who would

1401
01:14:12,400 --> 01:14:17,080
Speaker 1: you wanted to see there? Um? The two seasons before me. Yeah,

1402
01:14:17,360 --> 01:14:19,000
Speaker 1: the ones that you possibly could have been on if

1403
01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:20,320
Speaker 1: you didn't have a boy. My gosh, I don't know.

1404
01:14:20,360 --> 01:14:22,240
Speaker 1: I feel like I can't answer that because it's kind

1405
01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:26,519
Speaker 1: of weird, because because somebody everybody here, it's okay, we've

1406
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:30,800
Speaker 1: all it's all weird each other with me. It's it's

1407
01:14:30,840 --> 01:14:32,840
Speaker 1: just a big old I mean you see it. It's

1408
01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:35,519
Speaker 1: happening on Paradise is here? Just everybody dates each other? Yeah,

1409
01:14:35,560 --> 01:14:37,559
Speaker 1: it is. You know. I don't know if I should

1410
01:14:37,640 --> 01:14:41,280
Speaker 1: date in Bachelor anymore. I'm kind of just I'm not sure.

1411
01:14:41,320 --> 01:14:46,960
Speaker 1: I told us is the only one that I dated

1412
01:14:47,000 --> 01:14:51,000
Speaker 1: in Bachelor Nation besides neck? Okay, wow, okay, yeah, all right,

1413
01:14:51,439 --> 01:14:56,880
Speaker 1: answer the question. I can't even remember who's on it.

1414
01:14:56,920 --> 01:15:00,160
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think you don't have one Bachelor uh

1415
01:15:00,240 --> 01:15:06,759
Speaker 1: that you've never met. I don't think so, to be honest, Whitney, Whitney, Whitney,

1416
01:15:06,840 --> 01:15:09,120
Speaker 1: one day, one day, you're gonna walk down to that beach.

1417
01:15:09,200 --> 01:15:11,400
Speaker 1: I have a feeling and your eyes are gonna open up,

1418
01:15:11,400 --> 01:15:15,280
Speaker 1: your heart's gonna start pitter pattering, and everything is going

1419
01:15:15,320 --> 01:15:18,639
Speaker 1: to change. Hey, Whitney, Um, before we go, I want

1420
01:15:18,640 --> 01:15:20,880
Speaker 1: to have you tell our audience anything they need to

1421
01:15:20,920 --> 01:15:22,720
Speaker 1: follow or be ready for for you that you want

1422
01:15:22,760 --> 01:15:25,560
Speaker 1: to support, promote and talk about. And then last, we

1423
01:15:25,600 --> 01:15:29,920
Speaker 1: always like to give our our guests the opportunity to

1424
01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:33,479
Speaker 1: tell any of the listeners and fans of you any advice,

1425
01:15:33,720 --> 01:15:37,360
Speaker 1: any feelings, any behind the scenes things from Bachelor, just

1426
01:15:37,560 --> 01:15:40,760
Speaker 1: to clear up who you are as a human. Mm

1427
01:15:40,840 --> 01:15:44,000
Speaker 1: hmm okay. Um, well, first, I just want to say

1428
01:15:44,439 --> 01:15:46,960
Speaker 1: thank you to everybody who was so supportive of Connor

1429
01:15:47,040 --> 01:15:49,479
Speaker 1: and I, um through our relationship and us trying to

1430
01:15:49,560 --> 01:15:52,360
Speaker 1: work things out. And I hope you guys can continue

1431
01:15:52,400 --> 01:15:54,720
Speaker 1: to be just a support of it to both of us,

1432
01:15:54,840 --> 01:15:57,200
Speaker 1: because again, there's no hard feelings and we both wish

1433
01:15:57,280 --> 01:15:59,760
Speaker 1: the best for each other. I think that's great. Where

1434
01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:02,120
Speaker 1: they follow you on Instagram. Um, yeah, you can follow

1435
01:16:02,160 --> 01:16:05,120
Speaker 1: me on Instagram just my name Whitney frans Way, and

1436
01:16:05,800 --> 01:16:08,080
Speaker 1: you can learn some more tips and tricks about beauty

1437
01:16:08,240 --> 01:16:12,320
Speaker 1: and wellness and living your best happy, healthy life. Awesome,

1438
01:16:12,600 --> 01:16:16,920
Speaker 1: all right, thank you for last night you did. I

1439
01:16:17,000 --> 01:16:19,960
Speaker 1: saw your stuff. I said, hey, she's coming on the podcast.

1440
01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:22,360
Speaker 1: I need to make sure my skin looks good, so

1441
01:16:22,479 --> 01:16:25,240
Speaker 1: I threw one on, Whitney. Thanks for coming good. Thank

1442
01:16:25,280 --> 01:16:27,080
Speaker 1: you for having me. Guys. Ben has a really good

1443
01:16:27,120 --> 01:16:32,920
Speaker 1: guy skin. His pores are so clear. I'm just literally

1444
01:16:32,960 --> 01:16:35,840
Speaker 1: telling you this is the truth, alright, guys. Well, I

1445
01:16:35,920 --> 01:16:38,240
Speaker 1: think that is it for this week's episode of the

1446
01:16:38,280 --> 01:16:41,240
Speaker 1: Almost Sames podcast. Thank you so much for joining us

1447
01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:43,559
Speaker 1: really quick. Before you guys say goodbye, I just really

1448
01:16:43,600 --> 01:16:46,080
Speaker 1: got to shout out the flint Stones. Yeah. I was

1449
01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:48,840
Speaker 1: gonna say, Eastern, what is up with all the flint

1450
01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:50,960
Speaker 1: Stone stuff we have around the studio. I'm going through

1451
01:16:51,000 --> 01:16:54,680
Speaker 1: a major flint Stones moment right now. Uh yeah, It's

1452
01:16:54,760 --> 01:16:56,799
Speaker 1: it's too much to get into, but I'm really excited

1453
01:16:56,840 --> 01:17:01,559
Speaker 1: because they're coming back to me TV starting now. If

1454
01:17:01,600 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 1: you have me TV, you can see classic episodes of

1455
01:17:03,800 --> 01:17:06,559
Speaker 1: the Flintstones. They sent over some boxes of fruity pebbles

1456
01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:09,560
Speaker 1: and Coco pebbles and some milk with Dino on it.

1457
01:17:09,800 --> 01:17:13,160
Speaker 1: That's the dog for the uninitiated. Um, it's if the

1458
01:17:13,200 --> 01:17:15,000
Speaker 1: Flintstones is just the greatest thing in the whole wide world.

1459
01:17:15,080 --> 01:17:17,280
Speaker 1: And you can check them out on me TV on

1460
01:17:18,720 --> 01:17:22,639
Speaker 1: Hey that's just in. Uh come in weeknights at six

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01:17:22,720 --> 01:17:26,200
Speaker 1: pm and six thirty pm on MeTV, America's number one

1462
01:17:26,240 --> 01:17:29,160
Speaker 1: classic television network, and that's the Flintstones. Baby. Yeah, but Debba,

1463
01:17:29,200 --> 01:17:32,920
Speaker 1: do you were wearing that amazing Flintstone shirt when we

1464
01:17:33,000 --> 01:17:35,040
Speaker 1: were an I Heeart Festival. My wife got me a

1465
01:17:35,080 --> 01:17:38,440
Speaker 1: Flintstones T shirt for our second anniversary. That's the Cotton anniversary,

1466
01:17:39,080 --> 01:17:42,200
Speaker 1: not the Flintstone anniversary. I love that shirt. It reminded

1467
01:17:42,240 --> 01:17:44,240
Speaker 1: me of a shirt that my dad had. My dad

1468
01:17:44,320 --> 01:17:48,000
Speaker 1: had Fred and my uncle had Barney, and they wear

1469
01:17:48,040 --> 01:17:52,599
Speaker 1: it together. Yeah, in their hands. Hey. We gotta give

1470
01:17:52,640 --> 01:17:56,800
Speaker 1: a thank you to Brett Jason, Caitlin Ashley, my co host,

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