1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,240 Speaker 1: My sister wants me to move my wedding because she 2 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: can't find a babysitter. 3 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 2: I don't want to, am I the ahole. 4 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:09,840 Speaker 3: Move your wedding. Yeah, your wedding is only good if 5 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 3: it literally meshes with everyone who attends. Plans, Consult everyone 6 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 3: who's attending, give them a when to meet, and then 7 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 3: make sure that you schedule it according to their free time. 8 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: We just need a fifteen minute window that works for 9 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:23,479 Speaker 1: all three hundred people. 10 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 3: Easy enough. 11 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: We got to be accommodating, right, easy enough, exactly. I 12 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: female twenty four, am getting married to my fiance, male 13 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: twenty six in October this year. Congrats. We got engaged 14 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:34,919 Speaker 1: in January and couldn't be more excited. It's a very 15 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: small wedding and we're inviting only close family and friends. 16 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:42,840 Speaker 1: The problem is my sister, Lisa, female thirty. Fuck you Lisa, Yeah, 17 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: fuck you Lisa, same as single. Lisa has a two 18 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 1: year old son with her husband. I don't have a 19 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:51,239 Speaker 1: super affectionate relationship with Lisa for multiple reasons that I 20 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 1: can't fit into this post. We would read it. We 21 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 1: would love to hear the tea. 22 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 3: Give us the tea. 23 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: Oh God, we send out the wedding invites. Last month, 24 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 1: our wedding ceremonies charts at one thirty pm, and we 25 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:03,959 Speaker 1: asked our guests to please arrive at the venue by 26 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: one o'clock sharp. The venue is in our hometown, so 27 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 1: it's close by the majority of people on our guest list, 28 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: including Lisa. 29 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 3: I know Lisa's going to be trouble. 30 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: You just know it. 31 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 3: Just I've never met a Lisa that I liked one 32 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 3: listening that's named Lisa. I hate you. 33 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 1: Unsubscribed, I'm kidding, Just don't do that. Please stay subscribed 34 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: to us. 35 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 3: We need the clout, We need all the Lisas that 36 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:28,279 Speaker 3: are watching to make up for this terrible Lisa. 37 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 2: Can every Lisa watching right now? 38 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 1: Comment below comment Lisa Yeah, Lisa's comment Lisa, Lisa Chance, Lisa, 39 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 1: Lisa Liza Baby. Lisa told me that that time wouldn't 40 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: work because of her two year olds nap schedule. Two 41 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 1: year olds don't got a nap schedule? Am I going 42 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 1: to bring my cranky toddler to your wedding? 43 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 2: Hell? 44 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 3: No, two year olds are freaking a morphous blobs of chaos. 45 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 3: You should not schedule anything according to your two year old. 46 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 3: Your two year old should be on your schedule. That's 47 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 3: called good parenting. Yeah, exactly. 48 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 1: Hey, buddy, I know you really need food right now, 49 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: but daddy's got a zoom meeting. Daddy's got a cheat 50 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: on your mom. 51 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 4: Daddy has need. 52 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 1: It's Samuel Donner with his eleven children. Your mother and 53 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,959 Speaker 1: I are going our separate ways. But she doesn't know. Buddy, 54 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: have you ever heard of keeping a secret? It's a 55 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: special thing that sam does with you. Shout out to 56 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:19,519 Speaker 1: the eleven children. Callback if you watched that episode bad. 57 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 3: I don't know if I want to be known for that. 58 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 1: That's your new calling card. Great. She said that he 59 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: takes a nap at twelve and that she is not 60 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 1: forcing him to be awake so she can get him 61 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: ready for an event, or he will be a terror. 62 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: He's gonna be a terror. 63 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 3: I think. 64 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 1: Learn how to raise resilient children. What about cater to 65 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: your children's every need so that way they grow up 66 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 1: to be a prima donna? Exactly. 67 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 3: That means your child's going to turn into Macaulay Culkin. Yeah, oh, 68 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 3: is he a pre ma donna? Well, he was, and 69 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 3: then he turned to drugs, and then he turned away 70 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:47,959 Speaker 3: from drugs. 71 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 2: That sounds like a great path to me. 72 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 3: Any child actor. 73 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 2: That's true. 74 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: Actually, maybe this is preparing them to be a child 75 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: actor career success. Hey, this sounds like bankrolls to me. 76 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: You should stop trying to attend weddings and start trying 77 00:02:58,440 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: to manipulate your child into becoming a child actor. 78 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 2: Let's go. 79 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 1: I don't have kids, but I thought this was a 80 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 1: silly reason. I asked Lisa if she could find a babysitter, 81 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: and she said that she can't because everyone that she 82 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: trusts will be at the wedding. I suggested that they 83 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: at least attend the reception, but she said that she 84 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 1: won't if she can't be at the wedding. 85 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 3: There's no compromise here. 86 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 87 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: Also, your two year old shod not dictate your life. 88 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, like literally, just like put that thing in a 89 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 3: room and go to the wedding. 90 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: Your two year old's get an app every day. Your 91 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 1: sister hopefully is gonna get married once. Let's be reasonable here. Okay, 92 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 1: Baby Bjoran. 93 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 3: You know, Baby Bjorn is kind of like a straight jacket, 94 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 3: but I feel like it's more of like it's like 95 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 3: a you're just so comfy in a burrito. It's like 96 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 3: a sleeping bag, you know, put your baby in a 97 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 3: burrito sleeping bag. Wrap it up. 98 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: Once again, excellent parenting advice from Sam. It's what the 99 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: people need. Yeah, I think this is all you need, 100 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: all right? 101 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, pacifier that they can't take off, and then a 102 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 3: little little straight jack oft burrito wrap. Good to go. 103 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 1: The Nobel Piece Prize for Parenting goes to Riley's worried. 104 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: Riley's very afraid, as he should be. She told me 105 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: that she won't attend a wedding unless we change a time. 106 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: So I told her that we can't do that. 107 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 3: Of course not. You're not going to change the whole 108 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 3: wedding for your two year old. I mean, why not 109 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 3: just cancel all your guests. 110 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. 111 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: Let me just cancel this wedding until your child is 112 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:19,600 Speaker 1: eighteen years old and doesn't eat a nap anymore. Let 113 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 1: me just delay this by sixteen years. 114 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 3: Your wedding is during my kids nap time, so can 115 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 3: you move it? 116 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: The most insane I was quite hurt by this. I 117 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 1: wasn't sure how to react in the moment, so I 118 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,840 Speaker 1: just abruptly ended the conversation with an excuse. A few 119 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: days later, Lisa asked me if I thought about her suggestion. 120 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 3: God, girl, what. 121 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 1: Are you doing moving your entire wedding. That's not a suggestion, 122 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: that's fucking crazy, maniac. I reminded her that there's no 123 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 1: way we can change the time, of course, not God. 124 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 1: She told me that she hopes I'm happy that they 125 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 1: aren't attending, and said that everyone is going to ask 126 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: why she's not there, and it's all because I can't 127 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 1: accommodate my nephew. 128 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:01,280 Speaker 3: You think that more people will ask why she's not there, 129 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:03,799 Speaker 3: then why you moved an entire wedding. 130 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 1: Oh hey, like we're moving the time. Oh hey, no worries. 131 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 1: I hope everything's okay. It's like, oh yeah, it's my 132 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: nephew's naf time. They'll be like, what excuse me? That's 133 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 1: a crazy ask, asshole, ask for sure, and your own sister. 134 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:17,839 Speaker 1: I could see some Karen who's like, you know, five 135 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 1: cousins down the line, like. 136 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 2: Move your wedding for my nephew, But this is your sister. 137 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 3: Ridiculous. 138 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: God, she called me bridezilla and has blocked me. Oh 139 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:31,720 Speaker 1: my god, my mom is pestering me to make amends 140 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 1: with Lisa. But I just don't think I am in 141 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 1: the wrong. This beel is pretty clear cut. Op is 142 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 1: the biggest ahole I've ever No, I'm just kidding. 143 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 3: Nah, dude, Opie, you are not the ahole at all, 144 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 3: crazy out of your mind ask Yeah, I would just 145 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 3: like not care if she, you know, it didn't come. 146 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 1: I feel like we've seen a lot of stories lately 147 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 1: where it's like, this is someone's wedding something that they're like, 148 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 1: not only is it something that they've been looking forward 149 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 1: to their entire life. They've put so much effort, bloodsweat, 150 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:00,159 Speaker 1: and tears into planning, and then you come along with 151 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: this bullshit. 152 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, like, let me enjoy my wedding, please. Your only 153 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 3: job is to help me enjoy my wedding more, not 154 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 3: try to make it more miserable. Worst kind of people. 155 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 3: But I don't know what do you think? How do 156 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 3: you even solve this problem? I have no idea. 157 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 1: Also, what is the most insane requests that people have 158 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: made for you at your wedding? 159 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 3: Oh? 160 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 1: Yes, most insane requests. I would love to hear it. 161 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 3: Put your answers in the comments, and thank you for 162 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 3: joining us for another Bali episode. 163 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 2: We love you guys. 164 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: Ah see you on the next one. 165 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 3: My husband invited a stripper to have a threesome with 166 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 3: me on my wedding night. Should I leave them? 167 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 1: You know, sometimes we hear about people that have terrible relationships. 168 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: Is not one of people who are inspirations. Yeah, this 169 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: is inspiration for us, off I mean truly what a king. Yeah, 170 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: And it's like, you know, start your wedding like you 171 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,479 Speaker 1: like you want your relationship to be right, you know, 172 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 1: so like your marriage be your wedding night should be 173 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 1: emblematic of the marriage, and so if you want to 174 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 1: have threesomes every night early, I was wondering where you 175 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:09,160 Speaker 1: were going. By the way, welcome for the third time 176 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 1: in a row for us, but first time for you all. 177 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: Macy Savannah smiles hell on the show. 178 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 5: I am yes, yeah, thank you for inviting me to 179 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 5: your studio of. 180 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 1: Course, Oh yeah, studio can And we went to our 181 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: real studio, which we you know we've been keeping from 182 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 1: you guys. 183 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, We're sorry. 184 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: Let's drop like a million dollars on a studio and 185 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 1: then never use it. 186 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 4: That's a good idea. 187 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 3: That we want to just reveal it for a very 188 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 3: special guest and they may see. 189 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 5: Qualified do you have to say for my streaming room? Though, 190 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 5: how you guys have your lights set up in the 191 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 5: back was kind of like where I kind of drew inspiration. 192 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 4: Wow, I am actually. 193 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 5: I had in the house though it was lazy with it, 194 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 5: but I liked the different. 195 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 1: You know, we did we once because we like have 196 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 1: like sound blankets like Black Eye, The Light and Happiness. Yeah, yeah, 197 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: like these right, So I was like, what if we 198 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: like didn't record in a cave for once, So we 199 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 1: pulled the blinds back and all of our videos like hanged. 200 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 3: All the people really like the darkness. The darkness all right, Wait, 201 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 3: macone quick question is a three sime on the wedding night. 202 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 5: A deal breaker depends on the type of relationship I 203 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 5: think you have for me personally. That's just not something 204 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 5: that's on the table. That was something that was like 205 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 5: you guys have discussed. Yeah. It was like, you know, 206 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 5: with all these things, like I'm not polyamorous at all, 207 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 5: but I'm not going to like crap on people who 208 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:44,440 Speaker 5: are polyamorous. It's just not my thing. I'm very monogamous. 209 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 5: Grant's very monogamous. But if this is like what they're into, 210 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 5: they've discussed it. I think it's fine. 211 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 3: What if it wasn't discussed and he's like, babe, I 212 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 3: have a present for you. 213 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 1: I'm pulling in a really special favor for you, so 214 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: you better be Yeah, i'd be. 215 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 5: A little pissed off. I'm being nice, but I obviously 216 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 5: not be mad at the person that's being pulled in 217 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 5: for the threesome because like they probably have no clue 218 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 5: what's going. 219 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:15,319 Speaker 2: I mean, that's very I think that's pretty fair of you. 220 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 2: I think like just given the scenario, I'm just. 221 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 3: Imagining that it's bursting out of like a wedding cake. 222 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:25,439 Speaker 3: It's like, here we are, I'm ready. 223 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 5: Somebody like in the Brothers story, and like they knew 224 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 5: you wouldn't want a three someome and they. 225 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:34,079 Speaker 4: Just whoa no. 226 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 3: Cake for three. 227 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 2: I'm in love with my own brother. 228 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 5: Just like a double backstab with like you know, like 229 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 5: let's say it's your best friend that knows you really 230 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 5: wouldn't want that, and they were like showing up with 231 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 5: your husband be like three someome. 232 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 2: I feel like that's a double back is a double backstab? 233 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 4: Yeah? 234 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, well let's what actually half maybe get 235 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:59,319 Speaker 3: I love that all right. Let me preface by saying 236 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 3: nothing like that is has ever happened before, which is 237 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 3: what left me so utterly flabaghasted. 238 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 5: Oh you mean she hasn't been offered on her wedding 239 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 5: night before them threesome? 240 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:12,079 Speaker 3: You haven't been living common? 241 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's very common. 242 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 3: That is called a good time. 243 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 4: Normalize, normalized having. 244 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 3: Three cents on your No, no, no, no, don't commit down 245 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 3: to that. Yeah. No, what normalized having three cents on 246 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 3: your wedding? 247 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: John Fry would like to normalize you know what. Let's 248 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 1: go tensome, you know, and why are. 249 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 5: We Let's cut over to your girlfriend Rick. Yeah, who 250 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 5: definitely has a camera. 251 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 3: It's your answer now, Okay, but I had a lot 252 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 3: of trust in the relationship, but this has called some 253 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 3: things into question. Okay, my husband will call him Steve 254 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 3: and I plan to get married in Vegas. Oh that's 255 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 3: where we are. 256 00:10:58,160 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 5: His name is Steve too. 257 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 2: I mean I know she's giving Yeah. 258 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 3: Is that like a Vegas name? 259 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 5: No, it just sounds like somebody that would do this. 260 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:09,680 Speaker 2: Steve, like a fucking anyone named Steve. 261 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:12,439 Speaker 4: Hate Like, stop watching. 262 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 3: I won't get out get out in unless you know 263 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:19,719 Speaker 3: you're down to have a three something, you know, come over, Baby, you. 264 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 5: Needed like at the beginning of this to have like 265 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 5: hi Steve at the beginning of the YouTube videos. Just 266 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:25,200 Speaker 5: that way, there's gonna be one person named Steve that's 267 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 5: gonna be. 268 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 3: Like, oh my god, Steve, we're talking to you. I 269 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:32,840 Speaker 3: need you. And actually Kevin from T s A. I 270 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:36,719 Speaker 3: remember when we were talking uh earlier and miss you. 271 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 1: There was a guy who recognized Sam and said, oh wow, 272 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 1: I've been watching the show for year. 273 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 2: Da da da. 274 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 1: And then there was a guy who I went in 275 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 1: behind him and he said, oh you you look better 276 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 1: with the beard. So hmm. 277 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 5: And Jake from State Farm, this is for you. 278 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 2: There we go. 279 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 3: We love Jake. 280 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 2: But we're doing all the shout outs today. Everybody gets 281 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 2: a shout. 282 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 3: Out, everyone gets a car, all right. So we plan 283 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 3: to get married and baby, I guess with an entourage 284 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 3: last year, but due to COVID, we got a courthouse 285 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:07,240 Speaker 3: marriage last year and did our wedding in Vegas this 286 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 3: year for a one year anniversary. I think it's like 287 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 3: a solid idea. That's nice, like that, that's a good idea. 288 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 5: Something I get married first for tax purposes and have 289 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 5: your actual wedding perfect. 290 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 3: We like to have fun. What kind of fun though? 291 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:25,079 Speaker 3: Talking about what you're talking about. So our Vegas plans 292 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:27,319 Speaker 3: did include hitting a strip club. 293 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:32,679 Speaker 5: Okay, there's a lot of like, yeah, there's a lot 294 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 5: of people out here you'd be surprised to go with. Yeah, Funds, couples, Yeah. 295 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 3: I've heard of together like like like I don't know anyone, 296 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 3: but like I've heard like people sometimes like like strip clubs. 297 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 5: The business are you doing it? 298 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:45,560 Speaker 3: Selling coke? 299 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:51,680 Speaker 1: Big business? I mean booming business, the multi billion dollar industry. 300 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's all the it's all the cryptocurrencies, like the 301 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:55,679 Speaker 5: old coins. 302 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,439 Speaker 3: Yeah. 303 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 1: I just launched my new boot coin. I got this 304 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 1: new coin called cheat. 305 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 3: Clap elon Sperm, which is a legit coin. 306 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 5: Wow. 307 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 3: Oh wow, that's one wow invested. 308 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:13,480 Speaker 4: I thought com rocket was like. 309 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 5: The o g one butt coin. I accidentally said coin 310 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:19,440 Speaker 5: one time. I said a bitcoin, and so I looked 311 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 5: it up and I was like, oh, no, that's the 312 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 5: real thing. 313 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 1: I mean, se O opportunities is massive. You think of 314 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 1: all the people accidentally typing you millions millions. 315 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 3: Hey, that's money right there. 316 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:41,439 Speaker 5: We're a loved one. Beneffect by affected by mistyping uh compensations. 317 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:45,079 Speaker 3: The day before a wedding. We're all supposed to go 318 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 3: to a club together, but I drank too much and 319 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:49,720 Speaker 3: was confined to bed. So my husband and some friends 320 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,199 Speaker 3: hit the strip club and stayed at the hotel. Cool, 321 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 3: a big deal. He didn't come home until seven am. 322 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 3: Oh my god, why so early? 323 00:13:57,640 --> 00:13:59,840 Speaker 5: Oh okay, so this is a weird thing. My friend 324 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 5: to Apparently, the breakfast in strip clubs out in Vegas 325 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 5: is supposed to be really good, and they start serving 326 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:07,079 Speaker 5: it early. 327 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 3: Babe, I'm not going to the strip club for the girls. 328 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 3: The breakfast is amazing. 329 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 4: The pancakes waffles. 330 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 3: I love you as much as I love the stripper waffles. 331 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 5: I was like, they have kitchens, they have food. It's 332 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 5: like most bars and nightclubs don't. Yeah, why don't bars 333 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 5: and nightclubs have kitchens? 334 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 2: We should be. 335 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 3: Hanging out at strip clubs way more than we are. 336 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 3: That's what I'm learning for this conversation. We are forget, 337 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 3: forget making a studio. We're just gonna make the okop 338 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 3: strip club and just record there. Okay, that's clearly yeah. 339 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 3: A studio is really like, it's just kind of like 340 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 3: a money suck. This is a business opportunity, not only 341 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 3: are we making content, but the strippers are making his money. 342 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 3: And we can strip too. Strip clubs have walls, Yeah, 343 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 3: studios on hair Daddy. Strip teas better than magical. Yeah. Yeah, 344 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 3: it's coming soon, coming soon, and you'll be coming soon. 345 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 3: If you watch it, you have to. 346 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 5: Your girl friend. 347 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: See see we always have the door closed. Now she 348 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 1: knows what this is, what goes on behind closed doors. 349 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 1: Sam and John one podcast. Sam objectifies John. 350 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 2: John loves it, but don't tell him. 351 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 3: It will be a little cool cool, not ideal to 352 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 3: get married on no sleep. But if it doesn't bother him, 353 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 3: doesn't bother me, doesn't bother me. He gets home and 354 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 3: starts talking about two strippers he met. But I am 355 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 3: I am okay, I can't even speak. I'm just still 356 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 3: thinking about John's top bot God. 357 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 5: Two strippers in the name was Charity and John. 358 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 4: I do have apper name? 359 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, noa thunder Oh that's great, Yeah, that's great. And uh. 360 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 3: When I was living in Australia, one of my friends 361 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 3: is part of Thunder down Under and he was my 362 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 3: my roommate and I is considered auditioning because he had 363 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 3: an in with the Thunder down Under. 364 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 4: That's like Australian. 365 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like yeah, it's like it's like a yeah, 366 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 3: like a stripping group. 367 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 5: We actually have one down here, but I wouldn't recommend 368 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 5: going to it. My friend really wanted to go with 369 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 5: her husband, and her husband and Graham were friends, so 370 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 5: we all ended up going one. Because I had so 371 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 5: many guys I asked. They kind of left us alone, 372 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:44,200 Speaker 5: which is kind of nice, but they were so off 373 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 5: and so out of sync with each other. 374 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 1: I was like, you know, if you're going to be 375 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 1: a male stripper, have writ a dance lesson. 376 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 3: On some freaking rhythm. 377 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 2: Serious, respect your craft. 378 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 3: He gets home. It's was talking about two strippers. You 379 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 3: met one who wants to come to our one who 380 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 3: wants to come to our wedding. 381 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 5: You paying them because like I feel like outside, like 382 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 5: I feel like strippers. You're like, oh, yeah, you know, 383 00:17:10,960 --> 00:17:12,639 Speaker 5: they kind of talk surface level, but I don't think 384 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:14,360 Speaker 5: they generally have like an interest. 385 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:18,199 Speaker 3: In you outside Yeah, making money, one would think. I 386 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 3: guess maybe, you know, maybe he met the stripper with 387 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 3: the heart of goal. They always talk about. 388 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 2: She really does love me. 389 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 3: You can tell by the way, like when I put 390 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 3: like money in her pants, like she like she means it. 391 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:33,360 Speaker 3: She means everything she says to me. Wants to meet 392 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 3: my mom, which is why she's going to the wedding. 393 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:40,359 Speaker 3: My mom. 394 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:42,240 Speaker 2: So sorry, I'm so sorry. 395 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 3: On this podcast, you get the talks about two strippers. 396 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 3: One who hasn't come to our wedding. We'll call her Stella. 397 00:17:53,960 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 1: See see see content knows that she knows. 398 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 5: She knows much more. PG on my channel. 399 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 3: Spikes all of Hey, this is what everyone comes for. 400 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 3: She told me she didn't want to be weird and 401 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 3: she had a boyfriend, but our weddings sounded cool and 402 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 3: she wanted to come again cool. We had the room 403 00:18:17,040 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 3: as it wasn't a formal wedding, and what's a and 404 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 3: what's a Vegas wedding without a stripper from the night before? 405 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:26,119 Speaker 3: Which is fair? It's fair, I guess, being very reasonable. 406 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 5: This literally sounds like the plot of Like a Hangover 407 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 5: was exactly. 408 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 3: Then he tells me about the other stripper who he 409 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 3: thinks wanted to have a threesome with us because she 410 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 3: said his wife sounded hot and he invited her to 411 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 3: the wedding. 412 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 5: Also, wow, there was a stripper at a strip club 413 00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 5: that was flirting with him. Oh, my god, I can't imagine. 414 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 3: Your wife sounds so hot? What do you even say 415 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 3: to that? 416 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:58,880 Speaker 2: Also, what is he playing like voicemails like yeah. 417 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:01,520 Speaker 3: Look at he's like like doing like a like a dance, 418 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:03,359 Speaker 3: and he was like look at my wife and she's 419 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:04,119 Speaker 3: like cool. 420 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:07,440 Speaker 2: We did not have a Valley's probably. 421 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 5: Was like literally look hot, and that was it. 422 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:13,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, literally, you want to come to my wedding? Yeah? 423 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:14,680 Speaker 1: Sure, sure? 424 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:18,679 Speaker 5: Is that their buddy system? They're doing the buddy system, Like, 425 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 5: so she's gonna go because the other role was. 426 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 2: Going to go, Oh, that's an interesting point. 427 00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 5: I'm super into true crime and like that's like it's 428 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 5: really unfortunate. But a lot of the time, right, sex 429 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 5: workers are really easy targets, so that they're trying to 430 00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:32,880 Speaker 5: do the buddies. 431 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:34,400 Speaker 1: Point. 432 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 5: She literally like was like hot, Right. 433 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 3: I didn't really say much to that, is what do 434 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:42,879 Speaker 3: you even say to that? He's mentioned wanting to have 435 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 3: a threesome before and it has never been off the table, 436 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 3: but we really have only discussed it briefly and vaguely, 437 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 3: like who might want to do that someday. You also 438 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 3: got both of their numbers to send them the wedding 439 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:59,200 Speaker 3: info but that is where things go downhill. Like nothing before. 440 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 1: He was out to a strip club to seven am 441 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:04,240 Speaker 1: the night before his wedding. 442 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 5: He wanted breakfast. 443 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:09,160 Speaker 4: He wanted waffle. I mean, are we going to gaslight 444 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:10,200 Speaker 4: him for loving waffles? 445 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:14,879 Speaker 3: Hey, you got to get those cakes somehow, person in waffles. 446 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 1: MM. 447 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:18,840 Speaker 3: For a majority of the time leading up to the wedding, 448 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:21,120 Speaker 3: we didn't spend our time separate before the wedding since 449 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:23,359 Speaker 3: we were already married. He's talking about how he really 450 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 3: thinks they're going to show up and he can't believe 451 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 3: strippers are coming to our wedding. Like he talked about 452 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:32,600 Speaker 3: almost nothing else, not the greatest vibe for a bride 453 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:35,439 Speaker 3: on her wedding day who was expecting to be her 454 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 3: husband's main focus. 455 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 5: He failed the vibe check. 456 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 3: Oh my god, Yo, more excited about the strippers coming 457 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 3: to the wedding than is freaking wife. Buddy? 458 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 5: Ain't He failed the vibe check? Like failed it? 459 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:50,359 Speaker 1: Wow. 460 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 3: But it didn't bother me that much at the time 461 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 3: because I assumed he was excited and maybe a little 462 00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 3: high on vegas. 463 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 1: Okay, hold on, queen, you don't deserve this, Yeah, you don't. 464 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,359 Speaker 2: Deserve random strippers showing up to their wedding. 465 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,359 Speaker 5: I mean even she's random people in general, I'd be 466 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 5: kind of pissed off about. 467 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 1: Right, there's an a list, Sally Jelly Cheeks just walks 468 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 1: through the door. 469 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:18,399 Speaker 5: Now you're paying for their dinner. 470 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:26,639 Speaker 4: We did not even I mean, goodbye out of my face. 471 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 5: Apparently strip clothes also have steak. 472 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 3: You know a lot about strip clubs. 473 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:31,800 Speaker 5: I read it. 474 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:33,120 Speaker 3: I read that on wine. 475 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 4: I did some deep research. 476 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 5: No, no, no, the breakfast one I know from my friend 477 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 5: who lives out here. 478 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:43,639 Speaker 3: But she's a writer, my friend Swim, someone who isn't me. 479 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 5: Oh god, I couldn't write for ship. I wish I could, 480 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,479 Speaker 5: but yeah, she's a freelance writer. She's like, I want 481 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 5: to do a piece going to the Las Vegas break 482 00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 5: your clothes for breakfast and like rate all of them. 483 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 2: And I was like, I could see that taking. 484 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 5: Up what. 485 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:03,960 Speaker 3: And you said, let me accompany you. 486 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 5: I don't know, A. 487 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 4: Big a big hit on trip Advisor. 488 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 1: I'm sure, yeah, like top top ten strip club breakfast. 489 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:13,199 Speaker 5: She writes for a blog out here in Vegas. So 490 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:18,919 Speaker 5: I was like, that makes sense. But I was like, what, Like, 491 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,080 Speaker 5: I guess dinner made sense to me because I'm like, 492 00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,359 Speaker 5: you know, like you could be there at midnight and 493 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:27,159 Speaker 5: want like they have the buffets like that was so 494 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,879 Speaker 5: I'm like that makes sense. I just figured they catered it, 495 00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 5: like I didn't think they were making it. 496 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:34,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I think, like the title of that 497 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:38,600 Speaker 3: article should be heard of that and breakfast, but how 498 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 3: about breakfast and booty and no one? No one? 499 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:48,000 Speaker 1: All right, I am down. 500 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:53,679 Speaker 3: I'm gonna keep reading. Wedding time rolls around and Stella 501 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 3: actually shows. She's gorgeous and sweet and she's wearing all white. NOK. 502 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,920 Speaker 3: We might visit her at the club later that night, 503 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:04,840 Speaker 3: since I missed out the night before and was a 504 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:08,160 Speaker 3: little bumped part ways and head hour we part ways 505 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,760 Speaker 3: and had to take our wedding portraits, and my husband 506 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 3: is still talking about Stella and how beautiful she is, 507 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,720 Speaker 3: but now it's about what club she will be at 508 00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,040 Speaker 3: and when later in the evening we're gonna meet up. 509 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 3: At one point, he even referred to her as his 510 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 3: Vegas girlfriend to our friends, which made me uneasy, but 511 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:29,480 Speaker 3: I laughed it off as a joke and figured he 512 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 3: was high on Vegas. What is this excuse? High on Vegas? 513 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:34,360 Speaker 5: I live here, I don't know what. 514 00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 1: Probably high on Vegas, sniffing desert sand, Like I don't 515 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:39,400 Speaker 1: know what. 516 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 5: I don't know. 517 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 3: He has so much to glitter up his nose from, 518 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,960 Speaker 3: like motor boating, stripper booty, that he's not thinking straight. 519 00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:49,439 Speaker 5: Oh, I'm like, high off Vegas. Does not even me 520 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:52,239 Speaker 5: like his people do stupid stuff on the step when 521 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,440 Speaker 5: they're drunk. I'm sure you got that footage loss. 522 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:58,159 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but like what, Yeah, I don't know. 523 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:02,520 Speaker 5: She's been very very recent, look comminating massively, like just 524 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 5: I would have already been like, hey, you coming here, 525 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 5: We're gonna go, We're gonna talk. 526 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:08,640 Speaker 4: Oh yeah. 527 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:12,240 Speaker 3: We head to dinner and husband is sucked into his phone, 528 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,639 Speaker 3: barely speaking to me and still managing to rush me 529 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 3: to meet up with our friends and go see Stella. 530 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 3: We meet up with our friends, barhap a bit, then 531 00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 3: head to Stella's club with the expectation that will stay 532 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 3: for an hour because it's late and everyone's pretty beat. 533 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:29,440 Speaker 3: We get there and after about ten minutes Stella comes 534 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 3: over to hang out. Steve wants to get a couple's 535 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 3: lap dance and tell him I don't want to, but 536 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 3: to go without me. I would prefer to sit back 537 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:39,680 Speaker 3: and tip the girls dancing on the pole, and I 538 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 3: am also very sober, couldn't drink because party two hard 539 00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 3: of the day before, and at this point feeling a 540 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 3: little bit awkward as my husband seems very Indostella. 541 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,399 Speaker 5: It just keeps, like you like, when you think he 542 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,280 Speaker 5: can't get worse, it's just somehow. 543 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 3: Does Yeah, the train wreck keeps going. 544 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 5: It's like the train wrecked and then somehow a car 545 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:02,919 Speaker 5: drove into it, and then a plane also justs all together. 546 00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:06,920 Speaker 1: Steve gets down on one knee and proposes to Stella, 547 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:07,760 Speaker 1: Wizard of. 548 00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:09,719 Speaker 5: At his house, drops on top of all of it. 549 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, O my god, what babe? Can I get that 550 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:13,520 Speaker 4: ring bag real quick? 551 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 2: I just need it for something? 552 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah a minute. No, After several minutes of being 553 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:23,880 Speaker 3: talked into it by Stella and Steve, I uncomfortably agree 554 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:27,440 Speaker 3: and we head back to get that lap dance. Dance starts, 555 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:29,760 Speaker 3: and I'm that person that doesn't know what to do 556 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 3: with my hands. And when I guess you're getting the 557 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:35,639 Speaker 3: lap dance, I wouldn't know what to do. Is it 558 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 3: no touching? Like big your guns doing great jobs? 559 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:43,640 Speaker 5: You're right? 560 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:48,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just like so I'm just waiting for a 561 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 3: to end. Stella tries her best to make me feel 562 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:53,440 Speaker 3: at ease, joking and complimenting me, but it just makes 563 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 3: me feel more awkward. Well that and Steve asking me 564 00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:02,040 Speaker 3: more than once why I'm being awkward Steve, after several minutes, 565 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 3: I leave before the dance is over, but tell him 566 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 3: to finish, and they do. Several minutes later, they come 567 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,239 Speaker 3: back to the group. Stella purchases on my chair and 568 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:13,320 Speaker 3: tells me that Steve told her we wanted to have 569 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:19,679 Speaker 3: a threesome. Wait, Steve told Stella is like, Yo, my 570 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 3: wife wants to have a threesome with you. 571 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 5: I feel like the conversation. He was like, yes, she 572 00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:27,640 Speaker 5: might be introduced threesome. She was like okay. And then 573 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 5: so he's like, that's the sign. That's a yes. That's 574 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:33,120 Speaker 5: like the type of yeah. That's the type of yes 575 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 5: I would take as a kid, you know, when I 576 00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 5: mom and have candy lad, She's like okay, And then 577 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:39,600 Speaker 5: like later would come and she'd find me in my 578 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 5: Halloween candy. She'd be like, I'm like, but you said okay. 579 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,360 Speaker 4: I said okay, kay eaquals. 580 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 5: Yes, thank god, my god, you said maybe that's obviously yes. 581 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, you didn't say no, So what else would you say? 582 00:26:55,560 --> 00:27:00,399 Speaker 3: So Stella comes back and then she apologetically told me, Hey, sorry, honey, 583 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:06,159 Speaker 3: but I just don't do threeesomes with customers. I'm mortified 584 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,640 Speaker 3: for several reasons. One because he crossed a professional line 585 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 3: and it was disrespectful, especially because he knows she has 586 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:17,040 Speaker 3: a boyfriend. Two he made me yeah, I know, I 587 00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,960 Speaker 3: love how that's one. One is like, think of the 588 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 3: strip end, what about you? 589 00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:26,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm like, what about like the eight disrespectful things 590 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:27,400 Speaker 5: he's done in like. 591 00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:32,240 Speaker 3: These literally, yo, yeah, you need to set some boundaries 592 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 3: for yourself, girl. Two he made it sound like I 593 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:38,680 Speaker 3: was in on it. And three, arguably most important, the 594 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 3: man asked someone to have a threesome without discussing it 595 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:42,600 Speaker 3: with me. 596 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:47,479 Speaker 1: On our wedding night, just just just on the wedding night. 597 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,119 Speaker 4: It's just it's just wow. 598 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:51,119 Speaker 1: Wow. 599 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 3: At this point, we've been here for about an hour 600 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 3: and our friend group decided to leave all of us 601 00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:59,199 Speaker 3: except my husband. He opted to stay at the strip 602 00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,480 Speaker 3: club alone with the girl who just shot him down 603 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 3: for a threesome while all his friends and his wife 604 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:07,240 Speaker 3: went back to the hotel. 605 00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:09,360 Speaker 5: Is it too late for a divorce. 606 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 3: I freaking hope, so get that shit a null say that. 607 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 5: Because I know there's so much more to what a 608 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,760 Speaker 5: marriage than that. But I'm like, that is so massively 609 00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:21,119 Speaker 5: disrespectful on a big day. I think that's kind of 610 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 5: on that line. 611 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:22,520 Speaker 4: It's what you said. 612 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:26,439 Speaker 1: He literally has done like ten yeahs's like in a row, 613 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 1: and it's clearly not at all carry no remorse at 614 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 1: what his wife is feeling or like anything like that. 615 00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 3: No, to be fair, he did ask me if it 616 00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 3: was okay, and I said it was because at this 617 00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:42,560 Speaker 3: point I don't have it in me to explain to 618 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,280 Speaker 3: this man all the ways he has disrespected me. He 619 00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:47,920 Speaker 3: gets home an hour or two later, is at the 620 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 3: strip club for an hour two and asked me if I'm. 621 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 1: Mad, and I unleash it on him. 622 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:56,320 Speaker 5: The worst part is he knew that she was. 623 00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 3: Mad, stayed two hours at the strip club. 624 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 5: It's not like, oh my god, it's not even like 625 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 5: this guy is just like so oblivious you could hit 626 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 5: him with a brick and he wouldn't notice. It's that 627 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:09,080 Speaker 5: he recognized that she was. 628 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 2: Mad and was like, are you bad? Bit like another 629 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:15,120 Speaker 2: hour or two just like lit her cool off. 630 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:19,040 Speaker 1: God, hang with my new stripper girlfriend. 631 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 5: That's not a hate but yeah, go outside, I'll meet 632 00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 5: you out there in five And he's just apologizing or 633 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:27,920 Speaker 5: something like that. Like how much is this man spending there? 634 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,320 Speaker 3: I don't know, enough for the stripper to want to 635 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 3: be here? 636 00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,240 Speaker 5: Really apparently had some number of the idea. 637 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, enough for the stripper to want to come to 638 00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:44,040 Speaker 3: his way? True? Yeah, true? Though, Like I feel like 639 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 3: a lot, so I unleash it on him, but I 640 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,560 Speaker 3: don't get far before he cuts me off by continually 641 00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 3: saying I'm sorry, I'm an asshole until I stop even 642 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 3: trying to talk about it. But go to bed, and 643 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,560 Speaker 3: in the morning he tells me he apologized to Stella 644 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:05,960 Speaker 3: and deleted her contact info. Bro, how about you apologize 645 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,840 Speaker 3: to your wife though, Like, yeah. 646 00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:10,720 Speaker 5: I'm like, at least he did one thing right there, 647 00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,960 Speaker 5: which would be apologizing to her from a hear uncomfortable 648 00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 5: and taking her out of his phone because he clearly 649 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 5: is attracted to her. So yeah, yeah, like at least 650 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:21,480 Speaker 5: that's one thing he kind of did right that. Like 651 00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,080 Speaker 5: this is after doing like twenty things wrong. 652 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:28,960 Speaker 3: Yeah wow, I mean, like, man is struck out, you know, 653 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 3: likes chances. We leave for our five day honeymoon and 654 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 3: don't discuss it again except for once when he informs 655 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:40,000 Speaker 3: me that Stella appreciated the apology, that said it wasn't necessary, 656 00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:42,080 Speaker 3: and that she wants us to come see her next 657 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 3: time we're in Vegas. Great. I spend her honeymoon either stoned. 658 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:49,960 Speaker 3: Not a healthy crutch, I know, but it was the 659 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,080 Speaker 3: only thing that made it bearable, which allowed me to 660 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 3: occasionally forget about the incident. Also, if you're having to 661 00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:56,600 Speaker 3: get stoned to get through your honeymoon, that's not a 662 00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:57,760 Speaker 3: good start to the marriage. 663 00:30:57,840 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 5: If you have to, like, if you have to any 664 00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,120 Speaker 5: thing like this isn't just saying hard drugs, but I 665 00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 5: feel like you have to drink to get through being 666 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 5: around your significant other, maybe like don't be with them, 667 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 5: Like I feel like that's kind of common sense, but you. 668 00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:14,880 Speaker 2: Know, it's one find. 669 00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:18,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, but this this next part is heartbreaking though the 670 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,440 Speaker 3: you know, getting stone allowed me to occasionally forget the 671 00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,800 Speaker 3: incident or silently fuming. But I was wondering if I 672 00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:27,960 Speaker 3: was overreacting. I was afraid to go off if this 673 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 3: wasn't actually a big deal as maybe I thought it was. 674 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,880 Speaker 3: Because obviously he didn't think it was. He asked me 675 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,840 Speaker 3: multiple times if I was okay. Every time I gave 676 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:41,760 Speaker 3: a half hearted mine. We return home and I told 677 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 3: my best friend the story because I need to talk 678 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,600 Speaker 3: to someone about it, and I needed her to tell 679 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 3: me all of my concerns. In my head, I was 680 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,560 Speaker 3: just overreacting. You know, it's fine to confirmed that my 681 00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 3: concerns were valid, and I was not overreacting, girl, You're 682 00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:59,040 Speaker 3: not overreacting. That night, so much, dude, so much. 683 00:31:59,320 --> 00:31:59,600 Speaker 1: God. 684 00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,719 Speaker 3: That night, I confronted my husband and actually got to speak. 685 00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 3: When I finished, he apologized. He said he thought a 686 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 3: threesome was what I wanted because I was so excited 687 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 3: when he brought it up earlier that day. 688 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 4: Exactly what you were saying. 689 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 5: I'm curious how drunk he was, because if she was 690 00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 5: like okay, he could. 691 00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:18,720 Speaker 3: Have just completely misinterpreted. 692 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 5: That, misinterpreted everything because it sounds like drunk iye behavior. 693 00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, and he's probably so excited that he's not analyzing 694 00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:24,960 Speaker 3: the situation. 695 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,920 Speaker 5: Every guy, but this does sound like you have to 696 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,320 Speaker 5: be drunk, because I don't understand how you could be 697 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:30,880 Speaker 5: so dumb. 698 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:35,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's insane, but maybe he just like he also 699 00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 3: could just like not care enough about his wife's feelings 700 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:43,560 Speaker 3: or what she wants, because that sound like her her 701 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,880 Speaker 3: wondering if she's overreacting the situation makes me think it's 702 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 3: like a pattern, like like she's like constantly wondering whether 703 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,800 Speaker 3: her reaction is valid when this is like so obviously 704 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:56,840 Speaker 3: over the line. She's probably been. 705 00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 1: Like he's talked her down from like yeah things, and 706 00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:03,040 Speaker 1: and also like this happened over multiple occurrences of him 707 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:04,760 Speaker 1: going the first time, and like so it's like was 708 00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,400 Speaker 1: he was he blackout drunk the whole? 709 00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I feel like there's some manipulation going 710 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:12,040 Speaker 3: on here where he's like like over the however long 711 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:15,800 Speaker 3: they've been dating, she's been made to feel crazy. Yeah, 712 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:20,240 Speaker 3: and uh, and maybe he's just like you, Steve. He 713 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,720 Speaker 3: said he knew he fucked up, but didn't bring it 714 00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:25,400 Speaker 3: up sooner because he thought I wanted to wait until 715 00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:28,240 Speaker 3: after vacation to discuss it, right, Like, why would I 716 00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:30,200 Speaker 3: want this to hang over our vacation like a rain 717 00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 3: cloud instead of working through it. 718 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 5: I don't know anyone that would want to sit through 719 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:39,280 Speaker 5: vacation and just go through it. And yeah, that's worse 720 00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 5: you don't want so much worse, never leave someone. 721 00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:46,480 Speaker 3: To ste Yeah. So the question, Oh he's asking Reddit 722 00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:51,400 Speaker 3: to you, guys us the official marriage counselors. We are 723 00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 3: the marriage counselors that the internet needs. Now, what should 724 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,320 Speaker 3: I do? I thought this man was my future. We 725 00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:01,600 Speaker 3: have dogs together, and we're just CUsing kids. I don't 726 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 3: want to give up on it so easily, but I 727 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 3: don't know if I can get past this. It's not 728 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:09,000 Speaker 3: just what he did in Vegas, it's how he behaved afterwards. 729 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,200 Speaker 5: He also is just totally putting her own thoughts and 730 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:14,279 Speaker 5: feelings on her with saying I thought you didn't want 731 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:17,360 Speaker 5: to discuss it, Like where did you get that? 732 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:18,120 Speaker 4: Yeah? 733 00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, I just I have never there's never been one 734 00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,719 Speaker 5: Instagram and like fine, I'm fine, And he's been like 735 00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:26,920 Speaker 5: you're obviously not fine if you want to talk, and 736 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 5: I'm like absolutely, Yeah. 737 00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:33,160 Speaker 3: I feel like the just communication style of this relationship 738 00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 3: is just not good. Yeah yeah, I mean probably on 739 00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 3: both parts. Like she's been she's been trained either by 740 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:40,680 Speaker 3: him or maybe she doesn't want to speak up for 741 00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:43,080 Speaker 3: himself or just doesn't trust her own voice yet, and 742 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:45,800 Speaker 3: like I feel like she needs to be vocal about 743 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,840 Speaker 3: what is going on, and she he needs to actually 744 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 3: listen to her, and like there's like this like there's 745 00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:55,839 Speaker 3: this lack of communication that I think is allowing him 746 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:59,399 Speaker 3: to get away with like kind of like haunt of crap, 747 00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:02,719 Speaker 3: like and he's he's been like glasshole. But also she 748 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 3: shouldn't stand for this too, right, Like she's like this 749 00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:07,320 Speaker 3: is not okay behavior. 750 00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,399 Speaker 5: This sounds like one that they need marriage counseling for sure. 751 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:13,480 Speaker 4: Either you're welcome it ends or not. 752 00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,319 Speaker 5: That way you kind of have everything resolved. Yeah, I 753 00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:18,839 Speaker 5: say marriage counseling, even if you're like you're probably gonna 754 00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,279 Speaker 5: get divorced, just that way you're kind of sorted through. 755 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:24,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, or I think like I think another great option 756 00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 3: would be to DM us and come on the show 757 00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,560 Speaker 3: and we will be your marriage counselor. 758 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:34,520 Speaker 1: Right, we are licensed by ourselves, Yes we are, and 759 00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:36,759 Speaker 1: I mean marriage we do that. 760 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, we know that, we know about commitment. Yes, we've 761 00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:42,160 Speaker 3: been doing this podcast for a year. 762 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:44,359 Speaker 2: We're committed to content that we are. 763 00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:48,160 Speaker 5: I've been on this podcast only as of like two 764 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,080 Speaker 5: hours ago, and she hasn't left. 765 00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:53,440 Speaker 3: No, that is a commitment to the relationship we have. 766 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:58,319 Speaker 3: Be'st threesome in the room. 767 00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:00,880 Speaker 2: We guarantee that your relationship ship will last more than 768 00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,319 Speaker 2: two hours. Can't beat that. 769 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:05,239 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's true.