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Speaker 1: j Thank you guys for tuning in for a new
Speaker 1: episode that we talked that age. Hey, y'all lives camp
Speaker 1: and I love y'all once again every week. I love
Speaker 1: y'all so much. Welcome to a new episode. Hey girl,
Speaker 1: Hey girl, Hey look, I lust y'all. You know it
Speaker 1: might change tomorrow. You love Oh you don't love him?
Speaker 1: You just lust them? Yes, lust them and leave him.
Speaker 1: That's your problem. How is your r um? What the
Speaker 1: hell did I do this weekend? I did do something?
Speaker 1: Oh um, my cousin, one of my younger cousins, she
Speaker 1: had m She opened us along. She's a boss cham.
Speaker 1: She had a grand opening. Yeah, it was like a
Speaker 1: nice little cook out. The rain kind of funked us up,
Speaker 1: but it was like a little, nice little family reunion
Speaker 1: type thing. We had some crabs. Girls sat around a
Speaker 1: craft table and talk shit. I tried to explain to them,
Speaker 1: how you know if a man gonna suck the ship
Speaker 1: out of you and not by his forearm, how to
Speaker 1: that form be looking strong? That's not true, that's not
Speaker 1: a thing. Look instead of asking for cock shots, okay,
Speaker 1: just asked the man to send you a picture his forearm.
Speaker 1: No longer he's shoe size. This is forearms. It's the
Speaker 1: four But no, look, think about this now. Sometimes you
Speaker 1: can look at the forearm and yes, exactly, and then also, hey,
Speaker 1: go another one. That space between a belly button and
Speaker 1: like the top of the pubic care area, if you
Speaker 1: can see that part of a man, because think about it,
Speaker 1: when a when a man like lays down on the
Speaker 1: bed and that dick flop up, it's usually about the
Speaker 1: same length of that space between a belly button in
Speaker 1: the pub area. Who you fucking that did? Go on?
Speaker 1: Some niggas got a short area. Some niggas area be
Speaker 1: kaind of short that look, y'all gotta be paying attention.
Speaker 1: So look, if you don't want to be too man
Speaker 1: and should be like baby, send me a picture of
Speaker 1: your forearm right quick. You're looking for veins, okay, you're
Speaker 1: looking for it to look like a little crap clod. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: look I was having all of young girls, yes, I
Speaker 1: had as. These niggs gonna have a big ass veny
Speaker 1: forearm because they've been just beating their dick for years
Speaker 1: because they can't get no pussy because it's little. All
Speaker 1: the niggas, all the niggas sent in a picture that
Speaker 1: right hand, that right arm beyond Max okay, because they've
Speaker 1: been beating a dick for years, because nobody wants to fun, girss.
Speaker 1: I definitely was out there with my microphone at a
Speaker 1: stupid you know, because I traveled with a mike ientitating people,
Speaker 1: how is your weekend? I didn't really. I kind of
Speaker 1: chilled this weekend and just watch movies on my pattio.
Speaker 1: I kept it cute because last week, in the middle
Speaker 1: of the week, I shot down to Atlanta and I
Speaker 1: went to uh Pierre Thomas from Quality Control's birthday party.
Speaker 1: I was that I had so much fun, girl. I
Speaker 1: was in the mixed mix. I was um sitting with
Speaker 1: some of your favorite celebrities, and I was star struck
Speaker 1: because Diddy was like right in the section next to me.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie with star struck on the inside.
Speaker 1: I was like, but yeah, I remember her saying she
Speaker 1: don't mind. Yes, I was ready. He was all shiny
Speaker 1: with his little white shirt on. I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: did he so shiny, but I kept cute. I just
Speaker 1: act like I was used to being in the mix
Speaker 1: with all the people. I ain't say, and then you know,
Speaker 1: everybody looked really nice. It was a good time. One
Speaker 1: of your favorite cookbook bitches. I ain't gonna say who
Speaker 1: she is, but I think this bitch told me to
Speaker 1: back up put the ass ole in a cook in
Speaker 1: a gown. I'm not sure she was talking to me.
Speaker 1: I think she was talking to me. My friend was like,
Speaker 1: I think she's just singing the song, but I don't
Speaker 1: think that was part of the song he was listening
Speaker 1: to at the time, So I'm not sure, but yeah,
Speaker 1: that happened. I was mad for like two seconds, but
Speaker 1: it's like, you know what, everybody drunk. I'm gonna let
Speaker 1: that go back up, pussy in So lord, what is
Speaker 1: that what black women beat on me and to each other? Yes?
Speaker 1: Why we were too pretty with these girls on for
Speaker 1: you to be talking to me like that, right, I
Speaker 1: don't know. Let me tell you a lot of these
Speaker 1: people who've been in the industry for a while, they
Speaker 1: got some real life mental health issues. Okay, they're just
Speaker 1: not the same. And I feel like that's how a
Speaker 1: lot of them get to where they're going because they
Speaker 1: just don't be operating with integrity. It's just like anything goes,
Speaker 1: so their brains already be a little bit different. Child,
Speaker 1: You got to be careful. Hey, y'all just know I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be a real nigga today and a real nigga tomorrow.
Speaker 1: So let me ask you this. If you were in
Speaker 1: a section with young Miami j T. Did he? I mean,
Speaker 1: all these celebrities are around you, and then this cookbook
Speaker 1: tell you to back up puss the ass whole? What
Speaker 1: do you do? Do you like? What do you You
Speaker 1: don't fight in a gown? And look, So what I'm
Speaker 1: learning nowadays is even if it's loud, even with we're
Speaker 1: in a gal no matter where we're at, I'm asking
Speaker 1: for clarification, okay, in life going forward instead of job
Speaker 1: of to conclusions like wait, what did you just say?
Speaker 1: He was talking to me like, I'm gonna be asking
Speaker 1: for clarity because I don't want to be tripping on
Speaker 1: the back end. Yea, So maybe that's maybe you could
Speaker 1: have just like, wait, what are you saying? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: just felt like it was about to go bad. Maybe
Speaker 1: it wasn't. Yeah, I just let it go. I was
Speaker 1: because she turned and walked away. I meant, I don't
Speaker 1: know out first. You never know girl girl a bit
Speaker 1: and me was like, hold on, she's talking to you.
Speaker 1: But the lady like, like my brand. I don't want
Speaker 1: my brand to be turnished in this environment fighting somebody
Speaker 1: over something. They said, like did you see that bitch
Speaker 1: that was this fighting in the gown? That yeah, don't
Speaker 1: ever invite her bag. So I let it go. Whatever,
Speaker 1: but that, yeah, that happy weeay, that was funny. Maybe
Speaker 1: I couldn't wait to come tell y'all. So but let
Speaker 1: me tell y'all something. I ain't nobody push the ass hole.
Speaker 1: I tell you that exactly. Let's be clear. Let's be clear.
Speaker 1: Moving right along. So my weekend, I didn't do shitout
Speaker 1: was tired because that was in the middle of the week.
Speaker 1: I had to fly back and go straight back to work.
Speaker 1: She was kind of fucked up. The rest of the week.
Speaker 1: It was off killed. But now I'm ready for a
Speaker 1: new week, new topics. What happened to dumb internet news girl?
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, Let's start from the top. I got a
Speaker 1: couple of things. Let's talk about these motherfucking gas prices
Speaker 1: and stupid internet news. I'm sick of it. I went
Speaker 1: to Costco because I feel like Costco got the cheapest
Speaker 1: gas right now. Right Costo cost and Gas isn't even
Speaker 1: saying a damn car saying amount of time. I used
Speaker 1: to be able to go two weeks a week and
Speaker 1: a half without filling up, now filling up every week,
Speaker 1: and Costco gas was like to forty two thirty something
Speaker 1: last week. I mean, I'm sorry. Four Look, I want
Speaker 1: y'all to realize me. And you know, two dollar gas prices.
Speaker 1: It's Trump was an office. But okay, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: go there. Okay, but eight nine is and I used premium,
Speaker 1: so I don't know how much the regular gas was,
Speaker 1: but four dollars and eighty nine cents. So I just
Speaker 1: to give you guys some stock tips. I'm definitely in
Speaker 1: all the energy stocks right now because I'm sure ain't
Speaker 1: going down no time soon. Gas prices is a tax
Speaker 1: on the middle class. That's what they're doing right now.
Speaker 1: They pay, we get we're paying their stimulus back. Yes,
Speaker 1: stimulus p p p E D. I L get it back.
Speaker 1: And gas they said we're gonna get come get it
Speaker 1: back and gas to get it back in blood. We
Speaker 1: get it back a gas bitch man. That's crazy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I used to like want to meet niggas for a date,
Speaker 1: like I don't want to get in your car, boy,
Speaker 1: come get me. Yes, whoever pick me up for me,
Speaker 1: scoot me boo, pull up, old man, pull up, old man.
Speaker 1: Look my birthday on Wednesday, y'all. Well this is gonna
Speaker 1: be obviously we pre record. I'm gonna have the all
Speaker 1: gas cards. Thank you, send me some damn gas cars.
Speaker 1: I'll give you all the post office box. And we
Speaker 1: talked back. What you think about this? Goddamn uh The
Speaker 1: Pride whopper at Burger King Okay, so yeah, the prior whopper.
Speaker 1: I saw that on the Shade Room actually, where they
Speaker 1: have a whopper where they have two top buns or
Speaker 1: two bottom buns to celebrate Pride Month. I mean, I
Speaker 1: think that's pretty witty. Honestly, that was creative. But when
Speaker 1: you came up with that right in Austria, Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: not in America. This is in Austria. They're celebrating Pride
Speaker 1: Month with special burger. Okay, it's the Eid whopper. I
Speaker 1: was in the comments just trying to be like a troll,
Speaker 1: I guess. I was like, what about keto? This is
Speaker 1: not keto inclusive keto buns, No buns matter, right, can
Speaker 1: we just get a lettuce bun? Like? Yeah, I thought
Speaker 1: it was a cute idea. Obviously that was funny. But
Speaker 1: who's gonna order them to bottom buns? You're weird? Or
Speaker 1: if you order two bottom buns. No, no saying, not
Speaker 1: saying that being a bottom is weird, but the bottom
Speaker 1: buns are not good. But have you ever received a
Speaker 1: sandwich like that before? I haven't had like they have
Speaker 1: done that to me before when they run out of
Speaker 1: ship running the upplies. That's like when you had the
Speaker 1: two in pieces of the bread in the bag away. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's what that is what the two bottom buns right,
Speaker 1: ill sandwich I've been throwing that ship right at your
Speaker 1: as everybody's gonna order the two tops. That's the kind
Speaker 1: of point I watched. Anyway, stupid stupid shout out to uh.
Speaker 1: It is Pride month, so happy Pride, Happy Pride month
Speaker 1: to everybody who celebrates it. I remember, so my mom,
Speaker 1: she's not she's not homophobic by any stretch of imagination.
Speaker 1: But I remember this was many years back and she
Speaker 1: was in Atlanta for uh, some type of convention for
Speaker 1: work or something like that, and she it was gay
Speaker 1: pride and she was calling me whispering. She's like, they're
Speaker 1: lining up on the sides of the streets, like my
Speaker 1: ain't ship got to happy, relaxed, they're lining up. It's
Speaker 1: a parade, relaxed. Ain't about to fight her or something. No,
Speaker 1: whether fund was going on, chay, Oh goodness, what else?
Speaker 1: What else is going on in the world? So Amber heard,
Speaker 1: you know, she gotta come up with all types of
Speaker 1: millions of dollars boy to be Johnny depth in this
Speaker 1: uh slander lawsuit. I heard million city boys up, this
Speaker 1: defamation of character. Kates Yo. I've watched some of the case.
Speaker 1: It was all theatrics these people. It was like, what
Speaker 1: are they distracting us from what else happened around that time?
Speaker 1: Because that ship was stupid, Okay, shooting this man bed.
Speaker 1: She took a poop in his bed. She took a live,
Speaker 1: hot shit in his bed while he was in there sleep. Damn.
Speaker 1: That's wow, you crazy. She was abusing him. That is abusive. Wow.
Speaker 1: You gotta be really mad at the motherfucker to say,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna eat this burrito on Tuesday
Speaker 1: as soon as you start boiling in my stomach. Bit
Speaker 1: y'all gonna put it right next to you in the bid,
Speaker 1: you motherfucker damn right. What I'm finding weird about this
Speaker 1: situation is that the meme that's going around with Meg
Speaker 1: the Stallion, Amber Heard and Jada Pickett, they ex Amber
Speaker 1: Heard out, like can if we if women were to
Speaker 1: make a meme of all the men that that sucked
Speaker 1: up this year, you know it would be impossible. Why why?
Speaker 1: Why is this like a yes moment for men? It's
Speaker 1: just really weird to me because they want some good back.
Speaker 1: You want you'll something doing dirt, and dirt might not
Speaker 1: get done, y'all. You don't think y'all attract that karmen
Speaker 1: sometimes facts, Yeah, I'm pretty sure Johnny Depp I did
Speaker 1: some weird shipped to a woman at some point, man
Speaker 1: Amber heard probably was his karma. Amber her came round
Speaker 1: with karma, her dad, back pocket and stupid on his ass.
Speaker 1: Actually would have been karma for the woman. That he
Speaker 1: might have done some dumb ship too, but just like
Speaker 1: just like a woman to not to make it. Johnny
Speaker 1: Depp's fault, like she shouldn't have bed and he was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: what did you do to a bit in your past, Johnny,
Speaker 1: because your fault victim blame in Okay, I'm sorry. I
Speaker 1: was definitely victim blame it. Okay. Sorry, No, nobody deserves
Speaker 1: the rolling ship and they bid nobody. That's wild shame.
Speaker 1: So did you see this woman who got arrested recently?
Speaker 1: The incident happened two years ago, but she threw her
Speaker 1: exes mother's ashes into a river and they just arrested
Speaker 1: her for a desecration of human human remains? Did you
Speaker 1: see that? Yeah? I saw that, and there's a video
Speaker 1: going around, But that's not actually the woman who did it.
Speaker 1: I think that's a re enactment for content for people
Speaker 1: creating content for social because I'm looking at I'm like, wait,
Speaker 1: that's not the same people. Yeah, it's not the same woman.
Speaker 1: But once again, victim blame. And what did that nigga
Speaker 1: do to make that woman mad enough to throw his
Speaker 1: mama asses? He cheated on her. He was cheating on
Speaker 1: her apparently, and she stole the urn because he said
Speaker 1: he had kept asking her if she saw it, like
Speaker 1: where is my mama earned? He said, he overheard her
Speaker 1: telling her daughter what she actually did with the ship. Yawn.
Speaker 1: That bitch was like, play with me. I'm gonna kill
Speaker 1: your mama twice? Should I want if the mom was
Speaker 1: alive at some point during their relationship, like maybe she
Speaker 1: didn't sunk with the mom anyway, y'all know mama's. I
Speaker 1: don't like niggas with mama's. I don't feel like dealing
Speaker 1: with that ship. I listen, I love niggas with mama's
Speaker 1: because I always I have the mama on my side.
Speaker 1: Should be teaming up against him with me by the
Speaker 1: time I get done with hers. Yes, ma'am, I'll make
Speaker 1: his slight. I'll make your plate too, Yes, ma'am calling,
Speaker 1: did you need? I was just going to the store.
Speaker 1: I just checking and see if you needed anything. I'm
Speaker 1: the sweetest as pie with nicka Mama. I'm just being
Speaker 1: manipulative though, because she's gonna be on my side by
Speaker 1: the time I get done with her. As she ain't
Speaker 1: gonna like that much, is me. I only had one
Speaker 1: mama on my side, man, they'd be liking me, but
Speaker 1: they know they'd be raising these damn fucked up men.
Speaker 1: And I'm the one that telling I'm gonna tell you
Speaker 1: about you and your damn son. How about that? I
Speaker 1: had one mom saying who raised these bitches? And these
Speaker 1: bitches raised I mean, who raised these niggas and being
Speaker 1: a black woman raised them, That's what happened. I had
Speaker 1: a one mama loved me so much. She was trying
Speaker 1: to put me down with her doctor and that was
Speaker 1: still with her son. No, she really loved you. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's real love. She's like, you know what, my son
Speaker 1: ain't ship. Let me upgrade you right quick. You're a
Speaker 1: good woman. Let me find you a man because my
Speaker 1: son ain't it. Now. Those the type of mama's like
Speaker 1: can funk with. I'm not playing with those mamas that. No,
Speaker 1: I'm at this event this week and he just had
Speaker 1: another woman at the event another family event last week.
Speaker 1: Don't be playing in my damn face like that. Don't
Speaker 1: be playing in my face like that. But what his
Speaker 1: mom was supposed to do? Take a side as a Okay,
Speaker 1: if I were a mother like and I had a son,
Speaker 1: you're not about to be playing with women and like,
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm a woman, like I'm I'm not. I'm
Speaker 1: not saying I'm a feminist but I'm for women. No,
Speaker 1: you're not about to be bringing that ship around me.
Speaker 1: You better do that ship outside. I bet I better
Speaker 1: not see it because I'm a telling you if he married,
Speaker 1: if my son married, then I'd be like that, like,
Speaker 1: don't be bringing other bitches to my house and you
Speaker 1: married to Keisha? Whoever it is? But right, But that's
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. But if it's a girlfriend for her,
Speaker 1: she might be even a girlfriend at some point, like
Speaker 1: you're you're going towards Mary. If it's a serious relationship,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I stay out of it. But I
Speaker 1: don't bring the girl over here unless you're about to
Speaker 1: break up with Kesha. Yes, I'm not about to be
Speaker 1: friends with everybody. Yeah, but Mama still be friends with everybody.
Speaker 1: That isn't real bullshit. It's funny. Look what about Booty
Speaker 1: crazy ass man boy is so funny, y'all did y'all
Speaker 1: see Booty? Um? His son was being uh alleged allegedly
Speaker 1: had twin babies with this girl. But the baby's turned
Speaker 1: out not to be even the girls, right, I couldn't
Speaker 1: we talking about like they said, the baby the woman
Speaker 1: kidnapped somebody's baby and took it to a graduate Shan
Speaker 1: and said it was his son's baby or something like that.
Speaker 1: Ship was wow. I can't mama, that's all he kept
Speaker 1: saying them. Mama, y'all dumb. Mama, help us. I can't
Speaker 1: believe that. Mama. Yeah, Boosty is everybody's ghetto. Asked cousin
Speaker 1: that nigga is so funny. Without you, you don't be
Speaker 1: trying to be funny. He'd just be existing. Set O
Speaker 1: self appreciate. Yes, shame because I think he'd be giving
Speaker 1: his sons like pussy as a graduation gives and stuff
Speaker 1: like that. Now he had to stop that ship. That's
Speaker 1: that's that that's that trauma ship from you know that.
Speaker 1: That's one of those things in the black community that
Speaker 1: I wish people could just do better about. And look
Speaker 1: that that still falls back on women because what y'all
Speaker 1: grown ass women doing what you're doing. Molest that's a
Speaker 1: molestation sucking somebody, cha cha, It's just crazy. But um,
Speaker 1: I heard that Nick Cannon got some more kids in
Speaker 1: a wait. He's one of the girls who had said
Speaker 1: of twins, she's pregnant and then he just had a
Speaker 1: photo come out two weeks ago at another um another
Speaker 1: woman's um you know, paternity pictures, paternity. Shoot this nigga,
Speaker 1: This nigga said, be fruitful and beautiful. Okay, but did
Speaker 1: you listen to his remix? His uh, his UM mix,
Speaker 1: his remix? Did you listen to his UM mix CD
Speaker 1: he just had come out. He has that one song
Speaker 1: with Chris Brown, which sounds nice. But I want y'all
Speaker 1: to go listen to the first song on this fucking album. Okay.
Speaker 1: This nigga think he's God. He say he has a
Speaker 1: real life god complex. He has Kate and shaleon write.
Speaker 1: The song is called Players Prayer intro. Oh yeah, what
Speaker 1: he's trying to do like a Sierra's Prayer but for
Speaker 1: players listen to the listen to the end of that song.
Speaker 1: This dude got a real life complex. I don't know
Speaker 1: what the fun going on, Nick Cannon, I gotta conspiracy
Speaker 1: about it, but um yeah, oh yeah you can. You
Speaker 1: can tell us about that in our Patreon. Guys. We're
Speaker 1: about to start a Patreon coming up real soon, and
Speaker 1: we're definitely gonna have all the A J's conspiracy theories
Speaker 1: on there for y'all to hear for sure. For sure, Look,
Speaker 1: it's not a conspiracy theory. Those two words don't even
Speaker 1: make sense to even be a term. It's I just
Speaker 1: like to give people a different perspective, a different way
Speaker 1: to look at situations, like look at it like this,
Speaker 1: Maybe that will make more sense to you when you
Speaker 1: look at it like That's really what I'd be trying
Speaker 1: to do. So we can't call it A J's conspiracy theories.
Speaker 1: You can't. I'll come up with a different name for it.
Speaker 1: It might be a J K J. A J's theories
Speaker 1: of conspiracy. Let's just flick it. That might be right,
Speaker 1: that makes more sense. And then, oh, lastly, uh Lori
Speaker 1: Harvey and Michael B. Jordan's they called the End of
Speaker 1: the Contract. I wished people would stop hating on Lorie Harvey.
Speaker 1: And I really feel like a lot of times it
Speaker 1: would be women mostly y'all ain't about to act like
Speaker 1: at five, y'all weren't out here thoughting and bopping, and
Speaker 1: some of y'all still are. Let's be clear, she's thoughting
Speaker 1: and bopping amongst her peers. She not even thought was
Speaker 1: that nig her a year and a half, and even
Speaker 1: when even when dealing with future like, we don't know
Speaker 1: if these people having sex and not. It looked like
Speaker 1: to me like all I saw was when the future
Speaker 1: took her on a birthday trip with her and all
Speaker 1: her homegirls and ship. Ain't nobody dealing with each other
Speaker 1: for no. I just don't see how you go from
Speaker 1: Future to Michael B. Jordan. Though they both was popped
Speaker 1: like the top of their their their craft. They're just
Speaker 1: two different types of men. I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Some people don't have preference in that way. Yeah, maybe
Speaker 1: she got tired of doing a hood rat and want
Speaker 1: her like a a square. You say, a stud a square.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but look, Tam, Tam, you're making some
Speaker 1: accusations of it, and now you're telling them people was
Speaker 1: under contract. I feel like that's very possible that they
Speaker 1: may have been in a relationship contract. No, but he
Speaker 1: was looking they showed up. There was a video of
Speaker 1: him at Um. He was at a Golden State game
Speaker 1: and he looks so sad. You can see in his
Speaker 1: eyes he was ready to cry. Or maybe that he's
Speaker 1: he is a good actor, so maybe he was putting
Speaker 1: on for the camera, like I gotta look exactly. Let's
Speaker 1: be clear, the nigger is an actor, okay, Um I mean,
Speaker 1: he's ten years her senior. She may want to explore.
Speaker 1: You know, she was on her weight loss journey. Sometimes
Speaker 1: when you start like working out, getting to the gym,
Speaker 1: like your brain, your mind gets a little bit more clearer.
Speaker 1: Maybe she started seeing something she didn't want. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, She's supposed to be dating. She's a
Speaker 1: young woman. Why not And going into our topic once
Speaker 1: you come back from break, these are so many things
Speaker 1: we want to talk about today, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: because I don't feel like black women get the opportunity
Speaker 1: to date as much as they should, as much as
Speaker 1: our white counterparts. You know, it's very important y'all. Would
Speaker 1: just be having a nigga come over your house and
Speaker 1: then be with them. Ain't never been on a date? Yeah,
Speaker 1: And then you know, you explore to get to know
Speaker 1: what you like, what you don't like, have discernments, you know,
Speaker 1: all those things. Then you have attachment issues when you
Speaker 1: do get a nigga. You're like, we're gonna talk about it, though.
Speaker 1: Look we'll be back. What's gonna commercial, We'll be right back, Okay,
Speaker 1: So look let's get into it. I posed this actually
Speaker 1: was having a conversation and with one of my friends, right,
Speaker 1: and she was like, you know, poor people get married,
Speaker 1: uh because they get married for love. Poor people get
Speaker 1: married for love essentially, is what she was saying. And
Speaker 1: I was like, huh, But it really made sense if
Speaker 1: you look at the statistics are married and who's getting
Speaker 1: married and who's getting divorced, um, and black people wherely
Speaker 1: y'all like it or not, were the poor people. And
Speaker 1: it's capitalistic society, like thirty percent of the people got
Speaker 1: to be at the bottom, and we had thirty percent
Speaker 1: job along way a lot of others. But for the
Speaker 1: most part, and we already know we don't get married
Speaker 1: at the same rate as other groups of people. So
Speaker 1: we just want to dissect some of this stuff. And um,
Speaker 1: we wan't talk about it. So what do you think?
Speaker 1: Do you think do you think poor people uh get
Speaker 1: married for love as opposed to more affluent people possibly
Speaker 1: married getting married like for real, because it's like a
Speaker 1: business transaction. Well, based on your definition of poor people,
Speaker 1: that's all I know. So I can't really answer the
Speaker 1: question because I don't know nobody else these niggas is
Speaker 1: getting married. So I'm gonna go with, yeah, they getting
Speaker 1: married for love, bored enough, fluid? I don't know, so
Speaker 1: I think that uh maybe people with lower income I
Speaker 1: don't want to say poor people, but it's funny, Okay,
Speaker 1: it is funny. People and lord income brackets oftentimes stay
Speaker 1: together long good because of necessity. Um, they stay together
Speaker 1: out of necessity, maybe obligations. You already have kids, you
Speaker 1: start accumulating things like how even if we can just
Speaker 1: talk about people who, um you own a home, like
Speaker 1: say for ends, you median income people right right now
Speaker 1: we know that millionaires. That's the middle class now. So really,
Speaker 1: if you don't have I want to say ship, if
Speaker 1: you an't got two million dollars, man, you might be
Speaker 1: struggling out here. You see how much gasses we just
Speaker 1: talked about it. The median rent this summer is supposed
Speaker 1: to be going up to two. I literally literally looked
Speaker 1: at a place in Charlotte one night. I woke up
Speaker 1: the next morning and the ship was like five dollars
Speaker 1: more for rank I don't like. Okay, yeah, so how
Speaker 1: are people surviving? We're gonna have to start getting married
Speaker 1: for love, look not for love either. You better find
Speaker 1: you a partner. But see, this world is based on
Speaker 1: double occupancy if you think about it. Year. So you're
Speaker 1: great great grandma. Did she get married for love or
Speaker 1: did she get married for secure d someone to take
Speaker 1: care of the family. I would lean more towards security.
Speaker 1: Even then when when a lot more people didn't have
Speaker 1: as much resources, I would lean more towards security. She
Speaker 1: definitely stayed for security too, right because great Granddad and
Speaker 1: might have had a whole another family down the street.
Speaker 1: The great grandma knew about. That's for niggas with that check.
Speaker 1: Cheating is not for a regular men, Okay, Like it's
Speaker 1: just not. So don't come talking about the godda polygamy. Boy,
Speaker 1: you don't make enough. Let me ask you this, both
Speaker 1: of us being uh in our thirties somewhere in there,
Speaker 1: do you feel like you you're not married because of Well,
Speaker 1: let me just ask you, why do you feel like
Speaker 1: you aren't married? I don't want to speculate. UM, So
Speaker 1: I've talked about it before I was engaged, but I
Speaker 1: didn't get engaged until what thirty five? Um, I feel
Speaker 1: like I could have been married earlier on in life.
Speaker 1: But I think UM, partner selection is always very important.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying to people that you allowed
Speaker 1: to have access to you probably weren't on UM. Marriage.
Speaker 1: We we know just based on the conversations we see
Speaker 1: online amongst black men and women. Marriage is not like
Speaker 1: at the top of people's list, especially black men. I
Speaker 1: don't think UM. So you have to get with a
Speaker 1: marriage minded person. So if you spend so much time
Speaker 1: just dating, being boyfriend and girlfriend with somebody who wasn't
Speaker 1: marriage minded, you wake up five years later and you
Speaker 1: ain't married. Relationships our and now you're moving on to
Speaker 1: the next. So I feel like that that's been my case.
Speaker 1: I feel like I could have been married had I
Speaker 1: picked a different person um as opposed to people I
Speaker 1: picked when I was in relationships earlier on, Like in
Speaker 1: my mid twenties, I would say I could have been
Speaker 1: married because I knew some men who were marriage minded,
Speaker 1: but I didn't choose them for me. It's a little
Speaker 1: bit different. I think. I don't know what's happened to me,
Speaker 1: But around twenty the thought I was turned into a
Speaker 1: whole nigga, and like the thought of marriage was like
Speaker 1: one person for the rest of my life. I can't
Speaker 1: breathe one stroke, the only stroke forever. And yes I
Speaker 1: have panic attack. I couldn't like the thought of marriage
Speaker 1: was just like scary to me. Like I just didn't
Speaker 1: see myself with I didn't aspire to that at all.
Speaker 1: I aspired to money and career and experiences, but not
Speaker 1: marriage as like you. Right, So I can say, like
Speaker 1: I said outside, I know I knew men who were
Speaker 1: marriage minded, but at the same race, the same thing
Speaker 1: you just said. I chased money my my entire twenties,
Speaker 1: and it's kind of hustling backwards. Um. And that's why
Speaker 1: before the break, I was saying how black women need
Speaker 1: to date more like our our white counterparts. They're dating
Speaker 1: like their parents allowed them to date in their twenties
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. You know what I'm saying. Usually
Speaker 1: black women we start dating in college. Like college you
Speaker 1: might have been even if you had were having sex
Speaker 1: before college, you didn't really start like dating and um juggling.
Speaker 1: Men like to figure out what did these women start
Speaker 1: earlier in life? So they go to college and they
Speaker 1: come up with a degree and a ring. We don't
Speaker 1: put the emphasis on um marriage as much as our
Speaker 1: white counterparts. We tell black girls to go to college,
Speaker 1: get your education because you can't depend on a man
Speaker 1: is what young girls are told. Mm hmm. And then
Speaker 1: you have attachment issues to the wrong man when you
Speaker 1: do start dating later. You know, because I was dating
Speaker 1: in college, I was dating it would be nice boys
Speaker 1: from the Islands who are really smart in school that
Speaker 1: was just in love with me. But no, who I'm
Speaker 1: with the dope boy stupid because he's driving a Cadillac
Speaker 1: truck with me. And then went to present and now
Speaker 1: that nice, that nice uh island boy is probably somewhere
Speaker 1: with his own practice somewhere. Shame on me. Yep, that
Speaker 1: that do that boat, that do be that bullshit. But
Speaker 1: that's the importance of dating. So you and then you
Speaker 1: have to also have guidance from your your mom. But
Speaker 1: if nobody ever talked to her about anything, how you
Speaker 1: gonna talk to you about it? Yeah, So this past weekend,
Speaker 1: one thing I did do is I have a sixteen
Speaker 1: year old niece. She's she's uh, um, you know, going
Speaker 1: in eleventh grade. Um, she's taking college courses. She's very very,
Speaker 1: very very smart. The boy she's dating has dropped out
Speaker 1: of high school mhm. And I was trying to have
Speaker 1: a serious conversation with her about her future because nobody
Speaker 1: ever did that for me. Of course she's sexually active
Speaker 1: all that ship. The worst thing that could possibly happen
Speaker 1: is that you get pregnant and then now you gotta
Speaker 1: get married for love. Mm hmm. That's bullshit. At sixteen,
Speaker 1: somebody needs to be like talking to you and trying
Speaker 1: to help you get some type of blueprint on what
Speaker 1: to do, like when you get to college, because you
Speaker 1: never know, you don't know what you want to do. Really,
Speaker 1: I don't want to. I still have that little fairy
Speaker 1: tale in my soul about marrying for love too. I
Speaker 1: don't want to, like just say, don't marry still love,
Speaker 1: don't marry just for security, right, But I know no, absolutely,
Speaker 1: But I'm leaning towards more so of maybe finding somebody
Speaker 1: that's equally your yoke, because because what I told her
Speaker 1: was this guy you currently dating, you're gonna be taking
Speaker 1: care of him nine times I attend if you stay
Speaker 1: in him, m hmm, you'll be taking care of him.
Speaker 1: You'll you'll probably not go away to college and do
Speaker 1: the things that you should have been doing because of
Speaker 1: love for him. Right, You're gonna start um just just
Speaker 1: being a dumb bitch. Okay, let's be clear, just being
Speaker 1: a dumb bitch for the wrong person, and we oftentimes
Speaker 1: stay in relationships way past the expiration date. And I
Speaker 1: don't want that for her, But at sixteen, I feel
Speaker 1: like somebody should have those conversations with young women. Alright.
Speaker 1: So I have a friend who married a man who
Speaker 1: wasn't as successful or ambitious as her from the from
Speaker 1: the jump right, and then uh, ten years they have kids.
Speaker 1: Years later, she ended up leaving him because he wasn't
Speaker 1: what she wanted financially, he never reached the potential she
Speaker 1: may have seen in him. But then after a few
Speaker 1: years out here in these streets, she went back to him,
Speaker 1: and they're happiest two little peas in the pot now
Speaker 1: because she had to let go of that expectation because
Speaker 1: they are doing well with her, you know, with her
Speaker 1: doing well, they are doing well, so and she happier
Speaker 1: than a lot of people I know in her marriage.
Speaker 1: So it's a slippery slope when it comes to like
Speaker 1: giving that advice. I don't know, like, you know what,
Speaker 1: what what's more important? Could you be happy with less? Now?
Speaker 1: You know? You like to play that little game we
Speaker 1: have guests on would you want to be? What's the
Speaker 1: question you'd be asking happy and happy and rich happy
Speaker 1: and broke or Richard said, yeah, right, which one for you?
Speaker 1: You see the title of this ship Richard Richard Richard
Speaker 1: sad because I feel like you're not gonna be sad forever.
Speaker 1: You can grow to love your partner, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like, there's also the saying that the man
Speaker 1: has to love a woman more in order for the
Speaker 1: relationship to work. I know you've heard that. I really
Speaker 1: feel like it's hard to find two people that are
Speaker 1: simultaneously in love the same amount at the same time.
Speaker 1: That's really rare, right, So usually like somebody's loving on
Speaker 1: somebody more. It's always somebody who's chasing who's always there.
Speaker 1: But they can go back and forth, and I think
Speaker 1: that's healthy for it to go back and forth. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: because being in love is nothing more than a state
Speaker 1: of mind. So every day you gotta do ship to
Speaker 1: fall in love and stay in love with the person
Speaker 1: you with, or you've fallen out of love. That's just it, right,
Speaker 1: because I mean, you really have to convince yourself sometimes
Speaker 1: that you're in live with somebody, Like you can talk
Speaker 1: yourself into loving somebody in your head, right, all right,
Speaker 1: So and money makes that conversation with yourself easier the
Speaker 1: fuck it makes it that conversation easy, like you think.
Speaker 1: Be okay, let's look at Beyonce and jay Z. All right,
Speaker 1: we know jay Z that nigga, Like who else Beyonce
Speaker 1: is supposed to be with? But Beyonce could have been
Speaker 1: with a plethora of other men who are the same
Speaker 1: caliber man as jay Z. Right, but this is the
Speaker 1: person she chose to build that life with. And of
Speaker 1: course both of them, you know, both of them have money.
Speaker 1: But come on, man, if jay Z don't have that money,
Speaker 1: would Beyonce be with him? Would that be who she
Speaker 1: chose to be her life partner? We don't know. We
Speaker 1: don't know. Jay Z might have been like doing an
Speaker 1: oil change at the Jiffy Loup for Beyonce. St Yeah,
Speaker 1: he was pumping their car up. She's like nigga, Like, yes,
Speaker 1: I like dirty niggas. I like niggas who work on
Speaker 1: cars and ship Just wash your hand before the dirt.
Speaker 1: What you mean, not like dirty niggas like hygiene bad,
Speaker 1: but just like men who do things with their hands, Like,
Speaker 1: don't be asking me if I know how to cook?
Speaker 1: Do you know how to build nigga, because I like
Speaker 1: men who could put my goddamn I don't know do stuff.
Speaker 1: I appreciate that too. The guy I was dealing with before,
Speaker 1: like he came and put my bed together, and that
Speaker 1: she was making my pussy with just watching them in
Speaker 1: there with them tools. I was like, alright, let's try
Speaker 1: it out. Let's see if it works right, nigga, can
Speaker 1: you put up some drywall? Let's add onto this goddamn house. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So okay, what I want people to think about so again, UM,
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to trying to offend people, um, because
Speaker 1: I am people. I'm people. But let's let's let's just
Speaker 1: think about arranged marriages for a second and how fluent
Speaker 1: families pair people together. Um, Like I asked you earlier
Speaker 1: to Tammy, do you think that women who are in
Speaker 1: fraternities and sorority I'm sorry, women who are in sororities
Speaker 1: are more than likely to be married. The network, the connections,
Speaker 1: the places you put yourself. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like more likely? Yeah, I agree, they're more likely to
Speaker 1: be married, they're more likely to be successful. Um. And
Speaker 1: so then when you think about like families and how people.
Speaker 1: I think we might need to for the Black community
Speaker 1: to get to where we need to be, like how
Speaker 1: we were in the early eighteen hundreds nine hundreds, We
Speaker 1: may need to get back to arranged marriages. So basically,
Speaker 1: we need to be poor again, poor earth. We already poor,
Speaker 1: but we need to be pairing with people who we
Speaker 1: are more equally yoked with. But in the black community,
Speaker 1: we are already know that Black women catch so much
Speaker 1: heat for practicing hypergamy, for wanting to funk up and
Speaker 1: set it down. We catch so much heat. But you
Speaker 1: men would not be okay with your daughters bringing home
Speaker 1: a man who can't take care of him. Yeah, y'are
Speaker 1: not okay with that. Who's just because she loved him.
Speaker 1: I love him, Daddy, I love him. He'll got no education,
Speaker 1: he ain't got no car, he comes from a fun
Speaker 1: up family. These are the things that we need to
Speaker 1: be looking at for our children, absolutely, in order to
Speaker 1: birth more successful families. There's no generational wealth with funk that.
Speaker 1: With no family like, you can't build generational wealth if
Speaker 1: nobody is focusing on getting married and actually building together,
Speaker 1: we just can't. I agree, I agree. So you you
Speaker 1: want a husband now? I always want a husband. Listen
Speaker 1: pulled some on the up or it's grammed the other day,
Speaker 1: like ship, Who's next? Go go go? Like like who
Speaker 1: the funk is next? Because I love being in love.
Speaker 1: I love love like I like the beginning stages and
Speaker 1: all that ship like, yeah, I'm for that. Of course
Speaker 1: I want to be married. You know, I'm starting to
Speaker 1: envision myself. I just see like this big long walk away.
Speaker 1: Then I'm going down in this beautiful dress and there's
Speaker 1: a man standing way down there waiting on me. But
Speaker 1: I can't see his face. I can't see his face
Speaker 1: in this vision, right, but I can see it. It's
Speaker 1: an outdoor wear. But and I and I've dreamt of it.
Speaker 1: But I also might have been watching Mary at First
Speaker 1: Sight the night that I dreamt of it. And that's
Speaker 1: how that ship was that was on your psyche when
Speaker 1: you went to sleep. Yes, I don't know if it
Speaker 1: was me or one of the bitches for the show,
Speaker 1: but I think it was me and in my vision.
Speaker 1: But I do inspire to marriage. But I do still
Speaker 1: have my fears. I have my fears about making a person,
Speaker 1: like picking one person. It's it's that's so scary to
Speaker 1: me like picking one nigger and saying, I want to
Speaker 1: be with you and just you forever. Okay, then you
Speaker 1: can pick one person and then y'all can have Like
Speaker 1: you know, we talked about open marriage all the time,
Speaker 1: but the idea for marriage is like if you do
Speaker 1: it earlier on in life, because like the white girls,
Speaker 1: they go from their daddy house to their husband's house,
Speaker 1: they have all these assets, at least if they do
Speaker 1: get the voice, there's assets at the end of it.
Speaker 1: Poor people don't have no assets starting and they oftentimes
Speaker 1: don't have none in the end. Right, So we're gonn
Speaker 1: applying the white board people too, because I know someone
Speaker 1: through the same ship. Absolutely, I think it's it's more
Speaker 1: a poor thing than a black and white thing, honestly, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but we were mostly the poor ones in American Fortunately,
Speaker 1: there's definitely some poor white people, but for the most part,
Speaker 1: we Yeah, so we could pare up with better people.
Speaker 1: What about what about dating outside of So I had
Speaker 1: a psychic tell me last week. She asked me, did
Speaker 1: I ever consider dating outside of my race? Because she
Speaker 1: saw she had a vision of me with the one
Speaker 1: that was non black or mixed race, and I was
Speaker 1: very happy, and I was like me and she's like, yes,
Speaker 1: I just don't see how I'm gonna be happy without
Speaker 1: no black dick. But we're gonna see what happened. Well,
Speaker 1: she black her way, she was black who she married too,
Speaker 1: because sounds like she could also be like she wasn't married,
Speaker 1: she's not married. Interesting, I don't know who she ain't projecting. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was crazy to me, girl, get your ass back.
Speaker 1: I don't even know if I believe in that. She
Speaker 1: So I read this article and it said that, um,
Speaker 1: the people who get divorced the most, like at the
Speaker 1: top of the list, the highest divorce rate um are
Speaker 1: for dancers with an average income of twenty dollars a year,
Speaker 1: So that would be on the lower income. Yeah a
Speaker 1: year where your strip This bitch is working at raised
Speaker 1: boot boolroom man the barbecue. It might be a barbecue
Speaker 1: slash slash strip club in fucking barn somewhere. Girl, it's
Speaker 1: a it's a seafood market in Charleston. It's a strip
Speaker 1: club in the back at that seafood market. Where is this?
Speaker 1: And Charleston's firstly food? Are they fresh seafood? And they
Speaker 1: cook seafood in there? Get fish however you wanted in
Speaker 1: this bitch raw fried and wronging. God damn, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: if I were a strip I'm not working in the
Speaker 1: back like Okay, it's not in the same building, but
Speaker 1: it's connected though. It's like you know, they got a duplex,
Speaker 1: like next to the Snapple the next door down is
Speaker 1: a strip club. Like I'm not working in the back
Speaker 1: of a seafood market. If I'm a stripping dog, it's
Speaker 1: me the field walk ahead, like the smells funnier here.
Speaker 1: Like you don't know what your money is? Who is it? Um?
Speaker 1: Bartenders are up next? Uh, massage therapists, gaming, cage workers.
Speaker 1: I don't know what that is. So these are all
Speaker 1: people who work in the industry where they flirt to
Speaker 1: get money. Listen, Okay, that's about right, um, and it
Speaker 1: prevents the professions. Uh with the lowest divorce rates are farmers, pediatrists,
Speaker 1: clergy So that I mean that's leaning to wars. Maybe
Speaker 1: the more money you have, Huh. I just had an epiphany, right,
Speaker 1: So we know rich people get divorced too, but there's
Speaker 1: more to lose and divorce when you have more money
Speaker 1: because they maybe yes they be they may be more
Speaker 1: likely to stay together because of money, while people with
Speaker 1: less money break up because there's no money often time.
Speaker 1: Who gives the fans that's it? They all got nothing
Speaker 1: to lose, So why the hell am I here? Like
Speaker 1: even when having a baby like okay, um another statistic
Speaker 1: I read another article I read it basically was talking
Speaker 1: about how um women in lower income communities like they
Speaker 1: envisioned themselves being a mother, but they hardly envisioned themselves
Speaker 1: as a wife being a wife because you know, they
Speaker 1: know for sure that they can be a mother and
Speaker 1: take care of the child, but being with somebody forever,
Speaker 1: they can't see that. What we were just saying, So
Speaker 1: is that more realistic when you have no money? Because
Speaker 1: they do? Okay, So poor people get married less, right,
Speaker 1: they get married less than people with money. They do,
Speaker 1: but they have a more realistic outlook on marriage and
Speaker 1: divorce than people with money. Is what the article is
Speaker 1: basically insinuating. Wow, that's crazy. I ain't got nothing to
Speaker 1: added that. I don't know what to say. All I
Speaker 1: know is I didn't envision being mother either, though, like I,
Speaker 1: I would like to think that I'm a relationship person
Speaker 1: um and I just didn't choose the right relationships to
Speaker 1: get what I want, you know what I'm saying. Um,
Speaker 1: the older I get though, because now I got all
Speaker 1: this experience and relationships I see like even you know,
Speaker 1: with an open relationship. And to me again, it's just
Speaker 1: open communication. Being able to tell my partner everything about me.
Speaker 1: That's what's most important to me. Like being with somebody
Speaker 1: that I can be myself completely with, Like I don't
Speaker 1: have to even think twice about having a lie about
Speaker 1: some ship. I could tell you exactly what it is
Speaker 1: and give you the opportunity to decide if some ship
Speaker 1: you want to funk with or not or not, and
Speaker 1: then you could do the same, you know. For me,
Speaker 1: that's that's what's more important to me now in a
Speaker 1: in a union, and it doesn't necessarily have to be
Speaker 1: an actual marriage. Um, I do want to get within
Speaker 1: a dress, But do I want to find out some
Speaker 1: paperwork with the government. No, we could be married in
Speaker 1: the odds of the god, so you would have like,
Speaker 1: uh marriage, that's just in your heart ship. What's old
Speaker 1: girl from Loving Hip Hop New York? Um Yandy Yandy, Yeah,
Speaker 1: Yandy and man DC, we're not married. Initially had that
Speaker 1: whole uh ceremony on the show, and she said for
Speaker 1: business purposes, it wasn't a good idea for her to
Speaker 1: get married him, right, But it was because it was
Speaker 1: about money and law and ship like that, and his
Speaker 1: name being tied to her money. I feel like yes,
Speaker 1: and him going to prison shortly thereafter. But I believe
Speaker 1: I think they were just married, sir, h And why
Speaker 1: not girl, if you'll just go get you a broom
Speaker 1: and jump across that motherfucker at the house. Look, the
Speaker 1: Bible actually said as you're sitting there, you'd be having
Speaker 1: sex and and and fornicating and coming in a woman
Speaker 1: and all that ship. That's your wife right there. A
Speaker 1: lot of yall niggas out here about by four hundred
Speaker 1: wives or didn't they say yeah, biblically they had four
Speaker 1: hundred wives. Maybe he didn't have no ceremony with all
Speaker 1: the women. It was just say, m you seem you
Speaker 1: see he just is fucking yo. That is really wild.
Speaker 1: I see. That's what I was talking about, perspective, That's
Speaker 1: what I was talking Biblically. You're the same thing. You
Speaker 1: had four hundred wives too, niggers, Just like how many
Speaker 1: husbands you got, bitch two So you gotta multiply by
Speaker 1: three two. Bitch, don't ask me that in front of
Speaker 1: all these people. Let's go to a break so I
Speaker 1: can because this bit y'all for asking to be that
Speaker 1: in front of y'all. We'll be right back, all right, y'all,
Speaker 1: So look this to sum the conversation up. Um, Yes
Speaker 1: you can get married for love. Nine times. I often
Speaker 1: you're broke. I just played, But definitely, yes, you can
Speaker 1: get married for love. Rich people can get married for love.
Speaker 1: Poor people can get married for love. But ultimately real
Speaker 1: like real love is usually because uh, you don't have
Speaker 1: anything else but love. There's nothing else keeping you with
Speaker 1: this person. They ain't know goddamn cards, they don't know hous.
Speaker 1: It's probably love and kids is what's keeping you in
Speaker 1: this relationship as opposed to people more influent families. They
Speaker 1: just got more shipped to lose when the family feuds. Okay, so,
Speaker 1: and there's nothing wrong with that. I don't want y'all
Speaker 1: to start, you know, in this show, feeling bad because
Speaker 1: you don't have a lot of money and you love
Speaker 1: a nigga who don't have a lot. Because y'all can
Speaker 1: build together. And I want you to think that it's
Speaker 1: anything wrong with being in love and being not affluent,
Speaker 1: because you can grow to that, right absolutely, And I
Speaker 1: mean it doesn't happen overnight either, But that's why Black
Speaker 1: families we gotta at least start there. We gotta at
Speaker 1: least start getting married again. And I really feel like
Speaker 1: these fucking gas prices is gonna force that, because again,
Speaker 1: it's double occupancy. This life is not meant for you
Speaker 1: to be out here by yourself. You need a partner.
Speaker 1: And the earlier you get that partner, even if y'all
Speaker 1: do split, y'all got some ship to split, right, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, You're not just starting from dust
Speaker 1: when you do part if you've accumulated things earlier in life.
Speaker 1: Because the twenty year old white girls they getting divorced
Speaker 1: that thirty That's not what I'm saying. They're still getting divorced,
Speaker 1: but they might have a little assets right after that divorce,
Speaker 1: you know, just come out come out of it with
Speaker 1: a baby. Black women we just be out head with babies,
Speaker 1: and that's what we want to change. So let's work. Look, look,
Speaker 1: is that the gist of it? Yeah, let's work on that.
Speaker 1: Like did I clean that up? Enough to not offend anybody. Know,
Speaker 1: you know, it's still many. Man, They're gonna be in
Speaker 1: the reviews next week. These bitches just keep saying ship
Speaker 1: with no facts. The fact is your mama singer mama.
Speaker 1: My mama wasn't single mama, toad mom wasn't a single mama. Like,
Speaker 1: this is a ship. This is a facts. Okay, these
Speaker 1: are fucking facts. Okay. I don't need to read it
Speaker 1: somewhere or give y'all a goddamn um link. A matter
Speaker 1: of fact, I'm gonna start doing that. I'm gonna start
Speaker 1: citing my resources for y'all holes, because I'm sick. Because
Speaker 1: we do research this ship, y'all. We don't just be
Speaker 1: out here just saying what we think we do like,
Speaker 1: we do research it. So yeah, but then then the
Speaker 1: thing with Google is, Okay, let's say I have a theory, right,
Speaker 1: somebody else has a theory. There's gonna be supporting evidence
Speaker 1: on Google. Yes, So it's just a perspective. Eat the meat,
Speaker 1: spit the bones out. That's what y'all need to do.
Speaker 1: What we talked back, Thank you. Period. Let's go into
Speaker 1: them dumb bitch stories for these dumb bitches, Okay, dumb
Speaker 1: bitch stories, because we've all in a dumb bitch at
Speaker 1: least once or twice. I have one that was sitting
Speaker 1: in it says, hey, ladies, man, I love y'all. We
Speaker 1: love you too, Cairl, Yeah, girl, I feel like y'all
Speaker 1: my sisters. Okay, so here's my story. I met this
Speaker 1: dude online in two thousand fifteen and he was homeless
Speaker 1: and legally separated from hays wife. Yo, Hating's wife. Okay,
Speaker 1: we've been kicking it hard ever since. Once we started sucking,
Speaker 1: he said we were exclusive. Now, my young guests didn't
Speaker 1: know what that meant. I did a bunch of girlfriendship
Speaker 1: and basically got nothing in return. He always put me
Speaker 1: on the back burner for his kids. Now, I love
Speaker 1: a man that spence time with his kids. Don't get
Speaker 1: me wrong, but damn it was all the time. His
Speaker 1: sexist trash and his dick was small. He always wanted
Speaker 1: his dick suck and never ate my box. And lord,
Speaker 1: he could never stay hard. Why you like this, nag again?
Speaker 1: I confused. I paid for all the hotel stays, food, etcetera, etcetera.
Speaker 1: My y'all, he has his business. Fast forward around the holidays,
Speaker 1: I just got I lost all attraction to him. I
Speaker 1: told him I wanted to move on and start dating again.
Speaker 1: Since then, he has been calling me. I started dating.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Since then he has been calling and calling me,
Speaker 1: but I started dating. However, the dudes I date don't
Speaker 1: make me feel like he did. Besides all the things
Speaker 1: I said, he genuinely cares about me. When I did
Speaker 1: need him, he was always there, especially with my grand
Speaker 1: a father passed away. Sounds like a trauma bond. I
Speaker 1: need some advice because I feel like a dumb bitch
Speaker 1: l O L. I'm enjoined dating, but I can't seem
Speaker 1: to let the genuinely caring part go. Sister, help me.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say her name, but okay, all right,
Speaker 1: remember what I said, that thing I said about attachment issues.
Speaker 1: And also I always say like, if you're in a
Speaker 1: relationship with somebody, is not a good relationship whatever, Sometimes
Speaker 1: you gotta look within. It's not always an external thing.
Speaker 1: I would challenge her to look at her. I would
Speaker 1: like to know. I would like to have some more
Speaker 1: information from her before I really really start judging some ship.
Speaker 1: But did you experience some ship in your childhood where
Speaker 1: you felt like your parents weren't caring for you, they
Speaker 1: weren't showing up for you. And now you've got this
Speaker 1: man that's doing those things, and that's what you're attaching to.
Speaker 1: He's failing in all other categories, but he's delivering on
Speaker 1: this one trauma, traumatic thing from your childhood, right, and
Speaker 1: that's what you're sticking with because he didn't say anything
Speaker 1: good about him. Homeless Mary, little dick, won't stay hard
Speaker 1: care fuck, don't pay for hotels, don't pay for food.
Speaker 1: But he cares, girl of your sending that nigga back
Speaker 1: to his wife, care about her motherfucking as you can find.
Speaker 1: Put a life insurance policy on him first. He can
Speaker 1: get some of that money back. He didn't eat you out,
Speaker 1: girl with the fuck that should sound abusive to tail,
Speaker 1: I'm not abouna be sucking dick and you ain't eating
Speaker 1: this pussy. Come on, that's abuse. He deserves to be
Speaker 1: in jail, poor bones legs shout out the leg speed.
Speaker 1: He ain't got a jail. I agree, that's abuse. That's abuse.
Speaker 1: All that ship sound abusive to me. You paid for hotel, room,
Speaker 1: team reimbursing and nothing. You're just pulling up to get
Speaker 1: little dick. Come on, because you can't let her go
Speaker 1: in the genuinely care part. But I challenge you to
Speaker 1: start genuinely caring for yourself because if you did, you
Speaker 1: would not allow all these things. No, that's it. That's
Speaker 1: the absolute truth. We date based on our self esteem oftentimes.
Speaker 1: So what's going on with you that you think that
Speaker 1: this is that this is a real relationship. It's not. Nope,
Speaker 1: And then and then you started off that she started
Speaker 1: off with the hat and asked wife, hating, asked wife.
Speaker 1: Let's be clear, this is someone's husband you're working with, right,
Speaker 1: she got everyone you're calling her man at your ass?
Speaker 1: And look, she probably mad because she guess how long
Speaker 1: she'd been getting that whack broke dick? A long time?
Speaker 1: She's married. Day share it with somebody else, like it
Speaker 1: was enough to go around the embarrassing her out here.
Speaker 1: Have you ever did didn't fun with somebody who had
Speaker 1: a little dick and he married. Now you'd be looking
Speaker 1: at his wife like you like, no, bitch. When they
Speaker 1: have a kid, I'd be like, don't let the nigga
Speaker 1: have a son. I'd be like, oh, man, I hope
Speaker 1: that I hope this baby gets a dick from her
Speaker 1: side of the fan, from his mama. I hope he
Speaker 1: get his dick from his mama because look, listen, bad
Speaker 1: he made get that check. Because man, that's some self
Speaker 1: esteem missues you do not want to deal with from
Speaker 1: a man, all from a growing boy, like once he
Speaker 1: realized he got that little dick is gonna be a problem.
Speaker 1: And if you play sports like they start realizing it
Speaker 1: gotta be like a transition. Nigga is going through like
Speaker 1: this kind of sad now I feel bad, like little dick.
Speaker 1: Niggas need love to y'all deserve to be loved just
Speaker 1: like anybody else and something. It's got to be the
Speaker 1: baby Bear Porridge like maybe little dicks is just right
Speaker 1: for some of us, not me. That's a girl like
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna be out here acting like I could
Speaker 1: just take all this dick because I really can't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't want to. Like I said, baby Bear Porch,
Speaker 1: I don't want no humongous did we apologizing every time
Speaker 1: he put it in. It's the fight, like we're fighting
Speaker 1: to have sex and I'm pushing you up off me,
Speaker 1: Like no, I need to be able to normatize backs. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm sad. Man, got a lot of pressure
Speaker 1: on them. That's gonna be a lot of pressure. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a lot of pressure, man, there's a lot of
Speaker 1: pressure being a man. Yeah. I'm happy being a woman. Yeah,
Speaker 1: me too. I appreciate being a woman more because men did.
Speaker 1: Y'all definitely got a lot of pressure on y'all. A
Speaker 1: you get to a certain age to where you don't
Speaker 1: give a funk and it's like ship, these been just
Speaker 1: gonna get. These been just gonna get what I give him, money, dick,
Speaker 1: whatever it is, This is what I got, right. I
Speaker 1: didn't bring no more dick with me. This is all
Speaker 1: the dick I brought with me. Have a bit of
Speaker 1: ordering some more dick when you leave uber Meats. We
Speaker 1: still need to start that. Yes, I don't know, but look,
Speaker 1: y'all be careful out here, like sit your ass at home.
Speaker 1: Gases to my fucking high for you to be riding
Speaker 1: around trying to clear your mind and should clear your
Speaker 1: mind in the house, chill. And it's just getting even
Speaker 1: more crazy with all the shootings every single day. We're
Speaker 1: just being traumatized. These niggas have been activated. Yes, rest
Speaker 1: in peace to him. Yeah, I didn't and um, what's
Speaker 1: the producer's mom double hummed suicide. Yes, that's just it's
Speaker 1: really wicked. Yeah, it's like somebody hit a switch. Somebody
Speaker 1: hit a switch. My ex boyfriend was shot over the
Speaker 1: weekend by a random nigga in the gas station. He survived.
Speaker 1: The bullets went straight through four his shoulder, his elbow,
Speaker 1: his back, um in his hip, straight through. He drove
Speaker 1: hisself to the emergency room. He was on the way
Speaker 1: to his daughter's graduation and nigga bumped into him in
Speaker 1: the gas station like aggressively, and he just said, he
Speaker 1: told a guy, don't do that ship no more or
Speaker 1: something like that, and guy just started booting up on him,
Speaker 1: like what the fun you're gonna do? Just literally out
Speaker 1: here looking into right And that's what I say, nothing
Speaker 1: back to that cookbook, bitch in the party, because looking
Speaker 1: for smoke. Just looking for smoke. And he basically said
Speaker 1: the guy shot him out the store, like he was
Speaker 1: back turned leaving out the store and this man started
Speaker 1: shooting at him. Shot him, yes, shot him for And
Speaker 1: then he said, once he heard the gun just click
Speaker 1: click click, he said, he chased him. He beat him up.
Speaker 1: He beat the guy had to drive itself to the
Speaker 1: emergency room. Yeah, that ship is wicked, y'all. Stay out
Speaker 1: the way man r I Peter um trouble. I feel
Speaker 1: like all that ship is kind of related to that
Speaker 1: ship that's going on with Young Thug and Gunna. I
Speaker 1: feel like like we've got to start a Patreon targeted
Speaker 1: to hear all ags theories of conspiracy there. I feel
Speaker 1: like I feel like those are small ponds and they're
Speaker 1: they're targeting bigger players. They're targeting black supremacy. I believe
Speaker 1: mhm Via a black woman because you know, um district
Speaker 1: attorney is a black woman. She's bringing up all these
Speaker 1: cases on niggas. MT see that they'd be using us
Speaker 1: against us. Got to be more careful out here, man. Alright,
Speaker 1: I'll be on the lookout for our patreon. I say
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