WEBVTT - EP. 73 "What's Love Got to Do With It"

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<v Speaker 1>We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion. She

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<v Speaker 1>talked back, We're live, y'all. What's up, y'all, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>j Thank you guys for tuning in for a new

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<v Speaker 1>episode that we talked that age. Hey, y'all lives camp

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<v Speaker 1>and I love y'all once again every week. I love

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<v Speaker 1>y'all so much. Welcome to a new episode. Hey girl,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey girl, Hey look, I lust y'all. You know it

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<v Speaker 1>might change tomorrow. You love Oh you don't love him?

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<v Speaker 1>You just lust them? Yes, lust them and leave him.

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<v Speaker 1>That's your problem. How is your r um? What the

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<v Speaker 1>hell did I do this weekend? I did do something?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh um, my cousin, one of my younger cousins, she

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<v Speaker 1>had m She opened us along. She's a boss cham.

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<v Speaker 1>She had a grand opening. Yeah, it was like a

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<v Speaker 1>nice little cook out. The rain kind of funked us up,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was like a little, nice little family reunion

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<v Speaker 1>type thing. We had some crabs. Girls sat around a

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<v Speaker 1>craft table and talk shit. I tried to explain to them,

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<v Speaker 1>how you know if a man gonna suck the ship

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<v Speaker 1>out of you and not by his forearm, how to

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<v Speaker 1>that form be looking strong? That's not true, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>a thing. Look instead of asking for cock shots, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>just asked the man to send you a picture his forearm.

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<v Speaker 1>No longer he's shoe size. This is forearms. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>four But no, look, think about this now. Sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>can look at the forearm and yes, exactly, and then also, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>go another one. That space between a belly button and

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<v Speaker 1>like the top of the pubic care area, if you

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<v Speaker 1>can see that part of a man, because think about it,

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<v Speaker 1>when a when a man like lays down on the

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<v Speaker 1>bed and that dick flop up, it's usually about the

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<v Speaker 1>same length of that space between a belly button in

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<v Speaker 1>the pub area. Who you fucking that did? Go on?

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<v Speaker 1>Some niggas got a short area. Some niggas area be

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<v Speaker 1>kaind of short that look, y'all gotta be paying attention.

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<v Speaker 1>So look, if you don't want to be too man

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<v Speaker 1>and should be like baby, send me a picture of

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<v Speaker 1>your forearm right quick. You're looking for veins, okay, you're

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<v Speaker 1>looking for it to look like a little crap clod. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>look I was having all of young girls, yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>had as. These niggs gonna have a big ass veny

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<v Speaker 1>forearm because they've been just beating their dick for years

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<v Speaker 1>because they can't get no pussy because it's little. All

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<v Speaker 1>the niggas, all the niggas sent in a picture that

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<v Speaker 1>right hand, that right arm beyond Max okay, because they've

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<v Speaker 1>been beating a dick for years, because nobody wants to fun, girss.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely was out there with my microphone at a

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<v Speaker 1>stupid you know, because I traveled with a mike ientitating people,

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<v Speaker 1>how is your weekend? I didn't really. I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>chilled this weekend and just watch movies on my pattio.

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<v Speaker 1>I kept it cute because last week, in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of the week, I shot down to Atlanta and I

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<v Speaker 1>went to uh Pierre Thomas from Quality Control's birthday party.

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<v Speaker 1>I was that I had so much fun, girl. I

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<v Speaker 1>was in the mixed mix. I was um sitting with

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<v Speaker 1>some of your favorite celebrities, and I was star struck

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<v Speaker 1>because Diddy was like right in the section next to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie with star struck on the inside.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, but yeah, I remember her saying she

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<v Speaker 1>don't mind. Yes, I was ready. He was all shiny

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<v Speaker 1>with his little white shirt on. I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>did he so shiny, but I kept cute. I just

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<v Speaker 1>act like I was used to being in the mix

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<v Speaker 1>with all the people. I ain't say, and then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody looked really nice. It was a good time. One

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<v Speaker 1>of your favorite cookbook bitches. I ain't gonna say who

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<v Speaker 1>she is, but I think this bitch told me to

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<v Speaker 1>back up put the ass ole in a cook in

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<v Speaker 1>a gown. I'm not sure she was talking to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she was talking to me. My friend was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think she's just singing the song, but I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that was part of the song he was listening

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<v Speaker 1>to at the time, So I'm not sure, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that happened. I was mad for like two seconds, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, you know what, everybody drunk. I'm gonna let

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<v Speaker 1>that go back up, pussy in So lord, what is

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<v Speaker 1>that what black women beat on me and to each other? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Why we were too pretty with these girls on for

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<v Speaker 1>you to be talking to me like that, right, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. Let me tell you a lot of these

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<v Speaker 1>people who've been in the industry for a while, they

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<v Speaker 1>got some real life mental health issues. Okay, they're just

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<v Speaker 1>not the same. And I feel like that's how a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of them get to where they're going because they

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<v Speaker 1>just don't be operating with integrity. It's just like anything goes,

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<v Speaker 1>so their brains already be a little bit different. Child,

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<v Speaker 1>You got to be careful. Hey, y'all just know I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be a real nigga today and a real nigga tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>So let me ask you this. If you were in

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<v Speaker 1>a section with young Miami j T. Did he? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>all these celebrities are around you, and then this cookbook

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<v Speaker 1>tell you to back up puss the ass whole? What

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<v Speaker 1>do you do? Do you like? What do you You

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<v Speaker 1>don't fight in a gown? And look, So what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>learning nowadays is even if it's loud, even with we're

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<v Speaker 1>in a gal no matter where we're at, I'm asking

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<v Speaker 1>for clarification, okay, in life going forward instead of job

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<v Speaker 1>of to conclusions like wait, what did you just say?

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<v Speaker 1>He was talking to me like, I'm gonna be asking

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<v Speaker 1>for clarity because I don't want to be tripping on

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<v Speaker 1>the back end. Yea, So maybe that's maybe you could

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<v Speaker 1>have just like, wait, what are you saying? Yeah? I

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<v Speaker 1>just felt like it was about to go bad. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't. Yeah, I just let it go. I was

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<v Speaker 1>because she turned and walked away. I meant, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know out first. You never know girl girl a bit

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<v Speaker 1>and me was like, hold on, she's talking to you.

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<v Speaker 1>But the lady like, like my brand. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>my brand to be turnished in this environment fighting somebody

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<v Speaker 1>over something. They said, like did you see that bitch

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<v Speaker 1>that was this fighting in the gown? That yeah, don't

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<v Speaker 1>ever invite her bag. So I let it go. Whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>but that, yeah, that happy weeay, that was funny. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't wait to come tell y'all. So but let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell y'all something. I ain't nobody push the ass hole.

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<v Speaker 1>I tell you that exactly. Let's be clear. Let's be clear.

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<v Speaker 1>Moving right along. So my weekend, I didn't do shitout

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<v Speaker 1>was tired because that was in the middle of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to fly back and go straight back to work.

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<v Speaker 1>She was kind of fucked up. The rest of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>It was off killed. But now I'm ready for a

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<v Speaker 1>new week, new topics. What happened to dumb internet news girl?

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm, Let's start from the top. I got a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of things. Let's talk about these motherfucking gas prices

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<v Speaker 1>and stupid internet news. I'm sick of it. I went

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<v Speaker 1>to Costco because I feel like Costco got the cheapest

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<v Speaker 1>gas right now. Right Costo cost and Gas isn't even

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<v Speaker 1>saying a damn car saying amount of time. I used

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to go two weeks a week and

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<v Speaker 1>a half without filling up, now filling up every week,

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<v Speaker 1>and Costco gas was like to forty two thirty something

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<v Speaker 1>last week. I mean, I'm sorry. Four Look, I want

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<v Speaker 1>y'all to realize me. And you know, two dollar gas prices.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Trump was an office. But okay, I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go there. Okay, but eight nine is and I used premium,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't know how much the regular gas was,

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<v Speaker 1>but four dollars and eighty nine cents. So I just

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<v Speaker 1>to give you guys some stock tips. I'm definitely in

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<v Speaker 1>all the energy stocks right now because I'm sure ain't

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<v Speaker 1>going down no time soon. Gas prices is a tax

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<v Speaker 1>on the middle class. That's what they're doing right now.

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<v Speaker 1>They pay, we get we're paying their stimulus back. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>stimulus p p p E D. I L get it back.

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<v Speaker 1>And gas they said we're gonna get come get it

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<v Speaker 1>back and gas to get it back in blood. We

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<v Speaker 1>get it back a gas bitch man. That's crazy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I used to like want to meet niggas for a date,

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't want to get in your car, boy,

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<v Speaker 1>come get me. Yes, whoever pick me up for me,

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<v Speaker 1>scoot me boo, pull up, old man, pull up, old man.

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<v Speaker 1>Look my birthday on Wednesday, y'all. Well this is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be obviously we pre record. I'm gonna have the all

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<v Speaker 1>gas cards. Thank you, send me some damn gas cars.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll give you all the post office box. And we

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<v Speaker 1>talked back. What you think about this? Goddamn uh The

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<v Speaker 1>Pride whopper at Burger King Okay, so yeah, the prior whopper.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw that on the Shade Room actually, where they

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<v Speaker 1>have a whopper where they have two top buns or

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<v Speaker 1>two bottom buns to celebrate Pride Month. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's pretty witty. Honestly, that was creative. But when

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<v Speaker 1>you came up with that right in Austria, Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not in America. This is in Austria. They're celebrating Pride

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<v Speaker 1>Month with special burger. Okay, it's the Eid whopper. I

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<v Speaker 1>was in the comments just trying to be like a troll,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess. I was like, what about keto? This is

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<v Speaker 1>not keto inclusive keto buns, No buns matter, right, can

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<v Speaker 1>we just get a lettuce bun? Like? Yeah, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was a cute idea. Obviously that was funny. But

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<v Speaker 1>who's gonna order them to bottom buns? You're weird? Or

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<v Speaker 1>if you order two bottom buns. No, no saying, not

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<v Speaker 1>saying that being a bottom is weird, but the bottom

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<v Speaker 1>buns are not good. But have you ever received a

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<v Speaker 1>sandwich like that before? I haven't had like they have

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<v Speaker 1>done that to me before when they run out of

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<v Speaker 1>ship running the upplies. That's like when you had the

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<v Speaker 1>two in pieces of the bread in the bag away. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what that is what the two bottom buns right,

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<v Speaker 1>ill sandwich I've been throwing that ship right at your

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<v Speaker 1>as everybody's gonna order the two tops. That's the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of point I watched. Anyway, stupid stupid shout out to uh.

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<v Speaker 1>It is Pride month, so happy Pride, Happy Pride month

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<v Speaker 1>to everybody who celebrates it. I remember, so my mom,

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<v Speaker 1>she's not she's not homophobic by any stretch of imagination.

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<v Speaker 1>But I remember this was many years back and she

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<v Speaker 1>was in Atlanta for uh, some type of convention for

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<v Speaker 1>work or something like that, and she it was gay

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<v Speaker 1>pride and she was calling me whispering. She's like, they're

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<v Speaker 1>lining up on the sides of the streets, like my

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<v Speaker 1>ain't ship got to happy, relaxed, they're lining up. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a parade, relaxed. Ain't about to fight her or something. No,

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<v Speaker 1>whether fund was going on, chay, Oh goodness, what else?

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<v Speaker 1>What else is going on in the world? So Amber heard,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she gotta come up with all types of

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<v Speaker 1>millions of dollars boy to be Johnny depth in this

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<v Speaker 1>uh slander lawsuit. I heard million city boys up, this

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<v Speaker 1>defamation of character. Kates Yo. I've watched some of the case.

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<v Speaker 1>It was all theatrics these people. It was like, what

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<v Speaker 1>are they distracting us from what else happened around that time?

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<v Speaker 1>Because that ship was stupid, Okay, shooting this man bed.

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<v Speaker 1>She took a poop in his bed. She took a live,

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<v Speaker 1>hot shit in his bed while he was in there sleep. Damn.

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<v Speaker 1>That's wow, you crazy. She was abusing him. That is abusive. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta be really mad at the motherfucker to say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'm gonna eat this burrito on Tuesday

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as you start boiling in my stomach. Bit

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<v Speaker 1>y'all gonna put it right next to you in the bid,

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<v Speaker 1>you motherfucker damn right. What I'm finding weird about this

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<v Speaker 1>situation is that the meme that's going around with Meg

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<v Speaker 1>the Stallion, Amber Heard and Jada Pickett, they ex Amber

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<v Speaker 1>Heard out, like can if we if women were to

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<v Speaker 1>make a meme of all the men that that sucked

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<v Speaker 1>up this year, you know it would be impossible. Why why?

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<v Speaker 1>Why is this like a yes moment for men? It's

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<v Speaker 1>just really weird to me because they want some good back.

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<v Speaker 1>You want you'll something doing dirt, and dirt might not

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<v Speaker 1>get done, y'all. You don't think y'all attract that karmen

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes facts, Yeah, I'm pretty sure Johnny Depp I did

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<v Speaker 1>some weird shipped to a woman at some point, man

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<v Speaker 1>Amber heard probably was his karma. Amber her came round

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<v Speaker 1>with karma, her dad, back pocket and stupid on his ass.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually would have been karma for the woman. That he

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<v Speaker 1>might have done some dumb ship too, but just like

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<v Speaker 1>just like a woman to not to make it. Johnny

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<v Speaker 1>Depp's fault, like she shouldn't have bed and he was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you do to a bit in your past, Johnny,

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<v Speaker 1>because your fault victim blame in Okay, I'm sorry. I

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<v Speaker 1>was definitely victim blame it. Okay. Sorry, No, nobody deserves

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<v Speaker 1>the rolling ship and they bid nobody. That's wild shame.

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<v Speaker 1>So did you see this woman who got arrested recently?

0:14:56.440 --> 0:15:00.360
<v Speaker 1>The incident happened two years ago, but she threw her

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<v Speaker 1>exes mother's ashes into a river and they just arrested

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<v Speaker 1>her for a desecration of human human remains? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>see that? Yeah? I saw that, and there's a video

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<v Speaker 1>going around, But that's not actually the woman who did it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's a re enactment for content for people

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<v Speaker 1>creating content for social because I'm looking at I'm like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not the same people. Yeah, it's not the same woman.

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<v Speaker 1>But once again, victim blame. And what did that nigga

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<v Speaker 1>do to make that woman mad enough to throw his

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<v Speaker 1>mama asses? He cheated on her. He was cheating on

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<v Speaker 1>her apparently, and she stole the urn because he said

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<v Speaker 1>he had kept asking her if she saw it, like

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<v Speaker 1>where is my mama earned? He said, he overheard her

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<v Speaker 1>telling her daughter what she actually did with the ship. Yawn.

0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:54.680
<v Speaker 1>That bitch was like, play with me. I'm gonna kill

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<v Speaker 1>your mama twice? Should I want if the mom was

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<v Speaker 1>alive at some point during their relationship, like maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't sunk with the mom anyway, y'all know mama's. I

0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:08.320
<v Speaker 1>don't like niggas with mama's. I don't feel like dealing

0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:12.000
<v Speaker 1>with that ship. I listen, I love niggas with mama's

0:16:12.040 --> 0:16:14.880
<v Speaker 1>because I always I have the mama on my side.

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<v Speaker 1>Should be teaming up against him with me by the

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<v Speaker 1>time I get done with hers. Yes, ma'am, I'll make

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<v Speaker 1>his slight. I'll make your plate too, Yes, ma'am calling,

0:16:24.320 --> 0:16:26.000
<v Speaker 1>did you need? I was just going to the store.

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<v Speaker 1>I just checking and see if you needed anything. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>the sweetest as pie with nicka Mama. I'm just being

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<v Speaker 1>manipulative though, because she's gonna be on my side by

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<v Speaker 1>the time I get done with her. As she ain't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna like that much, is me. I only had one

0:16:39.720 --> 0:16:42.080
<v Speaker 1>mama on my side, man, they'd be liking me, but

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<v Speaker 1>they know they'd be raising these damn fucked up men.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm the one that telling I'm gonna tell you

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<v Speaker 1>about you and your damn son. How about that? I

0:16:50.840 --> 0:16:53.280
<v Speaker 1>had one mom saying who raised these bitches? And these

0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:55.960
<v Speaker 1>bitches raised I mean, who raised these niggas and being

0:16:55.960 --> 0:16:58.520
<v Speaker 1>a black woman raised them, That's what happened. I had

0:16:58.560 --> 0:17:00.400
<v Speaker 1>a one mama loved me so much. She was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to put me down with her doctor and that was

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<v Speaker 1>still with her son. No, she really loved you. Yes,

0:17:08.080 --> 0:17:10.200
<v Speaker 1>that's real love. She's like, you know what, my son

0:17:10.240 --> 0:17:14.280
<v Speaker 1>ain't ship. Let me upgrade you right quick. You're a

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<v Speaker 1>good woman. Let me find you a man because my

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<v Speaker 1>son ain't it. Now. Those the type of mama's like

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<v Speaker 1>can funk with. I'm not playing with those mamas that. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm at this event this week and he just had

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<v Speaker 1>another woman at the event another family event last week.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't be playing in my damn face like that. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>be playing in my face like that. But what his

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<v Speaker 1>mom was supposed to do? Take a side as a Okay,

0:17:35.640 --> 0:17:38.359
<v Speaker 1>if I were a mother like and I had a son,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not about to be playing with women and like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not I'm a woman, like I'm I'm not. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not saying I'm a feminist but I'm for women. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not about to be bringing that ship around me.

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<v Speaker 1>You better do that ship outside. I bet I better

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<v Speaker 1>not see it because I'm a telling you if he married,

0:17:52.640 --> 0:17:55.480
<v Speaker 1>if my son married, then I'd be like that, like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't be bringing other bitches to my house and you

0:17:57.920 --> 0:18:01.080
<v Speaker 1>married to Keisha? Whoever it is? But right, But that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm talking about. But if it's a girlfriend for her,

0:18:04.000 --> 0:18:06.719
<v Speaker 1>she might be even a girlfriend at some point, like

0:18:06.760 --> 0:18:10.119
<v Speaker 1>you're you're going towards Mary. If it's a serious relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, I stay out of it. But I

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<v Speaker 1>don't bring the girl over here unless you're about to

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<v Speaker 1>break up with Kesha. Yes, I'm not about to be

0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:26.080
<v Speaker 1>friends with everybody. Yeah, but Mama still be friends with everybody.

0:18:27.160 --> 0:18:31.959
<v Speaker 1>That isn't real bullshit. It's funny. Look what about Booty

0:18:32.040 --> 0:18:35.320
<v Speaker 1>crazy ass man boy is so funny, y'all did y'all

0:18:35.320 --> 0:18:41.440
<v Speaker 1>see Booty? Um? His son was being uh alleged allegedly

0:18:41.960 --> 0:18:45.120
<v Speaker 1>had twin babies with this girl. But the baby's turned

0:18:45.160 --> 0:18:50.119
<v Speaker 1>out not to be even the girls, right, I couldn't

0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:56.080
<v Speaker 1>we talking about like they said, the baby the woman

0:18:56.200 --> 0:19:00.280
<v Speaker 1>kidnapped somebody's baby and took it to a graduate Shan

0:19:01.200 --> 0:19:04.560
<v Speaker 1>and said it was his son's baby or something like that.

0:19:04.560 --> 0:19:08.200
<v Speaker 1>Ship was wow. I can't mama, that's all he kept

0:19:08.200 --> 0:19:11.240
<v Speaker 1>saying them. Mama, y'all dumb. Mama, help us. I can't

0:19:11.240 --> 0:19:19.000
<v Speaker 1>believe that. Mama. Yeah, Boosty is everybody's ghetto. Asked cousin

0:19:19.080 --> 0:19:21.040
<v Speaker 1>that nigga is so funny. Without you, you don't be

0:19:21.040 --> 0:19:23.480
<v Speaker 1>trying to be funny. He'd just be existing. Set O

0:19:23.600 --> 0:19:31.520
<v Speaker 1>self appreciate. Yes, shame because I think he'd be giving

0:19:31.560 --> 0:19:34.639
<v Speaker 1>his sons like pussy as a graduation gives and stuff

0:19:34.680 --> 0:19:37.680
<v Speaker 1>like that. Now he had to stop that ship. That's

0:19:37.720 --> 0:19:42.440
<v Speaker 1>that's that that's that trauma ship from you know that.

0:19:42.440 --> 0:19:45.080
<v Speaker 1>That's one of those things in the black community that

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<v Speaker 1>I wish people could just do better about. And look

0:19:48.720 --> 0:19:51.520
<v Speaker 1>that that still falls back on women because what y'all

0:19:51.560 --> 0:19:55.199
<v Speaker 1>grown ass women doing what you're doing. Molest that's a

0:19:55.200 --> 0:20:03.920
<v Speaker 1>molestation sucking somebody, cha cha, It's just crazy. But um,

0:20:04.040 --> 0:20:06.000
<v Speaker 1>I heard that Nick Cannon got some more kids in

0:20:06.040 --> 0:20:10.840
<v Speaker 1>a wait. He's one of the girls who had said

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<v Speaker 1>of twins, she's pregnant and then he just had a

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<v Speaker 1>photo come out two weeks ago at another um another

0:20:16.720 --> 0:20:22.920
<v Speaker 1>woman's um you know, paternity pictures, paternity. Shoot this nigga,

0:20:23.320 --> 0:20:28.199
<v Speaker 1>This nigga said, be fruitful and beautiful. Okay, but did

0:20:28.280 --> 0:20:32.680
<v Speaker 1>you listen to his remix? His uh, his UM mix,

0:20:32.840 --> 0:20:35.320
<v Speaker 1>his remix? Did you listen to his UM mix CD

0:20:35.440 --> 0:20:37.040
<v Speaker 1>he just had come out. He has that one song

0:20:37.080 --> 0:20:39.520
<v Speaker 1>with Chris Brown, which sounds nice. But I want y'all

0:20:39.640 --> 0:20:44.040
<v Speaker 1>to go listen to the first song on this fucking album. Okay.

0:20:44.640 --> 0:20:48.119
<v Speaker 1>This nigga think he's God. He say he has a

0:20:48.160 --> 0:20:51.720
<v Speaker 1>real life god complex. He has Kate and shaleon write.

0:20:51.720 --> 0:20:54.440
<v Speaker 1>The song is called Players Prayer intro. Oh yeah, what

0:20:54.560 --> 0:20:56.520
<v Speaker 1>he's trying to do like a Sierra's Prayer but for

0:20:56.600 --> 0:21:00.320
<v Speaker 1>players listen to the listen to the end of that song.

0:21:01.200 --> 0:21:03.200
<v Speaker 1>This dude got a real life complex. I don't know

0:21:03.240 --> 0:21:05.399
<v Speaker 1>what the fun going on, Nick Cannon, I gotta conspiracy

0:21:05.440 --> 0:21:09.439
<v Speaker 1>about it, but um yeah, oh yeah you can. You

0:21:09.440 --> 0:21:12.200
<v Speaker 1>can tell us about that in our Patreon. Guys. We're

0:21:12.200 --> 0:21:14.640
<v Speaker 1>about to start a Patreon coming up real soon, and

0:21:14.880 --> 0:21:17.840
<v Speaker 1>we're definitely gonna have all the A J's conspiracy theories

0:21:17.920 --> 0:21:20.920
<v Speaker 1>on there for y'all to hear for sure. For sure, Look,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not a conspiracy theory. Those two words don't even

0:21:23.400 --> 0:21:26.000
<v Speaker 1>make sense to even be a term. It's I just

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<v Speaker 1>like to give people a different perspective, a different way

0:21:28.640 --> 0:21:30.679
<v Speaker 1>to look at situations, like look at it like this,

0:21:31.320 --> 0:21:33.000
<v Speaker 1>Maybe that will make more sense to you when you

0:21:33.040 --> 0:21:34.680
<v Speaker 1>look at it like That's really what I'd be trying

0:21:34.680 --> 0:21:37.400
<v Speaker 1>to do. So we can't call it A J's conspiracy theories.

0:21:37.560 --> 0:21:40.600
<v Speaker 1>You can't. I'll come up with a different name for it.

0:21:40.600 --> 0:21:45.040
<v Speaker 1>It might be a J K J. A J's theories

0:21:45.200 --> 0:21:50.600
<v Speaker 1>of conspiracy. Let's just flick it. That might be right,

0:21:50.920 --> 0:21:57.560
<v Speaker 1>that makes more sense. And then, oh, lastly, uh Lori

0:21:57.800 --> 0:22:03.119
<v Speaker 1>Harvey and Michael B. Jordan's they called the End of

0:22:03.200 --> 0:22:10.679
<v Speaker 1>the Contract. I wished people would stop hating on Lorie Harvey.

0:22:10.720 --> 0:22:12.359
<v Speaker 1>And I really feel like a lot of times it

0:22:12.359 --> 0:22:16.199
<v Speaker 1>would be women mostly y'all ain't about to act like

0:22:16.280 --> 0:22:19.639
<v Speaker 1>at five, y'all weren't out here thoughting and bopping, and

0:22:19.680 --> 0:22:22.679
<v Speaker 1>some of y'all still are. Let's be clear, she's thoughting

0:22:22.720 --> 0:22:26.520
<v Speaker 1>and bopping amongst her peers. She not even thought was

0:22:26.680 --> 0:22:30.240
<v Speaker 1>that nig her a year and a half, and even

0:22:30.240 --> 0:22:34.000
<v Speaker 1>when even when dealing with future like, we don't know

0:22:34.040 --> 0:22:35.960
<v Speaker 1>if these people having sex and not. It looked like

0:22:36.000 --> 0:22:37.879
<v Speaker 1>to me like all I saw was when the future

0:22:37.920 --> 0:22:39.840
<v Speaker 1>took her on a birthday trip with her and all

0:22:39.880 --> 0:22:43.720
<v Speaker 1>her homegirls and ship. Ain't nobody dealing with each other

0:22:43.720 --> 0:22:47.640
<v Speaker 1>for no. I just don't see how you go from

0:22:47.720 --> 0:22:52.200
<v Speaker 1>Future to Michael B. Jordan. Though they both was popped

0:22:52.480 --> 0:22:56.520
<v Speaker 1>like the top of their their their craft. They're just

0:22:56.520 --> 0:22:58.399
<v Speaker 1>two different types of men. I mean, I don't know.

0:22:58.480 --> 0:23:02.359
<v Speaker 1>Some people don't have preference in that way. Yeah, maybe

0:23:02.359 --> 0:23:04.080
<v Speaker 1>she got tired of doing a hood rat and want

0:23:04.119 --> 0:23:09.960
<v Speaker 1>her like a a square. You say, a stud a square.

0:23:13.520 --> 0:23:15.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but look, Tam, Tam, you're making some

0:23:15.840 --> 0:23:17.760
<v Speaker 1>accusations of it, and now you're telling them people was

0:23:17.840 --> 0:23:20.880
<v Speaker 1>under contract. I feel like that's very possible that they

0:23:20.920 --> 0:23:23.879
<v Speaker 1>may have been in a relationship contract. No, but he

0:23:23.960 --> 0:23:26.600
<v Speaker 1>was looking they showed up. There was a video of

0:23:26.680 --> 0:23:29.440
<v Speaker 1>him at Um. He was at a Golden State game

0:23:30.280 --> 0:23:32.080
<v Speaker 1>and he looks so sad. You can see in his

0:23:32.160 --> 0:23:34.240
<v Speaker 1>eyes he was ready to cry. Or maybe that he's

0:23:34.280 --> 0:23:36.040
<v Speaker 1>he is a good actor, so maybe he was putting

0:23:36.080 --> 0:23:38.800
<v Speaker 1>on for the camera, like I gotta look exactly. Let's

0:23:38.800 --> 0:23:44.800
<v Speaker 1>be clear, the nigger is an actor, okay, Um I mean,

0:23:44.920 --> 0:23:48.880
<v Speaker 1>he's ten years her senior. She may want to explore.

0:23:48.960 --> 0:23:52.040
<v Speaker 1>You know, she was on her weight loss journey. Sometimes

0:23:52.080 --> 0:23:54.160
<v Speaker 1>when you start like working out, getting to the gym,

0:23:54.240 --> 0:23:56.600
<v Speaker 1>like your brain, your mind gets a little bit more clearer.

0:23:57.119 --> 0:24:00.520
<v Speaker 1>Maybe she started seeing something she didn't want. You know

0:24:00.560 --> 0:24:02.760
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, She's supposed to be dating. She's a

0:24:02.800 --> 0:24:07.480
<v Speaker 1>young woman. Why not And going into our topic once

0:24:07.480 --> 0:24:09.680
<v Speaker 1>you come back from break, these are so many things

0:24:09.760 --> 0:24:13.000
<v Speaker 1>we want to talk about today, you know what I'm saying,

0:24:13.040 --> 0:24:15.480
<v Speaker 1>because I don't feel like black women get the opportunity

0:24:15.520 --> 0:24:18.480
<v Speaker 1>to date as much as they should, as much as

0:24:18.480 --> 0:24:25.280
<v Speaker 1>our white counterparts. You know, it's very important y'all. Would

0:24:25.280 --> 0:24:27.600
<v Speaker 1>just be having a nigga come over your house and

0:24:27.640 --> 0:24:33.119
<v Speaker 1>then be with them. Ain't never been on a date? Yeah,

0:24:33.240 --> 0:24:35.320
<v Speaker 1>And then you know, you explore to get to know

0:24:35.440 --> 0:24:39.280
<v Speaker 1>what you like, what you don't like, have discernments, you know,

0:24:39.440 --> 0:24:43.080
<v Speaker 1>all those things. Then you have attachment issues when you

0:24:43.119 --> 0:24:45.680
<v Speaker 1>do get a nigga. You're like, we're gonna talk about it, though.

0:24:46.080 --> 0:24:55.080
<v Speaker 1>Look we'll be back. What's gonna commercial, We'll be right back, Okay,

0:24:55.119 --> 0:24:58.840
<v Speaker 1>So look let's get into it. I posed this actually

0:24:58.920 --> 0:25:01.520
<v Speaker 1>was having a conversation and with one of my friends, right,

0:25:02.480 --> 0:25:08.520
<v Speaker 1>and she was like, you know, poor people get married,

0:25:09.440 --> 0:25:14.280
<v Speaker 1>uh because they get married for love. Poor people get

0:25:14.359 --> 0:25:16.919
<v Speaker 1>married for love essentially, is what she was saying. And

0:25:17.000 --> 0:25:22.800
<v Speaker 1>I was like, huh, But it really made sense if

0:25:22.800 --> 0:25:26.960
<v Speaker 1>you look at the statistics are married and who's getting

0:25:27.000 --> 0:25:30.840
<v Speaker 1>married and who's getting divorced, um, and black people wherely

0:25:30.920 --> 0:25:40.240
<v Speaker 1>y'all like it or not, were the poor people. And

0:25:40.359 --> 0:25:43.760
<v Speaker 1>it's capitalistic society, like thirty percent of the people got

0:25:43.760 --> 0:25:45.440
<v Speaker 1>to be at the bottom, and we had thirty percent

0:25:45.640 --> 0:25:50.879
<v Speaker 1>job along way a lot of others. But for the

0:25:50.920 --> 0:25:53.240
<v Speaker 1>most part, and we already know we don't get married

0:25:53.880 --> 0:25:56.080
<v Speaker 1>at the same rate as other groups of people. So

0:25:56.119 --> 0:25:58.960
<v Speaker 1>we just want to dissect some of this stuff. And um,

0:25:59.600 --> 0:26:02.040
<v Speaker 1>we wan't talk about it. So what do you think?

0:26:02.280 --> 0:26:06.040
<v Speaker 1>Do you think do you think poor people uh get

0:26:06.119 --> 0:26:09.680
<v Speaker 1>married for love as opposed to more affluent people possibly

0:26:09.720 --> 0:26:12.280
<v Speaker 1>married getting married like for real, because it's like a

0:26:12.320 --> 0:26:16.760
<v Speaker 1>business transaction. Well, based on your definition of poor people,

0:26:16.800 --> 0:26:20.119
<v Speaker 1>that's all I know. So I can't really answer the

0:26:20.280 --> 0:26:25.000
<v Speaker 1>question because I don't know nobody else these niggas is

0:26:25.000 --> 0:26:27.399
<v Speaker 1>getting married. So I'm gonna go with, yeah, they getting

0:26:27.400 --> 0:26:35.720
<v Speaker 1>married for love, bored enough, fluid? I don't know, so

0:26:36.240 --> 0:26:41.760
<v Speaker 1>I think that uh maybe people with lower income I

0:26:41.800 --> 0:26:44.520
<v Speaker 1>don't want to say poor people, but it's funny, Okay,

0:26:44.520 --> 0:26:50.000
<v Speaker 1>it is funny. People and lord income brackets oftentimes stay

0:26:50.040 --> 0:26:54.040
<v Speaker 1>together long good because of necessity. Um, they stay together

0:26:54.080 --> 0:26:58.080
<v Speaker 1>out of necessity, maybe obligations. You already have kids, you

0:26:58.119 --> 0:27:01.359
<v Speaker 1>start accumulating things like how even if we can just

0:27:01.400 --> 0:27:03.840
<v Speaker 1>talk about people who, um you own a home, like

0:27:03.840 --> 0:27:07.200
<v Speaker 1>say for ends, you median income people right right now

0:27:07.359 --> 0:27:12.440
<v Speaker 1>we know that millionaires. That's the middle class now. So really,

0:27:12.440 --> 0:27:15.080
<v Speaker 1>if you don't have I want to say ship, if

0:27:15.080 --> 0:27:16.879
<v Speaker 1>you an't got two million dollars, man, you might be

0:27:16.920 --> 0:27:19.000
<v Speaker 1>struggling out here. You see how much gasses we just

0:27:19.040 --> 0:27:22.560
<v Speaker 1>talked about it. The median rent this summer is supposed

0:27:22.520 --> 0:27:26.240
<v Speaker 1>to be going up to two. I literally literally looked

0:27:26.240 --> 0:27:29.359
<v Speaker 1>at a place in Charlotte one night. I woke up

0:27:29.359 --> 0:27:33.040
<v Speaker 1>the next morning and the ship was like five dollars

0:27:33.040 --> 0:27:40.200
<v Speaker 1>more for rank I don't like. Okay, yeah, so how

0:27:40.240 --> 0:27:43.000
<v Speaker 1>are people surviving? We're gonna have to start getting married

0:27:44.400 --> 0:27:48.480
<v Speaker 1>for love, look not for love either. You better find

0:27:48.520 --> 0:27:51.560
<v Speaker 1>you a partner. But see, this world is based on

0:27:51.640 --> 0:27:54.639
<v Speaker 1>double occupancy if you think about it. Year. So you're

0:27:54.720 --> 0:27:58.240
<v Speaker 1>great great grandma. Did she get married for love or

0:27:58.240 --> 0:28:04.080
<v Speaker 1>did she get married for secure d someone to take

0:28:04.119 --> 0:28:08.159
<v Speaker 1>care of the family. I would lean more towards security.

0:28:08.359 --> 0:28:11.560
<v Speaker 1>Even then when when a lot more people didn't have

0:28:11.600 --> 0:28:15.240
<v Speaker 1>as much resources, I would lean more towards security. She

0:28:15.400 --> 0:28:19.720
<v Speaker 1>definitely stayed for security too, right because great Granddad and

0:28:19.800 --> 0:28:21.760
<v Speaker 1>might have had a whole another family down the street.

0:28:22.240 --> 0:28:26.720
<v Speaker 1>The great grandma knew about. That's for niggas with that check.

0:28:26.880 --> 0:28:30.880
<v Speaker 1>Cheating is not for a regular men, Okay, Like it's

0:28:30.920 --> 0:28:34.160
<v Speaker 1>just not. So don't come talking about the godda polygamy. Boy,

0:28:34.200 --> 0:28:37.280
<v Speaker 1>you don't make enough. Let me ask you this, both

0:28:37.320 --> 0:28:40.240
<v Speaker 1>of us being uh in our thirties somewhere in there,

0:28:42.600 --> 0:28:49.760
<v Speaker 1>do you feel like you you're not married because of Well,

0:28:49.960 --> 0:28:51.360
<v Speaker 1>let me just ask you, why do you feel like

0:28:51.400 --> 0:28:55.800
<v Speaker 1>you aren't married? I don't want to speculate. UM, So

0:28:55.880 --> 0:28:57.840
<v Speaker 1>I've talked about it before I was engaged, but I

0:28:57.880 --> 0:29:02.280
<v Speaker 1>didn't get engaged until what thirty five? Um, I feel

0:29:02.280 --> 0:29:04.240
<v Speaker 1>like I could have been married earlier on in life.

0:29:04.240 --> 0:29:08.120
<v Speaker 1>But I think UM, partner selection is always very important.

0:29:08.320 --> 0:29:09.920
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying to people that you allowed

0:29:09.960 --> 0:29:15.080
<v Speaker 1>to have access to you probably weren't on UM. Marriage.

0:29:15.840 --> 0:29:18.120
<v Speaker 1>We we know just based on the conversations we see

0:29:18.120 --> 0:29:21.920
<v Speaker 1>online amongst black men and women. Marriage is not like

0:29:22.080 --> 0:29:25.200
<v Speaker 1>at the top of people's list, especially black men. I

0:29:25.240 --> 0:29:28.480
<v Speaker 1>don't think UM. So you have to get with a

0:29:28.560 --> 0:29:31.800
<v Speaker 1>marriage minded person. So if you spend so much time

0:29:31.920 --> 0:29:35.200
<v Speaker 1>just dating, being boyfriend and girlfriend with somebody who wasn't

0:29:35.240 --> 0:29:39.080
<v Speaker 1>marriage minded, you wake up five years later and you

0:29:39.120 --> 0:29:43.240
<v Speaker 1>ain't married. Relationships our and now you're moving on to

0:29:43.360 --> 0:29:46.560
<v Speaker 1>the next. So I feel like that that's been my case.

0:29:46.600 --> 0:29:48.120
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I could have been married had I

0:29:48.160 --> 0:29:52.480
<v Speaker 1>picked a different person um as opposed to people I

0:29:52.520 --> 0:29:55.120
<v Speaker 1>picked when I was in relationships earlier on, Like in

0:29:55.160 --> 0:29:57.360
<v Speaker 1>my mid twenties, I would say I could have been

0:29:57.360 --> 0:30:00.000
<v Speaker 1>married because I knew some men who were marriage minded,

0:30:00.000 --> 0:30:03.200
<v Speaker 1>but I didn't choose them for me. It's a little

0:30:03.200 --> 0:30:06.080
<v Speaker 1>bit different. I think. I don't know what's happened to me,

0:30:06.360 --> 0:30:10.000
<v Speaker 1>But around twenty the thought I was turned into a

0:30:10.040 --> 0:30:13.360
<v Speaker 1>whole nigga, and like the thought of marriage was like

0:30:14.240 --> 0:30:17.200
<v Speaker 1>one person for the rest of my life. I can't

0:30:17.200 --> 0:30:26.840
<v Speaker 1>breathe one stroke, the only stroke forever. And yes I

0:30:26.920 --> 0:30:29.280
<v Speaker 1>have panic attack. I couldn't like the thought of marriage

0:30:29.320 --> 0:30:33.000
<v Speaker 1>was just like scary to me. Like I just didn't

0:30:33.080 --> 0:30:36.280
<v Speaker 1>see myself with I didn't aspire to that at all.

0:30:36.320 --> 0:30:41.040
<v Speaker 1>I aspired to money and career and experiences, but not

0:30:41.960 --> 0:30:47.000
<v Speaker 1>marriage as like you. Right, So I can say, like

0:30:47.040 --> 0:30:49.040
<v Speaker 1>I said outside, I know I knew men who were

0:30:49.080 --> 0:30:50.840
<v Speaker 1>marriage minded, but at the same race, the same thing

0:30:50.880 --> 0:30:53.880
<v Speaker 1>you just said. I chased money my my entire twenties,

0:30:54.640 --> 0:30:58.360
<v Speaker 1>and it's kind of hustling backwards. Um. And that's why

0:30:58.400 --> 0:31:01.320
<v Speaker 1>before the break, I was saying how black women need

0:31:01.320 --> 0:31:04.560
<v Speaker 1>to date more like our our white counterparts. They're dating

0:31:05.160 --> 0:31:07.680
<v Speaker 1>like their parents allowed them to date in their twenties

0:31:07.680 --> 0:31:10.000
<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that. You know what I'm saying. Usually

0:31:10.040 --> 0:31:12.240
<v Speaker 1>black women we start dating in college. Like college you

0:31:12.320 --> 0:31:14.640
<v Speaker 1>might have been even if you had were having sex

0:31:14.720 --> 0:31:20.440
<v Speaker 1>before college, you didn't really start like dating and um juggling.

0:31:20.480 --> 0:31:23.040
<v Speaker 1>Men like to figure out what did these women start

0:31:23.080 --> 0:31:25.440
<v Speaker 1>earlier in life? So they go to college and they

0:31:25.480 --> 0:31:28.760
<v Speaker 1>come up with a degree and a ring. We don't

0:31:28.800 --> 0:31:33.280
<v Speaker 1>put the emphasis on um marriage as much as our

0:31:34.640 --> 0:31:38.360
<v Speaker 1>white counterparts. We tell black girls to go to college,

0:31:38.400 --> 0:31:41.360
<v Speaker 1>get your education because you can't depend on a man

0:31:42.520 --> 0:31:46.560
<v Speaker 1>is what young girls are told. Mm hmm. And then

0:31:46.600 --> 0:31:49.680
<v Speaker 1>you have attachment issues to the wrong man when you

0:31:49.680 --> 0:31:53.640
<v Speaker 1>do start dating later. You know, because I was dating

0:31:53.640 --> 0:31:57.360
<v Speaker 1>in college, I was dating it would be nice boys

0:31:57.400 --> 0:31:59.640
<v Speaker 1>from the Islands who are really smart in school that

0:31:59.840 --> 0:32:02.080
<v Speaker 1>was just in love with me. But no, who I'm

0:32:02.080 --> 0:32:09.160
<v Speaker 1>with the dope boy stupid because he's driving a Cadillac

0:32:09.240 --> 0:32:13.400
<v Speaker 1>truck with me. And then went to present and now

0:32:13.440 --> 0:32:17.640
<v Speaker 1>that nice, that nice uh island boy is probably somewhere

0:32:17.680 --> 0:32:23.680
<v Speaker 1>with his own practice somewhere. Shame on me. Yep, that

0:32:23.680 --> 0:32:25.800
<v Speaker 1>that do that boat, that do be that bullshit. But

0:32:25.840 --> 0:32:27.680
<v Speaker 1>that's the importance of dating. So you and then you

0:32:27.720 --> 0:32:30.440
<v Speaker 1>have to also have guidance from your your mom. But

0:32:30.480 --> 0:32:32.480
<v Speaker 1>if nobody ever talked to her about anything, how you

0:32:32.480 --> 0:32:35.800
<v Speaker 1>gonna talk to you about it? Yeah, So this past weekend,

0:32:35.840 --> 0:32:37.440
<v Speaker 1>one thing I did do is I have a sixteen

0:32:37.520 --> 0:32:43.520
<v Speaker 1>year old niece. She's she's uh, um, you know, going

0:32:43.560 --> 0:32:49.960
<v Speaker 1>in eleventh grade. Um, she's taking college courses. She's very very,

0:32:50.160 --> 0:32:54.880
<v Speaker 1>very very smart. The boy she's dating has dropped out

0:32:54.880 --> 0:33:00.200
<v Speaker 1>of high school mhm. And I was trying to have

0:33:00.240 --> 0:33:03.920
<v Speaker 1>a serious conversation with her about her future because nobody

0:33:04.000 --> 0:33:07.440
<v Speaker 1>ever did that for me. Of course she's sexually active

0:33:07.520 --> 0:33:10.080
<v Speaker 1>all that ship. The worst thing that could possibly happen

0:33:10.200 --> 0:33:12.080
<v Speaker 1>is that you get pregnant and then now you gotta

0:33:12.120 --> 0:33:17.920
<v Speaker 1>get married for love. Mm hmm. That's bullshit. At sixteen,

0:33:19.160 --> 0:33:21.760
<v Speaker 1>somebody needs to be like talking to you and trying

0:33:21.760 --> 0:33:24.120
<v Speaker 1>to help you get some type of blueprint on what

0:33:24.160 --> 0:33:25.920
<v Speaker 1>to do, like when you get to college, because you

0:33:26.000 --> 0:33:27.880
<v Speaker 1>never know, you don't know what you want to do. Really,

0:33:28.040 --> 0:33:30.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to. I still have that little fairy

0:33:30.400 --> 0:33:32.840
<v Speaker 1>tale in my soul about marrying for love too. I

0:33:32.920 --> 0:33:38.480
<v Speaker 1>don't want to, like just say, don't marry still love,

0:33:38.560 --> 0:33:45.200
<v Speaker 1>don't marry just for security, right, But I know no, absolutely,

0:33:45.240 --> 0:33:50.000
<v Speaker 1>But I'm leaning towards more so of maybe finding somebody

0:33:50.000 --> 0:33:53.440
<v Speaker 1>that's equally your yoke, because because what I told her

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:56.480
<v Speaker 1>was this guy you currently dating, you're gonna be taking

0:33:56.520 --> 0:33:59.680
<v Speaker 1>care of him nine times I attend if you stay

0:33:59.720 --> 0:34:02.920
<v Speaker 1>in him, m hmm, you'll be taking care of him.

0:34:02.960 --> 0:34:06.160
<v Speaker 1>You'll you'll probably not go away to college and do

0:34:06.160 --> 0:34:07.920
<v Speaker 1>the things that you should have been doing because of

0:34:07.960 --> 0:34:14.319
<v Speaker 1>love for him. Right, You're gonna start um just just

0:34:14.400 --> 0:34:19.040
<v Speaker 1>being a dumb bitch. Okay, let's be clear, just being

0:34:19.040 --> 0:34:21.520
<v Speaker 1>a dumb bitch for the wrong person, and we oftentimes

0:34:21.520 --> 0:34:25.200
<v Speaker 1>stay in relationships way past the expiration date. And I

0:34:25.239 --> 0:34:28.680
<v Speaker 1>don't want that for her, But at sixteen, I feel

0:34:28.680 --> 0:34:31.800
<v Speaker 1>like somebody should have those conversations with young women. Alright.

0:34:31.840 --> 0:34:35.040
<v Speaker 1>So I have a friend who married a man who

0:34:35.200 --> 0:34:39.440
<v Speaker 1>wasn't as successful or ambitious as her from the from

0:34:39.480 --> 0:34:43.720
<v Speaker 1>the jump right, and then uh, ten years they have kids.

0:34:44.160 --> 0:34:48.520
<v Speaker 1>Years later, she ended up leaving him because he wasn't

0:34:49.920 --> 0:34:54.799
<v Speaker 1>what she wanted financially, he never reached the potential she

0:34:54.920 --> 0:34:57.920
<v Speaker 1>may have seen in him. But then after a few

0:34:58.000 --> 0:35:01.640
<v Speaker 1>years out here in these streets, she went back to him,

0:35:01.680 --> 0:35:04.080
<v Speaker 1>and they're happiest two little peas in the pot now

0:35:04.120 --> 0:35:07.960
<v Speaker 1>because she had to let go of that expectation because

0:35:08.000 --> 0:35:10.359
<v Speaker 1>they are doing well with her, you know, with her

0:35:10.400 --> 0:35:14.480
<v Speaker 1>doing well, they are doing well, so and she happier

0:35:14.520 --> 0:35:17.240
<v Speaker 1>than a lot of people I know in her marriage.

0:35:17.760 --> 0:35:19.960
<v Speaker 1>So it's a slippery slope when it comes to like

0:35:20.239 --> 0:35:25.040
<v Speaker 1>giving that advice. I don't know, like, you know what,

0:35:25.040 --> 0:35:30.480
<v Speaker 1>what what's more important? Could you be happy with less? Now?

0:35:30.560 --> 0:35:32.200
<v Speaker 1>You know? You like to play that little game we

0:35:32.239 --> 0:35:34.440
<v Speaker 1>have guests on would you want to be? What's the

0:35:34.520 --> 0:35:38.840
<v Speaker 1>question you'd be asking happy and happy and rich happy

0:35:38.880 --> 0:35:46.880
<v Speaker 1>and broke or Richard said, yeah, right, which one for you?

0:35:46.880 --> 0:35:51.879
<v Speaker 1>You see the title of this ship Richard Richard Richard

0:35:52.000 --> 0:35:54.960
<v Speaker 1>sad because I feel like you're not gonna be sad forever.

0:35:55.200 --> 0:35:57.880
<v Speaker 1>You can grow to love your partner, you know what

0:35:57.880 --> 0:35:59.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. Like, there's also the saying that the man

0:36:00.080 --> 0:36:01.920
<v Speaker 1>has to love a woman more in order for the

0:36:01.920 --> 0:36:04.840
<v Speaker 1>relationship to work. I know you've heard that. I really

0:36:04.840 --> 0:36:07.480
<v Speaker 1>feel like it's hard to find two people that are

0:36:07.640 --> 0:36:11.160
<v Speaker 1>simultaneously in love the same amount at the same time.

0:36:11.719 --> 0:36:15.919
<v Speaker 1>That's really rare, right, So usually like somebody's loving on

0:36:15.960 --> 0:36:20.160
<v Speaker 1>somebody more. It's always somebody who's chasing who's always there.

0:36:20.960 --> 0:36:22.719
<v Speaker 1>But they can go back and forth, and I think

0:36:22.760 --> 0:36:26.440
<v Speaker 1>that's healthy for it to go back and forth. Yeah, yeah,

0:36:26.520 --> 0:36:28.359
<v Speaker 1>because being in love is nothing more than a state

0:36:28.400 --> 0:36:30.640
<v Speaker 1>of mind. So every day you gotta do ship to

0:36:31.000 --> 0:36:33.360
<v Speaker 1>fall in love and stay in love with the person

0:36:33.400 --> 0:36:37.120
<v Speaker 1>you with, or you've fallen out of love. That's just it, right,

0:36:37.200 --> 0:36:39.840
<v Speaker 1>because I mean, you really have to convince yourself sometimes

0:36:39.840 --> 0:36:43.839
<v Speaker 1>that you're in live with somebody, Like you can talk

0:36:43.920 --> 0:36:47.040
<v Speaker 1>yourself into loving somebody in your head, right, all right,

0:36:47.160 --> 0:36:53.680
<v Speaker 1>So and money makes that conversation with yourself easier the

0:36:53.840 --> 0:36:58.399
<v Speaker 1>fuck it makes it that conversation easy, like you think.

0:36:58.440 --> 0:37:01.520
<v Speaker 1>Be okay, let's look at Beyonce and jay Z. All right,

0:37:01.880 --> 0:37:04.080
<v Speaker 1>we know jay Z that nigga, Like who else Beyonce

0:37:04.200 --> 0:37:05.839
<v Speaker 1>is supposed to be with? But Beyonce could have been

0:37:05.880 --> 0:37:09.200
<v Speaker 1>with a plethora of other men who are the same

0:37:09.239 --> 0:37:12.719
<v Speaker 1>caliber man as jay Z. Right, but this is the

0:37:12.760 --> 0:37:15.120
<v Speaker 1>person she chose to build that life with. And of

0:37:15.160 --> 0:37:18.240
<v Speaker 1>course both of them, you know, both of them have money.

0:37:18.280 --> 0:37:21.440
<v Speaker 1>But come on, man, if jay Z don't have that money,

0:37:21.440 --> 0:37:25.440
<v Speaker 1>would Beyonce be with him? Would that be who she

0:37:25.600 --> 0:37:30.400
<v Speaker 1>chose to be her life partner? We don't know. We

0:37:30.440 --> 0:37:32.560
<v Speaker 1>don't know. Jay Z might have been like doing an

0:37:32.600 --> 0:37:43.960
<v Speaker 1>oil change at the Jiffy Loup for Beyonce. St Yeah,

0:37:44.080 --> 0:37:50.200
<v Speaker 1>he was pumping their car up. She's like nigga, Like, yes,

0:37:50.360 --> 0:37:52.600
<v Speaker 1>I like dirty niggas. I like niggas who work on

0:37:52.719 --> 0:37:55.480
<v Speaker 1>cars and ship Just wash your hand before the dirt.

0:38:00.280 --> 0:38:03.000
<v Speaker 1>What you mean, not like dirty niggas like hygiene bad,

0:38:03.080 --> 0:38:05.239
<v Speaker 1>but just like men who do things with their hands, Like,

0:38:05.680 --> 0:38:07.200
<v Speaker 1>don't be asking me if I know how to cook?

0:38:07.400 --> 0:38:09.239
<v Speaker 1>Do you know how to build nigga, because I like

0:38:09.320 --> 0:38:13.400
<v Speaker 1>men who could put my goddamn I don't know do stuff.

0:38:14.120 --> 0:38:17.720
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that too. The guy I was dealing with before,

0:38:17.880 --> 0:38:21.000
<v Speaker 1>like he came and put my bed together, and that

0:38:21.120 --> 0:38:23.319
<v Speaker 1>she was making my pussy with just watching them in

0:38:23.360 --> 0:38:28.319
<v Speaker 1>there with them tools. I was like, alright, let's try

0:38:28.360 --> 0:38:36.960
<v Speaker 1>it out. Let's see if it works right, nigga, can

0:38:37.040 --> 0:38:41.560
<v Speaker 1>you put up some drywall? Let's add onto this goddamn house. Yeah.

0:38:41.719 --> 0:38:46.879
<v Speaker 1>So okay, what I want people to think about so again, UM,

0:38:46.920 --> 0:38:51.479
<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to trying to offend people, um, because

0:38:51.520 --> 0:38:54.880
<v Speaker 1>I am people. I'm people. But let's let's let's just

0:38:54.920 --> 0:39:00.320
<v Speaker 1>think about arranged marriages for a second and how fluent

0:39:00.440 --> 0:39:05.720
<v Speaker 1>families pair people together. Um, Like I asked you earlier

0:39:05.760 --> 0:39:08.400
<v Speaker 1>to Tammy, do you think that women who are in

0:39:09.080 --> 0:39:13.000
<v Speaker 1>fraternities and sorority I'm sorry, women who are in sororities

0:39:13.719 --> 0:39:18.640
<v Speaker 1>are more than likely to be married. The network, the connections,

0:39:18.680 --> 0:39:22.440
<v Speaker 1>the places you put yourself. You know what I'm saying,

0:39:22.480 --> 0:39:25.200
<v Speaker 1>Like more likely? Yeah, I agree, they're more likely to

0:39:25.239 --> 0:39:28.640
<v Speaker 1>be married, they're more likely to be successful. Um. And

0:39:28.680 --> 0:39:31.200
<v Speaker 1>so then when you think about like families and how people.

0:39:32.239 --> 0:39:34.480
<v Speaker 1>I think we might need to for the Black community

0:39:34.560 --> 0:39:36.120
<v Speaker 1>to get to where we need to be, like how

0:39:36.160 --> 0:39:39.719
<v Speaker 1>we were in the early eighteen hundreds nine hundreds, We

0:39:39.800 --> 0:39:44.400
<v Speaker 1>may need to get back to arranged marriages. So basically,

0:39:44.400 --> 0:39:48.600
<v Speaker 1>we need to be poor again, poor earth. We already poor,

0:39:51.680 --> 0:39:55.000
<v Speaker 1>but we need to be pairing with people who we

0:39:55.280 --> 0:39:59.720
<v Speaker 1>are more equally yoked with. But in the black community,

0:39:59.760 --> 0:40:02.719
<v Speaker 1>we are already know that Black women catch so much

0:40:02.760 --> 0:40:07.600
<v Speaker 1>heat for practicing hypergamy, for wanting to funk up and

0:40:07.640 --> 0:40:12.040
<v Speaker 1>set it down. We catch so much heat. But you

0:40:12.160 --> 0:40:16.160
<v Speaker 1>men would not be okay with your daughters bringing home

0:40:16.200 --> 0:40:21.399
<v Speaker 1>a man who can't take care of him. Yeah, y'are

0:40:21.440 --> 0:40:26.399
<v Speaker 1>not okay with that. Who's just because she loved him.

0:40:27.080 --> 0:40:30.480
<v Speaker 1>I love him, Daddy, I love him. He'll got no education,

0:40:30.560 --> 0:40:32.120
<v Speaker 1>he ain't got no car, he comes from a fun

0:40:32.239 --> 0:40:34.600
<v Speaker 1>up family. These are the things that we need to

0:40:34.640 --> 0:40:40.640
<v Speaker 1>be looking at for our children, absolutely, in order to

0:40:40.719 --> 0:40:45.560
<v Speaker 1>birth more successful families. There's no generational wealth with funk that.

0:40:45.640 --> 0:40:48.319
<v Speaker 1>With no family like, you can't build generational wealth if

0:40:48.320 --> 0:40:51.960
<v Speaker 1>nobody is focusing on getting married and actually building together,

0:40:53.480 --> 0:40:58.400
<v Speaker 1>we just can't. I agree, I agree. So you you

0:40:58.440 --> 0:41:02.200
<v Speaker 1>want a husband now? I always want a husband. Listen

0:41:02.960 --> 0:41:05.080
<v Speaker 1>pulled some on the up or it's grammed the other day,

0:41:05.120 --> 0:41:09.839
<v Speaker 1>like ship, Who's next? Go go go? Like like who

0:41:09.880 --> 0:41:12.759
<v Speaker 1>the funk is next? Because I love being in love.

0:41:12.960 --> 0:41:15.279
<v Speaker 1>I love love like I like the beginning stages and

0:41:15.440 --> 0:41:18.760
<v Speaker 1>all that ship like, yeah, I'm for that. Of course

0:41:18.760 --> 0:41:22.400
<v Speaker 1>I want to be married. You know, I'm starting to

0:41:22.520 --> 0:41:27.160
<v Speaker 1>envision myself. I just see like this big long walk away.

0:41:27.719 --> 0:41:30.319
<v Speaker 1>Then I'm going down in this beautiful dress and there's

0:41:30.320 --> 0:41:32.239
<v Speaker 1>a man standing way down there waiting on me. But

0:41:32.360 --> 0:41:34.720
<v Speaker 1>I can't see his face. I can't see his face

0:41:34.760 --> 0:41:37.120
<v Speaker 1>in this vision, right, but I can see it. It's

0:41:37.120 --> 0:41:40.440
<v Speaker 1>an outdoor wear. But and I and I've dreamt of it.

0:41:40.680 --> 0:41:43.120
<v Speaker 1>But I also might have been watching Mary at First

0:41:43.120 --> 0:41:45.560
<v Speaker 1>Sight the night that I dreamt of it. And that's

0:41:45.560 --> 0:41:48.120
<v Speaker 1>how that ship was that was on your psyche when

0:41:48.120 --> 0:41:49.960
<v Speaker 1>you went to sleep. Yes, I don't know if it

0:41:50.040 --> 0:41:51.680
<v Speaker 1>was me or one of the bitches for the show,

0:41:51.719 --> 0:41:54.200
<v Speaker 1>but I think it was me and in my vision.

0:41:54.239 --> 0:41:57.200
<v Speaker 1>But I do inspire to marriage. But I do still

0:41:57.239 --> 0:42:00.840
<v Speaker 1>have my fears. I have my fears about making a person,

0:42:03.440 --> 0:42:08.120
<v Speaker 1>like picking one person. It's it's that's so scary to

0:42:08.160 --> 0:42:10.560
<v Speaker 1>me like picking one nigger and saying, I want to

0:42:10.600 --> 0:42:15.759
<v Speaker 1>be with you and just you forever. Okay, then you

0:42:15.800 --> 0:42:17.880
<v Speaker 1>can pick one person and then y'all can have Like

0:42:17.960 --> 0:42:20.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, we talked about open marriage all the time,

0:42:20.360 --> 0:42:23.040
<v Speaker 1>but the idea for marriage is like if you do

0:42:23.080 --> 0:42:25.960
<v Speaker 1>it earlier on in life, because like the white girls,

0:42:25.960 --> 0:42:28.520
<v Speaker 1>they go from their daddy house to their husband's house,

0:42:29.160 --> 0:42:31.200
<v Speaker 1>they have all these assets, at least if they do

0:42:31.280 --> 0:42:34.040
<v Speaker 1>get the voice, there's assets at the end of it.

0:42:34.920 --> 0:42:37.719
<v Speaker 1>Poor people don't have no assets starting and they oftentimes

0:42:37.719 --> 0:42:41.640
<v Speaker 1>don't have none in the end. Right, So we're gonn

0:42:41.640 --> 0:42:44.279
<v Speaker 1>applying the white board people too, because I know someone

0:42:45.120 --> 0:42:49.520
<v Speaker 1>through the same ship. Absolutely, I think it's it's more

0:42:49.560 --> 0:42:55.520
<v Speaker 1>a poor thing than a black and white thing, honestly, Yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:42:55.560 --> 0:42:58.920
<v Speaker 1>but we were mostly the poor ones in American Fortunately,

0:43:01.160 --> 0:43:03.719
<v Speaker 1>there's definitely some poor white people, but for the most part,

0:43:04.000 --> 0:43:09.920
<v Speaker 1>we Yeah, so we could pare up with better people.

0:43:11.080 --> 0:43:14.759
<v Speaker 1>What about what about dating outside of So I had

0:43:14.760 --> 0:43:17.000
<v Speaker 1>a psychic tell me last week. She asked me, did

0:43:17.040 --> 0:43:20.400
<v Speaker 1>I ever consider dating outside of my race? Because she

0:43:20.480 --> 0:43:22.960
<v Speaker 1>saw she had a vision of me with the one

0:43:23.000 --> 0:43:28.480
<v Speaker 1>that was non black or mixed race, and I was

0:43:28.680 --> 0:43:33.239
<v Speaker 1>very happy, and I was like me and she's like, yes,

0:43:34.360 --> 0:43:36.480
<v Speaker 1>I just don't see how I'm gonna be happy without

0:43:36.520 --> 0:43:38.839
<v Speaker 1>no black dick. But we're gonna see what happened. Well,

0:43:38.920 --> 0:43:43.080
<v Speaker 1>she black her way, she was black who she married too,

0:43:43.080 --> 0:43:46.560
<v Speaker 1>because sounds like she could also be like she wasn't married,

0:43:46.680 --> 0:43:52.160
<v Speaker 1>she's not married. Interesting, I don't know who she ain't projecting. Yeah,

0:43:54.400 --> 0:43:58.399
<v Speaker 1>it was crazy to me, girl, get your ass back.

0:43:58.400 --> 0:43:59.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't even know if I believe in that. She

0:44:02.040 --> 0:44:08.560
<v Speaker 1>So I read this article and it said that, um,

0:44:08.680 --> 0:44:13.160
<v Speaker 1>the people who get divorced the most, like at the

0:44:13.200 --> 0:44:17.640
<v Speaker 1>top of the list, the highest divorce rate um are

0:44:18.200 --> 0:44:23.279
<v Speaker 1>for dancers with an average income of twenty dollars a year,

0:44:23.480 --> 0:44:29.560
<v Speaker 1>So that would be on the lower income. Yeah a

0:44:29.680 --> 0:44:34.880
<v Speaker 1>year where your strip This bitch is working at raised

0:44:34.880 --> 0:44:39.080
<v Speaker 1>boot boolroom man the barbecue. It might be a barbecue

0:44:39.160 --> 0:44:43.839
<v Speaker 1>slash slash strip club in fucking barn somewhere. Girl, it's

0:44:43.880 --> 0:44:46.880
<v Speaker 1>a it's a seafood market in Charleston. It's a strip

0:44:46.920 --> 0:44:52.560
<v Speaker 1>club in the back at that seafood market. Where is this?

0:44:53.680 --> 0:44:59.120
<v Speaker 1>And Charleston's firstly food? Are they fresh seafood? And they

0:44:59.200 --> 0:45:02.400
<v Speaker 1>cook seafood in there? Get fish however you wanted in

0:45:02.480 --> 0:45:14.320
<v Speaker 1>this bitch raw fried and wronging. God damn, I wouldn't

0:45:14.360 --> 0:45:16.200
<v Speaker 1>if I were a strip I'm not working in the

0:45:16.239 --> 0:45:18.680
<v Speaker 1>back like Okay, it's not in the same building, but

0:45:18.719 --> 0:45:22.759
<v Speaker 1>it's connected though. It's like you know, they got a duplex,

0:45:22.840 --> 0:45:31.120
<v Speaker 1>like next to the Snapple the next door down is

0:45:31.160 --> 0:45:33.319
<v Speaker 1>a strip club. Like I'm not working in the back

0:45:33.400 --> 0:45:36.680
<v Speaker 1>of a seafood market. If I'm a stripping dog, it's

0:45:36.760 --> 0:45:42.040
<v Speaker 1>me the field walk ahead, like the smells funnier here.

0:45:42.200 --> 0:45:48.479
<v Speaker 1>Like you don't know what your money is? Who is it? Um?

0:45:48.560 --> 0:45:54.360
<v Speaker 1>Bartenders are up next? Uh, massage therapists, gaming, cage workers.

0:45:55.080 --> 0:45:57.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what that is. So these are all

0:45:57.040 --> 0:45:59.520
<v Speaker 1>people who work in the industry where they flirt to

0:45:59.560 --> 0:46:06.360
<v Speaker 1>get money. Listen, Okay, that's about right, um, and it

0:46:06.480 --> 0:46:12.280
<v Speaker 1>prevents the professions. Uh with the lowest divorce rates are farmers, pediatrists,

0:46:12.640 --> 0:46:16.200
<v Speaker 1>clergy So that I mean that's leaning to wars. Maybe

0:46:16.239 --> 0:46:22.279
<v Speaker 1>the more money you have, Huh. I just had an epiphany, right,

0:46:25.040 --> 0:46:28.799
<v Speaker 1>So we know rich people get divorced too, but there's

0:46:28.880 --> 0:46:31.879
<v Speaker 1>more to lose and divorce when you have more money

0:46:32.040 --> 0:46:34.919
<v Speaker 1>because they maybe yes they be they may be more

0:46:34.960 --> 0:46:39.319
<v Speaker 1>likely to stay together because of money, while people with

0:46:39.480 --> 0:46:43.959
<v Speaker 1>less money break up because there's no money often time.

0:46:44.239 --> 0:46:50.880
<v Speaker 1>Who gives the fans that's it? They all got nothing

0:46:50.920 --> 0:46:52.840
<v Speaker 1>to lose, So why the hell am I here? Like

0:46:52.960 --> 0:46:57.400
<v Speaker 1>even when having a baby like okay, um another statistic

0:46:57.480 --> 0:47:00.680
<v Speaker 1>I read another article I read it basically was talking

0:47:00.719 --> 0:47:08.080
<v Speaker 1>about how um women in lower income communities like they

0:47:08.200 --> 0:47:12.520
<v Speaker 1>envisioned themselves being a mother, but they hardly envisioned themselves

0:47:12.520 --> 0:47:16.640
<v Speaker 1>as a wife being a wife because you know, they

0:47:16.680 --> 0:47:18.400
<v Speaker 1>know for sure that they can be a mother and

0:47:18.440 --> 0:47:22.240
<v Speaker 1>take care of the child, but being with somebody forever,

0:47:23.160 --> 0:47:27.959
<v Speaker 1>they can't see that. What we were just saying, So

0:47:28.560 --> 0:47:32.560
<v Speaker 1>is that more realistic when you have no money? Because

0:47:32.600 --> 0:47:35.640
<v Speaker 1>they do? Okay, So poor people get married less, right,

0:47:36.320 --> 0:47:38.879
<v Speaker 1>they get married less than people with money. They do,

0:47:39.400 --> 0:47:43.080
<v Speaker 1>but they have a more realistic outlook on marriage and

0:47:43.120 --> 0:47:47.680
<v Speaker 1>divorce than people with money. Is what the article is

0:47:48.120 --> 0:47:53.680
<v Speaker 1>basically insinuating. Wow, that's crazy. I ain't got nothing to

0:47:53.680 --> 0:47:57.680
<v Speaker 1>added that. I don't know what to say. All I

0:47:57.760 --> 0:48:07.520
<v Speaker 1>know is I didn't envision being mother either, though, like I,

0:48:07.520 --> 0:48:10.000
<v Speaker 1>I would like to think that I'm a relationship person

0:48:10.800 --> 0:48:13.680
<v Speaker 1>um and I just didn't choose the right relationships to

0:48:13.719 --> 0:48:18.120
<v Speaker 1>get what I want, you know what I'm saying. Um,

0:48:18.160 --> 0:48:20.440
<v Speaker 1>the older I get though, because now I got all

0:48:20.480 --> 0:48:24.080
<v Speaker 1>this experience and relationships I see like even you know,

0:48:24.200 --> 0:48:26.880
<v Speaker 1>with an open relationship. And to me again, it's just

0:48:26.920 --> 0:48:30.359
<v Speaker 1>open communication. Being able to tell my partner everything about me.

0:48:30.719 --> 0:48:33.680
<v Speaker 1>That's what's most important to me. Like being with somebody

0:48:33.719 --> 0:48:37.279
<v Speaker 1>that I can be myself completely with, Like I don't

0:48:37.320 --> 0:48:39.560
<v Speaker 1>have to even think twice about having a lie about

0:48:39.560 --> 0:48:42.000
<v Speaker 1>some ship. I could tell you exactly what it is

0:48:42.320 --> 0:48:44.399
<v Speaker 1>and give you the opportunity to decide if some ship

0:48:44.480 --> 0:48:46.080
<v Speaker 1>you want to funk with or not or not, and

0:48:46.080 --> 0:48:47.759
<v Speaker 1>then you could do the same, you know. For me,

0:48:48.440 --> 0:48:50.920
<v Speaker 1>that's that's what's more important to me now in a

0:48:51.080 --> 0:48:53.319
<v Speaker 1>in a union, and it doesn't necessarily have to be

0:48:53.360 --> 0:48:56.920
<v Speaker 1>an actual marriage. Um, I do want to get within

0:48:57.040 --> 0:49:00.279
<v Speaker 1>a dress, But do I want to find out some

0:49:00.320 --> 0:49:03.560
<v Speaker 1>paperwork with the government. No, we could be married in

0:49:03.600 --> 0:49:06.600
<v Speaker 1>the odds of the god, so you would have like,

0:49:06.840 --> 0:49:16.160
<v Speaker 1>uh marriage, that's just in your heart ship. What's old

0:49:16.200 --> 0:49:23.880
<v Speaker 1>girl from Loving Hip Hop New York? Um Yandy Yandy, Yeah,

0:49:24.840 --> 0:49:27.680
<v Speaker 1>Yandy and man DC, we're not married. Initially had that

0:49:27.760 --> 0:49:31.560
<v Speaker 1>whole uh ceremony on the show, and she said for

0:49:31.600 --> 0:49:34.640
<v Speaker 1>business purposes, it wasn't a good idea for her to

0:49:34.640 --> 0:49:38.000
<v Speaker 1>get married him, right, But it was because it was

0:49:38.040 --> 0:49:41.319
<v Speaker 1>about money and law and ship like that, and his

0:49:41.400 --> 0:49:44.520
<v Speaker 1>name being tied to her money. I feel like yes,

0:49:44.600 --> 0:49:49.520
<v Speaker 1>and him going to prison shortly thereafter. But I believe

0:49:49.600 --> 0:49:54.000
<v Speaker 1>I think they were just married, sir, h And why

0:49:54.040 --> 0:49:56.439
<v Speaker 1>not girl, if you'll just go get you a broom

0:49:56.520 --> 0:49:58.680
<v Speaker 1>and jump across that motherfucker at the house. Look, the

0:49:59.000 --> 0:50:01.279
<v Speaker 1>Bible actually said as you're sitting there, you'd be having

0:50:01.320 --> 0:50:04.080
<v Speaker 1>sex and and and fornicating and coming in a woman

0:50:04.120 --> 0:50:05.759
<v Speaker 1>and all that ship. That's your wife right there. A

0:50:05.800 --> 0:50:08.080
<v Speaker 1>lot of yall niggas out here about by four hundred

0:50:08.080 --> 0:50:11.879
<v Speaker 1>wives or didn't they say yeah, biblically they had four

0:50:11.920 --> 0:50:14.239
<v Speaker 1>hundred wives. Maybe he didn't have no ceremony with all

0:50:14.239 --> 0:50:19.759
<v Speaker 1>the women. It was just say, m you seem you

0:50:19.880 --> 0:50:30.080
<v Speaker 1>see he just is fucking yo. That is really wild.

0:50:30.120 --> 0:50:34.439
<v Speaker 1>I see. That's what I was talking about, perspective, That's

0:50:34.440 --> 0:50:39.480
<v Speaker 1>what I was talking Biblically. You're the same thing. You

0:50:39.560 --> 0:50:42.359
<v Speaker 1>had four hundred wives too, niggers, Just like how many

0:50:42.440 --> 0:50:49.480
<v Speaker 1>husbands you got, bitch two So you gotta multiply by

0:50:49.520 --> 0:50:57.920
<v Speaker 1>three two. Bitch, don't ask me that in front of

0:50:57.960 --> 0:51:03.920
<v Speaker 1>all these people. Let's go to a break so I

0:51:03.960 --> 0:51:05.840
<v Speaker 1>can because this bit y'all for asking to be that

0:51:06.000 --> 0:51:14.040
<v Speaker 1>in front of y'all. We'll be right back, all right, y'all,

0:51:14.120 --> 0:51:19.160
<v Speaker 1>So look this to sum the conversation up. Um, Yes

0:51:19.560 --> 0:51:23.080
<v Speaker 1>you can get married for love. Nine times. I often

0:51:23.200 --> 0:51:30.960
<v Speaker 1>you're broke. I just played, But definitely, yes, you can

0:51:31.000 --> 0:51:33.200
<v Speaker 1>get married for love. Rich people can get married for love.

0:51:33.239 --> 0:51:39.040
<v Speaker 1>Poor people can get married for love. But ultimately real

0:51:39.160 --> 0:51:42.719
<v Speaker 1>like real love is usually because uh, you don't have

0:51:42.760 --> 0:51:47.200
<v Speaker 1>anything else but love. There's nothing else keeping you with

0:51:47.239 --> 0:51:50.400
<v Speaker 1>this person. They ain't know goddamn cards, they don't know hous.

0:51:50.480 --> 0:51:54.160
<v Speaker 1>It's probably love and kids is what's keeping you in

0:51:54.239 --> 0:51:58.680
<v Speaker 1>this relationship as opposed to people more influent families. They

0:51:58.760 --> 0:52:04.200
<v Speaker 1>just got more shipped to lose when the family feuds. Okay, so,

0:52:04.560 --> 0:52:06.520
<v Speaker 1>and there's nothing wrong with that. I don't want y'all

0:52:06.560 --> 0:52:09.880
<v Speaker 1>to start, you know, in this show, feeling bad because

0:52:09.920 --> 0:52:11.480
<v Speaker 1>you don't have a lot of money and you love

0:52:11.520 --> 0:52:13.200
<v Speaker 1>a nigga who don't have a lot. Because y'all can

0:52:13.239 --> 0:52:16.480
<v Speaker 1>build together. And I want you to think that it's

0:52:16.560 --> 0:52:21.680
<v Speaker 1>anything wrong with being in love and being not affluent,

0:52:22.160 --> 0:52:25.440
<v Speaker 1>because you can grow to that, right absolutely, And I

0:52:25.440 --> 0:52:28.600
<v Speaker 1>mean it doesn't happen overnight either, But that's why Black

0:52:28.920 --> 0:52:31.080
<v Speaker 1>families we gotta at least start there. We gotta at

0:52:31.120 --> 0:52:35.040
<v Speaker 1>least start getting married again. And I really feel like

0:52:35.080 --> 0:52:38.320
<v Speaker 1>these fucking gas prices is gonna force that, because again,

0:52:38.440 --> 0:52:41.239
<v Speaker 1>it's double occupancy. This life is not meant for you

0:52:41.280 --> 0:52:43.600
<v Speaker 1>to be out here by yourself. You need a partner.

0:52:43.719 --> 0:52:46.480
<v Speaker 1>And the earlier you get that partner, even if y'all

0:52:46.520 --> 0:52:49.880
<v Speaker 1>do split, y'all got some ship to split, right, you

0:52:49.920 --> 0:52:52.160
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, You're not just starting from dust

0:52:52.680 --> 0:52:56.040
<v Speaker 1>when you do part if you've accumulated things earlier in life.

0:52:56.080 --> 0:52:58.880
<v Speaker 1>Because the twenty year old white girls they getting divorced

0:52:58.880 --> 0:53:01.719
<v Speaker 1>that thirty That's not what I'm saying. They're still getting divorced,

0:53:02.200 --> 0:53:05.880
<v Speaker 1>but they might have a little assets right after that divorce,

0:53:06.200 --> 0:53:07.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, just come out come out of it with

0:53:07.880 --> 0:53:10.760
<v Speaker 1>a baby. Black women we just be out head with babies,

0:53:12.960 --> 0:53:17.759
<v Speaker 1>and that's what we want to change. So let's work. Look, look,

0:53:17.880 --> 0:53:20.040
<v Speaker 1>is that the gist of it? Yeah, let's work on that.

0:53:20.680 --> 0:53:24.480
<v Speaker 1>Like did I clean that up? Enough to not offend anybody. Know,

0:53:25.200 --> 0:53:29.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's still many. Man, They're gonna be in

0:53:29.680 --> 0:53:33.400
<v Speaker 1>the reviews next week. These bitches just keep saying ship

0:53:33.440 --> 0:53:38.800
<v Speaker 1>with no facts. The fact is your mama singer mama.

0:53:38.840 --> 0:53:41.400
<v Speaker 1>My mama wasn't single mama, toad mom wasn't a single mama. Like,

0:53:41.480 --> 0:53:44.279
<v Speaker 1>this is a ship. This is a facts. Okay, these

0:53:44.280 --> 0:53:46.960
<v Speaker 1>are fucking facts. Okay. I don't need to read it

0:53:47.000 --> 0:53:50.920
<v Speaker 1>somewhere or give y'all a goddamn um link. A matter

0:53:50.920 --> 0:53:52.680
<v Speaker 1>of fact, I'm gonna start doing that. I'm gonna start

0:53:52.719 --> 0:53:55.000
<v Speaker 1>citing my resources for y'all holes, because I'm sick. Because

0:53:55.000 --> 0:53:57.040
<v Speaker 1>we do research this ship, y'all. We don't just be

0:53:57.080 --> 0:53:59.600
<v Speaker 1>out here just saying what we think we do like,

0:53:59.640 --> 0:54:03.040
<v Speaker 1>we do research it. So yeah, but then then the

0:54:03.120 --> 0:54:06.399
<v Speaker 1>thing with Google is, Okay, let's say I have a theory, right,

0:54:06.400 --> 0:54:08.920
<v Speaker 1>somebody else has a theory. There's gonna be supporting evidence

0:54:08.960 --> 0:54:14.000
<v Speaker 1>on Google. Yes, So it's just a perspective. Eat the meat,

0:54:14.080 --> 0:54:15.920
<v Speaker 1>spit the bones out. That's what y'all need to do.

0:54:15.960 --> 0:54:19.279
<v Speaker 1>What we talked back, Thank you. Period. Let's go into

0:54:19.280 --> 0:54:23.600
<v Speaker 1>them dumb bitch stories for these dumb bitches, Okay, dumb

0:54:23.600 --> 0:54:27.880
<v Speaker 1>bitch stories, because we've all in a dumb bitch at

0:54:27.960 --> 0:54:31.920
<v Speaker 1>least once or twice. I have one that was sitting

0:54:31.920 --> 0:54:35.440
<v Speaker 1>in it says, hey, ladies, man, I love y'all. We

0:54:35.560 --> 0:54:38.560
<v Speaker 1>love you too, Cairl, Yeah, girl, I feel like y'all

0:54:38.600 --> 0:54:41.880
<v Speaker 1>my sisters. Okay, so here's my story. I met this

0:54:41.960 --> 0:54:44.840
<v Speaker 1>dude online in two thousand fifteen and he was homeless

0:54:45.280 --> 0:54:53.160
<v Speaker 1>and legally separated from hays wife. Yo, Hating's wife. Okay,

0:54:53.440 --> 0:54:56.880
<v Speaker 1>we've been kicking it hard ever since. Once we started sucking,

0:54:57.320 --> 0:55:00.840
<v Speaker 1>he said we were exclusive. Now, my young guests didn't

0:55:00.840 --> 0:55:03.399
<v Speaker 1>know what that meant. I did a bunch of girlfriendship

0:55:03.440 --> 0:55:06.400
<v Speaker 1>and basically got nothing in return. He always put me

0:55:06.440 --> 0:55:08.879
<v Speaker 1>on the back burner for his kids. Now, I love

0:55:08.920 --> 0:55:10.879
<v Speaker 1>a man that spence time with his kids. Don't get

0:55:10.880 --> 0:55:13.319
<v Speaker 1>me wrong, but damn it was all the time. His

0:55:13.400 --> 0:55:16.520
<v Speaker 1>sexist trash and his dick was small. He always wanted

0:55:16.560 --> 0:55:19.480
<v Speaker 1>his dick suck and never ate my box. And lord,

0:55:19.719 --> 0:55:23.560
<v Speaker 1>he could never stay hard. Why you like this, nag again?

0:55:23.840 --> 0:55:29.080
<v Speaker 1>I confused. I paid for all the hotel stays, food, etcetera, etcetera.

0:55:29.480 --> 0:55:34.600
<v Speaker 1>My y'all, he has his business. Fast forward around the holidays,

0:55:34.680 --> 0:55:37.360
<v Speaker 1>I just got I lost all attraction to him. I

0:55:37.440 --> 0:55:39.880
<v Speaker 1>told him I wanted to move on and start dating again.

0:55:40.360 --> 0:55:43.680
<v Speaker 1>Since then, he has been calling me. I started dating.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Since then he has been calling and calling me,

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<v Speaker 1>but I started dating. However, the dudes I date don't

0:55:50.760 --> 0:55:53.560
<v Speaker 1>make me feel like he did. Besides all the things

0:55:53.600 --> 0:55:57.200
<v Speaker 1>I said, he genuinely cares about me. When I did

0:55:57.360 --> 0:55:59.960
<v Speaker 1>need him, he was always there, especially with my grand

0:56:00.000 --> 0:56:02.880
<v Speaker 1>a father passed away. Sounds like a trauma bond. I

0:56:02.960 --> 0:56:05.880
<v Speaker 1>need some advice because I feel like a dumb bitch

0:56:06.040 --> 0:56:08.920
<v Speaker 1>l O L. I'm enjoined dating, but I can't seem

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<v Speaker 1>to let the genuinely caring part go. Sister, help me.

0:56:13.120 --> 0:56:16.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna say her name, but okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>remember what I said, that thing I said about attachment issues.

0:56:21.440 --> 0:56:23.719
<v Speaker 1>And also I always say like, if you're in a

0:56:23.719 --> 0:56:26.400
<v Speaker 1>relationship with somebody, is not a good relationship whatever, Sometimes

0:56:26.400 --> 0:56:28.879
<v Speaker 1>you gotta look within. It's not always an external thing.

0:56:29.840 --> 0:56:34.120
<v Speaker 1>I would challenge her to look at her. I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to know. I would like to have some more

0:56:35.760 --> 0:56:39.720
<v Speaker 1>information from her before I really really start judging some ship.

0:56:40.680 --> 0:56:46.120
<v Speaker 1>But did you experience some ship in your childhood where

0:56:47.800 --> 0:56:51.000
<v Speaker 1>you felt like your parents weren't caring for you, they

0:56:51.040 --> 0:56:54.120
<v Speaker 1>weren't showing up for you. And now you've got this

0:56:54.239 --> 0:56:57.880
<v Speaker 1>man that's doing those things, and that's what you're attaching to.

0:56:58.120 --> 0:57:02.720
<v Speaker 1>He's failing in all other categories, but he's delivering on

0:57:02.760 --> 0:57:09.239
<v Speaker 1>this one trauma, traumatic thing from your childhood, right, and

0:57:09.280 --> 0:57:11.520
<v Speaker 1>that's what you're sticking with because he didn't say anything

0:57:11.520 --> 0:57:16.520
<v Speaker 1>good about him. Homeless Mary, little dick, won't stay hard

0:57:16.680 --> 0:57:19.960
<v Speaker 1>care fuck, don't pay for hotels, don't pay for food.

0:57:20.480 --> 0:57:23.720
<v Speaker 1>But he cares, girl of your sending that nigga back

0:57:23.760 --> 0:57:27.960
<v Speaker 1>to his wife, care about her motherfucking as you can find.

0:57:28.480 --> 0:57:32.600
<v Speaker 1>Put a life insurance policy on him first. He can

0:57:32.600 --> 0:57:36.040
<v Speaker 1>get some of that money back. He didn't eat you out,

0:57:36.400 --> 0:57:39.600
<v Speaker 1>girl with the fuck that should sound abusive to tail,

0:57:39.760 --> 0:57:41.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm not abouna be sucking dick and you ain't eating

0:57:41.400 --> 0:57:43.880
<v Speaker 1>this pussy. Come on, that's abuse. He deserves to be

0:57:43.960 --> 0:57:48.800
<v Speaker 1>in jail, poor bones legs shout out the leg speed.

0:57:49.120 --> 0:57:55.680
<v Speaker 1>He ain't got a jail. I agree, that's abuse. That's abuse.

0:57:56.360 --> 0:57:59.680
<v Speaker 1>All that ship sound abusive to me. You paid for hotel, room,

0:57:59.720 --> 0:58:03.040
<v Speaker 1>team reimbursing and nothing. You're just pulling up to get

0:58:03.120 --> 0:58:06.320
<v Speaker 1>little dick. Come on, because you can't let her go

0:58:06.360 --> 0:58:08.640
<v Speaker 1>in the genuinely care part. But I challenge you to

0:58:08.720 --> 0:58:13.480
<v Speaker 1>start genuinely caring for yourself because if you did, you

0:58:13.520 --> 0:58:17.040
<v Speaker 1>would not allow all these things. No, that's it. That's

0:58:17.040 --> 0:58:21.120
<v Speaker 1>the absolute truth. We date based on our self esteem oftentimes.

0:58:21.120 --> 0:58:24.800
<v Speaker 1>So what's going on with you that you think that

0:58:24.920 --> 0:58:29.240
<v Speaker 1>this is that this is a real relationship. It's not. Nope,

0:58:29.320 --> 0:58:31.440
<v Speaker 1>And then and then you started off that she started

0:58:31.440 --> 0:58:36.800
<v Speaker 1>off with the hat and asked wife, hating, asked wife.

0:58:36.960 --> 0:58:40.360
<v Speaker 1>Let's be clear, this is someone's husband you're working with, right,

0:58:41.280 --> 0:58:43.919
<v Speaker 1>she got everyone you're calling her man at your ass?

0:58:46.760 --> 0:58:49.080
<v Speaker 1>And look, she probably mad because she guess how long

0:58:49.120 --> 0:58:51.920
<v Speaker 1>she'd been getting that whack broke dick? A long time?

0:58:52.160 --> 0:58:55.800
<v Speaker 1>She's married. Day share it with somebody else, like it

0:58:55.920 --> 0:58:59.960
<v Speaker 1>was enough to go around the embarrassing her out here.

0:59:03.360 --> 0:59:05.560
<v Speaker 1>Have you ever did didn't fun with somebody who had

0:59:05.600 --> 0:59:07.560
<v Speaker 1>a little dick and he married. Now you'd be looking

0:59:07.560 --> 0:59:11.040
<v Speaker 1>at his wife like you like, no, bitch. When they

0:59:11.080 --> 0:59:13.520
<v Speaker 1>have a kid, I'd be like, don't let the nigga

0:59:13.560 --> 0:59:15.520
<v Speaker 1>have a son. I'd be like, oh, man, I hope

0:59:15.520 --> 0:59:17.200
<v Speaker 1>that I hope this baby gets a dick from her

0:59:17.240 --> 0:59:19.280
<v Speaker 1>side of the fan, from his mama. I hope he

0:59:19.320 --> 0:59:28.400
<v Speaker 1>get his dick from his mama because look, listen, bad

0:59:28.480 --> 0:59:30.880
<v Speaker 1>he made get that check. Because man, that's some self

0:59:30.960 --> 0:59:33.080
<v Speaker 1>esteem missues you do not want to deal with from

0:59:33.080 --> 0:59:37.680
<v Speaker 1>a man, all from a growing boy, like once he

0:59:37.720 --> 0:59:39.760
<v Speaker 1>realized he got that little dick is gonna be a problem.

0:59:39.840 --> 0:59:44.160
<v Speaker 1>And if you play sports like they start realizing it

0:59:44.280 --> 0:59:46.720
<v Speaker 1>gotta be like a transition. Nigga is going through like

0:59:49.240 --> 0:59:52.240
<v Speaker 1>this kind of sad now I feel bad, like little dick.

0:59:52.320 --> 0:59:54.920
<v Speaker 1>Niggas need love to y'all deserve to be loved just

0:59:54.960 --> 0:59:57.200
<v Speaker 1>like anybody else and something. It's got to be the

0:59:57.200 --> 1:00:00.240
<v Speaker 1>baby Bear Porridge like maybe little dicks is just right

1:00:00.320 --> 1:00:06.800
<v Speaker 1>for some of us, not me. That's a girl like

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna be out here acting like I could

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<v Speaker 1>just take all this dick because I really can't. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to. Like I said, baby Bear Porch,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want no humongous did we apologizing every time

1:00:16.200 --> 1:00:19.440
<v Speaker 1>he put it in. It's the fight, like we're fighting

1:00:19.480 --> 1:00:21.320
<v Speaker 1>to have sex and I'm pushing you up off me,

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<v Speaker 1>Like no, I need to be able to normatize backs. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm sad. Man, got a lot of pressure

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<v Speaker 1>on them. That's gonna be a lot of pressure. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a lot of pressure, man, there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>pressure being a man. Yeah. I'm happy being a woman. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>me too. I appreciate being a woman more because men did.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all definitely got a lot of pressure on y'all. A

1:00:46.680 --> 1:00:48.040
<v Speaker 1>you get to a certain age to where you don't

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<v Speaker 1>give a funk and it's like ship, these been just

1:00:49.600 --> 1:00:52.760
<v Speaker 1>gonna get. These been just gonna get what I give him, money, dick,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is, This is what I got, right. I

1:00:55.400 --> 1:00:57.160
<v Speaker 1>didn't bring no more dick with me. This is all

1:00:57.200 --> 1:01:01.400
<v Speaker 1>the dick I brought with me. Have a bit of

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<v Speaker 1>ordering some more dick when you leave uber Meats. We

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<v Speaker 1>still need to start that. Yes, I don't know, but look,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all be careful out here, like sit your ass at home.

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<v Speaker 1>Gases to my fucking high for you to be riding

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<v Speaker 1>around trying to clear your mind and should clear your

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<v Speaker 1>mind in the house, chill. And it's just getting even

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<v Speaker 1>more crazy with all the shootings every single day. We're

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<v Speaker 1>just being traumatized. These niggas have been activated. Yes, rest

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<v Speaker 1>in peace to him. Yeah, I didn't and um, what's

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<v Speaker 1>the producer's mom double hummed suicide. Yes, that's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>really wicked. Yeah, it's like somebody hit a switch. Somebody

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<v Speaker 1>hit a switch. My ex boyfriend was shot over the

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<v Speaker 1>weekend by a random nigga in the gas station. He survived.

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<v Speaker 1>The bullets went straight through four his shoulder, his elbow,

1:02:06.160 --> 1:02:11.520
<v Speaker 1>his back, um in his hip, straight through. He drove

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<v Speaker 1>hisself to the emergency room. He was on the way

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<v Speaker 1>to his daughter's graduation and nigga bumped into him in

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<v Speaker 1>the gas station like aggressively, and he just said, he

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<v Speaker 1>told a guy, don't do that ship no more or

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<v Speaker 1>something like that, and guy just started booting up on him,

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<v Speaker 1>like what the fun you're gonna do? Just literally out

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<v Speaker 1>here looking into right And that's what I say, nothing

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<v Speaker 1>back to that cookbook, bitch in the party, because looking

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<v Speaker 1>for smoke. Just looking for smoke. And he basically said

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<v Speaker 1>the guy shot him out the store, like he was

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<v Speaker 1>back turned leaving out the store and this man started

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<v Speaker 1>shooting at him. Shot him, yes, shot him for And

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<v Speaker 1>then he said, once he heard the gun just click

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<v Speaker 1>click click, he said, he chased him. He beat him up.

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<v Speaker 1>He beat the guy had to drive itself to the

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<v Speaker 1>emergency room. Yeah, that ship is wicked, y'all. Stay out

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<v Speaker 1>the way man r I Peter um trouble. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like all that ship is kind of related to that

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<v Speaker 1>ship that's going on with Young Thug and Gunna. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like like we've got to start a Patreon targeted

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<v Speaker 1>to hear all ags theories of conspiracy there. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I feel like those are small ponds and they're

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<v Speaker 1>they're targeting bigger players. They're targeting black supremacy. I believe

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<v Speaker 1>mhm Via a black woman because you know, um district

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<v Speaker 1>attorney is a black woman. She's bringing up all these

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<v Speaker 1>cases on niggas. MT see that they'd be using us

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<v Speaker 1>against us. Got to be more careful out here, man. Alright,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be on the lookout for our patreon. I say

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<v Speaker 1>all of that to say, right, look but listen, man,

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<v Speaker 1>love one another. Listen and if you enjoy this episode,

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<v Speaker 1>please tune in every Thursday on an I Heart Radio Apple,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever the fun you get your podcast that. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I said last motherfucker's this episode. I know you

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<v Speaker 1>are motherfucker trying y'all listen. Follow me on Instagram. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a j Holiday two point Oh, I'm gonna start putting

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<v Speaker 1>up to my mother fucking stock tips. Y'all. Amazon split

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<v Speaker 1>one to day. This is your opportunity to get in. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's your opportunity. Friday Stop closed at two thousand for

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<v Speaker 1>her and forty seven dollars. This morning, we woke up

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<v Speaker 1>to a per share for Amazon. Okay. That means if

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<v Speaker 1>you would have got in there last week, if you

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<v Speaker 1>had one share, you'd have had twenty shares today. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is the opportunity to make some mother fucking money.

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<v Speaker 1>Google is coming up with a split Tesla apples talking

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<v Speaker 1>about that's another episode. I know, I'm just listen. We

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<v Speaker 1>gotta let people know. I'd want to let people know, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I like, I like putting people onto information. But go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Tammy. Look I'm official tam Bab. Y'all follow

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<v Speaker 1>me on Instagram. Also follow our Instagram page we Talked

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<v Speaker 1>Back podcast. Yeah, follow us there. We'll be talking ship

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<v Speaker 1>and having fun there, and we're gonna start posting a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more of ourselves. They're making reels because they say

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<v Speaker 1>we need to. So we're gonna start doing like being social. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I don't, but we're gonna have to because

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<v Speaker 1>it's and that's where he said apparently, so y'all follow us.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna be on there. We love y'all, and y'all

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<v Speaker 1>remember to speak now and never hold your motherfucker beasts.

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<v Speaker 1>You couldn't help