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Speaker 1: talked back, We're live, y'all. What's up, y'all, it's a

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Speaker 1: j Thank you guys for tuning in for a new

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Speaker 1: episode that we talked that age. Hey, y'all lives camp

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Speaker 1: and I love y'all once again every week. I love

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Speaker 1: y'all so much. Welcome to a new episode. Hey girl,

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Speaker 1: Hey girl, Hey look, I lust y'all. You know it

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Speaker 1: might change tomorrow. You love Oh you don't love him?

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Speaker 1: You just lust them? Yes, lust them and leave him.

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Speaker 1: That's your problem. How is your r um? What the

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Speaker 1: hell did I do this weekend? I did do something?

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Speaker 1: Oh um, my cousin, one of my younger cousins, she

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Speaker 1: had m She opened us along. She's a boss cham.

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Speaker 1: She had a grand opening. Yeah, it was like a

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Speaker 1: nice little cook out. The rain kind of funked us up,

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Speaker 1: but it was like a little, nice little family reunion

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Speaker 1: type thing. We had some crabs. Girls sat around a

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Speaker 1: craft table and talk shit. I tried to explain to them,

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Speaker 1: how you know if a man gonna suck the ship

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Speaker 1: out of you and not by his forearm, how to

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Speaker 1: that form be looking strong? That's not true, that's not

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Speaker 1: a thing. Look instead of asking for cock shots, okay,

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Speaker 1: just asked the man to send you a picture his forearm.

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Speaker 1: No longer he's shoe size. This is forearms. It's the

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Speaker 1: four But no, look, think about this now. Sometimes you

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Speaker 1: can look at the forearm and yes, exactly, and then also, hey,

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Speaker 1: same length of that space between a belly button in

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Speaker 1: the pub area. Who you fucking that did? Go on?

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Speaker 1: Some niggas got a short area. Some niggas area be

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Speaker 1: kaind of short that look, y'all gotta be paying attention.

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Speaker 1: So look, if you don't want to be too man

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Speaker 1: looking for it to look like a little crap clod. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: look I was having all of young girls, yes, I

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Speaker 1: had as. These niggs gonna have a big ass veny

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Speaker 1: forearm because they've been just beating their dick for years

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Speaker 1: because they can't get no pussy because it's little. All

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Speaker 1: the niggas, all the niggas sent in a picture that

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Speaker 1: right hand, that right arm beyond Max okay, because they've

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Speaker 1: I definitely was out there with my microphone at a

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Speaker 1: how is your weekend? I didn't really. I kind of

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Speaker 1: chilled this weekend and just watch movies on my pattio.

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Speaker 1: I kept it cute because last week, in the middle

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Speaker 1: went to uh Pierre Thomas from Quality Control's birthday party.

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Speaker 1: I was that I had so much fun, girl. I

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie with star struck on the inside.

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Speaker 1: I was like, but yeah, I remember her saying she

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Speaker 1: everybody looked really nice. It was a good time. One

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Speaker 1: of your favorite cookbook bitches. I ain't gonna say who

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Speaker 1: Why we were too pretty with these girls on for

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Speaker 1: do you do? Do you like? What do you You

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Speaker 1: me tell y'all something. I ain't nobody push the ass hole.

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Speaker 1: I tell you that exactly. Let's be clear. Let's be clear.

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Speaker 1: Moving right along. So my weekend, I didn't do shitout

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Speaker 1: new week, new topics. What happened to dumb internet news girl?

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Speaker 1: couple of things. Let's talk about these motherfucking gas prices

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Speaker 1: going down no time soon. Gas prices is a tax

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Speaker 1: on the middle class. That's what they're doing right now.

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Speaker 1: They pay, we get we're paying their stimulus back. Yes,

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Speaker 1: And gas they said we're gonna get come get it

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Speaker 1: get it back a gas bitch man. That's crazy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I used to like want to meet niggas for a date,

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Speaker 1: come get me. Yes, whoever pick me up for me,

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Speaker 1: Look my birthday on Wednesday, y'all. Well this is gonna

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Speaker 1: be obviously we pre record. I'm gonna have the all

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Speaker 1: gas cards. Thank you, send me some damn gas cars.

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Speaker 1: I'll give you all the post office box. And we

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Speaker 1: talked back. What you think about this? Goddamn uh The

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Speaker 1: Pride whopper at Burger King Okay, so yeah, the prior whopper.

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Speaker 1: think that's pretty witty. Honestly, that was creative. But when

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Speaker 1: you came up with that right in Austria, Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: not in America. This is in Austria. They're celebrating Pride

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Speaker 1: Month with special burger. Okay, it's the Eid whopper. I

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Speaker 1: not keto inclusive keto buns, No buns matter, right, can

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Speaker 1: who's gonna order them to bottom buns? You're weird? Or

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Speaker 1: if you order two bottom buns. No, no saying, not

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Speaker 1: saying that being a bottom is weird, but the bottom

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Speaker 1: buns are not good. But have you ever received a

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Speaker 1: ill sandwich I've been throwing that ship right at your

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Speaker 1: of point I watched. Anyway, stupid stupid shout out to uh.

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Speaker 1: It is Pride month, so happy Pride, Happy Pride month

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Speaker 1: to everybody who celebrates it. I remember, so my mom,

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Speaker 1: she's not she's not homophobic by any stretch of imagination.

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Speaker 1: But I remember this was many years back and she

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Speaker 1: pride and she was calling me whispering. She's like, they're

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Speaker 1: lining up on the sides of the streets, like my

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Speaker 1: ain't ship got to happy, relaxed, they're lining up. It's

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Speaker 1: a parade, relaxed. Ain't about to fight her or something. No,

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Speaker 1: whether fund was going on, chay, Oh goodness, what else?

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Speaker 1: What else is going on in the world? So Amber heard,

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Speaker 1: you know, she gotta come up with all types of

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Speaker 1: millions of dollars boy to be Johnny depth in this

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Speaker 1: uh slander lawsuit. I heard million city boys up, this

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Speaker 1: defamation of character. Kates Yo. I've watched some of the case.

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Speaker 1: It was all theatrics these people. It was like, what

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Speaker 1: are they distracting us from what else happened around that time?

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Speaker 1: Because that ship was stupid, Okay, shooting this man bed.

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Speaker 1: She took a poop in his bed. She took a live,

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Speaker 1: hot shit in his bed while he was in there sleep. Damn.

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Speaker 1: That's wow, you crazy. She was abusing him. That is abusive. Wow.

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Speaker 1: You gotta be really mad at the motherfucker to say,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna eat this burrito on Tuesday

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Speaker 1: as soon as you start boiling in my stomach. Bit

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Speaker 1: y'all gonna put it right next to you in the bid,

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Speaker 1: you motherfucker damn right. What I'm finding weird about this

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Speaker 1: situation is that the meme that's going around with Meg

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Speaker 1: we wan't talk about it. So what do you think?

420
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 1: Do you think do you think poor people uh get

421
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 1: married for love as opposed to more affluent people possibly

422
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 1: married getting married like for real, because it's like a

423
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: business transaction. Well, based on your definition of poor people,

424
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 1: that's all I know. So I can't really answer the

425
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 1: question because I don't know nobody else these niggas is

426
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,399
Speaker 1: getting married. So I'm gonna go with, yeah, they getting

427
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 1: married for love, bored enough, fluid? I don't know, so

428
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: I think that uh maybe people with lower income I

429
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 1: don't want to say poor people, but it's funny, Okay,

430
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: it is funny. People and lord income brackets oftentimes stay

431
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 1: together long good because of necessity. Um, they stay together

432
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: out of necessity, maybe obligations. You already have kids, you

433
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 1: start accumulating things like how even if we can just

434
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: talk about people who, um you own a home, like

435
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 1: say for ends, you median income people right right now

436
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 1: we know that millionaires. That's the middle class now. So really,

437
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 1: if you don't have I want to say ship, if

438
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 1: you an't got two million dollars, man, you might be

439
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 1: struggling out here. You see how much gasses we just

440
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 1: talked about it. The median rent this summer is supposed

441
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 1: to be going up to two. I literally literally looked

442
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:29,359
Speaker 1: at a place in Charlotte one night. I woke up

443
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 1: the next morning and the ship was like five dollars

444
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 1: more for rank I don't like. Okay, yeah, so how

445
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 1: are people surviving? We're gonna have to start getting married

446
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 1: for love, look not for love either. You better find

447
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 1: you a partner. But see, this world is based on

448
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,639
Speaker 1: double occupancy if you think about it. Year. So you're

449
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 1: great great grandma. Did she get married for love or

450
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 1: did she get married for secure d someone to take

451
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:08,159
Speaker 1: care of the family. I would lean more towards security.

452
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: Even then when when a lot more people didn't have

453
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: as much resources, I would lean more towards security. She

454
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: definitely stayed for security too, right because great Granddad and

455
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 1: might have had a whole another family down the street.

456
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: The great grandma knew about. That's for niggas with that check.

457
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:30,880
Speaker 1: Cheating is not for a regular men, Okay, Like it's

458
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 1: just not. So don't come talking about the godda polygamy. Boy,

459
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 1: you don't make enough. Let me ask you this, both

460
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 1: of us being uh in our thirties somewhere in there,

461
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 1: do you feel like you you're not married because of Well,

462
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 1: let me just ask you, why do you feel like

463
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 1: you aren't married? I don't want to speculate. UM, So

464
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 1: I've talked about it before I was engaged, but I

465
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 1: didn't get engaged until what thirty five? Um, I feel

466
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 1: like I could have been married earlier on in life.

467
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: But I think UM, partner selection is always very important.

468
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying to people that you allowed

469
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 1: to have access to you probably weren't on UM. Marriage.

470
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 1: We we know just based on the conversations we see

471
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 1: online amongst black men and women. Marriage is not like

472
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 1: at the top of people's list, especially black men. I

473
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 1: don't think UM. So you have to get with a

474
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 1: marriage minded person. So if you spend so much time

475
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: just dating, being boyfriend and girlfriend with somebody who wasn't

476
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: marriage minded, you wake up five years later and you

477
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: ain't married. Relationships our and now you're moving on to

478
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 1: the next. So I feel like that that's been my case.

479
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: I feel like I could have been married had I

480
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 1: picked a different person um as opposed to people I

481
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 1: picked when I was in relationships earlier on, Like in

482
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 1: my mid twenties, I would say I could have been

483
00:29:57,360 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 1: married because I knew some men who were marriage minded,

484
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 1: but I didn't choose them for me. It's a little

485
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 1: bit different. I think. I don't know what's happened to me,

486
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 1: But around twenty the thought I was turned into a

487
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: whole nigga, and like the thought of marriage was like

488
00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:17,200
Speaker 1: one person for the rest of my life. I can't

489
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 1: breathe one stroke, the only stroke forever. And yes I

490
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 1: have panic attack. I couldn't like the thought of marriage

491
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 1: was just like scary to me. Like I just didn't

492
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 1: see myself with I didn't aspire to that at all.

493
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 1: I aspired to money and career and experiences, but not

494
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 1: marriage as like you. Right, So I can say, like

495
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 1: I said outside, I know I knew men who were

496
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 1: marriage minded, but at the same race, the same thing

497
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 1: you just said. I chased money my my entire twenties,

498
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 1: and it's kind of hustling backwards. Um. And that's why

499
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 1: before the break, I was saying how black women need

500
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 1: to date more like our our white counterparts. They're dating

501
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 1: like their parents allowed them to date in their twenties

502
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. You know what I'm saying. Usually

503
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 1: black women we start dating in college. Like college you

504
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: might have been even if you had were having sex

505
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 1: before college, you didn't really start like dating and um juggling.

506
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 1: Men like to figure out what did these women start

507
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: earlier in life? So they go to college and they

508
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 1: come up with a degree and a ring. We don't

509
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 1: put the emphasis on um marriage as much as our

510
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 1: white counterparts. We tell black girls to go to college,

511
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:41,360
Speaker 1: get your education because you can't depend on a man

512
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 1: is what young girls are told. Mm hmm. And then

513
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: you have attachment issues to the wrong man when you

514
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: do start dating later. You know, because I was dating

515
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 1: in college, I was dating it would be nice boys

516
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 1: from the Islands who are really smart in school that

517
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 1: was just in love with me. But no, who I'm

518
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 1: with the dope boy stupid because he's driving a Cadillac

519
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 1: truck with me. And then went to present and now

520
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 1: that nice, that nice uh island boy is probably somewhere

521
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 1: with his own practice somewhere. Shame on me. Yep, that

522
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 1: that do that boat, that do be that bullshit. But

523
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: that's the importance of dating. So you and then you

524
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 1: have to also have guidance from your your mom. But

525
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 1: if nobody ever talked to her about anything, how you

526
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 1: gonna talk to you about it? Yeah, So this past weekend,

527
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 1: one thing I did do is I have a sixteen

528
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: year old niece. She's she's uh, um, you know, going

529
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 1: in eleventh grade. Um, she's taking college courses. She's very very,

530
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 1: very very smart. The boy she's dating has dropped out

531
00:32:54,880 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: of high school mhm. And I was trying to have

532
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 1: a serious conversation with her about her future because nobody

533
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 1: ever did that for me. Of course she's sexually active

534
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: all that ship. The worst thing that could possibly happen

535
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 1: is that you get pregnant and then now you gotta

536
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 1: get married for love. Mm hmm. That's bullshit. At sixteen,

537
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 1: somebody needs to be like talking to you and trying

538
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 1: to help you get some type of blueprint on what

539
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 1: to do, like when you get to college, because you

540
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 1: never know, you don't know what you want to do. Really,

541
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to. I still have that little fairy

542
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 1: tale in my soul about marrying for love too. I

543
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 1: don't want to, like just say, don't marry still love,

544
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 1: don't marry just for security, right, But I know no, absolutely,

545
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 1: But I'm leaning towards more so of maybe finding somebody

546
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 1: that's equally your yoke, because because what I told her

547
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 1: was this guy you currently dating, you're gonna be taking

548
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: care of him nine times I attend if you stay

549
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 1: in him, m hmm, you'll be taking care of him.

550
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: You'll you'll probably not go away to college and do

551
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: the things that you should have been doing because of

552
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 1: love for him. Right, You're gonna start um just just

553
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: being a dumb bitch. Okay, let's be clear, just being

554
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 1: a dumb bitch for the wrong person, and we oftentimes

555
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 1: stay in relationships way past the expiration date. And I

556
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 1: don't want that for her, But at sixteen, I feel

557
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,800
Speaker 1: like somebody should have those conversations with young women. Alright.

558
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 1: So I have a friend who married a man who

559
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 1: wasn't as successful or ambitious as her from the from

560
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:43,720
Speaker 1: the jump right, and then uh, ten years they have kids.

561
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 1: Years later, she ended up leaving him because he wasn't

562
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:54,799
Speaker 1: what she wanted financially, he never reached the potential she

563
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 1: may have seen in him. But then after a few

564
00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 1: years out here in these streets, she went back to him,

565
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 1: and they're happiest two little peas in the pot now

566
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 1: because she had to let go of that expectation because

567
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:10,359
Speaker 1: they are doing well with her, you know, with her

568
00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 1: doing well, they are doing well, so and she happier

569
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:17,240
Speaker 1: than a lot of people I know in her marriage.

570
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 1: So it's a slippery slope when it comes to like

571
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 1: giving that advice. I don't know, like, you know what,

572
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 1: what what's more important? Could you be happy with less? Now?

573
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 1: You know? You like to play that little game we

574
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: have guests on would you want to be? What's the

575
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 1: question you'd be asking happy and happy and rich happy

576
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:46,880
Speaker 1: and broke or Richard said, yeah, right, which one for you?

577
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:51,879
Speaker 1: You see the title of this ship Richard Richard Richard

578
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 1: sad because I feel like you're not gonna be sad forever.

579
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 1: You can grow to love your partner, you know what

580
00:35:57,880 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like, there's also the saying that the man

581
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 1: has to love a woman more in order for the

582
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 1: relationship to work. I know you've heard that. I really

583
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 1: feel like it's hard to find two people that are

584
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 1: simultaneously in love the same amount at the same time.

585
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:15,919
Speaker 1: That's really rare, right, So usually like somebody's loving on

586
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: somebody more. It's always somebody who's chasing who's always there.

587
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 1: But they can go back and forth, and I think

588
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 1: that's healthy for it to go back and forth. Yeah, yeah,

589
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 1: because being in love is nothing more than a state

590
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 1: of mind. So every day you gotta do ship to

591
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 1: fall in love and stay in love with the person

592
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 1: you with, or you've fallen out of love. That's just it, right,

593
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:39,840
Speaker 1: because I mean, you really have to convince yourself sometimes

594
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:43,839
Speaker 1: that you're in live with somebody, Like you can talk

595
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: yourself into loving somebody in your head, right, all right,

596
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: So and money makes that conversation with yourself easier the

597
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:58,399
Speaker 1: fuck it makes it that conversation easy, like you think.

598
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 1: Be okay, let's look at Beyonce and jay Z. All right,

599
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 1: we know jay Z that nigga, Like who else Beyonce

600
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:05,839
Speaker 1: is supposed to be with? But Beyonce could have been

601
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 1: with a plethora of other men who are the same

602
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 1: caliber man as jay Z. Right, but this is the

603
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 1: person she chose to build that life with. And of

604
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:18,240
Speaker 1: course both of them, you know, both of them have money.

605
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:21,440
Speaker 1: But come on, man, if jay Z don't have that money,

606
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 1: would Beyonce be with him? Would that be who she

607
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:30,400
Speaker 1: chose to be her life partner? We don't know. We

608
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 1: don't know. Jay Z might have been like doing an

609
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 1: oil change at the Jiffy Loup for Beyonce. St Yeah,

610
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 1: he was pumping their car up. She's like nigga, Like, yes,

611
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: I like dirty niggas. I like niggas who work on

612
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 1: cars and ship Just wash your hand before the dirt.

613
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 1: What you mean, not like dirty niggas like hygiene bad,

614
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 1: but just like men who do things with their hands, Like,

615
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 1: don't be asking me if I know how to cook?

616
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 1: Do you know how to build nigga, because I like

617
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:13,400
Speaker 1: men who could put my goddamn I don't know do stuff.

618
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:17,720
Speaker 1: I appreciate that too. The guy I was dealing with before,

619
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 1: like he came and put my bed together, and that

620
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:23,319
Speaker 1: she was making my pussy with just watching them in

621
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:28,319
Speaker 1: there with them tools. I was like, alright, let's try

622
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: it out. Let's see if it works right, nigga, can

623
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 1: you put up some drywall? Let's add onto this goddamn house. Yeah.

624
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:46,879
Speaker 1: So okay, what I want people to think about so again, UM,

625
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:51,479
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to trying to offend people, um, because

626
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 1: I am people. I'm people. But let's let's let's just

627
00:38:54,920 --> 00:39:00,320
Speaker 1: think about arranged marriages for a second and how fluent

628
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:05,720
Speaker 1: families pair people together. Um, Like I asked you earlier

629
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 1: to Tammy, do you think that women who are in

630
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 1: fraternities and sorority I'm sorry, women who are in sororities

631
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 1: are more than likely to be married. The network, the connections,

632
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: the places you put yourself. You know what I'm saying,

633
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 1: Like more likely? Yeah, I agree, they're more likely to

634
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 1: be married, they're more likely to be successful. Um. And

635
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: so then when you think about like families and how people.

636
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 1: I think we might need to for the Black community

637
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 1: to get to where we need to be, like how

638
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:39,719
Speaker 1: we were in the early eighteen hundreds nine hundreds, We

639
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 1: may need to get back to arranged marriages. So basically,

640
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 1: we need to be poor again, poor earth. We already poor,

641
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 1: but we need to be pairing with people who we

642
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:59,720
Speaker 1: are more equally yoked with. But in the black community,

643
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: we are already know that Black women catch so much

644
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 1: heat for practicing hypergamy, for wanting to funk up and

645
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 1: set it down. We catch so much heat. But you

646
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 1: men would not be okay with your daughters bringing home

647
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:21,399
Speaker 1: a man who can't take care of him. Yeah, y'are

648
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:26,399
Speaker 1: not okay with that. Who's just because she loved him.

649
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 1: I love him, Daddy, I love him. He'll got no education,

650
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 1: he ain't got no car, he comes from a fun

651
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 1: up family. These are the things that we need to

652
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 1: be looking at for our children, absolutely, in order to

653
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 1: birth more successful families. There's no generational wealth with funk that.

654
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:48,319
Speaker 1: With no family like, you can't build generational wealth if

655
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:51,960
Speaker 1: nobody is focusing on getting married and actually building together,

656
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:58,400
Speaker 1: we just can't. I agree, I agree. So you you

657
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 1: want a husband now? I always want a husband. Listen

658
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,080
Speaker 1: pulled some on the up or it's grammed the other day,

659
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:09,839
Speaker 1: like ship, Who's next? Go go go? Like like who

660
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:12,759
Speaker 1: the funk is next? Because I love being in love.

661
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:15,279
Speaker 1: I love love like I like the beginning stages and

662
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:18,760
Speaker 1: all that ship like, yeah, I'm for that. Of course

663
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 1: I want to be married. You know, I'm starting to

664
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 1: envision myself. I just see like this big long walk away.

665
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:30,319
Speaker 1: Then I'm going down in this beautiful dress and there's

666
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:32,239
Speaker 1: a man standing way down there waiting on me. But

667
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:34,720
Speaker 1: I can't see his face. I can't see his face

668
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 1: in this vision, right, but I can see it. It's

669
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 1: an outdoor wear. But and I and I've dreamt of it.

670
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 1: But I also might have been watching Mary at First

671
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 1: Sight the night that I dreamt of it. And that's

672
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: how that ship was that was on your psyche when

673
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 1: you went to sleep. Yes, I don't know if it

674
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 1: was me or one of the bitches for the show,

675
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 1: but I think it was me and in my vision.

676
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 1: But I do inspire to marriage. But I do still

677
00:41:57,239 --> 00:42:00,840
Speaker 1: have my fears. I have my fears about making a person,

678
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 1: like picking one person. It's it's that's so scary to

679
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 1: me like picking one nigger and saying, I want to

680
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 1: be with you and just you forever. Okay, then you

681
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:17,880
Speaker 1: can pick one person and then y'all can have Like

682
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 1: you know, we talked about open marriage all the time,

683
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 1: but the idea for marriage is like if you do

684
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 1: it earlier on in life, because like the white girls,

685
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: they go from their daddy house to their husband's house,

686
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 1: they have all these assets, at least if they do

687
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:34,040
Speaker 1: get the voice, there's assets at the end of it.

688
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 1: Poor people don't have no assets starting and they oftentimes

689
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: don't have none in the end. Right, So we're gonn

690
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 1: applying the white board people too, because I know someone

691
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: through the same ship. Absolutely, I think it's it's more

692
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 1: a poor thing than a black and white thing, honestly, Yeah, yeah, yeah,

693
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 1: but we were mostly the poor ones in American Fortunately,

694
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 1: there's definitely some poor white people, but for the most part,

695
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:09,920
Speaker 1: we Yeah, so we could pare up with better people.

696
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 1: What about what about dating outside of So I had

697
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 1: a psychic tell me last week. She asked me, did

698
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 1: I ever consider dating outside of my race? Because she

699
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 1: saw she had a vision of me with the one

700
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 1: that was non black or mixed race, and I was

701
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 1: very happy, and I was like me and she's like, yes,

702
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 1: I just don't see how I'm gonna be happy without

703
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 1: no black dick. But we're gonna see what happened. Well,

704
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 1: she black her way, she was black who she married too,

705
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 1: because sounds like she could also be like she wasn't married,

706
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 1: she's not married. Interesting, I don't know who she ain't projecting. Yeah,

707
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:58,399
Speaker 1: it was crazy to me, girl, get your ass back.

708
00:43:58,400 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 1: I don't even know if I believe in that. She

709
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: So I read this article and it said that, um,

710
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 1: the people who get divorced the most, like at the

711
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 1: top of the list, the highest divorce rate um are

712
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 1: for dancers with an average income of twenty dollars a year,

713
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 1: So that would be on the lower income. Yeah a

714
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:34,880
Speaker 1: year where your strip This bitch is working at raised

715
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: boot boolroom man the barbecue. It might be a barbecue

716
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:43,839
Speaker 1: slash slash strip club in fucking barn somewhere. Girl, it's

717
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,880
Speaker 1: a it's a seafood market in Charleston. It's a strip

718
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 1: club in the back at that seafood market. Where is this?

719
00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 1: And Charleston's firstly food? Are they fresh seafood? And they

720
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 1: cook seafood in there? Get fish however you wanted in

721
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:14,320
Speaker 1: this bitch raw fried and wronging. God damn, I wouldn't

722
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 1: if I were a strip I'm not working in the

723
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 1: back like Okay, it's not in the same building, but

724
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:22,759
Speaker 1: it's connected though. It's like you know, they got a duplex,

725
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 1: like next to the Snapple the next door down is

726
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:33,319
Speaker 1: a strip club. Like I'm not working in the back

727
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 1: of a seafood market. If I'm a stripping dog, it's

728
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: me the field walk ahead, like the smells funnier here.

729
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:48,479
Speaker 1: Like you don't know what your money is? Who is it? Um?

730
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:54,360
Speaker 1: Bartenders are up next? Uh, massage therapists, gaming, cage workers.

731
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 1: I don't know what that is. So these are all

732
00:45:57,040 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 1: people who work in the industry where they flirt to

733
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:06,360
Speaker 1: get money. Listen, Okay, that's about right, um, and it

734
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:12,280
Speaker 1: prevents the professions. Uh with the lowest divorce rates are farmers, pediatrists,

735
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 1: clergy So that I mean that's leaning to wars. Maybe

736
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 1: the more money you have, Huh. I just had an epiphany, right,

737
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:28,799
Speaker 1: So we know rich people get divorced too, but there's

738
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,879
Speaker 1: more to lose and divorce when you have more money

739
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:34,919
Speaker 1: because they maybe yes they be they may be more

740
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:39,319
Speaker 1: likely to stay together because of money, while people with

741
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:43,959
Speaker 1: less money break up because there's no money often time.

742
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:50,880
Speaker 1: Who gives the fans that's it? They all got nothing

743
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:52,840
Speaker 1: to lose, So why the hell am I here? Like

744
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 1: even when having a baby like okay, um another statistic

745
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 1: I read another article I read it basically was talking

746
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 1: about how um women in lower income communities like they

747
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 1: envisioned themselves being a mother, but they hardly envisioned themselves

748
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 1: as a wife being a wife because you know, they

749
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:18,400
Speaker 1: know for sure that they can be a mother and

750
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:22,240
Speaker 1: take care of the child, but being with somebody forever,

751
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:27,959
Speaker 1: they can't see that. What we were just saying, So

752
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 1: is that more realistic when you have no money? Because

753
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:35,640
Speaker 1: they do? Okay, So poor people get married less, right,

754
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,879
Speaker 1: they get married less than people with money. They do,

755
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: but they have a more realistic outlook on marriage and

756
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 1: divorce than people with money. Is what the article is

757
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: basically insinuating. Wow, that's crazy. I ain't got nothing to

758
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 1: added that. I don't know what to say. All I

759
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 1: know is I didn't envision being mother either, though, like I,

760
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 1: I would like to think that I'm a relationship person

761
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 1: um and I just didn't choose the right relationships to

762
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 1: get what I want, you know what I'm saying. Um,

763
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 1: the older I get though, because now I got all

764
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 1: this experience and relationships I see like even you know,

765
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 1: with an open relationship. And to me again, it's just

766
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:30,359
Speaker 1: open communication. Being able to tell my partner everything about me.

767
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 1: That's what's most important to me. Like being with somebody

768
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 1: that I can be myself completely with, Like I don't

769
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 1: have to even think twice about having a lie about

770
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 1: some ship. I could tell you exactly what it is

771
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 1: and give you the opportunity to decide if some ship

772
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: you want to funk with or not or not, and

773
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 1: then you could do the same, you know. For me,

774
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 1: that's that's what's more important to me now in a

775
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:53,319
Speaker 1: in a union, and it doesn't necessarily have to be

776
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:56,920
Speaker 1: an actual marriage. Um, I do want to get within

777
00:48:57,040 --> 00:49:00,279
Speaker 1: a dress, But do I want to find out some

778
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 1: paperwork with the government. No, we could be married in

779
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: the odds of the god, so you would have like,

780
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:16,160
Speaker 1: uh marriage, that's just in your heart ship. What's old

781
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:23,880
Speaker 1: girl from Loving Hip Hop New York? Um Yandy Yandy, Yeah,

782
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 1: Yandy and man DC, we're not married. Initially had that

783
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 1: whole uh ceremony on the show, and she said for

784
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: business purposes, it wasn't a good idea for her to

785
00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: get married him, right, But it was because it was

786
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:41,319
Speaker 1: about money and law and ship like that, and his

787
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 1: name being tied to her money. I feel like yes,

788
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 1: and him going to prison shortly thereafter. But I believe

789
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 1: I think they were just married, sir, h And why

790
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:56,439
Speaker 1: not girl, if you'll just go get you a broom

791
00:49:56,520 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 1: and jump across that motherfucker at the house. Look, the

792
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 1: Bible actually said as you're sitting there, you'd be having

793
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 1: sex and and and fornicating and coming in a woman

794
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:05,759
Speaker 1: and all that ship. That's your wife right there. A

795
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 1: lot of yall niggas out here about by four hundred

796
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:11,879
Speaker 1: wives or didn't they say yeah, biblically they had four

797
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:14,239
Speaker 1: hundred wives. Maybe he didn't have no ceremony with all

798
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 1: the women. It was just say, m you seem you

799
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 1: see he just is fucking yo. That is really wild.

800
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:34,439
Speaker 1: I see. That's what I was talking about, perspective, That's

801
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 1: what I was talking Biblically. You're the same thing. You

802
00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:42,359
Speaker 1: had four hundred wives too, niggers, Just like how many

803
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 1: husbands you got, bitch two So you gotta multiply by

804
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:57,920
Speaker 1: three two. Bitch, don't ask me that in front of

805
00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 1: all these people. Let's go to a break so I

806
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:05,840
Speaker 1: can because this bit y'all for asking to be that

807
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: in front of y'all. We'll be right back, all right, y'all,

808
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: So look this to sum the conversation up. Um, Yes

809
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 1: you can get married for love. Nine times. I often

810
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:30,960
Speaker 1: you're broke. I just played, But definitely, yes, you can

811
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,200
Speaker 1: get married for love. Rich people can get married for love.

812
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 1: Poor people can get married for love. But ultimately real

813
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:42,719
Speaker 1: like real love is usually because uh, you don't have

814
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 1: anything else but love. There's nothing else keeping you with

815
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:50,400
Speaker 1: this person. They ain't know goddamn cards, they don't know hous.

816
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 1: It's probably love and kids is what's keeping you in

817
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 1: this relationship as opposed to people more influent families. They

818
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 1: just got more shipped to lose when the family feuds. Okay, so,

819
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 1: and there's nothing wrong with that. I don't want y'all

820
00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:09,880
Speaker 1: to start, you know, in this show, feeling bad because

821
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 1: you don't have a lot of money and you love

822
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 1: a nigga who don't have a lot. Because y'all can

823
00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:16,480
Speaker 1: build together. And I want you to think that it's

824
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:21,680
Speaker 1: anything wrong with being in love and being not affluent,

825
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 1: because you can grow to that, right absolutely, And I

826
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: mean it doesn't happen overnight either, But that's why Black

827
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 1: families we gotta at least start there. We gotta at

828
00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 1: least start getting married again. And I really feel like

829
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:38,320
Speaker 1: these fucking gas prices is gonna force that, because again,

830
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 1: it's double occupancy. This life is not meant for you

831
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 1: to be out here by yourself. You need a partner.

832
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 1: And the earlier you get that partner, even if y'all

833
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 1: do split, y'all got some ship to split, right, you

834
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, You're not just starting from dust

835
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 1: when you do part if you've accumulated things earlier in life.

836
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:58,880
Speaker 1: Because the twenty year old white girls they getting divorced

837
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:01,719
Speaker 1: that thirty That's not what I'm saying. They're still getting divorced,

838
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:05,880
Speaker 1: but they might have a little assets right after that divorce,

839
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:07,840
Speaker 1: you know, just come out come out of it with

840
00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:10,760
Speaker 1: a baby. Black women we just be out head with babies,

841
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 1: and that's what we want to change. So let's work. Look, look,

842
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 1: is that the gist of it? Yeah, let's work on that.

843
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:24,480
Speaker 1: Like did I clean that up? Enough to not offend anybody. Know,

844
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 1: you know, it's still many. Man, They're gonna be in

845
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:33,400
Speaker 1: the reviews next week. These bitches just keep saying ship

846
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:38,800
Speaker 1: with no facts. The fact is your mama singer mama.

847
00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 1: My mama wasn't single mama, toad mom wasn't a single mama. Like,

848
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 1: this is a ship. This is a facts. Okay, these

849
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 1: are fucking facts. Okay. I don't need to read it

850
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:50,920
Speaker 1: somewhere or give y'all a goddamn um link. A matter

851
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: of fact, I'm gonna start doing that. I'm gonna start

852
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 1: citing my resources for y'all holes, because I'm sick. Because

853
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 1: we do research this ship, y'all. We don't just be

854
00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:59,600
Speaker 1: out here just saying what we think we do like,

855
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:03,040
Speaker 1: we do research it. So yeah, but then then the

856
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:06,399
Speaker 1: thing with Google is, Okay, let's say I have a theory, right,

857
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:08,920
Speaker 1: somebody else has a theory. There's gonna be supporting evidence

858
00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 1: on Google. Yes, So it's just a perspective. Eat the meat,

859
00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 1: spit the bones out. That's what y'all need to do.

860
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:19,279
Speaker 1: What we talked back, Thank you. Period. Let's go into

861
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 1: them dumb bitch stories for these dumb bitches, Okay, dumb

862
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:27,880
Speaker 1: bitch stories, because we've all in a dumb bitch at

863
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:31,920
Speaker 1: least once or twice. I have one that was sitting

864
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:35,440
Speaker 1: in it says, hey, ladies, man, I love y'all. We

865
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:38,560
Speaker 1: love you too, Cairl, Yeah, girl, I feel like y'all

866
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:41,880
Speaker 1: my sisters. Okay, so here's my story. I met this

867
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:44,840
Speaker 1: dude online in two thousand fifteen and he was homeless

868
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 1: and legally separated from hays wife. Yo, Hating's wife. Okay,

869
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:56,880
Speaker 1: we've been kicking it hard ever since. Once we started sucking,

870
00:54:57,320 --> 00:55:00,840
Speaker 1: he said we were exclusive. Now, my young guests didn't

871
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:03,399
Speaker 1: know what that meant. I did a bunch of girlfriendship

872
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:06,400
Speaker 1: and basically got nothing in return. He always put me

873
00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:08,879
Speaker 1: on the back burner for his kids. Now, I love

874
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:10,879
Speaker 1: a man that spence time with his kids. Don't get

875
00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:13,319
Speaker 1: me wrong, but damn it was all the time. His

876
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:16,520
Speaker 1: sexist trash and his dick was small. He always wanted

877
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:19,480
Speaker 1: his dick suck and never ate my box. And lord,

878
00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 1: he could never stay hard. Why you like this, nag again?

879
00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:29,080
Speaker 1: I confused. I paid for all the hotel stays, food, etcetera, etcetera.

880
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 1: My y'all, he has his business. Fast forward around the holidays,

881
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:37,360
Speaker 1: I just got I lost all attraction to him. I

882
00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:39,880
Speaker 1: told him I wanted to move on and start dating again.

883
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:43,680
Speaker 1: Since then, he has been calling me. I started dating.

884
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:47,719
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Since then he has been calling and calling me,

885
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:50,759
Speaker 1: but I started dating. However, the dudes I date don't

886
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 1: make me feel like he did. Besides all the things

887
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:57,200
Speaker 1: I said, he genuinely cares about me. When I did

888
00:55:57,360 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 1: need him, he was always there, especially with my grand

889
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:02,880
Speaker 1: a father passed away. Sounds like a trauma bond. I

890
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:05,880
Speaker 1: need some advice because I feel like a dumb bitch

891
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 1: l O L. I'm enjoined dating, but I can't seem

892
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:12,560
Speaker 1: to let the genuinely caring part go. Sister, help me.

893
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:16,719
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say her name, but okay, all right,

894
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:20,400
Speaker 1: remember what I said, that thing I said about attachment issues.

895
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 1: And also I always say like, if you're in a

896
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:26,400
Speaker 1: relationship with somebody, is not a good relationship whatever, Sometimes

897
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:28,879
Speaker 1: you gotta look within. It's not always an external thing.

898
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:34,120
Speaker 1: I would challenge her to look at her. I would

899
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:35,719
Speaker 1: like to know. I would like to have some more

900
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:39,720
Speaker 1: information from her before I really really start judging some ship.

901
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 1: But did you experience some ship in your childhood where

902
00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 1: you felt like your parents weren't caring for you, they

903
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 1: weren't showing up for you. And now you've got this

904
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:57,880
Speaker 1: man that's doing those things, and that's what you're attaching to.

905
00:56:58,120 --> 00:57:02,720
Speaker 1: He's failing in all other categories, but he's delivering on

906
00:57:02,760 --> 00:57:09,239
Speaker 1: this one trauma, traumatic thing from your childhood, right, and

907
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 1: that's what you're sticking with because he didn't say anything

908
00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 1: good about him. Homeless Mary, little dick, won't stay hard

909
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 1: care fuck, don't pay for hotels, don't pay for food.

910
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 1: But he cares, girl of your sending that nigga back

911
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 1: to his wife, care about her motherfucking as you can find.

912
00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:32,600
Speaker 1: Put a life insurance policy on him first. He can

913
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 1: get some of that money back. He didn't eat you out,

914
00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 1: girl with the fuck that should sound abusive to tail,

915
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:41,400
Speaker 1: I'm not abouna be sucking dick and you ain't eating

916
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 1: this pussy. Come on, that's abuse. He deserves to be

917
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 1: in jail, poor bones legs shout out the leg speed.

918
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: He ain't got a jail. I agree, that's abuse. That's abuse.

919
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:59,680
Speaker 1: All that ship sound abusive to me. You paid for hotel, room,

920
00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 1: team reimbursing and nothing. You're just pulling up to get

921
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:06,320
Speaker 1: little dick. Come on, because you can't let her go

922
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 1: in the genuinely care part. But I challenge you to

923
00:58:08,720 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 1: start genuinely caring for yourself because if you did, you

924
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:17,040
Speaker 1: would not allow all these things. No, that's it. That's

925
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:21,120
Speaker 1: the absolute truth. We date based on our self esteem oftentimes.

926
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:24,800
Speaker 1: So what's going on with you that you think that

927
00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:29,240
Speaker 1: this is that this is a real relationship. It's not. Nope,

928
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:31,440
Speaker 1: And then and then you started off that she started

929
00:58:31,440 --> 00:58:36,800
Speaker 1: off with the hat and asked wife, hating, asked wife.

930
00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:40,360
Speaker 1: Let's be clear, this is someone's husband you're working with, right,

931
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:43,919
Speaker 1: she got everyone you're calling her man at your ass?

932
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 1: And look, she probably mad because she guess how long

933
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:51,920
Speaker 1: she'd been getting that whack broke dick? A long time?

934
00:58:52,160 --> 00:58:55,800
Speaker 1: She's married. Day share it with somebody else, like it

935
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 1: was enough to go around the embarrassing her out here.

936
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 1: Have you ever did didn't fun with somebody who had

937
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:07,560
Speaker 1: a little dick and he married. Now you'd be looking

938
00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:11,040
Speaker 1: at his wife like you like, no, bitch. When they

939
00:59:11,080 --> 00:59:13,520
Speaker 1: have a kid, I'd be like, don't let the nigga

940
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 1: have a son. I'd be like, oh, man, I hope

941
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 1: that I hope this baby gets a dick from her

942
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:19,280
Speaker 1: side of the fan, from his mama. I hope he

943
00:59:19,320 --> 00:59:28,400
Speaker 1: get his dick from his mama because look, listen, bad

944
00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:30,880
Speaker 1: he made get that check. Because man, that's some self

945
00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 1: esteem missues you do not want to deal with from

946
00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 1: a man, all from a growing boy, like once he

947
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 1: realized he got that little dick is gonna be a problem.

948
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:44,160
Speaker 1: And if you play sports like they start realizing it

949
00:59:44,280 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 1: gotta be like a transition. Nigga is going through like

950
00:59:49,240 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 1: this kind of sad now I feel bad, like little dick.

951
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,920
Speaker 1: Niggas need love to y'all deserve to be loved just

952
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 1: like anybody else and something. It's got to be the

953
00:59:57,200 --> 01:00:00,240
Speaker 1: baby Bear Porridge like maybe little dicks is just right

954
01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:06,800
Speaker 1: for some of us, not me. That's a girl like

955
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:08,400
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna be out here acting like I could

956
01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 1: just take all this dick because I really can't. Yeah,

957
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:13,280
Speaker 1: I don't want to. Like I said, baby Bear Porch,

958
01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:16,160
Speaker 1: I don't want no humongous did we apologizing every time

959
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:19,440
Speaker 1: he put it in. It's the fight, like we're fighting

960
01:00:19,480 --> 01:00:21,320
Speaker 1: to have sex and I'm pushing you up off me,

961
01:00:21,440 --> 01:00:25,160
Speaker 1: Like no, I need to be able to normatize backs. Yes,

962
01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 1: that's what I'm sad. Man, got a lot of pressure

963
01:00:30,040 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 1: on them. That's gonna be a lot of pressure. Yeah,

964
01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 1: that's a lot of pressure, man, there's a lot of

965
01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 1: pressure being a man. Yeah. I'm happy being a woman. Yeah,

966
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:43,720
Speaker 1: me too. I appreciate being a woman more because men did.

967
01:00:43,760 --> 01:00:46,520
Speaker 1: Y'all definitely got a lot of pressure on y'all. A

968
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 1: you get to a certain age to where you don't

969
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 1: give a funk and it's like ship, these been just

970
01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:52,760
Speaker 1: gonna get. These been just gonna get what I give him, money, dick,

971
01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:55,400
Speaker 1: whatever it is, This is what I got, right. I

972
01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 1: didn't bring no more dick with me. This is all

973
01:00:57,200 --> 01:01:01,400
Speaker 1: the dick I brought with me. Have a bit of

974
01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 1: ordering some more dick when you leave uber Meats. We

975
01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:12,680
Speaker 1: still need to start that. Yes, I don't know, but look,

976
01:01:12,720 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 1: y'all be careful out here, like sit your ass at home.

977
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:17,840
Speaker 1: Gases to my fucking high for you to be riding

978
01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 1: around trying to clear your mind and should clear your

979
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 1: mind in the house, chill. And it's just getting even

980
01:01:23,800 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 1: more crazy with all the shootings every single day. We're

981
01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 1: just being traumatized. These niggas have been activated. Yes, rest

982
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:38,439
Speaker 1: in peace to him. Yeah, I didn't and um, what's

983
01:01:38,480 --> 01:01:47,000
Speaker 1: the producer's mom double hummed suicide. Yes, that's just it's

984
01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:52,720
Speaker 1: really wicked. Yeah, it's like somebody hit a switch. Somebody

985
01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:56,120
Speaker 1: hit a switch. My ex boyfriend was shot over the

986
01:01:56,160 --> 01:02:00,720
Speaker 1: weekend by a random nigga in the gas station. He survived.

987
01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 1: The bullets went straight through four his shoulder, his elbow,

988
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:11,520
Speaker 1: his back, um in his hip, straight through. He drove

989
01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:13,360
Speaker 1: hisself to the emergency room. He was on the way

990
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:15,720
Speaker 1: to his daughter's graduation and nigga bumped into him in

991
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:18,640
Speaker 1: the gas station like aggressively, and he just said, he

992
01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:20,440
Speaker 1: told a guy, don't do that ship no more or

993
01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:24,280
Speaker 1: something like that, and guy just started booting up on him,

994
01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:26,520
Speaker 1: like what the fun you're gonna do? Just literally out

995
01:02:26,520 --> 01:02:29,880
Speaker 1: here looking into right And that's what I say, nothing

996
01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:33,800
Speaker 1: back to that cookbook, bitch in the party, because looking

997
01:02:33,880 --> 01:02:38,240
Speaker 1: for smoke. Just looking for smoke. And he basically said

998
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:40,440
Speaker 1: the guy shot him out the store, like he was

999
01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:43,440
Speaker 1: back turned leaving out the store and this man started

1000
01:02:43,480 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 1: shooting at him. Shot him, yes, shot him for And

1001
01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:50,439
Speaker 1: then he said, once he heard the gun just click

1002
01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:53,760
Speaker 1: click click, he said, he chased him. He beat him up.

1003
01:02:57,040 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 1: He beat the guy had to drive itself to the

1004
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 1: emergency room. Yeah, that ship is wicked, y'all. Stay out

1005
01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:08,840
Speaker 1: the way man r I Peter um trouble. I feel

1006
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:11,480
Speaker 1: like all that ship is kind of related to that

1007
01:03:11,520 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 1: ship that's going on with Young Thug and Gunna. I

1008
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:17,840
Speaker 1: feel like like we've got to start a Patreon targeted

1009
01:03:18,560 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 1: to hear all ags theories of conspiracy there. I feel

1010
01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:28,800
Speaker 1: like I feel like those are small ponds and they're

1011
01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:33,800
Speaker 1: they're targeting bigger players. They're targeting black supremacy. I believe

1012
01:03:34,240 --> 01:03:39,080
Speaker 1: mhm Via a black woman because you know, um district

1013
01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 1: attorney is a black woman. She's bringing up all these

1014
01:03:42,560 --> 01:03:46,160
Speaker 1: cases on niggas. MT see that they'd be using us

1015
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:50,200
Speaker 1: against us. Got to be more careful out here, man. Alright,

1016
01:03:50,320 --> 01:03:53,240
Speaker 1: I'll be on the lookout for our patreon. I say

1017
01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 1: all of that to say, right, look but listen, man,

1018
01:03:58,760 --> 01:04:02,600
Speaker 1: love one another. Listen and if you enjoy this episode,

1019
01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:05,640
Speaker 1: please tune in every Thursday on an I Heart Radio Apple,

1020
01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 1: whatever the fun you get your podcast that. I feel

1021
01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 1: like I said last motherfucker's this episode. I know you

1022
01:04:12,120 --> 01:04:19,080
Speaker 1: are motherfucker trying y'all listen. Follow me on Instagram. It's

1023
01:04:19,080 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 1: a j Holiday two point Oh, I'm gonna start putting

1024
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 1: up to my mother fucking stock tips. Y'all. Amazon split

1025
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 1: one to day. This is your opportunity to get in. Yes,

1026
01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 1: it's your opportunity. Friday Stop closed at two thousand for

1027
01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:33,760
Speaker 1: her and forty seven dollars. This morning, we woke up

1028
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 1: to a per share for Amazon. Okay. That means if

1029
01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 1: you would have got in there last week, if you

1030
01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:43,520
Speaker 1: had one share, you'd have had twenty shares today. So

1031
01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:45,880
Speaker 1: this is the opportunity to make some mother fucking money.

1032
01:04:45,920 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 1: Google is coming up with a split Tesla apples talking

1033
01:04:49,120 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 1: about that's another episode. I know, I'm just listen. We

1034
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:55,040
Speaker 1: gotta let people know. I'd want to let people know, man,

1035
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:58,080
Speaker 1: I like, I like putting people onto information. But go ahead.

1036
01:04:58,120 --> 01:05:01,480
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Tammy. Look I'm official tam Bab. Y'all follow

1037
01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:05,560
Speaker 1: me on Instagram. Also follow our Instagram page we Talked

1038
01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:09,400
Speaker 1: Back podcast. Yeah, follow us there. We'll be talking ship

1039
01:05:09,520 --> 01:05:11,320
Speaker 1: and having fun there, and we're gonna start posting a

1040
01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 1: lot more of ourselves. They're making reels because they say

1041
01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:17,919
Speaker 1: we need to. So we're gonna start doing like being social. Man,

1042
01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:20,480
Speaker 1: I know I don't, but we're gonna have to because

1043
01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:24,280
Speaker 1: it's and that's where he said apparently, so y'all follow us.

1044
01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 1: We're gonna be on there. We love y'all, and y'all

1045
01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:31,240
Speaker 1: remember to speak now and never hold your motherfucker beasts.

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Speaker 1: You couldn't help