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Speaker 1: To Teas in a Pod. It's Teddy Mellencamp and cam

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Speaker 1: Ridge Edge.

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Speaker 2: Hey, guys, welcome back another episode of Two Teas and

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Speaker 2: a Pod with myself and Dolores. Today we are going

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Speaker 2: to be recapping the Valley. Now we haven't recapped the

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Speaker 2: Valley together.

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Speaker 1: We haven't. No, Oh, let's get to it, Teddy. I

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Speaker 1: think that this is the episode to do it too.

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Speaker 2: I think it starts out with a girl's confront Nia,

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Speaker 2: and as we were saying, like, Nia is just such

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Speaker 2: a nice girl, she's upset that they are upset that

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Speaker 2: Nia keeps glossing over everything with hyper positive attitude, which

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Speaker 2: I wish I could have a hyper positive attitude, right.

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Speaker 1: I think it's also the fact that she and we

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Speaker 1: understand now she has an amazing coping mechanism. She's not

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Speaker 1: falling apart, she's not running around crying because she's been

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Speaker 1: through more shit in the first part of her life

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Speaker 1: that trumps anything that she's going through.

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Speaker 2: But does just prove like you can't judge a book

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Speaker 2: by character.

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Speaker 1: She oh being beautiful, beauty queen and all that stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, they claim she's covering up for Danny's alcoholism

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Speaker 2: by claiming he's exhausted. She's saying it could be you know,

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Speaker 2: it could be two things, drinking and being exhausted.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a lot of she she's covering up,

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Speaker 1: maybe even to her own self.

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Speaker 2: Well maybe she maybe she has taught herself or has

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Speaker 2: been taught that you deal with marriage stuff at home,

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Speaker 2: you don't need to talk about everything.

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Speaker 1: Well, then don't go on a show.

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Speaker 2: I know, I know. But Nia defends herself, explaining that

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Speaker 2: two things can be true. At the same time, Danny

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Speaker 2: wakes up from his nap and he wants to know

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Speaker 2: what all the commotion is about, and Nia takes him

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Speaker 2: in another room to talk to him. Janet shares with

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Speaker 2: the rest of the girls that Danny followed her into

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Speaker 2: the pantry, closed the door behind him, and took a

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Speaker 2: swig of tequila.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but we do find out later that the reason

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Speaker 1: he went in there to have the tequila, because that's

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Speaker 1: where it was.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and let me ask you a question. Did he

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Speaker 2: close the door maybe because the tequila was behind the door.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean, you opened up the door.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it's all in presentation. Regardless. The

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Speaker 1: guy's got a problem. I think from what everybody else

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Speaker 1: is saying, I think they're convinced. They're convinced. They're conning

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Speaker 1: that he's got a problem. They've addressed this problem at home.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, Jackson is probably thrilled about this. He's like, Haha,

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Speaker 2: no one's talking about my addiction problems. Now they're talking

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Speaker 2: about Danny's drinking problems. Now they're calling him dark side Danny.

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Speaker 2: Is he an alcoholic or was he just being a

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Speaker 2: drunk fool?

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Speaker 1: Well, we don't know. I see, I'm not really that

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Speaker 1: familiar with alcoholism. I'm familiar with a nasty drunk and

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Speaker 1: that's maybe why I can't drink.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have friends that can drink and never change

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Speaker 2: and could drink, you know, every night and still be

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Speaker 2: the same person. You know, when somebody has a drinking problem,

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Speaker 2: when they don't have a drinking problem, if you spend

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Speaker 2: enough time with them.

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Speaker 1: Well they're convinced, and I'm not. I can't go against

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Speaker 1: people that see him all the time, who know people

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Speaker 1: with drinking problems. Yeah, because they all, you know, partied,

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Speaker 2: Nia kind of sounds like she's admitting there's truth to it,

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Speaker 2: but she's dealing with it privately, privately.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's not what you signed up for, right, I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry to say. Now, I understand in real world that's

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Speaker 1: how you deal with it, but not in this world.

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Speaker 1: No Number one numbers.

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Speaker 2: Well, she screaming, No, he's not he's not an alcoholic.

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Speaker 2: She's not saying that.

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Speaker 1: But the other thing is, Tamera, and I've been someone

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Speaker 1: don't talk about it. I get things done, I fix it,

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Speaker 1: but I don't make a big deal. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: the other person is saying, go take a nap, Like

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Speaker 1: you said it last It wasn't you. I can't believe

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Speaker 1: it Teddy? She said, who said that we'd ever be

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Speaker 1: allowed to take a nap during filming? Right? Good point?

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Speaker 2: I mean unless you drinking a lot in your nap

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Speaker 2: is what you call, you know, pass out?

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Speaker 1: Passed out?

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Speaker 2: Yep. Well, Michelle and Sheena go on a hike. Michelle

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Speaker 2: recaps the fight between her and Jesse and Santa Barbara.

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Speaker 2: Jesse lashes out at her for cheating and called her

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Speaker 2: terrible names like a hooker and a lyon cheating whore, just.

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Speaker 1: To name a few.

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Speaker 2: I saw Sheena at the upfronts and she told me

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Speaker 2: not been that nice to her. Her mom was sick

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Speaker 2: during filming and she had a lot on her plate.

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Speaker 2: And because we had said something like what's wrong, me

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Speaker 2: and Teddy had said like what's wrong with Michelle? Like

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Speaker 2: she seems ai, like she just doesn't have any right.

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Speaker 1: I was sitting with you when when Sheena said cut

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Speaker 1: her or braid?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so she I get it, Okay. I apologize Michelle

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Speaker 2: for calling you ai. I just wanted to seem a

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Speaker 2: little bit more reaction. I think we're getting it now.

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Speaker 2: So Aaron told Michelle that he loved her, but he

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Speaker 2: can't deal with her crazy X.

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Speaker 1: So oh, really, would you dump a guy so much

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Speaker 2: Would you dump a guy who had a crazy X?

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Speaker 1: So here comes the honey guy. All of a sudden,

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Speaker 1: You're about to be totally free. You were she was

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Speaker 1: good enough when she was married. You didn't care about

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Speaker 1: this shit going on with her and Jesse is nothing

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Speaker 1: that just started yesterday. This has been going on, but

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Speaker 1: her divorce is getting closer. Do you not want her divorced?

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Speaker 1: Do you not want her? On? And on and on

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Speaker 1: and on. But don't they live together? These two? I

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Speaker 2: I don't know if they live together.

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Speaker 1: I think I don't know. But is he worried that

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Speaker 1: I want a family with you and Isabella. But I'm

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Speaker 1: not I'm not sure I want this trouble and he's

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Speaker 1: always going to be around. Well guess what, Michelle, the

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Speaker 1: honey guy isn't so sweet. Well, he knew what he

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Speaker 1: was getting in too, you know what I mean? No,

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Speaker 1: I don't. You don't say that, you know, no bick

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Speaker 1: or thin, bro. She she put a lot on the

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Speaker 1: line to be with you. Okay, Yeah, she's miles of

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Speaker 1: shit to be with you. It was good enough for you,

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Speaker 1: then with anybody take in the heat.

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Speaker 2: Does anybody know if they're still together?

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Speaker 1: I'd like to know.

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Speaker 2: I like to know this.

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Speaker 1: I don't like that he said that. I don't like it.

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Speaker 1: I don't even like it. And if he meant it,

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Speaker 2: Well, it's kind of a hard thing to say when

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Speaker 2: they're all filming a show together.

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Speaker 1: You know. Here's the thing. No, I know, but but

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Speaker 1: like Tamra, if he said that, that should have been

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Speaker 1: the last thing he said to her. Don't say that

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Speaker 1: and stay with her, because then I would never trust

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Speaker 1: him again. Yeah, it was okay. When she was putting

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Speaker 1: I'm really mad about it. I'm really mad about it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they recently.

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Speaker 2: Okay, breaking news here we are hearing that Michelle and

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Speaker 1: She wasn't gonna let him go, so she wasn't letting

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Speaker 2: Hopefully now all this Jesse and Michelle stuff is put

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Speaker 1: I will say this in defense of the honey guy.

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Speaker 1: None of this is easy. He walked into filming. Hey,

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Speaker 2: Must be hard filming a show together while you're going

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Speaker 1: And then like, as a man, he has to sit

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Speaker 2: Jesse is trying to do better, so he has his

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Speaker 2: release his anger. Michelle admitted she'd cheated and suspects.

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Speaker 2: But she's like, are you telling me that all these

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Speaker 2: times that you were out childing around that you never cheated.

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Speaker 1: He didn't say no. He didn't say no. He didn't

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Speaker 2: So over at Luke and Kristen's they check out the

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Speaker 2: latest updates.

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Speaker 1: She said that I'm glad she told him she probably

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Speaker 1: you want Michelle, get it girl.

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Speaker 2: So Luke and Kristen check out the latest updates on

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Speaker 2: their new rental home. Luke claims this is the first

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Speaker 2: step in his plan to propose to Kristen.

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Speaker 1: Jasmine drops by discuss him. I do too.

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Speaker 2: I think I really like them together. I like the

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Speaker 2: fact that you know he's planning this out. He want

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Speaker 2: They didn't realize they were together for so long. They've

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Speaker 1: Years they've been together, and they drove across country with

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Speaker 1: has listened. She wasn't easy in the past, like she

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Speaker 1: I think I think they're perfect together.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't understand why Nia can't just admit that Danny

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Speaker 2: Luke and Kristen don't understand why Danny getting drunk was

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Speaker 1: That's for her, so him. I just think that's for

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Speaker 1: and it's and it's you know, it's it's it molds

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Speaker 2: Well, I sure hope he treats her well forever and

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Speaker 1: She's not at all. I don't see that in any

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Speaker 2: Really No, No, you're right, none of them really are.

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Speaker 2: They haven't gotten married, right, Kristen. No, she's still pregnant

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Speaker 1: Cares about a wedding, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I like seeing weddings, birth and weddings.

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Speaker 1: I would feel so shy if I had a wedding, Tamra,

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Speaker 1: if I hadn't. Oh my god, No, I get so

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Speaker 2: Did you watch Tamra's OC wedding?

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Speaker 1: I did it?

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Speaker 2: She recaps a night with Danny, questioning what he was

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Speaker 1: This is not the first time a pant. Something happened

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Speaker 2: Well, a lot goes on in a pantry, evidently on Bravo.

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Speaker 1: Stay out of the pantry.

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Speaker 2: But do you think that that maybe Danny has a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But Janna and Jason are both leaning into Danny

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Speaker 1: And isn't it up to Danny to say if he

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Speaker 2: last year, you know, calling my aunt cast members one

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Speaker 2: like you, people are not ready to say.

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Speaker 1: So you went through this last year, so you can

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Speaker 1: speak on this. I can't tell me because most people

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Speaker 1: on my cast don't drink, so they.

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Speaker 2: Don't really not really, No, I just I just found out,

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Speaker 2: like it's never good to accuse somebody of their drinking problems.

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Speaker 2: It's just unless that person is willing to admit it.

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Speaker 1: It's just it's not for you to say. It's not

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Speaker 1: for you to tell. Yeah, exactly. So why aren't they

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Speaker 1: getting the ship you got for saying it? Oh?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe because I was a little bit more vocal and true.

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Speaker 1: But the pot call in the cattle.

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Speaker 2: Wait.

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Speaker 1: Talk about the world of double standard, right, Welcome to

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Speaker 1: Most people that know me know that I'm not a

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Speaker 1: big drinker. I just don't like the taste of it.

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Speaker 1: I get nothing out of it. I'd rather eat, right,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to get filled up on liquor.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I hear you.

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Speaker 1: Well that's it, that's how it ends.

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Speaker 2: And thanks guys for tuning in to another episode of

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Speaker 2: Two Teas in a Pod