WEBVTT - Episode 183: Rural Rhymes with Oral (Feat. Christopher Martin) 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:03.480 What's up? What's up is lip Service and we are 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:05.560 getting ready for lip Service Life is going down at 0:00:05.559 --> 0:00:08.920 Carolines on March this week. We will be announcing some 0:00:09.000 --> 0:00:10.680 of our special guests. But make sure you buy your 0:00:10.680 --> 0:00:12.760 tickets because they are about to sell out and we 0:00:12.800 --> 0:00:15.040 want to see you there. Shout out to my guy trap. 0:00:15.120 --> 0:00:17.040 He's going to be in the audience with the microphone 0:00:17.040 --> 0:00:20.000 taking your questions and you will be participating. So make 0:00:20.040 --> 0:00:22.080 sure you go to carolines dot com and get your 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:24.720 tickets to see lip Service Live in New York City 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:29.240 at Carolines March twenty weeks seven. What's up is Angelie. 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:33.640 I'm gd McGuire, I'm Lourial and oh okay, yeah, I'm 0:00:33.680 --> 0:00:36.360 Christopher Martin. I'm good. I'm good, I'm good. I'm blessed. 0:00:36.640 --> 0:00:41.559 Christ the plane and you know he's in New York 0:00:41.560 --> 0:00:45.320 with his light ass jacket feather. Is that the warman's 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:48.040 coat you have? I think so. I probably think I'll 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:50.120 have a warmer one in my sup kids. But he 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:53.560 got layers on. He's smart. Are you enjoying the weather? 0:00:54.000 --> 0:00:58.360 Not really. I'll live here from here in this area, 0:00:58.440 --> 0:01:00.880 and I don't enjoy the weather either. So I'm troubled, 0:01:01.080 --> 0:01:03.920 you know, or with differently not all over would probably 0:01:03.920 --> 0:01:06.880 tropical in the former life because that love issue. It's 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:09.920 the right are you hoping that it snows? Because not 0:01:09.959 --> 0:01:13.240 really I've seen the snow. If I've never seen it before, 0:01:13.280 --> 0:01:14.160 you know what I mean, then I would be like 0:01:14.200 --> 0:01:16.120 I really wanted to snow what I'm here. But it's 0:01:16.120 --> 0:01:19.960 still fun though, it's just different. Nothing's fun about this now. 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:27.640 It could be romantic. It looks nice from outside. It's nice. Izzard. 0:01:27.720 --> 0:01:35.040 Ain't nothing romantic about snow, man. You need to get warmer, alright. 0:01:35.080 --> 0:01:37.160 So we're gonna start this off from a question that 0:01:37.200 --> 0:01:39.399 we had last night, I mean last week, and you 0:01:39.440 --> 0:01:41.919 have to guess which one of us had this story 0:01:41.920 --> 0:01:44.880 to tell? Okay, is it me? Is it loriale? Or 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:48.880 is it alright? So which one of us got our 0:01:48.960 --> 0:01:51.120 period on a rappers tour bus and it woke up 0:01:51.160 --> 0:01:53.680 in a pool of blood and was scared to tell him, 0:01:54.360 --> 0:02:07.080 yis all right? He ain't even looking he looked. It's 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:09.120 her going to guess it's okay. We just want to 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:15.880 see what your looking. She wasn't looking at me, it 0:02:16.000 --> 0:02:22.200 was I was so scared. He's like I don't care. 0:02:22.200 --> 0:02:23.880 I'm like, but I remained. He's like, I didn't care. 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:26.120 You're a woman. I'm like, what I should be like, 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:29.079 I don't care. But I was so scared to tell him, right, 0:02:29.080 --> 0:02:31.359 he was gonna see it anyway. How did you hide that? 0:02:31.520 --> 0:02:35.440 I didn't hide it everywhere? So basically we were in 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:36.840 the bed. You should have told him you were in 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:45.360 virgin he broke your hand. This was so I couldn't. 0:02:45.480 --> 0:02:47.640 It wasn't said my whole clothes back had a vamp 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:51.079 along years of situation. So we were very comfortable with 0:02:51.120 --> 0:02:53.840 each other. And he got up out of the bed 0:02:53.919 --> 0:02:56.680 before I did and went into the front of the bus. 0:02:57.320 --> 0:02:59.600 And when I got up, I felt it. I saw it, 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:03.280 and I'm like, oh, I got to tell him. It's 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:06.280 how can you hide that? Right? So I called him 0:03:06.320 --> 0:03:08.280 to the back of the bus and I'm like, you 0:03:08.400 --> 0:03:10.760 got to tell you something. It's a murder scene. And 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:12.919 it's like what And I'm like I'm scared and he's 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:14.239 like what. And I'm like, put your hand on my 0:03:14.280 --> 0:03:17.000 heart and see how hard it's being. And he's like, 0:03:17.000 --> 0:03:18.799 now you're making me scared. And when I told him, 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:22.519 he's like really, like I don't care. He's like, Jesus, 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:24.520 thank god you're not pregnant. Yeah, that's what I would 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:30.639 That's what I would have. So, Christopher, have you ever 0:03:30.680 --> 0:03:34.000 had a situation like that? No, No, that's never happened 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:36.360 to me. I feel like every girl has accidentally had 0:03:36.440 --> 0:03:38.840 sex in her period, and every guy has experienced a 0:03:38.840 --> 0:03:42.200 girl who didn't know it was about to come, Like 0:03:42.240 --> 0:03:47.400 you didn't know it was coming accidentally. Though I don't know. 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:50.400 It's possible that you can accidentally get your period, like 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:52.360 you didn't know. It's so possible that you can lie 0:03:52.400 --> 0:03:56.000 in so you sometimes you think it's over. Now that's 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:58.960 something that I can see you think it's over, But 0:03:59.080 --> 0:04:01.600 now I don't know accidentally, I don't felt like I 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:05.120 could see that, or maybe one word could bring it 0:04:05.160 --> 0:04:09.000 don't early, Okay, okay, I could see that happening. You 0:04:09.000 --> 0:04:12.800 can see that, you know, saying it's finished that I 0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:16.880 don't know. You know, of course you could, but I'm 0:04:16.920 --> 0:04:22.440 just saying that my love, come there, come back. That's 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:26.880 when she said, you made it? Do you remember that? 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:29.640 Have you ever made a girl squirt? Yeah? Do you 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:31.120 remember the first time it happened? Did you know what 0:04:31.160 --> 0:04:33.760 was going on. I didn't know. Actually when up the 0:04:33.839 --> 0:04:39.640 very first time, I thought it was p It's not mad, No, 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:42.320 it was all over. I told me like, so, what 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:44.599 is this? You know what I mean? And then and 0:04:44.640 --> 0:04:46.720 then she's like, I should have told you that I 0:04:46.800 --> 0:04:50.760 squirt me. Oh this is squirting. Did you like it? 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:54.359 I feel like it's a different kind of Maybe have 0:04:54.480 --> 0:04:56.880 some girls who just squirt on the regular, and then 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:59.279 maybe have some girls who, you know what I mean, 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:01.520 the pipe game for bring them to the level of day. 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:04.200 So I want to use the latter. Okay, so maybe 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:06.680 my game is you know, my game is the squirt game. 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:10.120 Sounds like she was a regular squarter though, because she 0:05:10.160 --> 0:05:12.919 was like, Oh, I didn't tell you. I do this 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:15.440 with all the guy but I'm gonna I'm gonna stick. 0:05:15.600 --> 0:05:18.279 I'm gonna stick to the lot. That's what I'm working with. 0:05:19.520 --> 0:05:21.880 Rights certain guys that could bring it out of you, 0:05:22.120 --> 0:05:25.599 and then it's the girl never gonna happen. So our 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:29.159 women who can do it like that. Yeah, so it's 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:31.200 a spot that you hit. I don't felt like I 0:05:31.240 --> 0:05:34.400 know that. Yeah, what does it feel like? I coul 0:05:34.440 --> 0:05:39.240 droid with the mask like circular? You know, it's like 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:42.840 it's a button. It's a button. It's a button that's 0:05:43.400 --> 0:05:45.520 straighten and you go a little left and then take 0:05:45.520 --> 0:05:59.200 a sharp brightening right there too, like a feet two 0:05:59.279 --> 0:06:04.480 hundred feet. Nobody reaching there. Nobody's reaching there. And now 0:06:04.600 --> 0:06:06.360 you seem like a nice guy just based off of 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:09.600 your music except for cheaters prayer, But is that a 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:15.159 nice song? If you have to pray it's an honest 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:19.240 song because you know the mentality of men on a whole. 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:22.360 We're like lions, you know, so we're hunters if a 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:25.599 guy is gonna be honest with himself, so we want 0:06:25.640 --> 0:06:28.159 to indulge at some point in time. We can go years. 0:06:28.279 --> 0:06:30.240 Some guys can go years or months or weeks and 0:06:30.320 --> 0:06:35.159 not indulge in Noah active infidelity. But if it does happen, 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:39.039 they don't want to get caught, so it's fox. So 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:40.760 it's like you're praying you don't want to do it, 0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:43.880 but and even that it does happen, please don't let 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:45.880 me get caught. So you're not praying to not it, 0:06:46.000 --> 0:06:49.800 you're just praying it not. I'm confused that you can't 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:52.479 want to cheat at all. We don't, we don't. But 0:06:52.680 --> 0:06:54.800 if it does happen. You know, if you don't get caught, 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:58.240 you don't cheat. How many times? If you guys are cheating, 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:01.520 I've never gotten caught. He got the prayer. It doesn't 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:06.720 it work if everybody listen to cheat prayer, But write it. 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:10.520 You got to be the creator. I sang that song 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:14.840 from from a society base, not from a personal So 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:17.880 you've never cheated. No, I'm not to cheating. I was. 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:20.440 I was born on Valentine's Day, some day I love. 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:23.360 I can't cheat you Did that mean you get gifts 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:27.559 on Valentine's Day? It's only right still, man get gifts 0:07:27.560 --> 0:07:30.840 on Valentine's Day. I got my boyfriend. Did you get him? 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:34.400 I had some flowers and candy and balloons and a 0:07:34.400 --> 0:07:37.120 Teddy Bear since his office. You also bought him ugs 0:07:37.120 --> 0:07:48.240 though she knew that slipper. She was waiting, do you 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:51.840 like any flowers? Of course? She was very happy, of course, 0:07:52.280 --> 0:07:55.560 And I'm just saying, he's just surprised. He told me 0:07:55.640 --> 0:08:01.360 he was very excited, like very It's nice. Man. I 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:05.160 didn't think he was. I love it. Man out here 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:09.320 working making all this money by gifts and ship sing 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:17.720 ch ch has a girl ever tricked on you um, 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:21.560 and but you man stuff and gifts. Yeah, but that's 0:08:21.560 --> 0:08:23.640 because it's his birthday and Valentine's Day. I don't know 0:08:23.640 --> 0:08:27.200 if that's tricken. That's separate and apart from our speciality. Yeah, 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:29.520 what's the best gift you've ever got? And then we'll 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:33.880 gauge how good you are the best gift? Right, the 0:08:33.880 --> 0:08:39.720 best gift I've ever got? House, Well, no about laying 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:42.839 it down, al right, I don't think about it, and 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:48.000 I'm gonna come back. Yeah, No, I want to for 0:08:48.040 --> 0:08:50.360 the best, right, you know. So, so I gotta sift through. 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:52.600 I got a few of us, because he got a lot. 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:56.000 It could be some good. It doesn't have to be 0:08:56.000 --> 0:08:57.440 ground drawing, nothing like that, you know what I mean. 0:08:57.720 --> 0:09:00.160 It can't be simple because sometimes this thing put things 0:09:00.200 --> 0:09:02.120 are the ones that really hit him the hardest, you know, 0:09:02.720 --> 0:09:06.040 So you know, the thought as opposed to the quantity 0:09:06.600 --> 0:09:09.640 or the quality the qualities of a quantity at all time. 0:09:09.679 --> 0:09:11.280 So you know, I mean, it's simple what it it 0:09:11.400 --> 0:09:13.319 hit home? So I want to find a real I 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:14.559 don't just want to give you one off the top 0:09:14.559 --> 0:09:16.640 of my head. I'm sifting through all the nice ones. 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:19.000 I feel like a great one with stand out though 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:24.120 they in your head. Um, I got a really really 0:09:24.240 --> 0:09:28.560 nice gift when I was much younger, like I got 0:09:29.480 --> 0:09:31.560 no no, no, no, no, not every checks, no man, 0:09:31.559 --> 0:09:34.960 because it still stands out in my mind. It's like, um, 0:09:35.040 --> 0:09:37.920 when when I just started in the business, like a 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:40.280 mother came to me and she was telling me about 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:44.440 her daughter, and she, um showed me like a picture 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:48.720 of her daughter's well with like every article that ever 0:09:48.800 --> 0:09:51.400 came out about me, and she put it all over 0:09:51.440 --> 0:09:53.520 a while in like a hard form, you know, and 0:09:53.600 --> 0:09:56.240 my name was in the middle of it, you know. Yeah, 0:09:56.320 --> 0:09:58.840 So she she took a picture of that and gave 0:09:58.880 --> 0:10:02.080 it to me the very first time I performed. And 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:05.680 where was it? Was it Dominica? I think it was Dominica. 0:10:06.080 --> 0:10:07.640 So so that was a gift for me, and it 0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:10.200 was it was just a normal day and she just 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:11.880 gave you to me. She should like, I have a 0:10:12.000 --> 0:10:16.600 very big part on her daughter. So a me some Dominica. No, yeah, 0:10:16.840 --> 0:10:19.760 well he said he has family that's from there, but 0:10:19.760 --> 0:10:22.160 I don't think he's ever been there, you know what. 0:10:22.200 --> 0:10:24.440 It's been scary if she turned out to be a stalker. 0:10:27.120 --> 0:10:30.280 Luckily she didn't do it. She never got the chance 0:10:30.320 --> 0:10:33.680 to you never even met her. I did meet her, 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:35.920 but um, you know it was like, you know, no thing, 0:10:36.120 --> 0:10:39.160 no good Dominica to just show leave. You know, we 0:10:39.240 --> 0:10:41.280 never got a chance to steal. Have you ever had 0:10:41.320 --> 0:10:45.240 a stalker at that? I don't know about persistent and 0:10:45.320 --> 0:10:48.360 somebody being a stalker. It's a very thin line when 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:53.840 when when they go over there, you'll understand, you know, 0:10:56.360 --> 0:11:00.640 popped out from under the band pretty much. And I 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:02.199 said a lot of mean like you know, there's a 0:11:02.280 --> 0:11:04.520 lot o d you probably don't even know about, but 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:07.640 you know, it's a very thing like like some people 0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:10.720 that love you to the extent where it's uncontrollable. I 0:11:10.760 --> 0:11:14.160 feel that's the point where it becomes a stalker kind 0:11:14.160 --> 0:11:18.400 of model when you know you're well, it's not even 0:11:18.400 --> 0:11:23.160 possibly aggressive. It's overly aggressive with their show affection, you understand, 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:24.800 and even when you try to be nice and said, 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:27.640 um okay, I get it, it can't stop now, and 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:30.880 they're still persisting. You know, that's when it reached Stockholm mode. 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:33.600 But I was really slight restraining out on them something. 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:36.520 You know, I know how to advert everything. What if 0:11:36.559 --> 0:11:38.959 you were dating somebody and they were like Hey, I 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:43.160 drove by your house and the lights on. Yeah, you 0:11:43.240 --> 0:11:45.200 told me you weren't home, but I see your car. 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:51.360 I was just driving by. That's weird, like saying I 0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:53.520 was just driving down your black I was in the neighborhood, 0:11:53.520 --> 0:11:54.839 but you told me he wasn't gonna be there. I 0:11:54.920 --> 0:11:57.840 sell your car. What do you think about something like that? 0:11:58.520 --> 0:12:04.600 That's intentional? That happened to me, that's all. Yeah, Sean, 0:12:04.880 --> 0:12:08.800 there's no way, you know, I'm just occasionally driving past. 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:11.400 You said you're in home, but I see your car. 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:14.040 You know, I tell you where your car at. Your 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:16.640 car was right there, parked by the hydrant. And that's 0:12:16.679 --> 0:12:20.200 only possible for your neighbors, Like if you if he's 0:12:20.320 --> 0:12:23.360 on the main street, Yeah, yeah, car, if you have 0:12:23.400 --> 0:12:27.000 to pass the whole something. I think I would go 0:12:27.040 --> 0:12:29.679 a different route if I had to pass, Yeah, the 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:32.160 person's house. You'd be so embarrassed they happened to be 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:36.480 outside and crazy, Yeah, crazy, you're like that. I gotta 0:12:36.520 --> 0:12:39.320 go this like every day, this nigger, I think I'm 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:42.880 just talking. Shoot, my ex boyfriend lived right by me 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:44.680 and I used to have to drive past like where 0:12:44.679 --> 0:12:46.200 he lived at to get home. Would you go a 0:12:46.200 --> 0:12:47.920 different way, or you just to drive that one. I 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:50.600 don't give a fun see, I don't know. I trying 0:12:50.640 --> 0:12:53.200 to go out my way to drive home right through there. 0:12:53.280 --> 0:12:56.240 Yeah I did, And I'd love to see if I 0:12:56.280 --> 0:13:01.360 see you're stuck like a question. But he really did 0:13:01.480 --> 0:13:03.720 live right by me. But I didn't care, like I sime. 0:13:03.920 --> 0:13:07.680 That's what I've seen him with a girl driving back. 0:13:09.280 --> 0:13:18.840 You rain You ever a kind of lightweight stock somebody? No? Never? 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:25.120 Never even Instagram? No, not even Instagram. You ever been like, 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:32.280 who the funk is this that you like? You? No? Definitely. 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:35.640 And then if I'm in a situation with a female 0:13:36.040 --> 0:13:37.760 and I feel like she needs to do all of that, 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:40.880 then and not my female, And I mean she she's 0:13:40.880 --> 0:13:43.360 not mine. She shouldn't even to me because I feel 0:13:43.400 --> 0:13:46.520 like if you get serious with somebody, like commenting on 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:49.840 the needle stuff on them, something that stuff, it's not 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:52.880 necessary unless you know that they're friends, saying now you 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:55.240 eat mom and a nice suit and she can't say 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:57.720 nice suit my brother or a nice suit my friend. 0:13:57.720 --> 0:14:00.560 Would not just rundom need a pages and stuff like 0:14:00.640 --> 0:14:09.000 that corny, right, I mean, like a joke, some big joke, big, 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:11.600 big disrespect and you know what I mean. That's a 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:15.920 that's the full place start. Now, if you're in a relationship, 0:14:16.000 --> 0:14:18.400 let's just say you're jetting somebody. Seriously, you guys are 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:21.560 together most of the time. Is it okay for you 0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:24.880 to spend the night out and not say where you are? No, 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:29.880 I don't think so unless unless unless this is so, 0:14:30.240 --> 0:14:33.440 unless this was the norm from from drum Street, if 0:14:34.000 --> 0:14:38.640 both parties were okay with it from dump Street. But personally, 0:14:38.920 --> 0:14:41.760 my belief is if if you get serious with somebody, 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:45.200 there should be transparency. You understand, you should have no 0:14:45.320 --> 0:14:48.080 closure in which somebody has to wonder if you're doing 0:14:48.080 --> 0:14:50.080 this or if you're doing that. Well, even if you're 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:52.560 doing it, say you're not doing it, then, you know 0:14:52.600 --> 0:14:55.479 what I mean, just to feel like there's some little transparency. 0:14:55.600 --> 0:14:59.320 But if you need to, if you feel like you 0:14:59.400 --> 0:15:01.040 need to know, lie, you know what I mean. But 0:15:01.120 --> 0:15:03.120 at the end of the day, though, if you're going 0:15:03.160 --> 0:15:05.880 to stay by your friend's host, say where you're going. 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:16.840 You know that guy you know so so so, And 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:19.360 that's interesting that you say that because we talked about this, right, 0:15:20.120 --> 0:15:23.640 we were talking about this behind the scenes. When how 0:15:23.760 --> 0:15:26.600 much do you tell somebody that you're dating. Are there 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:28.720 things that sometimes you might want to lie about? Jesse, 0:15:28.880 --> 0:15:35.840 you don't have an argument. It's sticky. Everybody's different, like 0:15:35.880 --> 0:15:39.280 I'm different. I'm different from everybody else. I'm weird personality 0:15:39.280 --> 0:15:41.880 for me. I don't. I don't. I don't intend to 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:45.640 build on lives. Like everybody here knows that the sky 0:15:45.720 --> 0:15:51.080 is blue. We all know this. Well, you know what? 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:57.280 You know? What color is this guy? What commonly when 0:15:57.320 --> 0:16:03.960 someone blue? Like your females, like you remember everything. So 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:06.600 like let's say, let's say last week Wednesday, you asked 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:08.280 me as like when we were driving down the road, 0:16:08.280 --> 0:16:09.800 what color was this guy? I was like, you know, 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:12.240 it was green, bab you know? And then today now 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:14.600 for some reason, you want to you want to truth 0:16:14.720 --> 0:16:16.960 check me nout. So last week when we were down 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:19.680 the road, like what color was the sky? Again? Then me, 0:16:19.840 --> 0:16:22.520 I forgot you brain know what color did I tell 0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:25.040 you the sky was? And then I tell you ready 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:29.040 like no, you said it was green and blue? You 0:16:29.080 --> 0:16:32.520 know what I mean? I can't deal with all of that. 0:16:32.800 --> 0:16:34.280 I know the truth is blue, So you know what 0:16:34.280 --> 0:16:36.160 I mean? I tried to remember I know the truth. 0:16:36.400 --> 0:16:38.240 I don't have to try to remember it, so you 0:16:38.240 --> 0:16:39.640 know what I mean. For me, I don't build on lives. 0:16:39.720 --> 0:16:41.800 So at the end of the day, if i'm if 0:16:41.800 --> 0:16:45.080 I'm gonna get serious as somebody, we're build pun truth 0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:48.800 and transparency. That's all ideal with life. Do you believe 0:16:48.840 --> 0:16:50.760 in anogamy? You think you could be with one woman 0:16:50.800 --> 0:16:52.400 for the rest of your life. I'm not going to be. 0:16:52.440 --> 0:16:56.640 It's difficult, you know what I mean it Mono going 0:16:56.720 --> 0:17:00.280 to me is very difficult, and from it me to 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:03.960 sit here and tell you that you can't keep it straight. 0:17:05.359 --> 0:17:08.520 I don't think I could. I don't think I could 0:17:08.520 --> 0:17:12.199 do that to be honest. You know, Um, I'm an 0:17:12.280 --> 0:17:16.200 Eastern mind free I'm African. You know. Do you tell 0:17:16.240 --> 0:17:18.680 that to the person you're in the relationship with or 0:17:18.800 --> 0:17:22.080 do you believe? No? I don't. I don't sell dreams, 0:17:22.359 --> 0:17:24.760 so you so you believe women can't be monogamous either. 0:17:25.440 --> 0:17:28.320 I feel like women are built differently from men. Of 0:17:28.359 --> 0:17:33.640 course it is you know what I mean, men men men? 0:17:33.760 --> 0:17:35.720 Men were born you know what I mean with nature 0:17:35.760 --> 0:17:37.520 and women were born to nurture and what I mean 0:17:37.560 --> 0:17:44.520 it's it's it's you understand life. They women understand life. 0:17:46.000 --> 0:17:48.320 Women understand life on the end of the day. It's 0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:51.280 just like it's just like for us, for us as 0:17:51.320 --> 0:17:53.800 men is like and I don't know if it can 0:17:53.840 --> 0:17:56.639 speak for every money in here, but like every woman 0:17:56.840 --> 0:18:01.560 like me, a woman can't can't undest than that our 0:18:01.680 --> 0:18:04.440 partner step though, and he probably made a mistake and 0:18:04.520 --> 0:18:07.159 he he messed up and she can see through that. 0:18:08.119 --> 0:18:10.600 For like us as men, though, it's a different kind 0:18:10.640 --> 0:18:15.240 of story, Like it's hard to see pass a girl 0:18:15.280 --> 0:18:18.440 that you feel like you invested trust and loving too, 0:18:18.720 --> 0:18:21.040 but she invested trust and know. That's what I'm saying 0:18:21.040 --> 0:18:23.119 to you though, That's what I'm saying to you. You 0:18:23.119 --> 0:18:32.600 you understand it, you can see pass it to you 0:18:33.280 --> 0:18:40.120 not understand that, but the percentage of women who understand it, 0:18:44.720 --> 0:18:47.040 that what is the truth. Though. I feel like women 0:18:47.200 --> 0:18:49.560 understand life, you know what I mean, they were built 0:18:49.560 --> 0:18:52.760 with that ship to understand that. Um, they can do it. 0:18:53.000 --> 0:18:55.440 You you, you don't feel like you have to chase anything. 0:18:56.160 --> 0:18:59.119 Women like men know it don't have to mean anything. 0:18:59.200 --> 0:19:02.680 You don't have to chase any No, it's it's embedded 0:19:02.720 --> 0:19:06.399 in on thes like it's like it doesn't have to 0:19:06.440 --> 0:19:08.399 mean anything, but you want to do it. You know 0:19:08.400 --> 0:19:09.880 you're not supposed to do what you want to do it. 0:19:10.280 --> 0:19:12.680 That's how we failed to really we don't. I didn't 0:19:12.680 --> 0:19:15.280 know that we don't do it. I did not know 0:19:15.359 --> 0:19:19.240 that would be the same tempsation like tempted. But but 0:19:19.240 --> 0:19:23.320 but you have better control. Christ if let's keep you 0:19:23.359 --> 0:19:27.760 don't have to take any women. No w It's like 0:19:27.840 --> 0:19:30.720 it's like it's like it's like the one I'm thinking 0:19:31.040 --> 0:19:36.320 it's for some of us, you know it's and then 0:19:36.560 --> 0:19:40.560 you think it ever stops being thrilling for for me 0:19:40.640 --> 0:19:44.080 or for guys on a no, No, women are nice 0:19:44.160 --> 0:19:48.639 man women on a hold. I love women, you know, 0:19:48.840 --> 0:19:51.480 it's it is what it is, and you know, but 0:19:51.600 --> 0:19:54.320 I respect them, you know what I mean. I have 0:19:54.520 --> 0:19:57.000 the utmost I want to respect and you know what 0:19:57.000 --> 0:19:59.359 I mean. And they should be praised and you know, 0:19:59.440 --> 0:20:02.520 I mean they're they're they're that special. By the end 0:20:02.520 --> 0:20:06.200 of the day, teaches on. Everybody has their own beliefs, 0:20:06.920 --> 0:20:10.400 you know. I just don't feel like you should sell 0:20:10.440 --> 0:20:13.119 a dream to get your way if you're gonna be 0:20:13.160 --> 0:20:14.960 honest about to be honest about it, because I feel 0:20:14.960 --> 0:20:16.240 like if a girl like you she a message to 0:20:16.240 --> 0:20:19.359 eat away. I understand either she wants to get serious 0:20:19.400 --> 0:20:21.600 or she doesn't want to get serious. But if you 0:20:21.720 --> 0:20:24.159 just want to have fun, I don't feel like you 0:20:24.200 --> 0:20:25.879 have to lie to or to get it. Can you 0:20:25.880 --> 0:20:28.040 be in loving more than one woman at once? I 0:20:28.119 --> 0:20:32.400 think so you can love, you can love more than 0:20:32.440 --> 0:20:34.520 one woman. I think, how many have you love to 0:20:34.520 --> 0:20:40.520 have one? Like like I would crack a joking and 0:20:40.560 --> 0:20:48.679 be like, I love my mother and my love. I 0:20:48.680 --> 0:20:50.880 don't know, like I feel like you could love two 0:20:50.880 --> 0:20:54.400 women at one time. Personally, yeah, I feel like it's like, 0:20:54.480 --> 0:20:56.280 you know, you could be caught up in a situation 0:20:56.920 --> 0:21:00.960 like call that. Yeah, definitely. I've seen girls called up. 0:21:01.280 --> 0:21:03.520 I've seen girls caught up. They're they're like struggling to 0:21:03.560 --> 0:21:06.320 see who they should be with. So you're talking about 0:21:06.359 --> 0:21:10.000 women struggling. No, I'm talking about both parties. Because just 0:21:10.000 --> 0:21:11.719 just a while ago, I was saying something about men 0:21:11.800 --> 0:21:15.080 and y'all came down. I mean, girls do it too, 0:21:15.119 --> 0:21:18.280 you know, So I'm just saying like, you know, yeah, 0:21:18.400 --> 0:21:20.800 you know, so yeah, I feel like too. I feel 0:21:20.800 --> 0:21:24.520 like two is reasonable and people can understand that and 0:21:24.600 --> 0:21:26.520 be like, you have history with this person, and you 0:21:26.600 --> 0:21:30.400 met this person and y'all clicked and a grite on everything, 0:21:30.960 --> 0:21:33.840 and you just feel like, say, it could work, but 0:21:34.080 --> 0:21:37.480 you have your mentally and emotionally attached to this person, 0:21:38.000 --> 0:21:40.720 so you know your your caught between both worlds and 0:21:41.280 --> 0:21:43.560 you know, I love girl. At some point you might 0:21:43.600 --> 0:21:46.439 have to choose. You have to choose well, if you 0:21:46.480 --> 0:21:50.200 want to choose. Some people, some people feel around the 0:21:50.200 --> 0:21:54.280 same way you some some some people find joyt playing 0:21:54.359 --> 0:21:57.160 people's emotions, understand. So at the end of the day, 0:21:57.200 --> 0:21:59.879 it's it's how much you can take being one of 0:21:59.880 --> 0:22:03.560 the parties on the altar. If if the female or 0:22:04.400 --> 0:22:07.119 I'm going to use female, if the girl is the 0:22:07.160 --> 0:22:10.680 one who's in love with two different guys, it's just 0:22:10.760 --> 0:22:13.199 how much each guy is willing to take because at 0:22:13.240 --> 0:22:15.120 some point then they're gonna find out about each other. 0:22:15.600 --> 0:22:18.960 And if you love her and if she loves him, 0:22:19.080 --> 0:22:20.960 you know what I mean, nobody's gonna want to let go. 0:22:21.359 --> 0:22:23.520 You feel like nobody has everything that you want in 0:22:23.600 --> 0:22:28.560 a relationship, like there's no woman that has every I 0:22:28.600 --> 0:22:31.440 would never say that. I feel like there are women 0:22:31.440 --> 0:22:33.920 out there with everything that a man wants. But I 0:22:34.040 --> 0:22:39.760 still and I was still I was still mess up. Yeah, 0:22:40.000 --> 0:22:42.320 and you'll still mess up like like you you you 0:22:42.520 --> 0:22:45.560