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Speaker 1: at Carolines March twenty weeks seven. What's up is Angelie.

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Speaker 1: I'm gd McGuire, I'm Lourial and oh okay, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: Christopher Martin. I'm good. I'm good, I'm good. I'm blessed.

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Speaker 1: Christ the plane and you know he's in New York

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Speaker 1: with his light ass jacket feather. Is that the warman's

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Speaker 1: coat you have? I think so. I probably think I'll

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Speaker 1: have a warmer one in my sup kids. But he

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Speaker 1: got layers on. He's smart. Are you enjoying the weather?

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Speaker 1: Not really. I'll live here from here in this area,

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Speaker 1: and I don't enjoy the weather either. So I'm troubled,

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Speaker 1: you know, or with differently not all over would probably

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Speaker 1: tropical in the former life because that love issue. It's

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Speaker 1: the right are you hoping that it snows? Because not

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Speaker 1: really I've seen the snow. If I've never seen it before,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, then I would be like

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Speaker 1: I really wanted to snow what I'm here. But it's

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Speaker 1: still fun though, it's just different. Nothing's fun about this now.

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Speaker 1: It could be romantic. It looks nice from outside. It's nice. Izzard.

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Speaker 1: Ain't nothing romantic about snow, man. You need to get warmer, alright.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna start this off from a question that

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Speaker 1: we had last night, I mean last week, and you

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Speaker 1: have to guess which one of us had this story

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Speaker 1: to tell? Okay, is it me? Is it loriale? Or

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Speaker 1: is it alright? So which one of us got our

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Speaker 1: period on a rappers tour bus and it woke up

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Speaker 1: in a pool of blood and was scared to tell him,

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Speaker 1: yis all right? He ain't even looking he looked. It's

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Speaker 1: her going to guess it's okay. We just want to

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Speaker 1: see what your looking. She wasn't looking at me, it

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Speaker 1: was I was so scared. He's like I don't care.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, but I remained. He's like, I didn't care.

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Speaker 1: You're a woman. I'm like, what I should be like,

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Speaker 1: I don't care. But I was so scared to tell him, right,

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Speaker 1: he was gonna see it anyway. How did you hide that?

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Speaker 1: I didn't hide it everywhere? So basically we were in

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Speaker 1: the bed. You should have told him you were in

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Speaker 1: virgin he broke your hand. This was so I couldn't.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't said my whole clothes back had a vamp

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Speaker 1: along years of situation. So we were very comfortable with

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Speaker 1: each other. And he got up out of the bed

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Speaker 1: before I did and went into the front of the bus.

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Speaker 1: And when I got up, I felt it. I saw it,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, I got to tell him. It's

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Speaker 1: how can you hide that? Right? So I called him

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Speaker 1: to the back of the bus and I'm like, you

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Speaker 1: it's like what And I'm like I'm scared and he's

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Speaker 1: like what. And I'm like, put your hand on my

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Speaker 1: heart and see how hard it's being. And he's like,

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Speaker 1: now you're making me scared. And when I told him,

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Speaker 1: he's like really, like I don't care. He's like, Jesus,

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Speaker 1: thank god you're not pregnant. Yeah, that's what I would

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Speaker 1: That's what I would have. So, Christopher, have you ever

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Speaker 1: had a situation like that? No, No, that's never happened

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Speaker 1: to me. I feel like every girl has accidentally had

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Speaker 1: sex in her period, and every guy has experienced a

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Speaker 1: girl who didn't know it was about to come, Like

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Speaker 1: you didn't know it was coming accidentally. Though I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's possible that you can accidentally get your period, like

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Speaker 1: you didn't know. It's so possible that you can lie

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Speaker 1: in so you sometimes you think it's over. Now that's

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Speaker 1: something that I can see you think it's over, But

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Speaker 1: don't know. You know, of course you could, but I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying that my love, come there, come back. That's

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Speaker 1: when she said, you made it? Do you remember that?

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Speaker 1: Have you ever made a girl squirt? Yeah? Do you

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's a different kind of Maybe have

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Speaker 1: the pipe game for bring them to the level of day.

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Speaker 1: So I want to use the latter. Okay, so maybe

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Speaker 1: my game is you know, my game is the squirt game.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like she was a regular squarter though, because she

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Speaker 1: was like, Oh, I didn't tell you. I do this

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Speaker 1: with all the guy but I'm gonna I'm gonna stick.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna stick to the lot. That's what I'm working with.

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Speaker 1: Rights certain guys that could bring it out of you,

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Speaker 1: and then it's the girl never gonna happen. So our

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Speaker 1: women who can do it like that. Yeah, so it's

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Speaker 1: a spot that you hit. I don't felt like I

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Speaker 1: know that. Yeah, what does it feel like? I coul

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Speaker 1: droid with the mask like circular? You know, it's like

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Speaker 1: it's a button. It's a button. It's a button that's

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Speaker 1: straighten and you go a little left and then take

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Speaker 1: a sharp brightening right there too, like a feet two

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Speaker 1: hundred feet. Nobody reaching there. Nobody's reaching there. And now

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Speaker 1: you seem like a nice guy just based off of

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Speaker 1: your music except for cheaters prayer, But is that a

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Speaker 1: nice song? If you have to pray it's an honest

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Speaker 1: song because you know the mentality of men on a whole.

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Speaker 1: We're like lions, you know, so we're hunters if a

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Speaker 1: guy is gonna be honest with himself, so we want

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Speaker 1: to indulge at some point in time. We can go years.

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Speaker 1: Some guys can go years or months or weeks and

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Speaker 1: not indulge in Noah active infidelity. But if it does happen,

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Speaker 1: it's like you're praying you don't want to do it,

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Speaker 1: but and even that it does happen, please don't let

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Speaker 1: me get caught. So you're not praying to not it,

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Speaker 1: you're just praying it not. I'm confused that you can't

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Speaker 1: want to cheat at all. We don't, we don't. But

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Speaker 1: if it does happen. You know, if you don't get caught,

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Speaker 1: you don't cheat. How many times? If you guys are cheating,

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Speaker 1: I've never gotten caught. He got the prayer. It doesn't

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Speaker 1: it work if everybody listen to cheat prayer, But write it.

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Speaker 1: You got to be the creator. I sang that song

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Speaker 1: from from a society base, not from a personal So

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Speaker 1: you've never cheated. No, I'm not to cheating. I was.

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Speaker 1: I was born on Valentine's Day, some day I love.

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Speaker 1: I can't cheat you Did that mean you get gifts

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Speaker 1: on Valentine's Day? It's only right still, man get gifts

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Speaker 1: on Valentine's Day. I got my boyfriend. Did you get him?

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Speaker 1: I had some flowers and candy and balloons and a

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Speaker 1: though she knew that slipper. She was waiting, do you

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Speaker 1: like any flowers? Of course? She was very happy, of course,

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Speaker 1: And I'm just saying, he's just surprised. He told me

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Speaker 1: he was very excited, like very It's nice. Man. I

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Speaker 1: didn't think he was. I love it. Man out here

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Speaker 1: working making all this money by gifts and ship sing

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Speaker 1: ch ch has a girl ever tricked on you um,

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Speaker 1: and but you man stuff and gifts. Yeah, but that's

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Speaker 1: because it's his birthday and Valentine's Day. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if that's tricken. That's separate and apart from our speciality. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's the best gift you've ever got? And then we'll

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Speaker 1: gauge how good you are the best gift? Right, the

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Speaker 1: best gift I've ever got? House, Well, no about laying

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Speaker 1: it down, al right, I don't think about it, and

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna come back. Yeah, No, I want to for

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Speaker 1: the best, right, you know. So, so I gotta sift through.

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Speaker 1: I got a few of us, because he got a lot.

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Speaker 1: It could be some good. It doesn't have to be

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Speaker 1: It can't be simple because sometimes this thing put things

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Speaker 1: So you know, the thought as opposed to the quantity

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Speaker 1: or the quality the qualities of a quantity at all time.

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Speaker 1: So you know, I mean, it's simple what it it

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Speaker 1: don't just want to give you one off the top

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Speaker 1: of my head. I'm sifting through all the nice ones.

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Speaker 1: I feel like a great one with stand out though

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Speaker 1: they in your head. Um, I got a really really

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Speaker 1: no no, no, no, no, not every checks, no man,

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Speaker 1: because it still stands out in my mind. It's like, um,

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Speaker 1: of her daughter's well with like every article that ever

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Speaker 1: came out about me, and she put it all over

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Speaker 1: a while in like a hard form, you know, and

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Speaker 1: So she she took a picture of that and gave

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Speaker 1: it to me the very first time I performed. And

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Speaker 1: where was it? Was it Dominica? I think it was Dominica.

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Speaker 1: So so that was a gift for me, and it

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Speaker 1: very big part on her daughter. So a me some Dominica. No, yeah,

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Speaker 1: well he said he has family that's from there, but

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Speaker 1: I don't think he's ever been there, you know what.

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Speaker 1: It's been scary if she turned out to be a stalker.

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Speaker 1: Luckily she didn't do it. She never got the chance

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Speaker 1: to you never even met her. I did meet her,

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Speaker 1: but um, you know it was like, you know, no thing,

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Speaker 1: no good Dominica to just show leave. You know, we

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Speaker 1: never got a chance to steal. Have you ever had

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Speaker 1: a stalker at that? I don't know about persistent and

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Speaker 1: somebody being a stalker. It's a very thin line when

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Speaker 1: when when they go over there, you'll understand, you know,

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Speaker 1: popped out from under the band pretty much. And I

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Speaker 1: you know, it's a very thing like like some people

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Speaker 1: that love you to the extent where it's uncontrollable. I

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Speaker 1: feel that's the point where it becomes a stalker kind

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Speaker 1: of model when you know you're well, it's not even

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Speaker 1: possibly aggressive. It's overly aggressive with their show affection, you understand,

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Speaker 1: and even when you try to be nice and said,

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Speaker 1: um okay, I get it, it can't stop now, and

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Speaker 1: they're still persisting. You know, that's when it reached Stockholm mode.

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Speaker 1: But I was really slight restraining out on them something.

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Speaker 1: You know, I know how to advert everything. What if

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Speaker 1: you were dating somebody and they were like Hey, I

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Speaker 1: drove by your house and the lights on. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: told me you weren't home, but I see your car.

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Speaker 1: I was just driving by. That's weird, like saying I

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Speaker 1: we were talking about this on the show, like look

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Speaker 1: at Tristan Timpson situation where supposedly right, and that's somebody

424
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 1: that was close to the family. Somebody that happens look

425
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 1: at you know, I was I was kind of talking

426
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 1: to I was saying, I was prepped for this one. Yeah,

427
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 1: but are true still? As Angela said, it's true like

428
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,680
Speaker 1: a lot of the times, it's the people are closest

429
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 1: to you hurt you the most. Sometimes the ones we

430
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:25,159
Speaker 1: at least expect, you know. And it's funny because you

431
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 1: know a lot of people look outside of their whole group,

432
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 1: are their whole comfort zone to feel like those other

433
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:33,880
Speaker 1: people would hurt them, And it's you know what I mean,

434
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 1: it's the closest ones so easy. Yeah, you know. Have

435
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:43,000
Speaker 1: you ever been heartbroken? Yeah, definitely, I've been through it.

436
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 1: Talk about it. Ah, yikes, you're going on this one

437
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:51,679
Speaker 1: and this one. I'm a bridging there or no, actually

438
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: bridging on my money job. Um, I was with this

439
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 1: girl when I was in university. I was going to

440
00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 1: University of Technology in Jamaica and I was head over

441
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 1: you was over this girl. Trust me, she came to

442
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:06,800
Speaker 1: the studio and we're supposed to go to the movies.

443
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 1: So I went into the office, my boss office, Robert

444
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 1: Leaving stands and I was like, Yo, Bossy, this is

445
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 1: my girlfriend xxtion. You know what I mean already see

446
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 1: what you know? And so he he looked at her

447
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 1: a weird way and I was like, oh, boss, I

448
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 1: looked on my girls. Then anyways, him shaken or whatever,

449
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:33,919
Speaker 1: and we left. Funny enough, my car I don't even know,

450
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 1: I remember what happened, but I took his car and

451
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:40,119
Speaker 1: something was wrong with the gas gage so it showed

452
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:43,160
Speaker 1: half tange but it was actually close to empty. So

453
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,919
Speaker 1: on the way to the movie, it ran out of gas,

454
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,159
Speaker 1: so I stopped on the roadside. I had to call

455
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,639
Speaker 1: a taxi taximan went and got gas fill up the tank,

456
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:55,680
Speaker 1: went back to the studio. Missed the movie then no,

457
00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:57,679
Speaker 1: and I was like, all right, I won't take it

458
00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 1: home because I have some work to do. Then my

459
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 1: money I called me. Know you knew how much I

460
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 1: love the girls, So he couldn't tell me everything in

461
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:08,200
Speaker 1: one goal. He broke it in pieces, like you know,

462
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:10,640
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, you're a girl or did

463
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,920
Speaker 1: they had a party with homeboy. Yeah, man, I say,

464
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 1: going on And that was the first bit I said,

465
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 1: I like marsh up. And then like after that he

466
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:25,400
Speaker 1: told me I'm not a piece. Heart wrenching even more,

467
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:28,639
Speaker 1: man said, does tell me everything one time? McKean, take this,

468
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 1: you know, trust me. And then know what made it

469
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 1: even worse after he told me her aunt called me no.

470
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 1: Because her aunt really liked me. So she called me

471
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,400
Speaker 1: and she was like, I was, you know, coming without

472
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 1: her room and for how many days? Imanna say yeah,

473
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 1: I said, come come over. So I went over there.

474
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 1: So she was like, Christie's outside, you need to come out.

475
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 1: So she came on like the veranda, whether I black

476
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 1: and blue something. I said, oh, this something to you?

477
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 1: And then man, I said okay, because you ken you

478
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,199
Speaker 1: already told me everything. But I was just like, so,

479
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:10,399
Speaker 1: hold is something to you? Say? This is what I

480
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,679
Speaker 1: said trying to Yeah. When I left that host that

481
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: day and I went back home, I was in the

482
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 1: show for maybe two hours. I soup up the water,

483
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 1: washed me off, super puking. I could not come out.

484
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 1: You know, it hurt that much Like that was like

485
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 1: heartbreak on a different level. Yeah, that's crazy because I

486
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 1: don't wish nobody of course, of course, and I don't

487
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 1: feel like I don't feel like if if if you

488
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 1: love somebody and they hurt, you just automatically flipper switch

489
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: where you don't care anymore. You know, you still have

490
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 1: feelings and still you still want to be with her. Never.

491
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 1: I can't take it. Wait, why would that I black

492
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,679
Speaker 1: and blue? Maybe they had a fight. You beat her up.

493
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,400
Speaker 1: He probably found out about him. She was like, that's

494
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:05,879
Speaker 1: my girlfriend too. No, well, it was my girl. It

495
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 1: was my girl. She she actually was living in a

496
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 1: in a different part of Jamaica, and her mom really

497
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 1: liked me, and she had family in Kingston. So her

498
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 1: mom was like, you know, you're always driving this far

499
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 1: to come to her. I'm just gonna let her live

500
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:22,119
Speaker 1: in Kingston. There's more opportunities anyway. So she moved to

501
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 1: Kingston because you were together. Yeah, you think that's something

502
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:29,439
Speaker 1: that affected you after that? Like as stressed, No, I

503
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 1: don't think so, Like I don't. I don't feel like

504
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,919
Speaker 1: one person should have that much power with somebody, you know,

505
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 1: and I feel like I'm stronger than all of that.

506
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 1: It hurt, yes, it hurt, definitely, but at the end

507
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 1: of the day. I know myself, you know, and I

508
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 1: know what I'm capable of. And if I if I

509
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 1: never felt or believe that this person deserved that much

510
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: of my energy and my love, I wouldn't have given it.

511
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: So I don't feel bad. I never felt cheated, and

512
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 1: I felt like, you know, I mean, you coaxed me

513
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 1: into this. You know, I wanted to love you this much,

514
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 1: so it was a conscious decision on my part, you know.

515
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 1: So I kind of helped with everything she trying to

516
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 1: like still be with you after that, h yeah, and

517
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 1: after after a while we we we we turned friends,

518
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: you know, after a while we turned friends and it

519
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 1: was cool. But you know, it did scar me, but

520
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,840
Speaker 1: it never it never it never made me on my

521
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 1: trust issues with anybody else or I feel like all

522
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 1: girls are like this easy Vie. Month after heard subsided,

523
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 1: you know, went about life like not at the ana

524
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 1: do you want to get married? I've never really given

525
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 1: much thought to marriage, to be honest. We don't have

526
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 1: the things. You know your mind can change, but I've

527
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 1: never really thought about marriage. I've honestly, your mine can't

528
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 1: change because mine did. There you go it to be

529
00:29:58,520 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 1: like I don't want to get married. I don't want

530
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 1: to get married now. I mean, if it happens, if

531
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 1: you're here for us, but before I probably wouldn't be

532
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 1: like the marriage for what. But I'm a little more

533
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 1: mature now, you know, I'm good because I feel like

534
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 1: a lot of guys say that marriage is for women.

535
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 1: They act like that, but the wedding is for women, don't. Yeah,

536
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 1: the dress wedding and being like I can't wait to

537
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 1: give me never you hate that part at a wedding.

538
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 1: When they'd be like, oh the singles get upright like

539
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 1: another drink that ship. Let me look at goofy and

540
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 1: jump to me ready from it, I'd be like, get

541
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 1: that out of here, sack. You should you should just

542
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 1: try to catch you for the front of it a competition.

543
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 1: I think it looks conny, though. I think that's just

544
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 1: how I felt. You should just do it one time

545
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 1: for the fun of it and say you did it,

546
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,479
Speaker 1: and then somebody pushed me out the way and I

547
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: got to fight out the weather night. They be getting

548
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 1: aggressive those one, especially especially if their partners there. That

549
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 1: it's like a statement like I caught it to see

550
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 1: what it means. I caught it, so you know, you know,

551
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 1: you need to come up, need to know. I've never

552
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 1: been to a wedding and caught that vibe. I never

553
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 1: caught that bog never. You never thought about like I'm

554
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 1: not gonna get me. Would you get married in Jamaica?

555
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 1: You think, of course, Jamaica is beautiful, man. Everybody should

556
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: get married in Jamaica. I was just in part Antonio

557
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 1: and I loved it there. Yeah, in Portland, really nice?

558
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 1: Where were you tried to know? My friend actually bought

559
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 1: a house there. Yeah, so I was at her house,

560
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: which was amazing and I loved it, and she's trying

561
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 1: to convince me to buy a house there. Now you should.

562
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 1: They said it's so far from the airport, and that's fine.

563
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 1: You probably don't need to be near the airport anyway

564
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 1: because two and a half hours. Yeah, that's that's supposed

565
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 1: to hedonism. Oh yeah, have you ever been to hedonism?

566
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 1: I've been to Eghywhoodmerica. He said to try this. I

567
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 1: know you took somebody specially there. But the funny story

568
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 1: about tried on jump and all that jump jump is

569
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 1: really nice. I was at um for months recording living.

570
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 1: You know I was there because when I just in Jamaica.

571
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if he already, but when I when

572
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: I started singing, I wanted like the equivalent of American

573
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 1: idol in Jamaica. Um, it's called a Rising Stars. So

574
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 1: I want nothing two yeah, yeah, So I want nothing

575
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 1: two thousand and five and and and one of the

576
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 1: prizes for that was I was signed to G Jump Records.

577
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 1: Ok yeah, John Vehicle. So I was there, um on property,

578
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 1: that hotel. It's amazing, the restaur and it's great. I

579
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: loved it, the very things, the scene and everything. It's

580
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: just beautiful. It's just baby making kind of it's you

581
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: ever had the opportunity to go. And it's expensive as

582
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, but it's worth it though. Right

583
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 1: was eat there, but then he gave me a tour.

584
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: He took me to the studio. I got a chance

585
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 1: to see what it looked like. A lot of people

586
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: go there like to record their albums. It's some rich ship.

587
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: Just really that you were doing some rich all right?

588
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 1: Sits ahead. Yeah. I was there for a while and

589
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 1: then um, but I wasn't recording a lot. You know,

590
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 1: he was making love because it was a love making.

591
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 1: It's love making kind of vibe and I was hot,

592
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:44,480
Speaker 1: like off TV, Like I didn't have a song for myself,

593
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 1: but I was known everywhere. Yeah, you know, two thousand

594
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: and five, two thousand and six, I just came off

595
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 1: with TV, so everybody knew me, you know. But I

596
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 1: wanted to make music and I didn't want to sing

597
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 1: like the songs that made me popular on the talent,

598
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, because at some point in

599
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 1: time people would get tired of it, and I didn't

600
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 1: want that. So I was like, if I'm gonna be

601
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 1: here and I'm not recording, then you know, I mean,

602
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: when I'm doing shows, I'm gonna always be singing these

603
00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 1: people's songs. And if let's say I go on the

604
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 1: show and these people are on the show, what am

605
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: I going to sing? I cannot go on the stage

606
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 1: and sing their songs. I mean it's disrespectful, you know.

607
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,320
Speaker 1: So you know, I just took the initiative and I left.

608
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 1: I left all that nice rich stuff. Yeah that's likely,

609
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: but yeah, you know what I mean. And then yeah,

610
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:37,319
Speaker 1: and I, um, I went to Kingston and that's when

611
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 1: I met my manager UM At the Hilton Hotel. They

612
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 1: were having like a karaoke kind of like and and

613
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 1: a friend of mine called Derek Moore introduced me to

614
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 1: Kenny Um. Kenny brought me to Big Yard, introduced me

615
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:53,880
Speaker 1: to Robert living Stunt. Intention Initially Kenny wanted me to

616
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: work with Robert, and then like Robert was busy, and

617
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 1: then Robert was like, so, Kenny, why don't you like

618
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:01,360
Speaker 1: maybe he I didn't want to do management or whatever.

619
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: But then you know what I mean, we just started

620
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,800
Speaker 1: out and it just worked. No papers, no nothing, just trust,

621
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 1: you know, damn now no still trust? That's great? Yeah,

622
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:19,280
Speaker 1: my bird, h nothing changes. You know. It's it's this thumb.

623
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 1: You know. If we say it's ten, it's ten. You know,

624
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 1: if we say it's five, it's five. It goes like that.

625
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about. It transparency, you know. So

626
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 1: you definitely have to build trust, but not not to digress.

627
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:34,160
Speaker 1: So I start to go too far from the story play.

628
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 1: We went to Kingston met Kiny Kiny turned my mind

629
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 1: a job. I started recording under Rest is History, and

630
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 1: I'm here with your beautiful ladies today. Now we're excited

631
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 1: and you're actually gonna be with us, well with me

632
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 1: at a FOOI. So I'm excited for that as well.

633
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 1: You're gonna you're gonna do something there, so I know

634
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:55,879
Speaker 1: everyone's gonna be really hype about it. Now. The last

635
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: thing I'm gonna ask you is how do you feel

636
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 1: about dating somebody who doesn't have any friends? What you

637
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 1: didn't a girl is you're like her only friends. She

638
00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:07,799
Speaker 1: doesn't have nobody to hang out with, you know. I

639
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:09,399
Speaker 1: was by saying, did you see that movie I Love

640
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 1: You Man? Yeah? Yeah, he didn't have any friends and

641
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 1: he has to try to find like friends because he

642
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 1: just only hung out with his girls. Then they got

643
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: too cool and she was jealous. But do you think

644
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 1: it's a red flag if you're with somebody and she

645
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 1: don't have no friends? I don't know. It's weird. It's

646
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,359
Speaker 1: very weird. Can you not to have any friends? It's

647
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 1: really yeah, you have you have to have at least

648
00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 1: one friends, you know, So then and then if let's

649
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 1: say it does work, don't work, you can and then

650
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 1: you're gonna tell me you're out with somebody. Then it's

651
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 1: gonna be weird. They're gonna be too many red flugs.

652
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 1: Too many red flugs come up if you do something,

653
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:50,760
Speaker 1: oh to the ordinary, No, I mean you should have friends.

654
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 1: Everybody should have friends or associates. You know, even if

655
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 1: you don't want to use the term friend, you don't

656
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,400
Speaker 1: because some people take it so serious these days. So

657
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 1: she is, you know, you have to have something that

658
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 1: you're cool with that you can kick it with outside

659
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,320
Speaker 1: of me. What if she has too many friends and

660
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 1: she tells them at her too many friends there is

661
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:12,720
Speaker 1: the problem. No, I don't work with too many friends

662
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 1: kind of think I can't work with that, understand, And

663
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 1: too many guy friends on all of that, Yeah, I

664
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: don't work with that. And I'm personally I don't feel

665
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 1: like if we go at parting, you you shouldn't walk

666
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 1: away from me to go hell, no guy friends. You

667
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: can't say how to a guy friends. No, you can

668
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 1: say hi. But but if we're kicking it, hear me,

669
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna move from where I am to go over there. Now,

670
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 1: let your guy friends come over here. But if she's like,

671
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 1: we're just dancing, who's just stumping here? How we do

672
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 1: with this Trinidad? We just did girl's boyfriends out to

673
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 1: tell her because you know, you got to Trinidad carnival

674
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 1: and the way everybody dances. And he tried to tell her.

675
00:37:56,040 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 1: He's just this is how that's our culture. I don't

676
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 1: I don't think you girls kick it like that, hands on,

677
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: hands on. It's a hands on kind of generation right now.

678
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:11,399
Speaker 1: Have you ever had a girl that she were dating

679
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: when her friends tried to talk to you, maybe would

680
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 1: you tell her? If I would tell my girl, no,

681
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 1: I wouldn't tell her. I would just you don't want

682
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 1: to tell her watch that for your friend. No, I

683
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 1: would have handled it, you know, because at the end

684
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,279
Speaker 1: of the day, I'm not did not be friends with

685
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 1: that person anymore. That's not that and not really what

686
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying. If we were dating, my girls tried to

687
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:34,759
Speaker 1: talk to you, you you better tell me. No. The thing is,

688
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 1: it's not worth It's not worth you losing your friend

689
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 1: over because at the end of the day, I didn't

690
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 1: do anything. Yeah, but I tried it. Yeah, she shouldn't

691
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:44,440
Speaker 1: be like you shouldn't be friends with that girl she

692
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 1: wagged because at the end of the money to her

693
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,919
Speaker 1: and she didn't tell you. You know, when you flip

694
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 1: it like dot no when but at the end of

695
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:57,359
Speaker 1: the day, though, you know what I mean, if it's

696
00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 1: not it's it's not if it's not worth friends, you know,

697
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 1: if it's not worth telling me, Like you're like, if

698
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 1: in your head you feel like you handled it and

699
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:07,279
Speaker 1: you feel like Reggie's a good friend to me, but

700
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:09,240
Speaker 1: he's you have friends who are just weak to women

701
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 1: on the period. Definitely, I respect that though. I respect

702
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: that by the end of day, she feels like if

703
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: because you know, any woman I'm going to talk to

704
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,320
Speaker 1: has to be a strong woman. So if she feels

705
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 1: like she handled it and she doesn't feel like she

706
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 1: needs to bring it to my attention because at the

707
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 1: end of the day, Reggie straight up with everything else,

708
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 1: you know, she's there for me with everything else now,

709
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 1: But he's he just has a weakness where that is

710
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 1: concerned or maybe he didn't feel like I was that's

711
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 1: serious about my girl. Because you have dudes who read

712
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 1: into ship like that. They'd be like, we'll see gonna

713
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 1: read it like her that much? So that mean you

714
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 1: won't feel a way like you know, you know what

715
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 1: I mean, you know women, you know, so he don't

716
00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 1: you know what, you'll want to kick it either way,

717
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,400
Speaker 1: y'all want to kick it. I never said no, no no, that,

718
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you have dudes you know what I mean.

719
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 1: You want them are cool, you're more friends, and they

720
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 1: just interpret situations differently. But your man, if if one

721
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,879
Speaker 1: of his boys tried to talk to you, yeah, I'm

722
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 1: a bag of noise. I would tell immediately like there's

723
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 1: no way. Well, you know, I'm just saying, you know,

724
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 1: if she feels it's not worth telling me, and she

725
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 1: handled it. If I didn't know, it's fine. And if

726
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 1: I didn't that found out from a different route and

727
00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 1: I and I pressed through on it and she's like,

728
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 1: well baby, I handled it, and and nothing like that,

729
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 1: and very I'm cool with it at the end of

730
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:39,359
Speaker 1: the day, and then I can deal with we're using

731
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 1: Reggie handle it. Yeah, you know what I mean. I

732
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 1: would say, comfortable with you being around some there you go,

733
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 1: so no, you wouldn't feel comfortable being around him. So

734
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 1: with you being around some I get like, I get it,

735
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:53,640
Speaker 1: I get that, I get dot, I get dot, but

736
00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,840
Speaker 1: that's not your that's not your decision to choose. So

737
00:40:57,000 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 1: that's why I would handle it and then say something.

738
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, it sounds like you're just slide

739
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: in my d M like it was here. But I

740
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 1: told him, you know what, I then know, and then no,

741
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:09,359
Speaker 1: I could hundle my friend and then I could be like, yo,

742
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:11,319
Speaker 1: you know it always step now, you know what I mean?

743
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 1: But yeah, my brother still understand and then we're brother

744
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:16,839
Speaker 1: after that, of course. But that's why man try shure.

745
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: He depends on who him do it, you know what

746
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 1: I mean, if he depends on dude, because at the

747
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:21,759
Speaker 1: end of the day, he could he could press her

748
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 1: and be like, Yo, Chris is doing this, and Chris

749
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: is doing that. He a white nigga, you should be

750
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:31,399
Speaker 1: with me. Damn. That's straight up white right there. That's

751
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,239
Speaker 1: some bullshit. But you're doing it, you know what I mean?

752
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 1: Really looking out that guy doing that might be the

753
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 1: good guy. That's all fabrications right there. No truth. I

754
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 1: didn't no truth to none of that. People didn't a

755
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:46,759
Speaker 1: girl and everything was great, but she don't suck that.

756
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 1: It's fine. It's fine, So you don't mind it because

757
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 1: I don't give head. Fine. I knew he was gonna

758
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 1: say that, Okay, it's okay, that's it's not It's not

759
00:41:56,160 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 1: a Corelian things. It's like it's well, you could say

760
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 1: so a Jamaican thing. You have Jamaican like you have

761
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:05,799
Speaker 1: Jamaican guys who do it, but it's it's cool to

762
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:09,439
Speaker 1: say they don't do it, right, but it's fine with me.

763
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:13,399
Speaker 1: Like she doesn't do it, it's fine, and he lied

764
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 1: about it to all his friends. You have a lot

765
00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 1: of guys in Jamaica who say they do it. Yeah,

766
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 1: they're okay with it. I know you're okay with a

767
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: woman not doing it face with reasons doing it. I've

768
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 1: just never done I don't see the need to. Secondly, um,

769
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,760
Speaker 1: I grew up. I grew up in in the rural

770
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 1: section in Jamaica and the rural section of the country section.

771
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:39,839
Speaker 1: So from from from from your young it's like they

772
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 1: beat it in your head. Don't buck your fist. I'm

773
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: bucking your fist is master beating boy, don't buck your

774
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 1: fist and don't go don't bunk the girl. So he's like,

775
00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 1: you're growing up, don't masturbate. No, you never had a

776
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 1: wed dream of course, Okay, that's not masterurbated masturvation because

777
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 1: you just mass like cheating that. Yeah, you know, it's

778
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 1: it's one of those things. But in that but now

779
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 1: you cidified, you know, I am. I've blended in well.

780
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:17,120
Speaker 1: If I chose to time if I chose to, but

781
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:19,320
Speaker 1: I choose not to. You know, I mean, I'm cool,

782
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: I'm cool, and I didn't getting married. You never eat pussy,

783
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 1: you never well, I never said I'm never getting murdered.

784
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:25,880
Speaker 1: I said, I've never given much thought to it, but

785
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: I can definitely said I don't think I would ever

786
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 1: go down on a girl, my girl, any girl, no

787
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 1: girl at all. I'm weak because one time I told

788
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 1: me that I was dealing with that. He didn't eat

789
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 1: pussy and he ate my pussy before, And I'm like,

790
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 1: but he make it like I'm like, bro, I gotta

791
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 1: say to me, he believes it. Yeah, No, he was

792
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 1: like no because like in my coaching, like it's not

793
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:54,840
Speaker 1: even cool to say. So he like, don't talk about it.

794
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:58,800
Speaker 1: I'll just whatever he said talk about just do it.

795
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,840
Speaker 1: I do. I do it, but it but like, don't

796
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 1: bring it up to ever, Like, don't write a song

797
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 1: about it. I mean that's the same thing. I'm gonna

798
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:15,359
Speaker 1: write a whole song calls eight. Whatever he's making, it's

799
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: gonna be something. What about Yeah, I've indulged to say,

800
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 1: okay with that They okay, yeah, what if they told

801
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 1: you know? Three stimes you wouldn't have that done it.

802
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 1: I'm fine, Honestly, damn who's they because they're strong in

803
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:34,879
Speaker 1: the world. They should have told him not to fall

804
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:39,319
Speaker 1: in love with two women at the same rural and run.

805
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:45,360
Speaker 1: They got to be fine, you know. Yeah, you gotta

806
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 1: be you know, you know, to each his own, to

807
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 1: each his own, Like when when when you know, when

808
00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 1: when I was younger, it's like I would be like,

809
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: none of my friend him counted up? May it count

810
00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:00,400
Speaker 1: be friends? Like what you're not gonna be you know,

811
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. When I was younger, it's like

812
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 1: it was it was like the whold culture to be

813
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 1: like it's so cool, like if him do it, we're

814
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:21,840
Speaker 1: done with him. Yeah, you know, girl, but I'm so

815
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 1: grown up free did I want to like anybody? But

816
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:44,080
Speaker 1: but you know, I grew up. I've grown and you

817
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 1: know what I mean, My mind is more open, and

818
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 1: I just understand that people when they're grown, they're allowed

819
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 1: to do whatever they wanted and you should not be judgmental.

820
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, if if I

821
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 1: have a friend, he's my friend. Whatever he chooses to

822
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:00,839
Speaker 1: do in his private time with that not pussy do

823
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 1: it straight upon your connect what if pussy and make

824
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 1: your gotee conner, that's the things that your gote like

825
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 1: you got. Sometimes people should stop right here. It's just

826
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 1: the mustache. And in this part, don't go like so

827
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 1: so that to connect the next the more fuss you

828
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:34,279
Speaker 1: eat the full of your beer. Oh and I was

829
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 1: always wondering, why was that blessed with a beard? Nothing?

830
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 1: If you start going to beer, we're gonna know what's

831
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 1: going on. You don't know all right now? And the

832
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:46,760
Speaker 1: show you have to guess who said this? Okay, somebody

833
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 1: one of us a story which one of us lost

834
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:55,720
Speaker 1: their virginity to a woman. I can't lose your woman.

835
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 1: We didn't ask you all that. You don't have a beard?

836
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 1: All right, go ahead, I'm you know, meticulously scrutinizing you.

837
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 1: It's between me and Angela. Between the two, you gotta

838
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: picked one the same thing both. Okay. Now, he's like,

839
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 1: who is it? You'll find out next week. I'm the

840
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 1: service Chris Martin life that we appreciate you so much

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Speaker 1: for joining us, and single life is available now, which

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Speaker 1: you will love, very positive, very uplifting. One of those

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Speaker 1: so much for having me. Thank you. We really appreachi it.

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Speaker 1: That was really fun, even though you didn't finish your

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Speaker 1: do say this whole time. I hope they didn't tell

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Speaker 1: Chuck Chuck. Yeah, it'll be so good at Oral take it.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining us. Thank you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I say. We are so excited here at lip Service

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Speaker 1: to announce that we do have a live show happening

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Speaker 1: in New York City. It goes down March at Carolines,

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Speaker 1: So make sure you go and get your tickets. You

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Speaker 1: can go to carolines dot com to get all that information.

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Speaker 1: It's also pens on my Twitter page, so if you

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Speaker 1: y'all we've all been posting about it. We're gonna have

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Speaker 1: some very special surprises for y'all, so make sure you

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Speaker 1: get your tickets before they sell out. We're gonna have

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Speaker 1: a great time and we haven't even announced who's gonna

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