1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter at Steve HARVEYFM dot com. 4 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: By clicking submit Strawberry Letter, we could be reading your 5 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: letter live, live, live live right here on the Steve 6 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: Harvey Live. 7 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 2: Merle up and hold on tight. We got it for 8 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 2: you here. It is Strawberry Letter. 9 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:27,159 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject why can't I say that a 10 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: man is blessed? 11 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 3: Why? Okay? 12 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,879 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm sixty three. I'm sixty three and 13 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: I've been married for a year. I've known my husband 14 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: for about thirty years, and we dated off and on 15 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: for many years before deciding to make it official. This 16 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: is the first marriage for us both, so we're very 17 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 1: set in our ways. I remembered my husband to be 18 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: open minded and fun loving, but he's changed since the wedding. 19 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: He knows that I love music and concerts. He has 20 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: taken me to at least twenty concerts, and he loves 21 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 1: how I sing all this songs and dance the entire time. 22 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: That was the old hymn, And I'm wondering why he 23 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: switched up his personality on me. I mentioned that I 24 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 1: wanted to go to a Chris Brown concert after my 25 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 1: nieces went and said, Chris is a total vibe in concert. 26 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 1: My husband said me and my nieces are too old 27 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: to go stare at Chris on stage. I thought he 28 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: was joking around, and I said that that's exactly why 29 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: I want to go to the concert. My husband said, 30 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 1: I must be crazy if I think he's going to 31 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: a concert to see a man hunch the stage the 32 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:36,040 Speaker 1: whole time. He had a very serious tone in his voice, 33 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 1: so I rolled my eyes at him and changed the subject. 34 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 3: Later, I was talking. 35 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: To my sister that just turned sixty, and she said 36 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: she'd go to the show with me. I mentioned how 37 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: blessed Chris looked in his videos from the concert. I 38 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 1: didn't know my husband was ear hustling until he stomped 39 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: in the room and said, I know you all are 40 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: not talking about how blessed another man is. My sister 41 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: started laughing at him, so I got on off the 42 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: phone real quick. Seriously, how can my sixty five year 43 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: old husband be threatened by a young superstar? Why has 44 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: he changed since our wedding? Okay, really, girls, you need 45 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: to sit down. You really need to sit down. 46 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 3: When you've heard it before. 47 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: People change when they get the papers on you. They 48 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: just change, and in your case is not a bad thing. 49 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: You are still out here while and your husband does 50 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 1: not want you talking about another man's package. No man 51 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 1: wants that. Okay, of course he'd be mad. It sounds crazy. 52 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: It sounds crazy coming out of his wife's mouth. People 53 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 1: don't get married to stay the same. They get married 54 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: because they you know, they get him, fall in love 55 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 1: and all of that, and they want to build a 56 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: life with another person. Their lives are supposed to you know, blend. 57 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 1: That's what you do in marriage, but outwardly your marriage. 58 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: But you're still thinking and acting like you're single in 59 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 1: these streets. You are a wife. Now, this is not 60 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: how a wife acts, all right, not in front of 61 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 1: her husband anyway, You don't get it. You have to 62 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: be a lot more respectful of him. You have to 63 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: be a lot more respectful of your marriage. If not, 64 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: why do you get married in the first place. Okay, 65 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,920 Speaker 1: your husband obviously he understands the concept of marriage. 66 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 3: How would you like it if he would go. 67 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 1: Around saying, oh, she got a fine body, Oh, look 68 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: at her, but and all that. You would not like that, Okay, 69 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: you wouldn't like it. 70 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 3: Okay. 71 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: It doesn't mean you can't have fun and all that, 72 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: but it does mean you shouldn't be looking at and 73 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 1: commenting on some other man's young or old package. 74 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 3: So just please have a seat, ma'am. 75 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 2: Tommy, all right, I've seen this before. You know, it's 76 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 2: a lot of men stars that go through this. You 77 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 2: know the top four that come to my head. You know, 78 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 2: More's Chestnut goes through this. You know, Shamal Moore goes 79 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 2: through this. You understand, Idris Elba and last but not least, 80 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 2: you know, nephew, Tommy, I mean, we all go through this, 81 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 2: you know, we all, we all you know, you know 82 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 2: I talked to the guys a lot. You know, we 83 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 2: all go through this. Man, you know one sup quarter? 84 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 4: What's the list again? 85 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 2: Once again, I said, there's a lot of men stars 86 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:20,599 Speaker 2: that go through this. You know More's Chestnut goes through 87 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 2: that's quite a bit. And Shaman Moore, you know, he 88 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 2: goes through it a lot. You know, indriest it just 89 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,359 Speaker 2: you know, we keep in touch. He goes through that, 90 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 2: and then and then fourth on the list that goes 91 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 2: through this is nephew Tommy. 92 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 4: I mean, well. 93 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 2: We go through this, you know. Uh so speaking on 94 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:46,360 Speaker 2: behalf of being you know, one of the blessed men 95 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 2: that's on stage. You know, you know, I understand you 96 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:55,360 Speaker 2: know how uh you know, ladies, I understand what you're 97 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 2: going through. You want to come out to our shows 98 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 2: and you want to see us, and you're you're looking 99 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 2: at the package, and I get all of that, you know, 100 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:04,919 Speaker 2: but what you need to do is, you know, don't 101 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 2: don't hurt your man's feelings with our package. You understand 102 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. I mean, you know, and I know, 103 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 2: I know it's hard and it's difficult, and I know 104 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 2: when I'm up there performing, I feel you're looking at 105 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 2: me like that. I get it, you know, and and 106 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 2: we're just blest, you know, we're just blast like that, 107 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 2: and it just it's just it just feels good to 108 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 2: be one of the ones that is blessed. You understand 109 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. And that's why Chris takes all these 110 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 2: pictures with these ladies and their husbands lose their damn man, 111 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 2: that's what happened. That's why I had to quit taking pictures. 112 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 3: You know, so you made this all about you? 113 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:46,479 Speaker 2: Well, I mean being a being, being a package holder. 114 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 2: You understand what I'm saying. You know, you know this 115 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:51,840 Speaker 2: is I mean, we we all the FedEx. We are 116 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 2: the UPS's of male package. You see what I'm saying. 117 00:05:55,400 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 2: We we Yeah, yeah, you know I am the Amazon 118 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:03,160 Speaker 2: of that. You understand, right. 119 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, make this all about it? 120 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, okay, so I don't first of all, 121 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 2: y'all don't respect that I'm that I'm on the list that. 122 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why. 123 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 2: We're the fact that y'all don't y'all don't see me 124 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 2: in that. You know, you know, you know what the 125 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 2: problem with y'all, y'all don't respect that I'm blessed. That's 126 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 2: my problem with y'all. It has always been that y'all 127 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 2: don't respect that I'm blessed. 128 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 3: Talk all right, all right, let's. 129 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 2: Admit it right here, right now, Just admit it right here, 130 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 2: right now, Tommy, you blessed, and we apologize or not. 131 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:39,599 Speaker 3: We'll have part two. 132 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:43,599 Speaker 1: Of the response to today's Strawberry letter coming up at 133 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject is why 134 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:49,719 Speaker 1: can't I say that another man is blessed? We'll get 135 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. 136 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 3: You're listening morning show, all right, We're gonna. 137 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:58,839 Speaker 1: Recap today's Strawberry letter, guys. The subject is why can't 138 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: I say that another man blessed? This is a sixty 139 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 1: three year old woman who wrote in she's been married 140 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: for a year. Her husband is sixty five. They've been 141 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 1: knowing each other for thirty years, but they just made 142 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 1: it official a year ago. It's the first marriage for 143 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 1: them both, and they're both, she says, very set in 144 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 1: their ways. She loves to go to concerts and sing 145 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 1: all the songs and dance stand up and dance at 146 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 1: all the shows and everything. And her husband loved taking 147 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 1: her to those shows before they got married. Now things 148 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 1: have changed since they've gotten married. You know, she still 149 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: wants to do the same thing, go to concerts and 150 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: all of that. She wants to go to this Chris 151 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: Brown concert. And she and her sister were on the 152 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 1: phone talking and she was telling her sister how Chris 153 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: Brown is really blessed. And her husband heard her, and 154 00:07:49,560 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 1: he got mad, like any husband would do. But he 155 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 1: got mad, and she does esn't understand why he's changed 156 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 1: since they've gotten married, and Why can't she say that 157 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: another man is blessed? You know, just because she's married? 158 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 1: Why can't she say that? You know, so she's thinking 159 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 1: that her husband is threatened by Chris Brown, and why 160 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 1: has he changed so much since the wedding? So that 161 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 1: is the situation with this letter. Why can't I say 162 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 1: that another man is blessed? 163 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 2: Junior? 164 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 4: What she got? 165 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 3: She's not acting very much like a wife, you. 166 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 5: Know, you know what surely you know tom is right. 167 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 5: You know, we just have to take time out. It's 168 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 5: just a different day today on the Strawberry letter. You know, 169 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 5: it's hard for me and Tommy to understand that, you know, 170 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 5: being blessed is not for everybody, you know, I mean. 171 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 4: It's a few of us. I mean, you know, it's 172 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 4: just a few of us. 173 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 5: It's eight million people, eight billion people on earth, but 174 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:46,319 Speaker 5: all of us ain't blessed. And me and Tommy just 175 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 5: happened to be in that group. What we're saying is, 176 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 5: you know, you know, her husband clearly ain't blessed because 177 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 5: he's mad. 178 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 3: You know, that's what it is. 179 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, me and tom you know, when you 180 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 5: bless you you're just in a group just blessed. 181 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 4: Men. 182 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 5: So you know it is a More's chestnut. It is 183 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 5: Schamal Moore, it is uh IDs Idris, it is tom 184 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 5: But then right behind Tommy didn't here I come. 185 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:17,559 Speaker 4: I just skipped up to Steve and everybody. 186 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:22,560 Speaker 5: So okay, you know, but it's hard to even I 187 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 5: see why he mad. 188 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 4: I understand him. 189 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 5: Oh okay, but in part because yeah, I mean he's 190 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 5: mad because he's not in this blessed group. 191 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 4: What you want me? And Tommy tells us that because 192 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 4: his wife. 193 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 5: You thought, you think Chris Brown, Okay, well you ain't 194 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 5: seen me then, so oh wow, so you know, I mean, 195 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 5: you know, Chris wrote a song about it. 196 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 4: They just ain't loyal. So it's not my fault. Chris 197 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 4: wrote the song. 198 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 5: Me and Tommy just happened to be in a different 199 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 5: place than him. He's just not blessed. But hold on, 200 00:09:57,520 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 5: Me and Tommy can last because you sixty five and mad, 201 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 5: we're not mad, talk about we ain't SE's the fire. 202 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 1: She's thinking that, you know, he's threatened because Chris is 203 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 1: a young superstar, that's what she. 204 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 4: Have you seen me and Tommy? 205 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 3: No, I'm haven't them. 206 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 5: Okay, did you just set out to Helium club to death. 207 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 5: So that when you're on state and you have a 208 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 5: suit a time mm. 209 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 4: They was already in there. They knew that he was blessed. 210 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 4: He was blessing. 211 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 2: Gonna stop, Yeah. 212 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:32,199 Speaker 4: Because you can put hating on me and Tom. 213 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 2: This is it. 214 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 4: We just bliss We're just in a different group. 215 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 3: What does this have to do with this letter? Though, 216 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 3: That's what I'm trying. 217 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 4: Nothing. 218 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 2: That reason is we don't give a damn body. I 219 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:41,320 Speaker 2: don't care. 220 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 4: We don't care about him being mad because he ain't blessed. 221 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 4: Clearly he ain't blessed. 222 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 2: We can't help him. 223 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:52,959 Speaker 4: He's hating on Chris Brown, yes, yeah he should. 224 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 2: Between she's hating on people like us. 225 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 5: You see what I'm saying yourself in that category on 226 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 5: that list. First of all, I can't dance like Chris, 227 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 5: but we're just talking about standing steel were blessed. 228 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 4: Oh I'm cold, I'm cold. 229 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 5: Standing still. I can't dance like Chris. But if I'm 230 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 5: standing still, y'all had to look at me too. 231 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 1: So this has nothing to do with the fact that 232 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: he could be mad or jealous or just mad that 233 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 1: she's not very wifely. 234 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 4: People jealous because they ain't blessed. That's that's not our issue. 235 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 4: We can't help you with that. It's not us. 236 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 3: And you guys just made this whole letter. 237 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 5: But why don't you surely, why don't you in calle 238 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:36,680 Speaker 5: just be glad? Y'all work with two blessed people, right, and. 239 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 2: They don't want to say that they're that No, no, 240 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:39,959 Speaker 2: no, no no. 241 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 3: Have you seen that guy at the Olympics, the swimmer. 242 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yes. 243 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 2: If we put on media, if we put on swimming clothes, 244 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 2: we'll be all over the play that. 245 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 4: We go viral. 246 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 5: We would go viral if me and Tommy put on 247 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 5: the same women. 248 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 4: Trunks they have. 249 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 5: Because we're blessed, so we don't know how to actually 250 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:07,839 Speaker 5: feel for this husband. All we know is that she 251 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 5: wanted to Chris Brown, and then y'all chose Chris Brown. 252 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 4: But we are gonna let Chris Brown. I'll do us. 253 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 4: We're blessed too. 254 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 3: So you feel who's pain in this letter? 255 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 5: Nobody's by less thing. Call it in the words of 256 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 5: call of fair less dance. 257 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 3: Then this is all about you, guys. 258 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:33,320 Speaker 2: Enjoy Chris Brown. Girl going out there and enjoy that show. 259 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 5: First of all, as a wife, you know you can say, 260 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 5: why can't I say another man's blessed? You may not 261 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 5: be able to say it, but you did, and me 262 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 5: and Tommy receive it. 263 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 4: We blessed. We know we're just different, all right, all right? 264 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 4: What makes you act like you say it? 265 00:12:53,800 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 5: It's me and Tommy you talking to Okay, how do 266 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 5: you think I need it? 267 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 1: At Steve Harvey flam and check us out on the 268 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on the Free iHeartRadio app where free 269 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 1: never sounded so good, and coming up next it is 270 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:17,840 Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this, you're listening Harvey 271 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: Morning Show