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Speaker 3: Back a million bus boozyad Listening to me, I don't, Joy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Joy, you know to do that, you gotta turn, got.

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Speaker 3: To turn the mouth turn, You probably got to turn

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Speaker 5: Come out, you think that I sure will? Good morning everybody.

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Speaker 6: You're listening to the voice I said, come on now,

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Speaker 6: dig me to one and only Steve Harvey got a

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Speaker 6: radio show. Okay, Now, I'm gonna be really honest with

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Speaker 6: I really don't. I was sitting here and I was thinking,

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Speaker 6: what do I say today? I do know that I

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Speaker 6: want to be encouraging, uplifting and inspirational in some way

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Speaker 6: to affect somebody today. Oftentimes, these conversations that I have

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Speaker 6: in the mornings, they're designed with me because I needed myself, y'all,

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Speaker 6: to be honest with you.

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Speaker 5: I mean, you know.

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Speaker 6: Who makes the comedian laugh? I used to say all

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Speaker 6: the morning is not a laughing matter, it kind of

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Speaker 6: like is where I am today? You know, I need

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Speaker 6: motivation in my life sometimes myself. I think when I

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Speaker 6: get in moments like this, I often resort back to

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Speaker 6: I'm sitting here trying to figure out what to say

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Speaker 6: morning that I find to be very consistent in me

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Speaker 6: is that I find myself grateful. I'm ever grateful for

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Speaker 6: the things that God has done for me. I may

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Speaker 6: to say thank you.

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Speaker 5: I do.

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Speaker 6: I know how to remember and reflect back on where

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Speaker 6: Realize where all my blessings come from. I'm very very

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Speaker 6: conscious of my journey that I've been on, the one

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Speaker 6: is it's been.

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Speaker 5: It's been. It's been.

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Speaker 6: Uh it's been difficult, man, it really really has. I

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Speaker 7: Me.

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Speaker 5: Becoming successful was very difficult.

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Speaker 6: But as hard as this is to say, I really

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Speaker 6: But the main thing is was I discovered along the

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Speaker 6: But as I am now, I needed every single thing

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Speaker 5: And that right there, man, is just very comforting to me.

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Speaker 6: Mister Jakes told me one time, he said, the closer

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Speaker 6: more He will reveal to you the how it comes

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Speaker 6: and what falls of a lot of things that's happened

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Speaker 6: I can be stubborn and hard headed. Sometimes God knows

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Speaker 6: That process was my journey, It was my trip. It

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Speaker 6: It don't matter what it is. Everybody got a woe,

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Speaker 6: it's easy for you to say that, but you ain't here.

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Speaker 5: You don't know where.

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Speaker 6: Ben, if you would stop hanging yourself up on your past,

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Speaker 6: worrying about your woes and your troubles and the situation

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Speaker 5: See a lot of times you messed it.

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Speaker 6: You messed a message up yourself because when you're going

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Speaker 5: That ain't the lesson. You got to learn your lesson

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Speaker 6: Got to be how to be strong, how to see

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Speaker 6: how you get strong The lesson is to make you stronger.

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Speaker 5: But to make you stronger, you got to carry the weight.

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Speaker 5: You can't get.

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Speaker 6: Stronger you don't go to gym or you're gonna do

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Speaker 5: See, a lot of people can't even do push ups.

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Speaker 6: They can't get down, and in the course of a day,

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Speaker 6: So I learned to quit praying to take stuff away.

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Speaker 6: My prayer became to give me the strength to handle it.

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Speaker 6: People oftentimes ask me, how do you do all that

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Speaker 6: you do in the course of the day.

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Speaker 5: I don't really know. I just know I can because

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Speaker 5: I know God don't put more on you than you

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Speaker 5: can bath. So when you ask me how you do

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Speaker 5: all of what you do in the course of the day.

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Speaker 6: I got God. God is good. He'll get you through

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Speaker 6: whatever it is you're going through. So when you trip

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Speaker 6: it and you don't know what to say, reflect and

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Speaker 6: be grateful for all you reflect on, think about God's

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Speaker 6: goodness and watch what he do for you.

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Speaker 5: That's the cold part.

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Speaker 8: Okay, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning.

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Speaker 5: Ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 6: We here, ah man again another blessed day. Look at

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Speaker 6: it right here. Just pay attention to it, y'all. Don't

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Speaker 6: take it for granted. Pay attention to it. Look at

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Speaker 6: it closely. Look what God has done again, man, At

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Speaker 6: one point in time, man, I mean seriously, common sense

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Speaker 6: has got the kick in that we have nothing to

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Speaker 6: of it. We have no control over the wind, of

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Speaker 6: time or time we got. We don't place the stars nowhere.

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Speaker 6: We can't touch the star.

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Speaker 5: Man. At one point in time.

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Speaker 6: We're gonna have to give God some credit here, amen, Now,

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Speaker 6: since were doing it, let's get it on. Arlon Strawberry

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Speaker 6: call it from real mouth of the South. Junior and

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Speaker 6: nephew Tommy Junior, is just a lot going only.

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Speaker 5: It's a lot.

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Speaker 9: It's a lot, un And I'm telling you, man, I

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Speaker 9: got to figure out the way to stop this.

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Speaker 5: Woman from thinking.

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Speaker 6: I've got to stop up from.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, from thinking, because every time she started thinking it

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Speaker 9: I'm telling you right now. When she started saying, you know,

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Speaker 9: I was thinking, and right behind that thinking is another check.

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Speaker 9: I just got this quick that. I got to figure

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Speaker 9: out how you do that? Is there any advice to

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Speaker 9: get this to stop?

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Speaker 6: Well, well let me give you this advice right here,

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Speaker 6: at this pace, right here, that you own right now.

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Speaker 6: You ain't gonna make six months.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna telling you.

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Speaker 9: She started thinking, like Carlin said, you said this calling

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Speaker 9: she was thinking.

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Speaker 8: She's looking back there and said her, I'm thinking we

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Speaker 7: Hey.

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Speaker 5: Hey, hey, hey, hey hey hey. We got to stop

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Speaker 5: this thinking. Hey.

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Speaker 9: As soon as she said that, I started faking a crisis.

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Speaker 9: I told you, I went down immediate. I started, Man,

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Speaker 9: we got to.

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Speaker 5: Get down to the urging care.

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Speaker 9: Because I'm thinking it's starting to hurt. It's really it's

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Speaker 9: biggering crisis. Now.

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Speaker 5: That's what you did when I called you in the

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Speaker 5: hospital one time. I heard that out, I got to

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Speaker 5: get the hell off. I can't. I can't do that agony.

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Speaker 5: You didn't take it. No, no, hell no, I ain't.

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Speaker 6: I ain't ABC Sports, I don't I don't want to

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Speaker 6: talk to the dude that fell off this ABC Sport Yeah,

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Speaker 6: ABC Sports three of the Victory, The Agony.

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Speaker 5: Of the Wild Will Sports Yeah wow.

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Speaker 6: Yeah remember that dude they used to show number down

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Speaker 6: the ski slope and he failed, Like right right. I

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Speaker 6: so he did that out I can't tell well, Julia,

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Speaker 6: let me say this to you, though, help them. It's

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Speaker 6: the thinking that women do that makes life worth living.

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Speaker 6: It's that thinking that they do man that puts the

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Speaker 5: So either get used to it or get a divorce.

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Speaker 7: You're talking about Monica my ex wife. Yeah, I'm trying

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Speaker 7: Uh no, this reference is actually for like a relationship,

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Speaker 2: Reference to whoa whoa whoa whoa boy?

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Speaker 7: And how you get my name? Philip?

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Speaker 7: My name, Philip? I got your number out of Monica phone.

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Speaker 7: Check this. I feel you don't need to call me

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Speaker 7: What I'm trying to say is is that I figured

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Speaker 7: I'm not listening to this. I was mad twelve years.

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Speaker 7: Hold on, bro, Like I say, man, I'm just trying

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Speaker 2: Is she good in the bedroom?

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Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying. I'm trying to know. I'm

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Speaker 7: And you most definitely don't need to be rout out.

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Speaker 7: Say dude, I got to go okay, okay, okay, but

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Speaker 7: can you give me a good reference on it? That's

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Speaker 7: all I'm trying to get out. Man. The references don't

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Speaker 7: worry about the relationship with Monica. You know what I'm saying. Okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 7: hold up, man, let me go and break this to you.

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Speaker 7: First of all, me and Bonica then dated for the

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Speaker 7: the last year Me and this woman just got divorced

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Speaker 7: I ain't calm nothing the reading while y'all broke up.

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Speaker 7: I don't have nothing to do with that. Look here,

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Speaker 7: Oh so you that slick, Say mate, why don't you

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Speaker 7: I'm trying to ask you is just right here, man, Hey,

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Speaker 7: can you just give her brother some references? Man, somebody

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Speaker 7: when she wants that twelve hundred dollars bag, don't call

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Speaker 7: me for that when she needs some more money for this.

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Speaker 7: Oh well, baby, I just give you my check. What

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Speaker 7: Ain't no money or that? That's the reference you're need.

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Speaker 7: So I need to hear from them, especially if you

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Speaker 7: who was around with my boy, why.

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Speaker 2: While we was married? Telling about married?

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Speaker 7: Hold up the reference here, I'm gonna find yo. I'm

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Speaker 7: gonna call Monica and I'm gonna track down Ni. Yeah

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Speaker 7: in your reference? Then yeah, yeah, I give you reference

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Speaker 7: then face to face. No, I ain't trying to have

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Speaker 7: no altercation with you, man, Oh boy, you must have

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Speaker 7: been trying to have some of you dialing my number. Okay,

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Speaker 7: dog let me okay, one more question, man, and then

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna be out your hair. I just like I said,

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Speaker 7: I just wanted a few things and know some background

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Speaker 7: on them. Man. You you out of questions? O boy,

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Speaker 2: What did you just say? You asked me about my hearty. Hey,

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Speaker 2: You around me time. I won't come here.

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Speaker 7: Oh boy, look I'm gonna find because you are bad.

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Speaker 7: You missed the bad you dog number. Not only you

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Speaker 2: I'm just asking do you matter?

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Speaker 7: She called me?

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Speaker 12: Oh?

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Speaker 6: T boy?

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Speaker 7: Look here, man, that child that they cannot come at

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Speaker 7: your mouth? You know what I'm saying. Say man this, man,

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Speaker 7: I don't I don't have time, but I'm gonna call

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Speaker 7: get you. I'm out here.

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Speaker 2: You want Why are you calling me back?

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Speaker 7: Got it? Scotty, Gotty, I'm here, man, Look at why

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Speaker 7: are you out? Man? You something? Well? You don't have

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Speaker 7: nothing to tell me home. I want to say, Scott, Scotty,

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Speaker 7: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show.

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Speaker 7: Your brother Brian got me the prank phone.

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Speaker 2: Call you.

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Speaker 7: Hey, man, it's who who is Scotty? Scotty? This is

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Speaker 7: Your brother Brian got me the prank phone call, you say, Man, Man,

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Speaker 7: oh I'm about to go man, Hey, I'm about to

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Speaker 7: Oh Man, you all right?

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Speaker 6: Man?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Yeah, they man Man, Tommy Man, Well, Hey, I'm

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Speaker 7: glad you were playing man because talk about my little Brian. No,

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Speaker 7: it's gonna be on in his world. Man, I'll goright,

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Speaker 8: He disagrees. How can he be okay with this?

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Speaker 5: Hm?

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Speaker 6: He does set a bad example. I don't think it's

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Speaker 6: You got to have boundaries for a respect level. You

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Speaker 6: It just doesn't make any sense to allow it, right,

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Speaker 5: Now when that little girl come up pregnant.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and that's going to happen if she keeps going over.

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Speaker 6: There, because man, you you can't. You gotta teach your

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Speaker 6: You know, you still loving all like that, but now

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Speaker 6: ain't right. That ain't I'm not gonna allow you to

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Speaker 6: You Finn to get yourself a job and take care

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Speaker 5: It ain't right.

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Speaker 6: And I think we got to teach our sons that,

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Speaker 6: You have to teach your sons and make them respect women.

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Speaker 6: And this girl nineteen, you're in a room with her

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 11: Do you remember remember when it was it was a

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Speaker 5: And I bet not here the same man.

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Speaker 8: Tony says, I'm.

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Speaker 10: A forty one year old divorced woman and I still

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Speaker 10: have amazing sex with my ex husband. We do what

438
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Speaker 10: we do and then go our separate ways. He's confusing

439
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 10: matters now by trying to see me outside of the bedroom.

440
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Speaker 10: He's a cheater and I'll never take him back. How

441
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Speaker 10: do I tell him that without sabotaging things you.

442
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Speaker 6: Do know already took him back? Do you understand he

443
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 6: playing the game? He getting the cake and eating it too.

444
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 6: He got the milk and I ain't got to buy

445
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 6: the cow? Are you kidding me? Wait a minute, You

446
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Speaker 6: think he's trying to see you outside of that to

447
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 6: get back with you. No, he's doing that to make

448
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Speaker 6: you think he really do honestly and genuinely care. The

449
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 6: game is on. I can divorce you but still sleep

450
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Speaker 6: with you. Are you kidding me? How do I keep

451
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Speaker 6: him the boundary straight? He got it just like he

452
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Speaker 6: like it. You the stupid one for thinking it's fit

453
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Speaker 6: to be more because it show ain't I bet you that.

454
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Speaker 5: I bet he ain't asked you to remarry him? Has lady?

455
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Speaker 6: You confuse about? You don't understand the male psyche. Let

456
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Speaker 6: me help you. Can we go somewhere and have dinner.

457
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Speaker 6: All I want him for is sac he playing the

458
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:28,640
Speaker 6: game now?

459
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 5: All right?

460
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Speaker 10: Moving on to Calista in DC. Calista rightes R and

461
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Speaker 10: one more thing?

462
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Speaker 6: And he doing that to make sure you don't pass

463
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Speaker 6: it out to nobody else.

464
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Speaker 5: You want to see what I'm saying. So if you.

465
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Speaker 6: Tie you up in the Dayton situation, he get to

466
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Speaker 6: keep it because he's somewhere he'll cheat. H He's still cheating,

467
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Speaker 6: but you it's the same slice of ham he been in.

468
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Speaker 13: Dropping knowledge?

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Speaker 10: All right, calyssta and DC says, I've been married for

470
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Speaker 10: eight years and every night my husband texts someone before

471
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Speaker 10: bedtime and in the morning before he.

472
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Speaker 8: Gets out of bed.

473
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Speaker 10: If I ask who he's texting, he says, it's work related.

474
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Speaker 10: Should I ask him to leave his phone in the

475
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Speaker 10: den overnight?

476
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 8: Obviously?

477
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Speaker 6: Now what work related do you have to text? So

478
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Speaker 6: you go to bed any night as soon as you

479
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Speaker 6: get up?

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Speaker 5: What job get up? Just let's that's all we adn't.

481
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Speaker 6: It's six of us here, let's all discuss what job

482
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Speaker 6: you have to text your coworker, all boss before you

483
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Speaker 6: go to bed as soon as you wake up?

484
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Speaker 5: Other than this one right here? One?

485
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Speaker 8: Yeah, other than this one?

486
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Speaker 5: He got a work like me? I don't.

487
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Speaker 6: I don't respond, so go ahead, and Monica need to

488
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Speaker 6: stop doing it anyway because you waste your time texting me.

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Speaker 5: Let's see, I don't wake up to text. I can't

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Speaker 5: wake up.

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Speaker 8: And then right you Texas, this is just wrong?

492
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Speaker 10: And why why is she scared to ask him? Should

493
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Speaker 10: I ask him to leave his phone in the den overnight?

494
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Speaker 5: Then he gonna get up and going there in text?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not the location of the Yeah, it's the action.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, good point, Carly, it's not the location, Carissa.

497
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Speaker 5: What you need to do?

498
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Speaker 8: Calista? What is it? Calista?

499
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Speaker 5: We need to fix that verse before we fixed his texture?

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Speaker 6: Cold LISTA car LISTA car LISTA you're talking about like

501
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Speaker 6: the mouth washed what the mouthway?

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Speaker 5: Okay? Yes, stuff you spray in the back of your throat?

503
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Speaker 5: Oh clor Clora? Uh? Sw throat.

504
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Speaker 8: That you thought that her name? Are some throat spray?

505
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Speaker 8: Say her name again, Shirley, Calista, Calista.

506
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Speaker 13: No, don't looking like that.

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Speaker 5: You nailed it.

508
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Speaker 6: I can see myself down into drugstore asking for that.

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Speaker 6: Excuse me, pharmacist, how y'all doing that? Can you tell

510
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Speaker 6: me where the co list's location?

511
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 5: And then?

512
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Speaker 6: I bet they're point two hour because it sounded like medicine.

513
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Speaker 6: It do sound like melicon.

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Speaker 5: Excuse me? Can you tell me where they keep the

515
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 5: cold lister?

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Speaker 11: Uh?

517
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Speaker 6: Over there right next to the cold gate, sir and

518
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Speaker 6: the mister rings.

519
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I bet I'm telling you that mouth washed section.

520
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 5: I'm telling you some mouth washed section for that.

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Speaker 8: Are you going to help this woman or not?

522
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 5: What's what's wrong with her? Other than her name?

523
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 6: The texting, Oh, don't worry, God, you gotta go try

524
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Speaker 6: thus people.

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Speaker 5: This is Kirk Franklin.

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Speaker 8: Hey, this is what's going on.

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Speaker 13: This is your boy, Kevin Hark Hey, this is Chloe Kardashian.

528
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Speaker 12: This is your boy, Chris Bran, your boy, Big Snoop Dog.

529
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Speaker 5: This is your boy, said the entertainer.

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Speaker 8: This is your line to Adam bless up.

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Speaker 14: It's DJ Cavin and you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.

532
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 8: There's morning shows and it's the greatest Steve Harvey Morning Show.

533
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Speaker 5: Another one.

534
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Speaker 10: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

535
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Speaker 8: All right, Steve, you said you had a question for us.

536
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Speaker 6: Okay, guys, now, this is a real question, and I

537
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Speaker 6: want you all to answer the question seriously.

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Speaker 9: Tommy, I'm gonna answer you.

539
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Speaker 5: I'm gonna ask you.

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Speaker 6: I want a real answer. This is non jokes. I

541
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Speaker 6: have a lot of people listening. Let's play a little

542
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Speaker 6: game here. This is a very very motivational moment right here.

543
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 6: The Bible is true, right, and we all are believers

544
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Speaker 6: in that, so we all know clearly everybody on this

545
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Speaker 6: show understands this.

546
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Speaker 5: So here's here's what I'm thinking.

547
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Speaker 6: And vision boards really do work, and dream boards really

548
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 6: do work because it's it's a scripture. Rebeka two and

549
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Speaker 6: two says, write the vision and make it plain so

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Speaker 6: that he who reads it will run to it. And

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Speaker 6: even though it terry, wait for it, for surely it

552
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 6: will come at an appointed time. All right, I'm gonna

553
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Speaker 6: give each one of you a different amount of money,

554
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Speaker 6: and I want you to tell me seriously what you

555
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Speaker 6: would do with that amount of money.

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Speaker 5: Junior, Okay, two.

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Speaker 6: Million dollars cash right now?

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Speaker 5: What would you do?

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Speaker 9: I will set my nephew up, you know, his conditions

560
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 9: and stuff like that for his life, and he's not

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Speaker 9: as fast as other children is learning.

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Speaker 1: M hmm.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So how much would you donate to that? Out

564
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 5: of two million collar for rail? Yes, five million dollars?

565
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Speaker 5: What do you do?

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Speaker 1: I would set my daughter up. I would donate some

567
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Speaker 1: money to my church. I off my church and charity

568
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Speaker 1: and the rest.

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Speaker 5: How much how much you're donating to the church.

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Speaker 1: I probably would donate maybe a quarter of a million

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Speaker 1: dollars to my church and another quarter of a million

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Speaker 1: dollars to breast cancer and awareness and the rest.

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Speaker 5: I'm a ball I mean.

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, okay, what's the ball portioned at you, but

575
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Speaker 6: that you're gonna do.

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Speaker 5: Okay, let me say track.

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Speaker 13: I said, find from the church.

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Speaker 8: Carry that one.

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Speaker 5: That leads me four million already.

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Speaker 13: You just spend a million, So I have four million left.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, pay off all that's done. Your bills is paid

582
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Speaker 6: off in a million.

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Speaker 13: Okay, so I have four million dollars.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you have four million left. We are now on

585
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Speaker 6: over to Shirley.

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Speaker 8: Yes, you have.

587
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Speaker 6: Fifteen million dollars.

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Speaker 5: What do you do? Go now?

589
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Speaker 10: Oh my god, Okay, okay, I am all right. I

590
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 10: gotta tithe. I have to absolutely tie. I have to

591
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Speaker 10: tell you I got it. Yeah, I have to tithe.

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Speaker 10: I have to I have to put God first.

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Speaker 5: I have to one church.

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Speaker 10: Well you're yeah, However, I'm going to tithe either to

595
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Speaker 10: my one church.

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Speaker 8: I have cousins that have churches. I'll do that. Yeah,

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Speaker 8: I don't have a problem with that at all.

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Speaker 10: I will tie because I get to keep ninety percent.

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Speaker 10: I'm cool with it.

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Speaker 8: I'm gonna buy. I'm gonna buy some real estate.

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Speaker 10: I gotta buy some real estate, some homes, some property,

602
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Speaker 10: some rental properties.

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Speaker 8: Gotta do that.

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Speaker 5: You got fifteen minus how much you spend.

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Speaker 8: On what real estate.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, oh okay, probably probably about five million somewhere along

607
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Speaker 10: in there, depending on where I buy it. Yeah, okay,

608
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Speaker 10: I'm gonna invest some I'm gonna I'm definitely gonna invest.

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Speaker 5: What do you mean you just bought the real estate priber,

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Speaker 5: What are you talking about that?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm gonna invest some more, probably in the stock

612
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Speaker 10: stock market with something. I gotta take some risks. I'm

613
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Speaker 10: going to invest in the stock market, and I'm gonna

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Speaker 10: buy some shoes. Oh wait, wait, I do have a child.

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Speaker 10: Wait I thought she just called me.

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Speaker 8: Five minutes ago. I asked me for two hundred dollars.

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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, I'll take care of her too, to take

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Speaker 8: care of my family. Of course, I'll take care of

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Speaker 8: my family.

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Speaker 5: How about you giving it?

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Speaker 10: Well, I'm gonna leave a trust. I have eight and

622
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Speaker 10: a half million dollars left.

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Speaker 13: I'll leave her.

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Speaker 10: Three million. Yeah, I'll leave her about three million dollars.

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Speaker 6: Tommy, yes, sir, you have fifty million dollars.

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Speaker 11: What do you do twenty five million? We finished shoot

627
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Speaker 11: a hell of a movie. I'm finna get every star

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Speaker 11: I can think of. I'm shooting. I'm shooting out because

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Speaker 11: I know it's gonna produce a world money. What well,

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Speaker 11: you won't get every well see no, no, I didn't

631
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Speaker 11: figure this out. See what you want to do is

632
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Speaker 11: you want to get them where they come in and

633
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Speaker 11: shoot their stuff in one day. These are cameos, come

634
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Speaker 11: in and shoot it. Get them out. This finn to

635
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Speaker 11: be another who stole corporation?

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Speaker 8: The movie like Holdover.

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Speaker 6: First of all, okay, Tommy, I just cannot. I cannot

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Speaker 6: as your uncle and advise me shoot. No, I cannot

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Speaker 6: let you shoot a twenty five million dollar movie.

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Speaker 5: Man, you crazy dog, get the mine. We're gonna get

641
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Speaker 5: that right back.

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Speaker 6: Dog, Tyler ain't shot a movie for twenty five million.

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Speaker 6: You know how much money that man got. The hell

644
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Speaker 6: are you doing with a twenty five million dollar movie?

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Speaker 13: Tyler?

646
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Speaker 5: Gonna be in the movie, all right?

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Speaker 6: All right?

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Speaker 5: I mean you got twenty five million dollars, all right,

649
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 5: you got twenty.

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Speaker 11: Five left, and it ain't gonna take but a couple

651
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 11: million dollar payoff bills and houses and stuff like that.

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Speaker 5: I pay that off. Okay.

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Speaker 11: If you want me to truthfully be said, I'm gonna

654
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Speaker 11: give my wife and kids some money because I finished

655
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Speaker 11: to lose.

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Speaker 5: That's accepted.

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Speaker 11: If I get fifty Let me go ahead and fess

658
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Speaker 11: up and give these people some money, man, and let

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Speaker 11: them going on about their life.

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Speaker 5: Man.

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Speaker 11: By the time I get fifty million, that's these people.

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Speaker 6: That's what they are. This is how you get things

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Speaker 6: in life. You have to dream. You have to set

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Speaker 6: really high goals. My father always told me, said, aim

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Speaker 6: for the moon. In case you missed, you'll still be

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Speaker 6: a more stars. He used to say that to me

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Speaker 6: all the time. So I learned how to aim extremely high. Okay,

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Speaker 6: but man, God give you high stuff, but you gotta

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Speaker 6: ask for yo.

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Speaker 8: This is Jamie Fox, this.

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Speaker 5: Is Kim Whitley.

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Speaker 6: You already know what it is meagin match, go bean,

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Speaker 6: and you are now listening to the Steve Hobvey Morning Shows.

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Speaker 8: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 10: This month, be et fan favorite series are stepping into

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Speaker 10: com to get started today. All right, guys, it is

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Speaker 10: time for would you rather for today?

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Speaker 8: Would you rather now think about this? Would you rather.

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Speaker 10: Receive the Nobel Peace Prize or would you rather get

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Speaker 10: an Oscar?

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Speaker 8: Hmm?

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Speaker 9: I'm gonna go with Nobel Peace Prize because they fighting

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Speaker 9: at the Oscars.

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Speaker 8: I'm not slash lapsing people run up last when peace.

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Speaker 6: I've got to get the Nobel Peace Prizes to mean

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Speaker 6: more to me. Yeah, person, I am, because you know

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Speaker 6: it's it's it's an award. It's a reward versus an award.

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Speaker 6: It's a reward for hard work. Oscars is an award.

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Speaker 8: Okay, oh wow, okay.

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Speaker 6: You know you get a reward for you accomplish something,

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Speaker 6: you received benefit of something you've done, and award they

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Speaker 6: just give you something. It's usually a group of people

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Speaker 6: or something like that. It ain't got to be unanimous

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Speaker 6: and all like that. So I'm about the Noble Peace Prize.

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right?

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Speaker 10: Would you rather starve for a week, starve for a week,

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Speaker 10: or go to jail for a day.

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Speaker 6: I'm going to jail, going to jail, really, hell yeah,

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Speaker 6: before they feed you in there, they see something they

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Speaker 6: ain't gonna like it. So we're not gonna say it'll

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Speaker 6: be a star for a week. Man, you know the shake.

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Speaker 6: You're gonna be and go down here and do this

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Speaker 6: jail time jokes, make a couple of big friends and stuff.

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Speaker 6: I know, I talk to hoods man. I'll be in there, motivating, encouraging, having.

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Speaker 5: Dog.

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Speaker 6: I ain't even gonna be sleep I'm gonna stay up

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Speaker 6: the whole time. Back to the wall. It's just today.

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Speaker 6: I'm not gonna I'm going.

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Speaker 5: To jail, though, Steve Harvey, what up y'all?

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Speaker 8: It's going about a week in jail.

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Speaker 5: A week in jail, or a week of starving. When

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Speaker 5: you say starving, what do you.

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Speaker 8: Mean start no food, no food, no food?

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Speaker 6: No oh no, no, no, no, I'm going to jail.

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Speaker 6: You ain't gonna take you ain't gonna be able to

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Speaker 6: do that. Okay, Yeah, at least I can accomplish something

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Speaker 6: in jail. I'm gonna be I'm gonna be stealing. I

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Speaker 6: had to be so quiet for that week of starving

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Speaker 6: laying in the hospital your desk.

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Speaker 13: All right, all right, moving on?

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Speaker 10: Would you rather use sandpaper as toilet paper or use

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Speaker 10: vinegar as I dropped.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna use that sandpaper for toilet paper. I'm just

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Speaker 6: gonna flip that other side over. You ain't putting that

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Speaker 6: vinegar in my eyes. That ain't what you shouldn't do.

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Speaker 6: I can't go blind. Yeah, you can rate that sadpaper across.

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Speaker 5: In my eye.

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Speaker 6: I can deal with that right there. I've cut my

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Speaker 6: butt before. I've done it more than once. Sherry, all right,

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Speaker 6: that it put this vinegar in my eye.

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Speaker 10: Today's version of what you rather? You're listening hardy Morning show. Well,

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Speaker 10: you've heard it before, and it's true. You are your

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Speaker 10: own worst enemy. The world is hard enough on you,

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Speaker 10: but the stories you tell yourself inside your head can

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Speaker 10: make it a lot harder to deal with the stress

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Speaker 10: life throws at you. So steve here a few lies.

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Speaker 10: We believe in moments of stress that take away our

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Speaker 10: joy and happiness.

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Speaker 8: What can we do today?

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Speaker 10: I should say, to stop getting in the way of

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Speaker 10: our own happiness, like, for instance, saying things like we

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Speaker 10: don't deserve it, like when something good happens. You know,

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Speaker 10: we could be a bigger jerk to ourselves, and we

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Speaker 10: would ever be to our best.

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Speaker 8: Friend or to our child.

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Speaker 10: If you have unrealistic expectations or keep judging yourself too harshly,

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Speaker 10: stop and enjoy the good things when they come along.

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Speaker 8: You do deserve it. In other words, so don't tell

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Speaker 8: yourself the opposite.

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Speaker 5: Well, I've said that before. I don't deserve it in

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Speaker 5: front of people. As soon as I walk away, whatever

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Speaker 5: they gave me, I put it in my pocket. I'll

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Speaker 5: go woldy, he engaged. Right after I see.

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Speaker 13: What did Snoop say.

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Speaker 10: When he got the he got the star on Hollywood

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Speaker 10: Walk of Fame. He said, I'd like to thank God,

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Speaker 10: I'd like to thank my family and me.

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Speaker 8: I'd like to thank me. Okay, yeah, same thing, all right.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, we tell ourselves we shouldn't enjoy it because it

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Speaker 10: won't last. I mean, good things come along, many don't

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Speaker 10: last forever. But instead of using that as a reason

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Speaker 10: to not to enjoy the good things when they come,

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Speaker 10: they should make you more focused on enjoying it instead

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Speaker 10: of work hard.

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Speaker 6: If you work hard, I mean, nothing lasts forever. But

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Speaker 6: there's no need of you regretting the end, and the

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Speaker 6: end ain't here.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, joy, enjoy the moment, enjoy the journey. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 10: Or these are some of the things you tell yourself.

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Speaker 10: We can't have joy until unreasonable unreasonable expectations keep popping up,

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Speaker 10: don't they. So high achievers will tell you to delay

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Speaker 10: your gratification until.

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Speaker 8: You've reached all of your goals. Now is that realistic?

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Speaker 8: We just said that the journey. Yeah, that's not true.

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Speaker 5: What do you mean?

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Speaker 6: And that's what keeps most people unhappy and behind the

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Speaker 6: eight ball. I've said it a million times. If your

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Speaker 6: goal is to make a million dollars, but you've been

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Speaker 6: making twenty five thousand dollars a year, and then you

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Speaker 6: look up and you're making one hundred thousand dollars a year,

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Speaker 6: but you still mad because you ain't a millionaire. Yet

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Speaker 6: he was making twenty five thousand a year. You not

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Speaker 6: make a hundred, You don't see the joy in that.

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Speaker 6: Then a little bit later on, you make a quarter

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Speaker 6: of a million dollars a year. Now you steal mad.

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Speaker 6: I'm working all this hard, I steal ain't a millionaire?

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Speaker 6: You got a quarter million dollars. You don't see that

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Speaker 6: that lack of gratitude keeps you forever disgruntled and unhappy.

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Speaker 8: That's right, be grateful. What about this one?

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Speaker 10: Our joy depends on someone else or something else.

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Speaker 8: You know, a lot of.

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Speaker 10: People think that they need someone else to make them

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Speaker 10: happy instead of being happy within themselves.

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Speaker 8: A lot of people believe that.

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Speaker 6: Some people put that. Bishop Jakes told me something one time.

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Speaker 6: He said, it's not your job to make another person happy,

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Speaker 6: nor should you make it. Don't make that your job,

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Speaker 6: because I'm telling you that's the job you cannot win

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Speaker 6: because if they ain't happy with themselves, I don't give it.

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Speaker 8: What you do right now.

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Speaker 6: If people need things to make them have joy, that's

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Speaker 6: not joy, that's fun. Yeah, there's a difference between joy

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Speaker 6: and fun.

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Speaker 8: There is a difference, absolutely right. And what is the difference?

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Speaker 8: Go ahead, since you brought it up.

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Speaker 6: Well, the difference is some of joy is something that

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Speaker 6: abides and resides within you. It's a comfortability factor and

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Speaker 6: a piece that you are perfectly fine with who you

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Speaker 6: are and right where you are, and you find contentment

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Speaker 6: in it and it gives you a resounding piece of joy.

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Speaker 6: A relationship with God gives you joy. Fun is manufactured.

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Speaker 6: You have to go somewhere and be doing something to

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Speaker 6: interject this feeling of fun in you. But if you

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Speaker 6: keep having fun too long, fun is an acronym. Everybody

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Speaker 6: that has fun too long. It's an acronym. Fun actually

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Speaker 6: stands for it's effed up now?

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Speaker 7: All right?

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Speaker 10: Coming up next, it is a nephew with today's prank

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Speaker 10: phone call. Right after this, Hey, what's up everybody? This

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Speaker 10: is your girl Candy.

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Speaker 5: This is Anthony Anderson, this is Janet. And you can't

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Speaker 5: get no sleep when you're listening to Steve Carlos Shirley

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Speaker 5: and Nephew Tommy on the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 10: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up

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Speaker 10: at about four minutes after the hour, it's the Strawberry

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Speaker 10: Letter for today, and the subject is it is not

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Speaker 10: a big deal at all.

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Speaker 8: It's not a big deal at all.

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Speaker 10: Okay, we'll get into that in just a few because

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Speaker 10: right now it is time for the nephew and today's

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Speaker 10: prank phone call.

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Speaker 11: I'll be here, I'll be here, I'll be right here.

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Speaker 11: Got the prank go today for you? This right here

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Speaker 11: is exotic delivery, exotic delivery. Now, ladies, what y'all think

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Speaker 11: you know when you hear exotic delivery?

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Speaker 5: What you think that is.

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Speaker 8: Stick girl with an Amazon package or something?

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Speaker 5: Stripper? What an Amazon package called delivery?

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Speaker 1: Exotic dances? I'm with you on this, Shirley. If you're

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Speaker 1: male dancer, Okay.

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Speaker 11: Junior boy, about what you think when you hear exotic delivery?

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Speaker 5: Changing whips?

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Speaker 13: What's happening? He went there? That's what That's why Amazon

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Speaker 13: off ye.

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Speaker 8: Changing whips and what in the world handcuffs?

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Speaker 5: Just don't.

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Speaker 11: What if I let you know that this exotic delivery

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Speaker 11: is I'm dropping off a uh, a llama or a giraffe.

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Speaker 5: At your house.

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Speaker 11: This is anxiety, exiety, animals, ex animals.

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Speaker 8: Oh, exactic strippers. Okay, track my faults.

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Speaker 11: All right, put them whips up, y'all pay attention here

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Speaker 11: my baby, let's go baby. Hello, Hello, I am trying

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Speaker 11: to reach Adrian.

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Speaker 5: Adrian, Yeah, this is this is he How can I

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Speaker 5: help you? How you doing?

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Speaker 11: My name is, My name is Rashad. I'm with GPT

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Speaker 11: and we have a delivery for you. I'm going to

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Speaker 11: be arriving probably in the next I guess about the

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Speaker 11: next ninety minutes.

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Speaker 5: Are you Are you actually at the house, sir?

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Speaker 15: No, I'm not at home right now, but I mean

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Speaker 15: you can just go ahead and leave whatever it is

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Speaker 15: my wife and you know kids can probably get it

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Speaker 15: when us home.

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Speaker 8: From school, you know.

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Speaker 11: So let me make sure I got the address right.

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Speaker 11: Are you thirty eight North River Drive?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's my other Okay, so is anyone there right

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Speaker 5: now at all?

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Speaker 15: Nobody is home right now. I don't understand why you

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Speaker 15: can't just just leave the package.

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Speaker 11: There for a Yeah, Well this has to be This

883
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 11: has to be signed, and I have you on here

884
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 11: as the handler for this delivery, so I definitely got

885
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 11: to get quite a few signatures from you. I got

886
00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 11: about five or six pieces of paper sheets that you

887
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 11: need to sign off on.

888
00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 5: Are you is your What time does your wife get there? Sir?

889
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 15: She'll be that What do you what do you what

890
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:08,920
Speaker 15: do you mean on a handler handling?

891
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 7: What?

892
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 5: What are you?

893
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 15: What are you delivering?

894
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:14,800
Speaker 11: This is GPT, sir, This is Global Pet Transport. We

895
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:18,800
Speaker 11: have two peacocks, we have a seal, and we have

896
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 11: a baby kangaroo that we're dropping off today.

897
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 7: Okay, this got We've got some kind of mistake.

898
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 15: Right, we have a dog, that's it. We don't.

899
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 2: We don't.

900
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 15: We're not an animal sanctuary here.

901
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 5: I don't.

902
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:32,240
Speaker 15: I don't understand what what you're talking about. We didn't

903
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:33,800
Speaker 15: a kangaroo a field.

904
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 11: I mean you're you're you're you're Adrian's correct. That's my name, man, okay,

905
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:41,399
Speaker 11: and you're thirty eight North River Drive.

906
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:45,480
Speaker 15: Listen, listen. Yes, that is accurate. But again, I'm not

907
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:47,439
Speaker 15: a handler. I'm not handling things.

908
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 11: Okay, okay, sir, let me if there is some confusion.

909
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 11: Your name is here, your address is here. So I

910
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 11: don't see where I have a problem. If everything I'm

911
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,840
Speaker 11: asking you, you're saying is correct, except now you're saying

912
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 11: you don't want your delivery.

913
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 15: It's not my delivery man. That's what I'm trying to

914
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 15: tell you.

915
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,760
Speaker 2: This is not I didn't order a kangaroo.

916
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 15: I didn't order these things.

917
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 5: Okay, A kangaroo, a seal, and two peacocks.

918
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:15,680
Speaker 15: It makes sense, man, two peacocks.

919
00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 2: Whose order is this?

920
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 15: This is not my order? Man, You got my name, okay,

921
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:19,800
Speaker 15: So here's okay.

922
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 11: So here's here's what we need to do. Will your

923
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 11: wife be here, be at the house within the next

924
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:25,440
Speaker 11: ninety minutes.

925
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:29,359
Speaker 15: She might be, But you know what are you saying?

926
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 5: What I'm gonna do is leave.

927
00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:33,880
Speaker 11: Them here, leave them at your at your place, and

928
00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:36,000
Speaker 11: you can call the company that shipped them and you

929
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 11: can figure out what went wrong or whatnot.

930
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 5: But it is my leave these animals there.

931
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 15: What is your what's your name?

932
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 7: Brothers?

933
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 15: What's your name?

934
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:45,279
Speaker 5: Brothers? My name is Rasha shot.

935
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Speaker 15: Let me tell you something like now, okay, you're not

936
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:50,080
Speaker 15: about to leave no more animals at my sing house. Okay,

937
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:52,719
Speaker 15: you're not leaving no peacocks. You're not leaving no kangaroos.

938
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 15: You're not leaving no conceals. Okay, we're not having a

939
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 15: co tetant zyo at my house. When I get to

940
00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:01,359
Speaker 15: my house, was shot? Ain't no animals gonna be there?

941
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Speaker 7: Okay? You know what?

942
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:04,120
Speaker 15: Hold on, figure okay, let's let me come. Me get

943
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 15: my wife on the phone, a right, let me well

944
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:06,239
Speaker 15: hang on.

945
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 5: Hang on, sir. I don't listen, sir. I don't have

946
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 5: time for you to reach out to you.

947
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 11: Why for you to try to figure out what you're

948
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 11: gonna do about your kangaroo, your peacocks, your seal.

949
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:18,759
Speaker 5: I gotta make this drop I gotta keep moving. I

950
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 5: have other animals on the truck.

951
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 15: I don't give up about your other animals. Okay, I'm

952
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 15: home my wife. I'm if she may be ordered to

953
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:27,799
Speaker 15: tingle with the seal, okay, because I know I didn't order.

954
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 15: All right, We're gonna figure this out. Okay, hang, sir,

955
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 15: listen to me.

956
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 5: Listen to me, sir. You can figure this out when

957
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:37,319
Speaker 5: you get home. Right now.

958
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 11: I'm I'm now about an hour out. I'm gonna drop

959
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:46,400
Speaker 11: the animals. There's something, sir. If it's not yours, somebody

960
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:48,080
Speaker 11: will come back tomorrow and pick them up.

961
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 15: You mean somebody gonna come back and pick them up tomorrow.

962
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:53,520
Speaker 15: I'm not gonna have the ses my house overnight. But

963
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:56,399
Speaker 15: you think I am rain Mary Papa's man. I ain't

964
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,799
Speaker 15: out here doing nothing with these animals like this. You're

965
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:02,319
Speaker 15: crazy for shot. Please, there's a containnimal at my house

966
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 15: when I arrived. So help me, God, so so so.

967
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:07,279
Speaker 11: Help you God. What you're gonna have? The animal is

968
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:09,120
Speaker 11: gonna be there when you get there. Man, you're not

969
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 11: finna use. You're slowing up my whole delivery route today. Okay,

970
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 11: I ain't got time for this.

971
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:15,359
Speaker 7: I ain't got time.

972
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 5: But why you ordered? Why you order a kangaroo if

973
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 5: you don't want it?

974
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 6: Now?

975
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:23,839
Speaker 14: If I didn't order them, entangloo, that's why I don't

976
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:25,360
Speaker 14: want the king, because.

977
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 15: I didn't order them kangaroo. Be telling you what's what

978
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:31,400
Speaker 15: I want. Okay, this is the worst customer service in

979
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:34,359
Speaker 15: the world. I don't even a customer of yours. You're

980
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 15: trying to tell me that I got a kangaroo of

981
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:38,840
Speaker 15: peacock and peacocks.

982
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 5: You have two peacocks. You have two peacocks, sir.

983
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 15: This isn't even making I'm gonna do with those animals.

984
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 11: Animals, I don't know what you're gonna do with them,

985
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 11: but you're gonna sign. You're gonna sign this paperwork though,

986
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 11: that's what you're gonna do.

987
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:56,920
Speaker 15: Why do you think I'm sorrying to the paperwork animal?

988
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:00,440
Speaker 11: I don't want to whoop your at your house in

989
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 11: front of your wife and kids behind some animals.

990
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 5: I don't, But you're gonna sign my paperwork.

991
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 14: You would I wish you would try to whop my something.

992
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 14: I'm about to show my kids what it looks like

993
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:13,960
Speaker 14: to show up and talk real restless. Okay, you showing

994
00:53:14,000 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 14: up here with a caravan of animals like, I mean

995
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:19,600
Speaker 14: the ridiculous Okay, huh no, God.

996
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:20,840
Speaker 15: Face man, this is ridicious.

997
00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:24,399
Speaker 11: It's only one thing, I really, just only one last

998
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 11: thing I need to tell you, to be honest with you.

999
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:26,840
Speaker 8: What is that?

1000
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 11: The only thing I can tell you now, Adrian, is

1001
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:32,879
Speaker 11: that I have nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morny Show.

1002
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,360
Speaker 5: Your wife Bridget got me me the frank phone. Call you.

1003
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 5: Oh man, you gotta be.

1004
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:47,160
Speaker 11: Oh man, Wow, you don't want the delivery man.

1005
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 7: You don't want I don't want.

1006
00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 15: The kangaroo man. Those animals together, Man, you gotta be

1007
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:54,319
Speaker 15: high up to mind one of those.

1008
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:57,400
Speaker 12: All right, but give it.

1009
00:53:57,440 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 11: Tell me what's the baddest and I mean the baddest

1010
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 11: radio show in the land.

1011
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:02,120
Speaker 5: Let me hear, Adrian.

1012
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 15: It's a Steve Harvey Morning Show, baby, and now you

1013
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 15: have its exotic.

1014
00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 5: What would you want for delivery?

1015
00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 10: I told you at the beginning, animal Sirley, Oh, I like.

1016
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:22,480
Speaker 10: I like leopards, you know, cheetahs and panthers.

1017
00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 5: You would want a lepard in your yard? Yeah?

1018
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:27,440
Speaker 11: Okay, let's see. I couldn't have said that. I like,

1019
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:29,799
Speaker 11: I would have gotten me a peacock. How about you, John,

1020
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:33,399
Speaker 11: you would have got a peacock. Yeah, I just see

1021
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 11: him in the yard. So you ain't got no fence.

1022
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 11: You can't visit like that.

1023
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:36,799
Speaker 7: But I.

1024
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:45,160
Speaker 9: Can't see that peacock be going all down the street.

1025
00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 5: Hey man, y'all see the peacock.

1026
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 11: Right here, Sunday, June twenty first. That is actually Father's Day,

1027
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,720
Speaker 11: June twenty first. You don't want to miss a Detroit.

1028
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:59,719
Speaker 11: It is jokes, jazz and jams, jokes, jazz and jams, and.

1029
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:00,720
Speaker 5: We can it all loaded.

1030
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 11: But you got Dougie Fresh, you got Janet Moore hosted

1031
00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 11: by yours Judie. That would be me, Sugarhill Gang and

1032
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:07,720
Speaker 11: the Furious Five, Marcus Wilde.

1033
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:09,239
Speaker 5: That's my dog right there.

1034
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 11: The boy is funny, Julian Vond, the Williams Singer.

1035
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:14,880
Speaker 5: The list go on and on and on.

1036
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 11: You don't want miss tickets on sale right now, and

1037
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 11: it's at the Aretha Franklin Amphathea.

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00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 5: You don't want to miss that.

1039
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 11: Yeah, nick Us on sale right now. Care sh'd kill it.

1040
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:29,360
Speaker 11: The list go on, I keep going. You want to

1041
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:30,880
Speaker 11: say I can't, I will.

1042
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 8: All right, thank you, nephew.

1043
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:36,640
Speaker 10: Your time's up up next my Strawberry Letter. The subject

1044
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Speaker 10: is not a big deal at all. We'll get into

1045
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Speaker 10: that right after this. This month, B E T fan

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Speaker 10: Head to Paramount plus dot com to get started. Today

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Speaker 10: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time

1056
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Speaker 10: now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you need advice

1057
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:30,480
Speaker 10: on relationships, works, sex.

1058
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:31,120
Speaker 8: Parenting, and more.

1059
00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:35,319
Speaker 10: Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com

1060
00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:39,439
Speaker 10: by clicking clicking submit Strawberry Letter.

1061
00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 8: Okay, we could be reading your letter live on the air.

1062
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:52,360
Speaker 10: Submit your Strawberry Letter by clicking Submit Strawberry Letter. Okay,

1063
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 10: That's what I've meant. We could be reading your letter

1064
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 10: live on the air, just like we're going to read

1065
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:00,640
Speaker 10: this one right here, right now, and you never know,

1066
00:57:01,120 --> 00:57:02,440
Speaker 10: this one could be yours.

1067
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 5: You never know. Buckle up and hold on tight. We

1068
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 5: got it for you. Here it is strawberry letter.

1069
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:08,720
Speaker 8: Thank you, nephew.

1070
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:09,240
Speaker 11: Subject.

1071
00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 8: It's not a big deal.

1072
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 10: At all, Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been married for eight years,

1073
00:57:14,239 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 10: and I've been faking it for ten years. We met

1074
00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 10: when I was twenty two years old, and I had

1075
00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 10: nothing to compare the intimacy to, so it was fine.

1076
00:57:23,280 --> 00:57:27,280
Speaker 10: He was my first and only man for ten long years.

1077
00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 10: Then a month ago, my good friend had a bachelorette

1078
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:35,000
Speaker 10: party and she had mail strippers there. The strippers were

1079
00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:38,720
Speaker 10: scrawny and couldn't dance, so we laughed at them. Then

1080
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 10: a big black stripper showed up and said he got lost.

1081
00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 10: He went to the back and got oiled up, and

1082
00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 10: lordy Lottie, when he came back in his thong, he

1083
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:52,960
Speaker 10: shut the whole party down. I couldn't stop staring. He

1084
00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 10: noticed me, and he gave me a lot of attention.

1085
00:57:56,240 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 10: He whispered to me to relax, because my whole body

1086
00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:02,760
Speaker 10: was tense up. The other six ladies. Darn near ripped

1087
00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 10: his underwear off, and he got offended and said he

1088
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 10: was leaving. When he went to the back to put

1089
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 10: his clothes on, I had to use the bathroom. He

1090
00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 10: saw me going into the bathroom and he asked if

1091
00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 10: he could wash his face before I used it. I

1092
00:58:17,520 --> 00:58:21,360
Speaker 10: allowed him to use the bathroom first, since he was

1093
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 10: so mad that the ladies attacked him. He teased me

1094
00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 10: about being very uptight and asked He asked if he

1095
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:31,840
Speaker 10: could help me unwind. I didn't know it would involve

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Speaker 10: his tongue and other things. I didn't stop him or

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Speaker 10: use common sense. I had the best sexual experience of

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00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 10: my life on the bathroom floor. He asked if we

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00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:45,320
Speaker 10: could keep in touch, and I told him I was married.

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00:58:45,600 --> 00:58:47,880
Speaker 10: He said he could see I was married, but I

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00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:52,080
Speaker 10: could pay him to help me unwind whenever I needed. Here,

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Speaker 10: I am with my little, average sized husband and I

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00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:57,680
Speaker 10: have the big Stripperman's number in my phone.

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Speaker 8: How bad would it be if I cheat it just

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Speaker 8: one more time?

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Speaker 10: Okay, So you're asking permission or opinions from Steve and

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Speaker 10: I on what we think about you cheating on your

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00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 10: husband again. You want us to tell you how bad

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00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:15,920
Speaker 10: it would be if you did it just.

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Speaker 8: One more time. Hmm. I said that aloud, two different ways.

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Speaker 10: So maybe if you heard it back you would understand

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Speaker 10: how crazy all this sounds.

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Speaker 8: And Mary, lady, you know we're not going to tell you. Yes, girl,

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00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:32,520
Speaker 8: go for it, Go for it. One of the problems

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00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:35,840
Speaker 8: with going back for that one more time.

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Speaker 10: And anyone who has told you who anyone who has

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00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 10: done this gone back for that one more time, knows

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00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:47,160
Speaker 10: that at that moment you get hooked, okay, and you

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00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:50,120
Speaker 10: keep going back, and you keep going back, and every

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00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:53,720
Speaker 10: time is your last time. That's what you always tell yourself. Okay,

1121
00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 10: one more time, this is it. This is the last time.

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Speaker 10: But it doesn't stop. It won't just be, you know,

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Speaker 10: one time, your last time. It won't just be that.

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Speaker 10: I'm telling you right now. If you're gonna keep going

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Speaker 10: and keep going and keep going, okay, all I can

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01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:14,520
Speaker 10: tell you is that you are married. Please remember that.

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Speaker 10: Even though women are much better at cheating than men,

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Speaker 10: as a woman, I still say, don't gamble with your

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Speaker 10: marriage because you can lose, you can lose everything. Instead

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01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:26,320
Speaker 10: of faking it with your husband, why don't you talk

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01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 10: to him about what you like and kind of teach

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Speaker 10: him how to please you. You guys were really young

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01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:34,120
Speaker 10: when you got married. Instead of taking the easy way

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01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:39,280
Speaker 10: out with cheating and paying paying for a stripper to

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01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:42,920
Speaker 10: come by and please you. Think about that, Steve.

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Speaker 6: I normally don't do this, Shirley, but I'm gonna have

1137
01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:48,439
Speaker 6: to start my letter with a statement you just made.

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01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:56,680
Speaker 6: Sit your husband down and tell him what you like. Yeah, now,

1139
01:01:00,680 --> 01:01:07,520
Speaker 6: well what I like? Well, if you was bigger and

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01:01:07,720 --> 01:01:08,600
Speaker 6: dog skin.

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01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 5: And I like other things, tongue and some other things,

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01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:18,880
Speaker 5: and that's what I like.

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Speaker 6: I don't think she can send her husband down and

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01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:27,200
Speaker 6: tell him what she liked because she didn't know she

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01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 6: liked it till she left the stripper the bachelor party.

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Speaker 5: That's not a good suggestion.

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01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:41,800
Speaker 6: So now let's start to let her over. You've been

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01:01:41,840 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 6: married for eight years. Y'all met when you was twenty two,

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01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 6: you thirty at least right now. He was your first

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01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:54,280
Speaker 6: and only man for ten years. Then a month ago

1151
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:57,320
Speaker 6: something happened. You went to a bachelorette party. Some strippers

1152
01:01:57,400 --> 01:01:59,919
Speaker 6: was there. Y'all was laughing at him, scrowny, couldn't dance.

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01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 6: Then El Domingo Django showed up.

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Speaker 8: That's name.

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Speaker 6: Django showed up in chains. Jango showed up lost because

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Speaker 6: he ain't got no GPS. Because Jango came to the

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Speaker 6: stripper party on a buckboard.

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Speaker 5: Pulled by a mule. Wow, that's how Django got lost.

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01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:32,919
Speaker 6: See, you don't know that Jango ain't got no car

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01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:39,080
Speaker 6: or nothing. Django field hand. Django came up in there

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Speaker 6: with a burre lap shots on. Jango came up undre.

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Speaker 5: That wasn't all.

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Speaker 6: That was just sweat from out in the fields. Jango

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01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:58,680
Speaker 6: was next. When I come back, I will tell you

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Speaker 6: what happened when Jangle came out to bathroom.

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Speaker 10: All right, hang on for part two of Steve's responds,

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01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 10: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's

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01:03:09,840 --> 01:03:12,520
Speaker 10: strawberry letter subject is not a big deal at all.

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01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:16,360
Speaker 10: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 10: Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:25,840
Speaker 13: An education is a transformation every day.

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Speaker 1: proud HBCU graduated my experience shape me into the person

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Speaker 1: today at TMCF dot org.

1183
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Speaker 10: All right, come on, Steve latreecap today's Strawberry letter. The

1184
01:04:15,680 --> 01:04:18,720
Speaker 10: subject It's not a big deal at all.

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01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:21,160
Speaker 6: This girl was twenty two when she met her hub

1186
01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:24,400
Speaker 6: been married for ten years. He's the only man she's

1187
01:04:24,480 --> 01:04:27,080
Speaker 6: ever been with. Then, about a month ago, one of

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01:04:27,160 --> 01:04:29,880
Speaker 6: her girls had a bachelor party, So that means she's

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01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:33,080
Speaker 6: thirty or thirty two. They've been together, married ten years.

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01:04:33,320 --> 01:04:35,919
Speaker 6: Probably met him when she was twenty two, Probably dated

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01:04:35,960 --> 01:04:37,560
Speaker 6: for a couple of year. I probably she about thirty

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01:04:37,600 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 6: two thirty four, went to the bachelor party. Some strippers

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01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:45,960
Speaker 6: was there. Scrony couldn't dance. The women was laughing at them.

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01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:49,560
Speaker 6: But one of them came in late. He came in

1195
01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:54,640
Speaker 6: late because he was the big, beautiful black dancer. They

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01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 6: noticed he looked a little unruly because he had on

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01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:02,760
Speaker 6: some burr lap show. The reason he got lost is

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01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:08,480
Speaker 6: because he don't have GPS. His name was Django. Django

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01:05:08,680 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 6: came in on a buckboard pulled by mule. Y'all say

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01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:15,920
Speaker 6: he went in the back and got all the that

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01:05:16,120 --> 01:05:18,680
Speaker 6: wasn't all that was sweat from the fields. He's a

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01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 6: field hand. Jano came out with his thong on and Lord, Lord, Lord,

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01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:32,120
Speaker 6: you found out what django meant. Jango is an old

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01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:36,680
Speaker 6: African mean, Old African word. Django is an old African word.

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01:05:37,200 --> 01:05:44,600
Speaker 5: It means dad go is Django is an old African word.

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01:05:44,720 --> 01:05:48,800
Speaker 6: It means dad go. And so they called him Django

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01:05:49,640 --> 01:05:55,000
Speaker 6: dad Go. Jango came out there and the women lost.

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01:05:55,120 --> 01:06:00,520
Speaker 6: They mind Django shut the party down. Jango was moving

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01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:06,200
Speaker 6: and the women told his underwear off. He got upset

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01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:12,360
Speaker 6: because he didn't sign up for that. So now Django

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01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:15,800
Speaker 6: is upset and he finally gets through. You had to

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01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:17,480
Speaker 6: go to the bathroom, and he had to go to

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01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:20,400
Speaker 6: the bathroom. And he saw you go down the hall

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01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 6: when you was going in there, and he said, he said,

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01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:28,000
Speaker 6: do you mind if I washed my face? Face sweat

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01:06:28,040 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 6: he wanted to get it off because that wasn't all

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01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:36,280
Speaker 6: he was using. It was actually corn husker's lotion. He

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01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:37,280
Speaker 6: made it hisself.

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Speaker 8: What had the story in the world.

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Speaker 6: I'm building a story, Jangle field hand. He made his

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01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:48,760
Speaker 6: own corn husky's lotion. He don't like driving in it,

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01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:52,360
Speaker 6: so he wanted to wash it off his face. Okay,

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01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 6: So then he let you in the bathroom and he

1224
01:06:55,320 --> 01:06:57,480
Speaker 6: noticed you was uptight. He told you to relax.

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01:06:57,600 --> 01:06:58,120
Speaker 5: You was tense.

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01:06:58,200 --> 01:06:59,520
Speaker 6: He told you that when he was trying to give

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01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:03,120
Speaker 6: you that lap dance you didn't want, but he rubbed

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01:07:03,160 --> 01:07:07,160
Speaker 6: Jango up against you. And now all of a sudden,

1229
01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:10,120
Speaker 6: you're in that bathroom with Jingo. He said, look, you

1230
01:07:10,200 --> 01:07:13,360
Speaker 6: need to relax. You want me to help you to relax.

1231
01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:19,360
Speaker 6: And you said, uh huh. First you said I'm not

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01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:21,960
Speaker 6: up tight. He said, but I could feel the tension

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01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:25,000
Speaker 6: in your shoulders. And he put them big hands on

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01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 6: your shoulders, the one that had been picking.

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Speaker 5: H Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I didn't say nothing. I just said their hands that

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01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:37,920
Speaker 6: had been picking. He hit those his picking hands. They

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01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:40,040
Speaker 6: was rough, but they were soft because they knew how

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01:07:40,080 --> 01:07:43,120
Speaker 6: to handle it. And next thing he was caught up

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01:07:43,160 --> 01:07:46,240
Speaker 6: in it. He was rubbing your shoulders, and all of

1241
01:07:46,280 --> 01:07:51,280
Speaker 6: a sudden, Jango started pressing down on your shoulders. And

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01:07:51,480 --> 01:07:56,160
Speaker 6: next thing you know, you was in the floor. Jano

1243
01:07:56,280 --> 01:08:00,360
Speaker 6: bagged up, scootered up against the dough. Now your is

1244
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:05,480
Speaker 6: in a bent position. It's up against the bathtub. Jango

1245
01:08:05,640 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 6: stretched out and you said in your letter right here,

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01:08:08,000 --> 01:08:11,040
Speaker 6: I'm not making this up, you said in your letter

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01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:16,320
Speaker 6: right here. No, no, I didn't know it would involve

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01:08:16,439 --> 01:08:20,840
Speaker 6: his tongue and other things. Said, well, little girl, I

1249
01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:22,920
Speaker 6: don't want to tell you something. It was no other

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01:08:23,080 --> 01:08:26,920
Speaker 6: things in there. It was just django.

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01:08:28,439 --> 01:08:32,720
Speaker 5: Tongue, okay, And that was all it was.

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01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:36,160
Speaker 6: But he was such an expert at it. You thought

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01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:38,240
Speaker 6: it was some more things in that. It was just

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01:08:38,320 --> 01:08:41,759
Speaker 6: had one thing, little girl. You just had never seen

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01:08:41,800 --> 01:08:45,720
Speaker 6: it like that before. And Jangle was in there about it.

1256
01:08:47,120 --> 01:08:49,840
Speaker 6: And then it was the best sexual experience of my life.

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01:08:50,040 --> 01:08:53,920
Speaker 6: On the bathroom floor. He asked we could keep in touch.

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01:08:54,000 --> 01:08:55,639
Speaker 6: I told him I was married. He said he could

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01:08:55,680 --> 01:08:58,680
Speaker 6: see you was married, but you could pay him to

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01:08:58,840 --> 01:09:01,840
Speaker 6: help you unwine whenever I needed it. Here I am

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01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:04,639
Speaker 6: with my little advertised husband, and I had to beck

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01:09:04,800 --> 01:09:09,080
Speaker 6: the big strip of man's number in my phone. How

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01:09:09,160 --> 01:09:11,320
Speaker 6: bad would it be if I cheated one more time?

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Speaker 2: Girl?

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01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:20,080
Speaker 6: Django is like a bag of laised potato chip. Yeah yeah, girl,

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01:09:20,160 --> 01:09:22,240
Speaker 6: you ain't gonna be able to need just one. That

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01:09:22,760 --> 01:09:25,960
Speaker 6: Jango came up in there with all that field hand experience,

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01:09:26,600 --> 01:09:28,959
Speaker 6: with that homemade corn huskers loach.

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01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:31,320
Speaker 8: Does that.

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01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:34,719
Speaker 5: Jango?

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01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:42,120
Speaker 6: Django don't need gas money. Jango need oat money. He

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01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:49,720
Speaker 6: gotta feed the mule that brings him from gig to gig. Look, uh,

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01:09:50,240 --> 01:09:54,679
Speaker 6: Django is a jigglo and a male escort. You're about

1274
01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 6: to be involved in an old profession called prostitution.

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01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:02,400
Speaker 5: Don't do it, little girl, You ain't strong enough.

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01:10:02,760 --> 01:10:03,160
Speaker 13: All right?

1277
01:10:04,200 --> 01:10:07,760
Speaker 10: Leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram, at

1278
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01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:14,479
Speaker 10: Coming up next It is Junior and Sports Talk. Right

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Speaker 10: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 8: It is time now to check Steve's voicemail.

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Speaker 10: If you would like to leave a message for Steve,

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01:11:16,560 --> 01:11:18,880
Speaker 10: you can call him eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve,

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01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:21,080
Speaker 10: you might just hear your call on the air. Let's

1297
01:11:21,120 --> 01:11:23,479
Speaker 10: go to Johnny Steve, who's a truck driver. He needs

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Speaker 10: a little relationship advice.

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Speaker 12: Hi, Steve, this is Johnny's from Mississippi. I'm twenty six

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Speaker 12: years old and I'm having a bit of a problem

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Speaker 12: right now.

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Speaker 7: I'm a truck driver, but I'm home every day and.

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01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:38,920
Speaker 12: I'm getting ready to get married. So but my fiance

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01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:41,960
Speaker 12: has a problem with me working all the time. My

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01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:44,960
Speaker 12: goal is to make six figures and are really really

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Speaker 12: close and on top of that, I'm trying to write

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01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:50,439
Speaker 12: a book at my free time. So I was wondering

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Speaker 12: if you could give me any advice on trying to

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Speaker 12: find a balance between time with her and tasting my

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Speaker 12: host and dreams and working.

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Speaker 6: Thank you.

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Speaker 5: That's the phenomenon most people make.

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Speaker 6: You're twenty six years old, you're young, You're in your

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01:12:07,880 --> 01:12:12,280
Speaker 6: most important earning years because at least at twenty six,

1315
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Speaker 6: you set some goals for yourself. You want to make

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Speaker 6: six figures, you want to write a book, whatever. But

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01:12:17,880 --> 01:12:22,640
Speaker 6: she complaining about you ain't there. Well, see, that's the

1318
01:12:22,760 --> 01:12:26,160
Speaker 6: problem with being a real man. You can't ever get

1319
01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:29,240
Speaker 6: it one hundred. If you're there, you can't make the

1320
01:12:29,360 --> 01:12:32,000
Speaker 6: money you need. If you make the money that you need,

1321
01:12:32,600 --> 01:12:35,960
Speaker 6: you can't be there. So now you got to get

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01:12:36,040 --> 01:12:39,920
Speaker 6: somebody that's a teammate that understands that, yeah, I'm gone,

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01:12:40,000 --> 01:12:42,200
Speaker 6: but me being gone provides.

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Speaker 5: A lifestyle for us.

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01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:46,720
Speaker 6: You know, the stuff, stuff you might enjoy, like, you know,

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01:12:46,880 --> 01:12:50,640
Speaker 6: somewhere to stay, you know, stuff like groceries.

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Speaker 7: You know, just ye.

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Speaker 6: You know, maybe you want to go somewhere and not walk,

1329
01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:02,040
Speaker 6: you know it just it's just some things. I'm out

1330
01:13:02,040 --> 01:13:06,480
Speaker 6: here trying to accomplish. But see, and there are teammates

1331
01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:10,000
Speaker 6: who have to get with this program and understand that.

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01:13:10,760 --> 01:13:13,479
Speaker 6: Why would you want a man that wasn't trying to

1333
01:13:13,640 --> 01:13:17,960
Speaker 6: be nothing? Then when you get one, you want him

1334
01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:21,200
Speaker 6: to stay home and sit around you. Well, he can't get.

1335
01:13:21,120 --> 01:13:21,600
Speaker 5: It like that.

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01:13:22,680 --> 01:13:26,439
Speaker 6: They are not mailing checks to the house. I have

1337
01:13:26,800 --> 01:13:31,240
Speaker 6: asked them. So now your man is in to go

1338
01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:34,400
Speaker 6: get it business, So let him go get it. And

1339
01:13:34,520 --> 01:13:37,080
Speaker 6: if you don't understand that, you really need to check

1340
01:13:37,120 --> 01:13:45,400
Speaker 6: yourself because someth's wrong with you so that you're never

1341
01:13:45,520 --> 01:13:49,680
Speaker 6: gonna get achieved perfect balance until you find the right

1342
01:13:49,920 --> 01:13:54,599
Speaker 6: partner who helps you with that. Because if she gonna

1343
01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:58,240
Speaker 6: complain every time you go out the door, you're gonna

1344
01:13:58,240 --> 01:13:59,800
Speaker 6: have a problem, bro, because when you go out to

1345
01:14:00,080 --> 01:14:02,040
Speaker 6: oh man, oh man, it's hard.

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01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:04,360
Speaker 10: Come on you to go, all right if you want

1347
01:14:04,400 --> 01:14:07,080
Speaker 10: to lead Stephen. Message eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve,

1348
01:14:07,360 --> 01:14:14,519
Speaker 10: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve,

1349
01:14:14,600 --> 01:14:17,439
Speaker 10: This came from Steve BARBFM dot com. It's from Arthur

1350
01:14:17,640 --> 01:14:21,320
Speaker 10: in North Carolina. Arthur Wrights hate Steve. I need help

1351
01:14:21,400 --> 01:14:23,960
Speaker 10: with my wife because she doesn't listen to anything. I

1352
01:14:24,120 --> 01:14:26,880
Speaker 10: say to her, I say go right, she goes left.

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01:14:26,960 --> 01:14:29,679
Speaker 10: We got married two years ago, and she's fifty seven

1354
01:14:29,800 --> 01:14:32,439
Speaker 10: and I'm sixty. She likes to tell me that she's

1355
01:14:32,560 --> 01:14:35,840
Speaker 10: not the submissive type, and she was doing fine before

1356
01:14:36,080 --> 01:14:38,920
Speaker 10: we got married. I told her, I expect her to

1357
01:14:39,000 --> 01:14:41,080
Speaker 10: be a wife and let me run the house. She

1358
01:14:41,240 --> 01:14:43,639
Speaker 10: acts like she is still single. How do I get

1359
01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:46,679
Speaker 10: some control and get her to settle into the marriage?

1360
01:14:47,640 --> 01:14:49,559
Speaker 5: Yeah, gosh, you must have just gotten married.

1361
01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:53,000
Speaker 6: So you trying to tell me that before y'all got married,

1362
01:14:53,080 --> 01:14:56,880
Speaker 6: everything was cool, and then afterwards you tell her to

1363
01:14:56,920 --> 01:14:59,920
Speaker 6: go left, she goes right. You want to get control

1364
01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:02,480
Speaker 6: live the marriage, and you want her to be submissive,

1365
01:15:03,120 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 6: and she then told you that ain't what she doing.

1366
01:15:06,160 --> 01:15:09,479
Speaker 5: How do I get some control in my house? Well?

1367
01:15:09,640 --> 01:15:12,280
Speaker 6: After I don't know what to tell you, but it

1368
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:14,840
Speaker 6: don't look like you're gonna get that. I don't think

1369
01:15:14,880 --> 01:15:15,920
Speaker 6: you're gonna get that with her.

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01:15:16,680 --> 01:15:16,840
Speaker 5: Now.

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01:15:17,080 --> 01:15:20,000
Speaker 6: That don't make the marriage not work, I said, but

1372
01:15:20,040 --> 01:15:22,120
Speaker 6: you're gonna have to be a little bit more compromising.

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01:15:22,640 --> 01:15:25,240
Speaker 5: I guess, did you really think if you married her

1374
01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:27,760
Speaker 5: you was gonna be the boss? You didn't.

1375
01:15:27,880 --> 01:15:30,760
Speaker 6: You didn't think that, did y'all. You thought the house,

1376
01:15:31,439 --> 01:15:34,360
Speaker 6: you thought that you was in charge of everything.

1377
01:15:34,520 --> 01:15:38,000
Speaker 5: Author. That's author, that's not had as well. You and junior.

1378
01:15:38,200 --> 01:15:40,800
Speaker 5: Let me say no, no, don't put me over there

1379
01:15:40,840 --> 01:15:41,400
Speaker 5: with all that I know.

1380
01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:42,880
Speaker 13: I find out month too.

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01:15:43,160 --> 01:15:43,519
Speaker 8: I didn't.

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01:15:45,520 --> 01:15:50,639
Speaker 6: Yeah, but see you see you you questioned her. It's

1383
01:15:50,760 --> 01:15:53,000
Speaker 6: kind of like you this, this is this is an

1384
01:15:53,040 --> 01:15:53,639
Speaker 6: old version.

1385
01:15:55,240 --> 01:15:58,360
Speaker 5: Yeah. See see you young and you young fool and

1386
01:15:58,520 --> 01:16:02,600
Speaker 5: here old fool. When you hear the old fool, it

1387
01:16:02,760 --> 01:16:04,559
Speaker 5: kind of makes you go, oh, hell no, I ain't

1388
01:16:04,680 --> 01:16:07,640
Speaker 5: like that. But if you keep on, yeah, you can be.

1389
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:11,479
Speaker 6: That's where you hear. See right now you're at the

1390
01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:14,960
Speaker 6: early stage and the foolishness. You're not really a fool

1391
01:16:15,040 --> 01:16:17,639
Speaker 6: right now because you're not questioning it and you're learning

1392
01:16:17,760 --> 01:16:19,639
Speaker 6: as you go off and never learned.

1393
01:16:19,720 --> 01:16:20,599
Speaker 5: I can't help y'all.

1394
01:16:21,120 --> 01:16:26,320
Speaker 6: Next question, you can't help. Hell no, I can't help off,

1395
01:16:26,760 --> 01:16:29,479
Speaker 6: all right. This one's from DoD Days in my house off.

1396
01:16:29,560 --> 01:16:31,640
Speaker 6: I ain't running a thing either, so I don't know

1397
01:16:31,720 --> 01:16:35,320
Speaker 6: what to tell your pockets, all right. This one's from

1398
01:16:35,439 --> 01:16:36,320
Speaker 6: Dot in Nevada.

1399
01:16:36,800 --> 01:16:39,519
Speaker 10: Dot says I'm dating a younger man and he can't

1400
01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:42,400
Speaker 10: keep up with my schedule. I would like to see

1401
01:16:42,479 --> 01:16:44,720
Speaker 10: him every night for sex, but he said he has

1402
01:16:44,880 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 10: other things that are more pressing that he's got to

1403
01:16:48,080 --> 01:16:50,840
Speaker 10: get done. How can he be too busy to have

1404
01:16:51,040 --> 01:16:51,880
Speaker 10: sex every night?

1405
01:16:52,560 --> 01:16:54,960
Speaker 6: Because he's a younger man and he's working on his

1406
01:16:55,160 --> 01:16:57,720
Speaker 6: grind and hustle. And until he gets his grind and

1407
01:16:57,800 --> 01:17:00,639
Speaker 6: hustle together, he ain't got time for sick every night.

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01:17:01,000 --> 01:17:03,400
Speaker 6: This this still young dude, trying to get his paper up,

1409
01:17:03,479 --> 01:17:06,000
Speaker 6: trying to get his career move right. That's why he

1410
01:17:06,040 --> 01:17:08,240
Speaker 6: ain't got time. You thought you was gonna hire a

1411
01:17:08,280 --> 01:17:11,280
Speaker 6: little boy toy, But little boy toy got a plan.

1412
01:17:12,080 --> 01:17:16,120
Speaker 6: I want every night, you don't every night. Let me

1413
01:17:16,160 --> 01:17:19,200
Speaker 6: tell you something. Sometimes women think they more than they are.

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01:17:20,000 --> 01:17:25,439
Speaker 5: Hello. Hello, you know you don't want this. Hello, No,

1415
01:17:26,040 --> 01:17:28,479
Speaker 5: not everything. You ain't all that.

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01:17:30,280 --> 01:17:38,080
Speaker 6: Sometimes all this is too damn much to her, pulling

1417
01:17:38,120 --> 01:17:40,080
Speaker 6: out all the trunks and stuff under the bed. I

1418
01:17:40,120 --> 01:17:42,200
Speaker 6: ain't asked for all that. I don't want all that tonight.

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01:17:43,200 --> 01:17:44,880
Speaker 6: I don't know how to cut that one on. I

1420
01:17:44,920 --> 01:17:47,000
Speaker 6: don't know how that operates. I don't I got that

1421
01:17:47,160 --> 01:17:48,080
Speaker 6: noise in the bedroom.

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01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:49,840
Speaker 5: I don't like all that.

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01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:53,680
Speaker 13: But she wrote the letter that asked for advice, and you.

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01:17:56,040 --> 01:18:00,080
Speaker 6: Well, I don't want them feathers, I don't like, I

1425
01:18:00,120 --> 01:18:03,360
Speaker 6: don't like particular. Yeah, I don't won't do this. Yeah,

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01:18:03,400 --> 01:18:06,639
Speaker 6: we're not doing it every night too much. Don't nobody

1427
01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:07,439
Speaker 6: want this every night?

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01:18:07,520 --> 01:18:10,479
Speaker 5: You don't want them? So what should she do?

1429
01:18:10,680 --> 01:18:12,960
Speaker 8: Get with someone who does want it every night?

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01:18:13,520 --> 01:18:16,360
Speaker 6: Well, see if he's a great guy, let you do

1431
01:18:16,560 --> 01:18:19,000
Speaker 6: get his hustle in his work on. He can't come

1432
01:18:19,080 --> 01:18:24,559
Speaker 6: by there every night, all guy? Okay, Well he doing

1433
01:18:24,640 --> 01:18:26,519
Speaker 6: something you wanted that you want it every night.

1434
01:18:26,400 --> 01:18:26,920
Speaker 5: And he don't.

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01:18:27,600 --> 01:18:29,160
Speaker 8: She said, he can't keep up with him.

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01:18:29,200 --> 01:18:31,120
Speaker 5: Sometimes you just knew months alert.

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01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:34,760
Speaker 11: News alert, every men don't want it every night, ladies,

1438
01:18:34,840 --> 01:18:36,080
Speaker 11: trust me, news alert.

1439
01:18:36,320 --> 01:18:41,839
Speaker 5: We don't not from the same We're going to the break.

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01:18:46,439 --> 01:18:47,759
Speaker 8: Coming up in twenty minutes.

1441
01:18:48,040 --> 01:18:50,560
Speaker 10: Twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more of this

1442
01:18:50,760 --> 01:18:52,360
Speaker 10: ignorant show right after this.

1443
01:18:52,960 --> 01:18:54,479
Speaker 5: I hate the men on the shop.

1444
01:18:55,040 --> 01:19:02,000
Speaker 10: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

1445
01:19:02,080 --> 01:19:05,560
Speaker 10: here's some news for our daters out there. Don't overshare

1446
01:19:05,840 --> 01:19:06,680
Speaker 10: on the first date.

1447
01:19:06,920 --> 01:19:07,560
Speaker 6: Do not do that.

1448
01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:10,960
Speaker 10: First dates are for people to get to know each other,

1449
01:19:11,080 --> 01:19:13,679
Speaker 10: but there is a limit to how much you should share.

1450
01:19:14,200 --> 01:19:17,760
Speaker 10: In fact, sharing too much could decrease your chances of

1451
01:19:17,960 --> 01:19:21,880
Speaker 10: a second date. Why well, this is according to relationship

1452
01:19:22,000 --> 01:19:26,160
Speaker 10: expert doctor Terry orbook, it's because it's too much too

1453
01:19:26,360 --> 01:19:30,160
Speaker 10: soon on a first date. Many daters make the mistake

1454
01:19:30,200 --> 01:19:34,280
Speaker 10: of sharing too much, too much about themselves. Doctor Orbrik

1455
01:19:34,320 --> 01:19:39,000
Speaker 10: says this is too overwhelming for others on the first date. Instead,

1456
01:19:39,640 --> 01:19:43,880
Speaker 10: gradually disclose personal information. On a first date, you want

1457
01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:47,000
Speaker 10: to leave them interested and wanting more. Yes, so what

1458
01:19:47,080 --> 01:19:47,840
Speaker 10: do you think about that?

1459
01:19:47,960 --> 01:19:48,280
Speaker 8: Steve?

1460
01:19:48,560 --> 01:19:50,200
Speaker 5: Stop running your mouth?

1461
01:19:51,479 --> 01:19:51,720
Speaker 8: Why not?

1462
01:19:52,200 --> 01:19:55,760
Speaker 1: On the book about you know, relationships, Act like a lady,

1463
01:19:55,840 --> 01:19:56,479
Speaker 1: think like a man.

1464
01:19:56,600 --> 01:19:57,439
Speaker 13: So that's too soon.

1465
01:19:57,520 --> 01:20:01,320
Speaker 5: Sack like a lady, Thank like a man. Yeah it

1466
01:20:01,400 --> 01:20:04,040
Speaker 5: ain't act like a man. Do like I do? Oh

1467
01:20:04,200 --> 01:20:07,400
Speaker 5: oh okay no, because you're a lady.

1468
01:20:07,439 --> 01:20:11,320
Speaker 6: You could protect yourself, what you know, like you know,

1469
01:20:11,439 --> 01:20:14,200
Speaker 6: when I'm eating food, fall out my mouth sometimes because

1470
01:20:14,200 --> 01:20:16,080
Speaker 6: I never learned how to chew my mouth close?

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01:20:16,200 --> 01:20:16,680
Speaker 5: Excuse me?

1472
01:20:18,040 --> 01:20:21,760
Speaker 8: You know, second day for you? Let's say that.

1473
01:20:23,479 --> 01:20:24,400
Speaker 13: Too much information?

1474
01:20:24,800 --> 01:20:28,360
Speaker 10: See Steve, Many women have called in or written in

1475
01:20:28,960 --> 01:20:30,320
Speaker 10: and asked you about kids.

1476
01:20:30,720 --> 01:20:32,120
Speaker 8: Should they tell that they have kids?

1477
01:20:32,200 --> 01:20:34,240
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, you gotta say you got kids? Right away.

1478
01:20:34,360 --> 01:20:36,920
Speaker 5: That ain't nothing nobody need to learn later on right?

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01:20:37,080 --> 01:20:39,599
Speaker 10: Okay, all right, yeah, that's a good one. All right,

1480
01:20:40,080 --> 01:20:42,439
Speaker 10: coming up, we'll play around it. Would you rather right

1481
01:20:42,520 --> 01:20:42,880
Speaker 10: after this?

1482
01:20:43,479 --> 01:20:45,920
Speaker 8: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1483
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Speaker 1: me reach my fullest potential. I'm continuing that tradition with

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Speaker 1: my daughter, who will be attending in HBCU this fall.

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Speaker 10: All right, guys, it is time for would you rather

1497
01:21:44,160 --> 01:21:47,360
Speaker 10: for today? Would you rather now think about this? Would

1498
01:21:47,360 --> 01:21:52,080
Speaker 10: you rather receive the Nobel Peace Prize or would you

1499
01:21:52,280 --> 01:21:53,719
Speaker 10: rather get an Oscar?

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01:21:54,240 --> 01:21:56,840
Speaker 9: I'm gonna go with Nobil Peace Prize because they fighting

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01:21:56,880 --> 01:21:57,519
Speaker 9: at the Oscars.

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01:21:57,680 --> 01:21:58,960
Speaker 5: I'm not you slat.

1503
01:21:59,160 --> 01:22:02,479
Speaker 13: Lots of people run up your last when you win

1504
01:22:03,200 --> 01:22:03,800
Speaker 13: about peace.

1505
01:22:04,080 --> 01:22:06,320
Speaker 5: I'd rather get the Nobel Peace Prize. It would mean

1506
01:22:06,439 --> 01:22:06,920
Speaker 5: more to me.

1507
01:22:08,120 --> 01:22:12,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, person, I am, because you know it's it's a

1508
01:22:13,160 --> 01:22:16,200
Speaker 6: reward versus an award.

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01:22:19,479 --> 01:22:23,519
Speaker 5: It's a reward for hard work. Oscars is an award.

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01:22:24,360 --> 01:22:28,080
Speaker 6: Oh you know something you get a reward for you

1511
01:22:28,200 --> 01:22:31,560
Speaker 6: accomplish something, you receive benefit of something you've done. And

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01:22:31,760 --> 01:22:34,960
Speaker 6: award they just give you something. It's usually a group

1513
01:22:35,000 --> 01:22:36,880
Speaker 6: of people or something like that. It ain't got to

1514
01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:39,760
Speaker 6: be unanimous and all like that. So I'm about the

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01:22:39,880 --> 01:22:40,960
Speaker 6: Nobel Peace Prize.

1516
01:22:41,520 --> 01:22:46,719
Speaker 8: Okay, all right? Would you rather starve for a week?

1517
01:22:47,160 --> 01:22:50,639
Speaker 8: Starve for a week or go to jail for a day.

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01:22:52,080 --> 01:22:53,599
Speaker 5: I'm going to jail, going to jail.

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01:22:54,400 --> 01:23:01,240
Speaker 6: Really Hell yeah, they feed you something, we ain't gonna

1520
01:23:01,360 --> 01:23:03,160
Speaker 6: like it, so we're not gonna see It'll be a

1521
01:23:03,200 --> 01:23:04,960
Speaker 6: star for a week. Man, you know the shape you're

1522
01:23:04,960 --> 01:23:06,760
Speaker 6: gonna be, and go down here and do this jail time.

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Speaker 6: The jokes make a couple of big friends and stuff.

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Speaker 7: I know.

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01:23:11,479 --> 01:23:15,360
Speaker 6: I talk to hoods man I'll be in there, motivating, encouraging,

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01:23:15,479 --> 01:23:20,400
Speaker 6: having fun. Dog, I ain't even gonna be sleep I'm

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01:23:20,400 --> 01:23:22,559
Speaker 6: gonna stay up the whole time. Back to the wall.

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01:23:23,080 --> 01:23:23,679
Speaker 6: It's just today.

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01:23:23,720 --> 01:23:26,719
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna I'm going to jail, though, Steve Harvey,

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01:23:26,800 --> 01:23:27,479
Speaker 5: what up, y'all?

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01:23:27,840 --> 01:23:29,559
Speaker 8: It's going about a week in jail.

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01:23:30,439 --> 01:23:32,760
Speaker 5: A week in jail, or a week of starving. When

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01:23:32,800 --> 01:23:33,840
Speaker 5: you say starving, what do.

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Speaker 8: You mean start?

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01:23:35,360 --> 01:23:35,840
Speaker 15: No food?

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01:23:36,160 --> 01:23:37,840
Speaker 8: No food, no food?

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01:23:37,960 --> 01:23:39,800
Speaker 5: No oh no, no, no.

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01:23:40,240 --> 01:23:42,280
Speaker 6: Now I'm going to jail. You ain't gonna you're gonna

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01:23:42,280 --> 01:23:44,640
Speaker 6: be able to do that. Okay, at least I can

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01:23:44,680 --> 01:23:47,240
Speaker 6: accomplish something in jail. I'm gonna be unna be stealing.

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01:23:47,439 --> 01:23:49,280
Speaker 6: I had to be so quiet for that week of

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01:23:49,400 --> 01:23:52,240
Speaker 6: starving laying in the hospital.

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Speaker 8: Man, all right, all.

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01:23:58,600 --> 01:23:59,120
Speaker 5: Right, moving on.

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01:23:59,240 --> 01:24:05,599
Speaker 10: Would you rather use sandpaper as toilet paper or use vinegar?

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01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:09,679
Speaker 6: As I dropped, I'm gonna use that sandpaper for toilet paper.

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01:24:09,680 --> 01:24:11,599
Speaker 6: I'm just gonna flip that other side over. You ain't

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01:24:11,600 --> 01:24:13,240
Speaker 6: putting that vinegar in my eyes. That ain't what you

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01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:17,680
Speaker 6: shouldn't do. I can't go blind. Yeah, you can rate

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01:24:17,760 --> 01:24:20,639
Speaker 6: that sandpaper straight across my She's not putting that vinegar

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01:24:20,720 --> 01:24:23,040
Speaker 6: in my eye. I can deal with that right there.

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01:24:23,160 --> 01:24:28,160
Speaker 6: I've cut my butt before. I've done it all right,

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01:24:28,479 --> 01:24:32,880
Speaker 6: more than once, Sherry, all right, gonna do it.

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01:24:32,960 --> 01:24:34,160
Speaker 5: Put this vinegar in my eye.

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01:24:35,120 --> 01:24:37,479
Speaker 10: Today's version of what you rather coming up at forty

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Speaker 10: nine minutes after the hour, last break of the day

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Speaker 10: and closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey

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01:24:42,320 --> 01:24:45,959
Speaker 10: right after the you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 5: Steve Harbin Martin show Man. Everybody, you know that die

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Speaker 5: does not move you.

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Speaker 6: Let's just come to terms with that. You've all gotten that,

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Speaker 6: car Man, see you sitting down? Hell Man, Uncle Remus died. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: well right, bab man, y'all still having the barbecue Friday.

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Speaker 6: If everybody died, gotta does not require my morning.

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Speaker 5: Coming up right after.

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Speaker 8: All right, here we are, guys, our last break of

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Speaker 8: the day.

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Speaker 10: Let me remind you that if you missed your favorite

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01:26:16,960 --> 01:26:19,840
Speaker 10: part of today's show, remember you can always catch up

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Speaker 10: Okay iHeartRadio App. Yes, yes, yes, all right, Steve, It's

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Speaker 10: on you.

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01:26:36,840 --> 01:26:40,960
Speaker 6: Uh you know, I think I want to share this

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01:26:41,120 --> 01:26:44,200
Speaker 6: with you something that I was thinking and dealing with recently,

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01:26:46,040 --> 01:26:47,720
Speaker 6: and it has to do with gratitude.

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01:26:48,600 --> 01:26:51,280
Speaker 5: I just realized something.

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01:26:51,840 --> 01:26:53,800
Speaker 6: I went through a period of time where I was

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01:26:53,960 --> 01:26:57,840
Speaker 6: asking God for so many things. And I know people

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01:26:57,880 --> 01:26:59,439
Speaker 6: out there that listening to me going with with you

1595
01:26:59,479 --> 01:27:02,400
Speaker 6: ought to be great for what you got. Well, see,

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01:27:02,439 --> 01:27:05,639
Speaker 6: I'm human now and I'm just having a human moment

1597
01:27:05,720 --> 01:27:07,800
Speaker 6: with you, to share with you what was actually going on.

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01:27:08,720 --> 01:27:10,760
Speaker 6: I had gone through a period and maybe some people

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01:27:10,800 --> 01:27:13,680
Speaker 6: can relate to this. I was just had so many requests,

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01:27:13,760 --> 01:27:16,880
Speaker 6: so many things I wanted to see happened, so many

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01:27:17,000 --> 01:27:21,240
Speaker 6: things I wanted to see differently to start working, so

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01:27:21,439 --> 01:27:24,439
Speaker 6: many plans I had made, so many goals I had

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01:27:24,600 --> 01:27:29,240
Speaker 6: set that I was just constantly in search of the

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01:27:29,400 --> 01:27:33,599
Speaker 6: answer to those prayers, and I wanted God to pick

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01:27:33,720 --> 01:27:36,360
Speaker 6: up the pace. I wanted him to speed up this

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01:27:36,479 --> 01:27:39,600
Speaker 6: prairie request because this request has been going on for

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01:27:39,720 --> 01:27:44,639
Speaker 6: quite some time, and I'm actually I've grown weary of waiting.

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01:27:45,520 --> 01:27:51,000
Speaker 6: But a funny thing happened in my quest a lot

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01:27:51,080 --> 01:27:55,759
Speaker 6: of requests I was asking. He started letting some things

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01:27:55,880 --> 01:27:58,960
Speaker 6: happen to me that would force me to look at

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01:27:59,040 --> 01:28:03,560
Speaker 6: some things differently. So like, for example, if I was

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01:28:03,640 --> 01:28:05,760
Speaker 6: asking God to help me with my health, I want

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01:28:05,800 --> 01:28:09,280
Speaker 6: to lean out. Then what he did was he actually

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01:28:09,640 --> 01:28:12,120
Speaker 6: allowed some things that happened that would cause me to

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01:28:12,200 --> 01:28:16,120
Speaker 6: have to focus on my health, that would bring about

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01:28:16,200 --> 01:28:19,880
Speaker 6: the necessary things that would help me to lean out.

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01:28:20,560 --> 01:28:23,920
Speaker 6: But He had to take me through the fire. Everything

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01:28:24,040 --> 01:28:26,760
Speaker 6: you want is on the other side of comfortable. So

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01:28:26,920 --> 01:28:29,479
Speaker 6: you know, I was comfortably eating whatever I wanted to do.

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01:28:29,880 --> 01:28:33,879
Speaker 6: I was comfortably having ice cream, comfortably eating dessert, comfortably

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01:28:33,920 --> 01:28:38,200
Speaker 6: eating pasta, bread, butter, sugar, ice tea, whatever I wanted

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Speaker 6: to do. But what I wanted to start letting in

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01:28:42,040 --> 01:28:44,400
Speaker 6: better shape was on the other side of that. I

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01:28:44,479 --> 01:28:47,280
Speaker 6: had to get out my comfort zone. So I had

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Speaker 6: a couple of health issues and it caused me to

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01:28:49,760 --> 01:28:52,559
Speaker 6: come home and start focusing on it. But it also

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01:28:52,720 --> 01:28:56,280
Speaker 6: made me come home and realize that, on top of

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01:28:56,479 --> 01:29:00,920
Speaker 6: all the stuff I was asking God for, had you

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01:29:01,080 --> 01:29:05,240
Speaker 6: forgot what He's done for you? Have you forgot to

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01:29:05,600 --> 01:29:10,000
Speaker 6: constantly keep the praise of gratitude on your lips for

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01:29:10,200 --> 01:29:13,360
Speaker 6: what He's done, because don't get so wrapped up and

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01:29:13,479 --> 01:29:15,960
Speaker 6: caught up and you forget the what you got.

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01:29:16,760 --> 01:29:18,160
Speaker 5: And that's what it happened to me.

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01:29:18,800 --> 01:29:21,479
Speaker 6: I was so deliberately praying because I think I was

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01:29:21,600 --> 01:29:25,120
Speaker 6: being faithful right by pray without ceasing. So I thought

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01:29:25,160 --> 01:29:27,519
Speaker 6: I was doing the right thing by constantly talking to him.

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01:29:27,640 --> 01:29:30,240
Speaker 6: But I was constantly talking to him about wanting more.

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01:29:31,360 --> 01:29:33,439
Speaker 6: And then what I was failing to do in that

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01:29:33,640 --> 01:29:37,760
Speaker 6: human moment of mine was I was failing to ever

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01:29:37,880 --> 01:29:41,040
Speaker 6: be ever grateful for everything that I have. So he

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01:29:41,200 --> 01:29:43,760
Speaker 6: caused me to have to come home and sit down

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01:29:44,680 --> 01:29:46,720
Speaker 6: because now you got these health issues you got to

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01:29:46,800 --> 01:29:50,120
Speaker 6: deal with. So now you got to sit still. But

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01:29:50,240 --> 01:29:53,519
Speaker 6: while you're sitting still dealing with these health issues, I

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01:29:53,600 --> 01:29:55,679
Speaker 6: want you to take a look around at what I'd done.

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01:29:56,520 --> 01:29:59,400
Speaker 6: So I'm asking all of you today, have you taken

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01:29:59,600 --> 01:30:04,719
Speaker 6: time to really realize with all that you prairie quest

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01:30:04,800 --> 01:30:07,880
Speaker 6: you have for God, with all of your wants, ambitions,

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01:30:07,960 --> 01:30:12,080
Speaker 6: aspirations and goals, you got to take our time every

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01:30:12,400 --> 01:30:16,560
Speaker 6: single day to thank Him for what you have, to

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01:30:16,760 --> 01:30:20,120
Speaker 6: thank him for what he's already done. And I was

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01:30:20,240 --> 01:30:23,000
Speaker 6: just guilty of that. I just wasn't really doing it

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01:30:23,120 --> 01:30:26,640
Speaker 6: the right way. And I just wanted to remind everybody

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01:30:27,360 --> 01:30:30,240
Speaker 6: to not lose sight of what you have in the

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01:30:30,400 --> 01:30:33,200
Speaker 6: quest for what you want. And so it's a it's

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Speaker 6: a it's a thin line between being grateful and trusting

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01:30:38,479 --> 01:30:42,040
Speaker 6: and and and and showing gratitude because in the in

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01:30:42,160 --> 01:30:45,479
Speaker 6: the trusting that he'll make your dreams come true and everything,

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01:30:45,960 --> 01:30:48,280
Speaker 6: don't forget to thank him for what he's already done.

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01:30:48,360 --> 01:30:49,920
Speaker 6: I was guilty of that, and I just want to

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01:30:49,960 --> 01:30:54,640
Speaker 6: remind you all every day, every day to show gratitude.

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01:30:54,760 --> 01:30:59,800
Speaker 6: Steve Harvey. Every day show gratitude. Steve Harvey, do not

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01:31:00,080 --> 01:31:02,080
Speaker 6: wake up in the morning without putting your feet on

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01:31:02,200 --> 01:31:05,720
Speaker 6: the ground saying thank you for everything He's done for you.

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01:31:06,080 --> 01:31:09,240
Speaker 6: Don't let your eyes close at night without thanking him

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01:31:09,280 --> 01:31:12,040
Speaker 6: for that day, and then all through the day, just

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01:31:12,160 --> 01:31:12,800
Speaker 6: say thank you.

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Speaker 5: Now you can put your request in.

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01:31:15,600 --> 01:31:18,000
Speaker 6: But if you had a gratitude in the morning, throughout

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01:31:18,040 --> 01:31:21,640
Speaker 6: the day, and at night, I think those requests are

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01:31:21,640 --> 01:31:23,880
Speaker 6: a little bit more in line. That's what I found

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01:31:23,960 --> 01:31:26,920
Speaker 6: for myself. Hope that helps you out today. If it don't,

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01:31:27,160 --> 01:31:30,160
Speaker 6: we'll be back here tomorrow. God willing with something else

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01:31:30,240 --> 01:31:33,200
Speaker 6: that maybe it will. Y'all have a great day today,

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01:31:33,960 --> 01:31:38,360
Speaker 6: Spend some time loving people. Talk to God today. He

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01:31:38,400 --> 01:31:42,440
Speaker 6: would absolutely love to hear from you. Take care of yourself,

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01:31:42,960 --> 01:31:46,519
Speaker 6: don't over indulge, and take care of your health, y'all.

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01:31:47,000 --> 01:31:49,800
Speaker 6: Two most important things we have is our health and

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01:31:49,920 --> 01:31:52,080
Speaker 6: our time with you. Out of either one of them,

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01:31:52,400 --> 01:31:55,160
Speaker 6: you in trouble. Take care of your health, everybody, and

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01:31:55,280 --> 01:32:01,000
Speaker 6: be grateful. Those are my clothing logs. Okay, Peace for all.

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