1 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: There are certain men that aren't comfortable with using toys. 2 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: Thank goodness, I have a partner that is, because I 3 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:12,959 Speaker 1: just feel like it just takes you to a different level. 4 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 2: Anybody who's worried about masturbating or grew up with messages 5 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 2: that it's bad for you, from a mental health and 6 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 2: a wellness standpoint, it is very good for you to masturbate. 7 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 2: Couples on average are having sex a little less than 8 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 2: once a week, Okay, so it's not as often as 9 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 2: we're thinking. Right. 10 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 1: Oh, and I'm goodes Happy Monday. We're now in the 11 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: middle of July, which means we're wrapping up Cancer season. 12 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:47,559 Speaker 1: A special shout out to all my fellow cancer babies. 13 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:50,880 Speaker 1: I hope your birthdays have been really special and unforgettable. 14 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: Now on to today's episode. It's going to be a 15 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 1: spicy one. We're going to be talking about one of 16 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: my favorite topics, sex and we have a really incredible 17 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: sexologist joining us to fill us in on everything from 18 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 1: sexual wellness to sex toice. So stay tuned for that. 19 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 1: This is Cheeky's and Chill. Sitting with me right now 20 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 1: is Rebecca Albertistori. She's a sexologist and co founder and 21 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:26,319 Speaker 1: CEO of Bloomy, a company focused on women's sexual wellness. 22 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 1: They have an amazing line of sex toys and non 23 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: toxic lubricants, which we'll talk about in a little bit. 24 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 3: Welcome to the show, Rebecca. How are you. 25 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I'm so good. I'm so excited we're 26 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 2: finally doing this. 27 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 3: Yes, finally, I'm so excited. Thank you for being on. 28 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: I have been excited to talk to you and to 29 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 1: ask you so many questions. I'm very open, you know, 30 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: and I love that I have a fellow Latina that 31 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: seems to be very you know, open about this conversation 32 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 1: that I feel is very taboo still I think not 33 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 1: as much as before, but definitely still taboo in like 34 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: our culture. How or when do you remember the conversation, 35 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 1: like the first conversation, or how you heard about sex, 36 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:08,639 Speaker 1: like either in school or from your family, or tell 37 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 1: me a little bit about that. 38 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 2: The first time I remember learning about sex was definitely 39 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 2: in school. And then they had this part where I 40 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 2: think I must have been like in sixth grade or so, 41 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 2: and they had a part where your parents got involved 42 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 2: and they talked to you at home. And so my 43 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:29,639 Speaker 2: parents had this very awkward sex talk with me one 44 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 2: of those days after school, and I remember it was 45 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 2: like it was funny because I was like, why are 46 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 2: you guys so embarrassed? That was my takeaway. It wasn't 47 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 2: even the information. The information was like, oh wow, that's interesting, 48 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 2: but it wasn't like to me, I wasn't actually shocked 49 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 2: at like learning about the body. I thought the body 50 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 2: was kind of cool when I. 51 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:47,799 Speaker 3: Was growing up. 52 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 2: But I was just surprised at how uncomfortable, uncomfortable even 53 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 2: the teacher was. The teacher, I feel like, was slightly uncomfortable. 54 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 2: My parents were uncomfortable. So I was like, what is this? 55 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 2: That was my my intro. 56 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 1: You went to a private school, right, Was it a 57 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 1: Catholic private school? 58 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? 59 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 1: Was it all of school like high school or just 60 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: elementary or yeah. 61 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 2: I started off going to all my local schools, so 62 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 2: like public school kids, that's how I grew up. The 63 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 2: sex had started in like our local curriculum. But when 64 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 2: I went to high school, I actually got a scholarship 65 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 2: to go to a private school, which was an amazing 66 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:28,359 Speaker 2: school for getting you ready for college. But it was Catholic, 67 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:34,360 Speaker 2: all girls, conservative and the abstinence only education that we got. 68 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 2: I was like, wait a minute, you guys took away 69 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 2: all of the information I started learning about in middle 70 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 2: school and they had abstinence only contracts, which I was like, oh, 71 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 2: this is really like what extreme? 72 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: It was? 73 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a lot of just like fear of 74 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 2: getting pregnant, fear of STIs, don't have sex, And that 75 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 2: didn't feel right. It didn't feel like I was getting 76 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 2: good information. 77 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 3: How old were you when this whole fourteen? Fourteen sixteen? 78 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, so that's crazy the fact that you knew already, 79 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 1: Like this doesn't feel right. I think this is just 80 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 1: meant to be like your life, you know what, I 81 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 1: mean to educate us all. Yeah, so how did you 82 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 1: get into this space? How did you become so interested 83 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: in like sexual wellness? 84 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 2: So I would say those two questions that you asked were, 85 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 2: It's like, how was it for me learning about sex 86 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 2: as a kid? I was really interested by why people 87 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 2: were uncomfortable with it, Like that was really interesting to me. 88 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 2: And so in college actually there was like a lot 89 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 2: in there, but that stayed with me, right, like why 90 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 2: is everybody like apprehensive about this? It made me apprehensive 91 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 2: about it. And then what happened is in college. I 92 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 2: actually went to school. My first year at UC San Diego, 93 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 2: I unfortunately had a really bad experience. I was sexually assaulted, 94 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 2: and that experience made me fear intimacy. It made me 95 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 2: like completely turned off to anything. And so you know, 96 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:02,279 Speaker 2: here's now this kid essentially right, you're nineteen when you 97 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 2: start college, sometimes eighteen. Who I feel like people were apprehensive. 98 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 2: I was already like kind of feeling like I wasn't 99 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 2: getting good information, and then I have this ridiculous experience. 100 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 2: So for me, I ended up transferring back home, which 101 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:19,359 Speaker 2: is how I ended up at CAL which was the 102 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 2: beginning of my healing journey. I took all the sexual 103 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 2: wellness courses on campus, and I did it because I 104 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 2: was I wanted to, like, I was curious, And what 105 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 2: ended up happening is over a course of the four 106 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 2: years there, I feel like I healed myself. And don't 107 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 2: get me wrong, I had great therapy. There was a 108 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 2: whole legal process at one point, Like there was just 109 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 2: a lot that I endured and in becoming educated and 110 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 2: finally getting what I realized was like really really great 111 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 2: sex education, like really great sex education, to the point 112 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:56,119 Speaker 2: where I was taking the decals or like the field 113 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 2: study classes where we would go to places like sometimes 114 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 2: it was like per aids or you know, events or 115 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 2: sex museums, but sometimes it was like the sex club 116 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:08,799 Speaker 2: and it was like underground event and it was really 117 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 2: like any I just had exposure to everything in the 118 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 2: space for a while, and that started my healing journey. 119 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,599 Speaker 2: I knew that I wanted to do something with it, 120 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:20,279 Speaker 2: but it wasn't until later that I really was like 121 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 2: confident in being a sexologist. I got my master's. At 122 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 2: that time, I had become a single mom. I had 123 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 2: a three year old daughter, and I just like went 124 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 2: all in. I said, you know what, I'm really good 125 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 2: at getting the information out. I feel like a vessel. 126 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:40,839 Speaker 2: I feel like I sit at this intersection of I'm Latina, 127 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 2: I'm a woman. I grew up with conservative information, like, 128 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 2: but I feel like I relate to people, so people 129 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 2: relate to me. And I was excited to get that 130 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:51,280 Speaker 2: information out. 131 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:54,039 Speaker 3: That is awesome. And what did your family think when 132 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 3: when you majored? 133 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 1: And I'm just curious to see what. 134 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:01,280 Speaker 3: What are your parents or your yeah, anyone around you. 135 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 2: So my parents have always known that I like I 136 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 2: tend to not follow a lot of rules, like I'm 137 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 2: one of those people that I like, I push boundaries, 138 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 2: not in like a way where I'm trying to create 139 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 2: a problem, in a way where I'm like why why 140 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 2: is that the line? So I feel like they knew 141 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 2: that I wasn't gonna be like traditional. But then when 142 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 2: I told them what I was the major I was 143 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 2: creating at CAW because I ended up creating that major, 144 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 2: they were supportive. They were like me, how are you sure? 145 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 2: And then once we got through the I'm sure, They've 146 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 2: been supportive and like, I cannot tell you. They are 147 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 2: the cutest parents ever right now now they we joke 148 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 2: that my dad is like our bloomy Instagram like influencer, 149 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 2: and my mom loves, you know, spreading the products and 150 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 2: getting them tested with her friends. So times changed. 151 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 3: I freaking love it. 152 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: I love it cycle blat on They're like, well, fine, 153 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 1: this is I'm going to support my daughter, Like let's 154 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 1: go in Yeah, so okay, so tell us about Bloomy. 155 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 3: You are in Target? That is awesome. I love Target. 156 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 3: So I'm like, that is so cool. How long? How long? 157 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 3: When was it born? How did that idea come to you? 158 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 2: So after I made the decision I wanted to go 159 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 2: deep into sex education, and I became a sexologist. I 160 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 2: started working with startups, and being in the Bay Area, 161 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 2: there's so many here, this is like a startup mecca, right, 162 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 2: So I got exposed to helping companies make intimacy products, 163 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 2: but from a startup lens, and that stuck with me 164 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 2: because so many of them got acquired and that, like experience, 165 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 2: it taught me a lot. I felt like I did 166 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 2: a lot wrong, I did a lot right, and I 167 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 2: thought that if I started a company, I could make 168 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 2: it way more intentional, Like I could make it more accessible, 169 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 2: I could make it bilingual, I could make it you know, 170 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 2: where people shop every day. And so that's what I 171 00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 2: ended up creating with Bloomy. It's a sexologist led intimacy 172 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:04,439 Speaker 2: company which just on its own, that's like a thing. 173 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 2: There's not a lot of sexologists, and then there's not 174 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 2: a lot that are creating the products right right, And 175 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 2: I'm just really proud to say we're in target. But 176 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 2: I have to tell you, like, the thing I'm the 177 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:17,680 Speaker 2: most proud of is just when I get customer testimonial 178 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 2: or somebody who sends me a message and says this 179 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 2: product changed my life. This was my first orgasm or 180 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:26,839 Speaker 2: him my partner, and I love the lube like that 181 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:28,679 Speaker 2: makes me so so happy. 182 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 3: Oh that Meg, Yeah, that's awesome. 183 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 1: It's like that gratification of saying, wow, I create this 184 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 1: mission accomplished like I'm doing. Yeah, I totally totally get it. 185 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: And why the name. I love the name, by the way, 186 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: I think the name is awesome. It's so clean, and 187 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: your esthetic is so nice and pretty, like, I love it. 188 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 2: Thank you. I appreciate that so much. People love our branding. 189 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 2: I love our branding. I love it's but you, we 190 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 2: wanted to do what you said blue me. So my 191 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 2: husband is in marketing. I love him to death. He's 192 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:02,199 Speaker 2: like the secret co founder behind it all that doesn't 193 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:05,320 Speaker 2: get enough credit. But we did a naming session together, 194 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 2: so he knows how to do this. But we did 195 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 2: a naming session and we got to like everything on 196 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:12,199 Speaker 2: my list that I wanted for a name. I wanted 197 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 2: it to be simple, a little playful, remind you of 198 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:19,319 Speaker 2: the body and remind you of like growing, So it's 199 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 2: like a play on bloom kind of Yeah. And then 200 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 2: there's a lot of companies that have double o's that 201 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 2: end up doing well, so and it kind of reminds 202 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:30,959 Speaker 2: you of the body, you know, double o's, so it's 203 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 2: never fun. If I could go back, I would say, like, 204 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 2: the only thing I kind of wish is I wish 205 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 2: I had a little bit of like a Spanish flare. 206 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 2: But it's okay because people can still pronounce it. That 207 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 2: was one thing I wanted. 208 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:45,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, no, I love it. 209 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 1: It does make you feel like it just I don't know, 210 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: it makes me think of daisies and just sunshine. 211 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 3: I don't know how to explain, Like when I think 212 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 3: of blooming, it's like, yeah, I'm blooming into who I 213 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 3: really it meant to be. 214 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 2: Oh, I love it. 215 00:10:56,679 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 1: You know, for those who don't know, explain a little 216 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:09,679 Speaker 1: bit the difference between vulva and vagina. 217 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 2: So your vagina and everything that's vaginal is internally. So 218 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 2: if you're born, you know, assists women basically you have 219 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 2: a vagina, have a uterus that's the inside, right, So 220 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 2: if you're talking about like penetrative sex, or you're talking 221 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 2: about anything like internal infection, it's vaginal. Inside. Your vulva 222 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 2: is the outside your vulva. It's like the lips though, 223 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 2: like the inner lips, the manora, the majora lips. That's 224 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:39,680 Speaker 2: the outside, and it's like everything like where your clitteris 225 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 2: is down to like before your anus, Like all of 226 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 2: this zone is like a vulva zone. And then one 227 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 2: word that I think is also helpful is intimate skin. 228 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 2: So if we're talking about intimate skin, we're talking about 229 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 2: vulva skin, or we're talking about penile skin like either 230 00:11:56,520 --> 00:12:00,320 Speaker 2: or and bloom. These products are for just intimacy, just 231 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 2: intimate skin, so they're actually not even for just sis women. 232 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 2: They're just for that part of the body, which is 233 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:08,200 Speaker 2: kind of nice too. We designed it to work for 234 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 2: all bodies, but inside vagina outside folva. 235 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:14,439 Speaker 1: And see a lot of people, well I sure didn't 236 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 1: know you guys. I would always talk about vagina of China, 237 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: of Jina. But what I learned that I was like, 238 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 1: oh my god, now I'm like, you know, so so 239 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you for explaining that. 240 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 3: And you know what I love. 241 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 1: Another thing that I love is that your products are 242 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 1: non toxic. Because I have a very sensitive flower, so 243 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:31,559 Speaker 1: I had to be had to like it was trial 244 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 1: and error, like okay, this doesn't work for me, and 245 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:38,080 Speaker 1: you know, certain condoms were Merosaba, like I would get 246 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:39,440 Speaker 1: like just very dry down there. 247 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 3: It was just not cute. So that's what I love. 248 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 1: I love that they're non toxic, and I think it 249 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 1: just helps that you are a sexologist and you know 250 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 1: about this, which is what I love about your brand. 251 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 1: So did you have a similar experience? 252 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 2: I did. I was gonna say same, So I'm very sensitive. 253 00:12:57,480 --> 00:12:59,680 Speaker 2: But you know what I learned in doing my research 254 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 2: before launching the company is that Latina women, Latina sis women, 255 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 2: and black women we have a different microbiome. That means that, 256 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 2: like you know how we talk about like when your 257 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 2: pH is off, Like when your pH is off, it 258 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 2: means like you basically like threw off the number. The 259 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:22,720 Speaker 2: number normally sits around like a four ish four to 260 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 2: like four point five. But if you use products like 261 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 2: body washes or things that are very basic, you make 262 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:31,080 Speaker 2: it higher and you throw it off and you get irritated. 263 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 2: So what happens for us is we're actually more sensitive. 264 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 2: Latina and Black women, we're more sensitive to getting infections, 265 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 2: getting as tis all these things, so we need to 266 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:43,560 Speaker 2: be even more cautious. I learned this and then it 267 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 2: connected the dots. This is why I'm always so irritated. 268 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 2: This is why I can get BB so easily. This 269 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:51,679 Speaker 2: is why, like I just like could get a lot 270 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 2: of red skin. And it's because all these products that 271 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 2: I honestly like just grew up with, you know, like 272 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:01,079 Speaker 2: friends we're using them, or cousins, older sisters or whatever 273 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 2: they were using them. They have fragrance, they have paravins, 274 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 2: they have glycerine, like all these things can disrupt that 275 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 2: part of the microbiome the skin. So I needed to 276 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 2: make sure that our products were as healthy as possible, 277 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 2: and I am really proud. I can tell you we 278 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 2: are the cleanest line in target for this area of 279 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 2: the body for short, hands down. The one thing I 280 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 2: will say though, is even with that, everybody should always 281 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 2: do a patch test. So like, if you're going to 282 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 2: use a new lubricant, anything that's going to be used 283 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:34,160 Speaker 2: internally or even on your intimate skin, you can do 284 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 2: a patch test on your forearm or behind your knee 285 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 2: and just put a little bit on there and see 286 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 2: what it feels like for you. 287 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to do more of that, the patch testing, 288 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 1: especially now that I'm getting more mature in age, I 289 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 1: feel like my body is changing and it's like not 290 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 1: as receptive I guess with certain things. But I do 291 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 1: love the fact that everything is like non toxic. I 292 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 1: just I'm all about, like, you know, the cleaner, the 293 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 1: less ingredients, the better, you know what i mean. So 294 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 1: you know, you guys go to Target and get yourself 295 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 1: some bloomy Okay, So do you have any like favorite 296 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 1: products from your line? 297 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 2: You know, it's funny, like I feel like I'm not 298 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 2: supposed to have a favorite because I helped with all 299 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 2: of them, right but I'll tell you my favorites right now. 300 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 3: Okay. 301 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 2: So I think it has to do with summer and 302 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 2: like this vibe. I'm really loving the oil based lubricant. 303 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:30,240 Speaker 2: The oil based lubricant is delicious. Technically it's edible, but 304 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 2: we can't claim it, but I'm telling you it is. Okay, 305 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 2: it is my moisturizer, it's my lubricant. It's my it's 306 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 2: my one product that I travel with. And my husband 307 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 2: will will like back me up on this. We have 308 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 2: like one or two of them in the shower. We 309 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 2: have one or two by the bed, like it's just 310 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 2: on rotate right now. So it's a good moisturizing, beautiful lube. 311 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:57,800 Speaker 2: Nice like not too thick, but like very very delicious. 312 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 2: That's my favorite lube. And then I would say, in 313 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 2: terms of toys, I'm really loving play, which is the 314 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 2: newest one that we just launched. It's little, it's a 315 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 2: mini vibrator, but it's curvy. It gives a little you 316 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:13,960 Speaker 2: can insert it or just use it like nicely outside 317 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 2: like literal area or if you need like you know, 318 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 2: like a little on your neck. 319 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, on your neck. 320 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 2: Just I travel with it. It's it's trouble for me. 321 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 2: Those are my two favorite ada and I would just say, 322 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 2: like there's new ones launching very soon. I think those 323 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 2: might become my new favorite. But that's that's my gam 324 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 2: right now. 325 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 1: I can't wait. I can't wait. Okay, So because I 326 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 1: like the smaller ones, you know what I mean. And 327 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 1: they're waterproof, right, so you could wish the whole waterproof. 328 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 1: Waterproof is the bomb you guys, because you know you can. 329 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know about you. There are certain 330 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 1: men that aren't comfortable with using toys. Thank goodness, I 331 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 1: have a partner that is. Because it's just I just 332 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 1: feel like it just takes you, like to a different level. 333 00:16:56,840 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 1: And what I like about about the vibrator that you have. 334 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 1: The ones that I that I've seen is that they 335 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:04,960 Speaker 1: look like they're gonna move with your I don't know 336 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 1: how to explain it, Like they're just what's the word. 337 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 3: I'm looking for. 338 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 2: They they're flexible. 339 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:11,640 Speaker 1: There you go, that's the word. Like they like they're 340 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 1: just gonna they're not stiff. Does it's like sometimes you 341 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:18,160 Speaker 1: can hurt yourself and I feel like those your yours 342 00:17:18,320 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 1: can go inside correct. 343 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 2: Yes, Like they're all you can use any of them 344 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 2: in multiple ways. They're all multi use. So here's the thing. 345 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 2: I've tested thousands of toys. Everyone I know like personally 346 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:34,119 Speaker 2: what I like, but here's what I also enjoy. I 347 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 2: have so much data behind this, like these studies and 348 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 2: like Bloomy Testers, which we call Bloomy Beta. Anybody who 349 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 2: wants to join can join for free. You get free 350 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:49,119 Speaker 2: product and perks. But all of this information together showed 351 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:52,160 Speaker 2: me that, yes, sometimes having like a nice toy that's 352 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 2: like rigid in it's good because sometimes you're craving that. 353 00:17:56,320 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 2: But honestly, there's been a lot of like apprehensive users, 354 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:02,640 Speaker 2: like people who are like nervous to use it because 355 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:05,480 Speaker 2: it's really firm or they don't want to try like 356 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 2: a position where they might fall or it might hurt them. 357 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 2: So what we did is we took that away and 358 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 2: we just said these toys have to be slightly flexible 359 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:16,120 Speaker 2: so that if you fall, if you try something, if 360 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 2: you move, it doesn't hurt you. Right, So like Indulge, 361 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 2: it's a double sided vibrator. One side vibrates, one doesn't, 362 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:25,679 Speaker 2: which I love for people that are getting to know 363 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:28,600 Speaker 2: their body or maybe have some trauma and don't always 364 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 2: meet the vibration. And I would say, like that toys, 365 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:34,639 Speaker 2: it gives the most and people really love that. It 366 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 2: feels nice on your body. 367 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 3: It just like conforms a little yeah, there you go, 368 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 3: it conforms. 369 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 1: That's I'm like, I love that. Like even just the 370 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:45,479 Speaker 1: look it looks, it looks classy. I don't know how 371 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:47,639 Speaker 1: to I don't know if thank you, I know it 372 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 1: really does. It doesn't look like folo fail and just veiny. 373 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:52,760 Speaker 1: It looks very nice and smooth, like it's not going 374 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:55,479 Speaker 1: to hurt me. And that's like I think, especially like 375 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:57,959 Speaker 1: a lot of latinas a lot of my friends, I 376 00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:00,119 Speaker 1: was the one that gave them their first vibrator. Like 377 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 1: I'm that friend that's going to say, here, don't sit 378 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 1: on a stranger penis, use this, you. 379 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 3: Know what I mean? Like, and so they're like they've 380 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:09,199 Speaker 3: some of my friends have used them. 381 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 1: Some of my friends have been like no, because it's like, no, 382 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 1: it's a bad thing. You're not supposed to masturbate. You're 383 00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:17,879 Speaker 1: not supposed to put anything foreign, quote unquote in there. 384 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 1: But I'm like, dude, I think it's so much safer 385 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 1: than just boning a bunch of random people. 386 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 3: Personally, that's my personal opinion. 387 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:25,199 Speaker 2: It's definitely safer. 388 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:26,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's definitely safer. 389 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 2: It's definitely safer, but emotionally safer, physically safer. But what 390 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 2: I would say too is, like anybody who has who's 391 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:37,360 Speaker 2: worried about masturbating or grew up with messages that it's 392 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:42,480 Speaker 2: bad for you from a mental health and a wellness standpoint, 393 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:46,160 Speaker 2: it is very good for you to masturbate. It's more 394 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 2: of like that construct society and like how we kind 395 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 2: of like filter those messages that ends up changing how 396 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 2: we feel about it. So if I can, I usually 397 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:58,160 Speaker 2: when I work with people, I tell them, like, try 398 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 2: to let go and unlearn some of this stuff that 399 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:04,240 Speaker 2: you learned because most people do not get good sex education. 400 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 2: And from just a wellness standpoint, masturbating it's going to 401 00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:11,880 Speaker 2: make you destress, It's going to make you have skin 402 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:15,240 Speaker 2: to skin, which feels really good. If you have an orgasm, 403 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 2: you get this like cocktail of hormones that makes you 404 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:23,120 Speaker 2: feel good, makes you happy, it makes depression symptoms blessing. 405 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:27,200 Speaker 2: So there's so many health benefits to just the masturbating 406 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 2: daily or masturbating frequently. 407 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:32,800 Speaker 1: Okay, what do you recommend how often do you like 408 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:36,879 Speaker 1: recommend having an orgasm, either a masturbating or having sex. 409 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 1: I do you feel like day it should be daily, 410 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 1: every other day or you know, because I'm a huge 411 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 1: believer in like anything excessive isn't necessarily good for you. 412 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:48,399 Speaker 1: But what about you know, the vulva. 413 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 2: So what's interesting to a lot of people is that 414 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,200 Speaker 2: I think there's a stereotype out there that if you're 415 00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 2: having sex, you have to have sex every day or 416 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:00,120 Speaker 2: multiple times a day, and that's a good sex life. 417 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 2: But the average is like two and a half times 418 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:05,359 Speaker 2: per month. 419 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 3: Stop. 420 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 2: Really, couples on average, on average are having sex like 421 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,919 Speaker 2: a little less than once a week basically. Ok So 422 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 2: it's not as often as we're thinking, right, oh. 423 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:22,359 Speaker 3: I'm good. Damn I was worried. Girl. I was like, 424 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:24,040 Speaker 3: oh my god, Okay, go ahead. 425 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 2: It's not as often. It's like that comes from like 426 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:30,640 Speaker 2: porn and like media and the TV. But like, don't 427 00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:32,960 Speaker 2: get me wrong, if you're in a phase, right, because 428 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,480 Speaker 2: we go through waves when we're with a partner in 429 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:37,639 Speaker 2: a new relationship, or even if it's the same partner 430 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 2: at different times of the relationship where you're gonna crave 431 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 2: more sex and that's healthy, and you know, like yeah, 432 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 2: but it's not as often as people think. And if 433 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:50,280 Speaker 2: I'm advocating for masturbation, National Orgasm Day is at the 434 00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 2: end of this month, and I'm trying to really push 435 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 2: awareness around that it's not just about the orgasm. It's 436 00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:58,879 Speaker 2: so much more about like just getting in tune with 437 00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 2: your body and getting in the mood and all these things. 438 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 2: But if you are practicing masturbation, it is fine to 439 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:10,480 Speaker 2: masturbate every day. It's also fine to masturbate once a week, 440 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 2: or it's fine to masturbate at whatever feels good to you. 441 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:17,240 Speaker 2: What I will say is it's kind of like you know, 442 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:20,879 Speaker 2: when you exercise, if you exercise a few times a week. 443 00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:25,640 Speaker 2: It keeps your cardio good. You feel good, but if 444 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 2: you don't exercise like at all during the week, you 445 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 2: don't feel as great. And if you're exercising every day, 446 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:34,439 Speaker 2: you can burn out. Just think of sex kind of 447 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,120 Speaker 2: in the same way. You're going to have these waves 448 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 2: where like some kind of consistency is good. A couple 449 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:43,360 Speaker 2: times a week is good for you, okay, But if 450 00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 2: you aren't feeling it that week, it's okay. And if 451 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:48,400 Speaker 2: you need more then that's also great. 452 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 1: So just listen to your body, you know, because yeah, 453 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 1: sometimes I feel like that pressure of like I need 454 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:55,440 Speaker 1: to have sex with my partner every single day, but 455 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 1: I'm busy, or I'm tired, or i just I don't 456 00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 1: want it, you know what I mean. 457 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 3: But now you're. 458 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:03,480 Speaker 1: Telling me this, I'm like, okay, then I don't like 459 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,200 Speaker 1: I tell him. I'm like, my intimacy is I want 460 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:07,480 Speaker 1: to lay on your chest, I want to watch a 461 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:08,880 Speaker 1: movie with you, And then sometimes I do. 462 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:09,480 Speaker 3: Want to have sex. 463 00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 1: It's just like I also don't want it to be 464 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 1: where like nos amos infa, you know, it's just so 465 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:16,359 Speaker 1: much or sometimes I just want to lay there and 466 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 1: do my thing and I want to do it myself, 467 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like for so long I masturbated, 468 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:23,680 Speaker 1: I had vibrators, I didn't have, you know, a partner, 469 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,439 Speaker 1: and I love it. I love that alone time and 470 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,359 Speaker 1: that's okay. Like that's what I want to tell women. 471 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 1: A lot of women feel so embarrassed where it's like, 472 00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:33,159 Speaker 1: oh no, like I don't talk about those things, and 473 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:34,359 Speaker 1: it's okay if you don't want to talk about it. 474 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 3: I totally respect it. 475 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:39,960 Speaker 1: But I feel like it's just so healthy emotionally physically 476 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:42,520 Speaker 1: for you to just do it and sometimes just do 477 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,159 Speaker 1: it on your own, do it in the shower, just 478 00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:54,119 Speaker 1: have those few minutes to just release. I had a 479 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:57,200 Speaker 1: question in regards to people faking orgasms. I'm not gonna lie. 480 00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:59,920 Speaker 1: I have before, I have. Now that I've gotten old, 481 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 1: now I'm like, it just didn't happen. Before it was 482 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: like okay, let me just be done with this, and 483 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, as long as that person gets 484 00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:08,200 Speaker 1: their pleasure. 485 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:10,679 Speaker 3: Now I'm like, wait a second, Like I need to 486 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 3: do my thing. 487 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 1: Even after he's finished, I'll go ahead and pleasure myself 488 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 1: and he's fine with it and he watches. 489 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,560 Speaker 3: But I'm not into faking anymore. 490 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:23,119 Speaker 1: But I have, Like I said, do you know of 491 00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 1: a percentage of people that like do fake orgasms? 492 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 2: Yes, there's so many interesting stats. I would say, like 493 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 2: seventy five percent of CIS women have faked an orgasm. 494 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:39,280 Speaker 2: But like you and like me, usually a lot of 495 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,959 Speaker 2: this is happening when they're younger or they're just starting 496 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 2: to have sexual partners, and they have ideas of like 497 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 2: I think you're supposed to do this or I think 498 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:50,200 Speaker 2: I'm supposed to look this way and sound this way. 499 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,679 Speaker 2: But the older that you get and the more sexual 500 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,879 Speaker 2: confidence that builds, the more you kind of let go 501 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 2: of some of that, or hopefully you do. The majority 502 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 2: of people don't fake organs all the time, but almost 503 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 2: everybody has at some point. 504 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:04,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 505 00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:07,679 Speaker 2: I think the stat is like maybe like ten percent 506 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,879 Speaker 2: of people are faking orgasms. That's like an average. It 507 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:13,119 Speaker 2: could be like eight percent. It changes every year. But 508 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,440 Speaker 2: what I would say to this is, like, if you've 509 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 2: done it, okay, maybe think about like why you did it, 510 00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 2: and like what you were trying to accomplish. Was it 511 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 2: you wanted to end your session girledon just end the session? Right? 512 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 2: Was it that you wanted your partner to feel like 513 00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:31,400 Speaker 2: they were pleasing you, and teach yourself what you want 514 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:33,119 Speaker 2: and then teach your partner how to please you. Like, 515 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 2: if you're in a healthy relationship, your partner should want 516 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,439 Speaker 2: to please you, and you should allow your partner to 517 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:42,920 Speaker 2: please you. But there also shouldn't be your everything right. 518 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 2: So it's almost like when somebody is faking an orgasm, 519 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:49,160 Speaker 2: they're giving someone too much credit and it's not being 520 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 2: honest with yourself or that relationship. Just let it go, 521 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 2: start over, and you know, you can even start over 522 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 2: in the same sexual relationship. You can say, Hey, I 523 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:03,840 Speaker 2: want to like readjust some things, like I'm curious about 524 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:06,600 Speaker 2: certain things. I want to teach you more about pleasing me. 525 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:09,879 Speaker 2: Are you open to that? The answer should be yes 526 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:11,879 Speaker 2: or like yeah, what do you mean, and then you 527 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,920 Speaker 2: can go into whatever is on your heart. I feel 528 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:18,159 Speaker 2: like sometimes I'm thinking more about what you're doing versus 529 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:20,400 Speaker 2: just being in the moment. I want to be more 530 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 2: in the moment, and it might be, you know, it 531 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:24,679 Speaker 2: might take longer for me to have an orgasm, or 532 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:27,040 Speaker 2: I might have to like show you different things or 533 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 2: guide your hand in a different way. But I just 534 00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:31,200 Speaker 2: want to be more myself around you. Is that okay? 535 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:34,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's right now that I was hearing you 536 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,439 Speaker 1: talk and explain that. What I think what happened with 537 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,600 Speaker 1: me and my personal story was that I was just 538 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:42,639 Speaker 1: young and I thought I was having an orgasm but 539 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,480 Speaker 1: I didn't know what an orgasm was until I was older, 540 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:47,840 Speaker 1: where I was like, oh shit, wow, I had never 541 00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,399 Speaker 1: felt this, you know what I mean. It's like I 542 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,200 Speaker 1: didn't mean to fake it, but I faked it because 543 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:52,439 Speaker 1: I was like, I think this is what I'm supposed 544 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:54,560 Speaker 1: to do. I'm supposed to mowan and I'm supposed to go, oh, 545 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:58,199 Speaker 1: you know, and we're done, you know. So now that 546 00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:00,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, now that I know, and I'm like, okay, 547 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 1: like you know, like Rebecca said, guys, like it's good 548 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:06,399 Speaker 1: and it's healthy, Like, hey, this feels good. I'd rather you, 549 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:08,400 Speaker 1: you know sometimes like I don't like fingers in there. 550 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 1: I really don't like, I'd rather you use your mouth. 551 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, like do you have these open conversations 552 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 1: you guys? I think, in yes, with your partner and 553 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:20,199 Speaker 1: listen to to him or to her. But anyho, now 554 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 1: that we're on this topic, I want to know about 555 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:28,280 Speaker 1: squirting because i I'm not sure. I feel like I have. 556 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,520 Speaker 1: But a question that a lot of people have asked 557 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 1: is is it pee that's coming out? 558 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 3: But is it? What is squirting? Explained to us, Rebecca, please. 559 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,960 Speaker 2: It's such a hot topic, it like never goes away, 560 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:45,240 Speaker 2: Like this is like a constant hot topic. So squirting 561 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 2: is when a cis woman ejaculates and it looks like 562 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:56,000 Speaker 2: a squirt. It looks like key. So here's the thing. 563 00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:58,679 Speaker 2: There's a lot of controversy about this, like what is 564 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:02,480 Speaker 2: the liquid? Is something basically peeing? You get a lot 565 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:06,159 Speaker 2: of mixed results in research. Based on everything that I know, 566 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:10,400 Speaker 2: I feel like every ciss woman who wants to learn 567 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 2: to squirt can And it does have some elements of 568 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,640 Speaker 2: urine because it's going through the same pathway, like it's 569 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,879 Speaker 2: coming out of the same area, So it does have 570 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,119 Speaker 2: a little bit of urine, but it is not urine. 571 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:31,600 Speaker 2: It is like a clear, really glighty liquid that has 572 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,000 Speaker 2: a lot of proteins and fatty acids and so it's 573 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:36,400 Speaker 2: made up of a lot of things. But it does 574 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 2: have a little bit of urine in it, and it's 575 00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 2: it is what it is. It's almost like the equivalent 576 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:45,719 Speaker 2: of like prostate fluid in cisamin. I know that might 577 00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:50,560 Speaker 2: not be helpful, but squirting can happen when you are 578 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,560 Speaker 2: stimulating that part of the body. So I wish I 579 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,000 Speaker 2: could visually show people. But it's like maybe one and 580 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:59,120 Speaker 2: a half to two inches in vaginally you have your 581 00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 2: G spot, and the way you know you're touching it 582 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 2: is it's a little bit rigid, like it feels you'll 583 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 2: feel smooth, smooth, smooth, and then you'll feel like almost 584 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:11,719 Speaker 2: like a walnut. And if you start to stimulate that 585 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 2: and the body is fully aroused, you can ejaculate. What happens, though, 586 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,840 Speaker 2: is a lot of women that I've talked to they 587 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 2: won't fully complete the process and they're not sure if 588 00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 2: they're doing it because they tighten up, they get tense, 589 00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,600 Speaker 2: and they don't let go at the very end. At 590 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 2: the very end, you feel like you have to pee, 591 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:34,640 Speaker 2: and so you have to allow that sensation to pass, 592 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:39,479 Speaker 2: and you have to allow yourself to let go sas sas. 593 00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:41,160 Speaker 3: So can I make myself square? 594 00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? 595 00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 3: Right, if I know where my G spot? 596 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 2: Okay, you can. And I will say this because of 597 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,560 Speaker 2: where it is on our body, it's not as easy 598 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,040 Speaker 2: for us to turn our hand and do it. But 599 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:54,080 Speaker 2: we can do it. What's really helpful is a toy. 600 00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 2: So we have one. It's called Indulge. It has a 601 00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:02,400 Speaker 2: G spot side. You can use that spot internally and 602 00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,520 Speaker 2: if you basically put pressure on that, we'll call it 603 00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:08,600 Speaker 2: a little walnut. If you put pressure on the spot. 604 00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 3: I'm gonna look for the walnut right now. 605 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 2: Yes, sometimes people need pretty intense pressure on it. Other 606 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:16,760 Speaker 2: people need like medium pressure on it. But yeah, you 607 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:18,960 Speaker 2: can ejaculate with the toy a little bit easier. 608 00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:19,680 Speaker 3: Okay. 609 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 2: So when we're talking about sex, though, what's interesting is 610 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:26,719 Speaker 2: you can we have nerve endings all in that like 611 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:31,960 Speaker 2: bottom area, right. But when you're talking about penetrate of sex, 612 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 2: you can have penetrative sex vaginally in the vagina or 613 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:36,880 Speaker 2: in the anus. 614 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 3: Right. 615 00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 2: A lot of women that have anal sex have orgasms. 616 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,480 Speaker 1: Uh huh. So let's go back a little bit to 617 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 1: anal sex. Because I've I've never I haven't yet. 618 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:48,000 Speaker 3: I want to. 619 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:50,160 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm with the right partner to do 620 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:54,120 Speaker 1: so I'm open to it. I've heard that it's like 621 00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:56,920 Speaker 1: an amazing orgasm for a woman and for a man. 622 00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,720 Speaker 1: Of course, can we use we can definitely use your 623 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:02,120 Speaker 1: toy right in that area. 624 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 2: Yes, So here are my tips for anal and I 625 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 2: would say, like the queer community is more well versed 626 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:11,320 Speaker 2: in anal sex, and like that's just a difference. A 627 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:14,840 Speaker 2: lot of people that are more heteronormative, like we tend 628 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,960 Speaker 2: to avoid anal more. But I think that it's something 629 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:22,560 Speaker 2: that we should unlearn and then relearn it because anal 630 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:25,560 Speaker 2: sex can be so pleasurable and a lot of people 631 00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 2: really enjoy it. It's just the setup that's very important. 632 00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:31,720 Speaker 2: So okay, I would even say this to be really honest. 633 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 2: A lot of people I share with me, they're self 634 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 2: conscious about having like poop come out right, They're self 635 00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:39,720 Speaker 2: conscious about it. 636 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:41,160 Speaker 3: I'm gonna lie, that's my biggest fear. 637 00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:44,080 Speaker 2: So they'll change their diet. They change their diet for 638 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 2: that day and maybe eat like more lean or more 639 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,040 Speaker 2: smoothie so that they don't feel like they have a 640 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:53,360 Speaker 2: lot of i'll say congestion. But honestly, the more you 641 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,440 Speaker 2: do this, the more you'll know your own body and 642 00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 2: you won't feel as self conscious about it. But in 643 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 2: the beginning, people do tell me that's a worry, So 644 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:03,000 Speaker 2: I'm just validating that A lot of people worry about that, 645 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,960 Speaker 2: but it's not a big deal. If some comes out, 646 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:07,880 Speaker 2: it's not a big deal, even though it might feel 647 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 2: like it is. So what you can do is make 648 00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 2: sure you're using a lot of lubricant so in this 649 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,960 Speaker 2: area of the body, we don't naturally lubricate it, like 650 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 2: we can't get like the wetness that we get from 651 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 2: love vagina. Right, Yeah, so a lot of water based loop. 652 00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 2: You can use a toy. You just want to be 653 00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:29,000 Speaker 2: careful that if you're using anything anally, you don't insert 654 00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 2: it vaginally afterwards, yes, or you wash it really really 655 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,640 Speaker 2: really good. We have a cleanser that's good for your 656 00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,480 Speaker 2: skin or toys. But you can also put a condom 657 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 2: on the toy and insert it that way, and that 658 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:43,400 Speaker 2: way there's even more glideer, so you can do that 659 00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 2: and start really slow. 660 00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:48,280 Speaker 3: Okay, I love it, honestly. 661 00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:50,440 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for being so open and so 662 00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:53,479 Speaker 1: you're so eloquent, and I'm just glad that we you know, 663 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 1: Thank goodness, I have the space where I can just 664 00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 1: talk about it and people like you that are so 665 00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:01,520 Speaker 1: educated in this and that have such an amazing brand, 666 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:05,280 Speaker 1: which again, congratulations to you and to your husband and 667 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,600 Speaker 1: to the entire team, and if you can, please let 668 00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:09,680 Speaker 1: us know where we can find Bloomy. 669 00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:11,760 Speaker 3: Is there a website? What stores? 670 00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 2: Yes? This was amazing, This was fun. I love the 671 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:18,720 Speaker 2: topics we covered. They were nice and juicy topics. You 672 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:22,960 Speaker 2: guys can find me anywhere. It's Rebecca, I've got a story. 673 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:26,040 Speaker 2: That's my website and my socials. And then for the 674 00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 2: products for Bloomy, everything is at the bloo me dot 675 00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 2: com or socials are at the Bloomy. 676 00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 1: Okay and it's b l o O M I yes correct, right, yes, 677 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:38,560 Speaker 1: ye sorry. 678 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 2: And or at Target. I don't Target, so you can 679 00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 2: also shop us at your local Target. You can just 680 00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:46,440 Speaker 2: basically check your app. The one thing we've learned is 681 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 2: if a product is not at your local stores, sometimes 682 00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:52,280 Speaker 2: it doesn't show up. So just know all of our 683 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:54,560 Speaker 2: toys are at Target or loobs or at Target. So 684 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:56,560 Speaker 2: if you're looking for one of those two things, I 685 00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:58,800 Speaker 2: definitely encourage you to go to your local store and 686 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 2: go to Target dot Yes. 687 00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:04,760 Speaker 1: Well, I'm definitely gonna go get some stuff. So thank 688 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:06,960 Speaker 1: you again, and you guys, thank you for listening. I 689 00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 1: hope that you guys enjoyed this episode. I definitely did. 690 00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:13,080 Speaker 1: And before we go, you guys know that we have 691 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:22,920 Speaker 1: a quote, and the quote is, if you are powerfully 692 00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:26,360 Speaker 1: embracing your physical body and your sexuality, you are living 693 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:30,439 Speaker 1: fully in your humanness and that is as spiritual as 694 00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:32,040 Speaker 1: it gets humanness. 695 00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 3: I like that. There you go. That's the quote for 696 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:35,040 Speaker 3: the day, you guys. 697 00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:40,200 Speaker 1: M and until next time, Rebecca, thank you so much. 698 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 3: I appreciate it again. 699 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:43,480 Speaker 2: Thank you, this was great. 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