1 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Get your head us together, and we're going to start 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: to party and start. 3 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 2: I'm ready to party. 4 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 3: The Elvis Duran after party. 5 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 2: So I think it's good being a floater friend. I 6 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:21,760 Speaker 2: was accused of being a floater friend the other night, 7 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 2: and I'm well, that's not bad. I mean my interpretation 8 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 2: of it. Being a floater friend is not like a 9 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 2: turd in the toilet, Not that kind of floater. I'm 10 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 2: talking about a friend who can be with different types 11 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 2: of friend groups. Oh yeah, and float from one group 12 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 2: to another. I don't know. So you know, in our 13 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:46,959 Speaker 2: show and the click mentality that happens here, we do 14 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 2: have some people who are going from click to click 15 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 2: and are floating. Gandhi is good at that, for instance. 16 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 1: By the way, oh thanks, I'll take it. 17 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 2: I like everyone here right now, Danielle. You try to 18 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 2: stay out of the clickies. You want to float around 19 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 2: like me, I'm like, love all, serve all. I feel like. 20 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 3: So, I don't really like you. I'm just like a flitter. 21 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 3: So is that a floating friend? I don't know, you 22 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 3: float here? You float there in this capacity? 23 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess yeah, But I guess they're saying there 24 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:13,559 Speaker 2: are non floaters who only stick to the same people 25 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 2: and never ever venture outside of that friend group. That 26 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 2: would be boring. I wouldn't be able to do that. 27 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, me too, I agree. I think the floater front 28 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: thing is pretty healthy in general to be able to 29 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: bounce from group to group. But they're saying where the 30 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: problem comes in is a lot of times these floater 31 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 1: friends don't stop and actually make a deep connection with 32 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: any group because they stay too you know, flitty on. 33 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 2: The stuff makes sense. Oh yeah, so maybe that says 34 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 2: a lot about us as floater friends. We only want 35 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 2: to commit so much to people like an entire group. Yeah, 36 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 2: I agree with that, because I think group mentality with 37 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 2: friendships can get a little toxic sometimes. Yeah, you have 38 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 2: the talking behind each other's backs. You know, I have example. 39 00:01:57,880 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 3: I'm not going to say examples because I don't want 40 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 3: to throw anybody in the bus, but there are examples 41 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 3: of people that I know that that's what happened. And 42 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 3: then when they find out you went over to the 43 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 3: other group, they get pissed off. And then they're like, 44 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 3: she's now with that group, we can't talk to her anymore. Really, 45 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 3: how old are we come on? 46 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 2: Stupid? 47 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 4: You know? 48 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 2: Another thing about floater friendships in these groups is you know, 49 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 2: I have the two groups of people I'm friends with. 50 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 2: I don't think any of them would want to hang 51 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 2: out with each other. I see that I'm a common 52 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 2: denominator with those two different groups, But I don't think 53 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:27,920 Speaker 2: the rest of them would get along with each other. 54 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 2: That's a problem. 55 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 3: Sometimes if you try to hook them up, then they don't. 56 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 3: They don't they don't gel right for sure. 57 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: I mean even so my old show that I was 58 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: on before I came here, I never introduced any of 59 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: them except one person, to anyone in my family. I 60 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: just didn't want to blend those two things because I 61 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:46,799 Speaker 1: was like, this is going to go sideways, wildly wrong. 62 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: But you guys, I introduced my family to you guys 63 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: pretty quickly because it was just a totally different vibe 64 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 1: and like good people. 65 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 3: Because we were just demented like your family also. 66 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 2: Then, yes, what's up, Nate? 67 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 4: I think about that all the time. I think of 68 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 4: some of my friend groups introducing them to other friend groups, 69 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 4: and I'm like, they would hate each other, Like why 70 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 4: would put people through that? Like they wouldn't get along, 71 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 4: they wouldn't have anything to talk about. 72 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 2: What does that say about you. You're actually okay with 73 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 2: both groups, but they aren't. What's going on? 74 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 4: You know? 75 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 2: I'm analyzing that in myself. I'm like, what, why can 76 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:23,239 Speaker 2: I do that? And if I think of introducing other 77 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 2: people to it, I feel like they would hate it. 78 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 1: So do you think there's a level of fakeness involved 79 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: if you're a floater? 80 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 4: I don't know. 81 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 2: Well, maybe is it fakeness or you're just you're blocking 82 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 2: a lot of stuff. You're closed, Yeah, you're closed down. 83 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 2: I don't like it when sometimes I don't like it 84 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 2: when my two worlds collide. Sometimes, see what's scary. 85 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 3: I don't think douchebag Dave and policeman Pete would get 86 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 3: along with the Jeli. 87 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 5: It's funny you say that because they are part of 88 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 5: the same group. But all those people would not mesh 89 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 5: with my friends from Brooklyn. So my hoeboke in front 90 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,839 Speaker 5: of my Brooklyn friends will not mesh. So I'm I'm 91 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 5: kind of the tie that binds. I can float, like 92 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 5: Elvis saying I'm a floater as well because I'm. 93 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 2: Easy to get along with. I am like Jelly. 94 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 5: I'm a chameleon that you could say whatever you want, 95 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 5: but I am so in that way, I'm like, I'm fluid. 96 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 5: I'm fluid, not Junger fluid. But you know, and it 97 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:31,359 Speaker 5: comes down to bleeps and upbringings. That's what the difference 98 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 5: is between these two friends. 99 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 2: Well, that's the thing is we're talking earlier about you know, 100 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 2: two different groups of friends that you're friendly with, but 101 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 2: none of them would like each other. Sometimes if you 102 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 2: try to introduce them, it has devastating results. They just 103 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,840 Speaker 2: don't care for each other. So you got to keep 104 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 2: them at bay because they just do not get along. 105 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 2: There's a lot of pressure because the other one group 106 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 2: may want us to go do one thing on a Saturday. 107 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 2: The other group may want to do something on Saturday. 108 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 2: I have to choose between the two groups. And I 109 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:58,160 Speaker 2: have to be honest with you. Sometimes I feel like 110 00:04:58,160 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 2: my friends get mad at me because I don't hang out 111 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 2: with them. Hmmm. 112 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: Scary tries to keep me separated from some of his 113 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 1: friends very clearly. He's like, I don't know if they're 114 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: going to say anything, but I definitely think you're going 115 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: to say something. 116 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 2: But why is Gandi embarrassing to you? 117 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 5: Which it's not embarrassing, you know. I hate to say it, 118 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 5: but between Gandhi and my friends and then my friends 119 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 5: and my other friends. It's politics, and I'm keeping them 120 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 5: all at bay from each other. 121 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:27,160 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm the guy he said. I know. 122 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 5: I'm sorry I said it, but. 123 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 2: No one's mad at you for saying that. It's true. 124 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 2: It's true for all of us. We all have some 125 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 2: friends that political reasons we don't mix with other friends. 126 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 2: But that what does that say about me? I mixed 127 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 2: with everyone me too, and I I just don't talk 128 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 2: about I think. 129 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 3: I feel like with my friends who they know, we 130 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 3: don't agree, so we'll discuss to a point where we 131 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 3: don't piss each other off, and we just hear what 132 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:50,840 Speaker 3: the other person has to say and then we leave 133 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 3: it at that, and that's it, because that's, you know. 134 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:55,280 Speaker 1: It is healthier way to exist. 135 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:57,839 Speaker 3: Yeah you believe, well, you know, I believe whatever it is, 136 00:05:57,839 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 3: what it is. 137 00:05:58,360 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 4: You know. 138 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:01,360 Speaker 2: In fact, I'm having lunches and yes, today I wouldn't 139 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 2: think about inviting Gandhi to this because I won't have 140 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: a good lunch. I don't bring it up. 141 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: But if someone says something I find crazy, I'm like, 142 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: well that's crazy at that. 143 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 2: But that's why we love. Sometimes I sometimes like you 144 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 2: know what that that group needs rattling up? What's Gandhi friends? 145 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 2: I would bring you to lunch, dinner. 146 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 5: And all the meals on vacation with some of my 147 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 5: friends in Brooklyn. 148 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 2: I get it. Not these other ones, I understand. 149 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:35,919 Speaker 1: I see some tweets and I'm like, scary, what's up 150 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: with your friends? 151 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 2: So there are some groups that Gandhi would not float. 152 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 2: She would sink or sink them. I don't know anyway, 153 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 2: So floater friends? Are you a floater friend? I think 154 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 2: it says a lot about you. It says a lot 155 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 2: of I think positive and maybe some negative stuff about you. 156 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 2: You don't want to commit to one type of person. 157 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 2: I would never want to commit to one person that 158 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 2: has one one opinion about life and politics. That would 159 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 2: the Elvista Ran after party 160 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 4: M