1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,239 Speaker 1: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: Rod and Karen are hot, y'all. 3 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:10,640 Speaker 2: Hear this corny with that illuminais Papa ROSSI catch my 4 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 2: flock and my cocky fresh. I'm surcless when I rock 5 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 2: my Givanci dress. 6 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:18,600 Speaker 3: I'm so possessive. 7 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 4: So I rock his rock necklaces. 8 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 2: My daddy, Alabama, my mama, lousy Ella, you mix that nero? 9 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 3: What's that foral make Itabama? Hey, welcome to the Blackout 10 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:35,199 Speaker 3: Tips Podcast, your host Rod and Karen. 11 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 5: Yes, Karen, I'm about to say you didn't get me. 12 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 3: I thought you was going to take too long. I apologize, 13 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 3: but we are alive. I'm excited. It's another year, another 14 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 3: very special Mother's Day edition of the Blackout Tips. Uh. 15 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 3: You guys should recognize that voice that started the lyrics, 16 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 3: it's my mom. Hey mom, are you doing? 17 00:00:59,080 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 4: Hello? 18 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 3: I didn't care and Happy Mother's Day to you. Thank 19 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 3: you so much, and we did get you something. We 20 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 3: did all right, because my mom is already has everything. 21 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 3: She sent us an email this year with the acceptable 22 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 3: gifts and uh, I had to go to the four 23 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 3: store and get you the uh now is that the 24 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 3: right thing? The curl Kad the Diva Curl Kait, Yes, 25 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:27,320 Speaker 3: thank you, no problem. 26 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:28,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm upgrading. 27 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 3: I was in and out of there. They they knew 28 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 3: I didn't belong. That was just like, uh, we know 29 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 3: what you. 30 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 6: Came for your game, the list. Tell apat your adventure. 31 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 3: Baby. Oh it wasn't an adventure. I just walked in 32 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 3: and it was like, uh, I think I'm looking for 33 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 3: some type of diva, some curl kid or something. And 34 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 3: then she just was like, I don't know what talk. 35 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 3: It was like Paul, it's uh, get the kid or whatever. 36 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 5: And we got a lost one and this one got 37 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 5: a list, make a simpler. We got to go around 38 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 5: the store. 39 00:01:56,200 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 3: This time, so it's pretty easy. But uh, that was 40 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 3: the first time I been in the mall in a 41 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 3: long time. Mam changed. 42 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 5: Yes, it is not, baby, it is not the same 43 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 5: your parks. 44 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:11,639 Speaker 4: Like it really upright, it's a five star and beyond. 45 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, they got a digital Kiosk now where you can 46 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 3: like type in the store you want to go to 47 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 3: on a touch screen and it'll show it'll show you 48 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 3: the directions on like a like an arrow with a 49 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 3: map that's like you need to go from here, make 50 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 3: a left, and then go down here, like that's pretty cool. 51 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 4: That's good. So I'm glad it was a great trip 52 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 4: for you. 53 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 3: Yeah it was easy. I mean I just like easy shopping. 54 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 3: I'm not as long as I don't gotta like try 55 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 3: on a bunch of shit like you give me, just 56 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 3: show me which way to go, what to get, and 57 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 3: I'm in and out. 58 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 6: I didn't think about we was talking about earlier. I 59 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 6: was and Roger said, I know I'm not the only man. 60 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 6: I was like, yeah, you probably aren't the only one 61 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,359 Speaker 6: that just looked lost. And they'd be like, sir, I'm 62 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 6: surprised they ain't be like, can you just give us 63 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 6: the list of the items that she wrote down for you? 64 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 6: Can we look up the email? Yeah, I mean it 65 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:58,239 Speaker 6: will be true to get everything she got on the list. Yeah. 66 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,679 Speaker 3: Anytime I get like anytime I started to get any 67 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 3: type of like anxiety or stuff like that about doing 68 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 3: stuff like that, I always just think like I'm not 69 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 3: the only person. Like every like a hundred people have 70 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:12,079 Speaker 3: done this before me, So I'll just beat one hundred 71 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 3: person trying to do it. And they got a job 72 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 3: to do, so they just they see this all the time. 73 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 3: So it was easy. 74 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, like I said, in with you not being a woman, 75 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 6: they don't. They're not trying to upgrade your upsell your 76 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 6: bombard you. 77 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. Like it's a little. 78 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 6: Different than the men coming in there, because a lot 79 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 6: of times when women come in there, you know, some 80 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 6: women come in there the go I know what I want, 81 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 6: I want to get out. But some women come in 82 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 6: there for some women have but they won't facials, they 83 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 6: won't makeovers. 84 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 5: They are doing like this variation of things. 85 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 6: So I guess, yeah, those people like we're preparing for 86 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 6: the simplest and we're prepared for the complex. 87 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 3: Now I will mention to the chat room, the people 88 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 3: will live. We do take questions during this if you 89 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 3: want to ask a question on my mom, I'll try 90 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 3: to be mindful of that and asking during the show. 91 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 3: There's no pressure if you don't. I still have a 92 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 3: show planned out, so you know, it's it's whatever. But 93 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 3: before we get into the news and stuff, how you doing, mom? 94 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 3: How's the year of entreating? Since last time? 95 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 4: I had a great year. I turned sixty, which is wonderful. 96 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 2: Karen and I and some more friends we went out 97 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 2: and got our gym on. 98 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:18,599 Speaker 3: I had a ball. 99 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 4: We had a good time. 100 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 5: I had the time of my life. I'm not gonna lie. 101 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 5: I was licked one of. 102 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 2: My friends on the facility we went to. We take 103 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 2: yoga together, and so pretty much the party was on her. 104 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 4: To my surprise. 105 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 3: Oh, we had our own reserved area. Wow, and we got. 106 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 2: The party started. We did some soul training line. We 107 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:48,840 Speaker 2: had people joining. 108 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 5: Our party right we did. We were caught in so hard. 109 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 6: People will say, oh, y'all look like y'all are having 110 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 6: with too much fun and they I mean it was 111 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 6: younger people in there too, but they were really looking 112 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 6: at y'all like, y'all look like y'all I'm over crunk 113 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 6: than the young people. 114 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 5: And we joined your crew exactly. 115 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:08,720 Speaker 4: We had the ball. 116 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 2: It wasn't your typical sixty year old party. I'm not your. 117 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 3: Typical sixty year old I hear so y'all didn't play 118 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 3: no space and nobody got cut. No, I guess it 119 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 3: wasn't you know what. 120 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 6: And one thing is like I realized like it was 121 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 6: some other family that that was younger than me. But 122 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 6: I didn't realize it was such a a age gap 123 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 6: as far as music wise, Like I know, I knew 124 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 6: just about all the music, but like me and your mama, 125 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 6: we knew Beyonce like I knew Rihanna and Rihanna's like bitch. 126 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 5: Better have My money came on, and they were looking 127 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 5: at me like how do you. 128 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 4: Know how the words? 129 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 5: I was like, bitch better have my money? Hey, and 130 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 5: they was looking like hot. 131 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 3: Robin was like, hi, go. 132 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 5: I was like pay me what you op it? 133 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 4: He? 134 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 5: And then I was just back up and started dancing. 135 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 5: They was like, what is wrong with her? I was like, see, 136 00:05:57,040 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 5: y'all need. 137 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 3: To get help. 138 00:05:58,200 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 5: I fell him for the first time. 139 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 4: Can you plave it? Sh came on? 140 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 3: Yes, I'm glad you enjoyed it since the last time 141 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 3: you were on the show. We did the live show 142 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 3: yes at blooming We was up there yesterday getting something 143 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,600 Speaker 3: to eat in that area of town and we rolled 144 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 3: by blooming Thal there and it was like, I can't 145 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:24,720 Speaker 3: believe we was in there. 146 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 6: Me and Roger looked at each other like, can you 147 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 6: believe we actually did a show in the same place 148 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:35,039 Speaker 6: they do Hamilton, Like I'm talking about like they do 149 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 6: orchestras there, y'all like the Lion King like like like 150 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 6: they do fancy stuff. And then you got these two 151 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 6: regular ass niggas pop up in there with y'all. 152 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 5: Right right, you know the rest of them. They was like, no, nigga, 153 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 5: we do not say this. 154 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:54,920 Speaker 3: And the people at the facility loved us, which is 155 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 3: you know, that was like we never seen people your 156 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 3: fans are so great. We never seen people come from 157 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 3: this far out just to come to see something like 158 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 3: normally it's people coming from like maybe South Carolina. 159 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 5: Nit Hill, Yeah that was Matthews. 160 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 3: I got people from like France and ship Oregon, Australia. 161 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 5: They was like California. That was because I guess they 162 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 5: were probably asking people like where y'all from? You know, 163 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 5: how did you even find this place? 164 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 6: And you know, people was telling us whereever coming where 165 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 6: they was coming from and what I didn't We talked 166 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 6: about it before, but one. 167 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 5: Dude was like, hey, we got two people actually working. 168 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 6: We did love the show, so we want you to, 169 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 6: you know, sign this paper for them. 170 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 5: And that's the dude that was telling us like, hey, y'all, 171 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 5: people came and they showed out. 172 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 6: And that's one thing that I love about our fans, 173 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 6: like y'all just give us so much energy and so 174 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 6: much love. 175 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 5: Y'all don't know how good it felt. Just me and 176 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 5: Roger look like, hey, dog, we did a show that nigga, Yeah. 177 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 3: How how did you enjoy it? On the other end? 178 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, how did you show? 179 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 3: Hanging out with people? 180 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, coming early to all that good stuff. 181 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 3: I love. 182 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 4: I love the show. 183 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 2: I have to come in early to do queen cameras 184 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 2: makeup and she was looking fly. 185 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 5: I got so, y'all know, I don't know nothing about makeup. 186 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 6: I called Saphora Sophie, So y'all know, I know nothing 187 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 6: about makeup. 188 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 4: But it was wonderful. 189 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 2: To be uh there, to experience your first opening like that. 190 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 2: Your fans are awesome. They just came from everywhere. 191 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 4: That was really really wonderful. So y'all, y'all gotta going on. 192 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:35,199 Speaker 4: And now y'all was on What's that? 193 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 3: You was on Vice TV? Yeah? Yeah, for HBO talking 194 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 3: about Game of Thrones. That was cool. Getting a lot 195 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 3: of like people hitting us up and for opportunities and 196 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 3: stuff coming out of that. So that was cool too. 197 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 3: So yeah, it's blowing up a little bit. 198 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 5: I know we're doing a little something something. 199 00:08:56,640 --> 00:09:00,439 Speaker 3: Cameras in our house and ship. It was crazy, I 200 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:01,959 Speaker 3: tell y'all moving on up. 201 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 5: I likes cameras actions. 202 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,559 Speaker 3: But yeah, it was fun. And then even with that, 203 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 3: you know, like a lot of times when stuff goes 204 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 3: on the internet, you know it's bigger, like YouTube and stuff, 205 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 3: they have a lot of negative comments and stuff. But 206 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 3: even with that, all our fans came through and was 207 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 3: like being real on the comments, and you know, it 208 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 3: was a couple of but hurt white people and shit. 209 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 3: That was like, uh, why do black people need their 210 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:30,680 Speaker 3: own version of Gamer Thrones and shit? And then like 211 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:33,439 Speaker 3: people just be like shut up, like just have fun. 212 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 3: Nobody's talking bad about you. So that was that was 213 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 3: Like I said, it was just cool experience. And you know, 214 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 3: I like doing stuff like that because it's a challenge 215 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:47,439 Speaker 3: to me, you know, because it's something that I wouldn't. 216 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:49,679 Speaker 3: I don't it's not something I really would want to 217 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 3: do necessarily because you know, it's people in your house, 218 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 3: it's cameras, it's going out to the world. You got 219 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 3: all these people that don't really care about you but 220 00:09:57,920 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 3: feel like they need to comment on every little thing 221 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 3: they and that type of stuff. But you know, the 222 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 3: last few years, I've just been like, got to get 223 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:08,440 Speaker 3: out of my comfort zone and and do what's best 224 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 3: for the show, do what's best for the business. And 225 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:14,439 Speaker 3: and then also like sometimes you end up enjoying stuff 226 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 3: and being like okay, like this is cool. So who 227 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 3: knows what to come of it. But if that's all 228 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 3: that comes of it, that's great. And then right, if more, 229 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:23,680 Speaker 3: that's cool too. 230 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 2: So one of my mattresses is, uh, get comfortable being uncomfortable, 231 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 2: because there is where your. 232 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 3: Growth is, right, That's true. Yes, that's what, like I said, 233 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 3: that's something I've really embraced the last few years. And 234 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 3: I mean it's been working for me, you know, so, 235 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:45,560 Speaker 3: and then that's also I was watching uh boss, it's 236 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 3: this Uh it's this documentary on PBS. It's about black 237 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 3: black business and like it goes all the way back 238 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 3: from like like right after slavery when black black people 239 00:10:56,840 --> 00:11:01,079 Speaker 3: started empowering themselves to now and and it's really good. 240 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 3: I'm about halfway through. But they had the woman who 241 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 3: owned I think Kathy Hughes. She owns News one and 242 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 3: Radio one and all that stuff, and she talked about 243 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 3: how like she had to sleep in her radio station 244 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 3: at one point in like a camp, but that made 245 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 3: her innovate and be like radio should be twenty four seven, 246 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:25,079 Speaker 3: Like there's no reason for radio to only be you know, 247 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 3: from this amount of time of the day, and then 248 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 3: the rest of it we don't do anything. But she 249 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 3: also talked about that, like you can be successful and 250 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 3: not lose yourself. And I think those two things are 251 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 3: the two things I think about the time. Is you know, 252 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 3: you gotta be a little bit uncomfortable because that's how 253 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 3: you grow, and then you gotta get you gotta you 254 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:48,839 Speaker 3: don't have to lose yourself to continue to try to 255 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 3: like build, So I think about that. 256 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:54,720 Speaker 6: And also one thing I kind of I think a 257 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 6: good thing about us is like we compliment. 258 00:11:57,280 --> 00:12:00,319 Speaker 5: Each other because, like I said, it's areas. 259 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 6: Where I'm not gonna say Roger shuts down. But my 260 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 6: personality is more of an extrovert, so I'm more, hey, 261 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 6: how you doing, and I'm more apt to say let's 262 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 6: do it, you know type of thing, almost like let's 263 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 6: just jump in and kind of see what happens. And 264 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:22,319 Speaker 6: there has to be a balance there because sometimes Roger 265 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:24,200 Speaker 6: can see things that I can't see, and I can 266 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 6: see things that Roger can't see, So sometimes you get like, hey, 267 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 6: not that end of the pool. Let's push it on 268 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 6: down about three feet. We can do three feet, don't 269 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 6: go five yet, Let's do three because if we can 270 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 6: do three and swamp and float put like this, if 271 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 6: we can you know, float put a little float zone 272 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 6: and you know, if we can bobble. 273 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 4: Around, we're good. 274 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 6: And then what's low to go to five and just 275 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 6: kind of do that versus I'm like, let's go ahead 276 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 6: on the DP. 277 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 5: Can you swear them? 278 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:51,680 Speaker 1: No? 279 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 5: Fuck it, you can't do that. Yeah, And that's what 280 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 5: messes everybody up. 281 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 3: I think also, like I try to look at what 282 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 3: the most realistic outcome is and what's gonna and how 283 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 3: even if that can benefit us, because I think a 284 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:06,559 Speaker 3: lot of times it's just easy for people to believe 285 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 3: in like pie and the sky, like dreams, right, you know, 286 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,079 Speaker 3: it's like there's nothing nothing wrong with dreams, but like 287 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 3: people get tricked and sold impossible things all the time, 288 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 3: and then they get resentful and they get bitter, you know, 289 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 3: And I don't want to ever have to live with 290 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:22,680 Speaker 3: that resent bitterness. So I just believe in very pragmatic 291 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 3: things where I'm like, you know, like with Vice, I 292 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:29,679 Speaker 3: mean the first time they were filming with us. They 293 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 3: did a piece on what does that do? I can't 294 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 3: even quid mills. Oh okay, hold on second, y'all. We 295 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:41,000 Speaker 3: got some technical difficulties with the computer over here. All right, 296 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 3: technical difficulties are over. We're back. We do have our 297 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 3: first question of the show. When were you and your 298 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 3: brother brave enough to cuss in front of your parents 299 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 3: and they were okay with it? It's a good question. 300 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 3: I don't remember. 301 00:13:59,400 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 1: Neither. 302 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 2: I guess I would say as an adult young when 303 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 2: they were young men. Nothing crazy, you know, basic stuff. 304 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:10,439 Speaker 4: That's in the Bible. 305 00:14:12,840 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 3: I think for me, I think it was. I think 306 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 3: it was after I started paying my own rent. I 307 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 3: was like, yeah, I'm this is a different world. Now 308 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 3: I can cuss like it's not like I mean, it's 309 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 3: funny when people talk about cussing from their parents though, 310 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 3: because uh, I know people that are like grown they 311 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 3: still don't. But it's not like I'm walking in and 312 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 3: calling my mom cursewords like it's if it come out 313 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 3: in the conversation. I think that's different. Plus, my parents 314 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 3: have cursed when we was kids. It's not like they 315 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 3: were cursing like gratuitously. But it was basically like these 316 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 3: are grown up words, so you know they could say 317 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 3: and we couldn't. But I don't know. Since I was 318 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 3: a kid, I've been listening to music that had cursing 319 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 3: in it. When you listen to hip hop, you almost 320 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 3: can't avoid it. Even if you buy the like curse 321 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 3: word free versions. It's always some curse words. It slipped 322 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 3: through on the Waldmart thing. And then it's always like 323 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 3: a whack tape. 324 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 5: When it's terrible, it's like a tn T editing. You 325 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 5: might say, you know what, go ahead, he just give 326 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 5: it to me all the way. 327 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I don't know. I think, I don't know. 328 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 3: I just think, Uh, probably the first time my dad 329 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:21,160 Speaker 3: was like, you want a beer? And I was like, oh, 330 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:25,320 Speaker 3: well ship then nigga, Yeah. 331 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 5: Asking me if I want something to drink. I can 332 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 5: drink now I know. 333 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 3: We was on this so uh that's about That's that's 334 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 3: what I remember. So uh, let's see. We do have 335 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 3: articles to talk about. News still happen. Of course, you 336 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:41,120 Speaker 3: listen to the Blackout tips, find some iTunes, stitch of Potomatic, 337 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 3: leave us Firestar reviews. 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All 347 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 3: this stuff is always in the show notes and then 348 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 3: the phone number seven oh four five five to seven 349 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 3: zero one eighty six. Leave voicemails as long as they're 350 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 3: two minutes or less, and we thank everybody for doing that, 351 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 3: and we appreciate the questions from the chat from my 352 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 3: mom as well. Oh ms mart leaves a question the 353 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 3: official Detroit person of the show for mom, has parenting 354 00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 3: changed from when you raise your kids to how you 355 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 3: see parents raise kids now? 356 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 4: M interesting? 357 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 2: I think so, But it's really difficult to tell a 358 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 2: person how the parents because it's such a great area. 359 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 4: It's things I feel that some. 360 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 2: Parents may change from the way they were parented and 361 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 2: hopefully positive way. What I try to do is, if 362 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 2: I'm asked, it's to praise it in a way that 363 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 2: it's a positive, helpful comment. 364 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 4: That's what I try to do. 365 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think when we were kids, everybody got whoopings. 366 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:25,119 Speaker 3: Like I don't think I knew anybody didn't get whoopings 367 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 3: when I was a kid, Like in my old neighborhood, 368 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 3: Like it would have been some weirdo shit, like if 369 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 3: one of us would have been like, uh nah, man, 370 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 3: y'all get whoopings? What, Like everybody was like, man, be careful, 371 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 3: you're gonna get a whooping, you know. I mean that 372 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 3: at that point, not that in our neighborhood. It wasn't 373 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:47,399 Speaker 3: like because our family wasn't like the most outgoing family 374 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:50,199 Speaker 3: in the neighborhood. Like it wasn't like other parents that 375 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 3: felt comfortable like like whopping or threatening us or whatever. 376 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 3: But you know some people, I mean they like anybody 377 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 3: on this block, Like if I fucking see this kid 378 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 3: doing something bad, I would whoop their ass, you know, 379 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:06,360 Speaker 3: and like uh like and like my my friend Damien 380 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 3: at the time, like his daddy was just like legit 381 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 3: scary to me, Like he had a Jerry Carl Corvett, Yeah, 382 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:14,639 Speaker 3: like pouring in his house and ship. Like I was 383 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:17,000 Speaker 3: just like I Like, he had a sign that said 384 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 3: don't be weare of the dog you need beware of. 385 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:20,399 Speaker 3: It's forty four and there was like a big ass 386 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:24,199 Speaker 3: gun on the sign. So, like you know, different parents. 387 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 3: Was was different to kids and then some like also 388 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:31,200 Speaker 3: in my neighborhood, Like some people, parents was like, if 389 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 3: you get in a fight, you better not lose the fight. 390 00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 3: And they used to say it out the time, like 391 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 3: I whoop your ass and you get home if you 392 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 3: get your ass whoop. And my dad was an exact opposite. 393 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 3: He was like, don't be fighting, and if I find 394 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:45,720 Speaker 3: out you fighting, you better have a good reason. You 395 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:48,159 Speaker 3: can defend yourself, but you need to. You gonna have 396 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:52,199 Speaker 3: to come home and answer all these questions about what happened, right, 397 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:55,840 Speaker 3: And it was not a high likelihood of being able 398 00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 3: to answer them questions because because because it was the 399 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 3: odds are there's so few situations where you truly had 400 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 3: to defend yourself. It's almost always you just got fed 401 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:05,639 Speaker 3: up and wanted to fight somebody. 402 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:08,919 Speaker 6: Correct, because at the end of the day, your daddy 403 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:10,639 Speaker 6: was gonna be the one with a dead child or 404 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 6: child in jail. 405 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:14,159 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, like people don't really think about. 406 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 6: People that pushed that that type of philosophy, It's like, okay, 407 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 6: you put them out there, then they die, You're gonna 408 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 6: be the one crying and burying your child. 409 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:24,119 Speaker 3: And we was kind of some soft boys compared to 410 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:28,119 Speaker 3: some other kids upbringings, Like they had really rough upbringings 411 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 3: compared to us. And you just don't know what they're 412 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 3: gonna do because they don't value you, and they don't 413 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 3: value themselves the way that you value yourself so or 414 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:39,200 Speaker 3: the way that you just value life, you know. So 415 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 3: like I remember one time my brother got in a 416 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 3: fight and got his eyebrow eyelash cut by a kid 417 00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 3: who had a razor blade. Like me and my brother 418 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:49,119 Speaker 3: don't know nothing about that shit, like walk around with 419 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:51,720 Speaker 3: razor blades, Like that was a foreign concept to us, 420 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 3: Like yo, what was that? 421 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 7: You know? 422 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:57,320 Speaker 3: So it just I think for us anyway, it was 423 00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 3: just a very like, uh different upbringing. Then now look 424 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 3: at people, especially through online, you know, people have more 425 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 3: access to like educational resources, therapy books, like just a 426 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 3: lot more stuff now fit with YouTube, social media, like 427 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 3: there's so many more resources to learn about parenting. So 428 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:24,320 Speaker 3: I think people now are more like Gung ho to 429 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 3: be like, no, you talk to your kid a certain way. 430 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 3: Your punishment you need to limit them to maybe like 431 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:36,879 Speaker 3: time out, taking away privileges, you know, grinding, grounding, you know, 432 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 3: stuff like that, which we did as we had as well. 433 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:42,200 Speaker 3: But yeah, you see that more now. You did see 434 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 3: that when I was growing up that much, that would 435 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:45,960 Speaker 3: have been a kind of weird concept. And that's really 436 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:48,359 Speaker 3: how it should be if you ever. I watched the 437 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:51,520 Speaker 3: document here a long time ago about children in America 438 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 3: through like the centuries and the way they used to 439 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 3: punish kids. I mean it was medieval like literally like 440 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 3: they would they had like earn tools they beat kids 441 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:05,119 Speaker 3: with and are still brushes, and they would wart like 442 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:07,880 Speaker 3: they would burn kids and ship and it's like it's 443 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:10,960 Speaker 3: such a foreign concept now to think about that, but 444 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 3: that you know, that was in America not that long ago. 445 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:19,440 Speaker 3: So hopefully it does keep developing because now when you see, 446 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:22,119 Speaker 3: like I think Adrian Peterson, the NFL player, got in 447 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 3: trouble for hitting his head. This new dude, Tyreek Hill, 448 00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 3: he's in trouble for hitting his kid, even like his 449 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 3: kid had a broken arm. But even before that, he's 450 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:39,680 Speaker 3: on the phone. He's recorded on a conversation saying he 451 00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:41,400 Speaker 3: would hit his son in the chest and his son's 452 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 3: only three years old. 453 00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:42,920 Speaker 4: Oh my god. 454 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:45,479 Speaker 3: Right, and he was saying it like it was normal, 455 00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 3: like yeah, like everybody do this. And I think it's 456 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:51,640 Speaker 3: changing to where people are like, nah, that you can't 457 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 3: do that, that's abuse and all that stuff, and I 458 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:57,000 Speaker 3: think it's I think it's for the better, yep. 459 00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:59,879 Speaker 4: And I want to follow. 460 00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 2: Rodney and Robert never got that many whippings, right. We 461 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:09,480 Speaker 2: were more of the belief where you talk about it, 462 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 2: you think about what you did, and you have to. 463 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 4: Come up with a way. 464 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 2: To resolve the issue out of challenge your hand that's 465 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 2: gonna be beneficial to yourself and to. 466 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:23,679 Speaker 4: The other person. 467 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:28,399 Speaker 2: And if you followed those steps, and if that didn't work, 468 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 2: then they could follow coming to us to help go. 469 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:35,959 Speaker 4: To another process to get the issue resolved. But they 470 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 4: didn't get that many whippings. 471 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:39,879 Speaker 3: Yeah. I just remember when I did. I remember the 472 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 3: day I decided not to get no more like So 473 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 3: it wasn't like I just was like I was getting 474 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 3: I got a whipping by my dad. I can't remember 475 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 3: what age it was, but it was just I remember 476 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 3: being mad at myself like, I am too old for this. 477 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:54,000 Speaker 3: This is ridiculous. And that was the last time I 478 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:56,000 Speaker 3: got a little bit because I was like, I'm just 479 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 3: gonna not do the shit that I was doing. I 480 00:22:57,680 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 3: can't even remember what it was. It was just something. 481 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 3: I was like, this is so stupid, What a dumb 482 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,040 Speaker 3: reason to get a whooping. But it was. But yeah, 483 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:06,040 Speaker 3: my Like that's one of the things too, that was 484 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:08,880 Speaker 3: different in our house, I think anyway, from a lot 485 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:11,120 Speaker 3: of the people I grew up with, Like I knew 486 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,639 Speaker 3: a kid he got beat with like extension cars and 487 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 3: fucking race card tracks and ship and and he thought 488 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,639 Speaker 3: that was normal, you know, because I think whatever happens 489 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:22,119 Speaker 3: to you in your house, you're gonna think is normal, correct, 490 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:24,639 Speaker 3: which is why it's hard to break that cycle for 491 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:28,200 Speaker 3: a lot of people. But I was like, nigga, that's crazy, 492 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,359 Speaker 3: Like your mom be hearing you extension cords. He's like, 493 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 3: I mean, if yeah, I'll do something. And the other 494 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,680 Speaker 3: thing was my dad and my mom will always talk. 495 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,520 Speaker 5: To us, so like parents don't do. 496 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:42,120 Speaker 3: I never got punished without knowing what I did wrong. 497 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:46,000 Speaker 3: You know. Women was never the first resort, Like I 498 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 3: never just like was you know, living under terror some ship. 499 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 3: Well I just like walking in the house and it 500 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 3: was getting whooped some shit like, but it was you know, 501 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,240 Speaker 3: and and yeah it was. We definitely had multiple chances 502 00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:00,159 Speaker 3: and expired a lot of them until it was no 503 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 3: other choice or whatever. But I do think that that's 504 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 3: just changed on people. You know, you see a lot 505 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 3: less of that now. I think. 506 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,880 Speaker 6: I think that, in my opinion, the biggest reason why 507 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:14,880 Speaker 6: that has changed is because now people are actually into studies. 508 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:17,479 Speaker 6: Like I know, studies get on people nerves, but I 509 00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 6: think the studies do matter, Like they've done studies that 510 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,439 Speaker 6: says that a if you're living in a household and 511 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:27,200 Speaker 6: your parents are stressed and they're dealing with financial situations 512 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 6: and all that stuff, that stress and anxiety falls. 513 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 5: Over to the children. The children feel it too. 514 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:38,680 Speaker 6: And I think you have a lot of parents who 515 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 6: have not been taught how to deal with anger, how 516 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:44,800 Speaker 6: to deal with the world, like they just have not 517 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:45,439 Speaker 6: been taught. 518 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:48,520 Speaker 5: And I think that. 519 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,119 Speaker 6: A lot more people, in my opinion, are starting to 520 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:56,640 Speaker 6: have more patience with children. Children are little people, and 521 00:24:56,680 --> 00:25:00,800 Speaker 6: a lot of times people treat children like they're they're 522 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,199 Speaker 6: cats a shit like that, Like you do what I 523 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 6: say do they're a child, They're a person there, a 524 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 6: human being, they're individual. 525 00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 5: You cannot make a child just do what you want 526 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 5: them to do. 527 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 3: Also, we're learning what doesn't work correct, Like that's one 528 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,399 Speaker 3: of the reasons I really like those the documentaries on 529 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 3: that I've been watching on PBS is that you're seeing 530 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:23,960 Speaker 3: that this is how people cope back then and then 531 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 3: especially in black people in America. We came from slavery here, 532 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 3: which is the institution that's founded on fear, right, and 533 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:35,440 Speaker 3: then once you defeat slavery, you still have to deal 534 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:39,199 Speaker 3: with you know, the Jim Crow South, You still have 535 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,679 Speaker 3: to deal with redlining, you still have to deal with 536 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:45,399 Speaker 3: these lynch mobs, the police, clue clubs, clan massive conservation. 537 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 3: So we have always been taught fear and terror is 538 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,240 Speaker 3: how you keep people in line because it's what was it, 539 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,919 Speaker 3: what happened to us, and you can't erase that. Like 540 00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 3: I think when people try to just be like so uh, 541 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,400 Speaker 3: like they want to admonish black people so bad, it's 542 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:05,120 Speaker 3: like like it came out of nowhere, Like black people 543 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:08,760 Speaker 3: just start hitting their kids and shit, like one, we're 544 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 3: not the only ones. But then two you have to 545 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,120 Speaker 3: know that a lot of this is the psychological effects 546 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:19,119 Speaker 3: of post Slavery traumatic syndrome essentially, so and then the 547 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 3: high wire act that is black life. One fucking misstep 548 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 3: in your kid is in prison and shit. And I 549 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 3: think it took a long time because you didn't have 550 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:30,640 Speaker 3: a data until now to see, well, you know what, 551 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,080 Speaker 3: you can't beat your kid out of prison anyway, no, 552 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:37,359 Speaker 3: Like it feels like you could, but the motherfucking cops 553 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,879 Speaker 3: don't care, Like, like the policism don't care. They don't 554 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:42,400 Speaker 3: like you go, I'll hit you. So the cops don't 555 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:44,280 Speaker 3: hit you. The costs will hit your kid anyway. So 556 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,439 Speaker 3: I think it's taking people now having more education, like 557 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 3: people becoming more doctors, having more data to study, years 558 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 3: of research to be like, oh this doesn't work, Let's 559 00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:56,200 Speaker 3: see if we can try some other things. And then 560 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 3: also the psychological damage we do to each other, because 561 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 3: you know, you want your kid to grow up and 562 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:04,719 Speaker 3: be healthy and be like empowered, you know, like one 563 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:06,880 Speaker 3: of the things I love about our niece is that 564 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 3: she'll tell you no to some shit, and I love it, Like, 565 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,639 Speaker 3: I know a lot of a lot of people hate 566 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 3: you know that kids need to just do what I like. 567 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:16,919 Speaker 3: I love when she's like, now I don't feel like 568 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:19,600 Speaker 3: taking this picture. Now, I don't feel like I don't 569 00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:20,800 Speaker 3: want to do that, I want to do something else. 570 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 3: I'm like, all right, cool, let's do that. Like like 571 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:26,200 Speaker 3: she should have some autonomy and some power over herself, 572 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:28,880 Speaker 3: and you just can't. Like a lot of times black 573 00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 3: people feel like they have it beaten out of them, 574 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:30,800 Speaker 3: you know. 575 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:35,840 Speaker 5: And also it's really upon a white supremacy, right. 576 00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 2: The way that slavery was implemented. How they're use beating 577 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:47,359 Speaker 2: in torture to repress and suppress the people who watched 578 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 2: what they were doing to the one being beaten, right, 579 00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:53,800 Speaker 2: And it's. 580 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:54,800 Speaker 4: Just just a carryover from that. 581 00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 2: And just thank god that now we do have more 582 00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:03,480 Speaker 2: options about how to parent and the knowledge the books 583 00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:09,480 Speaker 2: you have to seek, ask questions, see how different ways 584 00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:14,440 Speaker 2: of punishing your child, because in punishing you also want 585 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 2: to be able to give them strength and to make 586 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 2: better choices and to ask why did they do that? 587 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 2: Because there's always the reason as to why. And hopefully 588 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:26,800 Speaker 2: the one thing about being the parent is you want 589 00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,480 Speaker 2: your kids to be able to talk to you, at 590 00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,879 Speaker 2: least let them know they can talk to you, and 591 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 2: if they choose not to, it's their choice. 592 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 4: But be open to it. 593 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 3: And nobody want to talk to you if they just 594 00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 3: scare you all the time, right, that's not good. 595 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 4: Fear's not good. 596 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 5: Correct. 597 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 6: And also you're you're you're also dealing with generations of 598 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 6: people where like you say, you have these ramifications of 599 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 6: slavery and then you have people changing and for a 600 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,440 Speaker 6: lot of black peop before years and I've heard it 601 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 6: and still here to today, that's the white people shit 602 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,840 Speaker 6: like therapy time out, Like they'd be the first one 603 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 6: to tell you, like, oh, we don't do that to 604 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 6: a KI. That's a white people shit. 605 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:10,480 Speaker 4: You know. 606 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,480 Speaker 3: What's interesting though, is a lot of like most of 607 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,320 Speaker 3: the states still have hitting your head on the law 608 00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 3: on the books like that it's legal, right, like, so 609 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:21,640 Speaker 3: this has been a societal change, but not like legally 610 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 3: like it's been more of a like it's almost like 611 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 3: a luxury to be able to get to a point 612 00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 3: where you can meet your if y'all know the theory 613 00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,560 Speaker 3: of mass level's hierarchy of needs, where you can meet 614 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,400 Speaker 3: those needs at the bottom of the pyramids, so you 615 00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,280 Speaker 3: can get to all this intellectual shit at the top 616 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 3: where you're like, and maybe it's time to talk to kids, 617 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:39,959 Speaker 3: like when you working two jobs and you don't got 618 00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 3: all that time, like a woman is a shortcut, Like 619 00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:45,520 Speaker 3: it's like listen, I really like and I know on 620 00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 3: paper how people think things should happen and all this stuff, 621 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:52,080 Speaker 3: But I like, I always try to be a little 622 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 3: bit understanding of parents, especially being that we weren't one. 623 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 3: It's the fact that you know, a lot of shit 624 00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:02,360 Speaker 3: is easier on Twitter or Facebook than it is in 625 00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:06,200 Speaker 3: real practical life, right. And sometimes also parents are learning 626 00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 3: and they fall short, and you know, parents make mistakes too, Like, 627 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,640 Speaker 3: especially when you get older and you get to the 628 00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:15,080 Speaker 3: age where your parents were and stuff, you start thinking like, damn, 629 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 3: I don't like, I don't got it all figured out. 630 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 3: I don't know how sols to tell somebody else how 631 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,200 Speaker 3: to figure it out either. So I re got one 632 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 3: more question as a grandmother, how do you stay positive 633 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,480 Speaker 3: about the future. I worry about my granddaughter all the time. 634 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 3: I think more than I did about my kids. Just 635 00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 3: from the mail, lady, how do you feel about that 636 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,280 Speaker 3: with mom? 637 00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:43,480 Speaker 2: It's scary because now we have social media. 638 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:41,800 Speaker 4: Along with. 639 00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:48,960 Speaker 2: Drugs all over the place, our kids go to school. 640 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,840 Speaker 2: They're going to school with all types of children, from 641 00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:59,240 Speaker 2: all different types of parenting rules, from different people households, 642 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:02,480 Speaker 2: and it just gets a little tricky, and it's it 643 00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 2: is scary. But I go back to this, we have 644 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 2: to keep the lines of communication open to talk about 645 00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:15,640 Speaker 2: anything without making our kids afraid, are shaming them or 646 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:21,320 Speaker 2: anything like that. Some of the conversation is uncomfortable, but 647 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 2: as I said, you have to become comfortable being uncomfortable, 648 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:28,400 Speaker 2: and they have to seek out answers to help your 649 00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:32,360 Speaker 2: children as well as yourself and just just. 650 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:33,360 Speaker 4: Try to stay involved. 651 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:39,479 Speaker 2: I volunteer a lot with my granddaughter's school, so therefore 652 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:42,040 Speaker 2: they see my face when I into the office. 653 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 1: Let me we all live inside a bubble. 654 00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:45,840 Speaker 3: Right, agreed. 655 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, So volunteering to me as a grandmother and 656 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,760 Speaker 2: as a parent as much as possible go there. Better 657 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:58,240 Speaker 2: let them see your face, let them know, Hey, that's 658 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:01,920 Speaker 2: so and so scrunch out that and so, hey, I. 659 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 4: Can reach out to them. 660 00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:07,360 Speaker 2: They would be receptive to what I see, and I 661 00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 2: wanted to make them aware of because it takes a village. 662 00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 2: It takes a village, and especially the older they get 663 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,920 Speaker 2: it takes a village. So we all got help one another. 664 00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 2: And I think if we can continue doing that, because 665 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:25,400 Speaker 2: that never goes out of style. We have to continue 666 00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:28,480 Speaker 2: being involved, being involved in school. 667 00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:32,040 Speaker 4: The children like that. That's what I. 668 00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:33,959 Speaker 3: Think cool, all right? 669 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:36,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, And also I think for me something to piggyback 670 00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 5: on what you say to educate you know yourself. 671 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:45,720 Speaker 6: As far as being open and being willing to talk 672 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:49,320 Speaker 6: to your child about anything as somebody's and I love 673 00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 6: my mama, but as somebody who is a child of 674 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:57,480 Speaker 6: somebody who really didn't feel that way, it can be 675 00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:00,160 Speaker 6: devastating and get your break bonds and relationships. Betwe when 676 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,000 Speaker 6: you're and your child that sometimes I never prepared. Parents 677 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:07,560 Speaker 6: don't realize that, you know, because everything includes sex. Like 678 00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:09,640 Speaker 6: a lot of parents would be like, oh, you're talking 679 00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:11,920 Speaker 6: about anything, but you really don't mean that. And the 680 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:14,960 Speaker 6: children are not stupid. They can pick up on how 681 00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,560 Speaker 6: you talk about sex, how you talk about your partner, 682 00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:20,680 Speaker 6: how you talk about other family members. 683 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 5: You know, kids pick up on slang and cold words. 684 00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,239 Speaker 6: They might not understand what these things mean, but they 685 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:26,360 Speaker 6: know when you use certain words. 686 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:27,000 Speaker 5: They pick up on. 687 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 6: Your tone and how you say it, and the negative 688 00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:33,000 Speaker 6: connotation that you put behind in on the emphasis when 689 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:33,960 Speaker 6: you say these things. 690 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,760 Speaker 5: So I think parents. 691 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:40,440 Speaker 6: Underestimate you know, and then you break these bonds with 692 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:42,680 Speaker 6: your children when they're small because they come to you, 693 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,480 Speaker 6: not even about sex, but about simple stuff, and you 694 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 6: dismiss them and you push them away. 695 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:50,320 Speaker 5: You don't have time once that trust is broken. 696 00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:52,200 Speaker 6: You can never get that trust back in the wrong 697 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,960 Speaker 6: time to come and talk to your child about something 698 00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:56,960 Speaker 6: or want to open up the lines of communication is 699 00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,120 Speaker 6: when they're getting a teenager age is actually when they. 700 00:33:58,960 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 5: Need you the most. 701 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 6: That's when they actually need you the most to guide them. 702 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,480 Speaker 6: But if you break that blond out a very early age, 703 00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,800 Speaker 6: it's really hard. They're definitely not gonna talk to you. 704 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:10,279 Speaker 6: When they get to the age of trying to find 705 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,960 Speaker 6: themselves and trying to figure stuff out, they're gonna seek 706 00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,279 Speaker 6: help because that's what children do. And you're not gonna 707 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,360 Speaker 6: like the consequences of the repercussions of the help that 708 00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,080 Speaker 6: they seek because a lot of times it's not coming 709 00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:21,680 Speaker 6: from you, which should be the best source. But also 710 00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:23,760 Speaker 6: I think for a lot of parents that don't educate 711 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:27,040 Speaker 6: themselves on sex and sexuality and how to talk to children. 712 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:29,319 Speaker 6: They don't give them books at an early age, but I, hey, 713 00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:31,120 Speaker 6: just read this. You have any questions, come and talk 714 00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:34,040 Speaker 6: to me. Like you said, they're now, they are uncomfortable 715 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 6: with sexuality and sex themselves. A lot of people like 716 00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:39,560 Speaker 6: like they're going through their own struggles with that. So 717 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,279 Speaker 6: if I'm not comfortable and my sexuality and who I 718 00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,520 Speaker 6: am as an individual person, it's very hard for me 719 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 6: to help you grow into whatever your sexuality is for 720 00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,360 Speaker 6: you what, I'm not even comfortable with my own whatever 721 00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:52,879 Speaker 6: that may be. 722 00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's kind of like Curry said when they asked 723 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:59,360 Speaker 3: her about her relationship with Steph and she was like, 724 00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 3: I make sure that we are taking care of first, 725 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:03,440 Speaker 3: and then we take care of the kids. And it 726 00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:06,279 Speaker 3: seems counterintuitive because everybody's always like your kids should be 727 00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,280 Speaker 3: number one. But she's like, how I'm gonna be anything 728 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,560 Speaker 3: for my kid if I'm messed up, Like, I gotta like, 729 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,400 Speaker 3: I gotta meet those needs because like you said, if 730 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:16,160 Speaker 3: you have hang ups, you're gonna pass them on to 731 00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 3: your kids. And you know, you see it all the 732 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 3: time where you're like, oh, their mom has an issue 733 00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:23,680 Speaker 3: with this, so this this this kid has an issue 734 00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 3: with this their dad has an issue with this, This 735 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:27,920 Speaker 3: kid has an issue with this, Like you see it 736 00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 3: all the time, and it's it's you know, it's just 737 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:31,400 Speaker 3: hard to break those cycles. 738 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,319 Speaker 6: Yeah, that the generational thing is real, Like I think, 739 00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:35,560 Speaker 6: I don't think a lot of a lot of people 740 00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:39,319 Speaker 6: underestimate generational stuff like That's that stuff has kind of 741 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,239 Speaker 6: passed down from generation generation and a lot of times 742 00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:46,799 Speaker 6: it takes somebody breaking those those generational. 743 00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:48,879 Speaker 5: Curses quote unquote, perche just be like, look the bus 744 00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:49,439 Speaker 5: stops here. 745 00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:52,719 Speaker 6: I understand that y'all didn't like this, but I am 746 00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,520 Speaker 6: choosing to go in a different direction, and go in 747 00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:58,279 Speaker 6: that different direction and be comfortable with going in that 748 00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:01,680 Speaker 6: different direction. And I think a lot of times when 749 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,640 Speaker 6: you break away from the pack on how things or 750 00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 6: traditions are with family, a lot of people it's gonna 751 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,160 Speaker 6: take a long time for them to accept you. And 752 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:11,200 Speaker 6: for some people, they're not gonna sell you. And some 753 00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:13,719 Speaker 6: of your family members may cut you off and won't 754 00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 6: have anything to do with you. But that is the 755 00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,320 Speaker 6: choice sometimes that you have to make for the betterment 756 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:21,360 Speaker 6: of you and your family. 757 00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:22,360 Speaker 5: Like you, I love. 758 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:27,840 Speaker 6: Y'all, but these things aren't productive. These things don't benefit me, 759 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,280 Speaker 6: they don't edify me, they don't make me a better 760 00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:33,600 Speaker 6: individual person, whatever these things are. And I think sometimes 761 00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 6: people don't want to be separated from the pack. They 762 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:39,080 Speaker 6: don't want to be isolated. They don't want to, you know, 763 00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,279 Speaker 6: have to deal with being ostracized sometimes from your family 764 00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:44,000 Speaker 6: mins And it ain't got to be big things. It 765 00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,920 Speaker 6: could be small things within the family and people look 766 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:48,759 Speaker 6: at you like something's wrong with you because you're not 767 00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:51,440 Speaker 6: doing this tradition that we have always done, whatever that 768 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:52,239 Speaker 6: tradition may be. 769 00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:56,920 Speaker 3: And especially I think it's hard for black parents because 770 00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,399 Speaker 3: y'all always balance that line between them, like I want 771 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,600 Speaker 3: my kid to be a kid, but then at the 772 00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 3: same time, when do I make them aware of how 773 00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:07,440 Speaker 3: dangerous this world is to them? 774 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:11,839 Speaker 2: That's very true because society doesn't see you all as 775 00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:15,759 Speaker 2: we see you all, as our children, and they make 776 00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:19,239 Speaker 2: sure they let you know right they don't see you 777 00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:20,239 Speaker 2: as we see them. 778 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:23,600 Speaker 3: I mean, when I was at Rodney's Rodney's basketball game, 779 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,040 Speaker 3: well he was in uh, he was still we were 780 00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:30,880 Speaker 3: still in wreck basketball and uh, the assistant coach for 781 00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:33,280 Speaker 3: one of the kids to decide this kid nain't Lester's 782 00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:36,239 Speaker 3: big kid, and he was like, Lester, I want you 783 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:38,480 Speaker 3: to get up there and put your big black hands up. 784 00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:41,880 Speaker 3: And he's scared of They're scared of Lester and scared 785 00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:43,879 Speaker 3: that know they're not gonna be able to score little 786 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:45,719 Speaker 3: white boys, They're not gonna be able to score. And 787 00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:48,319 Speaker 3: see those big black hands. And I was over there, 788 00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:50,359 Speaker 3: like to the corner, because he had pulled onto the corner. 789 00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,000 Speaker 3: I just happened to be sitting on that part of 790 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 3: the bench because I was sitting away from everybody, and 791 00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,960 Speaker 3: I was like, what the hell is this man talking about? 792 00:37:57,000 --> 00:38:01,120 Speaker 3: But like that means that's how that coach slides, that's 793 00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,960 Speaker 3: how he assumed. Every other white kid saw Leicester. Yes, 794 00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:06,759 Speaker 3: Lester out. And the thing that made me think was 795 00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:08,359 Speaker 3: this is the first time. This might be the first 796 00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:12,040 Speaker 3: time Lester is hearing. He's scary by nature just being 797 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:16,240 Speaker 3: a big black head, you know, Like what a fucking 798 00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 3: wake up call, you know, like you're dangerous now get 799 00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:23,319 Speaker 3: out there and scared on white people? Like what? All right? 800 00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,200 Speaker 3: Seeking of advice, I'll tell you guys who have some 801 00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:30,120 Speaker 3: good advice. Peve Harvey, he is giving advice again, this 802 00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:33,759 Speaker 3: time about getting rich. Last time, I think it's talking 803 00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,480 Speaker 3: about Nick. He said the best thing you do for 804 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:37,799 Speaker 3: poor people is not be one of them. So now 805 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:43,040 Speaker 3: he's back. Let me turn this volume up, all right, obo. 806 00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:46,399 Speaker 1: Right, this is our world. We go to church here, 807 00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:49,919 Speaker 1: we work over here, we go get our coffee over here, 808 00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:53,040 Speaker 1: we go to this park over here. We usually go 809 00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:56,799 Speaker 1: over here to you know, hang out with friends. This 810 00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:59,719 Speaker 1: is our favorite club. This is our world. This is 811 00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:02,880 Speaker 1: our spot on the beach. We all live in this bubble. 812 00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:05,640 Speaker 1: What you gotta do to get the life that God 813 00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,120 Speaker 1: wants you to have, you gotta put more air in 814 00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:11,239 Speaker 1: your bubble. You got to blow your bubble up. 815 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,759 Speaker 3: Okay, so like you gotta Okay, I feel Steve, he's 816 00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,120 Speaker 3: basically saying, we gotta get out of our comfort zone. 817 00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,799 Speaker 3: That's what we started to show off saying, you know 818 00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:24,400 Speaker 3: so uh, I mean that's a reasonable thing, and the 819 00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:26,799 Speaker 3: person is successful. Steve Harvey's probably had to get out 820 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:30,200 Speaker 3: of his comfort zone, uh in order to do what 821 00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:32,920 Speaker 3: he does. So I mean I can kind of kind 822 00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:34,799 Speaker 3: of relate to that. So far, so good. I mean, 823 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:40,840 Speaker 3: thirty seconds into it, Karen, I'm fine with that, Okay, mam. 824 00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:44,080 Speaker 3: I'm still thinking, Okay, gotta get some air in your 825 00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:45,120 Speaker 3: bubble over there. 826 00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:50,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, and uh cause Steve Harvey, Steve so problematic. 827 00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:54,120 Speaker 3: Waiting for the twist to come. All right, yep, I 828 00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 3: know you're telling Monique to just you know, you gotta 829 00:39:56,640 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 3: gotta swallow your pride to tap there in some days. Yeah. 830 00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:02,680 Speaker 3: Oh wait, why did it stop playing? 831 00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:03,360 Speaker 1: Oh? 832 00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:06,640 Speaker 3: I shouldn't depose it. That's on me. Computer was like, well, 833 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:07,920 Speaker 3: I guess you don't want to hear the rest of this. 834 00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,960 Speaker 5: Say your little mouse is look crows, it's moving now. 835 00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:15,240 Speaker 3: But now the videos now loading. 836 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:20,120 Speaker 1: Expand yourself. Take yourself out your comfort zone. Do not 837 00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:23,360 Speaker 1: live in your bubble. Put some more air in your bubble. 838 00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:26,440 Speaker 1: If you stay in your comfort zone, that's why you 839 00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:30,879 Speaker 1: will fail. You will fail in your comfort zone. Success 840 00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:35,040 Speaker 1: is not a comfortable procedure. It is a very uncomfortable 841 00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:38,160 Speaker 1: thing to tell me. So you gotta get comfortable being 842 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:44,520 Speaker 1: uncomfortable if you ever want to be successful. Start putting 843 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:45,880 Speaker 1: some pressure. 844 00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:52,160 Speaker 3: On put start adding buttons to your soups. Okay, two 845 00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:53,600 Speaker 3: buttons on the suit jagged No. 846 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,879 Speaker 6: Seven eighteen, that will add pressure to your You got 847 00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,680 Speaker 6: to be uncomfortable with the number of buttons on the suits. 848 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:04,760 Speaker 2: You need a nasty coat jacket, so you can fall 849 00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:05,680 Speaker 2: over yourself. 850 00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,680 Speaker 5: Buttons down to the flower and let bubble catch you. 851 00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,719 Speaker 3: Go down to KG and get the biggest college you 852 00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:13,320 Speaker 3: can find. 853 00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:15,520 Speaker 5: They will hook you up. 854 00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:23,440 Speaker 3: Tell us Steve sent you, put some more buttons in 855 00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:26,520 Speaker 3: your bubbles. 856 00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:28,839 Speaker 4: I can't, I can't. 857 00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:34,120 Speaker 3: He's just trying to help. He's a successful man. Yeah's 858 00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:36,760 Speaker 3: clothing line TV shows. 859 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,839 Speaker 1: Let me show you this. We all live inside the bubble, right, 860 00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:43,839 Speaker 1: this is our world. We go to church here, we 861 00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:46,799 Speaker 1: work over here, we go get our coffee over here, 862 00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:49,719 Speaker 1: We go to this park over here. We usually go 863 00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:53,440 Speaker 1: over here to you know, hang out with friends. This 864 00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:56,400 Speaker 1: is our favorite club. This is our world. This is 865 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,960 Speaker 1: our favorite spot on the beach. We all live in 866 00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,600 Speaker 1: this bubble. What you gotta do to get the life 867 00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:02,560 Speaker 1: to God wants. 868 00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:02,719 Speaker 4: You to have. 869 00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:06,399 Speaker 1: You gotta put more air in your bubble. You got 870 00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:11,239 Speaker 1: to blow your bubble up, expand yourself, take yourself out 871 00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:14,640 Speaker 1: your comfort zone. Do not live in your bubble. Put 872 00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,440 Speaker 1: some more air in your bubble. If you stay in 873 00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,880 Speaker 1: your comfort zone, that's where you will fail. 874 00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:23,560 Speaker 3: You already say this, you will fail. Way Oh the 875 00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:27,000 Speaker 3: video started over we started. Yeah, I was like man, 876 00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:29,000 Speaker 3: I swear this at this part already. 877 00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:30,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, we don't want to hear that again. 878 00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:35,520 Speaker 3: They fast forward to some other stuff. Let me see. Okay, 879 00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:38,279 Speaker 3: Twitter just don't want to cooperate right now. I think 880 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:40,160 Speaker 3: every time I touched this video is gonna start over. 881 00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:45,120 Speaker 3: You know, I'll just read his quotes then since it's 882 00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:50,080 Speaker 3: uh not working. So we also went on. 883 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:52,760 Speaker 1: To success is not a comfortable procedure. 884 00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:57,920 Speaker 3: The hell, what what is going on your Twitter video? 885 00:42:58,160 --> 00:42:59,680 Speaker 3: And then what is happening to this? 886 00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:01,560 Speaker 4: I saying it ain't no YouTube? 887 00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:08,160 Speaker 3: I know you too is better than Twitter, it seems. Yeah, 888 00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:10,040 Speaker 3: I'm still can watch it at Steve Harvey dot com, 889 00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:13,719 Speaker 3: which I'm not gonna go, but yeah. He went on 890 00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:16,720 Speaker 3: to also talk about rich people and sleeping. 891 00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:22,799 Speaker 1: He said, putting some pressure on, put some on yourself. 892 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:24,160 Speaker 3: Okay, get out here and. 893 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:27,160 Speaker 1: Get about it. Look, I love to sugarcoat this thing 894 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:28,799 Speaker 1: for you. I love to tell you. Look, you can 895 00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:30,600 Speaker 1: go out here and get rich, do a couple of 896 00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:36,000 Speaker 1: things that ain't happening. You gotta get real doggish, You 897 00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:39,080 Speaker 1: gotta get downright folk. If you want to make it now, 898 00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:40,520 Speaker 1: like I was telling you before, if you want to 899 00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:43,440 Speaker 1: be ordinary, you ain't even gotta listen to me, Just 900 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:46,880 Speaker 1: go on about your business. If you think ordinary is cool, 901 00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:51,960 Speaker 1: ain't no problem. It's some really, really wonderful ordinary people. 902 00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,400 Speaker 1: But if you are sitting in this room and you 903 00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:58,120 Speaker 1: have extraordinary aspirations, then you're gonna have to do extra 904 00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:04,000 Speaker 1: You put extra on top of extra ordinary, and you 905 00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:10,440 Speaker 1: come up with extraordinary. It's no other way. I'm sorry, 906 00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:14,560 Speaker 1: but here's the fact. All of you have extraordinary capabilities. 907 00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:18,560 Speaker 1: All of you. You have to decide if you are 908 00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:22,919 Speaker 1: willing to do the things to put you at category rich. 909 00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:26,520 Speaker 1: People don't sleep eight hours a day. Death art of 910 00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:28,799 Speaker 1: your life it at twenty four hours in a day. 911 00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 1: You cannot be sleep eight hours a day. You can't 912 00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:33,640 Speaker 1: live in la and wake up at eight o'clock in 913 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:36,600 Speaker 1: the morning. It's eleven o'clock on the East coast. The 914 00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:37,600 Speaker 1: stock market been. 915 00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:38,360 Speaker 4: Open two hours. 916 00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:41,200 Speaker 1: They already making decisions about your life, and your ass 917 00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:46,440 Speaker 1: will sleep. The Bible says, he who loves to sleep, 918 00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:49,840 Speaker 1: and the folding of hands, poverty will set upon. 919 00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:50,919 Speaker 5: You like a thief in the night. 920 00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:57,680 Speaker 1: He who loves to sleep, and the folding hands, poverty 921 00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:59,440 Speaker 1: will set upon you like a thief in the night 922 00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:02,160 Speaker 1: as you want. Question, I'm gonna go, how many of 923 00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,200 Speaker 1: you want to know somebody who loves to sleep? 924 00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:11,000 Speaker 3: Who knows somebody and she is broke his hell? 925 00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:15,560 Speaker 4: Were you married to us? You broke through? 926 00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:20,040 Speaker 3: I love that. The logo for his show is that 927 00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,719 Speaker 3: it's just mustache. I did not know that until I 928 00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:27,439 Speaker 3: watched that club. Good for him. So, yeah, man, y'all 929 00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:30,120 Speaker 3: in here sleeping eight hours a day and ship you 930 00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:31,520 Speaker 3: broke a right. 931 00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:35,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, you sleep in a day because your body physically 932 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:38,920 Speaker 6: needs it. Like when you're rich, start chopping down the 933 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:40,640 Speaker 6: made hours, your body starts shutting down. 934 00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:43,160 Speaker 3: See that's why y'all ain't got no mustaches. I know. 935 00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:44,640 Speaker 5: I don't want no mustache either. 936 00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:46,080 Speaker 4: I want to know what is his answer? 937 00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:51,120 Speaker 2: You see, moving from relationship guru to the inspiration the 938 00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:51,799 Speaker 2: speaker now? 939 00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:53,920 Speaker 4: Is what he's doing? 940 00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:56,880 Speaker 3: Maybe I don't know. I think. I think one of 941 00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,680 Speaker 3: the things that's interesting is that working poor people normally 942 00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:02,879 Speaker 3: have more in one job and come on, not there 943 00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:06,320 Speaker 3: eight hours of sleep? Like, it's not everybody's poor because 944 00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:09,799 Speaker 3: they just get too much sleep and they lazy. And 945 00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:15,080 Speaker 3: it's a common it's a common misrepresentation of poverty in 946 00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:18,120 Speaker 3: this country. Because capitalism has to make it seem like 947 00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:20,680 Speaker 3: rich people deserve to be rich, broke people deserve to 948 00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:23,200 Speaker 3: be broke, right, because if somebody deserves to have a 949 00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:26,280 Speaker 3: lot of money, right they earned it, then that must 950 00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:30,480 Speaker 3: mean by because money is to justify by correlation. If 951 00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:32,399 Speaker 3: you do not have a lot of money, you earn 952 00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:35,759 Speaker 3: being broke right, Like you you don't have the right 953 00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:39,680 Speaker 3: wherewithal But you know, it's like when you working two 954 00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:42,120 Speaker 3: and three jobs and shit like you not getting eight 955 00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:43,640 Speaker 3: hours of sleep. 956 00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:45,680 Speaker 5: Rich people off, Yeah. 957 00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:47,920 Speaker 3: You don't just get rich because of that, you know, 958 00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:50,960 Speaker 3: which is which is a sad part to see that 959 00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:53,880 Speaker 3: somebody like him is probagating that stuff. But he's always 960 00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:57,840 Speaker 3: given bad advice, whether it's a relationship advice or this 961 00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:02,960 Speaker 3: type of advice. It was It's funny because when I 962 00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:06,239 Speaker 3: had shared this on Twitter, this video and was like, yo, 963 00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:08,839 Speaker 3: Steve's kind of tripping, there were people like, Noah, well 964 00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:11,279 Speaker 3: he's saying that's right. You know a lot of people too, 965 00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:14,359 Speaker 3: you know, and I think you know, And because I 966 00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:18,759 Speaker 3: was like, you know, what's funny is Steve Harvey is 967 00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:22,200 Speaker 3: who people think jay Z is like when people don't 968 00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,520 Speaker 3: like jay Z. And I was like jay Z is 969 00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:27,839 Speaker 3: about capitalism and he about this and that, and I'm like, nah, 970 00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:30,760 Speaker 3: jay Z's like he's rich, but he trying to help people. 971 00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,840 Speaker 3: He always trying to working on like all this activist stuff. 972 00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:34,120 Speaker 1: Right. 973 00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:37,600 Speaker 3: The documentary for Khali Browder, the documentary for treyvon Martin 974 00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:43,880 Speaker 3: bailing out the Block Program, prison reform, prison sending reform, 975 00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 3: wouldn't do the Super Bowl because Kyla Kaepernick, like like 976 00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:52,680 Speaker 3: jay Z, doesn't fit the stereotype that they want him 977 00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,239 Speaker 3: to be. Steve Harvey is more than happy to put 978 00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:58,279 Speaker 3: both feet into the like you niggas are pulled because 979 00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:02,200 Speaker 3: y'all don't work hard and all the bad people and uh, 980 00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:04,680 Speaker 3: you deserve to be poor and the best thing I 981 00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:07,279 Speaker 3: can do for you is to be rich and a 982 00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:10,000 Speaker 3: role model to y'all. So y'all can see that. So 983 00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:14,840 Speaker 3: that was kind of the thing I thought was interesting 984 00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:15,239 Speaker 3: about it. 985 00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:18,880 Speaker 6: And it's also insulting because the reason why I say 986 00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:21,399 Speaker 6: it's those sulting. So I know Steve Harvey, he has 987 00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:24,040 Speaker 6: like this camp he does for like young men, and 988 00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:27,040 Speaker 6: he has scholarships, forms and all this stuff. So these 989 00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,440 Speaker 6: people that you're helping, are you really helping them out 990 00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,480 Speaker 6: of the kindness of your heart? Are you helping them 991 00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,280 Speaker 6: because you go, oh, here's the money you pour. 992 00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:34,960 Speaker 5: Black people like like like like. 993 00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:36,360 Speaker 6: Like not trying to be funny, it's like it's like, 994 00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:42,120 Speaker 6: I understand you doing these things for your community, but 995 00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:43,560 Speaker 6: what are your intentions? 996 00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:48,399 Speaker 3: Well, his messaging behind the giving is different than jay 997 00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:52,560 Speaker 3: Z and the relative you know, it's very much like 998 00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:56,080 Speaker 3: you're poor because you're a worse person than me, you know, 999 00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:59,160 Speaker 3: which is a totally different, different thing. Now they did 1000 00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,840 Speaker 3: have different coming up, so I mean jay Z sold 1001 00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:05,319 Speaker 3: drugs and and made money that way. So maybe it's 1002 00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:08,239 Speaker 3: because he's seen some other sizes a lot life than 1003 00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:12,880 Speaker 3: Steve Harvey did. You know, maybe he doesn't belittle of 1004 00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:14,799 Speaker 3: a grudge people that have to do stuff to make 1005 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:16,719 Speaker 3: it out because he's like, I had to do shit 1006 00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:20,600 Speaker 3: to make it out of the projects. The other thing, too, 1007 00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:23,680 Speaker 3: is Steve Harvey was homeless and living out of his 1008 00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:26,919 Speaker 3: car at one point, and I'm telling you, man, it's 1009 00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:29,239 Speaker 3: not a coincidence. And you can almost trace it back 1010 00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:32,440 Speaker 3: to all these like you know, like Tarita Sheet, like 1011 00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:36,360 Speaker 3: all the like hustlers that kind of like pimp black 1012 00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:40,120 Speaker 3: wealth shit and advice to people almost all of them 1013 00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:42,840 Speaker 3: got to a point Sha bey that dude from years ago. 1014 00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:44,600 Speaker 3: They all got to a point where they were like, 1015 00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:47,520 Speaker 3: I'm I'm at the bottom. So the only way to 1016 00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:49,880 Speaker 3: get people to invest in me is to look like 1017 00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:53,080 Speaker 3: I'm at the top. To tell people I'm you know, 1018 00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:55,840 Speaker 3: I'm successful. You got to do anything. You gotta be 1019 00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:59,000 Speaker 3: willing to hustle, because they've been at the bottom so 1020 00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:03,040 Speaker 3: hard that they really had to start believing in some 1021 00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:04,480 Speaker 3: other ship to make it out. 1022 00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:08,600 Speaker 2: I just don't care for him. He the thing with 1023 00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:14,560 Speaker 2: Monique was the most recent thing. He's basically disrespecting her 1024 00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:19,960 Speaker 2: during the conversation by not allowing her to tell her truth, 1025 00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:24,120 Speaker 2: and he told his truth in front of everybody where 1026 00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:29,600 Speaker 2: he said integrity doesn't matter because he has to feed 1027 00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:30,680 Speaker 2: his groan. 1028 00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:35,719 Speaker 3: Are you kidding me? Right? 1029 00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:37,840 Speaker 4: He has nothing from me. 1030 00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:40,239 Speaker 2: The best thing he has for me to make me 1031 00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:43,560 Speaker 2: laugh is family view the rest of it. 1032 00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:45,320 Speaker 4: He just gone with that mess. 1033 00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:47,600 Speaker 3: Well, you weren't the only one who felt that way. 1034 00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:51,120 Speaker 3: Some on on Twitter put up what happens to Steve 1035 00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:53,040 Speaker 3: Harvey when he doesn't get eight hours of sleep? And 1036 00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:55,240 Speaker 3: that was when he had messed up to Miss America 1037 00:50:55,280 --> 00:51:04,920 Speaker 3: pageant but also people agree with you because his TV 1038 00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:09,880 Speaker 3: show got canceled today, did they tell him? 1039 00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:10,239 Speaker 1: Uh? 1040 00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:13,799 Speaker 3: He takes the final season of finale of Steve. Anonymous 1041 00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:18,279 Speaker 3: sources say that the NBC Universal will stop distributing the show. 1042 00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, because I think there was already some controversy anywhere 1043 00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:23,719 Speaker 6: by his time and his time slat and they was 1044 00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:27,120 Speaker 6: already talking about who was it one of them? The 1045 00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:29,239 Speaker 6: next time country music singer was getting ready to do 1046 00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:31,600 Speaker 6: a show and stuff like that. So the show was 1047 00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:32,719 Speaker 6: kind of already on the fence. 1048 00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:35,960 Speaker 3: Anyway, Hopefully we can get some shut out now you 1049 00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:39,759 Speaker 3: have a little more time to take a nap, you know, 1050 00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:43,400 Speaker 3: starting a bubble. Yeah, it would be funny if he 1051 00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:45,839 Speaker 3: was like, you can't wake up at eight o'clock on 1052 00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:48,160 Speaker 3: the West Coast. That's why I get up at seven 1053 00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:50,680 Speaker 3: for the five. You got to get up at seven 1054 00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:52,640 Speaker 3: for the five to get to that market on walks 1055 00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:53,759 Speaker 3: the stock market. 1056 00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:56,080 Speaker 5: That is is Kelly Clarkson, that was her name. 1057 00:51:56,360 --> 00:52:01,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, they're gonna give it to Kelly Clarkson TV show, 1058 00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:04,759 Speaker 3: new talk show. And Steve's writing consistently fell to the 1059 00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:06,879 Speaker 3: point that the show is no longer pulling in two 1060 00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:11,240 Speaker 3: million of You as an episode, which gotta be hard, 1061 00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:14,040 Speaker 3: you know, but and it was also just that, you know, 1062 00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:20,720 Speaker 3: I don't think people like the I don't think people 1063 00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:23,080 Speaker 3: like this Steve Harvey. I think people like family few 1064 00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:27,399 Speaker 3: Steve Harvey. They I mean, they probably like New Year's 1065 00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:30,920 Speaker 3: Eve Steve Harvey, you know, but like once he starts 1066 00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:33,960 Speaker 3: like protesthesizing or whatever to tell us like how we 1067 00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:37,000 Speaker 3: ain't shit and he's the man because he rich, I 1068 00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:39,440 Speaker 3: think he loses a lot to artists because it's not 1069 00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:42,040 Speaker 3: likable anymore. It's the same thing with Megan Kelly, where 1070 00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:46,239 Speaker 3: you know, she's just not a likable morning host type 1071 00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:48,920 Speaker 3: of person because you can't be fussing at your guests 1072 00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:52,239 Speaker 3: and it's telling your audience that they stupid if they 1073 00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:55,799 Speaker 3: don't want to be rich and shit. Like. So, let's 1074 00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:59,920 Speaker 3: see what else happened. Party City is closing for the 1075 00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:02,560 Speaker 3: five stores at the struggling to find enough helium to 1076 00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:03,320 Speaker 3: feel balloons. 1077 00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:07,000 Speaker 5: There's a lot of stories, yeah, just because of helium. 1078 00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:11,759 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, come on, a lot of a lot of 1079 00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:14,000 Speaker 6: this stuff. Mostly people just coming in caunse y'all. I 1080 00:53:14,000 --> 00:53:16,760 Speaker 6: want I want fifty balloons because you think. 1081 00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:17,480 Speaker 3: Where would you go to get it. 1082 00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:19,840 Speaker 6: If not Party City, it's probably one of the cheaper 1083 00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:21,640 Speaker 6: places to buy balloons too, you know. 1084 00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:24,759 Speaker 3: What I'm saying. Where would you go to get healing? Yeah, 1085 00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:27,319 Speaker 3: the Dallas Party City, Like it's only two places I 1086 00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:30,480 Speaker 3: could think of. You know, maybe that maybe some grocery 1087 00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:31,840 Speaker 3: stores might have them, but. 1088 00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:33,760 Speaker 5: But they're not gonna have five hundred balloons. 1089 00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:37,640 Speaker 3: But there's a helium shortage though globally, and so oh 1090 00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:40,600 Speaker 3: it's shutting. It's making people have to shut down, you know. 1091 00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:46,640 Speaker 3: The uh uh, I guess we can say that the 1092 00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:47,399 Speaker 3: party is over. 1093 00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:58,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, and Party City was almost like McDonald's. 1094 00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:04,719 Speaker 6: They was literally everywhere, like every town, like they pop 1095 00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:06,600 Speaker 6: them places up like pop up shops. 1096 00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:20,279 Speaker 3: I guess you could say that the bubble burst. Yeah. 1097 00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:24,160 Speaker 3: Apparently the balloon sales of New Jersey based party supply 1098 00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:27,960 Speaker 3: company fell amid a global helium shortage. The company did 1099 00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:30,319 Speaker 3: not say which of its eight hundred and seventy of 1100 00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:32,600 Speaker 3: its approximately eight hundred and seventy stores in the US 1101 00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:34,680 Speaker 3: and Canada would be shutter, but the closures will take 1102 00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:38,120 Speaker 3: place throughout the year. Party City City usually closes only 1103 00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:40,920 Speaker 3: ten to fifteen stores a year. However, the heliums negatively 1104 00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:44,360 Speaker 3: impacted our latex and metallic balloon categories. The company CEO, 1105 00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:48,320 Speaker 3: James M. Harrison said in a statement, what if he 1106 00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:56,360 Speaker 3: using a helium? He did the interview like that. 1107 00:54:56,760 --> 00:54:59,120 Speaker 5: Hardest City is kind of happy. 1108 00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:04,279 Speaker 3: I don't know what's happening. Maybe he's right, I don't 1109 00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:05,560 Speaker 3: know what's happened out of healiu. 1110 00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:06,799 Speaker 7: Uh. 1111 00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:11,360 Speaker 3: Party City made the decision what is this uh to 1112 00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:14,440 Speaker 3: close more stores and usual to help optimize our market 1113 00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:17,400 Speaker 3: level performance, focused on the most profitable locations and improve 1114 00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:22,200 Speaker 3: the over our health of our store portfolio. Well this 1115 00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:35,520 Speaker 3: is just some really deflating news guys, all right, but 1116 00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:38,800 Speaker 3: good luck for them to them. Man, I don't know 1117 00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:41,480 Speaker 3: where I'm gonna go to get my costume wigs and 1118 00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:44,760 Speaker 3: uh uh aut those outfits. 1119 00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:46,680 Speaker 6: Now right, they do have some really unique stuff, Like 1120 00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:48,759 Speaker 6: you literally can go in there and like if you 1121 00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:51,160 Speaker 6: if it's anything associated with a party, but think about 1122 00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:52,239 Speaker 6: part of the city, it's one of. 1123 00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:54,800 Speaker 3: Just had part of city. 1124 00:55:54,880 --> 00:55:55,560 Speaker 4: Yes, you can do. 1125 00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:58,040 Speaker 5: You can do a lot of stuff in mass there. Yeah. 1126 00:55:58,080 --> 00:56:00,200 Speaker 6: I know people say about grocery store, but you I 1127 00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:01,719 Speaker 6: have to pre order with the grocery store. 1128 00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:02,799 Speaker 5: You can't go in there. But like I want one 1129 00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:04,640 Speaker 5: hundred balloons. Your grocery store gonna be like, bitch, we 1130 00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:05,760 Speaker 5: ain't got a hundred balloons. 1131 00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:09,720 Speaker 3: Where you're gonna get your study nurse outfit from? 1132 00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:13,800 Speaker 5: Come on, like your French made outfit for Halloween. 1133 00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:19,560 Speaker 3: Mm hmmmm well anyway, Uh, sorry to hear about that. 1134 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:24,000 Speaker 3: What else is happening donors to the twenty two million 1135 00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:28,520 Speaker 3: dollar crowdfunded border wall, or wondering where the money. 1136 00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:30,720 Speaker 5: Went in somebody's pocket? 1137 00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:34,839 Speaker 3: To Donald Several contributors to a twenty two million dollar 1138 00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:37,840 Speaker 3: fund begun by an Air Force veteran to build sections 1139 00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:40,520 Speaker 3: of President Donald Trump's border waller hitting social media with 1140 00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:42,280 Speaker 3: concerns about a lack of progress. 1141 00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:45,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, let's say, if Jonnald Trump could have done it, 1142 00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:47,000 Speaker 6: he would have, but he didn't run it. 1143 00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:47,640 Speaker 5: I figured out that. 1144 00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:50,439 Speaker 6: I didn't know who did it, but I was like, yeah, 1145 00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:52,919 Speaker 6: some person put it out there, and he is scamming them. 1146 00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:57,000 Speaker 6: Peoples like y'all do know that wall is never getting built, right, never, never, never, 1147 00:56:57,080 --> 00:57:00,000 Speaker 6: And even what y'all raised ain't enough for that wall. 1148 00:56:59,840 --> 00:57:02,000 Speaker 3: I can't believe they are dumb enough to go on 1149 00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:05,200 Speaker 3: Twitter at publicly at publicly admit that they got conned 1150 00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:07,799 Speaker 3: out of this money because I think this is such 1151 00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:10,520 Speaker 3: an open scam. When it started, I was like, this 1152 00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:13,080 Speaker 3: is y'all are going to get scammed. And they got 1153 00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:17,840 Speaker 3: twenty two million dollars yes, And I thought, well, then 1154 00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:19,920 Speaker 3: if I would have donated this, I would have went 1155 00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:22,480 Speaker 3: away and just not said anything when it didn't happen. 1156 00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:25,360 Speaker 3: But people was on Twitter being like, Hey, where's the wall? 1157 00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:26,400 Speaker 3: I gave my money? 1158 00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:28,800 Speaker 5: Uh, can't take it their money back? 1159 00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:29,640 Speaker 3: I don't know. 1160 00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:30,800 Speaker 5: Don't they shut that shit down? 1161 00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:31,320 Speaker 4: Hey? 1162 00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:32,680 Speaker 5: You conning people. 1163 00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:34,560 Speaker 4: Works. 1164 00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:39,080 Speaker 3: I've been away for five months. When's the groundbreaking? You'll 1165 00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:41,160 Speaker 3: get more money from me when you When I see 1166 00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:45,000 Speaker 3: the still and concrete going up, I started asking questions 1167 00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:47,480 Speaker 3: and because of that, you blocked me from your Facebook page. 1168 00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:49,920 Speaker 3: So I'm going to ask again. The deadline to the 1169 00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:53,240 Speaker 3: break to break grounds has passed. It's it's still nothing. 1170 00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:57,480 Speaker 3: Those are just three people that that didn't get the 1171 00:57:57,520 --> 00:58:01,600 Speaker 3: wall of the money back yet. The gofunding effort was 1172 00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:05,880 Speaker 3: launched in December by Brian Kofage, who complained that too 1173 00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:08,440 Speaker 3: many illegals are entering in the US. He sought up 1174 00:58:08,480 --> 00:58:10,840 Speaker 3: to one billion dollars to create a nonprofit organization to 1175 00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:13,360 Speaker 3: build the section of the while on private land. When 1176 00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:15,080 Speaker 3: he failed to raise the amount, he said he was 1177 00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:17,280 Speaker 3: stopping to go fund me campaign and vowed to refund 1178 00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:20,480 Speaker 3: the money and build the wall himself, but the site 1179 00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:23,720 Speaker 3: remains active. He continues to update the page with news 1180 00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:26,360 Speaker 3: about immigration and as most of that. He has drawn 1181 00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:29,439 Speaker 3: a number of brilliant Americans to the project, including former 1182 00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:31,240 Speaker 3: White House Chief Strategies Steve Bennon. 1183 00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:36,080 Speaker 6: That money, y'all are never seen the Diamond Avenue. 1184 00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:37,680 Speaker 5: Y'all don't have to sue yea. 1185 00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:39,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all got fan cond Man. 1186 00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:43,480 Speaker 5: I can't him access to that money. That was rap. 1187 00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:46,520 Speaker 3: I can't even feel bad for him though, because y'all 1188 00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:48,680 Speaker 3: did y'all gave him that money, because y'all racist and 1189 00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:52,200 Speaker 3: a racist in their money being parted. Ain't ain't never 1190 00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:55,480 Speaker 3: gonna bother me like I hope he, I hope he. 1191 00:58:55,640 --> 00:58:58,080 Speaker 3: That's the best possible result. He got y'all money, and 1192 00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:03,560 Speaker 3: they ain't no all idiots, good care great Americans. He 1193 00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:06,520 Speaker 3: sound like Trump. I have many brilliant. 1194 00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:11,960 Speaker 5: Americans, many very very bright, right very. 1195 00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:15,600 Speaker 3: We're gonna get those Mexicans. Just keep giving the money. Dummies, 1196 00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:21,960 Speaker 3: what idiots anyway, I'm glad they glad they lost their 1197 00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:30,440 Speaker 3: money zero. Uh yeah, all right, let's see. Did you 1198 00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:32,920 Speaker 3: guys know a new study shows married women do more 1199 00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:34,360 Speaker 3: housework than single moms. 1200 00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:37,480 Speaker 4: No, that's interesting. 1201 00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:41,520 Speaker 3: I believe it too. I do too, because because now 1202 00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:43,520 Speaker 3: you got to clean up after a man too, right, 1203 00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:45,400 Speaker 3: That niggas ain't doing it around the house. 1204 00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:45,600 Speaker 1: Right. 1205 00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:48,760 Speaker 5: Single moms are like, y'all, y'all, y'all have niggas better 1206 00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:52,920 Speaker 5: clean up too. They're like, I'm one person, but. 1207 00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:56,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, one, you can't teach your kids to do some housework, right. 1208 00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:00,920 Speaker 3: Men are grown, and if they ain't doing housework by 1209 01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:03,280 Speaker 3: the time they grown and in your house, they probably 1210 01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:07,000 Speaker 3: ain't gonna learn. Married mother's increased housework and part of 1211 01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:10,120 Speaker 3: me the expectations about home cooked meals, clean clothes, and 1212 01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:14,160 Speaker 3: well kept houses behavior integral to the contemporary definitions of 1213 01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:18,880 Speaker 3: appropriate behavior for wives and mothers. Authors Jonah Peppin, Leanna Sayer, 1214 01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:23,280 Speaker 3: and lend him Castor Caspara. In the study, even though 1215 01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:27,200 Speaker 3: people preach equality professionally, that sense of equal steak in 1216 01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:31,160 Speaker 3: the household hasn't translated into our personal lives. Uh yeah, 1217 01:00:31,200 --> 01:00:33,280 Speaker 3: that's that's one of the things like what. It hasn't 1218 01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:35,120 Speaker 3: translated into real life either, though, I don't know what 1219 01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:39,680 Speaker 3: it's not like in corporate America, it's like, oh yeah, 1220 01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:42,000 Speaker 3: women make as much as men. Like it's still behind 1221 01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:44,720 Speaker 3: that way too, but yeah, when it comes home, it 1222 01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:47,960 Speaker 3: just it remains that in balance of you know, men 1223 01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:50,960 Speaker 3: think a bunch of stuff is women's work in the house. 1224 01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:53,720 Speaker 3: And y'all both work forty hours a week, so come on, 1225 01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:55,920 Speaker 3: the work ain't got no gender when you when you 1226 01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:58,480 Speaker 3: get home, just because if y'all both got jobs, what 1227 01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:01,560 Speaker 3: the fuck? While you know, I mean, I'm here more 1228 01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:06,360 Speaker 3: than Karen's here. So because I'm home working from home, normally, 1229 01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:09,880 Speaker 3: I'm the one doing the dishes, the clothes, that type 1230 01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:12,480 Speaker 3: of stuff. Not that Karen doesn't do anything, but it 1231 01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:15,560 Speaker 3: wouldn't be fair to her that she's working, you know, 1232 01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:18,560 Speaker 3: forty hours a week outside the house and then coming 1233 01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:20,560 Speaker 3: home and being and I'm like, well, you're gonna move 1234 01:01:20,600 --> 01:01:21,360 Speaker 3: vacuum or what. 1235 01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:25,520 Speaker 5: You know, right, and then all different side. Women are 1236 01:01:25,560 --> 01:01:26,080 Speaker 5: human beings. 1237 01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:27,880 Speaker 6: Your patience's on the gold and go, but so long 1238 01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:30,960 Speaker 6: after while, you're gonna snap, like like it's human nature. 1239 01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:33,920 Speaker 5: One day you gonna buy like motherfucker. Not today. I'm 1240 01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:35,400 Speaker 5: not doing a motherfucking thing. 1241 01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:37,840 Speaker 6: And then you know, it's one of those things too, 1242 01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:41,760 Speaker 6: to where a lot of men don't want to hear 1243 01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:44,520 Speaker 6: women when they be like, nigga, help, what is wrong 1244 01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:45,160 Speaker 6: with your feet? 1245 01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:47,120 Speaker 5: What is wrong with your hands? You can wash? You 1246 01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:49,760 Speaker 5: can wash your draws too. What is wrong with you? 1247 01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:50,200 Speaker 4: You can babe? 1248 01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:51,760 Speaker 5: We didn't have these kids. I didn't. I didn't birth 1249 01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:52,960 Speaker 5: these children by myself. 1250 01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:57,040 Speaker 6: And instead of being realistic and understanding, is oh, you nagging? 1251 01:01:57,040 --> 01:01:58,040 Speaker 5: You're trying to tell me what to do. 1252 01:01:58,360 --> 01:02:01,760 Speaker 6: Nigga, your paycheck ain't enough, Greg, We need your paycheck, 1253 01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:02,720 Speaker 6: but we need you too. 1254 01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:07,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. And as long as people define womanhood as these 1255 01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:12,160 Speaker 3: household yours, it's gonna remain a gender situation in your house, 1256 01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:14,000 Speaker 3: as long as it's like the only people that do 1257 01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:16,720 Speaker 3: dishes around here is you? The only person that cooks 1258 01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:19,360 Speaker 3: around here is you. If you don't do it, I'm 1259 01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:21,520 Speaker 3: not gonna do it. It's just not gonna get done. 1260 01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:22,120 Speaker 4: Right, you know. 1261 01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:24,439 Speaker 6: And then if you have a situation where the woman 1262 01:02:24,600 --> 01:02:26,440 Speaker 6: kind of goes on the protest and be like, you 1263 01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:28,200 Speaker 6: know what, I ain't nobody doing. 1264 01:02:28,200 --> 01:02:30,240 Speaker 5: You don't want to do it. I don't either, right, 1265 01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:30,840 Speaker 5: or you. 1266 01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:34,080 Speaker 6: Know what, I'm gonna take the money or the allowance 1267 01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:35,040 Speaker 6: that I was gonna give the kids. 1268 01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:36,919 Speaker 5: You know what I'm gonna do. Hire you a motherfucking maid. 1269 01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:41,560 Speaker 6: You're gonna pay her, you know, because you're you're really 1270 01:02:41,680 --> 01:02:44,720 Speaker 6: asking me to do two jobs with no pain, no 1271 01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:46,720 Speaker 6: over time, no time and a half, no four one 1272 01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:49,480 Speaker 6: k were not doing, no investment or none of that. 1273 01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:50,640 Speaker 5: You'd be like, oh, go. 1274 01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:53,160 Speaker 6: To work, work, work your eight hours or sometimes longer, 1275 01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:55,760 Speaker 6: come home and do another fucking full time job. 1276 01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:57,080 Speaker 5: That's very unrealistic. 1277 01:02:57,520 --> 01:02:58,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1278 01:02:58,520 --> 01:02:58,640 Speaker 1: Uh. 1279 01:02:58,760 --> 01:03:01,280 Speaker 3: Marriage main's agenda industry that ratchet up to demand for 1280 01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:04,360 Speaker 3: housework of childcare through essentialist beliefs that women are naturally 1281 01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:07,280 Speaker 3: focused on home and hearth. The author rights leaving women 1282 01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:10,720 Speaker 3: drowning the housework, over rest or sleep. Well, that's the 1283 01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:12,640 Speaker 3: good news is all these women will get rich because 1284 01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:16,320 Speaker 3: they're not getting ate. I was asleep. So that's that's 1285 01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:20,520 Speaker 3: the positive coming out of this. The research is really 1286 01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:22,800 Speaker 3: showing that men are not necessarily contributing in ways that 1287 01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:25,400 Speaker 3: are bringing about equality in the home. Yeah. And also 1288 01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:28,880 Speaker 3: that's the thing like in America, the odds of a 1289 01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:32,000 Speaker 3: man being the sole income earnering the house is. 1290 01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:35,160 Speaker 5: So low now, right, So everybody. 1291 01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:38,160 Speaker 3: That that dream like CEOs make way more money. They did, 1292 01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:41,520 Speaker 3: but way di stagnated for most people in most industries 1293 01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:44,720 Speaker 3: a long time ago. And so you're not the income earner. 1294 01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:47,720 Speaker 3: You're not bringing home the bacon, so to speak. So 1295 01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:50,960 Speaker 3: why the fuck would I be making doing working it 1296 01:03:51,080 --> 01:03:53,000 Speaker 3: just as hard as you outside the house, and then 1297 01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:55,320 Speaker 3: coming home and doing all the work inside the house. 1298 01:03:55,360 --> 01:03:56,480 Speaker 3: That's just ridiculous. 1299 01:03:56,800 --> 01:04:01,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, and for women, but we're talking about like traditional households, 1300 01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:05,440 Speaker 6: it's mentally exhausting, it's physically exhausting. A woman is impatient 1301 01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:08,080 Speaker 6: with the children, she's impatient with you. And I'm gonna 1302 01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:10,440 Speaker 6: tell you right now, a tired woman the last thing 1303 01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:11,280 Speaker 6: she want to do is fuck. 1304 01:04:11,600 --> 01:04:13,200 Speaker 5: Let's just keep that real. Like a lot of men 1305 01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:14,080 Speaker 5: don't understand that. 1306 01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:16,919 Speaker 6: Like, I've gotten up, just like you, I've worked all day, 1307 01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:20,120 Speaker 6: I've done all these things. You know, your day stopped 1308 01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:22,800 Speaker 6: when you got home. I got additional five hours. So 1309 01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:24,960 Speaker 6: by the time you calculate that I worked eighteen to 1310 01:04:25,040 --> 01:04:27,360 Speaker 6: twenty something hours a day. No, I don't want to 1311 01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:29,160 Speaker 6: have sex with you. I'm angry and I want to 1312 01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:30,120 Speaker 6: go to fucking sleep. 1313 01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:33,720 Speaker 3: It's important to point out that Sharon George actually increases 1314 01:04:33,800 --> 01:04:37,000 Speaker 3: the sex, lives and hells of couples a couple's relationship. 1315 01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:39,720 Speaker 3: A two thousand and two study found that a divisional 1316 01:04:39,720 --> 01:04:42,640 Speaker 3: household labor proceed to be fair ensures that partners feel 1317 01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:46,160 Speaker 3: respected while carrying out the task of daily life. So 1318 01:04:46,320 --> 01:04:47,640 Speaker 3: that's exactly what you were saying. 1319 01:04:48,040 --> 01:04:53,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're so conditioned from society, from religious institutions as 1320 01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:58,080 Speaker 2: to what the definition of her relationship should be. 1321 01:04:59,080 --> 01:05:04,120 Speaker 4: I've bill and believe as adults you have. 1322 01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:09,640 Speaker 2: To redefine your relationships in your home and for yourself 1323 01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:14,920 Speaker 2: to where it is positive for all people involved. 1324 01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:18,080 Speaker 3: Right. The other thing too, is like people don't even 1325 01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:21,080 Speaker 3: be thankful for that shit, Like it's just like a 1326 01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:23,120 Speaker 3: thing you're supposed to do, you know. Like I know, 1327 01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:25,760 Speaker 3: it's a habit I picked up with my dad and like, 1328 01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:28,480 Speaker 3: you know, to be like thank you mom for this meal. 1329 01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:32,800 Speaker 3: Thank they you know, thank so and so overdoing dishes, 1330 01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:35,080 Speaker 3: they take out the trash, do this and all that stuff. 1331 01:05:35,120 --> 01:05:39,120 Speaker 3: But you know, it's a habit that's good as just 1332 01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:41,360 Speaker 3: to carry with me. And I think also it increases 1333 01:05:41,400 --> 01:05:44,560 Speaker 3: your genuine thankfulness of life and appreciation of other people, 1334 01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:47,160 Speaker 3: because it's easy to take people for granted, especially when 1335 01:05:47,160 --> 01:05:51,240 Speaker 3: you three sixty five days out the year you expect 1336 01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:53,680 Speaker 3: the thing to be done. So the day is not done, 1337 01:05:53,760 --> 01:05:55,720 Speaker 3: you just become like, well, what happened with dinner to 1338 01:05:55,800 --> 01:05:58,840 Speaker 3: night as opposed to like this motherfucker cook for you 1339 01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:01,840 Speaker 3: three hundred and sixty days? Ye Like they didn't have 1340 01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:03,920 Speaker 3: dinner tonight? Why can't you make dinner? You know what 1341 01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:06,440 Speaker 3: I mean? Stuff like that because i'm you know, or 1342 01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:08,680 Speaker 3: you know, I know. And then there's the vision of 1343 01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:11,440 Speaker 3: labor obviously, like and a lot of houses do this 1344 01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:15,440 Speaker 3: depending on your living situation where I'm doing the gardening, 1345 01:06:15,560 --> 01:06:18,720 Speaker 3: I'm doing the cutting the grass and all that stuff. 1346 01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:21,520 Speaker 3: But you know, it's that I know it. Maybe it's 1347 01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:23,840 Speaker 3: because we from the South, but that old school sensibility 1348 01:06:23,840 --> 01:06:25,880 Speaker 3: of like, well, gonna bring your dad something to drink. 1349 01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:27,680 Speaker 3: You know, you're out there in the hot ass sun 1350 01:06:28,320 --> 01:06:32,400 Speaker 3: cutting the grass, you know, for everybody or whatever, you know, 1351 01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:35,680 Speaker 3: gardening or tilling up some shit. You know, my dad's 1352 01:06:35,680 --> 01:06:39,680 Speaker 3: always outside working. Like there's that balance of you know, 1353 01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:43,800 Speaker 3: like the labor is divided in a way that compliments 1354 01:06:43,840 --> 01:06:46,480 Speaker 3: each other correct, you know, and I think that matters 1355 01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:47,840 Speaker 3: a lot. 1356 01:06:48,000 --> 01:06:52,840 Speaker 6: And also too, and particularly in America, people underestimate the 1357 01:06:52,880 --> 01:06:56,200 Speaker 6: pressure that is put on young people, particularly young women, 1358 01:06:56,240 --> 01:06:58,240 Speaker 6: to get married and the. 1359 01:06:58,200 --> 01:07:01,000 Speaker 5: Pressure and not only do they put on them, they 1360 01:07:01,040 --> 01:07:02,000 Speaker 5: put pressure. 1361 01:07:01,640 --> 01:07:03,560 Speaker 6: On young women to get married because they know you're 1362 01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:05,520 Speaker 6: dumb and you're not even you don't know no better. 1363 01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:08,440 Speaker 6: And on top of that, a lot of times, a 1364 01:07:08,480 --> 01:07:11,000 Speaker 6: lot of young women, including myself, you buy into the 1365 01:07:11,000 --> 01:07:13,919 Speaker 6: things of what a woman should be. And however you've 1366 01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:16,920 Speaker 6: been raised up, that's your definition of womanhood. And a 1367 01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:20,480 Speaker 6: lot of times it takes life and living and experience 1368 01:07:20,560 --> 01:07:22,320 Speaker 6: to realize that that shit ain't real. 1369 01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:24,080 Speaker 5: It's not it's fake. 1370 01:07:24,480 --> 01:07:26,960 Speaker 6: And unless you have family members around you and women 1371 01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:29,160 Speaker 6: that have been married or women that have gone through 1372 01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:31,960 Speaker 6: different variations like divorce and all that stuff talking to 1373 01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:33,200 Speaker 6: you and telling. 1374 01:07:32,960 --> 01:07:34,800 Speaker 5: You it's your choice, it's your decision. 1375 01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:38,760 Speaker 6: Don't feel pressured, you know, to attach yourself to somebody. 1376 01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:42,840 Speaker 5: It's okay to be single, it's okay to not be married. 1377 01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:46,520 Speaker 6: It's you're like like these, it's other options other than 1378 01:07:47,800 --> 01:07:51,960 Speaker 6: your little girl. You know, you get married, you know, 1379 01:07:52,200 --> 01:07:54,080 Speaker 6: you buy a house, you have children, or how of 1380 01:07:54,200 --> 01:07:57,000 Speaker 6: this may be like you have to follow this balance 1381 01:07:57,040 --> 01:07:57,400 Speaker 6: in life. 1382 01:07:57,440 --> 01:07:58,200 Speaker 5: And I think for a. 1383 01:07:58,200 --> 01:08:02,400 Speaker 6: Lot of women, because of these unrealistic expectations that the 1384 01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:05,080 Speaker 6: world has put on them, that they have to have 1385 01:08:05,160 --> 01:08:07,880 Speaker 6: these timelines. And it's really funny when you talk to 1386 01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:10,200 Speaker 6: younger people. I want to be married by the time 1387 01:08:10,240 --> 01:08:12,320 Speaker 6: I'm thirty. I want to have to be like, you 1388 01:08:12,320 --> 01:08:14,200 Speaker 6: don't know what the hell is gonna happen in life, 1389 01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:18,000 Speaker 6: you have no earthly idea, and then there's sad and depressed. 1390 01:08:18,040 --> 01:08:22,639 Speaker 6: But they don't hit these goals. Just let life happen. Men, 1391 01:08:22,720 --> 01:08:25,120 Speaker 6: I told life can just happen to them. They can 1392 01:08:25,200 --> 01:08:28,800 Speaker 6: just live, go through life, and life will just one 1393 01:08:28,880 --> 01:08:31,120 Speaker 6: day you'll become an adult and you'll want to get 1394 01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:33,240 Speaker 6: married and have children, like you know, that's kind of 1395 01:08:33,280 --> 01:08:33,639 Speaker 6: how men. 1396 01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:35,679 Speaker 5: But women I talk from a really early age. 1397 01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:38,560 Speaker 6: These are the things that you're supposed to do, and 1398 01:08:39,280 --> 01:08:41,360 Speaker 6: and you have a uterus and you opposed to bear 1399 01:08:41,479 --> 01:08:47,160 Speaker 6: children and whatever this may be, but it's not true. 1400 01:08:47,280 --> 01:08:51,599 Speaker 5: It's it's just not true. And so many young women are. 1401 01:08:51,520 --> 01:08:53,920 Speaker 6: Lied to and they're pressure to have children, and they 1402 01:08:54,000 --> 01:08:56,360 Speaker 6: pressure to get married, and sometimes they're pressure to. 1403 01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:56,920 Speaker 5: Do these things. 1404 01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:59,000 Speaker 6: And some of them really might not want to do 1405 01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:01,240 Speaker 6: like tuth Be told, you really might not want to 1406 01:09:01,240 --> 01:09:04,400 Speaker 6: have children at twenty one or twenty five or thirty. 1407 01:09:04,560 --> 01:09:06,840 Speaker 6: You might want to wait till you become forty. You know, 1408 01:09:07,200 --> 01:09:09,639 Speaker 6: you actually might be like, look, I actually want to. 1409 01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:10,799 Speaker 5: Go off and get an education. 1410 01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:12,599 Speaker 6: And I know a lot of people don't talk about this, 1411 01:09:12,760 --> 01:09:16,320 Speaker 6: but even women getting education is revolutionary. You know, even 1412 01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:18,360 Speaker 6: though more women do it, not than ever before, it's 1413 01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:22,720 Speaker 6: still revolutionary because women were not allowed to get educated, 1414 01:09:23,080 --> 01:09:24,360 Speaker 6: you know, you just weren't. 1415 01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:25,920 Speaker 5: Allowed to do these things. These were only things that 1416 01:09:26,040 --> 01:09:26,960 Speaker 5: men were allowed to do. 1417 01:09:27,240 --> 01:09:29,920 Speaker 6: And so if you put my education before family, my 1418 01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:32,559 Speaker 6: education before children, that's why a lot of women are like, 1419 01:09:32,560 --> 01:09:34,479 Speaker 6: fuck it, I have a child when I'm later on 1420 01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:36,600 Speaker 6: in life because I want to get my doctorate. And 1421 01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:39,240 Speaker 6: people not like, that's selfish for you to put yourself 1422 01:09:39,400 --> 01:09:41,800 Speaker 6: before attaching and tying yourself to some man. 1423 01:09:42,439 --> 01:09:42,759 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1424 01:09:42,840 --> 01:09:45,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, And it comes back to what I said to conditioning. 1425 01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:51,480 Speaker 2: We're still conditioning program to follow these roles from society. 1426 01:09:51,960 --> 01:09:55,280 Speaker 2: And then a lot of women years ago went to 1427 01:09:55,760 --> 01:10:00,400 Speaker 2: college purposefully in order to meet a husband in college. 1428 01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:03,080 Speaker 2: And once they met the husband in college. 1429 01:10:02,880 --> 01:10:04,040 Speaker 3: They dropped out. 1430 01:10:04,240 --> 01:10:08,000 Speaker 2: It's all back to conditioning in what society tells you 1431 01:10:08,040 --> 01:10:12,040 Speaker 2: to do. And I say, we're all older, now make 1432 01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:15,439 Speaker 2: your own rules respectfully. Do what you need to do 1433 01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:20,559 Speaker 2: in your household, in your relationships to make you happy. 1434 01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:24,840 Speaker 2: I think doctor SEUs said why fit in when you 1435 01:10:24,880 --> 01:10:28,160 Speaker 2: were born to stand out? If you can take that 1436 01:10:28,840 --> 01:10:32,479 Speaker 2: quote and use it in a lot earlier in your life, 1437 01:10:33,320 --> 01:10:35,160 Speaker 2: you'll be a much happier person. 1438 01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:39,120 Speaker 3: And it's also just this thing where I think as 1439 01:10:39,120 --> 01:10:42,280 Speaker 3: long as our society has it where men choose women 1440 01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:46,080 Speaker 3: to propose to, we're gonna always have it where women 1441 01:10:46,120 --> 01:10:48,680 Speaker 3: are told from the time their little girls to be 1442 01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:51,080 Speaker 3: like be the kind of woman that gets chosen right 1443 01:10:51,520 --> 01:10:53,880 Speaker 3: like that, Like you know, I know people, and it's funny, 1444 01:10:53,920 --> 01:10:56,519 Speaker 3: you know those are That's one feminist or not. That's 1445 01:10:56,520 --> 01:10:58,960 Speaker 3: one tradition that a lot of women will still go 1446 01:10:59,120 --> 01:11:01,240 Speaker 3: up for. It is like this idea of man by 1447 01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:04,800 Speaker 3: an expensive ring and doing this big grand gesture of 1448 01:11:04,840 --> 01:11:07,599 Speaker 3: love and ship and then people openly mock like women 1449 01:11:07,640 --> 01:11:10,920 Speaker 3: who propose, which I don't even know what that's supposed 1450 01:11:10,960 --> 01:11:14,720 Speaker 3: to mean for same sex with relationships, but whatever. But 1451 01:11:14,880 --> 01:11:17,400 Speaker 3: some of those gender norms that we have, we should 1452 01:11:17,400 --> 01:11:20,720 Speaker 3: break them into society because it's limiting people from the 1453 01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:23,920 Speaker 3: time they're born. Like, it's not just about the idea 1454 01:11:24,040 --> 01:11:25,840 Speaker 3: of I want a man that wants to be me, 1455 01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:28,040 Speaker 3: blah blah. It should also be about the idea of 1456 01:11:28,600 --> 01:11:30,479 Speaker 3: I want a world where a little girl is not 1457 01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:32,680 Speaker 3: always worried about finding the man that wants to be 1458 01:11:32,760 --> 01:11:36,160 Speaker 3: with her, you know. And then the other part of 1459 01:11:36,200 --> 01:11:41,480 Speaker 3: it is a lot of these women are not uh 1460 01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:44,720 Speaker 3: getting eight hours of sleep, so that a lot of them, 1461 01:11:45,960 --> 01:11:48,599 Speaker 3: you know what, a lot of them to be rich 1462 01:11:48,720 --> 01:11:50,720 Speaker 3: because of that, which is the key. 1463 01:11:51,320 --> 01:11:51,519 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1464 01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:55,640 Speaker 6: And also for me, you know, for us, we're to 1465 01:11:55,680 --> 01:12:00,360 Speaker 6: an extent somewhat non traditional very because I pursue you. 1466 01:12:00,520 --> 01:12:03,679 Speaker 5: And it was hilarious. I remember I. 1467 01:12:03,560 --> 01:12:07,519 Speaker 6: Was like sixteen and my mama somebody gave me some 1468 01:12:07,560 --> 01:12:10,240 Speaker 6: tickets to like this and this wasn't this was this 1469 01:12:10,320 --> 01:12:12,240 Speaker 6: was not I don't think it was Tyler Perry, but 1470 01:12:12,280 --> 01:12:14,120 Speaker 6: it was like a Tyler Perry es play. 1471 01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:17,479 Speaker 5: And so it was beauty shop too, Okay, beauty shop too. 1472 01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:21,160 Speaker 6: And so I had some tickets and my mama was like, well, 1473 01:12:21,160 --> 01:12:22,160 Speaker 6: who do you want to go with? 1474 01:12:22,280 --> 01:12:23,640 Speaker 5: And I thought about it. I was like well, I 1475 01:12:23,800 --> 01:12:24,679 Speaker 5: go with Roderick. 1476 01:12:24,840 --> 01:12:27,880 Speaker 6: So me and my mama took me down there and 1477 01:12:28,680 --> 01:12:31,280 Speaker 6: I asked Roger to go, and Roger he was like no. 1478 01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:35,040 Speaker 6: I was like okay, So I left and went home 1479 01:12:35,120 --> 01:12:36,400 Speaker 6: and was like, well, I guess he. 1480 01:12:36,439 --> 01:12:37,120 Speaker 4: Don't like me. 1481 01:12:39,280 --> 01:12:42,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. I didn't realize what that was at the time. 1482 01:12:43,200 --> 01:12:45,080 Speaker 4: I was like, well, I guess I move on. 1483 01:12:45,680 --> 01:12:47,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, after I said after I said that, like all 1484 01:12:47,800 --> 01:12:49,360 Speaker 3: the dudes at the basketball called her like, you got 1485 01:12:49,400 --> 01:12:51,760 Speaker 3: your fucking mind. I was like, what what what are 1486 01:12:51,800 --> 01:12:53,960 Speaker 3: y'all talking about? Were playing basketball? It's like you played 1487 01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:58,240 Speaker 3: basketball with us, sweaty ass niggas every day, Like no 1488 01:12:58,400 --> 01:13:01,599 Speaker 3: girls ever come around here. If a girl did, obviously 1489 01:13:01,640 --> 01:13:05,439 Speaker 3: we wouldn't be playing basketball. Uh. And I was like, oh, yeah, 1490 01:13:05,479 --> 01:13:09,360 Speaker 3: I guess maybe that was like something. And so then 1491 01:13:09,400 --> 01:13:11,479 Speaker 3: I ran back into the house and I was like, 1492 01:13:11,520 --> 01:13:13,960 Speaker 3: it's too late to change my mind. And uh, luckily 1493 01:13:14,040 --> 01:13:18,320 Speaker 3: it worked out and that was our first date. But yeah, 1494 01:13:18,360 --> 01:13:21,120 Speaker 3: it could have been Uh could have been way worse. 1495 01:13:21,160 --> 01:13:24,439 Speaker 3: It could have been curtains. But we've been doing a 1496 01:13:24,479 --> 01:13:26,559 Speaker 3: lot of non traditional stuff like that. You know, we 1497 01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:29,600 Speaker 3: have had kids, we don't have a house. We do 1498 01:13:29,680 --> 01:13:34,720 Speaker 3: this business. Uh, yeah, yeah, and I try to be 1499 01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:37,559 Speaker 3: like everybody else because I'm sure you know, people would 1500 01:13:37,600 --> 01:13:41,240 Speaker 3: have told us that, you know, we should have you know, 1501 01:13:41,400 --> 01:13:43,880 Speaker 3: people would have told us like, nah, just do this thing, 1502 01:13:43,920 --> 01:13:47,800 Speaker 3: fit in this bubble, follow this path. But you know 1503 01:13:48,120 --> 01:13:49,040 Speaker 3: that wasn't for us. 1504 01:13:50,040 --> 01:13:56,400 Speaker 2: They had our full support in living their best lives. 1505 01:13:56,479 --> 01:13:59,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I remember that day I was playing basketball 1506 01:14:00,400 --> 01:14:02,920 Speaker 3: and I was out there scoring buckets on them dudes 1507 01:14:04,040 --> 01:14:10,599 Speaker 3: and looking all right. All the fellaws was like, what's 1508 01:14:10,640 --> 01:14:14,679 Speaker 3: going on? Rod? And Karen came down there and I said, 1509 01:14:14,680 --> 01:14:17,280 Speaker 3: hold up, players, hold up, let me go check on 1510 01:14:17,320 --> 01:14:19,840 Speaker 3: see what this chickens has to say to me. And 1511 01:14:19,920 --> 01:14:22,360 Speaker 3: she was like, uh, I would love for you to 1512 01:14:22,400 --> 01:14:25,840 Speaker 3: go and come to a play with me. And I 1513 01:14:25,920 --> 01:14:27,519 Speaker 3: was like, a play? Who the hell want to see 1514 01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:31,360 Speaker 3: a play? And we just can. We just talked on 1515 01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:34,320 Speaker 3: the bus like we always do, and she was like, well, 1516 01:14:34,760 --> 01:14:36,479 Speaker 3: I mean if you're not doing nothing, I was like, 1517 01:14:36,479 --> 01:14:37,719 Speaker 3: can't you see him playing basketball? 1518 01:14:37,800 --> 01:14:38,120 Speaker 4: Baby? 1519 01:14:38,800 --> 01:14:41,240 Speaker 3: Now gonna get out of here. And then I sit 1520 01:14:41,360 --> 01:14:43,760 Speaker 3: on a way, you know, because you always gotta tell 1521 01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:46,439 Speaker 3: them no fellas at first, you know, don't just give 1522 01:14:46,479 --> 01:14:48,960 Speaker 3: it away by yourself. That's gone with a lot of 1523 01:14:48,960 --> 01:14:50,760 Speaker 3: you men, y'all out here giving me this a way. 1524 01:14:52,960 --> 01:14:56,240 Speaker 3: Y'all was out here just giving me like it's having 1525 01:14:56,280 --> 01:15:00,840 Speaker 3: a half off sale. I value myself and look at 1526 01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:02,680 Speaker 3: me now winning. 1527 01:15:05,080 --> 01:15:06,960 Speaker 5: I know, like it's one of thother things where they don't. 1528 01:15:07,200 --> 01:15:10,240 Speaker 5: And you know, I never realized how I might sound weird, 1529 01:15:10,240 --> 01:15:10,799 Speaker 5: but I never. 1530 01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:15,120 Speaker 6: Realized how non traditional me and Roger is, even when 1531 01:15:15,120 --> 01:15:19,080 Speaker 6: it comes to the the autonomy of my body. And 1532 01:15:19,120 --> 01:15:22,000 Speaker 6: when I went natural and cutting my hair, and people, 1533 01:15:22,360 --> 01:15:25,599 Speaker 6: even even years ago, people used to be like, you 1534 01:15:25,640 --> 01:15:28,120 Speaker 6: have kids, and I was particularly after I first got married. 1535 01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:29,920 Speaker 6: I know, they were like, your husband don't want to 1536 01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:33,000 Speaker 6: have no kids. I was like no, you know, like 1537 01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:36,599 Speaker 6: like they would presume certain things and they would be like, 1538 01:15:37,280 --> 01:15:39,760 Speaker 6: you cut your hair, and I'd be like, yes, I cut. 1539 01:15:39,800 --> 01:15:42,080 Speaker 6: But seeing cutting my hair was not new to me. 1540 01:15:42,240 --> 01:15:44,160 Speaker 6: My mother lawm be doing my hair for years, y'all. 1541 01:15:44,200 --> 01:15:47,800 Speaker 6: I had went from Tony Braxton to just sewing. 1542 01:15:47,560 --> 01:15:48,759 Speaker 4: Weeds to the gluen. 1543 01:15:48,840 --> 01:15:52,160 Speaker 6: Were like, like, I I am a am a savant 1544 01:15:52,240 --> 01:15:54,679 Speaker 6: when it comes to the to the hair and the colors. 1545 01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:55,000 Speaker 5: Honey. 1546 01:15:55,760 --> 01:15:57,759 Speaker 3: That day that she came down to the court, y'all, 1547 01:15:58,400 --> 01:16:02,320 Speaker 3: I saw her Jared Carroll was just glistening in the 1548 01:16:02,360 --> 01:16:09,120 Speaker 3: evening moon, just dripping everywhere, and uh, I said, listen, 1549 01:16:10,040 --> 01:16:12,000 Speaker 3: maybe you need to pay some extra excavator on that 1550 01:16:12,040 --> 01:16:14,799 Speaker 3: if you want to go out with me. And uh 1551 01:16:15,080 --> 01:16:16,520 Speaker 3: it worked out, guys. 1552 01:16:16,640 --> 01:16:19,599 Speaker 5: It worked out. Benign tradition of y'all, like clef. 1553 01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:23,880 Speaker 3: All right, we gotta get into our game. We've been 1554 01:16:23,960 --> 01:16:26,080 Speaker 3: going kind of long here. It's time to start wrapping up. 1555 01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:28,600 Speaker 3: First game we have, of course, is fucking. 1556 01:16:28,320 --> 01:16:39,120 Speaker 7: With black people. Were just fucking with those black people, 1557 01:16:39,280 --> 01:16:40,280 Speaker 7: with just fucking. 1558 01:16:40,080 --> 01:16:40,799 Speaker 4: With those blacks. 1559 01:16:41,080 --> 01:16:45,719 Speaker 3: We're just fucking with fucking with black people. That's right, guys, 1560 01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:47,400 Speaker 3: Time to play the game we all hate to play. 1561 01:16:47,439 --> 01:16:49,519 Speaker 3: It's fucking with black people. The game. We go all 1562 01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:51,320 Speaker 3: round the globe, flying different articles make us feel fuck 1563 01:16:51,360 --> 01:16:53,240 Speaker 3: with the Willson points scores with Zio T one hundred 1564 01:16:53,400 --> 01:16:59,479 Speaker 3: at intervals of twenty five. Today's contesteds, well, everybody, all 1565 01:16:59,520 --> 01:17:03,600 Speaker 3: the time. Today we got a very special fuck with 1566 01:17:03,640 --> 01:17:07,840 Speaker 3: black people. It is a movie trailer. I'm just gonna 1567 01:17:07,880 --> 01:17:10,479 Speaker 3: let the trailer speak for itself. Let me reload it 1568 01:17:12,680 --> 01:17:14,760 Speaker 3: and we'll see see if you guys are interested in 1569 01:17:14,840 --> 01:17:15,120 Speaker 3: seeing that. 1570 01:17:15,240 --> 01:17:18,320 Speaker 6: You always say the right thing, just the right person. 1571 01:17:18,640 --> 01:17:19,479 Speaker 3: What's your secret? 1572 01:17:19,960 --> 01:17:24,000 Speaker 1: I'm really just talking to myself. I don't charge for 1573 01:17:24,120 --> 01:17:24,679 Speaker 1: my advice. 1574 01:17:25,040 --> 01:17:27,320 Speaker 5: Well you should, because it was amazing. 1575 01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:30,280 Speaker 4: I saw this, and I saw that you will be 1576 01:17:30,280 --> 01:17:30,720 Speaker 4: a hitch. 1577 01:17:30,920 --> 01:17:35,120 Speaker 3: Now it's a white guy in the bar and people 1578 01:17:35,120 --> 01:17:37,559 Speaker 3: are saying you should like go and do so much 1579 01:17:37,600 --> 01:17:41,679 Speaker 3: your advice. He sees a piece of paper wanted ad 1580 01:17:41,840 --> 01:17:47,639 Speaker 3: which nineteen that says radio. They're hiring at the radio, 1581 01:17:48,320 --> 01:17:51,519 Speaker 3: but and women and minorities are encouraged to to apply. 1582 01:17:51,800 --> 01:17:58,400 Speaker 3: All right, then back to the video. Uh, whenever you're ready, 1583 01:17:59,600 --> 01:18:02,760 Speaker 3: all right, see no, welcome. 1584 01:18:02,520 --> 01:18:05,280 Speaker 1: To the Joe Show. By submitted myself to a radio 1585 01:18:05,320 --> 01:18:09,519 Speaker 1: station from my own show. Congratulations, they were rejected. 1586 01:18:10,520 --> 01:18:14,280 Speaker 3: Congratulations, you weren't right for your own show. 1587 01:18:14,920 --> 01:18:16,960 Speaker 5: Jason, you need to get the. 1588 01:18:16,920 --> 01:18:21,120 Speaker 3: Money for this school thirteen thousand a semester. 1589 01:18:22,640 --> 01:18:24,920 Speaker 1: Dash, he needs your own show. I was a black woman, 1590 01:18:25,200 --> 01:18:26,520 Speaker 1: I think perfect. 1591 01:18:29,439 --> 01:18:32,080 Speaker 3: So he seems to see some type of very cheaply 1592 01:18:32,120 --> 01:18:35,880 Speaker 3: animated Jerry Springer as show or two black women arguing, 1593 01:18:35,960 --> 01:18:38,080 Speaker 3: and he's like, oh, I bet if I was a 1594 01:18:38,120 --> 01:18:41,559 Speaker 3: black woman, I could have gotten me my own radio show. Right, okay, 1595 01:18:41,680 --> 01:18:44,000 Speaker 3: all right, apply just moving along. 1596 01:18:46,080 --> 01:18:49,200 Speaker 1: I know get her in the biggest thing in radio. 1597 01:18:49,439 --> 01:18:51,080 Speaker 1: But I still need my innimy. 1598 01:18:51,360 --> 01:18:51,600 Speaker 3: You know. 1599 01:18:53,280 --> 01:18:55,000 Speaker 1: A crime statter? 1600 01:18:55,800 --> 01:19:00,920 Speaker 3: You love lope now? U he's that him, still talking 1601 01:19:01,520 --> 01:19:03,640 Speaker 3: saying it's gonna be the big thing in radio. I 1602 01:19:03,720 --> 01:19:05,400 Speaker 3: just need my anonymity. 1603 01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:06,320 Speaker 2: Uh. 1604 01:19:06,400 --> 01:19:09,479 Speaker 3: He also goes to a radio studio now to do 1605 01:19:09,520 --> 01:19:12,160 Speaker 3: this radio show, and there's a black guy that seems 1606 01:19:12,160 --> 01:19:14,200 Speaker 3: to be his friend that says it's not it's just 1607 01:19:14,320 --> 01:19:18,599 Speaker 3: radio's theater. So he's cool with the plan. Okay, what's 1608 01:19:18,640 --> 01:19:19,280 Speaker 3: your problem? 1609 01:19:21,360 --> 01:19:23,840 Speaker 1: Oh, I ain't talking to you, not the way you found. 1610 01:19:23,600 --> 01:19:25,360 Speaker 3: Let's calling you go girl? 1611 01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:27,760 Speaker 1: Did you just be good at her? If you're good 1612 01:19:27,760 --> 01:19:30,479 Speaker 1: at yourself, you can be good at others. Don't be 1613 01:19:30,560 --> 01:19:35,000 Speaker 1: too good because the police are coming around. I got 1614 01:19:35,040 --> 01:19:38,760 Speaker 1: another job, what work? What the hell would you know 1615 01:19:38,800 --> 01:19:41,400 Speaker 1: about being a white guy? Anyway? I know quite a bit. 1616 01:19:42,479 --> 01:19:46,679 Speaker 2: Quis is a real book for every African American woman's play. 1617 01:19:48,240 --> 01:19:51,240 Speaker 2: It's like the whole city has a Quisia mania and 1618 01:19:51,520 --> 01:19:53,479 Speaker 2: Little Cichet what was that? 1619 01:19:53,960 --> 01:19:54,360 Speaker 4: I think? 1620 01:19:54,360 --> 01:19:56,280 Speaker 1: I like the a black woman trapped in on white 1621 01:19:56,280 --> 01:19:56,920 Speaker 1: man's body. 1622 01:19:57,040 --> 01:19:59,439 Speaker 7: You need to talk to little Chu just because she's 1623 01:19:59,479 --> 01:20:02,360 Speaker 7: a woman, a black person, being that she doesn't understand 1624 01:20:03,200 --> 01:20:03,519 Speaker 7: this is. 1625 01:20:03,640 --> 01:20:07,720 Speaker 2: Really I'm on of friends above the River, So I'm 1626 01:20:07,760 --> 01:20:08,360 Speaker 2: gonna jump. 1627 01:20:08,520 --> 01:20:10,360 Speaker 1: Well, thanks for calling and enjoy you jump. 1628 01:20:12,680 --> 01:20:14,000 Speaker 5: I gotta start listening to her. 1629 01:20:17,720 --> 01:20:22,120 Speaker 3: So Loquista the movie about a white man pretending to 1630 01:20:22,160 --> 01:20:26,519 Speaker 3: be a black woman on the radio, one hundred from 1631 01:20:26,560 --> 01:20:30,800 Speaker 3: my mom Karen A hundred, All right, Yeah, I think 1632 01:20:30,800 --> 01:20:33,719 Speaker 3: I gotta give it a hundred as well. I wonder 1633 01:20:33,920 --> 01:20:38,000 Speaker 3: if it's a joke, like, like, not a joke is 1634 01:20:38,040 --> 01:20:40,920 Speaker 3: in this movie? Is is such a funny joke? I mean, 1635 01:20:40,960 --> 01:20:43,240 Speaker 3: I wonder if like this is a like we're trying 1636 01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:46,640 Speaker 3: to go viral with a video or something like. I 1637 01:20:47,240 --> 01:20:49,040 Speaker 3: have a hard time believing this movie's gonna come out 1638 01:20:49,080 --> 01:20:52,120 Speaker 3: and be in theaters or anywhere people can watch it. 1639 01:20:52,120 --> 01:20:55,120 Speaker 3: It looks so cheaply made, and it's edited in a 1640 01:20:55,160 --> 01:20:59,760 Speaker 3: way that's like like extremely offensive on every level. Like 1641 01:20:59,800 --> 01:21:02,880 Speaker 3: it's such as it's the kind of movie that people claim, 1642 01:21:02,960 --> 01:21:05,160 Speaker 3: like Green Book was, you know what I mean, where 1643 01:21:05,200 --> 01:21:08,280 Speaker 3: it's like black men in there just to be like 1644 01:21:08,320 --> 01:21:12,080 Speaker 3: it's cool with me, black women in there that just 1645 01:21:12,080 --> 01:21:15,360 Speaker 3: to be imitated and mocked. His impression of a black 1646 01:21:15,400 --> 01:21:17,880 Speaker 3: woman is terrible, Like I'm not saying that if it 1647 01:21:17,920 --> 01:21:21,519 Speaker 3: was great, it would be better or different, but it 1648 01:21:21,560 --> 01:21:23,320 Speaker 3: would be better if it was great, you. 1649 01:21:23,280 --> 01:21:25,400 Speaker 6: Know, Like I don't like it. 1650 01:21:25,400 --> 01:21:28,840 Speaker 4: I don't like the concept of it. Right, it's so stereotypical, 1651 01:21:29,360 --> 01:21:33,559 Speaker 4: and why not do the reverse? It never does the reverse. 1652 01:21:33,640 --> 01:21:38,800 Speaker 2: They always commodify blackness to where they can make money. 1653 01:21:38,560 --> 01:21:41,880 Speaker 3: Off of it, right, Like that's the thing what's more 1654 01:21:42,000 --> 01:21:45,559 Speaker 3: likely to happen in life, like uh, you know that. 1655 01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:48,439 Speaker 3: And it's such a white male perspective, right, it's always 1656 01:21:48,479 --> 01:21:51,759 Speaker 3: like Tootsie because me it can't get jobs, but a woman. 1657 01:21:52,080 --> 01:21:54,960 Speaker 3: Now see, women have it so easy, you know, and 1658 01:21:55,000 --> 01:21:57,480 Speaker 3: this is that thing, right, It's that it's that insulting, 1659 01:21:57,600 --> 01:21:59,880 Speaker 3: like black women have it so much easier than white 1660 01:22:00,479 --> 01:22:02,960 Speaker 3: So I'm just gonna be a black woman because the 1661 01:22:03,040 --> 01:22:05,800 Speaker 3: world is an oyster for a black women. You know, 1662 01:22:05,840 --> 01:22:08,840 Speaker 3: they just giving jobs. You don't even gotta be qualified. 1663 01:22:08,880 --> 01:22:12,120 Speaker 3: You can be anonymous, you know. It's that type of thing. 1664 01:22:12,320 --> 01:22:17,439 Speaker 3: So oh yes, anyway, I like I said, maybe it's 1665 01:22:17,439 --> 01:22:21,360 Speaker 3: some sort of like viral like trolling thing because I 1666 01:22:21,400 --> 01:22:23,120 Speaker 3: want to allow for that just for the fact, not 1667 01:22:23,200 --> 01:22:26,160 Speaker 3: because I think that'll make it better, but because I'm 1668 01:22:26,400 --> 01:22:29,519 Speaker 3: that cynecor at this point that people sometimes do shit 1669 01:22:29,560 --> 01:22:31,920 Speaker 3: where they're like, watch this script blow up on the internet, 1670 01:22:32,400 --> 01:22:34,920 Speaker 3: and I wonder if that's what he's doing. And there's 1671 01:22:34,960 --> 01:22:37,240 Speaker 3: not even a fucking movie because it looks so terrible 1672 01:22:37,320 --> 01:22:40,720 Speaker 3: like it do like just that little clip with the 1673 01:22:40,720 --> 01:22:43,599 Speaker 3: two women on Jerry Springer ass TV, Like it's such 1674 01:22:43,680 --> 01:22:47,360 Speaker 3: green screen bullshit and also low key. Man, I'm disappointing 1675 01:22:47,400 --> 01:22:50,439 Speaker 3: every black person that was in this, Like, I know 1676 01:22:50,479 --> 01:22:52,920 Speaker 3: it's hard to get a job, man, but damn this job. 1677 01:22:52,960 --> 01:22:56,520 Speaker 3: It must have sucked. Like I can't even imagine dogs. 1678 01:22:56,560 --> 01:23:00,880 Speaker 3: So I don't know. Anyway, I give it a hundred 1679 01:23:00,920 --> 01:23:04,479 Speaker 3: as well. Let's see anything else. 1680 01:23:04,520 --> 01:23:04,680 Speaker 4: Oh. 1681 01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:09,639 Speaker 3: BBC road radio host fired for a stupid gag photo 1682 01:23:09,720 --> 01:23:11,639 Speaker 3: targeted at newborn Royal baby. 1683 01:23:13,080 --> 01:23:14,200 Speaker 5: They can't lead them alone. 1684 01:23:14,400 --> 01:23:17,400 Speaker 3: Danny Baker hosts a live Collin show on BBC Radio Fileston, 1685 01:23:17,400 --> 01:23:19,160 Speaker 3: out of since the lead of tweet Wednesday evening a 1686 01:23:19,320 --> 01:23:22,559 Speaker 3: photo of a suited chimpanzee holding hands of a well 1687 01:23:22,640 --> 01:23:25,320 Speaker 3: dressed couple with the cash in Royal baby leaves hospital. 1688 01:23:27,520 --> 01:23:29,360 Speaker 4: It was just a matter of time. He couldn't wait 1689 01:23:29,360 --> 01:23:29,639 Speaker 4: to say. 1690 01:23:30,000 --> 01:23:33,320 Speaker 3: He had to be first, right, he had first? What 1691 01:23:33,439 --> 01:23:35,519 Speaker 3: Baker thought was the time. The joke came just two 1692 01:23:35,600 --> 01:23:38,479 Speaker 3: days after the announcement of the Monday of the Monday 1693 01:23:38,520 --> 01:23:41,120 Speaker 3: birth of the child, who was given the name Archie 1694 01:23:41,120 --> 01:23:44,759 Speaker 3: Harrison Mount Batching windsor Yeah. 1695 01:23:44,600 --> 01:23:46,559 Speaker 6: And they complaining, why ain't y'all have a baby here? 1696 01:23:46,560 --> 01:23:48,320 Speaker 6: She's a Nope, We're going to another country. 1697 01:23:49,080 --> 01:23:51,120 Speaker 3: Baker has the leader to the tweet an issue apology, 1698 01:23:51,160 --> 01:23:54,360 Speaker 3: calling a stupid gag. However, BBC swiftly terminated his employment, 1699 01:23:54,760 --> 01:23:57,680 Speaker 3: understanding the offense to Marco, who was African American and 1700 01:23:57,760 --> 01:24:01,559 Speaker 3: essentially the entire black dash for sorry my gag pick 1701 01:24:01,600 --> 01:24:03,960 Speaker 3: of the little fella in the posh outfit has whipped 1702 01:24:04,000 --> 01:24:08,760 Speaker 3: some up. Uh never occurred to me because well, mine 1703 01:24:08,840 --> 01:24:12,040 Speaker 3: not diseased. As soon as those good enough to point 1704 01:24:12,080 --> 01:24:15,360 Speaker 3: out its possible connotations got in touch down, it came. 1705 01:24:15,400 --> 01:24:18,760 Speaker 3: And that's it. I like how he tries to like 1706 01:24:19,000 --> 01:24:22,840 Speaker 3: be the look, I I'm so not racist that I 1707 01:24:22,960 --> 01:24:25,000 Speaker 3: just did some racist shit because I didn't even know. 1708 01:24:25,040 --> 01:24:26,640 Speaker 3: I was like, what racism is? 1709 01:24:28,640 --> 01:24:29,320 Speaker 4: Bye? 1710 01:24:29,720 --> 01:24:33,599 Speaker 3: You called a baby an ape? But hey, it's just hey, 1711 01:24:33,640 --> 01:24:35,920 Speaker 3: you guys, I don't even know how to Why would 1712 01:24:35,920 --> 01:24:39,920 Speaker 3: I even think of that? So, yeah, that shit is 1713 01:24:39,920 --> 01:24:46,280 Speaker 3: super racist. Hundred what about you guys? Yeah, this is 1714 01:24:46,280 --> 01:24:48,200 Speaker 3: the thing, man, I know people were trying to be 1715 01:24:48,240 --> 01:24:51,680 Speaker 3: super woke about Meghan Marko and uh, she's marrying it 1716 01:24:51,720 --> 01:24:53,880 Speaker 3: to British royalty and that family is this, that and 1717 01:24:53,960 --> 01:24:56,479 Speaker 3: the other. I don't really care. She a black woman, 1718 01:24:56,640 --> 01:24:59,800 Speaker 3: she's from America. I knew she was gonna deal with 1719 01:24:59,800 --> 01:25:02,320 Speaker 3: a bunch of fucking racist ship the second she went 1720 01:25:02,360 --> 01:25:04,280 Speaker 3: over there, and she's gonna have to deal with it 1721 01:25:04,360 --> 01:25:05,800 Speaker 3: for the rest of her life. And I'm gonna be 1722 01:25:05,880 --> 01:25:11,200 Speaker 3: on the side of her pretty much in everyone these situations. Like, 1723 01:25:11,280 --> 01:25:14,559 Speaker 3: I mean, it doesn't excuse like British imperialism or any 1724 01:25:14,560 --> 01:25:17,479 Speaker 3: of that ship. But I'm not gonna just look at 1725 01:25:17,520 --> 01:25:19,680 Speaker 3: people calling her baby a monkey and be like, oh, 1726 01:25:19,720 --> 01:25:23,000 Speaker 3: well that's what you get, Like, fuck you, that's that's terrible. 1727 01:25:24,560 --> 01:25:27,720 Speaker 3: All right, Let's do some guests the race and uh, 1728 01:25:27,960 --> 01:25:30,760 Speaker 3: well we'll get out of here. Let me get my 1729 01:25:30,840 --> 01:25:36,000 Speaker 3: guest the race music. And now it's time for some 1730 01:25:36,080 --> 01:25:37,200 Speaker 3: guests the race. 1731 01:25:38,040 --> 01:25:41,200 Speaker 8: That's right, this guests the race time. 1732 01:25:41,800 --> 01:25:45,920 Speaker 5: Now that it's time for some guest race. That's right, 1733 01:25:46,600 --> 01:25:48,000 Speaker 5: the race time. 1734 01:25:48,320 --> 01:25:52,880 Speaker 3: But that's right, it's time for guess the race. The 1735 01:25:52,960 --> 01:25:55,919 Speaker 3: number one game show going across of all the podcasts 1736 01:25:55,960 --> 01:25:58,280 Speaker 3: land and we well, we played getting news articles and 1737 01:25:58,360 --> 01:26:00,240 Speaker 3: we guess the race of the people involved in these 1738 01:26:00,280 --> 01:26:04,360 Speaker 3: different articles, and of course everyone plays along, including my 1739 01:26:04,479 --> 01:26:08,080 Speaker 3: mom today who's a guest, and Karen and the chat 1740 01:26:08,120 --> 01:26:13,080 Speaker 3: room and everyone playing is racist, that's right. First article 1741 01:26:13,840 --> 01:26:16,240 Speaker 3: video of a New Jersey man urinating on a police 1742 01:26:16,320 --> 01:26:18,840 Speaker 3: vehicle as a crowd cheered was a personal insult, says 1743 01:26:18,840 --> 01:26:19,120 Speaker 3: a cop. 1744 01:26:19,720 --> 01:26:20,080 Speaker 4: Okay. 1745 01:26:20,479 --> 01:26:22,599 Speaker 3: The New Jersey man was arrested Sunday after police say 1746 01:26:22,640 --> 01:26:25,080 Speaker 3: a video appeared on social media appearing to show the 1747 01:26:25,120 --> 01:26:29,200 Speaker 3: suspect urinating on an unoccupied Newark police SUV with a 1748 01:26:29,520 --> 01:26:33,880 Speaker 3: while a crowd cheered him on. To Queer Boy twenty two, 1749 01:26:34,400 --> 01:26:37,000 Speaker 3: the man allegedly seen the video shot Saturday night, appeared 1750 01:26:37,000 --> 01:26:39,479 Speaker 3: to relieve himself on the Mark police vehicle parked outside 1751 01:26:39,520 --> 01:26:42,719 Speaker 3: of city Plexwel Movie Theater, The Newark Department of Police 1752 01:26:42,720 --> 01:26:44,680 Speaker 3: Safety said in a statement. Boy was arrested at his 1753 01:26:44,760 --> 01:26:48,960 Speaker 3: home just hours after citizens alerted police to the video. Snitches. 1754 01:26:49,720 --> 01:26:53,880 Speaker 3: We absolutely will not tolerate disrespect to our police, said 1755 01:26:53,920 --> 01:26:57,760 Speaker 3: the Newark Public Safety Director, Anthony f. Ambrose. We take 1756 01:26:57,800 --> 01:27:00,479 Speaker 3: this as a personal insult. When our department I'm aware 1757 01:27:00,479 --> 01:27:03,000 Speaker 3: of this, we quickly moved to apprehendos suspect. Boyd was 1758 01:27:03,080 --> 01:27:06,439 Speaker 3: charged with lowding, his criminal mischief, and disorderly conduct. The 1759 01:27:06,479 --> 01:27:10,040 Speaker 3: West Orange native was previously arrested in October for burglarizing 1760 01:27:10,040 --> 01:27:14,320 Speaker 3: a police cruiser parked outside of Hoboken police headquarters. So 1761 01:27:14,400 --> 01:27:17,120 Speaker 3: just like his thing, goodness, he just see police cars 1762 01:27:17,160 --> 01:27:20,559 Speaker 3: and go off by. Boyd and another man have rummers 1763 01:27:20,560 --> 01:27:23,160 Speaker 3: through the car, throwing two summons books on the ground 1764 01:27:23,160 --> 01:27:27,439 Speaker 3: and unzipping or knock hand kicked. Ambrose said that the 1765 01:27:27,479 --> 01:27:30,559 Speaker 3: police bringing the video to the attention of police shows 1766 01:27:30,560 --> 01:27:33,400 Speaker 3: that mutual respect between authorities and citizens of Newark is building. 1767 01:27:33,720 --> 01:27:36,080 Speaker 3: The police want to be respected and want the police, 1768 01:27:36,120 --> 01:27:38,600 Speaker 3: and I guess it wants the polar wants to be 1769 01:27:38,640 --> 01:27:42,760 Speaker 3: respected and wants the police to be respected to all right, car, 1770 01:27:42,920 --> 01:27:44,519 Speaker 3: guess the race of the queer Boyd? 1771 01:27:44,800 --> 01:27:45,160 Speaker 5: Black? 1772 01:27:45,560 --> 01:27:48,320 Speaker 4: Mom, he's blacking, Look you as hell. 1773 01:27:48,840 --> 01:27:51,960 Speaker 3: Let's check the chat room see what they believe about 1774 01:27:52,000 --> 01:27:57,680 Speaker 3: this man. Let's see black, says Jane Black black the 1775 01:27:57,760 --> 01:28:06,559 Speaker 3: goat black fucked well black loquisha, I know that, Uh 1776 01:28:07,000 --> 01:28:11,160 Speaker 3: Whyn't he using like a nineteen fifties slave like imitation 1777 01:28:11,280 --> 01:28:13,640 Speaker 3: of the black voice too, and didn't sound like no 1778 01:28:13,720 --> 01:28:16,519 Speaker 3: black woman alive today? Why are you watch going with 1779 01:28:16,560 --> 01:28:20,479 Speaker 3: the wind, and was like, I can do this. Uh, 1780 01:28:20,640 --> 01:28:24,760 Speaker 3: he's a niggro boy black. We need more like him, 1781 01:28:24,880 --> 01:28:28,559 Speaker 3: black and black. The correct answer is black. You guys 1782 01:28:28,640 --> 01:28:38,040 Speaker 3: all got it right. I think it was the name 1783 01:28:38,080 --> 01:28:38,800 Speaker 3: that gave it away. 1784 01:28:39,439 --> 01:28:40,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure. 1785 01:28:40,400 --> 01:28:45,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, the queer boyd. And then of course it's a 1786 01:28:45,680 --> 01:28:49,120 Speaker 3: as always we like those unique spellings. It's A T 1787 01:28:49,200 --> 01:28:56,200 Speaker 3: A U blacks, Yeah, t A U q e e R. 1788 01:28:56,439 --> 01:28:59,280 Speaker 3: So no, no, you after the Q before the Q 1789 01:28:59,439 --> 01:29:02,120 Speaker 3: because we we got swaged like that that game of 1790 01:29:02,160 --> 01:29:07,960 Speaker 3: throne spelling. But yeah, that's him, Yeah. 1791 01:29:08,640 --> 01:29:10,719 Speaker 5: Talking about citizens and police. No racism. 1792 01:29:10,840 --> 01:29:13,880 Speaker 3: They was like, get that nigger, Yeah, that's other things 1793 01:29:13,920 --> 01:29:15,920 Speaker 3: like how dare that nigga pey on that car? 1794 01:29:16,080 --> 01:29:16,800 Speaker 4: Yeah he was white. 1795 01:29:18,080 --> 01:29:21,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's uh let me pause it real quick. So 1796 01:29:22,600 --> 01:29:27,200 Speaker 3: all right now to the next story. Let's see how 1797 01:29:27,280 --> 01:29:33,800 Speaker 3: about this one speaking of the police UC had sex 1798 01:29:33,920 --> 01:29:39,080 Speaker 3: in front of the police headquarters to Florida love birds 1799 01:29:39,080 --> 01:29:42,840 Speaker 3: are facing of course, Florida are facing criminal charges after 1800 01:29:42,840 --> 01:29:45,879 Speaker 3: they were having sex Monday night on the sidewalk outside 1801 01:29:45,920 --> 01:29:50,479 Speaker 3: the police headquarters in Key West. Cops said, Gary Hill 1802 01:29:50,640 --> 01:29:53,720 Speaker 3: and Crystal Francis or Franks. I don't know how you 1803 01:29:53,720 --> 01:29:57,200 Speaker 3: pronounced that. I had shared a pint of vodka before 1804 01:29:57,560 --> 01:30:01,599 Speaker 3: they began having a tryst in public. Cops learned about 1805 01:30:01,640 --> 01:30:04,200 Speaker 3: the coupling around nine pm when the female passed aby 1806 01:30:04,240 --> 01:30:06,960 Speaker 3: who reported that a duo was poised to have sex 1807 01:30:06,960 --> 01:30:11,560 Speaker 3: in front of the headquarters. Snitch again man. When the 1808 01:30:11,640 --> 01:30:14,080 Speaker 3: patrol men went outside to investigator, he spotted at forty 1809 01:30:14,120 --> 01:30:16,160 Speaker 3: six year old Hill with his pass down having sex 1810 01:30:16,160 --> 01:30:20,200 Speaker 3: with Francis, who was not wearing pants or underwear dah 1811 01:30:20,640 --> 01:30:23,320 Speaker 3: the couple. The couple lying down on the sidewalk was 1812 01:30:23,360 --> 01:30:27,760 Speaker 3: actively engaging in sexual intercourse. Police said, I'm horny. Hill said, 1813 01:30:27,800 --> 01:30:31,040 Speaker 3: when confronted by the officer, she was giving it up 1814 01:30:31,080 --> 01:30:34,519 Speaker 3: to me right then and there. He'll seen above. Will 1815 01:30:34,560 --> 01:30:37,519 Speaker 3: also chalk up the elicited encounter as a Key West moment. 1816 01:30:38,960 --> 01:30:42,120 Speaker 3: I've never heard the truer thing in that. Hill was 1817 01:30:42,200 --> 01:30:44,880 Speaker 3: arrested for a decent exposure and booked into the Monroe 1818 01:30:44,960 --> 01:30:48,479 Speaker 3: County Jail on misdemeanor charge. He'll whose addresses listed as 1819 01:30:48,640 --> 01:30:54,240 Speaker 3: the streets of Key West. In jail records, the street 1820 01:30:54,560 --> 01:30:58,000 Speaker 3: from the streets is locked up on seventy five hundred 1821 01:30:58,000 --> 01:31:03,320 Speaker 3: dollars bond as schedule for arrangement once Francis was not 1822 01:31:03,520 --> 01:31:06,080 Speaker 3: arrested at the scene, since she was severely entire kated, 1823 01:31:06,400 --> 01:31:08,639 Speaker 3: that was taken to the hospital for treatment and arrest 1824 01:31:08,680 --> 01:31:13,519 Speaker 3: Warners is likely in her future as well. Man, good grief, 1825 01:31:13,600 --> 01:31:15,360 Speaker 3: this is a terrible story. So guess the race of 1826 01:31:16,840 --> 01:31:18,639 Speaker 3: what's this guy's name, Gary Hill? 1827 01:31:18,720 --> 01:31:19,479 Speaker 5: Everybody white? 1828 01:31:19,920 --> 01:31:21,799 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the white, that's the white stuff. 1829 01:31:21,920 --> 01:31:27,000 Speaker 3: Okay, everybody's going with white. Let's take the chat room white, white, white, white, 1830 01:31:28,000 --> 01:31:34,240 Speaker 3: Like everybody went white, all of the white. Uh, well, 1831 01:31:34,800 --> 01:31:38,120 Speaker 3: everybody went white on this one and everyone guess what. 1832 01:31:38,400 --> 01:31:54,439 Speaker 3: You gotta correct, they were white. You know, he was 1833 01:31:54,520 --> 01:31:56,400 Speaker 3: drunk too, because he was mad at the cops, like 1834 01:31:56,479 --> 01:32:01,559 Speaker 3: y'all cock blocking. I was finally getting some But I 1835 01:32:01,600 --> 01:32:05,240 Speaker 3: just hope that wasn't no type of sexual photo. Yeah, 1836 01:32:05,320 --> 01:32:07,800 Speaker 3: well obviously I was. I mean, because you gotta think 1837 01:32:07,840 --> 01:32:09,960 Speaker 3: it was two seconds from when they caught him to 1838 01:32:10,000 --> 01:32:11,000 Speaker 3: take them to the police. 1839 01:32:10,720 --> 01:32:13,960 Speaker 6: Station, so that's not writing for They didn't have no 1840 01:32:14,320 --> 01:32:16,160 Speaker 6: riding time to be so that was like just walk 1841 01:32:16,200 --> 01:32:17,000 Speaker 6: up these steps, sir. 1842 01:32:17,000 --> 01:32:20,120 Speaker 3: He had no time to sober up, if you will. 1843 01:32:21,160 --> 01:32:23,479 Speaker 3: But yeah, I just hope the being that they took 1844 01:32:23,520 --> 01:32:25,080 Speaker 3: her to the hospital, I just hope that there wasn't 1845 01:32:25,120 --> 01:32:26,719 Speaker 3: no sexual assault related type stuff. 1846 01:32:26,760 --> 01:32:28,320 Speaker 5: That was probably what they would to go check on. 1847 01:32:28,520 --> 01:32:31,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, but then they're expecting to put charges on her too, 1848 01:32:31,920 --> 01:32:37,719 Speaker 3: so who knows. All right, let's see uh last one. 1849 01:32:39,200 --> 01:32:43,240 Speaker 3: Uh let me get my bonus round music out here we. 1850 01:32:43,240 --> 01:32:58,280 Speaker 8: Go saying the rast. 1851 01:32:58,520 --> 01:33:00,920 Speaker 3: That's right, double the points, double right, bonus round against 1852 01:33:00,920 --> 01:33:03,200 Speaker 3: the race. So far, my mom and Karen are two 1853 01:33:03,280 --> 01:33:07,120 Speaker 3: for two. But will they be able to take it 1854 01:33:07,160 --> 01:33:10,400 Speaker 3: to three for three and finish out a perfect mother's day? 1855 01:33:11,080 --> 01:33:13,160 Speaker 3: I'm try let's find out. 1856 01:33:13,479 --> 01:33:14,240 Speaker 5: Can't promise, y'all. 1857 01:33:14,320 --> 01:33:14,599 Speaker 4: Nothing. 1858 01:33:14,880 --> 01:33:18,599 Speaker 3: Police search thief of hundreds of dollars worth of Dove 1859 01:33:18,720 --> 01:33:20,000 Speaker 3: products and seafood. 1860 01:33:21,120 --> 01:33:23,080 Speaker 5: Dove products like soap. 1861 01:33:23,600 --> 01:33:30,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, Dove products and seafood Lower Allentown right Lower Allen 1862 01:33:30,400 --> 01:33:33,440 Speaker 3: Township Police will call to a non active theft situation. 1863 01:33:35,920 --> 01:33:38,040 Speaker 3: According to police, they received the report that around seven 1864 01:33:38,080 --> 01:33:40,120 Speaker 3: thirty pm, a twenty third a blue Honda with a 1865 01:33:40,120 --> 01:33:43,320 Speaker 3: PA registration arrived at the store. A man with a 1866 01:33:43,360 --> 01:33:46,439 Speaker 3: shaved head glass and neck tattoo, wearing a long sleeve 1867 01:33:46,520 --> 01:33:49,040 Speaker 3: green shirt, shorts and a backpack. End of the store 1868 01:33:49,080 --> 01:33:52,839 Speaker 3: with an acquaintance man. The other man had a goatee 1869 01:33:52,880 --> 01:33:56,120 Speaker 3: wearing a Philadelphia seventy six ers hat. The white man, 1870 01:33:56,520 --> 01:34:00,479 Speaker 3: I fucked up, never mind to get this one. The 1871 01:34:00,479 --> 01:34:03,120 Speaker 3: white man. The black man. Y'all say, y'all know, damn it. 1872 01:34:04,880 --> 01:34:05,880 Speaker 3: They had it in the article. 1873 01:34:06,240 --> 01:34:10,160 Speaker 6: All right, well, let's do He was like, that's what 1874 01:34:10,200 --> 01:34:10,559 Speaker 6: they got. 1875 01:34:10,600 --> 01:34:11,360 Speaker 4: I was reading it. 1876 01:34:11,800 --> 01:34:13,760 Speaker 3: I tried it well, I avoided it twice and then 1877 01:34:13,800 --> 01:34:14,840 Speaker 3: the third when they got me. 1878 01:34:15,840 --> 01:34:17,040 Speaker 5: The third when they got it. 1879 01:34:17,720 --> 01:34:21,800 Speaker 3: All right, let's see, how about we'll do another on man, 1880 01:34:21,880 --> 01:34:27,200 Speaker 3: Let's do this one a Texas man. Of course, Texas 1881 01:34:27,920 --> 01:34:31,640 Speaker 3: pistol whipped his ex revealing his criminal pass to his 1882 01:34:31,760 --> 01:34:37,519 Speaker 3: new girlfriend. Oh shit, a Texas man has been to 1883 01:34:37,600 --> 01:34:40,800 Speaker 3: kill pistolhooping his ex girlfriend because the woman had told 1884 01:34:40,800 --> 01:34:44,720 Speaker 3: his new girlfriend about his criminal past. Kenneth Man, twenty six, 1885 01:34:44,840 --> 01:34:47,120 Speaker 3: was arrested on Saturday on the charge of aggravated sort 1886 01:34:47,240 --> 01:34:48,840 Speaker 3: daily weapons, stemming from what. 1887 01:34:48,720 --> 01:34:50,040 Speaker 4: Then why would the new girlfriend? 1888 01:34:50,040 --> 01:34:50,720 Speaker 5: Won't you then? 1889 01:34:51,120 --> 01:34:51,240 Speaker 4: Like? 1890 01:34:51,560 --> 01:34:52,080 Speaker 3: What you mean? 1891 01:34:52,120 --> 01:34:54,080 Speaker 5: You told me you got a criminal past? Did you 1892 01:34:54,160 --> 01:34:55,680 Speaker 5: pistolhooping the other girlfriend. 1893 01:34:55,840 --> 01:34:59,040 Speaker 3: No, so that's not what happened. The ex girlfriend told 1894 01:34:59,080 --> 01:35:01,559 Speaker 3: the new girlfriend and that the man she was dating 1895 01:35:01,600 --> 01:35:02,519 Speaker 3: had a criminal pass. 1896 01:35:02,800 --> 01:35:04,960 Speaker 6: Yes, if I'm the new girlfriend, why would I want 1897 01:35:05,000 --> 01:35:07,240 Speaker 6: you now? I was told you had a criminal pass 1898 01:35:07,280 --> 01:35:09,040 Speaker 6: and now you pissed the whipping the old girlfriend. 1899 01:35:09,120 --> 01:35:09,679 Speaker 5: I'm next? 1900 01:35:09,760 --> 01:35:10,479 Speaker 4: No, thank you? 1901 01:35:10,920 --> 01:35:13,720 Speaker 3: Oh well yeah, I guess that's why he did it 1902 01:35:13,760 --> 01:35:16,599 Speaker 3: in his mind, and his twisted logic was the gig 1903 01:35:16,800 --> 01:35:18,840 Speaker 3: is up, so now I'm gonna go beat my old 1904 01:35:18,880 --> 01:35:22,040 Speaker 3: girlfriend rather than convinced her that I've changed my ways 1905 01:35:22,080 --> 01:35:27,759 Speaker 3: and I'm no longer criminals, right, criminal ass dude? Yeah, 1906 01:35:27,800 --> 01:35:33,080 Speaker 3: so he uh pistol with her. Kenneth Man was arrested 1907 01:35:33,120 --> 01:35:35,400 Speaker 3: Saturday on charge of aggravate a saw with the deadly weapon. 1908 01:35:37,120 --> 01:35:39,439 Speaker 3: It's from stemming from an incident took place last fall. 1909 01:35:40,880 --> 01:35:46,040 Speaker 3: He showed up to his ex girlfriend's doorstep November eleven, eighteen, 1910 01:35:46,160 --> 01:35:48,840 Speaker 3: armed with a gun to discuss her conversations with his 1911 01:35:48,920 --> 01:35:52,080 Speaker 3: current girlfriend. At Man's request. The woman got into the 1912 01:35:52,080 --> 01:35:54,120 Speaker 3: car the padro to the back of the apartment complace 1913 01:35:54,120 --> 01:35:57,200 Speaker 3: where she lived. As Man and his ex girlfriend were talking. 1914 01:35:57,560 --> 01:36:00,280 Speaker 3: The woman said he grew angry, pulled out the gun 1915 01:36:00,400 --> 01:36:04,080 Speaker 3: and oh well, yeah, I mean, you're right, that was 1916 01:36:04,160 --> 01:36:09,200 Speaker 3: right in front of the new girlfriend. Oh wait, I'm sorry, No, no, no, 1917 01:36:09,240 --> 01:36:11,719 Speaker 3: this was okay. Man and his ex girlfriend were talking 1918 01:36:11,760 --> 01:36:13,479 Speaker 3: to woman said he grew angry, put out a gun, 1919 01:36:13,520 --> 01:36:15,280 Speaker 3: struck her in the head with it. When the victim 1920 01:36:15,280 --> 01:36:17,439 Speaker 3: emerged from the man's car, she said to suspect follow 1921 01:36:17,439 --> 01:36:19,600 Speaker 3: her to the apartment, telling her that she owed him for 1922 01:36:19,760 --> 01:36:23,280 Speaker 3: calls of problems with his new girlfriend. Man then allegedly 1923 01:36:23,439 --> 01:36:25,639 Speaker 3: made his way inside the woman's home, where he took 1924 01:36:25,680 --> 01:36:28,720 Speaker 3: her current boyfriend's handgun and an air gun. As he 1925 01:36:28,800 --> 01:36:30,960 Speaker 3: was leaving, Man allegedly hit his ex girlriend they had 1926 01:36:30,960 --> 01:36:33,320 Speaker 3: a second time with the gun. Records indicate the twenty 1927 01:36:33,320 --> 01:36:35,800 Speaker 3: six year old has been arrested had been arrested in 1928 01:36:35,800 --> 01:36:38,200 Speaker 3: twenty fifteen on the charge of calls and bodily injury. 1929 01:36:38,680 --> 01:36:42,800 Speaker 3: Man remained in jail Tuesday on fifty seven thousand dollars bond. Yes, silence. 1930 01:36:42,880 --> 01:36:46,520 Speaker 3: She was trying to warn the new girlfriend violent pass 1931 01:36:46,800 --> 01:36:51,479 Speaker 3: and then of course he got violent towards her, which 1932 01:36:51,520 --> 01:36:54,800 Speaker 3: is wold because I I mean did not change. That's 1933 01:36:54,840 --> 01:36:57,040 Speaker 3: brave of her to tell to try to warn that 1934 01:36:57,080 --> 01:37:01,559 Speaker 3: woman though. Anyway, I guess the race of Ken Man white. 1935 01:37:02,560 --> 01:37:07,559 Speaker 4: Okay, I black because of his name. 1936 01:37:08,240 --> 01:37:11,200 Speaker 3: M okay, let's check the chat room see what they 1937 01:37:11,240 --> 01:37:19,679 Speaker 3: believe white, Uh, says Jean. All right, Uh. The only 1938 01:37:19,720 --> 01:37:23,639 Speaker 3: guess we got so far, black, says Cash. Nickname man 1939 01:37:23,720 --> 01:37:28,920 Speaker 3: man black black black. I'm going with Mama tips black black, 1940 01:37:29,760 --> 01:37:36,000 Speaker 3: a lot of black. One. Karen said white. Jean said white. Uh, Barbara, 1941 01:37:36,040 --> 01:37:40,479 Speaker 3: this is Shirley watch out girl. Only two names black. 1942 01:37:41,920 --> 01:37:49,519 Speaker 3: The correct oh black boy, baby boy black. The correct 1943 01:37:49,560 --> 01:37:53,640 Speaker 3: answer is I don't know. He like like Mexican or 1944 01:37:53,720 --> 01:37:56,479 Speaker 3: brown or something. He not black or white though, whatever. 1945 01:37:56,680 --> 01:38:01,000 Speaker 3: So everybody missed this ship. Everybody row, everybody is so. 1946 01:38:01,080 --> 01:38:02,559 Speaker 4: He did with Michael Jackson on us. 1947 01:38:02,720 --> 01:38:18,519 Speaker 3: Yep, my block of let me put it on my screen. 1948 01:38:18,600 --> 01:38:21,080 Speaker 3: This moving slow for some reason? 1949 01:38:22,040 --> 01:38:22,200 Speaker 2: All? 1950 01:38:22,920 --> 01:38:27,719 Speaker 3: Is he just like yeah, honestly, he looked. He looked 1951 01:38:28,439 --> 01:38:33,519 Speaker 3: like Indian. He looked like a laddice like y'all, y'all 1952 01:38:33,520 --> 01:38:36,160 Speaker 3: see when they come on the screen, like he look 1953 01:38:36,320 --> 01:38:38,120 Speaker 3: he looked. He looked like he could be like in 1954 01:38:38,200 --> 01:38:39,120 Speaker 3: that new movie. 1955 01:38:40,120 --> 01:38:42,839 Speaker 4: Is that for real? Forrel the New Black? 1956 01:38:45,200 --> 01:38:46,559 Speaker 3: You don't look like at all to me? 1957 01:38:46,720 --> 01:38:49,640 Speaker 5: Man, he did a new customer service representatives. Did you 1958 01:38:49,680 --> 01:38:50,240 Speaker 5: talk to now? 1959 01:38:50,240 --> 01:38:53,000 Speaker 3: When you numbers, you look a whole new world to me, 1960 01:38:54,600 --> 01:38:57,240 Speaker 3: that's that's him right there? Is it showing up yet? 1961 01:38:57,720 --> 01:38:59,479 Speaker 4: Yeah? He is cute? 1962 01:38:59,720 --> 01:39:00,439 Speaker 5: Yeah, m hmm. 1963 01:39:02,000 --> 01:39:04,679 Speaker 3: Man Like I don't know, it looked like cal Drogo 1964 01:39:04,800 --> 01:39:07,720 Speaker 3: is like as far as race, like, I don't know 1965 01:39:07,760 --> 01:39:10,600 Speaker 3: what race that is, but I just know it's not 1966 01:39:10,680 --> 01:39:11,320 Speaker 3: black or white. 1967 01:39:11,520 --> 01:39:13,600 Speaker 4: But then what we do when you got a new category. 1968 01:39:14,000 --> 01:39:16,360 Speaker 3: I mean, y'all could have said Indian, y'all could have said. 1969 01:39:16,840 --> 01:39:19,800 Speaker 3: I wouldn't. I would have given. I know, y'all just 1970 01:39:19,800 --> 01:39:21,680 Speaker 3: didn't get it. It's just y'all missed it. It just 1971 01:39:21,720 --> 01:39:23,519 Speaker 3: happens sometimes, guys. It's all good. 1972 01:39:23,520 --> 01:39:24,679 Speaker 4: We're all in good company. 1973 01:39:25,640 --> 01:39:32,200 Speaker 3: Y'all almost had a good score, almost almost out of three. 1974 01:39:33,000 --> 01:39:36,200 Speaker 3: It's still a name, yeah, But then we go sore ratching. 1975 01:39:36,200 --> 01:40:02,840 Speaker 3: This time a sex offender arrested for sword slang claims 1976 01:40:02,920 --> 01:40:04,240 Speaker 3: to be a serial killer. 1977 01:40:04,800 --> 01:40:06,640 Speaker 5: Oh. 1978 01:40:06,720 --> 01:40:08,800 Speaker 3: The tatted sex offender, who has recently busted in New 1979 01:40:08,880 --> 01:40:11,160 Speaker 3: York for allegedly murdering an elderly man with a sword, 1980 01:40:11,240 --> 01:40:14,280 Speaker 3: is now claiming the b line all series of slands 1981 01:40:14,320 --> 01:40:17,320 Speaker 3: across the country dating back to when he was twelve. 1982 01:40:17,960 --> 01:40:22,040 Speaker 3: Good god NYPD arrested thirty two year old Nicholas Brent Gibson, 1983 01:40:22,520 --> 01:40:26,120 Speaker 3: also known as Brent Savage, on the Lower Manhattan Subway 1984 01:40:26,160 --> 01:40:29,240 Speaker 3: platform Sunday for allegedly killing seventy seven year old Eric 1985 01:40:29,320 --> 01:40:33,960 Speaker 3: Stocker in his Florida apartment. After his arrest, Gibson claim 1986 01:40:34,000 --> 01:40:36,960 Speaker 3: that committed murders in Florida, California, and Georgia going back 1987 01:40:37,000 --> 01:40:39,240 Speaker 3: far back as nineteen ninety nine, where he would have 1988 01:40:39,280 --> 01:40:44,120 Speaker 3: been around twelve. Police said, yeah, I want to think 1989 01:40:44,160 --> 01:40:46,040 Speaker 3: he liked the Highland or some shit like why are 1990 01:40:46,080 --> 01:40:47,960 Speaker 3: you killing all these people with sword? Or what they 1991 01:40:48,000 --> 01:40:48,679 Speaker 3: are with swords? 1992 01:40:48,800 --> 01:40:49,320 Speaker 4: Or what. 1993 01:40:50,640 --> 01:40:52,240 Speaker 3: We will be working on law enforcet and in these 1994 01:40:52,240 --> 01:40:54,439 Speaker 3: locations and attended to turn the credibility of the statements. 1995 01:40:54,439 --> 01:40:57,439 Speaker 3: Gibson also admitted to his involvement in Stocker's death. The 1996 01:40:57,520 --> 01:41:00,760 Speaker 3: department said authority's believe gets it that worked as a 1997 01:41:00,760 --> 01:41:03,120 Speaker 3: health age of Stocker, whose body was found at least 1998 01:41:03,160 --> 01:41:05,040 Speaker 3: ten days after he was killed with a sword in 1999 01:41:05,120 --> 01:41:08,320 Speaker 3: mid April. Gibson was locked up for raping two thousand 2000 01:41:08,400 --> 01:41:11,799 Speaker 3: and released in two thousand and seven. A transit officer 2001 01:41:11,920 --> 01:41:14,720 Speaker 3: in the Big Apple spotted Gibson on the southbound L 2002 01:41:14,800 --> 01:41:18,880 Speaker 3: Troy train platform at the First Avenue station around nine 2003 01:41:18,880 --> 01:41:21,519 Speaker 3: thirty five am Sunday after recognizing him as a suspect 2004 01:41:21,560 --> 01:41:24,320 Speaker 3: in Stocker's murder and cuffed him after a brief struggle. 2005 01:41:24,760 --> 01:41:28,240 Speaker 3: Gibson was charged with the resistant arrests, obstructing government or administration, 2006 01:41:28,400 --> 01:41:33,360 Speaker 3: and as a fugitive in another state. I wonder that 2007 01:41:33,520 --> 01:41:35,760 Speaker 3: serial killing shit is true or not, but either way, 2008 01:41:35,800 --> 01:41:37,360 Speaker 3: it sounded like they got him off the streets. And 2009 01:41:37,400 --> 01:41:40,160 Speaker 3: that's good. All right, All right, y'all, that's it for 2010 01:41:40,240 --> 01:41:44,479 Speaker 3: today's episode. Mom, thank you for being here my family. 2011 01:41:44,600 --> 01:41:50,720 Speaker 4: I had a wonderful time. Always do. Have a great day, mothers. 2012 01:41:49,840 --> 01:41:54,840 Speaker 3: And of course shout out to all the Game of 2013 01:41:54,880 --> 01:42:00,719 Speaker 3: Thrones people. Tonight is Gamer Thrones second to last episode 2014 01:42:00,840 --> 01:42:04,519 Speaker 3: and two NBA Game sevens today, so I'm in heaven. 2015 01:42:04,920 --> 01:42:08,120 Speaker 3: It's a great, great day. And of course, you know, 2016 01:42:08,240 --> 01:42:10,439 Speaker 3: hearts are with all the mothers that you know, all 2017 01:42:10,479 --> 01:42:13,920 Speaker 3: the people that lost mothers, all the people that you 2018 01:42:14,000 --> 01:42:17,000 Speaker 3: know don't have those that good relationship or whatever it is. 2019 01:42:18,280 --> 01:42:21,040 Speaker 3: You know, hearts of y'all as well, and happy Mother's 2020 01:42:21,120 --> 01:42:24,000 Speaker 3: Day to everybody so all right, We'll talk to y'all 2021 01:42:24,000 --> 01:42:26,360 Speaker 3: next time. Until then, I love you, I wo