1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: All right, it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, work, dating, sex, parenting, 3 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM 4 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: dot com. All you have to do is click submit 5 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter, and we could be reading your letter live 6 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:17,920 Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're going to read this 7 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: one right here, right now, could be yours. You never know, 8 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 1: you never know. Buckle up and hold on tight. We 9 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 1: got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject. 10 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: I'm the captain of this ship. I am to captain now. Okay, 11 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 1: here's Stephen Shirley. I'm married and my husband and I 12 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: have two children. He's in law enforcement, but he's not 13 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 1: a police officer. I work as a teacher and I 14 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 1: have my school kids and three children at my house. 15 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 1: My husband is a dependent in more ways than one. 16 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: It has been this way for the past three years. 17 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 1: After he had an on the job injury. He no 18 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: longer washes his own clothes and he can't mow the 19 00:00:56,600 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: lawn anymore. Those were the only two things he did before, 20 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: and now he can't even do that. Nothing is physically 21 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 1: wrong with him. But he says the anxiety from his 22 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: injury has him leery of doing too much. So so 23 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 1: here's what happened to him. He works at the jail 24 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: in the evidence room, and he was on a ladder 25 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: maybe six feet in the air, and he slipped. He 26 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 1: didn't hit the floor, but he dislocated his left shoulder 27 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 1: trying to hold on a small boxbell and hit him 28 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: in his eye. So he wore an eyepatch for a week. 29 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: His shoulder was operated on, and he was off work 30 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:39,479 Speaker 1: for a full month. When it was time to return 31 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 1: to work, he decided he couldn't drive anymore. So now 32 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: I'd take him to work and pick him up, even 33 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: with sex. I initiate it, and I have to do 34 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: all the work while he takes special care not to 35 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: injure his shoulder, even though he injured it three years ago. 36 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 1: His coworkers are sick of him too, so something's got 37 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: to give one and I stopped washing his clothes for him. 38 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 1: He asked our twelve year old daughter to do it, 39 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: and I told him that's inappropriate. We got into an 40 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: argument and I let him know that I make all 41 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 1: the decisions going forward, and he's going to be treated 42 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: like one of the children, he said, since I'm the 43 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: captain of the ship now he wants to take early retirement. 44 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:22,799 Speaker 1: Do you think I need to be more patient with him? 45 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: Or is he playing me for a whole fool Okay, 46 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 1: this could all be cleared up. This could all be 47 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 1: cleared up with a quick trip to the doctor. Okay, 48 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: but your husband won't go. I'm sure. I mean, he 49 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 1: already knows that if he went to the doctor, you 50 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 1: would find out what you already know too, that there's 51 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: nothing wrong with him. Now. Yes, he's been playing you 52 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: for at least two of the three years that since 53 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 1: he had the operation. You're not even a doctor, and 54 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 1: you know there's nothing wrong with him. He's just milking 55 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: the situation to get you to do stuff for him. 56 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:02,680 Speaker 1: He's been lazy. He's just being lazy. He's lazy with sex, 57 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: with his laundry, with everything. So my advice to you, wifeie, 58 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: is to stop doing the things you do. You have 59 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 1: been more patient than anyone else, I'm sure with him. 60 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: Even his coworkers are sick of him, you said, so 61 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 1: stop driving him to work and picking him up. I'm 62 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: sure he can do that himself. All he has to 63 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: do is go to the doctor, make sure he's checked out. 64 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: He's fine. Good to go, and tell your twelve year 65 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: old daughter to stop, because you're right, she shouldn't do that. 66 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: She's getting an allowance for it, is she. You didn't 67 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: mention that, so she's probably doing that for free. He's 68 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 1: just lazy and trifling at this point, and you don't 69 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: have to treat him like a child. But you know, 70 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: like I said, this could all be cleared up if 71 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 1: you guys would just take a trip to the doctor 72 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: and you'll find that he's okay, and yeah, he is 73 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: playing you. Steve. Wow, this letter wasn't what I thought 74 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: it was gonna be about at all. I thought it 75 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 1: was this man and trying to assert the fact that 76 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: he was captain of the ship. I just thought that's 77 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: what it was gonna be about. Oh, this is a 78 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: really disappointing letter, man, This is really really disappointing because 79 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 1: I don't, you know, I'm reading man, read this letter. 80 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 1: I just don't like me in like this. I just 81 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 1: don't now. I know it's a one sided story and 82 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: she's writing the letter, but she's writing the letter out 83 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 1: of frustration. This dude right here y'all married. I wish 84 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,479 Speaker 1: I knew how old he was, because would really help 85 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 1: me analyze. It's even better. But you got two kids. 86 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:40,840 Speaker 1: He's in law enforcement, but he's not a police officer 87 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 1: the right way. I'm thinking traffic cop. Or he write tickets, 88 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 1: but that ain't the case. She's a school teacher and 89 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 1: you got your school kids and three different children at 90 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 1: your house. Don't know what that means anyway. My husband 91 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: is a dependent in more ways than one, and he's 92 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 1: been this way for three years after he had on 93 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: the job injury. He no longer washes his own clothes, 94 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: and he can't mow the lawn anymore. Damn what did 95 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 1: he do? Oh? We find out those are the only 96 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:18,160 Speaker 1: thing two things he did before, and now he can't 97 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 1: even do that. Nothing is physically wrong with him, but 98 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 1: he says the anxiety from his injury caught makes him 99 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: leery of doing too much. Too much. You don't do 100 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 1: nothing but wash clothes and motor damn lawn, And based 101 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 1: on y'all's two jobs, that lawn ain't that big. I'm 102 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: just saying so now now she describes what happened to him. 103 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: He worked out the jail in everdence room. He up 104 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 1: on the ladder. One time he slipped, but he didn't 105 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 1: hit the flow. He dislocated his left shoulder trying to 106 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:58,280 Speaker 1: hold on. Hear what hell that ladder got out Monday? 107 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:03,599 Speaker 1: He grabbed up that hand and his fright ass damn 108 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:07,360 Speaker 1: near tool his shoulder out. There's no mention of trying here, 109 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 1: no mention to wait. How you think you pull your 110 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 1: should out when you grab and don't fall that Lana 111 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:20,919 Speaker 1: slipped and got out Monday got out, Monday got out Monday, 112 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 1: and his fright ass grabbed something and ripped the ligaments 113 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 1: out of his ass. All he tried to stay up 114 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: under all that weight. He ain't in shape. She did not. 115 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 1: Dave was fat. I'm telling you that's what happened. She saying, 116 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: how only is either and if you ain't working your 117 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 1: ass gonna get first hold on? Hold one? Okay, okay, 118 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:44,039 Speaker 1: Well at first two of Steve's response, coming up at 119 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hours subject of today's Strawberry letter, 120 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,720 Speaker 1: I'm the captain of the ship. Will get back into 121 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 122 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 123 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 1: The subject I'm of this ship all right, this woman 124 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: being married to her husband. They got a couple of kids. 125 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: She a teacher here in law enforcement. But he ain't 126 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: no police officer. Now, he didn't got his ass hurt 127 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: on the job. One day he was in the evidence 128 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: room up on the letter, probably looking at some evidence. 129 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: He had no business. He was doing doo do doo, 130 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: doo doo doo doo doo doo doo doo. And he 131 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: moved up on that ladder, and that ladder got out Monday. 132 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 1: Here's a and she said he injured his shoulder, but 133 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 1: didn't hit the floor. So that means he grabbed something 134 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: trying to hang on. Now, his ass already overweight when 135 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 1: he grabbed on. That was it all the weight told 136 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 1: his shoulder dislocated. It ripped the ligaments. All this here. 137 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 1: Fat ass should have just went on down. But now 138 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: he tried to stay up. He'd hit the flow, but 139 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: he dislocated his shoulder trying to hold on. Then a 140 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 1: small box fell and hit him in the eye. Now 141 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: in the everden room that small boxes probably a jewelry box. 142 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 1: It could be a room with a quarter sack of 143 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 1: weed in it. It could be a little maybe a 144 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 1: little couple of keys or cocaine was in the box. 145 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 1: Maybe it was the box with some keys in it 146 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: that had some fingerprints on it for arm robbery. But 147 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 1: one of them, the last boxes hit him in dead 148 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:33,319 Speaker 1: in his damn eye. So he wore an eyepatch for 149 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 1: a week. Now, that really makes you look like you hurt. 150 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 1: You got your arm in a sling and you got 151 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: a patch on your eye. Now, he tried to figure 152 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:44,479 Speaker 1: out how he can play this. His shoulder was operated 153 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 1: on it. He was off for a full month. Okay, 154 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:49,839 Speaker 1: it was time to return to work. He decided he 155 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 1: couldn't drive no mot his punk hass playing this all 156 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 1: the way out now now he can't drive black people 157 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:00,439 Speaker 1: on Black dudes only drive with one hand anything. And wait, 158 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: so we already and know that. Now if his right 159 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 1: arm was hurt, that's even better. That's the one we 160 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: lean on all rests on anyway. And if his left 161 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 1: arm is hurt, then that's cool. Then we'll just do 162 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 1: to lean the other way, lean up against the dope. 163 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 1: Both of his pimp poses. Eugenius got to rock the 164 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: one you like, So I take him to work and 165 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:28,199 Speaker 1: pick him up. Damn, even with sex I initiated and 166 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 1: have to do all the work where he takes special 167 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 1: care not to injure his shoulder this high know his 168 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: ass is fat. See when you having sex and you 169 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 1: don't want to injure your shoulder, the only thing he 170 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 1: can do is lay on his sorry ass back, which 171 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 1: is fat ass want to do anyway because he don't 172 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 1: want to be up on his knees where he got 173 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 1: to put that work in hold his big ass up 174 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 1: in all this here my shoulder at my shoulder. Don't 175 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 1: nobody to give a damn about the shoulder when you 176 00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 1: have it sex? You know what I mean? Whole craps. 177 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 1: I got how many hamstrings out and pull you know 178 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:05,599 Speaker 1: I mean they expect muscles out and toe you know 179 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 1: what I mean? The head lacerations out of head and 180 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 1: my head going from slamming into it too hard. You 181 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 1: many times, man, I don't ripped the ass muscle off? 182 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 1: Ye have any idea? Man? How many times out and 183 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 1: told the tenders in the bottom of my feet trying 184 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 1: to get my toes and get more more grip on 185 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 1: that sheet? You know how many injuries out and had 186 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:29,559 Speaker 1: doing sex? And don't give a damn. I'll see you tomorrow. 187 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop. Ain't fitting to stop. Chilotte horses, muscle pulls, 188 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: cramps right on, doing everything out of my arms and 189 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:41,559 Speaker 1: slipped off the corner of the mattress. I bust my 190 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 1: mouth on the nightstand one time, kept going, kept swallowing 191 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:47,960 Speaker 1: the blood so it wouldn't get on her, and kept 192 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: moving to hold A mission has got to be done, 193 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 1: hisses pump cast got a little hurt. Shows man miss 194 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:02,839 Speaker 1: me with this here hiss Now he not his co 195 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 1: workers is sick of him too, So something gotta gil. 196 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 1: When I stopped washing his clothes for him, he has 197 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 1: got twelve year old daughter to do it. He can't 198 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 1: wash clothes. And then I told him that was inappropriate. 199 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: We got in an argument and I let him know 200 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:21,319 Speaker 1: that I was making all the decisions going forward and 201 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 1: he gonna be treated like one of the children. He said, 202 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 1: since I'm the captain of the ship now he wants 203 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 1: to take barely retiring, do you think I need to 204 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:33,559 Speaker 1: be more patient with him? Or? As he playing me 205 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:38,839 Speaker 1: for a whole fool, a whole fool plus. So he 206 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 1: playing the police department as fools. They tied to his ass. 207 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 1: You're twelve year old, tie of washing his underwearing all 208 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: this hill. How you can't wash clothes after three years 209 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 1: with a shoulder injury? Obviously there's some type of male 210 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 1: practice that did happened because of your shoulder. Ain't worth 211 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 1: for damn? Three years after the operation? Did they operate 212 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 1: on the right shoulder all the time? Did they operate 213 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:12,679 Speaker 1: on the right shoulder? I say, yes, they operated on 214 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 1: the right shoulder. And I say, your man is full 215 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 1: of it. He is just full of it. He is lazy. 216 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,679 Speaker 1: He has found a way to make an excuse for 217 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:26,199 Speaker 1: his laziness. And once you decide to be a lazy person, 218 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:28,679 Speaker 1: let me help you understand something, y'all, it carries over 219 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 1: into every aspect of your life. So now you lays 220 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: at the job, you lays at home. You don't want 221 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: to do nothing to work, You're gonna do the home. 222 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 1: You lazy in the bed room. You're just a lazy person. 223 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 1: So you can relegate your life to live in with 224 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 1: this lazy ass person, or you can issue an ultimatum. 225 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: You either get up and get back to work and 226 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 1: be the man that I'm married, or me and you 227 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: are done. Back to you busting your lip on a 228 00:12:54,920 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 1: knife stand and kept going. Happens, all right, it happens. 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