1 00:00:01,600 --> 00:00:05,199 Speaker 1: Hey guys, and welcome back to another week of Casual Chaos. 2 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: I have someone I love very much on the podcast 3 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:11,640 Speaker 1: this week. Christian. Welcome back to Casual Chaos. 4 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 2: Thank you. 5 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: So you're my first guest and now you're back again. 6 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 2: How does it feel? It feels great. 7 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 1: You feel special? 8 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 2: That's that's cute. Really, yeah you think so? It's almost 9 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 2: a year yeah. 10 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my gosh, a year guys of Casual Chaos. 11 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 1: So let's talk about where we are and what we're doing. 12 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: We are in the Bay Area for the Big Game. 13 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 1: We are here obviously with iHeartRadio and we're recording some podcasts. 14 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: But it has been a fun filled weekend. You met 15 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:51,879 Speaker 1: my iHeart team. They're so nice, right, so fun. But 16 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: we have a lot of events, so I've been taking 17 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: Christian to all of the events that we've been going to. 18 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 1: Last night, I was tight ends and friends and Christian 19 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 1: had a lot of fun. Maybe way too much. 20 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 2: Fun, a little too much, I guess. 21 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, like so much fun. He was trying to set 22 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:17,960 Speaker 1: Rihanna up with some kickers. He made friends with all 23 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:22,120 Speaker 1: of the football flyers and yeah. 24 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 2: It didn't go well with Rihanna than oh no. 25 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:29,039 Speaker 1: He didn't. No, no, he didn't set her up. No, 26 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 1: didn't set her up. 27 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:31,759 Speaker 2: I was a little too drunk to do that. 28 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was like, this guy is my best friend. 29 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:36,040 Speaker 1: I looked at Christian and I go, you met him 30 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: five minutes ago. But it's fine. You're a big football guy. 31 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: So it was fun. I'm sure a lot of fun. 32 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: And then I felt bad because I was like, oh, 33 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 1: he's probably having so much fun, like you were in 34 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: your own little playground. I was, yeah, And then all 35 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: was asleep in the Uber lost my phone, lost his phone. 36 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: Uber delivered it back this morning. God for Uber, and yeah, 37 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: woke up with some anxiety, but everything was fine. Now 38 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: we're on tonight too, and we. 39 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 2: Have three no drinking tonight. 40 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: We have three events tonight. You're going to be sober 41 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: the whole night. How are you going to make friends 42 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: with all your NFL guys? They're going to take shots alone? 43 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 1: No life for the party tonight. 44 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 2: We have a flight in the morning, Like I just 45 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 2: can't get on the flight hungover. 46 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: No no, no, that's. 47 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 2: Like I feel how I felt today. I won't I 48 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 2: won't be me. 49 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: No, yeah, no, no. Me and Christian have a big 50 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: thing where if we are hungover for our flight. I'm 51 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 1: not getting on the plane. Yeah I will, Yeah, no, no, 52 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: I will extend the trip. I don't care. I cannot 53 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 1: get on a plane hungover. I feel like I would. 54 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 1: I feel like I'll die. Like it's that simple. I 55 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 1: feel like I'll die. I start having a panic attack 56 00:02:57,800 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 1: and my heart starts racing out of my chest and 57 00:02:59,880 --> 00:03:01,920 Speaker 1: I think of the worst possible things. 58 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:03,519 Speaker 2: I hate the feeling. 59 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 1: Like it's those intrusive thoughts that is there, like is 60 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 1: there a doctor on the flight? Yeah, goffer, but something 61 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 1: happens to. 62 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 2: Me, especially being six hours too, It's like. 63 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: No, and I are giving me anxiety. So yeah, I 64 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 1: guess I shouldn't really drink too much tonight either, extending no, no, 65 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: because then we have to get home for the big Game, 66 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 1: where we're not that cool that we were that we 67 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 1: have tickets for the Big Game. But maybe one day. 68 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: I literally said this to you, I said, the fact 69 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 1: that we're even here this weekend, it's the start, and 70 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: hopefully next year will be at the game. Not cool 71 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: enough yet, No, no, not cool enough yet, but soon 72 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: we're getting there. Also, who's here with us this weekend 73 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: are a lot of people from the iHeart team who 74 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: have podcasts. So Laala is here with also her co 75 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: host Amber, and they are amazing. But it's so funny. 76 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: We learned all the tea about them and they share 77 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 1: the same baby daddy and now they have a podcast. 78 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 2: So crazy. 79 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: And Christian thinks that they're so fun and how they 80 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 1: just have such young spirits and I'm like, well, they 81 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 1: are young. 82 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 3: When I saw when I first met her was what, Yeah, 83 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 3: I don't really like talk to very much, but like 84 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 3: I got to like meet her more like this weekend. 85 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I swear she's like all right. 86 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she's like twenty at heart. Yeah, and she's 87 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 1: so beautiful. Honestly, I love when you come on work 88 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 1: trips with me because then I'm not alone. I mean, 89 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 1: here coming with iHeart. It's easy because they're like my family. 90 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: But when I do have other work trips and you're alone, 91 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 1: it's nice having Yeah, it's nice having a plus one 92 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:44,279 Speaker 1: with you because then you know, like that's your person. 93 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: You always have someone to talk to. 94 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 2: You always bring a plus one. 95 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 1: Though not really really, I don't all know. 96 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 2: I feel like your friends come to most events. 97 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:57,600 Speaker 1: No, Recently, I've been going to all events like alone. 98 00:04:57,680 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: But now that I have my management, Well, the ones 99 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 1: you're people come not really, I mean, guys, the. 100 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 2: Last one you did, Malania came. 101 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 1: Yes, Malania did come to the Tar trip, but it's 102 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: if I'm allowed to bring a plus one. But if 103 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 1: I am allowed to bring a plus one, I do 104 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 1: always love to bring one because it's just more fun 105 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 1: to have someone with you when you're working. 106 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 3: And this one was like a cool time to come. Yeah, 107 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 3: well this is my kind of atmosphere. 108 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 1: Yes, you got to see it. 109 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:25,919 Speaker 2: I'm going on the Tar trip. They asked me to 110 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:26,280 Speaker 2: go on. 111 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 1: Come on the Tar trip would have been fun. 112 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 2: Come on. 113 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 3: Seriously, Turks and Caicos, I guess, but that's just not 114 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 3: my thing. 115 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 1: I mean, Christian, no one was forcing you to come 116 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: makeup on No, but. 117 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 2: I like this better. 118 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 1: Okay, so you're you'll comment on my heart. My iHeart 119 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: work trips. 120 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 2: That's good to me, all right. 121 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 1: Fine. Also, Laala did say this that when you were 122 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 1: hanging around, because it's all the girls, basically all the 123 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:57,479 Speaker 1: girls are just vibing. She said that you don't kill 124 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:00,720 Speaker 1: the vibe. Yeah, it was nice for her because some 125 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 1: guys like kill the vibe. You were just you were 126 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 1: saying it, like, Yeah. 127 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 3: It's like the same kind of thing though, like when 128 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 3: like we're hanging when me and all my friends are 129 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 3: hanging out, when that one guy brings his girlfriends kind 130 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 3: of like kills the vibe of like. 131 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 1: So I kill the vibe. 132 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 3: No, not that you kill the vibe. It's just like 133 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:19,839 Speaker 3: people don't talk about certain things when a girl is around, 134 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 3: the guys around and a whole girl group setting. 135 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 1: I think it's different for guys. I think I don't know. 136 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:30,039 Speaker 1: I feel like girls don't really care too much. Like 137 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:32,839 Speaker 1: if the guy is like cool and he doesn't kill 138 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 1: the vibe, girls will kind of say whatever. I feel 139 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 1: like guys are more reserved if they don't feel comfortable. 140 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 2: With who they're are. Yeah. Also, everybody hears very outgoing, 141 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 2: so I don't think they really care that much. 142 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: Now we're all open books. So my casual Chaos listeners 143 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:58,919 Speaker 1: know a thing or two about us since the last 144 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 1: time you were on. But let's give them an update 145 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 1: about where we're at. Obviously I now moved out, we 146 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 1: didn't move in with each other. But where are you 147 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 1: at with work? 148 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 2: A good reason though, of course. 149 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 1: But where are you at with work? What's going on. 150 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 2: Well, that was the whole thing. 151 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 3: We didn't move in together because me and my brother 152 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 3: started to jump and move a company. We'se see Foresight Solutions. 153 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 3: We have this big dumpster that I wouldn't be able 154 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 3: to put it anywhere. 155 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: You would have to just buy another spot. 156 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 2: I have to buy like a not no, it wouldn't 157 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 2: even fit. I would have to buy like a yard 158 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 2: a yard for the dumpster. Yeah, that's what you do. 159 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 3: As you get more and more dumpsters, you put like 160 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 3: you get like a lot. You put your dumpsters there 161 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 3: and your machines and whatever you have. 162 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: I guess, yeah, your office, it would need like a 163 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 1: lot of storage. 164 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, but like right now, it's only one truck. 165 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 1: So yeah, and you do it with your brother. What 166 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 1: do you think our next steps are moving forward? So 167 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: I obviously moved to Jersey City because I wanted to 168 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 1: be closer to the city for an easier and it 169 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 1: has made my life so much easier. But I have 170 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 1: to admit sometimes it does get lonely. That's why I 171 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 1: have Bella there with me. 172 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 2: Well, that's why I try to get there as much 173 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 2: as possible. It's more like a weekend thing. 174 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, like it's more easier for you to come. I 175 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 1: think on the weekends. During the week it's definitely hard. 176 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 1: But then I kind of like that because it's like 177 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: during the week we're both working, we're focusing on what 178 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 1: we have to do, and then on the weekends that's 179 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 1: when we spend time with each other. 180 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 3: I made it a lot easier because like when you 181 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 3: were like when you lived home, it was like so 182 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 3: hard every day, like going back and forth from each 183 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 3: other's houses. 184 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, we spent every night together, like literally every night. 185 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 2: So it's nice. I have the whole weekend. Then we're 186 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 2: excited to see each other on the weekend. Yeah. 187 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 1: Do you think you're going to come live with me 188 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 1: in Jersey City anytime soon? 189 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 2: I mean, I hope eventually. I don't know how long. 190 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 3: I don't have a time limit, but yeah, I'd rather 191 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 3: get a house though, because for the work reason. 192 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I love living in enough. 193 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 2: I love the apartment living apartment but. 194 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 1: I just feel like it's so nice. All of your amenities, 195 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: everything is there for you. You're not responsible for anything breaking, 196 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 1: everything is just taking care of I really, I really 197 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 1: love apartment living, and right now it's nice. Yeah, and 198 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:24,319 Speaker 1: right now it's a horrible time to buy a home anyway, 199 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 1: so hopefully that gets a little better. But I definitely 200 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 1: feel like we should live in an apartment at least 201 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 1: for a year. 202 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:32,199 Speaker 2: I don't like, I don't buy one. 203 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: I would, yeah, I mean, I just don't like the idea. 204 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 2: Of just taking all this money and just throwing away 205 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 2: in the garbage. 206 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I understand that, but then same thing, And I. 207 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 2: Also moved because you had to. You didn't have to 208 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 2: move out of your house, but to. 209 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 1: Make my life a little easier. But also like, if 210 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: we buy an apartment then it's kind of the same 211 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:53,959 Speaker 1: responsibility though, like you're then responsible for anything that breaks 212 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: you just some kind of a yeah, no, we will eventually. 213 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: I also just love the security of it having a doorman, 214 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 1: everything being secured in your building and. 215 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 2: You get it like your own parking garage. 216 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 1: So we filmed Nuction myc together last summer. What do 217 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 1: you think of my cast? 218 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 3: Different season one? I felt like, I don't know, I 219 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 3: feel like I felt like more reserved in a way. Yeah, 220 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 3: because you're still like you're meeting everybody. You're also on 221 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:26,559 Speaker 3: like a TV show, so it's like you don't want 222 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 3: to air out your dirty laundry. People you just mean 223 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 3: and then they just blow up in your face. 224 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:31,559 Speaker 2: Yeah. 225 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 1: I think everyone was a little more reserved though first 226 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 1: season because we weren't comfortable, no one was yet. 227 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 3: But uh as the year went on, like meeting all them, 228 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 3: going out with them, dinner, double dates with a few 229 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:47,559 Speaker 3: of them, I've became closer. So it made season two 230 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 3: a lot more fun and easier. 231 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:52,679 Speaker 1: I swear, guys, they asked for Christian more than they 232 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 1: asked for me. My cast loves Christian so much. The 233 00:10:57,559 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 1: boys love him. But honestly, go, yeah, it's so nice though, 234 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 1: because then it's you know, you want people who you 235 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 1: know love your partner, because when it's the opposite, I 236 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 1: feel like on reality TV it could get a little nasty. 237 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 2: So they start coming for you. 238 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:20,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, questioning your relationship, questioning like just things about you. 239 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,439 Speaker 2: Know, makes it unenjoyable, very unenjoyable. 240 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: So it's nice that like the entire cost really loves you, 241 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:27,199 Speaker 1: loves to be around. 242 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 3: It makes it a lot easier for me. Honestly, that 243 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 3: I like everybody and they don't like me. Well, I 244 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 3: mean I didn't like it. I don't like it to 245 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:36,959 Speaker 3: begin with. Yeah, no, so it just makes it a 246 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 3: little easier for me to end up wanting to go. 247 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 1: I would say that. Yeah, So like what would you say, 248 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 1: like you enjoy more coming to events with me or 249 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 1: like filming. 250 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 2: Coming to events. 251 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just don't like the camera, the pressure of 252 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:53,680 Speaker 1: it beyond yeah, the whole time. 253 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the only challenging part. Like the events, it's 254 00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 3: just your self, You're going to a party. 255 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just nice. 256 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 1: I agree. I mean it's just you know, season two, 257 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 1: you think you guys can expect to see Christian a 258 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 1: little bit more than season one. There were also just 259 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 1: things happening in my life that the show was capturing, 260 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 1: so he was there for some of those, like monumental moments. 261 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 1: But I think it's just all balance, you know. I 262 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 1: think the more you get comfortable, the more you know 263 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 1: it'll come. Well, I definitely got comfortable. I think so too, 264 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:33,079 Speaker 1: see it a little bit. Yeah, I think it'll come. 265 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 1: It always the more you do it, the more natural 266 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: it'll become. 267 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 2: But it feels a little more natural now. 268 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's also nicee yes, you do. 269 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 2: It's hard though in the beginning, it's like very hard 270 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 2: to forget that. 271 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 1: I agree, and I think also the production company this year, 272 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 1: they all were amazing, like kind of got closer with 273 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 1: some of the producers. And when you feel close with 274 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: like your producers and your cameraman or your audio people, 275 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: like when you get to know your crew a lot better, 276 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:06,680 Speaker 1: it becomes easier to film. 277 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 2: You're just not as nervous as. 278 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like, for example, like Miguel, who is the 279 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 1: one of. 280 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:18,959 Speaker 3: Then like this too, like podcast, I would have been 281 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 3: so nervous, Like if I didn't get to like meet 282 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 3: everybody on like a more personal level, I feel like 283 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 3: I'd be sitting here way more nervous. 284 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. No, It's true. When you are comfortable with like 285 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 1: everyone around you and the people that you work with, 286 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 1: it becomes a lot more easier. And that's why I 287 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 1: think season one it was just like it was an adjustment. 288 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 289 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 1: Do you think Next Gen is something that you would 290 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 1: be open to doing if they ever asked you to 291 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 1: be on the show, like as as you would Yeah. Yeah. 292 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 3: If I didn't like it, I wouldn't like if I 293 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:56,880 Speaker 3: didn't like the people, I wouldn't do Yeah, that would 294 00:13:56,880 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 3: be the only breaking Yeah, I would do it. 295 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 1: Nothing hidden, No, nothing's hidden, And for my entire life. 296 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 1: You know, Bravo has captured pretty much every moment of. 297 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 3: But it's so sick. Like we were just talking about 298 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 3: that the other day. It's like how you said, it's 299 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:15,839 Speaker 3: like you have a home videos. Yeah, like it is cool, 300 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 3: like when you look back and you see like Christmas, 301 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 3: all the holidays and everything. 302 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 2: Because you forget, like I don't really remember all that stuff. 303 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:24,840 Speaker 1: Oh, you for sure forget. So the fact that we 304 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 1: do have home videos like that, it really is nice 305 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 1: and just to kind of see now like where I've 306 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 1: landed and like where I have, like where I am 307 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 1: in my life now, to like what I thought I 308 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 1: was going to be doing in like sixth grade when 309 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 1: I'm telling my dad like what I wanted to be 310 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 1: when I grew when I was older. But it's just 311 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 1: it is really nice, and like that's kind of the 312 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 1: same thing with next Gen, Like now I'm going to 313 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 1: see myself really in depth in my twenties and evolving 314 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 1: in my twenties, which is really really cool. 315 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 2: But about your kids get to see everything? Yeah, yeah, 316 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 2: they'll see everything besides the fighting. That's the only bad 317 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 2: part about the whole thing. 318 00:15:02,280 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 1: But yeah, but I would say, thank god you know 319 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 1: next gen because we are still young and in our twenties, 320 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 1: it's not the fights aren't as serious like yes, really 321 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: stupid yeah, like and you know it. But I like 322 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 1: it that way. I'd rather not be so serious and 323 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: like cut throat into the jugular. But I guess we 324 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: don't have issues that are that are so serious right 325 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: now in our lives. 326 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, like housewives and they're also all single, like yeah, 327 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 3: besides I mean actually not really Riley and Arianna. 328 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 1: I guess no, yeah, Ariana single now Riley's in a relationship, 329 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 1: that's it. And then one new person who I can't disclose. 330 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 2: I don't think, yeah, oh yeah. 331 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 1: But but yeah, I think it's just it's fun. It's 332 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: more easy. Like when you're on Housewives. There are things 333 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 1: as an adult that can be a little more cut 334 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 1: through and you could really like hurt somebody with some 335 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 1: of the information. Right now, I don't think any of 336 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 1: us have things that are so intense. Besides, if they 337 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 1: brought up our families or if they brought up something 338 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: our family went through, and it's like, that's our family's drama, 339 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 1: that's not our drama, So don't bring it, don't bring 340 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 1: it on too. 341 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 3: Honestly, there's nothing really that they can say get me 342 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 3: like that pissed off. 343 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 1: To be honest, Yeah, I mean maybe if they mentioned 344 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:29,760 Speaker 1: your family. 345 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, it depends what they What are they gonna mention that? 346 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. 347 00:16:35,880 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 1: You don't know. People get creative, you don't know. So yeah, 348 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 1: I mean that's the thing. I think. That's why if 349 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: you ever did decide to come full time on reality TV, 350 00:16:45,840 --> 00:16:47,960 Speaker 1: you have to just like be open with yourself if 351 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 1: you're okay with like them really getting in depth into 352 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:56,880 Speaker 1: your life, because yeah, they'll get in depth into my relationship, 353 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 1: but then they'll get. 354 00:16:57,800 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 2: In depth on you myself. 355 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 1: Yes, like sure, yes, our relationship, but then it's like 356 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: you have to open up about like your life and 357 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:06,879 Speaker 1: who Christian is. 358 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 2: I'm not really good at that. I really like to open. 359 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:13,679 Speaker 1: Up, but you do once you have like conversations what 360 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 1: did you think of the way that I was portrayed 361 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:16,640 Speaker 1: last season? 362 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:21,480 Speaker 4: How are you portrayed on next ten? How are you portrayed? 363 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 4: How do you think you were portrayed? I'm asking you 364 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 4: that I don't think you were portrayed anyway, like in 365 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:28,680 Speaker 4: a bad way, Like. 366 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:30,199 Speaker 1: Do you think I was portrayed good? Do you think 367 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:32,639 Speaker 1: I was portrayed bad? Do you think I was portrayed okay, 368 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:34,639 Speaker 1: do you think I was portrayed to? 369 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 2: Like my full I didn't really think watch season one. 370 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 2: You didn't watch it? No, that's like rude. I've never Yeah, now. 371 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 1: You didn't watch it with me? 372 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 2: No, I thought you did. You watched you like banged 373 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 2: it out all in one day, so maybe one episode. 374 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:57,440 Speaker 1: Okay, Fine, then we have to revisit this question. Well, 375 00:17:57,440 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 1: I didn't like that they didn't show my work ethics. 376 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:01,680 Speaker 1: I wish they showed my work ethic more. 377 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 3: I feel like you weren't shown much at all, as 378 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 3: I remember you like complaining about. 379 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:09,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, and they kind of blamed it on the fact 380 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 1: that I lived in Jersey But I thought that. 381 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:13,639 Speaker 2: That was yeah, and then it made no sense. 382 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:16,240 Speaker 1: And so I mean, yes, now that I live in 383 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:19,440 Speaker 1: Jersey City, Yes, they were at my apartment filming way 384 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 1: more than they were season one. 385 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:24,879 Speaker 2: But it was also so far like for them to 386 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:26,120 Speaker 2: come to you all the way to you was far. 387 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:28,479 Speaker 1: It was to get like quick little scenes. 388 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 2: I do agree, like now they could just bang in 389 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:31,399 Speaker 2: and out, but. 390 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 1: Yeah they can, they can. I do agree with that. 391 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:48,199 Speaker 1: A few of my friends are on only fans. What 392 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 1: would you think if I joined? Would you be for 393 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 1: it or against it? What if I did? 394 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 2: Like, you'd have to beg No, I wouldn't watch it 395 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:59,880 Speaker 2: do that. Yeah, we'd be broken up if that's shape 396 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 2: that really straight? But uh, token around, I'd have to 397 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:12,400 Speaker 2: take fifty percent of whatever you do and you could 398 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 2: do it. Oh really yeah, yeah that's the only way. 399 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 1: You wouldn't get a fifty percent then you. 400 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:25,200 Speaker 2: Can't do it. That's coming. I'll be a pimp. Yeah, 401 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 2: I'll be a pimp. 402 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:28,640 Speaker 1: I'm not doing all my fans. I think my dad 403 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:30,200 Speaker 1: would be more disappointed than you. 404 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:35,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I hope so yeah. 405 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:39,680 Speaker 1: No, do you think I act differently when the cameras 406 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:44,800 Speaker 1: are rolling? No, that should be a very easy question 407 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:45,919 Speaker 1: question now. 408 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 2: No, I was going to go around and say one 409 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:49,160 Speaker 2: hundred percent. 410 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 1: But now, oh that's why you were taking so long 411 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 1: to answer. I was like, what is taking so long? 412 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:58,680 Speaker 1: I'm perfect. How do we handle living between different places 413 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:01,800 Speaker 1: and balancing our own skin schedules? I think a big 414 00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 1: thing is like communication, and I think being on FaceTime 415 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:06,360 Speaker 1: a lot helps. 416 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're on FaceTime. 417 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like me and Christian just sit. 418 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 2: Honestly gets like kind of chos Well, it gets stupid. 419 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 2: We're just sitting on the couch and I'll just forget 420 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 2: You're on FaceTime. 421 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 1: Same we just sit on FaceTime and don't say anything. 422 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 2: Yeah for hours. Yeah, and I'll be like, oh, what's 423 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:30,120 Speaker 2: up to? What are you doing? No? Seriously no, Yeah. 424 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:31,959 Speaker 1: And I think a really good thing is like watching 425 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:33,199 Speaker 1: shows and movies together. 426 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:35,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, we do that over the phone. 427 00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 1: But again, like we're just sitting on FaceTime watching a 428 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 1: show and not saying anything. Yeah, but I think that 429 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 1: does keep you like connected in a way, like watching 430 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 1: shows and videos, like shows and movies on FaceTime. But yeah, 431 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:54,800 Speaker 1: I think just communication, talking to each other and just 432 00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: you know, trying to see each other as much as 433 00:20:57,119 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 1: you can. But then when you actually are seeing each other, 434 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 1: I think it's very important to like make it special 435 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 1: and not do the same thing over and over again, 436 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:09,639 Speaker 1: whether you're making dinner, staying in or going out to dinner, 437 00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 1: Like make the time that you're with each other exciting, 438 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,439 Speaker 1: because then I guess it's going. Yeah. 439 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 3: We also get like we also get like hotels sometimes yeah, 440 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,680 Speaker 3: randomly in that city or something that's fun too. 441 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:31,400 Speaker 1: We got to start doing more like weekend trips, go 442 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:35,639 Speaker 1: to like Napa. 443 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 2: You want to fly across the country, I was saying, 444 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:38,639 Speaker 2: like road trips. 445 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:40,760 Speaker 1: Well, I was just saying, like we were talking about 446 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:41,399 Speaker 1: going to Napa. 447 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:42,159 Speaker 2: Oh we could do that. 448 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:45,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's something I want to do now really badly. 449 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:47,160 Speaker 2: Yeah totally, but. 450 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 1: Yes, I agree, Like honestly, my cousin Midanda and her 451 00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 1: boyfriend do a really good job Midanda, and so I 452 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:56,720 Speaker 1: do a great job with that because Boston, Yeah, like 453 00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 1: they do really cute little weekend trips like they they 454 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:02,439 Speaker 1: I think they're planning a trip to like me, and 455 00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:06,480 Speaker 1: then I think wants to also go to like Charleston. Charleston, 456 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:12,159 Speaker 1: Like there's so many places in near us that we 457 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:16,480 Speaker 1: just have not tried. I'm down to do that. I 458 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:18,480 Speaker 1: want to try to do some more weekend trips. Then 459 00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: I'm holding you to it. 460 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,400 Speaker 2: Sounds good. 461 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:30,720 Speaker 1: Wow, we've been together for how many years? So seven on? 462 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 1: Here was it? 463 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 2: Seven six seven? Stop? 464 00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:36,880 Speaker 1: That was like. 465 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:47,199 Speaker 5: So she Oh my gosh, Like I hated every second. 466 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:47,920 Speaker 2: It's funny. 467 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:49,399 Speaker 3: My dad was doing it the one time and I 468 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 3: was like, what the what are you doing? 469 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:53,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's cringe. Why do you think you can do. 470 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:56,080 Speaker 2: It was funny. It was just like in the moment 471 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 2: kind of thing. 472 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:03,399 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, how many years, though? I ask, Well, no, 473 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 1: I think it is seven, because I don't. 474 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:09,879 Speaker 2: The breakup though. Six six six years. 475 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 1: No, Christian, we can't keep saying six years if it's 476 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:18,639 Speaker 1: not six. We apparently we did have an anniversary we forgot. 477 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 3: About nineteen twenty, twenty one, twenty two, twenty three, twenty. 478 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 2: Four, I'm twenty five. Six years, I'm twenty five. 479 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:28,640 Speaker 1: Our anniversary just passed Juary fourteen. 480 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:29,400 Speaker 2: Your birthday? 481 00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, our anniversary just passed January fourteenth. We both forgot. 482 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 1: But how do we keep things exciting? I don't know. 483 00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 1: I still feel the same way about him that I 484 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 1: did when I first met him. 485 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 3: Me too, I get butterfly still sometimes? 486 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 2: Why why is that weird? 487 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:44,719 Speaker 1: It's not? 488 00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:49,399 Speaker 3: It's cute sometimes. Yeah, I get nervous sometimes, come to 489 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 3: your apartment. 490 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 1: Why we haven't seen each other? 491 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,399 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, Like it's just say, when you go on 492 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:58,160 Speaker 2: a trip and then you came back. 493 00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:00,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, you do get nervous. You tell me that. 494 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:07,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I'm blessing her. No, But I don't know. 495 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,800 Speaker 1: I feel like when you know your spark has faded. 496 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 1: It's like when you stop caring and I haven't stopped yet, Like. 497 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 2: I'm still hope you'd never stop. 498 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 3: If you did stop, it wouldn't be good. 499 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 2: I won't stop. 500 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 1: I just think you have to always like still care 501 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:29,320 Speaker 1: about what your partner is doing, and really always just 502 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,640 Speaker 1: like care about And. 503 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 2: Our lives are very like on the move. 504 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 1: It's never never, really at a moment, but you could 505 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,480 Speaker 1: lose you know, you could lose interest. 506 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't. 507 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, same, I don't know. I guess it's just 508 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 1: like when the spark's there, the sparks there, chemistry. Yeah, 509 00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:04,439 Speaker 1: I know. We've talked about wanting kids. When do you 510 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 1: think will be the right time? 511 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:06,320 Speaker 4: Not? 512 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 2: Now, that's a question for you, because well, I've told 513 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 2: you a million times. I want to be a young 514 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,320 Speaker 2: that I know. I want to wait till you're like 515 00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:14,080 Speaker 2: thirty three. 516 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 1: I said I wanted to wait twelve thirty. That's really 517 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:19,080 Speaker 1: not that old. 518 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 2: Twenty eight. 519 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 1: No, I don't want to have a kid in my twenties. 520 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 2: No, I'll be fifty when the kid's twenty. 521 00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 1: Nice, yeah, Christian, Yeah, so thirty. Listen, buddy, you have 522 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:39,440 Speaker 1: to do so many things before kids. 523 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 2: I'd have a kid out right now. 524 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 1: Absolutely not. You need to propose to me. We need 525 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 1: to get married, we need to like figure out our 526 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:53,200 Speaker 1: living situation. And there's a lot of more steps until 527 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:55,440 Speaker 1: you are pushing on me. Twenty nine. 528 00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 2: You asked the question. 529 00:25:57,160 --> 00:26:00,960 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, there's many more steps, okay, any more steps? 530 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:03,360 Speaker 1: What was the question? I think Bree had asked me. 531 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 2: Like something about flowers. I thought, no, oh. 532 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:10,399 Speaker 1: No, I don't think it was about flowers. I think 533 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:12,440 Speaker 1: it was like some I think the question was along 534 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 1: the lines of, like what do you do to show 535 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,719 Speaker 1: your man affection? Like I'm not going to buy you flowers. 536 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:18,879 Speaker 1: You don't find. 537 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 2: That if you buy me flowers? 538 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like you don't find that as like a what 539 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:27,480 Speaker 1: is that called character show? 540 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:30,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 541 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 1: Like if I bought you flowers, like that's not really 542 00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 1: like gonna do anything for you meet buying me flowers. 543 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 2: I love that. 544 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 1: There's a lot of things that I feel like you 545 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:42,359 Speaker 1: could do for me that I would greatly appreciates. No, 546 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,240 Speaker 1: I think more so for you, Like, you know, to 547 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 1: show a guy that you love and care about him, 548 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:52,320 Speaker 1: it's like always attending to like giving you attention. I 549 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:54,359 Speaker 1: feel like you need a lot of attention. When I 550 00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 1: don't give you attention, it's not like you get sad. 551 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:02,440 Speaker 1: So I just But then I said on Breeze podcast, 552 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,400 Speaker 1: sex and I don't feel like that's a bad thing, 553 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:06,879 Speaker 1: And it blew up and I didn't even know it 554 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 1: blew like that. No, I agree, that should be the 555 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,880 Speaker 1: easy and fun part of the relationship that doesn't need 556 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:16,639 Speaker 1: to be like worked on. But I just thought that 557 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 1: was like the easiest answer to answer bre with. 558 00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:21,320 Speaker 2: I don't think it was bad. 559 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:25,120 Speaker 1: It was like, happen. It's so blown out of proportion, 560 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:29,879 Speaker 1: Like I like you sex, so I get what I want. 561 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,439 Speaker 2: But it was supposed to be just like a funny. 562 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:36,399 Speaker 1: It was supposed to be so funny. It was just 563 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 1: supposed to be like, oh yeah, like that's the easy 564 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:40,879 Speaker 1: part of the relationship. Sex makes a guy happy, Like 565 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 1: that's it's all good. Yeah, I'm happy, good, great, I'm 566 00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,679 Speaker 1: glad you're happy. They also like it solves a lot 567 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 1: of arguments. Quicker, it's been very public that my mom 568 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:55,160 Speaker 1: and uncle are talking again and that reunited with my cousins. 569 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 1: You saw them on Christmas Eve. What did you think 570 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:00,399 Speaker 1: when I told you that this was all happening? 571 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:01,480 Speaker 2: I thought it was awesome. 572 00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, because I feel like my family kind of went 573 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:06,480 Speaker 3: to the same thing, and it was nice when I saw, 574 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 3: like all my cousins, it. 575 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:13,920 Speaker 1: Was so funny two Christmases ago, not this past Christmas, 576 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 1: but two christmases ago you reunited with your cousins and Christmas. 577 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:22,400 Speaker 3: I thought it was just wholesome. It was I haven't 578 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 3: seen him in a long time. No, fighting in the 579 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 3: family makes everything a lot better. 580 00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:28,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, I liked it. 581 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was nice. 582 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 2: I think your uncle Joe's cool. 583 00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:38,959 Speaker 1: So, yeah, he is. He's very cool. Yes, no, they are. 584 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 1: You know, you were literally playing he was playing poker 585 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 1: all night with Joey, which you know, and Joey in 586 00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,760 Speaker 1: the morning. It was so cute. It was so cute. 587 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:50,920 Speaker 1: Zim was that literally texted me the next day, but 588 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 1: that was one of the highlights of her that you 589 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 1: were playing poker. 590 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:54,000 Speaker 2: Cool. 591 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 1: No, that was really cute. Cool. 592 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,080 Speaker 2: They all hang They hang out with my younger brothers, 593 00:28:59,120 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 2: so too. 594 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, it's really cute. Everyone knows everyone. But it's 595 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,000 Speaker 1: better to be together than a part. So that is 596 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,920 Speaker 1: it for this week's episode of Casual Chaos. Thanks for 597 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:15,800 Speaker 1: coming on, baby, love you love you