Speaker 1: Second date of day. You might remember we did an
Speaker 1: awkward Tuesday phone call a few months back with a
Speaker 1: guy named Aaron, because even though him and his ex
Speaker 1: broke up, she was still planning on attending a wedding
Speaker 1: for their mutual friend.
Speaker 2: That's right.
Speaker 1: Aaron thought it was weird because the grim was his buddy. First,
Speaker 1: she's back.
Speaker 3: Down, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: He wanted our help, and ultimately, I know this is
Speaker 1: probably gonna sound weird, but we had to flip a
Speaker 1: coin in the studio.
Speaker 3: That's right.
Speaker 2: I couldn't remember how that ended. Who ended up going
Speaker 2: to the wedding? Heard him?
Speaker 1: Aaron lost right and erin, I don't please tell me
Speaker 1: you still went to your buddy's wedding anyway?
Speaker 3: The rules?
Speaker 4: Jeff, No, I didn't go.
Speaker 2: Yeah you follow. Did you still give a gift though? Aaron?
Speaker 3: What kind of friend are you send a gift?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I gave a gift, and it was kind of
Speaker 4: a spiteful one. I got him like a five dollars
Speaker 4: gift certificate to.
Speaker 2: The I can't even get you a drink, its yeah.
Speaker 4: That's anything at Starbucks. It's like just below a coffee.
Speaker 4: Do anything wrong?
Speaker 5: Well, he invited the X the ex Well no, wait,
Speaker 5: she didn't have an invite, did she?
Speaker 1: Ultimately, the weird part is that after all of that
Speaker 1: went downhill for him, Aaron is back again for a
Speaker 1: second date. Update. Now, so what's going on in your
Speaker 1: love life at the moment?
Speaker 4: So I got another problem here to crack. I met
Speaker 4: this girl on the apps.
Speaker 2: Well we know it wasn't at the wedding, so yeah, yeah, it.
Speaker 4: Wasn't dark, No, not at all, and kind of a
Speaker 4: breath of fresh air for me, like super grounded, glow
Speaker 4: maintenance type of woman. And went on a first date.
Speaker 4: Went good, nothing okay, too crazy, but we had great dancer.
Speaker 2: Did you say she's a great dancer?
Speaker 4: Banter?
Speaker 5: Oh, like, oh cool, you had dancing.
Speaker 1: I was more interested in dance moves as well.
Speaker 4: All right, but we had a good I'm watching the car.
Speaker 4: We did kiss so that was good?
Speaker 2: Oh probably okay? And what was the kiss?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 4: It was good. It was like saying that you're going
Speaker 4: to want to go on a second date without actually
Speaker 4: having to say it. You know, it's one of those okay,
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 3: There's a term called kiss you goodbye.
Speaker 6: There's also a pity kiss.
Speaker 2: Sorry.
Speaker 1: All the depressing types of kisses on this show.
Speaker 4: I've had them all. I've had them all.
Speaker 3: We'll never see a later time.
Speaker 2: You're saying you left feeling really hopeful.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so it did go to a second date.
Speaker 2: It did on a second so it wasn't a sad
Speaker 2: kiss you.
Speaker 4: Read it right, I did?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, tell us about date number two.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so she said come meet me at work, like
Speaker 4: right at the end of her shift or whatever. Oh god, okay, weird.
Speaker 1: Well, well, I guess depends on where she works in
Speaker 1: a cool place.
Speaker 4: Yeah, well she worked. She works at a hotel four
Speaker 4: star thing, and I showed up. Not totally sure what
Speaker 4: she does, like if it's like reservations or concierge stuff
Speaker 4: for I.
Speaker 2: Don't know, but maybe you could break in the pool
Speaker 2: and have a pool party.
Speaker 3: Yeah you said it was four stars too, right. It
Speaker 3: sound like it's like a dingy motel up the highway.
Speaker 4: So it was very nice.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, different though. Okay.
Speaker 4: She kind of runs out, She's like, hey, I got
Speaker 4: ten more minutes. I gotta wrap some stuff up, and
Speaker 4: then she runs back and I'm as I walk in,
Speaker 4: I'm kind of noticing there's like it's all these dudes
Speaker 4: and they're all like hot and six foot two and
Speaker 4: like the.
Speaker 2: Hot Dude convention at the hotel. I go to that
Speaker 2: every year.
Speaker 3: This is why you go to the four Stars.
Speaker 1: I didn't get my invite this year.
Speaker 3: What happened? You're losing.
Speaker 4: It looked like there was some sort of thing, like
Speaker 4: an agency. I don't know, but she was, I guess,
Speaker 4: wrangling something in the back, like with all of them,
Speaker 4: and she was having the time of her life.
Speaker 3: Well, dude, wouldn't you flip it around? You were running
Speaker 3: a bunch of beautiful formale models, you'd probably have any
Speaker 3: smile on your face. It doesn't mean anything. You're just
Speaker 3: like enjoying the view.
Speaker 4: I couldn't agree more.
Speaker 2: Okay, So however.
Speaker 4: However, we go on like mini golf date and see
Speaker 4: I would be doing the same thing she was. You're right,
Speaker 4: but I would also kind of carry that energy through
Speaker 4: to whoever I was dating, hopefully immediately after, and she
Speaker 4: was kind of stand offish. It was just like she
Speaker 4: wasn't treating me that way she was. It was more
Speaker 4: just kind of like there was this distance. But then
Speaker 4: I could have been being weird too.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it sounds like you were being weird. I mean,
Speaker 5: just even your mindset in the hotel lobby sounds kind of.
Speaker 3: It also sounds like she's like, bye, hot guys, good
Speaker 3: to see you you.
Speaker 6: Yah.
Speaker 5: Maybe she used all her for, like, you know, customer service,
Speaker 5: yea emotional capacity for the day.
Speaker 1: Did you try anything with her to try and get
Speaker 1: the mood right?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I did, And I only mentioned this thing once.
Speaker 4: I was like, what was going all those dudes? She
Speaker 4: was like, Oh, it's like this model convention thing, and
Speaker 4: I no, No, I mean.
Speaker 5: I get it, Like if I looked into a model
Speaker 5: convention and I was meeting some.
Speaker 2: Guy for our first date, it would just be a
Speaker 2: hit to your ego.
Speaker 3: I could see that totally.
Speaker 4: I feel like a solid ache. But then I walked
Speaker 4: in there and I was like, no, I'm I'm a fine.
Speaker 2: Maybe a personality probably sucks. You're in her hometown ing,
Speaker 2: that's how it works, I get it, right.
Speaker 1: So are you thinking that overall your attitude that day
Speaker 1: may have affected how your date played out?
Speaker 4: Yeah? And I know, you know. I said it the
Speaker 4: one time. I brought it up just to see what
Speaker 4: she would say, and I didn't touch it again because
Speaker 4: I'm not a complete idiot, but that's good. And then
Speaker 4: I'm like, was I weird? And then it was like
Speaker 4: if I was a little weird, that was she like
Speaker 4: taking some misread cute and then that snowballed into her
Speaker 4: being weird.
Speaker 2: And yeah, you're in your head about this for sure.
Speaker 1: You're your own worst enemy.
Speaker 3: Even the way you're talking right now, it's a little yeah,
Speaker 3: that's the word, thank you.
Speaker 1: And we want to we want to be uh, what's
Speaker 1: the opposite of difference.
Speaker 5: And compared to us, You're gonna look like a nine
Speaker 5: when we get her on the phone.
Speaker 2: So yeah, we are glad.
Speaker 4: This is radio you can do that exactly.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna call Natalie and we're gonna send her
Speaker 1: out with a ten personality.
Speaker 2: One like it. Okay, okay, person.
Speaker 1: We'll come back and do your second ate update, next.
Speaker 6: Update.
Speaker 1: You know, I really feel for Aaron because right before
Speaker 1: his second date with Natalie, he went to go meet
Speaker 1: her and there was a hotel lobby full of attractive
Speaker 1: male models.
Speaker 5: Chances yeah, I mean not good.
Speaker 1: At least they seem to be models, and that may
Speaker 1: have thrown off Aaron's confidence. Right before they went to
Speaker 1: mini golf. Yeah, and it just made me think it
Speaker 1: must be how all of you feel whenever you come
Speaker 1: into the studio.
Speaker 3: With me exactly.
Speaker 1: You get intimidated and it rows off.
Speaker 2: Your comment It's like, how do I talk to you?
Speaker 3: I blame you. I'm single.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I apologize for making you guys feel that way.
Speaker 1: I feel really bad. I'm really sorry.
Speaker 5: I'm just remember you didn't get invited to the model convention,
Speaker 5: and yeah I didn't.
Speaker 1: Because I was invited to the one in Paris. I
Speaker 1: couldn't do the small pond stuff anymore. But you know what,
Speaker 1: this man is going to help the man on the
Speaker 1: phone to meet up with the girl that he likes Natalie. Again,
Speaker 1: it just Aaron, It sounds like you just didn't put
Speaker 1: your best foot forward with all that stuff going on
Speaker 1: in the back of your mind. I'm hoping we could
Speaker 1: pull it off for you.
Speaker 6: All right.
Speaker 4: Yeah, thanks, I kind of stuttered into the whole thing,
Speaker 4: you know, totally.
Speaker 5: And you know, even if you end up telling her
Speaker 5: that like, hey, I'm just a little thrown off, I think.
Speaker 2: She'd get it.
Speaker 5: Like, there's there's no personal live that wouldn't feel a
Speaker 5: little uncomfortable walking into unless you are, in fact a
Speaker 5: model you know, you'd like to.
Speaker 1: Hear if you're honest, like I was a little insecure
Speaker 1: and yeah, yeah, totally yeah. Women like it when you
Speaker 1: project all of your insecurities right out into the open.
Speaker 1: Let me go.
Speaker 5: You're gonna have to lie, that's not true.
Speaker 3: This is the model we're talking to, jeff jeff Nos.
Speaker 5: I think we got this. You got two dates under
Speaker 5: your belt, we get you a third.
Speaker 2: We're good.
Speaker 1: All right, Okay, let's not waste any more time. Let's
Speaker 1: call it right now. Okay, here we go.
Speaker 6: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey is this Natalie?
Speaker 4: Yeah? What's up?
Speaker 6: Natalie?
Speaker 1: You're You're on the radio right now with Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Hey Natalie, how are you doing?
Speaker 6: No way, young Jeffrey, No way, Hi, Jeffrey. I cannot
Speaker 6: believe this. Totally stoked that you called me. What is
Speaker 6: just a reference to?
Speaker 1: This is in reference to a second date update and
Speaker 1: a guy that you've gone out twice with named Aaron.
Speaker 2: Okay, oh yeah, it's just like when in the lottery.
Speaker 6: All right, So how did you hear about this?
Speaker 1: You know that Aaron emails us and tells us a
Speaker 1: little bit about your date dates plural? Actually why though?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 5: My god, because you're not calling him back, and he
Speaker 5: likes you any things, you don't like him.
Speaker 6: I think it's the other way around. But okay, what
Speaker 6: makes you say that? Well, I don't know. I just
Speaker 6: got like the feeling that on our second seat he
Speaker 6: seemed a little aloop.
Speaker 2: Okay, that makes sense.
Speaker 1: We talked to him about the second date, and he
Speaker 1: mentioned something about trying to meet you at the hotel
Speaker 1: where you work, and there was a bunch of kind
Speaker 1: of attractive guys in the lobby.
Speaker 2: There was there, legit a model convention going on.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, there was. Oh yeah, but that's my job.
Speaker 2: He thought that too. I mean, it's not like he
Speaker 2: was like jealous or anything like that.
Speaker 6: No, I don't know. I just sensed like maybe he
Speaker 6: wasn't really that into me at that time. The first
Speaker 6: date went really well, but then the second seat, he
Speaker 6: seems like I said, stand office a little bit, and
Speaker 6: I don't know, I just sent like a different vibe,
Speaker 6: and so I was like, all right, maybe this guy
Speaker 6: just really isn't done into me. And I kind of
Speaker 6: backed off a little bit.
Speaker 1: I mean, but you could understand where he's coming from,
Speaker 1: because he's around all these you know, apparently really good
Speaker 1: looking male models.
Speaker 5: I think I think what Jeff's saying is like he
Speaker 5: just took a little like hit to the ego as
Speaker 5: soon as he went to meet you, and then it
Speaker 5: was hard for him to kind of get back that
Speaker 5: confidence he lost, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Because he mentioned that you look like you were having
Speaker 1: a lot of fun with them.
Speaker 6: You know, I didn't even really think about that, And
Speaker 6: that's on him. It's he's insecure looking. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 6: they're good looking, absolutely yeah. I mean their money.
Speaker 4: But now I rest my gigs, like still, I'm here
Speaker 4: by the way.
Speaker 6: Oh God, remember.
Speaker 1: How this works, Natalie. Aaron's on the other line listening.
Speaker 2: We were doing a good job.
Speaker 1: Eric, We're getting to the meat of it.
Speaker 6: How quickly I forgot Hello Aaron?
Speaker 4: How are you?
Speaker 5: Hi?
Speaker 4: Hi? Sorry? I just thought that your head was kind
Speaker 4: of with the models during many golf and not with me.
Speaker 6: I like you, I'm I was on the date with you.
Speaker 6: I get it.
Speaker 4: They're models.
Speaker 6: They're supposed to be good looking. You know, models are
Speaker 6: good looking, whether they're male, they're female. These models were
Speaker 6: good looking.
Speaker 4: Oh and they were male, So we'll get that out
Speaker 4: of the way. But she's the one that keeps bringing
Speaker 4: up how good looking these guys were. You guys, did
Speaker 4: hear this?
Speaker 2: Yeah, but didn't you hear her on your date?
Speaker 5: You were like aloof and and we're into her, and
Speaker 5: so that's why her attitude change.
Speaker 2: It didn't have anything to do with models.
Speaker 4: I get it. It's fine, but it's like I showed
Speaker 4: up for her because I wanted to be with her,
Speaker 4: and then I felt like her head was somewhere else,
Speaker 4: which was back it like a it looks like a
Speaker 4: bud light commercial or something. Well, you're is a bad example,
Speaker 4: maybe not today, but like.
Speaker 2: A top gun volleyball scene. Is that what we're sing.
Speaker 1: That's not helping with It's not helping with my focus either.
Speaker 1: So let's refocus because not only what I think Aaron
Speaker 1: is saying is to him, whether it's true or not,
Speaker 1: it felt like you were more interested in hanging out
Speaker 1: with the models that day than hanging out with him.
Speaker 1: That was just a vibe that he got.
Speaker 6: I have to disagree because I'm like that with everybody.
Speaker 6: We're in the business of being happy and creating a
Speaker 6: happy experience for everybody, and I'm just being myself when
Speaker 6: I'm with Aaron. And of course I like him, but
Speaker 6: I'm not going to be all Holly Dolly like, oh
Speaker 6: yeah that makes sense.
Speaker 2: I mean, Aaron, you hear her because.
Speaker 4: It Yeah, it's just like I don't know. I mean,
Speaker 4: I'm sure I was like being a weirdo, so that's
Speaker 4: part of it, but it just like it just kind
Speaker 4: of felt like I was competing or something with all
Speaker 4: of these dudes once you weren't.
Speaker 2: How many times does she have to tell you that?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, one more would probably help. Just drive it on.
Speaker 2: God.
Speaker 6: I like you, Aaron. I mean, come on, now, I
Speaker 6: like you too.
Speaker 1: That's why now we're getting somewhere.
Speaker 6: I like you, Okay, so fine, you like me and
Speaker 6: I like you.
Speaker 4: So with a problem.
Speaker 6: I don't get it.
Speaker 4: You want to go out on date number three? And
Speaker 4: then then yes I do, Okay, you do? Okay, you do,
Speaker 4: so then I'll go with you. Then okay, okay, then mad,
Speaker 4: maybe I don't Maybe I don't like anybody else but you,
Speaker 4: and then I want to just go out with you.
Speaker 4: Maybe that's how.
Speaker 3: A threat, but it's not a threat, like that's a
Speaker 3: good thing.
Speaker 1: Don't interrupt them.
Speaker 6: This is the only reciprocal Absolutely, I like you.
Speaker 2: I like you angry kiss this time.
Speaker 1: You just skipped the third date and they officially have
Speaker 1: the exclusive type for the two of them.
Speaker 3: Me too, Why are we yelling? Scary?
Speaker 4: So?
Speaker 3: Wait, are you guys happy going out again?
Speaker 4: Like? Yes we are, Yes, we are, we are, and
Speaker 4: we're gonna it's gonna be the best date. Damn it,
Speaker 4: we have to.
Speaker 1: Well, we're gonna pay for that best day, damn it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you'll pay for that date.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, I'm happy to pay for it.
Speaker 3: Okay, how about that?
Speaker 4: Well, this is going a little bit better than I thought.
Speaker 4: I don't know why. I'm mad though.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we're not quite sure either.
Speaker 3: I don't know, but it's working.
Speaker 1: So I will keep this energy when you meet up
Speaker 1: with Natalie.
Speaker 3: Okay, now, are you cool with that?
Speaker 6: I am cool with that.
Speaker 3: What's end this segment?
Speaker 6: Now?
Speaker 1: Congratulations, I'm moving up.
Speaker 4: Don't be late, very mad late. It'll be fine. I'll
Speaker 4: be fine.
Speaker 2: Okay. Yeah, that's sensible.
Speaker 1: Appreciate that.
Speaker 2: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,