1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,519 Speaker 1: Now here's a highlight from Coast to coast AM on iHeartRadio. 2 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:07,119 Speaker 2: All Right, we are back live with doctor Jeff O'Driscoll. 3 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 2: And before the break, we were talking about the difference 4 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 2: between a near death experience and a share death experience. 5 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:23,760 Speaker 2: So let's say someone is, you know, a thousand miles 6 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:27,639 Speaker 2: away from a loved one who is in the process 7 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 2: of dying, and that loved one who's very much alive. 8 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:36,480 Speaker 2: They may feel the death throes of the mother again 9 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 2: even though she's thousands of miles away. Or well, in 10 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 2: your case, your shared death experience, you would see someone 11 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 2: coming into the trauma center passing away and you would 12 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 2: you would see their soul leaving their body, and you're 13 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 2: the only one in the room that's witnessing this. 14 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 3: Often I was the only one in the room witnessing 15 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 3: it on at least one occasion. However, I had a 16 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 3: nurse standing next to me who experienced the same thing. 17 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 3: We had a trauma patient flown in from a car 18 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 3: crash two hundred miles away, and the patient's wife was 19 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 3: deceased at the scene, And when I went into the 20 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 3: trauma room with that nurse, we both saw the patient's 21 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 3: wife standing in the air above the gurney, observing what 22 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 3: was going on and communicating her gratitude for the care 23 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 3: that her husband was receiving and her body was still 24 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:34,839 Speaker 3: two hundred miles away. 25 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 2: Was this the case of Jeff Olson? 26 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 3: It is the case of Jeff Olson. Yes, He's spoken 27 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 3: about it publicly and written a book, and a lot 28 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 3: of people have heard of it. 29 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 2: Right, So when this happened to you the first time? 30 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 2: I mean, was the incident with Jeff Olson seeing his wife? 31 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 2: Was that the first time that had happened to you 32 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 2: in a trauma center? Or were there others prior to that. 33 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 3: Well, it's hard for me to remember the exact chronology 34 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 3: of events. I had had experiences that began in my 35 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 3: teenage years. I had a profound voice that spoke to 36 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 3: me one night when I was driving a Volkswagen Bug 37 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:25,519 Speaker 3: much too fast after dark on a narrow, windy country 38 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 3: road with two friends in the car, not any of 39 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 3: us wearing seat belts, and a voice spoke to me 40 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 3: and said, you have to slow down. And it wasn't 41 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 3: just a voice. I didn't just hear it. It was like 42 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 3: something that wrapped around my soul and I felt it 43 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 3: more than I heard. It impressed me enough that I 44 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 3: slowed down and went around a corner hit a Cadillac 45 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 3: head on. There was a lot of damage to the vehicles, 46 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 3: but nobody was injured. I think I probably would have 47 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 3: died that night if I had not heard that voice. 48 00:02:56,680 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 3: And I later realized that it was my brother, the 49 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 3: one that died in a farm accident in a few 50 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:05,799 Speaker 3: years before. That's who was speaking to me on that occasion. 51 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 2: Wow, and you want to can we go back to 52 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 2: the incident on the farm when you lost your older 53 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 2: brother and the after death communication prior to your hearing 54 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 2: this voice that. I believe there were others if I 55 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 2: remember correctly. 56 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 3: I don't remember hearing other experiences before my brother's death, 57 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 3: but shortly after he died is when I started having 58 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 3: the experiences, and a few of them I wrote down, 59 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 3: and those are the ones I remember. I suspect I 60 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 3: had others that I don't recall now, but I remember 61 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 3: about twenty years after my brother passed, he came to 62 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 3: me in a form that I saw him and heard 63 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 3: him and experienced his presence, and he looked like my brother. 64 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 3: When my brother was in a physical form, he told 65 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 3: me he said, you have to go talk with our 66 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 3: mother because there's things she's never told you about my death, 67 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 3: which caught my attention. As you might imagine, I went 68 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 3: and sat down with my mother, spoke to her, and 69 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 3: she told me for the very first time, she said, 70 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 3: I always knew where you were in the house before 71 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 3: Stan died, because I could hear you singing. When your 72 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 3: brother died, you stopped singing. And that was the first 73 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 3: time I realized the impact that his death had had 74 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 3: on me. It had changed me in some significant way. 75 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 2: So when you're working in the trauma center and you 76 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 2: would see a soul leaving a body, what walk us 77 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 2: through that? Does that? What does that look like? What 78 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 2: does the soul look like as it leaves the body? 79 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 3: For me, I can't speak for anyone else, of course, 80 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 3: but for me, I would see what looked like a 81 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 3: more refined, more purific fide form of a person's essence 82 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 3: or consciousness, and they looked very much like their physical body, 83 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 3: except in a perfected form, and frequently, at least on 84 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:17,919 Speaker 3: one occasion when it happened with an elderly person, the 85 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 3: person I saw exit their physical body appeared to be 86 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 3: half the age of the body, they just come out 87 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 3: of as if they were in the very prime of 88 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 3: their existence, in their most perfect state, and just filled 89 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 3: with this incomprehensible light and love that just radiated and 90 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:42,919 Speaker 3: filled the room for me, even though everybody standing around 91 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 3: me was unaware of it. 92 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:49,919 Speaker 2: And when the soul leaves the body, does it leave 93 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 2: the room immediately, does it hover over the body, does 94 00:05:53,720 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 2: it attempt to communicate with anyone? 95 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 3: When eyewitnessed it, they stayed in the room or near 96 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 3: their physical form and communicated, and then when it felt right, 97 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 3: they left. In fact, on one occasion, there was a 98 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 3: physician that was resuscitating an elderly woman and I was 99 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 3: around the corner in a separate room when I felt 100 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 3: this presence over my shoulder. I'd had enough experiences by 101 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:36,840 Speaker 3: then I intuitively knew it was the soul or the 102 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 3: spirit of the person that was being resuscitated. And she 103 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 3: asked for help, and I walked around the corner and 104 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:49,359 Speaker 3: into the room. There was another physician there. There was 105 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:52,719 Speaker 3: a team of people trying to resuscitate this woman who 106 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 3: was indicated and receiving chest compressions and was completely unconscious, 107 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 3: And yet I reached over and touched her leg. She 108 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 3: asked me if she could leave, which I thought was 109 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 3: a very strange thing for her to ask me, and 110 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 3: I wondered why she would think I had the answer 111 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 3: to that question. But even as I thought that, the 112 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 3: words came to me from some eternal place, and I 113 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 3: silently communicated back to her, mind you, she's unconscious, she's 114 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 3: got a tube in her throat. They're doing chest compressions. 115 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 3: This is all silent telepathic communication. I communicated back to her. 116 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 3: I said, listen, if you think it's time to go, 117 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 3: and you feel that that's the right thing to do, 118 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 3: then I think it's probably okay for you to go. 119 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 3: And as I communicated that, she rose up out of 120 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 3: her body, stood in the air above the gurney. She 121 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 3: thanked me for the help I'd given, which I didn't 122 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 3: really understand or appreciate because I didn't think I had 123 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 3: really done anything. And then she left. And a few 124 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 3: moments later, as I was leaving the room, I heard 125 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 3: the physician in charge pronounce her time of death in 126 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 3: military time, and I thought, yeah, I know. I saw 127 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 3: her leave. 128 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 2: If the patient is resuscitated, and they do, you see 129 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 2: the soul go back into the. 130 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 3: Body on one occasion, I entered a room, and again 131 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 3: I was not in charge of this patient. I think 132 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 3: when I was taking care of patients, I think I 133 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 3: was so consumed with the physical, medical, scientific and necessities 134 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 3: of providing the care of the patient. But sometimes I 135 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 3: didn't have these experiences. But when another physician was taking 136 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 3: care of all that, and I just walked into the 137 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:43,560 Speaker 3: room while they were necessitating this woman who had drowned 138 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 3: in a hotel pool. I sensed her presence out of 139 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:58,679 Speaker 3: her body as her cardiac activity disappeared from the monitor 140 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 3: that she was on, and she was outside of her body, 141 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 3: just kind of getting her bearings on what it felt like, 142 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 3: what this experience was in this new realm. And then 143 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:11,199 Speaker 3: all of a sudden, she was just gone. And I 144 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 3: remember thinking, wow, where did she go? And as I 145 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 3: thought that, I looked up at the cardiac monitor and 146 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:19,559 Speaker 3: she had a heartbeat again. She hadn't gone anywhere except 147 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 3: back into her physical form. I suppose. 148 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 2: When she regained consciousness, were you there? Did she say 149 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 2: anything to you? Did she remember being out of her body? 150 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:37,680 Speaker 2: Did she remember seeing and speaking or communicating with you? 151 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 3: I never spoke with her after she regained consciousness. I 152 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 3: regret that I didn't follow up more closely with some 153 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 3: of these patients. But in the emergency department, you assuscitate them, 154 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 3: you try to stabilize them, you transfer them up to 155 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 3: the ICU, and often you never see or hear from 156 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 3: them again. I never would have seen Jeff Oltson again 157 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 3: after that profound experience I had with him and his 158 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 3: wife in the trauma room. Had that nurse a month 159 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:09,439 Speaker 3: later not insisted that we go and talk with you 160 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 3: about our experience, and she kind of drugged me kicking 161 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 3: and screaming up to his hospital room to tell him 162 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 3: what we had experienced. Otherwise I would have never seen 163 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 3: him again. 164 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 2: Right, So Jeff Olsen again, He's in a car accident. 165 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 2: His wife, Tamara, is killed in the car accident. He 166 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 2: loses his son in the accident. He's left severely injured, maimed. 167 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 2: I believe he did. He lose a limb, I think 168 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 2: in that accident. 169 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:38,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, he lost a leg. 170 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 2: And you saw the soul of his wife, Tamara. She 171 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 2: came to you in the emergency room. She thanked you 172 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 2: for caring for her, for her, for her husband. And 173 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 2: then the nurse that was in attendance also saw this. 174 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 2: Did she immediately the nurse that is, did she immediately 175 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 2: go to you and say? Did you know you saw that? 176 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:13,439 Speaker 2: Didn't you? You saw what I saw? 177 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 3: Well, she kind of didn't have to. She was the 178 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 3: only other person in the emergency department that knew I 179 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 3: had these experiences because she had pried them out of 180 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 3: me on a previous occasion when she shared some of 181 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 3: her own experiences, and so she and I kind of 182 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 3: had this confidence between us. And I wasn't going to 183 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:36,719 Speaker 3: actually go into the trauma room that night because there 184 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:39,200 Speaker 3: was the whole trauma team and the other emergency physician 185 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 3: to take care of Jeff when he arrived, and I 186 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 3: wasn't planning on even going in the room. And this 187 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 3: nurse came and grabbed me by the arm and tugged 188 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 3: me down to the trauma room and said you have 189 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 3: to come. And I said why and she said she's there. 190 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 3: I said who's there? And she said, his wife, she's there. 191 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 3: And when she said that, it dawned on me what 192 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 3: she was saying. And I accompanied her to the trauma 193 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 3: room and we had the experience together, and I think 194 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:05,679 Speaker 3: we talked about it after that, and then, like I say, 195 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:09,559 Speaker 3: he went off, had several surgeries, had his leg amputated. 196 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 3: He was in the ICU for a prolonged period of time. 197 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 3: It was about a month later that he was conscious 198 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 3: in speaking, and we went to his hospital room and 199 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 3: shared with him what had. 200 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 2: Happened and what was his reaction when you told him 201 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 2: that his late wife had appeared. 202 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 3: In the er. Initially he became quite emotionally. He became 203 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 3: tearful and felt reassured and validated enough that he opened 204 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 3: up and told us about his experience at the scene 205 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:43,880 Speaker 3: of the accident. Before his body was even expricated from 206 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 3: the car, he left his body and he rose up 207 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 3: above the scene of the accident in this brilliant, inexplicable light, 208 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 3: where he encountered his wife, and she said, you have 209 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 3: to go back and raise our other son, because their 210 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:01,439 Speaker 3: seven year old son had survived the accident. And he 211 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 3: felt like after we shared our experience, he felt like 212 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 3: he could share his. And we've been good friends ever since. 213 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 3: It's been nearly three decades now. 214 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 2: Why you and that nurse and not anyone else in 215 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:21,560 Speaker 2: the hospital where you were working, or at least as 216 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:23,560 Speaker 2: far as you know, there was no one else. What 217 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 2: is it about you? And this nurse that allows you 218 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 2: to have these shared death experiences. 219 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 3: The short answer is, I don't have a clue. I 220 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 3: don't know. I have learned that sometimes we can be 221 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 3: more receptive, more open, we can be more believing, we 222 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:55,679 Speaker 3: can invite that experience into our life. But other than that, 223 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 3: I don't know. I have one friend who was a 224 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 3: nurse in Pennsylvania in the er and the patient was 225 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 3: brought in who was unconscious and receiving chest compressions during 226 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 3: a cardiac arrest, and during the recuscitation, she looked up 227 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:18,079 Speaker 3: and saw him standing on the far side of the 228 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 3: room observing his own recuscitation, and they successfully resuscitated him 229 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 3: and sent him up to the ICU. She went up 230 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 3: and visited him a few days later, and he had 231 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 3: a profound experience outside of his body and believed that 232 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 3: he had an encounter with the divine being that they 233 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:39,880 Speaker 3: had a conversation before he was sent back. 234 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 2: Had you asked other doctors and nurses whether they they 235 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 2: had witnessed anything like this, do you think they would 236 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 2: have answered truthfully? Or I mean, do you suspect in 237 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 2: other words, that that maybe this is more common, but 238 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 2: people because of a stigma are afraid to admit. Yes, 239 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 2: I saw you know, I saw the patient's soul leaving 240 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 2: their body. 241 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 3: Yes, it's much more common than we generally appreciate. And yes, 242 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 3: I've spoken to physicians. When I speak, it's not uncommon 243 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 3: for me to have a physician or two that'll come 244 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 3: and talk with me afterwards or send me an email 245 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 3: and share their own experience. I belong to a Facebook 246 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 3: page that has nearly eighty thousand physicians. It's only physicians 247 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 3: on the page, and I'd just ask a simple question once, 248 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:44,880 Speaker 3: Have any of you resuscipated somebody from a cardiac arrest 249 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:47,359 Speaker 3: and they told you that they had a conscious experience 250 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 3: during that period. And there were a few people that 251 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 3: were vocally skeptical about it, but most people were receptive 252 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 3: to it. And several people started their comment with something 253 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 3: along the lines of I've never shared this with anyone before, 254 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 3: but and I actually had a few zoom calls with 255 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 3: a group of physicians to talk about those experiences more 256 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 3: they are happening, and physicians are reluctant to speak about it. 257 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 2: And you didn't speak about it publicly until after you retired, 258 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:27,160 Speaker 2: Is that correct, right? 259 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 3: I didn't speak about it for twenty five years, and 260 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 3: about six months after I stopped seeing patients. One day, 261 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 3: I just had this feeling click in my heart and 262 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 3: I understood it was okay to talk about it now, 263 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 3: and that's when I started to share. 264 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 2: Did you only see or experience these share death incidents 265 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 2: or seeing souls leaving bodies and so forth while you 266 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 2: were in a hospital setting in the er, or did 267 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:04,399 Speaker 2: you also have shared life experiences in other areas, maybe 268 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:05,440 Speaker 2: while you were at home. 269 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 3: I did have some very profound experiences outside the emergency department, 270 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 3: but most of my experiences happened in the emergency department, 271 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 3: and I think that was just a matter of proximity 272 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:23,239 Speaker 3: chronologically and physically, being in the proximity of people who 273 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 3: were passing away. Most physicians are not in the presence 274 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:31,679 Speaker 3: of their patients when their patients die, but as an 275 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:35,240 Speaker 3: emergency physician, frequently when you have a patient that passes away, 276 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:38,480 Speaker 3: you're at the bedside, You're right there, and I think 277 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 3: that immediate proximity makes a difference in the experiences one has. 278 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 1: Listen to more Coast to Coast AM every weeknight at 279 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:51,200 Speaker 1: one am Eastern and go to Coast to COASTAM dot 280 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 1: com for more