1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: Hey guys, I'm Kaylie Shure, and this is too much 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: to say it out you. This past week has been 3 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:22,759 Speaker 1: so busy and I'm really I've just forgotten how to 4 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 1: be busy, which is interesting because you know, I just 5 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: took like seven eight months to just sit around my 6 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: house and now I'm getting back up for a new 7 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: album release and releasing a single this Friday. Then I'm 8 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:37,559 Speaker 1: really really excited about. But I was like so tired, 9 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 1: and I used to have days like that and that 10 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: was just my work week, and now I'm like, I 11 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: have to get out of bed before ten am, and 12 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, my life is so hard. 13 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: So I'm hoping you guys can really feeling like what 14 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: it's like coming back to work and whatnot. Um. I 15 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 1: also did this really cool live stream for C two C, 16 00:00:57,800 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 1: which is a festival I've always wanted to play over 17 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: in the UK. Unfortunately I had to play it from 18 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 1: the States. But it's okay, it's all right. I was 19 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 1: supposed to go on my first ever UK tour and 20 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:11,759 Speaker 1: actually my first time ever out of North America back 21 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 1: in April with song Suft for Jets. It was going 22 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 1: to be so fun. We had already like sold out 23 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 1: our first night, and I was just ecstatic. I was 24 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 1: gonna go with my best friend, Candy Carpenter, and we 25 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 1: had this trip planned to Paris. After it was like unreal, 26 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 1: dream life kind of stuff did not happen, but I 27 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: think it will. They're working on reschedules. It's just hard 28 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: because we don't know when we can reschedule for I've 29 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: already had my reschedule shows get rescheduled, which obviously it's 30 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 1: not fun. I was supposed to open for Ario Speedwagon 31 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: and Toledo this past weekend, which would have been really 32 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: really fun and a little random, but I love Rio Speedwagon. 33 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 1: It is also my roommates birthday and I worked really 34 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: really hard making her this cake and it's just aggressively meticulous, 35 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: and I take things like that very very serious. Sleep 36 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: and I've decorated several cakes over the past few years 37 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: for people. I don't know when I got into it. 38 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: I'm sure I just went down a Pinterest rabbit hole 39 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 1: and couldn't come back out. But for my twenty fifth 40 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:13,920 Speaker 1: birthday party last year, I had a sex in the 41 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 1: City themed party and it was really fun, Like I 42 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: basically pre made a giant craft whatever, I don't know 43 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 1: what to call it, a giant vessel that holds liquid 44 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: of cosmos and have these little plastic martini glasses and 45 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: it was just ridiculous. I dressed up like Carrie Bradshaw. 46 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: Everybody dressed up as their favorite characters, and I made 47 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 1: this cake and it was like hot, pink and black 48 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: because those are like the signature colors of sex in 49 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 1: the City. And I cut out the New York skyline 50 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 1: in fond and and like stuck it around the side 51 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: of the cake. And it was so But I am 52 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: the kind of person who wants to make their own 53 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: birthday cake. Birthdays are weird for me, Like I want 54 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 1: it to be very particular, and I have a lot 55 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 1: of fun doing that for myself. So when people try 56 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: to step in and they're like, oh my god, no, 57 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: I get take care of this, I'm like, yes, but like, 58 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 1: this is my present to myself. Is getting to be 59 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:12,519 Speaker 1: really intense about this stuff. Like I'm a big fan 60 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 1: of the gift bag, so I always like give people 61 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: gifts on my birthday. I don't know, I'm sure the 62 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: Love Languages Test would have something to say about that, 63 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,519 Speaker 1: but it was a really good birthday this year was 64 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: pretty fun as well. I had a party in my 65 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: backyard and my boyfriend made these masks that said Kaylee's 66 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 1: COVID Conscious Birthday Party and it was like so cute, 67 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 1: and me put my astrological sign on it, and so 68 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, maybe sometimes we can we can 69 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: let other people do small things for my birthday. But 70 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 1: he actually planned most of it, so that was very, 71 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 1: very fun. So I'm trying to like find a groove 72 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: with segments for the show, Like I want to do 73 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: some things where we come back to them every week 74 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 1: and there's like, you know this thing from this week 75 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: and whatnot. And I'm trying to find my group. So 76 00:03:57,960 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: we're basically going to throw a bunch of spaghetti at 77 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: the all this episode and see what sticks. Let me 78 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:03,839 Speaker 1: know which ones you guys like, let me know which 79 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 1: ones you guys hate. Um, but this segment is going 80 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: to be the funniest fan tweet of the week. I 81 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: literally cracked up when I read this. Okay, this one 82 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 1: comes from Amanda McCarthy and she's actually a country songwriter. 83 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 1: She's from New England as well, and I've actually known 84 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,599 Speaker 1: her for a while. But she said whenever life sucks, 85 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: I need to remember that it could always be worse. 86 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 1: I could be Kaylie Shore's X not only having half 87 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 1: an album released about me, but then rereleased and then 88 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 1: if that wasn't enough, a podcast as the cherry on top. 89 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: Poor guy not really sucks to suck. So that was 90 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 1: pretty funny. Yeah, I mean I kind of I kind 91 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: of feel a little bad sometimes, But it's also like, 92 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 1: if you're gonna date a songwriter, you need to know 93 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:53,359 Speaker 1: that this is on the table. And I think when 94 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 1: he met me, I was writing songs about my high 95 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: school ex boyfriend, Like it was definitely not a new 96 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,599 Speaker 1: personality trait, so you didn't see this coming. When he 97 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: cheated on me and then slept with all my friends, Um, 98 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 1: that's kind of on him, you know. I don't know, 99 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 1: but my favorite Twitter moment of the week was just 100 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 1: the most heartwarming, wholesome, pure thing I have seen in 101 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 1: so long, and it just brought me so much joy. 102 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 1: This Twitter user edmund O'Leary at emerald n tweeted a 103 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 1: very vulnerable tweet let me read you his Twitter bio 104 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: first proud dad of twin Suns, strong interest in mental 105 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 1: health issues, trustee of evs and based mental health charity 106 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: Love Me, Love My Mind, I love aviation. And all 107 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: of this man's tweets are like him tweeting about good 108 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 1: experiences he had and hospitality from like hotels to restaurants. 109 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:48,039 Speaker 1: And you know, it's like the reverse Karen, Like he's 110 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:51,599 Speaker 1: just go only goes on Twitter to like compliment people 111 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: and put nice things out into the world. And I'm 112 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:57,480 Speaker 1: I think this might be just the sweetest man. And 113 00:05:57,720 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 1: he tweeted something a few days ago and he said, 114 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: I'm not okay, feeling rock bottom. Please take a few 115 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 1: seconds to say hello. If you see this tweet, thank you, 116 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: and um. Three hundred thousand people said hello, And some 117 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 1: of the responses came from famous people, like there's Jake Tapper, 118 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: who's a CNN correspondent, and he sent a picture of 119 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: the kittens that he bought his mother after her cat 120 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:26,600 Speaker 1: of nineteen years passed away, and he sent a video 121 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: of one named Lulu playing, which is so cute. And um. 122 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 1: Then Sophia Bush from One Tree Hill said hello, Edmund. 123 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 1: We don't know each other, but I know that so 124 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: so many people are feeling heavy right now. The toll 125 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 1: of this year is immense just remember that it's a relay. 126 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 1: We can all share the baton. You're not alone. Better 127 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:47,600 Speaker 1: days are coming and you deserve to see them. Sending 128 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: love and Sophia Bush has always been like a really 129 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 1: big advocate for mental health, so I thought that was 130 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: really cool for her to reach out. And she was 131 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 1: one of the first people, I feel like to say something. 132 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 1: And you know, the editor and she of huff Post 133 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 1: posted the former cy of t Mobile like people with 134 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 1: millions of followers, and it was all people saying, Hey, Edmund, 135 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 1: I know what you're going through. It gets better, and 136 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 1: then people responding to people like that being like, wow, 137 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 1: I really needed to read that. I hope it's okay 138 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 1: that I read that like it was for me, And 139 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 1: I mean it just was like so many people who like, 140 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: you know, they were sending pictures of babies and cute dogs. 141 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 1: And I posted this read on my Twitter account, so 142 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 1: I would highly recommend going and checking it out. It'll 143 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: just like fill your heart with so much warmth um. 144 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:43,120 Speaker 1: One of my personal favorites was sending you love and strength. 145 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: This is from at Ford to Lump. Twitter handles are 146 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 1: always hilarious and they have a very smiley pumpkin as 147 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: their user photo, but they said, my sister who passed 148 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 1: away sends me butterflies to let me know she's still 149 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: with me. This particular one showed up on my birthday 150 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 1: and proceeded to climb on my arm and onto my face, 151 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: where stayed for a long time while I ride. Isn't 152 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 1: that just so sweet? I'm getting I'm getting choked up. 153 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: I'm such a softy. Like my relationship with crying is 154 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 1: kind of weird, because like, when something bad happens to 155 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 1: me and I need to cry, I literally can't. But 156 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 1: when I'm like looking at pictures of animals or like 157 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: people being nice to each other, that's when I cry. 158 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 1: But I just want to send all my love to Edmund. 159 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: He just seems like such a sweetheart, and that one 160 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 1: vulnerable moment that he had helped so many people, and 161 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: I think it made a lot of people feel less alone. 162 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 1: And I think that the beautiful thing about that was 163 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 1: it was just people coming together. And right now, social 164 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 1: media is so full of anger and hatred. Some of 165 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:49,320 Speaker 1: the anger is warranted, some of it's just excessive. And 166 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: this had nothing to do with what country he was from, 167 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 1: or politics or anything, and it was just like this, 168 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:00,679 Speaker 1: you know, reminder that people can care about each other 169 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:02,959 Speaker 1: and they can care about strangers, and it was just 170 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 1: it really really made my week. So this week I've 171 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:09,200 Speaker 1: been reading a book called Maybe You Should Talk to 172 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 1: Someone A Therapist, Her Therapist and Our Lives Revealed, And 173 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: it's by Laurie Gottlieb. I think I pronounced that correctly, 174 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 1: and it is so fascinating. So the book is non fiction, 175 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 1: but it's written about her patients, which is definitely like 176 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 1: you need to tread carefully in this Wondher's like, I, 177 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 1: you're not supposed to talk about your patients at all, 178 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 1: but she got written permission from several of our patients 179 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 1: to share their stories in her novel, and it's so 180 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 1: so good. So she's going through a breakup and and 181 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 1: some revelations of her own while she's still being a 182 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 1: therapist for other people, and so she makes a choice 183 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:51,319 Speaker 1: to go see somebody, and I think one of the 184 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 1: funniest parts so far is just how she goes into 185 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 1: therapy like it's something you can get an a blesson, 186 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:02,839 Speaker 1: and she has all these notes and she's like trying 187 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: to prove to her therapist, like well, like, I really 188 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 1: know all my problems, so um, I'm really just here 189 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 1: just as like a precaution. And she and I really 190 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:15,520 Speaker 1: related to that, even though I'm not a therapist. But 191 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 1: when I started therapy, there's like this weird thing that 192 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:22,439 Speaker 1: happens to some people, myself included, where you like, I 193 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 1: want to be your therapist favorite client and be like 194 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:26,679 Speaker 1: the one who's like the most put together, but like 195 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 1: you're still admitting you need help. And I think a 196 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 1: lot of that comes down to using self awareness as 197 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: a crutch. For me, I absolutely do that, where like 198 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 1: if I say the negative thing about myself first, air 199 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: hurts a lot less when somebody else does it, and 200 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: you know, it's like, oh, yeah, I'm fully aware that 201 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 1: I should be moving past this breakup and that maybe 202 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 1: I'm holding on to too much resentment, but um, I'm 203 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 1: I'm definitely cognizant of that and like just say things 204 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 1: like that and it's like okay, but you're not doing 205 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:00,440 Speaker 1: anything about it. So self awareness really only work if 206 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 1: you use it to change your behaviors. And she really 207 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 1: calls herself out on that in this book, which I 208 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 1: think is amazing, But her therapist is like the exact 209 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 1: opposite of her, and he's like this older man named Wendel, 210 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 1: and his approach to her is so funny, Like there's 211 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: this one scene where he literally walks over and he 212 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 1: like kicks her foot, and it's like, well, you seem 213 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:25,439 Speaker 1: to like hurting yourself. It's a really really great book, 214 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: and she has a fascinating backstory. She used to work 215 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:30,199 Speaker 1: on the TV shows e Er and Friends, and then 216 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 1: she realized that the film industry was slowly sucking the 217 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 1: life out of her, and then decided to go to 218 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 1: med school, and then after that realized that she had 219 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:41,200 Speaker 1: a really big passion for writing because she had been 220 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:42,839 Speaker 1: writing a lot of articles while she was in med 221 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 1: school about medicine. And it's just a fascinating story of 222 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 1: somebody transforming. And I'm only about halfway through, but I'm very, 223 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 1: very into that book this week. Okay, now I'm going 224 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: to give something a negative review. But I watched this 225 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: movie on Netflix the other night, and it's called The 226 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: Devil All the Time. Has Tom Holland and Robert Pattinson 227 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 1: in it and a bunch of really other great actors. 228 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:08,559 Speaker 1: So you would think like it would be good, right, 229 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 1: good actors do good movies. No, I cannot tell you 230 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 1: how much I disliked this movie. And I'm just gonna 231 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 1: go I'm gonna go full Karen on this movie right 232 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 1: now because I just hated it so much. It's not 233 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 1: branded as a horror movie, but I think that one, Um, 234 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 1: you show a dismembered person, and I dismembered, I mean, 235 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: like everything got dismembered using your imagination or don't on 236 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: that one. Maybe it's a horror movie. I don't know 237 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 1: it was. It started off with like these two kids 238 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:44,199 Speaker 1: who just like I had these terrible things happened to them. 239 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 1: And that's a rough way to start off a movie 240 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 1: to begin with, because I'm already just like my heart 241 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: is hurting. And then it just kept getting worse and 242 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 1: kept getting worse, and there was like no redeeming moments. 243 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 1: There were only two characters that you didn't hate, and 244 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 1: they had terrible things happened to them any ways, and 245 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 1: it was just like all darkness and all evil and 246 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 1: just there was nothing good about the movie. I mean, 247 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: I would argue that even some horror movies have happy endings, 248 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 1: like this was so weird and I could not even 249 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:17,439 Speaker 1: finish it. So yeah, take this with a grain of salt. 250 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 1: I'm giving a review to a movie that I didn't 251 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 1: even finish. But what I typically do with movies like that, 252 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 1: Like there was that one on Netflix. It was like 253 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 1: called The Platform or um something like that. It was 254 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: like the one where like these prisoners all had to 255 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 1: fight for food on this platform that rose up all 256 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 1: the levels, and I was like, oh, that looks like 257 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: an interesting storyline. I don't really want to watch all 258 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: the like um gory stuff that happens, so I'm just 259 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 1: gonna go to Wikipedia and I'm gonna read the plotline. 260 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: So that's my typical approach to horror movies, where I'm interested, 261 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: but I don't want to spend an hour and a 262 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 1: half of my life watching people, you know, get murdered. 263 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 1: So with this movie, as soon as I got there 264 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:01,720 Speaker 1: was just this one scene with one of the people 265 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 1: you were rooting for, and I was just like, yep, nope, 266 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 1: I'm done. I'm done. This is this is not worth 267 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:08,960 Speaker 1: any more of my time. So I just like went 268 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 1: to bed and read the rest of it on Wikipedia 269 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 1: and felt very confident about my decision to not finish 270 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:17,559 Speaker 1: the movie. But I am going to have to say 271 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 1: that maybe my least favorite movie I've ever watched. Yeah, honestly, 272 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 1: but this is coming from a girl who watched Raise 273 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 1: Your Voice by Hilary Duff every single night before I 274 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 1: went to bed this summer before eighth grade. So maybe 275 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 1: you know. I'm not a film critic for The New 276 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 1: York Times, but these are my opinions, and you guys 277 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 1: are here to listen to them. I sent out a 278 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 1: tweet a few days ago asking you guys just send 279 00:14:57,920 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 1: in some questions because I was going to do look 280 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 1: Q and a segment on this episode, and I got 281 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 1: some really really good ones that I'm very excited about. 282 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 1: Let's just dive right in. So Meg's whose handle is 283 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 1: at Short Good Time, which we love to see it. 284 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:14,640 Speaker 1: We love a good pun. We love a good pun 285 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: about my name. That's very cute. She said, what book 286 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 1: slash songs have changed my outlook on life? I would 287 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 1: say two of the biggest books I've read that really 288 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 1: kind of felt like hitting a reset button for my soul, 289 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 1: which sounds dramatic, but I really do mean that are 290 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 1: The Alchemists by Paul Kolo, And that book is so 291 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 1: so cool, It's very It's written kind of like a 292 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 1: parable like I don't know if any of you guys 293 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 1: have read Pilgrim's Progress, which is a Christian allegorical novel 294 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:49,479 Speaker 1: about the hero's journey and going through these trials and tribulations. 295 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 1: And The Alchemist is a lot like that, and it 296 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 1: talks kind of about your journey to realizing your dreams 297 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 1: and what they refer to that as in the book 298 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 1: is called your personal legend, which is really cool. So 299 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 1: it's talking all about this thing that we're given, which 300 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 1: is a passion, which is our job to both find 301 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 1: and pursue. And there's a lot of people in the 302 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: novel who give up and kind of settle into something 303 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 1: else and they still have happy lives, but they never 304 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 1: feel that like deep, deep, deep fulfillment. And it specifically 305 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 1: talked a lot about how right before you achieve your 306 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 1: purpose and and start to really find that deep fulfillment, 307 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 1: you're going to face challenges because God in the universe 308 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 1: is going to be like, well, how bad do you 309 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 1: want it? Because what makes you different from all these 310 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 1: other people? Why do you deserve this this fulfillment? And 311 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 1: it's just about putting in the work and persevering and 312 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 1: not giving up and it's written really beautifully. It's translated 313 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 1: from another language, so it's actually pretty easy to read. 314 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I would say that I probably could have 315 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 1: read that when I was like twelve or thirteen and 316 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 1: understood most of it. But that book is amazing. And 317 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:04,399 Speaker 1: then the other one that probably changed my outlook was 318 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:09,399 Speaker 1: Jitterbug Perfume by Tom Robbins, which is very whimsical book 319 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 1: that talks a lot about immortality and spirituality, but it's 320 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:18,400 Speaker 1: like really funny, and the author goes off on these 321 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 1: really long tangents about ridiculous things in the middle of 322 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 1: the book, so it makes it really fun to read 323 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:26,400 Speaker 1: because you're you're reading about these heady concepts, but will 324 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 1: also have these like random diet tribes about ridiculous things. 325 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,679 Speaker 1: And that book has aligned in my life with a 326 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:36,159 Speaker 1: lot of different things. It takes place in Paris and 327 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 1: Seattle and New Orleans and ancient Bohemia, and so my 328 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 1: family is from ancient Bohemia, like my dad's a German immigrant, 329 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 1: and before that we go all the way back to 330 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:52,160 Speaker 1: the beginning of ancient Bohemia. And then I had two 331 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:55,520 Speaker 1: really cool experiences with you know, soul searching and finding 332 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 1: myself in both Seattle and New Orleans. So the book 333 00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:00,960 Speaker 1: is like just kind of been so relevant to my life, 334 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:02,879 Speaker 1: and all of this was before I even read it, 335 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 1: so that one is one of my favorites as well. 336 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:07,200 Speaker 1: It's a little bit longer. Uh, it took me a 337 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 1: minute to get through, but I would highly recommend that 338 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:12,560 Speaker 1: because that I read it during quarantine and it really, 339 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 1: um really brought some peace and love and light into 340 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:20,159 Speaker 1: my life. As for songs that changed my perspective on life, 341 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 1: I am a huge Tim Agraw fan Live Like You 342 00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:26,680 Speaker 1: Were Dying Red rag Top I mean, they're also incredible, 343 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 1: but Lived Like You Were Dying has such an important 344 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:33,360 Speaker 1: message and it just always stuck with me. I think 345 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 1: I probably heard that for the first time when I 346 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 1: was like seven or eight, and as I got older, 347 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 1: I understood it more and more. But I love that song. 348 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:42,440 Speaker 1: I think Tim McGraw had some of the most incredible, 349 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: incredible songs in Nashville, and I just adore him. I 350 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 1: also really loved the song in the Rough by an Analek. 351 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 1: It's about someone not loving you because you're flawed and 352 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 1: not treating you the way you deserve to be treated 353 00:18:56,560 --> 00:19:00,400 Speaker 1: and it's this very hopeful song about finding someone who 354 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:03,160 Speaker 1: will love you like a diamond in the rough, and 355 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:06,440 Speaker 1: I just adore that song. It's always the first song 356 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:08,439 Speaker 1: I listened to after a breakup when you're in the 357 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 1: like questioning your worth phase, which is kind of a 358 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 1: necessary part of the breakup. But I have this playlist 359 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:17,600 Speaker 1: that I made for an outlet called The Boot and 360 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:21,119 Speaker 1: it's called Kayleie Short's Playlist August and if you search 361 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 1: that on Spotify, all these songs will come up. But 362 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:26,880 Speaker 1: there are all the songs that are the reasons I 363 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 1: write music, and I'm sure I'm going to think of 364 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 1: a million more songs that Oh wait, I thought of 365 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,720 Speaker 1: one More Cold Day in July by the Chicks off 366 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 1: of their album Fly. That song I heard it when 367 00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 1: I was seven years old and my grandfather just passed 368 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:45,520 Speaker 1: away in July. And I know the songs about a breakup, 369 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 1: but at that time in my life, I really interpreted 370 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 1: it to be about that. And that's what I think 371 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:52,680 Speaker 1: the beauty of a song is, is you take from 372 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 1: it what you need to, even if it's not what 373 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:57,440 Speaker 1: the artists meant when they put on paper. And I 374 00:19:57,480 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 1: just love that sentiment so that was another really lovely 375 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 1: song that with a long answer, the rest will be shorter. 376 00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 1: But if you're gonna ask me about books and songs, 377 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:09,119 Speaker 1: I'm going to go off on a rant. Okay, b 378 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 1: R Infinity Kaye Brook said, what's your craziest meet and 379 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 1: great experience? Ho? Ho boy um? I mean, obviously there's 380 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:21,199 Speaker 1: like the fun ones where you get like a crazy 381 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: gift or like somebody starts singing or like whatever. Those 382 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:28,879 Speaker 1: are fun, But I was playing a show at a casino. 383 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:32,720 Speaker 1: I didn't have as much security as I would have preferred, 384 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 1: and you wouldn't think security is necessary unless you're like 385 00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:40,919 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift or somebody. But like, people get pretty weird. 386 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 1: And I changed the way I do meet and greets 387 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 1: after this because of what happened. But this man walks 388 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:50,359 Speaker 1: up to me and he is wearing a pinstripe suit 389 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 1: and white sneakers, which should have been a red flag 390 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 1: to begin with, because like that is a non non 391 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:59,959 Speaker 1: sequitur between your shoe choice and your outfit choice. Correct, Okay, 392 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:01,679 Speaker 1: you can't judge a book by its cover, but like, 393 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,200 Speaker 1: come on, how many of you guys have worn't sneakers 394 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:06,479 Speaker 1: with a suit unless it was like, you know, in 395 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 1: a in a Brandy Carlisle cool way and right, and 396 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:11,639 Speaker 1: so he comes up to me and we're taking the picture, 397 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 1: and as we're taking the picture, I swear to God, 398 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,199 Speaker 1: this man kisses me right on the mouth, right on 399 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: the mouth, and I was like so in shock, and 400 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:23,399 Speaker 1: I think that the security guard or whoever was watching 401 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 1: didn't really notice either, and it really just was awful, 402 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:31,240 Speaker 1: and so I like, oh my god, I feel like 403 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,520 Speaker 1: I like scrubbed my mouth out with my toothbrush after that. 404 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,240 Speaker 1: But it was so weird. So after that, my management 405 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 1: and I set up a creeper cam, as we call it, 406 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 1: which is a go pro that we keep on during 407 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:43,920 Speaker 1: the meet and green line so that if somebody does 408 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,479 Speaker 1: something like that, we have a picture of them and 409 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,920 Speaker 1: we know that like they're not welcome in a meet 410 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:51,600 Speaker 1: and green and A couple of weeks later, I believe 411 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 1: this was when I was touring with Sarah Evans and 412 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 1: ray Lynn on the samt Next Woman a Country tour. 413 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:59,879 Speaker 1: But after that, a couple of weeks later, there was 414 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:02,880 Speaker 1: um two moments in the same meet and greet and 415 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 1: I do not know what was in the water wherever 416 00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 1: I was, but the Creeps were out to play that night, 417 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 1: and one man went to take a picture. We went 418 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:13,880 Speaker 1: to take a picture and he put his arm around 419 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 1: me and he like totally grabbed my boob and I 420 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:18,639 Speaker 1: was just like, and you just don't know what to 421 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:21,040 Speaker 1: do in those situations, like you just freeze up. And 422 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 1: that's what happens when it comes to you know, sexual assault, groping, etcetera. 423 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:29,439 Speaker 1: It's you're just like, wait, people do that, and like 424 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 1: in the moment, you just don't believe it happened because 425 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:34,919 Speaker 1: it's like so out of left field and just crazy 426 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 1: and very rude. And then like literally twenty minutes later, 427 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 1: this man like put his hand on my butt when 428 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 1: we were taking a picture and I just like scooted 429 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 1: it up and he was like, oh, I'm sorry, I 430 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:50,200 Speaker 1: thought that was okay, And I'm like, what we stranger? 431 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:51,959 Speaker 1: I thought it would be okay if I grabbed your 432 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 1: butt without asking permission, Like so weird. So those are 433 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,359 Speaker 1: probably my craziest me and great experiences. Um, but the 434 00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:00,880 Speaker 1: guy who kissed me on the freaking mouth probably takes 435 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:03,399 Speaker 1: the cake with that. What celebrity have I met that 436 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:06,360 Speaker 1: has left me the most star struck was asked by 437 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,639 Speaker 1: at Tiny Ballerini and her her name is Spooky Sam 438 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 1: Happy Spooky season everybody. Oh, definitely, definitely Taylor Swift. So 439 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 1: I've met her a few times now, But the first 440 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:20,960 Speaker 1: time I met her, I was sixteen and I was 441 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 1: hurt Um standing in the music video for her song 442 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:27,440 Speaker 1: Mine Off Speak Now. She shot at my hometown. When 443 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 1: I booked the role, I was also an extra. I 444 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:34,040 Speaker 1: didn't know what artist it was for, but I like 445 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:37,120 Speaker 1: had a feeling it was Taylor Swift, and the whole 446 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:40,879 Speaker 1: drive up, I listened to Fearless on repeat, knowing that 447 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,880 Speaker 1: it was probably her, even though no one had given 448 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 1: me any information to confirm that, and like why would 449 00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:48,679 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift shoot a music video in Maine? But I 450 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,919 Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna manifest that I'm in Manifest. And 451 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 1: when I got there, I went to this like holding 452 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,119 Speaker 1: room with a bunch of the other extras. We were 453 00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:00,080 Speaker 1: shooting at like a house in Cape Elizabeth, Maine, and 454 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 1: someone goes, oh, yeah, Taylor is going to be in 455 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 1: a second, and I was like, acse me Taylor Swift 456 00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,439 Speaker 1: and they were like yeah, and I was like, oh cool, 457 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:11,679 Speaker 1: like whatever, So I like run to the bathroom and 458 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 1: I'm like crying and I'm just like trying to get 459 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,200 Speaker 1: it all out so that I can be normal, and like, oh, 460 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:19,959 Speaker 1: I don't know professional considering. I was like working and 461 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:21,399 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to get it together and I'm like 462 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,879 Speaker 1: hyperventilating and so I like splashed the water on my 463 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 1: face and I was like, Okay, all you got this, 464 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 1: and I like walk out and Taylor's right there and 465 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:30,879 Speaker 1: she's like, oh my god, you must be Kylee. You 466 00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 1: have the prettiest eyes. And I was like, it is 467 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,399 Speaker 1: a miracle. I did not pass hour in that moment. 468 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:40,119 Speaker 1: So that was that one was pretty intense. I also 469 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,560 Speaker 1: met Dolly Parton that definitely um. I got to interview 470 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,680 Speaker 1: her and I managed to form complete sentences, which I'm 471 00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 1: very very proud of that. I also met William H. 472 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 1: Macy um ok Frank from Shameless. Ah. He's played obviously 473 00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,440 Speaker 1: so many different roles, but and I got to like 474 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 1: cheer saying we were like drinking wine at this like 475 00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 1: fancy networking thing and I talked to him for a 476 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:07,679 Speaker 1: second and that was very very cool. So Okay, Brandy H. 477 00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: Jones said, what are your favorite EMO songs? Asking for 478 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:17,440 Speaker 1: a friend. Okay, vibe um, I love. I'm just gonna 479 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,440 Speaker 1: get on my on repeat playlist on Spotify. Okay. I'm 480 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 1: like the biggest my Chemical Romance fan, and I've been 481 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:26,919 Speaker 1: manifesting them getting back together for the past like five years, 482 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:28,919 Speaker 1: and if you go to my Twitter, I have been 483 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 1: tweeting about wanting them to get back together for that 484 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:34,680 Speaker 1: long and when it finally happened beginning of this year, 485 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,200 Speaker 1: I lost my mind. And obviously I will not get 486 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 1: to see them on tour this year, but I'd like 487 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 1: to think that they'll be able to stick it out 488 00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 1: and stay together until they can go back on tour. 489 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,399 Speaker 1: I love Helena, but I think I'm not Okay, I 490 00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,399 Speaker 1: promise it's probably my favorite. I have a pair of 491 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 1: jeans that I wrote the lyrics on UM and that 492 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 1: sounds like something I would have done in middle school, 493 00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:55,160 Speaker 1: but no, it's something I did last year. I also 494 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,760 Speaker 1: really love Swing Swing by All American Rejects and Cute 495 00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 1: Without the e By Taking Back Sunday. Just a big 496 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:05,800 Speaker 1: big fan. I think Reliant k would count um be 497 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,920 Speaker 1: my escape. That was really cool because they're technically a 498 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 1: Christian man, so I was allowed to listen to them 499 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 1: and didn't have to like hide them in another CD case. 500 00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:17,359 Speaker 1: My family was very strict, but look how I turned out. 501 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:23,679 Speaker 1: You never know. Someone said I would like to know 502 00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 1: how you met Sam and rediscovered true love that comes 503 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:30,400 Speaker 1: from Craig abol three. Uh, that's so sweet. Um. I 504 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 1: met my boyfriend four times before I remembered him, which 505 00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 1: is absolutely on me. We have a bunch of mutual friends. 506 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,359 Speaker 1: I think the first time we officially met was in 507 00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 1: a bar, so I don't that one. I don't blame 508 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,040 Speaker 1: myself for not remembering, because I'm sure there were things 509 00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:49,040 Speaker 1: involved that make you forget things. Um. I think one 510 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,639 Speaker 1: of the moments that really stuck with me when I 511 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 1: actually remembered meeting him was I was with Candy Carpenter 512 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 1: and he came up to sat a show and you know, 513 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:00,280 Speaker 1: said how much he liked our music and he was 514 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,920 Speaker 1: really nice about it. And one of my closest friends, 515 00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 1: Will Stone, who wrote Lullaby with me on my album, 516 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:12,200 Speaker 1: he produces Sam, and so I went to see Sam's show. 517 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:14,880 Speaker 1: He we just kept running into each other and he 518 00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 1: jokes that this is like some pavlov and like reinforcement thing. 519 00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:22,720 Speaker 1: But every time I'd see him and buy me a 520 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,560 Speaker 1: tequila shot. So he started to be like the guy 521 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,399 Speaker 1: who bought me tequila shots. So whenever I'd see him, 522 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:27,960 Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh my god, Sam, I'm gonna in 523 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:31,520 Speaker 1: tequila shot and all of this was like subconscious, but 524 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,680 Speaker 1: maybe I don't know it worked. But I went and 525 00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,200 Speaker 1: saw him play a show and he sang a cover 526 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,120 Speaker 1: of Dear Maria Cut Me in by All Time Low 527 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:41,920 Speaker 1: with Pedal Steel on it, and I was like, yep, 528 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,960 Speaker 1: I want that one. And my roommate texted me was like, hey, 529 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:47,800 Speaker 1: what are you doing? And I was like, oh, actively 530 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 1: trying not to fall in love with san Varga. Let's 531 00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:51,800 Speaker 1: see how this goes. And then the next day I 532 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 1: was like, did a terrible job at not falling in 533 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:57,960 Speaker 1: love with tep Wark. So um it was. It was 534 00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,359 Speaker 1: love at first emo cover, but definitely not love it 535 00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 1: first sight, because I don't really remember the first time, 536 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 1: but I would say like, we really became friends after 537 00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 1: we started writing songs together, and then it all came 538 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:14,240 Speaker 1: out of that. At its Taylor underscore XXO said if 539 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 1: you could do a duet with anyone dead or live, 540 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,359 Speaker 1: who would it be and why would it be Taylor Swift. Okay, 541 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:22,880 Speaker 1: that's very fair. Um. I used to play these shows 542 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: in a hotel um like a hotel bar, and I'd 543 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:29,119 Speaker 1: take requests all the time, and people like, play Taylor Swift. 544 00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:31,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, cool, Like I can play any Taylor 545 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,080 Speaker 1: Swift song and they're like, what do you mean. I'm like, 546 00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:36,400 Speaker 1: I can, like, like literally play any Taylor Swift song, 547 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:40,240 Speaker 1: including several unreleased ones that I somehow acquired the demos 548 00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 1: for when I was in high school. And um, I 549 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 1: just love Taylor Swift and I think probably knowing her 550 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:51,680 Speaker 1: entire catalog would be, um, you know, a good inkling 551 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 1: as to why I would love to collaborate with her. 552 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,600 Speaker 1: But I also think somebody I would really really really 553 00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 1: like to do a duet with is a lot of 554 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:01,800 Speaker 1: smore set. I think she's just incredible. She's influenced by 555 00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 1: writing so much. Without Jagged Little Pill, Open Book would 556 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:09,280 Speaker 1: not exist. She's brought me so much comfort during the 557 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 1: really tough times, from breakups to the music industry right 558 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 1: through You as one of my go to songs when 559 00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 1: I'm starting to feel really you know, shitty and letting 560 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,800 Speaker 1: it get to me, and one of my biggest goals 561 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 1: in addition to playing SNL and winning a Grammy, are 562 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:28,080 Speaker 1: doing a CMT Crossroads of holonosmore set. Okay, at c 563 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:31,400 Speaker 1: K Golding said, what does the Instagram number you least 564 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:35,520 Speaker 1: want to date? Okay, So I'm not trying to offend anybody. 565 00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,440 Speaker 1: I just know myself and not everybody can be compatible 566 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,040 Speaker 1: with everybody. Okay, that's just fair. This is no shade 567 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,640 Speaker 1: and it's going to be a one for sure. I 568 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:48,720 Speaker 1: ones are really hard. I would also say fives would 569 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 1: be difficult as well, because they're so introverted and it's 570 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:54,479 Speaker 1: really important to me that the person I'm with is 571 00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:58,840 Speaker 1: willing to be surrounded by several dozen random people at 572 00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 1: all times. That's kind of it's kind of a vibe. Um. 573 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 1: But the funniest thing about that, though, is that seven's 574 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:07,760 Speaker 1: integrate to ones when they're unhealthy, and the integrate to 575 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 1: fives when they are healthy. So maybe the reason I 576 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:13,000 Speaker 1: don't want to date those numbers is because I noticed 577 00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 1: things about myself in them. Um. So there's a lot 578 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 1: to unpack there, but that's the point of the In 579 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:22,120 Speaker 1: New Groom. Also, I've loved seeing what y'all's results have 580 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,720 Speaker 1: been and seeing that you've been able to do some 581 00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 1: self reflection based on the intewgram episode, So that's really 582 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,400 Speaker 1: really cool. Anyways, this week's episode was very random. Thank 583 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 1: you for bearing with me. I just wanted to try 584 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,000 Speaker 1: a bunch of different things I think right now in 585 00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 1: the podcast or at the point where I'm just trying 586 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 1: to see what works, what you guys like, and just 587 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,520 Speaker 1: be kind of, you know, adventurous with it. So if 588 00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:45,240 Speaker 1: you like this episode, let me know. If you didn't 589 00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,160 Speaker 1: like this episode, also let me know and I'll never 590 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:51,320 Speaker 1: do it again. Um. So really exciting news. I have 591 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 1: a song coming out on Friday. It's called My Voice 592 00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 1: and it is the first single off of my rerelease 593 00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 1: of my album Open Book called Open Book on Abridged. 594 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 1: It's the most aggressive song I've ever released. It really 595 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 1: calls out a lot of bullshit and I'm really excited 596 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 1: about it. I never thought the song would see the 597 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,040 Speaker 1: light of day and I just am so excited. So 598 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:13,000 Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear what you guys think of 599 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:14,600 Speaker 1: the song. Let me know what you think of the episode. 600 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,360 Speaker 1: You can always tweet me at Kaylee shore k l 601 00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:19,920 Speaker 1: I E S h O R R. And thanks for tuning. 602 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 1: In This is too much to say with Kaylee shore 603 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 1: asking questions out it, out you