1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: An old friend wants to cheat with my husband. I 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: told her husband here's what happened. 3 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 2: Dang, you wanna get you get mad for a little swinging? 4 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 1: Come on, reverse baby, you want you want to keys 5 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: in the bowl shaking? 6 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 2: That is that a swinging thing that they do? Is 7 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:21,280 Speaker 2: that a thing? I mean? 8 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: I think so, Josh, where you found the situation? 9 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 3: Redditdits he yo. 10 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: Speaking of subreddits, this one actually comes from our subreddit 11 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: r slash o k O P show. Hey o, so 12 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 1: big big shout out to Lady Max for submitting the story. 13 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: By the way, guys are are beautiful guests wiki on reddit. 14 00:00:51,040 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 2: They are absolutely destroying trying to trying to freaking destroy 15 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 2: everyone just said, trying to what is going on? We 16 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 2: actually created another podcast I just guested with these bokay, 17 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 2: oh my gosh. 18 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: But guys, please if you could join our subreddit so 19 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:19,479 Speaker 1: we wouldn't look so pathetic next to. 20 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,680 Speaker 2: Our incredible guests. But big shout out to Lady Mags. 21 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 1: If you want to submit your story, go to our 22 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: slast o kop show send it in there. But let's 23 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: dive into this one. Some details are left out to 24 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:33,479 Speaker 1: keep this story short and sweet. A few years back. 25 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: A woman who my husband grew up with began messaging 26 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 1: him on Facebook. He ignored the first few attempts until 27 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 1: a mutual friend of theirs messaged him, telling him that 28 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 1: this person was trying to get in touch with him 29 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: and he should message her back. My girl ain't quittend 30 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 1: She's ready to make it happen. He isn't really the 31 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: chatty type, but ended up replying to one of her messages. 32 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: Shortly after this, they caught up on what had happened 33 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 1: over the past few years. She now lived a few 34 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: states away, and she quickly got right into the reason 35 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 1: she was reaching out to him. 36 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:19,359 Speaker 2: She wanted him that's a chance I can get and 37 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:20,119 Speaker 2: she will too. 38 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 1: Nice one John. Apparently she always had a big crush 39 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 1: on him. 40 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 2: The truth is out. 41 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 1: She began flirting with him, sending him inappropriate messages and 42 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 1: pictures of herself to him. We went full nuclear on Facebook. 43 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 2: Ye, the best nudes are set, dude the messager. They 44 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 2: don't compress there. You can see face suck. 45 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: When I saw those, it was on. She knew like 46 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 1: like as in she was turned on like it. The 47 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 1: box was on Dealer's Choice. 48 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 2: Breakdown. She knew he was married. 49 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 1: What she didn't know is that I'm a little crazy 50 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 1: and very petty. 51 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 2: That's because she's part of the OK let's go. She 52 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:33,680 Speaker 2: thought she was safe because she lived in another state. Nay, nay, 53 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 2: So I stopped that bit. Little manslaughter just caught a case. 54 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 2: Don't even care hashtag free lady mags this from myself 55 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 2: one phone call today. Oh my god. 56 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: I was reaching out to you guys, hoping you can 57 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 1: help spread the word. 58 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 2: We would totally have your back in the scenario. Duet Riley. 59 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 2: So our producer just sent me the fucking craziest Instagram message. 60 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 2: He sent me a picture of this girl from a 61 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 2: uh an Instagram page that was called mug Shorties, and 62 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 2: it's like hot hot people mugshots, and he's like, this 63 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 2: kind of looks like your sister. It's not those he's this. 64 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 3: He's gonna be posting on your Sunbreddit. Is it wrong 65 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 3: of me? 66 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 2: It was? 67 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. 68 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 3: I don't know if you guys watched New Girl, but 69 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 3: it just reminds you of Winston Girl. 70 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 2: What that thing? 71 00:04:56,920 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 1: Basically that's him subliminy, that's Riley way of trying to 72 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 1: get his blessing. He's like, look, out, look out beautiful. 73 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:09,159 Speaker 1: These women are on this page. This this girl looks 74 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 1: just like Leister. We'll put it on the pot. We'll 75 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 1: see if it looks like Sam's sister, Sophia. 76 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 2: You guys know her now. Little did she know that 77 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:30,159 Speaker 2: she had ft around and was about to find out nice. 78 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 1: Of course, of course I called her to let her 79 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:40,359 Speaker 1: have it, and she hung up like a coward. Lady Mags, 80 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 1: you have to submit way more stories because you're yes, 81 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 1: lady watches this show. What's so great about the listener 82 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: submitted stories is they read them in the voices of 83 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 1: our like banter and reactions, which is so great. 84 00:05:59,400 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 2: Yeah. 85 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:02,840 Speaker 1: So, since I couldn't say what I needed to say 86 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: to her, I did the next best thing. I decided 87 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: to tell her husband come on. 88 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 2: Now to invest with Lady Mags. Yes, she was married 89 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 2: with two little children, and so I told the kids 90 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 2: to load the Mags on the children. 91 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 3: These hands are raty to heat for everyone. 92 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:38,359 Speaker 1: Nice mother and wife of the year material for sure. 93 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 1: I am a self proclaimed Internet detective. 94 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 2: Really quick. So it seems like there's no hate directed 95 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 2: at Opie's husband. Yeah, like, like was he not sending 96 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 2: anything back? 97 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 1: My understanding from this story is that is how else 98 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 1: did she find out about it? 99 00:06:59,160 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 2: Because I think that. 100 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I was gonna saying that's fair, But also 101 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 3: like getting to that point in a conversation where she's 102 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 3: sending this stuff is like, it's kind of question. 103 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 2: People send unsolicited dudes all the time. Happens every day. 104 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 2: I can help it. I make sure it happens. 105 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: John's like, help me, I get what I keep blocking him, 106 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 1: but he keeps finding new ways. 107 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 2: Please save me, John, can you tell me if this 108 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 2: looks okayed? 109 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 1: By having you guys on was just a shadowed call 110 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 1: for help, trying to try to secretly. 111 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 2: Expose him my fat signal favorite. 112 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: Now I am a self proclaimed Internet detective. Her first 113 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: mistake after the fact was not blocking on Facebook. Her 114 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 1: profile was public, which made it very easy for me 115 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: to find her husband and do the work. And I'm 116 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 1: just going to send dues to him. So I slid 117 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:24,559 Speaker 1: into his d ms, but not the same way she slid. Okay, okay, 118 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: cool cool boys, well written? 119 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, yeah, my only husband, what's. 120 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 1: Your working band? My only goal was revenge? 121 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I love the right destroying the game. 122 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 1: His profile was also public, and lucky for me, His 123 00:08:56,240 --> 00:09:00,319 Speaker 1: about me section was filled with all kinds of helpful details, 124 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:02,080 Speaker 1: like his place of work. 125 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:07,199 Speaker 2: No, she's not going to go to the employer. No, no, 126 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 2: do it? Do it? Do it? But aha, do it? 127 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: I see you in the comments if you see what's 128 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 1: about to happen. He hadn't seen my message. I figured 129 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 1: that since we weren't friends and had no mutual friends, 130 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: it was probably sent to the message requests that's fine. 131 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 1: I will just try another way because I am not 132 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 1: going to wait around for his reply. 133 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:29,959 Speaker 2: She's so proactive. 134 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: So I googled his workplace and called him at his 135 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: office directly. 136 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 2: Oh my god, respect surreal geez, stuff right here. We 137 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 2: had a nice conversation. 138 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 1: I let him know what his wife was up to 139 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:50,960 Speaker 1: while he was at work making money to provide for 140 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:54,079 Speaker 1: her and their family. He told me how she has 141 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 1: never worked more than a part time job a few 142 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: hours here or there, and that it was not the 143 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 1: first time that she she had done this to him, 144 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: and that it was the last time she would ever 145 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: be able to do it to him again. 146 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 2: He was done. Damn Ope. 147 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 3: How does it feel to know that your husband was 148 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 3: not the first? 149 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 2: Though? He was like no bottle of Barrel. Good question. 150 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: Oh p, you're probably watching this, how I feel? 151 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 3: Could you imagine she doesn't watch the podcast? Would be crazy? 152 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 2: She's like, my here is done. 153 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 3: Like ninety percent of our subreddit doesn't know he exists, 154 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 3: which is wild. 155 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 2: You ever do you ever like post like hey watch 156 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 2: the episode? And we started to? 157 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 1: We do. 158 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 4: We started to because we had that issue, right, Hi, 159 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:53,199 Speaker 4: this is fuck well? 160 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 2: They had like a lot of these thousand people, Yeah, 161 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 2: what is it? A one hundred thousand? Now it's close 162 00:10:58,440 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 2: getting there. 163 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 3: But we'd have like titles where'd be like I want 164 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:03,559 Speaker 3: John to react to this, and comments would be like 165 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 3: who the fuck is John. 166 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 1: N We hope to get there one day where they 167 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 1: don't know who we are. I offered to send him 168 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 1: screenshots that I had taken. He gave me his cell 169 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 1: phone number and I sent him everything I had. He 170 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:26,559 Speaker 1: did give me an update shortly after all of this unfolded. 171 00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 1: This all happened right before Christmas. They had plans to 172 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 1: go buy a Christmas treat. When he got home from work, 173 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: he told me he went home and stuck to that plan, 174 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 1: and he basically told her something like, let's pick out 175 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 1: a good one since it'll be our last Christmas as 176 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 1: a family. Aam. 177 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:47,320 Speaker 3: I was so worried where that was going. I took 178 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 3: her out to the woods. 179 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 2: We can't support that case. Only hope. 180 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 1: Only if you're part of the only if you're subscribed 181 00:11:57,320 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 1: to the YouTube, will we support you. Yeah, she didn't 182 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 1: see that one coming. She was confused until he showed 183 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 1: her the screenshots and he told her that. I called 184 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: him at his office to let him know what was 185 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:13,680 Speaker 1: going on behind his back. 186 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 2: Lady Mag's got time. I got nothing but time, and 187 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 2: it just hit revenge a clock. 188 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: Also, Lady Max says, boom, Merry Christmas, you filthy animal. 189 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 1: Mic drop All yeah, dude, double mic drop, it's double micdrop. 190 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 1: Whether or not she intended to be a home wrecker 191 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 1: or just wanted to be a sneaky bish and hope 192 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 1: to never get caught, the home she wrecked was her own. 193 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:45,959 Speaker 1: I simply helped expedite the inevitable process. Her husband was 194 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 1: honestly such a nice guy, and so we began to 195 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: talk more. Well, well, we became Facebook friends and stayed 196 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: in touch for a while. As I'm writing this, I 197 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: decided to check in on his Facebook page, and it 198 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 1: looks like he has upgraded. He remarried, and the woman 199 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:06,839 Speaker 1: in his profile picture is much prettier than his first wife. 200 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 2: Damn. 201 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 1: I could not be happier for him, and I wish 202 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:16,560 Speaker 1: him the very best. Thank you for reading my tale 203 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 1: of petty events. I look forward to hearing your feedback. 204 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 4: I'm just like what a like like if if this 205 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 4: is like the the spartan warrior of petty revenge, truly 206 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 4: like send her, send a thousand of of Mags into battle, 207 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 4: and and like Korea could win every more. 208 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,320 Speaker 2: She's a one woman. She doesn't need anymore. She doesn't. 209 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 2: She could take him down all by herself. 210 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 3: She tops the c i A, the FBI, all of them. Yeah, 211 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:54,719 Speaker 3: she's a one, one woman wrecking ball, the c i A. 212 00:13:54,840 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 2: But have you heard of the Lady Mags man I 213 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:06,079 Speaker 2: worked better alone? Well that was a that was a 214 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 2: doozy of the story. And also just thank you to 215 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 2: our guest host. If you want to check out their podcast, 216 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 2: go to Reddit, on wiki everywhere. Yes, podcasts are redit, 217 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 2: just to see if we were paying a session, we 218 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 2: get it. And also I was not the link in 219 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 2: the description. 220 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 1: If you want to go to the pod, yep, we'll 221 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 1: link everything down below. Boys, thank you so much for 222 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 1: joining on this episode. 223 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 2: What a great one. Thank you us. 224 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 3: We appreciate it. 225 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. Time 226 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 2: for okop relam my son's ex claim that she's pregnant 227 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 2: with his baby, So I demanded a paternity test? Am 228 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 2: I the a hole? I don't know. 229 00:14:57,600 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 1: It kind of depends, you know. If if you're like 230 00:14:59,840 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 1: if the you know, the Son of the Gulf, are like, hey, 231 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 1: we're pregnant, He's like, no paternity test. 232 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 2: I honestly think like, if my kid gets pregnant early, 233 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 2: I'm like paternity testing anyone really, Yeah, pity test immediately, 234 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 2: you know. But if they're like like thirty, it's like, 235 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 2: hey dad, we're pregnant. It's like paternity test, pat, that's 236 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 2: all test. My son eighteen, has found out that one 237 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 2: of his ex girlfriends is eight months pregnant. Oh he 238 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 2: knew nothing. Oh eight months that's that's she's she's pregnant. 239 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 2: She's all the way pregnant. Wow. He knew nothing of 240 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 2: her being pregnant until now, and now he's just expected 241 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 2: to accept everything, no questions asked. Yikes. My daughter is 242 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 2: good friends with this girl and knew about her pregnancy 243 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 2: but said nothing to us because her friend asked her 244 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 2: not to. Thanks dude, Thanks a lot. My son was 245 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 2: head over heels for this lady, but she ended up 246 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 2: breaking his heart by cheating on him and was very 247 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 2: needy and manipulative. He spent a lot of money on 248 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 2: her because she would ask him for gifts and my 249 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 2: son couldn't even afford those gifts, and she convinced him 250 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 2: to use one of my credit cards to achieve it. 251 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 2: This girl sucks, bro, he's Simfin's credit card. My daughter 252 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 2: isn't currently living with us, and she's actually rooming with 253 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 2: her my son's ex, by her college. And she's also 254 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 2: being manipulated by the ex because she just thinks that 255 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 2: this ax only does good and doesn't believe that she 256 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:33,400 Speaker 2: convinced her brother to use my credit card or even 257 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 2: that she cheated. Wow, So basically all of the evidence, 258 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 2: the credit card, the cheating, the sister anything. No, she's 259 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 2: so great, she's superior. His sister showed up with my 260 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 2: son's ex girlfriend at my door to help her tell 261 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 2: us that she's pregnant. When I saw there at my 262 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 2: door visibly pregnant, I knew she was going to be 263 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 2: saying that my son is a father of her child. 264 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 2: But I immediately said that my son will not be 265 00:16:56,480 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 2: putting any money or time until there's a paternity task 266 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 2: proving that this is indeed his child. My son backed 267 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 2: me up and agreed. 268 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 1: Okay, that's smart. It's like, hey, if it is cool, 269 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 1: but if not, then weouty. 270 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 2: But my daughter, my son's sister was horrified by the 271 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:15,879 Speaker 2: common and accused me of encouraging him to be a 272 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 2: deadbeat father and was upset. I didn't even give them 273 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:23,160 Speaker 2: a chance to explain themselves. My son's ex started crying, saying, 274 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 2: you always assume the worst to me, and she experienced 275 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:29,160 Speaker 2: eight months of pregnancy alone, and the least we could 276 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 2: do is ensure she's taken care of for the betterment 277 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 2: of this child. I do agree that if this is 278 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 2: his child, we're going to ensure the mom is doing 279 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 2: well and ensure the baby is doing well. But I 280 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 2: don't want my son to be involved with her only 281 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:44,439 Speaker 2: to get his heart broken again and only to find 282 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 2: that the child isn't his. Oh that would be bad. 283 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:48,879 Speaker 2: Am I the a hole here? I don't know? Is 284 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 2: OP the a hole? 285 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:54,200 Speaker 1: I think OP has a right to be suspicious about 286 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 1: what's going on. 287 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 2: I mean yeah, I mean any any young relationship, I think, 288 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 2: like it's fine to get a fraternity test. Yeah, you 289 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 2: should always get it. 290 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 1: They're so young, it's like, yeah, which is And also 291 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 1: like if it's true, then what does it hurt exactly? 292 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:10,920 Speaker 1: And I feel like it's one thing if Opie's son 293 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: said like if you're if you were the one that 294 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,720 Speaker 1: potentially is the father or whatever, that's like it just 295 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 1: comes off more abrasive. But like if it's a dad, it's. 296 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 2: Like, you know, they're just trying to I don't know, yeah, 297 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 2: trying to sus it out. I mean. Also, it's like 298 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:30,399 Speaker 2: an eighteen year commitment of like finances, and yeah. 299 00:18:30,040 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 1: You can't just be like okay, I'm just gonna blindly 300 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:33,960 Speaker 1: go with and you know, do this. 301 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 2: Like yeah, give me something. But there is an update. 302 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 2: My daughter and I spoke on the phone, and I 303 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:41,800 Speaker 2: explained to her that if the baby really is his, 304 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 2: and then the test will only lock in his responsibility 305 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 2: for the baby, and there's no way I'd ever encourage 306 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 2: my son to abandon any of my grandbabies. My daughter 307 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 2: finally agreed that the test would be beneficial and told 308 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,640 Speaker 2: me she'd call me back later. I ended up getting 309 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:58,639 Speaker 2: a text back instead of a call, asking if they 310 00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 2: could come back over to talk, which I agreed. When 311 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 2: they came over, my son's ex admitted to not actually 312 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 2: knowing who the father was and that she had been 313 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 2: in a relationship with multiple guys, which is why she 314 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:11,360 Speaker 2: took so long telling my son because she was trying 315 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 2: to figure out who is the father of her child. 316 00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:16,639 Speaker 2: But she's now certain it's my son. She agreed to 317 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 2: do a paternity test as soon as we are able 318 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 2: to do one, on the condition I pay for it. 319 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 2: One other thing I found is that my daughter and 320 00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:28,880 Speaker 2: my son's ex have actually developed a romantic relationship, which 321 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 2: is beyond shocking to me. I mean, explains why she's 322 00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:33,959 Speaker 2: been sticking up for my son's ex as much as 323 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 2: she's been doing. But it's just not something I thought 324 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 2: my daughter would ever do. I mean, that's her brother's ex, 325 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 2: someone who broke his heart. It's not just something I 326 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:45,200 Speaker 2: can understand. Always love my daughter, but it just hurts 327 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:48,919 Speaker 2: me seeing my son feeling hurt by the whole situation. Bruh. 328 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:52,679 Speaker 1: I mean, the plot twist of the plot, it's like 329 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:56,480 Speaker 1: my own sister is seeing the girl who, like, you know. 330 00:19:56,600 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 2: Who I loved. Oh, dude, that dagger in the heart. 331 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:04,639 Speaker 2: The sister kind of sucks, dude. Yeah yeah, yikes, yikes, 332 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:08,360 Speaker 2: but definitely get a paternity test. This is a mess already. 333 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:10,480 Speaker 1: Don't fall in love when you're young, especially if you 334 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:12,200 Speaker 1: have a sister who can steal your girl.