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Speaker 1: Stay or go? All right, Kelsey, Good morning, Kelsey, how

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 3: Hello, Amo, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the program. So you're looking for advice, people

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Speaker 1: can hit us up on all the different socials, dms, whatever,

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Speaker 1: Fred Show Radio, Fredshow Radio dot com. You are having

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Speaker 1: an issue with this is guy you've been dating for

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Speaker 1: a couple of years, right, yes, together, have a seat

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Speaker 1: on the couch. What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, you know, I've been with Discuss for two years.

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Speaker 3: Everything's been great. We've been talking about planning our future together.

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Speaker 3: But the issue comes in with so we just recently

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Speaker 3: topped the dog. And to me, dogs are like babies,

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Speaker 3: you know, they fuss, they whine, they cry their babies.

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Speaker 3: And I take up moturiously and I do all the

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Speaker 3: clean ups that wake up early in the morning. I attend,

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Speaker 3: attend to the dogs needs more than hatos. I feel

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Speaker 3: like he said he would. He told me he would

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Speaker 3: clean after the dog. He told me he would walk

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Speaker 3: the dog more. He told me he would go up

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Speaker 3: at the middle of the night. And since I haven't

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Speaker 3: seen that, it's just for me.

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Speaker 1: So you guys talked about it ahead of time. I hea,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna get this dog, and you're gonna help me

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Speaker 1: share in the responsibility of the dog, which is I

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Speaker 1: think pretty common in a couple and a family or whatever.

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Speaker 1: It's such a one person job. But sometimes it becomes

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Speaker 1: and then the parent winds up doing it because the

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Speaker 1: kid doesn't. But anyway, so you were looking for him

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Speaker 1: to share in responsibility and he's not. You're doing everything,

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Speaker 1: and and so you say to him, like, hey, can

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Speaker 3: You know, he's m I ay.

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Speaker 1: Just doesn't do anything. Does he say he explain why

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Speaker 3: He always tells them he'll handle it next time. And

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Speaker 3: he didn't grow up with dogs, and I think that's

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Speaker 3: kind of bs. But you know, I let him do

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Speaker 3: what he wants to do. My friends tell me it's

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Speaker 3: like I just teach some advice. Am I am I overreacting?

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Speaker 1: Chelse the other other ways in which he is absent?

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Speaker 1: Are there other ways in which he says he'll he'll

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Speaker 1: Or is this it just a dog? Because I think

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Speaker 1: I see where you're going with this. It's like, if

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Speaker 1: if we get married and have kids? I mean, is

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Speaker 1: that is that sort of the next step? Then what

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: He's the love of my life. I just I would

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Speaker 3: is always going to be with our future children, So

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Speaker 3: I just want to know is this is it me?

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Speaker 3: Or is it him?

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Speaker 2: Or you?

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Speaker 1: Well, let me take some phone calls on this. Maybe.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure people listening have encountered something like this before,

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Speaker 1: an omen or what eight five five five nine three

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Speaker 1: five Kelsey, thank you, good.

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Speaker 3: Luck, you're welcome.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you what are you going to do?

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Speaker 1: You agree as a couple that you're going to take

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Speaker 2: It, right.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I think regardless if you if you say

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Speaker 5: I feel like now I understand why my mom didn't

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Speaker 5: so much work. Like and I know, like I love animals, Okay,

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Speaker 5: I love I have a dog. I love him very much. However,

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Speaker 1: I don't think, well it will be a big deal

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Speaker 1: she just shake a dog, do it all or so

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Speaker 1: I earn the dog. I mean that's not's not going

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Speaker 1: to leave him and with the dog. Yeah, as she should.

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Speaker 1: She's doing all the work, so you know, you're telling

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Speaker 5: Terrible.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people are saying that this is an

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Speaker 1: Dog's over human. She needs to go. He's not going

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Speaker 1: to change. He shouldn't have gotten a dog. If he

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Speaker 1: want to take care of it. It may be cruel,

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Speaker 1: but show what he's on an animal lover. Okay, that

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Speaker 1: has nothing to do with children, Well, I don't know, though,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It has. It has to do with

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Speaker 2: Hey, Lou, Hey, how's it going.

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Speaker 1: Hey man, So you say that there's no comparison between

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Speaker 2: I don't think you know, I don't think so at all.

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Speaker 3: I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: So if you agree to take care of an animal

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Speaker 1: we're gonna have kids, I'm gonna take care of the kid.

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Speaker 1: I can expect you to take care of the kid

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Speaker 1: day long. Well, then why say that you're gonna support

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Speaker 1: you can get a dog if you want to, but

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Speaker 1: it's not for me.

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Speaker 2: I think he was just trying to get through it

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Speaker 2: and I have an argument. So you're like, hey, yeah, sure,

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Speaker 2: I'll hope you take care of the dog.

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Speaker 1: But that's a problem.

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Speaker 2: Not a dog guy, for sure. He sure has just

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Speaker 1: So here we are.

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Speaker 2: But I think that, uh, I think that once the

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Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough, Thank you, Lou, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Glad you called. Yeah, I'm not convinced. Hey is it, Latitia, Letitia,

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Speaker 1: good morning, welcome, how are you good?

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Speaker 2: Good, good morning.

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Speaker 6: So I'm so excited.

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Speaker 1: Well, this is this is exciting for me too, Leticia.

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Speaker 1: I honestly, this is one of the most exciting things

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Speaker 1: that's happened to me in the last thirty minutes at least.

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Speaker 1: So what are you going to do in this situation?

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Speaker 1: This dude agreed to get a dog with his long

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Speaker 1: now she's starting to wonder is this a sign of

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Speaker 6: Absolutely, absolutely, that is exactly what it is. He is

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Speaker 6: because when people show you who they are, you should

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Speaker 6: believe them. They're not gonna change. I mean, if they

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Speaker 6: they both don't have children, So I mean, what's it

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Speaker 3: Just leave her all the work?

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Speaker 6: No, I think she should go or here I have

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Speaker 6: a conversation about it at least, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Because I don't. I mean, dogs and humans obviously different,

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Speaker 1: but I think if you're willing to back out of

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Speaker 1: me either. They're both innocent creatures. You didn't ask to

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Speaker 1: to you, is okay, well he okay. Let's say lou

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Speaker 1: he just didn't want to argue. Well, then don't adopt

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Speaker 1: I don't want this dog and I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna help you with it exactly.

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Speaker 6: And doesn't seem like he's trying to own that either.

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Speaker 6: So that's also another thing she should keep in mind too,

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Speaker 6: like if he doesn't want the dog now, I mean,

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Speaker 6: how many other things in the future are they gonna

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Speaker 6: I don't want to do this. You can do everything.

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Speaker 7: No.

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Speaker 6: I mean, like I said, it's deeper than just oh

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Speaker 6: is it just a dog. Oh my friends are saying

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Speaker 6: it's just a dog. No, it's actually deeper than that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, fair enough, thank you, have a great day.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you guys too, love me?

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Speaker 2: Do you call?

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Speaker 1: Hey? Rico?

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Speaker 2: Hey, how are you guys?

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Speaker 1: Rico? What do you want me to do?

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Speaker 2: Man? I think you guys should do just like you do.

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Speaker 6: What' waiting by the phone and call him and find

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Speaker 6: out why he don't want to take care of the dog, Like.

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Speaker 1: Hey, dude, are you is this a negligent dog? Just

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Speaker 1: a deadbeat dog owner? My name is Fred. I'm calling

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Speaker 1: for the Friend Show, the morning radio show, and I

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Speaker 1: have to tell you that I gotta tell you. We

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Speaker 1: are on the radio right now. What do you need

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Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the call? Yeah? No, I

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Speaker 1: got the whole script down.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 1: I could do it, Rico, I could Yeah, I could

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Speaker 1: do it.

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Speaker 7: Get up married because because she'll find out more information

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Speaker 7: that way, because she'll probably even find out that he

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Speaker 7: don't even love her.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling on behalf of I'm calling on behalf of

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Speaker 1: good day.

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Speaker 3: Rego.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're a good guy, have a good day. Let

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Speaker 1: you call hey, Veronica, Hi, Hey, good morning. You say

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, because it's foreshadowing of like what could be.

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Speaker 1: Why would you even want that? He could be the

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Speaker 4: Also, that dog was probably put in her life to

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Speaker 1: Oh love you on condition. Maybe the dog was some

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Speaker 3: Lord, I'm a dog drummer and I see it every

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Speaker 2: Yes they do.

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Speaker 1: We don't deserve them. I do think it's a bigger

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Speaker 1: it's a bigger sign that you'll go for a major

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Speaker 1: The question. The other question is does the dog like him.

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Speaker 1: for listening. So Clint, you're upset because you think the

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Speaker 2: Wait, I wouldn't say you wouldn't.

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Speaker 7: So there's a little bit of there's a little bit

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Speaker 7: of question there. But I mean, like, I'm not sending

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Speaker 7: the comparison between a dog and a child is crazy.

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Speaker 7: I treat my children far differently than I treat my dog,

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Speaker 7: Now the responsibility aspect is much different. Though she should

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, yeah, I guess I would just hate

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Speaker 7: Yeah, one hundred percent I agree with that. I mean,

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Speaker 1: Right, fair enough, Clint, thank you, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're talking to crazy people here who'd like

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Speaker 1: It is different. I don't sleep, I don't feed poly

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