1 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. Here it is strawberry letter. 2 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: This is a hot one to subject cheating pregnant wife. 3 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:21,279 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I am so ashamed to even tell 4 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 1: anyone about the problem I have. My wife and I 5 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: have been married for ten years now. We have three girls, 6 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:31,319 Speaker 1: a son, and a baby girl on the way. We 7 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 1: got along fine, but I was just told by a 8 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 1: person in my neighborhood that when I leave for work 9 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 1: at night, another guy is being led into my house 10 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: by my pregnant wife. Lately, my wife and I have 11 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 1: not been intimate, and I would like to think it's 12 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: because of our hormones. I would have never in a 13 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: million years question my wife's faithfulness to me until my 14 00:00:56,960 --> 00:01:00,080 Speaker 1: neighbor told me what was going on. Now, I have 15 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 1: noticed other neighbors shaking their heads when we walk past, 16 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 1: or they avoid talking to us. How do I confront 17 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: my pregnant wife about something like this? This is not 18 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: your everyday problem. There are kids involved, and what if 19 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: it's not true. I would look like a fool that 20 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: was dumb enough to accuse his pregnant wife of cheating. 21 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 1: It's a no win situation. My heart is so heavy 22 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 1: and my mind is confused. I love my wife, but 23 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: I feel stuck. What should I do? This is very, 24 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 1: very serious. I totally totally feel for you. You're right, 25 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: this is not your everyday problem. There are kids involved. Uh. 26 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 1: First of all, let's get this out of the way. 27 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: Who is this neighbor? Who is he or she? Probably she? 28 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: How do they know what's going on in your house? 29 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 1: Do you know this neighbor? I would certainly trust my 30 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: wife before I would trust some nosy neighbor. That's first. 31 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: But you gotta get to the truth. You have to 32 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 1: find out if your pregnant wife is cheating, that's the truth. 33 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: So I mean my suggestion would be double back. When 34 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: you leave for work at night, double back to the 35 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: house and just see who's going in and out of 36 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:16,679 Speaker 1: a house. It's your house going in check that out. 37 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: I mean, you've got to check it out. Double back, 38 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: set up a camera if you can afford to do that, 39 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: get a camera. You gotta get some evidence, and you 40 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: do definitely have to confront your wife. You absolutely have 41 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 1: to find out if this is true. I would double back, Steve. 42 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: My wife and I have been married for ten years. 43 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: We have three girls, a son, and a baby girl. 44 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: We get along fun. But I was told by a 45 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: person in my neighborhood that when I leave for work 46 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: at night, another guy is being led into my house 47 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: by my pregnant wife. Who the hell is your name? Okay? 48 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 1: Who died and put him in charge of the neighborhood 49 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: block watch No, no, no, you think it's a man? 50 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:29,799 Speaker 1: Yeah see this is really really it's some woman stuff here, 51 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: but a man A dude did really yeah, a dude. 52 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: I just see it. I just see it because the guy, 53 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: you know, a neighbor top do you think a woman would? 54 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: But I'm thinking it was really a guy. Um now regardless, Yes, 55 00:03:54,560 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: back to food the hell is your name? H? Lately 56 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: my wife have not been intimate, and I would like 57 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: to think it's because of her homeone. Well, the key 58 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: sentence in him, I would like to think, Hey, I 59 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 1: would like to think I'm built like hell hell clue jay. 60 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 1: But when I look in the mirror quite you know, 61 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: you know, I would like to think people look at 62 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:37,479 Speaker 1: me the same way they look at this. I mean, 63 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, well just forgetting examples on. I didn't have 64 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: that kind of out first. When you kept it in 65 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: I would like to think that's what you get for 66 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 1: thinking what you're not gonna do. It's that that damn 67 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:03,719 Speaker 1: I'm your mama would have like to have thought that 68 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 1: you would help out with the team, I said, I 69 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 1: would like to think that's what you get for thinking. Now, 70 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 1: I would never in a million years question my wife's 71 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: faithfulness to me until my neighbor told me what was 72 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: going on. I've noticed other neighbors shaking their head when 73 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 1: we walked past, or they avoid talking to us. That's 74 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 1: because your neighbor. They told the same thing to the 75 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 1: other neighbors. Unless everybody is watching your damn well, I 76 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:47,160 Speaker 1: just think that this neighbor man is going somewhere above 77 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: and beyond the call of dude. And I think that 78 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 1: you gotta be smart here because you're said, and what 79 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: if it's not true, I would look like a food 80 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 1: that was dumb enough to accute just pregnant wife or cheating, 81 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:05,360 Speaker 1: or you're gonna look dumb enough to believe your neighbor 82 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: see something is not true here. And I think we 83 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:14,159 Speaker 1: got to start with the name. Yeah, I agree with 84 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 1: you on that, because you gotta look at motive. What 85 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 1: is the motive about? What are you saying now, your 86 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 1: wife has given you no indication that something is wrong 87 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 1: other than y'all ain't being an instiment right now, and 88 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 1: you're thinking it's got something to do with the hormy hormone. 89 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 1: That's what you're saying. Yeah, I'm gonna throw my marriage 90 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 1: away on the neighbor. He's not believing the neighbor at all. 91 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:44,719 Speaker 1: On the neighbor. Yes her two of Steven's responds coming 92 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: up at twenty three after the hour, and we will 93 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 1: be back cheating pregnant wife? Is she cheating or what? 94 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 1: It's the neighbor line. I don't know. I'm gonna tell 95 00:06:56,839 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: you what I do. See this is I like what 96 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: you said, Sherley about to put the camera because I 97 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 1: had that on my paper and the doubling back definitely 98 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: gonna happen for I say anything, but for me to 99 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 1: say something, I got to know him. I can't be 100 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 1: based on what the names. So I think the best 101 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 1: way to do this here, I think the next conversation 102 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 1: you in the neighbor hand, you need to tell the 103 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 1: neighbor something about his wife. See that what I do? Oh, man, 104 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: I'm glad you told me that, because Man, I've been 105 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: waiting to tell you something to your wife when she 106 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 1: go to work. She's screwing a man on her lunch break. 107 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, your wife down at the hardwaret though. Yeah 108 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 1: you know, you know, because it's like this. If it's 109 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 1: a woman, who hey bad your man? Your man gotta know? 110 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: Wow do it? What about the other neighbors though, who's 111 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: shaking their hands and stuff? Looking I'm looking at them 112 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 1: funny and stuff? Well, you know, just every time you 113 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 1: see somebody shaking their heads like you see a couple 114 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 1: of shaking their heads and walking to the dude and 115 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 1: go my man, so that stipp club like Nick fin 116 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 1: put yourself in the just gonna be the only neighbor 117 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: messed up. You ain't just breaking up the Harvey family. 118 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: He loves coming. I don't know the whole blood get 119 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 1: a divorce. I'm going down the only one walking out 120 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: tree whole hand back look at shaking her hand to me. 121 00:08:57,520 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 1: When they shake their head at you, you look right back, 122 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 1: don't you know what you mean? We'll do it again, Steve, 123 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:13,680 Speaker 1: I'm terrible shame or you just just look at his 124 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 1: wife would go my man song about that? You know 125 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 1: what's that? Steve Hunt? Just flip it You just breaking 126 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 1: my family, going down about yourself. Hey girl, Hey Mr 127 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 1: John Larry, what's up? Or y'all wild? Just say stuff 128 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: like that, Just walk all on, hell me here, compete, y'all. 129 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: I don't know what are you talking about? True, that's 130 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:06,959 Speaker 1: what I'm going to. That's what I'm gonna do. You 131 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: ain't breaking up just my fans. But you would double back? 132 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah, but once I don't see nothing happening 133 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 1: like if I double back, ain't never nobody over there? 134 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 1: Put the camp, ain't nobody coming, don't go, let the 135 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: games begin. That's what we're doing, all right. See, we 136 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:33,959 Speaker 1: gotta get out of here. You can email us or 137 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: instagram us your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter. Go to 138 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 1: my Instagram. It's my girl Shirley at My Girls Shirley. 139 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.