WEBVTT - Weds Post Show (06-28-23) 0:00:01.280 --> 0:00:03.920 It's time for the Bobby Bones post show. 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:08.400 Here's your host, Bobby the Bones. 0:00:12.360 --> 0:00:14.600 Are you ready to go on? Yeah, we're on. 0:00:14.760 --> 0:00:15.360 You're ready to go. 0:00:16.000 --> 0:00:18.360 I know you weren't you never in here? Oh you 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:20.040 just walked in. Yeah, you just literally came in. 0:00:20.120 --> 0:00:23.319 We know you'll come running in. But they have to 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:26.239 like turn stuff on. Were morgan to get the social 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:29.040 media going. Eddi's got to get the cameras up. And 0:00:29.080 --> 0:00:30.160 you know Ray does. 0:00:30.000 --> 0:00:33.880 That if you want to give him credit, well he can. 0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:35.360 Turn it on and off with a simple button, right, 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:36.360 turn the lunches, Mike off. 0:00:36.720 --> 0:00:43.680 See no, he turned it on. Yeah there, Eddie and 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:45.519 were talking about the Jimmy Johnson thing right before we 0:00:45.560 --> 0:00:47.839 came on, and his wife, his wife's family. Yeah, so 0:00:48.200 --> 0:00:52.120 I saw that it was like a murder suicide. What 0:00:52.320 --> 0:00:53.920 happened exactly that we know. 0:00:54.200 --> 0:00:57.160 What I read was when the investigators got there, there 0:00:57.280 --> 0:01:00.680 was one person dead around the front door, front in 0:01:00.680 --> 0:01:03.840 front of the house, and then they heard gunshots in 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:07.200 the back and they found the whole family dead. So 0:01:07.240 --> 0:01:10.080 the mom had killed her husband and their grandson and 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:11.080 then she killed herself. 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:14.840 So two questions the mom to Jimmy Johnson, the race 0:01:14.840 --> 0:01:16.320 car driver is what mother in law? 0:01:16.480 --> 0:01:18.800 Mother? It's his wife's mom. 0:01:18.840 --> 0:01:20.480 Yeah, wow? 0:01:20.640 --> 0:01:24.200 And their other in his nephew was the grandson is 0:01:24.280 --> 0:01:25.360 Jimmy's Okay. 0:01:25.120 --> 0:01:28.640 I'm getting lost now with all the relatives. So Jimmy 0:01:28.720 --> 0:01:31.440 Johnson's in law. So it's his mother in law's direct 0:01:31.440 --> 0:01:32.559 fans and she who did. 0:01:32.480 --> 0:01:34.720 She kill her husband and grandson? 0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:35.320 Oh? 0:01:35.400 --> 0:01:39.640 My god? And herself? Did they say? They say why? 0:01:40.840 --> 0:01:43.400 I didn't see that or any reason. 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:45.000 Wow. 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:47.640 I just saw the headline and I got lost with 0:01:47.680 --> 0:01:51.160 the nephew cousins in last and I was like, huh 0:01:51.240 --> 0:01:54.240 and it was tragic, but I didn't know specifics. 0:01:55.680 --> 0:01:57.800 God, and you read something like that and I just 0:01:57.880 --> 0:01:59.520 immediately assumed it was the dad. 0:02:00.120 --> 0:02:00.800 What do you mean? 0:02:01.160 --> 0:02:03.240 Just you know, when you see murder suicide took out 0:02:03.240 --> 0:02:04.880 the whole family, I think the dad's the one that 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:06.080 did it and then shoots himself. 0:02:06.280 --> 0:02:08.520 Oh you would think it would be the guy. Yeah, yeah, 0:02:08.639 --> 0:02:10.400 i'd agree. I was kind of shocked with that one. 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:12.400 Yeah, I would agree most of the time is the 0:02:12.440 --> 0:02:14.960 guy and stuff like that. That is a really sad, 0:02:15.120 --> 0:02:17.320 terrible story. It was like Ryan Mallet, the quarterback that 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:20.079 played at Arkansas who played for the Patriots and the Texans, 0:02:20.120 --> 0:02:23.160 and the fact that they played football doesn't make the 0:02:23.200 --> 0:02:26.920 loss any heavier or it's just he's a connection. 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:28.240 That's how I knew him. 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:31.000 And I knew him a little bit from playing quarterback 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:33.920 at Arkansas and I'd met him a few times, but 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:35.440 he was ahead. I think he was a Whitehall. I 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:38.120 think he's head coach Whitehall and that's Whitehall. Yeah, in Arkansas, 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:40.400 thirty five years old, a rip current. He was out 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:42.320 with other people and I think everybody else got back, 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:45.840 but he drowned. But in that water. He's a big dude, 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:48.240 big strong dude. I just showed there's no chance against 0:02:48.680 --> 0:02:53.880 mother nature like that. But he just popped up like 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:58.760 Ryan Mallet drowned. Crazy. So yeah, we don't use it 0:02:58.840 --> 0:03:01.760 at lead with the trage stuff there, but those two 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:02.640 popped up on the feed. 0:03:02.680 --> 0:03:05.839 And did I miss anything about that, Ryan Mount, I don't. 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:07.280 I don't think they know. There's really not a lot 0:03:07.400 --> 0:03:07.919 out on that. 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:12.200 Yeah, Okay, well I don't want to stand the sad 0:03:12.200 --> 0:03:13.800 stuff for sure, but we did want to mention it. 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:15.560 Yeah, a couple of stories that I wanted to talk 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:17.680 about here. There's a story about guys who are. 0:03:17.639 --> 0:03:20.880 Unemployed, and if they're in a relationship, and if they're 0:03:20.880 --> 0:03:22.200 in a relationship with a woman and the woman is 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:25.000 not unemployed and she's still working, and it's mostly just 0:03:25.120 --> 0:03:28.160 rolls in how guys would rather if somebody had to 0:03:28.160 --> 0:03:29.200 be unemployed. 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:34.040 That it be heard not him. I agree, why would you? 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:36.800 Why go ahead? Cares? You know what you say before 0:03:36.800 --> 0:03:37.520 I read the story. 0:03:37.360 --> 0:03:39.200 Well, it just looks bad for the guy to be 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:42.120 relying on the woman to pay for things and to 0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:44.720 be the bread winner, and for him to be the 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:48.400 one like cleaning the dishes and doing the house work. 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:49.200 Who cares though? 0:03:49.560 --> 0:03:50.760 Ah, society cares? 0:03:51.360 --> 0:03:51.640 Really? 0:03:52.200 --> 0:03:54.040 Yeah, any if you if you went to your boys 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:56.320 and you're like, hey, dude, I just I cleaned the house, 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:58.200 I do the dishes, and my wife's the one that works, 0:03:58.360 --> 0:03:59.320 you're gonna get a little side. 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:01.080 I think my boys would be jealous that I stay 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:01.360 at home. 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:03.360 Maybe that would be a great example to them that 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:05.800 it doesn't matter if you're a man or a. 0:04:05.720 --> 0:04:09.000 Woman or Yeah, we get to unlearn that. But you 0:04:09.040 --> 0:04:11.400 don't like that's that's a learned thought. 0:04:11.480 --> 0:04:16.320 Sure, yeah, and I think society does it for a reason. 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:18.080 He's like, they nailed it the first time. 0:04:20.040 --> 0:04:22.039 You're pretty happy with that, gues I love that. Yeah. 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:24.760 A study which analyzed data from over forty two thousand 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:29.520 people found that men that weren't couples were women that 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:33.360 were the sole breadwinner had a lower average like well being. 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:35.840 Understanding of the. 0:04:35.760 --> 0:04:38.360 Relationship because of what's sadness? 0:04:39.000 --> 0:04:41.080 Hold on, what about nature though, amy, Like what if, 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:45.279 like naturally we were built to hunt and gather, right right. 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:48.239 Like as males we were the hunters and gatherers. 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:49.719 Their children or whatever exactly. 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:53.719 So yeah, so what what did that do with the question? No, 0:04:53.720 --> 0:04:55.839 I'm saying what if. It's not society's thinking. It's just 0:04:55.880 --> 0:04:56.840 the way we're built. 0:04:57.200 --> 0:05:00.920 But again you're talking about we didn't talking about nature 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:05.159 and hunting and gathering versus somebody being out of a 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:06.960 job in the three months. 0:05:06.640 --> 0:05:09.279 Stay at home like Lunchbot saying stay at home doing 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:13.080 the dishes. But that also that also can be considered 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:15.760 a job to hunting and gathering, but taking care of 0:05:16.080 --> 0:05:16.880 the village. 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:18.880 No, no, no, hunting and gathering. 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:23.359 You just like saying hunting and gathering, gathering. They both 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:28.159 are jobs that people their responsibilities. 0:05:28.279 --> 0:05:29.120 Which one's easier. 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:33.520 It's what you're gathering. Both you're gathering berries. Not so hard. 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:36.360 I've seen some seen some difficult houses to keep gathering sticks. 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:38.720 Having four kids would be very hard. 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:42.800 Four boys, absolutely, But I think naturally, like sometimes I 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:45.640 get down on myself sometimes when I'm just like, oh, man, 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:47.400 nothing's going on. I'm supposed to going out and like 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:49.880 working and doing stuff, like it's been kind of slow 0:05:49.920 --> 0:05:50.720 this week or whatever. 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:54.360 You know what I mean, And what do you mean 0:05:54.400 --> 0:05:56.000 it's been slow? It hasn't been. 0:05:56.160 --> 0:05:58.000 I'm just talking about like there have been some some 0:05:58.040 --> 0:05:59.839 weeks where I'm just like, man's I've been kind of 0:05:59.880 --> 0:06:01.040 like just at the house a lot. 0:06:01.160 --> 0:06:02.920 I need to go out and do that's just because 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:04.720 you don't want to be home that nothing to do. 0:06:04.760 --> 0:06:06.800 Again, I think you jumped off two different podcasts and 0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:09.520 you have his free time now, so you're home and. 0:06:09.839 --> 0:06:11.320 I'm supposed to be a hunter gatherer. 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:13.599 But that's why I thought all these podcasts so you 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:14.160 could be at home. 0:06:14.200 --> 0:06:14.880 I thought, I get it. 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:16.880 But I'm wired to do these podcasts, which is my 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:17.760 hunting and gathering. 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:19.520 What that makes sense? 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:23.359 No, You've been conditioned like just the color pink for women, 0:06:23.440 --> 0:06:26.600 and the color I like pink blue, for boys. That's 0:06:26.680 --> 0:06:28.960 conditioning anyway. 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:34.120 So would you rather you be out of work? 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:36.160 To the dudes here, you be out of work and 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:41.480 she makes eleven dollars a year, or she be out 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:43.080 of work and you make ten dollars a year. 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:48.159 You don't mean, like, really eleven dollars a year. 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:50.919 No, he doesn't. He's using that as he's just using it. 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:51.640 As an example. 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:53.200 I'm saying, you're out of work, but the money that 0:06:53.240 --> 0:06:54.720 she makes would be more than if she were out 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:55.360 of work and you were. 0:06:55.839 --> 0:06:57.880 Well, I'll go first time, I'm down. I'm down with it. 0:06:57.920 --> 0:07:00.559 I'll stay home. But you just say you were already 0:07:00.560 --> 0:07:02.560 freaking out those feelings. But you know what, she's making 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:04.200 eleven bucks, but his. 0:07:04.279 --> 0:07:06.679 Well being were worse than it would be if he's working, 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:08.760 Just like the study says, yeah. 0:07:08.680 --> 0:07:10.200 Yeah, But I'm just asking what you'd rather have. I'm 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:11.480 just just trying to find where your mind's at. 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:13.880 I'm cool with staying at home, dude, watering the plants, 0:07:14.280 --> 0:07:14.960 doing the dishes. 0:07:15.080 --> 0:07:17.680 You're looking in logically at she's going to make a 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:19.680 little more money. It's better for the overall family. You'll 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:22.160 deal with. How about hurt you are separately? 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:25.560 Absolutely you, I'll take the ten dollars. 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:28.640 But why so you'll take less money and then you 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:29.720 work and she stays home. 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:32.480 Yeah, because I'm the provider, I'm the hunter and gatherer. 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:37.440 I'm doing what I'm supposed to do. What's what I'm saying. 0:07:37.480 --> 0:07:39.480 I'm using exactly what he said, and I'm just telling 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:41.720 you that's what I'm supposed to do, so I need 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:42.160 to do it. 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:45.280 But why can't a hunter or gatherer be a woman? 0:07:46.760 --> 0:07:48.440 That's just Nate's not the way they built us. 0:07:48.600 --> 0:07:51.320 But that's just you know that women weren't gathering at you. 0:07:51.840 --> 0:07:53.520 I read books go back to cave people. 0:07:53.560 --> 0:07:55.440 Oh my gosh, have you ever been to history class 0:07:55.440 --> 0:07:59.000 in middle school? They said the guys would go out 0:07:59.000 --> 0:07:59.720 and hunt. 0:07:59.640 --> 0:08:02.080 And I'm sure there was a girl in there that 0:08:02.120 --> 0:08:03.680 wanted to go, and they'd be like, can't you got 0:08:03.680 --> 0:08:04.160 to stay back? 0:08:04.240 --> 0:08:05.960 Oh? I thought you said, Yes. 0:08:05.800 --> 0:08:07.480 That's what we've been told our whole lives. 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:11.280 Can't whole lives from the beginning the caveman, you. 0:08:11.160 --> 0:08:14.280 Stay back, Okay, exactly. And that's why we say, why 0:08:14.320 --> 0:08:16.679 are we still acting this way? We have developed brains. 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:20.160 Yeah, I think physically, I think there are physical differences 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:23.160 in general male female. But animals aren't the same. Like 0:08:23.200 --> 0:08:24.920 look at a lion, like like some of the some 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:31.480 of the animal kingdom. The females are stronger, bigger, faster. Really, 0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:33.880 you're not an animal, I don't. 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:36.800 It felt like cheering on But yeah no, we're like, 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:38.640 we're just so much more developed. 0:08:38.640 --> 0:08:40.680 So you just you'd make less money, but you work 0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:42.199 the other way around. 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:44.760 That way, society didn't look down on me. 0:08:44.800 --> 0:08:45.679 We need to go forward. 0:08:45.920 --> 0:08:49.040 This is all about looks though, like think about but. 0:08:50.200 --> 0:08:50.920 That's what that is. 0:08:51.040 --> 0:08:52.080 That's why those people feel. 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:57.520 Now, well, yeah, this but this is the results of 0:08:57.640 --> 0:08:58.720 all the other stuff you're saying. 0:08:58.760 --> 0:09:02.040 Yes, so that's what this says. This is all perception. 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:08.520 But if seventeen million years ago, the man is bigger 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:09.839 than the woman and somebody's got to go out and 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:12.960 fight animals or tribes, whoever the bigger is you send 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:13.400 out to fight. 0:09:14.040 --> 0:09:15.400 Right, he likes sports. 0:09:15.400 --> 0:09:17.200 Who's the biggest fast person a matter man and woman, 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:19.480 the biggest fast person, you're gonna play the sport. 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:23.480 That's what they were doing then, which have resulted. 0:09:22.960 --> 0:09:26.800 In all of this, fairly or unfairly unfairly now, I think, 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:29.520 but I think Eddie's point is you send the bigger 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:30.760 people out to do the bigger things. 0:09:31.240 --> 0:09:32.640 But I would say, you keep the smarter people and 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:33.400 do the smarter things. 0:09:33.400 --> 0:09:35.640 And that's that kind of happened too, you know, in 0:09:35.679 --> 0:09:37.000 offices versus labor. 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:39.440 I'm talking about women. The fact that we haven't had 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:42.319 a woman president. It's crazy to that where. 0:09:42.120 --> 0:09:43.760 You're gonna say women are mostly secretaries. 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:45.360 That No, No, that's what I thought I was gonna 0:09:45.360 --> 0:09:47.480 say too, what I would say, women are way smarter 0:09:47.559 --> 0:09:50.280 than men generally, I'd rather I've had so many women 0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:54.160 bosses and I've had and most of my team outside 0:09:54.240 --> 0:09:57.160 of well, I mean even this team here, but everybody 0:09:57.160 --> 0:09:57.760 knows all of us. 0:09:58.000 --> 0:10:02.080 It's it's mostly all women because I just trust their consistency, 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:05.240 their decision making way more than. 0:10:05.280 --> 0:10:10.319 Go go other hunting together Googles. Anyway, it's just a 0:10:10.320 --> 0:10:12.679 little I want to ask you about the experiment there. Yeah. Interesting. 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:16.000 So you'd rather make a little less, but you be perceived. 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:17.000 As a breadwin. 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:26.000 I read a meme that said, somebody with one hundred 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:28.880 thousand dollars in their savings account and a ten thousand 0:10:28.920 --> 0:10:32.480 dollars car, it's seen as broke with somebody with a 0:10:32.600 --> 0:10:35.840 one hundred thousand dollars car and ten thousand dollars in 0:10:35.840 --> 0:10:39.520 their savings account. It's seen as somebody who's balling. And 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:41.800 both are inaccurate. 0:10:42.400 --> 0:10:43.400 Depends how you look at it. 0:10:43.440 --> 0:10:44.280 No, no, but that's what it is. 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:48.880 They're they're not both inaccurate perception. How he can't be 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:51.199 broke if he has one hundred thousand dollars. 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:52.200 Car, Sure he can't. Doesn't own it. 0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:55.040 He could be leasing it. It could be paying a 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:56.840 Oh he's ball and paying a note. But that's not 0:10:56.880 --> 0:10:58.160 ball And that was the point of it. 0:10:58.640 --> 0:10:59.400 That was like my uncle. 0:10:59.400 --> 0:11:01.840 He had a cattle like awesome car. He dressed up 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:03.920 in a suit, but he lived in a trailer. And 0:11:03.960 --> 0:11:05.760 that's what he wanted. He wanted people to think that 0:11:05.800 --> 0:11:07.640 he was really rich, but he really just lived in 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:08.080 the trailer. 0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:13.640 Which would you rather be somebody who has money and 0:11:13.679 --> 0:11:15.920 you can never tell anybody, but you can have it 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:17.280 and take care of yourself, but it has to be 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:18.000 kind of secret. 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:20.160 Well that means I can't flown it, I can't travel. 0:11:20.240 --> 0:11:22.400 Or would you rather everybody think you're rich but you 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:23.360 really be broke? 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:26.760 I'd rather be think people think I'm rich, then people 0:11:26.880 --> 0:11:29.200 not know I'm rich. So you'd rather have because I mean, 0:11:29.240 --> 0:11:30.959 what's the point of having money if you can't flash 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:31.679 it security? 0:11:34.200 --> 0:11:35.120 And that's the easy answer. 0:11:35.200 --> 0:11:38.080 We'll just get an alarm system that security. 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:42.200 You got a point, Yeah, I got a point. You know. 0:11:43.679 --> 0:11:48.280 You would rather have no resources or security financially. 0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:49.720 But everybody think you're rich. 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:56.200 Then to actually be set up and comfortable and take 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:57.640 care of your kids, but they can never share they 0:11:57.720 --> 0:11:58.160 have money. 0:11:58.200 --> 0:12:01.280 They just make sure their school is paid for. Did 0:12:01.320 --> 0:12:02.280 anybody think you're poor? 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:05.520 Yeah? I'd rather the other one because my kids schools 0:12:05.520 --> 0:12:08.319 already paid for it. It's called a public education. But 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:13.400 like college, figure it out. Figured it out. My college 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:15.880 wasn't paid for. Look where it got me. 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:18.480 Didn't your mom fill out your scholarship application? 0:12:18.559 --> 0:12:20.880 No, she filled out my application to college. 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:23.000 Oh, but then you figured out how to pay for it. 0:12:23.160 --> 0:12:25.920 Yeah, got it? Got I like this, well, I just 0:12:25.960 --> 0:12:27.160 like walking down the show just interesting. 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:30.640 See Can I if I had a ten thousand dollars 0:12:30.679 --> 0:12:33.319 right here, i'd take it? Yeah, I said, here's ten 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:36.280 thousand dollars. I want you to let's do a hundred thousand. 0:12:36.360 --> 0:12:37.160 Le's go take that. 0:12:37.320 --> 0:12:38.920 Here's a one hundred thousand dollars. I'm going to give 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:42.920 you one hundred thousand dollars. Now, the rules of accepting 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:44.400 this hundred thousand dollars. 0:12:44.120 --> 0:12:45.439 Are See why do we got to put so many 0:12:45.480 --> 0:12:45.959 dang rules? 0:12:45.960 --> 0:12:47.520 Well, because it's we're just social experiment. 0:12:48.040 --> 0:12:49.560 You get a one hundred thousand bucks, but you have 0:12:49.600 --> 0:12:51.520 to never tell anybody you got this money, and you 0:12:51.559 --> 0:12:53.559 actually have to go and ask for help. But like, hey, 0:12:54.160 --> 0:12:56.360 I've really been struggling lately, is there any way I 0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:57.840 could get a little help with some. 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:04.240 Money? Like you have to be odd to beg basically okay, 0:13:04.800 --> 0:13:06.520 but not tell people like you have to really act 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:06.960 like you're. 0:13:06.920 --> 0:13:09.439 Like, how long do I have to beg for three months? 0:13:09.800 --> 0:13:13.199 You can never say that you may or or you 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:16.840 get to drive around a rented Lamborghini for three months, 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:21.000 live in a huge house for three months that you 0:13:21.080 --> 0:13:23.839 pay no no rent on for you, and but you 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:25.319 owe five thousand dollars. 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:30.520 I'm doing the second one for sure, Like imagine having 0:13:30.520 --> 0:13:32.960 the parties people come over to the mansion and. 0:13:32.679 --> 0:13:33.920 I'm just making these scenarios up. 0:13:33.960 --> 0:13:35.679 So you want to go to lunch, I'll pick you 0:13:35.720 --> 0:13:36.920 up with my lamba let's go, but. 0:13:37.000 --> 0:13:38.960 For three months and it's gone, and then you're still 0:13:39.000 --> 0:13:39.959 five grand in the home. 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:41.920 Kay, He'll figure it out. 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:46.200 Yeah, then next one, next one, the next opportunity will 0:13:46.200 --> 0:13:48.280 pop up. That's how life works. 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:51.520 But but why don't I get that he really thinks 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:56.520 this way? But then why doesn't he take a loan 0:13:56.640 --> 0:13:58.840 now and buy some fancy car. It's not he has 0:13:58.880 --> 0:14:01.319 a stable job to where he could go and get 0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:03.760 a loan from a great job. Right, he could show 0:14:03.840 --> 0:14:06.920 up and like he could get any car. Probably, I 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:09.839 mean he's going to be it's not wise for him 0:14:09.840 --> 0:14:10.719 to do it, but he could do it. 0:14:10.880 --> 0:14:12.320 Maybe the kids can't fit in there? 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:14.160 Since when do you care? 0:14:15.400 --> 0:14:17.160 Well, I have to drive them places? Your wife has 0:14:17.160 --> 0:14:20.240 a car, yeah, but she can't always take them. 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:23.359 Okay, But then you could get like an suv Lamborghini 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:24.080 they make those, right. 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:25.120 That doesn't look as cool. 0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:27.760 It doesn't look cool. Why would you even spend money on it? Like, 0:14:27.760 --> 0:14:29.760 if you're l I'm on and love of Lamborghinis. But 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:32.400 if you're going to get a Lambo, get a Lamborghini suv? 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:33.480 That was crazy to me. 0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:35.840 Yes, okay, but your ultimate has been paid for forever. 0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:37.560 Keep your ultimate to drive your kids and get the 0:14:37.600 --> 0:14:39.440 Lamborghini for yourself. If you're all. 0:14:39.360 --> 0:14:40.840 About looks, I could do that. 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:42.800 Her point is just you say a lot of stuff, 0:14:42.800 --> 0:14:43.800 but that you don't live by exactly. 0:14:43.840 --> 0:14:46.359 But I couldn't afford to get a Lambert, Oh my gosh, 0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:47.720 but you can't afford. 0:14:48.320 --> 0:14:50.600 What about dressing nice like you want to do? 0:14:50.920 --> 0:14:53.560 When I have events? I have I dressed nice like normally? 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:54.760 And how many events do you have a year? 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:55.600 Four? 0:14:56.480 --> 0:14:58.400 So once a quarter. But that's not really enough to 0:14:58.480 --> 0:14:59.960 change a perception. And you're all about perception. 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:02.720 Yeah, like when I go out in public, like when 0:15:02.760 --> 0:15:04.520 I go to like dinner and stuff, I dress up 0:15:05.000 --> 0:15:06.880 so people that's a baller. 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:09.320 But then more people are seeing you do this than ever. 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:11.280 We'll see you at a restaurant a meal. 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:13.000 Right, But I'm not trying to look at a ball 0:15:13.040 --> 0:15:14.800 like a baller at five am. Can't do it. 0:15:15.080 --> 0:15:18.360 You can't do it. No, bring clothes up here, change 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:18.720 it to them. 0:15:18.760 --> 0:15:19.520 It's too early. 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:21.320 So you don't care that much about looking like a. 0:15:21.240 --> 0:15:24.480 Ball No, I do. When the cameras are on, I'm 0:15:24.720 --> 0:15:26.680 I like, look like a baller, But the cameras are camera. 0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:29.320 You knows what I'm saying, I can't do it, but 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:31.560 the cameras are on. Most ballers don't look at like 0:15:31.640 --> 0:15:34.560 ballers at five am. Most they look at like ballers 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:40.320 at seven people like flashy, Uh, you got swag, you 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:41.720 got you know, you're just everybody's. 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:44.560 It's not success balling and successes are. They're not synonymous 0:15:44.600 --> 0:15:46.640 to you. No, they don't have to be. They can be, 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:47.160 but they're like. 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:49.880 Bezos has no swagger, Like he doesn't look like a baller. 0:15:50.480 --> 0:15:55.360 It looks like it's the biggest ya ya. But he 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:57.560 wears like just shorts and a T shirt. Like that's 0:15:57.560 --> 0:15:59.200 not ball that's like what I wear, and you guys 0:15:59.240 --> 0:16:01.280 say it's not baller. Being on the yacht makes him 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:04.040 look like a ball that's cool. 0:16:04.760 --> 0:16:10.160 Now I'm looking at him, he looks pretty cool. Yeah, 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:14.040 it looks pretty cool. Man. That guy's totally He used 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:16.200 to be such a a goober looking dude. 0:16:16.240 --> 0:16:20.600 Now he's like like, shaves his head fully bald, put 0:16:20.640 --> 0:16:23.239 on some muscles, wears aviator sunglasses. 0:16:24.440 --> 0:16:26.960 You got it rocking? Okay, So you would just rather 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:28.480 look rich than be rich if you had to pick 0:16:28.480 --> 0:16:30.480 one of the two, because. 0:16:30.280 --> 0:16:31.840 If no one knows about it, there's no point in 0:16:31.880 --> 0:16:32.280 having it. 0:16:32.680 --> 0:16:36.720