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Speaker 1: I with Alexi Napola.

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Speaker 2: And Marisaw Patton an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Amiga, So you look beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: It's good to see your face.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I feel like I haven't seen you since Saturday night.

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Speaker 3: I know, I know, I know, and I don't even

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Speaker 3: think we chat. Yesterday.

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Speaker 2: I slept into like ten thirty and then hit the

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Speaker 2: road with Steve to you know, spend my time on my.

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Speaker 1: Sunday bun day.

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Speaker 3: Yes, good for you, that's my sanity.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well here we are again.

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Speaker 3: Jim Mussel and Cockies.

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Speaker 4: Yes, we have a lot of things to chat about today.

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Speaker 1: So do you want to start off?

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Speaker 4: Why don't we just start off by one of the

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Speaker 4: questions that we left off last week when our fans

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Speaker 4: were writing to us and asking us questions about us

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Speaker 4: and who we were and where we came from.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, one of the ones we didn't get to finish

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Speaker 2: was about our mothers and how they got settled in

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Speaker 2: the US and what their stories were when they first

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Speaker 2: got here.

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Speaker 3: What was Nancy's story?

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Speaker 1: My mom's story is a long story.

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Speaker 4: And I feel like you know many other Cubans who

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Speaker 4: had to leave the island of Cuba in nineteen fifty

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Speaker 4: nine through sixty two or whatever year it was that

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Speaker 4: a lot of people came. Those were the years. So

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Speaker 4: my mom came, and I think nineteen sixty one, she

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Speaker 4: came a little bit after the revolution, so fortunately or unfortunately, she.

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Speaker 1: Got to live a little bit of the revolution.

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Speaker 4: And because of that, she was in medical school in

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Speaker 4: the University of Lavana, and she had to leave from

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Speaker 4: one day to the other, pretty much like a lot

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Speaker 4: of the Cubans, and she wasn't even able to take

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Speaker 4: her notes with her, like her grades, you know, as

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Speaker 4: far as like the university went. So she pretty much

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Speaker 4: came with nothing. And I remember the story of her

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Speaker 4: telling me that when she got to the air where

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Speaker 4: she got to come by plane, and she had an

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Speaker 4: aunt in New York, my grandmother, her mom stayed behind,

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Speaker 4: and so she came all by herself.

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Speaker 1: She was twenty seven years old.

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Speaker 4: She came with what she was wearing, and she wasn't

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Speaker 4: she had to take off her ring, which was the

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Speaker 4: only possession that she had at this point, her graduation ring.

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Speaker 4: And she told me she just had to take everything

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Speaker 4: most importantly, she had to leave my mom and her

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Speaker 4: family behind, and she came to Miami, where she had

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Speaker 4: some friends of the family, and you know, they put

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Speaker 4: She had an aunt that was in New York that

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Speaker 4: was already working in La Factoria, so she started sending

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Speaker 4: my dad came.

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Speaker 1: At this point, my mom and my dad were not

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Speaker 4: They were both medical students in Lean ne Verzel l Lavana,

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Speaker 4: His mom and his parents were taking care of him here.

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Speaker 4: They started cleaning the floor at the hospitals, and when

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Speaker 1: Looking for them. They had gone, you know, they already

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Speaker 4: But can you imagine like just telling you like you

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Speaker 4: But just say goodbye to your mom, like at the

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Speaker 4: age of twenty seven and not know where you ever

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Speaker 3: Did she see your mom again?

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Speaker 1: She did, so my grandmother was able to come.

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Speaker 4: You know, my grandmother was able to leave Cuba, to

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Speaker 4: she started working at the factory with her sister. And

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Speaker 4: and you know they lived in like really poor conditions,

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Speaker 4: but all they wanted was to go, you know, to

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Speaker 4: American dream like all the immigrants you have pretty much

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Speaker 4: been able to do thanks to this you know, incredible

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Speaker 4: and again like my dad's family was supporting my dad,

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Speaker 4: my mom's family was supporting her. They had Dino, and

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Speaker 4: and they started here. They studied for the boards, they

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Speaker 4: my father did orthopetic surgery. My sister was born in Spain.

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Speaker 4: They came back to this country and you know, and

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Speaker 4: that's it. Two years later I was born, and you know, luckily,

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Speaker 3: Oh they worked together.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no they didn't. So my parents got divorced.

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Speaker 4: But that's another story, uh huh. But that's how my mom,

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Speaker 4: you know, came from from Cuba in nineteen sixty one,

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Speaker 3: A little by little, they all started her.

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Speaker 4: Cousins and their aunts and all the family started coming.

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Speaker 4: And you know, luckily I don't have any more family,

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Speaker 4: it was you know, a good successful story and the

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Speaker 4: fact that they were all able to leave and you know,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and what about your mom?

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Speaker 2: My mother, so my grandfather was in the printing business.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you had newspapers. I don't remember.

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Speaker 2: Because my mom didn't like to talk about her life

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Speaker 2: in Cuba very much. You know, a lot of people

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Speaker 2: it was. She never talked about it. She was more

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Speaker 2: enamored with my dad's family and all their history. It

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Speaker 2: was a lot of history. My grandmother is a daughter

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Speaker 2: of the American Revolution. It's a lot of history on my.

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Speaker 3: Dad's side of the family. So my.

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Speaker 2: Mother's family had a home in Miami, and she came

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Speaker 2: to the University of Miami with her sister.

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Speaker 1: That's so cool. Oh, so she went to UM.

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Speaker 3: She went to UM before Castro came.

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Speaker 2: Then Castro came, and before you knew it, the whole

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Speaker 2: family was in that house.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't that big for the whole family.

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Speaker 2: Everybody came, my mother Maya Waelo she had, there were

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Speaker 3: Everybody was there, and.

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Speaker 1: Well, they're so lucky that they all got to come here.

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Speaker 2: They all came here and they all lived in that

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Speaker 3: From near the airport.

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Speaker 2: And then my mom had to go to work, and

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Speaker 2: her sister too. They stopped going to the university and

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Speaker 2: my mom operated an elevator.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, how much fun. I can't even imagine

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Speaker 4: your mom in an elevator operating.

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Speaker 2: You know that no one with the metal accordion door

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Yes she did that. She operated in an elevator. Then

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Speaker 2: she met my stepbrother's father, Charlie Jones. They got married,

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Speaker 2: then she met my father, who also had a small son,

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Speaker 2: She didn't finish the university. She didn't finish university. And

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Speaker 2: my father went to eighth grade. He only went to

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Speaker 2: eighth grade, but and he came from a very good,

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Speaker 2: he worked and he became very successful in his industry. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but I mean, you don't hear people just going at

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Speaker 1: Right, No, that's so.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's very back in the day. And they were

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Speaker 1: They were very hard workers. Yeah, had different different Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Values and ethics different that's why they became so successful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the drive in your ballet at the end

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Speaker 2: they got married, raised to young men, and five years

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Speaker 4: Yeah, my mom came in a plane too, because not everybody. Yes,

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Speaker 4: my mom was lucky enough too, they got to come in.

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Speaker 4: I don't know that it was like a lottery. I

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Speaker 4: remember my mother, just like your mom always never really

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Speaker 4: like our parents' generation that were forced out of their

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Speaker 4: country is such like a bad memory, you know, in

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Speaker 4: their and you know that time in their life that

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Speaker 4: they really didn't want to talk about it. But you

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Speaker 4: the first time when I went back to Cuba for

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Speaker 4: like art reasons with a friend of mine, I had

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Speaker 4: to lie to my mom.

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Speaker 1: My mom did not know that I was going, that

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Speaker 1: I was going to.

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Speaker 4: Cuba because my mom liked that person that was would

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Speaker 4: have never gone back to Cuba.

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Speaker 3: My mother never went back either, never, So I.

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Speaker 1: Lied to my mom.

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Speaker 4: But because I would talk to my mom for you know,

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Speaker 4: my mom was like Alexia was Alexia, like I know,

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Speaker 4: there's something going on. So basically like herman had to

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Speaker 4: tell her, like your daughter's in Cuba. Oh no, right,

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Speaker 4: but she went with her friend and everything's okay, but

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Speaker 2: It was all about like my mother would keep scraps

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Speaker 1: That's very interesting. Yeah, I like that too. You have

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Speaker 3: That's why we like each other because we're so different.

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Speaker 1: That is true. That is true.

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Speaker 5: But I love the way we can be open and honest.

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Speaker 2: All right, hot topics of the week. What are we

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Speaker 3: My friend?

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Speaker 4: Why don't we start off what MESSI said about coming

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Speaker 1: How special and cool is that? You know?

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Speaker 4: I know you're not very into sports. It's a little

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Speaker 2: You're more sporty spies. But I live with three boys

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Speaker 2: I listen to it. I obsorb the plasmosis.

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Speaker 1: Right, Well, it's a big deal. You know.

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Speaker 4: I've always been I've never been such a fan of soccer,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's we're excited about it.

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Speaker 4: Not that we need any more people in Miami because

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Speaker 3: Or another organized sports team, but we'll take it.

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Speaker 4: Right well, it already exists, by the way, he's just

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Speaker 3: He's going to blow it up.

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Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean with somebody like him obviously joining the team,

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Speaker 1: To go to the games. I don't know about you.

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Speaker 2: I said to Steve, I'm like, since soccer's starting up,

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Speaker 2: they're already quadruple what they were worth. You can forget

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Speaker 1: Right the play, I think he killed it.

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Speaker 4: You know. First of all, let's talk about like I've

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Speaker 3: Have you seen him at the hallways.

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Speaker 4: I've seen him before, you know, fix years. He's cute,

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Speaker 4: I don't know if you've heard about that when he

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Speaker 4: All his pictures were with his family, and I was like,

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Speaker 3: Isn't that the main reason why he wants to live

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Speaker 1: Of course? I mean, how much more money does this

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Speaker 4: Like, this is a guy who's like putting all this

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Speaker 4: I think her parents or his parents also live here

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Speaker 1: They're going to give him ownership, and.

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Speaker 4: He has a Didus that's also going to give him

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Speaker 2: four hundred million they offered him, right, Yeah, four hundred

442
00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:18,040
Speaker 2: million is that what they offered him.

443
00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:18,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

444
00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:20,280
Speaker 4: But besides that, I don't think he wanted to play

445
00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:24,640
Speaker 4: with his rival, Likeitiano Ronaldo's already there, Cristiano Ronaldo, so

446
00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:26,840
Speaker 4: like for him, it was like, why would I want

447
00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:28,840
Speaker 4: to play with my rival? He's always been his rival,

448
00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:31,160
Speaker 4: and like, I don't need more money. He's thirty six

449
00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:32,360
Speaker 4: years old, He's probably he.

450
00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:34,520
Speaker 3: Wants to be his own star and lead his own team.

451
00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:36,520
Speaker 1: Yes, and I think that he can do it. I

452
00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:37,400
Speaker 1: am super proud.

453
00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:39,760
Speaker 4: I can't wait to see him around Miami and I

454
00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:41,560
Speaker 4: know he's going to continue to be as nice and

455
00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:46,720
Speaker 4: humble and sweet. I think it was the right decision obviously,

456
00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:49,280
Speaker 4: That's why he did it for him and his family,

457
00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:51,080
Speaker 4: and sometimes it's not all about the money.

458
00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:52,040
Speaker 3: Well, he's going.

459
00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,520
Speaker 2: To do real well with those deals because those deals

460
00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:55,800
Speaker 2: are more than no.

461
00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:58,879
Speaker 4: Even financially, this makes more sense because he's going to

462
00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:00,800
Speaker 4: have a stake in the team, so like, not only

463
00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:02,440
Speaker 4: are you gonna play it, you're gonna own it. So

464
00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:03,600
Speaker 4: that's that's pretty cool.

465
00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:06,640
Speaker 1: And yeah, well, how are people visiting from all over

466
00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:08,480
Speaker 1: the world to watch Messi?

467
00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:13,520
Speaker 2: Miami is getting so crowded. There's a lot of celebrities

468
00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:15,840
Speaker 2: living here. I think the celebrities also like to come

469
00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:19,199
Speaker 2: here that I don't feel like the paparazzi. I mean,

470
00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:21,560
Speaker 2: they're around, but they're not as invasive as they are

471
00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:22,200
Speaker 2: in Europe.

472
00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:23,720
Speaker 3: I think, like in Europe.

473
00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:26,480
Speaker 1: Spain about that before we even Shakira.

474
00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:29,080
Speaker 4: Shakira is nown here in Miami because that's one of

475
00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:33,040
Speaker 4: the reasons, obviously, because the proparazzi are literally they live

476
00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:35,960
Speaker 4: outside your house. There's no privacy. It's all about getting

477
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:39,840
Speaker 4: that picture getting into the Ola magazine, and it's really

478
00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:41,160
Speaker 4: really becomes tiresome.

479
00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:42,280
Speaker 1: I think he just didn't want it.

480
00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:44,080
Speaker 4: He was done with Europe, you know, he was done

481
00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,879
Speaker 4: with Europe and he had you know, a great career

482
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:49,399
Speaker 4: over there, and I think in Miami or in like

483
00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:52,800
Speaker 4: the States, you know, maybe not Hollywood or California. But

484
00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:54,720
Speaker 4: I feel like here in Miami we're not there yet.

485
00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:55,720
Speaker 4: We're not there yet.

486
00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:57,080
Speaker 1: I'm not going to say that five.

487
00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:59,760
Speaker 4: Years from today or ten years from now that you know,

488
00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:02,280
Speaker 4: we won't be that city. Because of the amount of

489
00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:05,560
Speaker 4: celebrities that we have here, there's going to be you know,

490
00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:06,879
Speaker 4: papazzing outside.

491
00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:08,160
Speaker 3: We go to La a lot.

492
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:10,800
Speaker 2: It's not that bad, you know, the places where they're

493
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:12,719
Speaker 2: hanging out and the places where they're not.

494
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:15,280
Speaker 3: It's not that horrible, no.

495
00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:15,679
Speaker 1: But it is.

496
00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:17,359
Speaker 4: I mean as far as that goes, yes, but if

497
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,280
Speaker 4: they know where your home is, how do you control that?

498
00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:21,520
Speaker 3: New York's I think it's worse.

499
00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:24,440
Speaker 4: Well, hopefully Miami won't become that because I love our

500
00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:26,800
Speaker 4: city to be you know, chill, and I love you know,

501
00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 4: for people to be able to you know, to have

502
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,199
Speaker 4: a life. I mean it's already hard enough, you know

503
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:34,080
Speaker 4: what they do. I mean, he's really an athlete, Like

504
00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:36,160
Speaker 4: who cares if he's like coming out of his house,

505
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:37,560
Speaker 4: you know, with his wife or his kids.

506
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 2: I mean, unless he's doing something he shouldn't be doing

507
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,920
Speaker 2: and that's the picture. But if he's always with his family.

508
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,560
Speaker 4: And unfortunately that's what people want to see to get

509
00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,600
Speaker 4: in trouble. He's a he's a great guy.

510
00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:53,440
Speaker 2: I was just watching the Anna Nicole Smith documentary on Netflix,

511
00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 2: and there was a she would constantly bash her mother

512
00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:01,119
Speaker 2: and say that she had a very abusive upbringing, but

513
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 2: apparently she didn't, and she told her mother would be like, Anna,

514
00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:06,679
Speaker 2: why do you say those things? And she said, because

515
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:09,400
Speaker 2: nobody wants to hear good news. They love the bad news.

516
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:11,679
Speaker 2: They love to know that things are going wrong in

517
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:14,360
Speaker 2: your life. And I make more money if people know

518
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:16,400
Speaker 2: things are going wrong in my life than if they're

519
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 2: going great.

520
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:20,480
Speaker 1: So that's very sad. It is very that's very sad.

521
00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:26,400
Speaker 4: But unfortunately we know that's true because yeah, because we know,

522
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 4: because we know, just take it from us. We know, right,

523
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 4: And even though we want the world to be a

524
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:34,920
Speaker 4: better place and we're always you know, obviously encouraging not

525
00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:38,879
Speaker 4: talking about all those things, I feel like secretly people

526
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:41,199
Speaker 4: don't wish you well and don't want to see I mean,

527
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:43,560
Speaker 4: I can't speak for everybody, obviously, but you know, I

528
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:45,879
Speaker 4: think in general, you know, even though we've made so

529
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 4: much progress and so many issues social issues, I think

530
00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:51,639
Speaker 4: that we still live in a world with with you know,

531
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:55,919
Speaker 4: a lot of hate and unacceptance. But yeah, here in

532
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 4: our city, we want to focus on the good and

533
00:22:58,480 --> 00:22:59,840
Speaker 4: people loving Miami.

534
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:01,680
Speaker 3: And I know you and I do. I don't know

535
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 3: about everybody else, but I know you not.

536
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 4: But coming to have a family, you know, I think

537
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:08,160
Speaker 4: it's you know, Shakira came to raise her kids here

538
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,879
Speaker 4: with her both you know, young children, so you know,

539
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 4: I mean, I know Miami scene as like a party city,

540
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 4: you know, and it is. We have that too, But

541
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:18,200
Speaker 4: I think it's really great like families like Shakira and

542
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,199
Speaker 4: like a MESSI you know, to come David Beckham and

543
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,199
Speaker 4: his family, you know, they also have children. You know.

544
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 4: I think that that's a very positive thing for our city.

545
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 4: And I'm very to have all those amazing families here.

546
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:32,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm very excited about that. Yeah, and this boy

547
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 2: is going to make a lot of mine. This is

548
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:37,359
Speaker 2: actually a better offer than what he was getting.

549
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,239
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, for sure. Well that's why he did it.

550
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,600
Speaker 3: Just the Adidas deal. I mean, if they're giving him

551
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 3: a percentage, Look how much Michael Jordan makes a year

552
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 3: of Nike, you know, how much he makes a year?

553
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:50,360
Speaker 4: Four hundred million hopefully Messi's mom is negotiating the deal too,

554
00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 4: just like Michael's mom did.

555
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 3: That would be great, that's the same money.

556
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:55,640
Speaker 1: Well, no, his mammy had Intena.

557
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:57,920
Speaker 4: His mom's nott in Dina, so she's probably a good

558
00:23:57,920 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 4: negotiator too.

559
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:00,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, the deal.

560
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 4: And by the way, Adidas needs to need like somebody

561
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,199
Speaker 4: like Messy because you know, wasn't it Kanye that was

562
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 4: like associated with Adidas and the Easies and all that

563
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 4: scandal before.

564
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 2: So they need to get back to athletics and get

565
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 2: out of fashion for a bit.

566
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, I agree.

567
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 4: Well, talking about Kanye, yeah, we're not going to talk

568
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:22,240
Speaker 4: about certain things other people like to talk about him

569
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 4: because I actually like him too.

570
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:26,199
Speaker 3: He's a little bit of an enigma to me.

571
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 4: He is, but that's you know, that's that's that's interesting, right, Yeah,

572
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,639
Speaker 4: that he himself doesn't know like who like who he

573
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 4: is or how he is. But I'm happy that he's

574
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,879
Speaker 4: found some you know, happiness and peace. That looks like

575
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 4: with his with his new wife.

576
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 3: Right, doesn't he seem calmer?

577
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 2: He does, or quieter, or he retreated or he just

578
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 2: I don't know, or maybe he just got a big

579
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 2: spanking from life and he needs to go away for

580
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 2: a little bit and recalibrate.

581
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:54,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's hard to get you know, it's easy,

582
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 4: Actually not hard, it's easily.

583
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 1: Is it easy?

584
00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 4: And no, it's easy. Well, you want to get caught

585
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,399
Speaker 4: up and that, you know, especially when you were married

586
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:15,920
Speaker 4: to Kim Kardashian and and I lived that kind of life.

587
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 4: You know, I can't even imagine. And he got so

588
00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 4: sucked up in it. And I'm very happy to see

589
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 4: that he's, you know, found some peace. Yeah, he looks

590
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 4: like and a woman, because you know, sometimes a woman

591
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,120
Speaker 4: can take you to hell, or a good woman can

592
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 4: actually bring you some peace and stability in your life.

593
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:35,360
Speaker 2: He must be creating something good because he's very quiet.

594
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:35,679
Speaker 1: I hope so.

595
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 4: And because they took away a lot of his money

596
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:39,199
Speaker 4: or he lost a lot of his money, so he

597
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 4: needs to replace it.

598
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm. Yeah, he needs to recalibrate for sure.

599
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:47,679
Speaker 4: But you know, I'm happy that he's around with now North.

600
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:50,159
Speaker 4: You know, that's what I've been reading that. You know,

601
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,640
Speaker 4: North spent the week and for his forty sixth birthday

602
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 4: that he got to celebrate with his wife and North

603
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:57,919
Speaker 4: his daughter was there and she seemed very like loving

604
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 4: with his new wife, Bianca. So you know, I'm always

605
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 4: happy to see that because I know, as a parent

606
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 4: it's very important for your children to love who you're with,

607
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 4: and I'm sure it's important, you know, for the children

608
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 4: to feel loved by whoever your mom or daughter are with.

609
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 4: So I was very happy to see that. How do

610
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:17,199
Speaker 4: you feel about that?

611
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 2: We all know I have no children of my own,

612
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 2: but I was brought into a family through my new

613
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:29,640
Speaker 2: husband and my new relationship where he had his own sons,

614
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 2: step kids, and I met them very quickly, like within

615
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 2: the month of us dating, I met them, and within

616
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 2: two months we were already on a Thanksgiving vacation cruise together,

617
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 2: you know, remember on the boat in the Bahamas. And

618
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 2: you know what, what I what I find from them

619
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,719
Speaker 2: is that they love me because they see Steve's happy

620
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:53,679
Speaker 2: and Steve loves me, and that makes them happy and

621
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:54,439
Speaker 2: that's all they.

622
00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:57,360
Speaker 4: Care about, right Serry. Stepsons are older, sometimes the kids

623
00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 4: are younger teenage, and they really don't have a voice

624
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 4: or don't have a choice. But you know, I feel

625
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 4: like it's not so much how long does it take

626
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 4: or what's the right amount of time. I think it's

627
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 4: more like it should be the right person, right Like

628
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 4: for example, like sometimes you're dating or getting to know someone,

629
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 4: but you kind of know it's not that guy or

630
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 4: it's not that girl. I don't think you should bring

631
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 4: your kids around, you know. I feel like you need

632
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 4: to have something more solid. You have to be more

633
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 4: like you have to know before because you mean, the

634
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 4: kids get attached to these people and you don't want

635
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 4: to see like you know your mom or dad right

636
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,159
Speaker 4: like switching partners every three or four months. Oh by

637
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 4: the way, this is my new boyfriend or new girlfriend.

638
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:36,880
Speaker 4: At any age, it doesn't matter whether you're a little

639
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:37,879
Speaker 4: kid or you're an adult.

640
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:38,400
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

641
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 2: It's it's difficult because you get attached obviously, and I me,

642
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 2: you know, my parents were married until they died, but

643
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 2: I can imagine that the attachment and then the severing

644
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 2: of that is very difficult. And it's up to the

645
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:56,919
Speaker 2: parent to decide if this is the right time or not. So,

646
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 2: you know, it's a difficult call to pick a time

647
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 2: frame when it's the right time. Because some people pretend

648
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:06,640
Speaker 2: to be great and you think you're doing amazing with them.

649
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:08,200
Speaker 2: In a few years down the road, they're a totally

650
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 2: different person and you get blindsided and that things don't

651
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 2: work out.

652
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 3: So every situation, I mean, I think.

653
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 4: That some people overthink it, and those are the people

654
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 4: that take forever to kind of like bring, you know,

655
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 4: to introduce their kids to their partners. And then I

656
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 4: think that some other people, you know, men or women,

657
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 4: could just be very quick and even without thinking about it,

658
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 4: they're like, oh, meet my kids. Right, So I think

659
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 4: it's something that's.

660
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: Personal, you know, I think it's obviously it's something that's.

661
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 4: Very personal, and you kind of have to know whether

662
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 4: it's worth it or not or like, yeah, this is

663
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 4: the person that I can see myself, you know, and

664
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 4: at least the rest of the year and the holidays

665
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 4: and all this, so you know, it's a good time

666
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 4: you guys meet and other times, you know, when it's

667
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 4: not that person, I.

668
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 1: Think you should keep your kids away.

669
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 4: It's unnecessary, Like you're the one that's in the relationship

670
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 4: with the matter of woman, like, not your kids, So

671
00:28:58,040 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 4: you need to take your time.

672
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 2: And Pete is I mean, listen to me, Pete, you're

673
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 2: talking David Pete Davidson, Well, she's an kid. Yeah, she

674
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 2: brought North around him at six well, I don't know

675
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 2: when she brought him around, but the first photos came

676
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 2: out after six months. Kanye is allegedly married to this woman,

677
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 2: but not legally, so she's a wife.

678
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 3: I don't know.

679
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 4: They're all they want to already discussed about the legality

680
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 4: of things. You know, a piece of paper doesn't really

681
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 4: change things. But if you're with this person, and obviously

682
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 4: he is, she's been in his life for you said

683
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 4: a year or two, I mean, that's that's important in

684
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 4: Kanye's life.

685
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 1: So I think it's important, you know.

686
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 4: So imagine he's having a birthday party and he can't

687
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:42,959
Speaker 4: invite his kids because you know, you don't want your

688
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,600
Speaker 4: kids around this person I'm with. I think it's important

689
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 4: because as a parent, you want your kids to like

690
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 4: and love and respect the person that you're with. And

691
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 4: even though North is still a very young child, she

692
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 4: knows what's going on. You know, it's not like what

693
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 4: we were growing up, MADDI like, nowadays, these kids know everything.

694
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 4: I mean, you think North isn't reading about these things. Yeah,

695
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 4: you know, it wasn't like when we were growing up

696
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 4: that our parents were going to talk certain things.

697
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 3: Have big ears. I heard that so much.

698
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 4: Go to your room. Everything was like so I never

699
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 4: really heard like adult conversation when I was growing up,

700
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 4: you know, unless it was like my mistake, I wasn't

701
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 4: supposed to hear it. But nowadays, I feel like the

702
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 4: kids are always around and they have so much information.

703
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 2: Well they know that you would remember because you remember everything.

704
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 2: They're like, get Alexia, how are you're just gonna remember

705
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 2: everything was.

706
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 4: Talking about got out twenty years from no no, but

707
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 4: the thing is exactly no.

708
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: But the thing no. Back then it was just like

709
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:38,479
Speaker 1: a different preventing style.

710
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 4: But I feel like today, you know, the parents do

711
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,959
Speaker 4: want to involve the children and everything, and the children

712
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 4: like have a say and have an opinion, and you

713
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 4: want to take your you know, your children's you know,

714
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 4: feelings into consideration. But again, you know, I mean, who

715
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 4: am I to say or you right? Like when is it?

716
00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 1: How?

717
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 4: When is the right time? Nobody has an answer. It

718
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 4: has to be right for you. And that's why it

719
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 4: has to be right for you, guys, to make sense

720
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 4: for you.

721
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 3: Absolutely.

722
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 4: I remember in Hollywood it's not like they live, you know,

723
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 4: like they stay together like for such a long time.

724
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 4: So it's like if you don't introduce them soon you

725
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 4: may never meet them again.

726
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 2: Well, in that family, definitely, they keep they keep recycling quickly.

727
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 4: But I feel like other people like it have gone

728
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 4: like that, that same critique.

729
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: You know.

730
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 4: I think Jennifer Lopez is another one that you know always,

731
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 4: you know, brings her children, you know, into all her relationships.

732
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 4: But if you want to see the good in it,

733
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 4: there's going to be a good argument and a bad argument.

734
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 4: So like, is it mentally healthy psychologically for the child

735
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:41,920
Speaker 4: you know, to see this and to introduce them to

736
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 4: or is it because she's such a good mother she

737
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 4: wants to like embrace her family and she wants to

738
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 4: bring the kids in and she wants to make sure

739
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 4: like everybody gets along and do the blended family thing.

740
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 4: I mean, it's something that's really personal and you just

741
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 4: have to know yourself, right. I mean, I don't know

742
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 4: about psychologists or anybody in the mental health thing, like

743
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 4: it's it's been proven right or there's like research to

744
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 4: back this up.

745
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 3: I don't mean Nancy for that, because she would have

746
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 3: had the research.

747
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 4: Well, my alm was married and divorced sometimes, so I

748
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 4: met I met a lot of guys, how but you know, yeah,

749
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 4: so so it depends, you know, Like again, I mean

750
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 4: she'd try to hide those.

751
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 3: She did, but you would find out. Yeah, that's why

752
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 3: she'd send you to Quarto. Oh yeah what.

753
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 2: I and like, look, I don't even know what the

754
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 2: hell I would have done. For God's sake? How many

755
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 2: times have I rushed into a relationship? Thank God I

756
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 2: didn't have kids. Who knows what I would have put

757
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 2: them through. Meet this, well, meet that one. I love

758
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 2: this one, I love that one. They would have hated me.

759
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 2: They would have been very confused.

760
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,960
Speaker 4: Right, Like I can only speak like you know about me,

761
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 4: you know, like having my kids, and sometimes you're in

762
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,600
Speaker 4: a relationship with the guy, and then it's important to

763
00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 4: know whether the guy is going to be accept of

764
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 4: your of your children, and it's going to be loving

765
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 4: and it's you know, because that's you know, obviously for

766
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 4: a mom, a very important trait that Narayana has to have.

767
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 4: So if the man doesn't like children and he doesn't

768
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 4: like to be around children, it's kind of like in

769
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 4: the beginning you can kind of you know, understand that

770
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 4: and say, you know what, then you're.

771
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 3: Not has that ever happened to you?

772
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 2: Have you ever noticed someone that you thought this isn't

773
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 2: good for my kids or this guy.

774
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 1: No.

775
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 4: I mean I was lucky enough that, you know, after

776
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 4: the dad I had.

777
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 1: Herman that was super loving.

778
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 4: That's how he actually won me over because he was

779
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 4: so loving with my kids. You know, he adored my kids,

780
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 4: my kids, So I was very blessed with that. So

781
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 4: to me, that's a deal breaker, Like you have to

782
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 4: love my kids. You know, I come with the whole package,

783
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 4: so you have to love.

784
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 1: Me and my kids.

785
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 4: And they were young, so it was easier, you know

786
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 4: in a way. I mean they were kind of hard

787
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 4: with Herman by the way.

788
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 3: They were so little, they were hard. They were so

789
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:52,120
Speaker 3: little for they were.

790
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: Hard that age. They only want you to be with

791
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: their daddy. Yeah, they only want you to be with

792
00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 1: their dad. Remember, So that's how it is. And then

793
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 1: you know, I was like so involved.

794
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 4: You know. They always, you know, small children always think

795
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 4: that whoever comes it's going to take that love away

796
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:08,319
Speaker 4: from them, and it's going to like take their mom

797
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 4: and dad for them or that. So you know, that's

798
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 4: what they think when they're little, and you know, as

799
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:17,279
Speaker 4: they get older there's different issues, you know, but but.

800
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it's just like working through them.

801
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 4: But I think, you know, as a mother and even

802
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 4: as a father Americ only speak, I'm sure the man

803
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 4: wants the same thing. You know, the man wants to

804
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 4: know that he's with a woman if she doesn't come

805
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:30,360
Speaker 4: with kids and he has kids, that is going to

806
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 4: be accepting of his kids, and it's going to include them,

807
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 4: and he's going to love them. And you know, you're

808
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 4: not there to replace their mother or father, but you're

809
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 4: there to be their friends and to support them.

810
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 3: And that's what I do to love.

811
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 2: I just try to be like a friend, a big sister.

812
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 2: I'm not here to teach anybody anything. Just remind them

813
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 2: it's Father's Day, which by the way, is coming up.

814
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 2: And I reminded them five times it's Father's Day. Don't

815
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 2: forget about Father's Day.

816
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, that's that's all we can do.

817
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 2: They have a mom and they have a dad that

818
00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 2: raised them. And my step kids are so nice, and

819
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 2: so asked him that maybe I shouldn't. I definitely shouldn't

820
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 2: get involved because I dont want to mess them up

821
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 2: because they're perfect.

822
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, that's good. That made it easier for you.

823
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 3: Then I was lucky. I got very lucky.

824
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 4: Well, hopefully Kanye will get lucky and and you know

825
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 4: all of his kids will love you know, whoever he's with.

826
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,279
Speaker 4: I mean, I know he's married to this woman now

827
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 4: or whoever may be, because as a parent, I know

828
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 4: that we we always want that.

829
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think he seems good. I think he seems calm.

830
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 4: Speaking of parents, can you believe Aino is going to

831
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 4: be a dad.

832
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 3: Him?

833
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 4: No?

834
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 3: No, no, I mean I didn't even think you could

835
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 3: still like have.

836
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 4: That, you know what I mean, Bro, he has a

837
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 4: super sperm.

838
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 3: That guy is like, I know you could still, but you.

839
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 4: Know how full of himself he is right now?

840
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 2: I know even saw a baby, but I didn't think

841
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 2: it was still like sexually active like that.

842
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,440
Speaker 3: And his girlfriend's like what twenty nine.

843
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:10,280
Speaker 4: There's something called viagara. Okay, so this is not fair? Okay,

844
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 4: So I know how he can you know, how he

845
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:14,920
Speaker 4: can have sex with her because obviously there's viagraas I know,

846
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:17,319
Speaker 4: they are like stimulants for him and he can get

847
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 4: harder and he can do it. But what about her, well,

848
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 4: I mean, well apparently she.

849
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 2: Was with like make Jacker before, so she's got like

850
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 2: I love, I'm hot for daddy vibes.

851
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 1: Well, I mean she justinitely had daddy issues.

852
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 3: She actually she's hot for Grandpa.

853
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not even daddy.

854
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,240
Speaker 4: It's kind of like a Willie though, like a whelo.

855
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 4: She has like a willow complexes. Where's her grandfather?

856
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:40,360
Speaker 3: Please?

857
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 4: And I just think it's gross, honestly because the it's

858
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 4: age difference is so significant. It's so large and like,

859
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:50,959
Speaker 4: don't want to compare. Oh, well there's you know, there's

860
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 4: fifteen twenty years. Bro, this is a lot. This is

861
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 4: two too many years and to the point that it's gross.

862
00:36:58,320 --> 00:36:59,879
Speaker 3: Do you think they planned it?

863
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:02,840
Speaker 4: No, he didn't even know himself that he can impregnate

864
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 4: a woman. Think he thought he had done some treatments

865
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 4: in Yes, so he himself. That's why he questioned it.

866
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 4: And she had the praternity test because he didn't know.

867
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 4: Obviously they were having sex, but he didn't know he

868
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,880
Speaker 4: could get her pregnant, so she had the you know,

869
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 4: the testing or said he was the father. So now

870
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 4: the guy Cloud nine, he's like, oh, it's super sperm.

871
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 4: I made this happen. I'm eighty three years old.

872
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 3: But he's gonna be the hit at the nursing home. Hey,

873
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:28,720
Speaker 3: I can make anybody.

874
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:29,320
Speaker 1: I'm baby.

875
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, that guy's never going to see a nursing home. Dude,

876
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 4: he's going out with twenty nine year olds. The guy's

877
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 4: never going to see a nursing home. He's you know,

878
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 4: a nursing home is going to be like at a

879
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 4: girls club, like at a teenager's.

880
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 3: Club, he's gonna die.

881
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 1: And the strips a little bit too much.

882
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:43,399
Speaker 3: He's gonna die at the strip club.

883
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 1: No, I mean, I don't know.

884
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 4: I mean, truthfully, I know everybody's been talking about this

885
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 4: for you, like what's an age difference? Like do you

886
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:53,760
Speaker 4: see anything wrong? And like having this age difference?

887
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:55,640
Speaker 1: Is it just me? Like how do you feel about it?

888
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:58,359
Speaker 2: So, like we said, is it something emotional? Is she

889
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:01,839
Speaker 2: won't have like grandpa shoes? Like I don't know, it's just.

890
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 4: Like why you have those kinds of issues.

891
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to go see other something.

892
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:08,839
Speaker 3: I mean, I know most women in their twenties want

893
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 3: a hot young guy.

894
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 4: Mahina HiPE ye hoy, oh my god, the balls to

895
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 4: the knees.

896
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 3: That's not cute.

897
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:17,240
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I can't.

898
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 3: I mean, let's be honest. She was with Mick Jagger before,

899
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,840
Speaker 3: and he's in his seventies that's like I think.

900
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 4: She sets these guys up. I mean, it's not like

901
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 4: I mean anybody could be I get it. You know,

902
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 4: you know these are like legends. You know, I'm not

903
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:32,759
Speaker 4: saying that it's anybody. She must have like some psychological thing,

904
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 4: like I don't care who they are. Obviously she's she's

905
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 4: okay with that old and you know, I just want

906
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,719
Speaker 4: to have the attention. You know, some people are like

907
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:43,800
Speaker 4: have these problems that they just want that kind of attention.

908
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 4: They don't care whether it's good or bad, negative or positive.

909
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 4: They just want to be talked about. This must be

910
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 4: one of these instances. And she figures, you know what,

911
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:54,319
Speaker 4: I'm twenty nine, you know, I have a baby with

912
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 4: this guy, and and he'll be the heir or errors

913
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 4: of this fortune empire. And you know what, your dad's

914
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:05,399
Speaker 4: al Pacino. I just I just how does she even

915
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:06,920
Speaker 4: know who a Pacino was? I don't even think she

916
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 4: was born when he was when his movies were like

917
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 4: playing on the screen.

918
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 2: Maybe Mick Jagger told her about him, and then she's like,

919
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 2: that's my next move.

920
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 3: Who knows. All I can say is that I feel bad.

921
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 3: I think it's irresponsible to have a child.

922
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 2: I think it's selfish, yes, because let's be honest, what

923
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 2: has he got five seven, eight years left?

924
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,400
Speaker 3: Ten max nineties?

925
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 2: It's hard, No, but he cannot be a great dad

926
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 2: to run around and play football and do all those things.

927
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 4: And okay, you know, I guess what. There's an argument.

928
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 4: There's also an argument. I mean, a great dad doesn't

929
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,399
Speaker 4: make you just because you run around and throw a ball.

930
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 1: But what I'm trying to say is.

931
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:50,800
Speaker 2: Even being aparent, when you get older, you lose your coherence.

932
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:52,960
Speaker 4: Well, I think he's not coherent right now. I mean

933
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 4: that this is why he was able to do this.

934
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 4: Like what coherent man? You can go out with a

935
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 4: twenty nine year old? Like, what are you talking about?

936
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 4: She on tiktoking, showing them the tiktoks. I mean, what

937
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:03,240
Speaker 4: does a twenty nine year old have to talk about?

938
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 4: At this point? Anything is possible. But the fact, like,

939
00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 4: I don't think he must be like one hundred percent

940
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 4: when you know you can even have a conversation, that's

941
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 4: what somebody you're going to have.

942
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:16,840
Speaker 2: A baby when you're not one hundred percent. It's like

943
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 2: it's we both have parents that got older. We know

944
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:20,759
Speaker 2: how it is.

945
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,919
Speaker 3: The decline is strong to have a baby, like, you're

946
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 3: just not going to be able to be a great parent.

947
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 4: Right, It's like I think, I mean, the age difference

948
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 4: is already, you know, really really significant between them. I

949
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,719
Speaker 4: can't even imagine what they talk about, what they you know,

950
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:40,359
Speaker 4: their dynamics or anything like that, but having a child.

951
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 3: They have a fifty four year age gap.

952
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:48,320
Speaker 4: The couple that has the largest the most amount of years,

953
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 4: like in Hollywood, I want to say, because I'm sure

954
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 4: there's other couples. I mean, I haven't looked that up

955
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 4: in a Guinness World Record Book or whatever.

956
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:59,919
Speaker 3: I don't know. But Anthony Quinn had his thirteenth child

957
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:01,320
Speaker 3: old when he was eighty six.

958
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,439
Speaker 4: I'm still he's trying to beat him.

959
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: And what about wholi Les's father? What about do you

960
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: remember Huli Las's father. He was a doctor.

961
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,320
Speaker 4: He also repregnated a woman and he was like eighty

962
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 4: something years old. Actually was going to look it up

963
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:14,800
Speaker 4: and I forgot.

964
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:17,799
Speaker 3: There's a few of them out there. Yeah, there's a

965
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 3: few of them doing Yeah.

966
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:20,839
Speaker 4: By the way, we live in Miami that we see

967
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,839
Speaker 4: this all the time, so we're used to the significant

968
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 4: age gap. Yeah, yeah, I mean we go here, we

969
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:29,839
Speaker 4: go out of all marathon, and we see a lot

970
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:33,359
Speaker 4: of super old men with very young women.

971
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,840
Speaker 1: That it just doesn't make any sense.

972
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 4: You know, obviously, they probably have a lot of money,

973
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 4: because there's no other reason why any of these women,

974
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 4: you know, would want to be in a relationship with

975
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 4: somebody that's thirty, forty fifty. But in this particular case,

976
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 4: al Pacino's girlfriend, her family is very wealthy supposedly, so

977
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:54,399
Speaker 4: you know, they're they're kind of saying, like, well, it's

978
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 4: not really because of the money, because obviously that's the

979
00:41:56,520 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 4: first thing that people think. But I think she's psychological problems,

980
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:04,919
Speaker 4: which you know, is even because she has some kind

981
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:06,320
Speaker 4: of needs that she needs.

982
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 3: To it's definitely psychologic. It's definitely psychological.

983
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 1: For me, it is as well.

984
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:13,840
Speaker 4: And then you see Robert de Niro that did the

985
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 4: same thing a little younger. He had a child when

986
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 4: he was seventy nine and his wife was forty five plus.

987
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 2: Fantastic better they have a smaller age gap, right, thirty

988
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 2: year age gap thirty.

989
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 4: That's okay, And you know, I feel like a woman

990
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:27,800
Speaker 4: that's forty five, don't you think, you know, has a

991
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 4: little bit more understanding life that has a little bit

992
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 4: more wisdom and experience than a twenty nine year old. Yes,

993
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 4: definitely imagine her parents, like her parents are younger, way

994
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:42,799
Speaker 4: younger than al Pacino. Yeah, I know, but you know,

995
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 4: at this point, you know, some people, you know, I'm

996
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:46,800
Speaker 4: sure her parents are saying, well, it doesn't matter because

997
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:49,399
Speaker 4: it's al Pacino, you know, and not too many people

998
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 4: can say that, but in their defense, I'm going to

999
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 4: say something like in their defense, so for example, like

1000
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 4: you know, people will be saying, well, you know, he's

1001
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 4: you know, it's really selfish and consider it because you

1002
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 4: know that the child is not going to have their

1003
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 4: dad for a long time. But then again, there's a

1004
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:09,360
Speaker 4: lot of children that are brought into this world that

1005
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 4: don't have their dad around for a long time either.

1006
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 4: So like nothing is guaranteed, you know, I just hope

1007
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 4: that the time that he is alive, he is a

1008
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 4: good father and he gives the baby a lot of

1009
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 4: love and that she continues to do it, because it's

1010
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 4: you know, those years that counts, so hopefully he'll be

1011
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 4: healthy enough. But you know, that could be his argument

1012
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:31,240
Speaker 4: as well, like, you know what, I'm bringing this baby

1013
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 4: into life with a lot of love, and I want

1014
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 4: this baby and I'm going to give it as much

1015
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 4: love and nurture and support that I can, and so

1016
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 4: the day I'm not here, But nothing is guaranteed. There's

1017
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 4: a lot of young men that die as fathers and

1018
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 4: or their fathers, you know, to their baby absolutely, or

1019
00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 4: that they get divorced and they never take care of

1020
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 4: their babies.

1021
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 2: They all have a bunch of brothers and sisters that

1022
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 2: are going to be their family. They have young mothers

1023
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 2: that will be their family. And they have a lot

1024
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 2: of clips and a bit of money and clips and

1025
00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 2: movies to watch and see who they were when they

1026
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:02,720
Speaker 2: were young, middle age and older.

1027
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 4: And I relish that's what she's probably doing what she

1028
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 4: wanted chects with him. She's probably thinking of Scarface A Patino,

1029
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 4: say hello to your little friend.

1030
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 1: I love.

1031
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 2: One of the greatest things and gifts that I have

1032
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:17,759
Speaker 2: is the footage I have with my mother on the show,

1033
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 2: because I can see her alive again and it's great.

1034
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:26,320
Speaker 2: And so they're gonna have hopefully they're a lot of

1035
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:30,319
Speaker 2: brothers and sisters. They have grandchildren, so their babies are

1036
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 2: gonna be uncles and aunts to the kids too.

1037
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 3: They have big families.

1038
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 4: I mean me as a baby, I would ask my mom, mom,

1039
00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 4: how did this happen? Like the babies can have a

1040
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 4: lot of questions because well, you're baby, grow up to

1041
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 4: be baby, young woman, and she's gonna say, mom, how

1042
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 4: did you like fall in love with my dad that

1043
00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 4: was eighty three years old?

1044
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:54,399
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I don't right, I don't know.

1045
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 1: I'm sure she has.

1046
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:58,439
Speaker 4: I'm sure she has, you know, really good reasons why

1047
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 4: she fell in love with him. So whatever, I mean,

1048
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 4: not even know they're in love or not.

1049
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, way, don't know if there's love there.

1050
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 3: We just know there's baby.

1051
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 1: Well, how did you have sex with my dad?

1052
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 3: Mom?

1053
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:13,920
Speaker 2: And now they're going to be aunts and uncles to

1054
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 2: their father's grandchildren that are actually older than them. That's confusing.

1055
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 1: I don't know that you're getting a little bit so

1056
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 1: they confusing.

1057
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 2: I know our Virginia has grandchildren. I'm not sure if

1058
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 2: al Pacino does.

1059
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:29,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, seven children, right, but he has seven.

1060
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 2: Here's also a grandfather, so the new baby will be

1061
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:38,839
Speaker 2: an auntie, a younger auntie to his grandchildren.

1062
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:40,240
Speaker 3: That's confusing.

1063
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, well al Pacino has four and his oldest is

1064
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 4: thirty three, which isn't that old because I mean I

1065
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 4: have a thirty one year old son, so he had

1066
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 4: children later on in life. You know, these men from

1067
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,359
Speaker 4: Hollywood and their actors, you know, I feel like they

1068
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:55,839
Speaker 4: all have these inflated egos, you know, and they think

1069
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 4: that every woman in the world, any age, wants to

1070
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 4: be with him. And guess what, they're right. That's how

1071
00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:03,400
Speaker 4: we found this one.

1072
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:06,840
Speaker 2: They're keeping their virility alive. It's their legacy, their virility.

1073
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:09,320
Speaker 2: Look at me, I went out. I will never forget

1074
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,360
Speaker 2: Anthony Quinn. I remember when I was in my twenties,

1075
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 2: I'm like, this eighty year old man is having another

1076
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:18,240
Speaker 2: child who doesn't And when you're in your twenties eighties

1077
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:21,840
Speaker 2: is like so old. My grandparents died in their eighties.

1078
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 4: By the way, it's still old for me. Yeah, come on,

1079
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:30,799
Speaker 4: I mean I won't even like, no, I can only

1080
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:33,759
Speaker 4: speak from myself. At my age, I don't even see

1081
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:34,400
Speaker 4: that happening.

1082
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 2: So it's like, I mean, it is like we're going

1083
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:39,879
Speaker 2: to go pick up and start dating in a nursing home,

1084
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,239
Speaker 2: because that's apparently what this is starting to look like.

1085
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 1: Well, welcome to the world, Welcome to Hollywood.

1086
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 4: Welcome to Miami, because we have the problem here in

1087
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:52,240
Speaker 4: Miami as well. I think where there's money and fame,

1088
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 4: there's always you know, availability. Oh yeah one of my friends.

1089
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, as my friend.

1090
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:03,440
Speaker 2: This was great. I could talk with you for hours.

1091
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 2: I'm sure we're going to hang up and talk like

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Speaker 2: we usually do.

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Speaker 4: Mm hmmm, yes, because we know we don't have enough

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Speaker 4: time to talk and we can just sit here and

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Speaker 4: talk all day long about age difference, about children, about family, about.

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Speaker 2: Relationships, money for tuning in, Yes, thank you for listening

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Speaker 2: to us.

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Speaker 3: I both Forward, Hi Forward, see you next time.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening.

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Speaker 2: Follow us on Instagram at iPort Forward Podcast.

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Speaker 4: Make sure to write us a review and leave us

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Speaker 4: five stars.

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