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Speaker 1: It's time for ask the clo with our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, and the building ready for your love questions.

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Speaker 1: Chanelle and Roanoke says, I found out my sixteen year

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Speaker 1: old son is having sex and snuck a.

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Speaker 2: Girl in the house.

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Speaker 1: Our dogs walk through the kitchen with a condom wrapper

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Speaker 1: in his mouth, and my son turned red as a

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Speaker 1: single mom.

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Speaker 2: Do I get his dad involved? How do I handle this? Well?

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Speaker 3: First of all, let me command your dog because the

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Speaker 3: rappers is really hard to swallow, and he knew by

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Speaker 3: the smell of this that this was very interesting, had

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Speaker 3: never been this before, so this let me get this

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Speaker 3: outside in the garage where I can see what this

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Speaker 3: really is.

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Speaker 2: That's what. So kudos to the dog first of all.

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Speaker 3: Secondly, you need to get his father involved. And it's

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Speaker 3: not going to be the reprimand that you think, but

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Speaker 3: you do need to get the father involved.

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Speaker 2: He's sixteen.

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Speaker 3: Uh, you can forget having the conversation of this is

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Speaker 3: wrong and you shouldn't do that. You can you can

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Speaker 3: throw that conversation out the window.

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Speaker 2: Once the boy tastes.

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Speaker 3: The fruit, it's it's his quest to he died. It's

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Speaker 3: no backing out of this okay out and tried it

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Speaker 3: one time. Now I'm a wait till I get married.

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Speaker 3: That that conversation, you think, what conversation you've didn't had

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Speaker 3: with this boys? The best thing he did was use protection.

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Speaker 3: The deed is already done. And I'm telling you right now,

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Speaker 3: once the deed is done, that is you can't close

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Speaker 3: that cupet door. That door don't shut. No that that

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Speaker 3: door don't shut. It's it's your whole life quest from

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Speaker 3: that moment on.

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Speaker 2: Once you get that fruit, a piece of that pie.

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Speaker 2: Listen to me, he's what did it well earlier? It

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Speaker 2: makes me feel just the whole motivation?

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Speaker 3: Why buy calls and jewelry, rainy swimming and houses, homes, dreams,

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Speaker 3: calls watching, Oh yes.

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, Steve, thank you Coello. Yeah it's clear, uh Andy.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Andy and Detroit, Andy says, I was

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Speaker 1: initially attracted to my wife because she's wealthy and loves

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Speaker 1: nice things. I have a great job, but she makes

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Speaker 1: a lot more money than I do. Her friends say,

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Speaker 1: I'm an opportunist. Why is it acceptable if a woman

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Speaker 1: marries up, but if a man does it not so much?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know it's called double standards. Bro, You know

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Speaker 3: it's the same reason. If a man sleep with everybody

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Speaker 3: in the office, he's still mister Jackson. And if a

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Speaker 3: woman do it, she everything but her name because it's

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Speaker 3: double standards.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 3: And it's such a rare garanty. But when it happens,

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Speaker 3: you know, I mean, but why you're letting it bother you?

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Speaker 3: But you said, yeah, you were first attracted to her

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Speaker 3: because she was wealthy.

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Speaker 2: That's what you're saying. He did. He did.

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Speaker 3: So, now that was your first attraction. And she liked

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Speaker 3: nice things, Okay, cool. It wasn't her eyes, it wasn't

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Speaker 3: her dreams, the way she looked at you, the way

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Speaker 3: she treated you. No, you liked her because she was wealthy.

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Speaker 3: So now that's what you put out. That's what everybody

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Speaker 3: then picked up on. Because trust me, bro, there is

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Speaker 3: no way to hide that I first got with my

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Speaker 3: wife and failed for her because of she was wealthy, okay.

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Speaker 1: And and loves nice things.

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Speaker 3: You ain't saying nothing about her being a beautiful person.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, Hockey, you can imagine her making a

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Speaker 3: great mother for your children.

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Speaker 2: You ain't say none of that.

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Speaker 3: You said that, So now if you don't think that

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Speaker 3: that's what exudes from your body. Don't think other people

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Speaker 3: can pick up on that, especially women. I don't know

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Speaker 3: what to tell you. Man. Congratulations, you accomplished the mission.

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Speaker 3: Now you got to live the life, because I'm tell

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Speaker 3: you right now, the riches ain't gonna last. Hmmm.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna need to be in love and you're gonna

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Speaker 2: need to like somebody, all right. A lot of rich.

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Speaker 3: Women ain't got no men.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Dana in Fairview, Dana says, my husband

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Speaker 1: and I are separated because I sent a picture of

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Speaker 1: my VIJJ to him while he was at work. I

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Speaker 1: had never done anything like that, but my coworker said

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Speaker 1: it was it was a way to keep my marriage spicy.

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Speaker 1: He didn't like it. How do I fix things? What? What?

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Speaker 2: What is it not to like?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: It was?

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Speaker 1: Because she sent it at work to him while he

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Speaker 1: was at work.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what what?

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Speaker 3: What did it hit the Was it on the thread

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Speaker 3: with the coworkers?

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Speaker 2: Now? That was it? But I don't understand why you

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Speaker 2: separate it though? What so this.

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Speaker 3: Dude, listen to me. I want you to pay careful closest.

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Speaker 3: I want you to pay pay careful attention to what I'm

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Speaker 3: about to say, Okay, if a man leaves you and

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Speaker 3: separates from you for that reason, right there, I can

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Speaker 3: tell you, as a man, and I've been a man

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Speaker 3: a long time, that ain't the reason.

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Speaker 2: He is using that as a reason.

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Speaker 3: But that ain't no real It ain't a man living

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Speaker 3: nowhere if you send him a picture of the Promised Land,

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Speaker 3: that he is gonna stop talking to you and pack

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Speaker 3: his stuff up. Who is this guy? What are you

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Speaker 3: talking about? You need to look a little bit deeper

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Speaker 3: into this situation. First of all, why did you need

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Speaker 3: to spice up the relationship.

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Speaker 1: Because their coworker told us?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 3: But see, but see, guess what your coworker told you

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Speaker 3: that because y'all done had some unspicy conversations about your relationship.

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Speaker 2: I agree.

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Speaker 3: Now, your coworker didn't tell you nothing wrong. She was

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Speaker 3: trying to help you. But your man, because you needed

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Speaker 3: some spicing up and he needed out. Your spicy picture

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Speaker 3: of the Promised lad gave him the out he needed.

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Speaker 3: Ain't no man nowhere leaving his wife because she sent

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Speaker 3: a picture of her thing to the job.

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Speaker 2: Who is this food?

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Speaker 1: So to her question, Steve of how do I fix things?

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Speaker 2: There's The thing is not the picture. The thing is

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Speaker 2: the real reason he wants to leave, and the real

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Speaker 2: reason you.

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Speaker 3: Needed to send it to spice up the relationship in

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Speaker 3: the first place.

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Speaker 2: I promise you that's it. No dude, no where, what?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Shorty and Pensacola says. I'm a waitress at a topless bar.

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Speaker 1: One of my married customers offered to pay me a

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Speaker 1: monthly fee for sex. If I get two more customers

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Speaker 1: like him, I can work from home. I'm not big

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Speaker 1: on adult Tree. Wait I'm not big on adult Tree,

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Speaker 1: So should I only offer my services to single men?

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Speaker 3: What you are already considering this business proposition, Make your

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Speaker 3: decision and make your move.

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Speaker 2: You just need too mo Now you're listening Hardy Morning

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