1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: I can't believe that actress Goma Yama still half naked 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: on TV at her big age. Viehja, I know the 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:10,720 Speaker 1: La Santa. She looks good, like my mother always told me. 4 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 2: Lace Senora, Senora, Senora, Senora, Senora, Senor, Hi Senora, Welcome 5 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 2: to Senora. 6 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 3: Sex Ed. 7 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 1: Senora sex Ed is not your mommy's sex talk. This 8 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 1: show is la platicad like you've never heard it before, 9 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: breaking the stigma and silence around sex and sexuality in 10 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: LATINX communities. Latinas have been hyper sexualized in popular culture, 11 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 1: but notoriously denied sex education. This podcast is an intergenerational 12 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: conversation between Latinas from gen X to Gen Z, covering 13 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: everything from puberty and body image to representation in film, television, 14 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: and music. 15 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 4: By the way, before we go any further, we wanted 16 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 4: to find how we're using the word senora on this show. 17 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 4: We know that so many of you are in your 18 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 4: so called senora era, but in this show, a Senora 19 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 4: is a woman with a lot of life experiences and 20 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 4: stories to share. Maybe she's in her thirties, maybe she's 21 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 4: in her forties or fifties or older. Maybe she's trans, 22 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 4: Maybe she says. 23 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: Chapter one, mothering on screen with Anna Ortiz. 24 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 3: It was good, like I think I was healthy experiences 25 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:44,319 Speaker 3: like it was with a boy that I love, that 26 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 3: I thought loved me, That you did love me. I 27 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 3: guess so I felt, I don't know, like kind of 28 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 3: strong about it. 29 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: That was Anna Ortiz, actress, mother and wife. We'll be 30 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 1: learning about her journey with sex education, which is even 31 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 1: continuing now into her fifties, and what it's been like 32 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 1: playing some iconic Latina roles on your favorite TV shows. 33 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 4: We are your hosts and producers, Viosa and Mala. 34 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 1: You might recognize us from our flagship podcast, look at 35 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: Ora Radio. Since twenty sixteen, we've covered all kinds of topics, 36 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 1: ranging from politics, to mental health, current events, and of 37 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: course sex. We still have so much to learn from 38 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: each other and from all of you out there. We 39 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: hope you listen to each episode with the Senoras and 40 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:37,839 Speaker 1: Senoritas in your life. 41 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 4: Before Anna Orthis joins us, we thought it'd be fitting 42 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 4: to discuss the Latina representation we grew up with. 43 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: My first memory of seeing Latina representation on film or television, 44 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: anything having to deal with sex, sexuality, and body image 45 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 1: was the iconic Real Women Have Curves. I was ten 46 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 1: years old when the film came out, and I don't 47 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 1: I don't think I saw it until I was maybe 48 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 1: thirteen or fourteen, but the storyline around Anna losing her 49 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 1: virginity was eye opening. The scene which sticks out in 50 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 1: my mind so vividly is the one in which Anna's mother, 51 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 1: played by Lupa Antiveros, calls her a puta after she 52 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:23,839 Speaker 1: has sex for the first time, and Anna rebuts and 53 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 1: says to her mother, there's so much more to her 54 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: than what's between her legs. And I remember as a 55 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:33,680 Speaker 1: child thinking that this was such a transformative scene, such 56 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: transformative dialogue, and it really made me, I don't know, 57 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 1: think about Latina's Maybe at the time, I wasn't thinking 58 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: specifically about Latinas, but about women, young women, teens coming 59 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:50,839 Speaker 1: into our own claiming our bodies. And I just will 60 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: always remember that scene and still to this day, it 61 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: remains one of my favorite films because of the way 62 00:03:55,880 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: that it handles Latina body image, relationships, sexuality. 63 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 4: One of my first memories of Latina representation is Jennifer 64 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 4: Lopez playing Selena in the iconic biopic The Classic Boustae 65 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 4: scene where Edward James, almost playing Abraham Kinthania, becomes enraged 66 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 4: because his daughter is wearing a quote Busti Kaka. This 67 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 4: scene has become a meme, it's become gifts. It's almost 68 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 4: trite now, But to me at the time, I remember 69 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 4: it being so impactful because it gave me some insight 70 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 4: as to the way men in your family can be 71 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 4: really opinionated about what women and girls do with their bodies, 72 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 4: what they wear. Because how could his daughter, this performer 73 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 4: be wearing a bra in public on stage. It was 74 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 4: an outrage, And so it gave me, like I said, 75 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 4: that insight into what it means when you want to 76 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 4: dress how you want to dress. And you know, having 77 00:04:56,880 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 4: had my own experiences where brothers or my dad or 78 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 4: deals would comment about maybe what I was wearing, and 79 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:06,719 Speaker 4: so it taught me from a very young age that 80 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:10,040 Speaker 4: lots of people will have opinions about your body, even 81 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 4: if you're a young girl. And the Latina actors that 82 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 4: we mentioned today, like Anna Ortiz, America Ferira, Jennifer Lopez 83 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 4: and so many others have had the staying power to 84 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 4: be in the industry, but not without its challenges. 85 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: According to a two thousand and two media report performed 86 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 1: by the Latino Donor Collective, Latino's represented only three point 87 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 1: one percent of lead actors and TV shows and two 88 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: point one percent of co lead ensemble actors. Only one 89 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 1: point five percent of TV showrunners and one point three 90 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 1: percent of directors were Latino. Hearing this data really contextualizes 91 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 1: why we're so proud to be talking to today's guest. 92 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 4: We hope you're enjoying this conversation. Stay tuned, there's more 93 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 4: to come. 94 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 1: And we're back. We hope you enjoyed the break and 95 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 1: are ready to listen to the rest. When we first 96 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 1: started our conversation with Anna, we asked her about her 97 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 1: first introduction to sex ed and what that was like. 98 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:20,799 Speaker 1: Did she get the so called birds and the bees talk? 99 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 3: I think for me, so I grew up in seventies 100 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 3: in the eighties, right in New York City, and it 101 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 3: was basically my mom and I. My dad was in 102 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 3: the picture, but he, you know, he wasn't in the house, 103 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,839 Speaker 3: and also being sort of his Puerto Rican self, like, 104 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 3: there's no way he would have spoken to me about 105 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 3: anything like I think the furthest he ever got was 106 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 3: like saying if I was wearing like something that he 107 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:51,039 Speaker 3: didn't approve of, he would say like, like you know, 108 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 3: mirake Freca, like you look too fresh, you can't. That 109 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 3: was about the extent of it, whereas my mom was 110 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 3: completely the opposit I think, even though she was super Catholic, 111 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 3: she had in her head this sort of like pure honesty, 112 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 3: like whatever you ask me, I'm gonna be honest with you, 113 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 3: and I'm gonna tell you what it is. 114 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 4: When Anna was only seven years old, she asked her 115 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 4: very honest mother to explain a song from a rock 116 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 4: musical titled Hair. 117 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 3: I was kind of prudish, to be honest, but I 118 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 3: remember I had this past album of this musical called Hair. 119 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 3: It was like a rock musical from the sixties, and 120 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 3: I loved it and I listened to it all the time. 121 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 3: I was like a big theater musical theater nerd even then. 122 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 3: And I was probably about six or seven. And there's 123 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 3: a song, so apologies for the graphicness, but there's a 124 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 3: song called sodomy on on the track and it's like 125 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 3: sodom falacio ConA lingis pet or asty. And I had 126 00:07:56,120 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 3: no idea what any of those things were, but I 127 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 3: loved this record, so I would go around singing all 128 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 3: the songs and specifically that one, and I asked her, Mommy, 129 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 3: what is sodomy? And I remember she was in the 130 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 3: kitchen and she took a huge deep breath that she 131 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 3: was like, okay, well, sodomy and she began to explain 132 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 3: it to me, and I said stop, stop, stop talking, 133 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 3: and then from then on I would just skip over 134 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 3: that song on the record because I was so mortified. 135 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:35,960 Speaker 3: So all of that big, long story is just to 136 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 3: say that my mother was always sort of maybe almost 137 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 3: too honest with me about sex for my prudish ways, 138 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 3: but that actually, once I was in high school, I 139 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 3: did feel comfortable sort of being open with her about 140 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 3: what I was experiencing and what I was going through, 141 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 3: whereas with my dad it was literally like I think 142 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 3: he still thinks I'm you know, twelve years old, you know, 143 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 3: in his brain. So yeah, So I think I had 144 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 3: a pretty healthy relationship with sex growing up. 145 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: Anna describes an openness about her relationship with her mother. 146 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: Anna could ask her anything, but she didn't necessarily sit 147 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 1: down with her to have la pla pica. 148 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 3: I don't remember her ever saying like we need to 149 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:25,840 Speaker 3: talk about this. But I do remember her being sort 150 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 3: of if you ever have any questions or you know, 151 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 3: like I got my period really late, so I didn't, 152 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 3: you know, and like I was super embarrassed, Like all 153 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 3: my friends had their period and I didn't, so I 154 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 3: kind of told them that I did, but I didn't. 155 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 3: And I didn't really talk about it much. Again, like 156 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 3: I was, I was pretty like prudish about it all 157 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:49,959 Speaker 3: and like I'm not ashamed, but I just sort of 158 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 3: didn't want to talk about it. It's like I don't ask, 159 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:56,199 Speaker 3: don't tell. I remember being with a girlfriend and we 160 00:09:56,200 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 3: were out somewhere and I had a tampon and I 161 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 3: had to pee and I was like, I really have 162 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 3: to pee, but I have a tamp on it and 163 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 3: she was like, girl, you can't pete put the tamp 164 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 3: on it. And I was like you can't. 165 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 5: And I had no idea even though I was using 166 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 5: tampa like it just so I was all over the place, 167 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:22,239 Speaker 5: Like my mom was so open that maybe I felt. 168 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 3: Like I didn't really want to talk to her about it. 169 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 3: I don't know, and I had like girlfriends who I did. 170 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 4: It's not surprising that Anna didn't turn to her mother 171 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 4: for advice about her period. How often do teenagers truly 172 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 4: turn to their mothers first. Much of what we learn 173 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 4: about ourselves and each other is from our peers. 174 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 1: Anna describes her younger self as being somewhat prudish, And 175 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:47,440 Speaker 1: what does that word mean. Well, a prude is someone 176 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 1: who is excessively attentive to propriety or decorum, simply put, 177 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 1: modest or una ninya moi moiguena. 178 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:58,680 Speaker 3: I wasn't allowed to wear spaghetti straps. I wasn't allowed 179 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 3: to wear makeup. I was a lowed to wear skirts 180 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 3: that went, you know, a certain like that were above 181 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 3: my knee. 182 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 1: You know. 183 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:11,199 Speaker 3: So it was it was raised pretty conservatatively that way. 184 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 3: But I don't think it was because of where I lived, 185 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 3: you know, and like being it was the seventies and eighties, 186 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 3: and I was on my own a lot, and I 187 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 3: think coming home from school, having ride the subway the 188 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 3: bus by myself at a young age, my mother was 189 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 3: just worried that, you know, if you looked a certain way, 190 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 3: that you would just invite trouble. And so I think 191 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 3: I was always just inherently a little afraid of sexual 192 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 3: power or like the thought that that was that I 193 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 3: would be viewed as something sexual. So I guess it 194 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 3: was made clear to me at a very young age 195 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 3: that that was a thing, like you are going to 196 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:50,560 Speaker 3: be looked at as a sexual object even though you're 197 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 3: only a kid. And so I think that just made 198 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 3: me fearful of sex, or not fearful, but just sort 199 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 3: of not extra size the power that it had. 200 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 4: The type of fear Anna describes feeling as a young 201 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:09,840 Speaker 4: girl is not uncommon. According to research conducted by Cornell's 202 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:13,760 Speaker 4: Worker Institute and Halla Back, eighty five percent of women 203 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 4: in the United States experienced street harassment before the age 204 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 4: of seventeen. 205 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 1: In her junior year of high school, something shifted for Anna. 206 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 3: I felt in control of my own physical body and 207 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 3: my own self. I was on birth control. I had 208 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 3: sort of had my first sexual experience, and it was 209 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 3: with it was good, like I think I was healthy 210 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 3: experiences like it was with the boy that I love, 211 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 3: that I thought loved me, that you did love me. 212 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:47,200 Speaker 3: I guess so I felt, I don't know, like kind 213 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 3: of strong about it. And I also was surrounded by 214 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 3: really great girlfriends. I think I was really lucky in 215 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 3: the sense that I was always raised with the idea 216 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 3: that your women friends are like your rock, your back, 217 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 3: and you have each other's back. Because my mom and 218 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 3: her women friends, well, she had a lot of female 219 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 3: friends and a lot of gay male friends. But that 220 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 3: sort of energy of like that feeling of like I 221 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 3: have these women and they have my back and I 222 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 3: have theirs. That gave me a sort of empowerment. 223 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 1: Also for Anna, her sex education was coming from several 224 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 1: different places, her mother, her friends, and then eventually her partners. 225 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: Pop culture also played a role in her sexual education. 226 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:37,840 Speaker 3: Pop culture also maybe was a reason why I had 227 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 3: sort of a healthy fear of it all because I 228 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 3: think my first like the movie that really impacted me 229 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 3: so much was there was this well Fame with Irene 230 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:51,840 Speaker 3: Kara like totally changed my entire I think, like literally 231 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 3: physically chemically changed me. That we had such an impact 232 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:57,839 Speaker 3: on my life and I saw it so young. 233 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 4: Fame is a nineteen eighty movie musical chronicling in the 234 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 4: lives of several teenagers who attend a New York high 235 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 4: school for students gifted in the performing arts. It was 236 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:10,719 Speaker 4: a combination of seeing someone like Irene got A on 237 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 4: screen and hearing Puerto Rican freestyle that showed Anna that 238 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:17,239 Speaker 4: there was a place for her in the industry. 239 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 3: I realized I was never going to be a prima ballerina, 240 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 3: Like it just was not my calling. And then I 241 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 3: decided I love to sing, and so I went to 242 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 3: music and art for her voice. But I didn't write music. 243 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 3: I didn't like I didn't reading and music theory was 244 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 3: really difficult for me. I was never sort of like 245 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 3: a it just didn't again, like it wasn't my thing. 246 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 3: And then I did, you know, some musical theater, and 247 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 3: I realized that's it, Like that's that's this is this 248 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 3: is what I love. This is what I love theater 249 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 3: and being on stage and saying words and in terms 250 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 3: of again, like like I said, fame seeing Irene Kara, 251 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 3: seeing people of all different colors from New York, from 252 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 3: you know, the socioeconomic background that I was from. Also, 253 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 3: it was like you always saw like the rich and 254 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 3: famous or the wealthier, the suburban kids. You never ever 255 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 3: saw like city kids broke ass, you know, trying to 256 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 3: make a dollar out of fifteen cents and believing and 257 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 3: having a dream. 258 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 1: Right. 259 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 3: I think I think she just sort of like turned 260 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 3: it around, and I think then I realized, like, oh I, 261 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 3: this is a possibility, you know, to see yourself. Also, 262 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 3: I think, you know, at that time in music, freestyle 263 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 3: was happening a lot, and freestyle music was ours. Freestyle 264 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 3: music was like Puerto Rican kids from New York singing 265 00:15:39,040 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 3: in Spanglish. So I heard it on the radio, you know, 266 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 3: I heard like people singing the way that we spoke, 267 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 3: and I just thought, like, there is a place for 268 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 3: us here, this can happen. I don't know that without that, 269 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 3: it just it bolstered me. I guess you can say, 270 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 3: because I don't really I don't. I never to plan 271 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 3: b I never thought there was anything else for me 272 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 3: but this. I don't know if I would have been 273 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 3: as determined if I hadn't had like the Irene Karas 274 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 3: and the and that freestyle music sort of you know, 275 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 3: being the soundtrack to my adolescence. But here we are. 276 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:25,160 Speaker 4: We'll be taking a quick break. Don't miss us. 277 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 1: Thanks for sticking around. We are back. We were curious 278 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 1: when Anna started booking roles. Did her parents advise her 279 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 1: against doing nudity or acting out sex scenes on camera? 280 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 3: You know, know, they never so I think they just 281 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 3: they trusted that I would you know, I guess make 282 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 3: the right decisions or you know. It's funny though, because honestly, 283 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 3: I didn't even like when I started coming on, when 284 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 3: I started like booking work because of the nature of 285 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 3: our business and being Puerto Rican and being in this thing. 286 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:05,679 Speaker 3: When I was coming up, it did start like the 287 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:08,120 Speaker 3: waves started to rise where they were casting more of us. 288 00:17:08,760 --> 00:17:13,680 Speaker 3: But that being said, I was never the main character, right, 289 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 3: so I was never the one in those roles that 290 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 3: that might have happened to. Also, I was really much 291 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 3: I was really getting much more TV work, and I 292 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 3: was getting a lot more comedy work, which is funny 293 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:27,399 Speaker 3: to me because I always thought of myself as so 294 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 3: dramatic and everybody told me I was so dramatic. But 295 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:34,400 Speaker 3: then I come out to California and a casting directors said, 296 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:36,400 Speaker 3: you get cast in a lot of comedies, and I said, 297 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:39,400 Speaker 3: I know. I thought I was like a dramatic actress. 298 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:41,919 Speaker 3: And she goes, you're from New York. New Yorkers are funny. 299 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 3: That was like, oh okay. So that all of that 300 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 3: being said, I was always sort of the sidekick. I 301 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 3: was always the sassy best friend, or the or the 302 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:55,879 Speaker 3: drug dealer's girlfriend or whatever so, you know, or the 303 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 3: leaning person, the waitress, the you know what I mean 304 00:17:58,359 --> 00:18:00,880 Speaker 3: like that, those were the roles that when I first 305 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 3: started coming up, were available to me. Then I started 306 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 3: doing more, it was more like power suits, you know. 307 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 3: Like I was always like the tough, the tough you know, 308 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:13,359 Speaker 3: bad the tough bad girl, like always the nemesis of 309 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 3: whatever the good girl was. I was always like the 310 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 3: antithesis of that. So it didn't really come up for 311 00:18:20,359 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 3: me a lot too, So I'm glad that I didn't 312 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 3: necessarily have to really face any of that. That question 313 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 3: didn't really come up to me in terms of like 314 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 3: having to do nudity or any kind of love scenes. 315 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 1: We asked Anna if she could give a progress report 316 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 1: to Hollywood for Latino representation, what would the grade be? 317 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:44,399 Speaker 3: I think the grade would be A. And this is 318 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 3: for the industry. This is not for us for lack 319 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 3: of trying, because we're out here trying and we're out 320 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:53,879 Speaker 3: here putting on, putting on really amazing, top notch entertainment. 321 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 3: But I would say if the industry gets a begrudging 322 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:03,440 Speaker 3: B minus, I'm being generous with that. I'm being generous 323 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:06,719 Speaker 3: because I'm trying to remain hopeful and optimistic, and I 324 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 3: happen to be friends with this incredible group of women 325 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,639 Speaker 3: who are really changing the game, right, So I have 326 00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:18,639 Speaker 3: that in my I have America Ferrera as one of 327 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 3: my dearest friends, Eva Longoria as a dear friend and mentor. 328 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:25,679 Speaker 3: Judy Reyes is one of my best friends in the world. 329 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:31,520 Speaker 3: You know, Like, I'm surrounded by like these incredible, strong, talented, beautiful, funny, 330 00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:38,440 Speaker 3: multi faceted, complicated, brilliant brown girls. So I'm fed. I'm 331 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:43,520 Speaker 3: fed a lot, I'm nourished. But when I look and 332 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:45,879 Speaker 3: I see, you know, like Justina Machado, one of my 333 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,639 Speaker 3: favorite women on the planet, one of the best actresses 334 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:52,440 Speaker 3: out there, Titan. You know, she just does brilliant show 335 00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:55,439 Speaker 3: after brilliant show, and they just fucking cancel it. And 336 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 3: it's just maddening. It's just insane to me because we're 337 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:01,480 Speaker 3: watching it. You know, we can't get a show to 338 00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:04,439 Speaker 3: stay on for more than two seasons. It's crazy. But 339 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 3: how was the exact though. I would just be like 340 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:10,680 Speaker 3: another season, another season, another season. We keep putting one 341 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 3: foot in front of the other, and I feel like 342 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 3: we support each other. I don't, you know, but I 343 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 3: don't know until we're in those rooms green lighting movies 344 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 3: about us for us by us. 345 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 4: Famously, Anna Ortiz was in the two thousand and six 346 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:32,200 Speaker 4: ABC series Ugly Betty. The show starred America Ferrera as 347 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:37,760 Speaker 4: Betty Suarez, alongside Tony Plano and Mark Indelicato. Anna played 348 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:43,520 Speaker 4: the hilarious, sexy, stylish older sister Hilda Suatz. In many ways, 349 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 4: Ugly Betty was so ahead of its time, considering the 350 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:48,720 Speaker 4: diverse cast and storylines. 351 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:51,880 Speaker 3: That was a game changer for all of us on 352 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:53,920 Speaker 3: that show, and I think it was also a game 353 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 3: changer for television. I don't think we had a lot 354 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,520 Speaker 3: of support at the network, which was like because four 355 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 3: seasons just wasn't enough and we should have had more. 356 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 3: We were at the top of our game, we were 357 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:06,960 Speaker 3: getting huge ratings, but again it was like we just 358 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:11,119 Speaker 3: had people up in the executive suites who just didn't 359 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 3: didn't have the vision. That show was so important for 360 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 3: us just as actors and friends and family, but being 361 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 3: also being able to be a part of something so iconic. 362 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 3: Mark and Delacado had the first sort of gay adolescent 363 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:32,159 Speaker 3: you know kiss and I don't think you know, he 364 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 3: gets enough sort of credit for that. 365 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 1: In the show Ugly Betty, Justin lives with his mother Hilda, 366 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:41,200 Speaker 1: his aunt Betty, and his grandfather Ignacio. Justin exhibits a 367 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 1: love for fashion and is quite the diva. He's a 368 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 1: feminine boy, but his sexuality isn't really discussed outright until 369 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,199 Speaker 1: season four when he comes out. 370 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,480 Speaker 3: It was really incredible to sort of walk down the 371 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:57,920 Speaker 3: streets and have people being like, Hilda, we love you, 372 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:00,959 Speaker 3: and having people reach out to me and being, you know, 373 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 3: saying like, I wish I had a mom like you, 374 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:06,400 Speaker 3: and you know, I'm gay and my mom doesn't talk 375 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,720 Speaker 3: to me, and I, you know, I really consider Hilda 376 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,240 Speaker 3: like like I can. I can watch Ugly Betty and 377 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 3: I can feel comforted from that. So that there was 378 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,920 Speaker 3: so much gratification in that, and it still happens. 379 00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:20,320 Speaker 4: The character of Ilesoadees served as a positive representation of 380 00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:23,400 Speaker 4: a Latina mother loving her gay teenage son. 381 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 3: You know that that machismo is real in our culture, 382 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 3: that it still is now, but I think it was 383 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 3: a little bit a little bit of a breakthrough, and 384 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:38,680 Speaker 3: to be able to do that on such a huge 385 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 3: platform was really gratifying. 386 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,920 Speaker 1: In addition to playing the incredibly supportive mother, Hilde Suarez. 387 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:48,439 Speaker 1: Anna also played a different type of mother. She played 388 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 1: Isabelle Salasad, a less open minded mother on the show 389 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 1: Love Victor. The show Love Victor is an adaptation of 390 00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 1: the groundbreaking film Love Simon. Michael Cimino stars as Victor, 391 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:04,760 Speaker 1: a teen from a half Puerto Rican, half Colombian family 392 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:06,280 Speaker 1: living in Atlanta. 393 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 3: There's so many different types of families, and there's so 394 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 3: many different types of kids and sort of machinations of 395 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 3: what family means and what acceptance means, and what queer means, 396 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 3: and you know all of that. So I think the 397 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:26,440 Speaker 3: storytelling on that is the possibilities are endless, and they're interesting, 398 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 3: and they're varied and they're diverse. So for me, I jumped, jumped, 399 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 3: jumped because also the showrunner, the head writer was from 400 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,680 Speaker 3: Ugly Betty, and so we knew each other quite well, 401 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 3: and I knew I was in amazing hands to be 402 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,919 Speaker 3: able to sort of be the anti Hilda, right, to 403 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:51,920 Speaker 3: sort of play it from the whole different thing where 404 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 3: she doesn't accept him, and to really explore what that means. 405 00:23:55,480 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 3: And again, it was so cool because there were so 406 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:04,280 Speaker 3: many kids who would come up to me and talk 407 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,879 Speaker 3: to me. But more so than that, there were so 408 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:12,640 Speaker 3: many moms and Theias and thethis and Aluelas that would 409 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:17,200 Speaker 3: come up to me and say, like, I watched my son, 410 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,960 Speaker 3: sat me down and watched this with my daughter, sat 411 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,119 Speaker 3: me down and watched it. I was you know, never 412 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 3: I was always they couldn't speak to me about it, 413 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 3: and this was how we communicated and you know I 414 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:32,479 Speaker 3: and it was just mind blowing how much you know, 415 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 3: this medium can reach people and how much change it 416 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 3: can actually affect and I you know, you you don't 417 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,639 Speaker 3: Sometimes I think a person can take it for granted 418 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 3: because we think it's just silly, but it just goes 419 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 3: to show you how how the arts aren't silly. 420 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:52,680 Speaker 4: Anna has done an amazing job taking on these complex 421 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:56,639 Speaker 4: Latina characters, including her role in the twenty thirteen TV 422 00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 4: show dvus Maids. Anna played the lead protagon Marisol Suarez. 423 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 4: The show garners some controversy upon its release. 424 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 3: I'm so lucky like that was one of that was 425 00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 3: such an amazing experience too. You know, if you get 426 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 3: a phone call from Eva, like girl, I'm doing this show, 427 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 3: It's gonna be amazing. It's gonna be all Latin women, 428 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:22,400 Speaker 3: it's gonna And then you know she's like, hear me out, 429 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 3: hear me out. It's called Tvious Thames. And I was like, girl, 430 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 3: She's like hear me out. Here we go. And so 431 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 3: you know, you have to understand, I think from me 432 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:39,879 Speaker 3: coming from my point of view, was a brilliant telenovela. Right. Also, 433 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:44,399 Speaker 3: my grandmother cleaned houses, you know what I mean, Judy 434 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 3: Ray's mother clean houses. 435 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:45,960 Speaker 1: Like. 436 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 3: The thing is that we didn't look at it as 437 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 3: like a shameful thing. We actually said, like, this is 438 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:58,200 Speaker 3: our opportunity to show this side of life, because more 439 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 3: often than not, we're always you know, if we are 440 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 3: the maid, it's because we're coming in saying something super 441 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:06,879 Speaker 3: funny and leaving as opposed to really exploring the lives 442 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:10,880 Speaker 3: of these women and exploring the lives of them and 443 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,360 Speaker 3: what their daily is, what their family life is, what 444 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 3: their sex life is, what their you know, kids are doing, 445 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 3: how their kids are affected by what they do. Right, 446 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,200 Speaker 3: So we actually had an opportunity to just shine a 447 00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:27,199 Speaker 3: light on the life of these women, but do it 448 00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:30,520 Speaker 3: in a really I mean it was really soapy and fun. 449 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:33,959 Speaker 3: Eva's not only is Eva producing and executive producing it. 450 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,959 Speaker 3: She directed so many of the episodes. She was on 451 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 3: set all the time. If we had a problem, we 452 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 3: could call her. You know, we had Latin writers in 453 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 3: the room and we had so it was representation on 454 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:51,120 Speaker 3: every level for us on that show, and we had 455 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 3: to say so. I think it was one of the 456 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:57,879 Speaker 3: first times I actually felt like I could object to 457 00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,199 Speaker 3: something that I felt was wrong or you know what 458 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,399 Speaker 3: I mean, you know, or make fun of it, or 459 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 3: say to the to the show runners like you guys, 460 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 3: like maybe you know, that's not something we would say, 461 00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:12,679 Speaker 3: that's not something we would do. So it really was 462 00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:14,760 Speaker 3: kind of like having our cake and eating it too, 463 00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:19,640 Speaker 3: because we got to be sexy and funny and wicked 464 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:25,920 Speaker 3: and you know, bananas and soapy and dramatic and funny, 465 00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:29,439 Speaker 3: and I got to work with like the best in 466 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:33,199 Speaker 3: the game. I'm sorry, but like Roslin Sanchez, Daniel Ramirez, 467 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:35,160 Speaker 3: Judy Ray has come on. 468 00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,199 Speaker 1: We think that these shows that Anna has worked on 469 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:41,639 Speaker 1: and so many others have contributed to the current landscape 470 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:45,199 Speaker 1: in which we live, where kids can more freely be 471 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 1: themselves and open themselves up to all sorts of topics 472 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:52,439 Speaker 1: with an open mind. We asked Anna if she thinks 473 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,520 Speaker 1: the shows that she acted in did in fact have 474 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 1: that type of impact. 475 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,760 Speaker 3: I hope so, I mean, I hope so I for 476 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:04,640 Speaker 3: what ever small part we we whatever, you know, even 477 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 3: if it was just one or two steps forward, those 478 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,720 Speaker 3: are one or two steps that we needed to take. 479 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:12,040 Speaker 3: You know. Those sometimes those one or two steps are 480 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:14,520 Speaker 3: the hardest. So, you know, being at the front of 481 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 3: the that that move that that whole movement, well it's 482 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:24,399 Speaker 3: pretty it's pretty pretty awesome, and I really feel really lucky. 483 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,880 Speaker 1: In her real life off screen, Anna is a mother. 484 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:32,520 Speaker 1: She's also played mothers on television. A career actress who 485 00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:36,240 Speaker 1: has continued working alongside the best of the industry. She's 486 00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:39,920 Speaker 1: keeping up with changes and entertainment and changes to her body. 487 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 3: I'm like, I think I'm fully like in perimenopause, right, so, 488 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 3: like I'm really experiencing so much craziness going on with 489 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:55,520 Speaker 3: my physical self that I'm just trying to understand. And 490 00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 3: it's really you know, what I'm most disappointed and is 491 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 3: the lack of information there is for women my age 492 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,920 Speaker 3: and going through this. And there are there are outlets 493 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 3: for it, but it's like there's so much resistance even 494 00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:11,520 Speaker 3: with my own gynecologists when I and it was a woman, 495 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,880 Speaker 3: and I asked her like I think i'm I'm like, 496 00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,840 Speaker 3: I'm definitely in perimenopause and I think I need like 497 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 3: hormones or like what's the treatment or where do we 498 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:21,720 Speaker 3: go from here? And she was like, are you still 499 00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,360 Speaker 3: getting your period? And I was like, well, yeah, yeah, 500 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:26,480 Speaker 3: but not like it's not regular and you know when 501 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 3: I do get my period, it's fucking chaos. Sorry, is 502 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 3: this too much information? 503 00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 4: Actually, this is the type of information we want, anna, 504 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 4: because according to a study conducted by SWAN, which stands 505 00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:42,680 Speaker 4: for Study of Women's Health across the Nation, women of 506 00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 4: color tend to start in pre menopause earlier and have 507 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 4: more severe hot flashes than white women. In their research, 508 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 4: they found Black and Latina women experience perimenopause symptoms about 509 00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:57,160 Speaker 4: two to four years longer than white women. 510 00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:00,600 Speaker 1: So to answer these questions, we are going to pick 511 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:05,080 Speaker 1: up a house call from resident obg y n doctor Rodan, MD. 512 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:09,000 Speaker 3: Oh La signoras. 513 00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:14,040 Speaker 6: I'm La Lilia Rodan, MD, calling in to talk about perimenopause. 514 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:18,400 Speaker 6: Oh La peri Mino Bausia. I'm a resident physician specializing 515 00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:21,920 Speaker 6: in obstetrics. And kynecology. But before we continue our call, 516 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,719 Speaker 6: this informational segment should not be interpreted as official medical advice, 517 00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 6: and if you have any concerns, always consult with your 518 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 6: medical provider. Now moving on to la peri mino bausia. 519 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:36,360 Speaker 6: Perimenopause is that time in your life when menopause is 520 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 6: almost creeping up on you but not quite yet. We 521 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:44,160 Speaker 6: have something in our bodies called a hormone axiss and 522 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 6: that goes from your brain all the way down to 523 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:49,440 Speaker 6: your ovaries. It kind of starts messing up at two 524 00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,800 Speaker 6: important parts of our lives. At the beginning, when we're young, 525 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 6: we're teens, we're just getting our periods. It's what we 526 00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:58,600 Speaker 6: call immature and so that's the time in our lives 527 00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 6: when there's a lot of regular, abnormal bleeding. Now, the 528 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 6: other time in our lives when we start to have 529 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 6: this irregular abnormal bleeding is when that kind of access 530 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 6: starts to fall apart, and that starts in the area 531 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:15,400 Speaker 6: called perimenopause before our periods completely stop in menopause. Now, 532 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:17,240 Speaker 6: there are a lot of other things that can cause 533 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 6: abnormal bleeding. So if you are experiencing that, it's not 534 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,520 Speaker 6: automatically perimenopause, and this is a great opportunity to talk 535 00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 6: to your medical provider. Some of the things can cause 536 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 6: abnormal bleeding, like polyps and fibroids, so it's always a 537 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 6: good chance to get that evaluated. Now, some other common 538 00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 6: symptoms of perimenopause are vaginal dryness awkward to talk about, 539 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:41,320 Speaker 6: but important to know, and those very dreaded hot flashes. 540 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 6: More common ones you actually read reach menopause, but they 541 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:49,880 Speaker 6: may also creep in during the perimenopausal period. Now, one 542 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,240 Speaker 6: of the really best indicators for when you might enter 543 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 6: perimenopause is the age at which your mother and grandmother 544 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 6: entered perimenopause. There's a very strong genetic link. So this 545 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,920 Speaker 6: is a great opportunity to break those taboos and actually 546 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,560 Speaker 6: talk to your mom, to your grandma. I'm lasting at 547 00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:07,240 Speaker 6: essence would be us, you know, find out when they 548 00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,640 Speaker 6: went through this change, because that strogenetically may mean that 549 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:12,520 Speaker 6: it's time for you to go through the change. 550 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:13,680 Speaker 3: So if you have any. 551 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:15,440 Speaker 6: Questions about that, make sure that you talk to the 552 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 6: sing at us in your lives and talk to your 553 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 6: medical providers. 554 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:24,680 Speaker 3: I was so disappointed and kind of upset, So I'm 555 00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 3: like looking into my own I'm asking all my girlfriends, right, 556 00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 3: that's like thank God for them. Like, you know, I'm 557 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:35,480 Speaker 3: like really able to sort of again your girlfriend's coming 558 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:38,000 Speaker 3: to the rescue. Who are going through it? And sort 559 00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:41,720 Speaker 3: of you know, trying to figure out is hormone replacement 560 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 3: right for me? Is topical estrogen right for me? You know, 561 00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,120 Speaker 3: like what it is? What it is that all of 562 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 3: that I'm going through. But I will also say on 563 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:55,280 Speaker 3: top of that, I am feeling really empowered and I 564 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 3: feel really good about myself that I'm taking charge of 565 00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 3: my my health. 566 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 1: Having the information about our own bodies can be empowering. 567 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,040 Speaker 1: Talking about our health and our sex lives may have 568 00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:10,400 Speaker 1: been something teenage Anna would have been brutish about, but 569 00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:12,920 Speaker 1: now she embraces these conversations. 570 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 3: I'm still madly crazy about my husband and we still 571 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 3: have a really good sex life. Sorry, I don't want 572 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:24,840 Speaker 3: to mortify my poor husband, like Jesus, Rist, what are 573 00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:30,040 Speaker 3: you doing? Or my kids, God forbid all Lord, they 574 00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 3: would be mortified. But it's true. Sorry, it's true. You know, 575 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:36,880 Speaker 3: I'm fifty three and we're still like crazy about each other. 576 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:41,239 Speaker 3: But being older and going through this sort of like 577 00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,240 Speaker 3: the menopause of it all. I really, there's so much 578 00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,840 Speaker 3: that goes into it. But like I said, I being 579 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:50,479 Speaker 3: trying to be as proactive as I can because I 580 00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 3: still feel super sexual. I'm working out a lot, I 581 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:57,120 Speaker 3: feel hot, like and you know, so I just want 582 00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 3: to make sure that I take care of all of 583 00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 3: it so that I can keep the goal. 584 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 4: Getting older doesn't mean we're no longer sexual beings. In fact, 585 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,839 Speaker 4: a John Hopkins study shows half of women in their 586 00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:13,319 Speaker 4: fifties reported continued sexual activity. 587 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 1: And Anna is committed to talking to both of her 588 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 1: children about periods, sex, and sexuality. It is her goal 589 00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 1: to remove the stigma around these topics, especially for the 590 00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:26,440 Speaker 1: next generation. 591 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:30,520 Speaker 3: Totally mortify my kids all the time because I also 592 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:34,719 Speaker 3: want to make sure my son doesn't get like squeamish 593 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:38,440 Speaker 3: and stupid about periods and stuff like that. I want 594 00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:40,280 Speaker 3: to make sure he knows like girls have their period 595 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:42,759 Speaker 3: like her sister has her periods, so like whatever, and 596 00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,400 Speaker 3: also to my daughter, like you know, I just like 597 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:48,080 Speaker 3: I want to take all the stigma away from it 598 00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:50,920 Speaker 3: for them, and by the way, they kind of do 599 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,440 Speaker 3: it on their own this generation, my kids are fourteen 600 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,240 Speaker 3: and twelve. It gives me hope. 601 00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:58,759 Speaker 4: Anna tells us she feels good, she feels hot, and 602 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,840 Speaker 4: of course we agree. But how does Hollywood treat women 603 00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:04,720 Speaker 4: actresses as they get older. 604 00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:07,360 Speaker 3: I think it's moving forward a little bit, but again 605 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:11,799 Speaker 3: it's so sluggish that it's it's not great. Fortunately, I 606 00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:15,879 Speaker 3: think we are the audience now that that has more 607 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,279 Speaker 3: money and like my age and right, like I mean, 608 00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,840 Speaker 3: I think the gen X women right now are like 609 00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:24,120 Speaker 3: spending more money on like entertainment, and we want to 610 00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:28,280 Speaker 3: see ourselves represented more. I think there is definitely much 611 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,919 Speaker 3: more than there was. I think, you know, you look 612 00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:34,239 Speaker 3: at women. Yes, I think we're getting better. I don't 613 00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 3: think we're quite there yet. And you know, like, for instance, 614 00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:39,640 Speaker 3: when you asked me earlier about like sex scenes and 615 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:41,919 Speaker 3: stuff like that, like I didn't have to worry about 616 00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,040 Speaker 3: it much younger, and now it's like, well I always 617 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 3: people ask me that, and I'm like, that ship has sailed, 618 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:47,840 Speaker 3: nobody wants to see me in a sex scene. But 619 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:52,360 Speaker 3: it's like, uh, you know, who knows. I just watched Hacks, 620 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:56,400 Speaker 3: right because Mark Elecado's on Hacks and Jean Smart just 621 00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 3: had like a crazy sex scene with Tony Goldwyn. So 622 00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:04,520 Speaker 3: I don't know, girl, maybe is that we'll see. 623 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:08,359 Speaker 1: There seems to be a correlation between more open mindedness 624 00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,879 Speaker 1: for characters on screen when it comes to sex and sexuality, 625 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:15,120 Speaker 1: and greater open mindedness in our own day to day 626 00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:18,120 Speaker 1: lives within families when it comes to talking about things 627 00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:22,960 Speaker 1: like periods and perimenopause and even your mom and dad's 628 00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:23,640 Speaker 1: sex life. 629 00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:26,840 Speaker 4: Here on, Senora Sex said, we hope to continue breaking 630 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,600 Speaker 4: this stigma, which is why we were so happy when 631 00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:32,319 Speaker 4: Anna Orthis agreed to be on this podcast. 632 00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:35,400 Speaker 3: I think that's why you guys doing this is so 633 00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,160 Speaker 3: cool and so important because I think the more of 634 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:43,080 Speaker 3: us just talk about it like fucking you know, normal 635 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:46,120 Speaker 3: and it's just an okay conversation to have, the more 636 00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,480 Speaker 3: you know, uh, women of whatever age, are going to 637 00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:51,759 Speaker 3: be able to read to talk talk about it. Look, 638 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 3: I think women like my mom, there's no way right, 639 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,839 Speaker 3: She's like shut up, I don't even hear about it. 640 00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:02,080 Speaker 3: But like I think my generation up like gen X, 641 00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:06,239 Speaker 3: you know, going forward, we're we're gonna be talking about 642 00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:06,960 Speaker 3: it all. 643 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,200 Speaker 1: One of the things we hope to achieve with, Senora 644 00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:16,840 Speaker 1: Sex said, is having conversations with iconic figures in the 645 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:21,279 Speaker 1: Latino arts and entertainment community like Anna Ortiz. Hearing her 646 00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:24,880 Speaker 1: backstory how she came into these roles and how she 647 00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:29,960 Speaker 1: transformed the roles and how the roles transformed her talking 648 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:33,880 Speaker 1: about sex, sexuality and sex education was a really interesting 649 00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:38,400 Speaker 1: way to dig into her experiences playing these iconic characters 650 00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:39,759 Speaker 1: on our favorite shows. 651 00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:44,560 Speaker 4: Next time on Senora Sex Said, we'll hear from Ira Rodriguez. 652 00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:48,959 Speaker 1: My daughter is my mother's favorite person because my daughter 653 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:52,480 Speaker 1: is very truthful with her and I was too afraid 654 00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:54,479 Speaker 1: to ever be that with my mom, but she would 655 00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:58,840 Speaker 1: be like no grandmother, no Sabandma's chow. 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