1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 1: Hey, it's so great to have you with us on 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: the podcast today. We loved you, guys were praying for 3 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 1: you and just believe you'll be blessed and encouraged. So 4 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 1: all the best to you. Well, God blessed you. Always 5 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: a joy to come into your home. We always come 6 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 1: with good news because I know this, when you seek 7 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:22,080 Speaker 1: after God, he rewards those that sink after him. So 8 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:24,280 Speaker 1: thanks for tuning in today, and I believe that you're 9 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:26,799 Speaker 1: gonna be encouraged and uplifted. And if you're ever in 10 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 1: our area, I hope you'll stop by and visit us 11 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: at our new facility. I promise you will make you 12 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 1: feel right at home and you'll feel a warm welcome 13 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 1: here at Lakewood. But thanks for tuning in today. And 14 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 1: I like to start each week with something kind of funny. 15 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 1: And I heard about this lady. She's surprised a burglar 16 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:46,599 Speaker 1: in her kitchen one night, and she was alone and unarmed, 17 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: and all she could think to do was quote a scripture, 18 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:52,160 Speaker 1: and so she just screamed out Acts two thirty eight, 19 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, the burglar froze in his tracks, 20 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 1: and a few moments the police arrived. And then we're 21 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: amazed at how a woman with no weapon can do this. 22 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: And they asked the burglar, what was it about that 23 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:06,479 Speaker 1: scripture that had such an effect on you? He said, scripture? 24 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 1: What scripture? I thought? She said she had an axe 25 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 1: in two thirty eighths. All right, hold up your Bible 26 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,400 Speaker 1: and say it with me today. This is my Bible. 27 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 1: I am what it says I am. I have what 28 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: it says I have. I can do what it says 29 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 1: I can do. Today I will be talked the word 30 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: of God. I boldly confess. My mind is alurb, my 31 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 1: heart is receptive. I will never be the same. I 32 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 1: am about to receive the incorruptible, indestructible, ever living seed 33 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 1: of the Word of God. I'll never be the same, never, never, never, 34 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 1: I'll never be the same. In Jesus' name, God bless you. 35 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: I want to talk to you today about not being 36 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: negative and critical towards yourself. We all have weaknesses, we 37 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: all have areas that we need to prove in. But 38 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: as long as we're pressing forward, and as long as 39 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: we're getting up each day and doing our very best, 40 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: then we can be assured that God is pleased with us. 41 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: He may not be pleased with every decision we make, 42 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:17,839 Speaker 1: but He is pleased with us. And God wants us 43 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: to feel good about ourselves. He wants us to be 44 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:24,959 Speaker 1: secure and to have healthy self images. But so many 45 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: people today go around with a poor, defeated mentality. They 46 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 1: focus on their faults and weaknesses when they make mistakes. 47 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:36,360 Speaker 1: They're very hard and critical on themselves. They end up 48 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: going around guilty and condemned with this old nag and 49 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 1: feeling on the inside, you're not what you're supposed to be. 50 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: You don't measure up, You've blown it too many times. No, 51 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 1: God knew that we were not going to be perfect. 52 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 1: He knew we were going to all have weaknesses. And 53 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: one of the worst things that you could ever do 54 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: is to go through life being against yourself. And this 55 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 1: is a major problem today. Many people have a war 56 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: going on on the inside. They don't really like who 57 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 1: they are. Well, I'm slow, I'm undisciplined, I'm unattractive, I'm impatient. 58 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 1: They focus on their weaknesses. This is the root cause 59 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: of much of their difficulties. They can't get along in relationships, 60 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 1: they are insecure, they don't enjoy their life, and it's 61 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 1: simply because they are not at peace with who they are. 62 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: And Jesus said here in Matthew twenty two, verse thirty nine, 63 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 1: to love your neighbor as you love yourself. Notice, the 64 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 1: first prerequisite to loving others is to love yourself. And 65 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 1: if you don't have a healthy respect for who you are, 66 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 1: and if you don't learn to accept yourself faulse in all, 67 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 1: then you'll never be able to properly love other people. 68 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 1: And this is destroying many relationships today. I know people 69 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: they think their spouse is the reason they can't get along. 70 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: Sure that it's their coworker, but the fact is they've 71 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 1: got a civil war on the inside. They don't like 72 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: their looks, they don't like where they are in life. 73 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: They're upset because they haven't broken a bad habit. And 74 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 1: now all this poison spills out into these other relationships. 75 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 1: But understand, you can't give away what you don't have. 76 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: If you don't love yourself, you're not going to be 77 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: able to love others. If you're its strife on the inside, 78 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 1: feeling wrong about yourself, feeling unattractive, feeling condemned, then that's 79 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: all you can give away. But on the other hand, 80 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 1: if you'll recognize that God is still working on you, 81 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: and in spite of your flaws and weaknesses, you'll learn 82 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 1: to accept yourself. Then you can give that love away 83 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 1: and have healthy relationships. And some of you today, this 84 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 1: could save your marriage, it could change your relationship. You 85 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 1: think everybody else is the problem, but you've got to 86 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 1: come to peace with who you are. And please recognize, 87 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: if you're negative towards yourself, it's not only affecting you. 88 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 1: It's going to affect your relationship with others, and it's 89 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:09,280 Speaker 1: going to affect your relationship with God. And that's why 90 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:12,279 Speaker 1: it's so important that you feel good about who you are. 91 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 1: You may have some faults, you may have some things 92 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 1: you wish you could change about yourself. Well, join the crowd. 93 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: We all do. You've got to lighten up and quit 94 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 1: being so hard on yourself. I've found a lot of 95 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:28,480 Speaker 1: times we would never criticize another person. We wouldn't say 96 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 1: to our neighbor you're slow, you're unattractive, you're undisciplined. I 97 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:35,600 Speaker 1: don't like you. We never say that to them, but 98 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 1: we don't have any problem saying it to ourself. But understand, 99 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:43,919 Speaker 1: when you criticize yourself, you are criticizing God's very own creation. 100 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 1: We you say, Joel Man, I'm so impatient. I can't 101 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: control my temper. I get upset so easily. Well, the 102 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 1: good news is God is still working on you. You're 103 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 1: not a finished product. And what I'm saying today is 104 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:59,599 Speaker 1: it's okay to like yourself while God is in the 105 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 1: process of changing you. I don't know one person that's 106 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 1: arrived just yet. I don't know one person that doesn't 107 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: need to change in some area of their life. As 108 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 1: long as we're negative and critical toward ourselves, we just 109 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 1: slow down the process. We just make it worse. And 110 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: I'm not talking today about living a sloppy life. I'm 111 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 1: not talking about having a flippant attitude towards sin and 112 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:26,039 Speaker 1: toward our mistakes. I'm talking about people that are striving 113 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:29,480 Speaker 1: for excellence, people that really have a heart to please God, 114 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 1: like I know you do. And if that's you, then 115 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 1: you don't have to go around condemned. You don't have 116 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: to go around with this heavenness because you still struggle 117 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: in some areas. When you make mistakes. You just simply 118 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 1: go to God and say God, I'm sorry, I repent, 119 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 1: help me to do better. Next time and then let 120 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 1: it go. Don't go around beating yourself up for two 121 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: weeks or two months or two years. Shake it off 122 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: and move on. We all have areas to improve in. 123 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: It's like this lady I heard about. She said, God, 124 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: so far, I've done great today. I haven't lied, cheated, 125 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 1: or stolen. I haven't been negative, critical, or judgmental. But God, 126 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:08,720 Speaker 1: I'm going to really need your help today because I'm 127 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: about to get out of bed. But I see too 128 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 1: many people today. They are so down on themselves. Well, 129 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: I'm so overweighted, I've blown my diet, I'm not as 130 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 1: good a parent as I should be. I don't spend 131 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 1: enough time with my children. I'm so undisciplined, and even 132 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 1: cleaned my house last week. Don't quit dwelling on that junk. 133 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: The enemy is called the accuser of the Brethren. There 134 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 1: is nothing that he would love any more than for 135 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: you to go through life with that nagging feeling on 136 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: the inside. Something's wrong with you. God's not please you, 137 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: don't measure up. Don't fall into that trap. You got 138 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: to know you are the apple of God's eye. Before 139 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 1: you were ever even born, God knew you. The scripture 140 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 1: says He has already approved and accepted you. You notice 141 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 1: it doesn't say God approves you is long as you 142 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: live a perfect life. Doesn't say God approves you as 143 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 1: long as you don't have any weaknesses. No, it says 144 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 1: God approves you unconditionally, just like you are. The fact is, 145 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: it's not because of what you have or haven't done. 146 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: It's because of who you are. You are a child 147 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 1: of the Most High God. And my question to you 148 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 1: today is, if God approves you, why don't you start 149 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: approving yourself? Why don't you shake off that old guilt 150 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: and condemnation, shake off what you're not, shake off what 151 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:32,439 Speaker 1: you didn't measure up to, and start feeling good about 152 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 1: who you are. Well, Joey, I don't know if I 153 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 1: believe that we're just poor old sinners. No, we used 154 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 1: to be poor old sinners. But when we came to Christ, 155 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: he washed away our sins. He made us new creatures. 156 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 1: Now we are no longer poor old sinners. We are 157 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: sons and daughters of the Most High God. Instead of 158 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 1: just crawling around the floor with that poor old me mentality, 159 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 1: why don't you step up to the dinner table. God's 160 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 1: got a beautiful bank. Quit prepared for you. He's got 161 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: an abundant life. No matter how many mistakes you've made 162 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 1: in the past, no matter how many things you struggle with. 163 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:11,439 Speaker 1: Right now, please understand you are not a weak worm 164 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 1: of the dust. You've got royal blood flowing through your veins. 165 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 1: You have been destined to live in victory. And you 166 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:20,680 Speaker 1: may not be all you want to be today, but 167 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 1: at least you can look back and say, thank God, 168 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:25,680 Speaker 1: I'm not what I used to be. And see, friends, 169 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 1: the enemy doesn't like you here in the fact that 170 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 1: you have been made righteous. He wants you to have 171 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: a sin consciousness, but God wants you to have a 172 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:39,079 Speaker 1: righteousness consciousness. In other words, you've got to quit thinking 173 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: about your mistakes, quit thinking about what you're not, quit 174 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 1: thinking about how you don't measure up. You need to 175 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: start dwelling on the fact that you've been chosen, you've 176 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 1: been set apart, you've been approved, you've been accepted, you 177 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:55,719 Speaker 1: have been made righteous. The scripture says in Ephesians six 178 00:09:55,880 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 1: fourteen to put on the breastplate of God's approve. That 179 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:04,319 Speaker 1: means every morning, no matter how we feel, we need 180 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:07,079 Speaker 1: to get out of bed and just boldly declare Father, 181 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: I thank you that you have approved me, thank you 182 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 1: that you are pleased with me. Thank you that I 183 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:17,680 Speaker 1: am forgiven. I know that I am a friend of God. See, 184 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 1: we need to do that every single morning. Doesn't happen automatically. 185 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 1: Just like we put on our clothes, you need to 186 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 1: put on the breastplate of God's approval. You're talking about 187 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 1: getting rid of guilt, condemnation, inferiority, unworthiness, nothing. They'll do 188 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 1: it like that, and all through the day, everywhere you go. 189 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 1: You need to just imagine, right across your chest in 190 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 1: big bold letters, it says, approved by Almighty God. Those 191 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:46,199 Speaker 1: old condemning voices come back. Well, you're not this, You're 192 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: not that. You blew it over here, or you need 193 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:50,959 Speaker 1: to take a good look in the mirror. Approved by 194 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:54,680 Speaker 1: Almighty God. I think about even as a parent. I 195 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: know my children aren't perfect, they have weaknesses, they make mistakes, 196 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:03,319 Speaker 1: but also know that they're growing, they're learning. And if 197 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:05,200 Speaker 1: you were to ask me if I was pleased with 198 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 1: my children, the first thing I would do is not 199 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 1: make a list of all their faults. I wouldn't think 200 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 1: about all they've done wrong last week. Now, I'd tell 201 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:16,439 Speaker 1: you without even thinking twice. Yes, I'm pleased with them. 202 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 1: They are great children. I'd tell you everything I like 203 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 1: about it. I'm tell you they're loving, caring, fun, good looking, attractive, talented. 204 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 1: I mean, they're just like their father. And what's so 205 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 1: funny about that? But that's exactly the way God sees you. 206 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: He's not focused on your faults. He's not keeping a 207 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: list of your shortcomings. God is not looking at everything 208 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 1: you've done wrong. He's looking at what you're doing right. 209 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 1: He's looking at the fact that you chose to take 210 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 1: time to come today. He's looking at the fact that 211 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: you're kind and courteous to people. He's looking at the 212 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 1: fact that you have a desire to know him. Now, 213 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 1: I'm asking you to get in agreement with God and 214 00:11:57,360 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 1: start feeling good about who you are. You may have 215 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 1: some areas you need to improve in, but you're growing, 216 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,439 Speaker 1: you're making progress, and I want you to be free 217 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: from all this heaviness that tries to burden you down. 218 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:12,680 Speaker 1: I found the enemy will always tell you you're never 219 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 1: doing enough. You're not working hard enough, you're not being 220 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 1: a good enough parent. You gave, but you didn't give enough. 221 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 1: You came to church, but you were late, you ate 222 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 1: pretty good yesterday, and you shouldn't even that last dessert. 223 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 1: Don't quit believe in his lies. You have a thousand 224 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 1: good qualities about you to every one negative quality. Well, Joel, 225 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: I'm just so impatient. Well, maybe that's true. But have 226 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:39,559 Speaker 1: you ever thought about the fact you're always on time, 227 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 1: you're persistent, you're determined. Well, I don't think I'm as 228 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:45,320 Speaker 1: good a mom as I should be. Well, maybe not, 229 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:47,680 Speaker 1: But have you ever noticed your children are doing great 230 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:50,679 Speaker 1: in school? Your children never miss a male Well, I'm 231 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:52,719 Speaker 1: not a very good husband, Joel. Yeah, but you never 232 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 1: miss a house payment. You provide a great living for 233 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 1: your family. Well, I've made a lot of mistakes in 234 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 1: the past. Yeah, but you chose to come today, chose 235 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,320 Speaker 1: to watch today. That's a pretty great choice. Why don't 236 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 1: you take off your old rags a condemnation. Why don't 237 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 1: you take off those old rags of condemnation and start 238 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 1: putting on your robe of righteousness, put on the breastplate 239 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 1: of God's approval. Friends, I want you to feel good 240 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 1: about yourself. I know that when you are positive toward yourself, 241 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:29,199 Speaker 1: you are in agreement with God. Well, Joel, what about 242 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:31,840 Speaker 1: that mistake I made last week? What about that time 243 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 1: I failed last year? Listen, the moment you repented, God 244 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 1: not only forgave you, He forgot about it. He doesn't 245 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:41,679 Speaker 1: even remember it anymore. Now, why don't you quit bringing 246 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 1: up what God has already forgotten? Why don't you let 247 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 1: it go and start feeling good about who you are? 248 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:50,680 Speaker 1: See so many times we think God is keeping that 249 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 1: list of all of our mistakes. You can see him 250 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 1: up there in heaven. Whoops, they failed there. Let me 251 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 1: get that down. And oh I heard that comment. Gab 252 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 1: will make a special note of that one. Look, they 253 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:02,960 Speaker 1: came to church, but they were late. Let's just give 254 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:07,320 Speaker 1: him half credit. Now, that's not the way our God is. 255 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 1: God is for you. God is on your side. He 256 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 1: is the best friend that you could ever even have. 257 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 1: The great news is God is not looking at what 258 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 1: you've done wrong. He's looking at what you're doing right. 259 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 1: He's not focused on what you are, He's focused on 260 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: what you can become. I love the story of the 261 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 1: prodigal son. This young man left home and he spent 262 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 1: all of his money just wasting and was living a 263 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 1: very wild wife, making terrible decisions. If God would want 264 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 1: anybody to feel bad about himself cheery, it would be him. 265 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 1: He had just totally blown. Anybody should have a weak 266 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 1: worm of the dust mentality and feel like a failure, 267 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 1: you'd think it would be this young man. Do you 268 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 1: know the story when he decided to come back home, 269 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 1: his father saw him a long way off, and this father, 270 00:14:56,920 --> 00:15:00,160 Speaker 1: who represents God in the story, took off running to 271 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 1: his son. That's the only picture we have of God 272 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: running in the Bible. What's God running to one of 273 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 1: the great saints of old? Is he running to the 274 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:11,360 Speaker 1: apostle Paul? Is he running to one of his disciples. No, 275 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 1: God is running to a young man that has faults 276 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:17,040 Speaker 1: and weaknesses. He's running to a young man that's made mistakes. 277 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 1: And the father said, go get the best rows, go 278 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:22,880 Speaker 1: kill the fatted cat. We're going to have a party. 279 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: My son has made it home. And a lot of 280 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 1: times today, you know, it doesn't make a lot of sense. 281 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 1: We think, you know what he deserves, judgment. He's guilty, 282 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 1: he's wrong. But God was not looking at what he 283 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 1: was doing wrong. God looked at the fact that at 284 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 1: least he was trying that young man, no doubt, made 285 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 1: a thousand poor choices. But God was focused on that 286 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 1: one good choice. And it's sad to say, but a 287 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 1: lot of people today would have just written him off. 288 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 1: He deserves to feel bad about himself, he deserves to 289 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 1: wall around in the pit. But thank God, that's not 290 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 1: the way our God is. I remember one time years ago, 291 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:58,840 Speaker 1: my father went to a high school football game with 292 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 1: a friend of ours name Jesse, and Jesse was so 293 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 1: proud of his son, Jeff. Jeff played on the defensive 294 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 1: side and so he very rarely would get to touch 295 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 1: the ball. But during this game, there was a short 296 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 1: punt and Jeff caught the ball and he took a 297 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 1: half a step this way and a half a step 298 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 1: this way, and then about ten guys clobbered him. I mean, 299 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 1: he didn't move one inch forward. It was just here here, 300 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 1: and then he was done. And my father was feeling 301 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 1: kind of bad for Jesse up there. But about that time, 302 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 1: Jesse punched daddy and he said, hey, pastor, did you 303 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 1: see those two good moves? See, only a father can 304 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 1: see the two good moves rather than the fact that 305 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: his son just got tackled by everybody but the cheerleaders. 306 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 1: That's exactly how God sees us. He's not looking at 307 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 1: the fact that we got knocked down. He's not looking 308 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 1: at all the mistakes we've made. God sees you two 309 00:16:57,080 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 1: good moves. Now I'm asking you today to start feeling 310 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 1: good about who you are. You may have some weaknesses, 311 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 1: you may not control your temper like you know you should, 312 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 1: or maybe you slip and say some things that you 313 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 1: wish you had enough, But you don't have to live 314 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: guilty and condemned. Once you repent, and once you get 315 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:16,679 Speaker 1: up every day and just do your very best, you 316 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: can be assured God is pleased with you. He's in 317 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 1: the process of changing you. And that's why I can 318 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:24,640 Speaker 1: get up every morning and even though I'm not perfect, 319 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 1: even though I make mistakes, I can just boldly say God, 320 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 1: I know you approve me, and I feel good about 321 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:34,440 Speaker 1: who I am. Listen, when you do that, you give 322 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:37,439 Speaker 1: the enemy a nervous breakdown. He wants you to go 323 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:42,800 Speaker 1: around guilty, condemned, inferior feeling wrong on the inside. That's 324 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:46,399 Speaker 1: why he constantly bombards us with all these accusations. Well, 325 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 1: you're too impatient, you're too rude, you're not a good 326 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:52,120 Speaker 1: enough parent. Now you need to put your shoulders back, 327 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: hold your head up high. You've already been approved and 328 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:58,120 Speaker 1: accepted by Almighty God. And you may have a lot 329 00:17:58,160 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 1: wrong with you, but let me tell you, you have 330 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 1: a lot right with you. You may have a long 331 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:04,200 Speaker 1: way to go, but you need to take a look 332 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 1: back at how far you've already come. For some of you, 333 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 1: you've come a long way. Baby, God is pleased with you. Well, 334 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 1: you say, Joey, you're making it too easy. You're giving 335 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:18,119 Speaker 1: people a license to sin. No, you don't need a license. 336 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 1: If you want to sin, you can sin. I sin 337 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 1: all I want to. The good news is I don't 338 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:24,600 Speaker 1: want to. I want to live a life that's pleasing 339 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:26,879 Speaker 1: to God. I want to live a life of excellence 340 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 1: and integrity. And I'm asking you today to quit thinking 341 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:35,160 Speaker 1: about everything that's wrong with you. Quit taking an inventory 342 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 1: of what you're not. The scripture says in Hebrews to 343 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 1: look away from everything that distracts. Do you know if 344 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:45,800 Speaker 1: you over analyze yourself and you're constantly picking yourself apart, 345 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 1: then you're going to go around depressed and defeated. You've 346 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:51,680 Speaker 1: got to look away from that. Know that you're changing, 347 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 1: Know that you're making progress, and it's a process. It 348 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:58,679 Speaker 1: doesn't happen overnight. The Bible says God changes us little 349 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 1: by little. When he said, Joel, I got all these weaknesses. Man, 350 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:04,919 Speaker 1: if you only knew me. Now, listen, if you didn't 351 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:07,919 Speaker 1: have any weaknesses, you wouldn't even need God. If we 352 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:10,399 Speaker 1: didn't have any weaknesses, we could do everything in our 353 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:13,680 Speaker 1: own strength. I think about the Apostle Paul. He wrote 354 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 1: over half the New Testament. Yet he said the things 355 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:19,120 Speaker 1: I want to do I don't do, and the things 356 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 1: I know I shouldn't do, I end up doing. He 357 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 1: was saying, I'm not perfect. Same things we struggle with. 358 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:28,800 Speaker 1: Weakness is shortcomings. Here's the good news. God's power shows 359 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 1: up the greatest in our weaknesses. When we are weak, 360 00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:34,880 Speaker 1: he is strong. You got to just learn to lean 361 00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:39,919 Speaker 1: on God instead of being negative and critical towards yourself. 362 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:43,119 Speaker 1: Just say God, I'm leaning on you. I'm asking you 363 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,679 Speaker 1: to help me to beat this bad habit. God, i 364 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:47,879 Speaker 1: know I'm weak in this area, but I'm asking you 365 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 1: to help me have a better opinion about myself. See 366 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 1: in your weaknesses, whatever they may be. Instead of getting 367 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 1: all down on yourself, just ask God to help you 368 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 1: and you'll see his power show up like never before. 369 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: And I really believe God allows us all to have 370 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 1: some weaknesses so that we'll always have to trust him. 371 00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 1: And so if you're sitting around today waiting to feel 372 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 1: good about yourself, until you get rid of everything you 373 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:15,160 Speaker 1: struggle with and until you feel like you're perfect, you're 374 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 1: going to be sitting around your whole lifetime. Well, Joe, 375 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 1: I'd feel good about myself if I could drop twenty pounds, 376 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 1: feel good about myself, if i'd be a little more patient, 377 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 1: if i'd be a little more understanding. Now I'm asking 378 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 1: you to start feeling good about yourself right now. You're 379 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 1: not perfect, but I know you're trying. And God looks 380 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 1: at your heart, He sees the inside. He is changing 381 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:38,879 Speaker 1: us little by little. We're all at different stages, and 382 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 1: our attitude should be God. I know I have these 383 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 1: areas I need to improve in, but I'm doing my 384 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:47,520 Speaker 1: best and God, I also know that you have already 385 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:51,399 Speaker 1: accepted and approved me. So I'm gonna start accepting myself 386 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 1: and I'm making up my mind. I'm going to go 387 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:57,160 Speaker 1: through this day feeling good about me, and when those 388 00:20:57,160 --> 00:21:00,400 Speaker 1: old condemning thoughts come back, telling you ab you still 389 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 1: struggling in this area. You can answer back, yes, that's true, 390 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,400 Speaker 1: but I know that I'm changing. Yeah, but you lost 391 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:09,119 Speaker 1: your temper yesterday. You blew it. That's true, but I 392 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:12,200 Speaker 1: repented now I know I'm forgiving. Well, you didn't get 393 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,199 Speaker 1: as much done at work this week as you should have. 394 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:16,720 Speaker 1: Maybe not, but I did my best, so I feel 395 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:21,400 Speaker 1: good about me. See, you cannot allow these condemning voices 396 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:24,159 Speaker 1: to take root and set the direction for your life. 397 00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 1: If you do, it's going to ruin your whole day. 398 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:28,639 Speaker 1: I know a lot of people they just swallow that 399 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:31,400 Speaker 1: junk and they get in agreement with it. Yeah. Man, 400 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,119 Speaker 1: I'm a failure. I can't do anything right. Don't have 401 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:37,119 Speaker 1: what it takes. No, get rid of that junk and 402 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:40,160 Speaker 1: keep your life moving in a positive direction. I heard 403 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: about this man. He and his small son were out 404 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 1: taking a walk through the mountains one day, and all 405 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:47,920 Speaker 1: of a sudden, this little boy slipped, and he slid 406 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 1: about twenty or thirty yards down the mountain side, and 407 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 1: finally he grabbed onto this bush and he screamed out. 408 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:58,919 Speaker 1: Somebody helped me, and this voice boomed back. Somebody helped me. 409 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 1: Lookin kind of frustrated, he said, who are you? The 410 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 1: voice shouted back, who are you? He got kind of aggravated. 411 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:09,920 Speaker 1: He said, you're a coward. The voice shouted back, you're 412 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:13,400 Speaker 1: a coward. He said, you're a fool. The voice shouted back, 413 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:16,160 Speaker 1: you're a fool. About that time, his dad got down 414 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 1: there and he looked up. He said, Dad, who is that? 415 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 1: And his dad kind of laughed. He said, son, that's 416 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:24,880 Speaker 1: called an echo, but it's also called life. He said, son, 417 00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:27,560 Speaker 1: let me show you something. The dad shouted out, you're 418 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 1: a winner. The voice shouted back, you're a winner. Dad, 419 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,920 Speaker 1: and shouted out, you've got what it takes. The voice 420 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 1: boom back, You've got what it takes. Dad shouted out, 421 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 1: you can make it. The voice shouted out, you can 422 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 1: make it. He said, son, that's exactly how it is 423 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 1: in life. Whatever you send out is always going to 424 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:51,040 Speaker 1: come back to you. Let me ask you this today. 425 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 1: What are you sending out about yourself? Man? I'm a failure, 426 00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 1: I'm an attractive I'm undisciplined, I got a terrible temper. 427 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 1: Nobody likes to be around me. Or you need to 428 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 1: start sending out I'm approved, I'm accepted, I'm the righteousness 429 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 1: of God. I am creative, I am talented. I am 430 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:13,880 Speaker 1: more than a conqueror. Make sure that you're sending out 431 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 1: good things about yourself. I was thinking about when Jesus 432 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 1: was baptized. He came up out of the water and 433 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 1: a voice boomed out of the heavens, and God said, 434 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:27,000 Speaker 1: this is my beloved son in whom I am well pleased. 435 00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 1: I believe God is saying that to every one of 436 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:34,200 Speaker 1: you today. He is well pleased with you. You say, Joel, 437 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 1: God couldn't say that to me. You don't know the 438 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 1: life I've lived. You don't know the things I struggle 439 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:41,679 Speaker 1: with right now, Now listen to me clearly. Let this 440 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 1: sink deep down onto the inside. God is pleased with you. 441 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:49,320 Speaker 1: He is already accepted and approved you. And no, he 442 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,080 Speaker 1: may not be pleased with every decision you may, but 443 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 1: God is pleased with you. What a tragedy to go 444 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: through life being against yourself. Don't fall into that trap. 445 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 1: They have areas you need to improve in, but don't 446 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 1: let that stop you from feeling good about who you 447 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 1: are right now. I found a lot of times we 448 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 1: condemn ourselves so much. The enemy doesn't have to. We're 449 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 1: always thinking about our mistakes and what we're not and 450 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 1: how we haven't measured up. Why don't you let all 451 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: that go. You're growing, you're changing. God is pleased with 452 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 1: you right now, and it's okay to feel good about 453 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,120 Speaker 1: who you are. Some of you. This is the whole 454 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,919 Speaker 1: reason that you're not enjoying your life. You've got this 455 00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 1: war going on on the inside. But if you can't 456 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 1: get along with yourself, you'll not only not get along 457 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 1: with others, but you won't be able to have a 458 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:44,360 Speaker 1: proper relationship with Almighty God. You know as well as 459 00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:46,520 Speaker 1: I do. If you don't think that God is pleased 460 00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:49,880 Speaker 1: with you, then you won't go to God boldly. You'll 461 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,440 Speaker 1: go around with a weak worm of the dust mentality. 462 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 1: I made all these mistakes, and I've got all these weaknesses, 463 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:59,280 Speaker 1: and God, I know you could never bless me. Think 464 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 1: about how that make God feel. Here. We are His 465 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:05,400 Speaker 1: sons and daughters. We've been chosen, we've been approved, we've 466 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:09,719 Speaker 1: been accepted so many times. We believe these lies and 467 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:13,679 Speaker 1: we go around with this poor, defeated mentality. Please understand, 468 00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:17,160 Speaker 1: God is pleased with you right now. Now. I want 469 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,879 Speaker 1: to challenge you again today to get up every morning 470 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 1: and put on that breastplate of God's approval, put your 471 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:27,479 Speaker 1: shoulders back, Quit thinking about what you're not. Make the 472 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 1: most of this day. Friends, you are a child of 473 00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 1: the most High God. Don't waste another minute going around 474 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:37,359 Speaker 1: feeling bad about yourself. You may have some weaknesses, you 475 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,680 Speaker 1: may have some shortcomings, but the good news is God 476 00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:44,160 Speaker 1: is still working on you. Quit over analyzing yourself, quit 477 00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:46,959 Speaker 1: picking yourself apart, and just get up every day and 478 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 1: do your very, very best knowing that God is changing you. 479 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 1: My prayer today is that every one of you is 480 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:56,120 Speaker 1: going to go out of here feeling good about who 481 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,240 Speaker 1: you are, and that you're going to be free from 482 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 1: these burdens of guilt and low self esteem. And now 483 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 1: I know this. If you will get in agreement with 484 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:09,000 Speaker 1: God and be positive toward yourself, and then God promises 485 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,680 Speaker 1: he will change you from glory to glory. You will 486 00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 1: rise higher and higher, and you'll become awe that God's 487 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 1: created you to be Amen, you receive it today, or 488 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 1: he never likes to pose our broadcast without giving you 489 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,640 Speaker 1: an opportunity to make Jesus the lord of your life. 490 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:29,440 Speaker 1: Would you pray with me? Just say Lord Jesus, I'll 491 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 1: repent of my sins. Come into my heart. I make 492 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:38,200 Speaker 1: you my lord and savior. If you prayed that simple prayer, 493 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 1: we believe you got born again. Get in a good 494 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 1: Bible based church. Keep God first place. He's going to 495 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:45,720 Speaker 1: take you places that you've never dreamed of. 496 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:50,600 Speaker 2: When God created the world, he did it specifically with 497 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:55,160 Speaker 2: you and mind. He used his words. He spoke everything 498 00:26:55,200 --> 00:27:04,879 Speaker 2: into existence, late oceans and dry land, plans, sun and stars, animals, 499 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:10,760 Speaker 2: man and woman. Your words have that same creative power. 500 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:13,359 Speaker 1: If you want to know what you're going to be 501 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,399 Speaker 1: like five years from now, listen to what you're saying 502 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 1: about yourself. You are prophesying your future, and too often 503 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:25,000 Speaker 1: we don't realize we're defeating ourselves with our words. I'll 504 00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:29,479 Speaker 1: never get healthy, I'm not attractive, this dreams impossible. Instead 505 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:32,720 Speaker 1: of limiting your future, why don't you start blessing your future. 506 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 1: If you'll change your words, you can change your world. 507 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,399 Speaker 1: I have a new book called Speak the Blessing. You 508 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 1: want to help you to speak positive, faith filled words. 509 00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,440 Speaker 1: There are declarations in it that you can make over 510 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:49,640 Speaker 1: your family, your health, your finances, and your future when 511 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,680 Speaker 1: you get your words aligned with what God says, you'll 512 00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:54,720 Speaker 1: see His favor in greater ways. 513 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,720 Speaker 2: As our thank you for your gift of any amount 514 00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 2: to the ministry this month, we want to send you 515 00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:03,760 Speaker 2: Speak the Blessing. Send your words in the direction you 516 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,840 Speaker 2: want your life to go. You can begin to enjoy 517 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:12,240 Speaker 2: a life filled with freedom, joy, health, success, and creativity 518 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:17,320 Speaker 2: as you discover the authority and power of speaking God's word. Yes, 519 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:22,040 Speaker 2: Speak the Blessing will unlock life changing possibilities that are unlimited. 520 00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 1: When you declare what God says about you, I'm strong, 521 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:29,679 Speaker 1: I'm healthy, I'm favored. You are blessing your life. I 522 00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:32,880 Speaker 1: hope you'll request your copy to day. Remember you can 523 00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:37,840 Speaker 1: watch the services live online every Sunday, download our daily podcast, 524 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 1: watch on YouTube, listen on Serious exam. We'll keep you 525 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 1: encouraged and inspired. 526 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,560 Speaker 2: Be sure to request your copy of Speak the Blessing today. 527 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:48,680 Speaker 2: Visit Joelosne dot. 528 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 1: Com or call eighty eight five six seven. Joel