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Speaker 3: was researching vacation options for our tenth anniversary next year,

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Speaker 3: and meanwhile, he Mal thirty nine was running around with

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Speaker 3: another woman. She's either twenty five or twenty seven. Can't

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Speaker 2: They're all this, you're over here being a.

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Speaker 3: Travel agent and he's over there catching tail half his age.

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Speaker 4: Yaike zykee mumbike.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I made the saying right, Yeah, that's what they're saying.

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Speaker 3: I never thought heartbreak was this real, but he broke

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Speaker 3: my heart. I've known people who have gotten a divorce

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Speaker 3: and you have to live separately for a year before

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Speaker 3: you can get a divorce. Is that that's a certain countries, right?

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Speaker 4: Is that right in the some places? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let me know if this is in your country, everyone,

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Speaker 3: but I wanted to be prepared, so I'm made an

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Speaker 3: apployment with a lawyer.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 3: It was probably the best thing I have ever done.

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Speaker 3: Calling it she gets with the lawyer, I.

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Speaker 4: Think I think maybe mem says lawyer, be like I'm pregnant. Now, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I wonder if the lawyer like proposes. I actually didn't

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Speaker 4: really get that when I said it.

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Speaker 3: But oh I got it.

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Speaker 4: But I think the lawyer might propose. And that's the

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Speaker 4: best news ever.

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Speaker 3: What do you think you on? What? Oh?

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Speaker 4: What do you think you on?

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Speaker 3: Sorry?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what did he say?

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Speaker 4: I thought you said? What do you think? He young?

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Speaker 3: And I was like, what do you think keon.

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Speaker 2: I think she's get a lot of money and she's

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Speaker 3: But b there we go.

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Speaker 4: It's good.

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Speaker 2: I hope she don't need no lawyer. He don't need

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Speaker 2: no man period.

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Speaker 3: She told me that in our state, alimony is forbidden

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Speaker 3: if there's adult tree.

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Speaker 4: Let's go.

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Speaker 3: Since my husband cheated, I wouldn't have to pay alimony.

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Speaker 3: I was prepared that I would have to pay out

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Speaker 3: the notes, but I have proof that he cheated, that

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Speaker 3: he gave me himself. I wouldn't have to pay him.

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Speaker 3: This was the best news I could have gotten.

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Speaker 4: You stupid, stupid man. You've turned yourself in. How our

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Speaker 4: little and stupid of you to do.

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Speaker 3: Also, the living separately for a year only applies at

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Speaker 3: no fault divorces in my state. Since I have proof

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Speaker 3: behalf based on adult Tree. Technically my husband and I

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Speaker 3: still live together. Are least expires on the thirty first,

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Speaker 3: It was the best news I could have gotten. I

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Speaker 3: got comments. This should be everywhere. There should be a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I guess like some people just don't

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Speaker 3: Governments, some governments don't care about cheating that much, is

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Speaker 4: Yeah right, yeah, well yeah, because some people don't care

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Speaker 3: I would like to see how many the governments that

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's honestly something I was thinking about too. It's like, well,

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Speaker 4: not saying that that's the reason, but it's possibily.

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Speaker 3: John says, Oh, he got saved. Can find says, maybe

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Speaker 3: it's like the movie. It follows like, if she f's

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Speaker 3: you ever seen it?

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Speaker 3: Oh, I see. Well, then Florida don't care if you're

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Speaker 3: How would you wouldn't everything be bere maternal money marital money?

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Speaker 4: Interesting, Florida doesn't care about cheating unless the cheating person

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Speaker 4: Sorry that really, I just totally got something.

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Speaker 2: She's still on that story Riley through me for a

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Speaker 2: little but did you were there? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and now I'm here, I'm not and I'm not

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Speaker 3: If you are the breadwinner, has he been spending your

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Speaker 3: you expected. Keep us updated. Coming three. She needs to

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Speaker 4: That would be I mean, how long is it usually

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Speaker 3: I know people that are like, still, how's your parents'

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Speaker 2: That took about ten years for them to get divorced. Yesh, Yeah, like.

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Speaker 3: They put the papers in and it took ten years.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so people like, wait, so many years.

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Speaker 2: I know, there's some divorces that happened pretty quickly, but

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Speaker 3: I was talking to my friend who his mom was

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Speaker 3: going on now. It's been six years, six or seven years.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, well I can't imagine. Well you lived it,

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Speaker 3: Update one and a half months later. This is kind

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Speaker 4: Oh, so you thought you could just cheat on me

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Speaker 3: I said no way and told him to have his

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Speaker 3: He was upset and almost in tears when I said

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Speaker 3: Would you wish your parents did this?

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Speaker 2: I really do wish my parents went through the divorce

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Speaker 2: a lot quicker. Yeah, ten years, especially going through high

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Speaker 3: Yeah, your dad's a charm too, love you're dead.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is tough.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no this I mean did they say there was

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Speaker 4: So I didn't hear about any no kids, And.

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Speaker 2: I think this was like pretty I mean, it's very

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Speaker 2: funny that he was like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

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Speaker 2: I gave you all the proof of evidence and you

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Speaker 4: Kind of like, what do you mean? I screwed myself over?

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Speaker 4: What do you? What do you mean? I have consequences

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Speaker 4: to my eyes.

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Speaker 2: I cheated on you, Sean exactly, gave you the evidence

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Speaker 2: and you have the audacity to just divorce me and

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Speaker 2: do all of this, And dare you?

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Speaker 3: Torio says I. I wish mine would have divorced in

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Speaker 3: my twenties. Oh gosh, that's gracious.

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Speaker 4: I know they divorced later than that.

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Speaker 3: I know a guy who's like twenty one twenty two,

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Speaker 3: got divorced at eighteen or nineteen and is now getting.

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Speaker 4: Remarried at twenty one or twenty two.

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Speaker 3: Is my Christian friend.

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm assuming.

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Speaker 2: Why'd he divorce in the first place.

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Speaker 3: They got married too young, and I don't think they

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Speaker 3: like thought it through. Oh wow, with with a bunch

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Speaker 4: I had this one one marriage. We got divorced because

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Speaker 4: we got married too young. What's another two years years

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like that's wild, that's wild. That's not just pocket change.

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Speaker 3: wants to reconcile. I'm sorry you have to go through this,

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Speaker 4: Didn't realize that was sory. I'm bad, but that's crazy.

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Speaker 4: Good for her, Good for her, Yeah, keeping her money.

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Speaker 4: That would suck if he screwed her over like that,

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Speaker 3: he deserves that fruit basket.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, get him that that fruit basket.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. My husband and I are thirty six. We will

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Speaker 4: If we do the math there, that'll be twenty one

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Speaker 3: Everyone's saying, we need watch Doctor Phil. Watch us. We're

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Speaker 4: Come on, Well, yeah, I guess so I read a

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Speaker 3: Sam was on a Doctor Phil episode.

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Speaker 4: I heard about that.

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Speaker 2: You were too. I was in the background for Sam

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I forgot that you didn't know how

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Speaker 4: long have you been friends with.

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Speaker 4: I'll take it. Yeh that's crazy. I forget how like

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Speaker 2: You watched that episode?

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Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 2: You blatantly see me.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my gosh, oh really hard to look at.

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Speaker 2: He's like I stick out, not like a sore thumb,

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Speaker 2: I have distinct features that you're like.

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Speaker 4: Christina Staiko says, get Doctor Phil on, make him bring

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Speaker 3: Doctor Phil'd be crazy. He's super old. Now. I don't

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Speaker 3: Sam was on Johonna and Samaran for him. He said

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Speaker 3: It's okay.

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Speaker 2: It was only a couple of three.

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Speaker 3: Year Doctor Fiel's a scammer.

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Speaker 2: It's just because he's not really a doctor.

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Speaker 4: It's television. That's what they do on there. Every reality

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Speaker 3: You need to measure me tonight.

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Speaker 3: What does what for a suit? Excuse me for a suit?

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Speaker 3: She's been she she said, I she said last night,

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Speaker 3: I can't find it.

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Speaker 4: Take his measurements for a suit?

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Speaker 2: That was the craziest pause of all. Aggressively, you need

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Speaker 3: But take got got measured and sent it in, disregarded

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Speaker 4: What is it like a cheaper place?

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Speaker 3: I know is that how much?

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Speaker 4: Is? Is that good or bad?

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Speaker 3: Say? Bad? Oh that was a private message. Sorry but

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Speaker 4: All right, since that dog, I was glad we're figuring

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Speaker 4: it out.

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Speaker 2: What happened.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. Just look at the mad chat.

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Speaker 4: She's been here, so I think.

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Speaker 2: It'll be fun. Maybe I don't know. Maybe it was

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Speaker 3: It was supposed to be private.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, okay, I just don't know about suits much.

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Speaker 4: But i'll take your measurements.

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Speaker 3: Oh so doctor feels a fake doctor?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I tell you he's fake doctor.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's not a real doctor. And then it's like

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Speaker 2: It's like reality TV.

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Speaker 4: It's just yeah, it's TV. It's TV. Don't we so

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Speaker 4: not really. Anyway, We've got another story cover coming right

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Speaker 4: up here. And then I might went a little snacky afterwards.

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Speaker 3: If that's a lot, dude, I got snacks for me today.

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Speaker 3: Come downstairs. Guess who found them?

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Speaker 2: Me?

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Speaker 4: I found. I was so excited because Riley got this

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Speaker 3: Nope? Not all Meing says, are we going to expect

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Speaker 3: a special Valentine stream?

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Speaker 2: Riley keon Aji Chat.

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Speaker 3: You can tell them a little bit.

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Speaker 2: We have some fun stuff National Single Awareness Day.

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Speaker 3: We'll have a little segment for the single people. But

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Speaker 4: Oh really, I actually have no idea, but I but

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Speaker 3: I told you about this like Monday. You get on

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Speaker 3: to me for not listening to you. Just because people

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Speaker 2: You didn't say you didn't say excuse me for her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah you have to.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't. She's fine.

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Speaker 4: She has to say excuse me, not me, not you. Yes,

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Speaker 4: I did anyways, I don't know all the details.

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Speaker 4: same time.

445
00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:44,120
Speaker 3: Listen, you're gonna get John to day. I asked Sean

446
00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:45,879
Speaker 3: if he would like that, but he said no. So

447
00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:48,719
Speaker 3: but we do have someone maybe getting a date.

448
00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:50,200
Speaker 2: It's gonna be a fun day, just to.

449
00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:52,680
Speaker 4: Be super me, the dogs, just to pair up the dogs.

450
00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:53,920
Speaker 2: Be ready.

451
00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:57,199
Speaker 3: I'm having a Valentine's Day Botox special for nine dollars

452
00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:57,640
Speaker 3: a unit.

453
00:18:58,040 --> 00:19:00,560
Speaker 2: That sounds oddly cheap, like really cheap.

454
00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:01,879
Speaker 3: How BIG's a unit? We don't know that.

455
00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:02,359
Speaker 2: I don't know.

456
00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:05,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, how much are they usually? Because that sounds insanely cheap?

457
00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:06,920
Speaker 4: All right, but I trust you.

458
00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:08,800
Speaker 2: We're getting we're getting off track here.

459
00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:10,879
Speaker 4: Sure we gotta study. Let's read it.

460
00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:14,480
Speaker 2: Uh, just making sure you good, Angie, yep three two one.

461
00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:18,240
Speaker 4: I took away my wife's phone because it's taking all

462
00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:18,960
Speaker 4: her time.

463
00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:20,640
Speaker 3: She won't get off that dang phone.

464
00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:24,119
Speaker 4: My forty two male wife thirty seven female has always

465
00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:26,720
Speaker 4: been a very chatty woman. She's pretty much on the

466
00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:29,320
Speaker 4: phone all day with her sister in law, her friends,

467
00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:32,040
Speaker 4: family members, et cetera. She hangs up with one of

468
00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:35,680
Speaker 4: them and she either calls another one or another one calls.

469
00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,880
Speaker 3: Her, Yeah, her girl friends.

470
00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:42,160
Speaker 4: This hasn't bothered me as I'm not home all day,

471
00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:44,600
Speaker 4: but recently it started to interfere with the time that

472
00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:47,119
Speaker 4: we spend together. By the way, this comes from frustrated

473
00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:49,240
Speaker 4: with phone and if you want to submit your own stories,

474
00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:51,520
Speaker 4: go to the r slash Okay storytime separate it and

475
00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:52,520
Speaker 4: I'm Angie.

476
00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:54,240
Speaker 3: I'm Riley, I'm ke On, and we're here to.

477
00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:56,640
Speaker 4: Give good advice goofily, But we don't have all the answers.

478
00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:58,399
Speaker 4: We just know what we would do in these situations.

479
00:19:58,400 --> 00:19:59,840
Speaker 4: So let us know what you would do in the comments.

480
00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:03,200
Speaker 4: Oh Pete says, I come down to breakfast and she's

481
00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:06,080
Speaker 4: on the phone literally the entire time I'm sitting there,

482
00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:07,840
Speaker 4: She's gossiping on the phone with someone.

483
00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:08,439
Speaker 3: Excuse me.

484
00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:10,600
Speaker 4: That used to be our time to talk in the morning,

485
00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:12,919
Speaker 4: but now she sits there and talks to other people.

486
00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:15,040
Speaker 4: I've brought this up to her and she simply said,

487
00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:17,359
Speaker 4: she works, that's the only time I have to speak

488
00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:20,480
Speaker 4: to her. This is also extended to dinnertime. Oh boy,

489
00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,199
Speaker 4: I arrive home. She'll have this big dinner cooked, and

490
00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:25,440
Speaker 4: just as we are sitting down to eat, her phone

491
00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,480
Speaker 4: will ring. She'll tell me and the kids to go

492
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:30,239
Speaker 4: ahead and eat, pick it up, walk away from her

493
00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:33,480
Speaker 4: dinner table, and start talking. In the past, if I

494
00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:36,119
Speaker 4: got a work call during dinner, she would chastise me

495
00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:39,120
Speaker 4: for it. You can call them back. This is dinner time.

496
00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:41,520
Speaker 4: They need to understand you're with your family. You're not

497
00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:44,480
Speaker 4: taking that call now. This weekend, we were supposed to

498
00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:46,879
Speaker 4: go out for dinner on Sunday night. She got a

499
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:48,960
Speaker 4: call from one of her friends as we were getting

500
00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:52,280
Speaker 4: ready to leave, which she just kept prolonging. I kept

501
00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:54,720
Speaker 4: pointing to my watch and making the wrap it up

502
00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:57,320
Speaker 4: sign with my hands, and she just kept swatting the

503
00:20:57,359 --> 00:20:58,960
Speaker 4: air at me, telling me to leave her alone.

504
00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,360
Speaker 2: Cool man, let's really do that to you, angie.

505
00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:02,320
Speaker 4: He's not in his head.

506
00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:05,159
Speaker 3: Yes when it comes to parties, yes, Oh, when it

507
00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,560
Speaker 3: comes to parties. I can only be at a party

508
00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:10,920
Speaker 3: for about an hour now. Yeah, I was so fast.

509
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,199
Speaker 3: I was recently at a party. It was like a

510
00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:16,159
Speaker 3: little thing, and I enjoyed it. But sometimes I'm just

511
00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 3: like nothing from here. I don't drink and whenever I

512
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,159
Speaker 3: used to go out, it was to just talk to girls.

513
00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:23,479
Speaker 3: Now I have a girlfriend, and I don't really have

514
00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:25,000
Speaker 3: any reason to go out anymore.

515
00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:28,680
Speaker 2: You can talk to girls, but just non flirtatious.

516
00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:31,280
Speaker 3: I mean, and now I do. But like whenever I

517
00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:33,560
Speaker 3: would go to like the club or that was kind

518
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:34,880
Speaker 3: of angle, you literally go.

519
00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:36,920
Speaker 4: That was the motivation for going out.

520
00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:39,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, find a girl. And it worked, and I'm

521
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 3: set it, sure did. I can stay at home for

522
00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:42,000
Speaker 3: the rest of my life.

523
00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:44,680
Speaker 4: Now, well, I'd like to go out and have fun

524
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:44,919
Speaker 4: with you.

525
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:49,560
Speaker 3: And here's the problem. This is my phone, my phone issue.

526
00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:51,919
Speaker 2: It's okay, Riley. You can stay home. Angie can come

527
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:52,920
Speaker 2: out with Carly and I.

528
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:56,200
Speaker 4: And well party. Yeah, and I'll tell you all about it.

529
00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 2: You can come to but it seems like you don't

530
00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:58,120
Speaker 2: want to do that.

531
00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:01,320
Speaker 3: It just depends. Are we working out? Are you gonna

532
00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:02,000
Speaker 3: go play basketball?

533
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:02,200
Speaker 4: Great?

534
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,479
Speaker 2: Why we go play basketball with our girlfriends? Will be

535
00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:05,359
Speaker 2: so funny?

536
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:08,399
Speaker 3: That would all right?

537
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,919
Speaker 4: Two hours passed when we were supposed to leave. She

538
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 4: finally got off the phone with Dana, at which point

539
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:17,439
Speaker 4: she said, it's really too late to go now, I'm tired.

540
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:18,720
Speaker 4: Let's just do leftovers.

541
00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:20,160
Speaker 2: My god, it is.

542
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:25,200
Speaker 4: When I kept slamming cabinets and huffing at her, she said, wait,

543
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 4: you're just like ah. She just said, wow, you've got

544
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:35,440
Speaker 4: a hair across your butt today. What's your problem? Never

545
00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 4: heard that phrase before?

546
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:38,200
Speaker 2: I got hair across my butt? What do you think?

547
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 4: Hair on my butt? I got Harry butt and I'm

548
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 4: not happy about it. So how you all feel out there?

549
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 4: All you men with Harry butts? Not happy about it? Oh?

550
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:48,840
Speaker 2: No, as Riley get back to.

551
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:53,560
Speaker 4: Me, I responded, I responded, My problem is we had

552
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 4: plans and you blew them off to bs on the

553
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 4: effing phone for two hours. That's my problem. And then

554
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 4: you say I have hair across my butt. Don't even

555
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:06,600
Speaker 4: have things start with me tonight. You're the hairy butt, lady, tonight,

556
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:10,639
Speaker 4: not me, not me, You're Harry Butt. You're the hairy

557
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 4: but yeah.

558
00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, thin walls in an apartment and you're hearing this.

559
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 4: It's like, oh, and then, Harry, is that your gift

560
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:26,919
Speaker 4: is like a is a razor for them for the

561
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 4: for the neighborhood Christmas.

562
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 2: Body get them weed whackers?

563
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 3: Oh my god, a weed eater.

564
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:33,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, he goes the weed eaters.

565
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 2: What we'd whacker, they're weed whackers. Weeda you you pull it? No?

566
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 3: Please? Related you? Please?

567
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 2: Do you really want a YouTube pull over this?

568
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 3: I know Whitney Amerson's on my side. Please we whacker

569
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 3: or weed eater?

570
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 4: Let us?

571
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 2: Yes?

572
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,040
Speaker 3: Oh my god, we have to engage with the audience.

573
00:23:58,119 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 3: Key on, fine, thank you.

574
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:03,160
Speaker 2: I want to see how wrong you are. Eater, it's

575
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 2: really called a wheat eat that just says.

576
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 3: It makes sense? Way, you just keep going, all right?

577
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 4: She said that she hadn't talked to Dana all day

578
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,400
Speaker 4: and needed to catch up, and there wasn't any other

579
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 4: time for her to do it. I told her it's

580
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 4: unacceptable and we need to start blocking time off that

581
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 4: both of us reserved for each other. She said, that's stupid,

582
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,439
Speaker 4: and we lived together. We shouldn't have to do that.

583
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,920
Speaker 4: Oh my well so yeah, well we shouldn't have to

584
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 4: do that. We should just agree to the plans we

585
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,199
Speaker 4: already made ahead of time. We shouldn't just cancel them

586
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 4: and talk to our friend Dana. Isn't it right? She

587
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:37,879
Speaker 4: agreed that we would have a do over and go

588
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 4: out for breakfast yesterday morning. We planned to leave the

589
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:43,119
Speaker 4: house at night eight thirty I was sitting down on

590
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 4: the couch waiting for nine rolls around nothing, nine to fifteen,

591
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 4: still nothing, nine thirty. I went upstairs. I hear her laughing,

592
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 4: and I walked in to find her not showered, sitting

593
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 4: on the bedroom in her pajamas with the phone in

594
00:24:58,320 --> 00:24:58,960
Speaker 4: her hand.

595
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:03,199
Speaker 3: Is so annoying, Hang up the phone. This is just

596
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,160
Speaker 3: someone that's just gonna say whatever they can to make

597
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 3: you happy, but not follow through.

598
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,680
Speaker 4: She just straight up doesn't want to go have food

599
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 4: with you. What's that about? Alrighty, hang up the phone.

600
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:17,440
Speaker 4: I said, let's go. I'm on the phone. She shouted, sorry, Dana,

601
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 4: what was that? I ripped the phone out of her

602
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 4: hand and said into it, Hi, Dana, we're going to

603
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,880
Speaker 4: breakfast this morning, and Tammy can't talk right now. She'll

604
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 4: call you back and out of time. Goodbye?

605
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 3: Out tom out and tell about your wife's name is Tammy. Yep?

606
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 3: Every single Tammy I know just talks forever. I got

607
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 3: an aunt Tammy. She always is talking. She's always called

608
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,880
Speaker 3: my grandma talking, she's always calling my mom talking. Every

609
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,359
Speaker 3: time I'm around her, she's always talking to me. And

610
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,959
Speaker 3: I'm like, Aunt timoy, I gotta go now, she's always

611
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:49,919
Speaker 3: japping every day. My Grandma's like, oh, aunt Dammy called me.

612
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:53,200
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm sis throwing longing. Oh.

613
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, you don't have to answer. She's like, I do.

614
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 3: I gotta take her to the you know whatever, s

615
00:25:58,280 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 3: got surgery?

616
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 4: Oh wow, is that right?

617
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 3: What is that right about Tammy's? They always talk for all.

618
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 4: The Tammies in the chat. Let us know if you're

619
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 4: a talker talking Tammy's talking Tammy's. I then hang up

620
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 4: the phone, turned it off, and put it in my pocket.

621
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:16,919
Speaker 4: My wife went a crap, demanding that I give her

622
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 4: the phone back, screaming that I had no right to

623
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:22,400
Speaker 4: control her time and that she wasn't going to be manipulated.

624
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:24,879
Speaker 4: I responded, no, you're right. You shouldn't have to be

625
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 4: manipulated into spending time with me. If you were a

626
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 4: decent human being, you would know that that's something that

627
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 4: you should prioritize, not see as a chore. I'm at

628
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 4: think done. You've obviously made your choice. We're pretty much

629
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 4: at an in best. We haven't spoken much since yesterday morning.

630
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:42,119
Speaker 4: She said she has nothing to say unless I apologize

631
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 4: and return her phone. I told her that if her

632
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,239
Speaker 4: biggest concern is having a phone right now, then we

633
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 4: have nothing to talk about. Yeah, honestly, that's kind of true.

634
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 4: Like I hate that this is the situation where like

635
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:55,200
Speaker 4: he has her phone in such a kind of I

636
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 4: don't know parental way, I guess like I don't I

637
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 4: don't want it to be like that. But at the

638
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 4: same time, it's like, Yeah, if your issue is really

639
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 4: that you don't have a phone in your hand right now,

640
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 4: then what's going on? Why are you not more worried

641
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 4: about our marriage? Maybe?

642
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. What What does Dana have to say?

643
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:12,640
Speaker 3: That's so interesting too?

644
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 4: Yeah?

645
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 3: What what are your interests?

646
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 2: What is the tea? I want to know what the

647
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 2: tea is?

648
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 4: You have talking to her all day? Did you talk

649
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 4: to her yesterday? How much could happen in one day?

650
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 3: Like me and my boy Rex, we could like talk

651
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 3: for a couple hours. We have to be in the

652
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 3: same room. I can't like our phone calls are less.

653
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,400
Speaker 3: His dog recently passed away and we talked for less

654
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 3: than five minutes. That's how the conversation went. I was like,

655
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,640
Speaker 3: how you doing? How's the dog? So sorry? I love

656
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:37,680
Speaker 3: you man, You're the best.

657
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,919
Speaker 2: How are you doing. How's the dog? That's what you asked.

658
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, well because you posted about his dog and

659
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 3: I wasn't sure, like dog.

660
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 2: I thought you genuinely knew the dog passed away. How's

661
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 2: the dog?

662
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 3: Well, he was like, I wasn't too sure. But he

663
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Speaker 3: was also about to watch a movie with the friend,

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Speaker 3: so I didn't want to hang him out.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well that's fair, that's fair, that's what That's what

666
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Speaker 4: Tammy over here? Should we do it? I'm about to

667
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Speaker 4: go have breakfast with my husband because we just had

668
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Speaker 4: an argument bit of an argument last night about not

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Speaker 4: spending him enough time with each other. And this was

670
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Speaker 4: literally the deal we made.

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Speaker 3: Tammy, you're not thinking about the repercussions of the consequence.

672
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Speaker 3: If you can divorce, you're not gonna be able to

673
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Speaker 3: talk on the phone all day. You're gonna have to go,

674
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 3: you know, get a job, start handing out h ad.

675
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Speaker 4: You're gonna have to go and marry Tammy, I mean

676
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 4: marry data. Yep, talk to her, I RL do you

677
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 4: want that? Do you really want to or just just

678
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 4: want her on the phone.

679
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Speaker 3: Either get a job or start handing them out.

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Speaker 4: Bad bad Riley, bad Riley. Go sit in the corner

681
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 4: bad Riley I.

682
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Speaker 2: Which had a spray bottle?

683
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Speaker 3: Was it?

684
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 2: He said that, give me the paddle?

685
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 3: Oh and you took it home?

686
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 4: No, I did not. It's a cutting board. It's probably

687
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Speaker 4: being used somewhere as a my house.

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Speaker 3: No, it's got holes in that. Oh my god. What

689
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Speaker 3: we can hurt more?

690
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Speaker 4: Is that what you want them to think? Is that

691
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Speaker 4: what you want them to think that you like in

692
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Speaker 4: your your ass backed.

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Speaker 3: I just want to make you mad, handy tam.

694
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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh my god. All right. I've tried offering solutions,

695
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 4: but she's so obsessed with that gosh dang phone that

696
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Speaker 4: I don't think she's even hearing me. We do have

697
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Speaker 4: some relevant comments here Downvounded commentary says, I don't think

698
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 4: you're behaving like a rational human being at all, huffing,

699
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Speaker 4: slamming cabinets, taking her phone right out of her hands

700
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Speaker 4: and putting it into your pocket. You're acting like a

701
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 4: child's and you're being whiny and passive aggressive with her.

702
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 4: It doesn't matter that she's behaving poorly with that set. However,

703
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 4: how hard would it be to say, honey, when we

704
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 4: have time together, I need you to be present with me,

705
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 4: full stop? Ope. Her responds, well, you're partially right. My

706
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 4: actions as of late are extreme, passive, aggressive and childish.

707
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Speaker 4: I hate it. I hate being like this and honestly,

708
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Speaker 4: I don't think it's healthy. So why am I doing it?

709
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 4: Because it's sadly the only thing that gets through. She

710
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,719
Speaker 4: has a bit of a perception complex.

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Speaker 3: What does that mean?

712
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Speaker 4: Persecution proccess? I said it wrong?

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Speaker 4: She has a bit of a persecution and complex. When

717
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Speaker 4: I said to her, I'm gone from seven thirty am

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Speaker 4: until six pm, it's important to me that we have

719
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Speaker 4: dinner as a family. I would appreciate it if you

720
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Speaker 4: didn't take calls during the one meal we have as

721
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Speaker 4: a family. Her response was fine, I won't talk to

722
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Speaker 4: my friends. After all, I only exist to be your

723
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 4: wife when you're around. I should drop everything to talk

724
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 4: to you. I'll just tell my friends and my husband says,

725
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Speaker 4: I can't talk to them anymore.

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Speaker 3: I know people like this.

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Speaker 4: My god, that is crazy.

728
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Speaker 3: Make one small thing, they just blow it out of

729
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Speaker 3: the water. Yep, there's a way to combat this. I

730
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:39,479
Speaker 3: saw some videos on it how to combat these kind

731
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Speaker 3: of people. I forgot how it went though. What what

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Speaker 3: does it mean?

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Speaker 2: Key on persecution complex? All right, it means an irrational

734
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Speaker 2: and obsessive feeling or fear that one is the object

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Speaker 2: of collective hostility or ill treatment on the part of others.

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Speaker 3: Okay, got it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And that's so frustrating too, because she's just nothing

738
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 4: can go right because then, like Op said, he had

739
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 4: taken calls before in like family dinner times, and she

740
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Speaker 4: said the exact same thing, but like way less nice

741
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 4: to her to him, I don't.

742
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Speaker 3: Know, man, they're both passive aggressive.

743
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 4: It's just yeah. Meanwhile, I pay the phone bill. Oh boy.

744
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 4: She's on the phone with people for between five to

745
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Speaker 4: six hours a day while I'm not here. If I

746
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 4: try being calm, rational and addressing the issue, she denies

747
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 4: that there is an issue. Makes it seem as if

748
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 4: I'm telling her not to talk to anyone, and acts

749
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 4: as if she is so isolated. This couldn't be further

750
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Speaker 4: from the truth. When I was having one of these

751
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 4: talks with her her phone, rang I said, please let

752
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 4: that go through to voicemail. This is very important, and

753
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 4: she replied, I have to get this. I'm expecting this

754
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Speaker 4: call from Beth.

755
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Speaker 3: Call her back.

756
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 4: Please, we're not done, I replied, Well, I don't have

757
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 4: anything else to say, she responded, and she picked up

758
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Speaker 4: the phone.

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Speaker 3: Does stay we have a job? What does Stammy do?

760
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Speaker 4: Am assuming not she's stay home phone? Oh that's right,

761
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Speaker 4: I'm assuming a stay at home mom. But that to me,

762
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 4: that like this is extreme. So maybe if I was

763
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Speaker 4: actually in the situation, it wouldn't be the case. But

764
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Speaker 4: immediately divorced, I'm gonna talk to you about this problem

765
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 4: with you being on the phone and not being present

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00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 4: with me when I'm your husband, And in the middle

767
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 4: of that conversation, you get a phone call and you

768
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Speaker 4: answer it just because you don't have anything to say?

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Speaker 4: What about me? What have been listening to what I

770
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 4: have to say? That is like insanely just disrespectful of

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Speaker 4: the of you and the conversation that you're having.

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Speaker 3: She's not in it. No, after hearing hellope, he has

773
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 3: handled things. I don't know if he's really in this.

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Speaker 3: Bro y'all are gonna need a counselor to fix this.

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Speaker 4: That's She's gonna get a phone call in the middle

776
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Speaker 4: of the council session.

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Speaker 3: Sean says she is a call center.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was gonna say, get a counselor or get

779
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Speaker 2: a phone plan.

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Speaker 4: We're both uh yeah, switch it to her her money anyway,

781
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Speaker 4: Christina pay for it.

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Speaker 3: Christina says Tammy is a phone at this point to me, just.

783
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Speaker 4: Yeah, she just is a phone. No a phony. I

784
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 4: heard of their conversation. It was pure gossip and full

785
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 4: crap and so as mean as it sounds. I am

786
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 4: through being nice. I'm through handling this with kid gloves,

787
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 4: and I'm through with her ignoring this and making me

788
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Speaker 4: feel as if I'm asking too much of her to

789
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Speaker 4: actually acknowledge me and her kids during the few waking

790
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 4: hours were home. And we do have an update here.

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Speaker 3: Oh, so they do have kids.

792
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Speaker 4: They do have kids.

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Speaker 3: I'm assuming Tammy is a stay at home mom.

794
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Speaker 4: Yeah, me too. There's like, I don't know what else

795
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Speaker 4: you'd be doing on the phone all day.

796
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Speaker 3: Here we go, Are we ready? We get out the

797
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 3: intervention banner? Oh, I don't know how old your kids

798
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Speaker 3: are here we I have a better idea, But if

799
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Speaker 3: they're at the age of five, you can get them

800
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Speaker 3: to get a sob story going on. I feel like

801
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Speaker 3: my mommy's down a phone instead of a mommy.

802
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Speaker 2: Or do you think you I was gonna say, you

803
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Speaker 2: should just give her a call and then tell her

804
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Speaker 2: your problem.

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Speaker 4: Wait a second, that's genius.

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Speaker 2: If she's only gonna listen to on her phone, I

807
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Speaker 2: talk on the phone all day.

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Speaker 4: That's honestly so genius, especially if that happens in that conversation,

809
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:04,479
Speaker 4: like you're having a conversation about her being on your

810
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 4: phone too much.

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Speaker 2: Give her a call, literally, give her a call. Get there.

812
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:09,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, if she goes to get another call, then you

813
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 4: just interrupted that phone call with your own No, just

814
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Speaker 4: like stare at her. Is this the only way I

815
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Speaker 4: could talk to you wife?

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Speaker 3: I will say. It feels like the first generation of

817
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Speaker 3: IBAD kids is like people that were on the phone

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Speaker 3: all the time.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, this is what that was.

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Speaker 2: Well the ages of this couple's like forties, late thirties,

821
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Speaker 2: early forties. Yeah, so I'm thinking Tammy back in the

822
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Speaker 2: day when they had like dial up or whatever, like

823
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Speaker 2: the like someone that can only be on the phone

824
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Speaker 2: one at a time, hog the phone the entire time,

825
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Speaker 2: Oh for sure. Like it's one of those like the Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's like the cord with the cord and like she's

827
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Speaker 2: on it for like hours.

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Speaker 4: Totally. Totally. I think at the very least right now,

829
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Speaker 4: we need to like get her to pay for the

830
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Speaker 4: phone plan, because there's no way that she can be

831
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Speaker 4: disrespecting you like this and then you're paying for it

832
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Speaker 4: physically like or like financially paying for it too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, masor Racer says they're bringing back Spicy Phone Workers,

834
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Speaker 3: so you can probably get a jump for that.

835
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Speaker 4: I mean, I think that's kind of been a thing. Yeah, yeah,

836
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:08,320
Speaker 4: she could, she could work there if she really wanted

837
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Speaker 4: to pay for her phone bill.

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Speaker 3: Dude. I would record Everyone Hates Chris and it would

839
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:13,839
Speaker 3: only come out late at night, and as a kid,

840
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,399
Speaker 3: I would rewatch them, and the commercials in between were

841
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,879
Speaker 3: like Spicy Phone Workers. Oh my gosh, real, I did

842
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 3: not know how to. I was like, like, I do know.

843
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:22,720
Speaker 3: Her voice is so stupid.

844
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Speaker 4: Oh man, we do have an update, and this one

845
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Speaker 4: is a year later.

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Speaker 3: Oh my, Okay, hey.

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Speaker 4: Everyone, it's been about a year since I posted, and

848
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 4: I thought i'd give everyone an update on how everything

849
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 4: went down. It's not the happiest news, but I know

850
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 4: people were interested, so I'll share what happened.

851
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Speaker 3: Oh no, she either died.

852
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,400
Speaker 2: What how was your first option?

853
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Speaker 3: Dude? You know how often phones kill people?

854
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:51,640
Speaker 4: What she doing with phones?

855
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 3: You're more likely to get killed by a phone to

856
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 3: get crushed by a vending machine. How many phone related

857
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Speaker 3: deaths have there been in twenty twenty five?

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Speaker 4: I mean, well, one peron a year gets crushed by

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Speaker 4: a veting machine.

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00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 3: So, for example, some people will take a selfie in

861
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Speaker 3: the Grand Canyon and they will like be too close

862
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 3: to the edge.

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00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 2: I would say, that's the phone's fault.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so here we go. In twenty twenty five, phone

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Speaker 3: use while driving calls eleven hundred fatalities, a thirty five

866
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 3: percent increase. In the United States, distracted driving including a phone,

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Speaker 3: led to thirty two hundred deaths. So, you know, mainly

868
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:30,359
Speaker 3: within the road. But yeah, and then how many people

869
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Speaker 3: get crushed by vending machines every year? Ten to thirteen people?

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Speaker 2: Oh, I thought I only wait more. Yeah, that's kind

871
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 2: of crazy.

872
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, we did some sort of like scit about that

873
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:41,400
Speaker 4: in high school.

874
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Speaker 3: Yeah. Wow, yeah, watch out. How often are you on

875
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:47,839
Speaker 3: your phone texting your driving?

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Speaker 4: Dude, don't shake venting machines. They'll fall on you.

877
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Speaker 3: I think we were supposed to get the phone thing out,

878
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Speaker 3: not the vending machine.

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00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, the venting machine is super important.

880
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Speaker 3: I don't know. You could shake as many vending machines

881
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Speaker 3: and you'll be okay.

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Speaker 4: Well tell.

883
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Well think of how many people actually say anyways,

884
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 3: we're not getting innosry right.

885
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 4: I'm gonna keep quick. Right after I posted, I gave

886
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 4: my wife her phone back.

887
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 3: Shut up, sorry, real quick. Six seventy says the phone

888
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 3: isn't actually killing them.

889
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 2: Though it isn't. It's the user.

890
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 4: You didn't get the point. Sorry, I'm sorry anyway. In

891
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 4: doing this, I said to her, I don't believe I

892
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 4: was wrong to be frustrated with you, but it's not

893
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 4: my right to take your phone away. I'm going to

894
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:28,359
Speaker 4: give this back to you, but with it, I want

895
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 4: you to take note of the fact that every time

896
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 4: you take a long phone call on it, you are

897
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,799
Speaker 4: choosing someone else over your family. You are choosing to

898
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 4: give that time to someone who is not here, while

899
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 4: there are family members here who miss you. She snatched

900
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 4: the phone back and said, don't talk to me like

901
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 4: a child. It's on my phone and I'll do it.

902
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 4: I won't with it, and she slams the door. She said,

903
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 4: you'll never understand me.

904
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:53,799
Speaker 3: You're not communicating effectively, and also doesn't help that the

905
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:57,759
Speaker 3: person that's listening isn't listening effectively. Yeah, because you were

906
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 3: trying to get a point across and neither of you

907
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:00,919
Speaker 3: did that ride.

908
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:04,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would agree. In short, things never got better.

909
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 4: She was always on it. Dinners were missed, kids felt neglected,

910
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 4: and there were days when we didn't say a word

911
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 4: to each other because every moment I was home, she

912
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 4: was yacking away on the phone. The final straw came

913
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 4: in our daughter's eighth grade graduation last June. Right in

914
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:21,280
Speaker 4: the middle of the ceremony, her phone rang. At the beginning,

915
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 4: they had told everyone to turn off their phones, but

916
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 4: apparently that didn't apply to her. I put my hand

917
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:29,600
Speaker 4: on her knee and said, no, not here, turn it off.

918
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 4: She pulled it out of her purse, picked up the call,

919
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 4: and walked out of the auditorium. Why she missed our

920
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 4: daughter walking across the stage.

921
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 3: This is an addiction.

922
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,280
Speaker 4: This actually is like a huge problem.

923
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:46,759
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, do the interventure with the kids come on?

924
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 2: Yeah?

925
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 4: Honestly, like we need something, We need actual programs for

926
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:52,919
Speaker 4: people being addicted to phones.

927
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 3: There's a program for people that take too many selfies.

928
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:57,800
Speaker 3: That was a fake skit that actually happened.

929
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 4: That was actually a thing that actually a skit about it, though.

930
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 3: They probably made a skit because they sold online. That

931
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 3: was an actual is the.

932
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 4: Thing where it was like her hand was stuck in

933
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 4: the air like that. She like, oh no, that was

934
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 4: what I saw. It's like her hand. It was like

935
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 4: I thought it was real at first because I was

936
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 4: a kid, but it was like after selfies became like

937
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:17,879
Speaker 4: a huge thing, and then someone was like her hand

938
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:20,839
Speaker 4: was stuck like that, and then taxis would stop for her.

939
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 2: She went to some sort of support group that sounds skid.

940
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:25,840
Speaker 4: It totally was, but at first I thought it was

941
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 4: real because it looks real to me.

942
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 3: But anyway, yeah, obsessive selfies, Mental Health Insights.

943
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 4: That's a support group they go to. Well that's neat,

944
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:38,399
Speaker 4: but they need one for phones. This is crazy, though.

945
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 4: I also want to know what these other people on

946
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 4: the other side of these phones are like, because it's

947
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 4: not like she's playing candy Crush and she's like super

948
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:48,439
Speaker 4: addicted to like scrolling mindlessly and like doom scrolling. She's

949
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:51,439
Speaker 4: addicted to phone calls from people.

950
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 2: That who talks on the phone these days?

951
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 4: I guess thirty seven year olds? Thirty seven year old Tammy.

952
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 3: I do. I had to stop though, because no one

953
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 3: wouldn't answer it.

954
00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 4: Oh, I need to be better at it.

955
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 3: I'm not you you answer whatever?

956
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:04,800
Speaker 4: Why? Well? Yeah, I answer you. But I need to

957
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 4: be better at just phone calls in general. I would

958
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 4: like to be a person that talks on the phone.

959
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,280
Speaker 3: Oh, my god, don't want to. I'm sorry, the lawyer princess.

960
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,839
Speaker 3: There are fake phones for those who need the weight

961
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 3: in their hand.

962
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 4: That is like an actual problem? Does it come with

963
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 4: a helpline? Like is the only call that you can

964
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 4: is the only number that's on the phone, a helpline

965
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:28,920
Speaker 4: that is insane? Actually, yikes. When everything was over, our

966
00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 4: son and I collected our daughter, and the first words

967
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:34,319
Speaker 4: out of her mouth were, where's mom? We found her

968
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 4: outside of the school, leading up against the building, laughing

969
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 4: and gabbing away on her phone. When she saw us,

970
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 4: she ended her call and ran over to our daughter,

971
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 4: gave her a hug. Oh sweetie, you looked so great. Congratulations?

972
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:49,319
Speaker 4: Who did it? When my daughter asked her where she was?

973
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 4: She claims that an important call came in right after

974
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,319
Speaker 4: she walked across and she had to take it. She

975
00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:57,359
Speaker 4: was lying to our daughter to take a BS phone call.

976
00:40:58,120 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 3: Is this terms the divorce?

977
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 4: This is like an actual problem. I think like at

978
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 4: this point I need to completely change my directive. If

979
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 4: getting louder and like getting more aggressive, I guess with

980
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:14,280
Speaker 4: how I'm feeling is not working. Then like I'm gonna

981
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 4: reel all the way back and say, Okay, what is

982
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 4: actually happening now, Like we gotta go in with sympathy.

983
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:25,280
Speaker 4: We gotta get into the bottom of this mentally, what's wrong?

984
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 4: Like truly, that's that's like, that's my cycle in this situation. Anyway,

985
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:34,800
Speaker 4: Like you could try healthy, healthy conversation, try maybe a

986
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 4: little more stern healthy conversation. I don't totally agree with

987
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 4: the slamming things and yelling and all that stuff.

988
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 3: First question number one, keon, where's the weeding and weed whacking?

989
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:48,800
Speaker 2: You're you're a it's weed whacker.

990
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 3: Da. Second question I was after the story, can we

991
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 3: do a pole divorce or not? Yeah?

992
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 4: See that?

993
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I mean it's a phone issue. We could

994
00:41:57,960 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 3: probably work this out in counseling. But it's just a

995
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 3: she's lying to her kid. Now's not you anymore. It's

996
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,359
Speaker 3: leaking into the family. Also, these people that are calling

997
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 3: her has nothing else better to do?

998
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 4: Crazy, yeah, right, And do they not understand? Like, like

999
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 4: what is she saying? Like, oh yeah, my kid's just

1000
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 4: graduating right now? I can talk, Like, what do you do?

1001
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 4: They not know what's happening? Like is she lying to them? Maybe?

1002
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1003
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 3: Man.

1004
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:21,680
Speaker 4: We went to dinner and I didn't speak a word

1005
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 4: to her. She picked up on this and asked me

1006
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 4: what was wrong. When we got home, I told her,

1007
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 4: you've made your choice very clear, Tammy, thank you. She

1008
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:30,400
Speaker 4: asked me what the heck is as supposed to me?

1009
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 4: I said, you've chosen the phone over your family. That's

1010
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:36,359
Speaker 4: clear to everyone. The following Monday, I met with an

1011
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 4: attorney and began the process of filing for divorce. A

1012
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 4: lot of this is a blur, so forgive me if

1013
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 4: I get the order. A bit confused, but I'll give

1014
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 4: you a summary of what happens. Oh my gosh, wow,

1015
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 4: my wife was served with divorce papers at home. She flipped,

1016
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 4: saying that I was trying to control her behavior, that

1017
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 4: I was treating her like a child, and that I

1018
00:42:57,000 --> 00:43:00,120
Speaker 4: was punishing her because she had to take a phone call.

1019
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 4: So you ordered me to get out of the house.

1020
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 4: As I had been the only one caring for our

1021
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 4: children for the past few months and summer was starting soon.

1022
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 4: I refused to do this. I told her that she

1023
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 4: was welcome to move out, but as I was paying

1024
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 4: the mortgage and caring for our children, I would.

1025
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 3: Not be leaving this house fair.

1026
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 4: My wife left and said she was staying with her

1027
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 4: sister until I came to my senses. She accused me

1028
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:24,799
Speaker 4: of upending our children's lives right as our son goes

1029
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,560
Speaker 4: into middle school and our daughter goes into high school,

1030
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 4: because we'd have to sell the house. When we bought

1031
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 4: the house, my wife paid the entire down payment out

1032
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 4: of her mother's life insurance. My father and brother both

1033
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:38,840
Speaker 4: generously loaned me money to cover half of the value

1034
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 4: of the house as well as the down payment. My

1035
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 4: attorney contacted her as she had not yet retained an attorney,

1036
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 4: and told her that I wanted to buy her out

1037
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 4: of the house. He urged her to retain an attorney

1038
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,879
Speaker 4: to review everything. She opted to accept the settlement and

1039
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 4: signed a forgive me if I get this wrong. A

1040
00:43:57,239 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 4: quit claim deed, essentially removing any legal interest she has

1041
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:03,799
Speaker 4: in the property. I closed our bank accounts, had a

1042
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 4: cashier's check issued for half the value, and had it

1043
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 4: sent registered mail to her at her sister's house. She

1044
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 4: signed for it, no problem. I took our children's college funds,

1045
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 4: which were previously only in my name, and had my

1046
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 4: attorney put them into a trust, naming my brother and

1047
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 4: her sister as trustees. Only with both of their signatures

1048
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 4: can money be drawn from those accounts. Neither of us

1049
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:26,479
Speaker 4: has the right to draw on those It's a lot

1050
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 4: for my kids to understand, and I try my best

1051
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 4: not to paint their mother in a negative light. She

1052
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 4: hasn't made any great effort to see them during this time,

1053
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 4: and keeps telling the kids when she does see them

1054
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 4: that this is temporary and she'll be back soon.

1055
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 3: Oh no, she's what. Okay, So we're having these phone calls.

1056
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:46,320
Speaker 3: What are your friends saying? What are even talking about?

1057
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 3: What's happening? I don't even think that these are girls.

1058
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 3: I think these might be people she's attracted to. You know,

1059
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 3: it might be it's not Dana like being means says,

1060
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:54,880
Speaker 3: it's Daniel aka Danny.

1061
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:57,439
Speaker 4: What if all this time she really is a call

1062
00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 4: girl and she just is working. Maybe it's some important

1063
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 4: because she's trying to make money.

1064
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 3: What do you think you on? You think you it's

1065
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 3: a call girl?

1066
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 2: Heck, no, really, I'm sorry you're you're gabbing and just

1067
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 2: talking about I don't even know what she's talking about.

1068
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:14,239
Speaker 2: We don't even know what she's talking about. She's just

1069
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 2: doing gossip talk.

1070
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, who are these other people.

1071
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 2: That she's talking to? I would like I want to

1072
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 2: be on that phone call and be like, what are

1073
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:21,799
Speaker 2: they talking about? I want to hear I want to

1074
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 2: listen to it and be like, oh my gosh, Like, do.

1075
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 4: You do you guys know that you are on the

1076
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 4: phone for so long? Do you guys are just it's

1077
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 4: just everyone involved.

1078
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 3: What are we living in? We have no responsibilities?

1079
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:36,319
Speaker 2: What are I guarantee? It's like, oh, my daughter thinks

1080
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:40,320
Speaker 2: I'm crazy. My husband thinks I'm crazy. Can you believe that, Dana?

1081
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like, oh my gosh, she was yelling at

1082
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 4: me to not get to get off my phone. But

1083
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:45,920
Speaker 4: I've only been talking to you for twelve hours.

1084
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:47,759
Speaker 2: I mean it's just half the day.

1085
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I like I missed the first twelve hours. What

1086
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 4: am I supposed to do? Not talk to you.

1087
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 3: Camp with this? God?

1088
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:57,759
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1089
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:00,480
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1090
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1091
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 4: Leaving off of a brilliant comment, give her the dang

1092
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 4: phone back and make like Tammy Wynette in the spelling beat.

1093
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 4: Wait what My wife, who has not worked since we

1094
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:15,359
Speaker 4: got married, realized that anything she could buy outright for

1095
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:18,800
Speaker 4: half the value of our house was like Elvis Presley

1096
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 4: looking for housing in Chicago. But I don't know what

1097
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:25,240
Speaker 4: that comment meant. Tammy, Tammy, There's more to this story.

1098
00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:28,360
Speaker 3: Everyone. Do we agree that every Tammy you know is

1099
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:30,360
Speaker 3: very talkative? Or do we have a lot of talkative

1100
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 3: Tammy's in our lives? Isn't that one girl in that

1101
00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 3: Stranger Things? Is her name Tammy?

1102
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 2: No?

1103
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:35,880
Speaker 3: What's her name?

1104
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 4: I don't know if there's a Tammy and Stranger Things?

1105
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:41,399
Speaker 3: Robin's girlfriend Vicky? Oh, Vicky, Yeah, Vicky's talk too.

1106
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:48,359
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah yeah. Seeing the divorce song, singing the divorce song, Tammy, Oh,

1107
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 4: I see, I see, I got it.

1108
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 2: I'm thinking I do I know one Tammy my my

1109
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 2: baseball teammates mom. She was very sweet. Nope, she did

1110
00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 2: talk a little bit, but she was very sweet. I

1111
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 2: had no issues with Tammy.

1112
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 3: No, no, I mean, I'm not saying you have issues.

1113
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:05,359
Speaker 3: I'm just saying they talk.

1114
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:07,400
Speaker 2: I don't know a little bit, Tammy.

1115
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:08,839
Speaker 4: I think. I don't know what I think.

1116
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 3: My grandma's name is Tammy too, and she talks a lot.

1117
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 4: Your grandma's name, yeah.

1118
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:17,400
Speaker 2: Nana, her name is Tammy Amra, Tamara, Tamara.

1119
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:19,919
Speaker 3: I don't know. She just I don't know about Nana.

1120
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 2: Nana.

1121
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 4: That is her name, that is on her birth certificate. Yeah, Nana.

1122
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 4: But there's a little bit more to the story. She

1123
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:32,360
Speaker 4: since retained an attorney and is attempting to get the

1124
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:35,640
Speaker 4: quickly indeed invalidated, claiming that she's entitled to half of

1125
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 4: the proceeds of the sale of the home as a

1126
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 4: marital asset. My attorney has told me that she has

1127
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 4: no chance of prevailing in this action, and that she

1128
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 4: signed in about ten different places saying that she was

1129
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 4: waving her right to outside representation and review in spite

1130
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 4: of my attorney urging her to utilize an attorney of

1131
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:54,919
Speaker 4: her own. The courts have been shut down since March,

1132
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 4: so nothing has moved ahead since then, But God willing

1133
00:47:57,800 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 4: this will be wrapped up by the end of the year.

1134
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 4: Soon to be ex wife doesn't seem to grasp how

1135
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 4: serious this is, But at this point I don't care.

1136
00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:07,319
Speaker 4: She made her choice and I made mine. Working from home,

1137
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:09,240
Speaker 4: I get to see my kids all day and I've

1138
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:10,240
Speaker 4: never been happier.

1139
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 3: Good for you, OPI.

1140
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:12,720
Speaker 4: There are some final comments.

1141
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:17,800
Speaker 3: She's in a whole nother world. Yeah, truly, not in reality, truly, she's.

1142
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:20,239
Speaker 4: In the metaverse. She's gonna be so happy when she

1143
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 4: gets that going.

1144
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

1145
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 4: Yeah. One comforter says, I'm curious, what is it that

1146
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:28,360
Speaker 4: was so important in those phone talks that she blew

1147
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 4: her own marriage over. Did you ever listen into her conversations?

1148
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:34,240
Speaker 4: Was she an expert explaining how to stop a nuclear

1149
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:37,520
Speaker 4: reactor from entering a meltdown, teaching a fifteen year old

1150
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 4: how to land a crippled seven seven seven after both

1151
00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 4: the pilot and co pilot suffered food poisoning a hostage negotiator?

1152
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so some serious things.

1153
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, Ohpi responds. It was literally gossiping and talking with friends.

1154
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:52,879
Speaker 4: She didn't see it as a problem. No matter how

1155
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 4: many times I nicely asked her to put the phone away,

1156
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 4: I was ignored. I went from asking nicely to asking firmly,

1157
00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 4: to telling gently, to telling firmly to demanding that she

1158
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 4: didn't respond to any of it. Regardless of my feelings,

1159
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 4: she was going to take that call. It was one

1160
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:11,319
Speaker 4: thing when it was ignoring me. But when I saw

1161
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 4: her lying to my daughter and choosing her regular use

1162
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:17,040
Speaker 4: because yes, that's what I'm calling it over her and

1163
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:20,400
Speaker 4: I had enough. She wasn't willing to seek help, she

1164
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 4: wasn't willing to admit that she had a problem. So

1165
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 4: I was done. And that's the end of that story.

1166
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 4: Huh boy. Yeah, I mean, truly, in.

1167
00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 3: The sand people have divorce over littler things. True people

1168
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:35,319
Speaker 3: stay together over bigger things. So I find your line.

1169
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 3: That's your line. I'm proud of you, Opie for making

1170
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:37,880
Speaker 3: that line.

1171
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 4: Yeah. Good job, Just a good job gossiping, bro, just gossiping.

1172
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 3: I go buy this. Think you got people that talk

1173
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:49,880
Speaker 3: about people and got people that talk about ideas or you? Yeah,

1174
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 3: I mean I work at a job where I talk

1175
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 3: about people.

1176
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 4: But we kind of talk about people all day.

1177
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 3: I usually like to surround myself around people that talk

1178
00:49:57,000 --> 00:50:00,040
Speaker 3: about ideas because that's gonna build things rather than and

1179
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:02,399
Speaker 3: just like, you know, bringing people down.

1180
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:05,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I would agree. I mean, I get,

1181
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 4: you know, dabbling in a little bit of gossip, but

1182
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 4: that's what we like to do here. Sometimes you got

1183
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 4: to get things off your chest. But I think as

1184
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 4: long as you don't make it like, you know, the

1185
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 4: only thing that you talk about with people.

1186
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:17,920
Speaker 2: Why was it always on the phone. Why can't she

1187
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 2: do like a girl's night or like, yeah, go like

1188
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 2: meet them in person kind of thing. I mean, maybe

1189
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 2: they're not in the same place, but even then, that

1190
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 2: to that extent is crazy.

1191
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 4: That's a good point. Why don't she just hang out

1192
00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 4: with data?

1193
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:31,319
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1194
00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 4: Well that that is actually a really good point.

1195
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 3: What that is true?

1196
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 4: You you'ress just silly goose tammy.

1197
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:40,399
Speaker 3: Ugh, but that's you know that story. I really want

1198
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:42,799
Speaker 3: to get to this member of Monostone Exequel twenty three.

1199
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 3: They remember for fifteen months? Who hi, guys, just found

1200
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 3: out my wife is either having a mental health crisis

1201
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 3: or an emotional affair. It's far from typical and messy.

1202
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 3: She doesn't know I know yet. Hearts in the chat

1203
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:57,439
Speaker 3: for you is equel. I know that must be tough.

1204
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:01,600
Speaker 3: One thing to find out if someone is cheating that

1205
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:05,279
Speaker 3: I found out is you can restart your Wi Fi router.

1206
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 3: Like you just completely restart it, and anytime anyone connects

1207
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:12,640
Speaker 3: to a device on that you can tell what it is.

1208
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:14,640
Speaker 3: Like I have an app that tells all the devices

1209
00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:16,319
Speaker 3: that are connected to that Wi Fi right now. But

1210
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 3: what you can do to use that information is it's

1211
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:21,040
Speaker 3: called Wi Fi Man and let me find it. I'll

1212
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:23,279
Speaker 3: find it for you. Yeah, Wi Fi Man. It looks

1213
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:28,279
Speaker 3: like this. I'm not gonna I'll share my router, but

1214
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:31,920
Speaker 3: it shows you, like all the different types of like

1215
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 3: people that are connected to it, like discovery, Like I

1216
00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 3: can see that we have like my MacBook Pro, the

1217
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:41,400
Speaker 3: okop laptop, let's use connected to this. My phone is

1218
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:43,480
Speaker 3: connected to it. We got a generic connected to it.

1219
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:46,279
Speaker 3: It shows everything that's connected to this local network and

1220
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 3: you if you restart it it, it takes away all

1221
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:51,520
Speaker 3: the devices and then over time you can see like

1222
00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:53,879
Speaker 3: all the history of the devices that were connected to it.

1223
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:55,759
Speaker 3: That makes so if.

1224
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 4: Someone connects to it at this certain time of the

1225
00:51:58,080 --> 00:51:58,960
Speaker 4: night or something like.

1226
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:01,960
Speaker 3: That, so you can see catch you use that wisely.

1227
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 3: Everybody look up like Wi Fi router to catch a

1228
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 3: cheater if if you need to, if you need.

1229
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:11,279
Speaker 4: To, really need to. But Ezekiel, let's maybe maybe treat

1230
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:13,440
Speaker 4: I don't know all the specifics, obviously that's all we know,

1231
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:15,840
Speaker 4: but you know, maybe treat it as if it's some

1232
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:17,439
Speaker 4: sort of mental thing. First come.

1233
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, shoot, they're talking to a friend.

1234
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:22,440
Speaker 2: I was saying, no matter what, for either situation, Ezekiel,

1235
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:25,319
Speaker 2: gather your evidence. You want to make sure, Yeah, before

1236
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 2: you jump to any conclusion, because.

1237
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:29,799
Speaker 3: Sadly, once you jump to it's a it's a one

1238
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:30,319
Speaker 3: ray road.

1239
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 2: It's like one door. You don't but you want to

1240
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:33,000
Speaker 2: gather your evidence again.

1241
00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 3: Really tough, really tough. You know what you gotta do.

1242
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:38,800
Speaker 3: And we're really sorry. We're here. We're here for you, mystery.

1243
00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 3: That's the second land plan. I want to respond and

1244
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 3: not react. There we go. That's a good point. Good job,

1245
00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 3: you got a good head on your shoulders is ego.

1246
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 3: We're here, we're family, we're community. But I got a

1247
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 3: tinkle and I'll be back.

1248
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 4: I do two away first, to be.

1249
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 2: Honest, I do three. Oh no, you're gonna lose.

1250
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:05,279
Speaker 4: Ill boys do we have another story after this one

1251
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:06,360
Speaker 4: for this episode.

1252
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:10,240
Speaker 3: Oh wow, okay, my boss demoted me because she blamed

1253
00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 3: me for her failed marriage.

1254
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 4: Ooh, that sounds complicated.

1255
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 3: Okay, you juicy redditors browsing, hear me out. I twenty

1256
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:21,840
Speaker 3: four female. In the last year's lost over half my

1257
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 3: body weight one hundred kilograms to one hundred and fifty

1258
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 3: five kilograms, and I've worked hard to grow into my

1259
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 3: own experience, spinning over half of my life bigger than

1260
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:36,840
Speaker 3: you could say, and I'm learning to live this lifestyle healthily.

1261
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 3: I went from the invisible, funny fat kid to the

1262
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:42,960
Speaker 3: girl who can't walk down the street without getting overloaded

1263
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:47,480
Speaker 3: with attention. Personally, I hate it, but that's another conversation.

1264
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 3: I guess whenever people will appreciate you for your jokes

1265
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:52,240
Speaker 3: rather than your looks, that can be annoying.

1266
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:53,240
Speaker 2: I get both.

1267
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:55,720
Speaker 3: I think people only want to look at you because

1268
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:57,160
Speaker 3: you're hot, not because you're funny.

1269
00:53:57,360 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1270
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:00,000
Speaker 2: How can you look at someone and be like they're funny?

1271
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,479
Speaker 3: Well that's what Opee had to do her whole life.

1272
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 3: Was like, they had to get to know her to

1273
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 3: know how funny she was, not just getting looked at

1274
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 3: by the way. This comes from Katie perv and if

1275
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:10,120
Speaker 3: you want to spit your own stories, go to the

1276
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:12,400
Speaker 3: r slash okay stories. I'm separated him Riley.

1277
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:14,959
Speaker 2: I imagine I'm keon and we're here to get good advice.

1278
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 3: Gooofully, all right, you you calmed down below your experiences

1279
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:20,520
Speaker 3: and we'll read them. By the way, Opie says, this

1280
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:22,840
Speaker 3: seems to get me into a lot of troupable with people.

1281
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,920
Speaker 3: I don't think twice about plenty of times. Being friendly

1282
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:29,319
Speaker 3: and kind as I always have been is now interpreted

1283
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 3: as flirtatious behavior, which is almost always furthest from my intention.

1284
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 3: I just want to wear some effing shorts and not

1285
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:37,680
Speaker 3: be noticed.

1286
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 4: Now.

1287
00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 3: My boss, twenty eight female, has been engaged to her partner,

1288
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 3: twenty two female. Since I've worked at my job. We've

1289
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 3: been friendly on a coworker level, but I've never been

1290
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 3: anything more. We have very different personalities. They only got

1291
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 3: married four months ago. My boss's partner cheated on her

1292
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 3: a month after with her ex, twenty three male, who

1293
00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 3: she originally cheated on with my boss. I know, I

1294
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:03,400
Speaker 3: know the beauty of life. Holy Cow, and the player's

1295
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 3: gonna play play play play play, and the cheater is

1296
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:08,280
Speaker 3: gonna chee chee, chee chee, cheat, and I'm just gonna

1297
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:13,400
Speaker 3: read read, read read now. For some reason completely unknown

1298
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:16,480
Speaker 3: to me, her partner hated the thought of me. I've

1299
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 3: come to the conclusion it's because she could probably tell

1300
00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 3: my boss has a bit of a work crush on

1301
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:24,960
Speaker 3: me and was letting her own insecurities project onto me.

1302
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 3: Long story short, she blamed me not only for working

1303
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:34,040
Speaker 3: at this job, but for even existing for her cheating

1304
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:38,640
Speaker 3: on my boss. So that, how do you work with? Yeah,

1305
00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 3: that's the reason I cheated on you.

1306
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,719
Speaker 2: I blame you. I blame op for existing.

1307
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:45,600
Speaker 4: What well, of course I had to cheat on you.

1308
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 4: Then you have this hotti right here next to you.

1309
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Speaker 4: How am I supposed to not cheat on you when

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00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:52,480
Speaker 4: you obviously have someone that you could cheat with.

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Speaker 3: Come out.

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00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:54,320
Speaker 4: I'm just kidding ahead of things, that's.

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Speaker 3: All, babe. I cheat on the other day because Keon

1314
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 3: cheeks are just so sick. Wait, no, that's not how

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00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 3: that works. Erase that, Erase that from everyone's memories.

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Speaker 2: I can't.

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00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 3: It's like if Angel, you don't mean because Kean's so hot,

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00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:10,399
Speaker 3: that makes no sense.

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00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:11,320
Speaker 2: What do you mean.

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00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:14,120
Speaker 4: That's that's exactly what this woman is doing pretty much.

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00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 2: Are you not saying I'm hot?

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00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 4: Well, that's this is a hypothetical situation.

1323
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:19,359
Speaker 3: Anyways, we're moving on.

1324
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:22,279
Speaker 2: No, no, no, let's please stay on it.

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00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 3: They separated and my boss shot her shot. Okay, how

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00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 3: did she shoot the shot? Angie? You can answer one

1327
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 3: like Shaquill O'Neil shooting a three pointer, two like Steph

1328
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:38,240
Speaker 3: Curry shooting a three pointer, or three like Wayne Michael

1329
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:39,759
Speaker 3: Jordan shooting a three pointer.

1330
00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:42,040
Speaker 2: No, two of those were fine.

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00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 3: No, no, if you think about it, only one of

1332
00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:44,880
Speaker 3: those were perfect.

1333
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 4: I'm gonna think it's not perfect. So give me the

1334
00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:49,480
Speaker 4: names again, real fast.

1335
00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:52,000
Speaker 3: Shaquille Curry or Jordan Michael Jordan.

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00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:57,080
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say that it wasn't great, like kill new

1337
00:56:57,360 --> 00:56:59,359
Speaker 4: that's correct because he only dunks and he only made

1338
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:01,440
Speaker 4: two pointers in NBA career.

1339
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:05,080
Speaker 3: Congrats only two? Yeah, wow, he doesn't shoot it out there. Okay,

1340
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 3: he's broken more rims than he has shot three pointers.

1341
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 4: Oh my god, what do you do if that happens

1342
00:57:09,640 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 4: in a game?

1343
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:11,560
Speaker 3: They just pull out another one.

1344
00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 2: Everyone goes crazy.

1345
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:15,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's the reason they have multiple like basketball goals.

1346
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 3: Now that's crazy. Anyways, sorry. They separated, and my boss

1347
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:23,160
Speaker 3: shot a shot. I very kindly and gently let her

1348
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 3: know I wasn't interested in developing a relationship, but I

1349
00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 3: was happy to support her and be a friend. It

1350
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 3: lasted a whole week before they were coming and doing

1351
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:34,800
Speaker 3: their own shopping like nothing ever happened. Firstly, you do

1352
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:37,120
Speaker 3: you boo. It's your life, and if you want to

1353
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 3: let someone disrespect you like that, I'm not here to judge. Secondly,

1354
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:45,160
Speaker 3: I made her a dang gift basket. While this would

1355
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 3: seem irrelevant, I was informed by my coworkers and my

1356
00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:51,320
Speaker 3: boss that her partner had said, if you fire her,

1357
00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:52,880
Speaker 3: I'll get back together with you.

1358
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:56,320
Speaker 2: Ah what what? Dad? What?

1359
00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 3: Oh my god?

1360
00:57:57,240 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 4: So it's gonna happen.

1361
00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 3: It's a control thing. I think this whole relationship is

1362
00:58:00,800 --> 00:58:01,480
Speaker 3: about control.

1363
00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 4: So uh yeah, would I think you're right? It must be.

1364
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 3: Now. I've been doing training to take a promotion offered

1365
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:10,600
Speaker 3: to me a few weeks ago. I've basically been working

1366
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:13,920
Speaker 3: the role for twelve months, just without the pay or title.

1367
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:18,160
Speaker 3: Yay for billion dollar corporations. I've been preparing for a

1368
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 3: little getting everything they asked for me done. Today, the

1369
00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 3: big manager came to let me know they had offered

1370
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 3: my boss as a little sister of the role and

1371
00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:30,120
Speaker 3: wanted me to take over her position. My position would

1372
00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 3: be irrelevant because I've been in training for the promotion.

1373
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:35,720
Speaker 3: This would mean I would go from overnight contracts to

1374
00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:39,320
Speaker 3: early morning contracts, which my body clock hates. I would

1375
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:41,720
Speaker 3: lose my night rates and would be on my base

1376
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 3: a drop of over fifteen dollars an hour, and I

1377
00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:47,760
Speaker 3: lose the rates i'd gain overseeing the department as I

1378
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 3: see two. Most sadly, I'd be losing my night team,

1379
00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:53,400
Speaker 3: who are like a little family to me. While I

1380
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:56,520
Speaker 3: do believe the role should be offered among everyone to

1381
00:58:56,560 --> 00:58:59,360
Speaker 3: be inexclusive, it made the least amount of sense to

1382
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:02,720
Speaker 3: rip someone from a completely different department with no experience.

1383
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 3: So how did I guess the boss said something to

1384
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:07,520
Speaker 3: a manager and was like, hey, you should put that

1385
00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 3: person there.

1386
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh my god, hr HR immediately if there's anything

1387
00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:13,640
Speaker 4: that you can do to like prove that any of

1388
00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:17,440
Speaker 4: these conversations happened, then, like, I mean, even if you

1389
00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:20,360
Speaker 4: can't technically prove it, like still bring it up.

1390
00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 3: You can't in HR, can't you be like, hey, by

1391
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:24,960
Speaker 3: the way, this happened, this person hitting on me. I

1392
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:26,440
Speaker 3: just want to put it on a record. I think

1393
00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 3: you can't.

1394
00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:27,640
Speaker 4: I think you can do that.

1395
00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:29,760
Speaker 3: Is that right? Who works for corporation? Is that true?

1396
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:32,760
Speaker 4: But I'm thinking to like say that, but also say

1397
00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:36,160
Speaker 4: the things that the wife said, like fire her or

1398
00:59:36,280 --> 00:59:37,040
Speaker 4: I'll break up.

1399
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:39,200
Speaker 3: With you, yeah if you can, if yeah, get back together?

1400
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:39,880
Speaker 4: If you fire her?

1401
00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 3: Where are you laughing at a kon?

1402
00:59:41,640 --> 00:59:44,280
Speaker 2: Just you yelling at the mic saying anyone who works

1403
00:59:44,280 --> 00:59:45,000
Speaker 2: for a big corporation?

1404
00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:49,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, let me know right now, hr hr hr Reby says, yeah,

1405
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:52,000
Speaker 3: this is where you go to hr explain the role

1406
00:59:52,040 --> 00:59:54,520
Speaker 3: that was offered to the sister due to a quid

1407
00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 3: pro quo harassment situation. I very much am not a

1408
01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:02,720
Speaker 3: set about losing the promotion. I'm quite upset about the

1409
01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 3: lack of appreciation for my hard work. The timing of

1410
01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:08,160
Speaker 3: me shutting my boss down and her getting back with

1411
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 3: her partner seems suspicious. That absolute disrespect. Ha ha ha ha.

1412
01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:15,560
Speaker 3: We got a little bit more here. I think, yeah,

1413
01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:18,720
Speaker 3: Ajar is the only answer. Now I'm supposed to give

1414
01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:21,920
Speaker 3: an answer by Sunday, and quite obviously I'll be saying,

1415
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 3: go me f yourself professionally of course. Anyways, I'm obviously

1416
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:30,240
Speaker 3: leaving that job. I'm contemplating between moving away right now,

1417
01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:32,720
Speaker 3: which I've been saying I'm going to do for years now,

1418
01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 3: and maybe this punt in the butt is what I needed,

1419
01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:36,880
Speaker 3: or if I play it out until I get my

1420
01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:39,000
Speaker 3: license back in March and find a new job while

1421
01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 3: still living in this town. But anyway, my life is

1422
01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 3: spiraling lately, so I thought i'd give a summary of

1423
01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:49,200
Speaker 3: the one wacky adventures of this little thing called my life. Please,

1424
01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:52,040
Speaker 3: for the love of the Lord above, ask if there

1425
01:00:52,040 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 3: are any little deeds you're passing away to know, love

1426
01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:57,920
Speaker 3: y'all and stop existing and ruining marriages.

1427
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 2: That's what exo gossip girl. Yeah, wow, because that was

1428
01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 2: one of our own, right.

1429
01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was one of our own.

1430
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:07,480
Speaker 4: Oh my goodness.

1431
01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:11,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, hr take pictures, get all your eggs in a

1432
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 2: basket and uh yeah, because you can sue for that.

1433
01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 3: Mhmm.

1434
01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:17,400
Speaker 2: Your boy.

1435
01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:18,760
Speaker 4: Get that boy fired?

1436
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:23,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, that is pretty wild. It's a girl the boss.

1437
01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:26,080
Speaker 4: Oh, get her fired?

1438
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:27,200
Speaker 2: Right?

1439
01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.

1440
01:01:28,840 --> 01:01:31,040
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01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:33,320
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