1 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time is, y'all don't know, y'all bag 2 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 1: all suit long, looking back to back down, giving them 3 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 1: more like theming buck bus things and it's tub y'all 4 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 1: to me true good to the hut. Yeah, listening to 5 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:38,520 Speaker 1: me toach other for Stu barn to listen money. Don't 6 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: you join? Yeah? Yeah, well hobby joining me. Honey said 7 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: you got to turn hur go, Yeah, you gotta turn 8 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 1: to turn turn lovey got to turn out to turn 9 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: water wan go. Come come on your face at it. 10 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 1: Uh huh, I shall will good morning everybody. You are 11 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: listening to the voice? Come on dig me now want 12 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: and only Steve Harvey got a radio show? Uh huh, 13 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:15,119 Speaker 1: one more time, man, Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man, 14 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 1: ain't God been good to me? Wow? But then again, 15 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 1: ain't He been good to you too? Though? I mean really, man, 16 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: think of all the blessings God has given you. Think 17 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 1: of all the things He's done for you, things that 18 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: you ask for, things that you didn't ask for, things 19 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: that you were expecting. Being all about all of the 20 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 1: unexpected blessings. Man, he just keeps coming with it, don't it. 21 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: You know what? That's some good news today though, y'all. 22 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 1: You know, in the in the in the face of 23 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 1: all the world being the way it is, the the 24 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: evilness that's out there, it just it just seems like 25 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,679 Speaker 1: that's all that's on the news sometimes. You know, we 26 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 1: got we got news of parents not really starting up 27 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: being parents. We got news stories children turning on their parents. 28 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 1: You got, you got everything. The economy, You've got places 29 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: you thought you should be beautiful places to go now 30 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 1: they've got travel allerged. It's it's just it's all it's 31 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:17,079 Speaker 1: it's it's all over. But the good news is there's 32 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 1: something that you can have in this relationship with God 33 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: that gives you a way to deal with it all. 34 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that it will it will protect 35 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 1: you from every single thing out that is happening, because 36 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:35,119 Speaker 1: some things are going to happen to you. You're going 37 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: to be in an accident from time to time. You're 38 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: going to make a mistake and fall down from time 39 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 1: to time. But man, wouldn't it be incredible to you 40 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 1: for you if you understood that you had some insurance 41 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: in all of this that no matter what happened to you, 42 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: you know you will cover it. You know, look, insurance 43 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 1: companies as good as they are, you know, like our 44 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: friends that stay Farm or any other ensure his company. 45 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: You know they do they do some amazing things. Insurance 46 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 1: is a really, really good thing to happen in the 47 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: event that something happens to you. You know, you may 48 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: not want to pay the premium, but guess what in 49 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 1: the event that something happens to you that insurance is 50 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: absolutely critical. Well, but guess what they cover certain things. 51 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: You could get life insurance, you can get auto insurance, 52 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: you can get accident insurance, you can get health insurance. 53 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: There is nothing that you can buy to safeguard you 54 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: against life's decisions. You know, if you make a mistake, 55 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: if you cheat, if you lie, if you if you 56 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 1: fall down and you can't seem to get it together, 57 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 1: and you make a crazy decision about how you're gonna 58 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:54,039 Speaker 1: go about securing an income that there are there are 59 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: no policies you can buy for that. You can't buy 60 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:01,840 Speaker 1: a policy if you stop being the man you're supposed 61 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: to be, and and and and give up on your children. 62 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 1: You can't buy a policy. If something happens as a 63 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 1: mother and all of a sudden, you're not the mother 64 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: you're supposed to be. But there is some insurance coverage 65 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 1: out there for you and that relationship that you form 66 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 1: with God, that friendship that you form with him, that 67 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:27,839 Speaker 1: that alliance that you that that partnership, that that prayer 68 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: that you put in all the time, there is an 69 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: insurance policy that you have taken out when you form 70 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: a relationship with your heavenly Father, when you form a friendship, 71 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 1: when you form a bond that protects you, that protects 72 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: you when these things happen in the event that they happen. 73 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 1: Now here's a great thing about prayer. Prayer can head 74 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 1: off some stuff from happening. It really really can. Prayer 75 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 1: can prevent some things from happen. You know, I'll give 76 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,600 Speaker 1: you an example in my life. Okay, here we go, 77 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: because see this is the best way for me to 78 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: do it. Because see, what I don't like to do 79 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 1: is is talk to people without letting them know, Hey, 80 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:12,919 Speaker 1: look I'm in this hole with you. I feel where yet? Okay, 81 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: here we go. I was making some decisions a few 82 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 1: years ago because what I thought I was doing was 83 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 1: counterbalancing something that was happening in my life. You know, 84 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: I thought that since I wasn't happy or well for 85 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: whatever the reason I thought I wasn't happy. If if I, 86 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 1: as wrong as I am, wanted to blame somebody else 87 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 1: from my unhappiness, that that's that's really if if I 88 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: make a bad decision because I'm thinking I'm unhappy with somebody, 89 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 1: hold a part. Two wrongs don't make it right. And 90 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 1: I make a decision to do something wrong, and now 91 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: the consequences come when I do something wrong. See then 92 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 1: that I already know as an intelligent thinking man, as 93 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 1: most of you are, that when you do something wrong, 94 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: that you know there is a consequence for that. I 95 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,280 Speaker 1: teach that to my son's When you do something wrong, 96 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 1: there as a consequence. So as an adult, I fully 97 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: understood the consequence. And so what I was doing was 98 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 1: I was making some decisions that was causing some consequences 99 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: in my life that was delaying my happiness, delaying my progress, 100 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: causing my business not to go the way it could go, 101 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 1: so forth and so on. Well, what I started doing 102 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 1: was I took out this insurance policy called Prayer, and 103 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: I started putting it in my mix on a daily basis. 104 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 1: And then I started putting it in my mix. You know, 105 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 1: two three times a day. And then I found myself 106 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 1: using it all the time. And then I really started 107 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 1: putting it in when when I didn't need any help, 108 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 1: when I wasn't in trouble, I started putting insurance and 109 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 1: I started making deposits into the bank. I started paying 110 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: my premiums down. And prayer is like a premium, you 111 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 1: just pay in to it. Then when situations started coming up, 112 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: now it's that prayer that I had put in that 113 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: in those premiums I had paid, it started preventing me 114 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 1: from making the decisions I was making in the past. 115 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: Thus I didn't have to the suffer the consequences. Thus 116 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: my businesses didn't have to be delayed in this progress 117 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 1: because I had put some payments on some premiums, I 118 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 1: had taken out an insurance policy. With my life, my 119 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 1: real life. I'm talking about your life where you make 120 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 1: your day to day decisions in I'm not talking about 121 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 1: see life. Insurance is only good if you die. God 122 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 1: has a policy that's avasable, that's available for you. Why 123 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 1: are you living see in order foreign insurance policy to pay, 124 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: something bad got to happen. Now that may be some 125 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:51,719 Speaker 1: others out there. I don't know nothing about. But all 126 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 1: the ones I got my car insurance, they only come 127 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: into play if I have an accident. I have an 128 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:01,559 Speaker 1: accident insurance policy. You where something happens to me? I 129 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:05,559 Speaker 1: got accident, I got. I got my voices covered in 130 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: case something happened to that. I got that, But but 131 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 1: I got to not be able to talk to cash 132 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 1: that one. You understand everything. I got homeowners insurance. Don't 133 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: nothing show up on my homeowners insurance unless it's a 134 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 1: flood or fire or thel. Something bad got to happen 135 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: for my insurance to even make sense. When you take 136 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: out the policy with your with your heavenly father, when 137 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: you pay the premiums of prayer, and that's all it costs. Man, 138 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 1: it ain't you. Ain't gotta have no money for this policy. 139 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:43,839 Speaker 1: I put into the policy. It pays me dividends and 140 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 1: benefits for living. Ain't nothing got to go wrong for 141 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 1: me to cash in on this policy. I use this 142 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 1: policy for good things. I give you an example. I 143 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:01,839 Speaker 1: use this policy to ask God to watch over my 144 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 1: family when I travel. I use this policy to ask 145 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: God to bless my sons on their journey into manhood. 146 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: He covers me I ask God to help make my 147 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 1: dreams come true with this policy. He covers me. I 148 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:20,720 Speaker 1: asked God for the desires of my heart. He give 149 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 1: them to me. I asked God to lead and God 150 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:26,079 Speaker 1: and protect me and keep me from making stupid decisions 151 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 1: like I used to make. He's all right, partner, stop 152 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 1: doing this, stop doing that now. Guess what. I'm not perfect, 153 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, long away from being perfect. I never claimed perfection. Man. 154 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 1: Listen to me, y'all, make the decisions to pay your 155 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 1: premiums in prayer. Talk to your heavenly father, get you 156 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 1: some insurance in your life. And when you have little 157 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 1: things like that, keep on stepping. Man. God loves you. Man, Man, 158 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 1: I shall hope you talk to God to day because 159 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:56,599 Speaker 1: guess what he show would like to hear from you. 160 00:10:56,679 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 1: That's for shows show. Welcome to the ride, Happy fourth? 161 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 1: Did you like? Y'all? Everybody listen, we ain't here. Let's 162 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:10,839 Speaker 1: quit playing this record. Listen, it's the fourth of you 163 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: like where you think? I am no good? And well, 164 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:14,719 Speaker 1: I'm not here now. Coming up, we're gonna have some 165 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 1: of our favorite moments on the Steve Harb Morning Show. 166 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 1: Happy fourth, y'all, ladies, and gentlemen, monkey trainers, bad bons, contactus, 167 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 1: nous fire either Hi Wire, Trapeez, flip artists, and cheerleader. 168 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 1: Have your attention, please arrest of y'all, loser. If you 169 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 1: ain't wanted here, what are you doing with your life? 170 00:11:53,240 --> 00:12:02,319 Speaker 1: Including me? This is the Steve Harvey Morning Show, lives 171 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 1: every morning, always in vivid, high tech color on the radio. 172 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 1: Yeah it's up, Shirley, Hello, Steve, how are you darling? 173 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 1: What's up? Calling? Hey Steve? What's up? Crew? Yeah? What's up? Junior? 174 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 1: Food number one? Yeah? And food number two? Where his 175 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: ass at? But I'll tell you what though, No, you 176 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:40,839 Speaker 1: don't just take off in this hill already. You know 177 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 1: I already had two scares with him. You know, these people, 178 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 1: these diabetes and stuff. You got it. You know, we 179 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: got to be We gotta be careful, Kath, you know. 180 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:52,839 Speaker 1: And then let me, first of all, let me say 181 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 1: this hell, This that I'm saying about to say is 182 00:12:56,600 --> 00:13:02,679 Speaker 1: directed directly at Jaffiny Bran. I don't care about nobody 183 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: else that has diabetes. Pray for you, hope you heal. 184 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 1: But this is about Jay. Is a question, Anthony Brown, 185 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 1: in a question for you. This is what I want 186 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: to know. Do we have to work with the person 187 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 1: who can slip into a diabetic chroma and we not know? 188 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 1: Oh if we don't know, I'm just saying, what are 189 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:34,839 Speaker 1: we supposed to do? You have several remedies you know 190 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:38,319 Speaker 1: that you thought were Okay, Hey, look the best I 191 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: got for Jay. Let me ask you this, do arged? 192 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 1: You still work remedy for every disease pranged? It's the 193 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 1: same thing for kill j junior crisis. Yeah, he needs 194 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 1: to be orange juice. Know, we got all his own 195 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:07,559 Speaker 1: juice in here for James. How about did you five 196 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:17,760 Speaker 1: I have? I got, I got nine gallants. Do you 197 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 1: think it's gonna keep first of all, yes, yea, let 198 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 1: ju last a long time. You got to do and 199 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:26,920 Speaker 1: keep it shut. We're over one at a time. Yeah, 200 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 1: but how long it keeps? Yes, I mean it is 201 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 1: a perishable thing. All right. Well, I'm put forward coming 202 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: up in ten minutes today's comedy segment. Steve is here 203 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 1: for it. Uh, he's gonna have rules for when you 204 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: live with someone until you get on your feet. Okay, 205 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, a report 206 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 1: by Zello finds it nearly twenty two and a half 207 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 1: percent of US millennials they are living with their mom, 208 00:14:56,920 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 1: which is about twelve million young adult And why haven't 209 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 1: millennials moved out on their own? Well, according to the report, 210 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 1: twelve per cent of them are currently unemployed. When you 211 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:13,960 Speaker 1: live with your mom and you passed millennia range, is 212 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 1: that since he has the most kids, I think we 213 00:15:18,800 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 1: should defer to Steve on this one. Steve, you have 214 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 1: some rules for when you live with someone until you 215 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 1: get on your feet. Now, this is not for millennial anybody. 216 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 1: This is for anybody. You've had people stay at your 217 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:36,880 Speaker 1: how I have people come live with me, college roommates, 218 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 1: stuff like that. It's some stuff. Now, these are Steve 219 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 1: Harvey's rules for living with someone until you get on 220 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:49,240 Speaker 1: your feet. These are dudes and doptes. Some things you 221 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 1: need to keep in mind. Here's one right here. Your 222 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 1: goals every day is to make it seem like you 223 00:15:57,080 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 1: there but you're not that. Yeah, that's your goal. That's 224 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 1: when you wake up get it in your mouth, Bill, 225 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 1: but look like because you get asked to me now 226 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 1: you don't want that. Here's another one. This is very important. 227 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 1: Your car should never block me in I can't want 228 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 1: to go out and I go out there and your 229 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 1: car in the damn where you were in that sleep. Yeah, 230 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 1: in fact, I got news for you. Your car shouldn't 231 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 1: even be in front of the house. Talk up the 232 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 1: street and walk down to where you rent free round 233 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 1: the corner, park at the up the street, at the 234 00:16:55,520 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 1: parking lot, at the grocery store. That try to make 235 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 1: it look like you ain't even got no call. If 236 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:11,399 Speaker 1: you're watching TV in the other room. Yeah, your laugh 237 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:18,680 Speaker 1: should not be who I can hear laid down the 238 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:27,160 Speaker 1: just good bucket. This should be learned how to laugh 239 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:29,199 Speaker 1: like this. Let me show you how you laugh from 240 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 1: you and other people. You can't be enjoying their TV 241 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:37,680 Speaker 1: and all this just how you lave what it is 242 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 1: real funny. That's gonna be hard. Yeah, Steve, put me out, 243 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 1: that's it. I don't give a damn what you want. 244 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:56,400 Speaker 1: Here's another one. Don't let me walk in the house 245 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,120 Speaker 1: and have to tell you to get out of my chip. Yeah, 246 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:04,440 Speaker 1: that's a big one. You should only sit. I'm gonna 247 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 1: tell you the areas you are to sit here, kitchen, 248 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 1: your bed room, and occasionally in the bank. Don't be 249 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:25,159 Speaker 1: taking read material in there what you focus? Focus, stare 250 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:28,919 Speaker 1: at the toilet tissue role, How do your business? Get up, 251 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 1: get out, get out better? Count the little perforation holes 252 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 1: on the tilet tis like that in there? Okay, another one. 253 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 1: Take You didn't put it in the fridge. Don't touch 254 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:53,399 Speaker 1: it in the that's the man. He bought one color. 255 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:57,600 Speaker 1: That's all you reaching the touch. Don't be shifting stuff 256 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:02,680 Speaker 1: around looking all the back read labels. You didn't. You 257 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 1: didn't put it in. Now get your hands off. I 258 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 1: like it. Man. When you come home from work, go 259 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:20,760 Speaker 1: right to your rooms. Nothing in here, straight t rooms 260 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 1: all down the hallway, looking at all, look at where 261 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:34,240 Speaker 1: is this in the picture? That's my damn grand mama. 262 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 1: Quit asking about her? Why are you roaming around? Right? So? 263 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 1: What is this? Th rules for living with the rules. 264 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:43,920 Speaker 1: If you got to stay with somebody until you get 265 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 1: on your feet, I'm just giving you some dudes, and 266 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:51,359 Speaker 1: don't so you don't stay there the whole time. Listen 267 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 1: to me. If I'm watching TV and I get up, 268 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:59,360 Speaker 1: walk out that room, don't change your damn rum. Don't 269 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 1: mean I'm gone. Don't change that damning there watching it together, 270 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 1: not doles off. Watch when I was watching for our dough. 271 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:15,640 Speaker 1: Let me on my eyes and natural geographic is going. 272 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:25,160 Speaker 1: You're assing here watching all lord, all I should wake 273 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 1: up to when I went to sleep, Like, here's one 274 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:38,400 Speaker 1: more so serious? Yeah this has happened, not a matter 275 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 1: of fact. Let me make this to laugh. You can 276 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 1: only have company where the company lives. Come over here 277 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,639 Speaker 1: and I have a company. Hell yeah, wherever they stay. 278 00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 1: You're go and be in the up company of your company. 279 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 1: All you want, but your company, come neck hell over here, 280 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 1: not in my house. Oh, everybody drinking glasses? Oh man, nephew, 281 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,879 Speaker 1: Timmy's run that prank back right after this, Come on, 282 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 1: King of Pranks. You're listening to Steve Hardy Morning Show 283 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 1: Up next, nephew, What do you have for us on 284 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:28,240 Speaker 1: the menu today? Psc se don't want to know what 285 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:36,680 Speaker 1: I mean? Prostate CHECKO. Oh hello hello, I'm trying to 286 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 1: reach a h Roger. My name is Greg, I'm a 287 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 1: PSC Uh. I got you on my schedule. I'm supposed 288 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 1: to come buy of your house tomorrow morning about seven fifteen. 289 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 1: I just want to give you a call and give 290 00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:49,200 Speaker 1: your heads up and let you know we will be 291 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 1: there about seven fifteen. From my understanding, you go to 292 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 1: work yet? Oh, who, I'm a PSC, sir. I'll be there. 293 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:58,880 Speaker 1: I'll be there tomorrow. I got you on my schedule 294 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:02,200 Speaker 1: for Monday morning, and I'll be there at least about seven. 295 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 1: For my understanding, you go to work at seven thirty 296 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:06,880 Speaker 1: and uh, my procedure is only gonna take a couple 297 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:09,639 Speaker 1: of minutes. But I wanted to give a friendly call 298 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:10,919 Speaker 1: and let you know that I will be by there 299 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 1: tomorrow morning. What's the PSC, PFC? What's just PC T 300 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 1: s C, Sir, P s C. I will be there tomorrow. 301 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:20,440 Speaker 1: I've been in business probably for the last uh, I 302 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 1: guess about thirteen fourteen years? Now? What is PSC specials? 303 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 1: What you do? Oh you're not I'm sorry you're not familiar. 304 00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 1: How you got me? Why? Oh? I got you on 305 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 1: my list here. I don't know who puts you on here, 306 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 1: but you've it's been paid for and everything for me 307 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:38,200 Speaker 1: to come by and do my job and like I said, 308 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 1: only taking a couple of minutes and I'll have you 309 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:43,160 Speaker 1: on your way. How do you get my number again? 310 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:46,159 Speaker 1: How did you get my phone number? So? Everything I 311 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 1: have I got, I got twenty stops tomorrow and I 312 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:52,200 Speaker 1: got you scheduled as uh as my as my first 313 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,680 Speaker 1: stop tomorrow morning. I don't know. I got your phone number, 314 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 1: I do have your address. Are you at drive? Yeah, 315 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:01,960 Speaker 1: that's my just but I don't my schedule for nobody 316 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:03,680 Speaker 1: to come to my house in the morning. I gotta 317 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 1: go to work in the morning. I know I'm not 318 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 1: gonna be you right right, my understanding, Well you from 319 00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:09,719 Speaker 1: my understanding, you pull out about seven thirty and I'm 320 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 1: gonna get there teen fifth things. Like I said, you know, 321 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,399 Speaker 1: the procedure only takes about two three minutes, and and 322 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:17,240 Speaker 1: we about every about my information, you know, when I 323 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:19,680 Speaker 1: leave home and everything. Who is this, like I said, 324 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:21,920 Speaker 1: my name is Greg, I'm I'm a PSC, and I'll 325 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,720 Speaker 1: be there. Okay, you said that, I really you'll you'll 326 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 1: see me tomorrow. I'm sorry. I just want to give 327 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,119 Speaker 1: your friendly call here on Sunday and let you know 328 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 1: that i'll be there. I'll be there about seven fifteen 329 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:32,159 Speaker 1: and we'll get you taken care of and then I'll 330 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 1: let you get on the way to work. You still 331 00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 1: ain't telling me what I supposed to what you're supposed 332 00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 1: to be doing, sir. A PSC is PSC. I'm a 333 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 1: prostate checker. And what I'll be doing is coming in 334 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 1: and checking your prostate tomorrow. Oh hell, now, you ain't 335 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:45,920 Speaker 1: coming here and check my prist day. I get my 336 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 1: pricetate checked by my doctor. Who who was you talking about? 337 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:50,520 Speaker 1: Come to check my class day? Not at my house? 338 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 1: Main't come to check my And you know what, I 339 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:54,639 Speaker 1: get this all the time. I get a lot of 340 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 1: people that that are in denial, A lot of men 341 00:23:56,920 --> 00:24:01,320 Speaker 1: that that that claim that they I heard my price 342 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 1: state check just or beginning of this year. Man, you 343 00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 1: don't need to come to my eye checking my pride state. 344 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:07,440 Speaker 1: A lot of people, a lot of men are in 345 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,479 Speaker 1: denial saying that they got it checked and they got 346 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 1: it a lot of times we find out they haven't. 347 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,239 Speaker 1: And and and there has to be a reason. If 348 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 1: I got you on my list and it's paid, somebody 349 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,240 Speaker 1: has paid a hundred and twenty five dollars for me 350 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,040 Speaker 1: to come out there and check it, well, you should 351 00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 1: be happy you paid hunts on the five dollars just 352 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 1: to let's job you have to do then, because you're 353 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:25,920 Speaker 1: not coming check my price state, sir, I'm gonna check 354 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 1: it now. I'm gonna be about there tomorrow and I'm 355 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,359 Speaker 1: seven pen. I'm putting my rubber glove on with a 356 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:31,879 Speaker 1: little bit of jail on it, and I am going 357 00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:33,399 Speaker 1: to check the proper state and then I'll let you 358 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,359 Speaker 1: get on the work. Well, I tell you what, the 359 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,480 Speaker 1: rubber glove ain't gonna know where there met on. Well, 360 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 1: I tell you what you raised over my eyes if 361 00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:42,080 Speaker 1: you want to, it ain't gonna be pretty and it 362 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,320 Speaker 1: ain't gonna be nice with you in your rubber glove. 363 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:48,080 Speaker 1: Stick a rubblettle when I'm done with you, don't be 364 00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:51,040 Speaker 1: coming about my high time by checking my price state, Sir, sir, 365 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,320 Speaker 1: do you realize that this is the leading calls the 366 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:56,720 Speaker 1: black men? Did you realize that I understand that the 367 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:02,080 Speaker 1: black men three out of five black men a lost 368 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 1: every year. So you ought to be very grateful that 369 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 1: someone that's sending me by there to check it and 370 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,120 Speaker 1: make sure you're okay. I'm grateful that I can pay 371 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 1: for a doctor that I go to every every once 372 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:13,920 Speaker 1: a year. Man. You don't want to turn to my 373 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 1: hottime by sticking on ruble glob of me Man's phone 374 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:18,440 Speaker 1: with you, sir. So I'm not gonna sit here and 375 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,720 Speaker 1: go back and forth with you My job is to 376 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 1: give you a friendly call and let you know that 377 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:25,640 Speaker 1: I'm coming, all right, not tomorrow morning. Listen, I don't 378 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 1: want to hear anymore tomorrow morning. I'm there seven fifteen, 379 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,680 Speaker 1: and you're gonna get your prostate check whether you like 380 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,280 Speaker 1: it or not. Where you don't buy here, then I 381 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,640 Speaker 1: show be here. You buy her back? Thank you bad 382 00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 1: enough to come over here and check my prostay you 383 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,200 Speaker 1: buy it. I'm gonna make it so you just be 384 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:44,200 Speaker 1: ready at seven fifteen that you're gonna get your prostate check. 385 00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:48,879 Speaker 1: Case col you come on over if you want. You 386 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:50,800 Speaker 1: You know my address and all my way time I 387 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 1: go to work and everything. You you buy your back, 388 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 1: don't if you want to. I don't care if I 389 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 1: gotta come over there, sir and hold you down and 390 00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 1: check your pros state. I'm coming to check your prostate 391 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 1: at some fifteen to morrow morning. I'll tell you where. 392 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:06,359 Speaker 1: You bring your ball over you do you think you 393 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,159 Speaker 1: know who I am? Would I need over there? You 394 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:09,840 Speaker 1: come on over here, and you do what you gotta 395 00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:14,200 Speaker 1: do more, then you're gonna be checking something else beside 396 00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 1: of me. You're gonna be checking your on you bring 397 00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 1: your I don't know if you want to. If I 398 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:20,680 Speaker 1: don't get your pot of hell, be coming to my 399 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 1: hound today. Baby, baby, you can somebody talking about I 400 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,960 Speaker 1: needed prostate check or something. Somebody on the phone timebow, 401 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,560 Speaker 1: I need a prostate or something. You bring your I'll 402 00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:32,360 Speaker 1: tell you whether I'll be here when you get here. 403 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 1: You bringing over the fifteen in the morning, you won't 404 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,439 Speaker 1: walk it over here. You might be weird away from 405 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 1: this you bring if you want to, I'm gonna have 406 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 1: my glove on the morrow, and I'm gonna be checking 407 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:50,160 Speaker 1: your propstate. Tell you if you in the morning where 408 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 1: you want to tell about checking the price? Stay, You're 409 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,240 Speaker 1: gonna be checking you on prid stay because I'm tell 410 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 1: you where I got something. You come over here, you 411 00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 1: buy your bad You think you're bad enough to come 412 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:00,480 Speaker 1: off here and check some I'm over here, you come 413 00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:02,359 Speaker 1: on with it. I got one more thing I need 414 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 1: to say to you all. You're listening. But what there 415 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 1: you got to say to me? Now? You told me 416 00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:08,159 Speaker 1: it's not what you got to tell me? Now are 417 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 1: you listening to me? This baby? Down over here, You're 418 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 1: gonna be here. I'm gonna be over there. But I 419 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:14,600 Speaker 1: got one more thing I want to say, Are you 420 00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,400 Speaker 1: listening what you got to say to me? Man? That's 421 00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: his nephew tim Me from the Steve Harby Morning Show. 422 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:27,480 Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your homeboard. Who who who 423 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:32,119 Speaker 1: you say you was? Again? Hey man, this is nephew 424 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 1: Timming from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man, your homeboy 425 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 1: got me to prank phone call you. Chris doesn't Harvey 426 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:53,360 Speaker 1: that time me. But man, you are Roger boy. Y'all 427 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:55,320 Speaker 1: about to make me go out. I don't want to 428 00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,720 Speaker 1: who the hell don't come out or somebody how to 429 00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:04,160 Speaker 1: do a post kick the glabasis like that? But yeah, yeah, 430 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,360 Speaker 1: so got me man. I'm gonna get him back. Boy. 431 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:08,720 Speaker 1: I can't believe you do me like that. I'm gonna 432 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:12,399 Speaker 1: go check state. You only think you get here checked 433 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:14,240 Speaker 1: on the regular. I want to ask somebody to come 434 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:18,399 Speaker 1: check mind. Hey man, I got one more thing to 435 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 1: ask you, man, what else? What is the baddest I'm 436 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 1: talking about the baddest radio show in the land, Steve 437 00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Man, Steve Harvey Morning Show. A right, 438 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,600 Speaker 1: thank you. Now, We'll be back with more of the 439 00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to 440 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:41,960 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Steve is here with some 441 00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:49,480 Speaker 1: depressing places. Steve, uh I was thinking of some depressing places. 442 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:54,520 Speaker 1: You can be the places that get depressing. Like it's 443 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 1: depressing if you're in the car with somebody and they 444 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 1: got the radio player some music you can't stand, but 445 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 1: you can't say nothing because it ain't your car. Man, 446 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,200 Speaker 1: you can be the prayer. You'll just be looking out 447 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 1: to win. Let your face be up against the glass. 448 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 1: You're gonna like three years like this. I tell you 449 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,840 Speaker 1: something else. You ever throw a house party over three 450 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:29,000 Speaker 1: people show up? Man, you're just in there. Man, you 451 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 1: know the sandwich is just drying out with the two picks, 452 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 1: and man, that's pretty bad. I tell you something else 453 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:42,440 Speaker 1: depressing because I gotta go to Marrow in Atlanta. If 454 00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:47,000 Speaker 1: you go to the DMV and you number one, foe 455 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:51,960 Speaker 1: two six, and they only on number eight seventy one, 456 00:29:54,840 --> 00:30:03,840 Speaker 1: it's six hundred more people for that's yeah, I tell 457 00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:07,360 Speaker 1: you something to depressing. This was me at Winton one time, 458 00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:14,040 Speaker 1: watching your child play sports. But they ain't work for damn. Really, 459 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:18,920 Speaker 1: Winton was on the basketball team. I've never been so 460 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:26,040 Speaker 1: embarrassed in my whole life. You're not to take off 461 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 1: piano or something did leave. No, I was. I took 462 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:33,280 Speaker 1: him off the team. You take him on. I took 463 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 1: him off team. We're gonna keep it. Just say what 464 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:38,240 Speaker 1: you do. I can tell right now you can't play bass. 465 00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:44,080 Speaker 1: I've been working with you, and this is team just 466 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:48,760 Speaker 1: having these little white kids shaking and baking you. I'm watching. 467 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 1: You're crazy. Now, You're not gonna do that to me. 468 00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 1: You're not gonna do that to me. He just out 469 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 1: here shaking it, baking y'all tweeting league, breaking your risk. 470 00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,480 Speaker 1: Chasce up by your horby. Now. I took him right 471 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 1: on office to man an come on three twenty one 472 00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:24,880 Speaker 1: and still came step back and knock out. I took 473 00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:32,240 Speaker 1: him off, he got out give only it's right here 474 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:36,280 Speaker 1: and I'm sitting next to the white board. Father, What 475 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:41,400 Speaker 1: do you mean, hey, great move, Caleb. He took by 476 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:45,000 Speaker 1: a white boy name came right now, you're coming out 477 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:48,080 Speaker 1: of basketball. Ain't the white boy ever been in the 478 00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:51,720 Speaker 1: NBA named Cameo. I'll tell you another place that's to press. 479 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 1: What's that? If you go to a sandals couple resort 480 00:31:56,200 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 1: by yourself, everybody hut up eating you over there eating 481 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:10,040 Speaker 1: you on your night. Everybody woman find I'll tell you 482 00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:17,120 Speaker 1: another depressing plate right church, if you know you're going 483 00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:23,480 Speaker 1: to hell, goodness is a hard place to sit in here, Pastor, 484 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:33,680 Speaker 1: fire is don't this about me? Hell? Fire in a 485 00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:40,400 Speaker 1: way you're gonna make it To tell you another depressing 486 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 1: Is this about me? Pastor? Here's another depressing plate. Tender? 487 00:32:51,720 --> 00:33:00,440 Speaker 1: If you ugly, you tender, and you ugly, it's so 488 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 1: many white You ain't never you've been on that three weeks. 489 00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:15,240 Speaker 1: Ain't nobody to swipe you and kept you yet you swipe, 490 00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 1: don't swipe back. That's depressing. That's pretty bad. You don't 491 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:25,400 Speaker 1: tender and you just ugly. Yeah, yeah, that's the pressing. 492 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:30,760 Speaker 1: That's bad. It's depressing. When the male man show up, 493 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:34,960 Speaker 1: you think he got your income tact return he hand 494 00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 1: you smoe damn be you think I'm gonna paid ease? 495 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:42,960 Speaker 1: You ain't see nothing in your bad check your bag 496 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 1: feeling price? Right now? I know something that could be 497 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:54,360 Speaker 1: pretty depressing. You get that pregnancy test kid from the 498 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:57,200 Speaker 1: drug store and pee on it and it ain't the 499 00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:04,680 Speaker 1: color you want. Problem. That's pretty depressed. Yeah, father, Lord, 500 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,440 Speaker 1: mess up your whole day. If you go right on 501 00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,239 Speaker 1: there and get a no one. Don't you You bought 502 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,839 Speaker 1: three of them? Damn it. I'm paying from the word. 503 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,080 Speaker 1: I had them lined up one time, about eight on 504 00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:21,759 Speaker 1: all of the same color. Wow. See will you really 505 00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:26,960 Speaker 1: manage to bring the show down? Yeah? Just remember if 506 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:32,719 Speaker 1: you've been on tender two weeks, ain't nobody swipe you yet? 507 00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:37,600 Speaker 1: You need to check yourself. Take that photo off. We'll 508 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:40,239 Speaker 1: try to bring the mood up a little bit. We'll 509 00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,279 Speaker 1: be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show 510 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:46,279 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 511 00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:52,320 Speaker 1: Steve introduced Jay to Murder. Oh wont to ladies and gentlemen, 512 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:56,200 Speaker 1: here this food is with murdering the damn his what's 513 00:34:56,239 --> 00:35:00,160 Speaker 1: the song by Neil good Man? Good Man? Yeah up, 514 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:16,400 Speaker 1: huh oh be the other man or the man or 515 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:20,680 Speaker 1: the goodness all I want be okay and all you 516 00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 1: get from me baby, and I ain't get from me baby. 517 00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:29,080 Speaker 1: I don't want to be the other man, other man 518 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:33,680 Speaker 1: other gunness all. I won't be baby. It's all you 519 00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:37,560 Speaker 1: get from me, baby bad? It's I ain't get from me, 520 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:41,319 Speaker 1: lit it. I don't have to pick my phone up 521 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:45,479 Speaker 1: every time I see the car, it don't matter where 522 00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:49,360 Speaker 1: man ent on it and the drama showing up, and 523 00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:52,960 Speaker 1: my mom said, hold up all in my kids, do 524 00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:57,720 Speaker 1: you know him? Right time on? I gotta little Many 525 00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:01,440 Speaker 1: man at the jello. I'm a you and you I 526 00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:05,439 Speaker 1: want to do. I do everything by myself because I'm free. 527 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 1: My patience thing some baby and the nerds. You been 528 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:12,640 Speaker 1: the working. But we made a promise to know against heard, 529 00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:16,200 Speaker 1: and now you're getting mad. You said I hidn't desert check. 530 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:19,520 Speaker 1: You don't seem to understand. I don't want to be 531 00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:23,160 Speaker 1: the man or the man or the son of want me. 532 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:31,240 Speaker 1: Can't you get from me? Babe? I didn't get from me, babe. 533 00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:43,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to be the man. Many We love it, 534 00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,840 Speaker 1: thank you, Arab Harkins, junior boy, and we get it. 535 00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:49,920 Speaker 1: Hey man, round Harkins. I gotta give him man, please 536 00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 1: do man, just do music. We do songs. Whatever you 537 00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:54,279 Speaker 1: want done. Man. You know what I really like when 538 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:57,279 Speaker 1: you sit out on the piano and you sing. Man, 539 00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,680 Speaker 1: we got to do that. We got to do that, 540 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 1: oh man. But I gotta get up. I gotta get it. 541 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:05,120 Speaker 1: I gotta practice up. Man. You know that song is 542 00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:09,719 Speaker 1: ready I've seen you do it. Man, you break he 543 00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:17,880 Speaker 1: didn't that Apollo too? Yeah, a little bit sad. You 544 00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:21,120 Speaker 1: know nothing player, they've been trying to tune the piano. 545 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,480 Speaker 1: I just go over there and you can play. You 546 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,120 Speaker 1: need to use that. Coming up more of the Steve 547 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show at thirty four after the hour. Everybody's 548 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:33,360 Speaker 1: been asking me since I'm from Cleveland, Steve, how you 549 00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:38,759 Speaker 1: feel about Lebron leven Cleveland. Well, Lebron gave everything to 550 00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:41,360 Speaker 1: the city. We went to the finals four years in 551 00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,160 Speaker 1: the row. You can't ask for no more than that. 552 00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:45,279 Speaker 1: And he bought a title to a city they had 553 00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,959 Speaker 1: one in fifty two years. I've been there the whole time. 554 00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:51,320 Speaker 1: I wish Lebron the best. He's with the purple and 555 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:54,279 Speaker 1: gold now that's good, and least the colors is good. 556 00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:57,640 Speaker 1: He's a Laker now, got big shoulders. He gotta live 557 00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,319 Speaker 1: up to a lot. But he Lebron James, we gonna 558 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,480 Speaker 1: do no, I'm not. I'm pulling for the Lakers now 559 00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:07,240 Speaker 1: the cow we won't be back in the championship for years. 560 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:11,680 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Hardy Morning Show. Okay, there 561 00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:16,280 Speaker 1: is a new trend that has people throwing away toilet paper. 562 00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:20,920 Speaker 1: You don't need that anymore. Uh, don't even think about it. 563 00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:26,319 Speaker 1: There's for something called a family cloth. What's that? It's 564 00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:33,279 Speaker 1: basically reusable. Keyword in this reusable small cloth squares if 565 00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:36,200 Speaker 1: people used to wipe and then they put in a bath, 566 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:40,080 Speaker 1: then they put in a basket. There's such a big 567 00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:42,920 Speaker 1: trend where there are a lot of different options on 568 00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,360 Speaker 1: the market. Wait wait, wait, wait wait wait. So so 569 00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:48,879 Speaker 1: if I come to your house, I'm going to use 570 00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:55,160 Speaker 1: your clothes? Now, okay, a lot of things wrong with 571 00:38:55,239 --> 00:39:00,360 Speaker 1: that question you just asked me. First of all, it's wiping. Okay, no, 572 00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:05,920 Speaker 1: not to my house, no, no, okay, here, let me finish. 573 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:07,880 Speaker 1: This is really a big trend. Now there are a 574 00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:09,759 Speaker 1: lot of different options on the market that come in 575 00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:13,840 Speaker 1: a wide variety of patterns. Toilet paper make a difference, 576 00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:18,360 Speaker 1: all right. Toilet paper is one of those papers that 577 00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:22,520 Speaker 1: staples that people rarely leave the grocery store without. But 578 00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:24,879 Speaker 1: it seems that more and more people are turning away 579 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:28,160 Speaker 1: from the standard toilet paper now and there they use 580 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:32,120 Speaker 1: these family cloths because their environmentally safe. What these people? 581 00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:36,600 Speaker 1: What I listen, this is a new trend. You're going 582 00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:39,359 Speaker 1: to be hearing about this. Let us be the first 583 00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:48,400 Speaker 1: to tell you about this. So pannicky, I am especially 584 00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:51,080 Speaker 1: about bathroom stuff. No, for what happen when you get 585 00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:54,279 Speaker 1: in in Suley. You don't forgot your clothes. It's in 586 00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:58,120 Speaker 1: the basket, didn't you Just hear me say they throw 587 00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,319 Speaker 1: it away and they put it in the ask if 588 00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:02,160 Speaker 1: they use it, and then they put it in. Understand 589 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:05,000 Speaker 1: that the same person uses the cloud over and yeah, 590 00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:08,600 Speaker 1: the family it's called a family cloth. Don't we love 591 00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,320 Speaker 1: to his house and he's got initials on the towels. 592 00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:15,360 Speaker 1: Don't use don't you gotta grab you know you're not 593 00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 1: supposed to use those good towels. Not that's what you're 594 00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:26,000 Speaker 1: talking about. When when it says he and her, why 595 00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,359 Speaker 1: do you keep looking at I didn't make these? Okay, 596 00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:32,640 Speaker 1: let me store I just I'm just the messenger here, guys, 597 00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:35,839 Speaker 1: But I can't help but think you got these closes. Man, 598 00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:37,560 Speaker 1: I would like to be in the house when you 599 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,520 Speaker 1: hear somebody to say, who did you use your mama quill? 600 00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:46,319 Speaker 1: You didn't use the coda grandmamas wild Wallace can't use 601 00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:50,880 Speaker 1: the cloth. She don't need a bed spread. Okay, some 602 00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:55,640 Speaker 1: people just only use the cloths for number one, that's it, okay, 603 00:40:56,320 --> 00:41:00,080 Speaker 1: but number then they go back to the teep he 604 00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:03,759 Speaker 1: number you called a TV. You got it? You got 605 00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:09,520 Speaker 1: you called up that it's got. Yeah, I'm trying. People 606 00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:15,160 Speaker 1: are Indians, lea girl, you're throwing me all Native American 607 00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,440 Speaker 1: Native Americans. I'm sorry, I don't know the correct Well 608 00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,000 Speaker 1: you should by now, okay. But when you love some 609 00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:26,360 Speaker 1: house and you see a sham wow in there, you 610 00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:32,000 Speaker 1: just go wow. Normally doc yeah, but yeah, some people 611 00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,279 Speaker 1: just use them for that, but other people use them 612 00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:39,840 Speaker 1: for everything. The microfiber, well, let's see, they're they're just cloth, okay, 613 00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:45,000 Speaker 1: some cloth. And what color they come in? You don't 614 00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:53,920 Speaker 1: want white? Do you want white? You don't want that's 615 00:41:53,960 --> 00:42:00,360 Speaker 1: probably gold color. I don't even know when the clean. 616 00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:03,279 Speaker 1: And on top of that one, if you didn't put 617 00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:07,279 Speaker 1: your clothes in the bath, yeah, you gotta look, you 618 00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:09,840 Speaker 1: just set you us on the counter. Somebody got to 619 00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:11,480 Speaker 1: wash their face at the ball. This is just the 620 00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:14,320 Speaker 1: reason now you have to go around with bigger purses, Carla, 621 00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:18,880 Speaker 1: because you got to call it carry your own toilet paper, 622 00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:21,279 Speaker 1: no toilet paper, because if you go to someone's house 623 00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,760 Speaker 1: and they just have a cloth your own t peek. 624 00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:29,280 Speaker 1: Yeah you're on. Yeah you have to. Yeah, we wipe 625 00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:31,320 Speaker 1: when you travel and you go through T s A. 626 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,640 Speaker 1: You need to let them know that wasn't in that 627 00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:37,239 Speaker 1: and don't get it mixed up with the dish cloth 628 00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:50,960 Speaker 1: whatever you you see, how happen in there, washing washing dishes, 629 00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,480 Speaker 1: went to the bathroom real quick, left that cloth and 630 00:42:53,560 --> 00:43:01,480 Speaker 1: that I taste difference. We'll be back with more of 631 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:04,960 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening 632 00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:09,440 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show and your man Steve Harvey, 633 00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:12,480 Speaker 1: do you think you're smarter than my nephew Tommy. You 634 00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:16,320 Speaker 1: could qualify for listen to this one million dollars. Go 635 00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,799 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey FM and get the details on how 636 00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:22,080 Speaker 1: you can play smarter than Nephew Tommy. Here's a deal. 637 00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:27,400 Speaker 1: If you're smarter than nephew Tommy, you win one hundred 638 00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:30,359 Speaker 1: dollar gift cards and you have an opportunity to open 639 00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:34,320 Speaker 1: the safe and win one million dollars. If Tommy wins, 640 00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:37,759 Speaker 1: you will win a twenty five dollar gift card. Just 641 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:41,040 Speaker 1: go to Steve Harvey F FILM for details. The winning 642 00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:46,520 Speaker 1: starts this Tuesday at seven a M. Six twenty a m. 643 00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:49,759 Speaker 1: All right, coming up at the top of the hour, 644 00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:53,560 Speaker 1: right about four minutes after today's Strawberry letter. But first 645 00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:57,279 Speaker 1: nephew and the prank phone call. Come on now, well 646 00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:01,040 Speaker 1: that's right here. That's all the fellas that to the barbershop. 647 00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:06,120 Speaker 1: When the barber is cutting your hair and his he 648 00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:09,680 Speaker 1: is private be pushing the chair, it's an awkward feeling 649 00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:12,080 Speaker 1: most me and no about it. This is the ball. 650 00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:15,520 Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm talking about? You? Yes, I 651 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,040 Speaker 1: know exactly what you're talking about. Man, You got to 652 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,360 Speaker 1: you gotta sit in the barbershop with your arms folded. 653 00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:25,759 Speaker 1: That's almost in your lap. But is that because his 654 00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:30,360 Speaker 1: hands are occupied in your hands? Yeah, so he rotates 655 00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:35,759 Speaker 1: the chair with his and that you can't stand that. 656 00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:42,600 Speaker 1: I can't stand that. That's crazy. It is the bober shop, Brady, 657 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:44,480 Speaker 1: how you doing? Man? My name is Dennis Man. I 658 00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:49,000 Speaker 1: got a hair cut from you a couple of weeks ago. Hey, listen, um, 659 00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:51,680 Speaker 1: I wanted to get an appointment with you. Man. Uh 660 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:53,440 Speaker 1: like I said, I was there a couple of weeks ago. Man, 661 00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:55,960 Speaker 1: my first time getting haircut from you did real, real 662 00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:58,400 Speaker 1: good jobs. I want to say thank you for that right. 663 00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:05,040 Speaker 1: Do you have any um any time available on Thursday? Yeah? Yeah, 664 00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:12,160 Speaker 1: for sure. What's what's what's your name here? Bro? Dennis? Man? Dennis? Okay, Dennis? 665 00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:15,839 Speaker 1: Why Dennis? About three o'clock, man, something of that nature. 666 00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:17,600 Speaker 1: I mean, you know I only work apportmans. You know 667 00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:23,239 Speaker 1: three o'clock you'll be there. Okay. Hey, I got a 668 00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:26,000 Speaker 1: little bit of situation though, man. That happened last time 669 00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:28,239 Speaker 1: I was there. I kind of wanted to talk to 670 00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:30,840 Speaker 1: you about it, man, because it kind of called me 671 00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,680 Speaker 1: off guard. So I want to do how I let you, 672 00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:35,960 Speaker 1: man and see if we could rectify the problem. For 673 00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,800 Speaker 1: I came back up there. What happened? What somebody dispect 674 00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:41,920 Speaker 1: your something? I mean, what else to do? What? What? Um? 675 00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:45,040 Speaker 1: It really was somebody? Man? It was it? It was 676 00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:50,080 Speaker 1: it was actually you. Whoa, here's deal? Man? When you 677 00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:52,399 Speaker 1: was cutting my hair, when it when it was time 678 00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:57,040 Speaker 1: to turn the chair, you didn't turn the chair with 679 00:45:57,200 --> 00:46:00,200 Speaker 1: with with with with your hand man. See brainy man, 680 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:04,319 Speaker 1: you you turned the chair with your with your private part. Oh, 681 00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:07,719 Speaker 1: come on safe. I mean I'm a professional man. I've 682 00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:10,279 Speaker 1: been doing this fifteen years, right right. I don't think 683 00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:14,759 Speaker 1: it's anything deliberate. Man. I think you just do it unconsciously, man, 684 00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,160 Speaker 1: because you know you'd be leaning over on the chair cutting, 685 00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,800 Speaker 1: and I think you don't realize, you know, you'd be 686 00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,839 Speaker 1: turning the chair with your private part instead of doing 687 00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:25,520 Speaker 1: it with your hand. Man. And see, my hand got 688 00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:28,000 Speaker 1: caught out there, and I saw it out the corner 689 00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:30,520 Speaker 1: my eyes. I saw your private part coming towards my hand. 690 00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:34,520 Speaker 1: I moved it just in time. You understand, but not 691 00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:38,120 Speaker 1: not see? Then I'm not understanding something. But because I don't, 692 00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 1: I don't. We don't operate like that, mind, yes, because 693 00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:43,359 Speaker 1: you know I don't make mistakes like that. But I mean, 694 00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:45,040 Speaker 1: you know I don't know you. You're sure you're talking 695 00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:47,120 Speaker 1: to the right person, man, Yeah, I mean ain't you 696 00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:49,200 Speaker 1: the third chair on the right when you walk in 697 00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:52,520 Speaker 1: the door. Yeah that's correct. Okay, that what I'm talking about, man. 698 00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:55,000 Speaker 1: And you cut me two weeks ago, and like I said, 699 00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:56,520 Speaker 1: I really like my hair cut, so I wanted to 700 00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:59,359 Speaker 1: call back and rectify this problem. But you know you're 701 00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,359 Speaker 1: gonna turn the chair with your hand and not your 702 00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:04,440 Speaker 1: pride part. If not, we're gonna have a problem. Okay, bro, 703 00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:08,160 Speaker 1: Now I feel it, and I understand your your complaint 704 00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:11,160 Speaker 1: and everything. I mean, I'm not understanding what you're saying, 705 00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,520 Speaker 1: but but I don't do that, you know, I mean 706 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:15,399 Speaker 1: we we will be glad. You know what I'm saying. 707 00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:18,000 Speaker 1: You another cut or whatever. You understand me, you know, 708 00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:21,880 Speaker 1: but but I don't move nobody no around with my problem. Man. 709 00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:25,160 Speaker 1: So that's just not me. Okay, I understand what you're saying, 710 00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:27,759 Speaker 1: but I want you to hear what I'm saying. If 711 00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:30,960 Speaker 1: you put your private on there at all when I 712 00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:34,759 Speaker 1: come in there Thursday, then I promise you're gonna jump 713 00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:37,000 Speaker 1: up and we're gonna have a problem. Well what let's 714 00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:40,200 Speaker 1: see not now now right there? And I'm not I'm 715 00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,680 Speaker 1: not feeling that jump up having a problem because you know, 716 00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:44,640 Speaker 1: you don't really know me like that. Bro, you know 717 00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:46,640 Speaker 1: what I mean. I'm trying to be professional here and 718 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:49,680 Speaker 1: and solve your little issue that you got your understanding, 719 00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:52,279 Speaker 1: But I ad just jumping up and stuff you're talking 720 00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:55,200 Speaker 1: about doing. I don't know. I'm trying to come in 721 00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,480 Speaker 1: and get a nice hair cut and walk out with 722 00:47:57,600 --> 00:47:59,759 Speaker 1: a nice hair cut. What I don't want to do. 723 00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,359 Speaker 1: It's come down there, you're leaning, oh, put your private part, well, 724 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:05,319 Speaker 1: I got my arms in my hands and I gotta 725 00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:09,240 Speaker 1: help you. Now, that's what I don't dude, you're starting. 726 00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:11,439 Speaker 1: You're touching the wrong, talking about what you're talking about. 727 00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:14,359 Speaker 1: I'm touching you wrong. You touched me wrong two weeks 728 00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,719 Speaker 1: ago when you put your private on my hand. Man, 729 00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:20,000 Speaker 1: I don't know how to touch you. You feel to 730 00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:25,880 Speaker 1: say what I don't talking to you? Know? Hey, dog all, 731 00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:27,719 Speaker 1: I'm trying to say. You're the brother trying to come 732 00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:30,120 Speaker 1: in and get his hair cut and walk out feeling 733 00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:33,120 Speaker 1: like a man, and not walk out feeling violated. Man 734 00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:36,160 Speaker 1: because you didn't turn the chair with your private part 735 00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:38,719 Speaker 1: all up against my hand, in my elbow and stuff. Man, 736 00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:44,320 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. You know I'm trying to 737 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:46,839 Speaker 1: talk to you. But let you don't run me wrong. 738 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:49,200 Speaker 1: I ain't no punk flying here. And you understanding they 739 00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,480 Speaker 1: ain't no punk flying that. Then't keep it off my hand. 740 00:48:53,200 --> 00:49:00,520 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. Oh yeah, stupid. So you're understanding, 741 00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:06,439 Speaker 1: and look quicker play over here, salon. It's a brother shop. 742 00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:10,920 Speaker 1: I hear what you're saying, but let me explain something. 743 00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,000 Speaker 1: You We're you using your hips and your private section 744 00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:16,880 Speaker 1: like a pinball machine and I'm gonna tell you right 745 00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:19,200 Speaker 1: now what I will put something on you. You come on, 746 00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:25,120 Speaker 1: understand me? Play. Come on, dude, I'm just trying to 747 00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:27,359 Speaker 1: come and get a hair cut. I'm trying to get 748 00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,239 Speaker 1: a hair cut and walk out of there like a man, 749 00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:31,800 Speaker 1: feeling like a man. I bet you open you know, 750 00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:33,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna open you up. Boy? Do you want to 751 00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:38,400 Speaker 1: stay here? Now? Now? You know? Now? Come on? You know? 752 00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:40,480 Speaker 1: Tell you how to do something to your what's the 753 00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:44,680 Speaker 1: one to be salon? This is a brother shop? Good? 754 00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:51,279 Speaker 1: You understand me? What? I ain't got time. I'm not saying, 755 00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:53,359 Speaker 1: damn O that I got something. I have a cut, 756 00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:55,279 Speaker 1: right and I ain't got tiling. You're running your dumb 757 00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:58,000 Speaker 1: back over here. You're gonna come over here to to stay. 758 00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:03,520 Speaker 1: I bet you did. I don't go. I don't do it. 759 00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,799 Speaker 1: You feel you know what? You man? You'll come up, 760 00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:12,440 Speaker 1: come on your show and you come up to you. Okay, okay, 761 00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:14,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna putting my real name on my shirt. Them 762 00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:16,600 Speaker 1: you want to know what my real name is. That's 763 00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:19,360 Speaker 1: what's up. That's what's up. Then you might want to 764 00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:20,920 Speaker 1: you want you want to know what name gonna be 765 00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:24,399 Speaker 1: on the shirt? I want to like. Then the name 766 00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:27,800 Speaker 1: on the shirt is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey 767 00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:48,920 Speaker 1: Morning Shown. Say oh man, say bro my bad many. 768 00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:51,200 Speaker 1: I got one more thing to ask you, man, what 769 00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:54,320 Speaker 1: is what is the baddest and I mean the baddest 770 00:50:54,480 --> 00:51:03,399 Speaker 1: radio show in the land man the morning Watch your pelvis? Man? 771 00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:11,279 Speaker 1: Wow you oh all you bob is out there, Come 772 00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:15,160 Speaker 1: on the chair with your hand which show me JR. 773 00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,719 Speaker 1: Let me sea maybe cutting, you know, maybe in your head. 774 00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:19,560 Speaker 1: But then when they trying to rotate that wait wait, 775 00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:25,239 Speaker 1: let video they're cutting. Then all of a sudden he's 776 00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:27,600 Speaker 1: a hold off for the rotate and they tiding to 777 00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:33,279 Speaker 1: win like that and your hand be right there ten 778 00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:36,759 Speaker 1: times of that per hat cut. Hey man, we got 779 00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:41,680 Speaker 1: proplem like Hula Hooper. Yeah you know what I'm saying. Yeah, 780 00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:50,920 Speaker 1: yeah yeah, moving up him Yeah, female bubble, Oh come on, 781 00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:55,080 Speaker 1: Hula who me? I love female barbers. This is how 782 00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:56,839 Speaker 1: I know I had a bad hair cut one time 783 00:51:57,560 --> 00:51:59,400 Speaker 1: I was at a white club and it got y'all out. 784 00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:06,279 Speaker 1: Who cut your strawberry? Letter? Coming up? You're listening to 785 00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:09,680 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it's time for 786 00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:12,719 Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. If you're in the situation and you 787 00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:14,960 Speaker 1: need some advice, all you have to do is go 788 00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:19,200 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey f M dot com and submit your 789 00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:21,719 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, and Steve and I might read your letter 790 00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:25,040 Speaker 1: on the air. All right, let's go, Tommy, buggle up 791 00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:26,960 Speaker 1: and hold on tight. We got it for you. Here 792 00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:30,920 Speaker 1: it is Strawberry letter. Alright. Subject, don't hold my past 793 00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:34,080 Speaker 1: against me. Dear Stephen Shirley, I have a question and 794 00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:37,040 Speaker 1: I need your advice. When should I tell a new 795 00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:40,279 Speaker 1: love interest that I have been to prison. I am 796 00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:43,960 Speaker 1: not the average parole though. I am an older woman 797 00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:47,600 Speaker 1: that served a lengthy prison term as a first offender 798 00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:52,560 Speaker 1: for transporting drugs. Since my release from prison, I've earned 799 00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:55,640 Speaker 1: a degree and I have a great career for many years, 800 00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:58,719 Speaker 1: I own a home, and I'm an upstanding member of 801 00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:02,040 Speaker 1: my community. No one would ever believe that I have 802 00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,800 Speaker 1: had a considerable amount of my life controlled by the 803 00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:09,759 Speaker 1: Department of Corrections. So when is it appropriate to disclose 804 00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:12,479 Speaker 1: this information to a man. I don't want to share 805 00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:15,560 Speaker 1: it up front because I don't want to be judged unfairly. 806 00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:18,520 Speaker 1: I also don't want to wait too long because I 807 00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:21,600 Speaker 1: don't want to shot the man in my last relationship. 808 00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:24,719 Speaker 1: My man did not hold it against me. We broke 809 00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:27,840 Speaker 1: it off for other reasons since him. I met a 810 00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:30,360 Speaker 1: man and we were talking about people being in prison 811 00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:33,360 Speaker 1: and he had he had strong views against it, so 812 00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:36,920 Speaker 1: I didn't pursue anything further with him to avoid telling 813 00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:40,600 Speaker 1: him about my past. I want desperately to be in love, 814 00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:43,600 Speaker 1: but I'm afraid to be open and honest with guys 815 00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:46,960 Speaker 1: I meet. It may not be you know, it may 816 00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,320 Speaker 1: not be that big of a deal, and I'm worried 817 00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:53,160 Speaker 1: for nothing. What are your thoughts? Well, um, I think 818 00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:56,000 Speaker 1: the timing is everything, and I think you should be 819 00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:59,200 Speaker 1: honest with him, And you're right you shouldn't wait too 820 00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:02,520 Speaker 1: long if he's a new love interest. I'm assuming that 821 00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:04,680 Speaker 1: you guys are dating and going out to dinner and 822 00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:07,320 Speaker 1: such things. So even though it's hard for you to 823 00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,240 Speaker 1: bring it up because you don't want to be judged, 824 00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:11,879 Speaker 1: you know you have to bring it up. So one 825 00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:14,879 Speaker 1: night at dinner as early as possible, you know, if 826 00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:16,920 Speaker 1: not the first date, the second date, go ahead and 827 00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:19,160 Speaker 1: tell him. You know, people have to like you for 828 00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:21,680 Speaker 1: who you are. You You you did what you did, 829 00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:24,959 Speaker 1: You paid your debt, to society. You spent many years 830 00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:28,719 Speaker 1: in in prison. You said, now that's over. You know, 831 00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:31,360 Speaker 1: everyone gets a second chance. I think you deserve a 832 00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:34,440 Speaker 1: second chance, and you've proved that with your second chance 833 00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:37,080 Speaker 1: you've become a better person. You say, you're an upstanding 834 00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,960 Speaker 1: member uh in your community, you own your own home, 835 00:54:40,080 --> 00:54:42,440 Speaker 1: you've you've had a great career for many years, you 836 00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:45,560 Speaker 1: have a degree. So I mean you're you're clearly a 837 00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:49,560 Speaker 1: changed person. So if the person who you're with uh 838 00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:53,520 Speaker 1: liked you, and uh, you know, if you once you 839 00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:56,160 Speaker 1: tell them, excuse me, they like you for who you are, 840 00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:58,359 Speaker 1: They're not gonna hold that against you. I mean, there 841 00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:00,520 Speaker 1: have been many people out there that have on time 842 00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:03,719 Speaker 1: and have gone gone on to do upstanding things, and 843 00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:06,239 Speaker 1: I think you're one of those. So UM, tell him, 844 00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:08,640 Speaker 1: tell him as soon as possible. First, just if not 845 00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:12,480 Speaker 1: the first date, definitely the second date. Steve. First of all, 846 00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:17,319 Speaker 1: congratulations on picking yourself up and turning yourself around. Shall 847 00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:21,000 Speaker 1: I not say yourself? Let me say praise to God 848 00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:24,520 Speaker 1: for picking you up and turning you around. That God 849 00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:27,800 Speaker 1: is in the forgiving business. God is in the delivery business. 850 00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:30,719 Speaker 1: God is in to make your dream come true. By 851 00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:34,759 Speaker 1: you are a result of that, the fact that you're 852 00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:37,200 Speaker 1: an older woman and you serve the lengthy prison term 853 00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:40,960 Speaker 1: as a first defender for transporting drugs. You've earned a degree, 854 00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:44,400 Speaker 1: you have had a great career for many years, you 855 00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:48,239 Speaker 1: own a home, and I am outstanding, upstanding member of 856 00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:51,000 Speaker 1: your community. No one would ever believe you did a 857 00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:54,120 Speaker 1: considerable out of time control by the Department of Correction. 858 00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:57,920 Speaker 1: So when is it appropriate to disclose this information to 859 00:55:58,040 --> 00:56:01,680 Speaker 1: a man? I don't want to share it up front, 860 00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:05,520 Speaker 1: and you shouldn't. This is nothing you need to share 861 00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:10,200 Speaker 1: upfront now. Surely gives good advice. I happened to disagree 862 00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:12,600 Speaker 1: with sharing this with a man on the first or 863 00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:16,799 Speaker 1: second day. First and second day don't mean I think 864 00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:21,359 Speaker 1: you reveal this information to a man once you all 865 00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:26,840 Speaker 1: are about to be intimate. Then the relationship going somewhere, 866 00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:30,799 Speaker 1: y'all just talking and dating. What is this now? If 867 00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:35,080 Speaker 1: you feel like it's about to get intimate, then you 868 00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,759 Speaker 1: need to reveal this information. And I'll tell you why. 869 00:56:38,800 --> 00:56:42,839 Speaker 1: Because a man is now more vested in you, He's 870 00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:47,360 Speaker 1: developed feelings for you without, as you say, being judgment 871 00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:50,640 Speaker 1: Because remember the one guy she was liking and she 872 00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:55,400 Speaker 1: tried to share it up front. You know, uh, he 873 00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:57,960 Speaker 1: set up and had really strong feelings about people that 874 00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:01,799 Speaker 1: have been to prison with his Ask Carl, he's out, 875 00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:04,880 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So that has happened to 876 00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:09,560 Speaker 1: her so rightfully. So she's concerned about running off a 877 00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:12,880 Speaker 1: good man too earlier. So first and second date is 878 00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:16,040 Speaker 1: out of the question. I disagree. I think it's something 879 00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:20,200 Speaker 1: you keep. Let a person get to know you, get 880 00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:23,160 Speaker 1: to understand how you are and feel you without having 881 00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:26,760 Speaker 1: that information to taint who you really are, because it 882 00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:30,640 Speaker 1: can happen, cause people are human beings. I got Should 883 00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:33,760 Speaker 1: nobody judge everybody? Should faith take your faith value for 884 00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:36,920 Speaker 1: what you are. That ain't how people operating. Let's not 885 00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:40,880 Speaker 1: be naive. So simple you wait until you're about to 886 00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:45,720 Speaker 1: become intimate and then you drop it on period. Now 887 00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:49,240 Speaker 1: anybody don't like that information, I'm sorry, but that's when 888 00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:52,480 Speaker 1: I would do it now, any question, Shirley, I've been 889 00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:54,720 Speaker 1: to the pin. You say that right there for y'all star. 890 00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:57,600 Speaker 1: Now when you when it's about to become intimate. Now, 891 00:57:57,680 --> 00:57:59,840 Speaker 1: I don't have any questions. We we do just to 892 00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:04,600 Speaker 1: I guess no, I guess we do disagree on that 893 00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:06,960 Speaker 1: I think you should the earlier, the better, you know, 894 00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:09,400 Speaker 1: and and give the person, the other person, the option 895 00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:12,800 Speaker 1: of whether they want to continue the relationship. People do 896 00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:16,360 Speaker 1: have strong opinions about you know, people who have been 897 00:58:16,400 --> 00:58:19,480 Speaker 1: to prison. So I just say the earlier, the better, 898 00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:22,360 Speaker 1: timing is everything, of course, and you know, give them 899 00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:24,120 Speaker 1: the option of whether they want to hang in there 900 00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:30,400 Speaker 1: or get out. That's my opinion. Hanging out for one relationship. Yeah, 901 00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:34,120 Speaker 1: gotten a degree, got it. We'll finish this woman, Okay, 902 00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:36,320 Speaker 1: all right, we'll be back with part two of Steve's 903 00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:39,720 Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three after the hours you're 904 00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:43,760 Speaker 1: listening to Steve show. For those of you out there 905 00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:45,640 Speaker 1: who own a car in a home, you know more 906 00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:49,120 Speaker 1: than anyone else, those things didn't just fall into your lap. 907 00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:51,520 Speaker 1: You made it all happen by staying on your grind 908 00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:54,120 Speaker 1: and working for and now it's time let's stay farm 909 00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:56,840 Speaker 1: do the work of protecting it with your own personal 910 00:58:56,920 --> 00:58:59,720 Speaker 1: state farm agent, because they understand just how much at 911 00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:02,120 Speaker 1: home car mean to you and will always be that 912 00:59:02,240 --> 00:59:04,520 Speaker 1: to help you when you need him. Stay Farm, here 913 00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:06,680 Speaker 1: to help the hustle go right, and here to help 914 00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:10,240 Speaker 1: life go right. Good morning, this is your boy, Kevin Heart, 915 00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,640 Speaker 1: wishing you all a happy being saved. Fourth of July 916 00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:17,080 Speaker 1: and you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Joe. All right, Steve, 917 00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:19,440 Speaker 1: come on, let's go with part two of your response 918 00:59:19,520 --> 00:59:24,120 Speaker 1: to today's Strawberry letter subject don't hold my past against me? 919 00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:29,840 Speaker 1: See and the reason I think that the well this 920 00:59:30,080 --> 00:59:34,720 Speaker 1: woman is questioning she needs some advice because she's been 921 00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:37,280 Speaker 1: to prison before for a large part of her life, 922 00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:40,800 Speaker 1: and she's wondering when is the right time to inform 923 00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:45,360 Speaker 1: a man that she has been to prison because she's 924 00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:49,440 Speaker 1: not the average parole lead. She says, she's an older woman, Sir, 925 00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:52,360 Speaker 1: the lengthy prison time as a first defender for transporting 926 00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:56,040 Speaker 1: drug but since her release from prison, she's earned a degree, 927 00:59:57,200 --> 01:00:00,440 Speaker 1: she has a great career for many years, she's a 928 01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:03,840 Speaker 1: homeowner and an upstanding member of her community. No one 929 01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:06,200 Speaker 1: would ever believe that I've had a considerable amount of 930 01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:09,240 Speaker 1: my life controlled by the Department of Correction. I think 931 01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:12,800 Speaker 1: you have a fabulous story to do. I think that 932 01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:18,160 Speaker 1: you are a story of redemption, overcoming, forgiveness and God's 933 01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:21,120 Speaker 1: great I think you have an incredible story to tell. 934 01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:24,560 Speaker 1: I think if you told that story, if you peel 935 01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:29,080 Speaker 1: back and remove the layer of secrecy. As the story, 936 01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:33,280 Speaker 1: this is my story, this is what I'm from and 937 01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:36,640 Speaker 1: this is what I've become. More people would resonate with you. 938 01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:39,880 Speaker 1: I really feel that way. Now. As far as dating 939 01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:41,920 Speaker 1: a man, if you don't want to take that route, 940 01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:45,280 Speaker 1: then I don't think you should tell him on the 941 01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:47,520 Speaker 1: first or second day. I think you should wait until 942 01:00:47,560 --> 01:00:52,440 Speaker 1: you're into about to become because you all know, Okay, 943 01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:57,240 Speaker 1: when I get him, when I see this, women know what? What? 944 01:00:57,360 --> 01:01:01,840 Speaker 1: What if they're gonna have sex only for you know 945 01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:05,720 Speaker 1: how we get to that? What? What? While we talkt him? 946 01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:08,840 Speaker 1: She already if you listened to the letter, it's not 947 01:01:08,960 --> 01:01:11,919 Speaker 1: a woman like should she wait to the both uns? 948 01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:27,040 Speaker 1: Where's my team? Jay? All day? Don't you? Ada? Makes sense? 949 01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:34,080 Speaker 1: One more time, Jake, because I don't believe what you 950 01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:36,640 Speaker 1: just said. I don't believe you said what you just said? 951 01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:41,480 Speaker 1: She should she wait to them both Una? I know 952 01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:46,640 Speaker 1: you like what you see, but don't mind fight nack 953 01:01:46,680 --> 01:01:51,800 Speaker 1: it though. You know that right you hired him, Steve 954 01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:55,760 Speaker 1: and the other one is your blood story as a 955 01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:59,800 Speaker 1: story redemption and overcome to write a book about it 956 01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:04,120 Speaker 1: to mentor young girls to go into prisons and tell 957 01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:07,400 Speaker 1: your story. I think your life has great value to 958 01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:12,440 Speaker 1: I think your story, your past, is your story. But 959 01:02:12,680 --> 01:02:14,880 Speaker 1: you can stand up and make the announcement. I've held 960 01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:17,920 Speaker 1: this from you off for so many years because I 961 01:02:18,120 --> 01:02:20,560 Speaker 1: was a shame. But I'm no longer a shamed. I'm 962 01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:24,680 Speaker 1: actually proud. I'm actually filled with God's grace now and 963 01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:30,320 Speaker 1: I want to share story. In nineteen I was convicted 964 01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:34,440 Speaker 1: for drug traffic I got caught up in a situation 965 01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:38,320 Speaker 1: I was young. I've been to jail for twenty years. 966 01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:43,280 Speaker 1: I got out in two thousand five. Now a lot 967 01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:48,880 Speaker 1: of people gonna start clear, not come on hard. Some 968 01:02:49,040 --> 01:02:55,880 Speaker 1: people there, okay, so the ones that are left right, 969 01:02:56,080 --> 01:03:00,680 Speaker 1: So we're gonna see some walk out. But give the 970 01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:04,080 Speaker 1: people that those little ones that are with them. Okay, 971 01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:07,680 Speaker 1: do Christians anyway? But dog, couldn't we tell them like 972 01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:10,000 Speaker 1: right after we do? We can you tell me? Then? 973 01:03:10,960 --> 01:03:14,640 Speaker 1: Let's keep through it your way. All that ain't on 974 01:03:14,720 --> 01:03:16,760 Speaker 1: my mind. I don't want jail on my mind. Why 975 01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:21,240 Speaker 1: we do? I know you enjoyed it, but that's how 976 01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:30,280 Speaker 1: it's gonna go. Jack, It's going down now, it's coming up. 977 01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:37,840 Speaker 1: Taking the motor you you got caught up, junior, I 978 01:03:37,960 --> 01:03:42,920 Speaker 1: got one more, Just one more? You yell out lights out, 979 01:03:44,720 --> 01:03:50,960 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. There a big sign or something like, could 980 01:03:50,960 --> 01:03:52,640 Speaker 1: you roll over and get my paints? I'm under the bid. 981 01:03:56,080 --> 01:03:59,040 Speaker 1: You laying on my pain. I agree that she has 982 01:03:59,080 --> 01:04:02,200 Speaker 1: a great, great, great story. We just we disagree on 983 01:04:02,320 --> 01:04:06,720 Speaker 1: when she should tell him. Yeah, but I think story 984 01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:09,880 Speaker 1: and just take the take the whole veil of secrecy 985 01:04:09,920 --> 01:04:12,880 Speaker 1: off of it, man, and tell your story. See if 986 01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:15,919 Speaker 1: you tell your story that keep people from telling Yeah, 987 01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:19,760 Speaker 1: you tell your own truth. You reveal it what they're 988 01:04:19,760 --> 01:04:24,720 Speaker 1: gonna say exactly. She used to sell truths, Well, yeah 989 01:04:24,760 --> 01:04:27,960 Speaker 1: I did. But he saved me. God gott to save 990 01:04:28,000 --> 01:04:29,400 Speaker 1: you from something. I think you have a great story 991 01:04:29,440 --> 01:04:32,600 Speaker 1: of redemption. I say, pulled back the curtain yourself and 992 01:04:32,720 --> 01:04:34,480 Speaker 1: walk out on that and who's gonna be, What you're 993 01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:36,520 Speaker 1: gonna be, what you'll find out? Who you cool people? 994 01:04:36,680 --> 01:04:39,880 Speaker 1: Is right? That's all you gotta do is it's pull 995 01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:42,800 Speaker 1: the curtain back on that plane and let him sit 996 01:04:42,840 --> 01:04:45,320 Speaker 1: there and watch that for a minute. You'll find out 997 01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:49,360 Speaker 1: who what you do? You can sing, oh don't you 998 01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:59,840 Speaker 1: knew that? Sound working on the chain? Dag? Really? My 999 01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:02,440 Speaker 1: people in her life though already know it though, because 1000 01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:04,520 Speaker 1: she has to. I mean, you know they gotta do 1001 01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:08,000 Speaker 1: background check because she's all yeah, she has a great 1002 01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:23,720 Speaker 1: career from what you ain't so fast? Baby? Your head 1003 01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:25,959 Speaker 1: all the way in your boat? What are you walking 1004 01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:29,280 Speaker 1: the restaurant? And get up against the wall. Yeah, and 1005 01:05:29,480 --> 01:05:32,880 Speaker 1: walk along the wall until you get by the kitchen. Go? 1006 01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:37,520 Speaker 1: And why did you put that in your pocket? What 1007 01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:42,520 Speaker 1: is that about? Why are you so skinny? Why is 1008 01:05:42,560 --> 01:05:47,880 Speaker 1: your favorite movie? Where is that? I don't want to 1009 01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:52,120 Speaker 1: watch nothing? Hey? Why is you filing your button? Now? 1010 01:05:54,880 --> 01:05:57,800 Speaker 1: What is you putting tape on the butt? Night? Guy? 1011 01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:05,080 Speaker 1: Know it wouldn't take him loong? You it all right? Listen, 1012 01:06:05,200 --> 01:06:07,440 Speaker 1: we gotta get out of here. Email us her instagram 1013 01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:10,120 Speaker 1: as your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter at my girl 1014 01:06:10,200 --> 01:06:18,640 Speaker 1: shortly why Coming up in about ten minutes, Steve has 1015 01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:22,520 Speaker 1: ten things that your ex should never see you do. 1016 01:06:24,000 --> 01:06:27,880 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1017 01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:31,560 Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, ten things you have for 1018 01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:35,240 Speaker 1: us that your ex should never ever see you do. 1019 01:06:35,520 --> 01:06:40,479 Speaker 1: Let's go. These are things fell us that you don't 1020 01:06:40,600 --> 01:06:44,560 Speaker 1: need Joe X to see. Happen to you. You're ready 1021 01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:54,960 Speaker 1: for the first she cannot see you better be driving it. 1022 01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:59,200 Speaker 1: She driving back in your ass at the books. Lo 1023 01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:06,320 Speaker 1: what here's another thing she beat up. Pull up at 1024 01:07:06,400 --> 01:07:16,040 Speaker 1: the restaurant and your ass is the valet. What what? 1025 01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:21,920 Speaker 1: Here's another one. She cannot be driving down the freeway 1026 01:07:22,640 --> 01:07:25,760 Speaker 1: and look over there and your car is broke down. 1027 01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:35,840 Speaker 1: Another these are things that your ex cannot see happened 1028 01:07:35,920 --> 01:07:44,640 Speaker 1: to you, y'all in line at the Walmart, she be 1029 01:07:44,840 --> 01:07:48,360 Speaker 1: hand you and you don't know it in your car. 1030 01:07:48,560 --> 01:07:54,959 Speaker 1: Don't go through. God, you turn around and it's hurt. 1031 01:07:57,480 --> 01:08:00,280 Speaker 1: That's why I left you in the way. You there's 1032 01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:03,160 Speaker 1: another thing. Your mama can't see. You happen to your girl. 1033 01:08:03,200 --> 01:08:05,720 Speaker 1: Your girls, I mean your girl, your ex girl can't 1034 01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:09,200 Speaker 1: see this happened to you. You're to move back and 1035 01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:15,560 Speaker 1: to your mama. She ding off some pack to your 1036 01:08:15,640 --> 01:08:20,200 Speaker 1: mama for Mother's Day. You ask him about the basement 1037 01:08:20,280 --> 01:08:23,720 Speaker 1: with the hot shooting and a wife beater and a 1038 01:08:23,840 --> 01:08:27,719 Speaker 1: white people pack of cigarette behind you you damn janny 1039 01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:36,639 Speaker 1: and a coat on because ain't no heat. And here's 1040 01:08:36,680 --> 01:08:39,880 Speaker 1: one that you can't have happened to you. She find 1041 01:08:39,920 --> 01:08:44,519 Speaker 1: out no hold on this happened to you. Your AXT 1042 01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:50,360 Speaker 1: send you a text that was meant for someone else while, 1043 01:08:51,960 --> 01:08:55,280 Speaker 1: but the text say I'm in the shower the doors open, 1044 01:08:56,120 --> 01:09:04,599 Speaker 1: followed by I'm sorry, that's cold. That's defer man's it's 1045 01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:09,559 Speaker 1: that crying. I'm in the shower the doors open, followed 1046 01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:18,080 Speaker 1: by I'm so that was nothing. Here's another thing your 1047 01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:20,439 Speaker 1: X can't find out about you if you don't mess 1048 01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:25,639 Speaker 1: around and lost that good as y'all. Uh, she walked 1049 01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:29,640 Speaker 1: into you. You now you're down at the windy you 1050 01:09:29,800 --> 01:09:34,040 Speaker 1: replenishing the salad ball. She and there with the kids, right, mama, 1051 01:09:34,080 --> 01:09:44,840 Speaker 1: ain't that Mr shut up? That's cold. That's cold. Man, 1052 01:09:46,240 --> 01:09:53,920 Speaker 1: you come to check walking. It didn all went bad. 1053 01:09:54,920 --> 01:10:01,200 Speaker 1: But here's my favorite one of ball drumroll cat Ladies 1054 01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:04,320 Speaker 1: and gentlemen. This is the top thing that's your ex 1055 01:10:04,920 --> 01:10:09,400 Speaker 1: can never see happen to you. What it is your 1056 01:10:09,520 --> 01:10:18,920 Speaker 1: new girlfriend look just like your brother dog man man 1057 01:10:24,280 --> 01:10:34,320 Speaker 1: that out. This is my new lady. Excuse me? You 1058 01:10:34,439 --> 01:10:41,240 Speaker 1: know you can't let him to see you do gay ever? Ever? Ever, ever? Ever? 1059 01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:44,560 Speaker 1: Can I never have a movie? You got it going on? 1060 01:10:45,600 --> 01:10:48,080 Speaker 1: What you don't want her to see you do? Out 1061 01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:56,240 Speaker 1: there cleaning Porter Potts clean Porter pot You don't want husa. 1062 01:10:56,400 --> 01:11:00,760 Speaker 1: We broke up now you don't like you cannot be 1063 01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:04,720 Speaker 1: the mascot at the birthday part. Cannot walk away and 1064 01:11:04,840 --> 01:11:10,840 Speaker 1: sitting there no spongebobs wear fancy her baby birthday part 1065 01:11:12,880 --> 01:11:18,040 Speaker 1: cannot be that is he checking what you're doing and 1066 01:11:18,160 --> 01:11:21,720 Speaker 1: check it job not be at the credit party the man. 1067 01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:28,240 Speaker 1: They're not gonna go for that. Your ex cannot see 1068 01:11:28,320 --> 01:11:33,400 Speaker 1: you rummaging through a trash. You've lost all your shame. 1069 01:11:33,479 --> 01:11:44,679 Speaker 1: Everybody else ch case. She cannot see you riding around 1070 01:11:44,800 --> 01:11:47,799 Speaker 1: town on your car and you got that little doughnut 1071 01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:59,880 Speaker 1: on that he got new money. Your ex case see you. 1072 01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:03,439 Speaker 1: She had to stop. Yeah, she can't see you pull 1073 01:12:03,520 --> 01:12:05,960 Speaker 1: up next to her. You don't know it's her. You're 1074 01:12:05,960 --> 01:12:12,120 Speaker 1: on your brother bike. Oh my god, like hey, trying 1075 01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:14,920 Speaker 1: to make it to work. I'll tell you what you 1076 01:12:15,040 --> 01:12:17,439 Speaker 1: can see. I'll tell you what she can't see. She 1077 01:12:17,520 --> 01:12:20,040 Speaker 1: got the kids and pull up to McDonald's Windy and 1078 01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:25,480 Speaker 1: you work in the window. Your order placed of recognize, 1079 01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:35,400 Speaker 1: say hey, here is one that really hurt. They cannot 1080 01:12:35,479 --> 01:12:38,240 Speaker 1: see you with your shirt open. It's a flip flops 1081 01:12:38,320 --> 01:12:46,040 Speaker 1: in a y'all they cannot see you over there. All right, 1082 01:12:46,120 --> 01:12:50,400 Speaker 1: get it together, guys. Wow, we'll be back with more 1083 01:12:50,439 --> 01:12:53,240 Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're 1084 01:12:53,280 --> 01:12:58,280 Speaker 1: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, Steve, this 1085 01:12:58,400 --> 01:13:01,680 Speaker 1: one's for you, Jay, Tommy, your This segment is for 1086 01:13:01,880 --> 01:13:05,479 Speaker 1: the ladies. This is called Jay Ways to get a 1087 01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:08,360 Speaker 1: man to stop hollering at you, okay, because it gets 1088 01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:14,479 Speaker 1: on your nerves, right lady, Oh yeah, and you hold 1089 01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:25,599 Speaker 1: you know, just aggravating you like red bone red cat. 1090 01:13:26,960 --> 01:13:30,639 Speaker 1: Ye want to cut all that out your life. Ways 1091 01:13:30,680 --> 01:13:36,880 Speaker 1: to get that done. Start coughing uncontrolled off the real 1092 01:13:37,880 --> 01:13:49,800 Speaker 1: I'm talking about, get us to walk like, Yeah, I 1093 01:13:49,920 --> 01:13:54,200 Speaker 1: got one, Come on him. You don't go nowhere without 1094 01:13:54,280 --> 01:13:58,439 Speaker 1: your grandmama. You'll decease grandmama. And ask grandmama, grandmama? You 1095 01:13:58,520 --> 01:14:06,720 Speaker 1: thinking you right at all time, at all that, I'll 1096 01:14:06,760 --> 01:14:09,120 Speaker 1: tell you what. I'll tell you what when you get 1097 01:14:09,160 --> 01:14:10,519 Speaker 1: the mac in real hard. You said, you know what, 1098 01:14:10,600 --> 01:14:12,880 Speaker 1: I gotta go get some depens real quick. I'd be right. 1099 01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:19,639 Speaker 1: I hope they got my side still in right, I'm 1100 01:14:19,680 --> 01:14:23,120 Speaker 1: taking this. This is for the ladies. The guys are 1101 01:14:23,200 --> 01:14:25,320 Speaker 1: telling us the waste that we can get men to 1102 01:14:25,400 --> 01:14:32,320 Speaker 1: stop hollering at us. Okay, steve a fake test result 1103 01:14:32,479 --> 01:14:37,519 Speaker 1: on your chest that says you have v D that 1104 01:14:39,600 --> 01:14:50,519 Speaker 1: right away, that it's way back in the day. You guys, yes, yeah, yeah, 1105 01:14:51,400 --> 01:14:53,840 Speaker 1: how you get it? You you you, you'll understand, you 1106 01:14:53,920 --> 01:14:56,160 Speaker 1: know you got it. Act like you're talking on the 1107 01:14:56,240 --> 01:14:58,679 Speaker 1: phone and say, hey, don't make me shoot you again. 1108 01:15:06,320 --> 01:15:08,720 Speaker 1: These are ways for the ladies to get men to 1109 01:15:08,760 --> 01:15:11,679 Speaker 1: stop trying to holler at them. Leave you alone. Don't 1110 01:15:11,720 --> 01:15:13,160 Speaker 1: let him get too in. Don't let him get too 1111 01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:17,880 Speaker 1: hollis in starts scratching right up under your when you 1112 01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:22,519 Speaker 1: start leaving streets. Yeah, just start scratching. He don't know 1113 01:15:22,560 --> 01:15:30,600 Speaker 1: what that scratching about. Come on, nephew, go in the 1114 01:15:30,760 --> 01:15:34,560 Speaker 1: closet and get butt naked and sit Indian style and 1115 01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:40,920 Speaker 1: burn some incense. Start I'm killing right there. I promise 1116 01:15:40,920 --> 01:15:46,439 Speaker 1: you had to run his ass straight on. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 1117 01:15:47,920 --> 01:15:51,479 Speaker 1: come on, help the ladies. When you walk up to 1118 01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:54,559 Speaker 1: your start talking to you say, look, look, he ain't 1119 01:15:54,560 --> 01:15:58,040 Speaker 1: gonna do nothing, but my ex is crossed the streets watching. 1120 01:15:59,600 --> 01:16:10,639 Speaker 1: He ain't all do that like seem right up, Come 1121 01:16:10,680 --> 01:16:14,360 Speaker 1: onte together, tell him you got seven kids and the 1122 01:16:14,479 --> 01:16:23,280 Speaker 1: two oldest is still standing at the house. When he 1123 01:16:23,320 --> 01:16:25,680 Speaker 1: starts talking, Listen, I need to charry with it when 1124 01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:29,920 Speaker 1: you come to court with me. I need somebody to 1125 01:16:30,040 --> 01:16:34,160 Speaker 1: test when you come to court. Right there? All right? 1126 01:16:34,240 --> 01:16:37,479 Speaker 1: What are we doing? Guys? Waste to get men to 1127 01:16:37,520 --> 01:16:41,160 Speaker 1: stop holiday to leave you alone, stop bothering you? Right 1128 01:16:43,120 --> 01:16:45,120 Speaker 1: looking dead in his eyes, and said, you know what 1129 01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:48,360 Speaker 1: I really want to hook up with. I want to 1130 01:16:48,439 --> 01:16:51,680 Speaker 1: be upfront and tell you I am on the more 1131 01:16:51,760 --> 01:16:58,120 Speaker 1: for that. Which one you want? Right there? I got both? 1132 01:16:58,920 --> 01:17:10,960 Speaker 1: Which work? Which one you won't? Both are scary. I'm 1133 01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:13,720 Speaker 1: sorry before before you asked little thing, can you help 1134 01:17:13,800 --> 01:17:20,080 Speaker 1: me lift my call from my husband? What happened? Don't 1135 01:17:20,120 --> 01:17:22,720 Speaker 1: worry about I just need your help. Get him my mother? 1136 01:17:22,840 --> 01:17:29,560 Speaker 1: This over. I got one looking right now, acid, you 1137 01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:37,920 Speaker 1: better step back. My girlfriend's there, jetherous like a more 1138 01:17:38,040 --> 01:17:40,439 Speaker 1: physical approach when they started talking to you, because I 1139 01:17:40,479 --> 01:17:43,360 Speaker 1: know something that just turned me on. If you see 1140 01:17:43,400 --> 01:17:45,679 Speaker 1: him and he starts talking to you, hock and spit 1141 01:17:51,840 --> 01:17:55,120 Speaker 1: from the fram get all of it. In the first 1142 01:17:55,160 --> 01:18:01,640 Speaker 1: it was coughing, hey baby, and make sure right right 1143 01:18:04,160 --> 01:18:08,640 Speaker 1: he go, he gonna walk right away. You want to 1144 01:18:08,680 --> 01:18:11,360 Speaker 1: stop talking to you? Yes, it's doing. Thank you guys 1145 01:18:11,400 --> 01:18:14,960 Speaker 1: for your health. These are ways that men we can 1146 01:18:15,000 --> 01:18:16,880 Speaker 1: do these things and make men leave us alone and 1147 01:18:16,960 --> 01:18:19,479 Speaker 1: stop trying to holler at us what you got or 1148 01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:23,599 Speaker 1: just standing there look at it and start peeing. Right, 1149 01:18:25,160 --> 01:18:28,880 Speaker 1: just be right back and just looking so you know 1150 01:18:28,960 --> 01:18:44,719 Speaker 1: where that happens. Continent, Yes, just oh he's so gone. 1151 01:18:46,400 --> 01:18:50,479 Speaker 1: Oh I can't believe this is happening again, Draw this 1152 01:18:50,600 --> 01:18:58,080 Speaker 1: from your own experiences. That's okay, Yeah, that's what it's sounds. 1153 01:18:58,080 --> 01:19:04,320 Speaker 1: All right, come on closing out. Yeah, this is easy. 1154 01:19:04,520 --> 01:19:07,680 Speaker 1: This is simplest ladies. This one's right here. If you 1155 01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:10,240 Speaker 1: don't have the courage for a lot of stuff and 1156 01:19:10,360 --> 01:19:12,280 Speaker 1: you just want to find it, just get this dude 1157 01:19:12,360 --> 01:19:15,240 Speaker 1: out your face. Here's one simple way to do it. 1158 01:19:15,920 --> 01:19:26,920 Speaker 1: Develop bad. Oh oh yeah, that's a one coffee onion. 1159 01:19:28,200 --> 01:19:32,439 Speaker 1: All right, listen, uh it's coming up. It's more of 1160 01:19:32,520 --> 01:19:35,679 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the Steve 1161 01:19:35,800 --> 01:19:39,280 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. A new study suggested writing a to 1162 01:19:39,439 --> 01:19:44,720 Speaker 1: do list before bed could improve sleep. Okay, it really does. 1163 01:19:45,640 --> 01:19:48,280 Speaker 1: I got this from Steve. Steven said, you know, write 1164 01:19:48,320 --> 01:19:51,920 Speaker 1: it out and it really does help you know what 1165 01:19:52,040 --> 01:19:55,080 Speaker 1: you're gonna do when you wake up, you have an 1166 01:19:55,200 --> 01:19:57,960 Speaker 1: idea of how your day's gonna go. I'm gonna do this, 1167 01:19:58,120 --> 01:20:02,160 Speaker 1: and then you see yourself accomplished stuff. I didn't. Never 1168 01:20:02,280 --> 01:20:05,200 Speaker 1: finished the whole damn list. But I'm just saying, you know, 1169 01:20:05,280 --> 01:20:07,479 Speaker 1: you get a start editing because I do write list, 1170 01:20:07,560 --> 01:20:09,240 Speaker 1: but not right before I go to back, and I 1171 01:20:09,280 --> 01:20:11,280 Speaker 1: don't have a set time to do them. I'll say that, 1172 01:20:11,720 --> 01:20:14,640 Speaker 1: all right. Study participants who spent five minutes writing a 1173 01:20:14,720 --> 01:20:17,599 Speaker 1: list of things they had to get done fell asleep 1174 01:20:18,000 --> 01:20:20,720 Speaker 1: nine minutes faster than those who wrote a list of 1175 01:20:20,800 --> 01:20:23,840 Speaker 1: things they already accomplished. It is believed that making a 1176 01:20:24,000 --> 01:20:27,920 Speaker 1: to do list may offload those concerns, resulting in less 1177 01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:31,759 Speaker 1: worry before bed. All right, uh. Study out of Baylor 1178 01:20:31,880 --> 01:20:35,800 Speaker 1: University split fifty seven university students into two groups, with 1179 01:20:36,000 --> 01:20:39,280 Speaker 1: both groups asked to take five minutes before bed to 1180 01:20:39,439 --> 01:20:42,120 Speaker 1: make a list. One group was tasked with writing a 1181 01:20:42,200 --> 01:20:44,000 Speaker 1: list of all the things they had to get done 1182 01:20:44,080 --> 01:20:47,200 Speaker 1: in the day or days ahead, while the other had 1183 01:20:47,240 --> 01:20:49,880 Speaker 1: to write a list of what they completed the previous day. 1184 01:20:50,320 --> 01:20:52,679 Speaker 1: Both groups were told to go to bed right after 1185 01:20:52,800 --> 01:20:56,120 Speaker 1: making their lists. So, Steve, here's your question. Do you 1186 01:20:56,240 --> 01:20:59,759 Speaker 1: have trouble sleeping? Are you constantly kept up worrying about 1187 01:20:59,800 --> 01:21:06,320 Speaker 1: things you have to get done? Sometimes? You know, I 1188 01:21:06,479 --> 01:21:10,439 Speaker 1: do have trouble sleeping about the worries of you know, 1189 01:21:10,720 --> 01:21:12,880 Speaker 1: my life, what I need to do, what I'm trying 1190 01:21:12,920 --> 01:21:16,559 Speaker 1: to accomplish. You know, I have moments like that. It's 1191 01:21:16,600 --> 01:21:19,600 Speaker 1: not often, but I do have moments like. When I 1192 01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:23,120 Speaker 1: have it, it's usually the reason I don't know whatever 1193 01:21:23,160 --> 01:21:33,760 Speaker 1: you're trying to accompan dog, I've got a lot that 1194 01:21:33,840 --> 01:21:40,439 Speaker 1: I'm trying to accomplish this year, though, good question. Good question. 1195 01:21:41,320 --> 01:21:47,560 Speaker 1: To revamp and reorganize my company to make it more efficient. 1196 01:21:48,160 --> 01:21:51,439 Speaker 1: But one of my goals is to hire really top 1197 01:21:51,560 --> 01:21:55,679 Speaker 1: flight people because I've I've been generous to a fault. 1198 01:21:55,920 --> 01:22:00,800 Speaker 1: I've given people opportunities who have taken advantage of that. Uh, 1199 01:22:00,960 --> 01:22:03,240 Speaker 1: And then you know, I feel sorry for their families 1200 01:22:03,280 --> 01:22:06,040 Speaker 1: and stuff, and I keep them on way pass when 1201 01:22:06,080 --> 01:22:09,120 Speaker 1: they should be gone. And for the first time, I'm 1202 01:22:09,240 --> 01:22:12,600 Speaker 1: having a system put in place where people are accountable 1203 01:22:12,960 --> 01:22:15,960 Speaker 1: for accomplishing certain things and if you don't, then you 1204 01:22:16,120 --> 01:22:19,599 Speaker 1: lose your job yourself, and it takes the onus off 1205 01:22:19,680 --> 01:22:23,080 Speaker 1: of me having to fire somebody if you don't perform 1206 01:22:23,240 --> 01:22:27,600 Speaker 1: up to the requirements, then you lose your position. So 1207 01:22:28,160 --> 01:22:31,200 Speaker 1: so so will you actually tell them or you have 1208 01:22:31,360 --> 01:22:41,240 Speaker 1: someone you have someone you know I have fired. I mean, 1209 01:22:41,240 --> 01:22:44,200 Speaker 1: you know I have things in place now. I'm not 1210 01:22:44,560 --> 01:22:48,920 Speaker 1: so bogged down with the technical aspects of my life. 1211 01:22:49,280 --> 01:22:51,439 Speaker 1: And that's one of the things that I've been doing wrong. 1212 01:22:51,640 --> 01:22:55,760 Speaker 1: For years. I've been involved in every aspect of my life, 1213 01:22:55,800 --> 01:22:58,600 Speaker 1: which helps me because I want to have no but 1214 01:22:59,439 --> 01:23:02,880 Speaker 1: it worried it's just too much micro managing in terms 1215 01:23:02,920 --> 01:23:07,360 Speaker 1: of being involved in everything. Right, I don't micro manage 1216 01:23:08,240 --> 01:23:10,840 Speaker 1: because I do give people to freedom, but in giving 1217 01:23:10,880 --> 01:23:14,439 Speaker 1: them that freedom, they've taken advantage of my business. And 1218 01:23:14,600 --> 01:23:17,439 Speaker 1: so now they know I'm busy, so they never perform 1219 01:23:18,040 --> 01:23:20,000 Speaker 1: and they just keep getting their check. You know. It 1220 01:23:20,080 --> 01:23:22,879 Speaker 1: woke me up. I realized, I said, in my company, 1221 01:23:23,360 --> 01:23:26,240 Speaker 1: I'm the only person who has to come to work. 1222 01:23:26,439 --> 01:23:29,720 Speaker 1: Other people can miss. I have to perform and I 1223 01:23:29,880 --> 01:23:32,200 Speaker 1: have to make the grade other people don't have. I 1224 01:23:32,280 --> 01:23:34,000 Speaker 1: have no one else in my company has to do that. 1225 01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:36,639 Speaker 1: That stops in two thousand and eight. That's on the tree. 1226 01:23:37,120 --> 01:23:40,640 Speaker 1: Does that answer your question, nephew, A right, coming up. 1227 01:23:40,760 --> 01:23:43,160 Speaker 1: It's more of a Steve Harvey Morning Show at thirty 1228 01:23:43,240 --> 01:23:47,400 Speaker 1: three after the hour. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1229 01:23:47,880 --> 01:23:53,360 Speaker 1: Sty've introduced Jay to Murder. Oh too, ladies and gentlemen. 1230 01:23:53,439 --> 01:23:58,120 Speaker 1: He's here. And I say this begrudgingly because we just 1231 01:23:58,240 --> 01:24:01,599 Speaker 1: don't never know how that's gonna go. Don't go, ladies 1232 01:24:01,640 --> 01:24:04,640 Speaker 1: and gentlemen. Here this food is with Murder in the 1233 01:24:04,800 --> 01:24:07,920 Speaker 1: damn hit this week's murdered hit? What's the song by 1234 01:24:08,000 --> 01:24:13,000 Speaker 1: Neo good Man? Good Man? Yeah, uh huh song? You 1235 01:24:13,040 --> 01:24:16,479 Speaker 1: nowhere near that nice knowing you know in your Neo 1236 01:24:16,960 --> 01:24:32,479 Speaker 1: hit it the other man or the man or the 1237 01:24:32,600 --> 01:24:37,000 Speaker 1: gulness on I want me okay, and all you get 1238 01:24:37,080 --> 01:24:42,160 Speaker 1: from meat, baby, and I adn't get from me, baby. 1239 01:24:42,600 --> 01:24:46,240 Speaker 1: I don't want to be the man, other man, other gulness. 1240 01:24:46,280 --> 01:24:50,439 Speaker 1: All that won't be baby. It's all you get from me, 1241 01:24:51,040 --> 01:24:56,080 Speaker 1: baby bad. It's ain't get from me lit. I don't 1242 01:24:56,120 --> 01:24:59,640 Speaker 1: have to pick my phone up every time I see it. 1243 01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:04,639 Speaker 1: It don't matter where man on it and the drama 1244 01:25:04,720 --> 01:25:08,080 Speaker 1: showing up and my mama said, hold up all in 1245 01:25:08,240 --> 01:25:12,040 Speaker 1: my kids? Do you know him? Right time on? They 1246 01:25:12,120 --> 01:25:16,599 Speaker 1: got it? Damn man. We met at the Jello. I'm saying, 1247 01:25:17,520 --> 01:25:20,759 Speaker 1: who I want to feel. I do everything by myself 1248 01:25:21,000 --> 01:25:25,120 Speaker 1: because I free my patience days some baby and the nursing, 1249 01:25:25,360 --> 01:25:28,000 Speaker 1: n the working by we man have promised to know. 1250 01:25:28,200 --> 01:25:31,240 Speaker 1: He gets heard. And now you're getting mad. You said 1251 01:25:31,280 --> 01:25:34,400 Speaker 1: I hid and dessert check. You don't seem to understand. 1252 01:25:35,160 --> 01:25:37,439 Speaker 1: I don't want to be the other man or the 1253 01:25:37,600 --> 01:25:41,200 Speaker 1: man or the good it's on the wan be okay. 1254 01:25:42,160 --> 01:25:46,000 Speaker 1: No you get from me, babe, back I adn't get 1255 01:25:46,120 --> 01:25:50,080 Speaker 1: from me, babe. I didn't want him be the man. 1256 01:25:50,760 --> 01:26:00,680 Speaker 1: Man they were hold on aunt up there, love it, 1257 01:26:01,040 --> 01:26:04,960 Speaker 1: thank you, junior boy, and we get it. He mankins, 1258 01:26:05,000 --> 01:26:08,200 Speaker 1: I gotta get him, man, please do man, just do music. 1259 01:26:08,360 --> 01:26:10,280 Speaker 1: We do songs. Whatever you want done. Man. You know 1260 01:26:10,320 --> 01:26:11,720 Speaker 1: what I really like when you're sitting out at the 1261 01:26:11,760 --> 01:26:15,640 Speaker 1: piano and you sing, we got to do that. We 1262 01:26:15,800 --> 01:26:18,400 Speaker 1: got to do that song. Man. But I gotta get up. 1263 01:26:18,439 --> 01:26:20,400 Speaker 1: I gotta get it. I gotta practice up. Man. You 1264 01:26:20,439 --> 01:26:23,240 Speaker 1: ain't got to know that song is ready. I've seen 1265 01:26:23,320 --> 01:26:28,120 Speaker 1: you do it. Man did break he didn't that apollo 1266 01:26:28,240 --> 01:26:32,120 Speaker 1: to Yeah you done a little bit. Sure we get 1267 01:26:33,400 --> 01:26:35,439 Speaker 1: we can't dave, we can't take you know nothing. But 1268 01:26:36,160 --> 01:26:38,320 Speaker 1: pio player. They'd be trying to tune the piano. I 1269 01:26:38,400 --> 01:26:40,040 Speaker 1: just go over there and sit down and stars, you 1270 01:26:40,160 --> 01:26:42,040 Speaker 1: can play. You need to use that, you need to 1271 01:26:42,160 --> 01:26:45,200 Speaker 1: use that. I gotta brush up, don't play. No, no, no, 1272 01:26:49,320 --> 01:26:54,559 Speaker 1: I don't want to be man or man. All right, 1273 01:26:56,000 --> 01:27:00,240 Speaker 1: great job always coming up, coming up Steve's club using 1274 01:27:00,360 --> 01:27:04,760 Speaker 1: remarks at forty nine after the hour, Gather round everyone 1275 01:27:05,439 --> 01:27:10,599 Speaker 1: you're listening to all right, here we are last break 1276 01:27:10,680 --> 01:27:15,120 Speaker 1: of the day. Thank you all for listening. As always, Steve, 1277 01:27:15,320 --> 01:27:19,960 Speaker 1: come on and take us home with your closing remarks today. 1278 01:27:20,880 --> 01:27:28,320 Speaker 1: I have some really really good information. I'm really really 1279 01:27:28,439 --> 01:27:33,240 Speaker 1: pleased with this line of thinking because everybody has them, 1280 01:27:33,560 --> 01:27:37,639 Speaker 1: everybody has to deal with them, everybody faces it. It's 1281 01:27:37,680 --> 01:27:42,720 Speaker 1: just so many people lose the point of it. You know, 1282 01:27:42,920 --> 01:27:46,760 Speaker 1: the thing about going through something, I think you can 1283 01:27:46,840 --> 01:27:49,719 Speaker 1: go through something better if you know there's a point 1284 01:27:49,920 --> 01:27:53,560 Speaker 1: to it, you know what I mean. People go to 1285 01:27:53,680 --> 01:27:57,519 Speaker 1: the gym to work out if they're trying to get 1286 01:27:57,560 --> 01:28:01,439 Speaker 1: to a certain point. The moment you don't see the 1287 01:28:01,600 --> 01:28:06,200 Speaker 1: point of it, going to the gym becomes ridiculous to you. 1288 01:28:07,920 --> 01:28:10,040 Speaker 1: It becomes harder to you because it's all of a sudden, 1289 01:28:10,080 --> 01:28:13,800 Speaker 1: it doesn't make sense. So what I want to show 1290 01:28:13,880 --> 01:28:17,679 Speaker 1: you is how to look at the point of something. 1291 01:28:18,840 --> 01:28:20,679 Speaker 1: And the thing that I'm gonna talk to you about 1292 01:28:21,320 --> 01:28:24,280 Speaker 1: is something that everybody faces when they're trying to be successful, 1293 01:28:25,600 --> 01:28:30,680 Speaker 1: because everybody is going to go through some difficult times. Everybody. 1294 01:28:31,000 --> 01:28:33,920 Speaker 1: I don't care who you are, You're going to have 1295 01:28:34,080 --> 01:28:46,440 Speaker 1: some difficult times. Everybody is going to have some challenges, challenges, difficulties, setbacks. 1296 01:28:46,960 --> 01:28:50,280 Speaker 1: You're going to have this. But listen to me. All 1297 01:28:50,400 --> 01:28:55,200 Speaker 1: of this is part of the process to succeed. When 1298 01:28:55,280 --> 01:28:59,520 Speaker 1: you are presented with these setbacks, these difficulties, and these challenges, 1299 01:29:00,240 --> 01:29:02,599 Speaker 1: I want you to understand what they actually are. They 1300 01:29:02,640 --> 01:29:09,760 Speaker 1: are actually test. Everybody gets tested. The reason you have 1301 01:29:10,120 --> 01:29:14,240 Speaker 1: to have the test it is because tests are presented 1302 01:29:14,479 --> 01:29:17,960 Speaker 1: to you to see if you're willing to go through 1303 01:29:18,720 --> 01:29:22,639 Speaker 1: the process. It's merely just to see if you're willing 1304 01:29:22,680 --> 01:29:26,400 Speaker 1: to go through what it takes. The challenges, the setbacks, 1305 01:29:26,680 --> 01:29:30,519 Speaker 1: the difficulties, the tests are just there to see if 1306 01:29:30,600 --> 01:29:35,760 Speaker 1: you are willing to go through the process. Now, in 1307 01:29:35,960 --> 01:29:39,600 Speaker 1: being willing to go through the process, it assures you 1308 01:29:39,800 --> 01:29:43,920 Speaker 1: something that when you pass the test and you reach 1309 01:29:44,000 --> 01:29:48,240 Speaker 1: your goal, that you will have a level of appreciation 1310 01:29:48,439 --> 01:29:53,479 Speaker 1: for it. I'll give you an example. Somebody use your card. 1311 01:29:54,520 --> 01:29:56,960 Speaker 1: I don't recommend that they're not gonna take care of 1312 01:29:57,000 --> 01:29:59,720 Speaker 1: your card or where you do. Because they didn't pay 1313 01:29:59,760 --> 01:30:02,120 Speaker 1: for they're not making a note on it. They didn't 1314 01:30:02,120 --> 01:30:04,400 Speaker 1: have to struggle to get the down payment. They didn't 1315 01:30:04,400 --> 01:30:06,360 Speaker 1: have to make sure their credit was right. They didn't 1316 01:30:06,360 --> 01:30:08,120 Speaker 1: walk in the bank and get turned down a couple 1317 01:30:08,160 --> 01:30:10,720 Speaker 1: of times, didn't go back and fix their credit. Now 1318 01:30:10,840 --> 01:30:14,040 Speaker 1: they got up. That's why if you rent out your 1319 01:30:14,160 --> 01:30:16,720 Speaker 1: room to somebody, they're not gonna take care of your 1320 01:30:16,840 --> 01:30:19,479 Speaker 1: room like you take care of your house, because they 1321 01:30:19,560 --> 01:30:22,720 Speaker 1: didn't go through the process to get it. All they 1322 01:30:22,840 --> 01:30:25,639 Speaker 1: wanted was the room. Because they didn't have to fill 1323 01:30:25,680 --> 01:30:27,599 Speaker 1: out the credit report. They didn't go down here. They 1324 01:30:27,640 --> 01:30:30,360 Speaker 1: don't have the mortgage. They don't know what it took 1325 01:30:30,439 --> 01:30:32,920 Speaker 1: to have to own this house. That's why they didn't 1326 01:30:32,960 --> 01:30:36,439 Speaker 1: take care of their yard, because they've written. Some people 1327 01:30:36,439 --> 01:30:39,120 Speaker 1: who writt don't take care of property because they ain't days. 1328 01:30:39,560 --> 01:30:41,600 Speaker 1: Now that's not all writtens. I'm just talking about the 1329 01:30:41,680 --> 01:30:45,320 Speaker 1: case of some Because when you go through the test, 1330 01:30:46,000 --> 01:30:49,920 Speaker 1: it causes you to have an appreciation for now. The 1331 01:30:50,120 --> 01:30:55,000 Speaker 1: tests are necessary. The test teaches you things. The test 1332 01:30:55,080 --> 01:31:00,439 Speaker 1: provides you with a lesson. Tests are merely lessons. You're 1333 01:31:00,479 --> 01:31:03,240 Speaker 1: gonna see these tests again, and when you see them again, 1334 01:31:03,320 --> 01:31:06,920 Speaker 1: they won't appear is nearly as difficult because you've already 1335 01:31:07,000 --> 01:31:11,640 Speaker 1: taken the test before and you've already passed it. The 1336 01:31:11,800 --> 01:31:16,680 Speaker 1: test also strengthens you. All these tests you have it, 1337 01:31:17,040 --> 01:31:20,880 Speaker 1: it's strengthens you. It's like lifting weights. Oh it's heavy 1338 01:31:21,040 --> 01:31:23,840 Speaker 1: right now. If you put them fifties in your hands, 1339 01:31:24,120 --> 01:31:27,400 Speaker 1: that's heavy weight. But if you keep lifting fifties after 1340 01:31:27,439 --> 01:31:31,240 Speaker 1: a while, you can lift seventies. But the fifties. But 1341 01:31:31,360 --> 01:31:33,640 Speaker 1: guess what the fifties did. That was so hard that 1342 01:31:33,760 --> 01:31:36,040 Speaker 1: you felt like dropping, and you need to spot it. 1343 01:31:36,560 --> 01:31:40,639 Speaker 1: They made you stronger. Though the tests make you stronger. 1344 01:31:41,479 --> 01:31:43,800 Speaker 1: The next thing that the test does for you is 1345 01:31:43,880 --> 01:31:48,200 Speaker 1: it makes you experienced. Because now that you have these 1346 01:31:48,280 --> 01:31:52,040 Speaker 1: tests under your belt, you know something you can turn 1347 01:31:52,120 --> 01:31:55,600 Speaker 1: around and share with people how to get past the 1348 01:31:55,720 --> 01:31:59,240 Speaker 1: tests because you've seen them before. This is the reason 1349 01:31:59,360 --> 01:32:03,080 Speaker 1: that you have challenges, setbacks, and difficultures because you are 1350 01:32:03,200 --> 01:32:06,120 Speaker 1: being tested. So when God gives you the thing that 1351 01:32:06,240 --> 01:32:09,520 Speaker 1: you're asking for you will have a level of appreciation 1352 01:32:09,640 --> 01:32:11,760 Speaker 1: for it. You will have learned the lessons that it 1353 01:32:11,880 --> 01:32:15,439 Speaker 1: takes to maintain it. You will have been strengthened by 1354 01:32:15,520 --> 01:32:18,599 Speaker 1: the process, and you will become experienced by the process. 1355 01:32:19,000 --> 01:32:22,160 Speaker 1: Here is the last and main thing that the test does. 1356 01:32:22,320 --> 01:32:29,840 Speaker 1: For these tests that they're presented to you. Old people 1357 01:32:29,880 --> 01:32:33,840 Speaker 1: have said it a thousand times. You cannot have a 1358 01:32:34,000 --> 01:32:40,920 Speaker 1: testimony without the test. How can you share this experience 1359 01:32:40,960 --> 01:32:43,960 Speaker 1: with anybody? How do you tell a young person what 1360 01:32:44,120 --> 01:32:46,680 Speaker 1: to do if you ain't been through nothing. How can 1361 01:32:46,760 --> 01:32:48,599 Speaker 1: you teach me how to play golf and you don't 1362 01:32:48,640 --> 01:32:52,280 Speaker 1: play golf? It's impossible. You can't be the swim coach 1363 01:32:52,360 --> 01:32:57,160 Speaker 1: and you can't swim. I'm sorry you can't. You got 1364 01:32:57,280 --> 01:33:02,160 Speaker 1: to have gone through the process. It's the process and 1365 01:33:02,280 --> 01:33:04,240 Speaker 1: the test that gets you to the point. But you 1366 01:33:04,400 --> 01:33:07,360 Speaker 1: can't have a testimony without a test. You'll have nothing 1367 01:33:07,479 --> 01:33:11,719 Speaker 1: to say in your life. If you've never passed any tests, 1368 01:33:12,040 --> 01:33:15,240 Speaker 1: you will have no story to tell. So all of 1369 01:33:15,320 --> 01:33:19,000 Speaker 1: you that are being tested, you're working on your story. Now, 1370 01:33:19,080 --> 01:33:22,160 Speaker 1: what story will you tell your children? What story will 1371 01:33:22,240 --> 01:33:25,559 Speaker 1: you tell your grandchildren? What story will you tell young 1372 01:33:25,680 --> 01:33:28,599 Speaker 1: people who need memery. What story will you tell people 1373 01:33:28,640 --> 01:33:30,840 Speaker 1: who they look up to you and they think you've 1374 01:33:30,880 --> 01:33:33,800 Speaker 1: got something, What story will you tell You've got to 1375 01:33:33,880 --> 01:33:36,880 Speaker 1: be tested to make it happen. Past the test, deal 1376 01:33:37,000 --> 01:33:39,320 Speaker 1: with them and you'll be fine. Those are my closing 1377 01:33:39,360 --> 01:33:43,600 Speaker 1: remarks today. Have a great weekend. Thank you, you have 1378 01:33:43,680 --> 01:34:00,400 Speaker 1: a great for all. Steve. 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