1 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: I am a Yamla. I had a baby daddy relationship. 2 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 1: I spent time in a relationship with a married man. 3 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: I had to learn the skills and tools required to 4 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: make my relationships healthy, fulfilling and loving. Welcome to the 5 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: r Spot, a production of shandaland Audio in partnership with iHeartRadio. 6 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: Blessings and greetings. Welcome to the art Spot, the place 7 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:45,239 Speaker 1: we come to talk about all things relationships, all kinds 8 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 1: of relationships and relationships with all kinds of things and people. 9 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: I am Yamla, your support, your facilitator, your hosts for 10 00:00:56,840 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 1: today's investigation and explore. We're not talking about people today. Well, 11 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 1: we are talking about people, but we're talking about people's 12 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: relationship with money. Money, money, money. You know. I consider 13 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: money to be a living thing because money is energy 14 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: and energy represents power. And it always amazes me that 15 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 1: people speak more often than not in the lack of money, 16 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: which says to me they have a lack of energy 17 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 1: and possibly a lack of power. Money is a thing, 18 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 1: it's living, and it supports us in giving and receiving 19 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: the things we need to live. And so many of 20 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 1: us have a disfunctional relationship with money. We have the 21 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: same kind of relationship with money that we often have 22 00:01:56,440 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 1: with people. So my question I got some questions for 23 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: you about your relationship with money. Are you a good 24 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: money partner? And are you a good partner to money? 25 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:12,639 Speaker 1: If money is a living thing, if it's an energy, 26 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: if it's a power, what does your relationship with money 27 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: look like? I mean, do you court money, you know, 28 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:22,519 Speaker 1: take it out, have a good time with it, and 29 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: make sure it has a good time, you have a 30 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: good time. Do you know what money likes? Do you 31 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: know what money makes do you know what makes money 32 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 1: feel good? And do you know how money makes you 33 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: feel good? Do you trust money? Do you trust yourself 34 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: with money? Do you know that you can count on 35 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 1: money to be there when you need it, when you 36 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 1: want it? What kind of relationship do you have with money? 37 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: And what kind of relationship would you like to have 38 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: with money? Do you want to marry it or do 39 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 1: you just want to roll around with it sometime? Yeah, 40 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: that's what we're talking about today on the R Spot. 41 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: Our relationship with the energy of money, with the power 42 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: of money, with the structure of money, and how it 43 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 1: operates and how does it operate in your life. I've 44 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 1: got some guests to have some interesting relationships with money. 45 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: Here's my first caller. Hello, greetings, be love it, and 46 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: welcome to the R Spot. We are talking about our 47 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: relationship with money today. Yeah, so is money a long term, 48 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 1: committed lover or is it just a baby daddy here 49 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: long enough to leave you with a debt. 50 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 2: It's a baby daddy, Hilma, how are you? 51 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 1: Oh God, I am so good. Yeah, baby daddy just 52 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 1: come around. It's there long enough to leave you with 53 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: an obligation and it's not even enjoyable or helpful. 54 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 2: Yes, I've done a lot of work on myself, but 55 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 2: the money thing is still I feel a little stuck there. 56 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 2: It feels it feels deeper to me, and I just 57 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm so close to getting it, but 58 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:35,359 Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm having some kind of like some 59 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 2: kind of something. And I don't know if it's an 60 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:41,920 Speaker 2: ancestral like a generational thing, because I kind of see 61 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:46,919 Speaker 2: the same thing with my dad. But I feel that 62 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 2: it's Yes, it's a baby daddy. It just comes and goes. 63 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 2: I get a lot of it. So I'll give some background. 64 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 2: I work with myself. I'm a realtor and so then 65 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:01,479 Speaker 2: I have to make my own money, which puts me 66 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 2: in an interesting situation. And I feel like I get 67 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 2: a lot of God sends me a lot of opportunities 68 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 2: to make money. But when I start thinking about, you know, 69 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,919 Speaker 2: like what it could do for me, I get so 70 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 2: scared that I kind of so sabotage the money and 71 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 2: I end up ruining it. And I'm I go into 72 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:27,799 Speaker 2: the mindset like it's not gonna work. It's not gonna work. 73 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 2: And it's only when I'm literally down to the wire 74 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:34,159 Speaker 2: where I'm like, Okay, I have no money that I'm like, 75 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:35,840 Speaker 2: let me get to work. Let me get to work. 76 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 2: But I feel like I kind of purposely hold myself 77 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 2: back from making money. I feel like I keep myself 78 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 2: like in a powerless, like helpless state where I'm like, 79 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:53,280 Speaker 2: I'm not thriving, I'm just surviving. 80 00:05:55,800 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 1: Okay, So let's play a game. You want to play? Yes, Okay, 81 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 1: if you had to, if you had to name money, 82 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: what would its name? 83 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:10,239 Speaker 2: Okay, I'll just say what came up versus was soul? 84 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 2: Came up? 85 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:18,599 Speaker 1: Soul? Okay? Soul? O, Hey, soul? Now what color is soul? 86 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,280 Speaker 1: What described soul to me? As if it were a 87 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,159 Speaker 1: physical thing, Describe it to me? 88 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 2: What would sob m? Evergreen? Like dark green? 89 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 1: Uh? 90 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 2: Kind of like a like a bush? 91 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 1: Okay, ever green. 92 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:51,720 Speaker 2: Kind of dark mm hmm, far away, kind of mysterious. 93 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 1: Far away, oh, far away mysterious, A mysterious kind of 94 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 1: thing that you got to chase. 95 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't. 96 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: And when and when you look at that evergreen bush, 97 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: when you look at that dark, far away mysterious thing, 98 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: how does it make you feel? 99 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 2: It makes me feel anxious. It makes me feel it 100 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 2: makes me feel intimidated. 101 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 1: Mmmmm. And what else? Anxious? Intimidated? What else? Oh? 102 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 2: Man? It makes me feel not good enough of the 103 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 2: feeling that I have right now? 104 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 1: Uh huh okay. So soul, the evergreen bush that's dark, 105 00:07:55,160 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 1: mysterious and far away makes you feel anxious, intimidated, and 106 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 1: not good enough. So why in the hell with soul? 107 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: Want to be with you? 108 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. I really love I really love that. Yeah, 109 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 2: love me? 110 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 1: You love soul? You love soul? You're just anxious intimidated 111 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: by it? It comes around. You don't feel good enough? 112 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:30,119 Speaker 1: It's dark and mysterious. What don't you like about soul? 113 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 2: Oh? Well, what I was gonna say, is it's never 114 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 2: there when I need it. I don't thought that's true. 115 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 1: Never there when you need it? Okay, well we're just 116 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: playing the game. Never there when you need it. You know, 117 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 1: that's like the that's like the lover that says I 118 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 1: love you, I love you, I want to be with you, 119 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 1: and then you call and they don't answer phone, and 120 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 1: you and they're constantly telling you, no it. I ain't 121 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 1: got nobody else, I ain't with nobody else. But it's 122 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: never there when you need it. 123 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:07,959 Speaker 2: Hmmm mm hmm. 124 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: Okay, so that's what you don't like about money? What 125 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 1: else is anything else you don't like about soul? 126 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:24,679 Speaker 2: I feel like I always have to give it away. 127 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 1: Okay, give it away? Mm hmmm. So even when it 128 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: is there, not only are you intimidated by it, anxious 129 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 1: about it, you don't feel good enough for it, and 130 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 1: then you give it away. 131 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 2: Yes, mm hmmm mm hmm. 132 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 1: Are you are you seeing this? Why do you think 133 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 1: soul would want to be with you? Because if the 134 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 1: key thing here is not good enough to have more, 135 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: I gotta make my own money, but I'm not good 136 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 1: enough to have more. I own my own business, but 137 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:17,680 Speaker 1: I'm not good enough to have more. Underneath that you're 138 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 1: saying that I'm intimidated by who I am intimidating. Greater 139 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 1: your own power, creter your own power. You know why, 140 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 1: because money is power. It's a medium of exchange, and 141 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 1: the more we have, the more power we can experience 142 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: and express. Money is an energy, it's a power. It's 143 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 1: a medium of exchange. That's all it is. It has 144 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: nothing to do with your career, it has It has 145 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 1: nothing to do that. That's the trick. We've been tracked goodly, 146 00:10:54,000 --> 00:11:01,839 Speaker 1: lamboozled into thinking that I can work hard enough, work 147 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 1: long enough, and do enough to have all the money 148 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:11,319 Speaker 1: I want. That is a downright lie. It's your thinking 149 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: and your feeling that gives birth to your abundance. And 150 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 1: if you think that soul is an evergreen bush that's dark, 151 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: far away, mysterious, and you feel anxious, intimidated, not good 152 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:32,840 Speaker 1: enough to have it, because it ain't never there when 153 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 1: you need it, and if it is there, you gotta 154 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 1: give it away. You ain't gonna chase soul, You're not 155 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 1: gonna go for it. H And in there, anything you 156 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 1: think about money, you think about yourself. Because money is energy. 157 00:11:53,720 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 2: Oh okay, money is energy. 158 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:04,200 Speaker 1: You're afraid of your own power, intimidated by what you 159 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 1: can do, so busy believing that you're not gonna be 160 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:11,560 Speaker 1: there for you when you really need it, you set 161 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:15,080 Speaker 1: it out your mouth. I hold myself back until there's 162 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 1: an emergency. Then you get you know, you call it, 163 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 1: you call it baby daddy for some panthers and. 164 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:29,959 Speaker 2: Some all right, you got me, And all the other time. 165 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 1: You're talking bad about it. The ain't never hear when 166 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 1: I want it. It's over there, you know, and I 167 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 1: never know when it's gonna show up. But now the 168 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:40,960 Speaker 1: baby ain't got no pamps. Now you're gonna call oh, 169 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 1: let me get out here. I ain't got no money. 170 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:48,080 Speaker 1: Let me go make some and we'll talk about that 171 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 1: when we come back. Welcome back to the R spot. 172 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 2: But Mama, what do I do with that? What do 173 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:06,319 Speaker 2: I do with that? 174 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 1: Like? 175 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 2: What action sects do I take? 176 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 1: You got to go back and unpack your money, how 177 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: you experience money, what you were taught about money, what 178 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:21,079 Speaker 1: you heard and saw about money when you were little. 179 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 1: You gotta unpack that story. And it's as simple as okay, 180 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 1: that's that's not true. Come current to who you are now. 181 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:36,319 Speaker 1: You are a powerful woman in the world making your way. 182 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 1: You know, you are flying. Every soul out there wants you, 183 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:43,440 Speaker 1: Every soul wants a piece of who you are. And 184 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 1: you got to walk around knowing that and believing that 185 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 1: it's not about the money. It's about the energy that 186 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 1: you're going to attract. You can have two three clients 187 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 1: and each of them sell a house, buy a house, 188 00:13:55,240 --> 00:14:00,120 Speaker 1: get a house, But it's not the house, it's your energy. 189 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 1: But you gotta go back and unpack that money story. 190 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 1: Everybody has a money story and they're living it and 191 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 1: it has nothing to do with who you are today. 192 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 1: What did you hear about money growing up? What did 193 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 1: you see? 194 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 2: Okay, so my mom was very good with money, but 195 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 2: my dad was not. 196 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 1: What does that mean she was good with money? 197 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 2: She saved money. She always had like money in a flash, 198 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 2: you know, for a rainy day, and why it got. 199 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 1: To be raining. Ain't nobody going out in the rain 200 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 1: to spend the money? Were going out with the money 201 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 1: and the sunshine. Do you see those stories that we 202 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: tell you got to ask some money for a rainy day? No, 203 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: the hell I don't. I'm gonna be home when it's raining. 204 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 1: I want my money when the sun is shine. 205 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 2: Wow. 206 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 1: Okay, there is a wonderful, wonderful book. I want you 207 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 1: to go get it because you're working, you work for yourself, 208 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 1: and this particular book talks a lot about that happy 209 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: pockets full of money, happy pockets full of money, because 210 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 1: right now your pockets are not happy. 211 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 2: Okay, they're not they're not. And I know and people 212 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:22,880 Speaker 2: and it gets on my nerves even more because people 213 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 2: are always telling me, oh my god, god, you're gonna 214 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 2: be a millionaire, You're gonna be so good, you're gonna 215 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 2: be the first one in the family. And it's like, 216 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 2: I don't know what to do with that pressure. I'm like, 217 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm telling me this, you know. I'm like, okay, why. 218 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 1: But that's because you're anxious, intimidated, not good enough, and 219 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 1: you give it away because it's mysterious, it's dark, nice, 220 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 1: and you don't think you're good enough, Afraid of your 221 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 1: own power, intimidated by your own power, not good enough 222 00:15:57,080 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: to have power. Money is power, that's all it is. 223 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 1: It's a medium of exchange that allows us to experience 224 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 1: and express our internal power, a personal power. Happy pockets 225 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 1: that's in name the book go get it, not only 226 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: read it, do those exercises in it, and he breaks 227 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 1: that thing down. So you're gonna be slapping yourself in 228 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 1: the face. 229 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 2: And want to people want to flap me. 230 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:35,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, slapping your own self in the face because you 231 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 1: saving for a rainy day. Suppose it never rains again, 232 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 1: or if it rains every day. How's that going to 233 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 1: increase your money when you got to go out and 234 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 1: be showing people houses. M m. You don't have to 235 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 1: be practical with money. You don't have to be practical 236 00:16:54,680 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 1: with money. You can be responsible with money. You have 237 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 1: to be practical. What is practical? What does that mean? 238 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 2: Saving it? Saving it all? 239 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:11,760 Speaker 1: Why saving it for? What? Do you save your power? 240 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: How many times have you had an argument with a 241 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:19,719 Speaker 1: fool I'm talking a pure de fool that you know 242 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:22,199 Speaker 1: couldn't think. They weighed out a paper bag and you're 243 00:17:22,240 --> 00:17:24,879 Speaker 1: trying to convince them of something. How many times have 244 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:25,439 Speaker 1: you done that. 245 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 2: A couple? 246 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, wasting your power? And let me ask 247 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 1: you this question. And I asked this of you because 248 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 1: you say you work for yourself, your realtor where's God 249 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: in that? 250 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:50,280 Speaker 2: Where's God in that? 251 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:58,119 Speaker 1: And yeah? And then she was silent. Where is God 252 00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 1: in you? Working for your with God in that? 253 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:07,400 Speaker 2: Well, theoretically, I don't work for myself, I'm working for God. 254 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:17,000 Speaker 1: I washeah, not working with God, working in God, working 255 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:20,720 Speaker 1: for God. God wants every single one of his children 256 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 1: to have a home. Scriptures say in my father's house, 257 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:27,400 Speaker 1: there are many mansions, and one of the mansions got 258 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:29,199 Speaker 1: my name on it. I just need to find the 259 00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 1: reality who can get Okay, God wants every single one 260 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 1: of his children to have a house. God wants every 261 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 1: single one of his children to be provided for. God 262 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 1: wants every single one of his children to be stable 263 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:47,880 Speaker 1: and safe. So you're not only working for God, you're 264 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:53,879 Speaker 1: working with God. You're working in God. You're working as God. 265 00:18:54,560 --> 00:19:01,880 Speaker 1: Thank you. And God is unfailing abundance. God is unfailing abundance. 266 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 1: There is no lack in God. If you're in lack, 267 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 1: it means you're in your humans, not in your divinity. 268 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:15,440 Speaker 1: So what's the name of your your reality. 269 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 2: Company investing with kat. 270 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:21,960 Speaker 1: Okay, it's you might want to consider changing it to 271 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:22,439 Speaker 1: God and. 272 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:25,520 Speaker 2: Thank you. 273 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 1: God Incorporated. That I work for God incorporated. Where there's 274 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 1: no unemployment, where there's no uh five oh one C 275 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 1: three or four oh one K or you know my 276 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:44,239 Speaker 1: my four oh one K is endlessly supplied. It has 277 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 1: an unlimited supply. I can retire whenever I want. I 278 00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 1: work for God Incorporated. Well, I don't punch a clock. 279 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 1: I serve a purpose. I work for God Incorporated. Well, 280 00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 1: I'm always supplied with everything that I need. I'm working 281 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 1: for God with God in God as God. It's God incorporated. 282 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 1: God is incorporated into every single thing that I do. 283 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:20,439 Speaker 1: My mother was practical. God is wealth. I can have 284 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:22,760 Speaker 1: money when the sun is out, when it's raining, when 285 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,359 Speaker 1: it's snowing, if it's hailing, if it clouds up in 286 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:28,680 Speaker 1: doodoo balls start falling out the sky. I'm gonna have 287 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:32,679 Speaker 1: what I need when I need it. That's the mindset, 288 00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 1: and you're gonna get that and happy pockets full of money. 289 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:40,480 Speaker 2: I'm going to read it. I am going to read it, because. 290 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:45,879 Speaker 1: Don't read it, read it, lick the pages. Sleep with 291 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,520 Speaker 1: the book on your head, tie it on the scarf, 292 00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 1: and put it on the top of your head so 293 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 1: the words will seep into your brain. I started working 294 00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:58,640 Speaker 1: for God Incorporated in nineteen eighty eight, and I've never 295 00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:03,440 Speaker 1: been unemployed since. Never never missed the meal since nineteen 296 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:06,160 Speaker 1: eighty eight. I can show you my butt right now 297 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:08,920 Speaker 1: today and you'll see I ain't never missed the meal ever, 298 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:13,879 Speaker 1: and usually have two or three of them. People bring 299 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:17,679 Speaker 1: me food, all kinds of all the time. You know, 300 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:22,919 Speaker 1: pray of your power, and don't be running from soul. 301 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:28,680 Speaker 1: Soul is good to you, so soul wants to rock 302 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 1: your world about that you Okay, okay, baby, hear me, 303 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 1: hear me, hear me, hear me, hear me good. Hear 304 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 1: me with your hair. Hear me with your hair follicles. 305 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:50,679 Speaker 1: Hear me with your skin, with your fingernails, hear me 306 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:53,399 Speaker 1: with your toenails. Hear me with your nipples. Hear me 307 00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 1: with your with your your butt. Hear me with your everything, 308 00:21:57,200 --> 00:22:00,360 Speaker 1: your biceps, your quads, hear me with your sick pack, 309 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 1: your twelve back. Hear me with your dune lap belly, 310 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 1: the belly that Doune lopped over into your lap. Okay, 311 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:12,920 Speaker 1: there is no shortage. Money. Money is not your supply. 312 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 1: Your self value, your self worth, your self respect, your 313 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:31,880 Speaker 1: self love is your banker, and you can make unlimited 314 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 1: deposits from your account when you are clear about who 315 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:41,320 Speaker 1: you are But if you think that you're out there 316 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 1: working on your own, if you think that the baby 317 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,119 Speaker 1: daddy ain't gonna show up when you need it, if 318 00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:51,360 Speaker 1: you think that you and money just got a hook up, 319 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:56,800 Speaker 1: if you think it's just the friend around sometimes but 320 00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 1: you know, barely covering the basics. Some of y'all are 321 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 1: celibate when it comes to money, not even thinking about 322 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:11,639 Speaker 1: having more getting more because you don't know yourself. I 323 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 1: don't know who you are. Let me get in that 324 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 1: with you, okay, because I'm not talking about you, I'm 325 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:22,480 Speaker 1: talking with you. We don't know who we are. We 326 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,159 Speaker 1: don't know who we are. And as long as we 327 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 1: think we're out here on our own, money's gonna be 328 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:36,440 Speaker 1: a drive by, it's gonna be a boogeyman, it's gonna 329 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:42,440 Speaker 1: be dark and mysterious far away. And then how many 330 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 1: of us really know how to receive? Or do we 331 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:49,680 Speaker 1: only attach money to what we can do to get it. 332 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 1: I have some really really bad money habits because I 333 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 1: don't follow the rules, and people with oh, you got 334 00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 1: bad money habits? But I stand in the promise I 335 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 1: will never see my seed begging for bread. I ain't 336 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 1: never had to beg for bread. There are moments when 337 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 1: all I have is a crust, But I know I'm 338 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:19,439 Speaker 1: gonna have what I need. I believe that because I 339 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:25,800 Speaker 1: deserve it, I'm worth it, and I value myself. All right, 340 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 1: let me see who else is out there. They got 341 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:32,879 Speaker 1: a dysfunctional relationship with money, and we'll talk about that 342 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 1: when we come back. Welcome back to the R spot. 343 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,520 Speaker 1: Greeting's been loved, and welcome to the our spot. Thank 344 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 1: you for your patience. We are talking today about our 345 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:56,160 Speaker 1: relationship with money. Some people have a one night stand, 346 00:24:56,320 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 1: some people are married to it. What's your relationship with money? 347 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 2: I would say my relationship with money is nonexistent. 348 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:12,119 Speaker 1: You celibate, you celibate, You ain't had none in a while. 349 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, tell me more about your relationship with money. 350 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:19,520 Speaker 1: Why does it look like that? 351 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:23,479 Speaker 2: Well, because I worked. I've worked two jobs for like 352 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:27,840 Speaker 2: the last seven years. I have yet to get a 353 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:31,240 Speaker 2: form of a savings account. Every penny that I pretty 354 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 2: much make either those two bills or providing for my 355 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:40,200 Speaker 2: child and myself by the time the bills are done, 356 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:44,560 Speaker 2: and putting groceries in a house. I really have about 357 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,400 Speaker 2: at the match five hundred dollars. 358 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:55,280 Speaker 1: Can I ask you a question, yes, ma'am, you can. 359 00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,199 Speaker 1: Do you work for money or do you work for 360 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 1: the joy and the love of it? 361 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 2: I think that's hard to answer. I would probably say, 362 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 2: I feel like I more so work for the joy 363 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 2: and love of it, more so than the money. 364 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:25,119 Speaker 1: Okay, So then why isn't money coming to you? Because 365 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:29,159 Speaker 1: money is money is love. Money is love. Love is 366 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 1: an energy. Money is an energy. Why isn't more of 367 00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 1: it coming to you? 368 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 2: I would say, because of the jobs that I choose, M. 369 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:42,640 Speaker 1: Why are you choosing those jobs? 370 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,919 Speaker 2: One is a career base, It's what I went to 371 00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 2: school for, and I do enjoy it to a point, 372 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 2: but it has not brought me the money that I 373 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 2: thought it would. And then the other one, like I said, 374 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:04,440 Speaker 2: it's just honestly, it's to supplement the extra income that 375 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,160 Speaker 2: I would possibly have if I had a partner. 376 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 1: You got all kinds of stuff attached to your money. 377 00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:21,360 Speaker 1: I do. I do, my word, my word, my word. 378 00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:27,480 Speaker 1: If you had to give money a color other than green, 379 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 1: what would it be? 380 00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,720 Speaker 2: I would probably say, wonder? Either red? 381 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:48,760 Speaker 1: Red, red hot? Okay, all right, red hot? Money is 382 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 1: red hot? Can't hold on to it? 383 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:56,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I agree with that. 384 00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:01,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, tell me your money story. What did you hear 385 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:05,239 Speaker 1: see learn? What were you told about money growing up? 386 00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 2: Oh? Wow, that's funny. I just had this conversation twenty 387 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 2: minutes ago with a family member. Not much, not much 388 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 2: of a conversation at all. You're supposed to save, But 389 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:19,639 Speaker 2: how can you tell someone to save if you're not 390 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 2: showing them how to save? How can you tell someone 391 00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:29,919 Speaker 2: to invest into borlin ks and budget if you wasn't 392 00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,320 Speaker 2: shown how to do those things. 393 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 1: So you didn't learn anything. You didn't learn anything about money. Okay, no, 394 00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:41,800 Speaker 1: but you did learn that you have to work for it. 395 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:44,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty much it. 396 00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you don't know who or what money is, right, 397 00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:54,680 Speaker 1: So you got to You gotta really start building a 398 00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 1: relationship with money. You say you want to partner, we'll 399 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:02,520 Speaker 1: make money your part for right now. You got to 400 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 1: build a relationship with it. Every dollar, every penny. My 401 00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:09,480 Speaker 1: grandson found a penny the other day, he said, look, 402 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 1: I found a penny. I said, oh my god, that's 403 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 1: a Nichols little sister. I said, and do you know 404 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:20,160 Speaker 1: who a Nichol's mother is? He said no, I said, 405 00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:23,240 Speaker 1: it's a dime. And do you know who a dime's 406 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 1: mother is, I said, a quarter, you know. And I 407 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 1: mean we went all the way up the list till 408 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:30,600 Speaker 1: we got to the dollar, you know. And I was 409 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 1: telling her how money is related. Yeah, and so because 410 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:36,400 Speaker 1: people will find pennies and don't even pick them up, 411 00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 1: don't look at it. I pick up a penny when 412 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 1: I find it because I know it's got a sister, 413 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:44,000 Speaker 1: it's got a mama, it's got a daddy. I want 414 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 1: a relationship with the whole Derned family. 415 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So you have to build. 416 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 1: A relationship with money. Did you learn there wasn't enough money? 417 00:29:56,960 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 1: Did you learn that? Yeah? 418 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:04,720 Speaker 2: I think I did, just on the fact that my 419 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 2: mom was a single parent of three and all she 420 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 2: did was work. That's through joints, and that was at 421 00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 2: minimum wage, you know. So what she got was what 422 00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:19,000 Speaker 2: she got, and she did what she had to do 423 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,640 Speaker 2: with whatever she got. 424 00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 1: Okay, she worked, but never had enough, never had enough never, 425 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:32,000 Speaker 1: And that's isn't that your story? Yeah? Okay, So you're 426 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,720 Speaker 1: live in your mother's story and you got to create 427 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 1: your in your mama's story. You got to create your 428 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 1: own with money. I want to give you an abundance principle. 429 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:52,640 Speaker 1: Let me give you an abundance principle. Okay, okay. I 430 00:30:52,800 --> 00:31:00,400 Speaker 1: keep my mind and thoughts off this world, and I 431 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:05,680 Speaker 1: place my entire focus on God within, the source within, 432 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 1: as the only cause of my prosperity. I want to 433 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:17,000 Speaker 1: say that again, hear me. I keep my mind off 434 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:21,840 Speaker 1: this world, off the job, off the working, I keep 435 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,880 Speaker 1: my mind off this world, and I place my entire 436 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:34,160 Speaker 1: focus on God's source, creator within as the only cause 437 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:46,000 Speaker 1: of my prosperity. Focus on outside, focus on the inside, 438 00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:52,040 Speaker 1: and come current, come current to who you are. You're 439 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:55,280 Speaker 1: good at what you do. You're working in a place 440 00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:59,640 Speaker 1: that you love, and it can reward you. Not the thing, 441 00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:05,560 Speaker 1: but the way you feel about the thing, not the world, 442 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:12,720 Speaker 1: but the inner cause, the inner cause, what you believe 443 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 1: is possible, what you desire, not what you have. Does 444 00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:19,920 Speaker 1: that make sense? 445 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 2: Yes, it is. 446 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,840 Speaker 1: It is because you're looking at You gotta look in. 447 00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:28,560 Speaker 1: You got to look in and stop living your mama's story. 448 00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 1: Create another story. And m. 449 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:37,920 Speaker 2: I say this ironic that you say I'm living my 450 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 2: mom story. I never thought of it in that way. 451 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:43,280 Speaker 1: She worked and never had enough. You work in two 452 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:48,280 Speaker 1: jobs and still ain't got enough. Yeah, So here's your homework. 453 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:54,680 Speaker 1: I don't care how much money it is. When you 454 00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: get it, you put ten percent and an interest bare 455 00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:06,400 Speaker 1: account that you cannot touch. So if you make your paycheck, 456 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:10,360 Speaker 1: is four hundred and seventy nine dollars, forty seven dollars 457 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:14,720 Speaker 1: and ninety cents goes in that account, you're gonna pay yourself. 458 00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:22,880 Speaker 1: Pay yourself first, Pay yourself first, ten percent. If somebody 459 00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:25,840 Speaker 1: gives you one hundred dollars, you put ten dollars in 460 00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:29,520 Speaker 1: that account. You don't touch it for a year. At 461 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 1: the end of that year, you'll see what you have 462 00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:38,959 Speaker 1: ten percent. Every paycheck, every gift, anything you find. You 463 00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:42,880 Speaker 1: can do that online. You get your paycheck, you look 464 00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 1: at it, you transfer ten percent into account in another bank, 465 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 1: not even in the bank, you bank with it because 466 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:55,640 Speaker 1: I know you're slippery. You'll take that, You're right, I 467 00:33:55,720 --> 00:34:00,120 Speaker 1: know I am. Put it in a whole another bank. 468 00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 1: Pay yourself first, because you're working and you're not feeling rewarded, 469 00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:13,280 Speaker 1: so you will diminish who you are. Money is energy. 470 00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:15,920 Speaker 1: Money is the flow. Get in the flow of it. 471 00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:20,040 Speaker 1: And if you're constantly working and giving away all that 472 00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:24,040 Speaker 1: you make, you're diminishing, not only the flow, but you're 473 00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:27,920 Speaker 1: diminishing what you think and feel about yourself. Pay you first. 474 00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,439 Speaker 2: Okay, tell me what you're good. 475 00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:34,799 Speaker 1: I mean, tell me what you heard me say. Don't 476 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,720 Speaker 1: repeat the words. Tell me what you're hearing me say. 477 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:43,520 Speaker 2: To take care of myself before I take care of 478 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:44,279 Speaker 2: anything else. 479 00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:51,040 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, So that you're working has value and meaning 480 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:55,640 Speaker 1: to you. Not just you're gonna do what you need 481 00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 1: to do. You're gonna pay your bills, You're gonna take 482 00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 1: care of the kids. You're gonna You're gonna do that 483 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,480 Speaker 1: because you've already done it. You've demonstrated that you can 484 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,240 Speaker 1: do that, and now you're just gonna add a little 485 00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:10,239 Speaker 1: twist to it. Gonna add a little twist. Right, We're 486 00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna make friends with money. Some of it's 487 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:14,360 Speaker 1: gonna stay with you. 488 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:21,120 Speaker 2: Right. That's really there's something that I needed to hear. 489 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:24,439 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I'm glad that's why you called me. I'm 490 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:32,160 Speaker 1: done with you now bye. Do that, Okay, get online. 491 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:37,960 Speaker 1: I'm opening up an account and another bank ten percent. 492 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:40,839 Speaker 1: I don't care what it is. Twenty dollars, put two 493 00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:41,600 Speaker 1: in the bank. 494 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:47,640 Speaker 2: Right, Okay, I will try that, Yes, ma'am. 495 00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:50,879 Speaker 1: And dismantle your mother's money story. Go back and look 496 00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:53,560 Speaker 1: at it, how it made you feel, what you thought about, 497 00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:56,560 Speaker 1: what you saw, what you heard, and begin to dismantle 498 00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,000 Speaker 1: that because that has nothing to do with who you 499 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:02,239 Speaker 1: are now. Nothing, there's nothing with who you are now, 500 00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:08,600 Speaker 1: but you're living in Yes. I am okay, I am 501 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:11,719 Speaker 1: all right, my darling. Thank you for calling, and thank 502 00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:16,040 Speaker 1: you for your patience. Thank you all righty bye bye. 503 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:25,439 Speaker 1: Some people got to have it, some people really need it, 504 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:30,239 Speaker 1: and they do things, do things, do things, bad things 505 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:34,880 Speaker 1: with it. You know that. Oh, Jay's money, money, money, money, 506 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:39,120 Speaker 1: our relationship with money. Listen, I want to leave you 507 00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:48,880 Speaker 1: with this money. N e y my own natural energy yield, 508 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:54,680 Speaker 1: what my energy brings me, what my energy creates for me, 509 00:36:54,880 --> 00:37:02,040 Speaker 1: and within me, my own natural energy yield. Money is energy. 510 00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:07,680 Speaker 1: As you clean up, clear up, lift up, your energy, 511 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:11,719 Speaker 1: money will flow to you. Money will come to you. 512 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:16,080 Speaker 1: It'll show up for you in a variety of ways. 513 00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:25,560 Speaker 1: And please hear me. Job, job, just over broke, just overbroke. 514 00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:29,920 Speaker 1: As long as you think that your job is the 515 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 1: source of your money, not your value, not your worth, 516 00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:38,840 Speaker 1: not your divinity, not your connection to the source of 517 00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:45,200 Speaker 1: all wealth, the unlimited, eternal source of all wealth. As 518 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:49,840 Speaker 1: long as you think your job is your source of money, 519 00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:53,560 Speaker 1: you're going to be just overbroke and it'll be dysfunctional. 520 00:37:54,520 --> 00:38:01,160 Speaker 1: You want to committed long term relationship with the energy, 521 00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:07,600 Speaker 1: the identity, the purpose of money, and that is to 522 00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:12,319 Speaker 1: nurture you, to protect you, to help you heal, to 523 00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:17,760 Speaker 1: help you grow. Get in the flow of money energy 524 00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:22,120 Speaker 1: and you'll be Okay. Well, I hope you heard something 525 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:25,440 Speaker 1: today that you can use in your life. Something you 526 00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:29,440 Speaker 1: know now that you didn't know when you tuned in 527 00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 1: our relationship with money. Let's clean it up, Let's lift 528 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:37,839 Speaker 1: it up, let's elevate it. Okay, and I'll see you 529 00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:41,600 Speaker 1: next time. So in the meantime, stay in peace and 530 00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 1: not in peace. R Spot is a production of Shondaland 531 00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:54,440 Speaker 1: Audio in partnership with iHeartRadio. 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