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Speaker 2: The second Date up Date. Our word of the day
Speaker 2: for this segment is forgiveness. That word. Can you forgive
Speaker 2: a guy for making a mistake in the middle of
Speaker 2: a date?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: For sure, I'm sure you can. But should you forgive him?
Speaker 3: Though?
Speaker 2: Forgiveness is a dangerous slope towards other feelings, like understanding
Speaker 2: and compassion. None of those things so fun or sexy
Speaker 2: in the world, though in the dating party sexy. But
Speaker 2: one of our listeners has decided to exercise forgiveness today,
Speaker 2: even though she says he totally let her down. Kelsey,
Speaker 2: are you sure about doing this?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: No, I'm sure.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. So wait, he let you down and
Speaker 1: he's the one not calling you back? I know? Yeah
Speaker 1: for sure.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, first of all, I apologize on behalf of
Speaker 2: this guy and for all men in general.
Speaker 1: But tell us apologizing for all men?
Speaker 2: We are sorry, what is the name of this particular
Speaker 2: man who wronged you? His name is Stephen Stephen who
Speaker 2: everybody that I know named Stephen is terrible anything about
Speaker 2: me and one of my best friends' names are our
Speaker 2: producer is named Stephen.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that guy.
Speaker 2: So it sounds like you brought this on yourself. But
Speaker 2: what did Stephen do?
Speaker 4: So Stephen and I went on a date, and you know,
Speaker 4: it was a good day, Like we went to the
Speaker 4: plane that I suggested, which was nice. It was like
Speaker 4: a little upscale.
Speaker 1: Was it, Like you're out to do ners that you
Speaker 1: guys are doing are just.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was dinner. It was dinner, okay, And there
Speaker 4: was just a couple of things that kind of irked me.
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie, Like, so we saw each other
Speaker 4: for the first time, and like he waited to me,
Speaker 4: I wait to him, but before he came over to me,
Speaker 4: he like turned away for a second and like hold
Speaker 4: the door open for this other lady, which fine, whatever,
Speaker 4: but I'm like, dude, we're literally just meeting.
Speaker 1: He was just.
Speaker 2: And you're saying that upset you because you were just
Speaker 2: in the middle of like introducing yourself.
Speaker 4: Yes, totally, Okay.
Speaker 1: The door on someone.
Speaker 2: Well, he should be focused on her.
Speaker 4: That's why I let us slide, right, Okay.
Speaker 2: Okay, you're more forgiving than any of us would be
Speaker 2: at that point.
Speaker 1: It's strange that it was even a flag at all
Speaker 1: for you. But yes, okay, maybe you let it go.
Speaker 2: Seems like it was more of a moment for her
Speaker 2: that she was like, excuse me, Yeah, are you on
Speaker 2: a date with me or on a date with this
Speaker 2: old lady trying to get into the door. Probably I
Speaker 2: could see where she's coming from. Okay, Kelsey, everyone else
Speaker 2: is against you, but I'm on your side.
Speaker 4: I think that's a total valid Should I even tell
Speaker 4: what the big problem problem? Okay? So then, like the game,
Speaker 4: I'm fine whatever. I was looking at his stupid haircut anyways,
Speaker 4: stupid haircut the photos.
Speaker 1: It doesn't feel like you're looking past it when then
Speaker 1: you call it a stupid haircut.
Speaker 4: Well, I'm on the phone with you guys talking about it,
Speaker 4: So yeah, I'm looking past it.
Speaker 2: Okay, it's very big. She wants to see him again,
Speaker 2: remember that.
Speaker 1: So he's got a dumb haircuts.
Speaker 2: And paying attention to other people. So did he make
Speaker 2: more mistakes?
Speaker 3: She did?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: God? What did he do next?
Speaker 4: At the end of the date, I was like, this
Speaker 4: was I can get me my uber home and he
Speaker 4: was like, no, you can get it.
Speaker 1: Wait what you want to have to order you an uber?
Speaker 1: Is that a Is that like a normal thing?
Speaker 5: And Dad, you never asked somebody to buy I've never asked.
Speaker 2: She just takes his phone and orders it through off.
Speaker 4: I have never I've never had a guy tell me
Speaker 4: no to getting me an uber.
Speaker 1: That's a thing I had no idea. I also don't
Speaker 1: think I've just not gone home with him. You know.
Speaker 2: That's true.
Speaker 1: I think so you're mad at him? Is that you're
Speaker 1: big because you said there was one huge that was
Speaker 1: my big thing.
Speaker 4: I was just like, I could be murdered and you
Speaker 4: wouldn't know. And then on top of it, he didn't
Speaker 4: even text me to check him and see if I
Speaker 4: got back, and I haven't heard from him for all
Speaker 4: he knows I could be murdered.
Speaker 2: I think all of these complaints are very, very valid
Speaker 2: from you, But it is starting to seem like you
Speaker 2: don't like this guy at all.
Speaker 1: Why are we getting a hold of him? Is it
Speaker 1: just because he's not calling you?
Speaker 4: Like I said before, I got it of the fact
Speaker 4: that he didn't pay so much attention to me. He
Speaker 4: had a stupid haircut whatever, but I did like other things,
Speaker 4: like he was really funny, so good.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, I mean were you can I
Speaker 1: ask were you critical of any of these things? While
Speaker 1: on the day, I'm just.
Speaker 2: You know, because that's what Brooke would do on a first.
Speaker 5: Say that after you literally just railed on this dude.
Speaker 1: You're the one that I agree.
Speaker 2: Personally, I think he's a schmuck. He sounds like a
Speaker 2: terrible person, but she's the one who wants to call
Speaker 2: him Jim would never look past haircut, no, Like that's
Speaker 2: definite deal breaker.
Speaker 4: Well, I'm not gonna lie, like I have a hard
Speaker 4: time hiding the look on my face. But I didn't
Speaker 4: verbally say anything to him, but like, I don't know
Speaker 4: how my face looked, Okay.
Speaker 5: I know that you guys always get haircuts and they
Speaker 5: think it's good the day of, it's good, like three
Speaker 5: days later a lesson too.
Speaker 2: We don't know when he got his haircut whatever.
Speaker 1: It was bit of a doubt.
Speaker 2: So I know, you can't control what was on your face,
Speaker 2: but you can control what was in your heart and
Speaker 2: we need to figure out what's inside Stephen's heart when
Speaker 2: we call him and then also mess with his face
Speaker 2: and his hair a little bit too.
Speaker 1: To get but we're not going to bring that up.
Speaker 2: Well, we'll see what happens.
Speaker 4: Oh, jeh, I want to know why he's not asking
Speaker 4: me out again.
Speaker 2: Okay, we're going to find out. We're going to call
Speaker 2: this schmuck coming up your second date update right after
Speaker 2: this second date update. We've had a lot of strong,
Speaker 2: brave women on this segment before, because Brooks in every.
Speaker 1: One of them. Hey, that's actually Hey, I'm in the
Speaker 1: room too. I'm yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: I think Kelsey may be the bravest of them all.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: She boldly has chosen to forgive Stephen for his list
Speaker 2: of mistakes on their first date, paying attention to the
Speaker 2: old lady when they were introducing most consultory.
Speaker 1: Was old that he holds the door for Jeff.
Speaker 2: Why would he hold it for an able doesn't make
Speaker 2: any sense. All the women Jeff were gentlemen. Anybody, they
Speaker 2: can open the door themselves if they were able body.
Speaker 2: She also chose to forgive his stupid dumb haircut. I'm
Speaker 2: very proud of her for that.
Speaker 1: And she asked him to put on a hat.
Speaker 2: Most importantly, she chose to forgive him for not paying
Speaker 2: for her Uber ride home after the dates after she asked.
Speaker 2: After she asked him to, he said no.
Speaker 1: Such an awkward moment.
Speaker 2: But despite all of those mistakes that Stephen made, she
Speaker 2: has chosen to look past them and give him one
Speaker 2: more chance with this call today. Wow, you are so strong,
Speaker 2: so brave for what you did.
Speaker 1: I know you know, I'm excited. Toe. Can I ask
Speaker 1: one question? After he said no? On that Uber? Did
Speaker 1: you just stand there awkwardly on at the corner while
Speaker 1: he laughed? Or did you both wait awkwardly for an
Speaker 1: Uber ride?
Speaker 4: No? I walk away?
Speaker 1: Okay that's how the day ended.
Speaker 4: Wow.
Speaker 2: Hopefully after this call, you never have to pay for
Speaker 2: your own Uber ever.
Speaker 3: Again.
Speaker 2: That's our goal for you today. So here we go.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna dial Steven. Let's see if he even answers.
Speaker 2: Probably won't you, Steve. I don't trust the guy, don't
Speaker 2: like him. So here we go. Hello, Hey is this Stephen?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Oh, Steven, Jeffrey heard a lot about you, Stephen.
Speaker 1: We've heard a lot of good things about you, Steven.
Speaker 2: I don't know about that man.
Speaker 1: Listen to his language.
Speaker 2: To Jeffrey, listen the slandering us. We're a radio show,
Speaker 2: a very popular one called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: Yeah, just like a prank call.
Speaker 2: We do do those.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you'd probably be happier if it was. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So this is called a second date update, and we
Speaker 2: are trying to help one of our listeners figure out
Speaker 2: what happened on the date that you went.
Speaker 3: Out with her. Well, who are you talking about?
Speaker 2: It's a girl named Kelsey?
Speaker 3: Oh of course, my god?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what's up with that?
Speaker 3: I was probably the nuttiest girl met here.
Speaker 1: Really, sometimes that can be good? Is that a positive?
Speaker 2: She's really eccentric.
Speaker 1: I don't know if i'd want to be called.
Speaker 2: I mean, we know a little bit about what happened
Speaker 2: on the date. We're just trying to figure out, like,
Speaker 2: how did you experience that night?
Speaker 6: Well, look, so it started okay, we were having a
Speaker 6: good time, and then towards the end of the day
Speaker 6: is where it.
Speaker 3: Got a little weird.
Speaker 1: Is this like after dinner?
Speaker 6: Yeah, so after dinner I offer her a ride home.
Speaker 6: Oh and so we're going there, but halfway through she says,
Speaker 6: can you stop at the store for me.
Speaker 2: Wait wait wait, wait wait wait you offered to drive
Speaker 2: her home?
Speaker 1: She no, she got an uber.
Speaker 2: She told us that she wanted an uber home.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, just wait, just wait, we'll get to that.
Speaker 1: Wait. So she takes the ride, and you guys are
Speaker 1: in the car together, in the car together.
Speaker 3: Halfway to her place, she says, stop at the store
Speaker 3: for me, Okay, go in there, and she's getting.
Speaker 6: All this like skincare, hair product, beauty stuff.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 6: And after all this, we get to the counter and
Speaker 6: her car declines.
Speaker 1: Oh that's not cheap. Yeah how much?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Eighty four and thirty six cents that I say.
Speaker 1: Not that you remember or anything.
Speaker 2: Did you say? So you paid it?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I paid it because the car declined.
Speaker 6: She was throwing back, dinner was two hundred bucks already,
Speaker 6: and I'm paying.
Speaker 3: For this this stupid skincare stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean it was a mistake, like an
Speaker 1: honest mistake, And like, that's so humiliating when you get
Speaker 1: your car declined.
Speaker 2: I think anybody would have picked it up.
Speaker 1: Like, are you mad about it? Though?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 6: What I'm annoyed with is a mixed part too, because
Speaker 6: all of it together it just makes it feel like,
Speaker 6: I'm just getting taken advantage of it. Oh, so I
Speaker 6: tell her, all right, let's get back of a car.
Speaker 3: I'm going to take you home, and she's like, no,
Speaker 3: I don't feel comfortable with that. I want to get
Speaker 3: an uber. What a chance to pay for the freaking uber.
Speaker 3: I'm like, what are you kidding me?
Speaker 2: After you had just paid for her dinner and for
Speaker 2: her skincare products.
Speaker 1: Well, she ver she's in the car. Yeah, why did
Speaker 1: she suddenly feel uncomfortable?
Speaker 6: I don't know, Like, I was just out three hundred
Speaker 6: bucks and now she wants me to uber her home.
Speaker 3: So it was just really weird to me, Like, I
Speaker 3: really don't get that.
Speaker 2: So you're like, no, because they could.
Speaker 1: Drive you home. That is so weird that she did
Speaker 1: not tell us that she was outside a store.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we we missed that part of the story, and
Speaker 2: we should probably ask her about it because she's on
Speaker 2: the other line listening to this conversation right now. Stephen.
Speaker 3: Oh whatever it?
Speaker 4: Oh, well, what he wouldn't pay for it?
Speaker 2: Well, hold on, Telsey, you didn't tell us any of
Speaker 2: the stuff about going to the store and him buying
Speaker 2: you your beauty products. Well, that part of the story
Speaker 2: does matter, because we're just trying to like understand what
Speaker 2: happened that night. You didn't tell us any of that
Speaker 2: part of the story. Yeah, hello up? Oh god, what
Speaker 2: did we do?
Speaker 1: We outed her?
Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, we didn't out her? Stephen did. He's the jerk.
Speaker 2: I told you you can't trust this guy.
Speaker 1: The guy got taken on a date.
Speaker 2: Answering our questions, Steven, do you feel bad for making
Speaker 2: her look like such a terrible person in your recap?
Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, I feel so terrible for her.
Speaker 2: Wow, why would you speak? I can't believe you didn't
Speaker 2: offer to pay for her uber home after she already
Speaker 2: got halfway there, and you pay for all of her stuff.
Speaker 6: I don't even get, like why she called you in
Speaker 6: a first place. Did she want to go out with
Speaker 6: me again or something?
Speaker 1: That's what she told us. She kept saying like you
Speaker 1: had red flags, but she was willing to look past us.
Speaker 2: That's right. She's a kind soul who's willing to forgive
Speaker 2: you for all the mess ups.
Speaker 3: What are the messages that she even mentioned.
Speaker 1: You did some horrible things?
Speaker 2: List is long? My friend? Do you really want to
Speaker 2: dive into this?
Speaker 1: Okay? I don't know if you realize this, but you
Speaker 1: opened a door for another woman.
Speaker 3: Are you kidding me?
Speaker 2: In the middle of greeting Kelsey? So she felt belittled.
Speaker 1: You do know that Jeffrey's being sarcastic right now, right Stephen,
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 3: Know you guys, so I have no idea, but I
Speaker 3: really do.
Speaker 2: That was rude. We've been talking for the last like
Speaker 2: five minutes, and now you're going to pretend like you
Speaker 2: don't even know us. You see what I'm saying. Kelsey
Speaker 2: had a point.
Speaker 1: How far into the date did you realize that you're
Speaker 1: gonna not be calling her back again?
Speaker 6: Well, once we get to the store and she gets
Speaker 6: all the skincare products, I thought it was weird a
Speaker 6: car gets declined. I mean, I just thought she was
Speaker 6: taking advantage of me, to be honest, but.
Speaker 2: It's it's game care products to look beautiful for you.
Speaker 2: I'm not that That's what you don't get, Steven. That
Speaker 2: purchase was not for her. It was for you.
Speaker 1: You know you don't when she's not on the phone anymore.
Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody needs to stand up for brave Kelsey, who
Speaker 2: bravely hung up in the middle of the segment.
Speaker 3: You're gonna die on that hill.
Speaker 1: Huh, he will die on that hill. It's gonna be
Speaker 1: a very lonely hill that he's on.
Speaker 2: You know what, I've never done this before, Steven, and
Speaker 2: honestly I'm not a big fan of you, but I'm
Speaker 2: still going to offer to give you a gift certificate
Speaker 2: to pay for a new haircut.
Speaker 3: Oh Jack, my hair, well me.
Speaker 2: I mean, Kelsey said that she liked it a lot,
Speaker 2: but Brooke and Studio when she saw your photo, was like,
Speaker 2: we gotta make a change.
Speaker 1: The Steve, that's not true. I've never seen your picture.
Speaker 6: I mean I could send you a few different pictures.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Okay, I just got done sending Brooks contact in Stevens.
Speaker 2: So Brooke, there should be some photos arriving in your
Speaker 2: box and a couple.
Speaker 1: Of I don't want any photos.
Speaker 2: You can sort them like you normally do, and all
Speaker 2: your color coded hot guy folders, which is very bold
Speaker 2: of you to do on your work computer, but more
Speaker 2: power to you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's just of employees.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's allowed. That's fair.
Speaker 1: They're all not hot, is the problem.
Speaker 2: With what you're giving. So as far as Kelsey goes
Speaker 2: from that call, I gotta say I appreciate a woman
Speaker 2: who knows exactly what.
Speaker 1: She wants, and what she.
Speaker 2: Wanted was to rudely hang up on us in the
Speaker 2: middle of the call and doing that to guts. I
Speaker 2: respect her for that. Did she know what she wanted?
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's hard to make up products. Yes,
Speaker 1: you got and the.
Speaker 2: Guy to pay for everything, which is fair.
Speaker 1: I guess I still feel bad that a card was declined,
Speaker 1: or she just has a fate.
Speaker 2: He knew he was going to be declined.
Speaker 5: How she's a scammer. You just shut your card off
Speaker 5: on the app. It takes two seconds, yeah, Or you just.
Speaker 2: Know you're in the negative already.
Speaker 1: Got to buy her face cream.
Speaker 2: She's scamming her way right into all of our hearts.
Speaker 2: And you can do if you email the show, we'll
Speaker 2: call that person who's not calling you back and go.
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