WEBVTT - Second Date Update: No Uber and a Stupid Haircut

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we just need to apologize right now for taking

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<v Speaker 1>the old ones are going viral, but the new ones

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<v Speaker 1>are so much better. I'm so glad you found them.

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<v Speaker 1>Follow like whatever you're supposed to do on these podcasts

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<v Speaker 1>and just sit back and listen.

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<v Speaker 2>The second Date up Date. Our word of the day

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<v Speaker 2>for this segment is forgiveness. That word. Can you forgive

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<v Speaker 2>a guy for making a mistake in the middle of

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<v Speaker 2>a date?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>For sure, I'm sure you can. But should you forgive him?

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<v Speaker 3>Though?

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<v Speaker 2>Forgiveness is a dangerous slope towards other feelings, like understanding

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<v Speaker 2>and compassion. None of those things so fun or sexy

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<v Speaker 2>in the world, though in the dating party sexy. But

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<v Speaker 2>one of our listeners has decided to exercise forgiveness today,

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<v Speaker 2>even though she says he totally let her down. Kelsey,

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<v Speaker 2>are you sure about doing this?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. So wait, he let you down and

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<v Speaker 1>he's the one not calling you back? I know? Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, first of all, I apologize on behalf of

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<v Speaker 2>this guy and for all men in general.

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<v Speaker 1>But tell us apologizing for all men?

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<v Speaker 2>We are sorry, what is the name of this particular

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<v Speaker 2>man who wronged you? His name is Stephen Stephen who

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<v Speaker 2>everybody that I know named Stephen is terrible anything about

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<v Speaker 2>me and one of my best friends' names are our

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<v Speaker 2>producer is named Stephen.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, that guy.

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<v Speaker 2>So it sounds like you brought this on yourself. But

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<v Speaker 2>what did Stephen do?

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<v Speaker 4>So Stephen and I went on a date, and you know,

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<v Speaker 4>it was a good day, Like we went to the

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<v Speaker 4>plane that I suggested, which was nice. It was like

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<v Speaker 4>a little upscale.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it, Like you're out to do ners that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are doing are just.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was dinner. It was dinner, okay, And there

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<v Speaker 4>was just a couple of things that kind of irked me.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not gonna lie, Like, so we saw each other

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<v Speaker 4>for the first time, and like he waited to me,

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<v Speaker 4>I wait to him, but before he came over to me,

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<v Speaker 4>he like turned away for a second and like hold

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<v Speaker 4>the door open for this other lady, which fine, whatever,

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<v Speaker 4>but I'm like, dude, we're literally just meeting.

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<v Speaker 1>He was just.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're saying that upset you because you were just

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<v Speaker 2>in the middle of like introducing yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, totally, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The door on someone.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he should be focused on her.

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<v Speaker 4>That's why I let us slide, right, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you're more forgiving than any of us would be

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<v Speaker 2>at that point.

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<v Speaker 1>It's strange that it was even a flag at all

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<v Speaker 1>for you. But yes, okay, maybe you let it go.

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<v Speaker 2>Seems like it was more of a moment for her

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<v Speaker 2>that she was like, excuse me, Yeah, are you on

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<v Speaker 2>a date with me or on a date with this

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<v Speaker 2>old lady trying to get into the door. Probably I

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<v Speaker 2>could see where she's coming from. Okay, Kelsey, everyone else

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<v Speaker 2>is against you, but I'm on your side.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's a total valid Should I even tell

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<v Speaker 4>what the big problem problem? Okay? So then, like the game,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm fine whatever. I was looking at his stupid haircut anyways,

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<v Speaker 4>stupid haircut the photos.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't feel like you're looking past it when then

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<v Speaker 1>you call it a stupid haircut.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm on the phone with you guys talking about it,

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, I'm looking past it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's very big. She wants to see him again,

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<v Speaker 2>remember that.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's got a dumb haircuts.

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<v Speaker 2>And paying attention to other people. So did he make

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<v Speaker 2>more mistakes?

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<v Speaker 3>She did?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>God? What did he do next?

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<v Speaker 4>At the end of the date, I was like, this

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<v Speaker 4>was I can get me my uber home and he

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<v Speaker 4>was like, no, you can get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait what you want to have to order you an uber?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a Is that like a normal thing?

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<v Speaker 5>And Dad, you never asked somebody to buy I've never asked.

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<v Speaker 2>She just takes his phone and orders it through off.

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<v Speaker 4>I have never I've never had a guy tell me

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<v Speaker 4>no to getting me an uber.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a thing I had no idea. I also don't

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<v Speaker 1>think I've just not gone home with him. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so you're mad at him? Is that you're

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<v Speaker 1>big because you said there was one huge that was

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<v Speaker 1>my big thing.

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<v Speaker 4>I was just like, I could be murdered and you

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<v Speaker 4>wouldn't know. And then on top of it, he didn't

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<v Speaker 4>even text me to check him and see if I

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<v Speaker 4>got back, and I haven't heard from him for all

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<v Speaker 4>he knows I could be murdered.

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<v Speaker 2>I think all of these complaints are very, very valid

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<v Speaker 2>from you, But it is starting to seem like you

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<v Speaker 2>don't like this guy at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are we getting a hold of him? Is it

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<v Speaker 1>just because he's not calling you?

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<v Speaker 4>Like I said before, I got it of the fact

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<v Speaker 4>that he didn't pay so much attention to me. He

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<v Speaker 4>had a stupid haircut whatever, but I did like other things,

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<v Speaker 4>like he was really funny, so good.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, all right, I mean were you can I

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<v Speaker 1>ask were you critical of any of these things? While

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<v Speaker 1>on the day, I'm just.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, because that's what Brooke would do on a first.

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<v Speaker 5>Say that after you literally just railed on this dude.

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<v Speaker 1>You're the one that I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>Personally, I think he's a schmuck. He sounds like a

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<v Speaker 2>terrible person, but she's the one who wants to call

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<v Speaker 2>him Jim would never look past haircut, no, Like that's

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<v Speaker 2>definite deal breaker.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm not gonna lie, like I have a hard

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<v Speaker 4>time hiding the look on my face. But I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>verbally say anything to him, but like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>how my face looked, Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>I know that you guys always get haircuts and they

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<v Speaker 5>think it's good the day of, it's good, like three

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<v Speaker 5>days later a lesson too.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't know when he got his haircut whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>It was bit of a doubt.

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<v Speaker 2>So I know, you can't control what was on your face,

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<v Speaker 2>but you can control what was in your heart and

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<v Speaker 2>we need to figure out what's inside Stephen's heart when

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<v Speaker 2>we call him and then also mess with his face

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<v Speaker 2>and his hair a little bit too.

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<v Speaker 1>To get but we're not going to bring that up.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we'll see what happens.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, jeh, I want to know why he's not asking

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<v Speaker 4>me out again.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we're going to find out. We're going to call

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<v Speaker 2>this schmuck coming up your second date update right after

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<v Speaker 2>this second date update. We've had a lot of strong,

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<v Speaker 2>brave women on this segment before, because Brooks in every.

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<v Speaker 1>One of them. Hey, that's actually Hey, I'm in the

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<v Speaker 1>room too. I'm yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Kelsey may be the bravest of them all.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>She boldly has chosen to forgive Stephen for his list

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<v Speaker 2>of mistakes on their first date, paying attention to the

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<v Speaker 2>old lady when they were introducing most consultory.

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<v Speaker 1>Was old that he holds the door for Jeff.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would he hold it for an able doesn't make

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<v Speaker 2>any sense. All the women Jeff were gentlemen. Anybody, they

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<v Speaker 2>can open the door themselves if they were able body.

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<v Speaker 2>She also chose to forgive his stupid dumb haircut. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>very proud of her for that.

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<v Speaker 1>And she asked him to put on a hat.

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<v Speaker 2>Most importantly, she chose to forgive him for not paying

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<v Speaker 2>for her Uber ride home after the dates after she asked.

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<v Speaker 2>After she asked him to, he said no.

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<v Speaker 1>Such an awkward moment.

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<v Speaker 2>But despite all of those mistakes that Stephen made, she

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<v Speaker 2>has chosen to look past them and give him one

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<v Speaker 2>more chance with this call today. Wow, you are so strong,

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<v Speaker 2>so brave for what you did.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you know, I'm excited. Toe. Can I ask

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<v Speaker 1>one question? After he said no? On that Uber? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you just stand there awkwardly on at the corner while

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<v Speaker 1>he laughed? Or did you both wait awkwardly for an

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<v Speaker 1>Uber ride?

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<v Speaker 4>No? I walk away?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay that's how the day ended.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Hopefully after this call, you never have to pay for

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<v Speaker 2>your own Uber ever.

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<v Speaker 3>Again.

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<v Speaker 2>That's our goal for you today. So here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna dial Steven. Let's see if he even answers.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably won't you, Steve. I don't trust the guy, don't

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<v Speaker 2>like him. So here we go. Hello, Hey is this Stephen?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, Steven, Jeffrey heard a lot about you, Stephen.

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<v Speaker 1>We've heard a lot of good things about you, Steven.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know about that man.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen to his language.

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<v Speaker 2>To Jeffrey, listen the slandering us. We're a radio show,

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<v Speaker 2>a very popular one called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, just like a prank call.

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<v Speaker 2>We do do those.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you'd probably be happier if it was. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is called a second date update, and we

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<v Speaker 2>are trying to help one of our listeners figure out

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<v Speaker 2>what happened on the date that you went.

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<v Speaker 3>Out with her. Well, who are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>It's a girl named Kelsey?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh of course, my god?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, what's up with that?

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<v Speaker 3>I was probably the nuttiest girl met here.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, sometimes that can be good? Is that a positive?

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<v Speaker 2>She's really eccentric.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if i'd want to be called.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, we know a little bit about what happened

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<v Speaker 2>on the date. We're just trying to figure out, like,

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<v Speaker 2>how did you experience that night?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, look, so it started okay, we were having a

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<v Speaker 6>good time, and then towards the end of the day

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<v Speaker 6>is where it.

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<v Speaker 3>Got a little weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this like after dinner?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so after dinner I offer her a ride home.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh and so we're going there, but halfway through she says,

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<v Speaker 6>can you stop at the store for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait wait wait, wait wait wait you offered to drive

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<v Speaker 2>her home?

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<v Speaker 1>She no, she got an uber.

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<v Speaker 2>She told us that she wanted an uber home.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh yeah, just wait, just wait, we'll get to that.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait. So she takes the ride, and you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>in the car together, in the car together.

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<v Speaker 3>Halfway to her place, she says, stop at the store

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<v Speaker 3>for me, Okay, go in there, and she's getting.

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<v Speaker 6>All this like skincare, hair product, beauty stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>And after all this, we get to the counter and

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<v Speaker 6>her car declines.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's not cheap. Yeah how much?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Eighty four and thirty six cents that I say.

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<v Speaker 1>Not that you remember or anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you say? So you paid it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I paid it because the car declined.

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<v Speaker 6>She was throwing back, dinner was two hundred bucks already,

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<v Speaker 6>and I'm paying.

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<v Speaker 3>For this this stupid skincare stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I mean it was a mistake, like an

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<v Speaker 1>honest mistake, And like, that's so humiliating when you get

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<v Speaker 1>your car declined.

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<v Speaker 2>I think anybody would have picked it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, are you mad about it? Though?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 6>What I'm annoyed with is a mixed part too, because

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<v Speaker 6>all of it together it just makes it feel like,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm just getting taken advantage of it. Oh, so I

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<v Speaker 6>tell her, all right, let's get back of a car.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to take you home, and she's like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't feel comfortable with that. I want to get

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<v Speaker 3>an uber. What a chance to pay for the freaking uber.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, what are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 2>After you had just paid for her dinner and for

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<v Speaker 2>her skincare products.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she ver she's in the car. Yeah, why did

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<v Speaker 1>she suddenly feel uncomfortable?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know, Like, I was just out three hundred

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<v Speaker 6>bucks and now she wants me to uber her home.

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<v Speaker 3>So it was just really weird to me, Like, I

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<v Speaker 3>really don't get that.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're like, no, because they could.

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<v Speaker 1>Drive you home. That is so weird that she did

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<v Speaker 1>not tell us that she was outside a store.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we we missed that part of the story, and

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<v Speaker 2>we should probably ask her about it because she's on

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<v Speaker 2>the other line listening to this conversation right now. Stephen.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh whatever it?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, well, what he wouldn't pay for it?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, hold on, Telsey, you didn't tell us any of

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<v Speaker 2>the stuff about going to the store and him buying

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<v Speaker 2>you your beauty products. Well, that part of the story

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<v Speaker 2>does matter, because we're just trying to like understand what

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<v Speaker 2>happened that night. You didn't tell us any of that

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<v Speaker 2>part of the story. Yeah, hello up? Oh god, what

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<v Speaker 2>did we do?

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<v Speaker 1>We outed her?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Yeah, we didn't out her? Stephen did. He's the jerk.

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<v Speaker 2>I told you you can't trust this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>The guy got taken on a date.

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<v Speaker 2>Answering our questions, Steven, do you feel bad for making

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<v Speaker 2>her look like such a terrible person in your recap?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Yeah, I feel so terrible for her.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, why would you speak? I can't believe you didn't

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<v Speaker 2>offer to pay for her uber home after she already

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<v Speaker 2>got halfway there, and you pay for all of her stuff.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't even get, like why she called you in

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<v Speaker 6>a first place. Did she want to go out with

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<v Speaker 6>me again or something?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what she told us. She kept saying like you

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<v Speaker 1>had red flags, but she was willing to look past us.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right. She's a kind soul who's willing to forgive

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<v Speaker 2>you for all the mess ups.

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<v Speaker 3>What are the messages that she even mentioned.

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<v Speaker 1>You did some horrible things?

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<v Speaker 2>List is long? My friend? Do you really want to

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<v Speaker 2>dive into this?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? I don't know if you realize this, but you

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<v Speaker 1>opened a door for another woman.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 2>In the middle of greeting Kelsey? So she felt belittled.

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<v Speaker 1>You do know that Jeffrey's being sarcastic right now, right Stephen,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Know you guys, so I have no idea, but I

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<v Speaker 3>really do.

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<v Speaker 2>That was rude. We've been talking for the last like

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<v Speaker 2>five minutes, and now you're going to pretend like you

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<v Speaker 2>don't even know us. You see what I'm saying. Kelsey

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<v Speaker 2>had a point.

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<v Speaker 1>How far into the date did you realize that you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna not be calling her back again?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, once we get to the store and she gets

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<v Speaker 6>all the skincare products, I thought it was weird a

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<v Speaker 6>car gets declined. I mean, I just thought she was

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<v Speaker 6>taking advantage of me, to be honest, but.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's game care products to look beautiful for you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not that That's what you don't get, Steven. That

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<v Speaker 2>purchase was not for her. It was for you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you don't when she's not on the phone anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, somebody needs to stand up for brave Kelsey, who

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<v Speaker 2>bravely hung up in the middle of the segment.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna die on that hill.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh, he will die on that hill. It's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>a very lonely hill that he's on.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, I've never done this before, Steven, and

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<v Speaker 2>honestly I'm not a big fan of you, but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>still going to offer to give you a gift certificate

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<v Speaker 2>to pay for a new haircut.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh Jack, my hair, well me.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Kelsey said that she liked it a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>but Brooke and Studio when she saw your photo, was like,

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<v Speaker 2>we gotta make a change.

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<v Speaker 1>The Steve, that's not true. I've never seen your picture.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I could send you a few different pictures.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I just got done sending Brooks contact in Stevens.

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<v Speaker 2>So Brooke, there should be some photos arriving in your

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<v Speaker 2>box and a couple.

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<v Speaker 1>Of I don't want any photos.

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<v Speaker 2>You can sort them like you normally do, and all

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<v Speaker 2>your color coded hot guy folders, which is very bold

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<v Speaker 2>of you to do on your work computer, but more

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<v Speaker 2>power to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's just of employees.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's allowed. That's fair.

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<v Speaker 1>They're all not hot, is the problem.

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<v Speaker 2>With what you're giving. So as far as Kelsey goes

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<v Speaker 2>from that call, I gotta say I appreciate a woman

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<v Speaker 2>who knows exactly what.

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<v Speaker 1>She wants, and what she.

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<v Speaker 2>Wanted was to rudely hang up on us in the

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<v Speaker 2>middle of the call and doing that to guts. I

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<v Speaker 2>respect her for that. Did she know what she wanted?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It's hard to make up products. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you got and the.

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<v Speaker 2>Guy to pay for everything, which is fair.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I still feel bad that a card was declined,

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<v Speaker 1>or she just has a fate.

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<v Speaker 2>He knew he was going to be declined.

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<v Speaker 5>How she's a scammer. You just shut your card off

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<v Speaker 5>on the app. It takes two seconds, yeah, Or you just.

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<v Speaker 2>Know you're in the negative already.

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<v Speaker 1>Got to buy her face cream.

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<v Speaker 2>She's scamming her way right into all of our hearts.

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<v Speaker 2>call that person who's not calling you back and go.

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