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Speaker 2: The second Date up Date. Our word of the day

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Speaker 2: for this segment is forgiveness. That word. Can you forgive

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Speaker 2: a guy for making a mistake in the middle of

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: For sure, I'm sure you can. But should you forgive him?

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Speaker 3: Though?

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Speaker 2: Forgiveness is a dangerous slope towards other feelings, like understanding

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Speaker 2: and compassion. None of those things so fun or sexy

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Speaker 2: in the world, though in the dating party sexy. But

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Speaker 2: one of our listeners has decided to exercise forgiveness today,

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Speaker 2: even though she says he totally let her down. Kelsey,

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Speaker 2: are you sure about doing this?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No, I'm sure.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. So wait, he let you down and

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Speaker 1: he's the one not calling you back? I know? Yeah

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, first of all, I apologize on behalf of

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Speaker 1: But tell us apologizing for all men?

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Speaker 2: We are sorry, what is the name of this particular

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Speaker 2: man who wronged you? His name is Stephen Stephen who

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Speaker 2: everybody that I know named Stephen is terrible anything about

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Speaker 2: me and one of my best friends' names are our

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Speaker 2: producer is named Stephen.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that guy.

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Speaker 2: So it sounds like you brought this on yourself. But

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Speaker 2: what did Stephen do?

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Speaker 4: So Stephen and I went on a date, and you know,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was dinner. It was dinner, okay, And there

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie, Like, so we saw each other

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Speaker 2: And you're saying that upset you because you were just

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Speaker 2: Well, he should be focused on her.

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Speaker 4: That's why I let us slide, right, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you're more forgiving than any of us would be

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Speaker 1: It's strange that it was even a flag at all

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Speaker 4: I think that's a total valid Should I even tell

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Speaker 4: what the big problem problem? Okay? So then, like the game,

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Speaker 4: I'm fine whatever. I was looking at his stupid haircut anyways,

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm on the phone with you guys talking about it,

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Speaker 4: At the end of the date, I was like, this

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Speaker 1: Wait what you want to have to order you an uber?

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Speaker 2: She just takes his phone and orders it through off.

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Speaker 4: I have never I've never had a guy tell me

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Speaker 1: That's a thing I had no idea. I also don't

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Speaker 1: I think so you're mad at him? Is that you're

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Speaker 2: I think all of these complaints are very, very valid

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Speaker 1: Why are we getting a hold of him? Is it

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Speaker 4: Like I said before, I got it of the fact

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, I mean were you can I

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Speaker 2: You know, because that's what Brooke would do on a first.

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Speaker 5: Say that after you literally just railed on this dude.

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Speaker 2: Personally, I think he's a schmuck. He sounds like a

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Speaker 2: him Jim would never look past haircut, no, Like that's

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm not gonna lie, like I have a hard

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Speaker 5: I know that you guys always get haircuts and they

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Speaker 2: We don't know when he got his haircut whatever.

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Speaker 2: So I know, you can't control what was on your face,

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Speaker 2: we need to figure out what's inside Stephen's heart when

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Speaker 1: To get but we're not going to bring that up.

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Speaker 2: Well, we'll see what happens.

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Speaker 4: Oh, jeh, I want to know why he's not asking

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're going to find out. We're going to call

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Speaker 2: this schmuck coming up your second date update right after

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Speaker 2: this second date update. We've had a lot of strong,

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Speaker 2: brave women on this segment before, because Brooks in every.

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Speaker 1: One of them. Hey, that's actually Hey, I'm in the

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Speaker 2: I think Kelsey may be the bravest of them all.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: She boldly has chosen to forgive Stephen for his list

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Speaker 1: Was old that he holds the door for Jeff.

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Speaker 2: Why would he hold it for an able doesn't make

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Speaker 2: any sense. All the women Jeff were gentlemen. Anybody, they

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Speaker 2: She also chose to forgive his stupid dumb haircut. I'm

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Speaker 1: And she asked him to put on a hat.

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Speaker 2: Most importantly, she chose to forgive him for not paying

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Speaker 2: After she asked him to, he said no.

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Speaker 1: Such an awkward moment.

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Speaker 2: But despite all of those mistakes that Stephen made, she

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Speaker 2: more chance with this call today. Wow, you are so strong,

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Speaker 1: I know you know, I'm excited. Toe. Can I ask

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Speaker 1: one question? After he said no? On that Uber? Did

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Speaker 4: No? I walk away?

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Speaker 1: Okay that's how the day ended.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully after this call, you never have to pay for

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Speaker 3: Again.

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Speaker 2: That's our goal for you today. So here we go.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna dial Steven. Let's see if he even answers.

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Speaker 2: Probably won't you, Steve. I don't trust the guy, don't

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Oh, Steven, Jeffrey heard a lot about you, Stephen.

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Speaker 1: We've heard a lot of good things about you, Steven.

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Speaker 2: I don't know about that man.

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Speaker 1: Listen to his language.

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Speaker 2: To Jeffrey, listen the slandering us. We're a radio show,

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Speaker 2: a very popular one called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just like a prank call.

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Speaker 2: We do do those.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you'd probably be happier if it was. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So this is called a second date update, and we

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Speaker 3: Out with her. Well, who are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: It's a girl named Kelsey?

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Speaker 3: Oh of course, my god?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what's up with that?

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Speaker 3: I was probably the nuttiest girl met here.

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Speaker 1: Really, sometimes that can be good? Is that a positive?

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Speaker 2: She's really eccentric.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if i'd want to be called.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we know a little bit about what happened

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Speaker 2: how did you experience that night?

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Speaker 6: Well, look, so it started okay, we were having a

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Speaker 3: Got a little weird.

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Speaker 1: Is this like after dinner?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so after dinner I offer her a ride home.

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Speaker 6: Oh and so we're going there, but halfway through she says,

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Speaker 2: Wait wait wait, wait wait wait you offered to drive

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Speaker 1: She no, she got an uber.

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Speaker 2: She told us that she wanted an uber home.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, just wait, just wait, we'll get to that.

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Speaker 1: Wait. So she takes the ride, and you guys are

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Speaker 3: Halfway to her place, she says, stop at the store

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Speaker 3: for me, Okay, go in there, and she's getting.

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Speaker 6: All this like skincare, hair product, beauty stuff.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 6: And after all this, we get to the counter and

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Speaker 6: her car declines.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's not cheap. Yeah how much?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Eighty four and thirty six cents that I say.

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Speaker 1: Not that you remember or anything.

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Speaker 2: Did you say? So you paid it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I paid it because the car declined.

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Speaker 6: She was throwing back, dinner was two hundred bucks already,

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Speaker 6: and I'm paying.

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Speaker 3: For this this stupid skincare stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean it was a mistake, like an

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Speaker 1: honest mistake, And like, that's so humiliating when you get

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Speaker 1: your car declined.

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Speaker 2: I think anybody would have picked it up.

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Speaker 1: Like, are you mad about it? Though?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 6: What I'm annoyed with is a mixed part too, because

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Speaker 6: I'm just getting taken advantage of it. Oh, so I

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Speaker 6: tell her, all right, let's get back of a car.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to take you home, and she's like, no,

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Speaker 3: I don't feel comfortable with that. I want to get

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Speaker 3: an uber. What a chance to pay for the freaking uber.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, what are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: After you had just paid for her dinner and for

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Speaker 1: Well, she ver she's in the car. Yeah, why did

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Speaker 6: I don't know, Like, I was just out three hundred

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Speaker 3: So it was just really weird to me, Like, I

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Speaker 2: So you're like, no, because they could.

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Speaker 1: Drive you home. That is so weird that she did

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we we missed that part of the story, and

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Speaker 2: we should probably ask her about it because she's on

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Speaker 2: the other line listening to this conversation right now. Stephen.

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Speaker 3: Oh whatever it?

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Speaker 4: Oh, well, what he wouldn't pay for it?

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Speaker 2: Well, hold on, Telsey, you didn't tell us any of

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Speaker 2: the stuff about going to the store and him buying

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Speaker 2: you your beauty products. Well, that part of the story

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Speaker 2: does matter, because we're just trying to like understand what

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Speaker 2: happened that night. You didn't tell us any of that

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Speaker 2: part of the story. Yeah, hello up? Oh god, what

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Speaker 2: did we do?

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Speaker 1: We outed her?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, we didn't out her? Stephen did. He's the jerk.

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Speaker 2: I told you you can't trust this guy.

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Speaker 1: The guy got taken on a date.

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Speaker 2: Answering our questions, Steven, do you feel bad for making

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Speaker 2: her look like such a terrible person in your recap?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, I feel so terrible for her.

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Speaker 2: Wow, why would you speak? I can't believe you didn't

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Speaker 2: offer to pay for her uber home after she already

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Speaker 6: I don't even get, like why she called you in

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Speaker 1: That's what she told us. She kept saying like you

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Speaker 1: had red flags, but she was willing to look past us.

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Speaker 2: That's right. She's a kind soul who's willing to forgive

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Speaker 2: you for all the mess ups.

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Speaker 3: What are the messages that she even mentioned.

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Speaker 1: You did some horrible things?

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Speaker 2: List is long? My friend? Do you really want to

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Speaker 2: dive into this?

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Speaker 1: Okay? I don't know if you realize this, but you

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Speaker 1: opened a door for another woman.

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Speaker 3: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: In the middle of greeting Kelsey? So she felt belittled.

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Speaker 1: You do know that Jeffrey's being sarcastic right now, right Stephen,

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 3: Know you guys, so I have no idea, but I

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Speaker 3: really do.

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Speaker 2: That was rude. We've been talking for the last like

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Speaker 2: five minutes, and now you're going to pretend like you

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Speaker 2: don't even know us. You see what I'm saying. Kelsey

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Speaker 2: had a point.

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Speaker 1: How far into the date did you realize that you're

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Speaker 1: gonna not be calling her back again?

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Speaker 6: Well, once we get to the store and she gets

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Speaker 6: all the skincare products, I thought it was weird a

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Speaker 6: car gets declined. I mean, I just thought she was

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Speaker 6: taking advantage of me, to be honest, but.

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Speaker 2: It's it's game care products to look beautiful for you.

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Speaker 2: I'm not that That's what you don't get, Steven. That

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Speaker 2: purchase was not for her. It was for you.

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Speaker 1: You know you don't when she's not on the phone anymore.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody needs to stand up for brave Kelsey, who

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Speaker 3: You're gonna die on that hill.

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Speaker 1: Huh, he will die on that hill. It's gonna be

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Speaker 1: a very lonely hill that he's on.

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Speaker 2: You know what, I've never done this before, Steven, and

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Speaker 2: honestly I'm not a big fan of you, but I'm

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Speaker 2: still going to offer to give you a gift certificate

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Speaker 2: to pay for a new haircut.

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Speaker 3: Oh Jack, my hair, well me.

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Speaker 2: I mean, Kelsey said that she liked it a lot,

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Speaker 2: but Brooke and Studio when she saw your photo, was like,

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Speaker 2: we gotta make a change.

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Speaker 1: The Steve, that's not true. I've never seen your picture.

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Speaker 6: I mean I could send you a few different pictures.

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I just got done sending Brooks contact in Stevens.

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Speaker 2: So Brooke, there should be some photos arriving in your

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Speaker 2: box and a couple.

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Speaker 1: Of I don't want any photos.

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Speaker 2: You can sort them like you normally do, and all

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Speaker 2: your color coded hot guy folders, which is very bold

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Speaker 2: of you to do on your work computer, but more

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Speaker 2: power to you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's just of employees.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's allowed. That's fair.

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Speaker 1: They're all not hot, is the problem.

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Speaker 2: With what you're giving. So as far as Kelsey goes

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Speaker 2: from that call, I gotta say I appreciate a woman

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Speaker 2: who knows exactly what.

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Speaker 1: She wants, and what she.

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Speaker 2: Wanted was to rudely hang up on us in the

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Speaker 2: middle of the call and doing that to guts. I

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Speaker 2: respect her for that. Did she know what she wanted?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It's hard to make up products. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you got and the.

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Speaker 2: Guy to pay for everything, which is fair.

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Speaker 1: I guess I still feel bad that a card was declined,

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Speaker 1: or she just has a fate.

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Speaker 2: He knew he was going to be declined.

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Speaker 5: How she's a scammer. You just shut your card off

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Speaker 5: on the app. It takes two seconds, yeah, Or you just.

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Speaker 2: Know you're in the negative already.

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Speaker 1: Got to buy her face cream.

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Speaker 2: She's scamming her way right into all of our hearts.

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Speaker 2: And you can do if you email the show, we'll

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Speaker 2: call that person who's not calling you back and go.

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Speaker 2: Check out all of our second Date podcasts, all of

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