WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: When Nature Calls

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke, you like it when a guy knows exactly what

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<v Speaker 1>he wants?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, But that's.

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<v Speaker 1>An attractive quality.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh sure?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you like it when a guy knows exactly what

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't want?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, if he's not I don't need to hear

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<v Speaker 4>about that.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's good for him as a person.

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<v Speaker 4>But I think usually that means that he doesn't want me.

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<v Speaker 4>So I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 3>Know you know, right, just keep it to yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>I was bringing up because one of our listeners says

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<v Speaker 1>he likes one thing, and that's curvy women.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, but not a unique thing.

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<v Speaker 1>He says he believes women on dating apps are abusing

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<v Speaker 1>that term, and I'm curious to know what he means

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<v Speaker 1>by that. So Glenn, Glenn, welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, thanks for having me on today.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a heart open Glen Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't happen?

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<v Speaker 3>I shouldn't be describing themselves that way?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I don't know what he means. Can you tell

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<v Speaker 1>us what you mean?

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<v Speaker 4>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you why do you think people are abusing

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<v Speaker 1>the term curvy?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, everyone tries to make themselves sounds as attractive as

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<v Speaker 2>possible on these things, but kirvy is you know the

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<v Speaker 2>old cartoons, the classic you get your hands and you

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<v Speaker 2>make the hourglass shape you want, like you mean.

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<v Speaker 4>The unobtainable measurements of Barbie. Is that what you're talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>No, not even that, like, no, no, I like a

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<v Speaker 2>real woman with curves. If I wanted a twelve year

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<v Speaker 2>old boy, I date a twelve year old boy. But no,

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<v Speaker 2>not talk.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not yeah, I open our mouths anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>Ah.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I'm just trying to understand what you're saying here, Glenn.

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<v Speaker 1>What you're saying, do we want more conication? I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to, you know, see his perspective. He thinks women

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<v Speaker 1>of all shapes use the term curvy too liberally.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, because you have to have a curve up top,

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<v Speaker 2>a curve down bottom, but in the middle it's got

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<v Speaker 2>to taper in a little bit, so you have a clear,

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<v Speaker 2>definitive waste area.

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<v Speaker 3>So you're saying that.

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<v Speaker 4>Like your date showed up and didn't match her description.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that what you're trying to get to?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, I just took me a long time

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<v Speaker 2>to find the kind of girl that I was looking

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<v Speaker 2>for on the dating apps.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Glenn, what did you like about her outside of

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<v Speaker 4>her physical appearance.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, what was her name? Is good?

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<v Speaker 2>Or does?

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't even matter, you know what. You don't need

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<v Speaker 1>a name. Tell us more about her.

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<v Speaker 2>Her name's Megan. And one of the things, one of

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<v Speaker 2>the things that I said when I was looking for

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<v Speaker 2>the date was I'm looking for a nature girl, like

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<v Speaker 2>a nature nerd. I love going hiking. Okay, I know

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<v Speaker 2>there's over nine hundred different types of fig trees. I

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<v Speaker 2>know there's one breedom loss that pollinates them. Like I

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<v Speaker 2>know these things. It's a it's a big hobby of.

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<v Speaker 1>Mine, and you need a girl that's Kirby Ann knows

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Too well, at least can pretend to be interested, if

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<v Speaker 2>not to learn.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's attractive.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know about Alexis, but I think it's attractive

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<v Speaker 4>when people have like like a nerd.

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<v Speaker 3>Out on something, you know that like have a true passion.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good sign.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it like if they're actually not nerds them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know my focus is kind of narrow, but again,

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<v Speaker 2>that's why I'm on the dating site, so that I

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<v Speaker 2>can find someone sort of will match.

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<v Speaker 3>That is that what you did for your date? You guys?

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<v Speaker 3>Went outside.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I found a site where you can

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<v Speaker 2>print out these lists of nature scavenger hunts. Said, well,

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<v Speaker 2>it would be really cool.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I do that for my kids. What do you mean,

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<v Speaker 4>like find a heart shaped rock?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what you mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, stuff like that. Yeah, so we can go out

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<v Speaker 2>for a walk and talk and kind of get to

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<v Speaker 2>know each other and just explore nature.

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<v Speaker 1>And that sounds fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Well it was okay, oh, just okay. Yeah, the checklist

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<v Speaker 2>that I had, I didn't think it would be a

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<v Speaker 2>big deal. But there's things like find a wild mushroom,

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<v Speaker 2>find some feathers, find a butterfly.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I know what the problem is here. The

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<v Speaker 1>butterflies weren't proportionate enough. Is that what it is? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're too round?

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<v Speaker 3>You want those monarchs with an hour glass shape.

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<v Speaker 4>There.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just messing around.

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<v Speaker 2>With you, Glenn.

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<v Speaker 3>Did Megan seem to have any fun?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know, it got a little less friendly as

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<v Speaker 2>the day wore on because we couldn't find a damn thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I was getting a little frustrated.

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<v Speaker 4>You're getting frustrated over your your list, Yes, over.

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<v Speaker 2>The lack of being able to find anything on this

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<v Speaker 2>damn list they had ants and an ant hill on

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<v Speaker 2>the list, and we couldn't find ants, We couldn't find anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Is this? How is this?

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<v Speaker 4>Was this your mood as the list became more unobtainable.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, did you show your frustration to Megan?

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<v Speaker 2>I think it kind of leaked through because I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>I finally got a date with a girl that I

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<v Speaker 2>am attracted to, and we're doing something that she's she's

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<v Speaker 2>willing to be interested in, and we could have a

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<v Speaker 2>good time and get to know each other, and now

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<v Speaker 2>nothing else is working out, and I'm just looking like

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<v Speaker 2>a jacket.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, honestly, I keep I don't think she really probably

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<v Speaker 4>cared about completing your savager hunt.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, tell us how it ended, because we got around soon.

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<v Speaker 2>So at the edge of the park there's the food truck.

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<v Speaker 2>So we went over to the food truck and we

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<v Speaker 2>got corn dogs and fun. Oh yeah, no, it's a

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<v Speaker 2>terrific We're sitting on a step, we're eating them, we're

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<v Speaker 2>finishing up, and she just goes really nice meeting you,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I have to go I have to meet

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<v Speaker 2>up with my roommate for a work thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I have a question. Why are we calling her?

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<v Speaker 2>Is?

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<v Speaker 3>Because this is.

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<v Speaker 4>The only woman that has ever matched with you and

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<v Speaker 4>I you know, like you have very very high standards

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<v Speaker 4>and specific requests here.

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<v Speaker 2>It just started off with so much potential and.

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<v Speaker 1>Then the ants had to ruin it for you.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're going, Yeah, the lack of the ants would

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<v Speaker 2>have saved it for me, The lack of man's ruined

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<v Speaker 2>it for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's the ants wouldn't step up for you. We

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<v Speaker 1>will right now. We're gonna call Megan and we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>ask her why she isn't wanting another date. Why. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna try and convince her to give you another

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna give her a reason why to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him one more time? How about that, Brooke? You

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<v Speaker 1>think of that during the break, We'll come back call Meghan,

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, guys, Thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, man. You know what's funny is when you

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<v Speaker 1>think of your social circle, and this is true a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of the times, it's the people you didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>along with at first who later go on to become

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<v Speaker 1>your closest friends and even lovers. So I think Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>might be coming after you so hard right now because

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<v Speaker 1>she actually has a little bit of a crush on you.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you figured that man would read it that way?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you seen a picture of her online? Because Brook,

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<v Speaker 1>would you describe yourself as Kirvy?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 1>How would you take?

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<v Speaker 4>I have the flattest booty ever, I would describe myself

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<v Speaker 4>as Kirby.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like a little flat back.

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<v Speaker 2>No? No? Uh? Like I said, I know, it's a

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<v Speaker 2>unicorn that I'm looking for here, but a Kirby girl

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<v Speaker 2>who was into nature and just a great conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>You checked at least two of them.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm talking about me anymore about me?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm shipped like a potato. But do you hate nature?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you offering? You know, like you're asking for

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<v Speaker 3>such like? Hi, I'd like to hear this too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>what what you bringing to the table for this unicorn?

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like someone's interest. Yeah, I just wants more

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<v Speaker 1>about you.

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<v Speaker 4>I doubt want to take here.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know, I'm I'm reasonably smart, I'm educated, take

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<v Speaker 2>an interest in a wide variety of I try not

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<v Speaker 2>to be cliche, which is why I try to find

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<v Speaker 2>stupid things like nature scavenger hunch.

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<v Speaker 1>He knows a lot about nature, we know that. And

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<v Speaker 1>he's also humble. You only called himself reasonably smart.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know what I like, but I respect women.

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<v Speaker 2>I love women, and I just want to find the

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<v Speaker 2>right one, that's all.

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<v Speaker 1>He's particular. He feels like the right one was Megan,

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<v Speaker 1>who he met online and they went on a scavenger hunt. Unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>he did get a little bit frustrated when he couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>find some of the things on their list, like ants.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's hoping that didn't blow it for him. And

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to find out if we can get you

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<v Speaker 1>another chance here.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, And no matter what, Glenn, I'll have a

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<v Speaker 4>little offline conversation with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I told you boot, he does not do it

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<v Speaker 2>for me. About that, I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>He's real to Meghan. So let's call her and see

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<v Speaker 1>what she has to say. Here we go, I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>dial number right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello? Is this Meghan?

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<v Speaker 4>God?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Hey Meghan?

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<v Speaker 3>Can we apologize now?

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<v Speaker 1>Why we want to talk to you a little bit?

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<v Speaker 2>Megan?

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<v Speaker 1>You're on the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry, what is this?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, just no, I'm on your side. What we're talking

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<v Speaker 3>about it was important to start out the game.

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<v Speaker 1>We're a morning show, Megan, and we do a segment

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<v Speaker 1>on our show called a second Date Update. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>this is. We're trying to help one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>who went on a date with you recently. His name

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<v Speaker 1>is Glenn.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you remember Glenn? Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah I do. I don't know why you're calling

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<v Speaker 5>me about him, though.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, he said that he had this big idea to

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<v Speaker 1>do a nature scavenger haunt and it was going okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but then he got a little bit frustrated when certain

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<v Speaker 1>things in nature weren't making themselves appear to you, guys.

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<v Speaker 4>I think what it was is that he had the

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<v Speaker 4>idea of a perfect date for you and it wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>panning out, and so he let his frustrations get the

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<v Speaker 4>better of him.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you agree with that.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, he seems to have a temper and it wasn't

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<v Speaker 5>it wasn't necessarily, it wasn't focused on me per se.

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<v Speaker 5>But he would go from zero to just letting loose

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<v Speaker 5>a string of curses because he couldn't find the ants

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<v Speaker 5>on this checklist and he was so into it. He

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<v Speaker 5>had this laser focus on completing his task, and he

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<v Speaker 5>was getting red faced and really mad about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Weird that is such a we spoke to him, we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get that impression at all.

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<v Speaker 3>Because.

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<v Speaker 4>This guy, I mean, did you tell him to calm down?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I was.

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<v Speaker 5>I was trying to redirect, was trying to ask about himself.

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<v Speaker 5>I was trying to find out his other interests, and

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<v Speaker 5>instead he would start giving me this litany of facts

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<v Speaker 5>like the Latin name for dandelion and what who are

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<v Speaker 5>the pollinators for it? And I was like, I'd rather

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<v Speaker 5>know about you, So my understanding.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, that's the reason that you're not calling him

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<v Speaker 1>back because you felt maybe had a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a temper.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, that's one of them.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh there's more red flags.

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<v Speaker 2>Well.

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<v Speaker 5>The other one was that the man that I met

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<v Speaker 5>that day didn't match up with the man that was

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<v Speaker 5>described in his profile.

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<v Speaker 3>Really, I am very interested.

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<v Speaker 5>In the way he described himself at based on the

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<v Speaker 5>photos I saw, he described as bold as athletic, and

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<v Speaker 5>that really appealed to me because I go rafting. I

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<v Speaker 5>love that stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's great, But you said he said he looked athletic,

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<v Speaker 1>and when you showed up, what did he look like

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<v Speaker 1>to you?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, he looked he looked soft.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that's a.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know about all that. He just didn't look

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<v Speaker 5>as sturdy as in his photos, and and he was

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<v Speaker 5>getting winded while we were just walking around that park.

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<v Speaker 5>I know he was getting mad, but I was paying

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<v Speaker 5>attention to the fact that he was getting out of breath.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook, Why aren't you getting outraged at her? For the

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<v Speaker 1>honesty of it all?

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<v Speaker 3>Is so amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>The hypocrisy of you right now, because the athletic body

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<v Speaker 1>style is unattainable magazine.

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<v Speaker 6>We started a conversation and he was moaning about how

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<v Speaker 6>women mislabeled themselves and how horrible they are for calling

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<v Speaker 6>themselves curby, and then he has the audacity to mislabel himself.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we're we're finding out a little bit too

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<v Speaker 1>much information at this point. It's a little oversharing, and

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<v Speaker 1>I need to let you know at this point that

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<v Speaker 1>Glenn is on the other line and has been hearing

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<v Speaker 1>all of this.

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<v Speaker 2>Oy oh hi oh hi.

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<v Speaker 3>Legs on that one.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know, I don't know if I was out

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<v Speaker 2>of breath so much, but I was. I was a

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<v Speaker 2>little breathless in your presence.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, Glenn, what do you think of that? She

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't think that you're athletic looking.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know, everyone goes through cycles. Everyone has uh,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, good good weeks, bad weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're asking for a little bit of empathy, maybe

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit of of.

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<v Speaker 2>Course, of course, you know everyone's work in progress everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a really smart thing to say.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, maybe if you actually gave that to other people

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<v Speaker 4>then you would receive it back, the empathy.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just I'm just speechless there because No, I think

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<v Speaker 2>she's perfect the way she is. I just I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just so frustrated, aggravated with myself.

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<v Speaker 1>For aggravated, Bro Megan, we haven't heard from you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what now you can talk to Glenn and tell him,

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<v Speaker 1>tell him about his soft body and how disappoint.

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<v Speaker 2>All.

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<v Speaker 5>So, I don't think I need to repeat myself. I

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<v Speaker 5>didn't mean any offense.

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<v Speaker 2>If no, I know, I can. I can definitely work

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<v Speaker 2>on the softness. I guess there's not much I can

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<v Speaker 2>do about the butterflies and migration.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you're still worried about the Glenn.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, why are you using old photos again?

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<v Speaker 2>Another fault of mine. I put up a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>old photos. I haven't updated my photos and yeah, put

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<v Speaker 2>on a few pounds and then that's my fault too. Everything.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you don't have to beat yourself up over it.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't be mad. You may beat himself, yeah, cushion. But Glenn,

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<v Speaker 1>we want to help you here, man, We want to

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<v Speaker 1>get you another day.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe if we could just end with you saying one

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<v Speaker 4>nice thing about Glenn, that would help Glenn, because I

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<v Speaker 4>think what Glenn should work on is maybe himself for

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<v Speaker 4>a while.

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<v Speaker 5>I yeah, I'm kind to agree with that, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's think of one nice thing to say.

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<v Speaker 5>I would say the nicest thing that I noticed you

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<v Speaker 5>head going for yourself were your manners and how you

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<v Speaker 5>treated me.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's a real positive Glenn.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think of that? Glenn?

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<v Speaker 2>I certainly appreciate that, and like I said, I try

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<v Speaker 2>to be as respectful as as possible. Uh maybe maybe

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<v Speaker 2>the frustration that I point to myself, I should probably

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<v Speaker 2>have a few more manners towards myself too.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, that's a moment of growth.

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<v Speaker 2>Be nice to yourself, buddy. Okay, maybe, But the dating

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<v Speaker 2>thing is this jungle of dating thing, it's it's horrible.

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<v Speaker 2>So I probably just got over excited that that I

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<v Speaker 2>thought I actually found someone I could connect with.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, let's get out of the jungle and let's

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<v Speaker 1>just go back to the park. And we want to

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<v Speaker 1>send you on a date that we will pay for,

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<v Speaker 1>like a little bit of a redo. What do you

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<v Speaker 1>think of that, Glenn.

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<v Speaker 5>If we can do something where you can be a

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<v Speaker 5>little more curious about me and less about the greenery

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<v Speaker 5>the environment, I would say yes to another.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, nice Glenn.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love another chance. And I am very curious

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<v Speaker 2>about you. I'm super curious about you, and I promise

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<v Speaker 2>I will try as hard as I can to not

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<v Speaker 2>get in my own way and screw things up.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, look at that. It's a successful second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>even though Brooke tried to sabotage it the entire time

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<v Speaker 1>with her flat behind.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a lot of red flats.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't worry, Book, there's someone out there for you too.

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<v Speaker 1>Looking Jeffrey in the morning,