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Speaker 3: Absolutely, But that's.

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Speaker 1: An attractive quality.

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Speaker 3: I think it's good for him as a person.

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Speaker 4: But I think usually that means that he doesn't want me.

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Speaker 3: Know you know, right, just keep it to yourself.

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Speaker 1: I was bringing up because one of our listeners says

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Speaker 3: Okay, but not a unique thing.

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Speaker 1: He says he believes women on dating apps are abusing

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Speaker 1: by that. So Glenn, Glenn, welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 2: Hey, thanks for having me on today.

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Speaker 3: It's a heart open Glen Brook.

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Speaker 1: Isn't happen?

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Speaker 3: I shouldn't be describing themselves that way?

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know what he means. Can you tell

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Speaker 1: What do you why do you think people are abusing

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Speaker 2: Well, everyone tries to make themselves sounds as attractive as

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Speaker 4: The unobtainable measurements of Barbie. Is that what you're talking about?

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Speaker 2: No, not even that, like, no, no, I like a

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm just trying to understand what you're saying here, Glenn.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, because you have to have a curve up top,

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Speaker 3: So you're saying that.

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Speaker 4: Like your date showed up and didn't match her description.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I just took me a long time

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Speaker 4: Okay, Glenn, what did you like about her outside of

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Speaker 2: Her name's Megan. And one of the things, one of

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Speaker 2: With you, Glenn.

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Speaker 1: Well, tell us how it ended, because we got around soon.

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Speaker 2: So at the edge of the park there's the food truck.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a question. Why are we calling her?

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Speaker 2: It just started off with so much potential and.

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Speaker 2: So we're going, Yeah, the lack of the ants would

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Speaker 1: Well, it's the ants wouldn't step up for you. We

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Speaker 1: ask her why she isn't wanting another date. Why. Well,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna give her a reason why to go out

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Speaker 1: with him one more time? How about that, Brooke? You

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Speaker 1: Hold on, man. You know what's funny is when you

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Speaker 3: Have you figured that man would read it that way?

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Speaker 1: Have you seen a picture of her online? Because Brook,

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: You checked at least two of them.

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Speaker 3: But I'm talking about me anymore about me?

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Speaker 1: I'm shipped like a potato. But do you hate nature?

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Speaker 1: It sounds like someone's interest. Yeah, I just wants more

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Speaker 4: I doubt want to take here.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, I'm I'm reasonably smart, I'm educated, take

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Speaker 1: He knows a lot about nature, we know that. And

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Speaker 1: He's particular. He feels like the right one was Megan,

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Speaker 4: All right, And no matter what, Glenn, I'll have a

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Speaker 2: Well, I told you boot, he does not do it

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Speaker 1: He's real to Meghan. So let's call her and see

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hello? Is this Meghan?

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Speaker 4: God?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Hey Meghan?

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Speaker 3: Can we apologize now?

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Speaker 1: Why we want to talk to you a little bit?

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Speaker 2: Megan?

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Speaker 1: You're on the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, what is this?

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Speaker 3: Well, just no, I'm on your side. What we're talking

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Speaker 1: We're a morning show, Megan, and we do a segment

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Speaker 1: on our show called a second Date Update. That's what

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Speaker 1: is Glenn.

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Speaker 3: Do you remember Glenn? Uh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah I do. I don't know why you're calling

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Speaker 1: Well, he said that he had this big idea to

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Speaker 4: I think what it was is that he had the

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Speaker 1: Do you agree with that.

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Speaker 3: Because.

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Speaker 4: This guy, I mean, did you tell him to calm down?

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Speaker 2: Well, I was.

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Speaker 5: I was trying to redirect, was trying to ask about himself.

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Speaker 5: instead he would start giving me this litany of facts

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Speaker 1: You're like, that's the reason that you're not calling him

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Speaker 5: I mean, that's one of them.

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Speaker 3: Oh there's more red flags.

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 5: The other one was that the man that I met

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Speaker 3: Really, I am very interested.

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Speaker 5: In the way he described himself at based on the

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Speaker 5: that really appealed to me because I go rafting. I

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's great, But you said he said he looked athletic,

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Speaker 5: Well, he looked he looked soft.

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Speaker 5: I don't know about all that. He just didn't look

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Speaker 1: Brook, Why aren't you getting outraged at her? For the

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Speaker 3: Is so amazing.

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Speaker 1: The hypocrisy of you right now, because the athletic body

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Speaker 6: We started a conversation and he was moaning about how

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Speaker 2: Oy oh hi oh hi.

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Speaker 3: Legs on that one.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, I don't know if I was out

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Speaker 1: I guess, Glenn, what do you think of that? She

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, everyone goes through cycles. Everyone has uh,

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Speaker 1: Uh.

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Speaker 4: So you're asking for a little bit of empathy, maybe

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Speaker 2: Course, of course, you know everyone's work in progress everyone.

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Speaker 1: That's a really smart thing to say.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe if you actually gave that to other people

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Speaker 2: I'm just I'm just speechless there because No, I think

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Speaker 1: For aggravated, Bro Megan, we haven't heard from you. I mean,

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Speaker 1: what now you can talk to Glenn and tell him,

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Speaker 1: tell him about his soft body and how disappoint.

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Speaker 2: All.

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Speaker 5: So, I don't think I need to repeat myself. I

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Speaker 2: If no, I know, I can. I can definitely work

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Speaker 4: Okay, you're still worried about the Glenn.

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Speaker 3: I mean, why are you using old photos again?

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Speaker 2: Another fault of mine. I put up a couple of

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Speaker 1: You know, you don't have to beat yourself up over it.

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Speaker 1: Don't be mad. You may beat himself, yeah, cushion. But Glenn,

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Speaker 4: Maybe if we could just end with you saying one

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Speaker 4: nice thing about Glenn, that would help Glenn, because I

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Speaker 4: think what Glenn should work on is maybe himself for

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Speaker 5: I yeah, I'm kind to agree with that, all right.

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Speaker 1: So let's think of one nice thing to say.

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Speaker 5: I would say the nicest thing that I noticed you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a real positive Glenn.

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Speaker 1: What do you think of that? Glenn?

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Speaker 2: I certainly appreciate that, and like I said, I try

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Speaker 2: the frustration that I point to myself, I should probably

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Speaker 3: But yeah, that's a moment of growth.

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Speaker 2: Be nice to yourself, buddy. Okay, maybe, But the dating

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Speaker 2: thing is this jungle of dating thing, it's it's horrible.

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Speaker 2: So I probably just got over excited that that I

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, let's get out of the jungle and let's

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Speaker 1: send you on a date that we will pay for,

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Speaker 1: like a little bit of a redo. What do you

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Speaker 1: think of that, Glenn.

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Speaker 5: If we can do something where you can be a

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Speaker 1: Wow, nice Glenn.

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Speaker 2: I would love another chance. And I am very curious

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Speaker 2: about you. I'm super curious about you, and I promise

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Speaker 2: I will try as hard as I can to not

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, look at that. It's a successful second date update,

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Speaker 1: even though Brooke tried to sabotage it the entire time

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Speaker 3: That's a lot of red flats.

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Speaker 2: Don't worry, Book, there's someone out there for you too.

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Speaker 1: Looking Jeffrey in the morning,