WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Vegas Nights

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of to date. What could be more exciting

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<v Speaker 1>and romantic than spending a date night in Vegas? That's

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<v Speaker 1>so one time I had a boyfriend fled me there

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<v Speaker 1>for twenty four hours. It was amazing. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was amazing. Sin City Ye never closes, always open

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<v Speaker 1>the lights, the music. I mean, can you imagine just

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<v Speaker 1>being on a weekend date there with all the bottomless

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<v Speaker 1>shrimp and all the topless dancers and the paintless elvis.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it's a recipe for romance? Yeah? No one had

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<v Speaker 1>clothes on in that description, but I like it. That's

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<v Speaker 1>why it's so wonderful. And that's where one of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>Joe Anne, had their very first date with a special someone. Joanne,

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show. Hi, thank you. Okay, wait, did

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<v Speaker 1>you meet someone while you're in Vegas? Oh no, No,

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<v Speaker 1>we actually met online and we've been talking for a

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<v Speaker 1>few months and um, you know, we've just hit it

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<v Speaker 1>off chatting online and then we took it to video chatting. Nice.

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<v Speaker 1>So whose idea was it to go to Vegas? Was

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<v Speaker 1>that your idea or Chris's idea? It was his idea.

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<v Speaker 1>We had just been kind of like joking about I

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<v Speaker 1>guess a bit, but then he was like, why don't

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<v Speaker 1>we actually do it? Yeah? Did you out? No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't find me out. I had a girl fly

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<v Speaker 1>me out to Vegas ones because I'm always the one

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<v Speaker 1>that's fun. And she didn't show up, but she still

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<v Speaker 1>let me go on the trail. That's nice, sent you

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<v Speaker 1>a bush, right, let's go. And then she's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna go anymore. You go by yourself. So

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<v Speaker 1>how did it go when you met up with him

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<v Speaker 1>in Vegas? I mean that's a lot of pressure, right,

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<v Speaker 1>like the first time you meet somebody, but I mean

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<v Speaker 1>they've been talking for months. Yeah, but are you sharing

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<v Speaker 1>the same hotel room or like, you know, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of like variables you have to discuss beforehand. I

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<v Speaker 1>would assume, Well, that was the thing that was like

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<v Speaker 1>a little awkward because we actually hadn't thought about talking

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<v Speaker 1>about that ahead of time, and still when we got

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<v Speaker 1>to the hotel a little ankward. But he was just like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't I see if we can just get us

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<v Speaker 1>a suite and oh wow, he did pay for that,

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<v Speaker 1>he did say to the room and that was great.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, honestly, the second we hung out when

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<v Speaker 1>you just had instant chemistry. It was just like such

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<v Speaker 1>a good time. I mean we were like going to

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<v Speaker 1>like awesome meals. We went to spa treatments, we went

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<v Speaker 1>swimming in the pool, you know. I mean, it was honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>like NonStop, just so much fun. It's like your first

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<v Speaker 1>day is crazy. So there was no awkward moments. Your

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<v Speaker 1>producer had asked me before, like were there any awkward

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<v Speaker 1>moments or did you guys butt heads ever or anything

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<v Speaker 1>like that, and right, no, I mean it was honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>everything was just so easy, and it was you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like I've known this person for years. And

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<v Speaker 1>like he said that too, Like he just was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I've known you forever. It's so crazy

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<v Speaker 1>that we're doing this, that we're here, right, because it's

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<v Speaker 1>like one thing to like share a hotel room in

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<v Speaker 1>like a sexy way and then you like leave in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning before it eat, but but like you're having

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<v Speaker 1>to get changed and brush your teeth and go to

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom. Those are things to do on a first

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<v Speaker 1>date when you're sharing the same space. Yeah, everything felt

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<v Speaker 1>so natural and I get swept away easily. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes I was like I think this guy could be

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<v Speaker 1>the guy. You know. Okay, so after your Vegas getaway,

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<v Speaker 1>what's happened since then? It's like I can't even properly

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<v Speaker 1>process what happened because it's just night and day. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been one night and one day. I mean, like

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<v Speaker 1>just so different night and day between. He's acting different. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's acting completely different. How the day after we got

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<v Speaker 1>back from the trip, I was like, oh, I'll catch

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<v Speaker 1>you on zoom. Let's like chat on zoom. And he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, actually I can't chat on zoom tonight,

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<v Speaker 1>but i'll you know, talk to you later. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, okay, hey, and I didn't. I didn't hear.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you guys live in separate cities or different states

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<v Speaker 1>or yeah, we do live in we do live in

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<v Speaker 1>different states. Okay, okay, so it is a bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a long distance thing. But we again, we struck this up,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a few months ago. So was this a

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<v Speaker 1>situation where you'd be willing to relocate if things worked out? Honestly? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I was starting to think I couldn't move for this

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<v Speaker 1>guy like I would I would move to his town.

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<v Speaker 1>So when we got back and he was suddenly kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like pulled away really abruptly. You didn't call me

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<v Speaker 1>the next day when he said he would call me

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<v Speaker 1>the next day, And then I called him later and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, hey, you know what's going on? And

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<v Speaker 1>we did talk on the phone a couple of times,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was so different. What do you think. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think he's married. Do you think he's got like

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<v Speaker 1>another family. I mean, if there's so many things or

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<v Speaker 1>he's scared, maybe it was too much for him, too

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<v Speaker 1>many emotions. I think he went back to Vegas with

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<v Speaker 1>another woman. I mean, he's just meeting random women in Vegas.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just to go to first date spot. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money he's investing in one night stay. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's at the Golden Hugget. I've thought all these things.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very suspicious that there is somebody else in a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with somebody else. I don't know. He could be

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<v Speaker 1>living with somebody else for all I know. Right, because

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<v Speaker 1>you've never been to his house or anything. Would that

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<v Speaker 1>be a deal breaker for you? Yeah? I think it

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<v Speaker 1>would be a deal breaker. Women feel a different way

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<v Speaker 1>about these things, so it's good to know where you stand.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know who you're dating or who's in your life.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think for most women it's a yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>do have some questionable acquaintances. So yeah, I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>know about each other. Okay, So here's what we're gonna do. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call

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<v Speaker 1>Chris for you, and we're gonna try and get you

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. Up machine noises in the background. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll do it right after this. Hold on, Joeanne, thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you just joining us? One of our listeners. Joe

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<v Speaker 1>Anne had her first date with a guy in Vegas.

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<v Speaker 1>His name's Chris, and they don't live in the same city,

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<v Speaker 1>but they met and had been talking online for a

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<v Speaker 1>few weeks and finally chose to meet up for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time in Sin City. So exciting. According to Joanne,

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<v Speaker 1>it was amazing, you know, she felt the connection with him.

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<v Speaker 1>They hung out at the pool, saw the sights, went

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<v Speaker 1>lady in the tramp on a lobster tail, all the

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<v Speaker 1>typical Vegas stuff. Yeah. But after they left, Joanne says

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<v Speaker 1>Chris has done a complete one eighty and is acting strange.

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<v Speaker 1>Says he's too busy to chat now, and she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>know why Joanne, I forgot to ask, so, how long

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<v Speaker 1>exactly has it been since you got back. It's been

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<v Speaker 1>a little over a week. That's so weird. And what

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<v Speaker 1>exactly was the last thing you guys said to each

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<v Speaker 1>other as you left? We kissed. I was getting a

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<v Speaker 1>little choked up, to be honest, and he's like, don't worry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna you know, I'll talk to you soon. I

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<v Speaker 1>hate to be this guy, but I think somebody has

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<v Speaker 1>to ask it. Did you guys hook up? Because he

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<v Speaker 1>if you did, he may have just kind of back

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Don't fly to Vegas, get a suite. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like you get I feel like someone in this room

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<v Speaker 1>would do that. Yeah, I mean, I mean they had

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<v Speaker 1>a real connection. Did her back? I mean a lady

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<v Speaker 1>never kisses in tels, but true things happened. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we stayed in the same suite. Yeah, as you should.

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<v Speaker 1>You're two adults going to Vegas on a dacation. I

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<v Speaker 1>love it. I promote that. Okay, Well, the one thing

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<v Speaker 1>that I wanted to ask was did you guys gamble

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<v Speaker 1>or was he ever out of your sight for a

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<v Speaker 1>little while? Why maybe you could have run off to

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<v Speaker 1>the casino lost a bunch of money, and now he's

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<v Speaker 1>in deep with a guy with four fingers and an

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<v Speaker 1>eyepatch named everyone's speculating what they think. This is how

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<v Speaker 1>I'm speculating. I mean, we didn't gamble much. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>there was an hour or two where he did leave

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<v Speaker 1>the suite because he said he had to take some

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<v Speaker 1>business call. Oh, everybody knows business calls. It's all Any

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<v Speaker 1>of the egg needs just one hour and he'll have

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<v Speaker 1>you deep deep in debt. Let's just call this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to hear from him. All right, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do it. We're gonna call Chris for Are you ready

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<v Speaker 1>to do this? Joanne? Yeah? Okay, I'm gonna doubt the

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<v Speaker 1>number right now here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Chris? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Who's this? Hey? I recognize this number. Yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think you would. I'm calling from a radio station. My

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<v Speaker 1>name is jeff Where are you calling me? I'm doing

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show with my co host here, Brook, Jose

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<v Speaker 1>and Alexis. I don't know what city you live in

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<v Speaker 1>or if our show is on there, but this show

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<v Speaker 1>is Brooke and Jeffrey. In the morning, we do something

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<v Speaker 1>called a second date update. Is any that familiar to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh not particularly, Um, that's okay. Well, the second date

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<v Speaker 1>Update is where we help out some of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>get back in touch with people who are ghosting them

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<v Speaker 1>after a date. Oh okay, all right, so you already

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<v Speaker 1>got some people in mind who you could be ghosting, Chris.

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<v Speaker 1>The listener that asked for help from us today. Her

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<v Speaker 1>name is joe Anne. Yeah, okay, yeah, okay, so right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you're so happy about this, But jo Anne

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<v Speaker 1>isn't feelings thrilled because it's been apparently over a week

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<v Speaker 1>since you guys have actually really spoken to each other,

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<v Speaker 1>and she doesn't understand why. Yeah, we've talked some, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Can I ask you, Chris, just right off the top,

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<v Speaker 1>because I know you guys, you and Joanne live in

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<v Speaker 1>different cities and in Vegas. Are you in a relationship? No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>not at all. I mean we had, like mean Vegas.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been talking online. I mean I have like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>a couple other people that I've talked to you online,

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<v Speaker 1>but like not even as much as joe Anne. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like I'm hiding some relationship or a fair

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<v Speaker 1>or you know whatever anything like that. Okay, do you

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<v Speaker 1>know anybody by the name Benny the Egg and do

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<v Speaker 1>you owe him money? No, I am not familiar with

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<v Speaker 1>that guy, Okay, but I'm just we're just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>go through all the possibilities here because we've spoken with

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<v Speaker 1>Joanne and she told us she had a great time.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you guys talked for two months leading up

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<v Speaker 1>to this weekend in Vegas. The way she described it

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<v Speaker 1>sound like you guys were in a relationship by the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the Vegas Weekends pretty serious. It was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was glowing reviews. We don't know how much you may

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<v Speaker 1>or may not know about the situation, but we stayed

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<v Speaker 1>in a suite in Vegas. Yeah, and I mean everything

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<v Speaker 1>happened really quick. We had a really good connection and

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<v Speaker 1>hit it off right away, and we seem to be compatible.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know how to say this, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we were intimate and uh, you know, I thought that

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<v Speaker 1>was good, but then it just kept kind of going

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<v Speaker 1>like it was like more than I've ever been used

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<v Speaker 1>to in one period of time. What do you mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like you guys were in I mean, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I couldn't handle it. I'm getting like kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit older now and I just don't have

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of editor I like, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>I have the energy for that. That's the reason you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling a little bit back. Isn't because she wants

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<v Speaker 1>too much? Just tell us you're married, Like this isn't real, right, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what does too much mean? It was like, we got together,

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<v Speaker 1>we figured out the suite, we went by the pool

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<v Speaker 1>and got some lunch and stuff, and then by the

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<v Speaker 1>time we got back to the room, she's already ready

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<v Speaker 1>to go. And why are you complaining? Yeah, isn't that fun?

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't that mean you have amazing chemistry. I'm not complaining

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<v Speaker 1>about how it started or anything. I'm just somewhat thing

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<v Speaker 1>it never stopped. And you're like a once a week

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<v Speaker 1>type of guy. I'm like, the first time and then

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<v Speaker 1>I want to take a nap for six hours. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're saying you feel compatible with Joanne in every

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<v Speaker 1>other way except for this in the bedroom, she's too

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<v Speaker 1>much for you. Yeah, it was. It was a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know if that was completely for me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I would be really interested to hear what

0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:09.760
<v Speaker 1>jo Anne thinks about this, because I don't think this

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<v Speaker 1>was even close to being on her radar for the

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<v Speaker 1>reason why you've been avoiding her. The thing is, I

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<v Speaker 1>have the perfect way to know what she's thinking, because

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<v Speaker 1>I need to tell you, Chris, Joanne's been on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening this entire time, and she wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to what. Yeah, Joe, Hey, I feel like a

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<v Speaker 1>round of applause for Joanne ruined his spirit. Yeah, she

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<v Speaker 1>broke him, Jodan, how are you feeling right now? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of with all of these guys, like, I just

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea that that was any reason at all

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<v Speaker 1>a problem. Did you notice him getting more exhausted as

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<v Speaker 1>a day when I mean, maybe a little, But I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I'm just I've always been someone with like a

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<v Speaker 1>really high sex drive, and so that's not unfamiliar to me.

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<v Speaker 1>But Chris, like, why didn't you say anything? He's out

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<v Speaker 1>of breath. You know, I don't know how to broach

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<v Speaker 1>that subject. I mean, it's not something I expected either.

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<v Speaker 1>They were talking about like so many things, and I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like we did have like such a good connection,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's really unbelievably disappointing now to hear that, like

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<v Speaker 1>you just ghosted me because I'm have too high of

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<v Speaker 1>a sex drive for you, like I mean, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I already said it was I don't know how to

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<v Speaker 1>approach it. I mean, yes, we did have a connection,

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<v Speaker 1>but also at the same time, it's still the first

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<v Speaker 1>weekend we ever saw each other. So how do you

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<v Speaker 1>say that to someone that you still in that sense,

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<v Speaker 1>don't really know very well? That's almost going to hurt

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<v Speaker 1>her feelings, like, hey, I'm sorry, but can we do

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<v Speaker 1>it less? She'd be like, why, what's wrong? Man? There's

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<v Speaker 1>a whole like masculinity thing, like where you know it's

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<v Speaker 1>been made that guys can't ever say no, which you

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<v Speaker 1>know it shouldn't be the case, which is why I

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<v Speaker 1>never say no. Yeah, I'm still trying to recoup. I've

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<v Speaker 1>been sleeping at least an extra hour per night. I mean, Joanne,

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<v Speaker 1>in a way, it's kind of a compliment. Yeah, yeah, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And I guess I feel bad that I wasn't didn't

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<v Speaker 1>seem like you could talk to me. I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>was I feel like we had such a good time

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<v Speaker 1>together and that this could have been something like a

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<v Speaker 1>long term relationship, that this could have turned into. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you saying could have it? Still? Can? Joanne?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you should give up. I mean, can

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<v Speaker 1>you like, oh he can? I mean, but has he

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<v Speaker 1>given up? Like he ghosted and he didn't come to

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<v Speaker 1>me with it. Well, maybe there's a way that we

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<v Speaker 1>could meet in the middle where Joanne you dial back

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<v Speaker 1>your sexiness and maybe we can help ramp Chris up

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit special, maybe like just half of a vitamin. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's from the sound of it, the connection emotionally you

0:14:57.480 --> 0:14:59.840
<v Speaker 1>guys have is there. Yeah, it's just there's a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of a physical disconnect, but not in a bad way.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually the physical disconnect is the other side of it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we did connect, and I think ultimately that

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<v Speaker 1>what I've been uncomfortable saying, we kind of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I got Okie doked into thing on the

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<v Speaker 1>show was like that a fast one pulled on me.

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<v Speaker 1>I may add that to l add that to your

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<v Speaker 1>Refertoire move she pulled when you guys are in Vega. Yea,

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<v Speaker 1>let me try it, because I would like to Oki

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<v Speaker 1>dok you into another date with Joe Anne and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for that date. To be completely honest with you,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I really think she has way too gracious

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<v Speaker 1>of an appetite for me and this is not going

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<v Speaker 1>to work? Are you? Are you serious? I'm serious, Joanne, Joanne,

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna be fine. I mean our text board says so. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know else say like good luck

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Well, no hard feelings, you know. I hope

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<v Speaker 1>you can just find a man that can keep up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure there's many that are willing to try. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>If there's a listener out there that can go more

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<v Speaker 1>than once a day, yeah, they are really short sessions.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that counts broken Jeffrey in the morning