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Speaker 1: Second date of to date. What could be more exciting

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Speaker 1: why it's so wonderful. And that's where one of our listeners,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Hi, thank you. Okay, wait, did

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Speaker 1: you meet someone while you're in Vegas? Oh no, No,

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Speaker 1: we actually met online and we've been talking for a

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Speaker 1: So whose idea was it to go to Vegas? Was

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Speaker 1: me out to Vegas ones because I'm always the one

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Speaker 1: And I mean, honestly, the second we hung out when

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Speaker 1: Anne had her first date with a guy in Vegas.

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Speaker 1: His name's Chris, and they don't live in the same city,

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Speaker 1: Joanne and she told us she had a great time.

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Speaker 1: I just I really think she has way too gracious

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Speaker 1: to work? Are you? Are you serious? I'm serious, Joanne, Joanne,

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