Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 2: Ashley is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: She's been with her boyfriend Ryan for four years, but
Speaker 2: now she thinks something might be going on, so we'll
Speaker 2: see if we can help her out. Ashley, thanks for
Speaker 2: coming on the show. Sorry it has to be this way.
Speaker 2: What's going on?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, honestly, I've heard this so many times
Speaker 3: and never thought that I would come in, but here
Speaker 3: I am. So we've yeah, we've been together four years,
Speaker 3: you know, ups and down like anybody else. I mean,
Speaker 3: not what you see on Instagram a couples. But I
Speaker 3: kind of just feel like he's done with their relationship.
Speaker 3: So it's just kind of like heavy on my heart
Speaker 3: right now. So I just want to test it. I
Speaker 3: want to test it. And so basically, what's going on.
Speaker 3: I used to travel a lot for work, but now
Speaker 3: I'm not, and he's been traveling for his job. But
Speaker 3: it just keeps kind of picking up, like he'll he'll
Speaker 3: fly off somewhere for a week, and then he comes
Speaker 3: home for a couple of days, and then he leaves again.
Speaker 3: And then when he does come home, which has been
Speaker 3: like you know, increasing over the last couple of months,
Speaker 3: Like when he's going away, so when he's coming home,
Speaker 3: he always seems like he has something better to do.
Speaker 3: So it's it's starting to be kind of it feels
Speaker 3: like he doesn't want to be at home anymore, and
Speaker 3: I feel like I deserve better when he's home, she's
Speaker 3: not wanting to be intimate anymore, which is whatever?
Speaker 1: And what does he say? How does he stop that?
Speaker 1: He kind of like.
Speaker 3: When he comes home now, she's always hiding us in
Speaker 3: his office for hours. It's like he makes a team,
Speaker 3: Like he's writing an emails, but as soon as I
Speaker 3: walk away, his messenger notification kind of pings over and
Speaker 3: over and over, like there's a conversation going on, and
Speaker 3: we're always like really open with each other about like oh,
Speaker 3: I'm talking to Johnny Gonco like they're so funny, and
Speaker 3: you know it's women's intuition. You just kind of feel
Speaker 3: like he's he's messaging with someone like we know each
Speaker 3: other's friend, you know each other, so for me, like
Speaker 3: we're really good friends with each other. You know, like
Speaker 3: I care about him and so I did comfort him
Speaker 3: about it. You know, I'm like, you've been gone more,
Speaker 3: you haven't really been wanting to touch me, and you're
Speaker 3: hiding away in your office. He legit just shrugged it off.
Speaker 3: He said, he has a new assistant in his office
Speaker 3: and he's been showing her the rope, so that's kind
Speaker 3: of been taking a lot of time. But I've seen
Speaker 3: I've seen her, and I'm really not the jealous type.
Speaker 3: But she's legit his type, So so.
Speaker 1: You think it might actually be the assistant that he's
Speaker 1: talking to.
Speaker 3: I do. It's like a horrible feeling in my stomach,
Speaker 3: like I just I want to believe that you would
Speaker 3: never cheat on me, because we're really not, Like we've
Speaker 3: talked about that in the past, like we love how
Speaker 3: we wouldn't do it. I hope I call them in
Speaker 3: my head. I really don't know. I don't know. I
Speaker 3: have a wrble feeling so here I am.
Speaker 4: I just don't like how he handled you. Confronting him
Speaker 4: about the time spent. Shrugging it off and not taking
Speaker 4: the time to make you feel better is really unsettling.
Speaker 1: I know a lot of people do that.
Speaker 2: You know, it sucks because I think they think about
Speaker 2: themselves like how I'm not whatever, and then they it's like,
Speaker 2: but you're someone else is talking to you that you
Speaker 2: care about, like it's about them at that moment, and
Speaker 2: that's fine. Yeah, you know, like so anyway, yeah, that
Speaker 2: sucks the way that was handled. All right, Well, you
Speaker 2: told us what a grocery store he's a rewards card
Speaker 2: member at.
Speaker 1: So we'll do the usual.
Speaker 2: We'll call and pretend to be from the grocery store
Speaker 2: and say that every single month, we choose one rewards
Speaker 2: card member at random who gets free flowers delivered from
Speaker 2: our floral department, and we'll see if he sends those
Speaker 2: to you or to somebody else.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I'm so nervous.
Speaker 2: All right, we'll play a son comeback here to catch
Speaker 2: it Here next right in the middle of to Catch
Speaker 2: a Cheater, if you're just joining us, Ashley is on
Speaker 2: the phone. She's been with her boyfriend Ryan for four
Speaker 2: years and now she thinks that he might be cheating.
Speaker 2: So in a second, we're going to call him and
Speaker 2: pretend to be from the grocery store that he's a
Speaker 2: rewards car remember at, and say that he's this month's
Speaker 2: big winner of flowers delivered to anybody that he wants
Speaker 2: from our floral department, and we'll see if he believes
Speaker 2: that first of all, and then if he sends those
Speaker 2: flowers to Ashley or to somebody else. But before we
Speaker 2: do that, Ashley, why don't you catch everybody up on
Speaker 2: your situation.
Speaker 3: So we've been together four years. I used to travel
Speaker 3: a bunch for work. He's the one that's traveling now.
Speaker 3: In his time away just keeps increasing. And then when
Speaker 3: he is home, he's been kind of avoiding me. He's
Speaker 3: been working in his office and you know, big red
Speaker 3: flag for me and not wanting to be in it,
Speaker 3: which no one should ever feel.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've had that happen to me a lot.
Speaker 3: It's humiliating and like it's you know, I'm talking to
Speaker 3: him about it, like it's not like I'm like, hey,
Speaker 3: did you take up the trash? Brought it up to
Speaker 3: him like this is a really big deal. I'm stelling
Speaker 3: like this, and he said, nothing's going on. But I
Speaker 3: still feel like.
Speaker 1: There is with his assistant too. Is who you think
Speaker 1: it is?
Speaker 3: Yes? Two opposite looking of me, totally his previous type
Speaker 3: before me.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, were you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 2: I guess Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, this is
Speaker 2: Shortal calling from I was looking for our rewards card
Speaker 2: member named Ryan.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, that's me Ryan.
Speaker 2: Hi.
Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 2: I'm actually calling to say congratulations and thank you for
Speaker 2: your business. Here this month's big winner.
Speaker 5: Uh okay, where did I win?
Speaker 1: Of the flowers?
Speaker 3: The flowers.
Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one rewards card member who
Speaker 2: gets free flowers delivered from our brand new floral apartment
Speaker 2: to anybody that they want in the entire United States.
Speaker 2: It's absolutely free. You've won thirty six long stem red roses,
Speaker 2: a box of candy or chocolates, and a card to
Speaker 2: be delivered to anybody that you want. It's actually a
Speaker 2: three hundred and eighty two dollars value.
Speaker 5: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, congratulations, thank you.
Speaker 5: Okay, So, so you'll send flowers anywhere?
Speaker 1: Yes? Okay, cool?
Speaker 3: Great.
Speaker 2: Let me let me just give it to tell you
Speaker 2: how it works. Then I can take the information over
Speaker 2: the phone. In a matter of minutes, I can call
Speaker 2: you back if you don't know who you want to
Speaker 2: send them to right now?
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, no, no, we can do it on the phone. Okay,
Speaker 5: let's send these flowers to Dano.
Speaker 1: Okay, and do you want to send a card along
Speaker 1: with this?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, say something like I cannot wait to hold
Speaker 5: you again and the thought of your arms gives me strikes.
Speaker 2: Okay, got that, And now at this point, I would
Speaker 2: like to tell you that my name is actually Jubil,
Speaker 2: and I'm calling from a radio show that's called The
Speaker 2: Jubil Show, and your girlfriend Ashley is actually on the
Speaker 2: phone listening.
Speaker 3: No, yeah, hold on.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's what this is.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, Hi, Hi, you said, actually there, yep.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I am you know, like I asked
Speaker 3: you this and you told me nothing was going on.
Speaker 3: But I can't believe it. I mean, I I asked
Speaker 3: you about this and you told me no, and now
Speaker 3: it's your assistant. Like I just knew it. I knew it,
Speaker 3: and I asked you and you denied it. Why would
Speaker 3: you do this? But I can't believe that.
Speaker 5: Actually, a look, it's not it's not an easy thing
Speaker 5: to say. It's not it's not something I'm happy about.
Speaker 5: It's look, Ashley, I'm I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: It's just you're not happy, so disrescessful. You're not happy
Speaker 3: about what are you even thoughting about?
Speaker 4: It?
Speaker 3: Sounds like you you said you can't wait to be
Speaker 3: in her arms again. It sounds like if you want
Speaker 3: this to happen, what are you even thinking.
Speaker 5: Look, it's just it's I don't I don't know. It's
Speaker 5: it's it's an escape, it's a I mean, I mean,
Speaker 5: you know, things haven't felt good with us for a
Speaker 5: long time, and and you know, with with me traveling
Speaker 5: more and and she has to travel with me a lot.
Speaker 5: So like it's just we have things we connect on
Speaker 5: the lifestyle, to travel, the work, the loneliness. It just
Speaker 5: made sense and with us sort of feeling like there
Speaker 5: was a distance outside of it.
Speaker 3: I just I'm sorry, Well, you should have broken up
Speaker 3: with me, then you should have told me, and you
Speaker 3: should have broken up with me. And we've been together
Speaker 3: long enough that you could have told me, and we
Speaker 3: could have broken up, and then you can do whatever
Speaker 3: you want. I love her, I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 5: I don't know if I want us to be broken up.
Speaker 5: I just I I don't know. I'm just trying to
Speaker 5: figure things out. And it's something I just kind of
Speaker 5: fell into and I should.
Speaker 3: Have How long is this been going on? Like four
Speaker 3: or five months? WHOA I thought that this is Ligit
Speaker 3: only like two months and I asked you so long ago,
Speaker 3: Like you're so disrespectful to be doing that to me
Speaker 3: this long. And I don't even know anything about her,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Like you have been taking
Speaker 3: intimacy away from me, which is so disrespectful to do
Speaker 3: to another human being. But you're disrespecting my body too.
Speaker 3: Does you know that you have a girlfriend for the song?
Speaker 1: Yes, of course she does.
Speaker 5: It didn't start off this way. I mean, I told
Speaker 5: her about my life, she told me about her life,
Speaker 5: her husband, all that, and then then we just sort
Speaker 5: of fell into this.
Speaker 3: Her husband, her husband, Oh my gosh, what are you doing?
Speaker 3: Her husband? She's married. You're in a relationship, You're not
Speaker 3: like in some fantasy land. She's married.
Speaker 2: Wow, I'm sure her husband would like to know what
Speaker 2: she's been doing on her business trips.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Now, I just feel like I should retout to her
Speaker 3: her husband and let him know so that he's not
Speaker 3: being disrespected as well.
Speaker 5: Ash Ash come on, come on, you're already doing this
Speaker 5: on the radio. You don't look.
Speaker 3: I get.
Speaker 5: I get while you're married and I care about you,
Speaker 5: but I but if you're going to be vindictive about it.
Speaker 3: You know, I'm done. I'm done. I'm done. I can't.
Speaker 3: I deserve, I deserve better than this. I am a
Speaker 3: good person and I treated them so well for four years.
Speaker 3: I've always been there for you, and I don't deserve
Speaker 3: to be treated like this. I deserve to be loved
Speaker 3: by a good partner and you should be humiliated by
Speaker 3: what you've done.
Speaker 5: Okay, actually, okay, okay, okay, just thank you for four
Speaker 5: years of treating me well and one nightmare of a
Speaker 5: phone call that you're blasting to the world.
Speaker 3: So get the better that you deserve.
Speaker 1: And he hung up. Ashley, I'm really sorry, so sorry,
Speaker 1: I am too.
Speaker 3: I mean I was in our list that would end
Speaker 3: up this way and it did. So I just need
Speaker 3: to go for a walk and clear my head right now.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sure you need to do whatever you gotta do,
Speaker 4: but just know this was a two for you did
Speaker 4: your good deed, two for one for I have.
Speaker 3: The rest of the day. I'm gonna go and a
Speaker 3: walk in go her husband now that I have her
Speaker 3: Latin name, okay, so I can let him know. The
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