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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the COLO, our chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Omari and Hoboken. Omari writes,

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Speaker 1: I met a woman at her homeowners meeting and she

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Speaker 1: asked me out. But she's out of my league and

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Speaker 1: off limits because she lives close to me. It's probably

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Speaker 1: not a good idea, but I want to see what's up.

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Speaker 1: Is that a terrible idea or should I go for it?

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm assuming he's married. Yeah, that's what I'm assuming.

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Speaker 2: He didn't say it ain't a lot of single dudes

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Speaker 2: live nowhere where they got a homeowners' association. Ain't a

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Speaker 2: lot of single dudes going to homeowners' association meetings. It

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Speaker 2: just ain't a lot of dudes. Now women, yes, dudes. No,

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Speaker 2: So your articular marriage self down there. You didn't want

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Speaker 2: to put that in a letter, and you say the

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Speaker 2: problem is she stays too close, which means it's going

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Speaker 2: to be hard for you to go on with it

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Speaker 2: without your wife's seeing you. Dog, this has disaster written

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Speaker 2: all over it. This got disaster written all over it. Now,

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Speaker 2: Uncle Steve gonna advise you to ignore this, get this

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Speaker 2: out your mind and go home. That's my advice to you,

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Speaker 2: good advice, but because you in your thirties, going over

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Speaker 2: there and see what's happening.

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you can learn this lesson the hard way,

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Speaker 2: because see, sometimes you just can't tell people. U. I'm

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Speaker 2: told him what he needed to do. Yeah, I strongly

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Speaker 2: advise you, brother, let this go and go on home.

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Speaker 3: But you're thirty something. You wrote a letter.

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Speaker 2: It's on your mind so heavy, and you ain't got

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Speaker 2: nobody to even run this by. You might even be

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Speaker 2: in your forties, but see, you ain't had nobody hit

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Speaker 2: on you in a long time.

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Speaker 1: Because she asked that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you're thirsty, thirsty.

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Speaker 1: She's thirsty because she him out.

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Speaker 3: Really he's thirsty. Oh he's thirsty.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, all right, Moving on to Celestin Tacoma Celestrites.

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Speaker 1: I got married when I was nineteen and it didn't

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Speaker 1: last but one year. I got married again when I

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Speaker 1: was twenty five, and that lasted five years. I'm only

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Speaker 1: thirty two and on my third marriage. Any advice for me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's probably gonna last seven years.

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Speaker 1: And you care about advice, that's a predictaous.

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Speaker 3: I'm just basing on the ratio you've been biting it.

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Speaker 3: I've got seven on this one. I got five on it. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Is she picking wrong?

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Speaker 3: Not necessarily? Yeah, yeah, you've picked wrong. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, the first time you shouldn't have been nobody's wife.

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Speaker 2: This nineteen is just you know, you don't even know

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Speaker 2: you right. The next time you was twenty five, you

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Speaker 2: still ain't really got you all the way together. So

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Speaker 2: this is the first time you could be you could

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Speaker 2: know who you are.

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Speaker 3: This could last though, at thirty two.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, put the work in, put it in, put

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Speaker 4: the work in.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Maybe marriage counseling, Yeah, all right. Going on to Thurman

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Speaker 1: in Montgomery, Thurman writes, my daughter in law told my

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Speaker 1: wife that I make her uncomfortable.

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Speaker 3: My bad.

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Speaker 1: But if she comes around me in her tight dress

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Speaker 1: dressed with parts of her fat belly out, I'm going

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Speaker 1: to look at her. Trust me. It's not in a

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Speaker 1: lustful way. Should I bust her bubble or not?

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Speaker 3: He says, trust me, it's not in a lustful way. Bruh, bruh, bruh.

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Speaker 3: Br Come on, man, wait, you you so far out

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Speaker 3: of line in this letter. Yeah, trust me.

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Speaker 2: If she walk in front of me with right there, bro,

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Speaker 2: what you're talking about Bruh, you so.

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Speaker 3: Far out of line with this with her.

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Speaker 2: And trust me, is not in a lustful way. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 2: what you're staring at her?

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Speaker 3: Fault? What way is it? I don't know?

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Speaker 1: Is it is he disgusted because her belly brought that?

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Speaker 2: I mean, but you make her uncomfortable and she just

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Speaker 2: said that to your wife.

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Speaker 3: Broh, Jesus sitting there just bruh, you got it, Bruh.

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Speaker 3: You gotta do something completely Differentulut. This is on you.

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Speaker 3: This is on you.

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Speaker 2: How she walking around in front of you and all

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Speaker 2: this here, bro this on you, brother, you finish? Okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, let me tell you what's getting ready to

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Speaker 2: happen or whoever this woman is you married to? You

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Speaker 2: finna lose her unless you change your this all bruh.

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Speaker 2: You gotta take accountability for this one here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he doesn't seem to get that, my bad.

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Speaker 3: Bruh.

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Speaker 2: You sitting up in here talking about if you come

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Speaker 2: in front of me dressed like this and you got

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Speaker 2: your stomach out, I'm I'm looking at her.

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Speaker 3: Trust me, it ain't in a lustful way. Brow What

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Speaker 3: way is it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Man?

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Speaker 2: Hey man, let me just say this right here. It's

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Speaker 2: some real, real mixed up people out there who are

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Speaker 2: on the verge of stupid, who really have convinced themselves

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Speaker 2: that they okay. But when you write this, let write

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Speaker 2: a letter into somebody who's not connected to it and

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Speaker 2: can hear it for what it is.

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you, brouh, you're not okay.

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Speaker 2: You're out of line on this one and this one

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Speaker 2: don't sound right, and right now it sounds like you

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Speaker 2: make the girl uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: Well that's what she said. Yeah, and then he's gonna

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Speaker 1: ask you to bust her bubble or not what?

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Speaker 3: And so she told the wife his wife.

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Speaker 4: He didn't tell her husband because his daughter in law,

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Speaker 4: so obviously her husband is his son. Yeah, so she

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Speaker 4: didn't tell her husband, right, she told her mother in law.

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Speaker 3: What I'm not understanding, So.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is his daughter in law, so she's married

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Speaker 1: to his son. Right, And the daughter in law told

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Speaker 1: her mother in law his wife, her husband makes me.

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Speaker 1: Your husband, my father in law makes me uncomfortable when

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Speaker 1: I come around.

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Speaker 3: This is his son's wife.

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Speaker 2: Yes, dog, you way out of line. Oh you way

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Speaker 2: out of line. Oh dog, you even further. This is

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Speaker 2: your boy's wife.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, your son his son.

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Speaker 3: So she couldn't grown.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, he said, my daughter in law. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But see, but I don't know why I heard step daughter.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why I was thinking the daughter of

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Speaker 2: the woman he's married to. This is the daughter that's

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Speaker 2: married to his son.

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Speaker 3: He said, she'd have told the.

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Speaker 2: Father a dog, you dog. I don't know how you

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Speaker 2: looking at this woman, but you had a line.

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Speaker 1: Partner, all he said, not in a lustful way.

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Speaker 3: Okay, why she uncomfortable? Dad?

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Speaker 1: He said, she has tight dresses with parts of her

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Speaker 1: fat belly out, and she told his wife her mother

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Speaker 1: in law, and the mother in law told her husband.

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Speaker 3: Probably stop looking at her like that. Bro, that's so crazy. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I can't even tell you how crazy that is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then he says, not in a lustful way.

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Speaker 1: Should I bust her bubble or not? Sit down?

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Speaker 2: There's no way to bust her bubble for what is

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Speaker 2: your son's wife?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: If your son ain't got no problem with how she dressing,

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Speaker 2: why you got a problem?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, thank you, Clo. You're listening hard Morning

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